WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Meet the Parents

0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:07.240
<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels. Second date of date, When do you, guys

0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:09.080
<v Speaker 1>have somebody meet your parents? Have you been dating them?

0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:10.959
<v Speaker 1>Do you have like a rule about how long that is?

0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:13.800
<v Speaker 1>At least two months? Really a couple of months and

0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:17.680
<v Speaker 1>months they were going to stick around? Well first date,

0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:21.079
<v Speaker 1>all right, yeah, first date. You don't even talk to

0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:25.200
<v Speaker 1>your parents fairly, that's true. They usually find out I

0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:27.160
<v Speaker 1>could be married one day and they'll be like, oh,

0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you got this is your wife? Interesting nice to meet.

0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:34.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I should have told you about that. Well,

0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.880
<v Speaker 1>we got George online with us right now. He emailed

0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:39.199
<v Speaker 1>us about a date he went on with Danielle, and

0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:42.040
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly what happened. He met Danielle's parents. First date,

0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:45.640
<v Speaker 1>first date, first date, George, Yeah, how's it going, guys?

0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:48.680
<v Speaker 1>What's up? Man? What? Yeah? My friend at work took

0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:50.880
<v Speaker 1>me up with this girl and I went to pick

0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:53.480
<v Speaker 1>her up and her parents actually entered the door. Wasn't

0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:57.560
<v Speaker 1>even her Oh she lives with her parents. Yeah, they

0:00:57.640 --> 0:00:59.760
<v Speaker 1>caught me off guard, but I mean they were super nice,

0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.800
<v Speaker 1>and you know, it wasn't as weird as you know

0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:05.360
<v Speaker 1>it sounds. But did you have a long conversation with

0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:06.920
<v Speaker 1>the parents, did they invite you in. You had a

0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:10.240
<v Speaker 1>cup of tea. Yeah, actually, I mean they sat me down,

0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:12.160
<v Speaker 1>they got me some some of the drink, but they

0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:13.840
<v Speaker 1>really they were just asking a lot about me. It

0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:15.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of felt like one of those what are your

0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:19.200
<v Speaker 1>intentions with my daughter? Boy? Did he pull out a

0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:21.200
<v Speaker 1>rifle and set it across his lap to tell you

0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:23.480
<v Speaker 1>what would happen if he mistreated her? No? No, nothing

0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:26.200
<v Speaker 1>like that. Nothing like that. They were very nice and

0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:29.679
<v Speaker 1>super kind. Why is she living at home still? She

0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.520
<v Speaker 1>says that it's easy to save money, and I mean

0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:35.080
<v Speaker 1>it's convenient. She actually didn't really go too much into

0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.360
<v Speaker 1>detail about it, which I guess it's kind of the

0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:40.399
<v Speaker 1>weird part. But he is the only one in the room, like, well, yeah,

0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:45.880
<v Speaker 1>that seems I moved out two blocks away. So after

0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:48.160
<v Speaker 1>you met the parents, you guys ended up going out, right?

0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:50.520
<v Speaker 1>How was the date? I decided to take her to

0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:53.240
<v Speaker 1>the zoo, which went super well. We were there for

0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.920
<v Speaker 1>about two hours and we hung out. We talked for

0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:57.680
<v Speaker 1>a while and I thought we hit it off pretty well.

0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:01.920
<v Speaker 1>She actually invited me back to her house afterwards. That's weird. Yeah,

0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:05.680
<v Speaker 1>I thought I thought it was to like hang out

0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:08.360
<v Speaker 1>with her you know, like separate from everybody. But she

0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.520
<v Speaker 1>actually invited me to spend more time with her family,

0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.400
<v Speaker 1>with her parents and like playboard games. And that's kind

0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:16.280
<v Speaker 1>of weird. Are you sure you didn't go out with Lydia?

0:02:16.520 --> 0:02:20.400
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't really? Yeah, it was kind of bizarre. It was

0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of bizarre, but I mean I went and I

0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:25.120
<v Speaker 1>we hung out and we actually played board games for

0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:29.280
<v Speaker 1>like two hours together. So weird. Here's here's a strange

0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:33.720
<v Speaker 1>thing to me, George. After all this, you want another date? Right? Yeah?

0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:36.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean she's very wholesome in a way. I kind

0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:38.880
<v Speaker 1>of find it attractive. And yeah, I thought the date

0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:41.800
<v Speaker 1>went super well, but she won't call me back at all. George.

0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you, when you call her, do you

0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:45.720
<v Speaker 1>have to call a landline and ask her parent? Like, hey,

0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:48.880
<v Speaker 1>can dan y'all come out and play. She's got a

0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:51.600
<v Speaker 1>cell phone, You got a cell phone? You got you

0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:55.280
<v Speaker 1>has her own cell phone? Did you end up kissing

0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:57.399
<v Speaker 1>her or anything? Like? How did you leave everything with her?

