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Speaker 1: The nik Gliser podcasts.

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Speaker 2: He's Nikki here, I am Thank you guys are podcast

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Speaker 2: Welcome Second Day in Los Angeles on the pod same

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Speaker 2: group as yesterday's show.

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Speaker 1: Noah is in studio. What's up, Noah?

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Speaker 3: Does Brian have anything structural to say about me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Any other A little bit more robust than.

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Speaker 1: Nursing. Yeah, your baby is coming, Yes to pick you up?

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Speaker 2: Yes, there's baby driving cars now, babo. I didn't know

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Speaker 2: Waimo was the name of the self driving cars until

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Speaker 2: I saw one yesterday. I want to get one, so

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Speaker 2: I want to be in any you could do it.

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Speaker 1: Is it a way moo app? Or is Waimo part

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Speaker 1: of Uber?

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Speaker 4: No, it's an app, I think. Yeah. Then you just

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Speaker 4: get in and there's no driver.

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Speaker 1: I'm so into it.

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Speaker 4: Scared.

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Speaker 2: No, I feel better than I don't have to talk

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Speaker 2: to anyone.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you're more likely to be murdered by

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Speaker 4: an Uber driver. YEA, can't.

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Speaker 1: I can't anyone here been in one?

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Speaker 5: No, I watched a YouTube video of someone being in one.

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Speaker 2: Well, tell us all about it.

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Speaker 1: That's so cool. Okay, so we're gonna meet your baby.

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Speaker 1: What she liked?

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Speaker 2: What you guys are visiting? Here because Obvi's family lives here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, shewish holiday stuff. I was flying with her easy.

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Speaker 3: She's such a good baby. Yeah, she's She's just fun

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Speaker 3: and loving and she's kind of silly.

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Speaker 1: God, you lucked out so lucky. Yeah, and sleeps. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like it's you or you feel like

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Speaker 1: you just got lucky?

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Speaker 2: Like because when some parents have a cranky baby, do

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Speaker 2: you kind of go like they're doing it wrong and

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Speaker 2: I'm doing it right?

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Speaker 1: Or are you kind of.

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Speaker 3: Like it's funny that you asked that, because Kristen and

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Speaker 3: I were just talking about it, and I think it's

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Speaker 3: because we're older moms and we're like way more intuitive

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Speaker 3: with like emotions and are you know, like we're introspective

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Speaker 3: and we just like know how we affect a child.

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Speaker 3: So I think it's like being older and just kind

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Speaker 3: of like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you've read The Body Keeps the Score and that

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Speaker 2: you like you've read books, like you've.

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Speaker 1: Been around, you've seen getting to so many.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's so many, but I mean you're right, Like,

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Speaker 2: think of how much knowledge about emotional knowledge you've about

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Speaker 2: how your you were raised and how it made you

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Speaker 2: who you are, that you've accrued in the past fifteen years.

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Speaker 2: That is, that is so valuable that if you just

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Speaker 2: had a kid early on, you wouldn't have known any

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Speaker 2: of it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. In my twenties, I was like, so dumb.

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Speaker 2: My mom stood by the fact that as a kid

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Speaker 2: she didn't want me. We lived on a river and

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Speaker 2: she didn't want us to go down to the river

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Speaker 2: and drown, and so she just told me, if you

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Speaker 2: go down there, you'll never see mommy and daddy ever again.

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Speaker 2: And how she even last night we were in the

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Speaker 2: car and she was like, I stand by that I

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Speaker 2: didn't want you to d and that's the only way

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Speaker 2: to make you so scared. And then famously my dad

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Speaker 2: would come home from work and be like, let's go

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Speaker 2: down to the river and I scream and cry. I

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Speaker 2: still hate the river because of it. But she's and

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Speaker 2: I don't really know if she's right or wrong. Like

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Speaker 2: I think I would probably use the same tactics to

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Speaker 2: make sure my kid didn't wonder in the traffic of

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Speaker 2: like you'll be run over and killed and you'll never

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Speaker 2: see me.

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: What do you do with Sean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? What I am really bad at because Aaron is

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Speaker 4: not as anxious as I am. Aaron's my wife. I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm so anxious about everything that I always kind of

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Speaker 4: get too real with him where I'm like and he's like,

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Speaker 4: let me just run around outside. I'm like, there are pedophiles.

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Speaker 4: You always have to be with me? Yeah, the only

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Speaker 4: not pedophile in this neighborhood.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I think it does work.

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Speaker 2: But to what detriment?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, I honestly a seven year old should be

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Speaker 4: walking around thinking that there's pedophiles that live next door,

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Speaker 4: but so they should Also, you shouldn't have moved in

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Speaker 4: next to somebody pedip This is this is it's so

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Speaker 4: cheap delivering pedophile cove. But the fact that they have their.

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Speaker 2: Own cove is Yeah, it makes it sound luxurious and

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Speaker 2: like a vacation spot, and it is. Yeah, a child

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Speaker 2: of the playground.

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Speaker 4: Played wire.

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Speaker 1: But I do think that it works.

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Speaker 2: And I my sister, I mean, her kids were running

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Speaker 2: amok the other day in the park and she said,

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Speaker 2: I kind of like want because Forrest is too and

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Speaker 2: he's just running.

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Speaker 1: He just wants to go in the lake.

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Speaker 2: He wants and they're stopping him, and he the only

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Speaker 2: thing stopping him from going in the lake. Is his

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Speaker 2: parents and my sister's like, I kind of want him

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Speaker 2: to fall in the lake just so he gets he

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Speaker 2: gets scared and like learns the re questions because I'm

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Speaker 2: just blocking all these horrible things happening to him all

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 1: How is he gonna learn?

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Speaker 2: Like, as a parent, I think I is there part

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Speaker 2: of you that wants your kid to burn the hand

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Speaker 2: on the stove just a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit, Yeah, like just to get a little injured, because

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Speaker 4: it does it does alert you of the danger of

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Speaker 4: figure character. Cuddle with a pedophile, but don't have sexual Yeah,

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Speaker 4: him two tugs.

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Speaker 1: God, he gets some candy out of it. It's not

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Speaker 1: all bad.

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Speaker 4: There was a kid in my growing up that this

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Speaker 4: is why it's like so like fresh in my brain

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Speaker 4: always is one of my friends in third grade got

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Speaker 4: molested and he he came into school and told everyone

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Speaker 4: that he got molested and like it was wild because

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Speaker 4: the teacher had to stop him. But I didn't piece

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Speaker 4: it together what the story was until like I was

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Speaker 4: in my twenties, because he talked about like a guy

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Speaker 4: luring him into his house and then making him watch

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Speaker 4: him pee, And I didn't realize.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't pain.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't know. I mean that's what you would

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Speaker 1: think it was, because it's all.

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Speaker 4: You know, all you know. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I have a friend that like.

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Speaker 4: He's doing fine now, he's so like red Bull.

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Speaker 2: Most people had something funky happened to them like that,

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Speaker 2: Like not most people, but like a big percentage of

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Speaker 2: kids have seen something weird, like had something not so

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Speaker 2: right happen. Like I have a friend who like is like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: there was like a neighbor and I think I went

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Speaker 2: over and I definitely remember like seeing a man's penis

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Speaker 2: and being like, oh, like, but she kind of is

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Speaker 2: just like recalling it like a loose memory that she

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Speaker 2: can't really like make sense of, and it kind of is.

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Speaker 2: I like when there's a casualness about it like that

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Speaker 2: where that it's because there needs to be that. I

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Speaker 2: think people need to talk about it casually.

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Speaker 5: If we stop taking it so seriously, then people stop

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Speaker 5: getting so fucked up about it.

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Speaker 2: Well that I think you're being sarcastic, But I don't

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Speaker 2: think you're wrong though, Like I do think that part,

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Speaker 2: and I've said this before, the reason that everyone is

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Speaker 2: so awkward about it, like no if you said you

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Speaker 2: were molested at a dinner party, it would like make

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Speaker 2: everyone would be like that was really uncomfortable. Why it's

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Speaker 2: it's it's weird, but like someone can talk about like

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Speaker 2: oh yeah I was in a car accident when I

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Speaker 2: was four, and no one goes that made it really weird.

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Speaker 1: But it is the same, Well fuck.

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Speaker 5: Those people if you're if you're revealing that you were

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Speaker 5: molested at a dinner I guess what.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like it it is weird because it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's not.

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Speaker 2: It's not the tone with which we lead our lives

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Speaker 2: in America, Like we don't talk about but we should.

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Speaker 1: We should be able to bring it up just as

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Speaker 5: You want there, you want it to be like yeah

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Speaker 5: I was molested when I was a kid, and the

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Speaker 5: people just go, oh how was that for you?

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Speaker 1: No, it's just like oh that sucks. Fuck what happened?

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Speaker 1: How did you deal with it?

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Speaker 2: Like we should all be talking about it because when

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Speaker 2: you can't, there seems to be if you can't talk

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Speaker 2: about something publicly, it's shameful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a barrier that's put up, so like yeah,

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Speaker 4: like it means shame because it is awkward to bring

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Speaker 4: it up at dinner. But it's also just because society

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Speaker 2: Be like, no, why is it not awkward to be like,

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Speaker 2: my dad spanked us, and and that's a little awkward,

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Speaker 2: but not very It's the same thing.

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Speaker 5: It's like even if there was no shame involved in

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Speaker 5: the reaction. I do feel like it's a little inappropriate

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Speaker 5: to just blurt out your trauma blurted out.

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Speaker 2: But I like, within the context of a conversation to

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Speaker 2: be like, actually, I was.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So they were already talking, we're getting we're molesting adjacent,

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Speaker 5: and then someone just chimes in, yeah, like or.

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Speaker 2: Like abuse adjacent, or like trauma as a child adjacent conversation, yeah,

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Speaker 2: or saying, you know, you're rosen thorn of the Year

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Speaker 2: going around Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think it should just be more colloquial.

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Speaker 5: Rose is I went to Boston, my thorn is I

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Speaker 5: was molested.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I like I love when people are so

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Speaker 2: just frank about it, because it just same with like Frank.

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Speaker 1: Did, usually a guy named Frank did.

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Speaker 2: You're right, but you like, I remember the first time

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Speaker 2: people were like kind of really just casual about talking

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Speaker 2: about the Anna herpes like I remember some comedians that

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Speaker 2: Joe List comes to mind, Andy.

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Speaker 4: Haynes, There's so many.

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Speaker 1: No andians was molested. Sorry and does not.

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Speaker 4: Have you talk about it on stage.

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Speaker 1: But Andans was the.

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Speaker 2: First person I'd ever heard talk about being molested. And

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Speaker 2: it wasn't like we had to pry it out of him,

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Speaker 2: or it wasn't this like a podcast centered on it.

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Speaker 2: He just like mentioned it on our podcast in twenty ten,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, that's the coolest shit I've.

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Speaker 4: Ever it was. It was just part of it. He

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Speaker 4: was like, I liked to ski and I got molested.

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Speaker 1: I will never forget.

