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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show on demand.

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Speaker 2: It's okay to cut toxic people out of your life.

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Speaker 2: And that doesn't mean that they're toxic to everybody, but

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Speaker 2: just they might be toxic to you. It's the Jewbile

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Speaker 2: Show and now we're going to help you see if

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Speaker 2: you should get rid of somebody in your life. There's

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Speaker 2: a new test that's out to tell if you should

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Speaker 2: have someone in your life or not. Nina has it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's called the two Beers and a Puppy test. Okay,

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Speaker 3: it sounds like a great story, doesn't Two beers and

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Speaker 3: a puppy. But the concept behind it is to ask

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Speaker 3: yourself if you'd be willing to have two beers with

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Speaker 3: someone because you know you can get through one, but

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Speaker 3: do you really want to stay there and choose to

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Speaker 3: have another beer with this person? And then the other

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Speaker 3: side of it is would you trust them to watch

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Speaker 3: your puppy for a weekend? And if the answer is

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Speaker 3: no to either one of those things, then this person

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Speaker 3: may be a little bit from that.

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Speaker 4: You shouldn't have in your life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been many occasions, you know, you go meet

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Speaker 2: someone for a drink and then you're done with yours.

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Speaker 2: They're done with theirs, and you're hoping that the server

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Speaker 2: asks you before them so that you can be like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm good, I gotta get going, because if they ask

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Speaker 2: them first, they order another one. Then you're like, oh, shoot,

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Speaker 2: now I've got to be in Now I'm in here.

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Speaker 2: That's that's somebody. You should get rid of them, so

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Speaker 2: you wouldn't have two beers with them, so you like, for.

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Speaker 3: Me, it's like not just the beer, Like if I

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Speaker 3: don't want to be there, I'll be like, okay, fine,

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Speaker 3: but can I have a shot too?

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Speaker 2: Please say now I need to get hammered. Yeah, for

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Speaker 2: this conversation. So that's how you tell two beers and

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Speaker 2: a puppy.

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Speaker 4: Do you have a test for people in your life?

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Speaker 3: Like, have you ever had one of those moments where

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Speaker 3: you like, you're like you test them?

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Speaker 2: Hmmm, No, I don't, but I should because I've you know,

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Speaker 2: I'll listen, I've all. I talk about it all the

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Speaker 2: time openly. I am not good at relationships. It's not

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Speaker 2: that I'm not nice, it's not that I'm not kind,

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Speaker 2: it's not that I don't like companionship. It's that I

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Speaker 2: had a bad relationship model growing up, and I have codependency,

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Speaker 2: so I don't pay attention to red flags, and then

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Speaker 2: I give up everything that I do and started doing

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Speaker 2: only things the other person wants to do, and then

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Speaker 2: that causes resentment.

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Speaker 4: So that's why I'm not good at relationships. So we

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Speaker 4: just spiraled down a hole. So we need to come

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Speaker 4: up with the test. So I need a test, Seriously,

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Speaker 4: I need a test. Problem.

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Speaker 2: I do need a test because I've had a lot

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Speaker 2: of people that are very toxic for me in my life,

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Speaker 2: and it takes me a long time to go Okay,

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Speaker 2: It's either life or death at this point.

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Speaker 4: So now I have to go you know what I mean,

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Speaker 4: what about the people around you? Did they ever say

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Speaker 4: anything to all the people in your life?

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Speaker 2: And guess what happens though, I mean not really usually

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Speaker 2: when you because for me, it's been romantic relationships that

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Speaker 2: have not gone well.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: My friendships are great. I don't ever have problems with friends,

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Speaker 2: never right, My friendships have always been awesome. I've never

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Speaker 2: wondered how people have drama with friends because I've I've

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Speaker 2: just had good friendships right, And my friends have been

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Speaker 2: like my family because I didn't have much of a

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Speaker 2: family growing up. But people will tell you after the fact,

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Speaker 2: right when you break up with someone, that's when all

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Speaker 2: your friends go, yeah, man, I wanted to say something,

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Speaker 2: but I was like, well, it seems.

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Speaker 4: Like her a lot, and I'm like, you could have

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Speaker 4: saved me so much time. Now, great, just blame them

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Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's never It's never my fault, of course,

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Speaker 2: you know. But it is that the people say coming

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Speaker 2: want to say something. I just didn't feel like it

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Speaker 2: was cool, but I think you should. If you see

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Speaker 2: see a red flag, a potential one or in your

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, as you're listening to us right now

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Speaker 3: out there, if you want to text us at four

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Speaker 3: one oh six one, do you have a test?

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Speaker 4: Is there a way?

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Speaker 3: Because there is something that I've been doing lately and

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Speaker 3: jubil This may help you because it helps you identify

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Speaker 3: a super selfish person because if they don't ask you

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Speaker 3: phone call, if they jump right into whatever they're doing

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Speaker 3: and they're not not like I need you to care

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Speaker 3: for real, but like at least take the.

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Speaker 4: Time to engage.

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Speaker 2: It is an action to show that they're also thinking

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Speaker 2: about another person, right right, Yeah, So if somebody texts

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Speaker 2: you or you text someone and they don't text you

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Speaker 2: how you're doing it, they just go into it. You're

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Speaker 2: watching for red flags exactly. I might have to come out.

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Speaker 4: Of my life.

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Speaker 5: I just realized Nina might be cutting me out of

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Speaker 5: her life soon, because I have been trained in my

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Speaker 5: life to like not do the how are you think

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Speaker 5: and waste time when it comes to like business and stuff.

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Speaker 5: It's like, hey, let's get this thing done and let's

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Speaker 5: make the call, say seven minutes instead of twenty seven.

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Speaker 3: But that's not true though every morning you do ask

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Speaker 4: But I was taught that too. An interview, I might

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Speaker 4: have to move to this other studio for other reasons.

