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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make.

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Speaker 2: Horrible decision. Y'all. Welcome to another episode of horrible decisions

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Speaker 2: where I may be a pussy as holdest episode because

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Speaker 2: a bitch kind of scared. But y'all, it's your girl, man,

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Speaker 2: dB Hi, y'all, I'm Weezy. We've got a guest in

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Speaker 2: the building, which very confusing to me, wearing red, then

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Speaker 2: they're blue.

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Speaker 1: This is is it set tripping? What's going on?

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Speaker 3: It's like maroon? It's maroon, but that's how Glasses doing.

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Speaker 4: Y'ah.

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Speaker 2: We are joined by Glasses Malone in the building, true

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Speaker 2: West Coast fashion, and yeah, we off off camera started

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Speaker 2: talking about gangs and I'm hoping we don't really have

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Speaker 2: to spend that much time there because I be scared.

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Speaker 1: I don't be like it.

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Speaker 2: Like literally just went on a date and a nigga

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Speaker 2: was like yeah, because you know, I pulled up. I'm

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Speaker 2: glad I'm in New York where niggas can't carry heat.

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm gonna say. I feel really safe here

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Speaker 2: and that's where I'm at. I'm not the one who,

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Speaker 2: like Weezy, wants to fucking nigga with a gun under

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Speaker 2: the pillow.

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Speaker 1: I'm just not let me just explained.

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Speaker 4: We're from Florida and you're not necessarily a meaning men

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Speaker 4: that are in like okay, bigger cities right in La

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Speaker 4: New York and whatever.

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Speaker 2: You meet niggas with good job.

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Speaker 1: If you're making a lot of money in Florida, like

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Speaker 1: you need to have a gun.

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Speaker 4: So that's why I feel safe because I was dating

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Speaker 4: niggas and I needed to protect me. I want to know,

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Speaker 4: so your grip and so when you date women like

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Speaker 4: do they have to have certain attributes to them that

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Speaker 4: are like Okay, you can fuck with a nigga, Like, now,

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Speaker 4: what is the attribute of a woman to data crypt

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Speaker 4: This is where we're starting this week, dating a man

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Speaker 4: that's in a gang or that's gangs like.

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Speaker 1: I mean, nah, not really.

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Speaker 5: Some niggas like some men like women that have nothing

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Speaker 5: to do with their life, and some like them rough.

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Speaker 5: I prefer a mix. Well because I read too, you

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Speaker 5: know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like this nigga said, eye open books.

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Speaker 1: You've been to jail.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, once or twice, but not prison. Okay, I've never been.

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Speaker 2: In prison, so jail is just the holding, right jail.

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Speaker 2: I was about to say, I only had seven hours

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Speaker 2: and they were really nice to me.

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Speaker 1: They brought me like fucking crackers and all that they

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Speaker 1: had fruit. I didn't have fruit. Queen. Oh, the lieutenant

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Speaker 1: came over.

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Speaker 2: Let me use his phone. That's how I got to

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Speaker 2: call you. I think I did Instagram you.

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Speaker 4: I d M D right by the way, if anyone

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Speaker 4: has Mandy literally called me and we're on No, no,

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Speaker 4: it wasn't on camera.

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Speaker 1: I get back in the car and I'm sitting there

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Speaker 1: doing BTS. He's like, what's up? I said, what? Manny'

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Speaker 1: in jail? We won't be recording today.

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Speaker 4: Literally, I had to call her, like, but let me

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Speaker 4: tell you real, beating up some nail lady.

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Speaker 2: I didn't beat her up. I protected my friend who

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Speaker 2: was getting fought by the nail text because she didn't

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Speaker 2: want to pay the full price. Nonetheless, let me tell

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Speaker 2: you how crazy was So I'm in jail, like, bruh,

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Speaker 2: I'm waiting. I don't know. They haven't taken my pictures yet,

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Speaker 2: I haven't taken my finger prints, but I'm still here.

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Speaker 1: Here go weezy. So about how long are.

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Speaker 2: You gonna make it to the recording?

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Speaker 1: Are we recording today at all? Or?

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Speaker 2: I said bitch, I.

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Speaker 1: Am while I'm in jail.

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Speaker 2: Bitch was like, but are you gonna make it? Because

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Speaker 2: there's no one else booking tonight, So I could say here.

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Speaker 4: No because she said I'm gonna arrest it. But I

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Speaker 4: was like, in jail, bro, I want to hear jail.

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Speaker 1: I think I heard arrested. So she said that.

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Speaker 4: I was like, maybe she's fighting with somebody holding cell,

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Speaker 4: so maybe I didn't call it jail that I've been arrested.

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Speaker 1: I'm behind bars. Did you get out and do the episode?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: Did you get out and do the episodes?

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Speaker 2: Get out to? Like fucking eleven?

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Speaker 1: I was up to that long. I was up.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 4: I had Dick to get flew to New York for this.

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Speaker 4: Even when I called him back to he was laughing

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Speaker 4: so hard. He was like, this ain't even a mandy thing.

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Speaker 1: This is a youth.

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Speaker 4: If anybody's gonna guess the podcaster of the two that

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Speaker 4: was gonna end up arrested, bitch it what it wasn't

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Speaker 4: gonna be me?

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Speaker 1: What you will fly for? I just heard that, Oh

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Speaker 1: oh oh.

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Speaker 4: I was in La fucking Nigga and flew to New

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Speaker 4: York's record But yeah, at this moment, they better come

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Speaker 4: fly to me.

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Speaker 2: I want the dick to fly to me. I think

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Speaker 2: it's gonna make the dick seem better if a nigga

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Speaker 2: just hop on a flight because he coming just to

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Speaker 2: see me. I just I'm gonna feel like I have

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Speaker 2: to make more love to the dick. When I was

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Speaker 2: in my twenties, I used to get flued out. I've

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Speaker 2: been flewed out. I literally took like a five hour

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Speaker 2: flight to be somewhere for ten hours and fly back

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Speaker 2: like I was flying the same amount of time.

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Speaker 1: Mouse Just the fuck.

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Speaker 2: That's how scarce go. Oh my god, I'm embarrassed now.

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Speaker 2: But now I'm too busy as well. But yeah, I

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Speaker 2: did it just just for sake.

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Speaker 5: That's crazy. I was just telling somebody I wouldn't fly

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Speaker 5: a girl anywhere, like, oh god, just because Like so,

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Speaker 5: this is fifteen years as a professional in this in

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Speaker 5: this rap stuff, right signed the cash money. When I

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Speaker 5: would go to Japan, Why would I fly a bitch

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Speaker 5: from Harthorne to Japan? His Japanese bitch is there? Okay,

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Speaker 5: I mean it's more of a flaws what's more of

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Speaker 5: a flass like in Japan? Fucking Japanese women or in

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Speaker 5: Germany fucking German women, or flying somebody from a rest.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's more of a flaus. I think

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Speaker 1: it's a person.

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Speaker 2: It's not even the experience because bit ch'all was never

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Speaker 2: with these niggas. Like to me, it's more of a

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Speaker 2: I know it's a short thing, not only a short thing,

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Speaker 2: but when it comes to sex, like I know that

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Speaker 2: there's certain people that I know, I'm gonna have a

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Speaker 2: good ass time, We're gonna fuck, We're gonna enjoy each

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Speaker 1: That's what I meant by with that person relationship.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you were fly, but that's crazy. I wouldn't

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Speaker 5: fly anybody for that, Like you could just meet somebody there.

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Speaker 4: So just say that if you don't have some good

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Speaker 4: pussy where you actually vibe with a woman, because you

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Speaker 4: you you not even wanting to like be with her,

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Speaker 4: but just that you know it's good, y'all have a

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Speaker 4: connection that you're not gonna get from Morando, especially maybe

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Speaker 4: you're vanilla.

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Speaker 1: Maybe just sex or sex for you.

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Speaker 2: But I know, like when I want to be on

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Speaker 2: some kinky shit or real freaky shit, I'm not doing

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Speaker 2: that with everybody.

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Speaker 4: And again, it's not just the sex too, Like he said,

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Speaker 4: I remember art Bozzle two years ago. There's a dude

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Speaker 4: that was like, Yo, come blah blah blah, I'm here

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Speaker 4: for a week, like I want you to come, come

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Speaker 4: see me, And art Bozzle is literally like the baddest

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Speaker 4: bitches in the world, right, And so no, like everybody's fine.

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Speaker 4: It's also it's not like this weekend of Memorial Day,

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Speaker 4: but it's like this nigga's there. But it's just like

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Speaker 4: it's still like art is sex, it's culture or whatever.

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Speaker 4: It's some beautiful women. So when I was there because

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Speaker 4: I went, of course, I remember saying, I can't believe

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Speaker 4: you really wanted me to come when you could be

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Speaker 4: fucking a bunch of hoes and re laughing because I said, oh, well,

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Speaker 4: I am leaving on Wednesday. But he was like, yo,

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Speaker 4: I ain't just like I want some pussy out you,

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Speaker 1: And I think that's the thing too.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you'll meet some bitches there, but like it isn't

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Speaker 4: a sure thing, and not just by the vibes of sex,

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Speaker 4: but like being able to enjoy shit with that person.

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Speaker 1: But maybe that comes with age. I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think you just got to experience it. I just

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Speaker 5: was saying that I think your game gotta be weak.

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Speaker 5: If that's the case, your game has to be weak.

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Speaker 1: You like a woman. Why would you do that?

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Speaker 5: Because look, if you in New York, like so when

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Speaker 5: I was on my ship, when I was really running around,

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Speaker 5: I would have a bitch in Flat Bush.

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Speaker 3: I would have a bitch. I would meet women in

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Speaker 3: these places.

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Speaker 1: Bru Niggas don't want to fucking have to be out

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Speaker 1: in the streets every night to have a bitch come.

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Speaker 2: On out to meet every night.

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Speaker 3: It's not gonna happen the first time.

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Speaker 1: Why would you want that bitch every fucking night?

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Speaker 3: You just met this home, it's another night, so it's

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Speaker 3: another bitch.

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Speaker 1: You gotta go out and get another girl.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that that's the thing too. And

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Speaker 2: we talked about people who enjoy partying. You see, even

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Speaker 2: when I'm on tour and I be tired, I get

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Speaker 2: a little second win and a bitch.

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Speaker 1: Will end up outside.

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Speaker 2: So if he's going to a city like you every night,

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Speaker 2: dominent that every night, it's not gonna be hard to meet.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying, Like, it's a way we we

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Speaker 5: really believe it and we carry ourselves.

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Speaker 1: That's anything.

