WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Phone Paux 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.320 Hey, welcome to your Second Date podcast. Thank you so 0:00:02.400 --> 0:00:03.080 much for being here. 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:06.400 And today we get a little special update update. 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:09.320 That's where we have one of our couples from a 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:12.520 previous Second Date call in and tell us what's happened 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:15.280 since they were on the show. Now, if you're new 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:17.799 to these or you just need a reminder, we do 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:20.920 play the original second Date, so everybody's up to speed 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:23.279 when we get the couple back on, Yes, because we 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:25.680 don't want to go and explain everything. No, No, you. 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:28.000 Can hear the original and then listen to the update 0:00:28.080 --> 0:00:28.520 right after. 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:30.800 Yep, and then right after there'll be little commercial breaks 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:35.000 fast forward. Yes, unless you're my boss is listening then, 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:39.239 and then you'll hear the couple back on. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:39.680 After that. 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:40.360 It's excited. 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:44.839 Yeah, but we must discuss yesterday's second got to because 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:49.360 Aura was back. Unfortunately, we did not know we would. 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:49.880 Be calling Aura. 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:52.080 I feel like we need to save her number so 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:55.320 it comes up when people give us her blog the number. 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:56.200 Maybe we can do that. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:01:00.000 Yeah, you know, she's never been the most liked person. 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:02.000 I don't know that she helped herself. 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:04.039 We got a lot of She has two brain cells 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:05.280 and they're fighting with each other. 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:07.440 I knew her name was familiar. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.800 She'd mean he can do better, yeah, or will meet 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.200 her love one day? Not she'll be sixty years old 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:14.640 and talk about how all the men are the same 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:15.760 and nobody treats her good. 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:17.160 Oh goodness, Oh this one. 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:20.119 She's insufferable. I listened to this podcast to chill at work, 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:21.640 but instead I'm pissed off now. 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:23.000 That. 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:26.600 Yeah, I mean, there's somebody for everybody, even for Aura. 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.679 Sure right, Oh, one person did comment she's one hundred 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:30.240 percent correct. 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:33.720 Hey, there you go, she's for everyone. 0:01:33.840 --> 0:01:41.000 Our podcast found the one person. She was awesome. Yeah, hey, 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:43.119 thanks for being here. We're going to start your update 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:43.920 update right now. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.240 Out of all the second date calls we've ever made 0:01:48.280 --> 0:01:52.000 over the years, and we've done literally thousands of them, yes, 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:56.240 I can say honestly, Brooke has never been more passionate 0:01:56.320 --> 0:02:01.120 than she was during this particular call. It all happened 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:05.040 because she shared one common interest with the dude on 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:08.800 the phone. And if Brooke is into it, yeah, you 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:12.440 know it's gonna be weird. But here's the good news. 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:16.799 Her fire, her excitement has led us now to this 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:21.120 moment where we're getting a special update update from the 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:26.440 person who shares her same weird passion, and you'll hear 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:28.760 all of it and more coming up in your second 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:35.359 Date Update update. Right after this second Date Update, alexis 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:38.240 when you go out on a date, here's an important question. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:42.280 Do you do phone up or phone face down on 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:42.800 the table? 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:45.000 I put my Perusually I don't have an out. 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:47.840 Oh wow, trust the guy to be near your phone. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:48.360 Your hands. 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:50.600 I got one hand in person. 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.000 Okay, I got touches. I feel librady. You know if 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:54.520 I guess saw it was like a twitch at the 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:56.280 table the whole time and she couldn't see it. 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:56.480 Well. 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:58.400 I bring it up because some people think phone face 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.760 down means you're heighting something that you don't want them 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:02.200 to see. 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.480 Right now, I just put it on do not disturb 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:06.640 if you don't want to text to show up. 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:09.640 Yeah, I think that it's polite to put it face down. 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:13.239 Well, phone up would be more like you're kind of 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.560 an open book an open phone. 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:17.799 I think it's you're boring and I would rather look 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:18.560 at my phone. 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:21.600 Okay. The whole reason that I bring it up is 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.480 because one guy cell is at the center of something 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:28.079 that could have possibly gone wrong that night. He's not 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:30.880 really sure. So let's welcome Paul to the show. Paul, 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:31.679 how you doing? 