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Speaker 6: Okay, fair enough.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but like when you do interviews and stuff.

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Speaker 3: I remember somebody told me don't ever ask how you

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Speaker 3: are first, really, because now you're wasting time and the

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Speaker 3: job interview job not job interviews. And then like artists

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Speaker 3: interviews or anytime you're out there interviewing people.

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Speaker 2: Oh what if you actually want to know, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: like genuinely want to know. I'm also I don't I'm

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Speaker 2: not your typical interviewer when we do interviewers, I'm never

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Speaker 2: Machaelmore the other day the other day and Nina was like,

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Speaker 2: are you did you need a new prep for it?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, well cool. It's like do you

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Speaker 2: I feel like they go better when I'm looser. If

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Speaker 2: to that and then I don't get curious and ask

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Speaker 4: But I I feel like the how are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Is n is nice and I never like everywhere like

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Speaker 3: This comes back to everything that you just said in

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Speaker 3: the beginning. You are a curious person and how you

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Speaker 3: miss those red flags when with as curious as you all, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't miss them. I just ignore them. Let's go back

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Speaker 4: to I'm just like that that's a red flag.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to pretend that I didn't see that, but

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Speaker 2: oh boy, I just have another landmine. But I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: six one. Do you have a test for people to

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Speaker 2: see if you should have in your life or not?

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Speaker 8: I'mina, what I'm na, I'm Nina, Amina, What I'm Nina?

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Speaker 8: I'm Nina, I'm Nina. And there is a new day

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Speaker 8: of the week getting more attention than Friday.

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Speaker 4: You guess what it is? Wednesday. You would think it

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Speaker 4: sorry every day, every day wrong, It's definitely wrong on

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Speaker 4: a Tuesday. Tuesday's finally getting some recognition. Tuesday. Congratulations Tuesday Day.

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Speaker 2: I'm seriously, I've talked about this for years, the Tuesday

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Speaker 2: is the most disrespected day of the week because if

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Speaker 2: might be wrong now because Tuesday is getting some recognition.

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Speaker 2: But I've always said Tuesday is the most disrespected day

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Speaker 2: of the week because there's no greeting for it. Every

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Speaker 2: single other day has a greeting. Right on a Monday, Monday, Wednesday, Humpday, Thursday,

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Speaker 4: What Tuesday is just like there's no yah. I guess noways.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's surveys that say that people are drinking twenty

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Speaker 3: percent more wine on Tuesdays. People are going out more

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Speaker 4: Like I'm here for it. Yeah, we were out last night.

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Speaker 3: Tuesdayday, Taco Tuesday, Tuesday, Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: That's why I don't know why Tuesday has been so

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Speaker 2: disrespected because of Taco Tuesday and things like that. It

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Speaker 2: goes better when there's not a lot of other I mean,

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Speaker 2: what can you do a wednesdayday?

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Speaker 3: Well day, but wing Wednesday okay, wine, Wednesday, win or Wednesday.

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Speaker 4: You can do a lot. I guess maybe we should

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Speaker 4: change it to Wednesdays. Tuesday is the new day. Okay,

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Speaker 4: that's what's trendy.

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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on demand.

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Speaker 4: It's another Jubile phone frame.

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Speaker 1: Weesday Mornings on the twenties.

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Speaker 9: A moving company is this Tim? How can I help you?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Tim? My name is and I would like to lodge

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Speaker 4: a complaint.

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Speaker 9: All right, Pete, sorry to hear that. Well, what do

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Speaker 9: you want to complain about?

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Speaker 2: Well, I was driving behind your truck the other day

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Speaker 2: and I took down the number on it because it said,

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Speaker 2: how's my driving? Call this number, and so that's why

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Speaker 2: I'm calling the number because you're driving?

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Speaker 9: Was okay, Pete, I'm sorry you experienced that. Can you

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Speaker 9: tell me what happened?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'd love to tell you what happened. I've got

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Speaker 2: a list of things to go over. I hope you're ready.

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Speaker 9: Uh, no problem, okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, let's start with the windshield wiping.

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Speaker 9: I'm sorry, Okay, are you really going to.

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Speaker 2: Play dumb like you don't know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 2: The overly aggressive, inappropriate, unneeded windshield wiping?

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Speaker 9: Pete? Are you saying that my windshield wiping affected my drive?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know how it wouldn't affect the driving

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Speaker 2: when you're just wiping your windows willy nilly. I was

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Speaker 2: driving behind you and you sprayed me three times with

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Speaker 2: window cleaning fluid, and then I drove around to check

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Speaker 2: it out see what you were doing, and the wipers

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Speaker 2: were just going and it wasn't even raining. Why are

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Speaker 2: you using the wipers when it's not raining.

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Speaker 9: Pete, my windshield wipers? Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's exactly what I was saying when I saw

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Speaker 2: you wiping the windows, just wiping away, and I was thinking,

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Speaker 2: what the F word is going on?

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Speaker 4: Unlike you, I don't say it.

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Speaker 9: Because you're you're a better man, Pete, You're a better man.

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Speaker 4: Well it just sounds like it, doesn't it, Not at.

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Speaker 9: All, Pete. Actually I'm trying to see better out my windows.

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Speaker 9: You know, maybe there was some dust on them, so

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Speaker 9: you know, you can.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Pete, you got a wholest complaint. What was Was

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Speaker 9: I using my blinker too much? Or did I change

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Speaker 2: No, oh, you didn't change lanes too fast or too slow.

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Speaker 2: You were drinking your soda the whole time, driving with

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Speaker 4: Everything you were doing was wrong.

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Speaker 9: Listen, the sticker on my truck says how's my driving.

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Speaker 9: It doesn't say anything about how's my eating. It doesn't

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Speaker 9: Yes, I'm a trucker. Yeah. We drive for long distances,

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Speaker 4: Topic of wiping, how do you deal with your hemorrhoids?

