Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make.
Speaker 2: Horrible decision. Y'all. Welcome to another episode of horrible decisions
Speaker 2: where I may be a pussy as holdest episode because
Speaker 2: a bitch kind of scared. But y'all, it's your girl, man,
Speaker 2: dB Hi, y'all, I'm Weezy. We've got a guest in
Speaker 2: the building, which very confusing to me, wearing red, then
Speaker 2: they're blue.
Speaker 1: This is is it set tripping? What's going on?
Speaker 3: It's like maroon? It's maroon, but that's how Glasses doing.
Speaker 4: Y'ah.
Speaker 2: We are joined by Glasses Malone in the building, true
Speaker 2: West Coast fashion, and yeah, we off off camera started
Speaker 2: talking about gangs and I'm hoping we don't really have
Speaker 2: to spend that much time there because I be scared.
Speaker 1: I don't be like it.
Speaker 2: Like literally just went on a date and a nigga
Speaker 2: was like yeah, because you know, I pulled up. I'm
Speaker 2: glad I'm in New York where niggas can't carry heat.
Speaker 2: That's all I'm gonna say. I feel really safe here
Speaker 2: and that's where I'm at. I'm not the one who,
Speaker 2: like Weezy, wants to fucking nigga with a gun under
Speaker 2: the pillow.
Speaker 1: I'm just not let me just explained.
Speaker 4: We're from Florida and you're not necessarily a meaning men
Speaker 4: that are in like okay, bigger cities right in La
Speaker 4: New York and whatever.
Speaker 2: You meet niggas with good job.
Speaker 1: If you're making a lot of money in Florida, like
Speaker 1: you need to have a gun.
Speaker 4: So that's why I feel safe because I was dating
Speaker 4: niggas and I needed to protect me. I want to know,
Speaker 4: so your grip and so when you date women like
Speaker 4: do they have to have certain attributes to them that
Speaker 4: are like Okay, you can fuck with a nigga, Like, now,
Speaker 4: what is the attribute of a woman to data crypt
Speaker 4: This is where we're starting this week, dating a man
Speaker 4: that's in a gang or that's gangs like.
Speaker 1: I mean, nah, not really.
Speaker 5: Some niggas like some men like women that have nothing
Speaker 5: to do with their life, and some like them rough.
Speaker 5: I prefer a mix. Well because I read too, you
Speaker 5: know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like this nigga said, eye open books.
Speaker 1: You've been to jail.
Speaker 3: Yeah, once or twice, but not prison. Okay, I've never been.
Speaker 2: In prison, so jail is just the holding, right jail.
Speaker 2: I was about to say, I only had seven hours
Speaker 2: and they were really nice to me.
Speaker 1: They brought me like fucking crackers and all that they
Speaker 1: had fruit. I didn't have fruit. Queen. Oh, the lieutenant
Speaker 1: came over.
Speaker 2: Let me use his phone. That's how I got to
Speaker 2: call you. I think I did Instagram you.
Speaker 4: I d M D right by the way, if anyone
Speaker 4: has Mandy literally called me and we're on No, no,
Speaker 4: it wasn't on camera.
Speaker 1: I get back in the car and I'm sitting there
Speaker 1: doing BTS. He's like, what's up? I said, what? Manny'
Speaker 1: in jail? We won't be recording today.
Speaker 4: Literally, I had to call her, like, but let me
Speaker 4: tell you real, beating up some nail lady.
Speaker 2: I didn't beat her up. I protected my friend who
Speaker 2: was getting fought by the nail text because she didn't
Speaker 2: want to pay the full price. Nonetheless, let me tell
Speaker 2: you how crazy was So I'm in jail, like, bruh,
Speaker 2: I'm waiting. I don't know. They haven't taken my pictures yet,
Speaker 2: I haven't taken my finger prints, but I'm still here.
Speaker 1: Here go weezy. So about how long are.
Speaker 2: You gonna make it to the recording?
Speaker 1: Are we recording today at all? Or?
Speaker 2: I said bitch, I.
Speaker 1: Am while I'm in jail.
Speaker 2: Bitch was like, but are you gonna make it? Because
Speaker 2: there's no one else booking tonight, So I could say here.
Speaker 4: No because she said I'm gonna arrest it. But I
Speaker 4: was like, in jail, bro, I want to hear jail.
Speaker 1: I think I heard arrested. So she said that.
Speaker 4: I was like, maybe she's fighting with somebody holding cell,
Speaker 4: so maybe I didn't call it jail that I've been arrested.
Speaker 1: I'm behind bars. Did you get out and do the episode?
Speaker 1: Is that?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: Did you get out and do the episodes?
Speaker 2: Get out to? Like fucking eleven?
Speaker 1: I was up to that long. I was up.
Speaker 2: I agree.
Speaker 4: I had Dick to get flew to New York for this.
Speaker 4: Even when I called him back to he was laughing
Speaker 4: so hard. He was like, this ain't even a mandy thing.
Speaker 1: This is a youth.
Speaker 4: If anybody's gonna guess the podcaster of the two that
Speaker 4: was gonna end up arrested, bitch it what it wasn't
Speaker 4: gonna be me?
Speaker 1: What you will fly for? I just heard that, Oh
Speaker 1: oh oh.
Speaker 4: I was in La fucking Nigga and flew to New
Speaker 4: York's record But yeah, at this moment, they better come
Speaker 4: fly to me.
Speaker 2: I want the dick to fly to me. I think
Speaker 2: it's gonna make the dick seem better if a nigga
Speaker 2: just hop on a flight because he coming just to
Speaker 2: see me. I just I'm gonna feel like I have
Speaker 2: to make more love to the dick. When I was
Speaker 2: in my twenties, I used to get flued out. I've
Speaker 2: been flewed out. I literally took like a five hour
Speaker 2: flight to be somewhere for ten hours and fly back
Speaker 2: like I was flying the same amount of time.
Speaker 1: Mouse Just the fuck.
Speaker 2: That's how scarce go. Oh my god, I'm embarrassed now.
Speaker 2: But now I'm too busy as well. But yeah, I
Speaker 2: did it just just for sake.
Speaker 5: That's crazy. I was just telling somebody I wouldn't fly
Speaker 5: a girl anywhere, like, oh god, just because Like so,
Speaker 5: this is fifteen years as a professional in this in
Speaker 5: this rap stuff, right signed the cash money. When I
Speaker 5: would go to Japan, Why would I fly a bitch
Speaker 5: from Harthorne to Japan? His Japanese bitch is there? Okay,
Speaker 5: I mean it's more of a flaws what's more of
Speaker 5: a flass like in Japan? Fucking Japanese women or in
Speaker 5: Germany fucking German women, or flying somebody from a rest.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's more of a flaus. I think
Speaker 1: it's a person.
Speaker 2: It's not even the experience because bit ch'all was never
Speaker 2: with these niggas. Like to me, it's more of a
Speaker 2: I know it's a short thing, not only a short thing,
Speaker 2: but when it comes to sex, like I know that
Speaker 2: there's certain people that I know, I'm gonna have a
Speaker 2: good ass time, We're gonna fuck, We're gonna enjoy each
Speaker 2: other's company.
Speaker 1: That's what I meant by with that person relationship.
Speaker 5: I mean, you were fly, but that's crazy. I wouldn't
Speaker 5: fly anybody for that, Like you could just meet somebody there.
Speaker 4: So just say that if you don't have some good
Speaker 4: pussy where you actually vibe with a woman, because you
Speaker 4: you you not even wanting to like be with her,
Speaker 4: but just that you know it's good, y'all have a
Speaker 4: connection that you're not gonna get from Morando, especially maybe
Speaker 4: you're vanilla.
Speaker 1: Maybe just sex or sex for you.
Speaker 2: But I know, like when I want to be on
Speaker 2: some kinky shit or real freaky shit, I'm not doing
Speaker 2: that with everybody.
Speaker 4: And again, it's not just the sex too, Like he said,
Speaker 4: I remember art Bozzle two years ago. There's a dude
Speaker 4: that was like, Yo, come blah blah blah, I'm here
Speaker 4: for a week, like I want you to come, come
Speaker 4: see me, And art Bozzle is literally like the baddest
Speaker 4: bitches in the world, right, And so no, like everybody's fine.
Speaker 4: It's also it's not like this weekend of Memorial Day,
Speaker 4: but it's like this nigga's there. But it's just like
Speaker 4: it's still like art is sex, it's culture or whatever.
Speaker 4: It's some beautiful women. So when I was there because
Speaker 4: I went, of course, I remember saying, I can't believe
Speaker 4: you really wanted me to come when you could be
Speaker 4: fucking a bunch of hoes and re laughing because I said, oh, well,
Speaker 4: I am leaving on Wednesday. But he was like, yo,
Speaker 4: I ain't just like I want some pussy out you,
Speaker 4: like I want to have fun with you here.
Speaker 1: And I think that's the thing too.
Speaker 4: Yes, you'll meet some bitches there, but like it isn't
Speaker 4: a sure thing, and not just by the vibes of sex,
Speaker 4: but like being able to enjoy shit with that person.
Speaker 1: But maybe that comes with age. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I think you just got to experience it. I just
Speaker 5: was saying that I think your game gotta be weak.
Speaker 5: If that's the case, your game has to be weak.
Speaker 1: You like a woman. Why would you do that?
Speaker 5: Because look, if you in New York, like so when
Speaker 5: I was on my ship, when I was really running around,
Speaker 5: I would have a bitch in Flat Bush.
Speaker 3: I would have a bitch. I would meet women in
Speaker 3: these places.
Speaker 1: Bru Niggas don't want to fucking have to be out
Speaker 1: in the streets every night to have a bitch come.
Speaker 2: On out to meet every night.
Speaker 3: It's not gonna happen the first time.
Speaker 1: Why would you want that bitch every fucking night?
Speaker 3: You just met this home, it's another night, so it's
Speaker 3: another bitch.
Speaker 1: You gotta go out and get another girl.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that that's the thing too. And
Speaker 2: we talked about people who enjoy partying. You see, even
Speaker 2: when I'm on tour and I be tired, I get
Speaker 2: a little second win and a bitch.
Speaker 1: Will end up outside.
Speaker 2: So if he's going to a city like you every night,
Speaker 2: dominent that every night, it's not gonna be hard to meet.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying, Like, it's a way we we
Speaker 5: really believe it and we carry ourselves.
Speaker 1: That's anything.