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Speaker 2: Because this should be in the earliest fuck, I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: I just got here two o'clock. Yeah, I'm a morning now,

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Speaker 2: let's don't do something in New York.

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Speaker 1: I'll be tired. Be outside till is the best dating

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Speaker 1: experience and I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love I never.

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Speaker 4: Want to have dinner with a nigga. One of my

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Speaker 4: favorite episode of to Day three niggas in One Night

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Speaker 4: That's in the City. Do you remember when she went

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Speaker 4: to with Midnight that ship has fired? They went to

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Speaker 4: an art gallery at two am, Like I did see that.

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Speaker 1: I was watching.

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Speaker 2: Episode is on a delseel flight right now, That's all

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 5: I was watching that. I was watching part two yesterday.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that is part one of Netflix. Right, so

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Speaker 5: part two the section of the city movie. And she

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Speaker 5: was mad because old boy went to sit up and

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Speaker 5: watch movies and ship and she was complaining about it

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Speaker 5: the whole time. But she got this person to marry her.

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Speaker 5: I was telling him, I love women want to marry

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Speaker 5: no because it's it's funny. Carrie so big and Carrie

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Speaker 5: that's because they was in the street stuff right, Big,

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Speaker 5: because yeah, Big was a real player. But Carrie, right,

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Speaker 5: she was like trying to live a single life being married,

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Speaker 5: and I was telling him women really will pursue us.

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Speaker 5: We just thought women will really try to pursue that.

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Speaker 2: Sh what what what does that mean to you? So?

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Speaker 2: So when so we just talked about Weezy really wanting

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Speaker 2: a partner who can party with her. Now, that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: I am a woman that's on the go. I've never

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Speaker 1: And I do want to fly to Japan and done it.

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Speaker 4: And Ben So like, to me, it's a nigga that's

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Speaker 4: to have these life experiences with someone, not because you

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Speaker 4: think that being able to socialize and be extroverted is

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Speaker 2: Being a hole, and it doesn't have to be that.

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Speaker 1: Like I love moving around with my nigga. I mean, shit,

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Speaker 2: Why can't she like moving around with a partner.

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Speaker 3: She don't like moving around with a party, she like

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Speaker 1: No, that's absolutely not true.

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Speaker 3: So this is what we're talking about.

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Speaker 1: She just had this conversation with a dude that I've

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Speaker 4: I'm the only bitch that likes going to a party

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Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, And he was like.

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Speaker 1: No, you're not.

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Speaker 4: He's like every bitch I fuck with like love taking

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Speaker 4: want to go out, dance, have a drink, and no

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Speaker 1: Fucked after it, And it was.

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Speaker 2: I want to ask you. Your face looks really perturbed.

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Speaker 1: I want to.

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Speaker 2: Ask you as a man, because we did just have

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Speaker 4: Men would view it, and I definitely said men probably

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Speaker 1: I didn't think so.

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Speaker 2: So I want to ask you, though, if like, why

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Speaker 5: With her partner because they're single things. The purpose is

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Speaker 2: You think going out to the dance like dancing and

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Speaker 1: Which we talked about madt Let's cut club out homes.

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Speaker 5: You could dance, you could drink, dance and you could drink.

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Speaker 5: So let's say a club. You could drink and dance

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Speaker 5: to music at home. But you want to be in

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Speaker 2: Yes, that doesn't mean we want to be chose by

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Speaker 4: This is la shiit now I don't understand. Okay, this

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Speaker 4: is la New York ship. Our apartments are so small.

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Speaker 1: Be serious, you are genuinely confined to a certain space

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Speaker 4: Ex nigga we were together three years. He was in Brooklyn,

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Speaker 4: when you need to get a little air? You go outside,

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Speaker 2: But I mean to me though, I also like each other,

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Speaker 2: not other people. And see that's the difference with my partner.

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Speaker 2: I would enjoy us going to a bar. We're socializing

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Speaker 2: with the people at the bar, the bartender. We used

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Speaker 2: to like to hit on bitches together. It was fun

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Speaker 2: shit for us to do.

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Speaker 5: But you don't think that, y'all. You don't think y'all

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Speaker 5: are social butterflies to some degree. And then at that

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Speaker 2: But that's the thing, and that's what we said. We

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Speaker 2: Life is we only got one to live.

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Speaker 1: I know what you're saying about, like attention and going out,

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Speaker 1: and when I was younger, I truly believed that to

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Speaker 4: No one listening right, Like I'm talking about myself and

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Speaker 4: what I like, and I've really learned that.

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Speaker 1: Nah, I don't really get numbers in clubs.

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Speaker 4: I don't know the last time I've done it, Like neither,

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Speaker 4: I can't hear.

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Speaker 1: I want to be out here. You give y'all credit.

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Speaker 5: I honestly, don't think that's your complete intention to get

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Speaker 5: everybody's number, but you do want a certain level of

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Speaker 5: attention and looks. But we were just saying that if

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Speaker 5: Nothing else is gonna matter, just that person.

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Speaker 1: But why sitting in the house, how y'all living light?

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Speaker 1: How is that living? I agree?

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Speaker 3: Howse life is to be experienced. It's the human experience.

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Speaker 2: Exactly together doing all things that shouldn't be classified as

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Speaker 2: single bit shit or wifey shit.

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Speaker 3: It's a reason that's classified. Is that right? Because it's

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Speaker 3: the attention of strangers.

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Speaker 5: Like when women write, if we're talking about like dressing

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Speaker 5: or attraction, right, y'all kind of conflate beautiful and sexy.

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Speaker 5: So then a lot of times y'all literally, I know

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Speaker 5: it sounds crazy, but y'all conflated too. And what happens

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Speaker 5: is some of the things you do, you still want

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Speaker 5: the looks, even though you're with your partner, you still

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Speaker 5: want people to see you.

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Speaker 2: I think that that's the problem that I think a

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Speaker 2: lot of men, if we're using the word conflate, they

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Speaker 2: do that. Like I know, so many things that women

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Speaker 2: do because it makes them feel good. So we're not

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Speaker 2: talking about the bbls and the people, no, but in

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Speaker 2: terms of like I've lost a dress, sick amount of weight. Sure,

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Speaker 2: there's things that now I can put on, and I

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Speaker 2: just want to put that shit on.

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Speaker 1: I know that lashes. Women like lashes.

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Speaker 2: You niggas hate these motherfucking caterpillars on these bitch We

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Speaker 2: do that because for whatever reason, we like how it looks.

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Speaker 2: The lace wigs, y'all. Niggas can't stand it, y'all be like,

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Speaker 2: I see the shit. We do it because maybe we

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Speaker 2: want to switch up our look. There are actually so

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Speaker 2: many things that women do for women and not for

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Speaker 2: the attention of men that I think are conflated to

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Speaker 2: where y'all think a bit is just trying to look

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Speaker 4: I don't even think that a date night can't exist

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Speaker 4: if I'm spending too much time in the house, Like

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Speaker 4: at some point I need to have something else beyond

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Speaker 4: the four walls. You know what I'm saying, It might

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Speaker 4: be a little too simple for me, and that it's

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Speaker 4: something I said to Mandy, like one of my homeboys

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Speaker 4: said to me, the reason that you probably haven't ended

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Speaker 4: up in a relationship is because you're meeting niggas that

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Speaker 4: like being outside.

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Speaker 2: Or you've just got single this year true, two years ago?

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Speaker 1: No, no, bit.

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Speaker 2: The top of the year.

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Speaker 4: No, it was not, bitch. I have not fucked that

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Speaker 4: niggasince twenty twenty one. That is a lie twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 4: but just twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 1: I know it's been two years we've been broken up.

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Speaker 4: Ain't no motherfucking way, Bro, I was talking to the

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Speaker 4: Dreamville nigga last year.

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Speaker 1: Remember I was going through Dreamville.

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Speaker 2: Was in April, that was last year. You the fuck

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Speaker 2: this nigga I've been broken up with for two years. Bro,

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Speaker 2: ain't no mother you was at least fucking him last year. Bro, No, Maggie, Bro,

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Speaker 2: ain't no way you met dream Bill in April, because

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Speaker 2: I know said about the.

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Speaker 1: Fucking breakup, But that didn't mean I was fucking with

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Speaker 4: I was with him three years and he started fucking

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Speaker 4: on random white bitch that was married.

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Speaker 1: Really, So you ain't for that nigga all last year?

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Speaker 2: No, we almost two years without you. Getting that dick.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, we record this to compass. Okay, so let me

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Speaker 1: make y'all, let me make a point. Ok you went

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Speaker 1: from a break up for a long time. You go

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Speaker 1: to see I'm over it.

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Speaker 2: I'm about to stop being a celibate. I'm about to

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Speaker 2: get me some dick.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so then be a celibate. So one, the point

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Speaker 3: you was making is great, right, that's true. It's not

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Speaker 3: Actually most time it's for female.

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Speaker 5: A ten it is so therefore still for attention from

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Speaker 5: women in games. So again to the face of attention, right,

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Speaker 5: the space of attention, which is important because if you

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Speaker 4: I don't, I guess I don't necessarily look at that.

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Speaker 4: It's like this notch on the go to like, ooh,

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Speaker 4: that's a bad thing about this woman, like I.

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Speaker 1: Think it's not. It's not.

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Speaker 5: It's not bad or good. It's just you have to

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Speaker 5: recognize that. And gods, for guys, it's not a problem.

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Speaker 5: They just the problem is so y'all not being honest

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Speaker 5: to say how much every what everybody else thinks matters

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Speaker 5: so then gods sitting around like, well, why are you

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Speaker 5: doing all this?

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Speaker 3: But they think it's always God's attention you ask.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if this is maybe related to then

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Speaker 4: the experiences with people, like there's really not a moment

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Speaker 4: where I'm out with my niggas thinking what someone else thinks.

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Speaker 1: I actually hope that you think my nigga look good.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm shallow.

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Speaker 2: Want I want women to be looking at my nigga

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Speaker 2: like damn they look They're.

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Speaker 1: Not the intent when I'm out, Oh you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh no, that's my intent for being able

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Speaker 1: to look good.

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Speaker 4: And my intent when I'm out is like, oh, I

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Speaker 4: want to have fun with you.

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: We're out yet, so like I'm more worried about that

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Speaker 4: I guess you were like talking to me about how

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Speaker 4: thing that I actually care about.

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Speaker 1: When going out.

