1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Hey there, folks. In this episode, you probably know which 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: of the five love languages is your language. You probably 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: also know what your attachment style is, and there's a 4 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: good chance you've used the results of those to determine 5 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: what type of person you want to be in a relationship, 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 1: and it might guide you in your current relationship. But 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: get this, those aren't the test you should be using. 8 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: There's another one out there, the sixteen Personalities test. And 9 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: do you know if you're a debater, a commander, a mediator, 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 1: a virtuoso, or one of the other personalities You need 11 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: to because your relationship might be suffering if you don't 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: hang with that. Welcome to this episode of Amy and 13 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: TJ Robes. You are into these things in a major way. 14 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: I don't get them necessarily. 15 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 2: I love all of these tests because not only does 16 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 2: it help you understand yourself, but it also helps you 17 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 2: understand your partner, maybe even people you work with or friends, 18 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 2: and you can understand it they're coming at problems, conflicts, 19 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 2: or even fun from a different place. 20 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: So it makes you handle that person better. It makes you. 21 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you understand them, I think you can relate 22 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 2: to them and you maybe don't take things so personally. 23 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: I think that's one of the problems people get into 24 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: when they get into disagreements or any kind of conflict, 25 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 2: is that you take things personally, but if you actually 26 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: are understanding it actually is about them and it has 27 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: nothing to do with you, it helps you process everything. 28 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: Can I ask this though, are some of these, like 29 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 1: the love languages attachment style, do they tell you when 30 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: you do these things that you're more compatible with this 31 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 1: love language? 32 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: They do? 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 1: Really, I don't. 34 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: The love language is just about understanding what your partner 35 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 2: needs and wants to feel loved, So that's a little 36 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: bit different, but definitely like you can look and see 37 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 2: who you are more compatible with based on some of 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: these different tests. And the personality test is actually from 39 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: I think people might and have heard of the Briggs 40 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: Meyers personality test. It's based on that. I remember I 41 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: had to take the test twenty some years ago when 42 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 2: I was interviewing for a news station in Hartford, Connecticut, 43 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: and I thought it was so strange that they had 44 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 2: me take a personality test, but they really wanted to 45 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: see who they were bringing into the newsroom and if 46 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 2: that personality would fit with the others. 47 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: See, is there not a danger in that, right, you're 48 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: missing out on something if you stick to if someone 49 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: is dating right now, even my attachment style is this, 50 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: and their attachment style is that, and this is telling 51 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: me I'm not as compatible with this type of attachment style. 52 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: Wouldn't that guide you in some arbitrary way and maybe 53 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: just be a little too much of a caution to 54 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: be taken. I feel like it just helped. 55 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: If you can look at it as that, it helps 56 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: you understand I think that might be better. And you know, 57 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: shouldn't be advice to do that too, But. 58 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 1: Should it be advised? I looked used to look at 59 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: horscopes every single morning time, but it didn't guide my day. 60 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: We just had fun with it. We would send each 61 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: other each other's horsecopes because, by the way, because our 62 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 2: signs are compatible, so it made sense Aquarius and Leos. 63 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 3: Yes, So that's why I actually was cool. 64 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to be looking at my horoscope if 65 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: it said we weren't compatible, then I would be like, 66 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: that's that's nonsense. 67 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: Do you remember your love language? 68 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 3: Oh? 69 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 2: My love language absolutely, yes, Well I have usually of 70 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 2: two physical touch and quality time. 71 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: You've told me several times and it made sense every 72 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: time which. 73 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 2: One was I Yours is quality time, and that's what 74 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: it means. 75 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 3: You also like gifts? 76 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: But yes, okay, so I. 77 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 2: Like all of the all of them too. But if 78 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 2: you just ranked them, what would be your top? My 79 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: top would be physical touch. 80 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: Okay, So this the sixteen personalities tests, and again there 81 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: are again I listed some of them off the top. 82 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: A campaigner, I don't exactly know what that is, but 83 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: they list them, the command or mediator of virtuoso, all 84 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: these things. But it's supposed to tell you about yourself. 85 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: It's supposed to help you. And this thing, from what 86 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: I can tell, has been not just thrown together some 87 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: random survey online. This has been done and based on 88 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: research and theories and history of psychology. 