1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: This is the Eds with Eddie Judge and Edwin ado 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 1: Yave the husband's know best at two Tease Production. Welcome 3 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: to the EDS podcast. My name is Eddie Judge. 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: And I'm Edwin Ariabe. 5 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: How are you, Edwin? 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 2: I'm doing all right, man, Good to see you again. 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: Good to see you too. Anything new? 8 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: Not much, just getting ready for the birthday and excited 9 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: to have a good time. 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: What's the what birthdays is? 11 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: Oh? This is forty seven years old? 12 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: Forty seven? 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 14 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,240 Speaker 1: Are you at all worried about getting to fifty? 15 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 2: I want to have a big fiftieth bash I haven't had. 16 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 2: I haven't had like a true birthday. Well, my last 17 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 2: six birthdays we've been celebrating at Coachella, which is always 18 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: a fun time. But I haven't had like a grand 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,959 Speaker 2: birthday since I think I was thirty two, So right 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 2: before I found out that I was having a daughter, 21 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: I decided to go all out on it. And it 22 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 2: was right before I met Teddy, because I met Teddy 23 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 2: eight months after that. But I was thirty two and 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: I just threw this big bash red carpet. Teddy always 25 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 2: makes fun of me because she says I paid for 26 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: the models that were there and I not paid for them. 27 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 2: I knew them. What I did get I actually did though, 28 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 2: to get free tequila. I was posing with the tequila, 29 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 2: taking pictures with a bunch of girls around me. So 30 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 2: when you're walking through my birthday, you're just seeing me 31 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: with my arms open. I got a white suit, no 32 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: shirt under, and I'm taking pictures with this tequila company 33 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: just so I can get free tequila for my birthday. 34 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: So she's always making fun of me about that bash, 35 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 2: But that was my last birthday bash, So I might 36 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: do it for my fiftieth, and I probably just invite 37 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 2: everybody I know. 38 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: Awesome. 39 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 2: So you love dividing people from all walks of life 40 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 2: and then just seeing them get together and end up 41 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 2: having a good time. 42 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 1: Oh I love that. I love that. 43 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you bring all your affluent friends, I bring 44 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: all my friends that I'm still very good friends with, 45 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: like everybody that I grew up with in junior high. 46 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 2: Oh wow, and uh, and just mix them all in 47 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: and just have a blast. You know. 48 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: That's awesome. 49 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 2: Work people and you know, just everybody street people and 50 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 2: let them figure it out. You know, I'm just like, yeah, 51 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 2: they'll figure it out. You know. Sometimes you get in 52 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 2: your end, You're you're in your head too much, Like 53 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: are these people gonna be able to hang with these people? 54 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 2: And it's gonna be weird. What I've always found is 55 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: when you do that mix, the whatever we want to 56 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: call them, the real affluent people end up having the 57 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 2: time of their life. 58 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: Yes, because the other. 59 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 2: People just make them get loose and it's just a 60 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: big party. I love it. Yeah, they're not when you 61 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: go to these like very like freaking I don't know, 62 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: fundraisers or those type of parties where it's just very 63 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: uh to what I'm looking for. 64 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: Stuffy, stuffy, Yes, yes, I hate. 65 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 2: It's just like you know, you bring everybody together, you 66 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: get those stuffy people to get loose, that's when it 67 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 2: becomes fun. Totally get it. 68 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: Well, let's get into our fourth episode. Yeah, we're going 69 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: to talk about something very interesting today. To get the 70 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: mail perspective, we would like to talk about a topic. 71 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: The topic is going to be what are your thoughts 72 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: on beauty agent habits and lifestyle choices that stay that 73 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 1: keep you young or looking young, such as plastic surgery, 74 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: antip aging creams, and all these procedures in the world 75 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 1: which I'm not totally well versed on I don't know 76 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: how much you know about all the things out there 77 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: available to help you stay young, But let's talk about that. 78 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on our Wivee's gating plastic surgery? 79 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: Let's start with that. 80 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 2: So boatox, I have no problem with I've actually done botox, Yeah, 81 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 2: I have. 82 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: When did you start that? 83 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 2: I started pretty young? Actually, I want to say I 84 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: started doing botox, but not like crazy, just in my forehead, 85 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: and you know, because I didn't want those crazy lines. 86 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: I want to say I started at maybe thirty two. 87 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: I think I started pretty young, right, but not like 88 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: every three months like I sucked at that. Maybe like 89 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: every eight months I'd go and do it, right, But 90 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 2: like I never had a problem with that one, right, 91 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: I sobs. I don't have a problem with Teddy doing it. 92 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 2: It's funny the first time Teddy caught me doing it 93 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: because I didn't tell her for a while. Right. I 94 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 2: come home and I'm thinking she's not going to notice, 95 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: and she's all like, what's all that red shit on 96 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: your forehead? And I'm like, what are you talking about? 