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Speaker 4: I recently went to Blue Note with a nigga in

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Speaker 4: front of a mutual friend of ours. My friend is

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Speaker 4: fitted and he said to me, I love seeing him,

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Speaker 4: like give you attention like it was he was a

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Speaker 4: very kind man to you, Like I saw him kiss

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Speaker 4: you on the cheek, I saw him touch you like

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Speaker 4: I think that's a nice thing to see a.

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Speaker 1: Man do for you, and those type of things.

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Speaker 4: I like people seeing that, like, yeah, the person I'm

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Speaker 1: I'll be noticing. I don't know if you do.

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Speaker 4: You ever go out and you'll see like a couple

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Speaker 4: and he'd be like, damn, she looks so cute, like

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Speaker 4: did they just get in a fight. Sometimes it is

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Speaker 4: nice to see that loving energy. That might be something

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Speaker 4: I think about, but it's never attention in this way

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Speaker 4: like I'm craving it. I genuinely love having a good

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Speaker 4: time and that's the ship that I want with a partner.

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Speaker 3: But maybe that's part of your good time is getting attention.

440
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Speaker 3: I mean, it can't just.

441
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Speaker 1: Be dicks you really think about this.

442
00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:13,679
Speaker 5: Attention is like with the but listen, being nate, desire

443
00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,680
Speaker 5: for all human beings is care. Right, we all want

444
00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,960
Speaker 5: somebody to care for us. But if you look today, right, attention,

445
00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:24,120
Speaker 5: attention and attention and connection are like they're they're convenient.

446
00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,360
Speaker 5: It's it's plentiful, Like somebody could pay attention a hundred years.

447
00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,480
Speaker 5: If a nigga liked you, he had to walk miles,

448
00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:30,800
Speaker 5: We had to put in a lot of work to

449
00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:35,360
Speaker 5: get your attention. For you to know he paid you attention,

450
00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,080
Speaker 5: you knew he fucked with you for real, right, But

451
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,679
Speaker 5: if we all craving care, so it's you not fucking

452
00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:43,880
Speaker 5: with all these niggas just for dicks. Don't get me wrong.

453
00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,719
Speaker 5: You can like dick, but it ain't just for dicks.

454
00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:47,760
Speaker 5: Somewhere along the line, you like, you have to like

455
00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:52,119
Speaker 5: the attention that they're giving you. It starts with that,

456
00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:53,840
Speaker 5: because there's plenty of niggas you didn't fuck with too

457
00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:55,480
Speaker 5: long that probably didn't fuck you the way you wanted

458
00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:56,040
Speaker 5: to be fucked.

459
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Speaker 4: It's definitely not sex because let's be honest, I'll work

460
00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,960
Speaker 4: at some dick. Remember when I came in and I

461
00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:03,800
Speaker 4: was like, it was okay, he hadn't working good for you.

462
00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,280
Speaker 4: But like when a when a person is great, like

463
00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,439
Speaker 4: I'd rather go through that and is And this is

464
00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,320
Speaker 4: me doing a podcast for almost eight years now write

465
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Speaker 4: a sex podcast.

466
00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:13,720
Speaker 1: I've learned that.

467
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:19,119
Speaker 3: I didn't know.

468
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:27,040
Speaker 6: Guess where you are like, I actually like words a

469
00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,320
Speaker 6: little bit, not necessarily with dick size, because I still

470
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:31,800
Speaker 6: through the tiny is okay.

471
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Speaker 4: But I will say through over the years I realized

472
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:40,040
Speaker 4: like my sex has grown better through feelings for somebody.

473
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Speaker 1: So if I meet a nigga, thats a vibe.

474
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Speaker 4: Even if the first time isn't like crazy out of

475
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Speaker 4: the park great like, I know it'll get there because

476
00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,880
Speaker 4: for me, I've had better dick than better men. I've

477
00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:53,200
Speaker 4: had really great sex with really mediocre people. Yes, meeting

478
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Speaker 4: a great person.

479
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Speaker 2: Bitch that's a bar bitch he thinks, really don't be ship.

480
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,200
Speaker 2: Sometimes they dick actually be better even though a lot

481
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Speaker 2: of times we don't work as the dick do be

482
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,919
Speaker 2: better than the person that's attached to a lot of.

483
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Speaker 3: Them, what because why would they have to develop a

484
00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:07,400
Speaker 3: personality of all you wanted?

485
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Speaker 1: Some dig I mean I.

486
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,360
Speaker 2: Think that that's to say about women as well. There's

487
00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 2: a lot of women that lead with looks because men

488
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,359
Speaker 2: don't care about much else. They don't care if they

489
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: have degrees, they don't care, they care about.

490
00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:20,159
Speaker 5: I could talk about niggas and business forever. This is

491
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 5: like a walking apart. So I'm damn but I'm saying

492
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 5: that's the point. So that's what I'm saying, that attention

493
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,720
Speaker 5: has to matter. You like y'all both seem like social butterflies,

494
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:30,480
Speaker 5: just meeting y'all right now, right, y'all seem like.

495
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 1: Social better podcast, So no, no, they're not.

496
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 5: Look So, if you're going out, you just want your

497
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 5: nigga to go out because you don't want to lose

498
00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 5: that social element. It's nothing wrong with that, but you

499
00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 5: got to also understand why the right nigga make you.

500
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:43,480
Speaker 5: It won't matter where you.

501
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:45,600
Speaker 1: At, So no disagree.

502
00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:51,240
Speaker 4: I really believe that extroverts and introvers exist, and extroverts

503
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 4: thrive in energy from other people or situations. Right, there

504
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 4: are moments where creatively and I mean, this is a

505
00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 4: woman who's created businesses, fucking TV show, writing a book

506
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,520
Speaker 4: like I've done shit in my life that needs creativity.

507
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 4: I literally told Mandy I was writing in a bar

508
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 4: last night, and I believe that when you're a person

509
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,440
Speaker 4: that needs that, if I just want someone along for

510
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 4: the ride, that doesn't mean that the right nigga's gonna

511
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 4: make that go away.

512
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Speaker 1: It's not what I'm saying.

513
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 5: I'm telling you the right nigga it won't matter where

514
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 5: you at with him the right nigga. You ain't gonna

515
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 5: have to take him with you to write in the bar.

516
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 5: You just go writing the boar the right nigga. Anywhere

517
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 5: you at with him is gonna be the shit.

518
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Speaker 1: I don't believe that true. I believe that it's some

519
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,640
Speaker 1: of the things that I do.

520
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,440
Speaker 5: So like how you just came game that this comes

521
00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 5: from a nigga that had his own drug spot, turned

522
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 5: his life around, became a successful rapper. Blah blah blah

523
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 5: blah blah. Trust me, the right person will make a

524
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 5: lot of other things that don't matter.

525
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 4: So you think I could meet a homebody and have

526
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Speaker 4: a successful relationship.

527
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 5: No, I think you can meet a homebody and then

528
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 5: you go, he goes out with you sometimes and you

529
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 5: also stay home and be just as happy.

530
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Speaker 1: Okay, different, No, it's kind of what we that's okay,

531
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: but you're talking about. I was thinking, like, never, because.

532
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Speaker 3: A person that's a homebody all or nothing with it.

533
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: I do think though, that we'll get into relationships, and unfortunately,

534
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 2: a part of the compromise is doing things you kind

535
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:12,199
Speaker 2: of don't want to do.

536
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 5: Unfortunately, but you you love you gonna want to do it.

537
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 5: It'll it'll change for you.

538
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I don't if I don't like rock music

539
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: going to rock concerts because I like you.

540
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 1: When you take on their interest, I feel like I.

541
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 2: Can be exposed to something and be glad that someone

542
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 2: is happy. This reminds me of the episode we have

543
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 2: King with King Noir eons ago, season one, Bitch Year one. Literally,

544
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 2: I came on and I expressed my love for pretty

545
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 2: Ricky and he's like, I don't really like pretty Ricky,

546
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,120
Speaker 2: but if I'm with someone that I love, I want

547
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 2: you to experience pretty Ricky and go be happy, whether

548
00:22:58,520 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 2: it's not with.

549
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Speaker 1: Me or not.

550
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 2: Clearly, we were talking about monogamy or whatever and in

551
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 2: the conversations of being with someone else. But I'm not

552
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 2: gonna lie if there is something that I do not like.

553
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 2: I'm not a fan of headbanging rock music. I'm thirty

554
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 2: three years old. I know at this point what I

555
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 2: do not like. Being in a relationship with someone, whether

556
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 2: I love them or not, I would still want them

557
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: to enjoy the things that I do not like.

558
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 1: And I don't think that what they like I will

559
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: change to start liking it.

560
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 2: We talk about that all the time where people shape

561
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 2: shift in relationship.

562
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:35,479
Speaker 1: I think you're changing. Yeah, it's not what it is.

563
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,719
Speaker 2: Oh, you could go and enjoy something without me, Like

564
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 2: did you like things like bark class is the only

565
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: type of workout I do right now.

566
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: But if you're into like the berries and the shit

567
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: that you do, like the CrossFit, you could go do

568
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: that by yourself.

569
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Speaker 2: I don't want to be pressureds I mean, I'm just

570
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: saying I don't want to be pressured into liking or

571
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: doing things with my partner because that's what they enjoy,

572
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: and I think it's fine to let someone do what they.

573
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Speaker 4: Were like feeling really like head wrong about this, And

574
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,919
Speaker 4: all he's saying is you're not going to see any pressure.

575
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 4: It's not black and white, it's not strong. All I'm

576
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,239
Speaker 4: saying is there's things that I don't like.

577
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 2: It's not that I'm going to be pressured to do

578
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 2: it if I'm in a relationship. What I'm saying is

579
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 2: what I don't like, if I really don't like it

580
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 2: because of my own experience, it's not going to change

581
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 2: because I'm someone that likes it. That's all. I'm not

582
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: that strong about something. No, I'm just saying where there

583
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 2: won't be pressure.

584
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 4: It won't Yes, if it's.

585
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 1: I gave the most simple thing.

586
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Speaker 4: You know, I'm saying like LI does make you want

587
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 4: to appreciate that person, that person's like interest, and like you,

588
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 4: you start opening your eyes up to different things, like, look,

589
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 4: I didn't think I would have liked tennis.

590
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: My ex was into tennis. That nigga was right in

591
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 1: prospect part and I'm like, it must be a bitch

592
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 1: at tennis, Like I really didn't know what the fuck

593
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: he was doing on his motherfucker cord.

594
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 3: I swear to god, this is funny, but these women

595
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 3: really think they do.

596
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,360
Speaker 1: They always think it's a big dude, motherfucking tennis. Again.