Speaker 2: Because this should be in the earliest fuck, I'd be like,
Speaker 2: I just got here two o'clock. Yeah, I'm a morning now,
Speaker 2: let's don't do something in New York.
Speaker 1: I'll be tired. Be outside till is the best dating
Speaker 1: experience and I love it.
Speaker 2: I love I never.
Speaker 4: Want to have dinner with a nigga. One of my
Speaker 4: favorite episode of to Day three niggas in One Night
Speaker 4: That's in the City. Do you remember when she went
Speaker 4: to with Midnight that ship has fired? They went to
Speaker 4: an art gallery at two am, Like I did see that.
Speaker 1: I was watching.
Speaker 2: Episode is on a delseel flight right now, That's all
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 5: I was watching that. I was watching part two yesterday.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that is part one of Netflix. Right, so
Speaker 5: part two the section of the city movie. And she
Speaker 5: was mad because old boy went to sit up and
Speaker 5: watch movies and ship and she was complaining about it
Speaker 5: the whole time. But she got this person to marry her.
Speaker 5: I was telling him, I love women want to marry
Speaker 5: no because it's it's funny. Carrie so big and Carrie
Speaker 5: that's because they was in the street stuff right, Big,
Speaker 5: because yeah, Big was a real player. But Carrie, right,
Speaker 5: she was like trying to live a single life being married,
Speaker 5: and I was telling him women really will pursue us.
Speaker 5: We just thought women will really try to pursue that.
Speaker 2: Sh what what what does that mean to you? So?
Speaker 2: So when so we just talked about Weezy really wanting
Speaker 2: a partner who can party with her. Now, that's crazy.
Speaker 4: I am a woman that's on the go. I've never
Speaker 4: needed a man for new experiences in life. If I
Speaker 4: feel like eating sushi, maybe I'm too tired of the
Speaker 4: fucking sushi in my neighborhood.
Speaker 1: And I do want to fly to Japan and done it.
Speaker 4: And Ben So like, to me, it's a nigga that's
Speaker 4: gonna get ready to get up and go. I want
Speaker 4: to have these life experiences with someone, not because you
Speaker 4: gotta be single to fucking live, you know. And I
Speaker 4: think that being able to socialize and be extroverted is
Speaker 4: something that we look at as being in the streets
Speaker 4: or being outside or.
Speaker 2: Being a hole, and it doesn't have to be that.
Speaker 1: Like I love moving around with my nigga. I mean, shit,
Speaker 1: what power is like moving around?
Speaker 2: Why can't she like moving around with a partner.
Speaker 3: She don't like moving around with a party, she like
Speaker 3: moving around.
Speaker 1: No, that's absolutely not true.
Speaker 3: So this is what we're talking about.
Speaker 1: She just had this conversation with a dude that I've
Speaker 1: been dating, sleeping with. I was like, I feel like.
Speaker 4: I'm the only bitch that likes going to a party
Speaker 4: with her man and he's not my man, but you
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, And he was like.
Speaker 1: No, you're not.
Speaker 4: He's like every bitch I fuck with like love taking
Speaker 4: me to the club with them. He's like girls fucking
Speaker 4: like being out with a dude because they're tired of
Speaker 4: being out with their homegirls looking for niggas, Like you
Speaker 4: want to go out, dance, have a drink, and no
Speaker 4: you gett.
Speaker 1: Fucked after it, And it was.
Speaker 2: I want to ask you. Your face looks really perturbed.
Speaker 1: I want to.
Speaker 2: Ask you as a man, because we did just have
Speaker 2: this conversation as to women only speaking for women and
Speaker 2: what we would like and how we thought.
Speaker 4: Men would view it, and I definitely said men probably
Speaker 4: would think this is an unattractive thing about and.
Speaker 1: I didn't think so.
Speaker 2: So I want to ask you, though, if like, why
Speaker 2: you don't believe a woman can party and want to
Speaker 2: do those things that she enjoys single.
Speaker 5: With her partner because they're single things. The purpose is
Speaker 5: to attract attention.
Speaker 2: You think going out to the dance like dancing and
Speaker 2: drinking is attract another.
Speaker 1: Which we talked about madt Let's cut club out homes.
Speaker 5: You could dance, you could drink, dance and you could drink.
Speaker 5: So let's say a club. You could drink and dance
Speaker 5: to music at home. But you want to be in
Speaker 5: a social environment of a lot of other people.
Speaker 2: Yes, that doesn't mean we want to be chose by
Speaker 2: a nigga. It could mean as an extra.
Speaker 4: This is la shiit now I don't understand. Okay, this
Speaker 4: is la New York ship. Our apartments are so small.
Speaker 1: Be serious, you are genuinely confined to a certain space
Speaker 1: where like it isn't enough. Like me and my.
Speaker 4: Ex nigga we were together three years. He was in Brooklyn,
Speaker 4: I was on the Lower east Side. Both of our
Speaker 4: apartments are small, beautiful but small. What do you do
Speaker 4: when you need to get a little air? You go outside,
Speaker 4: you go downstairs. That's a camaraderie thing. And I really
Speaker 4: think New Yorker is like fond like that.
Speaker 2: But I mean to me though, I also like each other,
Speaker 2: not other people. And see that's the difference with my partner.
Speaker 2: I would enjoy us going to a bar. We're socializing
Speaker 2: with the people at the bar, the bartender. We used
Speaker 2: to like to hit on bitches together. It was fun
Speaker 2: shit for us to do.
Speaker 5: But you don't think that, y'all. You don't think y'all
Speaker 5: are social butterflies to some degree. And then at that
Speaker 5: point you just want somebody alone for the richeter.
Speaker 2: But that's the thing, and that's what we said. We
Speaker 2: would love to not have to dim our light, to
Speaker 2: be with a man, to be able to still enjoy life.
Speaker 2: Life is we only got one to live.
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying about, like attention and going out,
Speaker 1: and when I was younger, I truly believed that to
Speaker 1: be a thing. But in this moment, like.
Speaker 4: No one listening right, Like I'm talking about myself and
Speaker 4: what I like, and I've really learned that.
Speaker 1: Nah, I don't really get numbers in clubs.
Speaker 4: I don't know the last time I've done it, Like neither,
Speaker 4: I can't hear.
Speaker 1: I want to be out here. You give y'all credit.
Speaker 5: I honestly, don't think that's your complete intention to get
Speaker 5: everybody's number, but you do want a certain level of
Speaker 5: attention and looks. But we were just saying that if
Speaker 5: you meet the right nigga, the right nigga gonna make you.
Speaker 5: Nothing else is gonna matter, just that person.
Speaker 1: But why sitting in the house, how y'all living light?
Speaker 1: How is that living? I agree?
Speaker 3: Howse life is to be experienced. It's the human experience.
Speaker 2: Exactly together doing all things that shouldn't be classified as
Speaker 2: single bit shit or wifey shit.
Speaker 3: It's a reason that's classified. Is that right? Because it's
Speaker 3: the attention of strangers.
Speaker 5: Like when women write, if we're talking about like dressing
Speaker 5: or attraction, right, y'all kind of conflate beautiful and sexy.
Speaker 5: So then a lot of times y'all literally, I know
Speaker 5: it sounds crazy, but y'all conflated too. And what happens
Speaker 5: is some of the things you do, you still want
Speaker 5: the looks, even though you're with your partner, you still
Speaker 5: want people to see you.
Speaker 2: I think that that's the problem that I think a
Speaker 2: lot of men, if we're using the word conflate, they
Speaker 2: do that. Like I know, so many things that women
Speaker 2: do because it makes them feel good. So we're not
Speaker 2: talking about the bbls and the people, no, but in
Speaker 2: terms of like I've lost a dress, sick amount of weight. Sure,
Speaker 2: there's things that now I can put on, and I
Speaker 2: just want to put that shit on.
Speaker 1: I know that lashes. Women like lashes.
Speaker 2: You niggas hate these motherfucking caterpillars on these bitch We
Speaker 2: do that because for whatever reason, we like how it looks.
Speaker 2: The lace wigs, y'all. Niggas can't stand it, y'all be like,
Speaker 2: I see the shit. We do it because maybe we
Speaker 2: want to switch up our look. There are actually so
Speaker 2: many things that women do for women and not for
Speaker 2: the attention of men that I think are conflated to
Speaker 2: where y'all think a bit is just trying to look
Speaker 2: sexy and fire and get attention, when those are really
Speaker 2: things that women do because they like how it makes them.
Speaker 4: I don't even think that a date night can't exist
Speaker 4: if I'm spending too much time in the house, Like
Speaker 4: at some point I need to have something else beyond
Speaker 4: the four walls. You know what I'm saying, It might
Speaker 4: be a little too simple for me, and that it's
Speaker 4: something I said to Mandy, like one of my homeboys
Speaker 4: said to me, the reason that you probably haven't ended
Speaker 4: up in a relationship is because you're meeting niggas that
Speaker 4: like being outside.
Speaker 2: Or you've just got single this year true, two years ago?
Speaker 1: No, no, bit.
Speaker 2: The top of the year.
Speaker 4: No, it was not, bitch. I have not fucked that
Speaker 4: niggasince twenty twenty one. That is a lie twenty twenty one,
Speaker 4: but just twenty twenty three.
Speaker 1: I know it's been two years we've been broken up.
Speaker 4: Ain't no motherfucking way, Bro, I was talking to the
Speaker 4: Dreamville nigga last year.
Speaker 1: Remember I was going through Dreamville.
Speaker 2: Was in April, that was last year. You the fuck
Speaker 2: this nigga I've been broken up with for two years. Bro,
Speaker 2: ain't no mother you was at least fucking him last year. Bro, No, Maggie, Bro,
Speaker 2: ain't no way you met dream Bill in April, because
Speaker 2: I know said about the.
Speaker 1: Fucking breakup, But that didn't mean I was fucking with
Speaker 1: that nigga.
Speaker 4: I was with him three years and he started fucking
Speaker 4: on random white bitch that was married.
Speaker 1: Really, So you ain't for that nigga all last year?
Speaker 2: No, we almost two years without you. Getting that dick.
Speaker 1: Bitch, we record this to compass. Okay, so let me
Speaker 1: make y'all, let me make a point. Ok you went
Speaker 1: from a break up for a long time. You go
Speaker 1: to see I'm over it.
Speaker 2: I'm about to stop being a celibate. I'm about to
Speaker 2: get me some dick.
Speaker 3: Okay, so then be a celibate. So one, the point
Speaker 3: you was making is great, right, that's true. It's not
Speaker 3: always for male attention, but sometimes it's for female attention.
