Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your Second Date podcast. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for being here.
Speaker 2: And today we get a little special update update.
Speaker 1: That's where we have one of our couples from a
Speaker 1: previous Second Date call in and tell us what's happened
Speaker 1: since they were on the show. Now, if you're new
Speaker 1: to these or you just need a reminder, we do
Speaker 1: play the original second Date, so everybody's up to speed
Speaker 1: when we get the couple back on, Yes, because we
Speaker 1: don't want to go and explain everything. No, No, you.
Speaker 3: Can hear the original and then listen to the update
Speaker 3: right after.
Speaker 1: Yep, and then right after there'll be little commercial breaks
Speaker 1: fast forward. Yes, unless you're my boss is listening then,
Speaker 1: and then you'll hear the couple back on.
Speaker 4: After that.
Speaker 2: It's excited.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we must discuss yesterday's second got to because
Speaker 1: Aura was back. Unfortunately, we did not know we would.
Speaker 2: Be calling Aura.
Speaker 1: I feel like we need to save her number so
Speaker 1: it comes up when people give us her blog the number.
Speaker 5: Maybe we can do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, she's never been the most liked person.
Speaker 6: I don't know that she helped herself.
Speaker 5: We got a lot of She has two brain cells
Speaker 5: and they're fighting with each other.
Speaker 3: I knew her name was familiar.
Speaker 5: She'd mean he can do better, yeah, or will meet
Speaker 5: her love one day? Not she'll be sixty years old
Speaker 5: and talk about how all the men are the same
Speaker 5: and nobody treats her good.
Speaker 2: Oh goodness, Oh this one.
Speaker 5: She's insufferable. I listened to this podcast to chill at work,
Speaker 5: but instead I'm pissed off now.
Speaker 3: That.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, there's somebody for everybody, even for Aura.
Speaker 5: Sure right, Oh, one person did comment she's one hundred
Speaker 5: percent correct.
Speaker 3: Hey, there you go, she's for everyone.
Speaker 2: Our podcast found the one person. She was awesome. Yeah, hey,
Speaker 2: thanks for being here. We're going to start your update
Speaker 2: update right now.
Speaker 3: Out of all the second date calls we've ever made
Speaker 3: over the years, and we've done literally thousands of them, yes,
Speaker 3: I can say honestly, Brooke has never been more passionate
Speaker 3: than she was during this particular call. It all happened
Speaker 3: because she shared one common interest with the dude on
Speaker 3: the phone. And if Brooke is into it, yeah, you
Speaker 3: know it's gonna be weird. But here's the good news.
Speaker 3: Her fire, her excitement has led us now to this
Speaker 3: moment where we're getting a special update update from the
Speaker 3: person who shares her same weird passion, and you'll hear
Speaker 3: all of it and more coming up in your second
Speaker 3: Date Update update. Right after this second Date Update, alexis
Speaker 3: when you go out on a date, here's an important question.
Speaker 3: Do you do phone up or phone face down on
Speaker 3: the table?
Speaker 5: I put my Perusually I don't have an out.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, trust the guy to be near your phone.
Speaker 2: Your hands.
Speaker 5: I got one hand in person.
Speaker 2: Okay, I got touches. I feel librady. You know if
Speaker 2: I guess saw it was like a twitch at the
Speaker 2: table the whole time and she couldn't see it.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 3: I bring it up because some people think phone face
Speaker 3: down means you're heighting something that you don't want them
Speaker 3: to see.
Speaker 5: Right now, I just put it on do not disturb
Speaker 5: if you don't want to text to show up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that it's polite to put it face down.
Speaker 3: Well, phone up would be more like you're kind of
Speaker 3: an open book an open phone.
Speaker 1: I think it's you're boring and I would rather look
Speaker 1: at my phone.
Speaker 3: Okay. The whole reason that I bring it up is
Speaker 3: because one guy cell is at the center of something
Speaker 3: that could have possibly gone wrong that night. He's not
Speaker 3: really sure. So let's welcome Paul to the show. Paul,
Speaker 3: how you doing?
Speaker 6: Man?
Speaker 4: I'm okay? How are you? Guys?
