1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Hey Lyle, Hi, Hey, hey, I've been calling for a while. 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm happy I finally made it. 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: What is your name? 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: My name is Eureka. 5 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 2: Nice to meet Eureka. You texted me and you said, yeah, hey, Gecko, 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 2: I'm Rika. I currently live in Tokyo, Japan. I've been 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: calling for a while, not sure how to reach you. 8 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: Let me know. Thank you. And I don't know, I 9 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: was just I'm I was just curious, you know, I 10 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: don't know, I'm just curious. I'm just curious. What's going 11 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: on with Eureka, What's how's your life going? What made 12 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 2: you want to contact me? 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: Oh? You know, I was in your your show in 14 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: Shibuya last year and was amazing. You won't tell her, 15 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,519 Speaker 1: but I was very I was very interval. Man, I'm 16 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: too shy to reach you out, and I was just 17 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: kind of in that stage, I kind of you know, 18 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: just look at you. 19 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: You So yeah, I did it, shout out. I love 20 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: I love these guys. I'll be back there at some 21 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: point on my next trip to Japan. But the Tokyo 22 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: every every time I go. So so you were okay, 23 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,199 Speaker 2: So you were at that show? Did we did we talk? 24 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I try to talk to you, but it's 25 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 1: so popular with people like Okay, I just write, enjoy 26 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: your time, you know, like you're having a real good 27 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: time there. I have. 28 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: I love, I freaking love Japan. I love I love Tokyo. 29 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 2: If I if I had, if I couldn't, I will 30 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 2: I I I want to come back there, like I mean, 31 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 2: I was living there for two months. I thought I 32 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: was living there for two months, uh like a year ago, 33 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 2: and I thought I thought I was going to move there. Yeah, 34 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: I thought I was going to move there. Yeah, but 35 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: I I love New York. If I I maybe I'll 36 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 2: live in Tokyo again at some point, I'd really like to. 37 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,919 Speaker 2: But right know, I'm enjoying New York. But well, okay, 38 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna stop. I'm going to stop talking about myself 39 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 2: for two seconds, and I'm going to ask you it's 40 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 2: okay if not, it's okay if you just wanted to chat. 41 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,399 Speaker 2: I'm sure we have lots that we can chat about. 42 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: But oh no, there's actually actually one thing about me 43 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: I want to talk about it. I will make it sure, 44 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: I will make it too long. So I want to 45 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: talk about a female masturbation of these kind of things 46 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: because I've been talking with a guy about jerking off, 47 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: and they don't believe me that, like I don't need 48 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: anything or touching myself to make myself feel orgsen because 49 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: I can just watch porn and to reach out that 50 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: kind of feeling, and they just feel like I'm a 51 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: kind of weird kind type of person. So I just 52 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: I just don't think like guy will ever understanding that 53 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: how female body works. And actually we can just intertain 54 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: ourselves to feel satisfied with movement. 55 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: You're telling me that you can come, Yeah, using just 56 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 2: your brand, you can, but you don't have to touch 57 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 2: yourself at all. You can just be watching porn and 58 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: you can come just using your own brand. 59 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, and just watching I prefer agent type of porn, 60 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: So I just watch it and then find the genre 61 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: I like it and then I can finish down in 62 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: under ten minutes. Now, all tell you I can do 63 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: all the stuff. 64 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 2: Okay. So I have multiple questions if you're willing to 65 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: answer them. 66 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: Sure, So like. 67 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: When you are you okay? So like are you are 68 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 2: you applying any like pressure mentally? You know, like are 69 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: you like like okay in the sense of like okay? 70 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 2: So like if if if I'm masturbating, I can like 71 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: choose how much force to put upon my genitals, and 72 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 2: I can and it's like, I guess, like edging or whatever, 73 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: Like I can, I can turn that force up and 74 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 2: down like a faucet. Right, Are you doing that with 75 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 2: your are you doing that with your brain? Or is 76 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 2: it just like a like you put on the porn 77 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 2: and it's like a steady you know, walk to the 78 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 2: finish line. 79 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 1: I'm kind of both, but I'm more like a I 80 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: would say I'm very sexually hot. I'm a highly sexual person, 81 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: but with a man or with a woman, I'm bisexual. 82 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: But I can't reach out that kind of climax with 83 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: the people with a human kind. But I'm not sure 84 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm poor diction or what. But if I watch porn 85 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: or just watch a well I don't know, like a 86 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: poorn article or whatever, it will make me reach high 87 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: climates and make me feel really good. And I'm not 88 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 1: sure like what kind of condition or what what? What 89 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: the what the fuck is issue with me? But just 90 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: like it's hard for me to really have a real 91 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: good sex with people because I cannot feel lot interesting. 92 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 2: So okay, so watch just watching porn alone? So just 93 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: watching porn alone, not even touching yourself is a sexual Okay, 94 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 2: so that's a better sexual experience for you than like 95 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: being with an actual human being. Yes, yes, interesting. Well 96 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 2: you know what's funny is uh? I mean I think 97 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 2: like if I had to think of if I were 98 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 2: thinking about like the I don't know, I feel like 99 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 2: masturbating and like having sex, they're almost they're like they're 100 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 2: a little apple and orange in a way. They're kind 101 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 2: of too different experiences that give different they're they're they're 102 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: not like a one to one pleasure ratio, you know 103 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 2: what I mean. Like do you still do you still 104 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 2: like take pleasure in having sex in like its own 105 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 2: unique way, in its own way like pleasure in a 106 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 2: way that's kind of like unique to masturbation. 107 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not I'm dating or looking for 108 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: any do right now because I feel like they it 109 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: just I'm certifying now, or it's just like I don't 110 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: want to waste my time on people I don't like, 111 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: or just you know, having hookup that kind of stuff. 112 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: So pretty much just like I'm just watched tooth whyever 113 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: I like and just done ten minutes or time minutes 114 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: and no I don't know. I don't know what's wrong 115 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: with me? Is that just something I kind of kind 116 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: of like it. I guess, well, I. 117 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 2: Don't think there's anything I don't think there's anything inherently 118 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 2: wrong with you. I think there's a lot of I 119 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: don't think there's anything wrong. I mean, it's definitely fascinating 120 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 2: that you just like have trained yourself to because it's 121 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 2: because some I feel like, because there's some women where 122 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: like they need a lot, like you know, they got 123 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 2: to build a fucking pee wee Herman breakfast machine to 124 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 2: have a have an orgasm, and for you to just 125 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 2: like do it with your brain is very interesting. But 126 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: I don't think anything. I don't think it's anything wrong 127 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: with you. I mean there's there's just like a lot 128 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: of people who prefer yeah, well, I guess like prefer 129 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 2: poorn and masturbating to like the Well, let me ask 130 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: you this, is it just like because obviously, obviously man 131 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 2: or it's easier to just like sit at home and 132 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 2: watch porn and masturbate than it is to like do 133 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: the whole fucking thing that is required to. 134 00:07:54,960 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get. I mean I 135 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 1: get what one man feels like it's a kind of 136 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: a lot of work. Why don't they just watching porn? 137 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: I finished that and they can do all the things. 138 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: I get that, and that's why I feel said too, 139 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: I like having sex with a man or whatever it is. 140 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: It's just kind of too much work because I could 141 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: have to pretend it, you know, like, oh my gosh, 142 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: and that sucks. 143 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: Oh you've oh you've like had to like fake an orgasm. 144 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I feel it, but it's not like 145 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: that kind of good or it's like a probably one 146 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 1: or two second that kind of feeling, but it's not 147 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: really reach out that kind of you know, so you 148 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: still have to like stay thank you for that person 149 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: for put the appro on your body, you know, otherwise 150 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: it kind of sucks. M hm. 151 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 2: How did so, like, what's the what's the have you 152 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: Have you been to the US before or like lived there, 153 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: spend any time there? 