1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning, 2 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: tip is to think through when to make do and 4 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: when not to. There is no point buying new things 5 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: when the old things work just as well. On the 6 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: other hand, there is no point being constantly unhappy with 7 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: little things either. A little contemplation might help you figure 8 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 1: out the right balance. So, as longtime listeners know, I 9 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: am a fairly frugal sort, I come down strongly on 10 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 1: the side of making do. I am driving a twelve 11 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: year old car because it still works. I find it 12 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: incredibly annoying when I have to buy things like new 13 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: socks and new underwear, because in my mind these things 14 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: should last forever. Now, there are some upsides to being 15 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: willing to make do. I can and have lived on 16 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: very little money when that's been necessary. I am not 17 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: upset by mediocre accommodations. When I'm traveling. I am generally 18 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: content because I am not thinking about what's wrong with 19 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: what I have. On the other hand, I have lived 20 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: with things that, it turns out, are easily solved for 21 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: a long time. I spent a year recording this podcast 22 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: while sitting on the ground in my closet. It turns 23 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 1: out that they make chairs. So the question becomes when 24 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: to make do and when not to make do. This 25 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: should somewhat be shaped by what anyone can afford. If 26 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: not making do means taking on debt, then it is 27 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: probably a bad idea. If not making do means not 28 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: having a robust emergency fund and being fully on track 29 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: for funding your retirement, then again no. But once we 30 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: reached the place of having some discretionary income, then I 31 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: think there are a few questions to ask. First, if 32 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 1: it is possible to make do, how much joy would 33 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: something new bring to your life? Since I am reasonably 34 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: happy with my car and don't derive much of my 35 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: self concept from my car, I don't think a new 36 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: car would bring me particular joy. Now that equation would 37 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: change a lot. If my car didn't start half the time, 38 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: then a new car would bring me tremendous joy, as 39 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: I would be less stressed and I wouldn't be late everywhere. Second. 40 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: Even if something would bring joy, what else could you 41 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: do with the money? Money is fungible, so money spent 42 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: on one thing is money not spent on something else, 43 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: and it is possible that that's something else might bring 44 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: even more joy. So, for instance, you might think it 45 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: would be fun to upgrade your kitchen, but if that 46 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: would cost the same as a trip to Europe, and 47 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: you think about it and realize you'd rather take a 48 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: trip to Europe, then maybe it's worth making do with 49 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: your counters and cabinets and enjoying your vacation instead. These 50 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: answers are going to be different for everyone. Maybe you 51 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: have no intention of traveling to Europe, so those counters 52 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: and cabinets would actually make you happier. Or maybe you 53 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: have so much cash that there is no trade off. 54 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: There is nothing else you would do with the cash 55 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: because you are already doing everything that you want to. 56 00:03:55,400 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: If so, have at it with the caveat that avoiding 57 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: waste is a good in its own right, So if 58 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: you are redoing your kitchen before it falls apart, it 59 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: is worth seeing if you can recycle or donate the materials. 60 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Maybe it will be possible, and maybe it won't be. 61 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: But on the other hand, I guess flying internationally creates 62 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 1: a lot of waste too. It's just always something to 63 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: keep in mind. Sometimes it's good to make do and 64 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: sometimes it's better not to. It is always just a 65 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: question of how much joy the choice would bring to you, 66 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: and if it would bring joy, if there is another 67 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: choice that might bring even more joy. Optimizing in that 68 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: way can help us create a good balance and spend 69 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: limited resources as wisely as possible. In the meantime, this 70 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making the 71 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear 72 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 1: from you. 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