Speaker 2: We know where the phone is right now? Paul up
Speaker 2: to his.
Speaker 3: Yeah, is it okay? Paul, don'tn't worry about the phone.
Speaker 3: Just let's talk about the girl that you met. What's
Speaker 3: her name?
Speaker 4: I was this girl? Kelly?
Speaker 3: Okay, where did you meet Kelly?
Speaker 4: So, yeah, we've known each other at the gym, and
Speaker 4: she just says, normally I tell guys I have a boyfriend,
Speaker 4: but I'm not going to tell you that.
Speaker 6: So it's like.
Speaker 1: Cool, Oh wow, that's a good line on her part too,
Speaker 1: because it's like, I'm very wanted.
Speaker 2: I have to turn men down all the time.
Speaker 3: I'm going to make an exception for you. So what
Speaker 3: did you guys do?
Speaker 4: So both our schedules are really busy. It was hard
Speaker 4: to find time to hang out. So we actually settled
Speaker 4: on a gym date.
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, let's just meet back here.
Speaker 2: Whose idea was that?
Speaker 4: We just kind of both agreed because they couldn't find
Speaker 4: any other time.
Speaker 1: You know, you guys really can't skip one hour at
Speaker 1: the gym to get one dreams The gym rats but together.
Speaker 4: Well, that was just part of the date. So she
Speaker 4: did come back to my place and we cooked kind
Speaker 4: of like a healthy meal.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's cute too, of your health conscious like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: So how was dinner?
Speaker 4: It was good. Kind of funny situation happened where I
Speaker 4: was in the other room doing the dishes and I
Speaker 4: heard my phone beep like a text came through, okay,
Speaker 4: And I left it in there with her and I
Speaker 4: was like, hey, can you who texted?
Speaker 1: Then?
Speaker 4: What they said?
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 2: Why would you do such a thing?
Speaker 7: Sir?
Speaker 3: Extremely trusting?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my girl. I know. But here's the thing, Like,
Speaker 2: if I was.
Speaker 1: On a date, my phone would be inundated with text
Speaker 1: messages for my friends. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I thought it was gonna be like all the naked
Speaker 3: photos that you've taken, But.
Speaker 2: No, I said those already I was.
Speaker 3: On you and I have very different concerns. When it's
Speaker 3: looking at your phone naked is never an issue for me, gotcha?
Speaker 3: So you said, hey, take a look at my phone
Speaker 3: and tell me who texted and what they said?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she was kind of surprised. You was like, what,
Speaker 4: But I don't they give her my path. I don't care.
Speaker 3: Wow, okay right in yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: So she tells me it was one of my friends
Speaker 4: who wanted to know if I'm meeting up tonight, and
Speaker 4: I answered to respond to him, tell him I'm on
Speaker 4: a date with a pre girl cooking dinner.
Speaker 3: Oh that's a good line, a green flag, lady.
Speaker 5: I don't know now, IM straty that you're trying too
Speaker 5: hard though that.
Speaker 3: It's like, I see, you can see it set up.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you had your friend text on purpose at five.
Speaker 3: Point thirty text me and I'm gonna yeah, you guys.
Speaker 5: Are not organized, so I doubt it, but I mean,
Speaker 5: who cares.
Speaker 2: He just called you pretty.
Speaker 3: Like I mean.
Speaker 2: The dishes, right, he's so excited.
Speaker 3: Can you can you tell us? Was that set up?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 4: Absolutely not?
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh wow that was good, like that very smooth.
Speaker 2: I mean, could you tell she was flattered?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Sure? Girls like being called pretty, right, I mean, well,
Speaker 4: and the trust, like you know again, could be too trusting,
Speaker 4: but it's at least not the opposite where it's like,
Speaker 4: don look at my phone, give that back.
Speaker 5: To It's like, really, you have nothing to hide.
Speaker 3: You're not cheating anyone interesting you probably never thought about that, Paul.
Speaker 3: But what happened afterwards?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I didn't come back in the room for
Speaker 4: a few minutes of finishing the dishes and all that.
Speaker 2: But and that is hot.
Speaker 3: Can I just say, as a married woman, I understand
Speaker 3: why you would think it's hot, But alexis I'm I mean.
