WEBVTT - Discovering Our 16 Personalities 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:05.920 Hey there, folks. In this episode, you probably know which 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:10.320 of the five love languages is your language. You probably 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:14.400 also know what your attachment style is, and there's a 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:17.799 good chance you've used the results of those to determine 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:20.680 what type of person you want to be in a relationship, 0:00:20.720 --> 0:00:23.639 and it might guide you in your current relationship. But 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:27.520 get this, those aren't the test you should be using. 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:32.120 There's another one out there, the sixteen Personalities test. And 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:34.760 do you know if you're a debater, a commander, a mediator, 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:38.279 a virtuoso, or one of the other personalities You need 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:42.760 to because your relationship might be suffering if you don't 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.479 hang with that. Welcome to this episode of Amy and 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:49.640 TJ Robes. You are into these things in a major way. 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:52.040 I don't get them necessarily. 0:00:52.280 --> 0:00:54.880 I love all of these tests because not only does 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.920 it help you understand yourself, but it also helps you 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:02.080 understand your partner, maybe even people you work with or friends, 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:06.399 and you can understand it they're coming at problems, conflicts, 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.360 or even fun from a different place. 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:10.640 So it makes you handle that person better. It makes you. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:13.080 Yeah, when you understand them, I think you can relate 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.400 to them and you maybe don't take things so personally. 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.360 I think that's one of the problems people get into 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:20.160 when they get into disagreements or any kind of conflict, 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:21.840 is that you take things personally, but if you actually 0:01:21.880 --> 0:01:24.720 are understanding it actually is about them and it has 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:27.280 nothing to do with you, it helps you process everything. 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:28.960 Can I ask this though, are some of these, like 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.759 the love languages attachment style, do they tell you when 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:34.320 you do these things that you're more compatible with this 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:35.039 love language? 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:35.399 They do? 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:36.760 Really, I don't. 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.200 The love language is just about understanding what your partner 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:41.119 needs and wants to feel loved, So that's a little 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:44.039 bit different, but definitely like you can look and see 0:01:44.080 --> 0:01:46.959 who you are more compatible with based on some of 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:50.240 these different tests. And the personality test is actually from 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:53.840 I think people might and have heard of the Briggs 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:57.200 Meyers personality test. It's based on that. I remember I 0:01:57.240 --> 0:01:59.280 had to take the test twenty some years ago when 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:03.360 I was interviewing for a news station in Hartford, Connecticut, 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:05.440 and I thought it was so strange that they had 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.720 me take a personality test, but they really wanted to 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.400 see who they were bringing into the newsroom and if 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.680 that personality would fit with the others. 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:16.440 See, is there not a danger in that, right, you're 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:18.680 missing out on something if you stick to if someone 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:20.960 is dating right now, even my attachment style is this, 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.240 and their attachment style is that, and this is telling 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:26.200 me I'm not as compatible with this type of attachment style. 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.520 Wouldn't that guide you in some arbitrary way and maybe 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:32.480 just be a little too much of a caution to 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:33.920 be taken. I feel like it just helped. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:35.480 If you can look at it as that, it helps 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.360 you understand I think that might be better. And you know, 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:40.560 shouldn't be advice to do that too, But. 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:42.320 Should it be advised? I looked used to look at 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:45.440 horscopes every single morning time, but it didn't guide my day. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.280 We just had fun with it. We would send each 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.800 other each other's horsecopes because, by the way, because our 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:53.000 signs are compatible, so it made sense Aquarius and Leos. 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:55.600 Yes, So that's why I actually was cool. 0:02:55.639 --> 0:02:57.400 I wouldn't want to be looking at my horoscope if 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:59.880 it said we weren't compatible, then I would be like, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.000 that's that's nonsense. 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:03.600 Do you remember your love language? 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:04.079 Oh? 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:08.040 My love language absolutely, yes, Well I have usually of 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.839 two physical touch and quality time. 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:13.960 You've told me several times and it made sense every 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:14.519 time which. 0:03:14.400 --> 0:03:18.400 One was I Yours is quality time, and that's what 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:18.840 it means. 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:19.919 You also like gifts? 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:21.240 But yes, okay, so I. 0:03:23.360 --> 0:03:25.079 Like all of the all of them too. But if 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.400 you just ranked them, what would be your top? My 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:28.560 top would be physical touch. