WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Let's Chalk About It

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. Dating. Dating is a lot like riding a bike. First,

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<v Speaker 1>you do it with dad's help. Whys right behind you

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<v Speaker 1>making sure that you don't get hurt because it's scary

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<v Speaker 1>the first few times. Why is your dad there while

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<v Speaker 1>mom's holding the camera shouting positive things, don't close your eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>stop crying. You have a really close family. But then

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<v Speaker 1>eventually dad let's go, and suddenly look at that you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing it all by yourself. Why is mom still there

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<v Speaker 1>with a video camera? I asked her to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>But I bring about a far up because one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Dennis, emailed the show, and Dennis It says,

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<v Speaker 1>this was your first date that you've gone on in

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<v Speaker 1>quite a while, Like, were you in a relationship before that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I was in a long term relationship for a little while. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been single for two years now, What you've been

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<v Speaker 1>single for two years but you just haven't dated. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of came up one dating for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was just down on myself, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just had some self esteem issues, some things I

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<v Speaker 1>needed to work on, and it kind of got into

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<v Speaker 1>a pity party sort of thing for a little while,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to come back out of it. So

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you did you, Dennis, and it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like it turned out pretty good because you're you're back

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<v Speaker 1>up on the top. I love hearing those type of

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<v Speaker 1>stories we all do. Yeah, I got into a gym,

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<v Speaker 1>got back in the racquetball, I'm I'm rock climbing now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm even on an adult kickball team. Fun. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't need a second date update with him. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do self help with Dennis. I mean, this is great.

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<v Speaker 1>Who needs women? Just play racketball until you got to climb? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's great that you came out the other end,

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<v Speaker 1>and it sounds like you're in a better place. So

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<v Speaker 1>you ended up meeting somebody met lady named Stephanie. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll real smart and a great sense of humor. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>we hooked up after work. Oh you sound confident, But

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<v Speaker 1>I did and realized. When I say hooked up, I

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<v Speaker 1>just mean we got together. I told you guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been dating for a while. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>all the lingo is. Okay, okay, hooking up. Just so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Dennis tends to be like you get intimate,

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<v Speaker 1>like romantic, yet something that's too many women. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to like, you're you haven't done this in two years?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling? Like? What's going through your head

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<v Speaker 1>when you're going to meet her? Very excited, extremely excited,

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<v Speaker 1>a little a little, a little anxious. Yes, So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you and Stephanie end up doing for your date?

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<v Speaker 1>We ended up doing what I like to do and

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to share with her, which is a passion

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<v Speaker 1>of mine. It's rock clock. That's a sexy date. I

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<v Speaker 1>like it. I like it. Which had she ever climbed before?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it brand new to her? No, she'd never done

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<v Speaker 1>it before, but she was really open minded to the

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<v Speaker 1>idea when you totally turn on. Yeah, you hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>with her with the cables, the cable showing the ropes? Baby? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she seem like she was having fun? She was.

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<v Speaker 1>She was totally into it. I was totally into her.

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<v Speaker 1>And even during the thing, some of my friends from

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<v Speaker 1>class came over. They were really cool. So it actually

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<v Speaker 1>made me look good. Baby, looks like I had some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of popularity there. Like, yeah, I think it's such

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<v Speaker 1>a smart thing too, Like it's a way to bond together.

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<v Speaker 1>She's trying set the new A lot of adrenaline is

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<v Speaker 1>going on when you're climbing, like it's awesome. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>is rock climbing the only thing that you did for

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<v Speaker 1>the day or was there more? Yeah? We went to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar afterwards, had a few drinks. I'm a tequila guy,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had a couple of pops. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of what shots? A couple of pops pops. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's old school lingo, you know, pops like soda pop,

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<v Speaker 1>like a chan of pop, that sort of thing. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>to have some soda with tequila, Yeah, exactly. Okay, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>got it, figured it out. I was thinking Coca cola. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all over. They got it. Tequila soda. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>learned dating right now, you can say that, yes, all right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just have to have a good time with her.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really a great enjoying her company. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>great conversationalist, captivating, almost to the point of just other

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<v Speaker 1>people were walking by and looking at the two of

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<v Speaker 1>us like, wow, those people must really like each other.