Speaker 3: Actually most time it's for female.
Speaker 5: A ten it is so therefore still for attention from
Speaker 5: women in games. So again to the face of attention, right,
Speaker 5: the space of attention, which is important because if you
Speaker 5: understand that, you're start understanding why you move in certain ways.
Speaker 4: I don't, I guess I don't necessarily look at that.
Speaker 4: It's like this notch on the go to like, ooh,
Speaker 4: that's a bad thing about this woman, like I.
Speaker 1: Think it's not. It's not.
Speaker 5: It's not bad or good. It's just you have to
Speaker 5: recognize that. And gods, for guys, it's not a problem.
Speaker 5: They just the problem is so y'all not being honest
Speaker 5: to say how much every what everybody else thinks matters
Speaker 5: so then gods sitting around like, well, why are you
Speaker 5: doing all this?
Speaker 3: But they think it's always God's attention you ask.
Speaker 4: I don't know if this is maybe related to then
Speaker 4: the experiences with people, like there's really not a moment
Speaker 4: where I'm out with my niggas thinking what someone else thinks.
Speaker 1: I actually hope that you think my nigga look good.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm shallow.
Speaker 2: Want I want women to be looking at my nigga
Speaker 2: like damn they look They're.
Speaker 1: Not the intent when I'm out, Oh you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh no, that's my intent for being able
Speaker 1: to look good.
Speaker 4: And my intent when I'm out is like, oh, I
Speaker 4: want to have fun with you.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
Speaker 4: We're out yet, so like I'm more worried about that
Speaker 4: than anybody else, Like I really don't care, but if
Speaker 4: I guess you were like talking to me about how
Speaker 4: people viewed me and this person like possibly the main
Speaker 4: thing that I actually care about.
Speaker 1: When going out.
Speaker 4: I recently went to Blue Note with a nigga in
Speaker 4: front of a mutual friend of ours. My friend is
Speaker 4: fitted and he said to me, I love seeing him,
Speaker 4: like give you attention like it was he was a
Speaker 4: very kind man to you, Like I saw him kiss
Speaker 4: you on the cheek, I saw him touch you like
Speaker 4: I think that's a nice thing to see a.
Speaker 1: Man do for you, and those type of things.
Speaker 4: I like people seeing that, like, yeah, the person I'm
Speaker 4: with is showing me love like I can't stand.
Speaker 1: I'll be noticing. I don't know if you do.
Speaker 4: You ever go out and you'll see like a couple
Speaker 4: together and the dude just seems very cold to the woman,
Speaker 4: and he'd be like, damn, she looks so cute, like
Speaker 4: did they just get in a fight. Sometimes it is
Speaker 4: nice to see that loving energy. That might be something
Speaker 4: I think about, but it's never attention in this way
Speaker 4: like I'm craving it. I genuinely love having a good
Speaker 4: time and that's the ship that I want with a partner.
Speaker 3: But maybe that's part of your good time is getting attention.
Speaker 3: I mean, it can't just.
Speaker 1: Be dicks you really think about this.
Speaker 5: Attention is like with the but listen, being nate, desire
Speaker 5: for all human beings is care. Right, we all want
Speaker 5: somebody to care for us. But if you look today, right, attention,
Speaker 5: attention and attention and connection are like they're they're convenient.
Speaker 5: It's it's plentiful, Like somebody could pay attention a hundred years.
Speaker 5: If a nigga liked you, he had to walk miles,
Speaker 5: We had to put in a lot of work to
Speaker 5: get your attention. For you to know he paid you attention,
Speaker 5: you knew he fucked with you for real, right, But
Speaker 5: if we all craving care, so it's you not fucking
Speaker 5: with all these niggas just for dicks. Don't get me wrong.
Speaker 5: You can like dick, but it ain't just for dicks.
Speaker 5: Somewhere along the line, you like, you have to like
Speaker 5: the attention that they're giving you. It starts with that,
Speaker 5: because there's plenty of niggas you didn't fuck with too
Speaker 5: long that probably didn't fuck you the way you wanted
Speaker 5: to be fucked.
Speaker 4: It's definitely not sex because let's be honest, I'll work
Speaker 4: at some dick. Remember when I came in and I
Speaker 4: was like, it was okay, he hadn't working good for you.
Speaker 4: But like when a when a person is great, like
Speaker 4: I'd rather go through that and is And this is
Speaker 4: me doing a podcast for almost eight years now write
Speaker 4: a sex podcast.
Speaker 1: I've learned that.
Speaker 3: I didn't know.
Speaker 6: Guess where you are like, I actually like words a
Speaker 6: little bit, not necessarily with dick size, because I still
Speaker 6: through the tiny is okay.
Speaker 4: But I will say through over the years I realized
Speaker 4: like my sex has grown better through feelings for somebody.
Speaker 1: So if I meet a nigga, thats a vibe.
Speaker 4: Even if the first time isn't like crazy out of
Speaker 4: the park great like, I know it'll get there because
Speaker 4: for me, I've had better dick than better men. I've
Speaker 4: had really great sex with really mediocre people. Yes, meeting
Speaker 4: a great person.
Speaker 2: Bitch that's a bar bitch he thinks, really don't be ship.
Speaker 2: Sometimes they dick actually be better even though a lot
Speaker 2: of times we don't work as the dick do be
Speaker 2: better than the person that's attached to a lot of.
Speaker 3: Them, what because why would they have to develop a
Speaker 3: personality of all you wanted?
Speaker 1: Some dig I mean I.
Speaker 2: Think that that's to say about women as well. There's
Speaker 2: a lot of women that lead with looks because men
Speaker 2: don't care about much else. They don't care if they
Speaker 2: have degrees, they don't care, they care about.
Speaker 5: I could talk about niggas and business forever. This is
Speaker 5: like a walking apart. So I'm damn but I'm saying
Speaker 5: that's the point. So that's what I'm saying, that attention
Speaker 5: has to matter. You like y'all both seem like social butterflies,
Speaker 5: just meeting y'all right now, right, y'all seem like.
Speaker 1: Social better podcast, So no, no, they're not.
Speaker 5: Look So, if you're going out, you just want your
Speaker 5: nigga to go out because you don't want to lose
Speaker 5: that social element. It's nothing wrong with that, but you
Speaker 5: got to also understand why the right nigga make you.
Speaker 5: It won't matter where you.
Speaker 1: At, So no disagree.
Speaker 4: I really believe that extroverts and introvers exist, and extroverts
Speaker 4: thrive in energy from other people or situations. Right, there
Speaker 4: are moments where creatively and I mean, this is a
Speaker 4: woman who's created businesses, fucking TV show, writing a book
Speaker 4: like I've done shit in my life that needs creativity.
Speaker 4: I literally told Mandy I was writing in a bar
Speaker 4: last night, and I believe that when you're a person
Speaker 4: that needs that, if I just want someone along for
Speaker 4: the ride, that doesn't mean that the right nigga's gonna
Speaker 4: make that go away.
Speaker 1: It's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I'm telling you the right nigga it won't matter where
Speaker 5: you at with him the right nigga. You ain't gonna
Speaker 5: have to take him with you to write in the bar.
Speaker 5: You just go writing the boar the right nigga. Anywhere
Speaker 5: you at with him is gonna be the shit.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that true. I believe that it's some
Speaker 1: of the things that I do.
Speaker 5: So like how you just came game that this comes
Speaker 5: from a nigga that had his own drug spot, turned
Speaker 5: his life around, became a successful rapper. Blah blah blah
Speaker 5: blah blah. Trust me, the right person will make a
Speaker 5: lot of other things that don't matter.
Speaker 4: So you think I could meet a homebody and have
Speaker 4: a successful relationship.
Speaker 5: No, I think you can meet a homebody and then
Speaker 5: you go, he goes out with you sometimes and you
Speaker 5: also stay home and be just as happy.
Speaker 1: Okay, different, No, it's kind of what we that's okay,
Speaker 1: but you're talking about. I was thinking, like, never, because.
Speaker 3: A person that's a homebody all or nothing with it.
Speaker 2: I do think though, that we'll get into relationships, and unfortunately,
Speaker 2: a part of the compromise is doing things you kind
Speaker 2: of don't want to do.
Speaker 5: Unfortunately, but you you love you gonna want to do it.
Speaker 5: It'll it'll change for you.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I don't if I don't like rock music
Speaker 2: going to rock concerts because I like you.
Speaker 1: When you take on their interest, I feel like I.
Speaker 2: Can be exposed to something and be glad that someone
Speaker 2: is happy. This reminds me of the episode we have
Speaker 2: King with King Noir eons ago, season one, Bitch Year one. Literally,
Speaker 2: I came on and I expressed my love for pretty
Speaker 2: Ricky and he's like, I don't really like pretty Ricky,
Speaker 2: but if I'm with someone that I love, I want
Speaker 2: you to experience pretty Ricky and go be happy, whether
Speaker 2: it's not with.
Speaker 1: Me or not.
Speaker 2: Clearly, we were talking about monogamy or whatever and in
Speaker 2: the conversations of being with someone else. But I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie if there is something that I do not like.
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of headbanging rock music. I'm thirty
Speaker 2: three years old. I know at this point what I
Speaker 2: do not like. Being in a relationship with someone, whether
Speaker 2: I love them or not, I would still want them
Speaker 2: to enjoy the things that I do not like.
Speaker 1: And I don't think that what they like I will
Speaker 1: change to start liking it.
Speaker 2: We talk about that all the time where people shape
Speaker 2: shift in relationship.
Speaker 1: I think you're changing. Yeah, it's not what it is.
Speaker 2: Oh, you could go and enjoy something without me, Like
Speaker 2: did you like things like bark class is the only
Speaker 2: type of workout I do right now.
Speaker 1: But if you're into like the berries and the shit
Speaker 1: that you do, like the CrossFit, you could go do
Speaker 1: that by yourself.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be pressureds I mean, I'm just
Speaker 2: saying I don't want to be pressured into liking or
Speaker 2: doing things with my partner because that's what they enjoy,
Speaker 2: and I think it's fine to let someone do what they.
Speaker 4: Were like feeling really like head wrong about this, And
Speaker 4: all he's saying is you're not going to see any pressure.
Speaker 4: It's not black and white, it's not strong. All I'm
Speaker 4: saying is there's things that I don't like.