154 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: No? I never, but I a lot of foreigners. 155 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 2: Interesting, So what is what is like the dating scene 156 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: like for you in Tokyo? 157 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: In Tokyo, So, I'm I'm not sure. I'm I'm it's 158 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: my preference or I'm just racist. I'm just I don't 159 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: like agent that much. It's not because they're peanuts or whatever. 160 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: I don't find their looks is something like, you know, 161 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 1: I find it really handsome or anything. So I prefer 162 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: like a like an English people who speak English and 163 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: they they I don't. I just find a lot of 164 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 1: common with with you, with people, uh you know, American 165 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: or European, that type of people, and you know, somehow 166 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: we just end out on the bed and something. But 167 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: the sex is just not nothing that impressed me. 168 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 2: What is it that you think you find more in 169 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: common with foreigners than with Asian people? 170 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: Common there's no common with foreigner agent people, I mean 171 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: agent people. They are not really cool, express their feeling 172 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: and them sell whenever they are dating. I think it's 173 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: just very confused me and I don't like it because 174 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,679 Speaker 1: I'm very direct person. If I like you, I like you, 175 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: if we connect, we have a good chemistry, then we 176 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: can you know, just go go the next step. I 177 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 1: just prefer like that. 178 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I give you. But I know that I 179 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: feel like I talked to someone about this on this podcast. 180 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 2: But there's there's a word in Japanese or like a 181 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: phrase of like like the two faces, like the one 182 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 2: you show to the public. 183 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's Japanese. Like actually 184 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: from Taiwan. I've been being japan for a while. That's kot. 185 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 2: I thought you're Japanese. 186 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 1: I mean, I was born in Japan. It's kind of complicated, 187 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm but. 188 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 2: You were you were born in Japan. 189 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:13,080 Speaker 1: Though I was born in Osaka. 190 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 2: That makes that makes Japanese, doesn't it? 191 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 1: Now? Because uh, my parents choose my nationality still in Taiwan, 192 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: so I'm not Japanese. 193 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, I guess do they have the same thing 194 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 2: that if you're born in America, you just automatically granted 195 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 2: the citizenship. 196 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm not. I don't know much about America, 197 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: but yeah, that's a you know, I'm fucked up. Taiwan 198 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: is kind of fucked up now. A wife, I guess, 199 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: did you grow up into what? 200 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 2: Did you grow up in Taiwan or did you grow 201 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 2: up in Japan? 202 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: I after high school, I graduated and I decided to 203 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: move to move back to Japan. I don't see my 204 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: future much in Taiwan, so I started college and worked here. 205 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 1: Still now I still in them. Mm hmm. 206 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: Do you I mean the whole thing of like, but 207 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: the whole thing of like I guess being like generally 208 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 2: like being reserved or trying to like, like you say, 209 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 2: you're a very direct person, Like do you feel like 210 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 2: in like Javanese culture too that like that's like discouraged. 211 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, or just my personality is kind of 212 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: like very forward and kind of strong, the kind of 213 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 1: like mummy type of the dummy type of that kind 214 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: of feeling to people. Most of like just say I'm 215 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: I'm too much too strong. The power is like what 216 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: is it? I mean, like I don't know. People people 217 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: give me to kind of different kind of answer. One 218 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: is like I really like it was very scared. 219 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 2: Well, you know what I are the people. I think 220 00:12:56,720 --> 00:13:06,479 Speaker 2: that there's probably a strong overlap between those two groups. Yeah, interesting, 221 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 2: have you have you always? Uh so? Have you always 222 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 2: been like that? Have you always been kind of like 223 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 2: a more direct, assertive person or is that something that 224 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 2: you developed? 225 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I'm very I think I'm way too direct 226 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: or maybe I'm just autistic. I don't know. Man, it's 227 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: just like liszt and I offend it and it's hard 228 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: for me to be friends or make friends here because 229 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: my you know, Japan. People in Japan are very conservative, 230 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 1: They don't. They have to sink some sink before they say. 231 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,319 Speaker 1: But I don't have that process. I just say it, 232 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: and I might might hurt someone or my you know 233 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: being like being will be in trouble while. So it's 234 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 1: hard for me to make friends here. 235 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmmm. No, I know that it's a 236 00:13:56,880 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 2: very I know it's a very reserved culture for sure. 237 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 238 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you know, I've I've I have like friends 239 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 2: in Japan who are Japanese who talk about talk about 240 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 2: all that. Yeah, do you go to a lot of 241 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 2: like I know, there's a lot like this is a 242 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 2: huge like foreigner community there, do you like? Yeah? 243 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, I was actually was I was doing 244 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: bottle humping hopping like yesterday in Hinjukupa. Yeah, there's nothing 245 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 1: much going on. I was just at like a city 246 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: record bar or something, and it's it's funny, like no 247 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: one really talked to me or or trying to give 248 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: me a look or anything. So it's pretty sad here. 249 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 2: Fuck you, honestly, you you're talking about going bar hopping 250 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 2: and Shinjuku is fucking making me want to be in 251 00:14:53,480 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 2: Japan so badly right now. Yeah, it's it's h dude, 252 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 2: it's funny Japan, like like I know, it's like I know, 253 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: it's like a meme. It's kind of like a meme 254 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 2: at this point Japan, like like like a fucking white 255 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: guy love in Japan, Like but I mean it makes 256 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: it makes sense because like if you if you're if 257 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 2: you just like come there from like the West and 258 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 2: you like dick around like with all the cool shit, 259 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 2: like yeah, of course you're gonna have a good time. 260 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: But if you like are born there and grow up 261 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 2: there and like deal with the the like every like 262 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 2: everything is nice there, Like guess the thing is everything 263 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 2: is like nicer there and cleaner there. But why And 264 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 2: then you're like, well because of a general generally more 265 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: conservative uh culture which is probably like more fun to 266 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 2: I which I assume is more fun to like visit 267 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 2: than it is to like go to school or work in. 268 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's clean, but sometimes you feel like too much, 269 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: like you just want to like it's a little bit 270 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: mass a little bit like LISZT and La is fine, 271 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: but Japan is like really they need to be kind 272 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 1: of old CD. They need to be two hundred percent 273 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: like las or I don't know. 274 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 2: So people are not uh chatting you up in the bar. 275 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 2: Nobody's nobody's uh yourself. 276 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. Last night, let me tell you one last thing. 277 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: Last night, I was at your Coast color as a 278 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: military American military bar there and there's a guy I 279 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: really like it. Hey look like a Harvey Divens and 280 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: that kind of bike rider, that kind of gain type 281 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 1: of do. And I found he's so hot and I 282 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: straight I just walked straight to him and said, hey, 283 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: I like how you look like. And he kind of supper. 284 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 1: I don't scared. I'm not sure. I'm trying to read 285 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 1: his mind that he just give me a look and 286 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 1: give me say oh, thank you, and then he just 287 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: say have a good day, and he laughed. I was like, well, 288 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, wait, well why would you be sorry? 289 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 2: It say? He sounded he seemed flattered. 290 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 3: I don't know, he just laugh. I mean, I feel 291 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 3: like I just. 292 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: Like he wants to be quiet. But maybe I just like, 293 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 1: shouldn't shouldn't just walk away and say you're looking to 294 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: whatever or this guy doesn't like that anymore. 295 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: Listen, listen, you gotta shoot your shot. You got to 296 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 2: shoot your shot. 297 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 1: I did, baby and baby gaggle. 298 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 2: I did you got to shoot your shot? I think 299 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 2: you sound you gotta keep shooting your shot. I mean, 300 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 2: are you you said that you don't want to date anymore? 301 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 2: Are you like trying to find like a like like 302 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 2: a like a like a real relationship. 