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:31.919 Man? 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:33.840 I'm okay? How are you? Guys? 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:37.160 We know where the phone is right now? Paul up 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:37.480 to his. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:44.600 Yeah, is it okay? Paul, don'tn't worry about the phone. 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:46.480 Just let's talk about the girl that you met. What's 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:46.920 her name? 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:48.920 I was this girl? Kelly? 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:51.200 Okay, where did you meet Kelly? 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:54.240 So, yeah, we've known each other at the gym, and 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:56.840 she just says, normally I tell guys I have a boyfriend, 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:57.960 but I'm not going to tell you that. 0:03:58.120 --> 0:03:58.640 So it's like. 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.720 Cool, Oh wow, that's a good line on her part too, 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:03.560 because it's like, I'm very wanted. 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:05.800 I have to turn men down all the time. 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:08.600 I'm going to make an exception for you. So what 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:09.360 did you guys do? 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.440 So both our schedules are really busy. It was hard 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.040 to find time to hang out. So we actually settled 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:15.800 on a gym date. 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:19.400 Wait a minute, let's just meet back here. 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:22.800 Whose idea was that? 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:26.400 We just kind of both agreed because they couldn't find 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:27.279 any other time. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:30.040 You know, you guys really can't skip one hour at 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:33.640 the gym to get one dreams The gym rats but together. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:36.440 Well, that was just part of the date. So she 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:38.880 did come back to my place and we cooked kind 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:39.880 of like a healthy meal. 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:45.040 Okay, that's cute too, of your health conscious like, yeah, yeah, 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:46.120 So how was dinner? 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:51.400 It was good. Kind of funny situation happened where I 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.400 was in the other room doing the dishes and I 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:56.640 heard my phone beep like a text came through, okay, 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:58.760 And I left it in there with her and I 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:00.760 was like, hey, can you who texted? 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:00.960 Then? 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:01.880 What they said? 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.600 Whoa, whoa, whoa? 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:04.880 Why would you do such a thing? 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:05.200 Sir? 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:06.520 Extremely trusting? 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:09.760 Oh my god, my girl. I know. But here's the thing, Like, 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:10.360 if I was. 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.800 On a date, my phone would be inundated with text 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:15.320 messages for my friends. Yeah. 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:17.119 I thought it was gonna be like all the naked 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:18.480 photos that you've taken, But. 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:22.640 No, I said those already I was. 0:05:22.600 --> 0:05:25.480 On you and I have very different concerns. When it's 0:05:25.520 --> 0:05:29.000 looking at your phone naked is never an issue for me, gotcha? 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:32.520 So you said, hey, take a look at my phone 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:34.479 and tell me who texted and what they said? 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:36.839 Yeah, she was kind of surprised. You was like, what, 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.960 But I don't they give her my path. I don't care. 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:45.440 Wow, okay right in yeah, okay. 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:46.599 So she tells me it was one of my friends 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.760 who wanted to know if I'm meeting up tonight, and 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.839 I answered to respond to him, tell him I'm on 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:53.760 a date with a pre girl cooking dinner. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:58.160 Oh that's a good line, a green flag, lady. 0:05:58.160 --> 0:05:59.720 I don't know now, IM straty that you're trying too 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:00.719 hard though that. 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.800 It's like, I see, you can see it set up. 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:06.719 Like, yeah, you had your friend text on purpose at five. 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:08.839 Point thirty text me and I'm gonna yeah, you guys. 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.560 Are not organized, so I doubt it, but I mean, 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:11.719 who cares. 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:13.320 He just called you pretty. 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:14.279 Like I mean. 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:17.680 The dishes, right, he's so excited. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:19.520 Can you can you tell us? Was that set up? 0:06:19.960 --> 0:06:20.159 No? 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:20.920 Absolutely not? 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:25.400 Okay, Oh wow that was good, like that very smooth. 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.040 I mean, could you tell she was flattered? 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:27.680 Yeah? 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.400 Sure? Girls like being called pretty, right, I mean, well, 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:33.760 and the trust, like you know again, could be too trusting, 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.760 but it's at least not the opposite where it's like, 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:37.160 don look at my phone, give that back. 