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<v Speaker 1>That's sweets. I mean, she's not calling you back, so

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<v Speaker 1>there must be something going on. Did you get a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to really learn about her, because it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>this was a lot about your interest, your activities. It

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<v Speaker 1>was she did a lot of talking, but mostly was

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<v Speaker 1>about her work and her job. I mean she said, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have like a high pressure job? Okay? And

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<v Speaker 1>did you hook up in the modern um if you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did we do anything that somebody would be saying we

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<v Speaker 1>should have done on the first date or anything like that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we did not. Nobody on this show would say shows

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<v Speaker 1>a nice little goodbye, just a hug, a little peck

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<v Speaker 1>and the cheek. Nothing, nothing out of the ordinary. Well overall,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like it's a pretty solid date. How long

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<v Speaker 1>has it been since you last talked to her? It's

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<v Speaker 1>been a couple of months? What months? Months? Been a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of months? Have you dated sense? Or you did

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<v Speaker 1>the one day? After two years and we've done nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to playing the really slogan, I've gone I've gone out

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times with other people. It hasn't felt

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<v Speaker 1>the same, Okay, Okay, it was fun still, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I had fun. We didn't do the rock climbing thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We pretty much just did a couple of times, little bark.

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<v Speaker 1>We focus on them. Let's focus on seventy and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song. We'll come back. We'll call and

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<v Speaker 1>see if she remembers you, because two months in the

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<v Speaker 1>modern dating world, for like ever, she could be married.

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<v Speaker 1>It's possible. We're gonna come back. We'll call her and

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<v Speaker 1>try and get your second date update. All right, sounds great?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on it, Dennis. I know you been

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<v Speaker 1>telling us that you just got back into the dating

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<v Speaker 1>scene and you didn't know what you were doing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm guessing that Stephanie thought you were a player,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just running into the rock climbing place with

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<v Speaker 1>your extra large harness on, acting like a boss fist,

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<v Speaker 1>bumping all your friends, talking about your new clubs and activities.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet she thought you were some type of smooth talker.

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<v Speaker 1>It gets around town. Away, there's nought. I would like

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<v Speaker 1>you to prove right now that you're not pretend that

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<v Speaker 1>Brook is single and you just saw her out on

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<v Speaker 1>the street. Give us your best pickup line to get

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<v Speaker 1>her interested. Go ahead, Dennis, Hey Brooke, Yeah, what's you

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<v Speaker 1>doing doing radio? My job right now? Dennis? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Why don't you come on over here and

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<v Speaker 1>sit on Daddy's lest you're proving me right? Really? Your

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<v Speaker 1>first quickly, I thought if you was a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't that you went out with Stephanie two months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and now we're gonna be reaching back out to her again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if she's even gonna remember going out

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<v Speaker 1>with you, dude. Maybe the rock climbing party she'll remember. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she'll remember. I think she'll remember. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>have you tried calling or texting in that period in between? Ye?

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<v Speaker 1>I did? I just never heard anything back to Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have no idea? Why, no, no idea whatsoever?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, we're gonna try and get you some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Here a right, sit down, daddy. She's gonna tell you

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<v Speaker 1>where to say. Dial Stephanie's number, and let's see what

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<v Speaker 1>she hasked to say. All right, all right, sounds good.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello. Hey, is it Stephanie? Yeah, Hey Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing today? Really? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. Hi Stephanie. Yeah, the whole show's here, Brook,

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<v Speaker 1>Jose alexis Hi. Hi. Cool. It sounds like you listen.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. Yeah, I've told the show before, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>been a little bit well, you can always catch up

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<v Speaker 1>on our podcast available anywhere you get your podcast, Spotify, Apples,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll call you periodically. You listen to whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>want to listen to, Stephanie. But we're calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>because we're trying to get a second date update for

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners. Uh. Okay. It's a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with a little while ago. His name's Dennis.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember a couple months back. Yeah, yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>quite a while ago. That's the reaction, remember, Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the reaction we had when he told us how long

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<v Speaker 1>it had been. Yeah, it's been it's been a while,

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<v Speaker 1>so I have to I have to think for a minute. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good sign that he's reaching out to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a little bit late, but yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your date and said he had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time with you. And afterwards he said he

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<v Speaker 1>tried texting and calling you, but he hasn't gotten any response.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh um, have you been seeing those Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was a really nice guy. I just I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he was just looking for something else that I oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>can you explain, Well, I mean I just have different

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<v Speaker 1>expectations at this point in my life and he just

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<v Speaker 1>seemed we just seemed to be out of alignment. I guess. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he told us a little bit about your

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<v Speaker 1>date that you guys went rock climbing and went to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar and got to talking a lot about your lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Has something come up? Yeah, I mean things were great.

