WEBVTT - EP 349: Sexpectations (Ft. Glasses Malone) 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:04.200 Guess what decision we're about to make. 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:10.640 Horrible decision. Y'all. Welcome to another episode of horrible decisions 0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:13.520 where I may be a pussy as holdest episode because 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:17.120 a bitch kind of scared. But y'all, it's your girl, man, 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:21.000 dB Hi, y'all, I'm Weezy. We've got a guest in 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:24.360 the building, which very confusing to me, wearing red, then 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:24.920 they're blue. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:28.640 This is is it set tripping? What's going on? 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:33.919 It's like maroon? It's maroon, but that's how Glasses doing. 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:34.400 Y'ah. 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:38.440 We are joined by Glasses Malone in the building, true 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:44.000 West Coast fashion, and yeah, we off off camera started 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:47.040 talking about gangs and I'm hoping we don't really have 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:50.280 to spend that much time there because I be scared. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:51.239 I don't be like it. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.920 Like literally just went on a date and a nigga 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.520 was like yeah, because you know, I pulled up. I'm 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:57.480 glad I'm in New York where niggas can't carry heat. 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.880 That's all I'm gonna say. I feel really safe here 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:03.360 and that's where I'm at. I'm not the one who, 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.000 like Weezy, wants to fucking nigga with a gun under 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:06.360 the pillow. 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:08.039 I'm just not let me just explained. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:12.280 We're from Florida and you're not necessarily a meaning men 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:15.479 that are in like okay, bigger cities right in La 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:16.640 New York and whatever. 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.040 You meet niggas with good job. 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:20.240 If you're making a lot of money in Florida, like 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:21.319 you need to have a gun. 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.080 So that's why I feel safe because I was dating 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.720 niggas and I needed to protect me. I want to know, 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.040 so your grip and so when you date women like 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:33.520 do they have to have certain attributes to them that 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:35.120 are like Okay, you can fuck with a nigga, Like, now, 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.280 what is the attribute of a woman to data crypt 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:39.600 This is where we're starting this week, dating a man 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.360 that's in a gang or that's gangs like. 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:42.680 I mean, nah, not really. 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:46.520 Some niggas like some men like women that have nothing 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.280 to do with their life, and some like them rough. 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:53.640 I prefer a mix. Well because I read too, you 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:54.120 know what I mean? 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:56.760 Like this nigga said, eye open books. 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.960 You've been to jail. 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:03.800 Yeah, once or twice, but not prison. Okay, I've never been. 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:09.040 In prison, so jail is just the holding, right jail. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.120 I was about to say, I only had seven hours 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:14.120 and they were really nice to me. 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:17.520 They brought me like fucking crackers and all that they 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:21.120 had fruit. I didn't have fruit. Queen. Oh, the lieutenant 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:21.440 came over. 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.240 Let me use his phone. That's how I got to 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.320 call you. I think I did Instagram you. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:26.960 I d M D right by the way, if anyone 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:31.560 has Mandy literally called me and we're on No, no, 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:32.280 it wasn't on camera. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:36.639 I get back in the car and I'm sitting there 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:39.400 doing BTS. He's like, what's up? I said, what? Manny' 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:40.720 in jail? We won't be recording today. 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.360 Literally, I had to call her, like, but let me 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:44.959 tell you real, beating up some nail lady. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.519 I didn't beat her up. I protected my friend who 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.200 was getting fought by the nail text because she didn't 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:52.639 want to pay the full price. Nonetheless, let me tell 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:55.600 you how crazy was So I'm in jail, like, bruh, 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:58.240 I'm waiting. I don't know. They haven't taken my pictures yet, 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.400 I haven't taken my finger prints, but I'm still here. 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:04.280 Here go weezy. So about how long are. 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:05.280 You gonna make it to the recording? 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:06.960 Are we recording today at all? Or? 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:08.240 I said bitch, I. 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:10.320 Am while I'm in jail. 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.519 Bitch was like, but are you gonna make it? Because 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:15.959 there's no one else booking tonight, So I could say here. 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:18.520 No because she said I'm gonna arrest it. But I 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:20.880 was like, in jail, bro, I want to hear jail. 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:22.480 I think I heard arrested. So she said that. 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:27.079 I was like, maybe she's fighting with somebody holding cell, 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:30.200 so maybe I didn't call it jail that I've been arrested. 