89 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: It's science based, no question about it. So this is exciting. 90 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 2: I have no idea what I'm going to be. 91 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 3: Do you know what it might be? 92 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: Clue? But I think a big part of the Zany 93 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: was telling us our producer here that a lot of 94 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: it is going to talk about you being an introvert 95 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: or an extrovert, which is a very big part, a 96 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: very big key. I think the very foundations of psychology 97 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: and this type of work used to first put people 98 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,919 Speaker 1: in just you have to start with those two categories. 99 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: You're either this or either you know what you are? Oh, 100 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: I'm an introvert one hundred percent. Oh absolutely, you know 101 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: that I do. 102 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 2: It's I don't think people would think that when they 103 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: see you on television or even hear you in the podcast. 104 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 2: But you, I know you are in social settings one 105 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 2: hundred percent an introvert on the street. 106 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: Walking down the street. You I look like I might 107 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: be the life of the party. Nope, I want everybody 108 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: to get away from me and leaving afe. I want 109 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: to go home as a game. 110 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: Everybody but me. 111 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: No, that's true. But you're an extrovert. No, no, you're 112 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: an extra you want that's We are very different in 113 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: that way, and there have been time you look over 114 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: across the room. I'm sitting there and happy. Nobody needs 115 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: to come check on me. I'm fine that we are 116 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: so different in that way. Yes, but there is something 117 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: I learned. You can be something in the middle. I 118 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: didn't an ambrovert. Whoa yes? 119 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: And what an amber alert is? 120 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 4: No? 121 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: Don't dude, Okay, mister Walsh's apologies, and they call it 122 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: amber version, right, there's introversion extraversion, and there's amber version, 123 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: which falls in the middle. People can have them both. 124 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: I am curious if the test will tell me I 125 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: falled into that category. But there's nothing introvert about you. 126 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:36,559 Speaker 1: I don't think. 127 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 3: I don't think so either. 128 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: I don't think. But yes, we were excited about the 129 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: test so well. To be honest, the one in the 130 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: room who's the most excited about it was our super 131 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: producer Andy. He's really got into this. It tells you 132 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: online that it can only it will only take you 133 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: ten minutes to take the test. He said, what the hell? 134 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: It took me half an hour because he took it 135 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: seriously and he is fascinated by these things. So he 136 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,119 Speaker 1: got us on board. It's gonna give us the test. 137 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: Now we're gonna get We give him our answers. He 138 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: is going to do the calculations and then we will 139 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: find out altogether what our personality is. 140 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 2: Yes, Diamond's going to do Diamond our producers also in 141 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: the studio. Diamond is going to take mine down. Andy's 142 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: going to take yours down, and then they're going to 143 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 2: say what we are and anyone listening follow along and 144 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: feel free to take the test. While we're taking the test, 145 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: it might be fun to do it that way. 146 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 3: Just a suggestion, And are. 147 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:23,559 Speaker 1: You fire away? 148 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 5: All right? 149 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: How many questions? 150 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 5: By the way, I could not tell you like I said, 151 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 5: It took me thirty minutes. But I am an ian FJ. 152 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 5: So that's my personality. 153 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 3: What does that mean? 154 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: What's the I'm a. 155 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 5: Protagonist, so I'm extroverted, uh, intuitive feeling and judging. I 156 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 5: don't remember what the JA was, but the judging doesn't 157 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 5: sound like me. Need to recheck that. 158 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 1: And the point that there's some of this we're going 159 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: to have to explain ourselves. But it does. It has 160 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: a very detailed breakdown you. It'll tell you you're a 161 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: well some anything, an architect, but then it goes into 162 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 1: very specific details. 163 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 3: I can't wait. 164 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: Oh my goods. All right, so let's go in. 165 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 5: All right. You regularly make new friends agree, somewhat agree, 166 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 5: semi agree, or neutral. 167 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: Okay, and that all works with the disagree to so 168 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: strongly agree for. 169 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: Me, strongly disagree, all right? 170 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 5: Question two, Complex and novel ideas excite you more than 171 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 5: simple and straightforward ones. 172 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: Strongly disagree Excite me more, Excite me more, Excite me more, 173 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: I am I somewhat agree on. 174 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 5: That perfect next question. Usually feel more persuaded by what 175 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 5: resonates emotionally with you than by factual arguments. 