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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to your Second Date podcast. Thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for being here.

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Speaker 2: And today we get a little special update update.

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Speaker 1: That's where we have one of our couples from a

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Speaker 1: previous Second Date call in and tell us what's happened

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Speaker 1: since they were on the show. Now, if you're new

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Speaker 1: to these or you just need a reminder, we do

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Speaker 1: play the original second Date, so everybody's up to speed

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Speaker 1: when we get the couple back on, Yes, because we

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Speaker 1: don't want to go and explain everything. No, No, you.

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Speaker 3: Can hear the original and then listen to the update

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Speaker 3: right after.

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Speaker 1: Yep, and then right after there'll be little commercial breaks

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Speaker 1: fast forward. Yes, unless you're my boss is listening then,

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Speaker 1: and then you'll hear the couple back on.

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Speaker 4: After that.

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Speaker 2: It's excited.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but we must discuss yesterday's second got to because

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Speaker 1: Aura was back. Unfortunately, we did not know we would.

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Speaker 2: Be calling Aura.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we need to save her number so

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Speaker 1: it comes up when people give us her blog the number.

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Speaker 5: Maybe we can do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, she's never been the most liked person.

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Speaker 6: I don't know that she helped herself.

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Speaker 5: We got a lot of She has two brain cells

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Speaker 5: and they're fighting with each other.

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Speaker 3: I knew her name was familiar.

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Speaker 5: She'd mean he can do better, yeah, or will meet

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Speaker 5: her love one day? Not she'll be sixty years old

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Speaker 5: and talk about how all the men are the same

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Speaker 5: and nobody treats her good.

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness, Oh this one.

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Speaker 5: She's insufferable. I listened to this podcast to chill at work,

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Speaker 5: but instead I'm pissed off now.

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Speaker 3: That.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, there's somebody for everybody, even for Aura.

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Speaker 5: Sure right, Oh, one person did comment she's one hundred

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Speaker 5: percent correct.

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Speaker 3: Hey, there you go, she's for everyone.

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Speaker 2: Our podcast found the one person. She was awesome. Yeah, hey,

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Speaker 2: thanks for being here. We're going to start your update

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Speaker 2: update right now.

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Speaker 3: Out of all the second date calls we've ever made

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Speaker 3: over the years, and we've done literally thousands of them, yes,

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Speaker 3: I can say honestly, Brooke has never been more passionate

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Speaker 3: than she was during this particular call. It all happened

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Speaker 3: because she shared one common interest with the dude on

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Speaker 3: the phone. And if Brooke is into it, yeah, you

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Speaker 3: know it's gonna be weird. But here's the good news.

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Speaker 3: Her fire, her excitement has led us now to this

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Speaker 3: moment where we're getting a special update update from the

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Speaker 3: person who shares her same weird passion, and you'll hear

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Speaker 3: all of it and more coming up in your second

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Speaker 3: Date Update update. Right after this second Date Update, alexis

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Speaker 3: when you go out on a date, here's an important question.

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Speaker 3: Do you do phone up or phone face down on

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Speaker 3: the table?

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Speaker 5: I put my Perusually I don't have an out.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, trust the guy to be near your phone.

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Speaker 2: Your hands.

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Speaker 5: I got one hand in person.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got touches. I feel librady. You know if

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Speaker 2: I guess saw it was like a twitch at the

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Speaker 2: table the whole time and she couldn't see it.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 3: I bring it up because some people think phone face

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Speaker 3: down means you're heighting something that you don't want them

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Speaker 5: Right now, I just put it on do not disturb

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Speaker 5: if you don't want to text to show up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that it's polite to put it face down.

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Speaker 3: Well, phone up would be more like you're kind of

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Speaker 3: an open book an open phone.

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Speaker 1: I think it's you're boring and I would rather look

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Speaker 3: Okay. The whole reason that I bring it up is

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Speaker 3: that could have possibly gone wrong that night. He's not

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Speaker 3: really sure. So let's welcome Paul to the show. Paul,

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Speaker 3: how you doing?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 4: I'm okay? How are you? Guys?