97 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about. She's like, no, 98 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: did you get both talks. I'm like, no, what you 99 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: what are you talking about? Red ended? But anyway, so 100 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: that I don't have a problem with I do have 101 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 2: a problem right now with women injecting their lips to 102 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: an extreme, and I think that's happening more and more 103 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: and more. And I always tell Teddy, like, do not 104 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: do this extreme thing on your lips, because it's just 105 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 2: to me, it is not sexy. Like, I love big lips. 106 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: Does she do that? Does she put on her in jail? 107 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: I got a reminder, don't you get any of those ideas. 108 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: Teddy's always had great lips. It's why it's one of 109 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: my favorite features about her. Yeah, but you know it's 110 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 2: scary because I see like people are just getting overboard 111 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 2: with that. Yeah, right, Like I love big lips, but 112 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: I don't like stuff that looks fake. Yes, you know 113 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like the boobs that are just too 114 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: gigantic where it's just obvious that they're fake. Like, yeah, 115 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 2: I don't like that. I'm a so I've always been 116 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 2: a big booty guy. Yeah, I've always liked the small 117 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 2: waist and the big booty, Like that's always been my 118 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: my thing as a man that I like about women. 119 00:05:55,600 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: And now like like Kardashian big booty or big booty 120 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: like athletic. 121 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: Athletic like natural big booty. Right, So, like, I think 122 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: the reason I never was into boobs as much is 123 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 2: because once I kind of felt everybody had fake boobs. 124 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 2: I kind of didn't really find it that appealing, right, 125 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 2: because it was kind of like in my head, it's fake. 126 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 2: Now it's happening with booties, where like everyone's getting fake booties. 127 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 2: And now I can't tell a real one from a 128 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: from a fake one. 129 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: Oh, you have to touch it? 130 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but only the only tipe I can touch 131 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 2: is my wives, and that one's real. But but yeah, 132 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 2: I can't, Like I can't. I don't know what's a 133 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 2: good one, what's a bad one? 134 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: So what about antilists or you. 135 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 2: Know those scary as well? So I always liked the 136 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 2: natural look. I think women that age naturally look very 137 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 2: I mean, and again, you could tune it up, but 138 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: I think what ends up happening is when people go 139 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: overboard with it and they all start looking the same. Right, 140 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 2: So for since like in the ear, I don't know 141 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 2: if it was the late nineties or early two thousands, 142 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,239 Speaker 2: maybe it was in the nineties, Remember all the women 143 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: were looking like lions. Yes, that was the thing. They 144 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: were all like this right, so and they all started 145 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 2: to look the same right now and again for all 146 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 2: I know it's an app but I feel like they're 147 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 2: all starting to look like Kim Kardashian. Yeah, and I 148 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 2: see the most beautiful women and I'm like, what the 149 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: hell did you just do to your face? What did 150 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 2: you do to your lips? What did you And I'm 151 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 2: just like, now it looks fake, which is even worse. Yeah, 152 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: So I think if you could do it subtly and 153 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 2: you can't tell all for it, but when people go 154 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 2: and I do think that people don't even realize that 155 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 2: they're doing it, and before you know it, they're like 156 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 2: looking very you know, aggressive with their work. Let's just 157 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 2: put it to you that way. 158 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: Do you think if your thoughts on Teddy was not 159 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: on the show, do you think she still do anything? 160 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 2: Like? You know, she. 161 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: Does the lips, the what does she do? No? 162 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 2: She she I know she got a something with her chin. 163 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: Okay, so she did ch Is that what it's called 164 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: chin lift? 165 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: I think? So? Yeah? Which that one I didn't mind. 166 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 2: I didn't think she needed it. I was like, dude, 167 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 2: what are you doing? You don't need it. She does 168 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: the botox okay, and she doesn't inject her lips. She 169 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: does this whole thing that I think pumps the lips. Yeah. Right. 170 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: But sometimes I'll see a picture and I'm like, hey, Teddy, 171 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 2: you didn't do any of your lips, right, Yeah, that's 172 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 2: my thing. Do not touch the lips. I like lips 173 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: the way they are. 174 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: Speaking of lips, there is something out there that my 175 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: wife uses on her lips that stimulates a little bit 176 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: of plumpiness. I don't know. 177 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: I think that's what Teddy uses. 178 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 1: Is that what it is? Because every time I kiss her, 179 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: I might lips start to swell, like what did I 180 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: just get stung by a d What the I don't 181 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: like it? So I don't know what chemicals are in there, 182 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: but swell. No. I make sure she definitely cleans it 183 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 1: up because I don't want to be itching for a 184 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: couple of days. Do you think that they feel a 185 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: lot of public pressure to be, like, you know, doing 186 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: these things because they're on TV? Or is it just 187 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:27,119 Speaker 1: like them. 188 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 2: Well, I don't even know. It's I think it's just 189 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 2: women in general. Right now, there's a lot of pressure 190 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 2: with just Instagram and everyone looking good all the time, 191 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 2: or seemingly like they're looking good. You don't know what's 192 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 2: real and what's not anymore, right, So I think that's 193 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 2: the dangerous part, is you're seeing these pictures of other women. Yeah, 