1 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: What's up? Y'all's your girl? Lis Pete and East your girl? 2 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 2: Dre in the call and you are tuned in to 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 2: another episode of. 4 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 3: Poor Mine, where drunk Mine speaks sober thought. 5 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 4: What's up? 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 3: Girl? 7 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: You the you was gonna say that? You say that. 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 3: That I see see round town. Stop playing with her? 9 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: You say these sheet every damn time, playing with the girl. 10 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 3: Get a new line. You eating the mug? Get a 11 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 3: new line. I get your plate because you eating the mud? 12 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: You tell that, you tear that out? 13 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 3: Why are you sobering like that every time? 14 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: Every time I see somebody y'all in they're eating I 15 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: just want. 16 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 3: To say that. That's what I told. 17 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: What you're doing with the drinks, That's what I told, 18 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: mister Cabo you now sorry, sorry too far? 19 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 4: What you did this weekend? 20 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 3: Girl? 21 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: Okay, I see where this is going. Okay, what did 22 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: I do this weekend? 23 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 3: I went on a little day yesterday. 24 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 2: How was it? 25 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 3: It was cute? 26 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: You know, it was different than what I normally do 27 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: right right right, so I kind of wasn't feeling it, 28 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: but it was cute. 29 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 3: I liked the e for effort. Like, what did y'all do? 30 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 3: We went to the fair that's a cute day beach. 31 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 3: It was a little human outside. I wasn't feeling that sheet. Now. 32 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: If it was a little more breezy, like, I could 33 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: have worked with you, but it was humid as fuck. 34 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 3: I just felt like sticky like. But it was cute though. 35 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 3: Did you play cornhole? No, they didn't have cornhole. It 36 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 3: was a weak ass fair by the way. 37 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: I was about the same if they would have had corner. 38 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 1: It ain't got she on the Houston rodeo right of course, 39 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: and of course like no fear has well the Dallas 40 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: Dallas Dallas faird be lead. And then I heard that 41 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: they be having one in Minnesota. That's like Minnesota. Yeah, 42 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: well you know if Europe is from Minnesota. 43 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: They got niggas. Yeah, Europe is from Minnesota. We might 44 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 3: have to go to Minnesota. Dolda, it's from i Owe 45 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 3: the Vikings there and Prince from Minnesota. 46 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 4: They got niggas. 47 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, Minnesota, Minnesota, they got like a little 48 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,080 Speaker 1: weird little ex But so are. 49 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 3: You gonna give him a nickname or not yet? Not yet? 50 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 3: Not yet. We have fun. 51 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: He won me a little bear. Were playing like a 52 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 1: little balloon game. We gotta pop the balloon. 53 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 4: That is like a movie. 54 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 3: He won me a little bear. 55 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: I had some nachos. That's why I said that she 56 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: was weak. They didn't have no fucking turkey legs, beach, 57 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: no sausage on the steak, nothing. 58 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 3: You know, I love a sausage on the steak. We 59 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: just love the saucy a period. 60 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: But yes, girl, they didn't have none of that ship. 61 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: They just had not y'alls popcorn like little shit. 62 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 3: Little like sacks came. Yeah. 63 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: I was trying to really trying to tear that out. 64 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: Nothing to tell up. 65 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: So yeah, so you know, we stayed there for a 66 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: little beer and it was cute, and then we went 67 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: to this place called Tom dickon Hanks afterwards. I had 68 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: never heard of these. It's a barbecue, but it's a 69 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: little barbecue spot. Now they had a turkey leg It 70 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: was good. I ain't have ship on the hood, but 71 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: it was good. 72 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 2: What size did they have? You know, I like the size. 73 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 2: Now they have some beans. 74 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: They did have beans, but I didn't get the beans. 75 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: You know, I love me a baked bean, all that 76 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: beautiful bean. 77 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 3: You don't play with my baked beans. They have some 78 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 3: ba beans. They did have baked beans, but I didn't 79 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 3: get baked bean beans. Be making me a little gigs, 80 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 3: that's all right. And I was on the date. I 81 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 3: couldn't be fearting. 82 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 5: That's all right. 83 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 3: Girls that get you get y'all comfortable. 84 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: So anyway, so I had got like the Calli Greens 85 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: and the maca cheese. 86 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 3: The mac and cheese was nasty, but the Coli Greens 87 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: was good. See, I hate it. I never have really 88 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: had like restaurants. It wasn't nasty. 89 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 2: It just wasn't busted, but it wasn't. It's just no 90 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 2: matter what restaurants you go to, it's not gonna taste 91 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: like homemade mac and gees say nothing like my making gene. 92 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 2: I know which one both of us period. 93 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: Okay, so this weekend, y'all are going to be so 94 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: surprised at who I saw this weekend. It's so crazy 95 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 1: because out of all the characters I've talked about on 96 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 1: the show, this is the most talked about person on 97 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 1: the show. 98 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: Y'all still bring him up. We went out with Nigerian 99 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 2: Bay this weekend. 100 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,679 Speaker 1: I forgot about that, But you think he's the most 101 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: talked about character. 102 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: I feel like people talking, well, no, I say he's 103 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: the second most rapper. Bay is definitely number one, but 104 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 2: you know, we set him free. He's no longer here. 105 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 3: We had to let god I had her free. 106 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: Say yes, but Na Jerian base is probably the second 107 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 1: most talked about because I think they liked it just 108 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: because everybody just loved my Lego s trip. 109 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, Like I had such 110 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: a good time. It was something fresh and new, like 111 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: it was just cool. But anyways, so I saw Nigerian 112 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: Baite this weekend. We went and watched the fight and 113 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 2: we had a good time. 114 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: But I will say, it's just like I feel like 115 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,239 Speaker 1: we're like homies now. 116 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 3: It was given homie b It was definitely. 117 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,839 Speaker 1: Given homie by Viob's like he's so cool. It was 118 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: nice to see him. 119 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: But it's just crazy how it was just like because 120 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 2: nothing happened. Honestly, the only reason we fell off is 121 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: because of the pandemic, Like we just weren't seeing each 122 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: other and so it was It's not no bad blood 123 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 2: at all, but it was definitely homie vibes. 124 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: Like sometimes it'd be like that though, like you know 125 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like she'd be all good and then 126 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: one day you wake up and like the spark just 127 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 1: ain't there. 128 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I won't say the spark just wasn't there. 129 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 2: It was just like I was way in Atlanta, he 130 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 2: was way you know where he was at, and it 131 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: was just kind of like we just fell off and 132 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie right now, bitch, I'm. 133 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 3: So far up mister cobo ass? You is it all? 134 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 3: It's my mean, if. 135 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: He opened his mouth and Burt, you're gonna hear me 136 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 1: say I'm dead. Like that's how far up his ass? 137 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: I am, like, I love, that's my man. When love so, 138 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 3: I feel like I. 139 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,799 Speaker 1: Hear about Miss the Cabo like fifty times a day. 140 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 4: I mean, you know it's a good it's a good 141 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 4: it is. 142 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: I mean like that when I like, you know, you 143 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: don't hear about money. But yeah, so we went and 144 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: we watched the fight. We saw Wilder get his ass 145 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: knocked out again. How many times are you gonna let 146 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: somebody be your ass? If I get my ass beat once, 147 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm not coming back for more. 148 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 3: I mean it's a little different when you make money. 149 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 3: I mean I don't give a fuck. 150 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,719 Speaker 1: Okay, So he came back the second time, got his ass, 151 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: be you coming back for. 152 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 3: The third one. How many times you're gonna get your 153 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 3: ass beat? Maybe he gonna win. He did it, we 154 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 3: saw it. I'm saying, maybe he gonna win the next time. 155 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 2: It ain't gonna be no next time. 156 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: At this point, fear it needs to tell him, you 157 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,479 Speaker 1: know what, Bro, I'm tired of knocking your ass out. 158 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 3: But you can't lie though it was a good fight. 159 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 3: No it wasn't. I mean good in the sense of 160 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 3: like we didn't know who was gonna win. Water was 161 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 3: like this the whole time. He wasn't like that the 162 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 3: whole time. 163 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: It was one point where he had made a little 164 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: comeback and I thought he was gonna, you know, take 165 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: that niggard out the game. 166 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 3: No you did not, Yes, I did, Bro. He had 167 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 3: knocked him down on the ground. 168 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: He did, he did if you' he was down there 169 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: like the little bird line around his head. Everybody that 170 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: Martin episode when he was boxing he fell out. 171 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 3: Was out of line for this sheep. 172 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: But no, why his head was so I'm not I 173 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: was actually because I don't think I watched the first 174 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: two fights with Wilder and Fury, but I will say 175 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: I was shocked at how bad built Fury was. 176 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 3: He looked like me before I got. 177 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: Because he looked man because I mean, he had no wada, 178 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: has a nice body. 179 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: He let a bad built nigga. Whoop your ass? That 180 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: nigga ain't he was. 181 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 3: First of all, bad built people be bullies. Sisters points 182 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 3: were made. Bad Bill. 183 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: People can fight Bill. Bad Bill people be bullies. They 184 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: be mad as hell because they bad Bill. 185 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 3: Why can't I fight? Then? You ain't bad I used 186 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: to be, though I used to be. I can't throwing 187 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: the men. That's what I throw. 188 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 1: The knock that's what knocking the mind. Well, I would 189 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: say the fight was. 190 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 2: I felt like, like I said, it looked like it 191 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 2: was me and you fighting nothing. It was just like 192 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 2: very It was very sloppy. 193 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 3: It was very like it was just a weird fighter 194 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 3: because I'm little. I mean, I mean. 195 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: Like oh nine, who was like two thousand and eight? 196 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: Who you was fighting this beach at my school. 197 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 3: There was haten on me. Real beat you will past? 198 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 3: Yeah I did. Actually, I don't believe you. 199 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 1: You need more people, more people. 200 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 3: It's okay, I believe Jess. She will tell you. I 201 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: will that whole ag. Okay. I got in two fights. Actually, 202 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: back to that like two years in a row. You 203 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 3: know what. 204 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: I believe that because honestly, you had so much growth 205 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: in the past year. But you are very fucking tasty. 206 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: Yes, you trying to fight me, Okay, I did not 207 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 3: try to fight. Always tell you and I did not 208 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 3: try to just wanted you to leave my house. Was honestly, 209 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 3: we can take it there. 210 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: Honestly, le, we can take it there because if you 211 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: want to, it ain't nothing. 212 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 3: I got bail money, Beach. I was like, I don't please, 213 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 3: because if. 214 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 1: I had the whoop your ass, I damn sure it 215 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 1: wouldn't gonna bail you out. 216 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 3: Well, no, I don't know. 217 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely had, you know, a few fights in 218 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: high school. 219 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 3: But I. 220 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: I just don't believe in fighting. I feel like when 221 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: you're a cute girl, like, why is you gonna be 222 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: out here fighting? And then we talked about that episode 223 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: bitch just want to fuck you up, like we just 224 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: try to cut you, lash your face, all type of 225 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: sh We. 226 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 2: Talked about that in the past episode where we're. 227 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 3: Like, now I got security, so I wish a hole. 228 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 3: I know, that's right. 229 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: We talked about that in the past episode because we 230 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 2: were saying, like you can be too pretty to fight 231 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 2: and the girls was mad. They was like, no, I'm 232 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 2: pretty as fuck, but you're not gonna disrespect me. 233 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 3: I was like, well that's questionable. 234 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, hold on, Mike Tyson, hold on, let's. 235 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 3: Back it up a little bit. 236 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: I just yeah, I just feel like, you know, and 237 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: it's also just depending on your growth as a person, 238 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: and I feel like the things that you have going 239 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: on in your life, Like at this point in my life, 240 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: I just feel like, why would I ever? 241 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 3: Like what would ever be the reason why? Right? Yeah? 242 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 3: Or man like what would because the reason for me? 243 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like, Okay, so I have a friend 244 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: that likes to fight. Still, yeah, like she gonna get 245 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: in your face and you know what I'm saying, be 246 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 1: real sassy with it. 247 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 2: So we was at the club. When we was at 248 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 2: the club in Nigerian Bay watching the fight, there was 249 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: this girl behind. 250 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 3: You remember the hookah girl. 251 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: The girl was getting so mad and just being so 252 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: mean to the waitress. 253 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: She was yelling in my ear. She wasn't really talking 254 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 3: to me. 255 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 2: But I feel like sometimes people fight like instances like that, 256 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 2: Like if your friend Jazz would have been sitting there, 257 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: she probably would have went off on her. 258 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, my best friends. 259 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 2: She she wanted them. 260 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,439 Speaker 1: She stilled to the day like she don't play this. 261 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 1: She she'd be ready to ready to fight, ready to fight. 262 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 3: She was great. Yeah. 263 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: So it was just like she kept being like, h 264 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 2: you brought my wrong hookah. First of all, once you 265 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 2: get drunken, little tipsy, oh hookah tastes the same. 266 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 3: It could mean fucking apple mint, chocolate me, chocolate men, 267 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 3: watermelon mint, dick ball. You gonna smoke the ship. You 268 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 3: don't know what you fucking it's remember the chocolate meat 269 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 3: it we do. 270 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 2: It's gonna be some people that remember that chocolate mint 271 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: I did, and I. 272 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 3: Did it again, and I'll do it again. Y'all your 273 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 3: girl their feet and east and the call. 274 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: Did you know that if you have an okay credit 275 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 2: score and it's not perfect, it can cost you one 276 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: hundred grand over the life of a thirty year home lone's. 277 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 3: I did know that. That's why people so that they 278 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 3: can give the credit score up. 279 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: You know, the average user at sixty one point to 280 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: their credit score in twenty days. 281 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 2: And I know y'all been getting used to everything that's 282 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: going on with COVID. 283 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 3: The injured. 284 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 2: Rates went low, but. 285 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 3: That's not gonna last for long. 286 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: So before you apply, you're gonna visit scoremaster dot com 287 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: and at point Chris Cord real fast. Okay, Yeah, you 288 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: can maintain and prefect your credit for twenty four seven. 289 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 3: And also you can get on as well. 290 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: So you're gonna visit score master dot com, slash foremnds. 291 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: That's scoremaster dot com Slash four minds. 292 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 3: To get started today, get your credit up well. 293 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 2: Anyways, so I feel like, uh she would. She just 294 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 2: kept like complaining about the hookah they brought her right hookah. 295 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 3: When they brought it, she was like, I'm not paying 296 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 3: for this, it's not pulling. 