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Speaker 2: We know where the phone is right now? Paul up

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Speaker 3: Yeah, is it okay? Paul, don'tn't worry about the phone.

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Speaker 3: Just let's talk about the girl that you met. What's

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Speaker 3: her name?

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Speaker 4: I was this girl? Kelly?

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Speaker 3: Okay, where did you meet Kelly?

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Speaker 4: So, yeah, we've known each other at the gym, and

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Speaker 4: she just says, normally I tell guys I have a boyfriend,

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Speaker 4: but I'm not going to tell you that.

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Speaker 6: So it's like.

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Speaker 1: Cool, Oh wow, that's a good line on her part too,

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Speaker 1: because it's like, I'm very wanted.

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Speaker 2: I have to turn men down all the time.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to make an exception for you. So what

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Speaker 3: did you guys do?

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Speaker 4: So both our schedules are really busy. It was hard

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Speaker 4: to find time to hang out. So we actually settled

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Speaker 4: on a gym date.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, let's just meet back here.

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Speaker 2: Whose idea was that?

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Speaker 4: We just kind of both agreed because they couldn't find

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Speaker 4: any other time.

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Speaker 1: You know, you guys really can't skip one hour at

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Speaker 1: the gym to get one dreams The gym rats but together.

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Speaker 4: Well, that was just part of the date. So she

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Speaker 4: did come back to my place and we cooked kind

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Speaker 4: of like a healthy meal.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's cute too, of your health conscious like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: So how was dinner?

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Speaker 4: It was good. Kind of funny situation happened where I

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Speaker 4: was in the other room doing the dishes and I

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Speaker 4: heard my phone beep like a text came through, okay,

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Speaker 4: And I left it in there with her and I

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Speaker 4: was like, hey, can you who texted?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 4: What they said?

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Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa, whoa?

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Speaker 2: Why would you do such a thing?

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Speaker 7: Sir?

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Speaker 3: Extremely trusting?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, my girl. I know. But here's the thing, Like,

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Speaker 2: if I was.

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Speaker 1: On a date, my phone would be inundated with text

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Speaker 1: messages for my friends. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was gonna be like all the naked

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Speaker 3: photos that you've taken, But.

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Speaker 2: No, I said those already I was.

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Speaker 3: On you and I have very different concerns. When it's

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Speaker 3: looking at your phone naked is never an issue for me, gotcha?

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Speaker 3: So you said, hey, take a look at my phone

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Speaker 3: and tell me who texted and what they said?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was kind of surprised. You was like, what,

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Speaker 4: But I don't they give her my path. I don't care.

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Speaker 3: Wow, okay right in yeah, okay.

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Speaker 4: So she tells me it was one of my friends

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Speaker 4: who wanted to know if I'm meeting up tonight, and

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Speaker 4: I answered to respond to him, tell him I'm on

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Speaker 4: a date with a pre girl cooking dinner.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a good line, a green flag, lady.

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Speaker 5: I don't know now, IM straty that you're trying too

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Speaker 3: It's like, I see, you can see it set up.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you had your friend text on purpose at five.

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Speaker 3: Point thirty text me and I'm gonna yeah, you guys.

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Speaker 5: Are not organized, so I doubt it, but I mean,

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Speaker 5: who cares.

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Speaker 2: He just called you pretty.

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Speaker 3: Like I mean.

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Speaker 2: The dishes, right, he's so excited.

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Speaker 3: Can you can you tell us? Was that set up?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh wow that was good, like that very smooth.

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Speaker 2: I mean, could you tell she was flattered?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Sure? Girls like being called pretty, right, I mean, well,

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Speaker 4: and the trust, like you know again, could be too trusting,

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Speaker 4: but it's at least not the opposite where it's like,

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Speaker 4: don look at my phone, give that back.

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Speaker 5: To It's like, really, you have nothing to hide.

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Speaker 3: You're not cheating anyone interesting you probably never thought about that, Paul.

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Speaker 3: But what happened afterwards?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I didn't come back in the room for

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Speaker 4: a few minutes of finishing the dishes and all that.

