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Speaker 1: com Rooking Jewels. Second Date Update Today, a listener named
Speaker 1: Ethan is on the phone for a second date update.
Speaker 1: And I read your email, Ethan, I think I already
Speaker 1: figured out your problem. Oh yeah, yeah, Well your email
Speaker 1: was like super positive. You said everything was great. It's
Speaker 1: like it sounds like maybe the best date ever. That's
Speaker 1: kind of how you framed it in your email. And
Speaker 1: I'm thinking maybe your problem as the date was just
Speaker 1: too good and she doesn't want to do it again,
Speaker 1: and that's why she's not calling you back. That's it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just ruined dating for her altogether, and now she
Speaker 1: can't date anymore because it was just such an amazing date.
Speaker 1: So we're done. Then, I guess that's it for the
Speaker 1: second day update. All right, later, you still want to
Speaker 1: do it? Oh yeah, that's well, I'm free just because
Speaker 1: I feel like it wasn't completely perfect. Okay, I want
Speaker 1: to sign on a perfect day with her. Fine, I know,
Speaker 1: I thought I helped you out already, but whatever, tell
Speaker 1: us your story. What's the name of the girl you
Speaker 1: want to call today? Skylar? Skylar? Okay? Yeah, And we
Speaker 1: actually met on a dating app, which I'm kind of
Speaker 1: totally averse too. But I been on this dating app
Speaker 1: for maybe about a year at this point, so I
Speaker 1: feel like I've kind of seen the gannet. So you're
Speaker 1: a little dated in your expectations weren't real high, is
Speaker 1: what it sounds like. You could say that, but I've
Speaker 1: had connections with people, but I just haven't. I don't
Speaker 1: know something it was completely different about this girl. I
Speaker 1: just felt like it clicked between us. Are you saying
Speaker 1: before the day or once you guys met in person? No,
Speaker 1: once we met in person? Okay, yeah, So what was
Speaker 1: so special about the whole thing? I don't know. I mean,
Speaker 1: I just feel like there's so many me toos in
Speaker 1: the conversation, you know, like she would be saying something
Speaker 1: and I would be like, oh my god, me too.
Speaker 1: It's like forty times where we were like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: me too, too too. That's when it's good on a
Speaker 1: data If it starts with a hashtag, it's not going
Speaker 1: to be a good thing, I guarantee it, right. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I mean it was not like that at all. It
Speaker 1: was just like if you know, I was saying like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I was a boy scout. She's like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, you know I was a girl scout. You know,
Speaker 1: we had like so many things that we had in common,
Speaker 1: and oh yeah, I mean the big thing is we
Speaker 1: kind of connected over how long we were kind of
Speaker 1: in the Scouts program. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, we went
Speaker 1: went for because she was a girl scout for like
Speaker 1: I don't know, like you know, from when she was
Speaker 1: nine or eight until she finished high school. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: did you guys have like a not tieing contest right there?
Speaker 1: We totally could have. I would have loved to have
Speaker 1: had that. How many natsu to do? Maybe it's fifteen thirty? Right? Wow?
Speaker 1: So are you one of those guys? It's like a
Speaker 1: like an eagle Scout. You made it all the way
Speaker 1: to the top and then like you live the rest
Speaker 1: of your life still like a boy scout basically. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean it's not like you're always out and you're
Speaker 1: like bringing a survival kit with you at all times,
Speaker 1: but it does have some really solid life skills in it.