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Speaker 2: I read somewhere that truckers get bad hemorrhoids from sitting

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Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I've got a great solution. Keep my foot

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Speaker 2: All right, Well fine, that sounds uncomfortable, So I'll just

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Speaker 2: tell you a prank phone called then what This is

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Speaker 2: actually Jewbil from the Jewbil Show doing a phone prank

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Speaker 2: on you and your sister Kathy set you up.

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Speaker 4: It's a joke, she said that.

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Speaker 2: No, she said that you drive truck and sometimes we

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Speaker 1: Preparation pro The Jubil Show on demand.

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Speaker 6: Up.

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Speaker 2: Dave is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 4: How long has it been since you? Soccer?

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Speaker 6: She just left the event that she invited me to. Oh,

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Speaker 6: And I'm thinking she's great. We're going back and forth

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Speaker 4: On people, I mean that could be it. Do you

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Speaker 6: I mean, she's just kind of had some funny pigtails

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Speaker 4: So how did she leave you, Dave?

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Speaker 3: You're saying that she just disappeared on you, like you

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Speaker 6: Wanted to get a few more free drinks, you know,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, who doesn't you know?

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Speaker 6: It's just it's so strange because we were having so

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Speaker 9: It was great.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that is it's really weird. Interesting. Okay, have you

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Speaker 2: Have only one time, but it was a double date

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Speaker 6: It you know.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's figure it out. We will play a song,

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Speaker 6: All right, man, please? Yeah, I would be great.

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Speaker 4: Plus I'll come back get your first date follow up next.

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Speaker 6: CHRISA invited me to an art gallery and we were

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Speaker 2: I speak to Chrissa. Please, yes, Chrissa, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel and I host a radio show

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Speaker 4: Oh, hi, Chrissa, my name is Nina. I'm also on

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Speaker 4: the Jubil Show. Hi, I'm Victorian. So there's three people

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Speaker 6: How are you okay?

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Speaker 4: Good?

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Speaker 11: How are you? How did you get my number?

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Speaker 4: That's a good question.

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Speaker 11: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Is just catching me? Just catching

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Speaker 4: Well you might have.

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Speaker 4: They wanted us to get hold of you. Oh boy,

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Speaker 4: his name is Dave, you know Dave?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, he do, all right.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Dave wants to know why you're ghosting. He said

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Speaker 11: My apologies this is a little weird. I wasn't expecting

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Speaker 11: It's kind of like karma. I should explain myself.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 11: So I went out on a state with Dave, and

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Speaker 11: I didn't really want to go, but I figured out

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Speaker 11: Free food, free booze, you know whatever. We can have

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Speaker 11: fun no matter what. So Dave was really funny, you know,

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Speaker 11: like we got along really well. We both had like

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Speaker 11: Yeah, Dave was cool, man, David. Dave was really cool.

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Speaker 11: So so what I really, I'm sorry. What I'm trying

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Speaker 11: should just clear the air. Okay, what I should have

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Speaker 11: I have no idea, but I just left. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: I'm just really confused how lying would have been better?

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Speaker 11: Then?

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Speaker 4: So what actually happened?

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Speaker 11: Though, I don't know. I'm not good a confrontation, like

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Speaker 11: But what happened was is we were making fun of

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Speaker 11: a lot of people there because it's an art gallery.

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Speaker 11: You know, there's a bunch of you know where I

440
00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,800
Speaker 11: was there. We were making fun of people, and all

441
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,119
Speaker 11: of this sudden I noticed that one of them happened

442
00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:46,600
Speaker 11: to be my ex. Oh yes, and okay, so I

443
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,120
Speaker 11: mean it was all funny. But rather than feel bad

444
00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:53,359
Speaker 11: about it, when I saw my ex, it kind of

445
00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:57,680
Speaker 11: like ignited something else inside of me. How should I

446
00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:01,680
Speaker 11: put this in nice terms? Urges came over me. So

447
00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 11: I ended up leaving to hook up with my ex

448
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:11,119
Speaker 11: in their car. Oh okay, I know, I never I

449
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 11: don't even do stuff like this. Like, I don't even

450
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Speaker 11: know what happened, Like maybe it was just the booze

451
00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 11: of the sliders. I don't know, But I went and

452
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:18,879
Speaker 11: I hooked up with my ex in the car, and

453
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Speaker 11: then what made me feel really even eat Like I

454
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 11: didn't feel bad because I was like, I need a

455
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 11: day for like five minutes. So maybe we just never

456
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Speaker 11: see each other again. I mean that's what I thought, like,

457
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Speaker 11: I'll never see him again, and this would be a

458
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Speaker 11: really great story about how me and my ex got

459
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Speaker 11: back together, but instead they ended up ghosting me after that?

460
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Speaker 4: What oh what? So you go, said Dave? And then

461
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:46,879
Speaker 4: your ex ghosted you? This art? Really know what I

462
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 4: like art, galleries and everything else you just described. I

463
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:57,920
Speaker 4: like too, so oh god, and you know whoa yeah,

464
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Speaker 4: I'm hearing, Yes it is. He's on the phone.

465
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Speaker 6: Who was it?

466
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 4: Sorry, Chris, I should have told you that Dave is

467
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 4: on the phone listing and wants to talk to you.

468
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Speaker 11: It's okay, it's okay. You know what I needed to

469
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Speaker 11: clear this?

470
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 4: This this was on my mind. I felt bad.

471
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Speaker 6: I think I said, I don't just it.

472
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Speaker 11: It was the one that I called that you were

473
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Speaker 11: calling an ooper loopa with the green hair.

474
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Speaker 6: They're talking about a woman. Yes, I'm really I mean

475
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Speaker 6: I thought that she looked like a but she kind

476
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,879
Speaker 6: of like was like she's kind of like like that

477
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 6: hot oop lump. Like you're saying that it was wait

478
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 6: a second, saying you're in the women too. That's kind of.