176 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: Strongly disagree, strong is there a super strong I strongly disagree. 177 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 3: I'm going to go with semi agree. 178 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: Semi stop. Your facts backs. 179 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: Are still important, semi agree. Are you going to take 180 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: You're gonna get judge on yours? 181 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: What are you going to take? 182 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 3: I am doing it. 183 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: I don't seem to be taking this seriously. 184 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 5: This next one. I feel like I could already put 185 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 5: strongly agree for TJ. But their living and working spaces 186 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 5: are clean and organized. Strongly agree, strongly agree, all right. 187 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,679 Speaker 5: You usually stay calm even under a lot of pressure. 188 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, somewhat agree. I have my moments. Man, you're 189 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: not You're not taking this test. 190 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 3: Honestly, I am under pressure all the time for my job. 191 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: I stayed cool, stay cool. Oh your job, Yes, does 192 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: on the job. 193 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 3: There's a lot of pressure. 194 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: Most of your life is not spent on the job. 195 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 3: You're gonna let me take my test. 196 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you take your test. 197 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 3: Thank you. 198 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 5: I'm so sorry you find the idea of networking or 199 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 5: promoting yourself to strangers very daunting strongly. 200 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 3: Agree, somewhat disagree. 201 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 202 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 5: You prioritize and plan tasks effectively, often completing them well 203 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 5: before the deadline. 204 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, strongly agree. 205 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 5: People's stories and emotions speak louder to you than numbers 206 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 5: or data. 207 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: Strongly or strongly agree. 208 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 5: You like to use organizing tools like schedules and lists. 209 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, absolutely strongly agree. 210 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 5: Even a small mistake can cause you to doubt your 211 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 5: overall abilities and knowledge. 212 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: Hmmmmm, say that one More's on? Say that one on. 213 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 5: Even a small mistake can cause you to doubt your 214 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 5: overall abilities and knowledge. 215 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: Semi agree, strongly disagree. Would have been a different answer 216 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 1: five years ago. Strongly disagree with that one. 217 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 5: Thow you feel comfortable just walking up to someone you 218 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 5: find interesting and striking up a conversation. 219 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, hell no, that's stronglyay. Sorry, no, I can do it, 220 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: but I don't end up getting that curious about somebody 221 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 1: across the room that I need to go meet that person. 222 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: I can mingle say the question. 223 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 5: You feel comfortable just walking up to someone you find 224 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 5: interesting and striking up a conversation? 225 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: Okay, comfortable doing it? I don't have a desire doing it. 226 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: So what is my answer? 227 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 2: So you should say somewhat agree, somewhat agree with that, 228 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 2: or I would say strongly agree. 229 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 5: You are not too interested in discussions about various interpretations 230 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 5: of creative works. 231 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 3: I would say somewhat agree. 232 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to go to the museum and look 233 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: at abstract art. 234 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 3: Okay, what's your answer? 235 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: I can't remember the question. 236 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 5: You are not too interested in discussions about various interpretations 237 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 5: of creative works. 238 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: That's that's a pretty, that's a pretty. Somewhat agree, yeah, 239 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 1: I agree? 240 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, you prioritize facts over people's feelings when determining a 241 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 5: course of action. 242 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna let me take my test. You're gonna let 243 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: me take my test. 244 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 3: I just made a hand gesture, that's all. 245 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: You want to tell them what the gesture was, because 246 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: their minds are. 247 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 3: For you to say strongly or three. 248 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 1: I do strongly agree. 249 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:03,719 Speaker 3: But will you say it again, because I think I'm 250 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 3: very different. 251 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 5: You prioritize facts over people's feelings when determining a course 252 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 5: of action. 253 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,599 Speaker 3: I would say strongly disagree. 254 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: I strongly agree. Wait a minute, I should say somewhat 255 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 1: because I don't just dismiss how somebody else might feel 256 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 1: about something. 257 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 3: So you're changing your answer to somewhat agree. 258 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 1: I have to some way agree, But you said disagree. Wow, 259 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: because I value people's emotions. 