297 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,079 Speaker 1: She was like, okay, let me bring you know that 298 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: brought her another one she was smoking and they was 299 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: like okay, like you ready to pay for it? She 300 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,439 Speaker 1: didn't want to pay for it, but mind jen a 301 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: section full of niggas not why are you not Jerryan's 302 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 1: at that. 303 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 3: I said, Oh, you ain't got it like that. Why 304 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 3: are you even here? You don't even go here. 305 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 1: You don't even go here, because why are you even paying? 306 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 3: Full of men and your paying. 307 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 1: But it was obvious because her attitude was so nasty. 308 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 3: Some girls having nasty as attitude. It was just very 309 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 3: ugly and I just don't understand. It's like when you're 310 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 3: going beach, we exactly what you gotta edit two pol. 311 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 2: She had to pay for her hookah. 312 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 3: But that's why. That's what I'm saying. If you were 313 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 3: a little more pleasant. 314 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: That pussy is not hidding, you gotta you gotta pay 315 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 1: for hookah. 316 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 3: Who could be forty five dollars, bitch. 317 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: Nobody was willing to give us forty five dollars. 318 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's say definitely not that pussy is not hitting. 319 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: I can tell by the way her foundation was too late. 320 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: We was giving ghost face killers, Casper, if you will. 321 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 3: About with you today. But she wasn't a friendly ghost. 322 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 3: Wait I say that he was not friendly, she wasn't uncles. 323 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 3: Then he have some uncle, I fucking dad. I hate 324 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 3: you bro. Oh my god, Lord had mercy. 325 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 2: Let's just pray she never crossed this episode? 326 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 3: Amen? Why because I can't fight. I'm dead. I'm definitely 327 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: wold shut up to big town up. 328 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: When you know what, when I fight, I'm definitely giving wilder. 329 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: You know, I look like I might do something, but 330 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 1: and then I just can't get it. I just can't 331 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: get it through. Now, see how you pushed it. I 332 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: would have took a little like. 333 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 3: You just had to go. Well, you just had to 334 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: take it way up. Okay, let's get into these topics. 335 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: Why are we acting like we weren't on the phone 336 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: yesterday for four hours right now? 337 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 3: I don't know anyway, we always do that. 338 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,600 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna let you bring in this topic because 339 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 2: this was Okay. 340 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: So, the funny thing is, I'm trying to remember how 341 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: I decided that I wanted to talk about the Well, 342 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember who was I talking to, because 343 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: I was talking to somebody and they were telling me 344 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 1: a story and I was like, oh, that's a good topic. 345 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 3: We need to talk about these on poor mind. So 346 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 3: I want to talk about fucking behind your friends. You're 347 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 3: very educated on this topic. 348 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: Depends on you know, your definition of the run friend. 349 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 3: You were about to say that because. 350 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: That one time I love, like, I love to talk 351 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: about that one time I was a very trifling beach 352 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: to stay. 353 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: One time I will let meet. 354 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: I think fucking behind your friends he's disgusting. Well, I 355 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: won't say it's disgusting, because sometimes your friend might just 356 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 1: hit a nigga and they never really you know, nothing 357 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: really happened and it wasn't like that, And like you 358 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: and a nigga may hit. 359 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 3: It off and y'all could be, you know something. 360 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 2: But I think it's just levels to it because if 361 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 2: your friend is really fucking with a nigga, like that's 362 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 2: her man, and then like they stopped talking and then 363 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 2: y'all start talking, I just think that it's weird, no 364 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 2: matter how much, because I had that happen to me before. 365 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: Like I was talking to somebody. We were like talking 366 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: for a while and it was like two or three 367 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: years later, and then a friend of mine started fucking 368 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: with him. 369 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 3: But it was just so weird. And the reason it 370 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 3: was even more weird is. 371 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 1: Because wait, wait, wait, the same we think about the 372 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: same situation. 373 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 3: Let me tell you. Let me tell you. 374 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: Oh no, I was thinking about Damn, I got hold twice. 375 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:33,199 Speaker 1: Oh that's what I thought you were talking about. I 376 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,679 Speaker 1: for totally forgot about this first situation. Why y'all my 377 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 1: friends keep sucking my name Nika's friend. 378 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 3: I forgot about that. 379 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: Well, the first situation a little dirty. They both did 380 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 1: me dirty. So the first situation. But the first one 381 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: I really like, hook, I don't feel like wasn't bad, 382 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 1: but it was just weird because they hid it from me. 383 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: They were trying to hide it from me. Nobody wanted 384 00:17:58,600 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: to tell me. 385 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,879 Speaker 2: But at this I'm like I had started fucking with 386 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: somebody else, like I had moved on. 387 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 3: I was more mad that nobody told me. You know 388 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. 389 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 1: So I feel like, if you fuck, if you're fucking 390 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:09,919 Speaker 1: with somebody that your friend used to fuck with, you 391 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: can at least tell them. I was running by them 392 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: because honestly, I would have girl take that dick because 393 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 1: it ain't that good, right. 394 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 3: They only they didn't even last long. 395 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: I couldn't neither one of them what no, no, the 396 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 1: well both situations didn't last long. I was if you 397 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: were talk about they didn't last long, Like why y'all 398 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 1: was fucking. 399 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 3: Oh that too? 400 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 5: Well? 401 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: I don't know about with them, But like I said, 402 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: the first situation, I wouldn't. I wasn't mad at all. 403 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: It was just like, why are y'all trying to hide 404 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: this from me? You was a little mad, but ye, 405 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: because because they hid it from these I remember, it 406 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 1: wasn't the person I didn't care about him. 407 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 2: No, yeah, I didn't care about him at all. It 408 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 2: was just like, why are y'all trying to hide this 409 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 2: from me? That's fucking weird right now. The second time, 410 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 2: it was a BDD and I was highly upset cause 411 00:18:58,560 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 2: this nigga. 412 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,360 Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all, I talked. 413 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 1: This was definitely way more trifling than the first situation. 414 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 3: For sure, trifling on both ends. 415 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 1: I'll say, right, because this nigga was like but especially 416 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: their hoe. When I first moved to Atlanta, I told 417 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: y'all I didn't have shit. I had a boyfriend. He 418 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: was a terrible boyfriend. He used to put me through 419 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 1: with everything else. Well, y'all know, I'm a cheating So 420 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: I started fucking with this other nigga. 421 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 3: He bought his thick ass deserved to be cheated on. 422 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 3: Not see. 423 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 1: Season he's gonna send the seasons already threatened this through. 424 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 3: But we don't ever say your name Beach, So good look, 425 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 3: bitch you today. Good look. 426 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: So anyways, when I first moved here, like I was then, 427 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: I was in a shitty situation. 428 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 3: I cheated on. 429 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 2: Him with this BDB and he like got my furniture 430 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,439 Speaker 2: for my apartment. He like used to buy me shoes, 431 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 2: He used to send me money, like he was a 432 00:19:59,119 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 2: really good BDB. 433 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 3: Something happened and we kind of like fell off. 434 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: I was going through a lot though, Like when I 435 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:06,880 Speaker 2: first moved out here, it was just a lot going on, 436 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 2: as y'all know, Like I always talk about this, So 437 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 2: me and him had kind of fell off, but it 438 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 2: wasn't no bad blood. 439 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:13,959 Speaker 3: But bitch, I look up. 440 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 4: He took this bitch to the mall nives, I got mall. 441 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 3: They's puss it too. 442 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: He took me to eleven forty five, So really you 443 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 1: might just have a living forty five pussy. 444 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,919 Speaker 2: Oh I don't, because he definitely came back from that 445 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 2: trip and was crawling to you. 446 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 1: Definitely got Jamaica possy, because we did go to Jamaica. 447 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 2: Now, see, you're talking too much, niggas know who he 448 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 2: was out with. 449 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 3: Talk too much? Flip three. You're talking too much, bitch, 450 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 3: So I forgot that trip was documented. That trip was 451 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 3: very fucking documented. 452 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? 453 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: Is your girl lex p Any Sugarl Drey in the hole? Now, 454 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: If y'all anything like me, you done been in debt before. 455 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:58,919 Speaker 3: Shit I'm still in debt right. 456 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: Now, right MPDA. That has helped us out a lot. 457 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: You know, I've been able to consolidate my credit card 458 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: debt and I'm paying it down. 459 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 3: Yes, so what paying it? You're saying it up? So 460 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 3: what PDS debt. 461 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 2: It rolls all of your payments into one low, zero 462 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 2: percent interest monthly payment. 463 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 3: So if you feel like you're. 464 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: Paying on something and it's not going down, you're not 465 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,800 Speaker 1: making no d This is the program for you. 466 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 3: And the best thing about it is if you take that. 467 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: Little quiz online and you're approved, you get a twenty 468 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: five dollars visa gift card if you approve. 469 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 3: Now, you gotta get approved. 470 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: But the good thing about it is you can have 471 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: no credit, bad credit, terrible credit, whatever. 472 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 2: You most likely go get approved. 473 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 3: But just go take the sestiment. 474 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: Okay, Yes, and it rolls all of your payments down 475 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: into a zero percent interest rate payment every money. Yeah, 476 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: so purely you don't get that debt take care. Yes, 477 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:51,399 Speaker 1: So you're gonna go to www dot PDS debt dot 478 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: com backslash poormonds that's pd SD ebt dot com backslash 479 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: poormondes and get your payments on the loan. 480 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 3: We're trying to help y'all out so you can get 481 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 3: the house. 482 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: So I'll save this. With that situation, they was both 483 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 1: being fucking sneaky. Yeah, he wanted to see what that 484 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: pussy was hitting folk, and she saw what he used 485 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: to do for me. 486 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:24,360 Speaker 2: So that situation was fucking out of line. And then 487 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 2: y'all did all that, only for him to come home 488 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 2: and be. 489 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 1: Like, man, I'm sorry, it wasn't even fun. I feel 490 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: like that's the I feel like that's the worst type 491 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,679 Speaker 1: of fucking behind y'all friends that you could do. 492 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 3: It's fucking behind y'all friends because you're trying. 493 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: To get from a situation or get from a nigga 494 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: what he was doing for somebody. Yeah, that's flame as hell. 495 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,360 Speaker 1: That's the lamest sheet you could fuck it. It's one 496 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: thing if you don't know right you know what I mean? 497 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 1: Or if hell you just the whole ass beach. I 498 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: rather you just be a whole ass beach and just 499 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 1: be like. 500 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 3: I don't care. Just be like I don't care. 501 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 1: Then to be trying to fuck behind me because you're 502 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,959 Speaker 1: trying to get the same results. Oh, I left this 503 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: part out though I left a very important part out. 504 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: So maybe like three or four years ago, the friend 505 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: she was talking to a guy, they went on a date. 506 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 3: She said she. 507 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 2: Really really liked him whatever, but after the first date 508 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 2: he kind of ghosted her. 509 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 3: Hand on. 510 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 1: Wait wait, okay, So the friend that went to the 511 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: mall d's with my BDB three years prior to this situation, 512 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: like before I moved to Atlanta, Huh, she had met 513 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: a guy. They went on a date, right, she said, 514 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: the date was fire, like, the conversation was amazing, but 515 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: after the date, like he kind of ghosted her. She 516 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 1: was like, I don't know what's going on. Well, a 517 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: year later, that same nigga slid. 518 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 3: In my den and you started talking to her, and I. 519 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 1: Did, and I fucked film I dead, So she brow 520 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: she said, an I four her eyes. 521 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 3: She did, and she brought that up. 522 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 2: So I feel like she really did that just to 523 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 2: kind of like get. 524 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 3: Back at me. 525 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,880 Speaker 1: But honestly, when I fucked with him at that at 526 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: that point, y'all didn't she didn't even fuck this nigga 527 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: though she never fucked that nigga. Yeah, and then like 528 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 1: when me and this dude started talking like we was cool, 529 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 1: like we was cool as fuck, Like that's still I 530 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 1: still like talk to him to this day. 531 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 3: Not fucked, but we still cool, you know what I'm saying. 532 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 2: Like we just developed a deeper friendship, you know what 533 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 2: I'm saying. But I never was like, oh, let me 534 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,160 Speaker 2: fuck with him to cause he was doing stuff for her, 535 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. 536 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: It was really like he tried to talk to me. 537 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 1: I told him, hey, you used to talk to my homegirl. 538 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,439 Speaker 1: I can't do that, and then he just kept on, 539 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:34,439 Speaker 1: kept on, kept on. 540 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 3: Oh it ain't like that, It ain't like that. 541 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,199 Speaker 1: So I asked her, I said, hey, how was you 542 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 1: in an old boy situation? Like how did that end? 543 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, girl, were on that one 544 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: day and we never talked again. I probably should have 545 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: told her I wanted to suck his dick. 546 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:51,720 Speaker 3: But so basically, what you're saying is you be doing this? 547 00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 3: She too? Yeah, okay, more a lot of story. 548 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 1: More little story is I'll be doing that too. I mean, 549 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, that's kind of what happened with 550 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 1: my little situation. 551 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 3: Why are you sitting in your drink? Had the years 552 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 3: you told me I wasn't wrong? Was I wrong? You 553 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 3: was wrong. I never got you lying. I never did 554 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 3: know I was, so why you was lying for me? 555 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:22,760 Speaker 3: So let me say this. 556 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,639 Speaker 2: The reason I said you wasn't wrong because I didn't 557 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 2: realize how you felt about the girl. 558 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 3: Truly. 559 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 2: I thought that y'all were really close friends. I did 560 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,400 Speaker 2: so in the beginning when it happened. 561 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: So then why would you think I wasn't wrong because 562 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: you was like that whole not my friend. You talk later, 563 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: because later down the line, when I first when you 564 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 1: first moved out here, I did really think that that 565 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: was my friend. And that's why I moved the way 566 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 1: that I moved with that person, because I really thought 567 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: that she was my friend. But then when I found 568 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 1: out that she was not my friend and that she 569 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:57,760 Speaker 1: was talking about my. 570 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 3: Back and that she had purposely tried to hook me. 571 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: Up with someone else just so I would not talk 572 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 1: to that person, I'm like, okay, you be doing some 573 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: sneaky sheet. 574 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 3: And then with the whole other nigga, because let me. 575 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 1: Let me let y'all know, Dreda did not only fuck 576 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: one of her niggas, she fucked two of her niggas. 577 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 1: She was like, you know what, I'm not done with 578 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: you yet. Bit she got the fire was the thing 579 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 1: that hurt me, and that wasn't even my nigga. 