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Speaker 2: But and that is hot.

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Speaker 3: Can I just say, as a married woman, I understand

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Speaker 3: why you would think it's hot, But alexis I'm I mean.

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Speaker 5: I don't care imagining him?

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Speaker 3: Sure, all right? Is this is sounding pretty good? I think?

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Speaker 3: Did did we miss any details?

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Speaker 4: No, you know that did. I didn't have anything weird

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Speaker 4: or incriminating. I didn't get a bad vibe from her,

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Speaker 4: but you guys are apt and if anything weird happened.

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Speaker 4: So that's the only thing that was out of the ordinary.

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Speaker 4: Kiss her, no kids, But we hugged and she left

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Speaker 2: Okay, have you seen her at the gym?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's certainly been a few days, so I haven't

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Speaker 4: that she's not really into hangout again. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's weird because you were so open with her,

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Speaker 1: Well, and they knew each other pretty I mean, like

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Speaker 3: It is weird to go back to the place you

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Speaker 3: just had a date with a guy, and like were

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Speaker 3: just being over eager. We're just all very eager to

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Speaker 3: some answers for your second date update. Right after this

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Speaker 2: Middle of a second date update update, and we're gonna

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Speaker 2: find out how the couple is doing right after you

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Speaker 2: here Part two.

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Speaker 3: Is it possible to be so open and so trusting

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Speaker 3: that it's actually a turn off? Does that sound funny?

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's what we're wondering after talking to our

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Speaker 3: listener Paul, because he gave his date the password to

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Speaker 3: his cell phone so that she could text a friend

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Speaker 3: his phone go off and was just like, whatever that was,

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Speaker 3: that because he says he's got nothing to hide on there.

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Speaker 3: She can go look through whatever she wants and won't

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Speaker 2: Sure, there's nothing that's weird on your phone?

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Speaker 3: What are you? Oh?

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Speaker 2: You in his mind he said, the pass code.

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Speaker 3: You know, so maybe she found something else that wasn't

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Speaker 1: Right if she's not sketchy but just weirds.

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Speaker 3: Paul, is there anything that you're not telling us? Do

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Speaker 3: you have a furry app on there that you left open?

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Speaker 4: No, guys, I'm serious, I don't have anything weird on there,

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Speaker 4: I promise. Okay.

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Speaker 2: It just sounds like such a nice time.

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, and maybe that's the problem. That was so nice.

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Speaker 3: That was what Alexis said. It's like too nice where

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Speaker 3: it's like this guy's not even fun anymore.

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Speaker 5: You reply, you like reply probably to your friends too,

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Speaker 2: Friends as well.

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Speaker 5: Question we talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Are we giving you a little bit of a complex yet?

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Speaker 4: Paul? Yeah? Maybe? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Hopefully we can find more of your issues when

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Speaker 3: Hey is this Kelly. This is Hey Kelly. You're on

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Speaker 3: the radio right now with a show called Brooke and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey Kelly, good morning, Kelly.

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Speaker 6: Wow, Hey, you know who we are.

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Speaker 2: You've listened to the show for sure.

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Speaker 6: I'm just.

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Speaker 3: TikTok may Yeah, I'll take it. Hey, we'll take you.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you're familiar with us because of our segment the

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Speaker 3: second ate update. Is that how you know us?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I've definitely heard of that.

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Speaker 3: It's not because jose being handsome is so viral.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, darn it, Lay, But.

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Speaker 3: Kelly, we're doing a second ate update right now because

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Speaker 3: of a guy that you went out with recently who's

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I had a feeling that might be what this is

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Speaker 7: about when you said that, Okay, yeah, okay, it sounded.

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Speaker 2: Like such a fun time you and Paul had.

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Speaker 6: The date itself was pretty great, honestly, Like, I don't

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Speaker 3: What did you do? Because we heard that you two

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he did the dishes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just really excited about that.