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Speaker 2: It really made an impact on me how cool it

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Speaker 2: was that he was able to like talk about it,

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Speaker 2: not casually but kind of. And then I remember Joe

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Speaker 2: List saying he had herpes, like herpes was the molestation of.

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Speaker 5: Herpes STD growing up.

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Speaker 4: He was very shameful.

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Speaker 2: Yet it still has that to it, and it's so

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Speaker 2: it really makes a difference when comedians talk about it

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Speaker 5: Well, there is that parenting style of if your child

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Speaker 5: Yes, but it's better to just go like, all right,

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Speaker 2: Like it's not a big deal that you fell, like

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Speaker 4: You didn't know you could do that, Like Britney Spears

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Speaker 6: Chapel Road, what are her boundaries? She's just like, fans

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Speaker 2: You don't need to stop me at Walmart and like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they were like showing up at her parents house

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, here's my new thing about a boundary. If

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Speaker 2: I don't care that you're a dog person and that

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Speaker 1: Out with us more. It's I don't care, but there's

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Speaker 2: Shit, that just go Sorry, Can I put her? I'm

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Speaker 4: Cool being like, oh I love iPhones? Can I Yeah?

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Speaker 1: She's always like.

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Speaker 2: This shaking kind of why continue to pet and try?

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Speaker 2: Like just get away, don't pet people's dog.

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Speaker 7: I have to have a conversation where they're looking up

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Speaker 2: In and I'm going somewhere too usually and they are

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Speaker 2: I've pet dogs before when they look like they're eager

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Speaker 1: Ever, I've never asked, because you shouldn't have to.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if the dog comes up to you, you should pet And.

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Speaker 2: Then I asked, can I pet her? Even if she

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Speaker 1: I love dogs. Everyone does. If you come up to

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Speaker 2: Like, then I'll be like, that's interesting, that's something new.

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Speaker 4: I'm a raccoon girl. Could you feed me?

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Speaker 2: I just I'm burdened by it, and I always let

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Speaker 5: I have a reverse, Yeah, don't let your kids run

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Speaker 5: And it's like, I don't want to babysit your kid

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Speaker 4: I agree with you. We have we have very strict

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Speaker 4: not running around to Brian eating. Yes, even though he's

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Speaker 7: It is the parents do that. They they'll they'll do

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Speaker 7: there's Johnny running again, and it's like it's so performative

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Speaker 4: Actually, there was.

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Speaker 5: One time I had I was in a veil. This

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Speaker 1: Because they can't.

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Speaker 5: Probably, So I was at the restaurant and Jack was there,

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Speaker 4: Yes, And so.

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Speaker 5: Ali had to like arm bar this child and like

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Speaker 1: Jack is a very cute dog, doude. Do you have

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Speaker 5: Much less so now because he's he's clearly old. Right,

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Speaker 5: People love people.

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Speaker 4: You want to be clear.

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Speaker 2: If you're listening and you're like Nikki such a bit

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Speaker 1: Don't need to touch her. I just it's like Hey,

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Speaker 3: That's true. But I literally did what you're saying this

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, walk me through it, and like do you

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Speaker 3: I never touch anyone's dog unless they make the owner

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Speaker 3: I say, is it okay to pet your dogs?

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Speaker 4: Talking about going.

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Speaker 1: Ask as they are petting.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you're not even asking, and you're going, I'm

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Speaker 4: The right to do the shop. Nick, You're like kind

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Speaker 4: I'm a dog person, I really need to touch dogs.

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Speaker 1: I had an ugly dog.

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Speaker 5: She wasn't so fucking she was driving down the street

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Speaker 7: You need like a greyhound or like something like you

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Speaker 4: That's the problem.

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Speaker 7: Ugly, ugly dog really really skinny dogs no one wants

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or cat, Yeah, people don't.

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Speaker 5: Well, people know that cat will potentially bite or scratch. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: whereas that only happened with a dog five percent of

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 4: Are they using the dog to talk to you?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, it's it isn't that. It isn't like

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Speaker 4: No, you were just you were a dog walker in

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Speaker 5: Also, wait, what, it's.

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Speaker 4: The only way for it's the only control. It's the

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Speaker 2: So they trust babysitting for men because for me, I

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Speaker 2: It's an easier job to get as a woman. But

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a chance of.

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Speaker 7: Es and they do have pretty nice like yeah they

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Speaker 7: got a baby. Yeah, yeah, I actually had to take

446
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Speaker 7: care of a great Dane who was going through her

447
00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:05,520
Speaker 7: period for the first time, and I had.

448
00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:07,280
Speaker 4: To be there for her. You have to do the talk.

449
00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,560
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, I got her. I got her going

450
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Speaker 7: after Yeah. It was insane.

451
00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 4: It was so much.

452
00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,480
Speaker 7: It was the most like, well that's why Vagina I

453
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,880
Speaker 7: ever like encountered was from a dog.

454
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Speaker 2: Like it was like flopping out. Yeah, because she was

455
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Speaker 2: on the Oh I didn't know it comes out.

456
00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,359
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's like like it blooms like a road.

457
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,119
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, like a blooming onion. Yeah.

458
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a cactus flower in the middle of

459
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Speaker 1: the night.

460
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Speaker 4: I felt like I was on Bachelor. Yeah. I was like, oh,

461
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 4: look at me.

462
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:40,400
Speaker 2: Well, when Goldie my dog was getting spade or nud

463
00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,760
Speaker 2: or whatever it does with the female dog, I was

464
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:44,399
Speaker 2: asking the rescue because they were like, you need to

465
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Speaker 2: get her spade right away, and I'm like, but we're

466
00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,240
Speaker 2: not going to have her around. Dogs are going to

467
00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:50,600
Speaker 2: fuck her, like we really need this, and then everyone

468
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,280
Speaker 2: was like yes because of periods. I'm like, oh, yeah,

469
00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:53,800
Speaker 2: that makes sense.

470
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Speaker 7: Okay, I want to now imagine a great Dane. It

471
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Speaker 7: was like one pounds no thanks, Yeah, so intense, all right.

472
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Speaker 4: But a great day in like period a periods like

473
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Speaker 4: as much as like a Pratt freshman New York. I'm

474
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Speaker 4: just New York like Brat summer.

475
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we'll be back after that. Speaking of Pratt Brat,

476
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Speaker 2: I was thinking of Bowen Yang this weekend on SNL

477
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:33,119
Speaker 2: doing the Charlie XCX sketch, which he's so funny.

478
00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 1: I love him so much. Is like the m v

479
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Speaker 1: P of SNL.

480
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Speaker 4: I mean truly. Yeah, now he's now in everything.

481
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:45,200
Speaker 2: His Speaking of Chapel Roone, he did the Moodang.

482
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Speaker 1: Moo Dang hippo.

483
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Speaker 4: A lot of lot of bad feedback from I think

484
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Speaker 4: people were misunderstanding.

485
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,800
Speaker 2: I agree, Yeah, I thought I when I watched it,

486
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,959
Speaker 2: I go, oh, this is going to be misunderstood, like

487
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 2: as we're making fun of Chapel Roone. But it was like, no,

488
00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,040
Speaker 2: it was it was so I thought that was a

489
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 2: really really good bit.

490
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 1: And then our.

491
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 2: Buddy who has been on the show before, one of

492
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 2: my best friends ever, Emil Joaquim, new cast member of SNL.

493
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:17,480
Speaker 2: I have never been this. I don't know, I've never

494
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 2: been this proud of anyone in my life. There's something

495
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 2: about it that I'm like, I feel like he's like

496
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 2: my brother or something like I am Like I even

497
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 2: text him the day of I was like, I am

498
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 2: compelled to get your will.

499
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:29,959
Speaker 1: You send me your mom and dad's numbers?

500
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,399
Speaker 2: Because I need to celebrate with someone who loves you

501
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,440
Speaker 2: as much as I do. Like I'm like, I am

502
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: so excited, Like it just felt. It's so it's so

503
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,159
Speaker 2: crazy that this guy that Andrew and I met, who

504
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,120
Speaker 2: picked us up from the airport in Bloomington, Indiana, at

505
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 2: Indianapolis Airport to drive to Bloomington, was working the door.

506
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Speaker 2: I think like it was like just like an hour

507
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Speaker 2: and he picked us up in two thousand and eighteen,

508
00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 2: it must have been eighteen or nineteen and did a

509
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 2: guest set on the show.

510
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,440
Speaker 1: Is now a cast member on SNL.

511
00:21:59,480 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: It's just cooled.

512
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 1: Seems someone like.

513
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 5: It was in the improv group that I started. That's right,

514
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 5: many years after I started it.

515
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 1: He's gonna be so famous.

516
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 4: It's crazy because I've known him for five days.

517
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 1: I only know him from when we were in Lake City.

518
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I did two weekends with him. I love

519
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 4: He's so sweet. But seeing him on screen and knowing

520
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 4: that like Marcello Hernandez is dating Kai Kya Gerber. Now,

521
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, I didn't know that. I'm like, Emil is

522
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 4: about Like it's gonna be like Sydney Sweet.

523
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 1: To see Whomeil ends up dating. I call it like

524
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,920
Speaker 1: as well, like he's the next Pete Davidson.

525
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 4: It's it's gonna be it's gonna be absurd. You're gonna

526
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 4: see him in like on the cover of US and

527
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 4: he's gonna be like I did Andy McDowell.

528
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 1: Now, oh my god, you're so right.

529
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 2: It's it's He was in three things I think, including

530
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: just like just even the intro, like Emil walk Like

531
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 2: that was awesome.

532
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 7: It's cool with those things too, because you're gonna back

533
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 7: at the history and be like this was the first

534
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 7: way he just held the gun. And then he's gonna

535
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 7: get his first like thing a weekend update, and you're

536
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 7: gonna like get.

537
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: Some great moments though that he was on screen for

538
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 2: a couple of seconds, Like there was some funny stuff

539
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 2: that he did.

540
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, made the most of That's the key to being

541
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 4: a feature on SNL is just making the most of

542
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 4: like your one line or your one appearance, and he did.

543
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really good.

544
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: It was a perfect for showing and then seeing him

545
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: in the Good Nights at the end and Dana. He

546
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 2: said that Dana like was like you get up here,

547
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 2: Like Dana knew he was a new cast member. Dana

548
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 2: Carvey and like pulled him up and he was like

549
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 2: laughing and joking in between Dana Carving and Jelly Roll

550
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: just having the best time. Like the smile on his

551
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 2: face was so like I just debuted on SNL. He's

552
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,159
Speaker 2: gonna He's going down in history. It's like being a

553
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 2: president is being a cast member. It's like it is it.

554
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:48,959
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

555
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 4: It's crazy. It's like being part of like comedy Skull

556
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 4: and Bones, like when you you're part of the same

557
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 4: institution as George W. Bush and Thomas Jefferson.

558
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Speaker 2: I mean, and I've never had a friend make it

559
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 2: onto essen. I've had, you know, Amy, I remember when

560
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: she hosted S and L. That was a huge deal.

561
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,879
Speaker 2: But like being on the cast of US and L, like,

562
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: for some reason, I never really had I wasn't in

563
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 2: sketch comedy.