580 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 3: I said, damn, we lost the good one. We lost 581 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 3: the good one. 582 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 1: My boy, That nigga gone because boy ain't no way 583 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 1: boy because he tearing that up. 584 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,119 Speaker 3: He niga was. 585 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: Happy as hell too the second one. He was very 586 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: happy to be there. 587 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 2: I said, oh, you ain't never get. 588 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: But yes, so anyways, yeah, so once I found out 589 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 1: that she wasn't my friend, I just felt like why not? 590 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: But now the only reason that I was not fucking 591 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: with the nigga is because I was like, Okay, this 592 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 1: is my homegirl. I know, even though the nigga don't 593 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: fuck with her and he doesn't like her anymore, I 594 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 1: know she still has feelings for him, right, so I'm 595 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 1: not gonna fuck with him out of respect. 596 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 3: Right. But then, bitch, when I found out all that 597 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 3: other shit, it was just like, okay, bitch, why not? 598 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 3: Why should I not fuck with him? 599 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 1: And he was very much a BDB, very much a bead, 600 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: so why would I not fuck with him? 601 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 5: Well? 602 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 2: I feel like this also too. 603 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: We can't only just blame ourselves because men have accountability 604 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 1: in this too. Because I feel like as a woman, 605 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,160 Speaker 1: I really do not talk to men that are friends. 606 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,439 Speaker 1: Like I told y'all before when I was dealing with 607 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 1: Throwback Bay. Y'all remember Throwback Back. I used to talk 608 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: to his friend back in the gap, but on our 609 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: first date, I told him, Hey, you know I used 610 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: to fuck with your friend. 611 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 3: Niggas don't do shit like that. Well, first of all, let's. 612 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 1: Be clear, niggas definitely be fucking behind a friend. Yes, 613 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 1: niggas will not be giving a fuck. I truly do 614 00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: not be fucking behind my friends. Yeah, like I said, 615 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: that was little one situation that happened, but we were 616 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: not friends anymore. It was more of an associate, more 617 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 1: of an associated, but like somebody like Legs, my friend Limb, 618 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,880 Speaker 1: my best friend Jazzmine. Absolutely not right. I'm never gonna 619 00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:15,679 Speaker 1: fuck with no nigga that none of my friends fucked with. 620 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: It's just too many niggas in this world. There's too 621 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: many men out here to fuck behind somebody that I'm 622 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 1: cool with. Now, these niggas gonna be hearing because the 623 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:32,000 Speaker 1: nigga we was just talking about, he definitely he fucked. 624 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: He said he don't give a fuck if was real. Sisters, 625 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 1: bitch that nigga gonna be at the family reunion, pulling 626 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: your mama, your. 627 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 3: Aunty ship, your uncle. You know what I'm saying. 628 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that nigga don't give a fuck. He don't, 629 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: he really don't. He definitely be fucking behind his friend. 630 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 2: But I feel like, honestly, at this age, I'm not 631 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 2: even interested in the man that tried to like even 632 00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 2: holler at my friends. You know what I'm saying, Like 633 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 2: if you try to like slide in my friends dms, 634 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 2: then like all of a sudden, like you just slide 635 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 2: in mind. It's just weird. Like I don't know, I'm 636 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 2: just not interested in like gouds that. 637 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 3: Just be doing a lot. Let's raise the. 638 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: Like choosy lovers, Let's raise the steaks. Say it's like 639 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: a real BBB, like a real BBB, Like we talking 640 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: about like Elon mundred million dollars. 641 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 2: No, we're talking about like Elon Musk. You know he's 642 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 2: single now, Okay. 643 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 1: We're talking about Elon muss Okay, Okay, So that type 644 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 1: of man. And say him and your friend Daty briefly 645 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 1: they had six but it really didn't go nowhere, right, 646 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 1: and then. 647 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 3: He tried to talk to you. Let me tell you something. 648 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:43,239 Speaker 3: What you're gonna do. 649 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 2: My friend could be giving birth to that nigga baby. 650 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 3: I'm letting him hit. That's a billionaire. 651 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 4: You lost your goddamn mind. 652 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 3: She could be giving. 653 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 1: Barriend sore you saying the higher, the more money, somebody make, 654 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: your morals go out the window. Everybody got a price. 655 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: But how do you know he gonna give you some money? 656 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: We talked about this too. 657 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 3: How do you know that. 658 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: Elon Musk is gonna give you some money? Just because 659 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 1: he's a billionaire doesn't mean that he's gonna The only 660 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,239 Speaker 1: way I would do it is it's like I can, 661 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: I can at least get a bill. 662 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 3: So basically you will be selling a bill. Basically, you 663 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 3: give me one bill, bro, So basically you would sell 664 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 3: some pussy to who wouldn't Who wouldn't but her friend 665 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: fucked with him. 666 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: My friend could be having his baby a billion dollars, 667 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: bitch put me on child support. 668 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 3: Okay, the fuck. 669 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: I would have to decline a billion dollars friend, But 670 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: you's saying some ship that is highly unlikely to happen. 671 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 3: Only this is about to pay a billion dollars. You 672 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 3: got that billion dollars, and it's. 673 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: The reason why they said million dollars and not billion dollars. 674 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: We know that not paying a billion. If somebody can 675 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: find me one hole in the world they got paid 676 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: a billion dollars for some hussy, I will retract my statement. 677 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 3: Bit she ain't no nigga paying a billion dollars. It 678 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 3: just like you're talking right now. 679 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: Somebody was like, ain't nobody ever been on the moon 680 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: and that nigga went. 681 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 3: To the moon, didn't he did? He not? Did that 682 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:26,120 Speaker 3: nigga not go to the motherfucking moon? Bitch? Somebody gotta 683 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 3: break the barriers and I'm gonna do that ship. So 684 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 3: you you're gonna be the first woman leave for man coime, bitch. 685 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: So you're gonna be the first woman to get a 686 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: billion dollars for your. 687 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 3: Exactly, she was married and it was a divorce. 688 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 1: Okay, hear what you're saying. She got fit Jeff Bezon's 689 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: ex wife. Guy, A nigga being like coming in with 690 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: a briefcase in the hotel room with a billion. 691 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 3: Briefcases. 692 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 1: Exactly, a nigga coming in with briefcases like here you 693 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: go for the puissy, Yes, bitch, Hell No, don't speak 694 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 1: that on me just because you don't believe that for yourself. 695 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: What you said, don't speak your negativity in my life 696 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,479 Speaker 1: because you don't believe you can do it. You always 697 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: gotta take shit too fucking far. So a billion dollars 698 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 1: you would sell your friend out, absolutely honestly, a billion dollars. Bitch, 699 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 1: I'll give you one hundred mil Let me do it. 700 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,239 Speaker 1: Let me hit this nigga real quick. You don't even 701 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: fuck but not a baby with him. I could get 702 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 1: the money without. 703 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 3: You, but I mean you could, so I don't need 704 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 3: one hundred million dollars. 705 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: If this is my baby, daddy, I don't need a 706 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 1: hundred million dollars from you, he said. 707 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 3: Bitch, let's double up. I might have a baby tool. 708 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,040 Speaker 3: Let's get this work. 709 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 5: Now. 710 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 3: We're gonna be Suster wife Auntie. 711 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 712 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 3: We're gonna be living good. 713 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 1: Lex all right, can I that's what's up, y'all? 714 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 3: Is your girl nex pig and it's sugarl Drey and 715 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 3: the cold. Now y'all know it's about to be cudle weather. 716 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: It's boom vacation time, and I need that thing to 717 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 1: be up because I'm trying to tell that up. 718 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 3: Well, we got something you and your boom y'all. 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So blue Choo has the same 723 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 1: active ingredients as by Agra and Cillis, but it's inchewable form, 724 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: so if you take his teeth out, he's still good. 725 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 3: Just a steal choe ache just. 726 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 5: Uh huh. 727 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 3: So you can take them anytime, day or night. 728 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: And the best thing about it is you do everything 729 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 1: online so you don't have to go to the doctor's office. 730 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 3: They have medical providers that. 731 00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 2: You talk to get everything done and it's just done 732 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 2: from the squad of your own right. 733 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: And it's also made in the USA and you can 734 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: get it delivered discreetly to your house indus free packaging. 735 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: So I think that that's a great feature. 736 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 3: Yes, love a little Blue Cheo. 737 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 2: So if you could benefit from extra confidence when it's 738 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 2: time to perform, blue Choo can help. So we've partner 739 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 2: with them, so you can try blue Choo for free 740 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 2: when you use our promo code. Poor mind that check 741 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,720 Speaker 2: out all you're gonna do is pay five dollars in shipping. 742 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 3: That's it. 743 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: So that's blue choo dot com. And you're gonna use 744 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 1: promo code. Poor minds. Okay, so receive your first month 745 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,000 Speaker 1: for free. You're gonna go to blue choo. 746 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 3: Dot com code poor minds. Keep that thing up, period. 747 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:35,319 Speaker 1: I like stuff more, more of the stories. As long 748 00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 1: as he got some bread, you could fuck mind that. 749 00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: Long has he got some bread, you would get that 750 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 1: nigga some head, even if your friend needs too. No, 751 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: that is not say but I'm just trying to be 752 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:50,319 Speaker 1: the translator. 753 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 3: All I'm saying is, I don't know. This is not 754 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:54,720 Speaker 3: my ministry, but this is how licks. 755 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 5: No. 756 00:34:55,320 --> 00:35:00,399 Speaker 1: I said that's about Elon Musk, but all everybody else, No. 757 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,479 Speaker 2: You gotta have a conversation with your friend. You gotta 758 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 2: make sure because. 759 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: Having a conversation about it. No, bro, why are we 760 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: having a conversation about it? You just don't need to 761 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: fuck with my old nigga. Why do we need to 762 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: have a conversation about it? Because sometimes it's just certain 763 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: things that I feel like should go without being said. 764 00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 1: Why are we having a conversation about you potentially fucking 765 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 1: with my old niggas. No, because sometimes it might be 766 00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 1: a nigga that you just don't care about and. 767 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 3: You just. 768 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,399 Speaker 2: You know, because I asked you if I could fuck 769 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 2: one nigga one time, and I wasn't being serious, so 770 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 2: she was like, you was like, yeah, that situations like that. 771 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 3: You though that wasn't really one of my niggas up, 772 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 3: but that was somebody that you fucked. I did fuck him, okay, 773 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 3: but that's what I'm saying. 774 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 1: So sometimes you be in situations where you fuck a nigga, 775 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: but you don't fuck with him, so you still need 776 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: to have a conversation with And I told you you 777 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:52,879 Speaker 1: could go fuck that nigga because I know he gonna 778 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,239 Speaker 1: give you a headache too. And I'm gonna give him 779 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: a hard time too because I know he's gonna bearing 780 00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 1: that up. 781 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 3: We don't have a problem, you think same. I already 782 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:05,879 Speaker 3: told you he don't be tearing it, damn. That's why 783 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:06,800 Speaker 3: he is very safe. 784 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,360 Speaker 2: But I feel like everybody has a list. Every woman 785 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 2: has a list of like niggas. 786 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:18,520 Speaker 3: That's a no one of your niggas any money. 787 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,919 Speaker 1: Honestly, ain't no body on my list that you will 788 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: want to fuck. 789 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,319 Speaker 3: You like hood niggas. I don't like hood niggas, Yes 790 00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 3: you do. 791 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: I don't reformed hood niggas. 792 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: Occasionally, occasionally you do something four five, six times. Our 793 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: people want to say, Okay, No, what I'm saying is, 794 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 1: I don't think there's really anybody on my list that 795 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 1: you would though, I really don't. All the niggas you 796 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: fucked over the my list is he rash? 797 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:03,000 Speaker 3: Sorry niggas that my list is true. My list is trash, bro. 798 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 3: Maybe I'm trying to think. 799 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 1: I think the only one you probably would is my 800 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 1: first first bed b basketball Bay. 801 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 3: Why he got money, he do. 802 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: But I like black me and that like black women. 803 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,239 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's definitely a white lover. That's one thing 804 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: that I will say, Like, even with the dudes that 805 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,399 Speaker 1: I be, he loved him a snow bud, Even with the. 806 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 3: Bdb's that I've dated. 807 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 1: One thing I can say about the niggas that I've dated, 808 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:34,320 Speaker 1: they love black women. 809 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say that. Now. 810 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: You know what's crazy because me and they don't really 811 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,399 Speaker 1: date outside of day race. Me and him dated when 812 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 1: I was like going through that my little identity crisis. 813 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,520 Speaker 1: So I think he was like, yeah, I got a 814 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 1: black girl, but you had a black girl that was 815 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: I thought she was white at the time, right, definitely 816 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 1: given Avrilavine vibes. When I was dating him. 817 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 3: We remember skater girl, we remember the photo. 818 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,359 Speaker 1: So it was definitely much like a fetish thing for him. 819 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,239 Speaker 1: I think just say like, oh, I got me a 820 00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:02,839 Speaker 1: I got me a black bud. Yeah. And don't get 821 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:06,400 Speaker 1: me wrong, you guys like it's nothing wrong with black 822 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 1: men that choose today black women. I mean that women 823 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,360 Speaker 1: that are not black, But I just don't like the 824 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,239 Speaker 1: black men that date women of other races and they 825 00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:17,320 Speaker 1: treated like they. 826 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 3: Have like a trophy. Right, Yeah, I think that, you 827 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 3: know what I mean. 828 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,400 Speaker 1: I think it's kind of weird, and he'd be giving, 829 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 1: definitely giving what I mean. 830 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 3: So yeah, all right, let's move on. 831 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:31,840 Speaker 2: Bring this one too, because you did both topics today. 832 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 3: I did. 833 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:40,240 Speaker 1: Okay, So I m this girl that I follow on Instagram. 834 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: She was basically saying that, like she normally posts a 835 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 1: lot of pictures, she actually owns a boutique. I'm not 836 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 1: gonna say her name because I'm sure she doesn't really 837 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 1: want me to put her out there like that, but 838 00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,400 Speaker 1: she owns a boutique, so she kind of has to 839 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: stay on Instagram and like post pictures and stuff all 840 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,360 Speaker 1: the time. But she'd sometimes be taking like these social 841 00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: media breaks for like a month, two months, and I 842 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 1: don't notice because I love her counting. So when I 843 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,000 Speaker 1: noticed that I'm not seeing her on the timeline for 844 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: a while, I'll be like, damn, where is she at. 845 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,359 Speaker 1: So she had came back on Instagram a few days ago. 846 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,959 Speaker 1: She was basically saying that, you know, she was taking 847 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 1: a break because she just hates the EBB. Like, if 848 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,840 Speaker 1: she didn't have to be on there for work, she 849 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,240 Speaker 1: would not be on Instagram because it's just so draining 850 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 1: to her. She was like, you know, just for so 851 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: many different reasons, Like Instagram is really a facade. People 852 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,400 Speaker 1: create these lives on there, and then you have people 853 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: who are beautiful people, blessed people in real life, but 854 00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 1: they're depressed every day because they're looking at the lives 855 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,440 Speaker 1: of these other people on social media and feeling like, 856 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 1: you know, they're not living up to certain expectations. And 857 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,160 Speaker 1: so she was like, and then you have people who 858 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 1: are successful, who have become successful, and then they become 859 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: classes instead of trying to be inspiring and motivating other people, 860 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,279 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I kind of wanted 861 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,919 Speaker 1: to talk about that because I want to know, you know, 862 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: what are your thoughts on that? 863 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,280 Speaker 3: Because I feel like we see that all the time. 864 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 1: People become successful and they kind of forget where they 865 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 1: came from, right, and instead of trying to like be helpful, helpful, 866 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: helpful to others that are in the same position that 867 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 1: they were once in, they look down on this right. 