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Speaker 6: You're not wrong about any of that, Like that's all

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Speaker 3: Wow, what could possibly ruin it?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 6: Like me, me, what do you mean? Oh my god? Okay,

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Speaker 6: So basically he got it as when he was doing

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Speaker 6: his phone was like sitting on the turder. Yeah, so

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Speaker 6: you know about the pass code and everything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, And he even asked you to send a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we guess that maybe you looked at other

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Speaker 6: Not initially, but your girl got a little curious and

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Speaker 6: I went back for seconds. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he did give you the pass code is dang,

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Speaker 1: you're hungry.

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Speaker 3: What did you find?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can't even believe this. Okay, you

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Speaker 1: Oh you went deep into his phone personal Yeah, that

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Speaker 6: So he wrote a bunch of there's a bunch of

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Speaker 6: I even for like businesses. It's not for restaurants. He

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Speaker 3: What he's a public restroom?

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Speaker 2: Do you think he know?

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Speaker 1: Where?

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Speaker 2: Did he like copy and paste him for?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Like, are they jokes?

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Speaker 2: Because that would be that sounds like a joke to me,

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Speaker 6: There is zero percent chance like this came from his soul.

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Speaker 6: He did not write this on a win like there

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Speaker 3: Like, and it's useful because now I know not to

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Speaker 2: You didn't think it was attractive.

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Speaker 6: Honestly, it seemed like a little unhinged that someone would

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Speaker 1: Hey, I think you're trying to find something wrong with

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Speaker 6: Listen, that's just how that's how I felt.

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Speaker 2: And his favorite restroom.

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Speaker 6: Paul, Oh my god, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: What's the bathroom?

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Speaker 2: Or he's a toilet king?

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Speaker 3: Are you feeling based on what you just heard there?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't really see what's the big deal

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm with him.

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Speaker 4: I mean, who wants to eat at a restaurant where

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Speaker 4: the bathroom's filthy? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Right though it?

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Speaker 5: Have you ever looked up the bathroom before you go somewhere?

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Speaker 1: If I went and saw a review for a restaurant,

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Speaker 3: Sorry, you relieve yourself out in the woods.

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Speaker 2: Listen to me, that is clean.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Maybe Paul can leave a review of the bathroom

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Speaker 3: mountain in the in the forest where you tell me

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Speaker 2: How creative those reviews were. I mean, you've got a

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Speaker 3: We've been doing the show for like thirteen years. Brook

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Speaker 3: Public bathroom yelp, toilet was it?

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Speaker 6: Honestly? Like you are gassing me up a little bit,

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Speaker 1: Bit you wow?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Kelly, here's the important question in his apartment? Was

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Speaker 2: Are you asking her to review his Oh no, I

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Speaker 6: But I will say two things. Number One, it was

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Speaker 4: However, thank you.

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Speaker 6: Number two, I do not appreciate the fact that the

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Speaker 1: You just found a man with a clean bathroom that

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Speaker 2: You cannot pass up this opportunity.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It seems to be a pretty big

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Speaker 3: would you give him another shot at a second date

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Speaker 3: and we would pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I take ownership like I should not have gone through

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Speaker 3: Him now suddenly like the most Kelly too.

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Speaker 2: Now she's on board.

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Speaker 4: Paul, I'd love to go out with Kelly against.

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Speaker 2: If they ever get married. They're gonna rent one of

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Speaker 3: Is just your stories always end up in a trailer.

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Speaker 3: They always started.

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Speaker 2: There too, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Brook has never been more excited to have any two

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Speaker 3: you two, and from your email, it sounds like you

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Speaker 4: It's going well. I've been trying to just focus more

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're referring to the negative bathroom reviews that

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Speaker 4: I'm still reviewing, trying not to be too harsh and

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Speaker 3: Okay, but it sounds like maybe that urge to one

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Speaker 4: It still happens, especially around urinals.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, dude, I feel that they don't make any

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Speaker 2: Is so much splatter. I'm with you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you and Brook can talk a little bit

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not about not having anger, it's just about

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll channel it into after this, maybe in the

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Speaker 3: that you're still together and reforming each other and doing well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 3: But keep us updated on your bathroom escapabe. No no, no, Paul,

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