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.919 Okay, So this the sixteen personalities tests, and again there 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:35.440 are again I listed some of them off the top. 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:37.680 A campaigner, I don't exactly know what that is, but 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.440 they list them, the command or mediator of virtuoso, all 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:44.080 these things. But it's supposed to tell you about yourself. 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:46.440 It's supposed to help you. And this thing, from what 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:50.440 I can tell, has been not just thrown together some 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.920 random survey online. This has been done and based on 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.320 research and theories and history of psychology. 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:00.960 It's science based, no question about it. So this is exciting. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:03.040 I have no idea what I'm going to be. 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:04.880 Do you know what it might be? 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:07.240 Clue? But I think a big part of the Zany 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:10.080 was telling us our producer here that a lot of 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:12.560 it is going to talk about you being an introvert 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:14.760 or an extrovert, which is a very big part, a 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.960 very big key. I think the very foundations of psychology 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:19.960 and this type of work used to first put people 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:21.919 in just you have to start with those two categories. 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:23.880 You're either this or either you know what you are? Oh, 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:27.279 I'm an introvert one hundred percent. Oh absolutely, you know 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:27.960 that I do. 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.120 It's I don't think people would think that when they 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:33.000 see you on television or even hear you in the podcast. 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:35.800 But you, I know you are in social settings one 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:37.800 hundred percent an introvert on the street. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.680 Walking down the street. You I look like I might 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.599 be the life of the party. Nope, I want everybody 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.680 to get away from me and leaving afe. I want 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:44.720 to go home as a game. 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:45.640 Everybody but me. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:52.040 No, that's true. But you're an extrovert. No, no, you're 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.440 an extra you want that's We are very different in 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:57.080 that way, and there have been time you look over 0:04:57.080 --> 0:05:00.480 across the room. I'm sitting there and happy. Nobody needs 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.120 to come check on me. I'm fine that we are 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:05.320 so different in that way. Yes, but there is something 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:09.200 I learned. You can be something in the middle. I 0:05:09.240 --> 0:05:11.640 didn't an ambrovert. Whoa yes? 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:13.680 And what an amber alert is? 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:13.960 No? 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:22.960 Don't dude, Okay, mister Walsh's apologies, and they call it 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:26.920 amber version, right, there's introversion extraversion, and there's amber version, 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.520 which falls in the middle. People can have them both. 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:32.359 I am curious if the test will tell me I 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:35.919 falled into that category. But there's nothing introvert about you. 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:36.559 I don't think. 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:37.599 I don't think so either. 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.760 I don't think. But yes, we were excited about the 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.760 test so well. To be honest, the one in the 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:43.520 room who's the most excited about it was our super 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:46.240 producer Andy. He's really got into this. It tells you 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:48.440 online that it can only it will only take you 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:51.120 ten minutes to take the test. He said, what the hell? 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.320 It took me half an hour because he took it 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:56.240 seriously and he is fascinated by these things. So he 0:05:56.279 --> 0:05:59.119 got us on board. It's gonna give us the test. 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:02.160 Now we're gonna get We give him our answers. He 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:05.800 is going to do the calculations and then we will 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:07.640 find out altogether what our personality is. 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:10.599 Yes, Diamond's going to do Diamond our producers also in 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:13.080 the studio. Diamond is going to take mine down. Andy's 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:14.440 going to take yours down, and then they're going to 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:17.280 say what we are and anyone listening follow along and 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:19.480 feel free to take the test. While we're taking the test, 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:20.880 it might be fun to do it that way. 0:06:20.920 --> 0:06:22.960 Just a suggestion, And are. 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:23.559 You fire away? 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:24.040 All right? 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:24.839 How many questions? 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:26.920 By the way, I could not tell you like I said, 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:30.480 It took me thirty minutes. But I am an ian FJ. 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:32.560 So that's my personality. 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:33.200 What does that mean? 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:34.000 What's the I'm a. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:39.920 Protagonist, so I'm extroverted, uh, intuitive feeling and judging. I 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:42.159 don't remember what the JA was, but the judging doesn't 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:46.560 sound like me. Need to recheck that. 