Speaker 5: I don't care imagining him?
Speaker 3: Sure, all right? Is this is sounding pretty good? I think?
Speaker 3: Did did we miss any details?
Speaker 4: No, you know that did. I didn't have anything weird
Speaker 4: or incriminating. I didn't get a bad vibe from her,
Speaker 4: but you guys are apt and if anything weird happened.
Speaker 4: So that's the only thing that was out of the ordinary.
Speaker 4: Kiss her, no kids, But we hugged and she left
Speaker 4: like a little while later.
Speaker 2: Okay, have you seen her at the gym?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's certainly been a few days, so I haven't
Speaker 4: seen her. But I'm just kind of getting the vibe
Speaker 4: that she's not really into hangout again. I don't know,
Speaker 4: you feel that shift.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's weird because you were so open with her,
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Well, and they knew each other pretty I mean, like
Speaker 1: not really well, but like enough see.
Speaker 2: Each other again.
Speaker 3: It is weird to go back to the place you
Speaker 3: just had a date with a guy, and like were
Speaker 3: just being over eager. We're just all very eager to
Speaker 3: hear what she has to say when we come back
Speaker 3: and call her. Hopefully she picks up and gives us
Speaker 3: some answers for your second date update. Right after this
Speaker 3: second date update, you're in the.
Speaker 2: Middle of a second date update update, and we're gonna
Speaker 2: find out how the couple is doing right after you
Speaker 2: here Part two.
Speaker 3: Is it possible to be so open and so trusting
Speaker 3: that it's actually a turn off? Does that sound funny?
Speaker 3: I mean, that's what we're wondering after talking to our
Speaker 3: listener Paul, because he gave his date the password to
Speaker 3: his cell phone so that she could text a friend
Speaker 3: for him while he was busy doing dishes in the
Speaker 3: other room. Yeah, in the other room. So he heard
Speaker 3: his phone go off and was just like, whatever that was,
Speaker 3: go check it. Yeah, And he felt felt comfortable doing
Speaker 3: that because he says he's got nothing to hide on there.
Speaker 3: She can go look through whatever she wants and won't
Speaker 3: find anything weird.
Speaker 2: Sure, there's nothing that's weird on your phone?
Speaker 3: What are you? Oh?
Speaker 2: You in his mind he said, the pass code.
Speaker 3: You know, so maybe she found something else that wasn't
Speaker 3: in the text.
Speaker 1: Right if she's not sketchy but just weirds.
Speaker 3: Paul, is there anything that you're not telling us? Do
Speaker 3: you have a furry app on there that you left open?
Speaker 4: No, guys, I'm serious, I don't have anything weird on there,
Speaker 4: I promise. Okay.
Speaker 2: It just sounds like such a nice time.
Speaker 3: Like yeah, and maybe that's the problem. That was so nice.
Speaker 3: That was what Alexis said. It's like too nice where
Speaker 3: it's like this guy's not even fun anymore.
Speaker 5: You reply, you like reply probably to your friends too,
Speaker 5: but it.
Speaker 3: Can wait ten minutes, like also a quick reply.
Speaker 2: Friends as well.
Speaker 5: Question we talk about it.
Speaker 3: Are we giving you a little bit of a complex yet?
Speaker 4: Paul? Yeah? Maybe? Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay. Hopefully we can find more of your issues when
Speaker 3: we call Kelly for you and see what she has
Speaker 3: to say. Hopefully she picks up. Here we go, Hello,
Speaker 3: Hey is this Kelly. This is Hey Kelly. You're on
Speaker 3: the radio right now with a show called Brooke and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Hey Kelly, good morning, Kelly.
Speaker 6: Wow, Hey, you know who we are.
Speaker 2: You've listened to the show for sure.
Speaker 6: I'm just.
Speaker 3: TikTok may Yeah, I'll take it. Hey, we'll take you.
Speaker 2: I appreciate it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Maybe you're familiar with us because of our segment the
Speaker 3: second ate update. Is that how you know us?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I've definitely heard of that.
Speaker 3: It's not because jose being handsome is so viral.
Speaker 2: Yeah, darn it, Lay, But.