Speaker 2: It's not that I'm going to be pressured to do
Speaker 2: it if I'm in a relationship. What I'm saying is
Speaker 2: what I don't like, if I really don't like it
Speaker 2: because of my own experience, it's not going to change
Speaker 2: because I'm someone that likes it. That's all. I'm not
Speaker 2: that strong about something. No, I'm just saying where there
Speaker 2: won't be pressure.
Speaker 4: It won't Yes, if it's.
Speaker 1: I gave the most simple thing.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm saying like LI does make you want
Speaker 4: to appreciate that person, that person's like interest, and like you,
Speaker 4: you start opening your eyes up to different things, like, look,
Speaker 4: I didn't think I would have liked tennis.
Speaker 1: My ex was into tennis. That nigga was right in
Speaker 1: prospect part and I'm like, it must be a bitch
Speaker 1: at tennis, Like I really didn't know what the fuck
Speaker 1: he was doing on his motherfucker cord.
Speaker 3: I swear to god, this is funny, but these women
Speaker 3: really think they do.
Speaker 1: They always think it's a big dude, motherfucking tennis. Again.
Speaker 4: Thanks, but like on some real ship, thank you. I
Speaker 4: was like, you know what, I want to spend time
Speaker 4: with you. I know you love doing this ship.
Speaker 3: You end up going to that sheet like this ship
Speaker 3: ain't that bad?
Speaker 1: Like it really wasn't something.
Speaker 5: A lot of times we say we don't like some
Speaker 5: I don't think we really experience I hate.
Speaker 2: But I'm not one of those people.
Speaker 1: If I'm telling you I like something that experienced it, I.
Speaker 2: Don't like it.
Speaker 5: Did you fully investigator or did you just experience someone
Speaker 5: who was open to trying anything once.
Speaker 1: I say it all the time, like I'm open to
Speaker 1: trying lot of things.
Speaker 2: If y'all been listening to this podcast for seven years,
Speaker 2: there's things I came on here and said I didn't like,
Speaker 2: and then once I really tried it out, I was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: it's cool.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 5: I'm saying, you never tried something the first time, and
Speaker 5: then the second time he was like, it wasn't as
Speaker 5: bad as I thought.
Speaker 2: Yes, sex with a nigga that wasn't good the first time,
Speaker 2: and he got a little better the second.
Speaker 1: Sure, because you like that.
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, no, I like the nigga
Speaker 2: he came. He came with his A game instead.
Speaker 5: But I think that because if you do, if you're
Speaker 5: double back, it wouldn't be no part too well.
Speaker 2: No, because no, no, no, no, you know.
Speaker 3: What, this nigga might not be that bad.
Speaker 2: You could speak, you could see effort, not even not
Speaker 2: even effort, but you fucked somebody the first time. You
Speaker 2: could see if this could be better. I think that
Speaker 2: there are hiccups a with nerves, there are hiccups with ship.
Speaker 2: We didn't talk about if this nigga would even be
Speaker 2: into this, So I'm not gonna do it. Like there's
Speaker 2: a lot of times for the first time, you may
Speaker 2: not even think you about to have.
Speaker 1: Sex with this nigga.
Speaker 2: I'm and now you and now you're mad that you
Speaker 2: didn't do a lot of the pre talking to even
Speaker 2: see what he's into.
Speaker 1: It's that dry drunk pussy. That's not.
Speaker 2: What is into.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, there was a nigga that I was just talking
Speaker 2: to recently and he let me know he wasn't a
Speaker 2: rounds guy. He's won them done and he's going to
Speaker 2: sleep and bitch, y'all see you the next day. I
Speaker 2: got one round for.
Speaker 1: You, bitch, you actually asked me, and.
Speaker 2: I'm good on you. I talk about Okay, I don't
Speaker 2: want a surprise nigga.
Speaker 1: I don't like surprise parties. I don't even like birthday parties.
Speaker 5: Leave me like a motherfucker. Listen, this is what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: It's nothing like going to another country, meeting somebody and
Speaker 5: having a completely different experience. The only things that I
Speaker 5: literally was just.
Speaker 2: Saying, I'm gonna say, bitch, but also I don't like accent,
Speaker 2: so we don't have to leave the country for this.
Speaker 2: But to me, bitch, I do not like accent. So
Speaker 2: what we're doing, let's stay in America with my with
Speaker 2: with the niggas that I like. Thank you to me.
Speaker 2: I absolutely believe in talking about things beforehand because I've
Speaker 2: been so disappointed or I've been with someone who's not
Speaker 2: into the things.
Speaker 1: I'm into the.
Speaker 2: Point where I've reached a sexually liberated phase where i
Speaker 2: know what gets me off, I know what I enjoy,
Speaker 2: I know the type of sex I like. So just
Speaker 2: going into sex blind for what a lot of times
Speaker 2: you're left more disappointed than not. So to me, I
Speaker 2: want to make sure we're on the same whether it's.
Speaker 5: A kink level sexual expectations, because you're probably missing out expectation.
Speaker 5: I have sexpectation. You need to get rid of the
Speaker 5: no expect.
Speaker 2: You have no sexpectations in your twenties. You have no
Speaker 2: sexpectations when you're a woman that now feels valued by
Speaker 2: a man wanting to fuck you, I now know instead
Speaker 2: of going into sex with a man who isn't going
Speaker 2: to please me, I'm going in knowing what I like.
Speaker 1: Y'all look back on the Mandy's side on this one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because nigga. In my twenties, I was going in
Speaker 2: with no s expectations. I was fucking niggas from the club.
Speaker 2: I was fucking niggas on vacation. I was just fucking
Speaker 2: niggas because we gotta bube, let's have sex.
Speaker 1: In my thirties, I'll tell you.
Speaker 4: What number one days at here right now, in this moment,
Speaker 4: it's fucking men that definitely are like centering my pleasure
Speaker 4: first yep. And when I say that, I realized head
Speaker 4: like I feel like in my early twenties, maybe I
Speaker 4: was fucking too many Caribby niggas, but them niggas was
Speaker 4: really scared to ease and loss.
Speaker 1: And now I have not done with that issue in years.
Speaker 4: Maybe because I'm just dating better niggas, I don't know,
Speaker 4: but I really don't have bad experiences with men not
Speaker 4: trying to get me off, trying to me wet. They
Speaker 4: don't make me like feel any type of way when
Speaker 4: they're spending more time on me Like that's probably the
Speaker 4: biggest sexpectation I have in people, because I'm dating grown
Speaker 4: ass men like them.
Speaker 1: Young niggas don't give a fuck about getting.
Speaker 5: You think about this, right, y'all know, why y'all sleep
Speaker 5: with men? Y'all e a thought y men sleep with
Speaker 5: y'all because I just want to. I mean, you really
Speaker 5: think that's what it is? Yes, So there's a social
Speaker 5: So there's a social currency, right, there's a social that
Speaker 5: was case they be fucking they bitch and not you.
Speaker 1: But oh they do that too, but they're gonna bitch,
Speaker 1: they're gonna fuck you, they're gonna get.
Speaker 5: It's a social currency, right when you stack girls for men,
Speaker 5: let's that's a social currency. Like let's say if you
Speaker 5: give somebody some pussy, right, you got this successful podcast
Speaker 5: everybody we all know you are, and you get somebody
Speaker 5: some pussy. You just gave that nigga boots like that
Speaker 5: little bit, right, So this is how it always be.
Speaker 1: This is what you always been.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 5: You a number to us, right, we stack you up.
Speaker 5: I know that sounds a little worse than it, but
Speaker 5: think about this a.
Speaker 1: Number to these niggas. That's because we speaking freely. So
Speaker 1: you just a number.
Speaker 5: But that's my point when I initially started, why would
Speaker 5: you like that's why niggas can't talk to me, like
Speaker 5: even this version of me is nowhere near like that.
Speaker 5: I'm not moving around trying to fuck a bunch of bitches.
Speaker 5: I never was, but when I did. It's different when
Speaker 5: I be in Germany. If you fock we go to Miami, right,
Speaker 5: I'm signing to cash money. I'm getting the Miami bitch
Speaker 5: because you can't tell me. There's no way possible socially current,
Speaker 5: Like when it comes to the wealth of having bitches,
Speaker 5: you can't fuck with me. If I got bitches in
Speaker 5: Miami and your bitches is flying out here, I wouldn't
Speaker 5: never fly bitch that lived fifteen minutes away from my
Speaker 5: house two thousand miles to get no pussy.
Speaker 1: That don't make sense. It's not about getting the.
Speaker 3: That's the only thing it's about from y'all.
Speaker 4: So the rapper niggas that I know, and I'm not
Speaker 4: talking like these are niggas that's on tour whatever they're doing,
Speaker 4: like they like having a little yet with them because
Speaker 4: they're like, like I'm moving, she moving, She cool.
Speaker 1: They still just trust me.
Speaker 4: You could, but you could be getting a new bitch
Speaker 4: in every city. But it's almost like energetically raining.
Speaker 1: They don't take an effort.
Speaker 2: I was about to ask that does it not become
Speaker 2: draining or even boring after a while, to just be
Speaker 2: fucking these women that you just meet at the club
Speaker 2: that may not they may only be fucking with you
Speaker 2: because you had three Are.
Speaker 1: These girls like?
Speaker 4: I mean, the niggas that I'm talking about are billboard
Speaker 4: charting and they want to suck and they know that
Speaker 4: worth it Sometimes ain't gonna be It.
Speaker 5: Ain't no such thing as pussy worthy. See, this is
Speaker 5: the thing, when you reduce it down to just pussy.
Speaker 5: There's no such thing as pussy worthy. So unless a
Speaker 5: nigg of liking you and he with you, then what
Speaker 5: are we talking for? Y'all talking a lot of shit
Speaker 5: about digging pussy, But then you attach an emotion if
Speaker 5: a nigga fuck with you.
Speaker 1: What was emotional about about social currency?
Speaker 3: I'm just that's that's all.
Speaker 1: But that's high value. Can a bitch be that to
Speaker 1: your mother? Solf?
Speaker 3: Prus?
Speaker 1: The fuck?
Speaker 4: When the supermodel is literally a flight away and will
Speaker 4: drop to you, it ain't tricking.
Speaker 5: Me because that means because it's not about the money, right,
Speaker 5: It's not the money, Because the point is if you fly, bitch,
Speaker 5: you could fly the baddest bitch from America to Japan.
Speaker 5: Me fucking the bad Japanese bitch trumps your popular American
Speaker 5: bitch because it's a.