564
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: So did you have friends that made it onto that? I?

565
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 4: Like no, I just like knew, like I guess like Chay,

566
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 4: I like used to hang out with cha along did

567
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 4: ok yeah, like and I'm so happy for like Jay,

568
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 4: like but like yeah, man, like not like somebody who

569
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 4: is like my ride or die.

570
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 5: Like the only friend that I had that that was

571
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 5: ever it was Eddie Murphy's.

572
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just awesome, and congratulations to a Meal and

573
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 2: to his whole family and like, and he definitely was

574
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Speaker 2: someone that when he told his dad he was going

575
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 2: to go into stand up comedy, like his dad cried

576
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: because his dad's a doctor. His mom, I think, is

577
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 2: also a doctor, and so his family was like kind

578
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 2: of devastated that this. Yeah, and and they're all just

579
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 2: like so it's they have the cutest family.

580
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: I just love them so much.

581
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 2: And he it was I was like I didn't want

582
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 2: to bother him, like the day of, but he was

583
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: like texting with me and felt so nice that I

584
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 2: was like, oh, you know what, because I think sometimes

585
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,959
Speaker 2: when your friends like start to become super famous, no

586
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 2: matter how well you're doing, you like worry. Like I've

587
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 2: had friends before like not as soon as I'm starting

588
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 2: to get things, they kind of pull away or they

589
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 2: get like a little bit jealous or mad or whatever,

590
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 2: because you feel like they think they're gonna lose you.

591
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: Is essentially what it is.

592
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 2: They're not Some of it might be like jealousy that

593
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: you got this thing and I didn't, but it really

594
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 2: is about like you won't probably.

595
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: Talk to me anymore once you get famous.

596
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Speaker 2: And I think I had Initially with a Meal, there

597
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: was a feeling of like I'm losing my friend, like

598
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: he's gonna enter I'm not even in the SNL cool

599
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: girl world that like cool kid club yet. And but

600
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 2: then I just just interacting with him this week and

601
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 2: sharing about his experience, I'm like, Oh, there's no way

602
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna lose this guy.

603
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: Like he's just he's a good guy that's always gonna

604
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 1: be ease ground it. Yeah, he's away so young.

605
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 4: That's so nice to hear. Just I actually forgot that

606
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 4: I was very good friends with Brooks. I forgot that

607
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 4: he was honest. And now he stopped like responding because

608
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 4: he was like, he's like, sorry, I had to go

609
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 4: to David Busters with Bobby morn I had, And I'm like,

610
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 4: it's so weird that you know Bobby Mornehan, like Mornhead's

611
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 4: been on TV for like seven years and you're just

612
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 4: like the biggest dipshit I know.

613
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that is I think more than anything

614
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 2: when I when my friends get things and I have

615
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 2: a reaction that is, you know, I won't like say

616
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: it out loud, but there's like a part of me

617
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 2: that's like they didn't get that.

618
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 1: Thing, and it's like a bad feeling.

619
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 2: It's just that I don't I just want them to

620
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 2: still be friends with me, and I think they won't

621
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 2: if they get too cool, because I lost friends in

622
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 2: high school to the cool kid, to the snl of

623
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: high school, you know, the coolest table in the cafeteria,

624
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 2: and and I think that you're just I'm scared of

625
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: that happening again.

626
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 5: Well, I have that feeling about people who aren't my

627
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 5: friends who get things want their lives to be.

628
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 4: I have enemies in my head that like they're like

629
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 4: I clearly don't think about you at all, but I'm like,

630
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 4: I want you to fail.

631
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's when you watched only four minutes of

632
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 2: their special.

633
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: To Netflix that this.

634
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: Is not okay, and that this person was mean to

635
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: you once when they didn't mean to be and you

636
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 2: took it the wrong way, but they were just had

637
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 2: a cold.

638
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's an there's an insanely famous person that I'll

639
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 4: talk about off air because it has become too online

640
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 4: because I've mentioned in the podcast he's so famous and

641
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 4: he was my friend and he fucked my girlfriend in

642
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 4: New York and I can't I can't get over I

643
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 4: can't get over it. Famous, you too fucked her while

644
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 4: you were dating? Yes, your friends. And I hate his

645
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,399
Speaker 4: guts to the point where like, but there was like

646
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 4: a time in LA has.

647
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 1: His star diminished at all? Have there been? Like because

648
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 1: it can't stay?

649
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 4: How did you find out? I was Everyone told me

650
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 4: Swift fucked your girlfriend. I mean, like honestly, if you're

651
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 4: actually like putting the top like top twenty most famous people,

652
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 4: he's definitely in that list.

653
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: Or maybe you told me, but I forget.

654
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,640
Speaker 4: Including like political leaders. Oh no, I'm talking this strictly

655
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 4: pop culture. But like if you just he's such a

656
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 4: multi hyphen it that you would know. And there was

657
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,159
Speaker 4: a time, I know, there was a time where every

658
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 4: billboard in l A was him.

659
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: I think Dad el Malay.

660
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 4: Really like I'm like, what is.

661
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 2: He gonna get Madden me Like like oh really I

662
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: did not know that?

663
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god. And I can't watch Atlanta.

664
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 2: Like so talented That's why I don't like to get

665
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 2: to know celebrities, because you learn something shitty about them

666
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 2: and then you can't enjoy anything they make.

667
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 4: It sucks to have this like hip on my shoulder,

668
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 4: and like I just constantly read where they're like he's

669
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 4: a genius and it's like almost like Albert Einstein fucked

670
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 4: my girlfriend.

671
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 7: But here's the thing, though, no matter how talented he

672
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 7: is in the bedroom, I heard he's even better.

673
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 4: So that's so you got that going for you. Yeah, yeah,

674
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 4: that sucks.

675
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 7: How many times did he think it was? It like

676
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 7: a you know, I didn't get those deep outs. I

677
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 7: always wonder if it's like because if it's one night,

678
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 7: I wouldn't hate him as much if it was like you.

679
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 4: Know, I think it was just like a thing that

680
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 4: we were like friendly with each other and like also, yeah,

681
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 4: a month before it, like we hosted like this the

682
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 4: election night at two thousand and eight, like together wow

683
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 4: at Sound Fix, and I was just like, this guy's

684
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 4: like my friend, and then it turns out he's also

685
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 4: but also you were dating Jane Sean. Yeah, I think

686
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 4: it was while we were dating. He's been around your wife.

687
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was your girlfriend cheated on you with Donald Glover.

688
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: He's apologized so much, right, you know, I've only seen

689
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 2: him twice since then, and he acted as if he

690
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 2: only slightly remembered me.

691
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 4: Oh my, yeah. I mean he's probably playing so much

692
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 4: that she was a batch.

693
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

694
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was talking to you know, the person I

695
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: was playing poker with, the other not playing but watching

696
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: play poker. I was talking to them about having success

697
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: and how it feels so good when you see people

698
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 2: who are shitty to you and you get to now

699
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: like have some power over them and like possibly sure

700
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 2: destroy them, yeah, like impact their career negatively and there.

701
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 2: And I've talked about it on the podcast before. There

702
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: was a girl that was so rude to me on

703
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 2: a show I did one time, and I almost want,

704
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: I don't really want to host a late night show,

705
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 2: but I just know she would end up being booked

706
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: on it at some point if I did have one.

707
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 2: And I you know, like you probably aren't aware of

708
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 2: everyone being booked on your show, so you probably show

709
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: up to work and just see the breakdown, be like, oh,

710
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 2: she's performing tonight, and go tell her to pack up

711
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 2: and leave. Yeah, like just but her crew's already here,

712
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: we've already done the sound the rehearsal and the sound check.

713
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 2: Just tell her she has to go, and just don't

714
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: don't even tell her why. But she's not performing on

715
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: my show. I'm not giving her platform and like to

716
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: have her just be like why and like maybe be

717
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: able to just give her a note of like, you

718
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: know this game show, think back to it when you

719
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 2: were when you thought.

720
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: You were better than me. Yeah, and it's and I.

721
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 2: And my friend goes, no, that's not what you do.

722
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 2: You have her on and you just like make even give.

723
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't want to. I go, it's

724
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: better to not.

725
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 7: You've let's enjoy Behar's mature. There's a video of Michael B. Jordan, right, yeah,

726
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 7: and this girl's interviewing the Red carpet. She made it

727
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 7: to the Red carpet and then she's like we went

728
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 7: we were in grade school together, and he just looks

729
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 7: at her.

730
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, you bullied me. You were actually like

731
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 4: and like made her feel horrible. Michael Jordan's people. Yeah, yeah,

732
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 4: but no, it's like yeah, it was just like that's great.

733
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 4: It was like so vengeance, it's nothing better. Yeah, vengeance.

734
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 4: Michael b Jordan, He's like, as he's so good.

735
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 5: Luck, well no in the why or he was a

736
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 5: skinny little kid.

737
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, but he still had it.

738
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: I love vengeance. I love.

739
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 2: It's something I shouldn't and I don't think about it

740
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: that often, but that would be I almost would do

741
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 2: something just like that. I wouldn't want to do a show,

742
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 2: but I would do it if I could impact negatively

743
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 2: someone's life that thought they were better than me at

744
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: one point.

745
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 5: You're I don't think you're capable of vengeance.

746
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 4: Really, I don't really want to harm you. Forgive you easily.

747
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: Turns into harm in there and in their staff's lives.

748
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 5: Sure, well you are good people there, and why you

749
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 5: can't do vengeance because you think about things like that.

750
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: But I just want them to know, like I don't

751
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: want to know what I want.

752
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 5: What you really want is for that vengeance the person

753
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 5: who wronged you in the past to become your friend

754
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 5: and then apologize more than get revenge on them.

755
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,239
Speaker 2: Although there's been some people that have turned and been

756
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: nice to me after they were rude, and the part

757
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 2: of me that wants to just be like, you suck

758
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: and I'm not. I like, there's that's part of me

759
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 2: that still wants me to like them.

760
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 4: Because they were mean to me.

761
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, change because of that.

762
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 2: That's there's one person who's gotten so nice to me

763
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: because I've since I've become slightly famous, and they were

764
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 2: so rude to me, coming up all the time without question,

765
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 2: and I just thought it was because they like kind

766
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: of saw through me and saw the parts of me

767
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,479
Speaker 2: that I don't like about myself and kind of like

768
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 2: had my number and I almost respected that they just

769
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 2: didn't like me and stuck to it. And then they

770
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: turned like I hadn't seen them for six months. Things

771
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 2: happened in my career and they were so nice to me.

772
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,239
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you I liked you before when

773
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 2: I thought you were just a cunt.

774
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: And now like you're just you didn't.

775
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 4: Like me because that wasn't cool.

776
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that I thought you didn't like because you

777
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 2: saw through me, but you just didn't like me because

778
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 2: I wasn't what you thought, because I wasn't successful in

779
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 2: your eyes, and and it made me not yeah, And

780
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: it made me not fear that person as much. I

781
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 2: was just like, oh, I see through you're pathetic.