597
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 4: Thanks, but like on some real ship, thank you. I

598
00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 4: was like, you know what, I want to spend time

599
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 4: with you. I know you love doing this ship.

600
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 3: You end up going to that sheet like this ship

601
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 3: ain't that bad?

602
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: Like it really wasn't something.

603
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 5: A lot of times we say we don't like some

604
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 5: I don't think we really experience I hate.

605
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 2: But I'm not one of those people.

606
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 1: If I'm telling you I like something that experienced it, I.

607
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 2: Don't like it.

608
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 5: Did you fully investigator or did you just experience someone

609
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 5: who was open to trying anything once.

610
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 1: I say it all the time, like I'm open to

611
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: trying lot of things.

612
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: If y'all been listening to this podcast for seven years,

613
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: there's things I came on here and said I didn't like,

614
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 2: and then once I really tried it out, I was like, Okay,

615
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 2: it's cool.

616
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: I like it.

617
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 5: I'm saying, you never tried something the first time, and

618
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 5: then the second time he was like, it wasn't as

619
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 5: bad as I thought.

620
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 2: Yes, sex with a nigga that wasn't good the first time,

621
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 2: and he got a little better the second.

622
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: Sure, because you like that.

623
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is, no, I like the nigga

624
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 2: he came. He came with his A game instead.

625
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 5: But I think that because if you do, if you're

626
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,719
Speaker 5: double back, it wouldn't be no part too well.

627
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 2: No, because no, no, no, no, you know.

628
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 3: What, this nigga might not be that bad.

629
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: You could speak, you could see effort, not even not

630
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 2: even effort, but you fucked somebody the first time. You

631
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,239
Speaker 2: could see if this could be better. I think that

632
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,439
Speaker 2: there are hiccups a with nerves, there are hiccups with ship.

633
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 2: We didn't talk about if this nigga would even be

634
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: into this, So I'm not gonna do it. Like there's

635
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 2: a lot of times for the first time, you may

636
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 2: not even think you about to have.

637
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 1: Sex with this nigga.

638
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 2: I'm and now you and now you're mad that you

639
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 2: didn't do a lot of the pre talking to even

640
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: see what he's into.

641
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: It's that dry drunk pussy. That's not.

642
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 2: What is into.

643
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

644
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Oh, there was a nigga that I was just talking

645
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 2: to recently and he let me know he wasn't a

646
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 2: rounds guy. He's won them done and he's going to

647
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 2: sleep and bitch, y'all see you the next day. I

648
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 2: got one round for.

649
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: You, bitch, you actually asked me, and.

650
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm good on you. I talk about Okay, I don't

651
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: want a surprise nigga.

652
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 1: I don't like surprise parties. I don't even like birthday parties.

653
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 5: Leave me like a motherfucker. Listen, this is what I'm saying.

654
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 5: It's nothing like going to another country, meeting somebody and

655
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 5: having a completely different experience. The only things that I

656
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 5: literally was just.

657
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 2: Saying, I'm gonna say, bitch, but also I don't like accent,

658
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 2: so we don't have to leave the country for this.

659
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: But to me, bitch, I do not like accent. So

660
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 2: what we're doing, let's stay in America with my with

661
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 2: with the niggas that I like. Thank you to me.

662
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 2: I absolutely believe in talking about things beforehand because I've

663
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 2: been so disappointed or I've been with someone who's not

664
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 2: into the things.

665
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 1: I'm into the.

666
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 2: Point where I've reached a sexually liberated phase where i

667
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: know what gets me off, I know what I enjoy,

668
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: I know the type of sex I like. So just

669
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 2: going into sex blind for what a lot of times

670
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 2: you're left more disappointed than not. So to me, I

671
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 2: want to make sure we're on the same whether it's.

672
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 5: A kink level sexual expectations, because you're probably missing out expectation.

673
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 5: I have sexpectation. You need to get rid of the

674
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 5: no expect.

675
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 2: You have no sexpectations in your twenties. You have no

676
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: sexpectations when you're a woman that now feels valued by

677
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 2: a man wanting to fuck you, I now know instead

678
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 2: of going into sex with a man who isn't going

679
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 2: to please me, I'm going in knowing what I like.

680
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: Y'all look back on the Mandy's side on this one.

681
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, because nigga. In my twenties, I was going in

682
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 2: with no s expectations. I was fucking niggas from the club.

683
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 2: I was fucking niggas on vacation. I was just fucking

684
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 2: niggas because we gotta bube, let's have sex.

685
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 1: In my thirties, I'll tell you.

686
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 4: What number one days at here right now, in this moment,

687
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 4: it's fucking men that definitely are like centering my pleasure

688
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 4: first yep. And when I say that, I realized head

689
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 4: like I feel like in my early twenties, maybe I

690
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 4: was fucking too many Caribby niggas, but them niggas was

691
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 4: really scared to ease and loss.

692
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 1: And now I have not done with that issue in years.

693
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 4: Maybe because I'm just dating better niggas, I don't know,

694
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 4: but I really don't have bad experiences with men not

695
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 4: trying to get me off, trying to me wet. They

696
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 4: don't make me like feel any type of way when

697
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 4: they're spending more time on me Like that's probably the

698
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 4: biggest sexpectation I have in people, because I'm dating grown

699
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 4: ass men like them.

700
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: Young niggas don't give a fuck about getting.

701
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 5: You think about this, right, y'all know, why y'all sleep

702
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 5: with men? Y'all e a thought y men sleep with

703
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 5: y'all because I just want to. I mean, you really

704
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 5: think that's what it is? Yes, So there's a social

705
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 5: So there's a social currency, right, there's a social that

706
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 5: was case they be fucking they bitch and not you.

707
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: But oh they do that too, but they're gonna bitch,

708
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 1: they're gonna fuck you, they're gonna get.

709
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 5: It's a social currency, right when you stack girls for men,

710
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 5: let's that's a social currency. Like let's say if you

711
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 5: give somebody some pussy, right, you got this successful podcast

712
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 5: everybody we all know you are, and you get somebody

713
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 5: some pussy. You just gave that nigga boots like that

714
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 5: little bit, right, So this is how it always be.

715
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: This is what you always been.

716
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 4: Right.

717
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 5: You a number to us, right, we stack you up.

718
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 5: I know that sounds a little worse than it, but

719
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 5: think about this a.

720
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: Number to these niggas. That's because we speaking freely. So

721
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: you just a number.

722
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 5: But that's my point when I initially started, why would

723
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,719
Speaker 5: you like that's why niggas can't talk to me, like

724
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 5: even this version of me is nowhere near like that.

725
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 5: I'm not moving around trying to fuck a bunch of bitches.

726
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 5: I never was, but when I did. It's different when

727
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 5: I be in Germany. If you fock we go to Miami, right,

728
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 5: I'm signing to cash money. I'm getting the Miami bitch

729
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 5: because you can't tell me. There's no way possible socially current,

730
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 5: Like when it comes to the wealth of having bitches,

731
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 5: you can't fuck with me. If I got bitches in

732
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 5: Miami and your bitches is flying out here, I wouldn't

733
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 5: never fly bitch that lived fifteen minutes away from my

734
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 5: house two thousand miles to get no pussy.

735
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: That don't make sense. It's not about getting the.

736
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 3: That's the only thing it's about from y'all.

737
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 4: So the rapper niggas that I know, and I'm not

738
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 4: talking like these are niggas that's on tour whatever they're doing,

739
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 4: like they like having a little yet with them because

740
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 4: they're like, like I'm moving, she moving, She cool.

741
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: They still just trust me.

742
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 4: You could, but you could be getting a new bitch

743
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 4: in every city. But it's almost like energetically raining.

744
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: They don't take an effort.

745
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: I was about to ask that does it not become

746
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 2: draining or even boring after a while, to just be

747
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 2: fucking these women that you just meet at the club

748
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: that may not they may only be fucking with you

749
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 2: because you had three Are.

750
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: These girls like?

751
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 4: I mean, the niggas that I'm talking about are billboard

752
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 4: charting and they want to suck and they know that

753
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 4: worth it Sometimes ain't gonna be It.

754
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 5: Ain't no such thing as pussy worthy. See, this is

755
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 5: the thing, when you reduce it down to just pussy.

756
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 5: There's no such thing as pussy worthy. So unless a

757
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 5: nigg of liking you and he with you, then what

758
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 5: are we talking for? Y'all talking a lot of shit

759
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 5: about digging pussy, But then you attach an emotion if

760
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 5: a nigga fuck with you.

761
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 1: What was emotional about about social currency?

762
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: I'm just that's that's all.

763
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: But that's high value. Can a bitch be that to

764
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: your mother? Solf?

765
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 3: Prus?

766
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: The fuck?

767
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 4: When the supermodel is literally a flight away and will

768
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 4: drop to you, it ain't tricking.

769
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 5: Me because that means because it's not about the money, right,

770
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 5: It's not the money, Because the point is if you fly, bitch,

771
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 5: you could fly the baddest bitch from America to Japan.

772
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 5: Me fucking the bad Japanese bitch trumps your popular American

773
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 5: bitch because it's a.

774
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: Bitch I don't speak English, But that's what I was

775
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: gonna say.

776
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 5: So that's how crazy your gang gotta be to bust

777
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 5: a bitch that don't speak English when I I'd have

778
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 5: been in Japan and fuck the bitch down Japanese. Fine,

779
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 5: you can't. Niggas gonna go back nothing, no words. She

780
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 5: just knew she wanted to listen.

781
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 4: That was a less convenient thing because now that I'm no, no, no,

782
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 4: what I'm talking about convenience about if a dude wants to, like,

783
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 4: if you know you got to do some dinner, is

784
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 4: do certain ship, Like it's better to have a bitch

785
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 4: around your people, your team, whatever it is.

786
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: That's a vibe that you already fucked with that you

787
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: you know.

788
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 5: That don't make sense now that if it's not your bitch,

789
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 5: stop white, you cannot and see.

790
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: That these girls know what they're there for three days?

791
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: Why would you have a bitch with you consistently? That's

792
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 3: not your bit.

793
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: Because some niggas enjoy spending time.

794
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 5: That's because they wife and multipole women. So if it's

795
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 5: just dick and pussy you gotta player like that if you.

796
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: Start no wife or girl just to enjoy her company.

797
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 3: She's coming and staying, but she's not leaving.

798
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 5: Correct because based off based off the show, based off

799
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 5: of the show.

800
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: If it's about fucking why are you here an extra dick?

801
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: You not?

802
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: My girl wants to fucking spend time twice?

803
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 2: Is he fucking you every day?

