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<v Speaker 1>Ethan is on the phone for a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>And I read your email, Ethan, I think I already

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<v Speaker 1>figured out your problem. Oh yeah, yeah, Well your email

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<v Speaker 1>was like super positive. You said everything was great. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like it sounds like maybe the best date ever. That's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of how you framed it in your email. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking maybe your problem as the date was just

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<v Speaker 1>too good and she doesn't want to do it again,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why she's not calling you back. That's it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just ruined dating for her altogether, and now she

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<v Speaker 1>can't date anymore because it was just such an amazing date.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're done. Then, I guess that's it for the

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. All right, later, you still want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it? Oh yeah, that's well, I'm free just because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it wasn't completely perfect. Okay, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to sign on a perfect day with her. Fine, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I helped you out already, but whatever, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us your story. What's the name of the girl you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call today? Skylar? Skylar? Okay? Yeah, And we

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<v Speaker 1>actually met on a dating app, which I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>totally averse too. But I been on this dating app

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<v Speaker 1>for maybe about a year at this point, so I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I've kind of seen the gannet. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>a little dated in your expectations weren't real high, is

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<v Speaker 1>what it sounds like. You could say that, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>had connections with people, but I just haven't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know something it was completely different about this girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt like it clicked between us. Are you saying

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<v Speaker 1>before the day or once you guys met in person? No,

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<v Speaker 1>once we met in person? Okay, yeah, So what was

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<v Speaker 1>so special about the whole thing? I don't know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like there's so many me toos in

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation, you know, like she would be saying something

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<v Speaker 1>and I would be like, oh my god, me too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like forty times where we were like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>me too, too too. That's when it's good on a

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<v Speaker 1>data If it starts with a hashtag, it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a good thing, I guarantee it, right. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was not like that at all. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just like if you know, I was saying like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was a boy scout. She's like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, you know I was a girl scout. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we had like so many things that we had in common,

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<v Speaker 1>and oh yeah, I mean the big thing is we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of connected over how long we were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>in the Scouts program. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, we went

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<v Speaker 1>went for because she was a girl scout for like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like you know, from when she was

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<v Speaker 1>nine or eight until she finished high school. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys have like a not tieing contest right there?

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<v Speaker 1>We totally could have. I would have loved to have

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<v Speaker 1>had that. How many natsu to do? Maybe it's fifteen thirty? Right? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>So are you one of those guys? It's like a

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<v Speaker 1>like an eagle Scout. You made it all the way

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<v Speaker 1>to the top and then like you live the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life still like a boy scout basically. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's not like you're always out and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like bringing a survival kit with you at all times,

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<v Speaker 1>but it does have some really solid life skills in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I like this idea of always being prepared and whatever. Regardless,

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<v Speaker 1>the big thing that I felt like she took from it,

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<v Speaker 1>what I took from it as well, is that we

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<v Speaker 1>both really enjoy the arts outdoors and stuff are like

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<v Speaker 1>camping and hiking. So that kind of just gave me

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<v Speaker 1>like this brilliant idea, and I thought maybe it would

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<v Speaker 1>be really a romantic could give Skyler like this traditional

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<v Speaker 1>campfire but in the city. Okay, And so at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the date and was driving her home and

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<v Speaker 1>on our way home, I was like, well, one second,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna go in and grab something. So I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ducked into a seven to eleven and I

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<v Speaker 1>bought one of those era flame logs, and like, I

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<v Speaker 1>got some empty boxes and I got some marshmallows because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, why don't we have this campfire

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<v Speaker 1>in the city. You know, that's cute, That is really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>And I thought it would be really kind of fun, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>cute until you said camp fire in the city. Where'd

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<v Speaker 1>you fire up this log in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 1>street alley next to it? Yeah, it was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of an alleyway sure, but it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel sketchy at all. But but I thought she kind

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<v Speaker 1>of would have been, and she totally did. It's pretty romantic,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest. Yeah, did you guys kiss? Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>kiss herald hands a little bit. We were kind of being,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, cuddling and stuff, and right there in an

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<v Speaker 1>alley smelling like I'm sure you're in and trash next

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<v Speaker 1>to a dumpster with a duro flame log going. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys were just snuggled up. It was one of those

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<v Speaker 1>you had to be there moments. I've been talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it in retrospect. It does kind of feel hate on

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<v Speaker 1>your campfire. Okay, he just hates the outdoors. Give him

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<v Speaker 1>city outdoors. I just don't like getting outside. I think

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<v Speaker 1>your idea sounds super awesome, and I can't believe she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back. I feel like always well, I mean, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't able to actually eat the marshbones that we

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<v Speaker 1>were roasting because I guess the dual flame is like toxic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's not good. Yeah, a lot of chemicals in