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<v Speaker 1>We were reviving and made a couple of beers, and

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<v Speaker 1>he kind of get to see you more a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of like yourself. Yeah, and he threw in a

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<v Speaker 1>line where he said something like he was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of looking for a hook up buddy. What oh yeah, wow. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't say anything like that to us. He sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like to us that he was looking for a long

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<v Speaker 1>term relationship. I mean, we talked to him about how

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<v Speaker 1>he had spent two years single working on himself and

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<v Speaker 1>that he was finally ready to see what was out

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<v Speaker 1>there because he felt like he had something to offer someone. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's nothing I got. He said he was happy that

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<v Speaker 1>he had a friends with benefits now friends friends with

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<v Speaker 1>benefits that yeah, oh no, you can't really just say that,

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<v Speaker 1>like as in, you are his friend with benefits even

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<v Speaker 1>though you hadn't given him any benefits yet. Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like I had been assigned the title all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden friends, and that's not how that works, Like friends

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<v Speaker 1>of benefits somebody you already know, and then you're like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe on the side will hook up because I in

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<v Speaker 1>a dry spell. Yeah, I think that's why he was insinuating.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted the things to be that way, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not anyone's side. Chief didn't call him back with ye

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<v Speaker 1>at least he was honest with you. There's some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of miscommunication here. Either Dennis isn't telling the truth or

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<v Speaker 1>she misheard something. So let's just get Dennis on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone right now, because Stephanie, I need to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>he's been there the entire time listening Stephanie. Stephanie, Oh wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's are you says, Oh my goodness, I have such

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<v Speaker 1>an apology to make to you. Is good. You heard

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<v Speaker 1>what I said, but that's not at all what I've merried.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I said to you friends with benefit. I meant

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that you have a great job and you

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<v Speaker 1>have medical benefits. Really shut up. The last girl I

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<v Speaker 1>was with, part of the reason why we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>glass at the Ways is because she didn't have any

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<v Speaker 1>and she only wanted to be with me because she

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<v Speaker 1>thought I could get her benefit so much. You're telling

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<v Speaker 1>me that you didn't know what friends with benefits meant.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about benefits a movie like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>nothing about that stuff. Okay, are you understanding what it means?

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<v Speaker 1>Like now now I understand why she felt the way

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<v Speaker 1>she felt. Also told that you just wanted to hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>You what you said, hook up buddy or something like that, Right, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't that what he said? He said he wanted friends

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<v Speaker 1>with benefits? And I guess I assumed he meant a

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<v Speaker 1>hook up buddy. That's what it is. Yeah, right, buddy

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<v Speaker 1>with dental h Well, I mean it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys just didn't understand what each other were saying, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're actually looking for the same thing, dude, And he

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<v Speaker 1>messed up on a bunch of phrases with us before

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<v Speaker 1>she even got him a fall. It's true, like Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 1>he did. He told us that he hooked up with

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<v Speaker 1>you when you guys first met, Yeah, when you just

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<v Speaker 1>linked up. Yeah, I've been saying the wrong thing the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. But you guys can tell I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about I mean, Dennis, are you like

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<v Speaker 1>a arphe like brook, don't ask that. No, I've just

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<v Speaker 1>I've just been out of the loop. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of young people around me. And what do

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<v Speaker 1>you want me to do? Watch MTV and then nobody

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<v Speaker 1>watching even watching what I know? Get a TikTok account. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean what, Yeah, I gotta watch. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna watch. You can hear Dennis. He sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty nice, genuine guy. He needs a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>updating in terms of dating terminology. But we'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>send you out on another date and maybe you can

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<v Speaker 1>help teach him some of those things and we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the date. No, it sounds like fun. Will you stefinitely?

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<v Speaker 1>Will you go with me? It's a misunderstanding. We'll go out.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be great. Oh wow, that's good. So see now

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<v Speaker 1>I have a true friend with benefit no medical Just

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you go to the Urban Dictionary before you

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<v Speaker 1>go on this day. Pay Dennis. Look up Mexican and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. I feel kind of happy for Dennis.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's a he's a likable guy, kind of

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<v Speaker 1>stuck in a time warp and apparently he hasn't watched

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<v Speaker 1>TV or listen to radio or watch the news in

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<v Speaker 1>thirty years. Yeah, participated in society even because he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know anything, would know what friends with benefits. But isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of a good thing, Like you get the

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<v Speaker 1>chance to be with a guy who's basically a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds terrible. He's pure, he's untouched, unworn. Yeah. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying like he's he's not scarred and is

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<v Speaker 1>not jaded by the dating. He's not gonna play games

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<v Speaker 1>on you exactly. You don't know how literally, Yeah, accidentally,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess yet. Or he's just gonna claim dumb every

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<v Speaker 1>time he gets caught doing something wrong. It's hard to

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<v Speaker 1>argue you again, jaded, Yeah, you're you're one of the

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<v Speaker 1>jaded ones. You don't believe them. You don't want a

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<v Speaker 1>baby man. I want a man man, not a baby man. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want one that's been with thousands and thousands. He's

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<v Speaker 1>got paperwork that checks out things are still good. But

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<v Speaker 1>text into seven eight to five nine two tell us

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<v Speaker 1>if you think these two are gonna make it, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good sound coming from us. Yeah, I remember, if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever want to get a second date up, that

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<v Speaker 1>you can always email our show. We can call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who wasn't calling you back