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.000 And the point that there's some of this we're going 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.800 to have to explain ourselves. But it does. It has 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:56.160 a very detailed breakdown you. It'll tell you you're a 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:59.920 well some anything, an architect, but then it goes into 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.040 very specific details. 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:02.760 I can't wait. 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:04.440 Oh my goods. All right, so let's go in. 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:10.040 All right. You regularly make new friends agree, somewhat agree, 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:12.720 semi agree, or neutral. 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:15.480 Okay, and that all works with the disagree to so 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:16.680 strongly agree for. 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:21.040 Me, strongly disagree, all right? 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:25.240 Question two, Complex and novel ideas excite you more than 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:26.800 simple and straightforward ones. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:34.200 Strongly disagree Excite me more, Excite me more, Excite me more, 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.360 I am I somewhat agree on. 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:41.960 That perfect next question. Usually feel more persuaded by what 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:45.280 resonates emotionally with you than by factual arguments. 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:51.520 Strongly disagree, strong is there a super strong I strongly disagree. 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:53.520 I'm going to go with semi agree. 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:57.680 Semi stop. Your facts backs. 0:07:57.400 --> 0:08:02.040 Are still important, semi agree. Are you going to take 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:03.400 You're gonna get judge on yours? 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:04.200 What are you going to take? 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:05.960 I am doing it. 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:07.840 I don't seem to be taking this seriously. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:10.720 This next one. I feel like I could already put 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:13.400 strongly agree for TJ. But their living and working spaces 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:16.880 are clean and organized. Strongly agree, strongly agree, all right. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:20.679 You usually stay calm even under a lot of pressure. 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:27.600 Strongly agree, somewhat agree. I have my moments. Man, you're 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:29.080 not You're not taking this test. 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:31.560 Honestly, I am under pressure all the time for my job. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:35.000 I stayed cool, stay cool. Oh your job, Yes, does 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:35.520 on the job. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:36.360 There's a lot of pressure. 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:39.120 Most of your life is not spent on the job. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:41.680 You're gonna let me take my test. 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:42.800 I'm gonna let you take your test. 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:43.120 Thank you. 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:46.320 I'm so sorry you find the idea of networking or 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:50.160 promoting yourself to strangers very daunting strongly. 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:52.880 Agree, somewhat disagree. 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:54.400 That's crazy. 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:59.280 You prioritize and plan tasks effectively, often completing them well 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:00.199 before the deadline. 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:01.640 Strongly agree, strongly agree. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:06.040 People's stories and emotions speak louder to you than numbers 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:06.559 or data. 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:08.320 Strongly or strongly agree. 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:12.400 You like to use organizing tools like schedules and lists. 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:15.199 Strongly agree, absolutely strongly agree. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:18.400 Even a small mistake can cause you to doubt your 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:20.079 overall abilities and knowledge. 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:24.720 Hmmmmm, say that one More's on? Say that one on. 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:27.200 Even a small mistake can cause you to doubt your 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:28.959 overall abilities and knowledge. 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:33.640 Semi agree, strongly disagree. Would have been a different answer 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:36.480 five years ago. Strongly disagree with that one. 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.560 Thow you feel comfortable just walking up to someone you 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.559 find interesting and striking up a conversation. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:47.880 Yeah, hell no, that's stronglyay. Sorry, no, I can do it, 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.920 but I don't end up getting that curious about somebody 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.920 across the room that I need to go meet that person. 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:54.760 I can mingle say the question. 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.800 You feel comfortable just walking up to someone you find 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:59.559 interesting and striking up a conversation? 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:02.840 Okay, comfortable doing it? I don't have a desire doing it. 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:03.720 So what is my answer? 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:05.760 So you should say somewhat agree, somewhat agree with that, 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.319 or I would say strongly agree. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:12.000 You are not too interested in discussions about various interpretations 0:10:12.000 --> 0:10:14.640 of creative works. 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:17.000 I would say somewhat agree. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:21.440 Yeah, I love to go to the museum and look 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:22.320 at abstract art. 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:23.400 Okay, what's your answer? 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:24.840 I can't remember the question. 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:29.160 You are not too interested in discussions about various interpretations 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:30.080 of creative works. 