WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Smells Like Tween Spirit

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of date, Brook, how many horrible dates did

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go on before you finally found your husband?

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<v Speaker 1>And actually, don't answer that because I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear about the threeenty twenty four of them, all the fails.

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<v Speaker 2>I was on some good ones too.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, we just got ten texts into seventy five nine

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<v Speaker 1>to two saying the same thing. Please don't ask Brook

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<v Speaker 1>about her horrible dating it so I'm glad that we

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<v Speaker 1>have someone else on the phone right now to share

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<v Speaker 1>their bad dating stories with us. His name is James,

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<v Speaker 1>and in his email he said he's been on so

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<v Speaker 1>many awful dates it was just refreshing to finally meet

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who he described as somewhat normal. Oh so, James,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, thanks for having me appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's thinking, where did you find someone somewhat normal? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Now, James, a lot of people when they write to us,

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<v Speaker 1>they focus on the date that they just had.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But I thought it was kind of funny that you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned a few of the bad experiences that you had

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<v Speaker 1>before this.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, he went into detas about it.

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<v Speaker 1>One that you said was you got invited by a

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<v Speaker 1>girl to her church picnic.

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<v Speaker 3>That is correct. She originally told me was if I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to see an outdoor play, and I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like Shakespeare in the Park kind of deal or something

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<v Speaker 3>like that. Yeah, And that wasn't the case at all,

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<v Speaker 3>because I get there and she dressed like the devil

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<v Speaker 3>who her face is painted red.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so not like a sexy devil like you were

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<v Speaker 2>hoping for.

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<v Speaker 3>Not at all. She is screaming fire and brimstone. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 3>going to hell.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of hot.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a look.

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<v Speaker 1>I can use that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the other one that you mentioned? Something about

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<v Speaker 1>mini Golf.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I went on on a date with a girl

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<v Speaker 3>with Mini golf. I don't know if she had like

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<v Speaker 3>a medical problem or what, but she couldn't stop party.

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet girl and mini golf can like if there's not

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people, can be really quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the windmill isn't that loud though she was trying

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<v Speaker 3>to tie it with the putter.

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<v Speaker 1>She's screaming for I feel so.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a lot of room for improvement.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the good date that you finally had.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was that with?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Vicky and I met her online. Her

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<v Speaker 3>profile picture was pretty I mean I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>sound shallow.

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<v Speaker 2>Here, but that's what dating online is set up for, right, Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>And she totally looks like her picture.

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<v Speaker 3>We just clicked and we sent multiple messages back and forth.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, with your history, were you thinking like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, there's no way this sounds too good to

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<v Speaker 2>be true.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a double fart mom?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you've got to put yourself out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So what did you and Vicky do for your date?

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<v Speaker 3>We ended up going to a barcade. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if you guys are familiar that. It's kind of like, oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted to go on these.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's really fun. They have like old school atari

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<v Speaker 3>games or any old arcade game or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So how was the arcade with Vicky? Do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dude, there's like this super awesome nostalgia factor going on.

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<v Speaker 3>And this was when going over the date. The only

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<v Speaker 3>like hiccup is I came across my all time favorite

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<v Speaker 3>video game, which is the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I found I found a place like that by my

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<v Speaker 2>house and my son is obsessed with it now.

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<v Speaker 1>It is such a good game.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, dude, I kill it, Raphael, I mean with.

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<v Speaker 2>The interesting choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that a bad moment in your date?

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<v Speaker 4>Though?

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<v Speaker 3>Because the problem is, once I found it, I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to play it. But I saw it across the room

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<v Speaker 3>and as we were getting closer to it, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>hyping it up and I'm like, you're gonna love playing the game.

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<v Speaker 3>A group of tweeen agers they slepped in and started

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<v Speaker 3>playing it before I could get to it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is an old ages arcade, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's one of those places where I like,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess kids and gay in there are staying there

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<v Speaker 3>until nine pm or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So again, why did that rooster date you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get to play the game?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I did this thing where I stood awkwardly behind him, thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>That was like weird, super passive aggressive.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys didn't go off and play something else. You're

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<v Speaker 2>just standing there with your date as these teenagers.