804
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 5: So you so you had a social statues like you

805
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 5: talk about these niggas that's on the billboard chart, that's

806
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 5: flying the same bitches somewhere when they can have any

807
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 5: bitch you in all these countries. You're gonna fly bitch

808
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 5: from home when you could literally fucking bitch.

809
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 4: That don't speaking saying that he wasn't fucking this bitch,

810
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 4: but literally I was just on the phone with his

811
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 4: dude last week. He was like, oh, are you in town?

812
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 4: I'll have to show ball black And that's player.

813
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I got flew out to All Star weekends,

814
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: so this isn't my There's plenty of bitches ready and

815
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 2: I got flud out there.

816
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 1: But he's not flying me out. He's a friend. But

817
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 1: he was talking about I'm gonna bring Shorty you met

818
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 1: from blah blah blah. I'm like, oh cool.

819
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, you're gonna be here three days and

820
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 4: then we're gonna kick it. So come because I'm gonna be.

821
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,439
Speaker 1: Party trying to get to know where. It ain't about

822
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: getting into nowhere. The nigga's on tour, he's exhausted, he

823
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: wants some pussy. He likes her. She cool, she's fun.

824
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 4: Why not keep sucking the cheo bitch? Why do you

825
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 4: have to redo this new ship every night? And what

826
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 4: if the pussy is why.

827
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 3: Not just be in a relationship at that point?

828
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 5: That's this is I don't even know. Keeps flying the

829
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 5: same bitch to multiple towns.

830
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 2: It is without being in a relationship.

831
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: He got different bitches, but who cares? Why would you

832
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: not just be with the bitch?

833
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 2: Bro?

834
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,360
Speaker 4: Why why do you let niggas need to keep fucking

835
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 4: these random holes? Like don't you want somebody to make

836
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 4: you faster going to bed with your what's the thing?

837
00:34:55,520 --> 00:35:00,240
Speaker 1: We attached a lot of emotional I don't see what

838
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: I will say.

839
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 2: It's emotional because as as a woman who engaged in

840
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: a ton of casual sex. When I think now like

841
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you okay, this is coming out after.

842
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 2: They're the nigga right now that won't supply himself to

843
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: our show in DC. Bitch, I'm getting there the day

844
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 2: before because me and Bennie like to get there before,

845
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: and I want to play out. Even though I'm sure

846
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 2: we get up sex it could be cool. I don't

847
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 2: want to be with that nigga for more than maybe

848
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 2: we end.

849
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 4: Up if we have yet no point made, Bitch, you

850
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 4: got confirmed, good duck.

851
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, but that's the thing. Dcday also

852
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 2: wants to come.

853
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 4: Bro, you're absolutely like that point new dick, and I

854
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 4: gotta stick with it for two days. You're telling me

855
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 4: I got some dick that's already fucking lit. He's fun,

856
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 4: and I got to be in DC for two days

857
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 4: for our show.

858
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: You'll just be in multiple relationships. If a niggas.

859
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 3: Flying you multiple towns, Bro, I'm.

860
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 4: Busy as fuck. My friends are busy as fuck. Like

861
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 4: I'm in New York for a few days, I'm in

862
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 4: l a few few days.

863
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: You gonna have to fly the fuck. It is what

864
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 1: it is. Why the fuck would he do that when

865
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: his bitch is there.

866
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 5: I don't you mean to tell me there's no good

867
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:21,959
Speaker 5: pussy there, like pussy pussy is like what the fuck?

868
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: So why would he just be with you at that point?

869
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 4: No niggas can enjoy company with somebody and want to

870
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 4: exchange some energy and it doesn't have to be something after.

871
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,240
Speaker 5: So you like this bitch, So you like the girl,

872
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 5: You want to fly the same girl multiple towns to.

873
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: Be with him. You want to you're every day and

874
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: you're not together. Why so then that's the question for

875
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: a man.

876
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 2: If a man is going through all of those hoops

877
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: and spending time with a woman, why.

878
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: Is he not just committee you think he just laying.

879
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 5: Listen, if a nigga gonna fly you from town to town,

880
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 5: if a nigga gotta show here, fly you somewhere. Now,

881
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 5: it's different. You talking about putting an effort. He putting

882
00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:02,479
Speaker 5: in a lot.

883
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 4: Not like and I'm not trying to say this, I'm

884
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 4: actually really curious. So most of my homeworks have probably

885
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 4: like a roster of bitches right that they like spending

886
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 4: time with.

887
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, they get some new pussy, but for the most part,

888
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: I know the probably like the top three to five

889
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: bitches they fuck with. Do you have a talk three

890
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: to five You're telling me you don't.

891
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 5: Glasses is different. Glass ain't even with none of this

892
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 5: ship no more. No, but I'm saying prime more horrible decisions.

893
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 5: So this is prime glasses speaking. This ain't glasses as

894
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 5: a grown.

895
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 2: Up now, as a grown up, as a.

896
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 3: Grown up, no, not even speaking.

897
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 2: Of a twenty year old.

898
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 5: I'm talking about even prime glasses and thirties like this

899
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 5: was crazy.

900
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: I was so speak for yourself now, don't speak for yourself. Different.

901
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 3: That's not a toxic.

902
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 2: Toxic toxic ads. I'm on tour ass fuck nigga. We

903
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 2: don't want to sit here and be held to any

904
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 2: sort of accountability and want what they want and want

905
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 2: the new ship.

906
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,760
Speaker 1: I'm actually we mature.

907
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 2: Talk about who the fuck you is right now?

908
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 4: Are not?

909
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 1: They just like a roster to me is like, all right,

910
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 1: I'm not women, don't care.

911
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 2: About I don't care about that ship. I want to

912
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: know about grown as adult, who'd have been a boy

913
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 2: to your boy ship? That boys ship?

914
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 5: Because you're so y'all have to funk all these niggas,

915
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 5: y'all to suck all these niggas.

916
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: But if I bitch, I'm a so are y'all girls,

917
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: that's Fiber Horse have been have been okay longest, but.

918
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 2: We've talked about the relationships that we've held in our past.

919
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: Today we're transactional or not. I want to talk to

920
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 2: you now though, as someone who yeah, was like, I'm

921
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 2: not flying no bitch, I'm afery city.

922
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 1: I want to lay up with a bitch.

923
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 2: Do you not like bitches?

924
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: Are you a sexist?

925
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 2: So?

926
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 5: If you have three or five laying up with three

927
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,959
Speaker 5: or five bitches, that's soft and it's weak.

928
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: You're sucking that with five or six bitches, you are

929
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 1: fucking fun. Maybe I don't like game man, this is

930
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: christ I'm telling you, why would you lay up with so?

931
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 4: What?

932
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 2: What's your cap?

933
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: How many bits you lay up with your bitch so?

934
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 1: And then the rest of the bitches you fucking leave?

935
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: That's it? Wow, I'm not that damn.

936
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 2: I think I might be fucking a game bagger.

937
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 3: That's it.

938
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 2: You don't lay up with me?

939
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 5: Why would you lay up with Why would you lay

940
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 5: up with your Why?

941
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: Just have people like the fun?

942
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 4: Right?

943
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 5: Like?

944
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: Okay, for example, there's we used to talk about there's

945
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: a dude that I don't want to be with right now,

946
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: and you be hitting me with that what you're about

947
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: to do.

948
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, I don't even want to say

949
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 4: his name because I don't want to leave. Don't never

950
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 4: say I mean like a nickname, but you know what

951
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 4: I'm talking about.

952
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 1: But anyway, name.

953
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 4: So basically, I know I don't want to be in

954
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 4: a relationship with him.

955
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 1: But we've been fucking for a minute. We don't just fucking.

956
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 1: He's out the door, like you.

957
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 4: Know, we might have dinner together, we might watch the show,

958
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 4: we might kick it that night, wake up together.

959
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 3: Like why you wasting all your lifetime?

960
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 1: Like how it's one night. I don't want to just

961
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: but you've wasted this night multiple times. I'm not wasting

962
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: it at all.

963
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 3: I'm saying, if you know you don't want to be

964
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 3: with him.

965
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed this person.

966
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 2: Question, why don't I want to be with him?

967
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 3: If you really enjoys company, you me all the time,

968
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 3: so why not be with.

969
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 4: I think that sexual compatibility has nothing to do with

970
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 4: long term compatibility.

971
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 3: No, you even said you like him.

972
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 4: I don't think long term would be a good fit.

973
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 4: But that don't mean the nigga ain't cool or he's long.

974
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 3: Term y'all, wol what makes you think long term y'all

975
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 3: wouldn't be a good fit.

976
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 2: I mean the anti kinker.

977
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: No, no, no, this is just probably like too deep for

978
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: this combo.

979
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 4: But there are certain attributes of my life, for our

980
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 4: personalities that just probably would clash in a deeper relationship. However,

981
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 4: I don't really do well with like fuck me and

982
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,720
Speaker 4: get out the door sex, Like just because I'm spending

983
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 4: my time with this nigga, it doesn't mean that we

984
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 4: need to have like something on the dieted line or

985
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 4: something to come after.

986
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: You agree. I spend time with my friends with no

987
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 1: expectations after it too, Totally agree.

988
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 5: It takes a lot to form a bond with no

989
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 5: like you got to a cold different type of motherfucker,

990
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 5: the form of bond with somebody with no possible opportunity

991
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:05,320
Speaker 5: of the future.

992
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: So like, I wish that that's like niggas to me,

993
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: that's what y'all do.

994
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 4: All that maybe felt that way like that from what

995
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 4: you're saying, because I definitely think in my past i've

996
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 4: shared bonds with man i'd be like, damn, you don't

997
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 4: want to date.

998
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: However, I do think.

999
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 4: There's a reality of you can date and it doesn't

1000
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 4: have to be marriage or relationship at the end of it.

1001
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: I think you can enjoy people. I don't know.

1002
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 5: I think so while I understand the thought, right, but

1003
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 5: the reality is it's not like this.

1004
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 3: It's so much you only have to give as a

1005
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 3: human being.

1006
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 2: So let me ask you. I don't see a ring.

1007
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: I don't know how many kids you have, but as

1008
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:47,959
Speaker 2: a woman who does not, literally, my end goal isn't

1009
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 2: oh my god, I want marriage, nor do I want motherhood.

1010
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: But I'm in a space where I want to date

1011
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,400
Speaker 2: and I want to have a partnership or hold space

1012
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,359
Speaker 2: with another person. If you're sitting here saying no, the.

1013
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: End goal, the end goal is, I'm not saying that's

1014
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: the goal, okay.

1015
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 2: So then what what does that look like in dating?