782
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it made it was.

783
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 5: Really lacking any utility.

784
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean there's been people I didn't.

785
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of if there's been anyone early

786
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: on that I just didn't like. It was kind of

787
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 2: mean too, and then.

788
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 4: But he didn't get fame. I was so mean to Microcy.

789
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 4: You were mean man? Oh yeah interesting. Oh well when

790
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,760
Speaker 4: he showed up, he was like truly like he seemed

791
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 4: like he was molested by.

792
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: Micros is a comedian in New York.

793
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: He's so funny, was so so funny, and I had

794
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 2: to take a couple of years away from him.

795
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 4: I love Microcy. I think he loved the one of

796
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 4: the funniest.

797
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 1: I love. He's so funny.

798
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 4: And when he first started, it was just like you

799
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 4: shouldn't be here, like your energy is weird. Like he

800
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 4: was very like Dylan Cleebold at the open and then

801
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 4: he figured out how to do comedy and I like

802
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 4: would die for a scene.

803
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,240
Speaker 2: Yes, I love him now too, but it's yeah, it turns,

804
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: but it's it wasn't because yeah, I got interest, like.

805
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 7: I started after Microsy. I remember talking to other comedians

806
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 7: of Racine was that person to us who we felt

807
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 7: was like stand offish and mean and like but now

808
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 7: it's just so funny how you can hear from I

809
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 7: feel like Racine was dealing us generational bullying because he

810
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 7: was bullied by Sean.

811
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:21,240
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure.

812
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 1: Yeah it does get people her people.

813
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 7: I'm sure someone bullied you at some point that was

814
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 7: above you in comedy.

815
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, I've talked about it so much. But

816
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: Saint Louis.

817
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 2: In Saint Louis, there was this girl that was like,

818
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 2: I just told everyone I I fucked everyone for stage time,

819
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 2: and I was a virgin at the time, and it

820
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 2: was just it was true, truly devastating and made me

821
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: want to lead, like I'd never been bullied in that

822
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 2: way in high school or anything like that.

823
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 4: Do anal though fair.

824
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 2: I remember reasoning when her because she was drunk once,

825
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 2: being like, did you fuck that? And she was listing

826
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 2: all these comedians I'd opened for, and I go, well, yeah,

827
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 2: I did.

828
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: I blew that one.

829
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 4: But it's because I really liked it.

830
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: It wasn't for stage time. I actually turned stage time.

831
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 2: Down because these guys would I never did anything if

832
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 2: I thought I was getting something because they wanted to

833
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 2: fuck me.

834
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: I would never.

835
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 2: I only wanted to be get stage time because of

836
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: my merit. I never thought I was never someone who

837
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 2: used that to get ahead. In fact, there were guys

838
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 2: that would offer me stage time and had never seen

839
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: me but wanted to have sex with me. And I

840
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 2: would be like, I'm bad, I'm not gonna do a

841
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 2: spot because I knew that I sucked. So it was

842
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: just so weird that she would accuse me of using

843
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 2: that or like and then when I started getting good,

844
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 2: she would just say that they wrote my material for me,

845
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: which was just so insulting.

846
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 4: As well, that sucks.

847
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: That really sucks.

848
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 7: I used to get laid for stage time, and.

849
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:52,919
Speaker 4: I used time. I was gay for a while.

850
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 1: You guys, I feel like, are the same as me.

851
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 2: As like you none of you were like that thirsty

852
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 2: for stage time when you so everyone needs to see me,

853
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 2: like you didn't believe.

854
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 4: I was horrified, Like I remember asking for a guest

855
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 4: spot at my club. I started at like after I

856
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 4: was like already, I had to wait till I was

857
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 4: like clearly a top three comic at the open mic.

858
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 4: I was too afraid to like god out in front

859
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 4: of a real audience and like yes, I saw, I

860
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 4: was like over prepared and like I remember Kurt Metzker.

861
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 4: It was like, I'll recommend you to the seller, and

862
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 4: then Julian told me I wasn't ready and it's.

863
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: All you need.

864
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,399
Speaker 4: It's stuck in my head forever still to this day,

865
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 4: where I'm like, well the seller is just so far

866
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 4: out of reade.

867
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think I'm.

868
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: Friends with any comedians who like, I mean, maybe casually

869
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 2: know some of them, but real friends. I don't think

870
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 2: I could be friends with someone who's like I always

871
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: knew I had it and people needed to see me.

872
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 2: I believed in my like no one I'm friends with

873
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: believes in themselves in that way.

874
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 4: In fact, any friend I have that like really fucking

875
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 4: it's like braggadocious and like fucking loves themselves, I like

876
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,720
Speaker 4: wind up not being friends with them almost immediately because

877
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 4: my natural instinct to that is like I got to

878
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 4: tear that down.

879
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 2: Because we were actually talking about how long we've been

880
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 2: friend Sean like I reached out. We became friends via

881
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: MySpace because we both were like, oh, you're funny, I'm funny.

882
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: Let's hang out or like, let's at least talk on

883
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 2: my Space. And then we eventually hung out and I

884
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 2: was talking about like, yeah, I think I had good

885
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: taste in people friends, even early on, and I because

886
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:27,959
Speaker 2: I did that with a lot of people and reached

887
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 2: out to them, and some immediately I just revealed themselves

888
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 2: to be way too confident. I think they're too cool,

889
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 2: and I just couldn't. I had to be fake around

890
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 2: them because I had to like be the same way

891
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 2: I wasn't. I was so insecure.

892
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 4: Because I'm an energy energy matcher, like so yes. So

893
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 4: then I'm like, I feel very uncomfortable when I'm like

894
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 4: around somebody who's just like I fucking rip it every

895
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 4: time I'm on the stay, I'm like.

896
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: Okay, this is totally what we're going to.

897
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 4: No.

898
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 7: No, just when people get off stage and they bomb horribly,

899
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 7: but they have the confidence, like they just.

900
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 4: Tore the roof off, it's just wild. I remember I

901
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 4: stopping friends with three people in New York because I

902
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 4: saw them on stage bomb. I get talking about how

903
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 4: funny they were on stage. I was just like, I

904
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 4: can't know you. I don't want to know you.

905
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: No, I've had to distance message, like I've.

906
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 4: Never said I'm funny because I'm so afraid of saying

907
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 4: that and then proving I'm not.

908
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: I mean, that's why Instagram some it just makes me

909
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: so uncomfortable to see some of my friends on there

910
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 2: because it is a brag machine you have to like

911
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 2: and that's why I can't even look my own stuff.

912
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 2: Makes me cringe sometimes because you have to like tell

913
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 2: people how.

914
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 1: Well you're doing.

915
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: And it's really a gross quality and does not attract

916
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 2: the right people to you.

917
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: No, if they're falling for.

918
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 4: It, no, but it attracts people with money to you

919
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,720
Speaker 4: because people like they hate self deprecating humor.

920
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: I know, it's that is so true, because that's why

921
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:52,240
Speaker 2: they're all confident.

922
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 4: Confident. You're not confident?

923
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 3: Ye?

924
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 4: Why why are you saying? Why make you suck at

925
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 4: all aspects of life?

926
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's okay. Taking a sharp turn.

927
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 2: I saw something that I thought would make you all

928
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 2: laugh because I think you both know.

929
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 1: Do you know you guys know bright eyes?

930
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 4: Yes, bright eyes.

931
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: This is the first day of my life.

932
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 4: I literally have a text menu from yesterday where I

933
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 4: was like, the only reason why I ever voted to

934
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 4: begin with was bright Eyes because he said but for

935
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 4: Jock Carry and I was like, done, well, okay.

936
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,800
Speaker 2: I was on Reddit and it was the music Subreddit,

937
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 2: and it was like Bright Eyes, I guess canceled all

938
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 2: concerts for the remainder of their tour because he has

939
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 2: vocal cord issues.

940
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: Shout out, I've been through it.

941
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 5: It sucks.

942
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 2: But so sometimes Reddit can just be so funny, and

943
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 2: this was a hidden funny Reddit thing. And someone wrote

944
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 2: the first comment is this is.

945
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: The worst tour of my life.

946
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 8: And then the next person goes, swear I was gonna

947
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 8: see bride Eyes play. They sucked it up. I logged

948
00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 8: on to read it. Suddenly everything changed. The next person wrote,

949
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 8: they're saying cancelation leaked, and then underneath that this was

950
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 8: the first post that I saw. Next person, these are

951
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 8: all different people, swear that that I already had tickets.

952
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: His voice is strained. Suddenly tours are changed, they're saying,

953
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: and then uh oh, guess they're saying.

954
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 8: And then the bless person goes, guess I'll go to sleep.

955
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 2: I just love when everyone agrees to like do something

956
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 2: and comment on comments.

957
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: It was so satisfying to me.

958
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 4: It's fine too.

959
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 7: That song is like the least stressful on your voice ever.

960
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 9: Yeah, oh yeah, that's true, Like yeah, but if you

961
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 9: ever hearing, yeah, it's been thirty five years of vocal strain.

962
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 2: Oh my god, at the Bottom of Everything, Oh my god,

963
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 2: Can we just talk about.

964
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: That song for a second.

965
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: That's the one? Is that the one that made you

966
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: scared of air travel?

967
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 4: I mean, they're so well.

968
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: It starts out.

969
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 2: If you've never heard it, listen to the At the

970
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 2: Bottom of Everything, Busty's go listen to the song.

971
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,399
Speaker 1: It's one of the best songs. But it starts out

972
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: with there was a woman on a plane.

973
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: She was reading her book and she was really bored

974
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: and listless.

975
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 1: Do you remember this?

976
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 2: And then there's a man next to her, and suddenly

977
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 2: the plane starts shaking and people are screaming, and the

978
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: man next to her says, She looks the man next

979
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 2: to him, and she goes, what's happening. He goes, it's

980
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 2: your birthday, darling. We're going to a birthday party, and

981
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 2: everyone loves.

982
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: You very very very very very very very very very

983
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 1: very But he's like, it's so creepy.

984
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: And then it turns in this like really lovely song

985
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 2: about a plane crashing and like going to the next

986
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 2: phase of your life, and it's so good and creepy

987
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 2: and I love it.

988
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 4: He was the Dylan of our general Yeah, like he

989
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 4: kind of was. Yeah, I mean like truly, Like in

990
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 4: high school, I listened to like the Calendar hung Itself.

991
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: Oh I don't know that one.

992
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 4: It's so great. It's like it's all about just like

993
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 4: unrequited love in high school and it is about killing

994
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 4: yourself because she'll never be with you. And I would

995
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 4: listen to that song five times a day, like just

996
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 4: being like here I go.

997
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 2: Like man like music in high school and when you're like.

998
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 4: Not Depeche Mode was like that for me.

999
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: Oh really what song?

1000
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 4: I can't I don't remember any names.

1001
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 7: It was just a feeling of like being so sad

1002
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 7: and just leaning into.