260 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, if I see somebody, like even if I know 261 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: I should probably tell them something, if I feel that 262 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 2: they're upset or something, I will not do it. Like, Yeah, 263 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,480 Speaker 2: I'm a people pleaser. I told you you don't believe me, 264 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 2: but I am. 265 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: I got some stories. I somewhat agree with that. Then, right, yes, okay, 266 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: there it is. 267 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 5: You often allow the day to unfold without any schedule 268 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 5: at all. 269 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: Strongly disagree, ooh, let it unfold without any schedule at all. 270 00:11:58,240 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 3: I rarely do that. 271 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 2: Oh really, I wake up and make lists every morning 272 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: about what I'm gonna do to do lists every day. 273 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, we then strongly both strongly disagree. 274 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, you rarely worry about whether you make a good 275 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 5: impression on people you meet. 276 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 3: Wrong agree, I say, somewhat disagree. 277 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 5: You enjoy participating in team based activities. 278 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: Team based I mean are we playing basketball or doing 279 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:29,720 Speaker 1: a project together in a boardroom? 280 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 3: Both? 281 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 1: Either I can play ball. Then I should be neutral on. 282 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,560 Speaker 3: This, Okay, I say, semi agree. 283 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: I should be neutral. 284 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 5: Yes, neutral, You enjoy experimenting with new and untested approaches. 285 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna go with neutral on that for me, 286 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 2: because it depends I could go either way. 287 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 1: Let me neutral, give me neutral. 288 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, you prioritize being sensitive over being completely honest. 289 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: Prioritize being sensitive. It's more important to be sensitive than completely. 290 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 3: I would say, somewhat agree, more. 291 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: Important to be sensitive than completely honest, more important to 292 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: be somewhat disagree on this side. 293 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 5: Okay, that's true. You actively seek out new experiences and 294 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 5: knowledge areas to explore. 295 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: Somewhat agree neutral. 296 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 5: You are prone to worrying that things will take a 297 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 5: turn for the worst. 298 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: We don't have time to think they might. We're usually 299 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: in the middle of things just turning one more time. 300 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: You are prone to worrying that things will take a 301 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: turn for the worse. Prone to. 302 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: Two years ago, I would have said strongly disagree, But now, 303 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 2: after the experience I've had, I'm gonna go with. 304 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 3: Somewhat disagree. 305 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: I semi agree, semi agree. 306 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 3: I think that's true. 307 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 5: You enjoy solitary hobbies or activities more than group ones. 308 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 3: Somewhat disagree, no, sorry, strongly disagree. 309 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: What was the activity having a drink? Yeah, running, I 310 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: would have it. I would rather run by myself than 311 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: run with a group. I'd rather have a drink at 312 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: the bar by myself than eat with seven people, right, 313 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: so which I'm different than you? So yeah, you would 314 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: rather have the seven. 315 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 2: Yes, I don't like being I don't like doing activities 316 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 2: by myself. The only thing I like to do by 317 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 2: myself maybe is read a book, because that's you have 318 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: to do it by yourself. But even then, like sometimes 319 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 2: I like to run while listening to a book that 320 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 2: my friend's listening to too, and then we can talk 321 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 2: about it. So even then, I found a way to 322 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 2: read a book with somebody. 323 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: Geez, you know, what's your attachment style? 324 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 3: I like to share. No, I like to share experiences. 325 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 3: It's more fun that way. 326 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: Were experiences okay? Sing me? 327 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 5: The question was you enjoy solitary hobbies or activities more 328 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 5: than group once. 329 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: Man, that is a that is a semi agree. That's 330 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: a semi agree for me. 331 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:08,880 Speaker 5: You cannot imagine yourself writing fictional stories for a living. 332 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 3: Somewhat disagree. 333 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: I somewhat disagree. 334 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 5: You favor efficiency and decisions, even if it means disregarding 335 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 5: some emotional aspects. 336 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, wait, I'm sorry that was yours? 337 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 5: Is? 338 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: I somewhat agree? I don't want to go too strong. 339 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 3: Say it again one more time. 340 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:33,239 Speaker 5: You favor efficiency and decisions, even if it means disregarding 341 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 5: some emotional aspects. 342 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 3: Just yeah, I say, somewhat disagree. 343 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: Some would agree, some would agree. 344 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 5: You prefer to do your chores before allowing yourself to relax. 345 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 5: Strongly agree, somewhat agree. 346 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: You know I will throw some clothes. 347 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 2: Take a file close to fold and throw them on 348 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 2: the floor. I could never do that. 349 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: Sleep is important to me times sometimes. 350 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: When I'm laid haha, it's because I have to clean 351 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 2: the house before I leave, because I hate coming home 352 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 2: to a messy house, And I might be a couple 353 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 2: of minutes late because I know that that's important to me. 354 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 5: In disagreements, you prioritize proving your point over preserving the 355 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 5: feelings of others. 