303 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: I mean I'm not I'm not even I'm dating up 304 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: or anything, because I'm just wasting my time. So basically 305 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 1: I'm just like going out and just see the people. 306 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,360 Speaker 1: I think it's cool. Maybe, or go to a bar. 307 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: It's more easy to talk to people, but it's hard, man. 308 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: Just like I probably just fucked myself to death. 309 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 2: Wow, fucking yourself to death without even touching yourself sounds 310 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 2: like a crazy way to die. 311 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 1: Well, get it. I mean that's a that's a very 312 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: very poetic way to die, and it's kind of a 313 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: beautiful way to die. 314 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so too. Definitely, Yeah it is. 315 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you don't want anyone fuck you up, so 316 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 1: I just fuck yourself in another way? 317 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 2: Do you can? I ask you? Okay, I just one 318 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 2: more question about the like masturbating mentally thing. Do you 319 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: are you? Are you like? Are you like the X 320 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 2: Men where you're like staring deeply into your vagina while 321 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 2: you're doing it or are you like are your eyes 322 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 2: closed and you're somewhere else? Like where are you looking at? 323 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: I I'm just watching a video and my mind will 324 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: just give me like a vibe. Do you know there's 325 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: a kind of yoga will give you a kind of 326 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: vibration and your whole body you'll feel something that kind 327 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:36,880 Speaker 1: of stuff. Mhm, something like that, I think. But it's 328 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 1: different because I'm not doing yoga. I'm just my brain 329 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 1: giving it kind of like a feeling or whatever was 330 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: I pull English? I don't know. And then you're you're 331 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: your dumb part, you will doing something for you, and 332 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,919 Speaker 1: then you were rich a really good high climax. 333 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. 334 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. Always plan to you because not even 335 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: the chadge if he or my daughter know what's going 336 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: on with me. Oh you have a daughter, I have 337 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: a I have a dactor. I have a therapy and 338 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 1: I told him about it and he don't understand what's 339 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: going on too. 340 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 2: What is your how old is your daughter? 341 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: My? Oh? My daughter? My daughter? Not not not my daughter? 342 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 2: Oh oh oh okay, okay you're okay doctor and therapist. Okay, 343 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 2: I thought you said your daughter. 344 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I mean, I don't think I'm capable for 345 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: having kids anyway. 346 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 2: Wait, you asked your doctor about is it. I don't 347 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,239 Speaker 2: know if this is this a I don't know if 348 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 2: this is a medical This is kind of like when 349 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 2: that kid on the playground would be like, look, I 350 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 2: can pop my like thumb out of its socket. You know, 351 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 2: it's I don't know if it's like a medical issue 352 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:58,120 Speaker 2: or anything like that. 353 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, he say he can't help with that. He just 354 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: tell me. It's like, do whatever makes you happy, That's 355 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: what he say. I was like, Okay, then maybe I 356 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: would just suck really handsOn tree if I find one. 357 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 2: You will, you'll do what. 358 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: I'd say if I maybe I would desperately just find 359 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 1: a handsOn tree and suck the tree. 360 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 2: Then Oh yeah, okay, I think you're talking about like 361 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:30,360 Speaker 2: a literal I was good. I thought you were talking 362 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:31,399 Speaker 2: about like a litteral tree. 363 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 364 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: Have you ever seen a tree? Have you ever seen 365 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,679 Speaker 2: two trees next to each other where you're like, you 366 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,400 Speaker 2: look at one and you're like and you're like, I'd 367 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 2: fuck that tree, but I wouldn't fuck that tree. 368 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 1: Oh man, you have no idea how many times I 369 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 1: want to suck a tree. 370 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 2: Bro, why would you want Why do you want to 371 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 2: suck a tree? 372 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just so sick and strong. I 373 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: like strong men, and that kind of muscular is remind 374 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: me of just like kind of I don't know, just 375 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 1: kind of connect with the tree. I don't have no idea. 376 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 2: Why that makes perfect No, it makes perfect sense. I 377 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 2: like that a tree is your here being out. 378 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what'll get if someday you can find 379 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,200 Speaker 1: that it might be in a four is fucking a tree? 380 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 2: That's not a bad way to go, either fucking yourself 381 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 2: to death or I either fucking yourself to death or 382 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 2: escaping into the wilderness. To have orgies with trees are 383 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:42,719 Speaker 2: not Yeah. I actually I think before do me a favorite, 384 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 2: before you fuck yourself to death, which I hope you 385 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 2: don't do. I really hope you don't do. Okay, you should, Yeah, 386 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 2: consider having like having having tree orgies. Yeah, I can't 387 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 2: I get trees being hot. There are they're providers. They 388 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 2: provide nutrients for the rest of uh for like the animals. 389 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 2: They provide us with the stable that I'm leaning on 390 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 2: right now. Yeah, trees are hot. I'm with you. 391 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, you're with me. 392 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 2: Man, I might go. Maybe I well, I live in 393 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 2: New York, so I there's no place. There's no place 394 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 2: where I could suck a tree that I wouldn't get arrested. 395 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:27,480 Speaker 2: But maybe I don't know about it when I'm back 396 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 2: home off the tree. 397 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. If I fire a tree that 398 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 1: you like, and you know, the sick one, then the 399 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 1: sick the better. 400 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 2: How often are you how often are you going out 401 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 2: to these bars in Tokyo? 402 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,640 Speaker 1: So lately I'm trying different type of a different bar. 403 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: There's a like a Vieni style bar record or the 404 00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:01,360 Speaker 1: seventies ict pop a bar or type of music bar. 405 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying different ones, and like two times a week 406 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 1: something like that. 407 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 2: Do you do you work? 408 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: I do? Yeah, what do you do? I'm I'm ana 409 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: like it was I called English? So there? Do you 410 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: know in Japan there's like a dollar shop it's called Dyson. 411 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 2: Yeah I know the Dyson. 412 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I work there. 413 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 2: Oh cool? 414 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 415 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah fuck man you know that fuck you know it's 416 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 2: so stupid. I'm so stud you know that meme that's 417 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,160 Speaker 2: like thing thing Japan. 418 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm not sure which means though there's a lot of 419 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:49,919 Speaker 1: meanings all right. 420 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 2: So there's okay, there's this meme and it's like a 421 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,640 Speaker 2: do you know what a woejack is? 422 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, no world jack. 423 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 2: Okay, it's it's like all right, So it's like a wojack. 424 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,719 Speaker 2: And for those who don't know what everyone listening to 425 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 2: this knows what a wojack is, even if they don't know, 426 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: it's called wojack. So just google wojack and you'll know 427 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 2: what I'm talking about. So it's uh, it's the it's like, 428 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 2: it's a wojack. Who's like okay, So imagine a wojack 429 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 2: and he's looking at the dollar store in America and 430 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: he's like eh, and then the bottom is a wojack 431 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:32,119 Speaker 2: and he's doing that like OMG, that's so cool face 432 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 2: and it's the dicon. 433 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: Oh what the helmet. 434 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,159 Speaker 2: It's like this, say, it's like a fucking dollar here, 435 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 2: it would be a dollar store. It's not that cool. 436 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: But in Japan it's like a thing is like man, 437 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 2: but thing Japan is like whoa, that's so crazy. 438 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: Wait, they do have a dye song in Hawaii or 439 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 1: they don't have the men America they have. 440 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 2: They have most they have a lot of the Japanese 441 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 2: ship in uh in Hawaii, like seven eleven is shitty here, 442 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 2: but it's great in Japan and it's also great in Hawaii. 443 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what a geyko? 444 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:20,120 Speaker 2: What's up? 445 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:24,240 Speaker 1: Dude? If you ever come you ever come back here? Actually, 446 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: I actually have check your instagram sometimes. If you ever 447 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 1: come back here, we should hang out with what's that 448 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,959 Speaker 1: called sinset? What's a sense martians Martian? 449 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's my boy. 450 00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's he's your boy. 451 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 1: Let's time I met him as well as your show man. 452 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,880 Speaker 2: He's yeah fuck yeah, wait, how do you know? How 453 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 2: do you for reference? Uh? Since since since I made 454 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 2: a video where I walked across uh a part of Japan. 