1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Wow, do I look at that bad? It's one more 2 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 1: thing more. I'm strong and getty one more. 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 2: So. I had a funny thing happened at the country 4 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 2: club yesterday. So I live in a town that doesn't 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 2: believe rich people should have things that poor people don't have. 6 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 2: So they structure the housing in such a way that 7 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: you can live in the nicest neighborhood in the town 8 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 2: I live in, like with the most expensive you know, however, 9 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 2: many millions of dollars houses, but there is going to 10 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: be an apartment complex right over there because they don't 11 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: think it's fair that, you know, certain people have certain 12 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: And I guess some parts of the country think this 13 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 2: is a good idea. 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: Other parts of the country thing this is a ridiculous idea. 15 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 3: I would be in the way. I certainly wouldn't live there. 16 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 3: I don't like four people anywhere. 17 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: Near me anyway. I think that explains how this happened. 18 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 2: So with this particular neighborhood that's got some really really 19 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: nice houses in it, everybody that lives in this neighborhood 20 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: gets a country club membership with you own the house 21 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: or you're in an apartment complex, and so everybody gets 22 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 2: to be a member of this country club. For whatever reason, 23 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,559 Speaker 2: hardly anybody uses aunch country club. A friend of mine 24 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 2: is on the board and he said, of the two 25 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: thousand people or something that qualify, there's only like sixty people. 26 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: That use it, which is fine with me. 27 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 4: Golf course and that sort of thing, or no, what 28 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 4: sort of amenities are you offering me. 29 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 2: It's a lake where a lot of people paddle around, 30 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: canoes and stuff like that. Nice tennis courts lit at night, 31 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: basketball court, a gym to work out, couple of heated 32 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: pools where you can swim laps and stuff like that. Oh, 33 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 2: and then a big room you can put your name 34 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: on it if you want to have a family reunion 35 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 2: or a wedding or whatever. There's a lot of that 36 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: stuff going on all the time. Anyhow, my son and 37 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: I go over and we play tennis and then we 38 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 2: lift weight. So we're over there playing tennis, and I, 39 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: while I do spend a fair amount of time and 40 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: money on how I dress for just like my regular life, 41 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 2: I do not have like nice ath leisure wear at all. 42 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 2: And I got my big five old hoodie on and 43 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: some khaki pants and my kind of crappy tennis shoes 44 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 2: for playing tennis in and uh playing tennis and Kakaki. 45 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: Pants lost me at Khaki's. 46 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 4: As opposed to what short warm up pants. 47 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 3: You don't wear khakis to play tennis. 48 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 4: You rule. 49 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 2: Anyway, My son and I are playing tennis and uh, 50 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 2: and there's four guys next to us playing tennis. And 51 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 2: at one point, Henry hits an errant shot and it 52 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 2: goes over to their court by accident, and guy hits 53 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 2: the ball over to me and and then I said thanks, 54 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 2: and I'm walking back over. And then he said, hey, 55 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 2: hold on a second, and he goes over to his 56 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: bag and he comes over and he gives me, he said, 57 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 2: these you used, but they still got a lot of 58 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 2: bounce left in him. He gives me a canister of 59 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 2: three used tennis ball. Ah. Yes, I'm thinking, oh my god. 60 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 4: I mean, a man so poor he has to wear 61 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 4: khakis to play tennis. Yeah, were you wearing cowboy boots 62 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 4: as well? 63 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 3: Or did. 64 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:18,519 Speaker 2: It? 65 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 3: And something with rubber souls? 66 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: I just I was so perplexed there for a second. 67 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 1: It's like. 68 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 2: And one it was There's a number of things going 69 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: on in my mind that this at this verious time, 70 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 2: I gotta admit my ego kick. I didn't say anything, 71 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: but my ego kicked in a little bit of dude, 72 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: I'm doing all right. 73 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: I don't mean your old tennis balls. 74 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: I can afford a can of tennis balls. 75 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, the peasant and the khaki put them. 76 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 5: Going to do my good charitable deed and give him 77 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 5: my old tennis exactly. 