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:34.040 I'm behind bars. Did you get out and do the episode? 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:35.000 Is that? 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:35.080 What? 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:36.200 Did you get out and do the episodes? 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:38.160 Get out to? Like fucking eleven? 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:40.800 I was up to that long. I was up. 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:44.320 I agree. 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.880 I had Dick to get flew to New York for this. 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:50.240 Even when I called him back to he was laughing 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:51.960 so hard. He was like, this ain't even a mandy thing. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:52.560 This is a youth. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.360 If anybody's gonna guess the podcaster of the two that 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.440 was gonna end up arrested, bitch it what it wasn't 0:03:58.480 --> 0:03:58.920 gonna be me? 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:02.920 What you will fly for? I just heard that, Oh 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:03.400 oh oh. 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:05.600 I was in La fucking Nigga and flew to New 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:10.200 York's record But yeah, at this moment, they better come 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:10.640 fly to me. 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.320 I want the dick to fly to me. I think 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:15.080 it's gonna make the dick seem better if a nigga 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.320 just hop on a flight because he coming just to 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:19.960 see me. I just I'm gonna feel like I have 0:04:20.080 --> 0:04:22.000 to make more love to the dick. When I was 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:23.800 in my twenties, I used to get flued out. I've 0:04:23.800 --> 0:04:26.960 been flewed out. I literally took like a five hour 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:28.960 flight to be somewhere for ten hours and fly back 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:30.600 like I was flying the same amount of time. 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.600 Mouse Just the fuck. 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:35.960 That's how scarce go. Oh my god, I'm embarrassed now. 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.200 But now I'm too busy as well. But yeah, I 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.640 did it just just for sake. 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.320 That's crazy. I was just telling somebody I wouldn't fly 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:47.040 a girl anywhere, like, oh god, just because Like so, 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.880 this is fifteen years as a professional in this in 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:52.440 this rap stuff, right signed the cash money. When I 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:54.360 would go to Japan, Why would I fly a bitch 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:59.800 from Harthorne to Japan? His Japanese bitch is there? Okay, 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.440 I mean it's more of a flaws what's more of 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:06.120 a flass like in Japan? Fucking Japanese women or in 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:09.400 Germany fucking German women, or flying somebody from a rest. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:10.880 I don't think it's more of a flaus. I think 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:12.520 it's a person. 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.760 It's not even the experience because bit ch'all was never 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:18.120 with these niggas. Like to me, it's more of a 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.640 I know it's a short thing, not only a short thing, 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:25.919 but when it comes to sex, like I know that 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:27.760 there's certain people that I know, I'm gonna have a 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:30.120 good ass time, We're gonna fuck, We're gonna enjoy each 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:30.720 other's company. 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:33.120 That's what I meant by with that person relationship. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.360 I mean, you were fly, but that's crazy. I wouldn't 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:37.679 fly anybody for that, Like you could just meet somebody there. 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:41.520 So just say that if you don't have some good 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:44.279 pussy where you actually vibe with a woman, because you 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.840 you you not even wanting to like be with her, 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:49.839 but just that you know it's good, y'all have a 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:53.560 connection that you're not gonna get from Morando, especially maybe 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:54.120 you're vanilla. 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:55.760 Maybe just sex or sex for you. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:57.839 But I know, like when I want to be on 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.760 some kinky shit or real freaky shit, I'm not doing 0:06:00.760 --> 0:06:01.400 that with everybody. 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.240 And again, it's not just the sex too, Like he said, 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:07.640 I remember art Bozzle two years ago. There's a dude 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:09.640 that was like, Yo, come blah blah blah, I'm here 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:10.800 for a week, like I want you to come, come 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:14.200 see me, And art Bozzle is literally like the baddest 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:18.039 bitches in the world, right, And so no, like everybody's fine. 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:22.120 It's also it's not like this weekend of Memorial Day, 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:23.719 but it's like this nigga's there. But it's just like 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.880 it's still like art is sex, it's culture or whatever. 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:29.120 It's some beautiful women. So when I was there because 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:32.120 I went, of course, I remember saying, I can't believe 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.440 you really wanted me to come when you could be 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.880 fucking a bunch of hoes and re laughing because I said, oh, well, 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:37.840 I am leaving on Wednesday. But he was like, yo, 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:39.719 I ain't just like I want some pussy out you, 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:41.200 like I want to have fun with you here. 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:42.719 And I think that's the thing too. 0:06:43.200 --> 0:06:46.080 Yes, you'll meet some bitches there, but like it isn't 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.320 a sure thing, and not just by the vibes of sex, 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.960 but like being able to enjoy shit with that person. 