455 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, that's it. 456 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I met I made it with this a 457 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 2: friend of mine, Jace Sense Martian, friend of mine Sense Marsham. Yeah, 458 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 2: how do you know him? 459 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: I you know what? I know him earlier leting you 460 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 1: know this guy? I just found him randomly on the 461 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: on the Instagram and I found. 462 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 2: Wait you met him? 463 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 1: Cool? 464 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:25,159 Speaker 2: You met you found out about Sense Martian before you 465 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 2: before you found out about me through Sense Martian. 466 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 467 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 2: That's awesome. That's so cool. 468 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, he is cool Doo and I'm glad you saw 469 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 1: him because he's a kool Doo man. 470 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 2: I was so for Okay, So for the listeners, I'll 471 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 2: tell a brief story. I was in Japan in uh 472 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 2: like twenty twenty two and I was live streaming, like 473 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: on the street. I was doing like an IRL stream 474 00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 2: and in my chat this guy was And then in 475 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 2: my chat, this guy was like, uh, yo, I know 476 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 2: where you. I know where that is that you are. 477 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: I was like near some temple I think since so 478 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 2: g or something like that. I was here something famous temple. 479 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 2: I was at a soak. Yeah, I was at a 480 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 2: soaksa and this guy sense Martian in my chat is like, yo, 481 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 2: I know where you are. Stay right there. I'm gonna 482 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 2: I'll come say what's up. And I was like, there's 483 00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,479 Speaker 2: a guy in my chat who like lives in Tokyo. 484 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck? And so everyone else 485 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 2: in the chat is like, no, it's always I was like, okay, 486 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 2: I'll wait for you. I was getting extreme sniped by 487 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 2: this guy. And then everyone else in the chat is like, no, Lyle, 488 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 2: don't wait because this guy is just trolling you. This 489 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 2: is just a random dude probably lives in Nebraska. He's 490 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 2: just trolling you, making you wait there, think he's gonna 491 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: meet you. And I said to all them, I was like, 492 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 2: you know what, No, I believe in sense Martian. I 493 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 2: think Sinsey Martian is a real guy who lives in Japan. 494 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 2: Who's who's gonna stream snuf bus and come over and 495 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 2: say what's up? And my chat was like, no, while 496 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 2: you're you're an idiot, you're being fooled and lo and 497 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 2: behold a man yeah comes out, comes up to me 498 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: and I'm like and he's like, yo, Lyle, what's up? 499 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 2: And I'm like, are you since a Martian? He's like, 500 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 2: I'm since a Martian? And then he and I walked 501 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 2: and chatted on the live stream for like three hours 502 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: or some shit like that. We became homies. 503 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: Holy yeah yeah. 504 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 2: Then and then this fucking guy Uh Okay, so so 505 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 2: I met him because he streamslipes me. And then this 506 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: guy Uh messages me like a year later or something 507 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 2: and he's like, yo, I I actually walked actually, like 508 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 2: he said to them me like uh yo. Like we 509 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 2: talked a lot about like get like I was trying 510 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 2: to get into live streaming at the time, and since 511 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: then I have walked across all of Japan. This motherfucker 512 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 2: literally literally walked from the very top of Japan all 513 00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 2: the way to the very bottom. Yeah. Yeah, so that's 514 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:05,080 Speaker 2: a story of sense. It's really crazy. That's crazy. You 515 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 2: know through him? 516 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 1: I know, yeah, I know him before you know him already. 517 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 2: Hmmm mm hmmm are you when did you how long 518 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 2: have you been living in Tokyo for. 519 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: I'm living Japan for sixteen years? 520 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 2: I know, sixteen years. Yeah, dude, you know what's crazy? 521 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 2: And I don't know if you have thoughts about this, uh, 522 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 2: And I don't know if this is like an Asian 523 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 2: culture thing or a japan I'm gonna know. I'm gonna 524 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 2: say this is like a Japan thing. But it's weird 525 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 2: to be because you're talking about like the the like 526 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 2: mental masturbation stuff. One thing that was always like kind 527 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 2: of weird to me is that is that Japan has 528 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 2: like supposedly this Japan has this like very like conservative culture, 529 00:30:54,800 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: but yet they also have this reputation for like zany 530 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 2: like stuff and like like crazy those crazy TV shows 531 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 2: and like you know, crazy. 532 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: Like they can be. They can be crazy and nasty. 533 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, they can be like they like. They're also known 534 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 2: for like like crazy sex stuff like Shibari the rope 535 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 2: tying ship and like like I've been to that like 536 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 2: crazy get. 537 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 1: Get do you want go get? I know I know people, 538 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 1: you know you know people? Yeah, I know, I know. 539 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 2: You might have you might have. You might have to 540 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 2: send me a d M after this. 541 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: I want? 542 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 2: But is that but the ICONM? But you know, I'm curious, 543 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 2: like why do you think that? Why do you think that? 544 00:31:54,480 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 2: Is of like there's a thing where they are, uh, simultaneously, 545 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 2: there's this weird conservative thing that's like alongside this like 546 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,440 Speaker 2: very zany culture and all this kind of crazy sex 547 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 2: stuff like what is like and it's like the jav 548 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 2: industry and like there's all like there is a lot 549 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 2: of like like what's up with that? What's up with that? Contradiction? 550 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Japan's like you're very bipolar. Either it's really like uh, 551 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 1: you know nothing or there's something going on on the ground. 552 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 1: So yes, I mean if you know people, then you know, 553 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,560 Speaker 1: like this country is like it's true, it's beyond hand 554 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 1: tie actually beyond hand Tai like extremely weird. Yeah, it's 555 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: beyond hand Ti. It's real like because I mean it 556 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: kind of a special group of people and I know 557 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:51,760 Speaker 1: them and I see them and if I I mean, 558 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 1: do you know happening bar? Get I I might know. 559 00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 2: What I know what I know what happening bar is. 560 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,640 Speaker 2: I've never been to one, but I know what it is. 561 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was because I was curious, So I 562 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 1: was there. So it was. 563 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,920 Speaker 2: Very like what you went to the happening bar? 564 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? Actually, yeah, what what was it like? So? Uh? 565 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 2: I was? 566 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: I was there along land somehow there's a I you know, 567 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 1: there's a room for people just sit there, but there's 568 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: another room for people to have a sexual activity and 569 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 1: you can just like look from the people like hall 570 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: and look at them having sex and you can join 571 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: or not, and there will be some more and more 572 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 1: people going out and the group of people getting bang 573 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: or what ra is it? And you can hear like 574 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: there they're sound and why ra is it going on? 575 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 1: Actually just like three D sets in front of you. 576 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 2: So that for those who don't know the happening bar 577 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 2: is basically it's like a swinger's are pretty much where like. 578 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, English, I guess, yeah. 579 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a swingers bar pretty much. Yeah, Okay, 580 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 2: so I heard that I know that there's like a 581 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 2: thing where you can like look through the window to 582 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:19,239 Speaker 2: see people having sex. Now it's now I think, yeah, yeah, 583 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:20,879 Speaker 2: I think you know what kabook Chow. 584 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 1: Yeah mostly I got yeah, that's. 585 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 2: Where all the like kabuk show is where all the 586 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 2: like crazy stuff happens. 587 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, no one there. 588 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yeah, I know that there's like 589 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 2: like okay, so I know, I know that. I think 590 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 2: there's some happening bars that are like foreigners can go to, 591 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 2: but they're mostly like only allowed if you're like Japanese. 592 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: Right, m that's not really Actually there's a lot of 593 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: you know why the country people you can come just 594 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: bring an idea and you can just sunk wherever you 595 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: like him. 596 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 2: So, how how would you rate your experience at the 597 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 2: happening bar? 598 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,839 Speaker 1: I only been layer once. I mean I was too 599 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,200 Speaker 1: pussy to stay there longer because of all the ship 600 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,359 Speaker 1: going on. I will say it's like a seven hours 601 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: of ten. 602 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 2: Wait, seven of ten is pretty good rating? Was it 603 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 2: was it? Like? 604 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: Like? 605 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 2: What like was this? 606 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? 607 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 2: Did it feel weird? 