1003
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 2: It as like all in relationships and have been for

1004
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 2: a while, Like doesn't music just like not get it

1005
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 2: get you is hard anymore? Like I gotta like contra,

1006
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 2: I gotta get a little high sometimes because I want

1007
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: to like remember a time what I need, like shift

1008
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 2: my perspective to listen to some music because I want

1009
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 2: to like remember when I felt that way when.

1010
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: I was listening to the song and being like I

1011
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 1: love this, Oh I love me.

1012
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 4: Like I truly I miss I miss Like I was

1013
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 4: like a real emo kid, Like I really miss like

1014
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 4: listening to like bands like Thursday where it's aggression, but

1015
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 4: then also there's like horrible songs about just getting broken

1016
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 4: up with and you just there's a song called how

1017
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 4: Long Is the Night by Thursday that I would just

1018
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 4: like cry every night listening to, and I'm like, now

1019
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 4: I listen to it, I'm like, this is pathetic. Now

1020
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 4: you cry watching the Mets. But yeah, I wish I

1021
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 4: could just go back to feeling like there's.

1022
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: No songs about like long term committed relationships that would

1023
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 2: ever listen the same kind of emotions as any breakup songs.

1024
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 4: Well, there's divorce. You get to divorce songs.

1025
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what we all are going to get. Yeah,

1026
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 2: all right, I'm.

1027
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 4: Getting fights and I'll put on music like in the.

1028
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 7: Shower, Yeah, with like I found myself sitting on the

1029
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 7: floor of a shower like listening to.

1030
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: Like pretending you're in a music video or pretending you're

1031
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 2: like a Lifetime movie.

1032
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, you'll get to a fight with your girlfriend

1033
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 4: and then you'll go in the shower and.

1034
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,360
Speaker 7: Just sit on the floor in a listening to like

1035
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 7: the cheesiest music you've ever heard.

1036
00:44:54,320 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I do break I have been recently.

1037
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 2: Like the only time I will feel like because Chris

1038
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 2: and I kind of have a really good plan for

1039
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 2: when we fight, it doesn't last long. I can't really

1040
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: put a song to it. It's just like resolves itself.

1041
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 2: We're like in a we've been in a really good

1042
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 2: place for months and months and months, so I can't

1043
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 2: really get emotional about songs. But like I can have

1044
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 2: fights with girlfriends and then I've been really into bad

1045
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 2: blood and I imagine like I'm never gonna talk to

1046
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 2: you again, and I sing because maybe now we got

1047
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 2: bad and I've like been on a treadmill like fucking gym,

1048
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 2: and then it really helps to be processed. And then

1049
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: that's that's what. Now that I'm in my relationship is good.

1050
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 2: I'm like looking for fights with my girlfriends to be like,

1051
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,479
Speaker 2: I'll never we had such a good thing.

1052
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: This is why we can't have nice things.

1053
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 2: By Taylor Swift, like it's turned into girl friendships and

1054
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 2: I'll like fucking burn them down.

1055
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 5: Oh but you can do that without friendships. You can

1056
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 5: do that with career stuff. Enemies, Oh, enemies that succeed

1057
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 5: or whatever. I go to the gym, and I'm like,

1058
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 5: that's what when I listen to it. When I listen

1059
00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 5: to rap music at the gym, I'm thinking about destroying

1060
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 5: the people who made that show.

1061
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 4: That sucks. Oh wow, that's cool. I don't. I gotta

1062
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 4: get more vengeance in my life. It's all.

1063
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 5: It's all like I'm driven by Spike, I will say.

1064
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 5: And it does feel a lot of my This is actually.

1065
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 4: Weird that you bring up Bright Eyes because I was

1066
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 4: in New Jersey this past week with my parents and

1067
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 4: we got into a massive fight.

1068
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we were on a zoom call and you

1069
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 2: were like, I just got into a huge fight with

1070
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 2: my parents.

1071
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm three, Celsius is into the day.

1072
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:29,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god. So we got into like a

1073
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:33,479
Speaker 4: two hour long foot fight, and the entire ride home

1074
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 4: from New York that night, I just listened to Bright

1075
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 4: Eyes and I was like, oh my god, it was

1076
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 4: I was just I'm seventeen. I was again with your parents, yea,

1077
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 4: with my parents. Like it all like it just clicked

1078
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 4: right now. Like I'm like, so, I'm like I have

1079
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 4: not listened to Bright Eyes in forever, and it like

1080
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 4: was really soothing. And it was only because I fought

1081
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 4: with my pants. Wow, Like I fought with them like

1082
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 4: I was seventeen, Like I was like jumping up and down.

1083
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 1: Scream Oh my god.

1084
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 2: It's crazy that it can just put you right back

1085
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 2: there with your parents.

1086
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: I am sut. I like I found myself being my.

1087
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 2: Parents are in town right now, and uh, being such

1088
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: a bitch last night final thought, like last night going

1089
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 2: to dinner, like I can't my dad eating with chopsticks

1090
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 2: bothers me so much. It's just watching him try to

1091
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 2: get these little cucumbers, like get a proper bite. I

1092
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 2: can't focus on anything he's saying. I'm just like, use

1093
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 2: a fork. But it's not even like I'm just like

1094
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 2: learn how to like you play guitar really well, Like

1095
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 2: how are you able to do?

1096
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:36,360
Speaker 3: Like?

1097
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 2: And you can't do it's so annoying to be Yeah,

1098
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:46,879
Speaker 2: it's just I just don't understand and and like I'm

1099
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: being such a brat about it. And then he also

1100
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 2: the way he orders bothers me. He'll be like, so,

1101
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 2: what's this she's so with the miso dried and then the.

1102
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:57,359
Speaker 1: Sea bass on the side.

1103
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 2: He'll ask what the thing is and then the waiter

1104
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 2: will just say the same thing. So it's the drive

1105
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: she's so with the flaky meats, and then you'll go, okay,

1106
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 2: I'll have that, and it's like he doesn't learn anything.

1107
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: Why do you have to ask so many questions?

1108
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: I just know what I want.

1109
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 4: I don't have to ask when someone goes, what do

1110
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 4: you what do you like here to the waiter? Yeah,

1111
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 4: and I don't know why don't? Well?

1112
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 5: Sometimes I ask what's the most popular dish?

1113
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 2: That's ok that's okay, that's okay, that's actually information, that's

1114
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,479
Speaker 2: that's important. Why would you ask a person another person who.

1115
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: You don't know.

1116
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 2: You don't know how they eat, You don't know what

1117
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 2: they like. They just give it to the table. You

1118
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 2: don't know anything about them, what they It's like it's full.

1119
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 2: It seems to be like, mom, just make it. You're

1120
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 2: one to meet, you're one of us. We're not gonna

1121
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 2: treat you differently because you're a waiter. It's like, yes,

1122
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 2: I am, you're waiting on me. I'm not gonna treat

1123
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 2: you less then, but it's your job to wait on me.

1124
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 2: I don't need to be buddies.

1125
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 5: Besides, I go like, what's what's your favorite dish? And

1126
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 5: then they'll go with the caesar sal and go.

1127
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 4: I don't want that exactly.

1128
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: Party won.

1129
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 7: They also picked the third cheapest thing or the third Well, yeah,

1130
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 7: I love but if you're not going to get the

1131
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 7: filet to Sam and his fans the.

1132
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 5: Worst, that's the worst when they answer with every single

1133
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:16,320
Speaker 5: thing on the menu.

1134
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 4: Also, but I.

1135
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: Really do appreciate when they go it's that that's nice.

1136
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 4: Che he heard that would lose his when they got

1137
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 4: none of the time. Like, I've studied the menu beforehand.

1138
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 4: I know what I'm doing going in, and I'm like,

1139
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 4: I want to make this as quick as possible because

1140
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,760
Speaker 4: I got to get back to like saying something inappropriate.

1141
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 4: And you are like the principal for something to.

1142
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: Get obsessed with.

1143
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 2: Efficiency obviously, And there's nothing more I like than meals

1144
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 2: with friends. I want them to last forever. I never

1145
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: ever want them to end. But I do not like pageantry.

1146
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: Of eating out.

1147
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 2: And I think the more money you spend at a place,

1148
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: there's more bullshit that these people have to do.

1149
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:04,240
Speaker 1: And I do respect waiters.

1150
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 2: I want you to I don't want you to misinterpret

1151
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 2: me being like I don't want to be chummy with waiter.

1152
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 2: It's because it's fake to me to be chummy with waiter.

1153
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 2: We're not friends. They have a job, they have other tables.

1154
00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: I don't need to like act like they're buds with me.

1155
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 2: And so I'm not being disrespectful. I just I'm being

1156
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: actually respectful by not acting like I care how their

1157
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 2: day was.

1158
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't don't want to talk to anybody but anything.

1159
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 2: I don't want you to give me the drink menu

1160
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 2: and withhold the food menu. No boo, I don't I want.

1161
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 2: I want the food menu right out the out of

1162
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 2: the gate. Drink menu is irrelevant. People who are interested

1163
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 2: in a drink menu become an alcoholic or just stop drinking,

1164
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 2: like you know what you like. Like, I don't like

1165
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 2: being like, let me try this cocktail, like I can't.

1166
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 1: I don't hang with people that are.

1167
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 2: Just like, oh, I'll try a fun new cocktail and

1168
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 2: I'll just have a couple of SIPs of it.

1169
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 4: It's so weird. It's like it's like being into Pokemon

1170
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 4: as an adult or something where you're like, I, I

1171
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 4: gotta try them all.

1172
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 2: Calories in a fruity, dumb beverage that has been put

1173
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 2: together because of like what they ordered too much.

1174
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 4: Of Yeah St. Patrick's day.

1175
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,279
Speaker 2: Mad respect to anyone who who eats their drinks their

1176
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 2: calories and has like a sane relationship with food, and

1177
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 2: they're like, I just want to try a fun, fruity drink,

1178
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 2: like God love you. I don't relate to anything in

1179
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 2: your life. And that is so cool to me. But

1180
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: drink menus are bullshit to me, Like, I don't want

1181
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 2: of them propped up. If you like wine, get the chardonnay,

1182
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 2: get the red like you, we don't you need to do.

1183
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: A taste testing of it.

1184
00:51:31,080 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 4: That's really yeahane to me?

1185
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 1: Is that the only thing that taste test by the way, Yeah.

1186
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 4: As somebody who drinks dire coke like.

1187
00:51:40,440 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 6: That, you should have a fun it should different.

1188
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 1: You are so right, that's where you should just swirl

1189
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 1: it around.

1190
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, put more is a four day ago.

1191
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: That is such a good point. That's a good bit.

1192
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 2: You should do that bit because it's it's that that's

1193
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 2: the only time where a beverage really is wine tastes bad.

1194
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,399
Speaker 4: Taste. I'm like, oh, yes, it's wine, and.

1195
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 7: I've never seen someone taste it and go no, and

1196
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 7: if before yeah, she goes, I don't like that raw

1197
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 7: chicken because I don't want you.

1198
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: What could be bad about it?

1199
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 4: Like, it doesn't taste good. Sometimes it doesn't taste good.

1200
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:27,720
Speaker 1: Its wine, it's not supposed to. They're fermented.