479
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Speaker 11: Happy to do with me being attracted to women. I

480
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 11: left you to go hook up with somebody.

481
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Speaker 6: Out look, in the amount of time that we had

482
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Speaker 6: to get to know each other, in our sense of

483
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Speaker 6: humor and our openness, you don't think he could have

484
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Speaker 6: told me that, and that I wouldn't have been like, hey,

485
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Speaker 6: this is cool, let's, you know, talk more seriously.

486
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Speaker 3: He was somebody going, hey, pause, I'm gonna hook up

487
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Speaker 3: on my ex real quick call Tomorrow's okay.

488
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Speaker 11: It's just easier to just to just to just leave.

489
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Speaker 6: But each doesn't.

490
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Speaker 11: Disappear in bed.

491
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 6: I'm just pulling. It's okay, it's kind of hot.

492
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Speaker 4: If her X was a guy, would you feel the

493
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Speaker 4: same way?

494
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Speaker 11: Right? I don't know how to take it.

495
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Speaker 6: Do I sound like I feel the same way? Now?

496
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Speaker 11: Okay? Thanks for not like hitting my guys. I mean

497
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 11: I was pretty crappy thing.

498
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Speaker 6: I mean a little maybe a little bit. I know

499
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Speaker 6: that you didn't want to tell me. I can understand why.

500
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Speaker 11: I just sorry for leaving you at art exhibit. I

501
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,360
Speaker 11: know they're terrible.

502
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Speaker 6: Maybe maybe we can go people watch at like, you know,

503
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Speaker 6: the beach or something sometime, you know, just the boardwalk.

504
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Speaker 11: Are we really doing this on the radio? This is weird?

505
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Speaker 6: But are you?

506
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Speaker 11: Are you asking me out again?

507
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Speaker 4: Carissa? Would you like to go on another date with Dave?

508
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 4: We'll pay for it. He obviously doesn't mind that you

509
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 4: hooked up with the X and the car on the

510
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Speaker 4: same day you are on.

511
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Speaker 11: Wait, you're you're gonnaay, You're gonna pay for it? Yes, yes, yeah,

512
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 11: all right, I will go back out with Dave. You're

513
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 11: paying the bill. Maybe I was gonna say that I

514
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 11: owe him a.

515
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 6: Drink or if I see one of my exes, you'll

516
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 6: know what happened.

517
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Speaker 4: Okay, you guys are a TV show, all right?

518
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 11: Deal?

519
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 4: You guys sound like you're made for each other. Honestly,

520
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 4: I think this is a match made for sure.

521
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:37,159
Speaker 6: Yeah too, crappy human beings, just I just can't give up.

522
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Speaker 4: Well, congratulations Dave, you got another date, and Chrisa you

523
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 4: also got a date. Ya. Thanks pretty Meal.

524
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Speaker 1: The show on demand Gules Dirty Little Secret.

525
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 4: Hello, Hello, Hey, what's up? You have a dirty little secret?

526
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Speaker 6: I do?

527
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 4: Sweet, Well, we have dirty little ears. Sure do for you.

528
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Speaker 12: I am completely in love with my ex husband's best friend.

529
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Speaker 4: Oh that's fun. Is your ex husband's best friend single?

530
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 6: Yes? He is.

531
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Speaker 4: Is he aware that you're in love with him?

532
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 6: Well? I think it's mutual.

533
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 4: Oh oh are you single?

534
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 13: Yes? Oh yeah, yeah, we're divorced.

535
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 4: Okay, So have you guys been dating I mean secretly?

536
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 13: Yes. I mean it started out as just kind of

537
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 13: hooking up, and I tried to kind of blow them

538
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,520
Speaker 13: off and see other people, and that didn't really work out.

539
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 13: We just kind of keep going back to each other,

540
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 13: and I think we're going to try to actually do

541
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Speaker 13: something about it.

542
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Speaker 4: That's exciting. How is your ex husband going to feel

543
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 4: about it?

544
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 6: This is the issue.

545
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 13: I mean I would probably throw punch my best friend,

546
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 13: So it's kind of difficult.

547
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, what is your ex like? Is he going to

548
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 4: be I mean, you know, I'm very well, So what

549
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 4: do you think he's going to do?

550
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 13: He can be a little bit hot headed, But the

551
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 13: thing is is that we don't have any children together

552
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 13: or anything like that it's like a very clean break.

553
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 13: We have no relationship whatsoever anymore. So it's basically just

554
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 13: him kind of figuring out how this is going to

555
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 13: work with his best friend. But it's kind of been

556
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 13: our dilemma the entire time.

557
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 3: So does his best friend feel conflicted, because, I mean,

558
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 3: you're kind of in the clear now you're out.

559
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 13: I think at first he definitely was a little worried

560
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 13: about it, but now he just kind of has the

561
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 13: I don't really care mentality.

562
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 2: Well that's cool. I mean, so, how long has it

563
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 2: been going on that your ex husband doesn't know about it?

564
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 13: Oh, so we've been divorced for about a year. I

565
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 13: would state that the hooking up has been going on

566
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 13: for probably about four months.

567
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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good thing to say. We've been divorced

568
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 2: about a years, been going on for three Well, good luck.

569
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Speaker 10: Yeah.

570
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Speaker 4: I hope it goes over well, I really do too.

571
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Speaker 13: Thank you guys so much for listening.

572
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely tell how it goes. Good luck.

573
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Speaker 13: Okay, we'll follow up.

574
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Speaker 4: Thank you, Ye bye bye.

575
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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on demand.

576
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Speaker 12: I am completely in level with my ex Husbin's best friend.

577
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Speaker 4: Oh are you?

578
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 12: I am completely in level with my ex Husbin's best friend.

579
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Speaker 2: That's interesting. That was from a dirty Little Secret. It's

580
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 2: the Jubil Show and now we're asking you, would you

581
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 2: still be friends with somebody if they dated your ex?