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<v Speaker 1>that thing, yeah exactly. I guess my part of being

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<v Speaker 1>prepared as a boy scout kind of fizzled out at that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was a good date. I left it at that,

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<v Speaker 1>I drove her home, kissed again at her place, and

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, texted her after a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>days just to check in, and she didn't neber text

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<v Speaker 1>me back. So I think Jubil's right, it was too perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you and you haven't heard a word from her

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<v Speaker 1>at all? No, I'm kind of worried that maybe she's

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<v Speaker 1>met someone else or like on the app, Like she

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<v Speaker 1>might still be on the app, you know and searching.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she like went on another date and that guy

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<v Speaker 1>wants to buy with her or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, well play a song and then come

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<v Speaker 1>back and find out why she's not getting back to

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<v Speaker 1>you with your second day up date. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank plug it all right, hang on brooking Jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Hey, Ethan, how many fingers do you use? What? What?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I should clarify. Let me clarify that first.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just hitting in for today second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan is on the phone and he went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a girl named Skyler. They both bonded

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<v Speaker 1>over the fact that they grew up in the Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Scouts and the Girl Scouts, and they did it pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much all their life. And that's why I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to remember, Like the d is it you're using three fingers?

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<v Speaker 1>Two fingers? What's the boy Scouts salute? It's three? Three?

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<v Speaker 1>It is? What about the one? Where does that go? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it two in the three in the never? Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I got the motto mixed up. I don't know anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously I wasn't involved in that stuff. Is that it

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<v Speaker 1>something I don't know any Quickly, Ethan went out with Skyler.

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<v Speaker 1>They bonded over the fact that they were both involved

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<v Speaker 1>in the Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts. Had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good date. It ended with an impromptu cook out campfire

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<v Speaker 1>sort of in the city because he bought a der

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<v Speaker 1>flame log from seven to eleven on the way home,

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<v Speaker 1>sparked it up in an alley and then they kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sat there and hung out in front of the

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<v Speaker 1>campfire and made out a little bit, and he dropped

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<v Speaker 1>her off and hasn't heard from her since. All right, Ethan,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to give her a call? Yeah, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel are you nervous right now? Because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm nervous for you, Like everything went so well.

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<v Speaker 1>What could be wrong? I have no idea, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it really just one of those times where you just

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was falling in love. That's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>And they say when you know, you know, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. This could be amazing that the boy scout motto, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Okay, you need to move on. I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>stop thinking about it. Gonna bug me. All right, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call her right now, see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out. Okay, awesome, I'm so excited. Okay, here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, I mean I speak to Skylar. This

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<v Speaker 1>is her. Hey, Skylar, how are you? This is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, I'm good. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I should continue the I should continue speaking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have you heard of the radio show Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning before. Yes, I haven't listened

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<v Speaker 1>to it, but that's kind of mine. Listen to that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where I'm calling from. And we do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the second Date Update. You probably

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what that is, so I'll explain it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>where if you go out on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and then end up not calling them back. After that

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<v Speaker 1>person can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out what happened. And we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>about you from a dude named Ethan, sorry, a scout

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<v Speaker 1>name Ethan. Wait, oh my god, this is a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Yes, yes, it is, so your your friend

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<v Speaker 1>has told you about those. Yes, well, congratulations, because you're

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<v Speaker 1>about to be the star of one. Because Ethan is

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why you won't call him back after what he

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<v Speaker 1>describes as a great first date. What did he tell

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<v Speaker 1>you to day? Oh my god. He told us that

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<v Speaker 1>it was Yeah, he told us that you guys really connected.

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<v Speaker 1>You had a lot of me too conversations where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I like this, me too, I like this, me too,

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<v Speaker 1>and ended the date with a like he bought a

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<v Speaker 1>duraflame log. And then you guys had a camp fire

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of an alleyway and it sounded more

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<v Speaker 1>romantic the way that he told it. But you guys

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<v Speaker 1>made out and everything else. He thought it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>But now you're not calling him back and he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know why. Yeah, I mean, the fire was a really

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<v Speaker 1>sweet sentiment, I guess. But even though you couldn't eat

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you were cooking over the fire because of the

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<v Speaker 1>chemicals from the dirt flame log. Yeah. Also, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how concaying that was. So wait, it wasn't just

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<v Speaker 1>like you've run out of time and you meant to

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<v Speaker 1>call him back, Like there's a reason you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>this guy back. I don't know. After the camp fire,

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<v Speaker 1>I could tell that he really liked me, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was really sweet. He drove me home, and right before

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<v Speaker 1>he dropped me off, he asked if he could take

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<v Speaker 1>me on a weekend getaway, which is also like a

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<v Speaker 1>very romantic thing to ask, but not after we just met.