0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:00.680
<v Speaker 1>We actually didn't even get a chance to chifs because

0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.919
<v Speaker 1>on my way out, like they're her parents and even

0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:05.960
<v Speaker 1>her little brother kind of ushered me out and they

0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.520
<v Speaker 1>all were like standing on the porch, even waving goodbye

0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:14.120
<v Speaker 1>to me girl. Yeah, I feel like you're want to

0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.079
<v Speaker 1>do with the Brady bunch. Yeah, somehow we traveled back

0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.840
<v Speaker 1>in time and went on a date in nineteen fifty two.

0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:23.200
<v Speaker 1>It's so weird. So they all walked you to the

0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:24.799
<v Speaker 1>door and then stood out on the patio and said,

0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:31.120
<v Speaker 1>what a nice boy. I like him? Wow. So how

0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:32.680
<v Speaker 1>many times do you try to contact her? How long

0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.040
<v Speaker 1>has it been? It's been about two weeks and I've

0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:36.840
<v Speaker 1>called a few times. Like I said, I didn't want

0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:39.080
<v Speaker 1>to push too hard, But it's been about two weeks

0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:40.840
<v Speaker 1>since I talked to her last and you haven't heard

0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:45.360
<v Speaker 1>anything back. Nothing, nothing, Okay, maybe she's put on punishment.

0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:48.720
<v Speaker 1>She didn't do some charts, took the phone away, Yeah,

0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:52.440
<v Speaker 1>could happen. All right, we're gonna play a song. Come back,

0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:55.400
<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, appreciate you guys. All right, man,

0:03:55.440 --> 0:04:01.280
<v Speaker 1>hold on for a second looking Jebil in the morning,

0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:05.480
<v Speaker 1>be like a second date update. All you have to

0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:08.040
<v Speaker 1>do is email us Brook and Jewel at moving f Com.

0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.480
<v Speaker 1>We'll call the person who didn't call you back on

0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.960
<v Speaker 1>the phone with us. Right now is George who wants

0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:16.080
<v Speaker 1>us to call Danielle. They met through a friend, a

0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:18.960
<v Speaker 1>co worker. He went to Michelle's house to pick her up,

0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:21.640
<v Speaker 1>and her parents answered the door because she lives with

0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:23.440
<v Speaker 1>her parents. They went out for a date for a

0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.279
<v Speaker 1>little while. Then she said, let's go back to my

0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:28.160
<v Speaker 1>house and play board games with my whole family. So

0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.240
<v Speaker 1>they did that. He didn't get a kiss when he left,

0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:33.200
<v Speaker 1>because the whole family walked him to the door, stood

0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:37.000
<v Speaker 1>outside and waved goodbye. And she isn't answering any of

0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:40.120
<v Speaker 1>his calls. Is that pretty much sum it up? George? Yep,

0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:44.320
<v Speaker 1>that's exactly it, George. If you start dating this girl

0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:45.800
<v Speaker 1>or the parents going to be an issue for you.

0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:48.240
<v Speaker 1>Are you cool with someone that's sat close to their family?

0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm cool with it. I just I mean

0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't necessarily sure exactly why I'm not getting a

0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.599
<v Speaker 1>phone called back. All right, we'll find out. I'm gonna

0:04:56.600 --> 0:05:09.760
<v Speaker 1>call he right out. Okay, all right, Hello, Hey, is

0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:13.239
<v Speaker 1>Danielle there. This is Danielle. Hi, Danielle. This is Jewel

0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:15.040
<v Speaker 1>from Brooklyn Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two

0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:20.320
<v Speaker 1>point five. How you doing. I'm okay? Nice. I'm calling

0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:25.040
<v Speaker 1>you today because somebody send us an email about you. Really?

0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Have you heard our show very much? Do you listen?

0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:36.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm now allowed to listen to that show. Oh okay,

0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:39.120
<v Speaker 1>well i'll tell you. I'll tell you what we do.

0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:40.400
<v Speaker 1>We do with this thing on our show called the

0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:43.200
<v Speaker 1>second date update. It's when somebody goes out on a

0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:44.960
<v Speaker 1>date with someone they like and they're not going to

0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:46.720
<v Speaker 1>call back. They email us to see if we can

0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:50.200
<v Speaker 1>get a hold of them to find out why. So, George,

0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:52.159
<v Speaker 1>a guy you recently went out on a date with

0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:57.320
<v Speaker 1>emailed us about you. Oh, he says that he really

0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.400
<v Speaker 1>liked you, he enjoyed going out with you, spending time

0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:02.719
<v Speaker 1>with you. I'm the whole fam And he's been trying

0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:03.960
<v Speaker 1>to get a holder for like two weeks now, but

0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:08.120
<v Speaker 1>not hearing anything back. Did you not like George? I

0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:13.280
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just I don't think it's I mean, well,

0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.360
<v Speaker 1>my family doesn't think it's a really good idea. Your

0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:18.120
<v Speaker 1>family doesn't. I mean, there were just some things that

0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I didn't notice, but they noticed, which I'm really lucky

0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:22.280
<v Speaker 1>that they noticed, you know, and I just don't think

0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:24.200
<v Speaker 1>it's a good idea. What did they notice? If you

0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:27.920
<v Speaker 1>don't mind telling us we spent some time together as

0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:31.960
<v Speaker 1>a family with him, and my dad caught him staring

0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.440
<v Speaker 1>at my mother's cleavage while we were playing four games.