1016
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 2: When your in goal is not what we've been conditioned

1017
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:14,399
Speaker 2: to believe as being marriage, being wifey, being mother If

1018
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 2: those things aren't there, if you're dating someone and those

1019
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 2: things aren't with you, again, I don't see a ring.

1020
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 2: Don't know how many kids you have. I assume a

1021
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:23,239
Speaker 2: lot since you was out of here fucking bitches and

1022
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 2: every other city. But so then, right now, not married,

1023
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 2: no kids. As a man, at whatever age you are,

1024
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 2: What then, would be your end goal to really form

1025
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: a relationship with someone that has substance?

1026
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: What do you what do you mean?

1027
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 3: What's the end? It's not I don't have I don't

1028
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 3: have that.

1029
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: You just question about how we don't.

1030
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 5: We don't share me and you don't share the same sentiments, right, right, one,

1031
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 5: I was always looking to meet the right person.

1032
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 1: Okay, the right person would make you change your mind

1033
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:57,280
Speaker 1: on the things.

1034
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 3: She shares my mind.

1035
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 5: I never had a different mind, Okay, So that's why

1036
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 5: I didn't waste a lot of people time, like, I'm

1037
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 5: not gonna I don't agree with the sentiments of.

1038
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 4: That might be the best thing you've said today, all

1039
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 4: these things together.

1040
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: Anything what you were saying, I'm.

1041
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 5: Just saying all of the things stacked together will make

1042
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 5: sense later, right. But what I'm saying is, what I'm

1043
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 5: saying is that it was never like I was in

1044
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 5: a space where it's like, oh I didn't really want

1045
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 5: to be with nobody.

1046
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 3: It was just I was in the world dealing with y'all.

1047
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 1: So the right person too.

1048
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 4: However, I'm not going to say, because this man may

1049
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 4: not be husband material, that I'm going to completely make

1050
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 4: my life lonely and I can't.

1051
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: Obviously you have a roster. I mean no, I don't know.

1052
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 5: I'm saying if you have multiple guys you're dating, right,

1053
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,439
Speaker 5: because this is kind of the podcast, right, And why

1054
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 5: have this guy that you have no interest in?

1055
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,240
Speaker 3: That was the one thing that.

1056
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 1: I don't want to be.

1057
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 4: For one, I don't think that every time I have

1058
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 4: sex with someone, if there's no future there, I have

1059
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 4: to cut it. And for me, I don't really like

1060
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 4: empty sex. So it's very difficult for me to go

1061
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 4: out and just be like that. Nigga's fine, I'm a

1062
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 4: fucking to night. I need some interest. I ain't doing

1063
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 4: that in the moment.

1064
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 5: Oh, you're kind of fooling yourself, Like you you're kind

1065
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 5: of living in a space where it's like I liking

1066
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 5: but I'm not gonna fuck with him.

1067
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 1: So this makes it open. Why would that mean we're

1068
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: fooling ourselves. We're actually aware of acknowledging that this is

1069
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 1: not a person that in a relationship.

1070
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 2: To be fair, things are different in a romantic relationship

1071
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 2: than it is just a sexual relationship. Like there's like

1072
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 2: there's a person I've been fucking for nine years. I

1073
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,399
Speaker 2: talk about them on the pod, No no, And when

1074
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 2: I tell you, in the very beginning ages of this podcast,

1075
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 2: it was like, you want.

1076
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: To be with him? And I was like, no, I don't.

1077
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: The way we interact outside of the bedroom, his lifestyle,

1078
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: my lifestyle. I never thought it would make for a

1079
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 2: healthy relationship. But sexually we have a bond, we have

1080
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 2: a connection, and it's great and I want that.

1081
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 1: I actually want it forever.

1082
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: It's like crack literally, but I don't want a relationship

1083
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 2: with that man. It's like and so I wouldn't say

1084
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 2: it's like Craig.

1085
00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: I want like, I.

1086
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,280
Speaker 4: Know, I get some crack dick. I'm gonna start looking

1087
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 4: past some ship. He got one leg, he got all.

1088
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 3: I said, go ahead, finished telling me, So nine years

1089
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 3: you fucking but you don't want.

1090
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 1: To be there?

1091
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 2: Yes, And so to me, I.

1092
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: Will you want to be with him? Thinking all agree

1093
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: with Weezy.

1094
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 2: I'll agree with Weezy in the fact that this is

1095
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 2: a relationship that I've acknowledged. I know where it's at.

1096
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 2: We have this type of friendship. We don't need another.

1097
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 2: I think that even we've.

1098
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 1: Out of you try. No, I know we've spent nine

1099
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 1: years around here.

1100
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 4: I'm actually like really confused that you don't have or

1101
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 4: maybe you do, but like you kind of realized that

1102
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 4: wasn't a fit for you.

1103
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: But like women that you just fuck that you enjoy

1104
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: spending time with, that's.

1105
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 5: It's not that because if I don't want to be

1106
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 5: with you and I'm fucking you, you know what I mean,

1107
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 5: No matter how I can't enjoy that much of your time.

1108
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 1: That's a really like inter self aware thing to say.

1109
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 5: That's pretty I'm sober all the time. I never drank,

1110
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 5: I never smoked. I'm always aware of everything going on.

1111
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 5: So what I try my best is if I wouldn't

1112
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 5: fuck with you, you know what I mean, I'm not

1113
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 5: gonna keep fucking, which we've talked about.

1114
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: I need to be around people because girls that just

1115
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: want to dick from you, because I'm sure that's happening,

1116
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: that's just out. Oh that's out. If a woman just

1117
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 1: wants to fuck you, that's just out.

1118
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 5: She's not gonna get no play. Why I just you

1119
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 5: learn the hard way. I mean, there's nothing there because

1120
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 5: don't nobody just want to dig from you?

1121
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 4: That I feel like this is almost something like a

1122
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 4: lot of these views are conflicting because.

1123
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 3: They're not you just you're just not seeing where they

1124
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 3: line up at.

1125
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: Right.

1126
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 3: So if I meet somebody out of town, right, I'm

1127
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 3: not going to meet nobody. I just do l A.

1128
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 5: This is this is an l A Nigga thing. You

1129
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,280
Speaker 5: really feel confident. So we attract women that just sound

1130
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 5: a little more arrogant, but it's true. They got the

1131
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 5: same bring exactly. So we New York and l A

1132
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 5: niggas are really you know, we're arrogant. So we could

1133
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 5: go in Japan and I know I'm gonna get a bitch.

1134
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 5: I don't gotta try.

1135
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1136
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 3: It's not no effort, like I'm gonna sit right there

1137
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 3: and I'm a chilling.

1138
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: Front a woman. But they can't just want because I

1139
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 1: see what it is.

1140
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 2: There's not a level of a he's fucking bitches when

1141
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 2: he's on the road. He said, he's not flying out.

1142
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: You just want to be one of them.

1143
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 2: He's probably not having multiple times with the same woman. Secondly,

1144
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 2: I think that if you're arrogant, if you're confident, the

1145
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: idea that a woman is using you for just the

1146
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 2: thing that's between your legs bothers a fucking man to

1147
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 2: the court where it's like that you're not gonna come

1148
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 2: here and get what you want out of me, because

1149
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: I run this, I'm in charge, and I think and

1150
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 2: there's a level of arrogance.

1151
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:41,839
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I hope you wouldn't let a god

1152
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 5: just use you for I mean, to be honest, No,

1153
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 5: I'm saying, so that's why you should be like, no,

1154
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 5: if a nigga's flying you, like let's say, if it's

1155
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 5: a nigg on tour and he's in La, he called

1156
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 5: you fly you l a Minnesota.

1157
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 1: No.

1158
00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 2: But to be fair, we talk we've talked about this

1159
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 2: as well when women are pop on flights. I've been

1160
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 2: the person, maybe not both of us, I know I've

1161
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: been the person to sit here and say, if you

1162
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 2: hop on a flight, if a man wants to fly

1163
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 2: you out, he's expecting pussy hairs down. And so to

1164
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 2: be very clear, if you're saying that a woman should

1165
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 2: demand more, you know, if a man is paying for

1166
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: a flight, you are expected to fuck him. So I

1167
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 2: will say, then I understand bye bye by that sentiment

1168
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: what you're saying, and so he said fuck that. I

1169
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 2: ain't even gonna sit here and have a bitch be

1170
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 2: expected to fuck me because I'm flying her out. I'm

1171
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 2: gonna be in a city I got, I got swag.

1172
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 2: I ain't even got to speak the language of these bitches,

1173
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna get pussy.

1174
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 1: Want the uh.

1175
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 4: Like for example, I was in San Francisco for our

1176
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 4: show and there was a dude that I didn't work

1177
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 4: out with who was living in LA But I knew

1178
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 4: he moved there for work.

1179
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: I just was in the mood.

1180
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 4: We didn't fuck for male company or even attention, right

1181
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 4: like spending time. I'm not going to move to like

1182
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 4: go trolling for Dick. So I'm like, hey, I'm in town,

1183
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 4: Let's have dinner. I'm enjoying his time. I would not want,

1184
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 4: but like you never wanted the company of most.

1185
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 1: Players ship because you get what you want. In New York,

1186
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: I would call.

1187
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,720
Speaker 3: I would call the New York like pying glasses.

1188
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 2: York give him.

1189
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: He definitely did I feel sleep. But that's what I'm saying.

1190
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 2: So like if he's saying it's player ship is because

1191
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you got what you want,

1192
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,480
Speaker 2: which I think if we see here and listen to

1193
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 2: really what he's saying, he gets what he wants out

1194
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 2: of relationships and that's where he's comfortable. A woman is

1195
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 2: not going to get anything more because he's confusing them.

1196
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to mislead him that.

1197
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 2: He doesn't want to mislead him, which I got, which

1198
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 2: I respect that very much, which he doesn't want to

1199
00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:46,839
Speaker 2: mislead him. But also because he's arrogant, he don't want

1200
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 2: to feel used that he's showing up for the pleasure

1201
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 2: of someone else when he really.

1202
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: She's going to take me. Before you get this to

1203
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 1: the head, I'm weak.

1204
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 2: Glasses.

1205
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 1: I do want you to help us with our home mail.

1206
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 2: Is God damn, we didn't flipped in and out of everything,

1207
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 2: and there are questions for this one. So I want

1208
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 2: you to help us with this. Hey, ladies, I'm a

1209
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 2: previous homemailer. You read my last mail on the Daniel

1210
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 2: Saint episode, the email homemail. If you want to send

1211
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 2: it in a homemail, please send it to Horrible Decisions

1212
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com.