356 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: Preserving the feeling. No, prioritize I don't need to prove 357 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: a point. No, no, no, preserving the feelings no. I semi 358 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: disagree with that. 359 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 3: I somewhat disagree. 360 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 5: You usually wait for others to introduce themselves at first, 361 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 5: at social gatherings. 362 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 3: That's because I can't remember their names. 363 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: But just out of practice, No, strongly disagree, I'll introduce myself. 364 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I never wait for somebody to introduce themselves. I 365 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: have to go neutral on that. I mean, I don't 366 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: run around and say hey there, I'm TJ. I don't 367 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 1: do that. But no, I never have an expectation that 368 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: someone should be well, no, I'm not gonna introduce me somebody. 369 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: What are you neutral in that? Yeah? Neutral? 370 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 5: Your mood can change very quickly. 371 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: Strongly agree. 372 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 2: Off you said that, I was gonna interject. Wait, say 373 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 2: it again more time. 374 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 5: Your mood can change very quickly. 375 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 3: Somewhat disagree. 376 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 5: You were not easily swayed by emotional arguments. 377 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: Again, there's nothing stronger than strongly agree. 378 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,880 Speaker 3: I would say somewhat disagree. 379 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:32,480 Speaker 1: Say that question again. 380 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 5: You are not easily swayed by emotional arguments. 381 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: By emotional arguments, I am swayed by by emotional arguments. 382 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: That's not has no basis in logic or fact in fact, 383 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: it's well. 384 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:45,919 Speaker 3: It's the fact is how they're feeling. So I am 385 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 3: swayed by it. 386 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: Man, Wow, yeah, right. 387 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 5: The next one. You often end up doing things at 388 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 5: the last possible moment. 389 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: No, strongly it, no, somewhat disagree. 390 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 3: Somewhat disagree. 391 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 1: Usually just schedule. That's the problem. 392 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 2: I used to be a procrastinator, like when I was 393 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 2: a kid, but not anymore. 394 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 5: You enjoy debating ethical dilemmas. 395 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 2: Strongly disagree, and ma'am, when people want to I just 396 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:13,840 Speaker 2: I get a headache. 397 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: We just all have a good time. 398 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 3: Right, please? 399 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 2: Did someone have to bring up gun safety or gun control? 400 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:25,120 Speaker 5: We are at the halfway point, right. You usually prefer 401 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 5: to be around others rather than on your own. 402 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, Somewhat disagree. 403 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 5: You become bored or lose interest when the discussion gets 404 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 5: highly theoretical. 405 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 1: Strongly agree. 406 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 5: When fact and feelings conflict, you usually find yourself following 407 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 5: your heart. 408 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, strongly disagree. 409 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 5: You find a challenging to maintain a consistent work or 410 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 5: study schedule. Strongly You rarely second guess the choices that 411 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 5: you have made. 412 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 2: Semi disagree, I agree. 413 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 5: Your friends would describe you as lively and outgoing. 414 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, strongly agree. 415 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,720 Speaker 5: You are drawn to various forms of creative expressions, such 416 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 5: as writing. 417 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, strongly agree. 418 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 5: Usually base your choices on objective facts rather than emotional impressions. 419 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 6: Hell yes, strongly strongly agree, somewhat disagree. You like to 420 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 6: have a to do list for each day. 421 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 4: Strongly agree you rarely feel insecure. Somewhat agree you avoid 422 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 4: making phone calls. 423 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 5: Strongly agree you enjoy exploring unfamiliar ideas and viewpoints. Somewhat 424 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 5: agree you can easily connect with people you have just met. 425 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: Strongly agree. 426 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 3: Strongly agree. 427 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 5: If your plans are interrupted, your top priority is to 428 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 5: get back on track as soon as possible. 429 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,520 Speaker 6: Strongly agree, Somewhat agree you are still bothered by mistakes 430 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 6: that you may have made a long time ago. 431 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: Strongly degree. 432 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 5: You are not too interested in discussing theories on what 433 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 5: the world could look like in the future. Strongly agree 434 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 5: your emotions control you more than you control them. 435 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 2: Strongly disagree, somewhat agree. 436 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 5: When making decisions, you focus more on how the affected 437 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,880 Speaker 5: people might feel than on what is most logical or efficient. 438 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 3: Somewhat agree. 439 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 1: Neutral your personal. 440 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 5: Work style is closer to spontaneous bursts of energy than 441 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 5: organized and consistent efforts. 