868 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like that comes from like them being 869 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,280 Speaker 2: in a position where they felt like somebody ship on them, 870 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,760 Speaker 2: so they feel like they got to ship on other people. 871 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Yes, anybody can get it, 872 00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:36,080 Speaker 3: that's what they feel like, not anybody for real, though, sugar. 873 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because honestly, I just think 874 00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,120 Speaker 1: that it's so weird that, like literally some people be 875 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: like like you was broke yesterday and now today you 876 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 1: being like you hold this and that, y'all this and that, 877 00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 1: y'all be posting all y'all ship posting this and that, 878 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 1: and it's just crazy to. 879 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 3: Me because it's especially with the PPP loan era. 880 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 1: It's the PPP loan and y'all buy all them fucking 881 00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,399 Speaker 1: never fools, beach get know PPP Long and I want 882 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 1: my fucking bag holes But anyway you could. 883 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 3: Go buy it on rebag a rebag. 884 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:12,879 Speaker 1: I'm giving classes, but no, I will say I do 885 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:18,520 Speaker 1: feel like sometimes because people they forget because you've literally 886 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 1: worked your whole life to be a part of a 887 00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:24,040 Speaker 1: circle that never wanted you unless you made a certain 888 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 1: amount of money. Now I feel like it's different with 889 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: us because I don't give a fuck about no circles. 890 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 1: We be with the same people. We're gonna make our 891 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: money and we're gonna do what we do. So it's 892 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,399 Speaker 1: just it's never gonna be that disconnector. But when you're 893 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: striving to get into a circle that doesn't care about you, 894 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,399 Speaker 1: your personality, your family, what you got going on, all 895 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:47,560 Speaker 1: they care about is your clout and what's in your 896 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:48,200 Speaker 1: bank account. 897 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,239 Speaker 3: Classes I do too. 898 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 1: Who you think I'm talking about, I'm not gonna say, 899 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 1: but I was gonna tell you your ear who I'm 900 00:41:55,520 --> 00:42:02,399 Speaker 1: talking about. Oh yeah, let me say this very much. 901 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:06,399 Speaker 1: I would say this from personal experience too. It's been 902 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,320 Speaker 1: so many people and honestly, I'm not even gone to 903 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:13,000 Speaker 1: I ain't even get money like that. I'm doing better 904 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,280 Speaker 1: for my stuff. I can pay my bills. Is getting 905 00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 1: money like that? Why are transfer the other day with 906 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:18,720 Speaker 1: like a word? 907 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 3: I'm there, Ron like, yeah, I need that. 908 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 2: I'll just say this, No. 909 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 1: I definitely saw a difference from when I first moved 910 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 1: to Atlanta how people treated me versus now. 911 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,400 Speaker 3: And it's so crazy because it's like, I'm the same person. 912 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 1: You feel like people in Atlanta treat you differently than 913 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 1: when people in Atlanta. People in the industry of your friends, 914 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 1: not none of my friends because my friend's not like that. Yeah, 915 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:52,640 Speaker 1: but I agree though people Definitely it was people that 916 00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,879 Speaker 1: was just like it was people that was telling you, oh, next, 917 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: using you just to move out here. She ain't got shit, 918 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: she ain't she And now them same people be like, 919 00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:08,560 Speaker 1: oh my god, paw my talking father bitch. 920 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 3: When you said that body hole, I. 921 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,319 Speaker 1: Was like ah, And I'm like, oh, who the fuck 922 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:16,480 Speaker 1: talks like that? 923 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:24,520 Speaker 3: Your homegirl? It's not your homegirl no more. 924 00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,799 Speaker 1: But I will say, like, that's one instance of like 925 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 1: somebody who is just so nasty and so mean to me. 926 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 2: Tell what are you talking about? It's a lot of 927 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:35,279 Speaker 2: whispery a. 928 00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 1: Going on. 929 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:45,880 Speaker 3: The whisper ladies. Let me say something that got. 930 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:57,760 Speaker 1: Just that Nigga couldn't help it no more that studio 931 00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: that ship hot. 932 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:07,279 Speaker 3: You see, that's very violished. The point. What was I saying, Oh, 933 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:08,239 Speaker 3: yeah about your friends? 934 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,440 Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, so you weren't So she did 935 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,759 Speaker 1: do that. She did, Yes, I feel like people are 936 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: so she'd definitely. 937 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:18,239 Speaker 3: Be on the gh my dick, on my very much 938 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 3: on my dick. 939 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 2: But I just think that is so fucking strange because 940 00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 2: those are the type of people that just kind of 941 00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,920 Speaker 2: get nowhere and they may level up and they may 942 00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:29,720 Speaker 2: have their moment, but that's not the people that really 943 00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 2: like succeed and go far. Because at the end of 944 00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 2: the day, money is cool. We all want money, We 945 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:36,719 Speaker 2: all want to get money. 946 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,880 Speaker 1: Even about us all wanting money, like you literally need money. 947 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:42,760 Speaker 3: Money to survive. 948 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,560 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, when you let it control you, 949 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 1: that's when it becomes a problem, you know. 950 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 2: When it dictates the type of people that you let 951 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:52,760 Speaker 2: in your life. 952 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:57,839 Speaker 1: Because I'm a good person. I'm not perfect, but I'm 953 00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,560 Speaker 1: a great friend. So for her to meet me off 954 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: the bat and just judge me because I had a 955 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:08,279 Speaker 1: little shin on a little fashions, I've told you this 956 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,640 Speaker 1: before too, especially when it pertains to that situation. I 957 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: don't think it was so much her judging you because 958 00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 1: of the differences in y'all's lifestyle. 959 00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,760 Speaker 3: I think that a big. 960 00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 1: Portion of it too, was with me and you were 961 00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,200 Speaker 1: going through in our friendship at the time as well. 962 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:25,719 Speaker 3: I mean, y'all, I agree with that are going to 963 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 3: do that. You shouldn't. 964 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 1: You see, you shouldn't do that. But I just feel 965 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 1: like people naturally do that, you know what I mean. 966 00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 1: When people are having issues with their friends and the 967 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 1: other person knows about it, your other friend knows about it, 968 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:45,800 Speaker 1: sometimes people take on those burdens or take on certain 969 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 1: feelings towards that person just because of what they see 970 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: you're going through. 971 00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:49,640 Speaker 3: With that person. 972 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: I agree with you on that, and I think too 973 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 1: that now me and you not only is poor Mind's 974 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 1: doing really well now, but me and you are also 975 00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,399 Speaker 1: in a better space in our friendship. But I will say, 976 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,880 Speaker 1: me and you, the things that we were getting into 977 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 1: it about was never about money. So the fact that 978 00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,680 Speaker 1: she kept bringing up stuff like, oh, you need to 979 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:10,880 Speaker 1: hang out with prettier girls and girls that do the 980 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:12,959 Speaker 1: things that you do, and girls that she was bringing 981 00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 1: up stuff that you wasn't even bringing up. Yeah, because 982 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 1: that was never an issue with me and being friends 983 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 1: about what I had or what I didn't have. You 984 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying about this shit, I don't make 985 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:22,919 Speaker 1: friends off of that type of shit. 986 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,000 Speaker 2: But like you said, that goes back to Instagram. I 987 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,880 Speaker 2: say that all the time. I hate Instagram. 988 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 3: I literally hate it. 989 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 2: If y'all go look at my Instagram right now, it's 990 00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,160 Speaker 2: mostly ninety percent poor minds videos. 991 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 3: I rarely post pictures. 992 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 1: I hate taking pictures, Like most of the pictures I 993 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,319 Speaker 1: take are just like pictures in my phone that I 994 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:40,520 Speaker 1: have for memories. 995 00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,719 Speaker 2: Because you know what people do. They get on there 996 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,880 Speaker 2: and they stunt. You know, when I moved to Atlanta, 997 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,760 Speaker 2: I felt like I had to keep up with this image, 998 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,840 Speaker 2: keep up with that image. And then I actually met. 999 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:50,880 Speaker 3: These girls and I'm like. 1000 00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,240 Speaker 1: Damn, my apartment nicer than yours, because bitch. 1001 00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 3: You don't have one. Miss, I'm doing better than you, 1002 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,319 Speaker 3: it's doing better than them. Got one, please? 1003 00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 1: I got someplace to lay my head, Like, yeah, you 1004 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 1: got your Chanelle bag, you got this, and you got that, 1005 00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 1: but it's like. 1006 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 3: You can't sleep, you can't sleep in all I don't 1007 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,799 Speaker 3: care how big you get. The minute the big flap bag, 1008 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 3: you can't fit in that hole. 1009 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 2: Maybe a midget could, all right, and I see, this 1010 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:19,160 Speaker 2: is what we're not gonna do. So I feel like 1011 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 2: people that become classes are always the people that are 1012 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 2: striving to be something that they really know they can't. 1013 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:31,360 Speaker 1: I just feel like, to me, that's part of becoming successful. 1014 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 1: Like I feel like, if you become successful and you 1015 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 1: don't want to be like a philanthropist, what's the point. 1016 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. 1017 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,080 Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with somebody the other day 1018 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 1: and like we were just kind of talking about, like 1019 00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: what's your definition of being successful? And I feel like 1020 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:52,919 Speaker 1: you become truly successful when you are giving to people 1021 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 1: who can't do nothing right. 1022 00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,359 Speaker 2: Right, and you're taking care of people you like. 1023 00:47:58,440 --> 00:47:59,320 Speaker 3: But I'm talking about. 1024 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,399 Speaker 1: People who can't do it anything for you, people where 1025 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,240 Speaker 1: you can't gain anything from. 1026 00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 3: It, but just that you're doing a good right, That's 1027 00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. 1028 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 1: You know, like giving money, you know, to your old neighborhood, 1029 00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 1: your old high school, like people that are less fortunate, 1030 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:17,080 Speaker 1: the people that you literally cannot gain anything from helping them. 1031 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,480 Speaker 1: That's when I feel like you're truly successful. So I 1032 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,440 Speaker 1: don't really understand like classes people because it's like we 1033 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 1: all been there before. Like it's cool to be like 1034 00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:28,560 Speaker 1: thankful and be grateful and be helpful. We all be 1035 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,799 Speaker 1: happy that you're no longer in that place. I wake 1036 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:34,359 Speaker 1: up every day and I'm so fucking thankful that I'm 1037 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:36,359 Speaker 1: not in the place I was in two years ago, 1038 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 1039 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,520 Speaker 3: But does it make me think that I'm better than people? 1040 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:44,000 Speaker 1: No, because no one person is better than other person. 1041 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 1: It's just no to me, nobody is better than anybody else. 1042 00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 1: It's just about the decisions that you made. But I 1043 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: also feel like people that some people make better decisions 1044 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 1: than right. But I feel like people that are classes, 1045 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,399 Speaker 1: like I said, they always they have one. 1046 00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,319 Speaker 2: Those are the people that have like no confidence within themselves. 1047 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 2: You think so absolutely, because if you had confidence in 1048 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,880 Speaker 2: yourself and you knew where you were going, you wouldn't 1049 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 2: even care about what these people doing to even fit 1050 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 2: in with them. Because I'm cool and i know where 1051 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 2: I'm going, you know what I'm saying. 1052 00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,239 Speaker 1: So you want to fit in with these people so 1053 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 1: bad because you care, So I don't give a fuck 1054 00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:19,800 Speaker 1: about what these people think about me. 1055 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,279 Speaker 3: I really don't you know. 1056 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 1: How many like bad mean comments we get. I don't 1057 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 1: give a fuck. First of all, we both turned them 1058 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,720 Speaker 1: coming so long, we don't even be reading it unless 1059 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: it's a nice one, and we responding to the nice ones. 1060 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 3: But like, that's what I'm saying. I don't have the 1061 00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:37,600 Speaker 3: energy no more. 1062 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,240 Speaker 2: I feel like people like that, I really feel sorry 1063 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,920 Speaker 2: for them because you're stuck in a world that you 1064 00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,399 Speaker 2: want to get into that and honestly, once you get 1065 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,239 Speaker 2: in that hole, you're gonna be like if you get 1066 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,560 Speaker 2: there there, if you get in there, it's just like 1067 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 2: what you did all that for what to prove to? 1068 00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:55,440 Speaker 3: Who? Like? 1069 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,919 Speaker 1: Does that make you feel better? Are you sleeping better 1070 00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 1: at night? It's just weird. So you think that classes 1071 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:08,399 Speaker 1: people care a lot with other people thinking absolutely, absolutely absolutely, 1072 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 1: that's that's that's what they live for. Like Instagram people 1073 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 1: that are like always I to me, like everybody been 1074 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,000 Speaker 1: talking about the red flags. 1075 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 3: That's a red flag for me. 1076 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,880 Speaker 1: Somebody has just like always on Instagram, always posting, always 1077 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 1: showing this, always showing that. 1078 00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,319 Speaker 2: It's like, what are you doing with me? 1079 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:24,719 Speaker 3: And you? 1080 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,920 Speaker 1: I feel like I definitely post, you know, more often 1081 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 1: than you on Instagram. But even sometimes I'll take like 1082 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,759 Speaker 1: weeks or like a week off from posting, like I 1083 00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:37,160 Speaker 1: won't post nothing for a whole week, or like because 1084 00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:40,480 Speaker 1: Instagram just once you, once you really start to realize 1085 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,000 Speaker 1: the shit that really matters in life, posting on Instagram 1086 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,239 Speaker 1: just really isn't that serious. I feel like with what 1087 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 1: we do, we have to you know what I mean, 1088 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 1: we can't not be active on so kind of like 1089 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,280 Speaker 1: what I was saying about the girl that I follow, 1090 00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:53,879 Speaker 1: what she was. 1091 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,760 Speaker 3: Saying on her Instagram partier this week. 1092 00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:00,800 Speaker 1: For me, it's kind of like I post picture because 1093 00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:02,919 Speaker 1: it's like I have to stay active. I don't want 1094 00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,879 Speaker 1: my insights, my impression stuff like you have to show 1095 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 1: that no, but I don't. 1096 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,399 Speaker 3: Be showing that as time. 1097 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,080 Speaker 1: Honestly, lately I barely be showing it ass. So I'll 1098 00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,319 Speaker 1: be trying to be a little more classy base. Shout 1099 00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 1: out to my girl Kiki. But I'll be trying to 1100 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: be a little more classy base. You know, I don't 1101 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,800 Speaker 1: be posting to ask, I'll be showing all the assi 1102 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:26,239 Speaker 1: no more. Okay, I feel but occasionally you is gonna. 1103 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 3: Get the ass. Yeah, you know them pictures meeting a 1104 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 3: lot of like. 1105 00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 1: Anyway, like I was saying, yeah, I feel like when 1106 00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,839 Speaker 1: you do certain things for a living, you have to 1107 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 1: somewhat stay active in social media, but it shouldn't be 1108 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:42,720 Speaker 1: your life. 1109 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 3: I get what you're saying. 1110 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:50,240 Speaker 1: Like, for example, somebody I was dating recently love social 1111 00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,799 Speaker 1: media to the point where but it's like, why you 1112 00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,839 Speaker 1: ain't even getting no money from this ship? One thing 1113 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: about me and Lex we make money from we have 1114 00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 1: suppose most our poor. 1115 00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 3: Mind stops and stuff like that on social media. You 1116 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:03,879 Speaker 3: know what I mean. 1117 00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 1: We have to post pictures occasionally and be interactive with 1118 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 1: our audience. People who literally don't make money from social 1119 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 1: media would be on there all day every day. 1120 00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 3: That shit is so strange. It's very it's very strange. 