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:41.719 To It's like, really, you have nothing to hide. 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:45.080 You're not cheating anyone interesting you probably never thought about that, Paul. 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:46.440 But what happened afterwards? 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:48.880 Yeah, so I didn't come back in the room for 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:51.280 a few minutes of finishing the dishes and all that. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:53.159 But and that is hot. 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:57.920 Can I just say, as a married woman, I understand 0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:00.880 why you would think it's hot, But alexis I'm I mean. 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:07.880 I don't care imagining him? 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.960 Sure, all right? Is this is sounding pretty good? I think? 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:13.680 Did did we miss any details? 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.280 No, you know that did. I didn't have anything weird 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:19.600 or incriminating. I didn't get a bad vibe from her, 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:22.120 but you guys are apt and if anything weird happened. 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:25.120 So that's the only thing that was out of the ordinary. 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:29.600 Kiss her, no kids, But we hugged and she left 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:30.720 like a little while later. 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:32.160 Okay, have you seen her at the gym? 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.240 Yeah, it's certainly been a few days, so I haven't 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:37.320 seen her. But I'm just kind of getting the vibe 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:39.840 that she's not really into hangout again. I don't know, 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:42.280 you feel that shift. 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:45.040 Yeah, that's weird because you were so open with her, 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:46.040 I don't know. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.120 Well, and they knew each other pretty I mean, like 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:51.600 not really well, but like enough see. 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:51.960 Each other again. 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:53.920 It is weird to go back to the place you 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:56.040 just had a date with a guy, and like were 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.720 just being over eager. We're just all very eager to 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:00.440 hear what she has to say when we come back 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:02.840 and call her. Hopefully she picks up and gives us 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:05.200 some answers for your second date update. Right after this 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:08.360 second date update, you're in the. 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:10.320 Middle of a second date update update, and we're gonna 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.720 find out how the couple is doing right after you 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:13.560 here Part two. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:19.080 Is it possible to be so open and so trusting 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:23.080 that it's actually a turn off? Does that sound funny? 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:25.720 I mean, that's what we're wondering after talking to our 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.840 listener Paul, because he gave his date the password to 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.400 his cell phone so that she could text a friend 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:33.400 for him while he was busy doing dishes in the 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:35.600 other room. Yeah, in the other room. So he heard 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:37.920 his phone go off and was just like, whatever that was, 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:40.920 go check it. Yeah, And he felt felt comfortable doing 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.280 that because he says he's got nothing to hide on there. 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:45.600 She can go look through whatever she wants and won't 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:46.640 find anything weird. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.920 Sure, there's nothing that's weird on your phone? 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:51.080 What are you? Oh? 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.800 You in his mind he said, the pass code. 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:56.680 You know, so maybe she found something else that wasn't 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:57.880 in the text. 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:00.400 Right if she's not sketchy but just weirds. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.480 Paul, is there anything that you're not telling us? Do 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.160 you have a furry app on there that you left open? 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.600 No, guys, I'm serious, I don't have anything weird on there, 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:11.040 I promise. Okay. 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.239 It just sounds like such a nice time. 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:16.960 Like yeah, and maybe that's the problem. That was so nice. 0:09:16.960 --> 0:09:19.440 That was what Alexis said. It's like too nice where 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.480 it's like this guy's not even fun anymore. 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.800 You reply, you like reply probably to your friends too, 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:25.800 but it. 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:28.439 Can wait ten minutes, like also a quick reply. 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:31.480 Friends as well. 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:35.480 Question we talk about it. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.439 Are we giving you a little bit of a complex yet? 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.120 Paul? Yeah? Maybe? Yeah, I don't know. 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:45.760 Okay. Hopefully we can find more of your issues when 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:47.840 we call Kelly for you and see what she has 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:59.800 to say. Hopefully she picks up. Here we go, Hello, 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:04.800 Hey is this Kelly. This is Hey Kelly. You're on 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.319 the radio right now with a show called Brooke and 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:07.320 Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:09.320 Hey Kelly, good morning, Kelly. 