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<v Speaker 3>With stepping beers and we're talking. But then the one

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<v Speaker 3>kid just like looked over his shoulder and it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>That's probably not a great look in front of your date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you get, old man.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to back off and let these kids win,

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<v Speaker 3>because this is my game.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, show off, okay with Dame, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the hill that you're choosing to die out the teenage

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<v Speaker 1>Mutant Ninja Turtles Mountain exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was like, you know what, let's drift on.

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<v Speaker 3>So we then we left the barcade and we're on

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<v Speaker 3>just down the street to another bar, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta wrap it up, and I'm like, dude, it's

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<v Speaker 3>only eight thirty. And she was like, I gotta get

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<v Speaker 3>up early in the morning and.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, And it felt like an excuse to.

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<v Speaker 3>You a little thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You think she really wanted to play teenage and she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>dad said, if we're not gonna play, I'm going home exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she could have been turned off a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit because I was being very forceful and very adamant

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<v Speaker 3>about like, let's play this specific game, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>kids being jerk maybe killed the vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids always killed the vibe. I'm just gonna let you know,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah next time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I just need to know if that was it,

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<v Speaker 3>Just say that was it, and then like I will

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<v Speaker 3>definitely make sure date number two will have no children

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<v Speaker 3>at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, Well, let's call her and ask. We'll see

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<v Speaker 1>if that's the reason. We'll play a song. Come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call Vicky for you and try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Okay, that'd be awesome, all right, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>second A great show, great theme song, and an even

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<v Speaker 1>better arcade game for sure, And our guy James just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to show his date how Rafael could do some

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<v Speaker 1>serious damage with his front flips. But he never got

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<v Speaker 1>that chance. And even worse than losing the chance to

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<v Speaker 1>play the game, is he actually lost his date VICKI.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it seems like she may have used an excuse

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of there a little bit early, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're not sure. And James thinks it might have been

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<v Speaker 1>because he got into a verbal spat with some unruly

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<v Speaker 1>tweens who were hogging the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle machine.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just have to ask you, James, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>worst thing that you said to them when you were

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<v Speaker 1>in an argument?

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<v Speaker 3>It was it was something really generic, because you're arguing

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<v Speaker 3>with kids that you don't want to say something like

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<v Speaker 3>I tagged your mom and your dad was watching.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like you've been playing this fight over and over

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<v Speaker 2>in your head.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly so it was something like, I think I hear

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<v Speaker 3>your mom call.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, probably should have gone with that first diss.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that would be a turn off for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I never should have gotten into it with him at all.

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<v Speaker 3>It's at least you know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's that, and that you pick Raphael out

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<v Speaker 2>of all of them. Maybe anybody else was guy, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm all Michael Angelo.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I don't even know. I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we should discuss anymore Ninja Turtle character preferences.

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<v Speaker 2>Next your personality.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think we should call Vicky and see what

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<v Speaker 1>she has to say. Maybe she's really picky about the

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<v Speaker 1>characters too, Maybe maybe she's a Maybe that's exactly Zaddy

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<v Speaker 1>masters and asked, So let's just do this. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a dollar number right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, is this Vicky?

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<v Speaker 1>Vicky? My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Hi, I think he whole show is here.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good. Is there a reason you're calling so funny?

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<v Speaker 2>You should have?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Are you familiar with our show at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I definitely listen. Cool. I'm just a little nervous

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<v Speaker 4>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well then you might be familiar with the second

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<v Speaker 1>date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Your nervous laugh is really cute though. Good jump.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh thanks, it's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Well we're calling obviously because one of our listeners went

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<v Speaker 1>out with you recently and he's been having a hard

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<v Speaker 1>time reaching you over the past week.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember James, Oh yeah, oh gosh, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't as fun for you as it was for James.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean, I don't know how much you've told you, so

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to like, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what we do know is you guys went to

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<v Speaker 1>a barcade, had some drinks.