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:52.480 But maybe that comes with age. I don't know. 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:55.760 I think you just got to experience it. I just 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:57.640 was saying that I think your game gotta be weak. 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.840 If that's the case, your game has to be weak. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.479 You like a woman. Why would you do that? 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.839 Because look, if you in New York, like so when 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:07.279 I was on my ship, when I was really running around, 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.080 I would have a bitch in Flat Bush. 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.880 I would have a bitch. I would meet women in 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:12.600 these places. 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:15.120 Bru Niggas don't want to fucking have to be out 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:16.840 in the streets every night to have a bitch come. 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:17.920 On out to meet every night. 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.120 It's not gonna happen the first time. 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:22.280 Why would you want that bitch every fucking night? 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:24.840 You just met this home, it's another night, so it's 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:25.559 another bitch. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:27.360 You gotta go out and get another girl. 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:30.800 I mean, I think that that's the thing too. And 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:33.880 we talked about people who enjoy partying. You see, even 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.800 when I'm on tour and I be tired, I get 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.600 a little second win and a bitch. 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:38.520 Will end up outside. 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:42.720 So if he's going to a city like you every night, 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:47.520 dominent that every night, it's not gonna be hard to meet. 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.960 That's what I'm saying, Like, it's a way we we 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:51.720 really believe it and we carry ourselves. 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:52.920 That's anything. 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.200 Because this should be in the earliest fuck, I'd be like, 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.280 I just got here two o'clock. Yeah, I'm a morning now, 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:59.120 let's don't do something in New York. 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:03.320 I'll be tired. Be outside till is the best dating 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:04.680 experience and I love it. 0:08:04.880 --> 0:08:06.000 I love I never. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.120 Want to have dinner with a nigga. One of my 0:08:08.120 --> 0:08:10.000 favorite episode of to Day three niggas in One Night 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.160 That's in the City. Do you remember when she went 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:15.160 to with Midnight that ship has fired? They went to 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:18.080 an art gallery at two am, Like I did see that. 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:19.520 I was watching. 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:21.200 Episode is on a delseel flight right now, That's all 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:21.480 I know. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.320 I was watching that. I was watching part two yesterday. 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.720 Oh yeah, that is part one of Netflix. Right, so 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:29.600 part two the section of the city movie. And she 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:32.080 was mad because old boy went to sit up and 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.520 watch movies and ship and she was complaining about it 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:36.640 the whole time. But she got this person to marry her. 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.840 I was telling him, I love women want to marry 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:44.320 no because it's it's funny. Carrie so big and Carrie 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.480 that's because they was in the street stuff right, Big, 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.600 because yeah, Big was a real player. But Carrie, right, 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:52.520 she was like trying to live a single life being married, 0:08:52.880 --> 0:08:55.320 and I was telling him women really will pursue us. 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:58.040 We just thought women will really try to pursue that. 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:00.080 Sh what what what does that mean to you? So? 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:03.640 So when so we just talked about Weezy really wanting 0:09:04.120 --> 0:09:16.560 a partner who can party with her. Now, that's crazy. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.120 I am a woman that's on the go. I've never 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:25.000 needed a man for new experiences in life. If I 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:28.120 feel like eating sushi, maybe I'm too tired of the 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:29.320 fucking sushi in my neighborhood. 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:31.080 And I do want to fly to Japan and done it. 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:33.520 And Ben So like, to me, it's a nigga that's 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:35.440 gonna get ready to get up and go. I want 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:38.880 to have these life experiences with someone, not because you 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.640 gotta be single to fucking live, you know. And I 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:44.760 think that being able to socialize and be extroverted is 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.560 something that we look at as being in the streets 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:47.559 or being outside or. 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.560 Being a hole, and it doesn't have to be that. 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:52.400 Like I love moving around with my nigga. I mean, shit, 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.080 what power is like moving around? 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:57.200 Why can't she like moving around with a partner. 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:59.079 She don't like moving around with a party, she like 0:09:59.160 --> 0:09:59.679 moving around. 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:01.000 No, that's absolutely not true. 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:02.320 So this is what we're talking about. 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:04.559 She just had this conversation with a dude that I've 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:07.040 been dating, sleeping with. I was like, I feel like. 