1201
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 2: There are grapes that have gone bad and they turn sour,

1202
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 2: so they turn to literal poison. Alcohol is a poison.

1203
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 2: It's not supposed to taste good. I'm so tired of

1204
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 2: alcohol culture. It's all bullshit. If you like beer, you

1205
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 2: do not like the taste of beer. You do think

1206
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 2: you like it because you're lying to yourself that you

1207
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 2: like it because it makes you fucked up.

1208
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: You would never drink beer if it didn't make you

1209
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: fucked up. And I know you.

1210
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 2: Go No, I drink non alcoholic beer because you used

1211
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,120
Speaker 2: to get fucked up on beer, and it reminds you

1212
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: of when you used to get sucked up. It's still

1213
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 2: about a feeling. It's not actually the taste is not

1214
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 2: actually good. Children do not like to taste of beer. Here.

1215
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: If children don't like the taste of something, it actually

1216
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: tastes bad.

1217
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 3: And I am.

1218
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 1: I fall for this stuff too. I love coffee. I

1219
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: think toffee tastes good. It doesn't.

1220
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, the first time.

1221
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 2: No one likes coffee the first time they drink it. It

1222
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 2: is a bitter, bad taste and that's why you add

1223
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 2: sugar and cream.

1224
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've hated the taste of coffee my entire life.

1225
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 4: It's never gotten better. And I drink it black and

1226
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 4: yeah I love it. Yeah, but I don't.

1227
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 2: But it does not taste good. I'm not lying to

1228
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:29,919
Speaker 2: my house. It tastes like it feels good.

1229
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, And then people are like, oh, you go to Starbucks,

1230
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 4: Like what do you like? There's so many better coffee plays.

1231
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 4: I'm like, not to make it tastes like shit.

1232
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 2: Garbage, because you're right, it does.

1233
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: You sound like Bill Maher when I'm talking this way.

1234
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 2: But I do feel a little bit of condescent densnsial.

1235
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,360
Speaker 4: If there was caffeine and gatorade, it's all I would drink.

1236
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 4: And of course, people, you.

1237
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 2: Don't realize that these things are drugs you are drinking.

1238
00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 2: And I'm working on a bit about how motherhood is

1239
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 2: also a thing that people convince them selves they love

1240
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 2: because and they really do think they love it. It's

1241
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 2: not like they're like lying to themselves. You do think

1242
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 2: you love coffee. It is the same as loving its.

1243
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 7: Dinner, and they brought out I got a decalf. I

1244
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 7: don't know what I was thinking. I think it's such

1245
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 7: a strong move. I don't like the taste of coffee.

1246
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 2: I loved coffee because it makes you feel the way

1247
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: coffee would make you feel.

1248
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: Decaf does work, and I do. I do drink because

1249
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 1: it has a little bit.

1250
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 2: Caftle bit and it's just like an a beer, like

1251
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 2: it gives you the feeling that you're doing the thing

1252
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 2: that used to give you the feeling like it's it.

1253
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 4: I felt like I didn't know.

1254
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 7: I didn't finish the decaff because I knew that the

1255
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 7: end result wouldn't be me having a fun time on caffeine, right,

1256
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 7: So I was just like, oh, I don't even like coffee.

1257
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 4: Why did I even get this?

1258
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 2: More like that I always make about beer when people go, no,

1259
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 2: beer is good. I went to a Froio place and

1260
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 2: they had a beer flavor once and I went up

1261
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 2: and I asked, I go, how how much you got

1262
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 2: to change that one? And they go never, no one ever.

1263
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 2: They sample it because it's funny, but no one. If

1264
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 2: you liked the taste of beer so much, would that

1265
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,879
Speaker 2: be an ice cream flavor? People enjoy. It's not guess

1266
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 2: what other other flavor ice cream? People don't get that

1267
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 2: much coffee. Coffee, sometimes they do. It's nice a little

1268
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 2: because you don't want to eat too much of it

1269
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 2: because it tastes bad.

1270
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so bitter. It is, honestly like I want

1271
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 4: a sugary treat, but I also don't want to enjoy myself.

1272
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and you bars and dark chocolate bar also

1273
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 2: not good.

1274
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 4: Dark chocolate. No chocolate. Dark chocolate is delicious. I eat

1275
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 4: so much.

1276
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: Delicious as milk chocolate.

1277
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 4: And the reason chol.

1278
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 5: Your scale chocolate sucks.

1279
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 4: Milk chocolate is so good.

1280
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:42,879
Speaker 5: God, it sucks.

1281
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 4: It's it's too smooth. No, it's I love how that is.

1282
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 4: Dark chocolate honestly tastes like you're eating chocolate like it's not.

1283
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 2: And then the lower percentage you go, the worse it is,

1284
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 2: but you eat it because it's it's better than nothing.

1285
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 1: Your jaws moving.

1286
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 5: Can I quickly go back to the beer? Can places

1287
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 5: stop beer battering everything and putting beer and cheese and

1288
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 5: making our chicken beer batter and it just has you

1289
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 5: just adding beer.

1290
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 4: No, Yeah, I'm sorry.

1291
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,879
Speaker 2: If you're someone who loves wine and you love beer

1292
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 2: and you love coffee, and you do think that they

1293
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 2: taste good, like, because I've gotten sony fights of people

1294
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 2: and people really do think they taste good. And I

1295
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 2: also think coffee tastes good. I just want to say,

1296
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:28,879
Speaker 2: it's your brain pulling a trick on you, because it's

1297
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,320
Speaker 2: same with onions and stuff. Like you really when I

1298
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 2: read that Alan Carr book about drinking and how alcohol

1299
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 2: doesn't taste good and any and the same one with

1300
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 2: the caffeine book, Like if you give a child something

1301
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 2: and they go like that equals.

1302
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: It doesn't taste good. And we all have to get

1303
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: to enjoy coffee. We all have to get past that tomato.

1304
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to deal with vegetables a lot of

1305
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 4: the time. It's like you have to push through it

1306
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 4: and like you have to trick your brain.

1307
00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 2: And put oils and sweets, like that's why carameling onions

1308
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: makes them good.

1309
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 4: Like grilled onions great.

1310
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 1: But the feeling I think.

1311
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,640
Speaker 2: We get mixed up with, Like I taselthing tastes good

1312
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 2: because it gives me the feeling because it's all kind

1313
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 2: of like the same but still the ritual and oh

1314
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 2: my god, oh the Starbucks ritual. Opening the door of

1315
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 2: a Starbucks is what I'm there for, Putting holding that

1316
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 2: cup in my hand. The warm if it's a cup

1317
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 2: without the handwarmer, not as good as a drink. I'm

1318
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 2: not tasting the can warm. It's all a lie, but

1319
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 2: it tastes different to me.

1320
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 4: With the ritual is so important that the Starbucks that

1321
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 4: I walked to every morning by my house was close

1322
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 4: for like they were redesigning it for like two weeks.

1323
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 4: So I was going to a different Starbucks and like

1324
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 4: redesign it, yeah, like they I guess they're.

1325
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 1: A new mural on the wall kind of yeah.

1326
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 4: Justifying that we like unions. But like you, they close

1327
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 4: for two weeks, and I was going to this other

1328
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 4: Starbucks and it was really terrible, Like I hated the

1329
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 4: Southern Starbucks and now the new one that's opened again,

1330
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:08,760
Speaker 4: and they all I wanted, it turns out, was them

1331
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 4: to be like, hey, Sean, how are you? They know

1332
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 4: my name? That's all I've wanted. Yep, they a bar,

1333
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 4: it's a bartend. It's the same.

1334
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 2: Oh my Starbucks, the one I go to in Saint

1335
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 2: Louis and the one I go to here when I

1336
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: mobile order, they fucking rush that ship. They know I

1337
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 2: am and they wink when they hand it to me,

1338
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 2: like it's so good. It's the best, the best, and

1339
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 2: they make it. You can taste the love in it. Yeah,

1340
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: it's but nothing bugs me more than a Starbucks.

1341
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 1: That's like, you know, do you get lattes?

1342
00:58:41,120 --> 00:58:41,240
Speaker 9: No?

1343
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: You don't? You get Yeah, you have no fun with coffee.

1344
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 4: I have no fun with coffee. I'm a black But

1345
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 4: like Aaron gets the fun drink of the month every day,

1346
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 4: she does. Yeah, So like right now, it's like a Chris.

1347
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 1: I want to be that person so badly.

1348
00:58:56,320 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 4: That's a fun person milk latte. Uh hell yes, And

1349
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 4: she does that and I'm like.

1350
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 1: Cool, that's a good couple.

1351
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 4: As getting the alcohol drink.

1352
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: It's different, yes, And I want to be that person too,

1353
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 2: But I'm never going to be that person. And I

1354
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 2: don't hate that person. I want to make a distinction.

1355
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 2: It sounded like I hated that person. I don't relate

1356
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 2: to you on any level. Someone being like because that's

1357
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 2: someone who doesn't have an eating disorder of any kind

1358
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 2: to me, because they're.

1359
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 4: Just like the.

1360
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 2: Sugar bomb and have And I'm going to risk calories

1361
00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 2: for a new taste, not on my watch. Not if

1362
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get calories, I want exactly what the calories

1363
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 2: I want are.

1364
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 7: Some people go through the menu too, and they're like,

1365
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 7: I don't know what I'm getting and they always get

1366
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 7: the same three things.

1367
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 2: Oh someone who goes when someone's if you're winning the

1368
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 2: line and you get to the front of line and

1369
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 2: you do it, I mean walk in front of traffic,

1370
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 2: like on the way out. Have that be your last

1371
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 2: because I can't get in and this is a dining

1372
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 2: out too. Look at your menus then shut. Let's all

1373
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:09,760
Speaker 2: shut our menus to send a message. Yes, let's get

1374
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:11,919
Speaker 2: our order in before other tables.

1375
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't believe intele epathy on last time at

1376
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 4: a restaurant because like what I have decided, I'm like

1377
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 4: trying to sync up with they like all right, come,

1378
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 4: we're ready now.

1379
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: But I love dining out so much. It's my favorite

1380
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 1: thing in the whole world.

1381
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 7: I like dining out, but with purpose, like you got it.

1382
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 7: It's not it can be a long dinner, but.

1383
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 4: I want to get long dinner I love, but I

1384
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 4: want to get it in.

1385
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 7: I want to get the appetizers in. I need apps

1386
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 7: within the first five to ten minutes.

1387
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: I don't care for apps. I want all the food

1388
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: out at once or that's even bad. But I don't

1389
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: mind if other people eat apps. I like watching people.

1390
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 2: But I will say we went out to lunch before

1391
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 2: the Jets game last week, uh huh, and we got

1392
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 2: with I and me Columbus Circle in Columbus Circle. And

1393
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 2: then I got back to the hotel room and I

1394
01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 2: was said to Chris, I was like, I gotta tell you,

1395
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 2: that's all I want to do in my life is

1396
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 2: just sit at a table with funny people by funny

1397
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 2: friends who we kind of all know each other but

1398
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 2: like all kind of don't like we're still like getting

1399
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 2: to share news stories and like it was so satisfying.