608 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: It feels definitely weird. It feels like a different dimension 609 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 1: because everyone just just like eating any another person eating 610 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: another ad another person analytic that kind of things that 611 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 1: you know, would you just for you to to to say, 612 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,240 Speaker 1: I mean, you just have to win you see yourself? 613 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yeah, I would be very fascinated to go. 614 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,319 Speaker 2: I was, I would be very fascinated to see what's 615 00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:58,400 Speaker 2: going on in these happening. 616 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: Yes, and you should. You should go with the sense 617 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 1: that Marsha, I. 618 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,960 Speaker 2: Do not know if I don't know, if I don't 619 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 2: know if Sanse Marshall would come with me to a 620 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 2: happening bart. Yeah, I don't know if you would come 621 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 2: just happens. 622 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,240 Speaker 1: I mean, or just go yourself after that makeup podcast 623 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:26,279 Speaker 1: about that and my my my journey of it. But 624 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 1: like what you can't bring any like a video. 625 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 2: But here's the thing. But here's the thing though, is 626 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 2: like like a single I feel like a single dude 627 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 2: rocking in alone is not going to have the best 628 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 2: time at a happening bar. 629 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:46,840 Speaker 1: I'd have to imagine, well, well, get you have no 630 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 1: idea there's some like a very interesting woman that will 631 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: come come to talk to you. Maybe I don't know, 632 00:36:54,120 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: I see there's a lot of cougars. 633 00:36:55,640 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 2: Of interesting interesting. 634 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:04,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, interesting, Okay, of the kind of type. 635 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'll h I will certainly be I will 636 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:13,279 Speaker 2: certainly write that down in my notes app as a 637 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 2: thing that I might do with my life at some 638 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,680 Speaker 2: point next time I go to Japan. 639 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean why not? 640 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 2: Oh what was the ratio? Like? Is it like mostly dudes? 641 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: No? No, there's a do and the girls like not, 642 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 1: there's not like a much girl must do or I 643 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: don't know some sometimes it depends on the event or 644 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: because every day I have a type of different scene, 645 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,360 Speaker 1: like a naked party or game band or like a 646 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: hand tie party that kind of stuff. Every day it's different. 647 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 2: You said that you are like, you know this group 648 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 2: of people or something that you've seen them go beyond 649 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 2: stai who is this group? It's just like. 650 00:37:55,400 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, absolutely heard about this. Uh this 651 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: website is called fat Life. So fat Life has a 652 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,040 Speaker 1: lot of people doing like a kind of different stuff 653 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 1: than the normal people do. So I just joined different 654 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: kind of group in Japan. Then I just realized that 655 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 1: that's really fucked up, and I kind of like it 656 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: so interesting to know what's going on, and they just 657 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 1: show me while they look really doing it, and it's 658 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,719 Speaker 1: like a whole new worlds. 659 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:28,560 Speaker 2: Me, whoa what and they're doing like shabari? Yeah, like 660 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:29,759 Speaker 2: what like what does that look like? 661 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Shabali actually kind of cool and they have 662 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: a different type of Uh. You just pay like a 663 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,760 Speaker 1: two thousand, three thousand and join the the whole process 664 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,520 Speaker 1: the event, and they will just show you how they 665 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 1: tie the girl. Kind of cool. 666 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 2: Actually, all right, you might have to send me a 667 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 2: d M and tell me where. Yeah, I will, okay, 668 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 2: and so I can go, so I can go to 669 00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 2: them for research. 670 00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, I was. I was sending you immediately after 671 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 1: this call. 672 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 2: On the on the Therapy Get podcast. Wow. Yeah, it's 673 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 2: interesting now I. 674 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 1: Was, I just send you on your Instagram. 675 00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:16,360 Speaker 2: Sure, sure, sure, for sure? Wait can I yeah, okay, 676 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,920 Speaker 2: wall are you sending me a profile of someone? Or 677 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 2: is this wait? Is this like can I can I 678 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,240 Speaker 2: live look at this? Or is this like a private 679 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 2: thing that you're sending me? 680 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 1: Oh? 681 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 2: You mean wait like this event? 682 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: I mean this event? I mean how can I say that? 683 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,920 Speaker 1: I mean maybe you just need to join be a 684 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,160 Speaker 1: like a to be a member of the website and 685 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 1: you will be fine because there's like nothing nothing too 686 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: too complicated. You just need to die out your email 687 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and you don't have to be 688 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 1: fully like a tell you what you're into or your name. 689 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 1: You can be just what I raised the Kobie monster, 690 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 1: or I raise. 691 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:07,879 Speaker 2: It sli interesting, dude, it is so it's so fat. 692 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 2: I wanted I got to talk to like a historian 693 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:13,560 Speaker 2: or some ship, because I that dichotomy going on in 694 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 2: Japan is genuinely just fascinating to me. 695 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, mm hmm. 696 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude. I went to the uh uh I went 697 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,319 Speaker 2: to this big, like six story sex shop and they 698 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 2: have like have you there's there's a specific like famous 699 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 2: one I think in Akiapara. Uh oh yeah, dude, and 700 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 2: they have the I don't the jury's out on if 701 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 2: this is real. I think it's not real. I think 702 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,879 Speaker 2: they're using I think they're I think there that it's fake. 703 00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,799 Speaker 2: But there's a vending machine where you can buy like 704 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,440 Speaker 2: period blood panties. 705 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I heard that. I've seen well. 706 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:05,760 Speaker 2: Though, but that's got it. That's gotta be like fucking 707 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 2: like panties with like red dye on it, right, Like, 708 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 2: there's no way they're really collect How are they going 709 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:12,920 Speaker 2: to source that? 710 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean if it's real. That's fucked up. 711 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: If it's not real, and that's still weird, I mean, 712 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 1: what the fuck? 713 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't it is, it's I don't know. That's 714 00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,560 Speaker 2: that's gotta be someone's thing, you know what. That's my 715 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 2: guess is that it's not real, but it's someone's thing, 716 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 2: And so they're engaged in a suspension of disbelief. They're 717 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 2: engaged in a suspension of disbelief where they buy it, yea, 718 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,439 Speaker 2: believing it could be real, kind of like how people 719 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,799 Speaker 2: will like chat on OnlyFans with a lady and it's 720 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,880 Speaker 2: clearly not them. But again, the suspension of disbelief is 721 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,279 Speaker 2: keep it, keeping the boner alive, and then they just like, 722 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 2: you know, it's just for them to it's it's it's 723 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 2: a win all around. They get to pretend like they're 724 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:11,960 Speaker 2: smelling period blood panties and nobody has to volunteer their 725 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 2: period blood. 726 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 1: There is a website in Japan. There's a website in 727 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,040 Speaker 1: Japan people buying underwear, and you know, on the it's 728 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 1: all like a high school kid and they still the cheese. 729 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 1: Christ Yeah, I've seen that before. Yes, Jesus, it's very nasty, 730 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:36,120 Speaker 1: very nasty. Yes, yeah it is. Yeah, well, I. 731 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,320 Speaker 2: You know, Japan has nice stuff too. Fuck I missed 732 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 2: the damn why you're making me want to fucking you're 733 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 2: making me think about like the loss and. 734 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 1: Oh baby, and Lost Night is the best. Lost Night 735 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:51,440 Speaker 1: is a genius. 736 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,359 Speaker 2: Yes, Lost In is a genius. 737 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, they have a lot of good food and you 738 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,000 Speaker 1: know they have a good case and why raise it? 739 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 2: I love it there. There are three main convenience store 740 00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:09,479 Speaker 2: chains in Tokyo. There's the Loss in the Family seven 741 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 2: eleven and yeah they're open twenty four hours. They have 742 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:14,360 Speaker 2: delicious food. 743 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:16,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 744 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 2: Fuck all right, all right, I gotta make it back there. 745 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 2: I should have moved. No, I'm glad. I'm I'm I 746 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,960 Speaker 2: think it's okay that I didn't move. But I'm like, damn, 747 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:28,200 Speaker 2: pant's pretty cool. 748 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. What else do you miss about Japan beside convenience store? 749 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:40,479 Speaker 2: Well, I like, uh, well, actually, what's funny is while 750 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,000 Speaker 2: I was there, I was there for two months and 751 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,319 Speaker 2: I went to a lot of stuff, Like I went 752 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 2: to yeah, you know, I went to this like art 753 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 2: party event thing. I went to this uh twitch event thing. 