Speaker 1: I like this idea of always being prepared and whatever. Regardless,
Speaker 1: the big thing that I felt like she took from it,
Speaker 1: what I took from it as well, is that we
Speaker 1: both really enjoy the arts outdoors and stuff are like
Speaker 1: camping and hiking. So that kind of just gave me
Speaker 1: like this brilliant idea, and I thought maybe it would
Speaker 1: be really a romantic could give Skyler like this traditional
Speaker 1: campfire but in the city. Okay, And so at the
Speaker 1: end of the date and was driving her home and
Speaker 1: on our way home, I was like, well, one second,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go in and grab something. So I
Speaker 1: kind of ducked into a seven to eleven and I
Speaker 1: bought one of those era flame logs, and like, I
Speaker 1: got some empty boxes and I got some marshmallows because
Speaker 1: I was like, well, why don't we have this campfire
Speaker 1: in the city. You know, that's cute, That is really cute,
Speaker 1: And I thought it would be really kind of fun, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: cute until you said camp fire in the city. Where'd
Speaker 1: you fire up this log in the middle of a
Speaker 1: street alley next to it? Yeah, it was kind of
Speaker 1: a little bit of an alleyway sure, but it didn't
Speaker 1: feel sketchy at all. But but I thought she kind
Speaker 1: of would have been, and she totally did. It's pretty romantic,
Speaker 1: to be honest. Yeah, did you guys kiss? Yeah, we
Speaker 1: kiss herald hands a little bit. We were kind of being,
Speaker 1: you know, cuddling and stuff, and right there in an
Speaker 1: alley smelling like I'm sure you're in and trash next
Speaker 1: to a dumpster with a duro flame log going. You
Speaker 1: guys were just snuggled up. It was one of those
Speaker 1: you had to be there moments. I've been talking about
Speaker 1: it in retrospect. It does kind of feel hate on
Speaker 1: your campfire. Okay, he just hates the outdoors. Give him
Speaker 1: city outdoors. I just don't like getting outside. I think
Speaker 1: your idea sounds super awesome, and I can't believe she's
Speaker 1: not calling you back. I feel like always well, I mean, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: we weren't able to actually eat the marshbones that we
Speaker 1: were roasting because I guess the dual flame is like toxic.
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not good. Yeah, a lot of chemicals in
Speaker 1: that thing, yeah exactly. I guess my part of being
Speaker 1: prepared as a boy scout kind of fizzled out at that,
Speaker 1: but it was a good date. I left it at that,
Speaker 1: I drove her home, kissed again at her place, and
Speaker 1: and then you know, texted her after a couple of
Speaker 1: days just to check in, and she didn't neber text
Speaker 1: me back. So I think Jubil's right, it was too perfect.
Speaker 1: Have you and you haven't heard a word from her
Speaker 1: at all? No, I'm kind of worried that maybe she's
Speaker 1: met someone else or like on the app, Like she
Speaker 1: might still be on the app, you know and searching.
Speaker 1: Maybe she like went on another date and that guy
Speaker 1: wants to buy with her or something. I don't know.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, well play a song and then come
Speaker 1: back and find out why she's not getting back to
Speaker 1: you with your second day up date. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: thank plug it all right, hang on brooking Jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Hey, Ethan, how many fingers do you use? What? What?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I should clarify. Let me clarify that first.
Speaker 1: If you're just hitting in for today second day update.
Speaker 1: Ethan is on the phone and he went out on
Speaker 1: a date with a girl named Skyler. They both bonded
Speaker 1: over the fact that they grew up in the Boy
Speaker 1: Scouts and the Girl Scouts, and they did it pretty
Speaker 1: much all their life. And that's why I was trying
Speaker 1: to remember, Like the d is it you're using three fingers?
Speaker 1: Two fingers? What's the boy Scouts salute? It's three? Three?
Speaker 1: It is? What about the one? Where does that go? Right?
Speaker 1: Is it two in the three in the never? Maybe
Speaker 1: I got the motto mixed up. I don't know anyway.
Speaker 1: Obviously I wasn't involved in that stuff. Is that it
Speaker 1: something I don't know any Quickly, Ethan went out with Skyler.
Speaker 1: They bonded over the fact that they were both involved
Speaker 1: in the Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts. Had a really
Speaker 1: good date. It ended with an impromptu cook out campfire
Speaker 1: sort of in the city because he bought a der
Speaker 1: flame log from seven to eleven on the way home,
Speaker 1: sparked it up in an alley and then they kind
Speaker 1: of sat there and hung out in front of the
Speaker 1: campfire and made out a little bit, and he dropped
Speaker 1: her off and hasn't heard from her since. All right, Ethan,
Speaker 1: you're ready to give her a call? Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 1: I feel are you nervous right now? Because I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm nervous for you, Like everything went so well.