Speaker 1: Bitch I don't speak English, But that's what I was
Speaker 1: gonna say.
Speaker 5: So that's how crazy your gang gotta be to bust
Speaker 5: a bitch that don't speak English when I I'd have
Speaker 5: been in Japan and fuck the bitch down Japanese. Fine,
Speaker 5: you can't. Niggas gonna go back nothing, no words. She
Speaker 5: just knew she wanted to listen.
Speaker 4: That was a less convenient thing because now that I'm no, no, no,
Speaker 4: what I'm talking about convenience about if a dude wants to, like,
Speaker 4: if you know you got to do some dinner, is
Speaker 4: do certain ship, Like it's better to have a bitch
Speaker 4: around your people, your team, whatever it is.
Speaker 1: That's a vibe that you already fucked with that you
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 5: That don't make sense now that if it's not your bitch,
Speaker 5: stop white, you cannot and see.
Speaker 1: That these girls know what they're there for three days?
Speaker 3: Why would you have a bitch with you consistently? That's
Speaker 3: not your bit.
Speaker 1: Because some niggas enjoy spending time.
Speaker 5: That's because they wife and multipole women. So if it's
Speaker 5: just dick and pussy you gotta player like that if you.
Speaker 1: Start no wife or girl just to enjoy her company.
Speaker 3: She's coming and staying, but she's not leaving.
Speaker 5: Correct because based off based off the show, based off
Speaker 5: of the show.
Speaker 3: If it's about fucking why are you here an extra dick?
Speaker 3: You not?
Speaker 1: My girl wants to fucking spend time twice?
Speaker 2: Is he fucking you every day?
Speaker 5: So you so you had a social statues like you
Speaker 5: talk about these niggas that's on the billboard chart, that's
Speaker 5: flying the same bitches somewhere when they can have any
Speaker 5: bitch you in all these countries. You're gonna fly bitch
Speaker 5: from home when you could literally fucking bitch.
Speaker 4: That don't speaking saying that he wasn't fucking this bitch,
Speaker 4: but literally I was just on the phone with his
Speaker 4: dude last week. He was like, oh, are you in town?
Speaker 4: I'll have to show ball black And that's player.
Speaker 2: I mean, I got flew out to All Star weekends,
Speaker 2: so this isn't my There's plenty of bitches ready and
Speaker 2: I got flud out there.
Speaker 1: But he's not flying me out. He's a friend. But
Speaker 1: he was talking about I'm gonna bring Shorty you met
Speaker 1: from blah blah blah. I'm like, oh cool.
Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, you're gonna be here three days and
Speaker 4: then we're gonna kick it. So come because I'm gonna be.
Speaker 1: Party trying to get to know where. It ain't about
Speaker 1: getting into nowhere. The nigga's on tour, he's exhausted, he
Speaker 1: wants some pussy. He likes her. She cool, she's fun.
Speaker 4: Why not keep sucking the cheo bitch? Why do you
Speaker 4: have to redo this new ship every night? And what
Speaker 4: if the pussy is why.
Speaker 3: Not just be in a relationship at that point?
Speaker 5: That's this is I don't even know. Keeps flying the
Speaker 5: same bitch to multiple towns.
Speaker 2: It is without being in a relationship.
Speaker 1: He got different bitches, but who cares? Why would you
Speaker 1: not just be with the bitch?
Speaker 2: Bro?
Speaker 4: Why why do you let niggas need to keep fucking
Speaker 4: these random holes? Like don't you want somebody to make
Speaker 4: you faster going to bed with your what's the thing?
Speaker 1: We attached a lot of emotional I don't see what
Speaker 1: I will say.
Speaker 2: It's emotional because as as a woman who engaged in
Speaker 2: a ton of casual sex. When I think now like
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you okay, this is coming out after.
Speaker 2: They're the nigga right now that won't supply himself to
Speaker 2: our show in DC. Bitch, I'm getting there the day
Speaker 2: before because me and Bennie like to get there before,
Speaker 2: and I want to play out. Even though I'm sure
Speaker 2: we get up sex it could be cool. I don't
Speaker 2: want to be with that nigga for more than maybe
Speaker 2: we end.
Speaker 4: Up if we have yet no point made, Bitch, you
Speaker 4: got confirmed, good duck.
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, but that's the thing. Dcday also
Speaker 2: wants to come.
Speaker 4: Bro, you're absolutely like that point new dick, and I
Speaker 4: gotta stick with it for two days. You're telling me
Speaker 4: I got some dick that's already fucking lit. He's fun,
Speaker 4: and I got to be in DC for two days
Speaker 4: for our show.
Speaker 1: You'll just be in multiple relationships. If a niggas.
Speaker 3: Flying you multiple towns, Bro, I'm.
Speaker 4: Busy as fuck. My friends are busy as fuck. Like
Speaker 4: I'm in New York for a few days, I'm in
Speaker 4: l a few few days.
Speaker 1: You gonna have to fly the fuck. It is what
Speaker 1: it is. Why the fuck would he do that when
Speaker 1: his bitch is there.
Speaker 5: I don't you mean to tell me there's no good
Speaker 5: pussy there, like pussy pussy is like what the fuck?
Speaker 1: So why would he just be with you at that point?
Speaker 4: No niggas can enjoy company with somebody and want to
Speaker 4: exchange some energy and it doesn't have to be something after.
Speaker 5: So you like this bitch, So you like the girl,
Speaker 5: You want to fly the same girl multiple towns to.
Speaker 1: Be with him. You want to you're every day and
Speaker 1: you're not together. Why so then that's the question for
Speaker 1: a man.
Speaker 2: If a man is going through all of those hoops
Speaker 2: and spending time with a woman, why.
Speaker 1: Is he not just committee you think he just laying.
Speaker 5: Listen, if a nigga gonna fly you from town to town,
Speaker 5: if a nigga gotta show here, fly you somewhere. Now,
Speaker 5: it's different. You talking about putting an effort. He putting
Speaker 5: in a lot.
Speaker 4: Not like and I'm not trying to say this, I'm
Speaker 4: actually really curious. So most of my homeworks have probably
Speaker 4: like a roster of bitches right that they like spending
Speaker 4: time with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they get some new pussy, but for the most part,
Speaker 1: I know the probably like the top three to five
Speaker 1: bitches they fuck with. Do you have a talk three
Speaker 1: to five You're telling me you don't.
Speaker 5: Glasses is different. Glass ain't even with none of this
Speaker 5: ship no more. No, but I'm saying prime more horrible decisions.
Speaker 5: So this is prime glasses speaking. This ain't glasses as
Speaker 5: a grown.
Speaker 2: Up now, as a grown up, as a.
Speaker 3: Grown up, no, not even speaking.
Speaker 2: Of a twenty year old.
Speaker 5: I'm talking about even prime glasses and thirties like this
Speaker 5: was crazy.
Speaker 1: I was so speak for yourself now, don't speak for yourself. Different.
Speaker 3: That's not a toxic.
Speaker 2: Toxic toxic ads. I'm on tour ass fuck nigga. We
Speaker 2: don't want to sit here and be held to any
Speaker 2: sort of accountability and want what they want and want
Speaker 2: the new ship.
Speaker 1: I'm actually we mature.
Speaker 2: Talk about who the fuck you is right now?
Speaker 4: Are not?
Speaker 1: They just like a roster to me is like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm not women, don't care.
Speaker 2: About I don't care about that ship. I want to
Speaker 2: know about grown as adult, who'd have been a boy
Speaker 2: to your boy ship? That boys ship?
Speaker 5: Because you're so y'all have to funk all these niggas,
Speaker 5: y'all to suck all these niggas.
Speaker 1: But if I bitch, I'm a so are y'all girls,
Speaker 1: that's Fiber Horse have been have been okay longest, but.
Speaker 2: We've talked about the relationships that we've held in our past.
Speaker 2: Today we're transactional or not. I want to talk to
Speaker 2: you now though, as someone who yeah, was like, I'm
Speaker 2: not flying no bitch, I'm afery city.
Speaker 1: I want to lay up with a bitch.
Speaker 2: Do you not like bitches?
Speaker 1: Are you a sexist?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 5: If you have three or five laying up with three
Speaker 5: or five bitches, that's soft and it's weak.
Speaker 1: You're sucking that with five or six bitches, you are
Speaker 1: fucking fun. Maybe I don't like game man, this is
Speaker 1: christ I'm telling you, why would you lay up with so?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 2: What's your cap?
Speaker 1: How many bits you lay up with your bitch so?
Speaker 1: And then the rest of the bitches you fucking leave?
Speaker 1: That's it? Wow, I'm not that damn.
Speaker 2: I think I might be fucking a game bagger.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 2: You don't lay up with me?
Speaker 5: Why would you lay up with Why would you lay
Speaker 5: up with your Why?
Speaker 1: Just have people like the fun?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 1: Okay, for example, there's we used to talk about there's
Speaker 1: a dude that I don't want to be with right now,
Speaker 1: and you be hitting me with that what you're about
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, I don't even want to say
Speaker 4: his name because I don't want to leave. Don't never
Speaker 4: say I mean like a nickname, but you know what
Speaker 4: I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: But anyway, name.
Speaker 4: So basically, I know I don't want to be in
Speaker 4: a relationship with him.
Speaker 1: But we've been fucking for a minute. We don't just fucking.
Speaker 1: He's out the door, like you.
Speaker 4: Know, we might have dinner together, we might watch the show,
Speaker 4: we might kick it that night, wake up together.
Speaker 3: Like why you wasting all your lifetime?
Speaker 1: Like how it's one night. I don't want to just
Speaker 1: but you've wasted this night multiple times. I'm not wasting
Speaker 1: it at all.
Speaker 3: I'm saying, if you know you don't want to be
Speaker 3: with him.
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed this person.
Speaker 2: Question, why don't I want to be with him?
Speaker 3: If you really enjoys company, you me all the time,
Speaker 3: so why not be with.
Speaker 4: I think that sexual compatibility has nothing to do with
Speaker 4: long term compatibility.
Speaker 3: No, you even said you like him.
Speaker 4: I don't think long term would be a good fit.
Speaker 4: But that don't mean the nigga ain't cool or he's long.
Speaker 3: Term y'all, wol what makes you think long term y'all
Speaker 3: wouldn't be a good fit.
Speaker 2: I mean the anti kinker.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, this is just probably like too deep for
Speaker 1: this combo.