754 00:43:55,880 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 2: I went to poker night, I went to I went 755 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:05,320 Speaker 2: I was dude, I went to synagogue in Tokyo once. 756 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 1: That's so cool. 757 00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,319 Speaker 2: My friend and I I was just like, uh, I 758 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:15,320 Speaker 2: was just like I wonder what, like I wanted to 759 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 2: show my friend like Jewish stuff, and so I was like, 760 00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,680 Speaker 2: is there a synagogue? I was like. So I was like, 761 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:26,000 Speaker 2: is there a synagogue in Tokyo? Like what is that like? 762 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,720 Speaker 2: And so we went and we had like Shabbat dinner 763 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,839 Speaker 2: at this synagogue in Tokyo, and there was like there 764 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,759 Speaker 2: was one there was like one Japanese. There was like 765 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,200 Speaker 2: one old Japanese woman there. I mean, there was a 766 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 2: lot of people there. They were mainly like they're they're 767 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,479 Speaker 2: all over the world, but there's only one Japanese person there. 768 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 2: And she wasn't even Jewish. She was just like she 769 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 2: was just like a fuck with this, this is interesting. 770 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 2: So she just shows up and but yeah, I went 771 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:59,400 Speaker 2: to all this stuff and like, uh, it was cool 772 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,600 Speaker 2: because even though there is a thing like a little 773 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 2: a thing that feels like, guess a little bit isolating 774 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 2: or lonely about like being a foreigner in a country, 775 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 2: there's so many spaces where you can get together with 776 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:20,120 Speaker 2: other foreigners and so like the community aspect is really strong. Yeah, 777 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,759 Speaker 2: I went to this like I went to I went 778 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,960 Speaker 2: to this like English like like this thing where like 779 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 2: you just show up and like people are like this. 780 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,279 Speaker 2: There's Japanese people there but also foreigners and everyone's just 781 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 2: trying to practice their English. So you just show up 782 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 2: and just talk to a table of people and yeah, 783 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:38,879 Speaker 2: they just have all they have all these different kinds 784 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 2: of interesting events. Yeah, so I felt like, I felt 785 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:47,560 Speaker 2: like that there's a strong there's a strong foreigner community there. 786 00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 2: So I missed doing that kind of stuff that was fun. 787 00:45:53,239 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you should try well, I don't know, 788 00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,799 Speaker 1: maybe hi hike, you should hike a little or just 789 00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 1: hike a mountain Fuji or some shit. I don't know. 790 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 2: Well, the last time I was there, we did the 791 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:12,920 Speaker 2: Nacascendo trail. 792 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, not Cancento, but I mean if you try to 793 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: or be near or the near the mountain Fujia or something, 794 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:23,120 Speaker 1: that'll be cool. 795 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 2: Man. I don't know if I have it in me 796 00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:27,360 Speaker 2: to hike some shit. 797 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,320 Speaker 1: You're too tired. 798 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like a nice I like a flat incline. 799 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 2: I'll take a flat incline anyhow. Week that's my favorite 800 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,320 Speaker 2: kind of incline is none. 801 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get I get you. Yeah, yeah, I feel you. 802 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,879 Speaker 2: Rica. You said your name was. 803 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, I'm so glad you still remember my name. 804 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 2: Yes, well, I also have it right in front of me. Okay, 805 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,279 Speaker 2: actually no, I haven't run in front of me, but 806 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 2: I didn't look at it, so I did remember it. Yes, 807 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 2: I did remember it. I haven't run from so I 808 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:11,400 Speaker 2: do remember it. Rika. I appreciate you, uh, sharing all 809 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,520 Speaker 2: this stuff with us. This was this was a yeah, 810 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,719 Speaker 2: this is a fascinating call. This was this. I feel 811 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 2: like this was It was nostalgic for me, just thinking 812 00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:20,879 Speaker 2: about Japan and. 813 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 1: Shot oh yeah yeah, and. 814 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 2: Uh learning about crazy stuff. I'm very I'm curious. I'm 815 00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 2: going to check out this whatever stuff that you send me. 816 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I will send you in your Instagram, so yeah, 817 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:38,439 Speaker 1: you can. 818 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:44,799 Speaker 2: Check it's Is there anything that we didn't cover We 819 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 2: talked for forty eight minutes, anything that. 820 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,399 Speaker 1: I don't know? Why? Ball? You asked me one last question. 821 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 2: Then you want me to ask you one more question? 822 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, one last one. 823 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:05,960 Speaker 2: All right, let me think, what did you eat for 824 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 2: It's probably it's it's probably now it's the afternoon over there. 825 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:13,919 Speaker 2: What are you what are you going to eat for lunch. 826 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm probably makes. Oh do you miss Japanese curry? 827 00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:26,480 Speaker 2: Japanese curry you're gonna make You're gonna make chicken curry. 828 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's what's up. Yeah, absolutely, that's cool. 829 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 2: That's like the that's like the chicken tenders and fries 830 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 2: of Japan. 831 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. What's your favorite restaurant in Ja? Panel? 832 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:48,440 Speaker 2: Uh? Fuck, it's there's a Oh oh, pepper pepper grill, pepper. 833 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 1: Lunch, pepper lunch, pepper lunge. Yeah, pepper lounges, steak calder. 834 00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 2: That's pepper lunch rocks. Everyone go to Japan. Japan is 835 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:03,160 Speaker 2: so cool. I mean Japan. Going on vacation to Japan 836 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:14,719 Speaker 2: as an American is awesome, undeniable. Yeah, definitely, Rica Jack 837 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:18,200 Speaker 2: bless have a good rest of your day. 838 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:22,279 Speaker 3: And may I ask you that. 839 00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: At least call you because I'm not sure is the 840 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,640 Speaker 1: international call or what kind of call is that? 841 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,120 Speaker 2: Oh? This will cost me money? This this, this will 842 00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 2: cost me money, not you. 843 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,399 Speaker 1: Oh I'm sorry, this. 844 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:43,000 Speaker 2: Was totally worth it. This wait, this call will this call? 845 00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 2: This call will cost hold on, I'm going to tell 846 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,400 Speaker 2: you exactly how much money this call costs. 847 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you can see from the PC. 848 00:49:54,920 --> 00:50:00,879 Speaker 2: This call will cost me two dollars, only two dollars. 849 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 2: It's four cents per minute, or maybe it's forty cents 850 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,320 Speaker 2: per minute. Hold on, if it's forty cents per minute, 851 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,759 Speaker 2: this call costs twenty dollars. And let me tell you. 852 00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 1: Something because I cannot done. 853 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 2: Okay, I think twenty dollars, twenty dollars, twenty dollars well spent. 854 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 2: Will we'll we'll, we'll run an ad break and we'll, we'll, 855 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:29,120 Speaker 2: we'll make twenty dollars to to. 856 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,080 Speaker 1: Thank you for the call. Thank you so much. Thank you. 857 00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 2: Is there anything else you want to say to the people. 858 00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't know how to do? 859 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:37,759 Speaker 2: What are you saying? 860 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,719 Speaker 1: Don't do fat noel? Okay, let me tell everyone say 861 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 1: about that. Don't do fatanyl and don't do drugs too much, 862 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 1: and don't drink too much alcohol. 863 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:51,800 Speaker 2: Those are wise words. 864 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is, yes. And if you no one will 865 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,520 Speaker 1: fuck you, just try to fuck yourself. That's it. 866 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:06,000 Speaker 2: If no one will fuck you, just fuck yourself. Yeah, 867 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 2: thank you, Rika, have a good rest of you. 868 00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:11,960 Speaker 1: Thank you. 869 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:17,799 Speaker 2: Thanks by Rika. That was Rika. 870 00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:19,800 Speaker 1: M. 871 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,759 Speaker 2: That was a good call. That was nice. That was 872 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:31,759 Speaker 2: that was very entertaining. Man, go to Pepper, Go to 873 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 2: Tokyo and go to Pepper lunch. Dude, it's so good. 874 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:38,399 Speaker 2: They fucking bring you this plate of It's like it's 875 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 2: just like meat and rice and egg and vegetables. Oh, 876 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 2: I mean you can get that at home. I can 877 00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,000 Speaker 2: go to the grocery store right now and get that. 878 00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 2: But dude, thing thing Japan. I'm telling you egg egg Japan. 879 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,359 Speaker 2: Egg Japan beats egg every time. 880 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:04,480 Speaker 3: Is this therapy gecko? 881 00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:05,239 Speaker 2: Yes? 882 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:05,560 Speaker 1: Hi? 883 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:06,120 Speaker 2: Who is this? 884 00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 3: Hey? My name is Zoe. Oh my goodness, Oh my goodness, 885 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:11,800 Speaker 3: I'm so excited. 886 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,320 Speaker 2: Zoe. You texted me and you said my name is Zoe. 887 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 2: I need to know if I'm wrong or not about 888 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:21,960 Speaker 2: this absolutely dumb situation that I'm in. Is that accurate? 