1121 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,319 Speaker 1: But like I said, social why because we're in a 1122 00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:21,399 Speaker 1: social media era where they feel like but y'all want 1123 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,400 Speaker 1: no money though I mean, I mean they do, but 1124 00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,040 Speaker 1: I feel like that's them and their confidence, Like I 1125 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,680 Speaker 1: have to show this person that I'm doing this, Like 1126 00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 1: even right now, it's like I'm trying to get to 1127 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 1: a point to where anytime I want to get to 1128 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 1: a point to where everything I post on my Instagram 1129 00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,840 Speaker 1: is a paid sponsored prices because. 1130 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,719 Speaker 3: I feel like that's. 1131 00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:44,440 Speaker 1: Well and I also feel like a lot of money 1132 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,239 Speaker 1: should be if you're gonna be on there all the time. 1133 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,960 Speaker 1: But I also feel like a lot of times that 1134 00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 1: comes from people feeling less than their entire life. Like 1135 00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,960 Speaker 1: I grew up in a household where my mom like 1136 00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:59,600 Speaker 1: instilled in me like I was great, I was funny, 1137 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 1: I was beautiful. 1138 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,320 Speaker 3: I'm just like my mom always praised me. She still 1139 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:06,440 Speaker 3: does to this day. So the things that. 1140 00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 2: I value, I've been seeing my mom having Louie bags 1141 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 2: and Chanelle bags, like my mama got all that shit, 1142 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,920 Speaker 2: John having that shit, not the Don Senior and the 1143 00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:19,800 Speaker 2: done giving very much the Dawn Senior, like my mama 1144 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 2: been that. 1145 00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,399 Speaker 1: Like I'm not even being funny. So honestly, don't get 1146 00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,960 Speaker 1: me wrong. Do I like nice shit and dis honor shit, Yes, 1147 00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,960 Speaker 1: But I've been around stuff like that. So that's why 1148 00:53:29,000 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 1: I see so much value in people who what they 1149 00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:32,160 Speaker 1: are as a person. 1150 00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,160 Speaker 2: But people that didn't grow up with somebody like telling 1151 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:37,480 Speaker 2: them that and making them feel good as a person. 1152 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 2: How they feel good as a person is feeling like 1153 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,759 Speaker 2: they're better than somebody because they have materialistic things you 1154 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 2: see that on social media all day because they feel like, 1155 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,640 Speaker 2: you know what, I want to separate myself from you 1156 00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 2: because this makes me feel good about myself. 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They make 1185 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,360 Speaker 3: everything super easy for you. 1186 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:08,840 Speaker 1: Yes, it's very affordable and it's you know, not like 1187 00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,440 Speaker 1: traditional counseling, so you could do it from the comfort 1188 00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:14,000 Speaker 1: of your own period. So what you're dad financial aid 1189 00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,160 Speaker 1: is available, of course you would like to say that 1190 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 1: coin And also on top of that, you're gonna go 1191 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,440 Speaker 1: to betterhelp dot com backslash poor Minds. That's a better 1192 00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,960 Speaker 1: h e LP and you're gonna join the over one 1193 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,439 Speaker 1: million people who have already started it, and you're gonna 1194 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,880 Speaker 1: get ten percent off of your first month. So, like 1195 00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:31,959 Speaker 1: I said, if you've never tried therapy and it's something 1196 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 1: that you're thinking about, please take advantage of this. You're 1197 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:38,399 Speaker 1: gonna go to betterhelp dot com backslash poor Minds. So yeah, 1198 00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:40,840 Speaker 1: we do have a patient review. It says I believe 1199 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,200 Speaker 1: that Kelly is caring and she really tries to offer 1200 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:48,479 Speaker 1: me with different options to manage my therapy, breathing, mindfulness, journaling, etc. 1201 00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 3: I really appreciate the different approaches. 1202 00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 1: This review was written by a better help user with 1203 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:58,320 Speaker 1: issues concerning family conflicts, eating disorders, coping with life changes, 1204 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,239 Speaker 1: and compassion for tea. Yes, so make sure y'all go 1205 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:07,359 Speaker 1: to betterhelp dot com backslash poor mind and get your therapy. 1206 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:10,120 Speaker 3: But yeah, I just. 1207 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, friend, Like, it's it's very interesting to 1208 00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 1: me too, because I've always been a person who it's like, 1209 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,040 Speaker 1: you know, I've said these before on the show. 1210 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:19,959 Speaker 3: Like when I was younger, I. 1211 00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 1: Grew up in the hood or whatever, and then when 1212 00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:25,560 Speaker 1: I got older, a little bit older, my parents moved 1213 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:28,200 Speaker 1: to like, you know, a nicer neighborhood, but I went 1214 00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,640 Speaker 1: But even when I grew up in the hood, I 1215 00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,799 Speaker 1: went to private school my whole life. But so I 1216 00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:39,440 Speaker 1: didn't always have like my parents definitely spoiled me, but 1217 00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,880 Speaker 1: I didn't grow up like having Louis bed. 1218 00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 3: And all that type of shit, you know what I mean. 1219 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,399 Speaker 1: And that's just shit that my mom don't care about 1220 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,960 Speaker 1: even still to this day, even now that I'm making 1221 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,839 Speaker 1: enough money to be able to buy her those type 1222 00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:51,080 Speaker 1: of things. 1223 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,120 Speaker 3: She still always be like, I don't want the grand 1224 00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 3: Mamam will definitely be now see for me it's my aunt. 1225 00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:59,680 Speaker 1: My aunt definitely asked me could I buy her and 1226 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:02,759 Speaker 1: never for Christmas, and I thought you better get a line. 1227 00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:07,080 Speaker 1: I told her maybe next year. But yeah, so my mom, 1228 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: she just doesn't really care about those things. But for me, 1229 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 1: and I think, you know, I know, people hate when 1230 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 1: you bring like your horoscope and all that stuff into it, 1231 00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: but like tourists are kind of a little bit materially 1232 00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,400 Speaker 1: very material. Me and your mom have the same birthday, 1233 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 1: so we just like nice things. But I've always kind 1234 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:28,160 Speaker 1: of just been on a quest to like have the 1235 00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,400 Speaker 1: things that I want and have the life that I want. 1236 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 1: But I don't care about that when it comes to 1237 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:35,760 Speaker 1: the people I surround myself with. I never look at 1238 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 1: other people and be like, oh, I got this and 1239 00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:39,760 Speaker 1: you don't got this, so I can't hang with you. 1240 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 1: I never be in that type of person that I 1241 00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:46,280 Speaker 1: want those things for myself, but like some people just 1242 00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,760 Speaker 1: don't care about that type of shep and they don't 1243 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,160 Speaker 1: want it. And that's cool, bitch. I just want this, 1244 00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:54,000 Speaker 1: but if you don't have it, then that's completely fine. 1245 00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 1: And it's not that I can't be around you or 1246 00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,439 Speaker 1: be your friend or hang with you because you don't 1247 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,480 Speaker 1: have the same things I have like they just so 1248 00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:04,000 Speaker 1: because we was in all mindset to have because people 1249 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 1: can bring so many other things of value to you 1250 00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 1: into a relationship than them the same persons. 1251 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,040 Speaker 3: Because I'm not gonna lie, are y'all both. 1252 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,880 Speaker 1: Having white a perfect example, like the person you moved 1253 00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 1: out here with, like y'all have like the same amount 1254 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,840 Speaker 1: of shit, and well, well y'all have, Well she has shit, 1255 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,919 Speaker 1: you had shit. But when I moved out here, bitch, 1256 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,480 Speaker 1: we was definitely stepping in the club. 1257 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 3: And you had on the time for us and I 1258 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,440 Speaker 3: had on the pay list, but we were still stepping, bitch. 1259 00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:32,959 Speaker 3: We made it work. 1260 00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:35,880 Speaker 1: But friend, that's because I've always loved your energy, Like 1261 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:40,000 Speaker 1: it's always been your energy, and that's why I don't 1262 00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: I don't care about that type of stuff. She definitely 1263 00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 1: used to be having on pay lists too, and sometimes 1264 00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:48,120 Speaker 1: we'll have on my shoes. Okay, so let us know 1265 00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:54,479 Speaker 1: how y'all feel about people becoming classes with success, because 1266 00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:55,600 Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that today. 1267 00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 3: We're not doing what I'm being honest bro. 1268 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:02,480 Speaker 1: And by the way, I wear a seven and a 1269 00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 1: half and she was an eye all right, not the 1270 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 1: toes was hanging over. 1271 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,200 Speaker 3: Have you have you scrolled back for her? All right? 1272 00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:13,920 Speaker 2: Uh So now we're gonna get into. 1273 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 1: The ball about about about bow bow. Okay, So today 1274 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,600 Speaker 1: on the bed, I want to talk about this because 1275 00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,919 Speaker 1: I just think it's a little interesting. So our good 1276 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:31,360 Speaker 1: friend Samaya from Sexual Essentials had. 1277 00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 3: Tweeted this what she tweet world. So somebody asked, ladies, 1278 00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,120 Speaker 3: how do you reassure your man? 1279 00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:43,080 Speaker 1: And so Maya responded, suck his dick while telling him 1280 00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,880 Speaker 1: how proud I am of him, or telling him his affirmations, 1281 00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:50,360 Speaker 1: or how I appreciate him, and telling him how he 1282 00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 1: improves my life, while telling him he deserves this nut 1283 00:59:54,560 --> 01:00:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm about to give him, reassuring him, reassuring him. 1284 01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 3: That I know he's been working so hard, you know. 1285 01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,200 Speaker 2: So we're today we're going to talk about giving somebody 1286 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,280 Speaker 2: positive affirmations during sex. 1287 01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,560 Speaker 1: So it's funny that you read that tweet that somebody 1288 01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:15,480 Speaker 1: had said, because I actually had seen something else on 1289 01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 1: the timeline earlier this week where somebody was like it 1290 01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:23,160 Speaker 1: had went viral. A nigga had tweeted, rubbed her head 1291 01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 1: and tell her good girl while she giving you head. 1292 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:32,280 Speaker 3: That's what I feel like. 1293 01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 2: That's more of like a dominatrix thing, like you're dominating her. 1294 01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:40,640 Speaker 3: Think. So, I mean it's like, you know, positive informations. 1295 01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 3: I'm doing this. I'm a good girl. I ain't no 1296 01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,960 Speaker 3: positive affirmation. So, but. 1297 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:56,160 Speaker 1: Talking about what somebody said, how do you feel about 1298 01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:58,960 Speaker 1: like telling a man like you know positive things like 1299 01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,200 Speaker 1: why like why you sucking is dick while you're riding? 1300 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:03,360 Speaker 3: How do you feel about this? I mean, so, I'm 1301 01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 3: a talker. 1302 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,479 Speaker 1: I think I've talked about this on the show before, 1303 01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:09,720 Speaker 1: Like I like to talk during six. But to me, 1304 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:11,640 Speaker 1: that seems a little awkward. 1305 01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,840 Speaker 3: That's weird as fuck. It's weird wed as fuck. I 1306 01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:16,840 Speaker 3: gets weird too. 1307 01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,480 Speaker 1: I don't kick shine, I don't, But I'm not about 1308 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 1: to suck that. I'm glad you took that over time, nigga, 1309 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,160 Speaker 1: you worked so hard today. I'm glad you clocked in. 1310 01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:27,040 Speaker 3: Or you deserve this nute. 1311 01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm not doing No, I'm not doing that. 1312 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:34,080 Speaker 2: I'm not like I feel like sex should be nasty. 1313 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 3: Were supposed to be talking some nasty street. 1314 01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:39,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, like I don't want to tell you like, oh 1315 01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 1: my god, thank you for calling me beautiful today, Like 1316 01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:42,880 Speaker 1: who is doing that? 1317 01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:43,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1318 01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,560 Speaker 1: No, I agree, Like definitely, you need to be telling 1319 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,600 Speaker 1: me how good my pussy is. And that's what we 1320 01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 1: need to be talking about during sick. 1321 01:01:52,760 --> 01:01:54,240 Speaker 4: Out, that's what we're. 1322 01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:56,280 Speaker 3: Gonna be talking we're gonna be talking about. 1323 01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 1: Like the positive affirmation that I say in the morning 1324 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,400 Speaker 1: is like my coffins half full. It's not half empty. 1325 01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:06,800 Speaker 1: What's built, what's meant for me? It's meant for me 1326 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:09,520 Speaker 1: and I cannot miss it. So it's just like thinking 1327 01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 1: about saying stuff like that to somebody while while I'm 1328 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:15,000 Speaker 1: getting hit from the back. 1329 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 3: I don't I don't see the correlation. Yeah, it's it's 1330 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,960 Speaker 3: not sexy, it's not. It seems a little awkward. But 1331 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:28,320 Speaker 3: you know what I will say, People say that like, 1332 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:29,280 Speaker 3: let never get. 1333 01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:32,520 Speaker 1: Another perspective because he was over here shaking his he 1334 01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:33,360 Speaker 1: was shaking your head. 1335 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:36,760 Speaker 3: Yes, so what do you think. 1336 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:47,200 Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair enough, that's fair enough, that's fair enough. 1337 01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,800 Speaker 1: But I feel like what you was just saying, that's extremes. 1338 01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 2: That's what some maya. 1339 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,680 Speaker 3: So Maya said that ship. What I'm saying that's a 1340 01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:57,880 Speaker 3: little extreme to me, like that, she said. 1341 01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:01,720 Speaker 1: My brain can't even while I'm getting fuzzed, she said, 1342 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: telling him how much he improves my life. 1343 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,240 Speaker 3: I'm not about to be sucking a nigga, be like, 1344 01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:06,320 Speaker 3: thank you for paying my rep. 1345 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,840 Speaker 1: My brain can't even my brain not even think about 1346 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:10,880 Speaker 1: this ship while I'm getting fuzzed. What Trina said, I'm 1347 01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:14,080 Speaker 1: trying to concentrate on busting me an, I ain't thinking 1348 01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,360 Speaker 1: about giving you no positive affirmation. 1349 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,480 Speaker 3: I'm not even to talk to you. I'm gonna tell 1350 01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:22,080 Speaker 3: you the dick fire if it's fire, But I might 1351 01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:25,720 Speaker 3: love to a little bit taken as yo pussy. You 1352 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:27,880 Speaker 3: could get that, Yeah, you can get that a little 1353 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,000 Speaker 3: like positive. 1354 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:33,280 Speaker 2: That's weird because, like I said, the positive affirmations I'm 1355 01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:36,160 Speaker 2: thinking about, and also I feel like that has to 1356 01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 2: be somebody's like I guess love language. You know too 1357 01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:42,840 Speaker 2: as well, because we talked about the sexual love languages 1358 01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:44,960 Speaker 2: and we all know the love languages. So I guess 1359 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,960 Speaker 2: like words of affirmation would have to be their love language. 1360 01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:50,120 Speaker 2: But I just feel like that's a little extreme. I 1361 01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,040 Speaker 2: don't know, it's just not it's not given sexy, it's 1362 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:54,240 Speaker 2: not giving sexy time. 1363 01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,680 Speaker 3: Given too much, it's getting forced. It's like, do I 1364 01:03:57,720 --> 01:03:59,720 Speaker 3: got to write this ship down and recite it first? 1365 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:01,560 Speaker 5: You know? 1366 01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:04,040 Speaker 1: I feel like people that do this because it's feel 1367 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:05,920 Speaker 1: like I wouldn't be able to come up with it 1368 01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:06,880 Speaker 1: off the top. 1369 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:08,600 Speaker 3: Of my head while I'm getting you know, the type 1370 01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,880 Speaker 3: of people that do stuff like this. And I'm not lying. 1371 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,120 Speaker 3: Who's you see how my hair is? Right now? I'm 1372 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:20,640 Speaker 3: giving Queen grand how are you don't say good morning? 1373 01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 3: You know what morning means and what are people went through? 1374 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 1: That's what it's giving my people that got hair like me, 1375 01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:33,240 Speaker 1: not craving hair. When I have my hair like this, 1376 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,560 Speaker 1: I'll be attracting all the hottest is like, beautiful queen, 1377 01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:37,919 Speaker 1: you better wear your crowd. 1378 01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:39,560 Speaker 3: Boy this we've let me alone. 1379 01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:43,280 Speaker 1: Let it's so funny that you know I'm about to 1380 01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:45,640 Speaker 1: get braids, So I'm gonna have braids on the next episode. 1381 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:47,920 Speaker 3: Same. 1382 01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,680 Speaker 1: That's the type of being I feel like I tracked 1383 01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:54,360 Speaker 1: two when I be having braids and more natural hairstyles 1384 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: versus the sewing in the front. 1385 01:04:57,480 --> 01:04:58,680 Speaker 3: Love and you wearing your crowd. 1386 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,800 Speaker 6: You got the money, You got the money because I'm 1387 01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:07,600 Speaker 6: not this is not this be question, No, no, no, 1388 01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:09,000 Speaker 6: what say it? 1389 01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:11,840 Speaker 3: Do you feel like it? B bdb's that be like that? 1390 01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:19,480 Speaker 3: What the hoteps? Because I'm not trying to be funny, 1391 01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:20,360 Speaker 3: but I'm trying to think. 1392 01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: I will say this, I feel like the word hotep. 1393 01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:29,200 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of hoteps. I'm not gonna 1394 01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: take nothing away from them. I feel like a lot 1395 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:34,560 Speaker 1: of them are super educated. That's about our history. But 1396 01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:37,920 Speaker 1: sometimes they're the ones that take shit too far and they. 1397 01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:39,520 Speaker 3: Try to miss opportunities. 1398 01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,640 Speaker 2: No, they try to instill their beliefs on people and 1399 01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:45,280 Speaker 2: they try to just force them their views on people. 