442 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 1: Neutral and neutral because I can go both ways. 443 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 5: When someone thinks highly of you, you wonder how long 444 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 5: it will take them to feel disappointed in you. 445 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 3: Strongly disagree on. 446 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: Thinking about the opposite of that. I think people meet 447 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: me and I'm like waiting, can't wait till they get 448 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 1: to know me. 449 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 3: They're gonna light me a lot more. 450 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, if they just give me some time not go 451 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: with what they read, we're going to Okay. Yeah, what 452 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 1: would your strongly disagree? That's my y. 453 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 5: You would love a job that requires you to work 454 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 5: alone most of the time. Oh, strongly disagree, only disagree. 455 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 5: You believe that pondering abstract philosophical questions is a waste 456 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 5: of time. 457 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 1: Strongly agree. 458 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 3: It drives me nuts. 459 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 2: That's probably one of the reasons why we really get 460 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 2: along because we never do that, and when other people 461 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 2: start it, and people who I love and know, I really. 462 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 3: Just start to like zone out. 463 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:31,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna go watch Halloween twenty Why y'all stay in. 464 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 3: Theating whether or not. 465 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, you feel more drawn to busy, bustling atmospheres than 466 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 5: to quiet, intimate places. 467 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: Neutral. 468 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 5: If a decision feels right to you, you often have 469 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 5: to act on it without needing further proof. 470 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 1: Oh, say the first I agree. 471 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 5: If a decision feels right for you, you act on 472 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 5: it without needing further proof. 473 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 1: Somewhat disagree. 474 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 5: You often feel overwhelmed. 475 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 2: Strongly agree, I would I'm debating between strongly disagree and. 476 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 3: Somewhat disagree this question. Somewhat disagree, ha ha. 477 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 5: You complete things methodically without skipping over any steps. 478 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,400 Speaker 1: Strongly agree, somewhat agree. 479 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 5: You prefer tasks that require you to come up with 480 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 5: creative solutions rather than follow concrete steps. 481 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: Somewhat agree, somewhat disagree. 482 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 5: You are more likely to rely on emotional intuition than 483 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 5: logical reasoning when making a choice. 484 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 3: Disagree with that, I would say, semi agree. 485 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 5: You struggle with deadlines. 486 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 3: Strongly disagree. We were in the wrong business of that 487 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:43,400 Speaker 3: was a problem. 488 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 5: You feel confident that things will work out for you. 489 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: Somewhat agree, somewhat agree. 490 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 5: All right, was it and we will get you guys 491 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 5: the results. 492 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 3: After the break. 493 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 2: Feel I feel like I answered it to the very 494 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 2: best of my bill, But honestly, I do think I 495 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 2: answered it honestly. 496 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 3: Apparently that is not a shared opinion. 497 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: We're gonna have our super producers, Diamond and Andy, put 498 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 1: the test together, get our results. We're gonna share them 499 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: with you. We're gonna learn them together. When we come back. 500 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 2: All right, welcome back everyone. We have drum roll please. 501 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:32,879 Speaker 2: That was not a very good drum role. But we 502 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 2: have the results of the test that we just took. 503 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 5: You. 504 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 1: No, I don't know if we appreciate they were putting 505 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: this together while we were taking the break and looking 506 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,719 Speaker 1: at the results. They're over there getting giddy and laughing 507 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: like school children in the back of the class. 508 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,360 Speaker 2: And before that, I'm not even kidding, Andy's jaw dropped 509 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 2: like he actually dropped his john and said, this is juicy. 510 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 2: So we have no idea what wow, this test or 511 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 2: quiz says about each of our personalities, but we're about 512 00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 2: to find out. 513 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 1: So Andy Wadding, tell us all about TJ. 514 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 5: All right, we're doing it. Okay, TJ. You are personality 515 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 5: type I S t J. 516 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 6: That's hilarious, right is TJ DJ? 517 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 3: That's so funny? 518 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:16,440 Speaker 2: All right? 519 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 5: You are a logistetician, A logist statician. 520 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 3: He's logic based for sure. 521 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 5: Yes, you are the backbone of society, embodying reliability, practicality, 522 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 5: and unwavering dedication. Your meticulous nature and strong sense of 523 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 5: duty makes you an indispensable force in both personal and 524 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 5: professional spheres. You approach life with a clear set of principles, 525 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 5: valuing tradition, structure, and well defined expectation. 526 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 3: So true expectations are everything can get? 527 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 1: Can we sorry? 528 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 5: Your strengths lie on your ability to create order from chaos, 529 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:56,959 Speaker 5: methodically organizing information and resources to achieve tangible results. You 530 00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,479 Speaker 5: excel at maintaining systems and following through on commit mints, 531 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 5: often becoming the person others turned to when they need 532 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 5: something done right. However, your preference for established method. 