582
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: Or has this situation happened to you? Call us up

583
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,199
Speaker 2: eight eight eight three four three one O six one

584
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 2: eight eight eight three four three one O six one

585
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 2: and you can text it in at four one O

586
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Speaker 2: six one. Also, I forgot to mention earlier that we

587
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Speaker 2: have those Enrique Glecias and or Pitbull Enrica, Enrique Glacias

588
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: and Ricky Martin tickets too.

589
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 4: So probably just give them to somebody who calls into

590
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 4: the story. So just call now how much of a plan?

591
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 2: Because I forgot that we had I forgot that I

592
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 2: said we'd have them the same time every single a

593
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 2: day of this week. So we still have those. So

594
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 2: call up eighty eight three four three one O six one.

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Speaker 2: Hello Ashanda A Shanda's right, Shanda? Would you be friends

596
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 2: with someone who dated your ex?

597
00:26:58,960 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 10: Well?

598
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 9: I actually my own sister dated my ex for a.

599
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 4: Year and a half, my ex husband, your ex husband.

600
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were.

601
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 4: Divorced for almost ten years and they ended up all

602
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 4: meeting at.

603
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 10: The pumpkin patch one day and like boys were twelve

604
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 10: and fifteen, proways starts to.

605
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Speaker 4: Pump to patch And you were cool with that with it?

606
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 4: Or was it tough for you? Oh hell no, no,

607
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 4: don't be.

608
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 9: No.

609
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 13: It took me a few years to actually talk to

610
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 13: her and have a relationship with her.

611
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 10: Again.

612
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 2: I mean, that's more than like that's your sister, you know,

613
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,679
Speaker 2: especially if you have a close family. That's more than

614
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 2: if a friend did it. I would think, I.

615
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 4: Mean, there's like bro code, but I thought, like sister

616
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 4: code would be like legit, you know, yeah right, And

617
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 4: I'm like, there's enough to mess up my kids in

618
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 4: the world. We don't need to have.

619
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Speaker 6: Their mom too. R Wow, he would say.

620
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 10: He goes, well, the kids get along so well because

621
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 10: she had three younger kids, and they go, yeah, because

622
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 10: their cousins.

623
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Speaker 2: They've met a Thanksgivings many times. That's crazy. Thank you

624
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 2: for your phone call. I appreciate you. Call us up

625
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 2: eight eight eight three four three one o six one.

626
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: Hey Linda, Okay, Hey, would you be friends with someone

627
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: who dated your X?

628
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 6: Oh? Man, you know, I don't think it's a big deal.

629
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 10: It's my ex, my second hand me down, like there's

630
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 10: a reason work. I mean, even there's the reason we're

631
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 10: not together.

632
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 11: So I'd be totally fine with that, you know, like, hey,

633
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 11: go for it, like you can have whatever I don't want.

634
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 3: You think you'd be okay going out to drinks with

635
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 3: both of them and sitting on your side of the

636
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 3: booth and they're two over there making out and stuff.

637
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:55,479
Speaker 10: You're cool with that? Hey, well, well what literally if

638
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 10: he's my ex? Why the hell would I give him

639
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 10: if he's my ex? So I'm not going to be

640
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 10: in just and caring any more about whatever romantic No,

641
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 10: none of that moving forward, I mean you forward with friends.

642
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 6: If you don't have friends, who's day.

643
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 8: Xes In the past, I've never understood you lost me there,

644
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 8: but the first part I got you.

645
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,000
Speaker 4: I've never understood the extra chance.

646
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 10: In a small town, you know, everybody kind of dates

647
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 10: everybody a little bit. So that's where you know, yeah,

648
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 10: especials own a little bit there. If you were in

649
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 10: a small town you grow.

650
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 11: Up kind of having friends, be like, oh, you know,

651
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 11: that's okay.

652
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 6: You know, I feel like it's okay, Okay.

653
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't bother me, you know, I guess unless

654
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 2: they left me and I still had feelings for them.

655
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 2: It might bother me a little bit, but other than that,

656
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: they're my exit in most of my situations. Be like,

657
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 2: better you than me, you know.

658
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, good luck with that. Call us up eight eight

659
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Speaker 4: eight three four three six one, Malachi. But hey, so

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Speaker 4: what do you think? Would you still with friends of

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Speaker 4: someone who dated your ex?

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Speaker 9: Yes? But I have a weird take on this.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So my best I'd stay the night at my

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Speaker 7: best friend's house in high school and his phone got

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Speaker 7: taken away and he asked to borrow my phone, which

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Speaker 7: was no big deal, so I let him borrow it.

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Speaker 6: He ended up.

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Speaker 7: Texting my current girlfriend at the time and was hitting

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Speaker 7: on her and saying it with him.

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Speaker 9: But while I was there on your phone.

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Speaker 7: We weren't friends after that for a while, and we

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Speaker 7: ended up being friends after that again after about a year.

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Speaker 4: I think that's valid. I mean, he took your phone

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Speaker 4: to hit on your girlfriends, didn't even pretend to be Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: thanks for your phone call call us eight eight eight

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Speaker 4: three four three six one eight eight eight three four

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Speaker 4: three one six one. So, Nina, you would not be

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Speaker 4: friends with that person or would be hard?

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Speaker 3: Now if I loved the person. We're not friends if

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Speaker 3: you're trying to date my acts, if you're just sloppy

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Speaker 3: seconds different. But if I loved you, my friends, no better,

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Speaker 3: don't you Even if I don't want him anymore, you.

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Speaker 4: Still can't Victoria, what about you?

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Speaker 13: I don't know.

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Speaker 11: I've never really had an ex, so I don't really know.

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Speaker 4: How when you get an exit and let us know,

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Speaker 4: I will, bred doesn't matter to me. Do whatever you

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Speaker 4: gotta do.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm not. I'm not about caring about what

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Speaker 5: anybody else does with their life at all.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I have one ex that we remain friends.

