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Speaker 1: com Rooking Jewels. Second Date Update Today, a listener named

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Speaker 1: Ethan is on the phone for a second date update.

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Speaker 1: And I read your email, Ethan, I think I already

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Speaker 1: figured out your problem. Oh yeah, yeah, Well your email

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Speaker 1: was like super positive. You said everything was great. It's

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Speaker 1: like it sounds like maybe the best date ever. That's

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Speaker 1: kind of how you framed it in your email. And

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking maybe your problem as the date was just

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Speaker 1: too good and she doesn't want to do it again,

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Speaker 1: and that's why she's not calling you back. That's it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you just ruined dating for her altogether, and now she

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Speaker 1: can't date anymore because it was just such an amazing date.

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Speaker 1: So we're done. Then, I guess that's it for the

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Speaker 1: second day update. All right, later, you still want to

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Speaker 1: do it? Oh yeah, that's well, I'm free just because

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Speaker 1: I feel like it wasn't completely perfect. Okay, I want

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Speaker 1: to sign on a perfect day with her. Fine, I know,

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Speaker 1: I thought I helped you out already, but whatever, tell

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Speaker 1: us your story. What's the name of the girl you

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Speaker 1: want to call today? Skylar? Skylar? Okay? Yeah, And we

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Speaker 1: actually met on a dating app, which I'm kind of

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Speaker 1: feel like I've kind of seen the gannet. So you're

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Speaker 1: a little dated in your expectations weren't real high, is

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Speaker 1: what it sounds like. You could say that, but I've

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Speaker 1: had connections with people, but I just haven't. I don't

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Speaker 1: know something it was completely different about this girl. I

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Speaker 1: just felt like it clicked between us. Are you saying

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Speaker 1: before the day or once you guys met in person? No,

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Speaker 1: once we met in person? Okay, yeah, So what was

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Speaker 1: so special about the whole thing? I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just feel like there's so many me toos in

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Speaker 1: and I would be like, oh my god, me too.

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Speaker 1: It's like forty times where we were like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: me too, too too. That's when it's good on a

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Speaker 1: data If it starts with a hashtag, it's not going

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Speaker 1: to be a good thing, I guarantee it, right. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean it was not like that at all. It

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Speaker 1: you know, I was a boy scout. She's like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, you know I was a girl scout. You know,

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Speaker 1: we had like so many things that we had in common,

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Speaker 1: in the Scouts program. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, we went

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Speaker 1: went for because she was a girl scout for like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like you know, from when she was

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Speaker 1: did you guys have like a not tieing contest right there?

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Speaker 1: We totally could have. I would have loved to have

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Speaker 1: had that. How many natsu to do? Maybe it's fifteen thirty? Right? Wow?

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Speaker 1: So are you one of those guys? It's like a

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Speaker 1: like an eagle Scout. You made it all the way

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Speaker 1: I like this idea of always being prepared and whatever. Regardless,

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Speaker 1: that thing, yeah exactly. I guess my part of being

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Speaker 1: but it was a good date. I left it at that,

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Speaker 1: might still be on the app, you know and searching.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she like went on another date and that guy

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, well play a song and then come

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Speaker 1: thank plug it all right, hang on brooking Jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Hey, Ethan, how many fingers do you use? What? What?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I should clarify. Let me clarify that first.

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Speaker 1: If you're just hitting in for today second day update.

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Speaker 1: Ethan is on the phone and he went out on

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Speaker 1: a date with a girl named Skyler. They both bonded

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Speaker 1: over the fact that they grew up in the Boy

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Speaker 1: Scouts and the Girl Scouts, and they did it pretty

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Speaker 1: much all their life. And that's why I was trying

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Speaker 1: to remember, Like the d is it you're using three fingers?

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Speaker 1: Two fingers? What's the boy Scouts salute? It's three? Three?

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Speaker 1: It is? What about the one? Where does that go? Right?

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Speaker 1: Is it two in the three in the never? Maybe

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Speaker 1: I got the motto mixed up. I don't know anyway.

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Speaker 1: Obviously I wasn't involved in that stuff. Is that it

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Speaker 1: something I don't know any Quickly, Ethan went out with Skyler.

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Speaker 1: They bonded over the fact that they were both involved

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Speaker 1: in the Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts. Had a really

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Speaker 1: good date. It ended with an impromptu cook out campfire

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Speaker 1: her off and hasn't heard from her since. All right, Ethan,

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Speaker 1: you're ready to give her a call? Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: I feel are you nervous right now? Because I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm nervous for you, Like everything went so well.

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Speaker 1: What could be wrong? I have no idea, you know,

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Speaker 1: And they say when you know, you know, like that's

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Speaker 1: the thing. This could be amazing that the boy scout motto, No, no,

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Speaker 1: you know, Okay, you need to move on. I gotta

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Speaker 1: stop thinking about it. Gonna bug me. All right, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her right now, see if we can

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Speaker 1: figure it out. Okay, awesome, I'm so excited. Okay, here

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Speaker 1: we go. Hello, I mean I speak to Skylar. This

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, I'm good. Nice.

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Speaker 1: Oh I should continue the I should continue speaking to you.

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Speaker 1: Do you have you heard of the radio show Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning before. Yes, I haven't listened

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Speaker 1: to it, but that's kind of mine. Listen to that. Well,

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Speaker 1: and figure out what happened. And we got an email

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Speaker 1: name Ethan. Wait, oh my god, this is a second

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Speaker 1: date update. Yes, yes, it is, so your your friend

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Speaker 1: That's a beautiful part of these were big liars and

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Speaker 1: you usually ask people out on vacation right when you

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Speaker 1: But I need you to slow your role just a little.

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Speaker 1: But Skyler, if he hadn't had said that, where were

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Speaker 1: BEVI this early on, You're right, I'm sorry. I'm just

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Speaker 1: he'll slow his role. Skyler. Would you like to go

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Speaker 1: out with Ethan on a second date. We'll pay for it,

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Speaker 1: just a regular date. So just to clarify, we're not

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Speaker 1: this is like a very normal date. That's what I'm thinking, Ethan.

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Speaker 1: Is that what you're thinking? Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely totally normal.

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Speaker 1: I'm don't know if you are. That's a scary part. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Skyler, what do you say? Yes, I will go

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Speaker 1: just dinner and we'll talk slow. I'll speak really slowly,

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Speaker 1: everything slow. All right. Well, congratulations Ethan, you got your

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Speaker 1: second eight. Awesome, And Skyler, you're sure you want to

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Speaker 1: go out with Ethan again? I do, don't say those

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Speaker 1: words to you. I mean I will. Okay, there you go,

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Speaker 1: broken jewel in the morning,