194 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: but they don't exactly look like that, right, So you know, 195 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 2: it's it's it's figuring out what's real what's not. And 196 00:09:55,440 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 2: I think it's making sure that you're still seeing it 197 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 2: from the right lens. I mean this might be off topic, 198 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: but kind of the same thing. So I've always been 199 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:13,439 Speaker 2: about my abs, right, And in fact, when I when 200 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 2: I was growing up, I would always do my AB 201 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 2: workout and I always had to talk about visualization. I 202 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 2: always at a Calvin climbox in my closet, so every 203 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: time i'd get dressed, i'd see that Calvin climbox, you know, 204 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: the one with the ripped abs, right. And then when 205 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 2: Fight Club came out, that was like my poster that 206 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: I would hang and I would just see that thing 207 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 2: all the time, right, Like, I'm a little obsessed with abs, right, 208 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 2: And there are times where I'll look and I'll tell Teddy, like, 209 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: am I losing my abs? And she's like, I don't 210 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 2: know what the hell you're talking about, Like you look, 211 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 2: you look pretty shredded. I'm like, yeah, no, I don't 212 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 2: think so like I'm and it's like in my head, 213 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 2: I have to remember maybe it's I'm seeing something that 214 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: is not real, which is I'm I'm gaining what I'm 215 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,319 Speaker 2: losing my ass, But I wanted so. I know it's 216 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: happened to me and it could happen to women too. 217 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 2: But they're seeing something that is not real. Does that 218 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: make sense? 219 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, like it's fake. 220 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 2: I mean like they're thinking I need to look this way, 221 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 2: but they're they're actually beautiful. 222 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I mean what I know is that some 223 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 1: of the most beautiful women and men are the most 224 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: insecure because they base their personality and their their confidence 225 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: on their looks. And to answer your question personally, I 226 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: I never ever thought I would be, you know, married 227 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: to a woman that has done Plaska surgery, that does 228 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: botogs and does you know some limp lip plumping. I'll 229 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: never forget she's only done you can count the. 230 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 2: Lip plumping though, right, or maybe you at it well 231 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 2: my wife. 232 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 1: I think it was probably five years ago. My wife 233 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 1: came home one day and she literally looked like Daffy 234 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: Duck and I could not stop laughing, and I'm like, 235 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: what the hell did you do to your lips? And 236 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: she was just miserable and pissed and you know, embarrassed, 237 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: and I'm like, don't ever, please, don't ever do that 238 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: to your lips again, because it looks silly. 239 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 2: You know. 240 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: But I've always been anti I call it fake, you know, 241 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: anti fake when it comes to plastic surgery. If you 242 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: if you're not secure with who you are and how 243 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: you are, and it's it's it's a problem because eventually 244 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 1: there's going to be a day where you can't do 245 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: anything to change who you are, right, So you have 246 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: to start with yourself and be confident and comfortable with 247 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: your own skin and where you're from, your culture, and 248 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: you know, the color of your hair if you have it, 249 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: you know, all these things that I was like, you know, 250 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 1: if you're going to be to me, sexy is staying 251 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: in shape, doing the work at the gym, you know, 252 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: sweating it out, eating healthy, and really showing the real 253 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: trueness of who you are. Doesn't matter what color skin 254 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: you are, how tall you are, and how short you are. 255 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: This is who you are, and if you put the 256 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 1: work in, I can almost guarantee you you're gonna look 257 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: dirty damn hot. 258 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 2: Right. 259 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: And there's you know, been some exceptions where I've seen 260 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: women who have the most incredible physiques ever, naturally right, 261 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: without drugs and all that, but their face is not 262 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: so much, you know, that attractive, and vice versa. I've 263 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: seen some women that have just the most beautiful face 264 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: and the body is very like jelly soft and you know, 265 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,599 Speaker 1: not very attractive. So I've always struggled with finding the 266 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: right woman, and I thought I did, and I think 267 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: I did with my wife. The only difference is that 268 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: she has had plastic surgery. She had a little facelift 269 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,319 Speaker 1: where she just did very subtly about years ago. 270 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 2: Well you can't even tell, so like like Tamra, I 271 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 2: think she's a natural, natural beauty. Like that's like there's 272 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 2: some women you look at and you're like, she got 273 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 2: plastic surgery, Yes you do. 274 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I've learned that there's a right and wrong 275 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: way of doing it right exactly. And I learned this 276 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: from my wife when she went in to get this 277 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: this facelift, I'm like, oh great, her forehead. You know, 278 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 1: it's going to be big and her eyes are going 279 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: to be in the top of her head, and I 280 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: want to do this. So when she did come out 281 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: of it, I was very impressed with it, and I'm like, okay, 282 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: so a little bit of here tuck nim here that 283 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: I'm okay with. Now, I'm also okay with you know, 284 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: non surgical procedures like face scrubs or face massage and 285 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: stuff like that. I've done one of those. It was 286 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: pretty amazing. But personally, I've never done both talks. I've 287 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: never done any of those things. I personally have always 288 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: been afraid of needles until recently, until you know, I was, 289 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: you know, I had my heart issue. 