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:08.720 I'm the only bitch that likes going to a party 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.240 with her man and he's not my man, but you 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:14.120 know what I'm saying, And he was like. 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:14.960 No, you're not. 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:17.240 He's like every bitch I fuck with like love taking 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:18.920 me to the club with them. He's like girls fucking 0:10:19.080 --> 0:10:21.080 like being out with a dude because they're tired of 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:23.440 being out with their homegirls looking for niggas, Like you 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:25.160 want to go out, dance, have a drink, and no 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:25.720 you gett. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.120 Fucked after it, And it was. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:31.520 I want to ask you. Your face looks really perturbed. 0:10:31.760 --> 0:10:32.280 I want to. 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:34.520 Ask you as a man, because we did just have 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:37.520 this conversation as to women only speaking for women and 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:39.680 what we would like and how we thought. 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:41.640 Men would view it, and I definitely said men probably 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:43.600 would think this is an unattractive thing about and. 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:44.360 I didn't think so. 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.520 So I want to ask you, though, if like, why 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.200 you don't believe a woman can party and want to 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:52.000 do those things that she enjoys single. 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:54.600 With her partner because they're single things. The purpose is 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:55.600 to attract attention. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.960 You think going out to the dance like dancing and 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.000 drinking is attract another. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.640 Which we talked about madt Let's cut club out homes. 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:07.920 You could dance, you could drink, dance and you could drink. 0:11:07.960 --> 0:11:10.160 So let's say a club. You could drink and dance 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:12.120 to music at home. But you want to be in 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:13.880 a social environment of a lot of other people. 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:15.920 Yes, that doesn't mean we want to be chose by 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:17.880 a nigga. It could mean as an extra. 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.480 This is la shiit now I don't understand. Okay, this 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.960 is la New York ship. Our apartments are so small. 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:29.440 Be serious, you are genuinely confined to a certain space 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:33.240 where like it isn't enough. Like me and my. 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.960 Ex nigga we were together three years. He was in Brooklyn, 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:37.520 I was on the Lower east Side. Both of our 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.800 apartments are small, beautiful but small. What do you do 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:41.440 when you need to get a little air? You go outside, 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:46.120 you go downstairs. That's a camaraderie thing. And I really 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:48.120 think New Yorker is like fond like that. 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:51.240 But I mean to me though, I also like each other, 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.880 not other people. And see that's the difference with my partner. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:57.240 I would enjoy us going to a bar. We're socializing 0:11:57.240 --> 0:11:59.360 with the people at the bar, the bartender. We used 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:01.200 to like to hit on bitches together. It was fun 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:02.080 shit for us to do. 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.360 But you don't think that, y'all. You don't think y'all 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:06.560 are social butterflies to some degree. And then at that 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:08.400 point you just want somebody alone for the richeter. 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:10.600 But that's the thing, and that's what we said. We 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.280 would love to not have to dim our light, to 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:15.880 be with a man, to be able to still enjoy life. 0:12:16.120 --> 0:12:18.720 Life is we only got one to live. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:21.120 I know what you're saying about, like attention and going out, 0:12:21.120 --> 0:12:23.520 and when I was younger, I truly believed that to 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:25.000 be a thing. But in this moment, like. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.560 No one listening right, Like I'm talking about myself and 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:32.880 what I like, and I've really learned that. 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:36.200 Nah, I don't really get numbers in clubs. 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:38.040 I don't know the last time I've done it, Like neither, 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:40.920 I can't hear. 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:45.600 I want to be out here. You give y'all credit. 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.400 I honestly, don't think that's your complete intention to get 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:50.760 everybody's number, but you do want a certain level of 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:53.040 attention and looks. But we were just saying that if 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:55.240 you meet the right nigga, the right nigga gonna make you. 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:57.280 Nothing else is gonna matter, just that person. 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:59.840 But why sitting in the house, how y'all living light? 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:01.120 How is that living? I agree? 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:04.280 Howse life is to be experienced. It's the human experience. 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:08.520 Exactly together doing all things that shouldn't be classified as 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:10.880 single bit shit or wifey shit. 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.040 It's a reason that's classified. Is that right? Because it's 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:14.320 the attention of strangers. 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:17.240 Like when women write, if we're talking about like dressing 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:21.360 or attraction, right, y'all kind of conflate beautiful and sexy. 