533 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,639 Speaker 1: There though I didn't like the ter, I didn't like 534 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: the term. 535 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,120 Speaker 5: Your preference for established methods can sometimes make you resistant 536 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 5: to change, even when adaptation may be beneficial. You are 537 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 5: fifty one percent introverted. You are sixty two percent observant. 538 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 5: You are seventy six percent thinking, which means you focus 539 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 5: on objectivity and rationality, putting effectiveness above social harmony. You 540 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 5: are ninety three percent judging, which means you're likely organized, decisive, 541 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 5: and thorough, valuing structure and planning over spontaneity. And you 542 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 5: are seventy two percent assertive. 543 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: Can you go back? You said it was a fifty 544 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 1: one percent and then fifty two What were those things 545 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: you listed again? 546 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 5: Fifty one percent introverted sixty two percent observant observant. 547 00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 2: See, I've figured I thought you'd be one hundred percent observant. 548 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 2: I've never met anyone more observant than you. 549 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: Can you tell me what does that even mean? Fifty 550 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 1: two fifty numbers where they were fifty two? What are 551 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: they referring to? 552 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 5: So it's just on like a slider of like, you're 553 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 5: more introverted than you are extrovert. You're fifty one percent 554 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 5: introverted versus the other. 555 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: Oh wow, is that surprising to you at all? 556 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 5: But you're more observant than you are intuitive? 557 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 7: Oh absolutely, yeah, intuitive, yep, Well you have a lot 558 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 7: of Yeah, you're as well, but you just have more 559 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 7: You rely more on what you see than what you feel. 560 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 5: And you have more thinking than you do feeling. Yeah, 561 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,959 Speaker 5: yoube not more judging verse prospecting, and you're more assertive 562 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 5: than you are turbulent. 563 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: Wait was the ninety three percent again? Nine three percent. 564 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 5: Judge versus what versus prospecting? So you're very likely to 565 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,440 Speaker 5: just say this is the plan, stick with it, don't 566 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 5: like go away from that. 567 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 1: And then the seventy two percent was we again. 568 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 5: Assertiveness versus turbulent You're just self assured, even tempered, and 569 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 5: resistant to stress, refusing to worry too much that the 570 00:26:58,840 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 5: truth all. 571 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 1: Right, can you. We'll get back to this in the second, 572 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 1: but you will have robots now. 573 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 5: Yes, Amy, you are EESFJ. You are a console. You 574 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 5: are the warm heart and steady hand that keeps your 575 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 5: social circles, workplace, and family running smoothly. Your genuine care 576 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 5: for others, coupled with your practical nature, makes you a 577 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,520 Speaker 5: pillar of support in any community. You have an uncanny 578 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 5: ability to sense others' needs and a strong drive to 579 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 5: meet them, often putting the welfare of those around you 580 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 5: above your own. Your world is built on a foundation 581 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:39,160 Speaker 5: of tradition, duty, and social responsibility. You thrive in structured 582 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 5: environments where roles and expectations are clear, and you take 583 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 5: great pride in fulfilling your obligations. Your organizational skills are 584 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 5: top notch, allowing you to juggle multiple responsibilities with a 585 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 5: parent ease, whether it's planning a family gathering or coordinating 586 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 5: a work project. You are eighty three percent extroverted. You 587 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 5: are sixty seve six percent observant. You are eighty three 588 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 5: percent feeling, which means you likely value emotional expression and sensitivity, 589 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 5: prioritizing empathy, social harmony, and cooperation. 590 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 1: That is true. 591 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 5: You are ninety two percent judging and you are fifty 592 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 5: eight percent assertive. 593 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's all on point your weaknesses. 594 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 5: Maybe that you are sensitive to criticism yep, seeking approval yep, 595 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 5: avoiding conflict yep, and resisting change. 596 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 2: Oh that's interesting. I wouldn't think I would be resisting change, 597 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 2: but the other three for sure? 598 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, check, check and check. Wait. 599 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 2: But do they give you a name like you know, 600 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 2: you said you could be an architect or. 601 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 5: You're the console. 602 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 6: I'm the console coo nsul Okay. 603 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 3: What was TJ? 604 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: I'm a logistician logisticition. 605 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 3: That's a tough one to say. 606 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, console, that's a come to me if you need 607 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 2: some advice that's getting Did you think that that describes 608 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 2: me in addition to my someone growing over when I'm 609 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 2: trying to speak. 610 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, some of it, I think, maybe most of it. 611 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 1: I didn't understand the breakdowns of the fifty one if 612 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 1: it's two or what they were trying to say there. 613 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 1: I guess that I don't know, but yeah, it's interesting. 