889 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:22,720 Speaker 1: Yes? 890 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,600 Speaker 2: Yes, Okay? What is this dumb situation that you were in? 891 00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,040 Speaker 3: So? I'm living with my boyfriend and his pretty much 892 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:34,040 Speaker 3: entire family. Like but like I'm gonna give you a 893 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,080 Speaker 3: little like like little scenario for you. 894 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 895 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:43,640 Speaker 3: So there's one house and the house has me, my boyfriend, 896 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,840 Speaker 3: my daughter, and his aunt and uncle. And then there's 897 00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,880 Speaker 3: a separate house behind our house, and that's where his 898 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:56,839 Speaker 3: cousin and his fiance and their three kids live and 899 00:52:57,120 --> 00:53:01,080 Speaker 3: low key his cousin's fiance, like dead ass really pissed 900 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 3: me off. And I've been told that apparently I'm wrong 901 00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:07,439 Speaker 3: in this situation, but like. 902 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:11,160 Speaker 2: I feel like I Wasn't you have a sitcom brady 903 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:12,320 Speaker 2: bunch ass life dude? 904 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:16,560 Speaker 3: Oh trust me, I could tell you a whole I 905 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,839 Speaker 3: could tell you my whole life story and you'd make 906 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:19,960 Speaker 3: your job be dropped. 907 00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:25,239 Speaker 2: Okay, So why did your cousin Okay, let me get 908 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:25,640 Speaker 2: this straight. 909 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,360 Speaker 3: Why man's cousin's Beyonce. 910 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:34,120 Speaker 2: Yes, your your man's cousin's fiance is pissing you off? Why? 911 00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,880 Speaker 3: So, like I have, so my boyfriend has a daughter 912 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,960 Speaker 3: that sleeps over at their house because in our house 913 00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 3: we just don't have enough room. And like, first, like 914 00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:49,160 Speaker 3: we had an addict area that could be for her, 915 00:53:49,239 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 3: but it was just covered in dog piss all in 916 00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:55,319 Speaker 3: the carpet and walls and everything. So like we just 917 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 3: decided not to put her up there and just let 918 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 3: her stay over at her tech nickley and uncle's house. 919 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 3: And so my mind, you, my bonus child is a bedwetter. 920 00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:11,160 Speaker 3: I love her dearly, but she has a little bit 921 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 3: of a bed wetter. But so I got a text 922 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:21,279 Speaker 3: like two weeks ago from the cousin's fiance telling me 923 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,520 Speaker 3: that my bonus daughter, like, mind you, she texted me 924 00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:29,400 Speaker 3: at five fifty six in the morning, and she pretty 925 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,919 Speaker 3: much just texted me while I was sleeping, saying that 926 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:36,680 Speaker 3: my bonus child soaked through the pea pads. And she 927 00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,400 Speaker 3: was like, so, she's gonna either have to sleep in 928 00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 3: her own bed or in a plastic toddler bed because 929 00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 3: sometimes she's like to sleep with her cousin and she 930 00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,200 Speaker 3: so she also says, I don't know nighttime pull ups. 931 00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. I've been up since five with them, 932 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 3: which is a lie because I went through their cameras 933 00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:59,359 Speaker 3: in the my bonus child and her cousin didn't wake 934 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:04,160 Speaker 3: up till I'm about to say, like five fifty in 935 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,719 Speaker 3: the morning. So I already knew she was bullshit from 936 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 3: the beginning. And mind you, this is the third time 937 00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:15,320 Speaker 3: that she has I'll get I'll get into it because 938 00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 3: she she makes me so mad. 939 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:24,360 Speaker 2: Okay, So so I'm gonna really, I'm gonna really have 940 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:28,440 Speaker 2: to use my brain here to uh, yes, comprehend the 941 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,280 Speaker 2: degrees of separation. Bonus child is your way of staying 942 00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 2: step daughter, right, yes, yes, that's a cute way to 943 00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,799 Speaker 2: stay you know what. I like that. That's cute. I 944 00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:44,680 Speaker 2: like that. Yeah. Okay, I've never heard that before too. 945 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 2: I've never heard that. Bonus child that's what that's that's yeah, 946 00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:53,360 Speaker 2: that's what you give to like a step uh child 947 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:56,000 Speaker 2: that you're like close with. You know, sounds it sounds 948 00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 2: like it sounds like you. I don't know if this 949 00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:03,840 Speaker 2: is this girl's mother around. 950 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:09,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's around. Okay, it's like we get we get 951 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 3: her on weekend send her mom obviously has her on weekdays. 952 00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 2: So yeah, okay. So the boyfriend's cousin's fiance where her 953 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:34,440 Speaker 2: and from the perspective of her, her fiance's cousin's daughter 954 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,360 Speaker 2: is peeing in the bed. 955 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 3: No, my bonus child is peeing the bed. 956 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:49,560 Speaker 2: Your bonus child is your bonus child? Is this woman's 957 00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:58,080 Speaker 2: cousin's is your bonus child? Is this woman's fiance's cousin's daughter. 958 00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:05,560 Speaker 3: Mhm m hm. Now she so, I'll make it so 959 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:10,759 Speaker 3: much simpler. So d is my boyfriend b is the 960 00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:11,800 Speaker 3: cousin's fiance. 961 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 2: Oh, ship, the bonus the bonus child. Okay, the bonus 962 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:29,280 Speaker 2: child is your boy okay, so okay, And and this 963 00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,080 Speaker 2: woman is your boyfriend's cousin's fiance. 964 00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 3: Yes. 965 00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 2: Have you ever seen the SpongeBob meme where the guy's like, okay, 966 00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,280 Speaker 2: so this wallet has your ID on it, and it's 967 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:48,280 Speaker 2: got a picture of you, and it's got your name. 968 00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,080 Speaker 2: So this is your yes, so this is your wallet. 969 00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,280 Speaker 2: That feels like the conversation that we just had. 970 00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:01,000 Speaker 3: So confusing when I try to tell people this. Yeah, 971 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 3: people were known my dynamic, they would understand a little more. 972 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:10,320 Speaker 2: But so it's okay, So all right, this woman, whoever 973 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:12,960 Speaker 2: she lives in this everyone pays equal amount of rent 974 00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 2: in this house. Yes, that's important. Everyone is okay, all right? 975 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 2: And uh the your bonus child is she sharing a 976 00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,320 Speaker 2: bed with this woman's fiance. 977 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:37,240 Speaker 3: Uh no, she shares a bed with uh my, oh, 978 00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:41,640 Speaker 3: it gets so wordy. She shares a bed with her cousin, 979 00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:43,680 Speaker 3: who's a girl as well. 980 00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So okay, so this woman has kids, Yeah. 981 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:48,800 Speaker 3: She has like three kids. 982 00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 2: Okay, So this woman has three kids also living in 983 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,080 Speaker 2: that house, and then this girl and then you're okay, 984 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:55,880 Speaker 2: so this woman has three kids also live in the house. 985 00:58:56,480 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 2: Your bonus child is sleeping with one of her kids 986 00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:01,360 Speaker 2: and pissing the bed. 987 00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,960 Speaker 1: Yes, And. 988 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,240 Speaker 2: Then this woman is getting mad at you because your 989 00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:10,680 Speaker 2: bonus child is pissing the bed. 990 00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:15,120 Speaker 3: Well, so she let me know that she was wetting 991 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:19,560 Speaker 3: the bed, but I was asleep at this time, So like, 992 00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:24,720 Speaker 3: how am I really supposed to know? And I didn't 993 00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:28,440 Speaker 3: text her until an hour later, and I said, just 994 00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 3: probably put her on a plastic toddler bed. Just have 995 00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,160 Speaker 3: to make sure that she goes to the bathroom before 996 00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:39,080 Speaker 3: she goes to bed. And then I asked her, I said, 997 00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 3: did she have anything to drink other than the caprice? 998 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:50,200 Speaker 3: And she had for dinner? Nothing wrong with that question, right. 999 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,760 Speaker 2: Oh you're asking me, of course, nothing wrong with that question. 1000 00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:57,520 Speaker 3: Yes. So then she texts me back saying, I don't know. 1001 00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:59,680 Speaker 3: I don't keep track of her, and it's not my 1002 00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:03,440 Speaker 3: respect reponsibility to keep to continue to be up at 1003 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:09,400 Speaker 3: night and early morning every weekend with her because she peas. 1004 01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:11,840 Speaker 2: She she's kind, she's kind of being a bitch. I mean, 1005 01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:16,960 Speaker 2: you know, you're all a strong This was strong words, 1006 01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:18,920 Speaker 2: but that was what I'm trying to go off of 1007 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:22,360 Speaker 2: my gut here this one do I is this woman 1008 01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:22,760 Speaker 2: a bitch. 1009 01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 3: I don't know this is the third time. 1010 01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:28,960 Speaker 2: But like I feel like, but I feel like, I 1011 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:30,920 Speaker 2: don't know, you guys are doing a whole He's the 1012 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,520 Speaker 2: thing though, It's like you guys are doing a whole big. 1013 01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,760 Speaker 1: Do you do you? 1014 01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,600 Speaker 2: Okay? I shouldn't called this one a bitch. Uh too 1015 01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:48,680 Speaker 2: too fast, because you're not like pawning the bonus daughter 1016 01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:53,000 Speaker 2: off onto her like everyone like this is you're doing. 1017 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 2: You know that, you know it takes a village. Yeah, 1018 01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 2: you guys see it. I don't you seem like you 1019 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:01,600 Speaker 2: have a unique dynamic. I'm gonna pretend like I understand it, 1020 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:04,720 Speaker 2: but it kind of just seems like you have this ecosystem. 1021 01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,520 Speaker 2: There's eight billion kids running around, there's eight billion adults 1022 01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:12,600 Speaker 2: running around. You guys have created this ecosystem, and in 1023 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,560 Speaker 2: that fucking ecosystem, there's just kind of a thing where 1024 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,960 Speaker 2: it's like if you're an adult and there's kids and 1025 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 2: you're the adult in the room, you're kind of you 1026 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,640 Speaker 2: have like you know, it's not my like whatever, like 1027 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:29,760 Speaker 2: everyone like we're all you know, taking turns, fucking pitching 1028 01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:31,760 Speaker 2: and doing our part work. You know, she's being a 1029 01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:34,720 Speaker 2: part of this community of some kind like like this 1030 01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,440 Speaker 2: woman has kids. I'm sure if the kids were at 1031 01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 2: your house, you would feel that way towards them. Correct, well, not. 1032 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:51,120 Speaker 3: Really, because I like, when I finished reading the bs 1033 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 3: that she has said, like I will like catch you 1034 01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:58,280 Speaker 3: up to like I'll give you backstories because like. 1035 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,280 Speaker 2: I'm having a hard time unders standing the front stories. 