290 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 2: But you look pretty good without any boatoks. 291 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: Dude, no boat talks nothing yet. 292 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 2: Wow. 293 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 1: I I think that's what it is. Because even my 294 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: wife and other people that you know have seen me 295 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: in the sun and have all this, you know, some 296 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: block caked on them. They're like, how come you don't 297 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: wear any sunblock. I'm like, well, you know, I have 298 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: a pretty dark pigment skin, and yeah, sometimes I sunburn, 299 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 1: but not all the time because I don't in the 300 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: sun all the time. But my son, my skin can 301 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: handle it. 302 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 2: Right. Oh, don't say that in front of Teddy. She'll 303 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 2: tell you she'll kick your bed. Now I'm actually I'm 304 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 2: actually putting, which I never did before. I was like, you, 305 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: I go out, never put sunscreen. But after what happened 306 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 2: to Teddy, I'm like, all right, I'm putting sunscreen every time. 307 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm now I'm all about it. Yeah, well, you know what. 308 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 2: The other thing I've noticed, Eddie is what happened at 309 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 2: least what's happening to me like I wouldn't. Now that 310 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 2: I'm getting older, I'm geting all these spots in my 311 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: face that were from what I'm learning, it was from 312 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: all those years that I never put any damn sunscreen 313 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 2: on my ada. 314 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: How often on a daily basis do you get sun. 315 00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 2: I'm being I'm trying to be more intentional because I'm 316 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 2: trying to get my vitamin D going. I'm even taking 317 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 2: some vitamin d's. The doctor says it's good. So I 318 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 2: tried it in the mornings. I try to get some 319 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 2: sun now because I want to look tanned, but it 320 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: just puts me in a good mood, like vitamin D 321 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 2: is important for that, and uh yeah, so I try 322 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 2: to throughout the day, go out for a little walk 323 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 2: here and there, take a phone call out in the 324 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 2: sun before I get on the cold plunge. I'll spend 325 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 2: like ten fifteen minutes in the sun, but I normally 326 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 2: like doing it in the morning. 327 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll never forget this. When I was working at 328 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: the firm, and I was wearing a suit every day, 329 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: you know, because that was one of my goals is 330 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: to look sharp and go to work and be dressed 331 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: up and look important. It was probably two years of 332 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: that and I came home one day and I looked 333 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: at my skin and I was bright white. Like, wait 334 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: a minute, I thought I was Mexican. Why am I 335 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: turning white? You know, because I had not seen the 336 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: sun for so long because I was working my ass 337 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: off and you know, working through lunch, and if I 338 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: did go outside, I'm covered, you know, I'm in a 339 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: nice suit head to toe, and I'm not getting enough sun. 340 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: And now I really wasn't spending a lot of time 341 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: outdoors either. So it made me realize, this is why 342 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: I feel like shit, this is why my energy levels 343 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: are not good. And when I started getting sun again, 344 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: I started feeling normal again, and I'll never forget when 345 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: I was younger and I had all this time to 346 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,880 Speaker 1: work out and ride my bike. I used to tell 347 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: people I get solar energy when the sun hits me 348 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: on the bike. When I'm out there, I get so 349 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: energized I'm bouncing off the walls. And now as I 350 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: gotten older, you know, we spend so much time indoors 351 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,679 Speaker 1: that I hardly get sun. I have to intentionally, like 352 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 1: you like, make an effort to go out and get 353 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: some sun. And if I don't, I feel it. I 354 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 1: feel like I'm losing energy. So Son, I wanted just emphasize, 355 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: don't be afraid of it, but be careful how much 356 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,360 Speaker 1: you get right, because like anything too good, too much 357 00:17:53,400 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: of a good thing is it's ultimately about it. Back 358 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: to these procedures. I you know, the only thing I've 359 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 1: ever considered doing, because my wife has just been harping 360 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 1: on me and harping on me and harping me on 361 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: this is getting new teeth, you know, getting fake teeth. 362 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 1: Say you know you're on TV, you would better. I 363 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 1: don't think I have crooked bad teeth. Maybe I have 364 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,199 Speaker 1: one little crooked one, but again, I don't want to 365 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,400 Speaker 1: have fake teeth. I don't want to have fake anything 366 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: because one day I'm going to be like eighty years old, 367 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be insecure about it. You know. 368 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: I want to age gracefully and I want to be 369 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 1: able to go like, yeah, you know, I gotta I 370 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 1: gotta wrinkle there, and I got another wrinkle there, and 371 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: I got faking gray hair. You know, I'm not gonna 372 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: got my hair. 373 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: No, that was the same because I same thing with 374 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 2: with teeth, Like I'm like, yes, we have to shave 375 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 2: your entire teeth. I'm like, oh, I think I'll wait 376 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 2: till I start losing some teeth to do that. Like 377 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 2: if I go, if I started losing like six of 378 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 2: my teeth, which hopefully that doesn't happen, then I'll do it. 379 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: But I don't know if I want to take my 380 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 2: natural stuff out yet. You know, you know what I 381 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 2: have been messing with, which Teddy's gives me a hard time, which, 382 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 2: by the way, I just did it yesterday, which is 383 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 2: probably why I looked weird as hell is. I started 384 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 2: dying my beard. Really I never did before. I'd never 385 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 2: died my beard before. And then about month and a 386 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 2: half ago, Yeah, I saw a picture of Teddy and 387 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 2: I with my beard and it was like dark black. 