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Speaker 9: Right.

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Speaker 2: That relationship was an okay relationship. We just didn't work

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Speaker 2: her out right, But I didn't know her husband before

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Speaker 2: I met him. But he and I have been friends

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Speaker 2: like our friends. He's cool, Like it's fine, and also

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Speaker 2: it's another she's a hot head, so like she's a

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Speaker 2: nice person, but she is a hot head. So that's

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Speaker 2: another situation where I was like, man, good for you.

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Speaker 3: I can't decide if that's like healthy or if I'm

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Speaker 3: just off the rock because I'm all about protect your piece,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so no extras need to be flitting around.

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Speaker 2: I think with the exes that I've had, it is

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Speaker 2: super peaceful for me, you know, because it's just a

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Speaker 2: reminder that I'm not in that anymore. So I'm like, sweet,

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Speaker 2: look at me. I'm free from that relationship. So it's

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Speaker 2: always been very peaceful for me to see that. Okay, good, Yeah, as.

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Speaker 3: Long as you're still in peace, you're never going to

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Speaker 3: believe the way that influencers have been duping us now,

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Speaker 3: and especially if you're a gym person, you may be

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Speaker 3: offended by this because what influencer influencers are doing is

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Speaker 3: that they're using fake weights.

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Speaker 4: What their posts, and they're getting amazing hot.

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Speaker 11: Wait, what do you mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I guess.

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Speaker 3: Back in twenty twenty one, Sylvester Stallone was posting an

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Speaker 3: extreme lifting video on Instagram and people were calling him

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Speaker 3: out for it being fake weights, and so then experts

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Speaker 3: were like, this is how you tell if it's a

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Speaker 3: legit weight or if they're faking it, And it's all

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Speaker 3: about how they put the barbell back down or pick

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Speaker 3: it up right before they lift it. So yeah, they're

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Speaker 3: using fake weights to look up and all this stuff.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, what the heck?

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Speaker 3: Like, if you're a gym person. You know how much

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Speaker 3: time and just plan and all of that that it

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Speaker 3: takes to build your weights. So for these little faki's

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Speaker 3: out here being like, look at how cute I am.

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Speaker 2: I fake weight work smarter, not harder, right, I post

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Speaker 2: Jim stuff, I post Jim stuff.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm relifting a lot more. I guarantee that.

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Speaker 3: I guess maybe if you really lift the weight, and

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Speaker 3: then just for the photo, you opted for the lighter weight,

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Speaker 3: so you were I don't know, I.

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Speaker 5: Was gonna say Devil's advocate on this is if you

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Speaker 5: are constantly lifting weights because you're super fit and stuff,

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Speaker 5: but you have to do so many videos and so

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Speaker 5: many pictures and stuff, maybe that makes sense because yeah,

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Speaker 5: because you want to be able to get as many

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Speaker 5: videos and pictures done as you can.

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Speaker 2: Well, but then you're also but like you know, you're

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Speaker 2: faking the straining too. You know some of the guys

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Speaker 2: that like the they're doing all that, there's no way

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Speaker 2: I think about that. That's gonna be hard for me

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Speaker 2: to be inspired because I'm like, I'm just gonna take

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Speaker 2: fake weights in my backpack to the gym so I

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Speaker 2: can press everybody there. They're like that guy does not

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Speaker 2: look like he should be able to lift that much,

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Speaker 2: but he's lifting four thousand pounds.

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Speaker 4: That's amazing. Be aware of those bake weights and that's

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Speaker 4: what's trending.

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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on demand.

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Speaker 4: Let's just get right to it.

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Speaker 2: Someone on this show is upset with the other people

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Speaker 2: on this show. And it's the Jubil Show, by the way,

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Speaker 2: But it's time for the check in. Call us up

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Speaker 2: eight eight eight three four three one six one, text

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Speaker 2: in four one to six one. Check in about whatever

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Speaker 2: is going on in your life. You're part of our

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Speaker 2: family and we'll check in about what's going on in

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Speaker 2: our life. Let's all feel not alone together, Brad, Yes,

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Speaker 2: of course, what's bothering you today?

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Speaker 4: You know last night.

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Speaker 1: I knew.

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Speaker 4: What That's really funny to you, isn't it, Victoria, don't

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Speaker 4: know where this is going.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 5: I am kind of like the dad of the show,

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Speaker 5: try to wrangle everybody, get everybody where they need to go.

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Speaker 5: And last night everybody in this room decided they were

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Speaker 5: going to hang out and have drinks and stuff. And

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Speaker 5: I just stood outside of a venue waiting for them

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Speaker 5: to show up, and nobody invited me. And you know,

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Speaker 5: when your friends people, you think your friends are having

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Speaker 5: fun and they don't invite you even though you're across

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Speaker 5: the street.

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Speaker 4: That feels very weird. Did you know you're across the street?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I have lots to say, go ahead you

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Speaker 2: And in my defense, I was I met up with

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Speaker 2: Victoria and Nina later on because I was doing some

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Speaker 2: stuff and I was sitting in the car sending some

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Speaker 2: emails for a while, and I thought I saw you

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Speaker 2: get out of a car that parked and walk in there,

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Speaker 2: so I thought you were in there, So I'm you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like, I did not text you

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Speaker 2: and ask when I noticed you weren't in there. Also,

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Speaker 2: when I walked by the car, is not your car

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Speaker 2: and it was from like Nebraska.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, that definitely wasn't him. But that's

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Speaker 4: not what happened.