1213
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 5: Got wholemail dot com. You need to start that hoolemail

1214
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 5: dot commail dot com.

1215
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 2: Listen, we get a lot of it.

1216
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: Hold on.

1217
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 2: So this this particular homemailer said that we read her

1218
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 2: email on Daniel st episode, which I want to say

1219
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 2: was last year, I was the one with the bisexual,

1220
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:44,360
Speaker 2: drug addicted boyfriend. Quick update, quick update that relationship end

1221
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 2: it horribly shocker lol. And now he's having a baby

1222
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 2: with a white woman.

1223
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: Yay for them. So here's my plot twist.

1224
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 2: Since then, over the past two years, I have found

1225
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 2: my place in the fetish community.

1226
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: Men pay me to let them play with my and

1227
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: tickle me.

1228
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 2: It's a nice little side gig that has allowed me

1229
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 2: to put money aside that I was able to use

1230
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 2: to start my own small business a few months ago.

1231
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 2: And now I'm in the process of buying my first home.

1232
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 2: Now here comes the tricky part. Off the feet, I

1233
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 2: met a new guy. He's actually great on paper and off,

1234
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 2: and I think we might end up making it official

1235
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 2: before the holidays. The problem is he has no idea

1236
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 2: that I have this other life which I have continued

1237
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 2: to live while we've been non exclusively dating. Here are

1238
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 2: my questions. When do I tell him Two how much

1239
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 2: of his opinion do I take into consideration if he

1240
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 2: isn't supportive. Three if he isn't supportive, do I tell

1241
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 2: him that he needs to make up for the lost income?

1242
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 2: As in, she'll she'll be in a place where she

1243
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 2: decides to leave this to be with him.

1244
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:56,240
Speaker 1: That was what number?

1245
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 2: That was three. I don't mind stopping altogether, but I'm

1246
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 2: not ready to give up the extra income while I'm

1247
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 2: getting my business off the ground and buying a home.

1248
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 2: I would say it would be a help the next

1249
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 2: six months tops. However, I also don't want to lose

1250
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 2: him over something. I know all stop doing one day

1251
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 2: help as always. Thank you, ladies for all that you do,

1252
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 2: and can't wait to see you soon. Signed a conflicted three.

1253
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: You ain't about to take me out the strip club

1254
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:26,240
Speaker 2: with no job, Okay, so you answered the number three?

1255
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 2: Number three? Is you gonna keep doing what you're doing

1256
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 2: because it's extra money? And if you not go make

1257
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 2: up for it, I'm gonna still keep doing it.

1258
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: I'll never forget Hospital Dick. Only man I ever been

1259
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: in love with like that. That's the only man like that,

1260
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 1: the one who left us with a lot of niggas.

1261
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,879
Speaker 3: No I say that, y'all talk like y'all ain't really

1262
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:45,359
Speaker 3: been in love.

1263
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: Oh, absolutely the best thing in the world. When I

1264
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:51,399
Speaker 1: was in love with him, I was.

1265
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 3: Hospital man, Hospital Dick.

1266
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I flip my hair like that. I didn't get

1267
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: put in the hospital.

1268
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 4: Another bitch did so Anyway, basically, we had a conversation

1269
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 4: about my TV show, Sex Cells, and I remember thinking like, yo,

1270
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 4: by season two, like I want to be pregnant da

1271
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 4: and he was like no, right, like that's not gonna happen.

1272
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, well, I'm signing a contract on to do

1273
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 4: more seasons, like it's literally in there by the way,

1274
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 4: season three streaming now a few TV uh literally this

1275
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 4: was before.

1276
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: Season won even happened.

1277
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 4: And he said that's not happening, like I don't want

1278
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 4: you doing this while you know you're carrying my seat,

1279
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 4: Like are you crazy? And I remember thinking like okay,

1280
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 4: so I can't make a hundred grand from this ship,

1281
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 4: but you gonna do what replace it?

1282
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: Like nigga, I'm building a fucking life for myself. Horror over.

1283
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 1: This is how he knew me when I walked into

1284
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 1: the place that we met, Like, literally, this is my brand,

1285
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do to replace it? And

1286
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: I'm not selling my feet or stripping in the club,

1287
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: But like, I can't imagine if she's selling her fitting

1288
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: getting tickled.

1289
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm saying, like I think about the strip

1290
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 4: club a lot, because that's normally a job where we

1291
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:59,240
Speaker 4: hear men want to stop women. I could not imagine

1292
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 4: a man telling me to stop my job with no

1293
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 4: replacement and trust me as somebody wants.

1294
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 2: To be fair for this specific person. This is extra income.

1295
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:09,879
Speaker 2: This is extra income that just.

1296
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 1: Brought a house from it.

1297
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 2: Well, she's she's working on buying a house, but this

1298
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 2: is the extra income. She's literally saying, this is extra income.

1299
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 2: I don't want to lose now because I want to

1300
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 2: buy out.

1301
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 1: I don't care she has another job.

1302
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: She has another job, but this is extra income that

1303
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 2: is essentially considered sex work and likes the man.

1304
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: Not let that nigga stop you. I would love you.

1305
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 2: I would love to hear your thoughts glasses because wow,

1306
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 2: your thoughts.

1307
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: She's selling she is No, she's a sex work, yes,

1308
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: but there are layers and levels to this.

1309
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 2: She is not being penetrated or going out as a

1310
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 2: street walker.

1311
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 3: Like and we shouldn't have the heart.

1312
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,280
Speaker 1: There shouldn't be a she's well, I mean.

1313
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 5: Because like, let's say men are rubbing dick against her feet.

1314
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 5: Is she a prostitute?

1315
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 4: I think if he comes into meeting clients, that could

1316
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 4: be like I could see maybe someone being.

1317
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: But for a photo.

1318
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 4: Let me see what it says she doing with no face,

1319
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,399
Speaker 4: no case, nigga, get over it or like come up

1320
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 4: with the money.

1321
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 3: Well, that's my point.

1322
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 5: So I would like to believe that it's not just

1323
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 5: emailing feet like, because if it's just emailing feats, she

1324
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 5: shouldn't tell she.

1325
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 2: Said, men pay me, wait where we go?

1326
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,439
Speaker 1: Here we go, not photos.

1327
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 2: Men pay me to let them play with my feet

1328
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 2: and the Okay, wait, this is an in person thing.

1329
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 2: This is not photos that may be further than only fans.

1330
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 2: This is the in person I still have my strip

1331
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:48,719
Speaker 2: club theory though. There's what I'm talk to me.

1332
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 4: When you're interacting with other people, I can understand somebody

1333
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 4: getting uncomfortable. For example, with this podcast, I don't feel

1334
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 4: like I have to touch anybody. I don't have to

1335
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 4: do anything. So if you don't even talking about sex,

1336
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 4: get over it. If I have to show up somewhere,

1337
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 4: if my safety could be put at risk, if you're

1338
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 4: uncomfortable knowing that there's an in person meetup, Yes, somebody's

1339
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 4: allowed to have a say and when whether they can

1340
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 4: handle this like a hierarchy to again, no, but like

1341
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 4: I do think interaction in person is like here.

1342
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 5: But it's not just I don't think men's whole fear

1343
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 5: of strip clubs is dangerous, right, danger Well, what you.

1344
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: Said is the attention though you're different man, and how

1345
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: they see your seeing your woman. Right.

1346
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 5: So that's why somebody could be with you and be

1347
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 5: on you and be like, I don't want you talk

1348
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:37,120
Speaker 5: about all the niggas you fucked on his podcast, because

1349
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 5: he's going to introduce you to his friends as this girl,

1350
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,959
Speaker 5: and it's like you just this big old whore.

1351
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 1: It just glasses.

1352
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,319
Speaker 2: We're gonna run down the list. We're gonna run down

1353
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 2: the list. Her questions are when should she tell him?

1354
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 2: At what point should she tell him that she's engaging

1355
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 2: in sex work for us?

1356
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: Talking? How long a year?

1357
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 3: It doesn't say she should have first told him, She should.

1358
00:56:58,040 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: Have said it immediately.

1359
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 2: Okay, So if they're talking now and she's really starting

1360
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 2: to like him, do you think it's too late for

1361
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:04,359
Speaker 2: her to tell him?

1362
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: Oh, it ain't too late.

1363
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, you know he's

1364
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 5: gonna have some kickback with you being a prostitute meet clients.

1365
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 2: He's about to see why he changed so easy this

1366
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 2: is to you, how much of his opinion should he

1367
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 2: take into consideration if he's not supportive?

1368
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:23,320
Speaker 1: Is that her means? This is if he's not supportive,

1369
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: she has.

1370
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 2: Continued to live while they've been non exclusively dating. So

1371
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 2: they're just dating right now.

1372
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: So that Nigga don't want to be with you, but

1373
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: you want to be with him.

1374
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,040
Speaker 4: Nigg he gonna help try to blame you and say, oh,

1375
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 4: but you do the foot thing.

1376
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: That's why I can't be.

1377
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:40,920
Speaker 2: What you have to see in a.

1378
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: Year that Nigga would have been with you.

1379
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 2: Now here's my question then to both of you. The

1380
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 2: last question was if he isn't supportive, should she tell

1381
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 2: him that she would stop if he makes up for

1382
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 2: the lost income. He's not even your man, Okay.

1383
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 3: But that's the point. I think that she wants to be.

1384
00:57:58,600 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 3: She knows he's about to ask.

1385
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 4: I'll say this though, I do think that there's some

1386
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 4: compromise in a relationship where like, if I was seeing

1387
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 4: someone that I really cared about and they didn't want

1388
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:10,959
Speaker 4: me to do something or maybe felt like that hindered

1389
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 4: us from a relationship, I would consider stopping if it

1390
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 4: was something like that.

1391
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: But that ain't the reason.

1392
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 4: But just if it's been let's just say a year,

1393
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 4: and he still ain't with you, and then he found

1394
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 4: out about these.

1395
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: Fees, or she could just continue to be in this

1396
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:29,320
Speaker 2: situationship because she said she would only be doing this

1397
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 2: for six months. Tips she wants to get the house,

1398
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 2: she wants to do those things.

1399
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: It's giving a stripper.

1400
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's fine. I think it's fine.

1401
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 2: You got if you got time, you gotta sign frame,

1402
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 2: and you want to buy his house, and you want

1403
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,919
Speaker 2: to save a certain amount of money because you plan

1404
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 2: to get out of this lifestyle and you're saying you

1405
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 2: have a date to get out. You could also just

1406
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 2: remain dating this man without letting him know everything out

1407
00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 2: the gate, especially if this is a lifestyle that you

1408
00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 2: choose to leave. T I don't go into and being like, yeah,

1409
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 2: I used to have a sugar daddy, he helped me

1410
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 2: through college, he used I used to have sex for money.