388 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 2: Must have been like thirty four thirty five at the time, 389 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 2: and I'm like, let me try this beard thing. And 390 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: I've try to die go back to the dark because 391 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 2: I used to love my beard dark before, right, And 392 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 2: so I did it about a month and a half ago. 393 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 2: Teddy hates it for the first week, which again, I 394 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 2: just did it last night. I actually go to someone 395 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:53,679 Speaker 2: that does it. I don't like it the first two days, 396 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 2: but I did it a week prior to my birthday, 397 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 2: so on my birthday it looks better, so damn fake. 398 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 2: But I started doing that lately just to change it up. 399 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 2: I've always liked changing my look though I did long 400 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 2: hair Geordie hair, even though Teddy hates when I go along, 401 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 2: but I like messing with just different looks. Yeah, I 402 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 2: think that's kind of fun. I think it's fun when 403 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 2: when the girls do it too. I think that's what 404 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 2: I love about them being on the show and the 405 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 2: different looks they pop up with. That's, you know, one 406 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:26,360 Speaker 2: of the one of the great things that women do 407 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 2: that I love is just what they're well makeup artists 408 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 2: and and people that do the hair they have. They 409 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: could have so many different looks, and you know, not 410 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 2: that they look that much different, but it's almost like 411 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,520 Speaker 2: a different girl. Like, Wow, that's sexy. That's sexy. That's sexy. 412 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 2: So I love when they get all done up. And 413 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 2: but I also like the natural look. Like I always 414 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 2: tell Teddy when we're gonna take pictures, I'm like, just hair, flat, yeah, flat, simple, straight. 415 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,320 Speaker 2: I don't like. I don't like a lot of the 416 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 2: curls and the big hair. I've never been in a 417 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 2: big hair. 418 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 1: I like the to the side every day, every day, 419 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: like every day when you see her, would you like, 420 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: do you rather like to see her all decked out 421 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: dressed up makeup looking pretty or just you know, baseball 422 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: caps wets or shorts and lounge e what do you prefer? 423 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:25,920 Speaker 2: Like both? I like when she's natural on the makeup 424 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 2: because I think she's very beautiful. I don't. I mean, 425 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 2: I'll take it when she does it once in a while, 426 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 2: but I don't like the makeup all over where you're like, 427 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 2: you can tell you just put on a ton of makeup, right, 428 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 2: the long crazy eyelashes, right. I like a more subtle, 429 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 2: natural look, Yeah you do. But you know, on those 430 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 2: days where she's got to get a little crazy, I 431 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 2: guess it's a it's a that's good too. Yeah, I 432 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 2: mean that's that's a different that that's a different look. Well, 433 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 2: we'll role play when she's when she's uh, she's got 434 00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 2: that look on. 435 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 1: And because we're faming, maybe I won't hear. 436 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: As much as my wife. There might just be more 437 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 2: role playing on that one when she's all. 438 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 1: I love seeing my watch. My wife's just relaxed because 439 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 1: most of the year when she's filming, she's you know, different, different, 440 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: you know, outfits and all that, and it's very stressful 441 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 1: for her. But the good thing is is that she 442 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: is naturally beautiful. So I'm just telling her recently, I 443 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: just still love waking up to you in the morning 444 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 1: when you have no makeup and anything. You're beautiful, right. 445 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: I've only met maybe one other woman, not in a relationship, 446 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 1: but I saw her without makeup and it was scary 447 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: as hell. I would not be happy waking up to her. 448 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: You know, that sounds really fucking scary. So she was like, oh, 449 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 1: thank you, honey, But it's true. You know, I really 450 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: like the natural look. But while she's filmeding. She's got 451 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: different hair on, different makeup styles, different outfits. She always 452 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: has different styles and she always looks super super cute 453 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: and I love that, and it's it's great because she's 454 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 1: not into all these super expensive brands. I mean, she 455 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 1: likes s Gucci and now she's all into Aloe. You know, 456 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 1: she's she used to be into I like it. I yeah, 457 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 1: it's actually one of my favorite brands. Now it's a 458 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: really cool brand. Yeah you know it was what was 459 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: that last one, Lululemon that was that's out now you 460 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: know that's alos in. But yeah, you know, she has 461 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 1: those little brands that she likes here and there, but 462 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:43,360 Speaker 1: they're never like super expensive, like ten thousand dollars her 463 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: mess purses or whatever they're called. Do you like brands? 464 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: Do you wear brands? 