Speaker 4: But there are certain attributes of my life, for our
Speaker 4: personalities that just probably would clash in a deeper relationship. However,
Speaker 4: I don't really do well with like fuck me and
Speaker 4: get out the door sex, Like just because I'm spending
Speaker 4: my time with this nigga, it doesn't mean that we
Speaker 4: need to have like something on the dieted line or
Speaker 4: something to come after.
Speaker 1: You agree. I spend time with my friends with no
Speaker 1: expectations after it too, Totally agree.
Speaker 5: It takes a lot to form a bond with no
Speaker 5: like you got to a cold different type of motherfucker,
Speaker 5: the form of bond with somebody with no possible opportunity
Speaker 5: of the future.
Speaker 1: So like, I wish that that's like niggas to me,
Speaker 1: that's what y'all do.
Speaker 4: All that maybe felt that way like that from what
Speaker 4: you're saying, because I definitely think in my past i've
Speaker 4: shared bonds with man i'd be like, damn, you don't
Speaker 4: want to date.
Speaker 1: However, I do think.
Speaker 4: There's a reality of you can date and it doesn't
Speaker 4: have to be marriage or relationship at the end of it.
Speaker 1: I think you can enjoy people. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I think so while I understand the thought, right, but
Speaker 5: the reality is it's not like this.
Speaker 3: It's so much you only have to give as a
Speaker 3: human being.
Speaker 2: So let me ask you. I don't see a ring.
Speaker 2: I don't know how many kids you have, but as
Speaker 2: a woman who does not, literally, my end goal isn't
Speaker 2: oh my god, I want marriage, nor do I want motherhood.
Speaker 2: But I'm in a space where I want to date
Speaker 2: and I want to have a partnership or hold space
Speaker 2: with another person. If you're sitting here saying no, the.
Speaker 1: End goal, the end goal is, I'm not saying that's
Speaker 1: the goal, okay.
Speaker 2: So then what what does that look like in dating?
Speaker 2: When your in goal is not what we've been conditioned
Speaker 2: to believe as being marriage, being wifey, being mother If
Speaker 2: those things aren't there, if you're dating someone and those
Speaker 2: things aren't with you, again, I don't see a ring.
Speaker 2: Don't know how many kids you have. I assume a
Speaker 2: lot since you was out of here fucking bitches and
Speaker 2: every other city. But so then, right now, not married,
Speaker 2: no kids. As a man, at whatever age you are,
Speaker 2: What then, would be your end goal to really form
Speaker 2: a relationship with someone that has substance?
Speaker 1: What do you what do you mean?
Speaker 3: What's the end? It's not I don't have I don't
Speaker 3: have that.
Speaker 1: You just question about how we don't.
Speaker 5: We don't share me and you don't share the same sentiments, right, right, one,
Speaker 5: I was always looking to meet the right person.
Speaker 1: Okay, the right person would make you change your mind
Speaker 1: on the things.
Speaker 3: She shares my mind.
Speaker 5: I never had a different mind, Okay, So that's why
Speaker 5: I didn't waste a lot of people time, like, I'm
Speaker 5: not gonna I don't agree with the sentiments of.
Speaker 4: That might be the best thing you've said today, all
Speaker 4: these things together.
Speaker 2: Anything what you were saying, I'm.
Speaker 5: Just saying all of the things stacked together will make
Speaker 5: sense later, right. But what I'm saying is, what I'm
Speaker 5: saying is that it was never like I was in
Speaker 5: a space where it's like, oh I didn't really want
Speaker 5: to be with nobody.
Speaker 3: It was just I was in the world dealing with y'all.
Speaker 1: So the right person too.
Speaker 4: However, I'm not going to say, because this man may
Speaker 4: not be husband material, that I'm going to completely make
Speaker 4: my life lonely and I can't.
Speaker 1: Obviously you have a roster. I mean no, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I'm saying if you have multiple guys you're dating, right,
Speaker 5: because this is kind of the podcast, right, And why
Speaker 5: have this guy that you have no interest in?
Speaker 3: That was the one thing that.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be.
Speaker 4: For one, I don't think that every time I have
Speaker 4: sex with someone, if there's no future there, I have
Speaker 4: to cut it. And for me, I don't really like
Speaker 4: empty sex. So it's very difficult for me to go
Speaker 4: out and just be like that. Nigga's fine, I'm a
Speaker 4: fucking to night. I need some interest. I ain't doing
Speaker 4: that in the moment.
Speaker 5: Oh, you're kind of fooling yourself, Like you you're kind
Speaker 5: of living in a space where it's like I liking
Speaker 5: but I'm not gonna fuck with him.
Speaker 1: So this makes it open. Why would that mean we're
Speaker 1: fooling ourselves. We're actually aware of acknowledging that this is
Speaker 1: not a person that in a relationship.
Speaker 2: To be fair, things are different in a romantic relationship
Speaker 2: than it is just a sexual relationship. Like there's like
Speaker 2: there's a person I've been fucking for nine years. I
Speaker 2: talk about them on the pod, No no, And when
Speaker 2: I tell you, in the very beginning ages of this podcast,
Speaker 2: it was like, you want.
Speaker 1: To be with him? And I was like, no, I don't.
Speaker 2: The way we interact outside of the bedroom, his lifestyle,
Speaker 2: my lifestyle. I never thought it would make for a
Speaker 2: healthy relationship. But sexually we have a bond, we have
Speaker 2: a connection, and it's great and I want that.
Speaker 1: I actually want it forever.
Speaker 2: It's like crack literally, but I don't want a relationship
Speaker 2: with that man. It's like and so I wouldn't say
Speaker 2: it's like Craig.
Speaker 1: I want like, I.
Speaker 4: Know, I get some crack dick. I'm gonna start looking
Speaker 4: past some ship. He got one leg, he got all.
Speaker 3: I said, go ahead, finished telling me, So nine years
Speaker 3: you fucking but you don't want.
Speaker 1: To be there?
Speaker 2: Yes, And so to me, I.
Speaker 1: Will you want to be with him? Thinking all agree
Speaker 1: with Weezy.
Speaker 2: I'll agree with Weezy in the fact that this is
Speaker 2: a relationship that I've acknowledged. I know where it's at.
Speaker 2: We have this type of friendship. We don't need another.
Speaker 2: I think that even we've.
Speaker 1: Out of you try. No, I know we've spent nine
Speaker 1: years around here.
Speaker 4: I'm actually like really confused that you don't have or
Speaker 4: maybe you do, but like you kind of realized that
Speaker 4: wasn't a fit for you.
Speaker 1: But like women that you just fuck that you enjoy
Speaker 1: spending time with, that's.
Speaker 5: It's not that because if I don't want to be
Speaker 5: with you and I'm fucking you, you know what I mean,
Speaker 5: No matter how I can't enjoy that much of your time.
Speaker 1: That's a really like inter self aware thing to say.
Speaker 5: That's pretty I'm sober all the time. I never drank,
Speaker 5: I never smoked. I'm always aware of everything going on.
Speaker 5: So what I try my best is if I wouldn't
Speaker 5: fuck with you, you know what I mean, I'm not
Speaker 5: gonna keep fucking, which we've talked about.
Speaker 1: I need to be around people because girls that just
Speaker 1: want to dick from you, because I'm sure that's happening,
Speaker 1: that's just out. Oh that's out. If a woman just
Speaker 1: wants to fuck you, that's just out.
Speaker 5: She's not gonna get no play. Why I just you
Speaker 5: learn the hard way. I mean, there's nothing there because
Speaker 5: don't nobody just want to dig from you?
Speaker 4: That I feel like this is almost something like a
Speaker 4: lot of these views are conflicting because.
Speaker 3: They're not you just you're just not seeing where they
Speaker 3: line up at.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: So if I meet somebody out of town, right, I'm
Speaker 3: not going to meet nobody. I just do l A.
Speaker 5: This is this is an l A Nigga thing. You
Speaker 5: really feel confident. So we attract women that just sound
Speaker 5: a little more arrogant, but it's true. They got the
Speaker 5: same bring exactly. So we New York and l A
Speaker 5: niggas are really you know, we're arrogant. So we could
Speaker 5: go in Japan and I know I'm gonna get a bitch.
Speaker 5: I don't gotta try.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 3: It's not no effort, like I'm gonna sit right there
Speaker 3: and I'm a chilling.
Speaker 1: Front a woman. But they can't just want because I
Speaker 1: see what it is.
Speaker 2: There's not a level of a he's fucking bitches when
Speaker 2: he's on the road. He said, he's not flying out.
Speaker 1: You just want to be one of them.
Speaker 2: He's probably not having multiple times with the same woman. Secondly,
Speaker 2: I think that if you're arrogant, if you're confident, the
Speaker 2: idea that a woman is using you for just the
Speaker 2: thing that's between your legs bothers a fucking man to
Speaker 2: the court where it's like that you're not gonna come
Speaker 2: here and get what you want out of me, because
Speaker 2: I run this, I'm in charge, and I think and
Speaker 2: there's a level of arrogance.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I hope you wouldn't let a god
Speaker 5: just use you for I mean, to be honest, No,
Speaker 5: I'm saying, so that's why you should be like, no,
Speaker 5: if a nigga's flying you, like let's say, if it's
Speaker 5: a nigg on tour and he's in La, he called
Speaker 5: you fly you l a Minnesota.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: But to be fair, we talk we've talked about this
Speaker 2: as well when women are pop on flights. I've been
Speaker 2: the person, maybe not both of us, I know I've
Speaker 2: been the person to sit here and say, if you
Speaker 2: hop on a flight, if a man wants to fly
Speaker 2: you out, he's expecting pussy hairs down. And so to
Speaker 2: be very clear, if you're saying that a woman should
Speaker 2: demand more, you know, if a man is paying for
Speaker 2: a flight, you are expected to fuck him. So I
Speaker 2: will say, then I understand bye bye by that sentiment
Speaker 2: what you're saying, and so he said fuck that. I
Speaker 2: ain't even gonna sit here and have a bitch be
Speaker 2: expected to fuck me because I'm flying her out. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be in a city I got, I got swag.
Speaker 2: I ain't even got to speak the language of these bitches,
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna get pussy.
Speaker 1: Want the uh.
Speaker 4: Like for example, I was in San Francisco for our
Speaker 4: show and there was a dude that I didn't work
Speaker 4: out with who was living in LA But I knew
Speaker 4: he moved there for work.
Speaker 1: I just was in the mood.