Speaker 3: Kelly, we're doing a second ate update right now because
Speaker 3: of a guy that you went out with recently who's
Speaker 3: been trying to get a hold of you, Paul from
Speaker 3: the gym.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I had a feeling that might be what this is
Speaker 7: about when you said that, Okay, yeah, okay, it sounded.
Speaker 2: Like such a fun time you and Paul had.
Speaker 6: The date itself was pretty great, honestly, Like, I don't
Speaker 6: really have complaints about that, Okay, Okay, I guess I
Speaker 6: just did something I really shouldn't have done, and it
Speaker 6: just it took me out of it. It ruined it
Speaker 6: for me.
Speaker 3: What did you do? Because we heard that you two
Speaker 3: did a gym workout and had dinner back at Paul's place.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he did the dishes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just really excited about that.
Speaker 6: You're not wrong about any of that, Like that's all
Speaker 6: one hundred percent true. And I mean, what a great
Speaker 6: date to have with somebody who you've known for a
Speaker 6: while and have been going to the same gym like
Speaker 6: for a long time. Like it kind of all was
Speaker 6: coming together really nicely, like almost a little too good
Speaker 6: to be true, Like.
Speaker 3: Wow, what could possibly ruin it?
Speaker 4: Then?
Speaker 6: Like me, me, what do you mean? Oh my god? Okay,
Speaker 6: So basically he got it as when he was doing
Speaker 6: the dishes and I was in the living room where
Speaker 6: his phone was like sitting on the turder. Yeah, so
Speaker 6: you know about the pass code and everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, And he even asked you to send a
Speaker 3: message to his friend for him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we guess that maybe you looked at other
Speaker 1: things on his phone.
Speaker 6: Not initially, but your girl got a little curious and
Speaker 6: I went back for seconds. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I mean, he did give you the pass code is dang,
Speaker 1: you're hungry.
Speaker 3: What did you find?
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can't even believe this. Okay, you
Speaker 6: know the notes app on your phone?
Speaker 1: Oh you went deep into his phone personal Yeah, that
Speaker 1: gave me like a journal.
Speaker 6: So he wrote a bunch of there's a bunch of
Speaker 6: drafts in there, and there are a bunch of like
Speaker 6: over the top aggressive negative Yelp reviews even like it's
Speaker 6: I even for like businesses. It's not for restaurants. He
Speaker 6: didn't find like a hair and his food. No, these
Speaker 6: are for public restrooms.
Speaker 3: What he's a public restroom?
Speaker 2: Do you think he know?
Speaker 1: Where?
Speaker 2: Did he like copy and paste him for?
Speaker 3: Oh? Like, are they jokes?
Speaker 2: Because that would be that sounds like a joke to me,
Speaker 2: a review of a public restroom.
Speaker 6: There is zero percent chance like this came from his soul.
Speaker 6: He did not write this on a win like there
Speaker 6: was one in there about like the McDonald's on Fifth
Speaker 6: Avenue and he was going off. He was like, oh,
Speaker 6: the hinges on the door were like loose and the
Speaker 6: latch was hanging on for dear life, like it was
Speaker 6: a marriage on its last leg.
Speaker 3: Like, and it's useful because now I know not to
Speaker 3: go to that McDonald's. So you didn't.
Speaker 2: You didn't think it was attractive.
Speaker 6: Honestly, it seemed like a little unhinged that someone would
Speaker 6: be having that in this phone.
Speaker 1: Hey, I think you're trying to find something wrong with
Speaker 1: him because you're scared it was going so good because.
Speaker 6: Listen, that's just how that's how I felt.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, your feelings are totally valid, But I believe
Speaker 3: that Paul's feelings are probably also equally as valid, if
Speaker 3: not more, because they are his private notes. So we
Speaker 3: should probably hear his side of the story because he
Speaker 3: is on the other line right now waiting to talk
Speaker 3: to you. Yeah, I'm doing that.
Speaker 2: And his favorite restroom.
Speaker 6: Paul, Oh my god, I'm here.
Speaker 4: What's the bathroom?
Speaker 2: Or he's a toilet king?
Speaker 3: Are you feeling based on what you just heard there?
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't really see what's the big deal
Speaker 4: about help reviews?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm with him.