465 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: I like, well, I've always loved brands, But I love 466 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 2: the Aloe stuff. I love the vory stuff, Like that's 467 00:23:55,880 --> 00:24:00,359 Speaker 2: kind of my thing now. I love that. You know. 468 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 2: It's if I ever, when I'm ready to retire from 469 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: my businesses, I think I'd love to be a fashion designer, 470 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,439 Speaker 2: like the stuff that Alo comes up with. I literally 471 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: was thinking back in two thousand and four, like two 472 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 2: thousand and three, I would design this in sportswear, like 473 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 2: this is how I would do it right, And now 474 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 2: I'm seeing it, I'm like, shit, you know that could 475 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 2: have been my idea, but I think it'd be so 476 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 2: fun to do. So. I've always been a big fan 477 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,879 Speaker 2: of fashion. It's always I don't know, it's just always 478 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:36,239 Speaker 2: kind of called me to it. I've always just been 479 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 2: drawn to it. But you know what I do love 480 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 2: on my wife is when she's tanned, like a even 481 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 2: even a spray tan, just something it's just uh, let's 482 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 2: just say, it makes the body look curbier, you know, so, 483 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 2: and you know I'm in the curves, so. 484 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: It definitely enhances the curves. 485 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 2: When Teddy's uh, when Teddy's tanned, Depp, we're deaf and 486 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 2: the only gonna make her go to work? 487 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 1: What kind of grooming practices? Yeah, do you do? You wax? 488 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:14,360 Speaker 2: I don't wax. I shave. Funny story, back in the day, 489 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 2: I had a friend of mine that convinced me. He's 490 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 2: actually one of my best friends growing up, and we 491 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 2: were cycling and he's like, dude, why don't you shave 492 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 2: your legs? Like it? It's what you need to do 493 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 2: for cycling, right exactly, So like a dumb ass, just 494 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 2: not knowing anybody, I'm like, I want to be freaking 495 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 2: shaving this thing every day, right or every three days. 496 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 2: So I tried laser on my hair on my legs. 497 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: Holy shit, was that painful. 498 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 1: That sounds painful. 499 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 2: That's one of the most painful things I've ever done. 500 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 2: And the shit didn't even work. So anyways, now I 501 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 2: got hair all over the damn place except for my 502 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 2: private I like to keep that one clean, okay, but 503 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 2: I usually get the razor for that one. 504 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:01,160 Speaker 1: I don't. The only thing I whack sometimes and it's 505 00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 1: that and I usually go when it starts getting crazy. 506 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,879 Speaker 1: But between my eyebrows, my nose, and my ears, I 507 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 1: don't know when I started that habit, but I like 508 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,160 Speaker 1: to be clean in those areas, and I do shave. 509 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,800 Speaker 1: I used to shave my legs a lot when I 510 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: rode my bike all the time. In fact, my wife 511 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: used to make fun of me because you know, i'd 512 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: had smoother legs and hers sometimes. But yeah, and then 513 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 1: I like to keep my private parts, you know, trimmed 514 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 1: and clean as well. But that's about it. You know, 515 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: when it comes to waxing. Even I've thought about waxing 516 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: my legs. I don't know. I have a friend that 517 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 1: did it, and he says, it's amazing that last three 518 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: months and you don't have to do it for three months. 519 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. I'm good with just my 520 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: brow and my nose. 521 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,120 Speaker 2: And my ears. Yeah, it's it's like that sounds painful. 522 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 1: Do you like Teddy having, you know, manicured nails all 523 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: the time or is that not important to you? 524 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 2: Not that important? Yeah, I mean yeah, not that big 525 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 2: of a deal for me. Yeah, definitely nice and shaved 526 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 2: and not Billien hair is important. Yeah. 527 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: I don't like hair. I mean honestly, I love it 528 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 1: when she's clean and hairless. Definitely don't like her. Do 529 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:16,120 Speaker 1: you shave your chest? 530 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 2: I don't. 531 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 1: You don't, Okay. I used to, and it's probably because 532 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: when I was doing a lot more bodybuilding. It was 533 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,400 Speaker 1: one of those things like you got to show off 534 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: the packs, you know, the lions and the cut and 535 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: all that. But lately my wife's been going, what's that 536 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 1: gray bush on your chest? 537 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 2: I've never seen that before. 538 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: That's baby. Another thing I wanted to ask you about. 539 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: You know, when it comes to your cell phones? How 540 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: private are you? 541 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: Do you? Guys? 542 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: I have a friend that has him and his wife 543 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 1: pretty much are on the same phone, Like she knows 544 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: everywhere he's at, he knows everywhere, or she's that when 545 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 1: a text message comes in, she gets a copy of it. 546 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 2: That's a good one. 547 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: Where are you on your on your phone? 548 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 2: Like? 549 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 1: How private are you? 550 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: So two different times. At one point I hated her 551 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 2: going through my phone. Yeah, and I had a big 552 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 2: problem with it. But I was probably doing some things 553 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 2: I shouldn't have been doing anyway, right, And uh, ever, 554 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 2: since kind of those days have been gone, I have 555 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,959 Speaker 2: no problem with her checking my phone. I have no 556 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,560 Speaker 2: problem with her. She's got which before I had a problem. 