78 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 2: I also thought, on the other side of it, this 79 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 2: is something some of us may do and not realize 80 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: how condescending it is. 81 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: I mean, because he just sawt he was helping. 82 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: Me out, and it's got a real I'm rich and 83 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 2: I don't need the ten balls here. 84 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: You'll appreciate they've still got some bounce at them. 85 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: Man. 86 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 4: I can picture me playing golf with my son and 87 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 4: somebody walking up and putting the arm around me and saying, 88 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 4: here's a sleeve of balls. 89 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 3: Brother. 90 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 4: You know they're lightly used, but I can tell you 91 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 4: need that. 92 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: Well. 93 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 1: I didn't say that last time. I think that's implied. 94 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: I think, oh, I absolutely implied. 95 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 3: Yes, Why why else would he give him to you? 96 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm picturing this guy like he bounces the ball 97 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 4: five times and then after that he throws it away, 98 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 4: you know, and gets a new one. 99 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: And bounces it by this guy doing a nice thing. 100 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 2: In case this gets back to him, I don't think 101 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 2: he does anything bad about it at all. 102 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 3: Oh no, No, it was an act of kindness. 103 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 5: And I think worse would have been if like he 104 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 5: had a child with him, and he had the child 105 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 5: come and give the tennis balls to you, teaching him 106 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:45,119 Speaker 5: a nice deed. 107 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: Well, that's so. 108 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: I told this story to a friend of mine who 109 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 2: thought this was hilarious and said, he's probably at a 110 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: home telling his wife. I did a nice deed today. 111 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 2: I helped a guy out. He looked like good like, 112 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: he looked like he was really down on his luck. 113 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 2: It's probably his one morning a week he gets to 114 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 2: be with his son, having recovered from his drug addiction. 115 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: And I gave him some tennis balls so that he 116 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 2: could enjoy his outing with his kid. 117 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: That he's trying to write, write and do better than 118 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: he did. 119 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 4: I came across a fellow today, Honey, I can only 120 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 4: guess he only has one pair of pants for work, 121 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 4: for play for leisure, just one pair of khakis, who's 122 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 4: actually playing tennis in his khakis with his son. And 123 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 4: I took pity I wish I'd had a granola bar, 124 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 4: a crust of bread. 125 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 3: Dolphin can only assume that he and his son are 126 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 3: stuff you should You should own this. 127 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 2: He clearly got his workout gear at the halfway House 128 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 2: before he came for his visitation with his son. 129 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 5: Just keep keep going more and more tattered, and then 130 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 5: see what kind of things you accumulate. 131 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 4: Put holes in those khakis, right. 132 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: People give me food and my drink and an old car. 133 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 4: Drive the show of a dress shirt and say, son, 134 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 4: don't run me too much. 135 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 3: I only own this shirt. See what the people are 136 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 3: saying to Oh my. 137 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: God, And I did actually think I have I ever 138 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 2: done that where I think I'm like being helpful whatever, 139 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 2: But it's so condescending to someone to here's some old 140 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 2: tennis balls. 141 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: Huh. Yeah, you don't need to thank me. I'm happy 142 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: to do it. 143 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 2: That's beautiful, I know, I know, well and again well intentioned, 144 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 2: completely intentioned. Seriously, yes, it's nice, just kind of funny. 145 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 4: You know, here's five dollars to put in the tank 146 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 4: to get you and your son home or back to 147 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 4: the halfway house wherever you find yourself these days. 148 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: Do you think you'll run into him? 149 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 3: Again, I don't know. I guess if you do, he 150 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 3: might be waiting for you with like old clothes. 151 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: You know, I think these would fit you. I come 152 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 1: with some leftover castle roll here. My wife married this 153 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: last night. 154 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 4: If the cardboard box, I'm guessing you live and never 155 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 4: gets threadbare. I play every Tuesday at four. Just come 156 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 4: and ask me for twenty dollars. 157 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: Here are some socks. They're not too worn. 158 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I guess that's it.