1400 01:05:45,360 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: Well, see for me, sometimes I feel like because they 1401 01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:51,280 Speaker 1: are so much you know, so hotels, they miss out 1402 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:56,040 Speaker 1: on opportunities to be able to make more money because 1403 01:05:56,080 --> 01:05:56,760 Speaker 1: of their beliefs. 1404 01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:58,200 Speaker 3: Well, I don't feel that way. 1405 01:05:58,360 --> 01:05:59,840 Speaker 2: I don't feel that way because I feel like there's 1406 01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 2: a lot of people that are super successful in the 1407 01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 2: industry that are pro black and they don't mind. Like 1408 01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,240 Speaker 2: I'm not saying East Ray is a hotel, but I 1409 01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:09,560 Speaker 2: don't think easys when she goes on the red. 1410 01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:10,960 Speaker 3: Carpet, They're like, who do you want to win? A bitch? 1411 01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:13,280 Speaker 3: I'm rooming for everybody black like some people are. 1412 01:06:13,320 --> 01:06:15,800 Speaker 1: Very pro black. But first of all, Beach, that's us. 1413 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm always beautiful people black. We just talked about how 1414 01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:19,040 Speaker 1: I don't. 1415 01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,080 Speaker 3: Like to date black men that don't like black women. 1416 01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,120 Speaker 1: But I'm not Hotel, right, But what I'm saying is 1417 01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,160 Speaker 1: there's a lot of people I feel that are educated 1418 01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:27,600 Speaker 1: and those are their views. 1419 01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 2: So I do feel like there's a lot of bad 1420 01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,040 Speaker 2: b's that are educating. They have their views, but they 1421 01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:32,760 Speaker 2: don't try to push it on people because they don't 1422 01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 2: really care. 1423 01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,880 Speaker 1: Like I hate it. Like, for example, we just so 1424 01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,320 Speaker 1: off topic, but I hate a nigga who like be like, 1425 01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:42,480 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I normally don't date black girls, but you 1426 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:46,760 Speaker 1: know you you different, you so beautiful you. I literally 1427 01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,440 Speaker 1: hate that was my first dude was and that's how 1428 01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:51,640 Speaker 1: I dated somebody like that. Remember I told you that 1429 01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:54,880 Speaker 1: you met him that I dated for a while. 1430 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,480 Speaker 3: When I moved to Atlanta. He used to be like, oh, 1431 01:06:57,720 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 3: well not black girls. 1432 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,160 Speaker 1: He was like, I normally don't date dark skinned girls 1433 01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,640 Speaker 1: or brown skin, right, I hate, but you know you 1434 01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,720 Speaker 1: so different, like and you so beautiful Dcney, And it's like, 1435 01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:08,840 Speaker 1: why do people be feeling like that's a compliment. I 1436 01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:12,440 Speaker 1: hate dating men like that because women are so fucking beautiful. 1437 01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:15,400 Speaker 1: It's women that are five ten shades darker than me 1438 01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: that are beautiful as head, women that are five ten 1439 01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:21,000 Speaker 1: shades lighter than me that are beautiful. It's hell, Black 1440 01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 1: women are beautiful. It's we the most beautiful. 1441 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,280 Speaker 3: Women in the world, period. 1442 01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:28,720 Speaker 1: What are you saying, the most versatile time whatever, quote 1443 01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:31,439 Speaker 1: unquote exotic beats you want today, it's a black woman 1444 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:32,240 Speaker 1: that like that. 1445 01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:33,600 Speaker 5: They can go back and. 1446 01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:36,160 Speaker 3: Look at the hairstyles. We got a different hairstyle all the. 1447 01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:40,120 Speaker 1: Time period, giving versatile but going so going back to 1448 01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:45,920 Speaker 1: the theme for me, good luck, good luck, good luck 1449 01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:46,200 Speaker 1: with that. 1450 01:07:47,240 --> 01:07:52,280 Speaker 2: Okay, so we all know right now if you have 1451 01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,400 Speaker 2: not seen this movie, this is. 1452 01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:57,280 Speaker 3: The spoiler because we got to talk about we. 1453 01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,800 Speaker 1: Haven't done a movie discussion in a very long time, 1454 01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,160 Speaker 1: Secret Society, but we're about to do another. Uh. 1455 01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:07,440 Speaker 3: Prime needs to cut that chick. This is the last 1456 01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 3: one I'm doing with It's the last one we're doing 1457 01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:10,919 Speaker 3: Amazon Prime, y'all need to cut their check. 1458 01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:11,160 Speaker 1: Right. 1459 01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:15,400 Speaker 2: So we watched a movie on Amazon Prime called The Voyeurs, 1460 01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:16,679 Speaker 2: And when. 1461 01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:19,880 Speaker 1: I watched this movie, I absolutely had to talk about 1462 01:08:20,080 --> 01:08:21,880 Speaker 1: it's so good. 1463 01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:25,400 Speaker 3: The meaning, the meaning. It was just so many men. Okay, 1464 01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,200 Speaker 3: so let me just get into it. Let me just 1465 01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:28,720 Speaker 3: get into it. I'm gonna tell y'a everything. I'm gonna 1466 01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:30,800 Speaker 3: try to give y'all a quick breakdown. Oh you're gonna 1467 01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:33,000 Speaker 3: tell them. I'm gonna tell them what happened. Then we're 1468 01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:35,920 Speaker 3: gonna discuss, okay, the meaning. Okay. 1469 01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:39,280 Speaker 2: So basically the movie is about a couple. They move 1470 01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:42,720 Speaker 2: into this nice apartment, windows everywhere. It's not necessarily a 1471 01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:45,000 Speaker 2: high rise, but it's just like an apartment with a 1472 01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:45,559 Speaker 2: lot of windows. 1473 01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:46,240 Speaker 3: It's like a loft. 1474 01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:48,760 Speaker 1: It's like a loft, right, So they move across from 1475 01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:51,240 Speaker 1: another couple that has a loft that kind of looks 1476 01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:53,880 Speaker 1: the same with a bunch of windows. So I'm gonna 1477 01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:57,000 Speaker 1: say a couple A and couple B. Couple A starts 1478 01:08:57,120 --> 01:09:00,519 Speaker 1: watching couple B. They kind of become upset with them, 1479 01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 1: more so, more so, the woman in the relationship becomes 1480 01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:05,559 Speaker 1: obsessed with watching this couple. 1481 01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:06,320 Speaker 3: They're watching them. 1482 01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: Fuck, they're daily interactions, they're watching every. 1483 01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:16,320 Speaker 2: Soon, you know what I'm saying. 1484 01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 1: So the couple be the husband cheats on his wife. 1485 01:09:21,960 --> 01:09:25,000 Speaker 1: He's a photographer. He cheats on his wife. So what 1486 01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:27,280 Speaker 1: he does he has models come in. He acts like 1487 01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:29,160 Speaker 1: you're gonna take pictures of them, and he ends up 1488 01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:31,040 Speaker 1: right you. 1489 01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:31,759 Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. 1490 01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:36,559 Speaker 1: So during this time, the couple A is watching everything 1491 01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:40,240 Speaker 1: that's going on. So fast forward, the girl ends up 1492 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,040 Speaker 1: running into the other girl and couple B and like. 1493 01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:43,960 Speaker 3: A spar or something. 1494 01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:47,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, So they have a conversation and she's just basically 1495 01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:53,800 Speaker 1: like she's so obsessed with them. She's like, you know what, girl, Yeah, 1496 01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:55,639 Speaker 1: Like she basically let her know her nigga was cheating 1497 01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,040 Speaker 1: and to go look in the trash can. 1498 01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:03,040 Speaker 2: Whenever, girl from couple BEE goes home, looks in her 1499 01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:06,960 Speaker 2: trash can, finds the condom, her and the nigga star arguing. 1500 01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:11,120 Speaker 1: Mind you, Couple A is literally sating them, watching them argue, 1501 01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:14,920 Speaker 1: going off, and her boyfriend A couple a's boyfriend, he's like, 1502 01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:16,800 Speaker 1: what's going on while they arguing? 1503 01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:19,800 Speaker 3: He don't know what's going on because because she had 1504 01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:21,800 Speaker 3: been told him that she met up with the girl 1505 01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:23,479 Speaker 3: went to the spot and told the girl. 1506 01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:27,280 Speaker 2: And mind you, the couple the girlfriend from couple A 1507 01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:30,040 Speaker 2: watches them all the time, even when he doesn't know it, 1508 01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,760 Speaker 2: Like there's some scenes where she's literally fucking her boyfriend 1509 01:10:33,800 --> 01:10:36,760 Speaker 2: and she's watching this couple and she's getting off on it, 1510 01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:38,920 Speaker 2: like she's like obsessed with them. 1511 01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,639 Speaker 1: So anyways, the couple is arguing, couple Bee is arguing. 1512 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,920 Speaker 1: The guy goes into another room, slams the door, lays down, 1513 01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:50,040 Speaker 1: goes to bed. The woman from couple Bee slits her 1514 01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:53,960 Speaker 1: trigger warning suicide trigger warning. She ends up slitting her 1515 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:56,880 Speaker 1: wrist or her neck or something and kills herself, so 1516 01:10:57,080 --> 01:11:01,439 Speaker 1: she ends up dying or whatever. So they're dying. 1517 01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:04,600 Speaker 3: So the couple is watching this and he's like, what 1518 01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:09,040 Speaker 3: the fuck happened. She's like, Beach, I snitched. I told that, nigga. 1519 01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:12,040 Speaker 3: So he like, Beach, I can't be here nowhere. We done. 1520 01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:14,800 Speaker 3: I'm leaving you a weird ass, Beach. I'm leaving. I'm 1521 01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:19,680 Speaker 3: going to my parents' houselating this. Yeah, you know, little bit, 1522 01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:21,519 Speaker 3: little bit, it definitely didn't. 1523 01:11:21,320 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 1: Go down a weird ass Beach I got to go, 1524 01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:26,719 Speaker 1: and she was like, hold on, nigga, you just gonna 1525 01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:30,839 Speaker 1: leave me in a time like this, And that's what happened. 1526 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:35,480 Speaker 3: So give me Kate Winsley, you as an actress. 1527 01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:36,479 Speaker 2: I am that. 1528 01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:38,800 Speaker 3: I can't wait to be on a sitcom. Yeah yeah, yeah, 1529 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:43,599 Speaker 3: yeah yeah. So anyways, so basically, yeah, that's what happened. 1530 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:47,720 Speaker 1: So she ends up going to a bar. She meet 1531 01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,000 Speaker 1: the nigga at the nigga who a couple of bees. 1532 01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:52,760 Speaker 1: She meet a couple of bee nigga at the bar. 1533 01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,960 Speaker 1: Mind she's very distraught over the woman killing herself. Though, 1534 01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:59,040 Speaker 1: she's very distracted. She when I tell y'all what happened next, 1535 01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:02,760 Speaker 1: Ye'll gonna be like really. So yeah, So she goes 1536 01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,680 Speaker 1: to meet the nig They having a conversation. I'm not 1537 01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 1: gonna lie to at that point when he said the 1538 01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:12,760 Speaker 1: stuff that he said, I'm like, no, I'm like he know, 1539 01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:18,559 Speaker 1: d don't say okay okay. So anyway, so they're talking 1540 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:20,640 Speaker 1: about it. He basically kind of letting her know, like, 1541 01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,200 Speaker 1: you know, I'm going through something right now. He didn't 1542 01:12:23,280 --> 01:12:25,800 Speaker 1: tell her what happened, but he let her know he 1543 01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:28,880 Speaker 1: was going through something serious. He had lost somebody. They 1544 01:12:29,080 --> 01:12:31,160 Speaker 1: end up having a few drinks. They go back to 1545 01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:32,560 Speaker 1: the house. 1546 01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:34,519 Speaker 5: With me. 1547 01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,880 Speaker 1: It ain't take her too many. So they get back 1548 01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:41,680 Speaker 1: to the house or whatever, they're talking. He's like, oh, 1549 01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:43,439 Speaker 1: do you mind if I take some photos of you? 1550 01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:45,760 Speaker 1: So he started taking some pictures of her. He and 1551 01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:47,840 Speaker 1: the basically ended up getting her but as naked and 1552 01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:51,760 Speaker 1: he geting naked too, and then they start fucking, right, 1553 01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:57,240 Speaker 1: and so the boyfriend from the couple A, he come 1554 01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:58,479 Speaker 1: back to the house because he. 1555 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:01,200 Speaker 3: Trying to, you know, where can all their differences. 1556 01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:05,120 Speaker 1: And he sees them fucking. He picked up the binoculars 1557 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:06,400 Speaker 1: and he looked across. 1558 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:06,639 Speaker 3: The way. 1559 01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:08,960 Speaker 6: He was. 1560 01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:16,080 Speaker 1: He was tanning it up, like Jesz said, So anyways, 1561 01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:21,960 Speaker 1: like so they fucking in she and then he kills hisself. Yes, 1562 01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:24,800 Speaker 1: he kills this boyfriend from a couple A sees his 1563 01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:25,960 Speaker 1: girlfriend fucking the man. 1564 01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:28,080 Speaker 3: You see that nigga tearing it up. You see him 1565 01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:32,040 Speaker 3: tanning up, and he hangs and he told that nick up. 1566 01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:34,160 Speaker 2: He hung himself. 1567 01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:38,280 Speaker 3: He told that nigga. So they they have a funeral. 1568 01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:41,000 Speaker 2: And so at this point, she's vulnerable now because she 1569 01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:43,439 Speaker 2: feels like, oh, me and him can connect because we 1570 01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:45,320 Speaker 2: both lost our partners to suicide. 1571 01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:47,960 Speaker 1: Mind you, she knows he's a photographer. He's like, hey, 1572 01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:52,320 Speaker 1: I got this exhibit. Call this what gett's juicy? Now, 1573 01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:56,120 Speaker 1: y'all better, you gotta say juicy juicy. So he got 1574 01:13:56,200 --> 01:13:59,160 Speaker 1: the exhibit bitch. So he's like, I have an exhibit. 1575 01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:00,680 Speaker 1: I'm about to show my photographs. 1576 01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:03,040 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. You know, She's like, well, no, he 1577 01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:06,160 Speaker 2: didn't invite her. He didn't invite her. It was like, no, 1578 01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:09,080 Speaker 2: he didn't invite her. Remember she just like heard about she. 1579 01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:10,479 Speaker 3: Just popped and she popped up. 1580 01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:12,679 Speaker 2: She's like, no, I want to go and support him because, 1581 01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:13,960 Speaker 2: like I said, we're going through the same thing. 1582 01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:16,519 Speaker 3: She's talking to her homegirl. So she pops up at 1583 01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:17,200 Speaker 3: the exhibit. 1584 01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:20,160 Speaker 2: It's a lot of people there. He walks up to 1585 01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:22,040 Speaker 2: hers like, oh, I'm so happy that you're here. 1586 01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:25,280 Speaker 3: So they're like okay. Now he's about to present his exhibit. 1587 01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:27,400 Speaker 3: So he gets upstep on stage. 1588 01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:27,760 Speaker 1: Bitch. 1589 01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:30,559 Speaker 3: He get on the mic. Guess who come up on stage. 1590 01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:35,280 Speaker 3: He's the white that died commit suicide, the wife that 1591 01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:39,439 Speaker 3: committed suicide because she cheated on him. So she's like, yeah, bitch. 1592 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:42,280 Speaker 1: She looked at it like trump cart you thought you 1593 01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:45,320 Speaker 1: fucked my man, bitch, you thought you thought so the 1594 01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:51,559 Speaker 1: exhibit was people getting out of their element and watching people, 1595 01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 1: so they dropped the curtains. It's all it's pictures of 1596 01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,720 Speaker 1: her that he took off her naked, it's pictures of 1597 01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,880 Speaker 1: her with her binoculars spying on them. It's just the 1598 01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,040 Speaker 1: whole exit basically talking about how they've known this whole 1599 01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:07,679 Speaker 1: time they were really watching them, right, so the story 1600 01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 1: was like. 1601 01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,760 Speaker 3: Oh, you think you're watching me, I'm watching. 1602 01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:12,960 Speaker 1: And then it came out later in the movie that 1603 01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:16,160 Speaker 1: basically when they when they signed their lease, it was 1604 01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:17,519 Speaker 1: like something we. 1605 01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:18,560 Speaker 3: Don't get to that, we don't get to that. 1606 01:15:18,560 --> 01:15:21,120 Speaker 2: We gonna get to that. So they're showing the exhibit 1607 01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:25,160 Speaker 2: like picture by picture, and they ended with me and 1608 01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:26,960 Speaker 2: this woman had sex. 1609 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:32,320 Speaker 1: And her boyfriend killed herself, and everybody's like, yes, brobo, 1610 01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:35,439 Speaker 1: because y'all know people love that. People love came out 1611 01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:37,240 Speaker 1: to see a niggada. 1612 01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:41,479 Speaker 3: Bitch nigga dad is going viral. So basically they go 1613 01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:42,720 Speaker 3: on the world motherfucking tour. 1614 01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:44,600 Speaker 2: They like we and niggas in Paris and. 1615 01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:50,000 Speaker 3: They went on a whole fucking tour like with this exhibit. 1616 01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:52,240 Speaker 3: They tour in the world. They making money and the 1617 01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 3: whole time she just like, oh my golightly did really did? 1618 01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:01,720 Speaker 3: The first lady from a couple will be Couple B. 1619 01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:08,360 Speaker 1: Lady from Couple A really died yeah, that tell the 1620 01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:11,479 Speaker 1: next part of the story when shit gets really fucking twitched. 1621 01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:13,720 Speaker 1: So they start going on like a world little tour 1622 01:16:13,920 --> 01:16:17,280 Speaker 1: or whatever it. Basically, in one of the interviews that 1623 01:16:17,360 --> 01:16:20,240 Speaker 1: they did, they basically showed like the least that I 1624 01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:22,560 Speaker 1: guess they signed, and they were basically like, you know, 1625 01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,840 Speaker 1: it's so crazy because so many people signed documents every 1626 01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:28,240 Speaker 1: day and they don't read through it, which is very true. 1627 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:30,880 Speaker 1: I heard we've all done that before. Like, so they 1628 01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:32,839 Speaker 1: were like, you know, people don't be reading through their documents. 1629 01:16:32,880 --> 01:16:34,080 Speaker 1: It actually says here. 1630 01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:35,640 Speaker 3: That we were going to be watching this, right. 1631 01:16:36,240 --> 01:16:38,360 Speaker 1: So in the beginning of the movie, the couple a 1632 01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,439 Speaker 1: they were moving into a new apartment together, and they 1633 01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,080 Speaker 1: signed the least and in the least they didn't know 1634 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:47,439 Speaker 1: that the couple across from them owned the condo they 1635 01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:50,360 Speaker 1: were living in, so in the least that they signed 1636 01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:52,360 Speaker 1: it says, oh, we're allowed to take pictures of you. 1637 01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:53,360 Speaker 1: We're going to be watching you. 1638 01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:55,840 Speaker 3: But they didn't read any of that and so they 1639 01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:56,240 Speaker 3: signed it. 1640 01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:58,800 Speaker 1: So they're basically like, you know, you know about this 1641 01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,479 Speaker 1: shit happened, but like it was legal, Like we didn't 1642 01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:02,479 Speaker 1: do anything illegal. 1643 01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:04,360 Speaker 3: It was in clauses in the leaves. 1644 01:17:04,520 --> 01:17:07,000 Speaker 2: So so now she decides to get revenge. 