1036 01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:07,760 Speaker 3: It's like her kids can always come over. I have 1037 01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:10,440 Speaker 3: never had a problem with her kids coming over, Like 1038 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:14,120 Speaker 3: sometimes her her youngest daughter will come over and like 1039 01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:17,600 Speaker 3: play with my youngest daughter, and like I wouldn't care 1040 01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:21,320 Speaker 3: because I'm like, she's keeping my baby occupied. Like cool, 1041 01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:26,280 Speaker 3: I can finish some stuff like you know, like okay, 1042 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:30,440 Speaker 3: but it's but like because like I said, we were 1043 01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 3: gonna put my bonus daughter up in the attic upstairs 1044 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,760 Speaker 3: because it technically was a room before my man's uncle 1045 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:42,040 Speaker 3: decided to turn that upstairs into an addict. But like 1046 01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:45,360 Speaker 3: I'm gonna it was covered in dog pissed. 1047 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:50,080 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna ask some more pointed questions. Mm hmm, 1048 01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 2: you referred to your I'm gonna call your man. I'm 1049 01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 2: gonna let's keep your man. I don't know if you 1050 01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 2: guys are married or whatever. Who cares you're man. Your 1051 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,480 Speaker 2: man is your man, He's in your life. You love him. 1052 01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,160 Speaker 2: He's your family. He's a family. He's a family so 1053 01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:15,080 Speaker 2: much that his daughter is your bonus child. It's really lovely. 1054 01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:23,520 Speaker 2: Does your man have a close relationship with his cousin? 1055 01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,560 Speaker 3: I would say yeah, they kind of grew up together. 1056 01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 2: Okay, this woman that you're having strife with and her husband, 1057 01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:40,960 Speaker 2: they're they're in They're in your husband's they're in your 1058 01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:46,440 Speaker 2: man's universe. This woman's in your man's universe. Correct. Yeah, 1059 01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,440 Speaker 2: whether or not she's a central character for the past half, 1060 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,840 Speaker 2: she's it. She lives with him. She's in your man's universe. 1061 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:55,920 Speaker 2: Do you think she'll continue to be in your man's universe? 1062 01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:04,760 Speaker 3: M my, my thought. I hope not, but in reality 1063 01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 3: probably yeah. 1064 01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,200 Speaker 2: Okay, and I. 1065 01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 3: Will let you know. I will let you know. This 1066 01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:18,160 Speaker 3: girl has switched brothers before she started dating this her. 1067 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 2: Okay, but that's I I The gossip about this lady 1068 01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,600 Speaker 2: is still I want to get pointed with this. Okay, 1069 01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 2: she's in your for now, she's in your life, and 1070 01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:33,400 Speaker 2: she's in your so like, what's the most fucking like 1071 01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:40,840 Speaker 2: diplomatic way to go about this? Is what I'm saying, like, 1072 01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,040 Speaker 2: you want this to be a good relationship. You want 1073 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:46,720 Speaker 2: to approach it from that point of view. You want 1074 01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 2: this to be a good relationship because she's in your 1075 01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:53,600 Speaker 2: man's life. However distantly, like you know, you know what 1076 01:04:53,600 --> 01:05:00,680 Speaker 2: I mean, m hm. So so if her and also 1077 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 2: there's like eighty of you guys, and then there's one 1078 01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:06,800 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty seven kids, So you're just in You're 1079 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,200 Speaker 2: just in this thing. You're just in this vast universe 1080 01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:12,960 Speaker 2: of all these people and all these kids. And so 1081 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,680 Speaker 2: again like if her kids and also her kids are 1082 01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:20,440 Speaker 2: friends with your kids, so you want you want her 1083 01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:23,600 Speaker 2: kids are friends with your kids, and she's in your 1084 01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:27,440 Speaker 2: man's universe, so you want her kids to have You 1085 01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,760 Speaker 2: want to have a good relationship with this woman's kids. 1086 01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 2: You want her to you want them to be able 1087 01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:36,400 Speaker 2: to trust you and to be excited to be around you. 1088 01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:43,360 Speaker 2: You know, so you know, you do your best to 1089 01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:48,480 Speaker 2: provide that for them. And then, by the fucking grace 1090 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:53,800 Speaker 2: of God, hopefully and we can't control this, but but 1091 01:05:53,960 --> 01:06:04,040 Speaker 2: hopefully this lady you're your your boyfriend's dogs, doctor's daughter. 1092 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:10,840 Speaker 2: Uh uh, cunt shit fuck asks what this lady? We 1093 01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,800 Speaker 2: all know the lady. We know who the lady is. 1094 01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:18,600 Speaker 2: By the grace of God, she'll want to reciprocate that 1095 01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:24,600 Speaker 2: because she'll she'll see that you're extending and all of 1096 01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:31,600 Speaker 2: an olive branch to her. But hopefully, and what she said. 1097 01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 3: To me, I kind of don't really want to talk 1098 01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:34,240 Speaker 3: to her because. 1099 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 2: And that's that's that's your progative. If that's your thing, 1100 01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:40,480 Speaker 2: then go ahead, you know. But I'm just I'm just 1101 01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:44,640 Speaker 2: from the perspective, from the perspective of you want to 1102 01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:48,160 Speaker 2: keep the peace because life is easier for you living 1103 01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:53,400 Speaker 2: in this community if you're keeping the peace, that's the 1104 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:54,960 Speaker 2: way to keep the peace. But if you if you 1105 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:58,320 Speaker 2: don't want, if you don't want to talk to her, 1106 01:06:58,320 --> 01:06:59,240 Speaker 2: you don't. You don't have to. 1107 01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:04,160 Speaker 3: It's just like, this is like the third time that 1108 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:08,200 Speaker 3: she has either said that I put my bonus child 1109 01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,439 Speaker 3: on like a back burner and that apparently I make 1110 01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,680 Speaker 3: my man not be a dad to her, which hurts 1111 01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:18,520 Speaker 3: my feelings because it's like I never wance like A 1112 01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:23,160 Speaker 3: I never talk bad about her parenting because A it's 1113 01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:27,200 Speaker 3: not really my place too, and be who the hell 1114 01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:32,760 Speaker 3: cares about my opinion about somebody else's parenting, and it's 1115 01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:36,120 Speaker 3: just like, I don't get why I ask a simple question, 1116 01:07:36,400 --> 01:07:39,920 Speaker 3: and then somehow it all turns to apparently me and 1117 01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:44,480 Speaker 3: my boyfriend don't take any responsibility for our kids, and 1118 01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:48,800 Speaker 3: apparently that we just burden all of our children on them, 1119 01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:54,120 Speaker 3: and that apparently we don't help with their kids, even 1120 01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:58,560 Speaker 3: though I have literally helped, like with their with her 1121 01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:01,400 Speaker 3: youngest daughter, like over summer. 1122 01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:09,120 Speaker 2: What's your what's your name again, Zoe? Zoe? So you 1123 01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:12,720 Speaker 2: sound like a lovely person. You care, You sound like 1124 01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:18,200 Speaker 2: you care about the people in your life, your bonus child. 1125 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:24,479 Speaker 2: You've you've you've intentionally taken on giving a ship about 1126 01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:29,599 Speaker 2: people outside of yourself and even any and and outside 1127 01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:34,519 Speaker 2: of your blood. I think that inherently, uh makes you 1128 01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:40,200 Speaker 2: a nice person. And I don't know. I don't know 1129 01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:46,240 Speaker 2: anything about this other lady she's I don't I don't know, 1130 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,840 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if I have anything 1131 01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:50,519 Speaker 2: more to say about this that I haven't said already. 1132 01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:55,800 Speaker 2: But you just told me your name, Zoe, Zoe? Is 1133 01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:57,160 Speaker 2: there anything else you want to say to the people 1134 01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:03,320 Speaker 2: of the computer before we go? Now? 1135 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:05,320 Speaker 3: Honestly, God, I'm good. 1136 01:09:07,280 --> 01:09:13,240 Speaker 2: Sweet good luck, Zoe. 1137 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,160 Speaker 3: Thank you by. 1138 01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:28,240 Speaker 2: What I don't know? I that one if you're if 1139 01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:31,200 Speaker 2: you are on the Spotify comments or whatever the fuck 1140 01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:39,320 Speaker 2: I chime in, did I miss something? I gotta know? Hello, folks, 1141 01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,840 Speaker 2: it's Lyle here. That's the end of this episode. 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You said, hello, 1151 01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,800 Speaker 2: my name is DONI and I want to talk about 1152 01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:30,080 Speaker 2: how my secret relationship is going and how I developed 1153 01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:35,040 Speaker 2: turetts from it. And I read that I was like, 1154 01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,200 Speaker 2: what the hell does any of this mean? 1155 01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:42,240 Speaker 1: So, all right, about nine months ago, I began my 1156 01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:44,880 Speaker 1: first ever relationship with my girlfriend. 1157 01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,000 Speaker 2: If you want to hear this full conversation, you can 1158 01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:50,080 Speaker 2: sign up to become a Premium member at therapy Gecko 1159 01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:54,080 Speaker 2: dot supercast dot com, or find the link in the 1160 01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 2: episode description that's therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com. All right, 1161 01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,880 Speaker 2: I have nothing else to say. 1162 01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,679 Speaker 1: There Be Ken goes on the line, taking your phone 1163 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:08,880 Speaker 1: calls every night. There Rep Ken goes doing his eye 1164 01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:09,559 Speaker 1: He's teaching 1165 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,759 Speaker 2: You how to live your life, but he's not really 1166 01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:13,679 Speaker 2: an expert.