557 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 2: What is that thing where they could keep track of you? 558 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 2: Or she knows exactly where I or no, not like 559 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 2: three sixty on your phone? It just it tells you. 560 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: It tells her exactly find my phone. Oh yeah, yeah, 561 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 2: she's got me on find my phone? And I have 562 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 2: no problem with it. Before I had a freaking problem 563 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 2: with it. I was like, why do you want to 564 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 2: know where I'm at? I need you know, blah blah 565 00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and uh, after her just some of 566 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 2: the stuff that I did, I was like, all right, 567 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 2: you got you got full rain on me. Just that 568 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 2: it's it's it's pretty cool not to have to worry 569 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 2: about someone going through your damn phone. Yeah, Like like 570 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 2: for me, I just like I remember those days. Back 571 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 2: in those days, it was just like, oh like take 572 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 2: my phone with me to the freaking shower, you know, 573 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 2: take it everywhere I went, you know. And now like 574 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 2: not even have to worry about that ship. You know. 575 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 2: It's just like I got nothing to hide, Okay, knock 576 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 2: yourself out. And so with the reason my Instagram is 577 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 2: ted one Natter is because we used to share an Instagram, right, 578 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: this is before she became famous. It was ted Headwind 579 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 2: was taken. So she went with tedwin Nater and so 580 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: she would see like women like would DM me and 581 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 2: even though they knew it was a couple's one, right yeah. 582 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 2: And with Facebook kind of the same thing with my 583 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 2: kind of the same thing, right yeah. So she's like, 584 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 2: you can't have your own Instagram, I mean Instagram account. 585 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, Well, but then she became Teddy 586 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 2: Mellencamp after she was on the show, and she says, Okay, 587 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,800 Speaker 2: you can keep the ted one ador one. You can't 588 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 2: change the name. So that's why I roll with tedinator. 589 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and I'm actually working. 590 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 2: I'm actually working now because it's been so long now 591 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 2: changing it to edwin Ariabe you just reminded me. I 592 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 2: got to call my guy to say, hey, are we 593 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 2: going to change this ted one aador thing? Yeah, I'm 594 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 2: kind of done with tedator. I think it is confusing. 595 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, whenever I looked for you, I type in your name, 596 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: like it's not coming up tedinador. I personally, I don't 597 00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:01,479 Speaker 1: like being tracked every day, the every minute. And I 598 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 1: understand there's you know, a level of comfort from your spouse, 599 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 1: you know, to know that you're okay and that you're 600 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: somewhere right. We went through a spurt of about three months. 601 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 2: I want to say, by the way, I would just 602 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: say if if you don't have a reason, then yeah, 603 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 2: I think it's perfect, right, Like, no one needs to 604 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 2: be looking at your phone if you don't have a reason, right, right, 605 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 2: do right? Like you I get the private that's the 606 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 2: privacy part. Like for me, it was like dude, like 607 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 2: give me a break, right, And uh, but I do 608 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 2: think at some point if you mess, if you get 609 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 2: caught slipping. 610 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's it's part of it. You know how 611 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: long ago was that? 612 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 2: I was a while back. 613 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, we'll bellieve it. 614 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 2: Well, we'll leave it as it was a while back. Okay. 615 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to more than that, more than 616 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: eight years. Yeah, I was trying to avoid unboxing that one. 617 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: You do you track her? 618 00:31:58,800 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 619 00:31:59,760 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: You? 620 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,360 Speaker 2: Okay? No, I mean I guess I could, but I 621 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 2: never looked for it. 622 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: Do you guys know each other's passwords for everything? 623 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 2: Mmm? I well her password is easy, so yes. But 624 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 2: I I've never in any relationship have I ever been 625 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 2: snooping around or you know, that was kind of part 626 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 2: of why I didn't ever want anybody going on my 627 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 2: phone before. But I was also doing some stuff right Yeah, 628 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 2: but I'd never have ever cared about, you know, going 629 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 2: into because I've always felt like, you're looking to find 630 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 2: some shit, and you will find some stuff, right, Like, 631 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 2: it's just that I've never wanted to go there, like, yeah, 632 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 2: don't look for me, you don't want to find But 633 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 2: no one's ever really given me and I'm now talking 634 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 2: during my previous relationships, no one ever really gave me 635 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 2: a reason to want to want to do that. I 636 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 2: just think it's a big mind f. 637 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I have a new perspective nowadays, now 638 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: that I've been married, you know, ten years, and been 639 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: with her thirteen years, and I feel like she's going 640 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,560 Speaker 1: to be the one for the rest of my life. 641 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: I handle all the all the finances, and I do 642 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: it all electronically, and it's all in my computer, and 643 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: frequently I update her with the list of all the 644 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 1: passwords and everything. So I think it's important for her 645 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: to have my password to my phone and everything, and 646 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,479 Speaker 1: I know her passwords for her phone as well. And 647 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 1: the only reason I would look is if there's something wrong, 648 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: you know, going on, and I need to investigate, like 649 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 1: something's wrong with her phone, or something hacked into her phone, 650 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: or something hacking to her computer. But never really like 651 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: looking for anything. Like you said, if you start looking 652 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 1: for something, you might find something you don't want to see, 653 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 1: you know. I'm sure I don't know if you experienced this, 654 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: but I'm sure she has, and she's shared with me too. 655 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm sure there's been people that guys that reach out 656 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 1: her to her on social media and send her pictures 657 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: of them and said, you know, what are you doing 658 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 1: with this deadbeat or whatever? Or I'm so much better 659 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 1: than him, And they send pictures of themselves and I 660 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 1: know that because I get those as well. You know 661 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 1: these girls and you know these Yeah, I think it's 662 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: it's straight when you're on when you are on a 663 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 1: platform and you have this, and I don't even know 664 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: if you have to be on a platform, but that's 665 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 1: just kind of like what people do to get people's 666 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 1: attentions right. And I can't tell you how many times 667 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 1: I've had to say, look, i'm married, block them, delete them, 668 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:33,319 Speaker 1: get rid of them. 669 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 2: You know. 670 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 1: I just don't think it's appropriate, not just them sending it, 671 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,319 Speaker 1: but me, you know, looking at them and and and 672 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: having a conversation with them because I'm married, you know, 673 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 1: I love my wife. I don't need that level of distraction. 