0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:43.400
<v Speaker 1>That is absolutely not true, Danielle. I forgot to tell

0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:46.919
<v Speaker 1>you that George is actually on the other line and

0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:50.159
<v Speaker 1>heard everything that you just said. My gosh, that's really

0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:56.320
<v Speaker 1>really terrible. Oh George, look, I believe my dad, my dad.

0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Why what did your dad say to you? Just bring

0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:00.440
<v Speaker 1>it up, stay like you can't go out with him again.

0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:04.440
<v Speaker 1>He said that you were creepy, and I mean it

0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:08.440
<v Speaker 1>made it made it so uncomfortable. I did everything possible

0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.840
<v Speaker 1>to make them comfortable about the entire situation. What are

0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.400
<v Speaker 1>you talking about. I'm just being honest. I mean, look,

0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.240
<v Speaker 1>you seem like a nice person, but I just think

0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you kind of need to feel little uncomfortable. I don't

0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:21.280
<v Speaker 1>understand you and I were having a great time. I

0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.720
<v Speaker 1>don't understand why your parents even have an obstinuon on this.

0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, they're really nice people, so I mean they

0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:28.600
<v Speaker 1>didn't really feel it comfortable with you, and that made

0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:31.120
<v Speaker 1>me feel really uncomfortable. And I now you're making me

0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:34.600
<v Speaker 1>feel really uncomfortable. Call like you're making up time. I

0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.720
<v Speaker 1>was playing it on for you. I was dealing with

0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:40.360
<v Speaker 1>that for you. And are you serious, Danielle, dealing with

0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:44.240
<v Speaker 1>that that's my family. Yeah, Danielle, let me just say this.

0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I know you don't listen very much, but I'm I'm

0:07:46.400 --> 0:07:47.960
<v Speaker 1>on your side. I'm really close to my family and

0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:52.480
<v Speaker 1>everything like that. I think I think that it's rude

0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:54.440
<v Speaker 1>that George would come over there and then got at

0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:58.640
<v Speaker 1>your mother's cleavage. Though, Danielle, you definitely did that because

0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:00.440
<v Speaker 1>that's hoo thing my dad would make up. And now

0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:02.360
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you really don't like my family. Now

0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:06.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that came out. Yeah, so George, you

0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:09.680
<v Speaker 1>weren't staring at her mom's cleavage. I was absolutely not.

0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:16.360
<v Speaker 1>I might have glanced once or twice. The case he

0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:18.440
<v Speaker 1>was wearing a super low cut search you should have

0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:20.360
<v Speaker 1>been wearing that in the first place. I wasn't staring.

0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:25.480
<v Speaker 1>You can't miss that. It's a good point. If a

0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:27.720
<v Speaker 1>woman is dressing like a little bit revealing it, a

0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.280
<v Speaker 1>guy's gonna look no matter what. Honestly, at this point,

0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel set up. I feel like the whole situation

0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.679
<v Speaker 1>was a set up for me. Well, then you probably

0:08:34.679 --> 0:08:36.480
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't go out with me. Then if you feel that way,

0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.920
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you're not happy either. What else am

0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:41.280
<v Speaker 1>I supposed to say at this point? Wow, that's a

0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.480
<v Speaker 1>really negative thing to say. I'm really glad that we're

0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:50.400
<v Speaker 1>not going out again. Oh well, at this point, Danielle,

0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:53.199
<v Speaker 1>I would like to ask you if you'd be interested

0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.880
<v Speaker 1>in going out with George again. We will pay for

0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.840
<v Speaker 1>a second day. No, we'll pay for it. Oh, oh,

0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:05.040
<v Speaker 1>that's too bad. George ually end up looking like their moms. Danielle,

0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:10.080
<v Speaker 1>I'll pay for the whole family. Wow, like you, you,

0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:13.120
<v Speaker 1>your mom, dad, brother, like everybody. We can all go

0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:16.480
<v Speaker 1>out and take George out to dinner. My family would

0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:18.080
<v Speaker 1>be really upsetting you. I was talking to you guys

0:09:18.080 --> 0:09:22.960
<v Speaker 1>on the phone. That's right, You're all right then, Danielle. Well,

0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:26.400
<v Speaker 1>thank you very much for your time. Bye. Guys. Tell

0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:30.160
<v Speaker 1>your parents I said hi. Oh yeah, and and tell

0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.319
<v Speaker 1>your mom to keep wearing those shirts. If Jupil comes over,

0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:40.040
<v Speaker 1>keep those things out. You guys are in the morning.