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<v Speaker 4>We did.

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<v Speaker 2>We know that he was really interested in you. He

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<v Speaker 2>thought you were cute, had great hair, fun personality.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah. I mean, did you think he was cute?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely thought he was cute. We were having a

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<v Speaker 4>fun time. There was this kind of like a moment

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<v Speaker 4>that was a little bit of a turning point for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that anything to do with a group of superheroes?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe turtles?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, so you know a little bit about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But what he told us is that there were some

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<v Speaker 1>kids hogging the teenage meeting Ninja turtle machine, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of exchanged words, but you guys passed and

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<v Speaker 1>just went somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, to be fair, we told him that

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<v Speaker 2>that's like, I mean, for Alexis and I anyway, it'd

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<v Speaker 2>be a pretty big red flag if he was arguing

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<v Speaker 2>with teenagers.

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<v Speaker 3>Look, yeah, not a good look.

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<v Speaker 4>There was a little bit more to the story.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean, like he did more than exchange

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<v Speaker 2>words with him.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think he thinks I don't know about

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<v Speaker 4>this part, but yeah, like he so he went to

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<v Speaker 4>the bathroom before we were going to leave, and he

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<v Speaker 4>came out and like had a cut on his lips.

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<v Speaker 4>He looks kind of like bruised up and stuff like

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<v Speaker 4>he had something had happened, and.

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<v Speaker 2>He something it happened in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, oh god, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes all those those paper talenta spensers, I get in

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<v Speaker 1>fight them out real quick.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I mean that's what he said. He said,

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<v Speaker 4>he like flipped and accidentally bumped his face on the stall,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, are you that drunk?

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<v Speaker 2>For all, I mean, they don't I will say a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of arcades and not very clean bathrooms, so maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it was a slippery s.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, what he doesn't know is uh, Like right before that,

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<v Speaker 4>a few minutes before he came out, some of the

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<v Speaker 4>middle schoolers came up to me who were playing the

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<v Speaker 4>Ninja game, and they, uh, they said, hey, tell your boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>If he mouths off again, we're going to beat itath

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<v Speaker 4>worse than we just did.

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<v Speaker 2>Why they beat him up in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 4>I think so because like in the moment, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, whatever, and then when I saw him, I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh my god, he just got beat up

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<v Speaker 4>by a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't blame her for that, Like, what is he

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to do? Hit him back?

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<v Speaker 1>You can beat the crap out of those kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, did you.

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<v Speaker 1>Bring it up to him?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I was just like I'm done. This is definitely a

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<v Speaker 4>red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, Are you more turned off that he fought

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<v Speaker 2>or that he lost?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, just the fact that the whole thing happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Just he's the adult in the situation. Then you're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>like fight with some middle schoolers in the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 4>then you're gonna lie about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's pretty embarrassing to admit.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean all right, so look, here's what we know.

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<v Speaker 1>We know that there was obviously some verbal stuff with

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<v Speaker 1>the kids at the arcade, but you're saying you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually see anything yourself, Vicky. So we need to go

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<v Speaker 1>right to the source here and just ask James, you

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<v Speaker 1>throw hands with some middle schoolers.

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<v Speaker 2>Or one normal questions?

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<v Speaker 4>Ye oh no, oh yeah, James, Well I didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>they talked to you, Vicky.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, oh god, it actually happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, first off, there were like seven of them.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, no, well okay there listen, listen. There were three

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<v Speaker 4>of them, and one of them was Onarn't crutches, so

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<v Speaker 4>don't that's why.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a mainland weapon. He would swim with them kids.