674 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 1: But is it going to happen? 675 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 2: Yes? 676 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 1: And is it always going to happen? I don't know. 677 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: Maybe I'll get, you know, to a point in my 678 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 1: life one day where I won't be you know, popular, 679 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: nobody will know me and I won't get those those videos, 680 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,360 Speaker 1: and that's okay, but that is part of you know, 681 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 1: trust in your partner, like this is gonna happen, this 682 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 1: is this is the kind of shit. I know she 683 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 1: gets those too. So do you ever read her text messages, 684 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:15,359 Speaker 1: Bernie Resa, Yeah, I only read them accidentally when I'm 685 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: working on her phone or you know, I'm sitting next 686 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 1: to her and she's having I mean, she gets like 687 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: a text message a freaking minute. I don't know how 688 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 1: she keeps up with all these different conversations. But I 689 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: never feel like I have to read her text messages, 690 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,920 Speaker 1: you know, I've I've also always been the believer of 691 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: if you if I have to read your text messages, 692 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 1: then there's something wrong with this relationship, right, right, If 693 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 1: you don't trust me, there's there's something wrong with this relationship. 694 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:44,640 Speaker 1: So I do know that, you know, she sometimes tells 695 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 1: me a little bit of the truth, not the whole truth. Yeah, 696 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 1: and it's usually pertaining to what she did on the show. 697 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 1: But that's about the extent of it. I I don't 698 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 1: have any insecurities about her, you know, doing something nefarious 699 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: or or you know, in that relationship, right because the 700 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,640 Speaker 1: connections there, just like you and Teddy, you have that 701 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 1: connection and you know it's always. 702 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 2: Well and I think, and I think what's important I 703 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 2: think that I've seen too, is if someone's very insecure 704 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 2: about themselves and they bring in a problem from a 705 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:22,520 Speaker 2: previous relationship. Right. So, like let's say your ex was 706 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 2: cheating on you all the time. Right now you come 707 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 2: into a new relationship, and now you bring in all 708 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 2: the doubt into this new relationship and you're constantly bugging 709 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 2: the guy about his phone. Let me see your phone, 710 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: let me read your text, let me do all this. 711 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 2: Eventually you're going to push that guy or girl away, 712 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 2: right because they don't want to deal with that, right. 713 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 2: So there's also that healthy balance where you can't bring 714 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 2: your past into a new relationship because you're going to 715 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 2: push that person away, and you're you know, it's there's 716 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 2: a there's also that bind line that you have to 717 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 2: walk from a previous relationship to a new one. 718 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: I have a friend that has the exact situation you're 719 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,280 Speaker 1: just explained, and in order for her to avoid it, 720 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 1: she just doesn't date. So now she's alone, you know, 721 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,319 Speaker 1: and she's she's just not going to trust anybody else. 722 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,880 Speaker 2: And it's tough because you're gonna push some good people away. 723 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,800 Speaker 2: At some point, you have to trust. Yeah, like after 724 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,319 Speaker 2: a while, like it's, you know, no big deal, like 725 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 2: I said, But like if I start dating you and 726 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 2: right away you're like I need to see your phone, 727 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 2: I'm like, man, you're freaking crazy. Yeah, like I'm running. 728 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: From you for sure, like next you know, Yeah, Fortunately 729 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,120 Speaker 1: we don't have to be in that situation. 730 00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 2: Don't we have to be in that situation anymore, But 731 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 2: like you have to sort of gain that trust before 732 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,320 Speaker 2: you start just asking for stuff. 733 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: Right, do you have friends that are around your age 734 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,280 Speaker 1: right now that are going through that or like they're 735 00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,200 Speaker 1: they've been married for a long time and now all 736 00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 1: of a sudden they are freaking single and there out there, 737 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,320 Speaker 1: you know, dating at this age. 738 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 2: Not that I've talked too lately, okay. 739 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,880 Speaker 1: But I have some of and it's it's just I 740 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,399 Speaker 1: thank God every day that I don't have to date 741 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:18,320 Speaker 1: in this era right now. Anyways, all right, always great 742 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: talking to you, Like I am excited to look all right, 743 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:26,280 Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to our next episode, and I'm guys, 744 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 1: send us reviews, send us questions. You know, we're really 745 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,160 Speaker 1: excited about doing this. We want to give you the 746 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,839 Speaker 1: content you're looking for, and your reviews will help us 747 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 1: do that, So keep them coming and we'll see you 748 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:38,160 Speaker 1: next time. 749 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 2: Thanks for tuning in.