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<v Speaker 1>But he was going out on a limb man. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you want a guy to really like you at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of a date. Well, yeah, of course, But

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<v Speaker 1>he just assumed that he wanted to do that because

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<v Speaker 1>he was just trying to hook up for me. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so you think you're you're thinking that he doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a week and get away for romance.

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<v Speaker 1>He just wanted to take you away so he could

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<v Speaker 1>hook up with you. Yeah, it's not just the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that he asked me to go on a weekend get away.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the timing, you know, Like he asked me and

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to go that fast, like he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>go next weekend, And that's a red flag because how

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<v Speaker 1>fast is he moving in other aspects? You know, he

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<v Speaker 1>does he not know how to have a relationship. But

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<v Speaker 1>you can't just tell him I don't feel comfortable with that.

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<v Speaker 1>We should go on a few more alleyway cookouts and

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<v Speaker 1>then maybe a week and get away. You just stopped

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him, Yeah, I mean, it just it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and I think it just kind of threw

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<v Speaker 1>me off hard. So I guess I should tell him that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've just been trying to think about how to say

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<v Speaker 1>it in a way that's not kind of hurt his feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. Oh well, okay, Um, I got good news

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Then, Skyler, what's up? You did say it

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<v Speaker 1>because he's actually on the other line listening and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. What Wow? Oh my god. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that he was already there, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you guys were going to call him. That's a beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a beautiful part of these were big liars and

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<v Speaker 1>he's been on the phone the whole time. Are you embarrassed? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm embarrassed. You shouldn't be I'm glad that you said

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff that totally makes sense I understand. But listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, I'm a very romantic person when something

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<v Speaker 1>inspires me to be very romantic because but even I

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<v Speaker 1>understand it, you have really strong feelings. But like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you usually ask people out on vacation right when you

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<v Speaker 1>meet them, because that's a lot to be in my shoes,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's a little scary to go out of town

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<v Speaker 1>with someone you don't really know. Yeah, I gotta see

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<v Speaker 1>that now. I guess I was just wrapped up in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment of saying, like this is fun and silly,

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<v Speaker 1>and what else can we do that it's spontaneous like

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<v Speaker 1>what we did tonight, and we don't even have to

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<v Speaker 1>like stay in the same said or like hotel when

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<v Speaker 1>we go off and like go on a trip or

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<v Speaker 1>something together. I just I'm trying to I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to find ways or an excuse to

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<v Speaker 1>spend time with you. Again, You're asking me to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a vacation and we've only been on one date.

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<v Speaker 1>But I need you to slow your role just a little.

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<v Speaker 1>But Skyler, if he hadn't had said that, where were

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<v Speaker 1>you at on the date, Like, all the way up

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<v Speaker 1>until he asked you for a weekend getaway, what was

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<v Speaker 1>your thought about him? I was having fun, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I want to take something slow though, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get to know someone. You know, Like, the

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<v Speaker 1>date was great. We we got to do something weird

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<v Speaker 1>and crazy and fun and obviously a very memorable date.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe there's other weird, crazy, fun things you could do

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<v Speaker 1>on a weekend get away that's super weird. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>super weird. Oh my god. The only reason why I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I am jumping ahead so quickly is I

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<v Speaker 1>just fell like we had a really awesome time. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you feel this way, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm actually kind of falling for you. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>where you're falling for me? Stuff like that, even like

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<v Speaker 1>you need to be careful about while you're staying to

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<v Speaker 1>BEVI this early on, You're right, I'm sorry. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out how to say what I'm feeling inside.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm going to slow my role. I can practice

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<v Speaker 1>slowing my role. Yeah, if you just marry him, Skyler,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll slow his role. Skyler. Would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Ethan on a second date. We'll pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>just a regular date. So just to clarify, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>talking about a vacation anywhere, or like a couple's massage anything, right,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like a very normal date. That's what I'm thinking, Ethan.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're thinking? Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely totally normal.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you want to go to Dubai for the

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<v Speaker 1>weekend as well, we can do that. I'm joking. I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm don't know if you are. That's a scary part. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So Skyler, what do you say? Yes, I will go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second eight, but I really want to take

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<v Speaker 1>it slow and just can each other dinner, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>just dinner and we'll talk slow. I'll speak really slowly,

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<v Speaker 1>everything slow. All right. Well, congratulations Ethan, you got your

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<v Speaker 1>second eight. Awesome, And Skyler, you're sure you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Ethan again? I do, don't say those

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<v Speaker 1>words to you. I mean I will. Okay, there you go,

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<v Speaker 1>broken jewel in the morning,