Speaker 4: We didn't fuck for male company or even attention, right
Speaker 4: like spending time. I'm not going to move to like
Speaker 4: go trolling for Dick. So I'm like, hey, I'm in town,
Speaker 4: Let's have dinner. I'm enjoying his time. I would not want,
Speaker 4: but like you never wanted the company of most.
Speaker 1: Players ship because you get what you want. In New York,
Speaker 1: I would call.
Speaker 3: I would call the New York like pying glasses.
Speaker 2: York give him.
Speaker 1: He definitely did I feel sleep. But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So like if he's saying it's player ship is because
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you got what you want,
Speaker 2: which I think if we see here and listen to
Speaker 2: really what he's saying, he gets what he wants out
Speaker 2: of relationships and that's where he's comfortable. A woman is
Speaker 2: not going to get anything more because he's confusing them.
Speaker 1: I don't want to mislead him that.
Speaker 2: He doesn't want to mislead him, which I got, which
Speaker 2: I respect that very much, which he doesn't want to
Speaker 2: mislead him. But also because he's arrogant, he don't want
Speaker 2: to feel used that he's showing up for the pleasure
Speaker 2: of someone else when he really.
Speaker 1: She's going to take me. Before you get this to
Speaker 1: the head, I'm weak.
Speaker 2: Glasses.
Speaker 1: I do want you to help us with our home mail.
Speaker 2: Is God damn, we didn't flipped in and out of everything,
Speaker 2: and there are questions for this one. So I want
Speaker 2: you to help us with this. Hey, ladies, I'm a
Speaker 2: previous homemailer. You read my last mail on the Daniel
Speaker 2: Saint episode, the email homemail. If you want to send
Speaker 2: it in a homemail, please send it to Horrible Decisions
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com.
Speaker 5: Got wholemail dot com. You need to start that hoolemail
Speaker 5: dot commail dot com.
Speaker 2: Listen, we get a lot of it.
Speaker 1: Hold on.
Speaker 2: So this this particular homemailer said that we read her
Speaker 2: email on Daniel st episode, which I want to say
Speaker 2: was last year, I was the one with the bisexual,
Speaker 2: drug addicted boyfriend. Quick update, quick update that relationship end
Speaker 2: it horribly shocker lol. And now he's having a baby
Speaker 2: with a white woman.
Speaker 1: Yay for them. So here's my plot twist.
Speaker 2: Since then, over the past two years, I have found
Speaker 2: my place in the fetish community.
Speaker 1: Men pay me to let them play with my and
Speaker 1: tickle me.
Speaker 2: It's a nice little side gig that has allowed me
Speaker 2: to put money aside that I was able to use
Speaker 2: to start my own small business a few months ago.
Speaker 2: And now I'm in the process of buying my first home.
Speaker 2: Now here comes the tricky part. Off the feet, I
Speaker 2: met a new guy. He's actually great on paper and off,
Speaker 2: and I think we might end up making it official
Speaker 2: before the holidays. The problem is he has no idea
Speaker 2: that I have this other life which I have continued
Speaker 2: to live while we've been non exclusively dating. Here are
Speaker 2: my questions. When do I tell him Two how much
Speaker 2: of his opinion do I take into consideration if he
Speaker 2: isn't supportive. Three if he isn't supportive, do I tell
Speaker 2: him that he needs to make up for the lost income?
Speaker 2: As in, she'll she'll be in a place where she
Speaker 2: decides to leave this to be with him.
Speaker 1: That was what number?
Speaker 2: That was three. I don't mind stopping altogether, but I'm
Speaker 2: not ready to give up the extra income while I'm
Speaker 2: getting my business off the ground and buying a home.
Speaker 2: I would say it would be a help the next
Speaker 2: six months tops. However, I also don't want to lose
Speaker 2: him over something. I know all stop doing one day
Speaker 2: help as always. Thank you, ladies for all that you do,
Speaker 2: and can't wait to see you soon. Signed a conflicted three.
Speaker 2: You ain't about to take me out the strip club
Speaker 2: with no job, Okay, so you answered the number three?
Speaker 2: Number three? Is you gonna keep doing what you're doing
Speaker 2: because it's extra money? And if you not go make
Speaker 2: up for it, I'm gonna still keep doing it.
Speaker 1: I'll never forget Hospital Dick. Only man I ever been
Speaker 1: in love with like that. That's the only man like that,
Speaker 1: the one who left us with a lot of niggas.
Speaker 3: No I say that, y'all talk like y'all ain't really
Speaker 3: been in love.
Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely the best thing in the world. When I
Speaker 1: was in love with him, I was.
Speaker 3: Hospital man, Hospital Dick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I flip my hair like that. I didn't get
Speaker 1: put in the hospital.
Speaker 4: Another bitch did so Anyway, basically, we had a conversation
Speaker 4: about my TV show, Sex Cells, and I remember thinking like, yo,
Speaker 4: by season two, like I want to be pregnant da
Speaker 4: and he was like no, right, like that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, I'm signing a contract on to do
Speaker 4: more seasons, like it's literally in there by the way,
Speaker 4: season three streaming now a few TV uh literally this
Speaker 4: was before.
Speaker 1: Season won even happened.
Speaker 4: And he said that's not happening, like I don't want
Speaker 4: you doing this while you know you're carrying my seat,
Speaker 4: Like are you crazy? And I remember thinking like okay,
Speaker 4: so I can't make a hundred grand from this ship,
Speaker 4: but you gonna do what replace it?
Speaker 1: Like nigga, I'm building a fucking life for myself. Horror over.
Speaker 1: This is how he knew me when I walked into
Speaker 1: the place that we met, Like, literally, this is my brand,
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do to replace it? And
Speaker 1: I'm not selling my feet or stripping in the club,
Speaker 1: But like, I can't imagine if she's selling her fitting
Speaker 1: getting tickled.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm saying, like I think about the strip
Speaker 4: club a lot, because that's normally a job where we
Speaker 4: hear men want to stop women. I could not imagine
Speaker 4: a man telling me to stop my job with no
Speaker 4: replacement and trust me as somebody wants.
Speaker 2: To be fair for this specific person. This is extra income.
Speaker 2: This is extra income that just.
Speaker 1: Brought a house from it.
Speaker 2: Well, she's she's working on buying a house, but this
Speaker 2: is the extra income. She's literally saying, this is extra income.
Speaker 2: I don't want to lose now because I want to
Speaker 2: buy out.
Speaker 1: I don't care she has another job.
Speaker 2: She has another job, but this is extra income that
Speaker 2: is essentially considered sex work and likes the man.
Speaker 1: Not let that nigga stop you. I would love you.
Speaker 2: I would love to hear your thoughts glasses because wow,
Speaker 2: your thoughts.
Speaker 1: She's selling she is No, she's a sex work, yes,
Speaker 1: but there are layers and levels to this.
Speaker 2: She is not being penetrated or going out as a
Speaker 2: street walker.
Speaker 3: Like and we shouldn't have the heart.
Speaker 1: There shouldn't be a she's well, I mean.
Speaker 5: Because like, let's say men are rubbing dick against her feet.
Speaker 5: Is she a prostitute?
Speaker 4: I think if he comes into meeting clients, that could
Speaker 4: be like I could see maybe someone being.
Speaker 1: But for a photo.
Speaker 4: Let me see what it says she doing with no face,
Speaker 4: no case, nigga, get over it or like come up
Speaker 4: with the money.
Speaker 3: Well, that's my point.
Speaker 5: So I would like to believe that it's not just
Speaker 5: emailing feet like, because if it's just emailing feats, she
Speaker 5: shouldn't tell she.
Speaker 2: Said, men pay me, wait where we go?
Speaker 1: Here we go, not photos.
Speaker 2: Men pay me to let them play with my feet
Speaker 2: and the Okay, wait, this is an in person thing.
Speaker 2: This is not photos that may be further than only fans.
Speaker 2: This is the in person I still have my strip
Speaker 2: club theory though. There's what I'm talk to me.
Speaker 4: When you're interacting with other people, I can understand somebody
Speaker 4: getting uncomfortable. For example, with this podcast, I don't feel
Speaker 4: like I have to touch anybody. I don't have to
Speaker 4: do anything. So if you don't even talking about sex,
Speaker 4: get over it. If I have to show up somewhere,
Speaker 4: if my safety could be put at risk, if you're
Speaker 4: uncomfortable knowing that there's an in person meetup, Yes, somebody's
Speaker 4: allowed to have a say and when whether they can
Speaker 4: handle this like a hierarchy to again, no, but like
Speaker 4: I do think interaction in person is like here.
Speaker 5: But it's not just I don't think men's whole fear
Speaker 5: of strip clubs is dangerous, right, danger Well, what you.
Speaker 1: Said is the attention though you're different man, and how
Speaker 1: they see your seeing your woman. Right.
Speaker 5: So that's why somebody could be with you and be
Speaker 5: on you and be like, I don't want you talk
Speaker 5: about all the niggas you fucked on his podcast, because
Speaker 5: he's going to introduce you to his friends as this girl,
Speaker 5: and it's like you just this big old whore.
Speaker 1: It just glasses.
Speaker 2: We're gonna run down the list. We're gonna run down
Speaker 2: the list. Her questions are when should she tell him?
Speaker 2: At what point should she tell him that she's engaging
Speaker 2: in sex work for us?
Speaker 1: Talking? How long a year?
Speaker 3: It doesn't say she should have first told him, She should.
Speaker 1: Have said it immediately.
Speaker 2: Okay, So if they're talking now and she's really starting
Speaker 2: to like him, do you think it's too late for
Speaker 2: her to tell him?
Speaker 1: Oh, it ain't too late.
Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, you know he's
Speaker 5: gonna have some kickback with you being a prostitute meet clients.
Speaker 2: He's about to see why he changed so easy this
Speaker 2: is to you, how much of his opinion should he
Speaker 2: take into consideration if he's not supportive?
Speaker 1: Is that her means? This is if he's not supportive,
Speaker 1: she has.
Speaker 2: Continued to live while they've been non exclusively dating. So
Speaker 2: they're just dating right now.
Speaker 1: So that Nigga don't want to be with you, but
Speaker 1: you want to be with him.
Speaker 4: Nigg he gonna help try to blame you and say, oh,
Speaker 4: but you do the foot thing.
Speaker 1: That's why I can't be.
Speaker 2: What you have to see in a.
Speaker 1: Year that Nigga would have been with you.
Speaker 2: Now here's my question then to both of you. The
Speaker 2: last question was if he isn't supportive, should she tell
Speaker 2: him that she would stop if he makes up for
Speaker 2: the lost income. He's not even your man, Okay.