1400
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 2: I just love going out to eat with friends. And

1401
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 2: I need let me just say, did you hear I

1402
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 2: said friends, I don't really like dining with one.

1403
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 4: On one on one. No, I don't alone.

1404
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:28,560
Speaker 1: The thing I learned about myself no.

1405
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, no conversation. Yeah, I love. I love basically this

1406
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 4: is so like curb your enthusiasm coded in me. But

1407
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 4: I love a six person table. I like kind of

1408
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 4: being in the.

1409
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 1: Middle, yes, because you're what's it called.

1410
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:53,480
Speaker 4: Or like yeah, like I love like that's like my

1411
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,920
Speaker 4: dream scenarios, just always doing that.

1412
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 1: I I love it. And this is what this podcast is.

1413
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 2: Stuff we're not eating, but we should eat.

1414
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 4: We should restaurant. Be so upset Phil Rosenthal they eat

1415
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 4: on his podcast and it's always it's so hard to

1416
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 4: listen to.

1417
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, unless it's ASMR and it's like exactly the

1418
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 2: way I want. But diet coke I'm back on. It's

1419
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 2: never going away. I just heard Heather McMahon on social

1420
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 2: media talking about how she was off diet coke for

1421
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 2: fifteen years or something and she's back on it.

1422
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 4: Well, she thought diet coke killed her dad.

1423
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:36,439
Speaker 9: Really ye oh no, that's what she put Like, how

1424
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 9: like in the music fire Away, was he like run

1425
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 9: over by a die?

1426
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 4: Now he had twenty five and he drove his fucking Camaro.

1427
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 1: It's a clut.

1428
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 2: Everyone has so much guilt around it, and I'm like,

1429
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 2: I don't understand why, but we all must know that

1430
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 2: it's just terrible for us because of the hold it

1431
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:53,439
Speaker 2: has on us.

1432
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:55,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm obsessed with it.

1433
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: Why I can't say why I am.

1434
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I really feel like if di if they outlawed

1435
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 4: diet coke, I might like jump off.

1436
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 7: In Europe, they don't have diet coke. They just have

1437
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 7: coke zero.

1438
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:10,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I don't.

1439
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 2: I had one the other day and I was like,

1440
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm in Europe, like, yeah, it doesn't

1441
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 2: hit the spot, and it does hit.

1442
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,800
Speaker 4: In Europe though, I don't know, maybe just because you

1443
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 4: don't have another option.

1444
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 7: Maybe ice, Yeah, ice makes Europe.

1445
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,959
Speaker 2: I'm sorry I will Some European vesties write me and say,

1446
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 2: why would a Why would you have a coke zero

1447
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 2: or any kind of soda and not want it to

1448
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 2: be cold?

1449
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,920
Speaker 1: Like why would you? Why would that make that beverage better?

1450
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 4: Is there?

1451
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 1: I just don't understand there's anyone that would enjoy it.

1452
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:45,960
Speaker 4: Are they just so smart about it knowing that like

1453
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 4: they'll like it more and they know they shouldn't like

1454
01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 4: it more that they're doing it.

1455
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: Oh, they're like trying to.

1456
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 4: They're doing it. Yes, dark chocolate.

1457
01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 5: Dark chocolate is good. It's delicious. It's better than milk chocolate.

1458
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 4: No, that's why.

1459
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 2: I don't ice. If it comes out really cold, but

1460
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:06,760
Speaker 2: then I have to chug it. But Europeans sip everything,

1461
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 2: so everything gets lukewarm. I want to understand why are

1462
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 2: like lukewarm, So.

1463
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 7: I would think is one they don't want the water

1464
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 7: to water down.

1465
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:17,280
Speaker 4: Their diet coke.

1466
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 7: They are taking it, yeah, and they're taking it well,

1467
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 7: and they just mainline in the diet coke. They just

1468
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 7: want to get all diet coke.

1469
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 4: You don't want to want need to be cold.

1470
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 1: And they're not.

1471
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 7: And it's not like it's not not cold though it's

1472
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 7: not like a hot hot.

1473
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 4: I think I.

1474
01:04:34,840 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 2: Would like you got at I would like it hot

1475
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 2: better than just like room to like I'm not really

1476
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 2: but like it's really almost susp.

1477
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 7: Ever tried to chug die coke after being hungover, Oh,

1478
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 7: it almost kills you. You almost blow up like a seagulls.

1479
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 4: Like insane. Cold diet coke though when you're hungover is incredible,

1480
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,320
Speaker 4: Like I could probably drink like I guess, I guess

1481
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 4: not to quench your third pond of it.

1482
01:04:57,400 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: I woke up in the middle of night last night

1483
01:04:58,720 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 1: and all I had was diet coke.

1484
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 2: I mean there was tap water, but.

1485
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 1: My killed mother's dad, so I was like, I'm not

1486
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: doing that.

1487
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 2: So I cracked open a die coke and I remember

1488
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 2: counting the chugs. I did ten chugs and just set

1489
01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 2: it down and then went back to sleep, and I

1490
01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 2: woke this morning to it. It was It was insane.

1491
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 2: But I've always been a chugger. I remember my dad

1492
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 2: as a kid being.

1493
01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: Like Jesus Christ, slow down. I just like chug things

1494
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:27,439
Speaker 1: really hard.

1495
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 4: Do you eat dinner fast as kids like to get it?

1496
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 4: I eat fast, I drank fast.

1497
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: I do everything fast.

1498
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah. I ate as slow as humanly, really.

1499
01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 2: Or the slowest eater. I'm very envious of it. It's

1500
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:40,360
Speaker 2: a very great habitat.

1501
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 4: Do you enjoy your parents' conversations? No, I just want

1502
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 4: to savor the food.

1503
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 5: He licks cats.

1504
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't eats.

1505
01:05:50,000 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 2: I'm starting I say kit cat, and then I will

1506
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 2: adjust because no one knows what you're saying big cat.

1507
01:05:54,120 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 2: If I say he licks big cats.

1508
01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, you sound like Trump.

1509
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 1: You're not HATI you just are patient.

1510
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 4: Wait wait, brought back a kit cat kick.

1511
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 2: So there's a kit cat. There's a big kick out

1512
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 2: called a big cat. So I started, believe me, I

1513
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 2: know the it's great.

1514
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 4: It's really honestly, it's cat.

1515
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:24,320
Speaker 2: Brian to savor it, will lick it, nibble it, it

1516
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:28,240
Speaker 2: will he could probably suck on a kit cat like

1517
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 2: a John Mellon cat sucking on kit cats.

1518
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 1: On the set of That Boy Island.

1519
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:39,760
Speaker 2: You and and like just take little nibbles and like

1520
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 2: savor it.

1521
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:42,600
Speaker 4: It's it's where do you put it? You just keep

1522
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 4: it in the wrapper.

1523
01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 5: You don't keep it in the melts you got. You

1524
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 5: gotta be very careful about that because it will melt

1525
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 5: in your head. Melting kit cats is horrend That's why.

1526
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, that makes sense.

1527
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I eat it fast because the dopamine is

1528
01:06:57,880 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 2: like you want get more more, but you get a

1529
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 2: little addiction.

1530
01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 5: Little nibblets of dopamine over the hours.

1531
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 4: La you're eating it over courts of suff That is

1532
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 4: kid hours something to do the same because you don't

1533
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 4: want and it's just not.

1534
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,480
Speaker 2: A big He does not need restraint to do this.

1535
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:21,520
Speaker 2: It is his natural way like all of us. But

1536
01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 2: we'd be like, you know, it's insane.

1537
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 7: Spend spend the friend and you're a kid and you

1538
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 7: go to like circle K with three of your boys

1539
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 7: and you all get your boy.

1540
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 4: Your buddy is like three hours later.

1541
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 7: After playing football and you're like you're still on that

1542
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:40,919
Speaker 7: Oh my god.

1543
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 4: Like my friends would have destroyed that, Like my friends

1544
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 4: have destroyed all all joy in my life. Yeah that

1545
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:52,439
Speaker 4: I would never do high school drama because of them.

1546
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 4: Like I like, honestly, if I had like a Snickers

1547
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 4: and I licked it in front of them, Like, honestly,

1548
01:07:59,680 --> 01:08:03,120
Speaker 4: I got how gay for watching straight porn that had

1549
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 4: a guy in it?

1550
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:08,280
Speaker 2: I was. I asked Sean the other day, like, I

1551
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 2: forget how you got into stand up, Like did you

1552
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 2: do plays in high school? And he was like I

1553
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 2: really wanted to, but I couldn't because my friends made

1554
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 2: fun of me.

1555
01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, that is such bullshit.

1556
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I got cast in a play and they made

1557
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 4: fun of me so much that I quit the play,

1558
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 4: like lighting down my drama teacher, who I was. I love.

1559
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,439
Speaker 7: It is kind of funny to do that too, when

1560
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,679
Speaker 7: you're like, we played sports, we were decent, We're pretty

1561
01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 7: good at sports, but I wasn't good enough to give

1562
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 7: up on something else. Yeah yeah, yeah, it's just yeah,

1563
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 7: but you would be called gay in high school.

1564
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:44,519
Speaker 2: But I really can remember every guy. I remember any

1565
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 2: meal that I've eaten slowly because it's taken so much

1566
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 2: strength and determination. Well I've had to do it, you know,

1567
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:54,200
Speaker 2: in front of if I'm at like lunch with an

1568
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 2: agent when I was twenty four or something, you know,

1569
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 2: like I literally can remember every single time I've ever eaten.

1570
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 2: I'm like a normal person. Yeah it had to eat

1571
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 2: or on a date or something, and I'm chewing with

1572
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 2: my mouth clothed, like, but it's it's not something that

1573
01:09:06,600 --> 01:09:07,599
Speaker 2: comes naturally to me at all.

1574
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 4: You're you're right, but like when I get if you

1575
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 4: get like a seafood tower with like your agent, Like

1576
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 4: I'm all of a sudden in my head being like, well,

1577
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 4: technically I'm supposed to have another one, but I also

1578
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 4: know I should wait because they're like they're normal. You're

1579
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 4: feeling judged, you know, Yeah, I'm not.

1580
01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 2: I'm not picking up the broccolini stocks with my hands,

1581
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 2: which is the way to eat broccolini in my opinion,

1582
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 2: I have to like cut it and then not eat

1583
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 2: the stem that I want to eat because I'm trying

1584
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 2: to look how and I get proud of myself, like

1585
01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm like a like I can't imagine being someone who

1586
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:44,400
Speaker 2: doesn't finish everything on their plate that they like. Like

1587
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 2: I imagine if you don't like a thing, leave it,

1588
01:09:46,600 --> 01:09:48,439
Speaker 2: but if you liked it, and you're just like, no,

1589
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 2: I'm just good.

1590
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:50,280
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't.