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Speaker 3: What had happened was is Victoria and I left here

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Speaker 3: before all of you because we had a plan that

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Speaker 3: the show was going to spend time together for the

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Speaker 3: first time since this era, and Victoria and I go

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Speaker 3: off hit a couple bars. We find out that the

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Speaker 3: location we were originally told to meet was not the

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Speaker 3: correct location, So I called Brad and I was like,

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Speaker 3: that's not the spot. We need to go farther south,

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Speaker 3: so hit us up when you get down there. Victoria

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Speaker 3: and I are going to go find another bar. So

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Speaker 3: we go find the bar. I hear nothing from Brad,

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Speaker 3: not even a peep. And then Juble shows up because

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Speaker 3: Victoria sent him pin, but Brad never called.

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Speaker 4: Nobody sent me a pin.

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Speaker 6: Where to go?

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Speaker 4: Nobody sent me a pin.

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Speaker 2: I'm never drinking with any of the check and call

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Speaker 2: us eighty eight three four three six one, text in

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Speaker 2: four on a six one.

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Speaker 4: What do you want to check in about today? Matt?

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 9: Hey?

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Speaker 1: How you doing?

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Speaker 6: Brother?

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Speaker 4: Good Matt?

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Speaker 14: Do you guys sound like I guess have a blast?

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Speaker 12: Huh?

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Speaker 7: We tried.

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Speaker 4: Every party's got a pooper and his name is Pratt.

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Speaker 14: I remember my younger days, man, whenever I was partying

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Speaker 14: a line that was that was always fun. But I

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Speaker 14: was wanting to toss the touch base with you guys

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Speaker 14: because I own a detailing business out in Portland, Oregon,

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Speaker 14: and I listen, you guys just show every morning, and

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Speaker 14: so if I maybe get you guys to give me

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Speaker 14: a shout out man like, because I I, uh, you know,

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Speaker 14: I started out homeless. You know, I am home with

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Speaker 14: a few years ago, and you know I started my

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Speaker 14: business about a year and a half ago. I've just

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Speaker 14: been trying to help people out and you know, help them.

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Speaker 14: And then you know, see, if you guys would mind

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Speaker 14: shouting me out out there, I.

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Speaker 2: Think you kind of just did it. You can say

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Speaker 2: the name of your don't company why I kind of got.

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Speaker 14: In, but yeah, I got you, I got you.

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Speaker 9: It's Equal Auto LLC.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm on my home.

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Speaker 14: Base, not a Milwaukee, but I'm all mobile, so I

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Speaker 14: come to you. You know, I just tram. The coding

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Speaker 14: is anything to do with retail and whereas she started

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Speaker 14: to do plastic dips of cars as well.

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Speaker 6: There you go.

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Speaker 4: All right, well I want some of that stuff done.

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Speaker 9: So there you go.

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Speaker 4: I got a new car. Maybe I'll hit you up.

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Speaker 4: All right, all congratulations on.

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Speaker 6: My phone number? Got here man, Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: To have a good day so you can call us

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Speaker 2: about anything, check in, get a shout out for your business.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't matter. And you know what do you want

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00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 4: to check in about to day? Closed mouths don't get fed.

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Speaker 4: He knows how that wor true.

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Speaker 3: I have a new podcast So I've told you guys

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Speaker 3: about this a little bit before when we were starting

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Speaker 3: to record and work on it. But today the very

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Speaker 3: first episode dropped. Next Wednesday, the episode with Jubile drops

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Speaker 3: and that one's really intense.

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Speaker 4: So he's going to open up about a bunch of

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Speaker 4: different stuff. So it's good.

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Speaker 3: If you don't already what do you call it, someribe,

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Speaker 3: you can do it. Follow, Follow, You can follow us

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Speaker 3: at Classy Chaos Pod. You can subscribe Classy Chaos everywhere

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Speaker 3: you get your podcast. Victoria is also a part of

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Speaker 3: the podcast.

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Speaker 4: Somt never been invited to be on it.

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Speaker 2: Just to check in, call us up eight eight eight

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Speaker 2: three four three one o six one eight eight eight

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Speaker 2: three four three one o six one and all. It

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Speaker 2: looks like maybe one of our listeners is kind of

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Speaker 2: my spirit animal right now. He looks like he's got

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Speaker 2: some ex wife, crazy drama. Hey, William, what's up man?

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Speaker 4: How are you doing all right? How are you good man?

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Speaker 4: What do you what do you want to check in

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Speaker 4: about today?

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Speaker 15: Pretty much, it seems like every day I got to

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Speaker 15: deal with something new from my ex wife, and it's

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Speaker 15: really problematic since I got a ten year old.

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Speaker 9: Who's stuck in the middle. That's where it feels like

881
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 9: it's got to be team mom or team dad when

882
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 9: it should just be too.

883
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 15: Yeah, grown adults living separate lives.

884
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 2: It sounds like you're looking at it correctly. It is

885
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 2: really sad when people use kids and weaponized kids against

886
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 2: each other, and it's not It's not just sad. It

887
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: does an incredible amount of damage to the child. William,

888
00:38:58,640 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that you're having to deal with that. That

889
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 2: you know, I never had any kids on my own,

890
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 2: but that if I was in that situation, I would

891
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 2: be so upset and so concerned for my child and

892
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 2: just super I don't know how I mean, I would

893
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: have all the feelings.

894
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 4: So I'm sorry you're going through that.

895
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 6: Man.

896
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 15: Yeah, it's become more frustrating because my new girlfriend, she

897
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 15: and her husband get along just fine. Their divorce was

898
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 15: just it ain't working.

899
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 9: Let's be there for the kids.

900
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 15: You know, they got a couple of squall hold everyone does.

901
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 15: But I'm like, man, I didn't think I ever endious

902
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 15: to somebody's divorce, but here I am.

903
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry you're going through that, but you know

904
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 2: it'll eventually get done and then it'll be better on

905
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 2: the other side for sure.

906
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: Oh, the divorce is done.