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:23.960 So then a lot of times y'all literally, I know 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.840 it sounds crazy, but y'all conflated too. And what happens 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:28.720 is some of the things you do, you still want 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:31.240 the looks, even though you're with your partner, you still 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:32.480 want people to see you. 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:34.480 I think that that's the problem that I think a 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:37.560 lot of men, if we're using the word conflate, they 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:40.000 do that. Like I know, so many things that women 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:43.000 do because it makes them feel good. So we're not 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:46.800 talking about the bbls and the people, no, but in 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:50.360 terms of like I've lost a dress, sick amount of weight. Sure, 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.640 there's things that now I can put on, and I 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:53.720 just want to put that shit on. 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.240 I know that lashes. Women like lashes. 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.880 You niggas hate these motherfucking caterpillars on these bitch We 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:03.520 do that because for whatever reason, we like how it looks. 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:06.040 The lace wigs, y'all. Niggas can't stand it, y'all be like, 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:08.080 I see the shit. We do it because maybe we 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.800 want to switch up our look. There are actually so 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:14.720 many things that women do for women and not for 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:16.839 the attention of men that I think are conflated to 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:18.439 where y'all think a bit is just trying to look 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:21.000 sexy and fire and get attention, when those are really 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:23.200 things that women do because they like how it makes them. 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.720 I don't even think that a date night can't exist 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:28.280 if I'm spending too much time in the house, Like 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:32.120 at some point I need to have something else beyond 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.200 the four walls. You know what I'm saying, It might 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:37.080 be a little too simple for me, and that it's 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:39.320 something I said to Mandy, like one of my homeboys 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.760 said to me, the reason that you probably haven't ended 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:46.400 up in a relationship is because you're meeting niggas that 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:47.760 like being outside. 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:50.280 Or you've just got single this year true, two years ago? 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:51.480 No, no, bit. 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:53.760 The top of the year. 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.160 No, it was not, bitch. I have not fucked that 0:14:56.240 --> 0:15:00.600 niggasince twenty twenty one. That is a lie twenty twenty one, 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:01.520 but just twenty twenty three. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:03.600 I know it's been two years we've been broken up. 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:06.120 Ain't no motherfucking way, Bro, I was talking to the 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:07.240 Dreamville nigga last year. 0:15:07.240 --> 0:15:08.680 Remember I was going through Dreamville. 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:11.200 Was in April, that was last year. You the fuck 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:13.680 this nigga I've been broken up with for two years. Bro, 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:18.800 ain't no mother you was at least fucking him last year. Bro, No, Maggie, Bro, 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:21.280 ain't no way you met dream Bill in April, because 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.200 I know said about the. 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:24.960 Fucking breakup, But that didn't mean I was fucking with 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:25.400 that nigga. 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:27.240 I was with him three years and he started fucking 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:29.120 on random white bitch that was married. 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.360 Really, So you ain't for that nigga all last year? 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:35.240 No, we almost two years without you. Getting that dick. 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:39.200 Bitch, we record this to compass. Okay, so let me 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:42.560 make y'all, let me make a point. Ok you went 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:44.000 from a break up for a long time. You go 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:45.480 to see I'm over it. 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:47.120 I'm about to stop being a celibate. I'm about to 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:47.760 get me some dick. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:50.480 Okay, so then be a celibate. So one, the point 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:52.400 you was making is great, right, that's true. It's not 0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:55.000 always for male attention, but sometimes it's for female attention. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.680 Actually most time it's for female. 0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:01.080 A ten it is so therefore still for attention from 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:05.320 women in games. So again to the face of attention, right, 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:07.880 the space of attention, which is important because if you 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.480 understand that, you're start understanding why you move in certain ways. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.520 I don't, I guess I don't necessarily look at that. 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.960 It's like this notch on the go to like, ooh, 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:16.480 that's a bad thing about this woman, like I. 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:17.640 Think it's not. It's not. 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:19.440 It's not bad or good. It's just you have to 0:16:19.480 --> 0:16:23.400 recognize that. And gods, for guys, it's not a problem. 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:27.640 They just the problem is so y'all not being honest 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:30.680 to say how much every what everybody else thinks matters 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:32.920 so then gods sitting around like, well, why are you 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:33.480 doing all this? 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:36.360 But they think it's always God's attention you ask. 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.600