Speaker 4: I mean, who wants to eat at a restaurant where
Speaker 4: the bathroom's filthy? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Right though it?
Speaker 5: Have you ever looked up the bathroom before you go somewhere?
Speaker 1: If I went and saw a review for a restaurant,
Speaker 1: they said it had an icky bathroom out.
Speaker 3: Sorry, you relieve yourself out in the woods.
Speaker 2: Listen to me, that is clean.
Speaker 3: Okay, Maybe Paul can leave a review of the bathroom
Speaker 3: mountain in the in the forest where you tell me
Speaker 3: think of.
Speaker 2: How creative those reviews were. I mean, you've got a
Speaker 2: man who is good with words.
Speaker 3: We've been doing the show for like thirteen years. Brook
Speaker 3: has never stood up for a man like she has.
Speaker 3: Public bathroom yelp, toilet was it?
Speaker 6: Honestly? Like you are gassing me up a little bit,
Speaker 6: like you're making me see the other side of things
Speaker 6: a little.
Speaker 1: Bit you wow?
Speaker 3: Okay, Kelly, here's the important question in his apartment? Was
Speaker 3: his bathroom clean? I did not think of that.
Speaker 2: Are you asking her to review his Oh no, I
Speaker 2: wasn't that excited about it.
Speaker 6: But I will say two things. Number One, it was
Speaker 6: sparkling clean. I will give him that very clean bathroom.
Speaker 4: However, thank you.
Speaker 6: Number two, I do not appreciate the fact that the
Speaker 6: toilet paper was facing the way. I don't appreciate it.
Speaker 6: The underpole supposed to be.
Speaker 1: You just found a man with a clean bathroom that
Speaker 1: does his and you are trying to find a problem.
Speaker 2: You cannot pass up this opportunity.
Speaker 3: I don't know. It seems to be a pretty big
Speaker 3: issue for her. But Kelly, I'm still gonna ask you anyway,
Speaker 3: would you give him another shot at a second date
Speaker 3: and we would pay for it.
Speaker 6: I take ownership like I should not have gone through
Speaker 6: this man's phone. That's good and so as long as
Speaker 6: the place you are sending us has a solid bathroom
Speaker 6: reading from.
Speaker 3: Him now suddenly like the most Kelly too.
Speaker 2: Now she's on board.
Speaker 4: Paul, I'd love to go out with Kelly against.
Speaker 2: If they ever get married. They're gonna rent one of
Speaker 2: those really fancy port It has like it's like a trailer.
Speaker 3: Is just your stories always end up in a trailer.
Speaker 3: They always started.
Speaker 2: There too, Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 3: Brook has never been more excited to have any two
Speaker 3: listeners back than Kelly and Paul. But they're to give
Speaker 3: us an update update, So welcome back to the show,
Speaker 3: you two, and from your email, it sounds like you
Speaker 3: are still together, but you're working through some personal stuff.
Speaker 3: At least on Paul's side.
Speaker 4: It's going well. I've been trying to just focus more
Speaker 4: on the good and being less aggressive about it.
Speaker 3: Okay, So you're referring to the negative bathroom reviews that
Speaker 3: tended to skew a little bit angry, right, Yeah, are
Speaker 3: you still doing those.
Speaker 4: I'm still reviewing, trying not to be too harsh and
Speaker 4: let more things fly.
Speaker 3: Okay, but it sounds like maybe that urge to one
Speaker 3: star yelp, places is still lurking inside you.
Speaker 4: It still happens, especially around urinals.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, dude, I feel that they don't make any
Speaker 1: sense to me.
Speaker 2: Is so much splatter. I'm with you.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you and Brook can talk a little bit
Speaker 3: and get some of that anger out after this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not about not having anger, it's just about
Speaker 2: channeling good.
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll channel it into after this, maybe in the
Speaker 3: into our podcast. But we're happy to hear Kelly Paul
Speaker 3: that you're still together and reforming each other and doing well.
Speaker 4: Thank you, guys.
Speaker 3: But keep us updated on your bathroom escapabe. No no, no, Paul,
Speaker 3: definitely do not reveal have
Speaker 4: To check out your bathroom