1411
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 2: That's not that's not. I feel like that you have

1412
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 2: to tell you anybody. So if you feel like you're

1413
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: about to get out, I genuinely think that.

1414
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 4: Jairo I know you about to get out, Like she's

1415
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 4: trapping them feet.

1416
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: Noo get out.

1417
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 3: I agree, sometimes people are a bit too forthcoming.

1418
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: Agreed.

1419
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 4: I got a homegirl, I'm right, And she said, listen

1420
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 4: once this baby come like, you can't be trapping no more.

1421
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: I know that's why.

1422
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 2: He was like, that's getting BMF all day.

1423
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 4: Are you gonna wait for me while I'm taking, like

1424
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 4: figuring out a job. Are you gonna hold us down? Well,

1425
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 4: I'm getting a job. And she was like, we talked

1426
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 4: about it. This was a minute ago, but I remember

1427
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 4: her being like, fuck no, he's a grown ass man.

1428
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 4: And I'm like, bro, he's a grown ass nigga that's

1429
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 4: been selling cocaine for I mean, he's thirty five.

1430
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 1: Like, how could you say no, I ain't gonna.

1431
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 2: Hold you, Lise. He's selling coke. I know, homegirl dating

1432
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 2: the nigga that was selling weed, and he's got damn dispensaries,

1433
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 2: just sucking up his business.

1434
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: So I'm just like, bitch was a nigga.

1435
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 2: Eleven years ago.

1436
01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna dropped that nigga. The market price for this

1437
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: weed is crazy, now, you know what?

1438
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 5: She shouldn't say nothing, Just chill out, get your little money,

1439
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 5: get out of it, don't tell point is like.

1440
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 1: For real, I told her she should be helping that

1441
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:20,919
Speaker 1: nigga if she really wants them to get another job.

1442
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 4: You met him selling coke and you was cool with

1443
01:00:22,840 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 4: that ship. We was popping bottle bit and how you not?

1444
01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 5: I'm not mad? She right, She right for saying what

1445
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 5: she's saying. And he's supposed to feel I was supposed

1446
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 5: to feel. I mean again, sometimes we get too deep,

1447
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 5: like I was just saying to you, Sometimes we get

1448
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 5: too deep into the ship and we be so far

1449
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 5: in and we get fucked up because we go too far.

1450
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 5: Like there's no way if if you don't want a

1451
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 5: nigga that sail cocaine, why is you sucking a nigga that?

1452
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 2: And if you don't want to if you don't want

1453
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 2: a sex worker, if you don't want a nigga that.

1454
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 5: Just drop them and don't call them. But all right,

1455
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 5: all right, but that's my point, Like you got like,

1456
01:00:58,080 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 5: and I agree with you. Niggas, she'd have made a

1457
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 5: baby your bad, just like these will find these strippers

1458
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 5: and then try to pull him off the club.

1459
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 3: Bro, why did you keep sucking this bitch? Flying her

1460
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 3: the country?

1461
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 2: Right classes alone? You have a lot to say. Where

1462
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 2: can the people tune into you. What do you have

1463
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: going on?

1464
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 5: Because you have your podcast about feel this is positive

1465
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 5: advice for people.

1466
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 2: You know, I told you he is a part of.

1467
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 1: I know.

1468
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 5: I just don't shoot Mine is all audio. It's all audio. Yeah,

1469
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 5: No Seller's podcast. It's really good. It's fun, it's interesting.

1470
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: What's it about. We try to explore life, the darkest

1471
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:44,840
Speaker 1: parts of it.

1472
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 5: And I give you a flash like to help you

1473
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 5: see like I was doing for y'all, just showing you how.

1474
01:01:49,640 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 1: No, like showing you how.

1475
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 5: I didn't say that. So no Sealers podcast every Tuesday.

1476
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 5: I heart for me. I just dropped a new album, family,

1477
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. I just dropped Cancel these nuts.

1478
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 5: It's a mass. It's a song when.

1479
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: Called miss California.

1480
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 2: Everyone, so a lot of my my team is here today.

1481
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 2: But when I DZ nuts everything, so cancel D's nuts.

1482
01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 2: I know.

1483
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 3: That's mister California.

1484
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:17,920
Speaker 5: That celebrates the fact that when I used to travel

1485
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 5: and have holes in different cities, that was my thing.

1486
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 3: Indeed, I wouldn't have to fly him anywhere because they

1487
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:23,080
Speaker 3: would be there.

1488
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I got a random question that just came out.

1489
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: Mind uh.

1490
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 4: I was on YouTube trying to make an outline for

1491
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 4: Mandy and I just thinking about all the red pill

1492
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 4: content for people that don't know what that means. It's

1493
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 4: basically just like you got to get better. So there's

1494
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 4: a lot of like where to meet a man?

1495
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: Content? And the man that content comes from? No men?

1496
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 1: So is a man that's lived some life? You live

1497
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: in la. Where would you suggest.

1498
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:50,919
Speaker 4: Women to go out and meet somebody? How can these

1499
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 4: girls step out into the world.

1500
01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 3: Do they really like to meet dick or to meet

1501
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 3: a man?

1502
01:02:56,000 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 1: A man? A man when money see.

1503
01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 2: Love that and good looking?

1504
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 5: If I had if I had a daughter, ride a

1505
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 5: daughter and she was twenty, and I'll say, well, she

1506
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 5: about to say church no, no, because.

1507
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 2: Them niggas in church be oh my, they be satan bitch.

1508
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:24,919
Speaker 1: You know what you good?

1509
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 2: Question right?

1510
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,400
Speaker 1: Look at you, yump. You about to bring it back

1511
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: to no ceilings.

1512
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 5: Because it gets crazy, right the more you think about it,

1513
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 5: it's like it's where would I tell you to find

1514
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:33,200
Speaker 5: a nigga?

1515
01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 3: Oh, well, it's not gonna happen.

1516
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 2: That is what it's given.

1517
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 5: It's not gonna happen because it's that's what it's given. Yeah,

1518
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 5: like me and they mature like we mature at our

1519
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 5: own time.

1520
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:46,920
Speaker 2: Y'all mature at one hundred. I was just with a

1521
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 2: fifty year old and not mature. So what we doing?

1522
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 3: Why would you mature when there's people?

1523
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 5: Okay, if pussy is why mature? Why would you mature?

1524
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,760
Speaker 5: With pussy is so easy? This I could pussy is

1525
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 5: so low. You can just fly me somewhere and get pussy,

1526
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 5: which he said, that's why he doesn't do it. Why

1527
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 5: would you sure? What's the point of matraun with pussy

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Speaker 5: is so convenient.

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Speaker 4: Because you probably want more from that, like a relationship.

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Speaker 1: You want something fulfilling. I keep it.

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Speaker 4: Episode is the clip why the most successful people in

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Speaker 4: the world, excuse me, successful men in the world are married.

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Speaker 4: It's actually the all, but that marriage literally brings not

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Speaker 4: only stability, but a different outlook on the type of

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Speaker 4: life that you should be living. For example, one of

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Speaker 4: my homeboys, who makes crazy amount of money, told me

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Speaker 4: that marriage taught him that investment was a real thing.

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01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 4: He said that he was having so many experiences with

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Speaker 4: women that had nothing to do with building, and that

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Speaker 4: marriage taught him that life was worth.

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Speaker 3: Was investing time into. Too many people.

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Speaker 1: Boo just fucking hole.

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Speaker 2: But not only that, I will also say in terms

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Speaker 2: of men the same way that there's about you the

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01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:02,520
Speaker 2: same when this value of being called a wife. Men,

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01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 2: when they become successful, it's almost shunned upon for them

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Speaker 2: to be single. So it's the same thing. Damn, I

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Speaker 2: finally made it out and got some money.

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Speaker 5: Let me think, I think all this shit got to

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Speaker 5: be personal motivation. And I think the person I am

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01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 5: today is because who I want to be. So the

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Speaker 5: person who I was is because that's the person I was.

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01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 5: Even then, if I was looking for a wife, it'd

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Speaker 5: probably be different versus now where you know what I mean,

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01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:25,919
Speaker 5: I found a person in it as simple as that.

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Speaker 5: It's just simple. It's not deep. I'm everybody who I'm

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Speaker 5: the person I want to be. So I'm not on

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Speaker 5: anybody else's clock. I wasn't on those girls clocks when

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Speaker 5: I'm in Japan. I didn't shut them out. I thought

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Speaker 5: they could have been somebody. No, no, I'm saying this

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Speaker 5: is a perfect.

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Speaker 2: Still remember her.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing.

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Speaker 2: You don't want to admit.

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Speaker 1: It's Japan everything.

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Speaker 5: Listen, I don't have a ton of horrible sexual experiences. Okay,

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Speaker 5: so I don't have Like what y'all, I don't have

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01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 5: a dick out of aachina.

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Speaker 1: I have a You know what I mean? Is he

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Speaker 1: gonna know every time.

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Speaker 3: You feel me like you going back? You're like ninety

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Speaker 3: eight out of one hundred.

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Speaker 1: You know, I mean, like I really can't say him.

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Speaker 1: I hate him. I know, I know it's not fair.

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Speaker 1: It's there. You can get there. Yeah, no advice to

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01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: get women at all. Don't get a nigga. You won't

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01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:19,200
Speaker 1: push this stock.

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Speaker 5: You know what my advice would be, stop putting out

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01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 5: till you get married.

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Speaker 1: Make somebody marry. You can get the pus got need to.

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Speaker 3: That's the That's the greatest advice I give you.

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01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 1: Give me a pushy away. That's the greatest advice I got.

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01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 4: Hug.

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Speaker 2: You know what, y'all Glasses malone, y'all, No cealings.

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Speaker 5: Podcast and nuts or go to the cripstore dot com

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Speaker 5: and coffee.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, no, go to the crippstore dot com.

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Speaker 5: Get the new album Castile these nuts and I'm going

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01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 5: to get them on no ceilings, So y'all, make y'all

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Speaker 5: check that out.

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Speaker 2: And also, y'all look out this. So he had me

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Speaker 2: a little.

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Speaker 5: Cassette the USB p what this Yeah, this is really clever.

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Speaker 5: I Finals cassettes, casett USB CDs. Support the real man, fuck.

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Speaker 1: The fake, Support the real, Fuck the fake. That's what

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Speaker 1: you said. Boom.

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