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<v Speaker 2>How did that happen? How did that happen in the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, they have horrible mouths, That's what happened. So

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<v Speaker 3>I had friend myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait did you you ask them to fight you in

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<v Speaker 2>the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 3>No. I went into the restroom to do the normal things,

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<v Speaker 3>just leave myself, and then all of a sudden, I

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<v Speaker 3>get sucker punch from behind with a clutch. That's when

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<v Speaker 3>they start running their mouths and I square up and

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<v Speaker 3>it was a fight or flight moment, and here's the

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<v Speaker 3>problem is I swung on one of them, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Miss okay, So you tried to throw a punch at

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<v Speaker 1>one of these kids.

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<v Speaker 4>This is not making it better like you're telling it and.

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<v Speaker 3>More details makes it better. They were attacking me. I

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<v Speaker 3>was defending myself.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was defending you.

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<v Speaker 4>You were You were not defending me.

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<v Speaker 3>I was defending your honor. I was defending your honor

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<v Speaker 3>because these kids were saying you had small boobs. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, you don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>God?

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<v Speaker 2>What's wrong with small boobs?

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<v Speaker 4>There?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are laughing and thinking this isn't serious, but

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<v Speaker 3>it was. It was really serious. In a headlock, I

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<v Speaker 3>was losing consciousness and he was like, just about to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Headlock. They're shorter than you. Parents.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop putting their kids in taekwondo, it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you exaggerating, James? Like it feels like this story

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<v Speaker 2>just keeps getting more out of control.

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<v Speaker 3>You have been there like I was. It was a

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<v Speaker 3>desperate situation. I was in a point where I was

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<v Speaker 3>willing to do anything I could to get out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be scary to be provoked.

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<v Speaker 1>I just say, you have seven kids running around you

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<v Speaker 1>no matter how big they are.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there were only numbers. There was only three.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I'm just hoping now that we've heard the

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<v Speaker 1>full story, can you hear where he's coming from. He

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<v Speaker 1>was defending your honor, defending himself, and maybe he deserves

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<v Speaker 1>a second chance. We'd like to pay for another date

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<v Speaker 1>with James. He never connected any punches. And for the record,

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<v Speaker 1>for the record, nobody here thinks that you have small boobs.

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<v Speaker 1>We think they are.

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<v Speaker 2>We think small is fine, just the right size.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, no, I'm not interested. This thing is even worse

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<v Speaker 4>than it was when I heard from the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>This is ridiculous. Man, I get beat up by a

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<v Speaker 3>mob of bug and I'm not getting a secondary out

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<v Speaker 3>of it.

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<v Speaker 2>James. The story just one of the kids was like crutches.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you not seen like Return of the Jedi? Like

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<v Speaker 3>you could spend that thing around and around.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have gone rap, we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we all can agree violence is never the answer,

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<v Speaker 1>unless the question is who's hogging the teenage mutant ninja

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<v Speaker 1>turtle arcades. No, the unwritten rule is you have free

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<v Speaker 1>reign to swing on children. No, no, don't is it Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you tell me the rules. I don't know them.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, I will give it can be scary to be you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, jumped.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, one time in the park I had I

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<v Speaker 2>stopped a group of eighth graders from fighting. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>you were able to stop them with a baby on

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<v Speaker 2>my hip? Okay, So I don't know. I mean there's

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<v Speaker 2>probably easier ways that he could have de escalated the issue,

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<v Speaker 2>but okay, they were kind of frightening.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the things that you know that there's some woman

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<v Speaker 1>out there listening who really feels bad for James.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the mother of the children.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I guarantee that we're going to get text into

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<v Speaker 1>seventy five ninety two from some women saying he was

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<v Speaker 1>the victim and he was fully in his right to

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<v Speaker 1>defend himself and he's actually a hero.

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<v Speaker 2>The kids were just trying to play their video game. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he have not, like I know, but if he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>have started the whole thing to begin with.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he started it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like who's the kid now name?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good reminder to so all of our listeners. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going out on a date tonight, don't beat

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<v Speaker 1>up any kids. No, your instincts might tell you to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, but you have to resist anyway. I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to get a second date, update, or

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<v Speaker 1>other awesome dating advice, you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call the person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.