1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Dawn and Brooklyn Don writes, 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: my husband and I went to a concert. We also 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: went to the meet and greet because it's his favorite singer. 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: He got so excited. I made jokes about it, and 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: he said he will never share a happy moment with 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: me again. Was I wrong or is he too sensitive? 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 2: Well? You kind of sensitive? You just excited to see him? Oh, 9 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: Marvin Kate, I can't see that. Dog. I met Luther 10 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 2: uh huh, who. 11 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 3: I considered the greatest male vocalist to ever live. Tommy 12 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 3: Open for two years, and when I met him, I 13 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 3: just went, man, boy, man boy, you can gave me 14 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: some moment. I show appreciated, dog, but I wouldn't bubbly 15 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 3: and over the top. 16 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: Giddy. 17 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, she said he got so excited. She joked about it. 18 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah that wasn't you man? 19 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 2: Looking at me? Dog? You're yeah, yeah much. Yeah. 20 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: So he's too sensitive, you're saying, all right, all right? 21 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: Moving on to Danielle Uh. Danielle says, my husband and 22 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: I ran into his brother at the gym. He got 23 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: mad because I spoke. They fell out months ago but 24 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 1: I still talked to his brother's wife almost daily. My 25 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: husband thinks if he's mad, then i'm mad too. Is 26 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: this a rule or is my husband being childish? 27 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 3: Well, no, that's not a rule. But all you did 28 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 3: was speak. It's his brother, you know, it's just just suggested. 29 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: You know, some of y'all take these this stuff too far. 30 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: I mean, so your husband don't forgot whatever I'm mad 31 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 3: at that is my brother over. 32 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: There, right blood. 33 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, So let me ask you something, ma'am that you 34 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 3: should propose to your brother. If he see your brother 35 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 3: at the gym and your brother getting in a fight 36 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 3: and somebody beating his brother, what would he do? 37 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 2: You're still mad at him? When you're gonna go help him. 38 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: You know he's gonna jump in. 39 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, not all of them. Sure it's some 40 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 3: manless petty like that. 41 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, oh for your brother. Okay, all right, So 42 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 1: you're saying her husband is being childish. 43 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 2: You just spoke. 44 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 3: You didn't take your side, right, y'all? Mad y'all know 45 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 3: y'all gonna have to get over this. 46 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: Don't you. 47 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: Eventually they're always gonna be brothers. Yeah, that's never gonna change. 48 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on, to Leonard. Leonard writes, most of 49 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: the time when I'm out, I don't answer my wife's 50 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: calls because I don't want to explain what I'm doing. 51 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything wrong. I just don't want her 52 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: questioning me. Can I be upfront with her about all 53 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: the questions or keep ignoring her calls? 54 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: Brother? Either way? Either way, either way, you're gonna get 55 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 2: the same results. If you keep. 56 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 3: Ignoring them calls, then you leave her mind to wander. 57 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: Then what your explanation is? I don't want to hear 58 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: what you got to say when I'm doing it though 59 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: I ain't doing nothing wrong. 60 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: What what y? 61 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: You don't even understand you You're looking at this the 62 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: wrong way. 63 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 64 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 3: See, let me tell you something, man, if you start 65 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 3: answering the phone, man, you will limit the calls. Yeah, 66 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 3: But if you keep ignoring them, they gonna keep coming. 67 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 3: Because now where is he at? Why is he not 68 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,119 Speaker 3: answering my phone? What's wrong with him? 69 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: Then? 70 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 3: When you do answer the phone, Hey, I need you 71 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 3: to calling me because I be doing stuff and I 72 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 3: don't want to hear your mouth. 73 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: Please, what are you doing? 74 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: So? 75 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: But what what is she asking him? Why is she 76 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: calling him? 77 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 2: Like this. I don't know why she calling him. The 78 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: problem is from him. Uh huh. 79 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's saying he doesn't want to explain what he's doing. 80 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 3: But she listen to me, you have to answer your 81 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 3: wife's call. Something could be wrong. Yeah. Yeah, let's just 82 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 3: start with that, baby, it's everything. 83 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: Okay. 84 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 3: Hey, look, I'm in the middle of something right now. 85 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 3: Let let me finish this. I'll call you back. 86 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 2: Baby. You okay, I answer the phone? Hey, hey, you good? 87 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 88 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm fine. Okay, cool, baby, I'm in the middle 89 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 3: of got a call. I'm on the set, I'm on 90 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 3: the radio or something. Let let me give you a 91 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 3: call back. Okay, cover my face that nothing's wrong with her, 92 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 3: right right, But but. 93 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: Don't answer this phone though, and see how that go. 94 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: He just sounds like he doesn't want to hear her voice. 95 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 2: Period. I know. But you can't say that. 96 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you doing, Leonard? 97 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: All right? 98 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: And he wants to know should he tell her that 99 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,119 Speaker 1: he doesn't want her to call? 100 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 3: Yeah, see that's what I'm telling you, man. If you 101 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 3: do that, it's mean there's a problem. 102 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to talk to her, period. Yeah, Yeah, 103 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: there's a problem. He's mean, there's a problem, Steve, Yeah, 104 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: all right, all right, divorce court, all right, last one, 105 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 1: last one, last one. 106 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: CLO. 107 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: This is from Candace. Candace writes, I fell in love 108 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: with a longtime friend, and I can't get past the 109 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 1: fact that I know he used to be horrorsh and 110 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 1: has a lot of women in his past. I've asked 111 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: him to get rid of all his female friends. It's 112 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: mandatory because I used to be a friend. Is that 113 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: too much to ask? 114 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 2: Nope? But here's your problem. 115 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 3: Here's another example what I say, over and over and over. 116 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: I don't know why y'all be lying about these friendships. 117 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 3: If you are attractive, why would a man want to 118 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 3: be your friend? It's just not gonna work. And now 119 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 3: it hasn't even worked out for you. And now you're 120 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 3: tripping because you like him. But you know he had 121 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 3: a lot of women. Well you wasn't one of them, 122 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 3: so that ain't your biusiness. So now you want him 123 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 3: to get rid of all his female friends because you 124 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 3: was one. 125 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 2: Of them back around. 126 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 3: Oh, so the rest of his friends, he was doing them, 127 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 3: And now you're gonna have him do you too, And 128 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 3: now you want him to get rid of all of them. 129 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: You Finnish. 130 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 3: Find out something though, what you done fell in love 131 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 3: with him? 132 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 2: Has he fell in love with you? 133 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: And she didn't say that. Are you saying it's not 134 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: a two way street? 135 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 3: You don't know that yet? See you falling for him? 136 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 3: He was just waiting. He's been, he's been, He been 137 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 3: circling for years. We ain't on you to get tired 138 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 3: of being by yourself and all that. 139 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 2: And then he swooped right in and now he done 140 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:27,119 Speaker 2: cracked the cold. 141 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 3: Wow, now you sitting up in here, now you want 142 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 3: him to give up everybody? 143 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 2: He didn't say he was going to give up everybody. 144 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, he said he was gonna do everybody, was Horris. 145 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: All right, Felo, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. 146 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 1: You're listening. Morning Show