1591
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 7: I get in ways where I'll make noise like you

1592
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:56,799
Speaker 7: don't really, I don't realize what I'm doing. Yeah, yeah,

1593
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 7: and I'm licking my fingers and then I look up

1594
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 7: and people are like, it looks like I've murdered a

1595
01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:06,600
Speaker 7: fucking hooker and I don't know. It's just terrible and

1596
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 7: I don't realize it. And I try to get to

1597
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 7: a state when you're eating.

1598
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:12,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I get yeah, I get it. Yeah, I think

1599
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:13,680
Speaker 4: I know. I feel you.

1600
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:15,519
Speaker 7: I've done things where I like, I'll put like a

1601
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 7: like a mint in my mouth and try not to

1602
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:23,120
Speaker 7: chew on it, like to test myself within seconds i'm chewing.

1603
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 4: I think that I like suck the color off of

1604
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 4: eminem peanuts that I just But.

1605
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 2: Because when I'm eating something i'm a little bit ashamed

1606
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 2: of eating, I want it. I want to almost as

1607
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 2: a part of me that's like I want to be

1608
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 2: done feeling the shame. So I want to eat it

1609
01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 2: fast to get it out of the way, and I

1610
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 2: don't enjoy It's such a food. Addiction is such a

1611
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 2: fucked thing because you don't any addiction when you're in

1612
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 2: the throes of it, you're not enjoying the thing that

1613
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 2: you are doing that you are rearranging your life around

1614
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:57,719
Speaker 2: to do. You can't even enjoy it while you're doing it.

1615
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 2: The shame afterwards makes you want to do it more

1616
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 2: because it's the only way you can feel better about

1617
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:04,160
Speaker 2: the thing you just did, and it leads to more shame.

1618
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: It's so fucked. But like most of the time I'm eating,

1619
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm not like this is delicious.

1620
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 7: It's like if I get a Domino's flat flat bread,

1621
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:15,599
Speaker 7: not the flat bread whatever that crust.

1622
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, the first half I'm I don't even know I'm

1623
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:18,640
Speaker 4: eating it.

1624
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 7: No, But the last three I finally can taste it,

1625
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 7: you know, I finally because it's big enough. I gotta

1626
01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 7: get the large you gotta you gotta eat one something first.

1627
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 4: You're so youngry, you gotta.

1628
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 5: A bunch of vegetables that you're not hungry.

1629
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 2: I eating before meals so that I can maybe eat

1630
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 2: a little bit normally and not be so out of control,

1631
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 2: like have a decent snack that just gives me something

1632
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 2: that i'm because I always think that I'm never going

1633
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 2: to be full, Like there's never enough, Like I I

1634
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 2: there's some delusion in my mind that is my body

1635
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:54,839
Speaker 2: will never.

1636
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 1: Just be like, no, I'm good, because it is true.

1637
01:11:58,280 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 1: I'm almost never just fully.

1638
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 2: The only time I know him full is if I'm

1639
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 2: about to throw up, Like I don't understand being like

1640
01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 2: I'm good.

1641
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 4: Ever, my stomach blow. That's the key. I blow it

1642
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 4: and I go, Okay, I'm blowed.

1643
01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 7: I can't I can't move, I can't breathe. I have

1644
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 7: trouble breathing.

1645
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:15,679
Speaker 5: That's why you got to eat slow, because then you wait,

1646
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:17,599
Speaker 5: your brain's got to catch up to your stomach.

1647
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 4: I don't know. I wish I could do it, likesking.

1648
01:12:20,360 --> 01:12:22,840
Speaker 1: A cigarette like slow, Like that's not a thing.

1649
01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 4: Those down. I'm just rushing through everything to get to

1650
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 4: the next thing. I rushed through, yes, like.

1651
01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 7: The funny at part to it, Like all we're talking

1652
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 7: about is how coffee we drink, and I don't know

1653
01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 7: why we do.

1654
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:42,600
Speaker 5: I've just is this related because I don't drink caffeine?

1655
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I drink so much caffeine. I'm insane.

1656
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:51,320
Speaker 2: I think there's something like if like a chaotic house,

1657
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,720
Speaker 2: comfortable and chaos. And what I've learned from therapy is

1658
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 2: that I'm either comfortable being really really depressed or really

1659
01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:01,679
Speaker 2: really anxious and flying high and like they're not stopping

1660
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:05,639
Speaker 2: and that's that steadiness in between feels like death.

1661
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I have that too though, like I'm dying slow. Yeah.

1662
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 5: My therapist said that I'm my most stressed when everything's

1663
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:12,719
Speaker 5: going well.

1664
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 4: Yes, well you want to keep it well.

1665
01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 2: There's no reason why human beings should have ever felt

1666
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:21,280
Speaker 2: well and safe. It is not like when we used

1667
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 2: to have to survive to live. No one, there's no comfort.

1668
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 2: There was no like just basking and like vacationing. It

1669
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 2: was always like you're either you know, being eaten or

1670
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:32,920
Speaker 2: you have to find a way to eat and survive

1671
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:35,320
Speaker 2: and your kids are dying and you're getting fucking raped.

1672
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 2: It's like it was just fight or fly constantly. There

1673
01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 2: was never a moment in a cave person's life of

1674
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna chill.

1675
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 4: I love. I think even in like the last the

1676
01:13:47,320 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 4: last like one hundred and thirty years are the only

1677
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:52,559
Speaker 4: time that's ever been really good.

1678
01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 5: Ever, well, it depends if you were if you were

1679
01:13:55,560 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 5: like in the aristocracy, were stumpy, you were just disgusting.

1680
01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 5: You definitely had all these weird STDs that like, but

1681
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 5: you didn't know better than that, You didn't, but.

1682
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:11,560
Speaker 4: They drove you insane, Like yes, like basically like a

1683
01:14:12,200 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 4: king in the sixteen hundred, it's like had like I

1684
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,960
Speaker 4: had a syphilitic brain, yeah, and like it was still

1685
01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 4: living better than most people. Wow, but it's also insane.

1686
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 5: Three hundred years from now, people are going to look

1687
01:14:24,680 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 5: back at our lives and be like, can you believe

1688
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 5: that people died?

1689
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's so weird.

1690
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,599
Speaker 1: Well, now phones are destroying our lives.

1691
01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 2: And I saw a thing TikTok that is probably not true,

1692
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 2: but like phones are emitting radiation and like you should

1693
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 2: not sleep with your phone next to your head, You

1694
01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 2: shouldn't have it even near your face. Now I'm like

1695
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 2: holding my dog and like the phone will be next

1696
01:14:47,960 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 2: to the dog, and I'm like, God, get it away,

1697
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 2: Like so that's still that's true. I'm like going fucking

1698
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 2: nuts about it.

1699
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 4: I think it's one.

1700
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:54,600
Speaker 1: TikTok about it.

1701
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 2: It's ruined my life and it was some girl that

1702
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:59,759
Speaker 2: I'm sure I don't agree with anything else you believed.

1703
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 4: Listen, I'm so worried about that, finding out that we

1704
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 4: were just lied to because it was easier to get

1705
01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 4: us all to use cell phones than like whatever the

1706
01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 4: like landlines. I'm worried about that. I'm worried about Wi Fi,

1707
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:15,599
Speaker 4: Like is it okay? Wi Fi? Yes? Let's like you know,

1708
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:17,759
Speaker 4: emitting over our heads at all times.

1709
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 3: Bluetooth the AirPods, like sending the Bluetooth waves to your god.

1710
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:26,600
Speaker 5: Oh no, well we're there's no escaping and truly, but

1711
01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 5: it's better.

1712
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 4: Than getting technology.

1713
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 2: We're getting your like wires snagged on a door, like

1714
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 2: on your ear.

1715
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 4: Pop getting pulled off.

1716
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. More uncomfortable than a brain tumors.

1717
01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 4: The phones too big for your pocket. Would you rather

1718
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:44,280
Speaker 4: be torn apart by wolves or get a brain tumor

1719
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:48,639
Speaker 4: from from watching like any video you want to watch?

1720
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:51,920
Speaker 1: Tear my tumor out if.

1721
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:54,640
Speaker 7: The want oolvate your body like how Brian neats a

1722
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 7: big cat.

1723
01:15:56,200 --> 01:16:04,120
Speaker 1: Just everyone, it's just finished, all right, we gotta go.

1724
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:05,599
Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much. This is such a fun

1725
01:16:05,640 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 2: week of podcasting. Sean O'Connor, what's your.

1726
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 4: O'conns on all social media?

1727
01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:15,439
Speaker 2: Seanz s E A N O C O n z

1728
01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 2: on all social media. Brian Frangie, please go watch this

1729
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 2: is your Country. That is the tim Dillon Netflix special

1730
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:28,720
Speaker 2: that Brian show ran and yeah, go watch more than

1731
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:29,679
Speaker 2: five minutes of it.

1732
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 4: Watch the whole thing.

1733
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 5: Wat it's on midnight, well two days ago, but tonight

1734
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:38,280
Speaker 5: really in real life?

1735
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:38,840
Speaker 1: Hell yeah.

1736
01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:44,480
Speaker 2: Andrew Colin follow him, Listen to his podcast, The Podcast.

1737
01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:51,240
Speaker 4: With No No, Not that cool Andrew and co.

1738
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:56,120
Speaker 7: On Instagram. Yeah, don't forget. I'm thinking about writing on

1739
01:16:56,160 --> 01:16:58,800
Speaker 7: there again. It's like over there.

1740
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:04,639
Speaker 9: Yeah, and I've thought about Fred's.

1741
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:09,320
Speaker 2: And then I'm on tour a ton coming up Windsor,

1742
01:17:09,400 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 2: Ontario this Friday, which is very much near Detroit.

1743
01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: And then the following week is Syracu. No, that's not right.

1744
01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:23,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be yeah, Syracuse, got it right, Hershey, Pennsylvania.

1745
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 2: And then the following week look for me. Oh, I'm

1746
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 2: gonna be in Miami for Aerostoor and Andrews's wedding.

1747
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:33,759
Speaker 1: Come on out for that, and then.

1748
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 2: And then Fort Lauderdale at the end of October Fort

1749
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 2: Myers and and that'll be some fun shows. So go

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Speaker 2: check out my tour schedule Nikki glazer dot com slash tourz.

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Speaker 2: Also Oklahoma City where else we got going Tulsa, Oklahoma,

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01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 2: Just doing an Oklahoma to so many dates, so many

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Speaker 2: more air stores coming up.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna go under. I'm ready. I'm thinking about what

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Speaker 4: air I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, you're gonna what are you gonna dress?

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Speaker 9: As?

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Speaker 4: Boys?

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Speaker 6: Do it?

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Speaker 1: Get a funny shirt or something. There's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: like it's me, Hi, I'm the boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: It's me.

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Speaker 2: It's like, you know, like swifty by peer pressure, you know,

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Speaker 2: that's where you can everyone has like funny. There's actually

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Speaker 2: a really cool shirt that is like you know, like

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Speaker 2: the fake swimsuit shirts that are like painted on, but

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Speaker 2: it's her like body suit.

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Speaker 1: Or that's really I saw a guy wearing. It's so funny.

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Speaker 1: I'll send it to you, all right, That's what I do.

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll see out there. Don't be a bye.

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