614 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: I was more listening, I guess it's the nature of 615 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: all of us, right we can. I was listening to 616 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: yours and like a nailed or nailed it, nailed it, 617 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,840 Speaker 1: nailed it, nailed it, nailed it, nailed it. Yep, where 618 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm looking at my own? 619 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 2: Oh see, I think yours was spot on, like absolutely, 620 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 2: because you know, it's one of those things where we 621 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 2: aren't fully self aware, and no one is. You try 622 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: to be, but it is funny if your partner's telling you, yep, 623 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 2: that would that is you one hundred percent, then I 624 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,920 Speaker 2: think that's a good confirmation. 625 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 1: Now what are we supposed to do with this? Right? 626 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 1: What do you do with this information? What is anybody 627 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 1: supposed to do with it? 628 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 2: Do we have a celebrity that do they say who 629 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 2: we're like? That would be interesting just to kind of 630 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 2: have a gauge as to what you think of a 631 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 2: person and then say, oh, okay, I guess I'm a 632 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 2: little bit like that person or not so. 633 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 5: Logisticians you may know include Sting, Denzel Washington and Natalie 634 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:15,280 Speaker 5: Portman and Anthony Hopkins, George Washington, Condoaleza Rice. 635 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny, like I can. 636 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,479 Speaker 2: I don't know any of those people personally, but it 637 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 2: does seem like that would be Goodding. 638 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 1: This is funny. I have told this story before about 639 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 1: these guys, Denzel and Sting have been around, spend some 640 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: time with both of them, and these are maybe two 641 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: of the biggest stars on the planet and certain two 642 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: of the biggest stars I've ever met. And when I 643 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 1: met them, they had one or two people with them. 644 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 1: They weren't walking around with this huge entourage, and in 645 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 1: talking to them and having cover, they were absolutely my 646 00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: kind of people. They were absolutely that kind of Yes, 647 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: I'm here because I gotta be and I like being 648 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 1: a singer, but the celebrity part is something I can 649 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 1: kind of do without the introvert extrovert thing. Dell's with 650 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: the first two names you said, Oh so. 651 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 2: Ding, Ding, that's funny, And yeah, I have spent a 652 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 2: little bit of time with Denzel interviewing him, and y'all. 653 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: Have a very similar vibe. 654 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 2: And I think I've told you that he was one 655 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 2: of my first crushes ever, like oh one hundred percent, 656 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 2: So that's so interesting. 657 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: Well, he is still a current crush of mine, So 658 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 1: there you go. 659 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 5: Do you want to know what celebrities you have? 660 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 3: Sure? 661 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 5: Taylor Swift, Jennifer Garner, Bill Clinton, Steve Harvey, Danny Glover, 662 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 5: Jennifer Lopez, Sally Field, and Tyra Banks. 663 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 3: You know what, I yes, I could see that. What 664 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 3: do you think about those? 665 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: Well, I'm trying to go through these, folks. I've imagined j. 666 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 3: Loo and I met her several times. I love her 667 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 3: sister Linda. 668 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 1: Sure if i'll put you all together. Steve, oh my god, 669 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Steve Harvey. 670 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 3: Maybe he's funnier than me. 671 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 1: Maybe Clinton is. Yes, I could maybe see Jennifer Garner. 672 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: I have never met her, so I don't know about 673 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 1: that one. 674 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 3: And Taylor Swift that's so funny, nice, but I could 675 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 3: see it. I can totally see that. 676 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: But we should if folks, if you're interested in taking 677 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 1: this test, it's at it really is sixteen Personalities dot 678 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 1: Com right, it's one six Personalities dot Com. And it 679 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: doesn't it doesn't take that long. It's fun, it's interesting 680 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 1: take it with somebody and see how you will match it. 681 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 3: Yea. 682 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 2: And not only does it not take that long, it's free. 683 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 2: I think that's a really cool part of it. You 684 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 2: don't have to pay, you don't have to put in 685 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: any sort of information to get a subscription to this, 686 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,120 Speaker 2: that or the other. It's just a free test to 687 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 2: learn a little bit more about yourself and maybe about 688 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 2: your partner or the friends around you. 689 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 1: We should probably say they do not sponsor this podcast. 690 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: We are given them such an endorsement right now for 691 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: absolutely free, So don't think that's that kind of good thing. 692 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: But our our producer brought it to our attention. We 693 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 1: thought it was cool, and this is cool. 694 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 2: It's very fun. So thank you Andy for bringing that 695 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 2: to us. And now hopefully we can take this information 696 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 2: and apply it to our relationship. 697 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: Yes, console and a logistision heading home on the R train. 698 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 1: All right, folks, always appreciate you listening. 699 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 3: Maybe we have a great day everyone, mm hm