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:33.760 That's that's a pretty, that's a pretty. Somewhat agree, yeah, 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:34.319 I agree? 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:48.520 Yeah, you prioritize facts over people's feelings when determining a 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:49.200 course of action. 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:52.360 You're gonna let me take my test. You're gonna let 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:53.040 me take my test. 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.480 I just made a hand gesture, that's all. 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:57.720 You want to tell them what the gesture was, because 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:58.680 their minds are. 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:00.200 For you to say strongly or three. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:02.320 I do strongly agree. 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:03.719 But will you say it again, because I think I'm 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:04.400 very different. 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:08.240 You prioritize facts over people's feelings when determining a course 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:08.600 of action. 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:12.599 I would say strongly disagree. 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:17.400 I strongly agree. Wait a minute, I should say somewhat 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:20.319 because I don't just dismiss how somebody else might feel 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:21.959 about something. 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.160 So you're changing your answer to somewhat agree. 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:27.320 I have to some way agree, But you said disagree. Wow, 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:29.280 because I value people's emotions. 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:32.440 Yeah, if I see somebody, like even if I know 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:34.840 I should probably tell them something, if I feel that 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:37.640 they're upset or something, I will not do it. Like, Yeah, 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.480 I'm a people pleaser. I told you you don't believe me, 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:41.959 but I am. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:46.600 I got some stories. I somewhat agree with that. Then, right, yes, okay, 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:47.120 there it is. 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:50.600 You often allow the day to unfold without any schedule 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:51.000 at all. 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:57.480 Strongly disagree, ooh, let it unfold without any schedule at all. 0:11:58.240 --> 0:11:59.560 I rarely do that. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:04.600 Oh really, I wake up and make lists every morning 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.720 about what I'm gonna do to do lists every day. 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:09.680 Yeah, we then strongly both strongly disagree. 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:12.760 Yeah, you rarely worry about whether you make a good 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.160 impression on people you meet. 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:19.040 Wrong agree, I say, somewhat disagree. 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:23.720 You enjoy participating in team based activities. 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:28.160 Team based I mean are we playing basketball or doing 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.720 a project together in a boardroom? 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:30.319 Both? 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:33.520 Either I can play ball. Then I should be neutral on. 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.560 This, Okay, I say, semi agree. 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:36.480 I should be neutral. 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:41.240 Yes, neutral, You enjoy experimenting with new and untested approaches. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:48.720 I'm I'm gonna go with neutral on that for me, 0:12:50.360 --> 0:12:52.200 because it depends I could go either way. 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:53.439 Let me neutral, give me neutral. 0:12:54.200 --> 0:12:58.520 Yeah, you prioritize being sensitive over being completely honest. 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:06.440 Prioritize being sensitive. It's more important to be sensitive than completely. 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:07.880 I would say, somewhat agree, more. 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:11.640 Important to be sensitive than completely honest, more important to 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:14.720 be somewhat disagree on this side. 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:20.080 Okay, that's true. You actively seek out new experiences and 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:21.520 knowledge areas to explore. 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:27.360 Somewhat agree neutral. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:30.320 You are prone to worrying that things will take a 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:31.160 turn for the worst. 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:36.800 We don't have time to think they might. We're usually 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:41.120 in the middle of things just turning one more time. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.120 You are prone to worrying that things will take a 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.480 turn for the worse. Prone to. 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:51.280 Two years ago, I would have said strongly disagree, But now, 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:53.600 after the experience I've had, I'm gonna go with. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:57.960 Somewhat disagree. 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:02.480 I semi agree, semi agree. 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:03.920 I think that's true. 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:08.640 You enjoy solitary hobbies or activities more than group ones. 0:14:09.760 --> 0:14:12.080 Somewhat disagree, no, sorry, strongly disagree. 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:17.480 What was the activity having a drink? Yeah, running, I 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:19.360 would have it. I would rather run by myself than 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.680 run with a group. I'd rather have a drink at 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:24.800 the bar by myself than eat with seven people, right, 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:27.040 so which I'm different than you? So yeah, you would 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:27.880 rather have the seven. 