Speaker 1: What could be wrong? I have no idea, you know,
Speaker 1: it really just one of those times where you just
Speaker 1: I felt like I was falling in love. That's so sweet.
Speaker 1: And they say when you know, you know, like that's
Speaker 1: the thing. This could be amazing that the boy scout motto, No, no,
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, you need to move on. I gotta
Speaker 1: stop thinking about it. Gonna bug me. All right, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her right now, see if we can
Speaker 1: figure it out. Okay, awesome, I'm so excited. Okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, I mean I speak to Skylar. This
Speaker 1: is her. Hey, Skylar, how are you? This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, I'm good. Nice.
Speaker 1: Oh I should continue the I should continue speaking to you.
Speaker 1: Do you have you heard of the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning before. Yes, I haven't listened
Speaker 1: to it, but that's kind of mine. Listen to that. Well,
Speaker 1: that's where I'm calling from. And we do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. You probably
Speaker 1: don't know what that is, so I'll explain it. It's
Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with somebody
Speaker 1: and then end up not calling them back. After that
Speaker 1: person can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and figure out what happened. And we got an email
Speaker 1: about you from a dude named Ethan, sorry, a scout
Speaker 1: name Ethan. Wait, oh my god, this is a second
Speaker 1: date update. Yes, yes, it is, so your your friend
Speaker 1: has told you about those. Yes, well, congratulations, because you're
Speaker 1: about to be the star of one. Because Ethan is
Speaker 1: wondering why you won't call him back after what he
Speaker 1: describes as a great first date. What did he tell
Speaker 1: you to day? Oh my god. He told us that
Speaker 1: it was Yeah, he told us that you guys really connected.
Speaker 1: You had a lot of me too conversations where it's
Speaker 1: like I like this, me too, I like this, me too,
Speaker 1: and ended the date with a like he bought a
Speaker 1: duraflame log. And then you guys had a camp fire
Speaker 1: in the middle of an alleyway and it sounded more
Speaker 1: romantic the way that he told it. But you guys
Speaker 1: made out and everything else. He thought it was great.
Speaker 1: But now you're not calling him back and he doesn't
Speaker 1: know why. Yeah, I mean, the fire was a really
Speaker 1: sweet sentiment, I guess. But even though you couldn't eat
Speaker 1: whatever you were cooking over the fire because of the
Speaker 1: chemicals from the dirt flame log. Yeah. Also, I don't
Speaker 1: know how concaying that was. So wait, it wasn't just
Speaker 1: like you've run out of time and you meant to
Speaker 1: call him back, Like there's a reason you're not calling
Speaker 1: this guy back. I don't know. After the camp fire,
Speaker 1: I could tell that he really liked me, and he
Speaker 1: was really sweet. He drove me home, and right before
Speaker 1: he dropped me off, he asked if he could take
Speaker 1: me on a weekend getaway, which is also like a
Speaker 1: very romantic thing to ask, but not after we just met.
Speaker 1: But he was going out on a limb man. I mean,
Speaker 1: don't you want a guy to really like you at
Speaker 1: the end of a date. Well, yeah, of course, But
Speaker 1: he just assumed that he wanted to do that because
Speaker 1: he was just trying to hook up for me. Oh
Speaker 1: so you think you're you're thinking that he doesn't want
Speaker 1: to go on a week and get away for romance.
Speaker 1: He just wanted to take you away so he could
Speaker 1: hook up with you. Yeah, it's not just the fact
Speaker 1: that he asked me to go on a weekend get away.
Speaker 1: It's the timing, you know, Like he asked me and
Speaker 1: he wants to go that fast, like he wants to
Speaker 1: go next weekend, And that's a red flag because how
Speaker 1: fast is he moving in other aspects? You know, he
Speaker 1: does he not know how to have a relationship. But
Speaker 1: you can't just tell him I don't feel comfortable with that.
Speaker 1: We should go on a few more alleyway cookouts and
Speaker 1: then maybe a week and get away. You just stopped
Speaker 1: talking to him, Yeah, I mean, it just it was
Speaker 1: a lot, and I think it just kind of threw
Speaker 1: me off hard. So I guess I should tell him that.