Speaker 3: But that's the point. I think that she wants to be.
Speaker 3: She knows he's about to ask.
Speaker 4: I'll say this though, I do think that there's some
Speaker 4: compromise in a relationship where like, if I was seeing
Speaker 4: someone that I really cared about and they didn't want
Speaker 4: me to do something or maybe felt like that hindered
Speaker 4: us from a relationship, I would consider stopping if it
Speaker 4: was something like that.
Speaker 1: But that ain't the reason.
Speaker 4: But just if it's been let's just say a year,
Speaker 4: and he still ain't with you, and then he found
Speaker 4: out about these.
Speaker 2: Fees, or she could just continue to be in this
Speaker 2: situationship because she said she would only be doing this
Speaker 2: for six months. Tips she wants to get the house,
Speaker 2: she wants to do those things.
Speaker 1: It's giving a stripper.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's fine. I think it's fine.
Speaker 2: You got if you got time, you gotta sign frame,
Speaker 2: and you want to buy his house, and you want
Speaker 2: to save a certain amount of money because you plan
Speaker 2: to get out of this lifestyle and you're saying you
Speaker 2: have a date to get out. You could also just
Speaker 2: remain dating this man without letting him know everything out
Speaker 2: the gate, especially if this is a lifestyle that you
Speaker 2: choose to leave. T I don't go into and being like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I used to have a sugar daddy, he helped me
Speaker 2: through college, he used I used to have sex for money.
Speaker 2: That's not that's not. I feel like that you have
Speaker 2: to tell you anybody. So if you feel like you're
Speaker 2: about to get out, I genuinely think that.
Speaker 4: Jairo I know you about to get out, Like she's
Speaker 4: trapping them feet.
Speaker 1: Noo get out.
Speaker 3: I agree, sometimes people are a bit too forthcoming.
Speaker 1: Agreed.
Speaker 4: I got a homegirl, I'm right, And she said, listen
Speaker 4: once this baby come like, you can't be trapping no more.
Speaker 1: I know that's why.
Speaker 2: He was like, that's getting BMF all day.
Speaker 4: Are you gonna wait for me while I'm taking, like
Speaker 4: figuring out a job. Are you gonna hold us down? Well,
Speaker 4: I'm getting a job. And she was like, we talked
Speaker 4: about it. This was a minute ago, but I remember
Speaker 4: her being like, fuck no, he's a grown ass man.
Speaker 4: And I'm like, bro, he's a grown ass nigga that's
Speaker 4: been selling cocaine for I mean, he's thirty five.
Speaker 1: Like, how could you say no, I ain't gonna.
Speaker 2: Hold you, Lise. He's selling coke. I know, homegirl dating
Speaker 2: the nigga that was selling weed, and he's got damn dispensaries,
Speaker 2: just sucking up his business.
Speaker 1: So I'm just like, bitch was a nigga.
Speaker 2: Eleven years ago.
Speaker 1: We're gonna dropped that nigga. The market price for this
Speaker 1: weed is crazy, now, you know what?
Speaker 5: She shouldn't say nothing, Just chill out, get your little money,
Speaker 5: get out of it, don't tell point is like.
Speaker 1: For real, I told her she should be helping that
Speaker 1: nigga if she really wants them to get another job.
Speaker 4: You met him selling coke and you was cool with
Speaker 4: that ship. We was popping bottle bit and how you not?
Speaker 5: I'm not mad? She right, She right for saying what
Speaker 5: she's saying. And he's supposed to feel I was supposed
Speaker 5: to feel. I mean again, sometimes we get too deep,
Speaker 5: like I was just saying to you, Sometimes we get
Speaker 5: too deep into the ship and we be so far
Speaker 5: in and we get fucked up because we go too far.
Speaker 5: Like there's no way if if you don't want a
Speaker 5: nigga that sail cocaine, why is you sucking a nigga that?
Speaker 2: And if you don't want to if you don't want
Speaker 2: a sex worker, if you don't want a nigga that.
Speaker 5: Just drop them and don't call them. But all right,
Speaker 5: all right, but that's my point, Like you got like,
Speaker 5: and I agree with you. Niggas, she'd have made a
Speaker 5: baby your bad, just like these will find these strippers
Speaker 5: and then try to pull him off the club.
Speaker 3: Bro, why did you keep sucking this bitch? Flying her
Speaker 3: the country?
Speaker 2: Right classes alone? You have a lot to say. Where
Speaker 2: can the people tune into you. What do you have
Speaker 2: going on?
Speaker 5: Because you have your podcast about feel this is positive
Speaker 5: advice for people.
Speaker 2: You know, I told you he is a part of.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 5: I just don't shoot Mine is all audio. It's all audio. Yeah,
Speaker 5: No Seller's podcast. It's really good. It's fun, it's interesting.
Speaker 1: What's it about. We try to explore life, the darkest
Speaker 1: parts of it.
Speaker 5: And I give you a flash like to help you
Speaker 5: see like I was doing for y'all, just showing you how.
Speaker 1: No, like showing you how.
Speaker 5: I didn't say that. So no Sealers podcast every Tuesday.
Speaker 5: I heart for me. I just dropped a new album, family,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. I just dropped Cancel these nuts.
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Speaker 2: Everyone, so a lot of my my team is here today.
Speaker 2: But when I DZ nuts everything, so cancel D's nuts.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: That's mister California.
Speaker 5: That celebrates the fact that when I used to travel
Speaker 5: and have holes in different cities, that was my thing.
Speaker 3: Indeed, I wouldn't have to fly him anywhere because they
Speaker 3: would be there.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I got a random question that just came out.
Speaker 1: Mind uh.
Speaker 4: I was on YouTube trying to make an outline for
Speaker 4: Mandy and I just thinking about all the red pill
Speaker 4: content for people that don't know what that means. It's
Speaker 4: basically just like you got to get better. So there's
Speaker 4: a lot of like where to meet a man?
Speaker 1: Content? And the man that content comes from? No men?
Speaker 1: So is a man that's lived some life? You live
Speaker 1: in la. Where would you suggest.
Speaker 4: Women to go out and meet somebody? How can these
Speaker 4: girls step out into the world.
Speaker 3: Do they really like to meet dick or to meet
Speaker 3: a man?
Speaker 1: A man? A man when money see.
Speaker 2: Love that and good looking?
Speaker 5: If I had if I had a daughter, ride a
Speaker 5: daughter and she was twenty, and I'll say, well, she
Speaker 5: about to say church no, no, because.
Speaker 2: Them niggas in church be oh my, they be satan bitch.
Speaker 1: You know what you good?
Speaker 2: Question right?
Speaker 1: Look at you, yump. You about to bring it back
Speaker 1: to no ceilings.
Speaker 5: Because it gets crazy, right the more you think about it,
Speaker 5: it's like it's where would I tell you to find
Speaker 5: a nigga?
Speaker 3: Oh, well, it's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2: That is what it's given.
Speaker 5: It's not gonna happen because it's that's what it's given. Yeah,
Speaker 5: like me and they mature like we mature at our
Speaker 5: own time.
Speaker 2: Y'all mature at one hundred. I was just with a
Speaker 2: fifty year old and not mature. So what we doing?
Speaker 3: Why would you mature when there's people?
Speaker 5: Okay, if pussy is why mature? Why would you mature?
Speaker 5: With pussy is so easy? This I could pussy is
Speaker 5: so low. You can just fly me somewhere and get pussy,
Speaker 5: which he said, that's why he doesn't do it. Why
Speaker 5: would you sure? What's the point of matraun with pussy
Speaker 5: is so convenient.
Speaker 4: Because you probably want more from that, like a relationship.
Speaker 1: You want something fulfilling. I keep it.
Speaker 4: Episode is the clip why the most successful people in
Speaker 4: the world, excuse me, successful men in the world are married.
Speaker 4: It's actually the all, but that marriage literally brings not
Speaker 4: only stability, but a different outlook on the type of
Speaker 4: life that you should be living. For example, one of
Speaker 4: my homeboys, who makes crazy amount of money, told me
Speaker 4: that marriage taught him that investment was a real thing.
Speaker 4: He said that he was having so many experiences with
Speaker 4: women that had nothing to do with building, and that
Speaker 4: marriage taught him that life was worth.
Speaker 3: Was investing time into. Too many people.
Speaker 1: Boo just fucking hole.
Speaker 2: But not only that, I will also say in terms
Speaker 2: of men the same way that there's about you the
Speaker 2: same when this value of being called a wife. Men,
Speaker 2: when they become successful, it's almost shunned upon for them
Speaker 2: to be single. So it's the same thing. Damn, I
Speaker 2: finally made it out and got some money.
Speaker 5: Let me think, I think all this shit got to
Speaker 5: be personal motivation. And I think the person I am
Speaker 5: today is because who I want to be. So the
Speaker 5: person who I was is because that's the person I was.
Speaker 5: Even then, if I was looking for a wife, it'd
Speaker 5: probably be different versus now where you know what I mean,
Speaker 5: I found a person in it as simple as that.
Speaker 5: It's just simple. It's not deep. I'm everybody who I'm
Speaker 5: the person I want to be. So I'm not on
Speaker 5: anybody else's clock. I wasn't on those girls clocks when
Speaker 5: I'm in Japan. I didn't shut them out. I thought
Speaker 5: they could have been somebody. No, no, I'm saying this
Speaker 5: is a perfect.
Speaker 2: Still remember her.
Speaker 1: That's the thing.
Speaker 2: You don't want to admit.
Speaker 1: It's Japan everything.
Speaker 5: Listen, I don't have a ton of horrible sexual experiences. Okay,
Speaker 5: so I don't have Like what y'all, I don't have
Speaker 5: a dick out of aachina.
Speaker 1: I have a You know what I mean? Is he
Speaker 1: gonna know every time.
Speaker 3: You feel me like you going back? You're like ninety
Speaker 3: eight out of one hundred.
Speaker 1: You know, I mean, like I really can't say him.
Speaker 1: I hate him. I know, I know it's not fair.
Speaker 1: It's there. You can get there. Yeah, no advice to
Speaker 1: get women at all. Don't get a nigga. You won't
Speaker 1: push this stock.
Speaker 5: You know what my advice would be, stop putting out
Speaker 5: till you get married.
Speaker 1: Make somebody marry. You can get the pus got need to.
Speaker 3: That's the That's the greatest advice I give you.
Speaker 1: Give me a pushy away. That's the greatest advice I got.
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