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:31.600 Yes, I don't like being I don't like doing activities 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:33.720 by myself. The only thing I like to do by 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:37.000 myself maybe is read a book, because that's you have 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:39.960 to do it by yourself. But even then, like sometimes 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.160 I like to run while listening to a book that 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.160 my friend's listening to too, and then we can talk 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:45.760 about it. So even then, I found a way to 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:46.800 read a book with somebody. 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.560 Geez, you know, what's your attachment style? 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.600 I like to share. No, I like to share experiences. 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:54.640 It's more fun that way. 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:56.080 Were experiences okay? Sing me? 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:59.640 The question was you enjoy solitary hobbies or activities more 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:00.600 than group once. 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:04.120 Man, that is a that is a semi agree. That's 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:05.000 a semi agree for me. 0:15:05.880 --> 0:15:08.880 You cannot imagine yourself writing fictional stories for a living. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:11.760 Somewhat disagree. 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.240 I somewhat disagree. 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:19.600 You favor efficiency and decisions, even if it means disregarding 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:20.800 some emotional aspects. 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:24.640 Hell yeah, wait, I'm sorry that was yours? 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:24.960 Is? 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.840 I somewhat agree? I don't want to go too strong. 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:29.440 Say it again one more time. 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:33.239 You favor efficiency and decisions, even if it means disregarding 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:34.440 some emotional aspects. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:38.160 Just yeah, I say, somewhat disagree. 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:39.040 Some would agree, some would agree. 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:43.440 You prefer to do your chores before allowing yourself to relax. 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:46.400 Strongly agree, somewhat agree. 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:48.960 You know I will throw some clothes. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:52.480 Take a file close to fold and throw them on 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.760 the floor. I could never do that. 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:58.040 Sleep is important to me times sometimes. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.600 When I'm laid haha, it's because I have to clean 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:02.720 the house before I leave, because I hate coming home 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:04.960 to a messy house, And I might be a couple 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:08.080 of minutes late because I know that that's important to me. 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:12.640 In disagreements, you prioritize proving your point over preserving the 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:13.680 feelings of others. 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:17.560 Preserving the feeling. No, prioritize I don't need to prove 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:24.080 a point. No, no, no, preserving the feelings no. I semi 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:24.800 disagree with that. 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:28.080 I somewhat disagree. 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:31.520 You usually wait for others to introduce themselves at first, 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:32.760 at social gatherings. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:34.480 That's because I can't remember their names. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:44.880 But just out of practice, No, strongly disagree, I'll introduce myself. 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.640 Yeah, I never wait for somebody to introduce themselves. I 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:50.160 have to go neutral on that. I mean, I don't 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:54.000 run around and say hey there, I'm TJ. I don't 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.920 do that. But no, I never have an expectation that 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:59.760 someone should be well, no, I'm not gonna introduce me somebody. 0:17:00.800 --> 0:17:02.720 What are you neutral in that? Yeah? Neutral? 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:05.960 Your mood can change very quickly. 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:06.720 Strongly agree. 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:13.399 Off you said that, I was gonna interject. Wait, say 0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:14.120 it again more time. 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:16.960 Your mood can change very quickly. 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:19.240 Somewhat disagree. 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.879 You were not easily swayed by emotional arguments. 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:28.400 Again, there's nothing stronger than strongly agree. 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:30.880 I would say somewhat disagree. 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:32.480 Say that question again. 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.920 You are not easily swayed by emotional arguments. 0:17:35.920 --> 0:17:39.720 By emotional arguments, I am swayed by by emotional arguments. 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:42.960 That's not has no basis in logic or fact in fact, 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:43.720 it's well. 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:45.919 It's the fact is how they're feeling. So I am 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:46.560 swayed by it. 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:49.680 Man, Wow, yeah, right. 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:52.040 The next one. You often end up doing things at 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:53.359 the last possible moment. 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:58.119 No, strongly it, no, somewhat disagree. 0:17:57.800 --> 0:17:58.720 Somewhat disagree. 0:17:59.160 --> 0:18:00.840 Usually just schedule. That's the problem. 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:02.639 I used to be a procrastinator, like when I was 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:03.880 a kid, but not anymore. 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:06.920 You enjoy debating ethical dilemmas. 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:12.199 Strongly disagree, and ma'am, when people want to I just 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:13.840 I get a headache. 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:15.280 We just all have a good time. 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:16.320 Right, please? 0:18:16.320 --> 0:18:19.400 Did someone have to bring up gun safety or gun control? 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:25.120 We are at the halfway point, right. You usually prefer 0:18:25.240 --> 0:18:27.320