Speaker 1: I've just been trying to think about how to say
Speaker 1: it in a way that's not kind of hurt his feelings.
Speaker 1: I guess. Oh well, okay, Um, I got good news
Speaker 1: for you. Then, Skyler, what's up? You did say it
Speaker 1: because he's actually on the other line listening and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. What Wow? Oh my god. Um,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that he was already there, Like I
Speaker 1: thought you guys were going to call him. That's a beauty.
Speaker 1: That's a beautiful part of these were big liars and
Speaker 1: he's been on the phone the whole time. Are you embarrassed? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed. You shouldn't be I'm glad that you said
Speaker 1: all that stuff that totally makes sense I understand. But listen,
Speaker 1: I mean, like, I'm a very romantic person when something
Speaker 1: inspires me to be very romantic because but even I
Speaker 1: understand it, you have really strong feelings. But like, do
Speaker 1: you usually ask people out on vacation right when you
Speaker 1: meet them, because that's a lot to be in my shoes,
Speaker 1: Like it's a little scary to go out of town
Speaker 1: with someone you don't really know. Yeah, I gotta see
Speaker 1: that now. I guess I was just wrapped up in
Speaker 1: the moment of saying, like this is fun and silly,
Speaker 1: and what else can we do that it's spontaneous like
Speaker 1: what we did tonight, and we don't even have to
Speaker 1: like stay in the same said or like hotel when
Speaker 1: we go off and like go on a trip or
Speaker 1: something together. I just I'm trying to I guess I
Speaker 1: was just trying to find ways or an excuse to
Speaker 1: spend time with you. Again, You're asking me to go
Speaker 1: out on a vacation and we've only been on one date.
Speaker 1: But I need you to slow your role just a little.
Speaker 1: But Skyler, if he hadn't had said that, where were
Speaker 1: you at on the date, Like, all the way up
Speaker 1: until he asked you for a weekend getaway, what was
Speaker 1: your thought about him? I was having fun, you know,
Speaker 1: I like, I want to take something slow though, I
Speaker 1: want to get to know someone. You know, Like, the
Speaker 1: date was great. We we got to do something weird
Speaker 1: and crazy and fun and obviously a very memorable date.
Speaker 1: Maybe there's other weird, crazy, fun things you could do
Speaker 1: on a weekend get away that's super weird. I don't know,
Speaker 1: super weird. Oh my god. The only reason why I
Speaker 1: feel like I am jumping ahead so quickly is I
Speaker 1: just fell like we had a really awesome time. And
Speaker 1: I don't know if you feel this way, but I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm actually kind of falling for you. Wait
Speaker 1: where you're falling for me? Stuff like that, even like
Speaker 1: you need to be careful about while you're staying to
Speaker 1: BEVI this early on, You're right, I'm sorry. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to figure out how to say what I'm feeling inside.
Speaker 1: But I'm going to slow my role. I can practice
Speaker 1: slowing my role. Yeah, if you just marry him, Skyler,
Speaker 1: he'll slow his role. Skyler. Would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with Ethan on a second date. We'll pay for it,
Speaker 1: just a regular date. So just to clarify, we're not
Speaker 1: talking about a vacation anywhere, or like a couple's massage anything, right,
Speaker 1: this is like a very normal date. That's what I'm thinking, Ethan.
Speaker 1: Is that what you're thinking? Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely totally normal.
Speaker 1: And if you want to go to Dubai for the
Speaker 1: weekend as well, we can do that. I'm joking. I'm joking.
Speaker 1: I'm don't know if you are. That's a scary part. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Skyler, what do you say? Yes, I will go
Speaker 1: on a second eight, but I really want to take
Speaker 1: it slow and just can each other dinner, all right,
Speaker 1: just dinner and we'll talk slow. I'll speak really slowly,
Speaker 1: everything slow. All right. Well, congratulations Ethan, you got your
Speaker 1: second eight. Awesome, And Skyler, you're sure you want to
Speaker 1: go out with Ethan again? I do, don't say those
Speaker 1: words to you. I mean I will. Okay, there you go,
Speaker 1: broken jewel in the morning,