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:15.280 Wow, Hey, you know who we are. 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:18.440 You've listened to the show for sure. 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:19.000 I'm just. 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:25.000 TikTok may Yeah, I'll take it. Hey, we'll take you. 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:25.880 I appreciate it. 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:26.320 Yeah. 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:28.560 Maybe you're familiar with us because of our segment the 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:30.840 second ate update. Is that how you know us? 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:34.240 Yeah, I've definitely heard of that. 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:37.280 It's not because jose being handsome is so viral. 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:45.959 Yeah, darn it, Lay, But. 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:48.960 Kelly, we're doing a second ate update right now because 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:51.080 of a guy that you went out with recently who's 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:53.360 been trying to get a hold of you, Paul from 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:54.360 the gym. 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:54.960 Yeah. 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.360 I had a feeling that might be what this is 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:07.400 about when you said that, Okay, yeah, okay, it sounded. 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:08.880 Like such a fun time you and Paul had. 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:13.360 The date itself was pretty great, honestly, Like, I don't 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:17.000 really have complaints about that, Okay, Okay, I guess I 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.199 just did something I really shouldn't have done, and it 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:21.000 just it took me out of it. It ruined it 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:21.280 for me. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:26.439 What did you do? Because we heard that you two 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.839 did a gym workout and had dinner back at Paul's place. 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:31.199 Oh my god, he did the dishes. 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:34.160 Yeah, I was just really excited about that. 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:37.000 You're not wrong about any of that, Like that's all 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.640 one hundred percent true. And I mean, what a great 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.080 date to have with somebody who you've known for a 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:43.760 while and have been going to the same gym like 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:45.920 for a long time. Like it kind of all was 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.360 coming together really nicely, like almost a little too good 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:49.000 to be true, Like. 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:52.760 Wow, what could possibly ruin it? 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:53.000 Then? 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:57.640 Like me, me, what do you mean? Oh my god? Okay, 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:01.280 So basically he got it as when he was doing 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:03.360 the dishes and I was in the living room where 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:07.280 his phone was like sitting on the turder. Yeah, so 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:09.360 you know about the pass code and everything. 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.160 Yeah, right, And he even asked you to send a 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:14.400 message to his friend for him. 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:17.040 Yeah, and we guess that maybe you looked at other 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:18.080 things on his phone. 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:21.960 Not initially, but your girl got a little curious and 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:24.520 I went back for seconds. I'm not gonna lie. 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:28.199 I mean, he did give you the pass code is dang, 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:30.280 you're hungry. 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:31.120 What did you find? 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:34.040 Oh my god, I can't even believe this. Okay, you 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:35.960 know the notes app on your phone? 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:39.800 Oh you went deep into his phone personal Yeah, that 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:41.640 gave me like a journal. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:48.320 So he wrote a bunch of there's a bunch of 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.240 drafts in there, and there are a bunch of like 0:12:50.840 --> 0:13:01.160 over the top aggressive negative Yelp reviews even like it's 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.360 I even for like businesses. It's not for restaurants. He 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:05.360 didn't find like a hair and his food. No, these 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.559 are for public restrooms. 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:09.960 What he's a public restroom? 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:11.839 Do you think he know? 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:12.160 Where? 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.120 Did he like copy and paste him for? 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:16.360 Oh? Like, are they jokes? 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:18.360 Because that would be that sounds like a joke to me, 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:19.960 a review of a public restroom. 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:23.520 There is zero percent chance like this came from his soul. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.079 He did not write this on a win like there 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.480 was one in there about like the McDonald's on Fifth 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:31.640 Avenue and he was going off. He was like, oh, 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.720 the hinges on the door were like loose and the 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.040 latch was hanging on for dear life, like it was 0:13:37.080 --> 0:13:38.680 a marriage on its last leg. 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:42.400 Like, and it's useful because now I know not to 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.320 go to that McDonald's. So you didn't. 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:45.599 You didn't think it was attractive. 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:49.200 Honestly, it seemed like a little unhinged that someone would 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:51.640 be having that in this phone. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.920 Hey, I think you're trying to find something wrong with 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:57.800 him because you're scared it was going so good because. 0:13:57.559 --> 0:13:59.560 Listen, that's just how that's how I felt. 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:03.600 Okay, Well, your feelings are totally valid, But I believe 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:07.640 that Paul's feelings are probably also equally as valid, if 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:10.120 not more, because they are his private notes. So we 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:12.360 should probably hear his side of the story because he 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:14.560 is on the other line right now waiting to talk 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:18.280 to you. Yeah, I'm doing that. 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.000 And his favorite restroom. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.000 Paul, Oh my god, I'm here. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.720 What's the bathroom? 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:26.280 Or he's a toilet king? 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.600 Are you feeling based on what you just heard there? 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.560 I mean, I don't really see what's the big deal 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:34.480 about help reviews? 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:35.840 Well, I'm with him. 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.640 I mean, who wants to eat at a restaurant where 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:40.760 the bathroom's filthy? Yeah? 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:41.520 Right though it? 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:46.960 Have you ever looked up the bathroom before you go somewhere? 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.160 If I went and saw a review for a restaurant, 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:53.640 they said it had an icky bathroom out. 0:14:53.640 --> 0:14:55.920 Sorry, you relieve yourself out in the woods. 0:14:56.960 --> 0:14:58.480 Listen to me, that is clean. 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:02.040 Okay, Maybe Paul can leave a review of the bathroom 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.920 mountain in the in the forest where you tell me 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:05.360 think of. 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:08.080 How creative those reviews were. I mean, you've got a 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.120 man who is good with words. 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:12.800 We've been doing the show for like thirteen years. Brook 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:14.920 has never stood up for a man like she has. 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:19.480 Public bathroom yelp, toilet was it? 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:22.240 Honestly? Like you are gassing me up a little bit, 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:24.040 like you're making me see the other side of things 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:24.520 a little. 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:25.280 Bit you wow? 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:29.400 Okay, Kelly, here's the important question in his apartment? Was 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:33.480 his bathroom clean? I did not think of that. 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:37.120 Are you asking her to review his Oh no, I 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:38.440 wasn't that excited about it. 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:42.320 But I will say two things. Number One, it was 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.320 sparkling clean. I will give him that very clean bathroom. 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:47.280 However, thank you. 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:50.120 Number two, I do not appreciate the fact that the 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:52.800 toilet paper was facing the way. I don't appreciate it. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:55.360 The underpole supposed to be. 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.320 You just found a man with a clean bathroom that 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:03.480 does his and you are trying to find a problem. 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:08.000 You cannot pass up this opportunity. 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.160 I don't know. It seems to be a pretty big 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.280 issue for her. But Kelly, I'm still gonna ask you anyway, 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.960 would you give him another shot at a second date 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:17.120 and we would pay for it. 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.280 I take ownership like I should not have gone through 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:24.160 this man's phone. That's good and so as long as 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:27.320 the place you are sending us has a solid bathroom 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:28.000 reading from. 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:31.840 Him now suddenly like the most Kelly too. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.160 Now she's on board. 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:36.120 Paul, I'd love to go out with Kelly against. 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:38.840 If they ever get married. They're gonna rent one of 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:44.040 those really fancy port It has like it's like a trailer. 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:47.400 Is just your stories always end up in a trailer. 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:49.240 They always started. 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:52.640 There too, Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:56.120 Brook has never been more excited to have any two 0:16:56.200 --> 0:17:00.520 listeners back than Kelly and Paul. But they're to give 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:03.920 us an update update, So welcome back to the show, 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.960 you two, and from your email, it sounds like you 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:10.399 are still together, but you're working through some personal stuff. 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:12.000 At least on Paul's side. 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:15.960 It's going well. I've been trying to just focus more 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:19.479 on the good and being less aggressive about it. 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:23.280 Okay, So you're referring to the negative bathroom reviews that 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:26.239 tended to skew a little bit angry, right, Yeah, are 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:27.080 you still doing those. 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:30.600 I'm still reviewing, trying not to be too harsh and 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:32.480 let more things fly. 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:35.440 Okay, but it sounds like maybe that urge to one 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:38.280