1645 01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:10,719 Speaker 3: So now you want to get revenge. So basically she ends. 1646 01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,719 Speaker 2: Up, well, let me say this, she ends up finding 1647 01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:16,920 Speaker 2: out that her boyfriend did not commit suicide. 1648 01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:19,720 Speaker 3: They killed him. They killed him. So what they did, 1649 01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:25,080 Speaker 3: You're like, yeah, I did, So what's the What couple B. 1650 01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:28,439 Speaker 2: Did is they snuck in the couple a's apartment and 1651 01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:31,360 Speaker 2: they poisoned like some water, some chlorophyll stuff that he 1652 01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:31,960 Speaker 2: was drinking. 1653 01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,360 Speaker 1: So what they did is they poisoned it. But it 1654 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 1: was nothing to kill him. It was to knock him outright, 1655 01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:40,560 Speaker 1: and it was untraceable in his blood. So once he 1656 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:42,880 Speaker 1: was knocked out, they went in the apartment and they 1657 01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:45,440 Speaker 1: hung him to make it look like suicide. 1658 01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:48,320 Speaker 3: So she put all the little puzzle pieces together. 1659 01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:52,720 Speaker 1: Figured out and she worked at a eye eyeplace, the 1660 01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:57,280 Speaker 1: eye place. So so after she figured out that he 1661 01:17:57,680 --> 01:18:01,000 Speaker 1: was killed, she said, oh, I got something for y'all. 1662 01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 3: For y'all be chastis. 1663 01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:06,240 Speaker 1: So then she goes and she gets the same thing, right, yes, 1664 01:18:06,320 --> 01:18:09,240 Speaker 1: and she sends them a bottle. She sends them a 1665 01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 1: bottle of wine. It had a nice little note. They 1666 01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:13,880 Speaker 1: thinking it's from somebody that was a fan or whatever. 1667 01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:16,040 Speaker 3: So they're drinking the bottle of wine. She had put 1668 01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:19,479 Speaker 3: the same thing in the bottle of wine. Ended up, 1669 01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:22,120 Speaker 3: they ended up seeing her still watching them because she 1670 01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:24,640 Speaker 3: set that up, because she wanted to set that up. 1671 01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:28,639 Speaker 3: She set that up. So they go over to where 1672 01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:29,080 Speaker 3: she is. 1673 01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:31,640 Speaker 1: They start talking and she she feels like, you know, 1674 01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,280 Speaker 1: they're about to do well, she's putting on this act 1675 01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:36,360 Speaker 1: like she's scared and they're about to do something to her. 1676 01:18:36,600 --> 01:18:39,160 Speaker 3: But whole time she knows she already done poison the ass. 1677 01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:40,680 Speaker 3: So she just waiting for the she to kick in. 1678 01:18:41,080 --> 01:18:48,880 Speaker 3: So the lady she starts like, you know, yeah, come on, okay, 1679 01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:53,400 Speaker 3: stop playing with them. She passes out right, So he's like, 1680 01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:55,439 Speaker 3: what the fuck did you do to her? What do 1681 01:18:55,520 --> 01:18:57,160 Speaker 3: you do to her? She's like, well you wait a 1682 01:18:57,200 --> 01:18:59,040 Speaker 3: little bit more. So it's about to kick in soon, 1683 01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 3: and he like, yeah, Sony Williams. Yeah, he want Wendy 1684 01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 3: Williams with. 1685 01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:09,080 Speaker 1: So he starts shaking his ship and then she like, 1686 01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:10,800 Speaker 1: take a good look at me because it's the last 1687 01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:11,559 Speaker 1: thing you gonna see. 1688 01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:12,680 Speaker 3: So see, my dumb ass. 1689 01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:16,280 Speaker 1: I thought that they that she had killed them niggas, 1690 01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:18,840 Speaker 1: But she didn't kill them, so she did. 1691 01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 3: Let me tell you what the whole did. She don't 1692 01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:23,680 Speaker 3: pick them motherfuckers up. 1693 01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,719 Speaker 2: Now, you know her adrenaline going, because that's some heavy 1694 01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:26,640 Speaker 2: ass ship right now. 1695 01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:26,840 Speaker 1: Now. 1696 01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:29,479 Speaker 3: She picked them up. She put them on that little 1697 01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:31,519 Speaker 3: lace like the little Lasik machine. 1698 01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:35,840 Speaker 2: She blinded the both of them. She blinded them so 1699 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:38,760 Speaker 2: when they woke up they could no longer see and 1700 01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:41,280 Speaker 2: moved out of the apartment so they could never He 1701 01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:44,640 Speaker 2: could never shoot pictures again. They can't whoever moves in 1702 01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:48,400 Speaker 2: that apartment that they own, they can't do that to nobody. 1703 01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:51,720 Speaker 3: Fucking they because they can't see shipping on me. And 1704 01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:03,080 Speaker 3: that's all they was doing. 1705 01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:11,200 Speaker 1: For when I tell you all that, because honestly, I'm 1706 01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:12,880 Speaker 1: not gonna lie, the first forty five minutes of the 1707 01:20:12,960 --> 01:20:13,960 Speaker 1: movie is just like fucking. 1708 01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:16,200 Speaker 3: It's fucking and like I fell asleep on a lot 1709 01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:19,760 Speaker 3: of it. I fell asleep on the movie. I'm like 1710 01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:21,479 Speaker 3: you big horny. 1711 01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:24,160 Speaker 1: I fell asleep on the movie like two or three times. 1712 01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:28,000 Speaker 1: But like honestly, finishing it, it was so it was good. 1713 01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:30,679 Speaker 1: The plot twist, it just kept being twisted after twist, 1714 01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:33,519 Speaker 1: because honestly, I was shocked when he killed hisself, then 1715 01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:36,280 Speaker 1: finding out he didn't kill hisself, finding out they. 1716 01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:39,080 Speaker 3: Were watching them. It was just like twist after twist 1717 01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:40,559 Speaker 3: after twist. It was so good. 1718 01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:41,920 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like it was a lot of 1719 01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:43,960 Speaker 1: sheet that I just was, like, what it made you 1720 01:20:44,080 --> 01:20:47,320 Speaker 1: really think deep because honestly, she really put herself in 1721 01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:50,960 Speaker 1: that ship from being upset and it was let me 1722 01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:54,120 Speaker 1: tell you how I feel about these holes. Definitely feel 1723 01:20:54,160 --> 01:20:59,599 Speaker 1: bad for she's a Definitely feel bad for her because 1724 01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:02,040 Speaker 1: her killed himself. He was the He was the only 1725 01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:05,840 Speaker 1: innocent person in the hall. Only her boyfriend that well, 1726 01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:06,639 Speaker 1: he didn't kill himself. 1727 01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:07,320 Speaker 3: He got killed. 1728 01:21:07,360 --> 01:21:09,920 Speaker 1: He got killed, but he was the only innocent person 1729 01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:13,280 Speaker 1: in the hall situation. She was bitch, you fraud because 1730 01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:16,479 Speaker 1: you had been wanted to fuck nigga from a couple bee. 1731 01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:20,680 Speaker 1: You had been wanting to fuck the couple beas intrigued. 1732 01:21:20,520 --> 01:21:21,360 Speaker 3: You were obsessed. 1733 01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:23,559 Speaker 1: You had wanted to fuck that and you literally fucked 1734 01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:26,479 Speaker 1: him and you knew his wife had just supposedly slit 1735 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:29,639 Speaker 1: her throat, killed herself, and you know that your nigga 1736 01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:31,160 Speaker 1: just died, he hung. 1737 01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:33,240 Speaker 3: Himself, And then you go over there, are you fucking 1738 01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:35,080 Speaker 3: this nigga? And he was tearing it up. 1739 01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:39,599 Speaker 2: He was, how you have beach none? The pussy was hot? 1740 01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:41,240 Speaker 3: She have no remorse? 1741 01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:44,760 Speaker 1: She didn't, But like I was saying, she's in the inn. 1742 01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:47,120 Speaker 1: I'm glad she got her revenge. It needs to be 1743 01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:49,960 Speaker 1: a part too that somebody needs to blind you. I know, 1744 01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:52,160 Speaker 1: I do like the fact that she got revenged. But 1745 01:21:52,439 --> 01:21:55,040 Speaker 1: in the end, I really was like, everything that happened 1746 01:21:55,120 --> 01:21:56,960 Speaker 1: was your fault. So you have nobody to be mad at. 1747 01:21:57,320 --> 01:21:59,200 Speaker 3: How you gonna be mad if she was obsessed with 1748 01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:02,160 Speaker 3: these people? Yes, so it was good. It was a 1749 01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:04,320 Speaker 3: good movie. Though, make sure y'all watch The Boyeurs. 1750 01:22:04,479 --> 01:22:07,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna put all the disclaimer in the bidio, so 1751 01:22:08,680 --> 01:22:11,000 Speaker 1: if you want to go watch it, go ahead. 1752 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:14,720 Speaker 3: You all watch this episode first. What's up, y'all? Is 1753 01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:17,240 Speaker 3: your girl next Paint and it's see Girls Ring in 1754 01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:22,760 Speaker 3: the Cold, And we have some really exciting news. It's huge. 1755 01:22:23,080 --> 01:22:25,639 Speaker 3: Ready to say, I'm ready to say it. I'm ready 1756 01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 3: to say. Can you believe we were finally here? I can? 1757 01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:30,559 Speaker 3: I can believe it. It's been a long time coming. 1758 01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:37,439 Speaker 3: So we're actually gonna have our first live show. Y'all 1759 01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:39,519 Speaker 3: have been asking for the longest time, and then it's 1760 01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:41,160 Speaker 3: finally here, finally here. 1761 01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:43,320 Speaker 2: So I gonna let y'all know way ahead of time. 1762 01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:47,000 Speaker 1: It's gonna be November seventeen at Dainty's in Nashville. 1763 01:22:47,520 --> 01:22:51,720 Speaker 3: This is my first time that I didn't know it 1764 01:22:51,880 --> 01:22:55,080 Speaker 3: was so big without five out site. 1765 01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:59,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, so November seventeen in Nashville. Make sure y'all get 1766 01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:02,719 Speaker 1: y'all tickets right now. When I tell y'all, y'all thought 1767 01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:05,760 Speaker 1: that this ship was good, what's your live show? 1768 01:23:06,040 --> 01:23:07,760 Speaker 3: It's gonna be so good. So we're gonna put the 1769 01:23:07,840 --> 01:23:08,280 Speaker 3: link in the. 1770 01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:11,920 Speaker 1: Bay, y'all. So y'all get y'all's tickets and we'll see 1771 01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:14,200 Speaker 1: y'all November seventeen for mine's live show. 1772 01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:18,400 Speaker 3: Let im getting up with the world. So now we're 1773 01:23:18,439 --> 01:23:23,360 Speaker 3: gonna get into the by a about Bowl, the about 1774 01:23:23,479 --> 01:23:25,760 Speaker 3: Bow Bow, About Bow Bow. 1775 01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:29,080 Speaker 1: I'm so excited about this bop of the week because 1776 01:23:29,439 --> 01:23:32,559 Speaker 1: I love him. He's doing his thing and he's super talented. 1777 01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:34,200 Speaker 3: Ain't tall that nigga? 1778 01:23:34,840 --> 01:23:35,519 Speaker 1: Yeah that nigga? 1779 01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:39,080 Speaker 3: Like six oh oh I do so. 1780 01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:42,879 Speaker 1: Mas has a new song called Garden Party is featuring 1781 01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:46,840 Speaker 1: Gid and Big Boy, and I feel like it's so 1782 01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:48,880 Speaker 1: funny because everybody likes to talk. 1783 01:23:48,960 --> 01:23:49,320 Speaker 3: They ship. 1784 01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:51,479 Speaker 2: You know, people talk they shit. We'd be like, oh, 1785 01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:53,519 Speaker 2: I'm a bad bitch, I got this on. 1786 01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,720 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is he talked to ship, but 1787 01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:59,200 Speaker 1: in a different way. So if you've ever heard of 1788 01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:02,200 Speaker 1: Massago or listen to his music, you know he plays 1789 01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:07,400 Speaker 1: a bunch of fucking instruments. He plays the piano, the saxophone, 1790 01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:10,640 Speaker 1: the fucking trumpet, like he plays a bunch of instruments. 1791 01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:14,719 Speaker 1: So this song is basically about him having a party 1792 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 1: in a garden and him playing his instruments like he 1793 01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:19,600 Speaker 1: talking to shit, like he letting people know, Like this 1794 01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 1: is how fucking talented I am. 1795 01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:22,320 Speaker 3: This is what I do. 1796 01:24:22,840 --> 01:24:26,160 Speaker 2: And I really feel like, honestly, listening to the whole song, 1797 01:24:26,240 --> 01:24:29,280 Speaker 2: the arrangement was amazing. I feel like he really played 1798 01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:31,120 Speaker 2: all the instruments playing in this song. 1799 01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:32,439 Speaker 3: I really do. 1800 01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:35,160 Speaker 1: I could be wrong because I don't know if he 1801 01:24:35,160 --> 01:24:36,640 Speaker 1: plays the drums or not, but he probably do. 1802 01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:37,439 Speaker 3: He does. 1803 01:24:38,120 --> 01:24:42,560 Speaker 1: He's so playing everything. He's so musically inclined. People like 1804 01:24:42,640 --> 01:24:45,760 Speaker 1: that are so intelligent. By the way, I know, he's 1805 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:46,439 Speaker 1: smart as hell. 1806 01:24:46,520 --> 01:24:50,160 Speaker 3: He had a high as IQ. Yeah. So yeah, so 1807 01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:50,880 Speaker 3: the song is. 1808 01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,400 Speaker 1: Just it's an amazing track. Like I feel like it's 1809 01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:55,880 Speaker 1: one of those songs. Honestly, if you even just take 1810 01:24:55,960 --> 01:24:58,280 Speaker 1: the lyrics out, you can just literally listen to the 1811 01:24:58,400 --> 01:25:00,880 Speaker 1: track and listen to the music. So that's my bop 1812 01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:05,360 Speaker 1: of the week Masago Garden Party. It's a hit if 1813 01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:07,559 Speaker 1: you're on some vibe like chill shit. 1814 01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:11,600 Speaker 3: So my mop of the week is gonna be the 1815 01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:16,519 Speaker 3: song with Nicki Minaj and Jesse Nelson. I really like 1816 01:25:16,600 --> 01:25:19,120 Speaker 3: that song. I think it's cute. It's a little remix 1817 01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:22,280 Speaker 3: to the d D song Bad Boys for Life. I 1818 01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:27,400 Speaker 3: like you. I think it's cute. Clearly you ain't feeling it, but. 1819 01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:27,960 Speaker 5: I like you. 1820 01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:30,719 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I'm no longer a barb, so I have nothing 1821 01:25:30,760 --> 01:25:31,080 Speaker 2: to say. 1822 01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:34,679 Speaker 3: Why We'll talk about it on Patreon. 1823 01:25:34,840 --> 01:25:42,599 Speaker 1: Make sure you subscribe, okay, And then I also want 1824 01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:45,839 Speaker 1: to shout out this other song from my friend Meghan. 1825 01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:53,080 Speaker 3: I like thet I'm making for Bad Girls. I can't 1826 01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:53,479 Speaker 3: remember the. 1827 01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:57,519 Speaker 1: Name of the song, Playbook by Meghan James featuring Soldier Boys. 1828 01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:02,800 Speaker 3: To shout out to Megan. She sounds good. 1829 01:26:03,320 --> 01:26:06,000 Speaker 1: I really, I'm not just saying it because we're cool 1830 01:26:06,040 --> 01:26:08,720 Speaker 1: with Meghan. I really do like the song like she 1831 01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:10,320 Speaker 1: was popping some bad ship. 1832 01:26:10,479 --> 01:26:11,400 Speaker 3: But I set some ship. 1833 01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:13,320 Speaker 1: You could definitely listen to why you're getting ready to 1834 01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:15,880 Speaker 1: go out to listen to your car on the way 1835 01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:16,479 Speaker 1: to the club. 1836 01:26:16,800 --> 01:26:16,840 Speaker 3: Like. 1837 01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,320 Speaker 2: But one thing I will say I like about Megan 1838 01:26:19,479 --> 01:26:21,920 Speaker 2: is like she really lived that life, Like she makes money. 1839 01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:27,639 Speaker 3: She be on her ship shout out to give all 1840 01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:30,200 Speaker 3: the playbooks. Oh yeah, but I can't wait to hear 1841 01:26:30,360 --> 01:26:32,680 Speaker 3: the t why You're not a bar no more? Yeah, 1842 01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:33,760 Speaker 3: I'm not a bar no more so. 1843 01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:35,840 Speaker 1: So now you know, it's time to get into our 1844 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:39,200 Speaker 1: favorite segment of the show, the questions a k A. 1845 01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:40,639 Speaker 3: Pour your heart out. 1846 01:26:40,720 --> 01:26:42,800 Speaker 1: If you have any questions, you know, go ahead and 1847 01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:45,680 Speaker 1: send them to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com. 1848 01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:48,280 Speaker 1: It's as k p O you r in my n 1849 01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:50,720 Speaker 1: d s at gmail dot com. 1850 01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:56,160 Speaker 3: We also are accepting you know, your testimonial. You want 1851 01:26:56,160 --> 01:26:56,519 Speaker 3: to hear. 1852 01:26:58,720 --> 01:27:02,160 Speaker 1: The lives because y'all ain't gave us no good reviews here, 1853 01:27:02,680 --> 01:27:04,880 Speaker 1: So we're gonna go ahead and get into the questions. 1854 01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:06,760 Speaker 3: I will read question number one. 1855 01:27:06,920 --> 01:27:10,679 Speaker 1: Okay, hey y'all, I have been fucking with this NFL 1856 01:27:10,760 --> 01:27:13,479 Speaker 1: player for a while and the chemistry is crazy. I've 1857 01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:15,320 Speaker 1: never liked the guy as much as I like him. 1858 01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:18,479 Speaker 1: We get along so well. I can't even fake the chemistry. 1859 01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:21,000 Speaker 1: It's not even for the money at this point, although 1860 01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:24,360 Speaker 1: that bonus is helping. He even feels the same about me. 1861 01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:26,360 Speaker 1: He said he got to start talking to me less 1862 01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:29,280 Speaker 1: because I might actually have a hold on him cease 1863 01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:32,559 Speaker 1: I can feel myself getting closer to the little wag 1864 01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:37,000 Speaker 1: lifestyle or whatever. But how do you actually bag a BBB? Like, 1865 01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:39,280 Speaker 1: what is the final trick or step that I'm missing? 1866 01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:41,439 Speaker 1: How do I stamp this nigga and live in his mind? 1867 01:27:41,479 --> 01:27:47,640 Speaker 1: Rent free help uses out Nazis. We ain't married, so 1868 01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:50,280 Speaker 1: but I also say this with. 1869 01:27:50,520 --> 01:27:53,559 Speaker 2: NFL players because y'all know I have any football bab. 1870 01:27:54,680 --> 01:27:59,479 Speaker 3: There's nothing in there I did Yo bad. 1871 01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, but I will say this dealing with athletes. 1872 01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that he doesn't feel this way about 1873 01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:10,880 Speaker 1: you because I don't know y'all personally. But sometimes you 1874 01:28:10,920 --> 01:28:14,320 Speaker 1: gotta take what they say as surface level now and 1875 01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:16,519 Speaker 1: you gotta just be careful because I feel like, at 1876 01:28:16,560 --> 01:28:19,439 Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's not no final trick, 1877 01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:21,120 Speaker 1: it's not a step that you're missing, Because if a 1878 01:28:21,160 --> 01:28:23,000 Speaker 1: man wants you. He's gonna let it be known, like 1879 01:28:23,200 --> 01:28:25,360 Speaker 1: I want you. I don't want you fucking with nobody 1880 01:28:25,400 --> 01:28:27,200 Speaker 1: else because I'm not gonna lie. When I was dealing 1881 01:28:27,240 --> 01:28:29,400 Speaker 1: with my first BDB, my basketball baby that we were 1882 01:28:29,400 --> 01:28:32,639 Speaker 1: talking about earlier, literally I was in college, he asked 1883 01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:34,680 Speaker 1: me to move to LA He wanted me to do this. 1884 01:28:34,840 --> 01:28:35,560 Speaker 3: He wanted me to do that. 1885 01:28:35,800 --> 01:28:39,719 Speaker 2: I wasn't willing to give up my degree and going 1886 01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:41,840 Speaker 2: for my dreams and what I wanted to do. I 1887 01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:44,920 Speaker 2: made that decision. Looking back on it, would I do 1888 01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:49,599 Speaker 2: things differently? He yeah, But I will say this, why though, 1889 01:28:50,600 --> 01:28:53,280 Speaker 2: I will say this, it would have been different, But 1890 01:28:53,360 --> 01:28:55,400 Speaker 2: I will say, you would have never met me. No, 1891 01:28:55,479 --> 01:28:55,840 Speaker 2: you're right. 1892 01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:56,880 Speaker 3: Let me let me not lie. 1893 01:28:56,920 --> 01:28:58,800 Speaker 1: I would, but I will say I would be sad. 1894 01:28:58,960 --> 01:29:01,040 Speaker 1: College for me was just kind like whatever, Like I 1895 01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:03,360 Speaker 1: don't even use my degree. But that's a different story. 1896 01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:06,240 Speaker 1: But I will say, if there is nothing you can 1897 01:29:06,320 --> 01:29:09,080 Speaker 1: do to stamp a nigga live in his mind, rent 1898 01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:12,280 Speaker 1: free it. Just if that's what you're giving him, that's 1899 01:29:12,320 --> 01:29:14,240 Speaker 1: what you're giving him. There's nothing that you can do. 1900 01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:17,240 Speaker 1: If he wants you, he's going to let it be known. 1901 01:29:17,560 --> 01:29:20,000 Speaker 1: So I'll say for now just enjoy it, have fun. 1902 01:29:20,320 --> 01:29:21,880 Speaker 1: If he wants you, he gonna stamp it. 1903 01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:24,280 Speaker 2: But trust me, because one thing about a man, they 1904 01:29:24,360 --> 01:29:26,840 Speaker 2: do not mind speaking up if they want you, if 1905 01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:28,640 Speaker 2: they don't want you fucking with other niggas or. 1906 01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:31,519 Speaker 3: This and that. You know what I'm saying. Do you agree? 