907
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 15: I wrapped up a year ago. But lucky, it's just

908
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 15: a complication of the kids still being stuck in the

909
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 15: middle and just getting snche for her and I still

910
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 15: have to keep in contact with my divorce attorney. But

911
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 15: nothing is what he calls quote actionable where I can

912
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 15: really step in into anything. Yeah, even though every week

913
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,399
Speaker 15: I hear something super jacked up from my son, Well.

914
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 2: You know what you can he sorry, sorry to interrupt you.

915
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 2: What you can do is get him into counseling right now,

916
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 2: because he'll get rid of way. I mean, I mean

917
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 2: that in a loving way like some people.

918
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 4: Some people you know.

919
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 2: I've been in therapy my whole life pretty much, so

920
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 2: counseling is always a good thing, I think. But sometimes

921
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 2: he said to people, and they get a little bit

922
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 2: like what. But that is the one thing that you

923
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 2: can definitely control is getting him in to talk to

924
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 2: somebody now so he can process some of this stuff

925
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 2: before he's an adult and it's screwing him over, you.

926
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 15: Know, completely A GRAMM and therapy myself. I go every

927
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:31,360
Speaker 15: other week. He was in therapy to help process the

928
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 15: divorce and the therapist was like, you know, I'm a

929
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 15: very specific purpose, don't secrets from more than a year.

930
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 15: He could come back to something else comes up. The

931
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 15: problem is she'd have to sign off on it too,

932
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 15: And the last time I grew to the topic of

933
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 15: getting him into therapy for the divorce, she went behind

934
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 15: my back and got him sign up for somebody with

935
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 15: a really slant and mess up angle versus let's help

936
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 15: the kid get through the divorce, and my attorneys had

937
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 15: to buy a re warning shot to her at he said, like,

938
00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,399
Speaker 15: you're not violated amarracy plan?

939
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 1: Are you right?

940
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,320
Speaker 2: Well, man, that's sad. I'm sorry you're going through it,

941
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 2: but it sounds like you have your head straight and

942
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 2: you'll figure it out. Thank you for calling for the

943
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: check in, dude, I appreciate that. Yeah, I have a

944
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 2: good one. Calls up eighty eight three four three one

945
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: o six one, text in four one o six one.

946
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 2: Real quick, Victoria, what do you want to check in about?

947
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 12: Oh?

948
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 4: Sorry, going to a wedding. You should see Victoria's face

949
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 4: when I said to what where was it? Where am I?

950
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 4: You're going to wedding right now?

951
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 6: In your head or.

952
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:28,240
Speaker 11: This weekend?

953
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 4: But it's like a high school friend, and I'm honestly

954
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 4: kind of nervous to see a lot of people from

955
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 4: high school. Well, you look great and you're doing great,

956
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 4: so I think you're gonna what's trending with Nina.

957
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 3: Twenty two percent of men sleep with this one thing

958
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 3: every single night. Oh twenty two percent seems kind of

959
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 3: high too to this. They sleep with stuffed animals.

960
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 4: Oh, I knew it. I was gonna you guys sleep

961
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 4: with a stuffed animal?

962
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: I do? Wait?

963
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 4: Really, yeah, you do? Bradt name is chu Chuo, It's

964
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 4: a little polar bear.

965
00:41:59,320 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 10: Oh.

966
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 2: I was gonna hate. I was gonna hate on you

967
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: until you said his name is chee Choo, the little

968
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 2: polar Bear.

969
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 4: That I couldn't. My insides, everything in me wanted to

970
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 4: go with that, and then oh chew cheo.

971
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 9: Yeah that's great.

972
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 4: Okay. Two percent?

973
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,719
Speaker 2: Is that a if you went over to some guy's house,

974
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 2: Nina and he had stuffed animals on his bed, is

975
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: that a red.

976
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 4: Flag for you? Would you be cool with that?

977
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 2: If you went over to Brad's house, that weird first

978
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 2: of all, But if he had, if you saw Choo

979
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 2: Choo the little Polar Bear, would that be a good

980
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 2: thing for you, bad thing for you does.

981
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 4: Not turn me off.

982
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: No.

983
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 4: No, I have a Teddy bear too. His name is Teddy.

984
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 3: It's always on my bed, and so sometimes whenever when

985
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 3: I had my own place, people would stay over and

986
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 3: they'd have to move Teddy because they felt like Teddy.

987
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 4: Was watching them.

988
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 2: I'd be into that dude. So I was like, we

989
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: see Teddy in that chair in the corner, Victoria. Would

990
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 2: it bother you if you went met a guy and

991
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 2: he had Teddy bears?

992
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 4: We'll see you, said Teddy Bear. There's one. If there's one, no,

993
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 4: that wouldn't bother me. No, but then the closet was

994
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 4: full of other ones. That's WEIRDO. When I was dating,

995
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 4: it was always a red flag for me.

996
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 2: If I went over to a woman's house and then

997
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 2: she had stuffed animals, I wouldn't date them anymore after that.

998
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 3: Seriously, people have told me that too, and I don't care.

999
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 3: I'm not taking my stuff, only coup my ever. Really,

1000
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 3: I love it well. The girls that I have dated

1001
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 3: that have had stuffed animals, they've all been a little.

1002
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: Crazy, so, but then again, I haven't had stuffed animals,

1003
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 2: have all been a little crazy, so I you know,

1004
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 2: maybe I think it's just what I find.

1005
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 4: I don't know if your meter is, you know, correct

1006
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 4: what I like. I guess it is. But this is

1007
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 4: a conversation. PS. We're going to come back to this

1008
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 4: conversation about stuffed animals. Should I get a teddy bear?

1009
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 4: I don't have one. I don't have any stuff animals. Yeah,

1010
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 4: because then something you know, have something to hold.

1011
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 11: You should get a weighted one.

1012
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 4: Ooh like a like a like wait, a blanket, but

1013
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 4: a waste of animal. We just get a life size

1014
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 4: one and call it good. Just get get a real doll?

1015
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,080
Speaker 1: Did you will show onto my and