1907 01:29:31,560 --> 01:29:36,560 Speaker 1: And I'm dead Yeah, I just I definitely agree. I 1908 01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:39,960 Speaker 1: think that men know when they want something, they like 1909 01:29:40,080 --> 01:29:42,680 Speaker 1: what they like, they know when they know. If a 1910 01:29:42,760 --> 01:29:44,600 Speaker 1: man wants to take it to the next level with you, 1911 01:29:44,720 --> 01:29:45,400 Speaker 1: that's what he gonna do. 1912 01:29:45,720 --> 01:29:45,840 Speaker 2: Right. 1913 01:29:46,560 --> 01:29:48,040 Speaker 3: It's not really nothing that you could do. 1914 01:29:48,080 --> 01:29:49,639 Speaker 1: And if he don't take it to the next level, 1915 01:29:49,680 --> 01:29:52,360 Speaker 1: then after a certain period of time, you have the 1916 01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:54,599 Speaker 1: right to be like, Okay, this nigga wasted my song. 1917 01:29:54,640 --> 01:29:58,280 Speaker 3: Right all right? Question two. 1918 01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:01,760 Speaker 1: I'm at this beautiful girl through mutual friends. When I 1919 01:30:01,920 --> 01:30:05,559 Speaker 1: was outside on a Sunday fun day. We connected instantly, 1920 01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:08,080 Speaker 1: dance and laughed together the whole time as if we 1921 01:30:08,160 --> 01:30:10,519 Speaker 1: had known each other for years. We followed each other 1922 01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:13,040 Speaker 1: on Instagram and constantly gave each other compliments. 1923 01:30:13,080 --> 01:30:15,479 Speaker 3: So I started to develop a little crushy crush on her. 1924 01:30:16,200 --> 01:30:20,760 Speaker 3: What I don't know, cook, that's all right. I think 1925 01:30:20,800 --> 01:30:24,200 Speaker 3: that was already in Mary, I'm sorry, excuse me. 1926 01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:26,960 Speaker 1: I ran it to her again. A couple of months 1927 01:30:27,040 --> 01:30:29,960 Speaker 1: later at a club. Again, we danced and stuck together 1928 01:30:30,080 --> 01:30:33,960 Speaker 1: the whole night. However, this time she was way more clingy, 1929 01:30:34,200 --> 01:30:37,360 Speaker 1: just all on my body, interlocking fingers while walking in 1930 01:30:37,479 --> 01:30:40,400 Speaker 1: all that. I didn't mind this because I actually liked her, 1931 01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:42,400 Speaker 1: and in my head it seemed like she was kind 1932 01:30:42,439 --> 01:30:44,880 Speaker 1: of filling the kid too. I walked her to her 1933 01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:47,160 Speaker 1: car and sat with her for a bit, just chatting. 1934 01:30:47,560 --> 01:30:50,320 Speaker 1: I finally made my move. I gently grabbed the back 1935 01:30:50,360 --> 01:30:52,720 Speaker 1: of her face and neck and pulled her in for 1936 01:30:52,840 --> 01:30:53,280 Speaker 1: a kiss. 1937 01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:55,719 Speaker 2: We pecked, but she pulled back, saying. 1938 01:30:55,600 --> 01:30:57,800 Speaker 3: She didn't want to and that she has a boyfriend. 1939 01:30:58,240 --> 01:31:01,439 Speaker 1: I was shocked and confused this for look, honestly never 1940 01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,759 Speaker 1: been rejected like that before. I still respected her wishes 1941 01:31:04,880 --> 01:31:08,679 Speaker 1: and apologized. She FaceTime her boyfriend in that moment, playfully 1942 01:31:08,760 --> 01:31:10,400 Speaker 1: telling him that I like her. 1943 01:31:10,840 --> 01:31:12,080 Speaker 2: He didn't mind one bit. 1944 01:31:12,240 --> 01:31:14,640 Speaker 1: He was even hinting at a threesome, but she was 1945 01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:17,320 Speaker 1: still awkward about the whole combo. So I just left 1946 01:31:17,800 --> 01:31:20,920 Speaker 1: rode home very humbled. Do you think she's actually down 1947 01:31:21,000 --> 01:31:23,240 Speaker 1: for a good time? But maybe she was too sober 1948 01:31:23,400 --> 01:31:25,439 Speaker 1: and in her head at that moment. Or am I 1949 01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:28,720 Speaker 1: just overthinking her niceness as flirting? By the way, love 1950 01:31:28,800 --> 01:31:31,280 Speaker 1: y'all two very much, and Miss Drea, you can hit 1951 01:31:31,360 --> 01:31:33,479 Speaker 1: my line whenever, Babe, I can handle that. 1952 01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:44,320 Speaker 5: Oh, go ahead, say what you have to say. 1953 01:31:44,520 --> 01:31:45,479 Speaker 3: What's your advice for this? 1954 01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:48,439 Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like it sounds like they're looking for 1955 01:31:48,520 --> 01:31:50,439 Speaker 1: a three songs for real. Like she want to train 1956 01:31:50,520 --> 01:31:53,040 Speaker 1: to get rent on her, which is no problem. 1957 01:31:53,640 --> 01:31:54,400 Speaker 3: That's no problem. 1958 01:31:54,680 --> 01:31:56,320 Speaker 2: It's not she wants. 1959 01:31:57,680 --> 01:32:01,240 Speaker 3: Trying to get that teed up turned up the same 1960 01:32:01,400 --> 01:32:06,000 Speaker 3: this episode up. She's trying to get that ship tall up. 1961 01:32:06,080 --> 01:32:10,919 Speaker 1: So I feel like, I don't think you know, no feelings, 1962 01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:16,280 Speaker 1: anything is wrong with it, But it's weird that she's 1963 01:32:16,320 --> 01:32:20,120 Speaker 1: giving you like me. Yeah, honestly, so I feel like 1964 01:32:20,160 --> 01:32:23,160 Speaker 1: it's not that serious because you say you won't tell 1965 01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:24,640 Speaker 1: me what you want, So I feel like we know 1966 01:32:25,120 --> 01:32:26,560 Speaker 1: her like that. 1967 01:32:26,880 --> 01:32:27,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just mean. 1968 01:32:27,640 --> 01:32:29,600 Speaker 1: He said they've known each other. No, he said they 1969 01:32:29,720 --> 01:32:32,360 Speaker 1: known each other for years. Oh no way, he said, 1970 01:32:32,479 --> 01:32:34,880 Speaker 1: we connected like we known each other for years. Yeah, 1971 01:32:34,880 --> 01:32:36,439 Speaker 1: you don't really know her like that. So I don't 1972 01:32:36,479 --> 01:32:39,439 Speaker 1: really understand the issue with just like letting that shit go. 1973 01:32:39,920 --> 01:32:40,680 Speaker 3: We'll not letting it go. 1974 01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:42,840 Speaker 1: I feel like if you, you know, you wouldn't mind 1975 01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:44,599 Speaker 1: the three Somewhere you're trying to see what she's talking about, 1976 01:32:44,680 --> 01:32:46,000 Speaker 1: just straight up ask her. 1977 01:32:46,200 --> 01:32:47,920 Speaker 3: At this point, you have nothing to lose, so just 1978 01:32:48,000 --> 01:32:50,040 Speaker 3: ask her, Hey, what are your intentions? What are you 1979 01:32:50,120 --> 01:32:54,120 Speaker 3: trying to do? Like like, just ask for good just 1980 01:32:54,240 --> 01:32:54,840 Speaker 3: be straight up. 1981 01:32:54,960 --> 01:32:58,040 Speaker 1: I would just ask her too, because yeah, she's trying 1982 01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:00,000 Speaker 1: to get that towards period. 1983 01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:04,680 Speaker 3: Question three. Go ahead, How damn Ryan? These quesh as 1984 01:33:04,720 --> 01:33:08,880 Speaker 3: long as hell of today? You know the girls be 1985 01:33:08,960 --> 01:33:09,840 Speaker 3: on this shorter day. 1986 01:33:10,080 --> 01:33:13,200 Speaker 1: I did, Hi, ladies, I just wanted to say that 1987 01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:15,559 Speaker 1: I love your show. I have been friends with someone 1988 01:33:15,640 --> 01:33:18,200 Speaker 1: since I was in high school. I'm twenty eight by 1989 01:33:18,240 --> 01:33:20,479 Speaker 1: the way, so we have been friends for over ten years. 1990 01:33:20,880 --> 01:33:23,120 Speaker 1: Her family gets along with my family. My mom and 1991 01:33:23,240 --> 01:33:26,719 Speaker 1: her mom are best friends. We've been through lost growth, college, 1992 01:33:26,800 --> 01:33:30,240 Speaker 1: bad breakups, being broke, everything together. It was brought to 1993 01:33:30,320 --> 01:33:32,519 Speaker 1: my attention through a family member that this friend had 1994 01:33:32,560 --> 01:33:33,439 Speaker 1: sex with my ex. 1995 01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:38,120 Speaker 3: We just talked about that earlier. That's so great on it. 1996 01:33:40,040 --> 01:33:41,880 Speaker 1: My ex and I have been over for more than 1997 01:33:41,920 --> 01:33:45,080 Speaker 1: a year. Her and I well Oh, he and I 1998 01:33:45,360 --> 01:33:48,160 Speaker 1: were just not meant for each other. We were together 1999 01:33:48,280 --> 01:33:50,120 Speaker 1: for four years and we realized that we were not 2000 01:33:50,280 --> 01:33:52,920 Speaker 1: right for each other. I have not confronted her because 2001 01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't know where to start, and I know that 2002 01:33:55,160 --> 01:33:58,000 Speaker 1: I might end up beating her ass. Oh, she has 2003 01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:01,120 Speaker 1: told me before about her sleeping with people boyfriends. I 2004 01:34:01,240 --> 01:34:03,800 Speaker 1: have always told her that Karma is a bitch. I 2005 01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:06,000 Speaker 1: don't condone it, but I still fuck with you because 2006 01:34:06,000 --> 01:34:08,320 Speaker 1: you're my friend. But I also told her if she 2007 01:34:08,400 --> 01:34:11,080 Speaker 1: gets her ass beat by somebody's girlfriend, not to call me. 2008 01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:13,560 Speaker 1: I just never thought she would do it to me. 2009 01:34:14,360 --> 01:34:17,000 Speaker 1: How do I handle this without catching a case? Should 2010 01:34:17,000 --> 01:34:19,040 Speaker 1: I just block her and never speak to her again? 2011 01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:21,599 Speaker 1: Should I message her and tell her I know she's 2012 01:34:21,640 --> 01:34:25,000 Speaker 1: a dirty ass bitch. A part of me just wants 2013 01:34:25,040 --> 01:34:27,240 Speaker 1: to put her on blast on social media and let 2014 01:34:27,280 --> 01:34:29,960 Speaker 1: the whole world know what she did. Hey, it's so 2015 01:34:30,160 --> 01:34:33,040 Speaker 1: hard because I'm not done with because I'm not done 2016 01:34:33,120 --> 01:34:35,599 Speaker 1: with him anymore and I don't care to be with him. 2017 01:34:36,640 --> 01:34:39,080 Speaker 1: But she just proved to me that she was never 2018 01:34:39,200 --> 01:34:42,439 Speaker 1: my friend and I already decided that I don't want 2019 01:34:42,520 --> 01:34:43,240 Speaker 1: her in my life. 2020 01:34:43,760 --> 01:34:45,880 Speaker 2: Okay, So let me say this sis. You're twenty eight, 2021 01:34:46,080 --> 01:34:48,280 Speaker 2: you've already decided that you don't want her in your life. 2022 01:34:48,560 --> 01:34:51,800 Speaker 2: Like I said earlier in the show, there's a list 2023 01:34:51,840 --> 01:34:54,280 Speaker 2: of niggas that are off limits no matter. 2024 01:34:54,160 --> 01:34:57,720 Speaker 3: What, bitch my whole least softfully meets period. I mean, 2025 01:34:57,760 --> 01:34:59,200 Speaker 3: I feel like that, but I'm not gonna lie. There's 2026 01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:01,360 Speaker 3: niggas out on beach that ain't off livings like if 2027 01:35:01,360 --> 01:35:03,200 Speaker 3: you want to be don't give a fuck. If I 2028 01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:04,759 Speaker 3: fucked you, you is off limits. 2029 01:35:04,840 --> 01:35:07,000 Speaker 1: Okay, cool, But what I'm saying is this was somebody 2030 01:35:07,080 --> 01:35:09,800 Speaker 1: that you were with for four years. He should definitely 2031 01:35:09,840 --> 01:35:10,439 Speaker 1: be off limits. 2032 01:35:10,479 --> 01:35:11,040 Speaker 3: And she knew that. 2033 01:35:11,640 --> 01:35:14,120 Speaker 2: I would say, but honestly, we're in a place of 2034 01:35:14,200 --> 01:35:18,240 Speaker 2: healing and happiness. Just cut her off and let her 2035 01:35:18,280 --> 01:35:21,080 Speaker 2: deal with her demons and move on. Don't fight her, 2036 01:35:21,600 --> 01:35:24,040 Speaker 2: don't stoop to her level, don't even go there. 2037 01:35:24,320 --> 01:35:24,400 Speaker 5: Now. 2038 01:35:24,520 --> 01:35:28,200 Speaker 1: Me and Lakes are very much in a peaceful, very 2039 01:35:28,280 --> 01:35:30,519 Speaker 1: peaceful phase of our lives right now. 2040 01:35:30,680 --> 01:35:36,160 Speaker 3: Like we don't argue, we don't fight a bottle. 2041 01:35:36,520 --> 01:35:39,439 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like you shows you their true colors, 2042 01:35:39,680 --> 01:35:42,240 Speaker 1: be okay with that, except that and. 2043 01:35:42,360 --> 01:35:46,600 Speaker 3: Move on with you here. I'm dead, so just I 2044 01:35:46,640 --> 01:35:53,720 Speaker 3: would just say just move on, block her and move on. 2045 01:35:54,640 --> 01:35:57,320 Speaker 3: No fights, no arguments, nothing needs to be said. She 2046 01:35:57,400 --> 01:35:59,240 Speaker 3: know what the fuck she did. However, if you see 2047 01:35:59,280 --> 01:36:03,840 Speaker 3: her out in a near just let him know. Just 2048 01:36:03,960 --> 01:36:06,400 Speaker 3: let that hell o, you ain't come to play period. 2049 01:36:06,560 --> 01:36:10,240 Speaker 1: Okay, last question, Hey, Lex Andrea, big fan of the show. 2050 01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:12,120 Speaker 1: I've bedating this guy for a bout. 2051 01:36:12,880 --> 01:36:14,559 Speaker 3: I'm a big fan of the show. What I said 2052 01:36:14,880 --> 01:36:18,960 Speaker 3: abdating this guy, I'm ready to. 2053 01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:23,680 Speaker 2: Sing He's almost something, Queens. I've bedated this guy for 2054 01:36:23,720 --> 01:36:26,000 Speaker 2: about a year now. Over the last couple of months 2055 01:36:26,080 --> 01:36:28,960 Speaker 2: we have been we have grown closer. I've fallen for him, 2056 01:36:28,960 --> 01:36:31,240 Speaker 2: and I see a future with him. We've had many 2057 01:36:31,320 --> 01:36:34,840 Speaker 2: conversations about exploring a poly relationship and bringing in another 2058 01:36:34,920 --> 01:36:37,760 Speaker 2: woman into our dynamic. One day, we were watching one 2059 01:36:37,800 --> 01:36:42,000 Speaker 2: of his music videos, not Rapper Babe, and I noticed 2060 01:36:42,000 --> 01:36:44,200 Speaker 2: a woman that's been in the majority of his videos. 2061 01:36:44,600 --> 01:36:46,360 Speaker 3: He told me she was just his homegirl. 2062 01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:48,800 Speaker 1: I rushed it off and didn't think nothing of it 2063 01:36:48,920 --> 01:36:52,439 Speaker 1: until he kept mentioning her at random times. I asked 2064 01:36:52,479 --> 01:36:55,120 Speaker 1: who she was and what the dynamic was between them. 2065 01:36:55,520 --> 01:36:58,040 Speaker 1: This nigga tells me how they have good communication and 2066 01:36:58,120 --> 01:37:00,240 Speaker 1: they are open with each other. But no, I think 2067 01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:02,479 Speaker 1: about what role she plays in his life. 2068 01:37:02,920 --> 01:37:05,800 Speaker 3: You are nosy, No, I was trying to see the time. 2069 01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:07,920 Speaker 3: Oh oh, we way over. That's all right. 2070 01:37:08,439 --> 01:37:10,080 Speaker 2: He then says, you should meet her. 2071 01:37:10,479 --> 01:37:13,519 Speaker 1: I was open to meeting her simply because I wanted 2072 01:37:13,560 --> 01:37:16,280 Speaker 1: to keep an open mind. Prior to meeting her, we 2073 01:37:16,439 --> 01:37:19,200 Speaker 1: had conversations about her possibly being the woman we have 2074 01:37:19,840 --> 01:37:23,360 Speaker 1: the poly relationship with. I was always hesitant because I 2075 01:37:23,439 --> 01:37:25,600 Speaker 1: feel like she was just someone he doesn't want to 2076 01:37:25,720 --> 01:37:28,200 Speaker 1: let go. Also because I feel like I will be 2077 01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:31,479 Speaker 1: coming into their dynamic because they have known each other 2078 01:37:31,560 --> 01:37:34,280 Speaker 1: since college. He assures me that it wouldn't be the 2079 01:37:34,400 --> 01:37:36,719 Speaker 1: case because they are both single and haven't been together 2080 01:37:36,840 --> 01:37:39,479 Speaker 1: for quite some time. When we are all together, I 2081 01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:42,519 Speaker 1: feel invisible. The way he interacts with her is very 2082 01:37:42,560 --> 01:37:44,360 Speaker 1: different from how he is with me, and I can 2083 01:37:44,479 --> 01:37:47,000 Speaker 1: feel I can tell the love between them is still 2084 01:37:47,080 --> 01:37:50,679 Speaker 1: a parent. His actions do show that he has feelings 2085 01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:52,800 Speaker 1: for me, but I know he still loves her. I 2086 01:37:52,920 --> 01:37:56,960 Speaker 1: always envision me building a foundation with a man, and 2087 01:37:57,080 --> 01:37:59,560 Speaker 1: then together we find someone to bring into what we 2088 01:37:59,680 --> 01:38:00,000 Speaker 1: have done. 2089 01:38:00,320 --> 01:38:03,000 Speaker 3: Am I tripping and just jealous that she's been around? 2090 01:38:03,360 --> 01:38:07,760 Speaker 3: Or are my feelings valid. Girl was stuttering and struggling. 2091 01:38:13,120 --> 01:38:16,320 Speaker 3: Thank you, queen. You were supposed to say keep going, 2092 01:38:16,560 --> 01:38:17,080 Speaker 3: keep going. 2093 01:38:17,880 --> 01:38:20,800 Speaker 1: So I will say this, your feelings are never invalid. 2094 01:38:21,160 --> 01:38:24,439 Speaker 1: I don't want, I don't care what's going on. I 2095 01:38:24,520 --> 01:38:25,400 Speaker 1: don't care if. 2096 01:38:25,360 --> 01:38:28,640 Speaker 2: Your fucking boyfriend slapped yo but too hard and you 2097 01:38:28,760 --> 01:38:31,400 Speaker 2: mad about it. Your feelings are never invalid about anything. 2098 01:38:31,920 --> 01:38:32,800 Speaker 2: So let's just say that. 2099 01:38:32,920 --> 01:38:34,599 Speaker 1: First of all, the way you feel is the way 2100 01:38:34,640 --> 01:38:37,439 Speaker 1: you feel, and you're okay for feeling that way. So yeah, 2101 01:38:37,520 --> 01:38:41,240 Speaker 1: I feel like that's if you If you feel invisible 2102 01:38:41,360 --> 01:38:43,160 Speaker 1: when all three of y'all are together, that's not what 2103 01:38:43,320 --> 01:38:46,360 Speaker 1: you want. You wanted somebody that y'all are together, and 2104 01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:49,080 Speaker 1: you're bringing in the extra person. Now you're feeling like 2105 01:38:49,160 --> 01:38:51,360 Speaker 1: the extra person. So I feel like you need to 2106 01:38:51,439 --> 01:38:53,360 Speaker 1: sit down and have a conversation. Y'all need to have 2107 01:38:53,439 --> 01:38:56,000 Speaker 1: a real last conversation. Communication. 2108 01:38:56,560 --> 01:38:58,439 Speaker 3: People are people's the nation. 2109 01:38:58,880 --> 01:39:00,240 Speaker 2: But I guess it, really he does. 2110 01:39:00,320 --> 01:39:02,960 Speaker 1: But people fuck up so much shit by just not 2111 01:39:03,240 --> 01:39:06,439 Speaker 1: talking and be honest and tell people what you want 2112 01:39:06,479 --> 01:39:07,240 Speaker 1: and what you're looking for. 2113 01:39:07,360 --> 01:39:10,439 Speaker 2: And if you're not happy, move around. Nobody can make 2114 01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:11,599 Speaker 2: you happy but yourself. 2115 01:39:12,360 --> 01:39:14,200 Speaker 1: I agree with that, I just think you should never 2116 01:39:14,240 --> 01:39:17,000 Speaker 1: stay in a situation where you are not okay with 2117 01:39:17,120 --> 01:39:20,680 Speaker 1: what's going on. Obviously, they have some feelings for each other, 2118 01:39:22,320 --> 01:39:25,400 Speaker 1: and maybe that needs to be resolved before you move 2119 01:39:25,520 --> 01:39:28,240 Speaker 1: forward exactly that situation. So I think maybe you need 2120 01:39:28,280 --> 01:39:30,280 Speaker 1: to give him some time to figure out who he 2121 01:39:30,400 --> 01:39:31,080 Speaker 1: really want to be with. 2122 01:39:31,560 --> 01:39:33,120 Speaker 3: Do you really want to be with me or do 2123 01:39:33,200 --> 01:39:34,160 Speaker 3: you really want to be with me? 2124 01:39:34,439 --> 01:39:34,559 Speaker 6: Right? 2125 01:39:35,040 --> 01:39:36,640 Speaker 1: And I think you need to explain to him that 2126 01:39:36,800 --> 01:39:39,680 Speaker 1: your idea was that me and you were together and 2127 01:39:39,880 --> 01:39:43,080 Speaker 1: bringing somebody else in, but you're making seeing that if 2128 01:39:43,120 --> 01:39:47,639 Speaker 1: you have somewhat equal feelings for me, right, And I'm 2129 01:39:47,680 --> 01:39:50,479 Speaker 1: not okay with going into a poly situation where it's 2130 01:39:50,640 --> 01:39:52,760 Speaker 1: like this, right, and you wanted somebody to be like 2131 01:39:52,920 --> 01:39:56,000 Speaker 1: you wanted Hurt to be extra person like the mac 2132 01:39:56,080 --> 01:39:56,519 Speaker 1: and cheese. 2133 01:39:56,880 --> 01:39:59,160 Speaker 2: You're supposed to be telling me how. 2134 01:39:59,120 --> 01:40:02,360 Speaker 3: The mac and cheese. It's no, she's a calculate who 2135 01:40:03,160 --> 01:40:04,360 Speaker 3: the girl writing a letter. 2136 01:40:04,400 --> 01:40:05,680 Speaker 2: She's supposed to be to tirculate. 2137 01:40:05,439 --> 01:40:07,920 Speaker 3: The other nose. She supposed to be to make a cheese. Well, anyway, 2138 01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:10,920 Speaker 3: he's supposed to be tagging you up, not her, and 2139 01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:15,400 Speaker 3: that up. You know what I'm saying I wouldn't like 2140 01:40:15,479 --> 01:40:16,920 Speaker 3: that either. I just but I don't know. 2141 01:40:17,040 --> 01:40:19,600 Speaker 2: I couldn't be in God bless you. 2142 01:40:19,760 --> 01:40:21,479 Speaker 3: I feel like when I was younger I could, though 2143 01:40:21,960 --> 01:40:25,479 Speaker 3: that's because you're horny. It's not because I'm horny. I 2144 01:40:25,600 --> 01:40:27,439 Speaker 3: just feel like when I was younger, I really liked 2145 01:40:27,479 --> 01:40:32,120 Speaker 3: the beachy. All right, just have a conversation with your man. 2146 01:40:32,680 --> 01:40:34,479 Speaker 2: We are not about to talk about Drake and puts 2147 01:40:34,479 --> 01:40:37,080 Speaker 2: it right down only okay? 2148 01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:39,519 Speaker 3: All right, so you ready? You're ready for the sun. 2149 01:40:39,680 --> 01:40:42,600 Speaker 3: We do a Mariah. Yes, we are me and Mariah. 2150 01:40:42,960 --> 01:40:46,840 Speaker 3: Let me babies and past the fire us. That's what 2151 01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:49,000 Speaker 3: he said. You need to calm down. Let me cut 2152 01:40:49,080 --> 01:40:54,240 Speaker 3: you off. You are drinking because it's pizza, Christy, pizza 2153 01:40:54,360 --> 01:40:59,280 Speaker 3: good in my wine. Kill two birds in one ston. 2154 01:41:01,280 --> 01:41:04,800 Speaker 2: You ready, yes, but you want me to start. 2155 01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:08,840 Speaker 3: You're gonna start, Okay, I'll start. You gotta okay, okay, 2156 01:41:08,960 --> 01:41:13,360 Speaker 3: now no, you gotta have like this? Oh you doing 2157 01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:18,120 Speaker 3: that part? Sel? 2158 01:41:19,600 --> 01:41:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 2159 01:41:20,439 --> 01:41:23,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. I didn't mean it when I said I need 2160 01:41:23,880 --> 01:41:26,280 Speaker 3: any of you, so you should have hell on tight. 2161 01:41:26,400 --> 01:41:27,880 Speaker 1: I never should have let you go. 2162 01:41:28,479 --> 01:41:30,280 Speaker 3: I didn't know nothing, and now I was too bid. 2163 01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:31,080 Speaker 3: I was foolish. 2164 01:41:31,160 --> 01:41:33,000 Speaker 4: I was flying to my sad. 2165 01:41:34,920 --> 01:41:35,880 Speaker 3: I could not fell them. 2166 01:41:35,960 --> 01:41:39,479 Speaker 1: I would ever be without your life, nevermagine I'd be 2167 01:41:39,600 --> 01:41:42,320 Speaker 1: sitting here beside myself because I didn't know you and 2168 01:41:42,400 --> 01:41:42,960 Speaker 1: I didn't know me. 2169 01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:46,040 Speaker 3: But if I knew everything, I ain't ever fast. 2170 01:41:47,920 --> 01:41:51,240 Speaker 1: The feeling that a feeling that you gotta try to 2171 01:41:51,320 --> 01:41:54,400 Speaker 1: hit the height case. The feeling that I'm feeling now 2172 01:41:54,520 --> 01:41:58,080 Speaker 1: that I don't hear you for your lips because I 2173 01:41:58,160 --> 01:41:59,480 Speaker 1: don't have a choice. 2174 01:42:02,920 --> 01:42:07,240 Speaker 3: Right here, because bay, will you last? 2175 01:42:07,360 --> 01:42:11,800 Speaker 1: I lost a part of me it's there, so hey 2176 01:42:12,640 --> 01:42:14,320 Speaker 1: leave come back. 2177 01:42:14,360 --> 01:42:19,479 Speaker 3: Baby, please, gus we belong together. Well, am I gonna leave? No? 2178 01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:22,680 Speaker 1: When times get round, couldn't talk to me on the 2179 01:42:22,720 --> 01:42:25,080 Speaker 1: phone to the sun comes, got. 2180 01:42:25,040 --> 01:42:28,719 Speaker 4: To take your place. It ain't nobody faire. Oh baby, baby, 2181 01:42:28,840 --> 01:42:31,400 Speaker 4: we belong together the way away. 2182 01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:36,120 Speaker 3: I can sleep any night when you are want my 2183 01:42:36,320 --> 01:42:39,800 Speaker 3: mon Mobby won't mix on ther heady singing to me 2184 01:42:39,960 --> 01:42:43,240 Speaker 3: if you think you're lonely. No, wait a minute, this 2185 01:42:43,439 --> 01:42:44,120 Speaker 3: is too deep. 2186 01:42:45,000 --> 01:42:48,240 Speaker 7: I gotta turn the station, so I turn adull trying 2187 01:42:48,280 --> 01:42:52,200 Speaker 7: to get the break and dinner here, baby face, he 2188 01:42:52,560 --> 01:42:57,840 Speaker 7: only think you and it's making home trying to butt 2189 01:42:58,040 --> 01:42:58,920 Speaker 7: full on the phone. 2190 01:42:59,000 --> 01:43:01,640 Speaker 3: I'm feeling all that my hell a man throwing the 2191 01:43:01,960 --> 01:43:04,519 Speaker 3: trying trying to dig out well the hello read well 2192 01:43:04,600 --> 01:43:07,799 Speaker 3: the plane reflected it didn't even happen what I'm feeling 2193 01:43:07,880 --> 01:43:11,560 Speaker 3: and I need you, need you back in my life. Baby. 2194 01:43:12,280 --> 01:43:16,360 Speaker 3: When you left, I lost a part of me. You 2195 01:43:16,479 --> 01:43:19,040 Speaker 3: ain't hound in your ear. I don't like to to believe. 2196 01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:23,200 Speaker 3: I'm sorry you belongs. 2197 01:43:23,800 --> 01:43:24,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 2198 01:43:24,439 --> 01:43:28,719 Speaker 3: Who I'm gonna lean on in time near? Who's gonna 2199 01:43:28,760 --> 01:43:33,599 Speaker 3: talk to me or something? Who's gonna take your please? Baby? Nobody? 2200 01:43:33,760 --> 01:43:38,480 Speaker 3: Bet Oh baby, baby, we belong to get a back, baby. 2201 01:43:41,280 --> 01:43:45,840 Speaker 1: A part of me so hot to believe. 2202 01:43:46,439 --> 01:43:50,840 Speaker 7: Come back, baby, please because we alone together. 2203 01:43:56,080 --> 01:43:59,880 Speaker 3: All bro's touch? Who's the last night? All read a side? 2204 01:44:06,080 --> 01:44:08,800 Speaker 3: Do you think we need justice? That was a little rough? 2205 01:44:09,200 --> 01:44:09,559 Speaker 3: All right? 2206 01:44:09,800 --> 01:44:12,400 Speaker 4: No, no that much? 2207 01:44:12,479 --> 01:44:26,320 Speaker 3: When what's see y'all next week? Bye y'all? It was 2208 01:44:26,400 --> 01:44:29,960 Speaker 3: worth the try. I don't give you too much. 2209 01:44:31,920 --> 01:44:34,560 Speaker 1: I need to take the rings day you got to 2210 01:44:34,840 --> 01:44:41,280 Speaker 1: UK because I'm killings coming with that by every week and. 2211 01:44:41,439 --> 01:44:43,800 Speaker 3: Now you should you pick it too, for you are 2212 01:44:43,920 --> 01:44:53,479 Speaker 3: not the today Mariah did me and Mariah A D 2213 01:44:53,600 --> 01:44:58,280 Speaker 3: B damn R I p O d B B been died. 2214 01:44:59,439 --> 01:45:00,800 Speaker 3: He died, but for you was legal.