WEBVTT - Cowboy Brown Ambition

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're back. We're black Brown ambition, ambious, ambition, ambition, ambition.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey man, hey man is wearing Black Owned lip lippy

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<v Speaker 2>and this is like her color thank.

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<v Speaker 3>You and the Black Owned. Uh what do you call

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<v Speaker 3>this pullover? This is that brand you told me about ou.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it's really because the red red is giving honeys.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls like the name of the lippy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, so yeah, Tiffany is like, oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>know the odor of that lippy. So my favorite activity

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<v Speaker 3>is shopping the end caps at Target, so like the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the aisles and I always find good stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>So this was like a Black History Month special lip

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<v Speaker 3>kit had a lip pencil and a liquid bat lip

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<v Speaker 3>gloss or whatever lipstick and the color is rich Anti

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<v Speaker 3>rich as it's good. And then the liner it's called

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<v Speaker 3>straight No Chaser.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're not familiar lit the lit the lip

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<v Speaker 1>bar is by Melissa Butler and she was actually on

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<v Speaker 1>Shark Tank and they said, girl, you tried it, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it, and she said, no, you tried it.

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<v Speaker 1>And now she's like one of the I think she's

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<v Speaker 1>like the biggest Black Owned makeup line inside Target. She

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<v Speaker 1>actually has two lines she's got the lip bar. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's Thrive or something like that. Thread. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like this blue line thing that she has. But Melissa

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing. She's been slaying I remember distinctly, like I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the pandemic. She was having a hard time

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, people weren't going outside and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>look cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, took off that.

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<v Speaker 1>She more than rebounded and bounced all the way back.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I her colors are the best one. They last.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, colors are drinking you see all this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, right, so Mandy has a water bottle that she's

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<v Speaker 1>drinking out. I really have to say, like the colors,

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<v Speaker 1>like when I put them on, like whenever, I would

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<v Speaker 1>say eighty percent at a time, when I'm on TV

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, I'm wearing her color because my makeup bars

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<v Speaker 1>can't always come with me and they will last the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. Yeah. So she actually has a place in

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<v Speaker 1>Detroit which I've been to, which is really cute. But

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<v Speaker 1>she's sold in targeted and I think CVS, CBS. She's

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<v Speaker 1>just swaying. She's just like a sassy, beautiful black woman

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<v Speaker 1>that is like what straight out of Detroit. So try

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to so shout out a listen.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's awesome. Well did you have a good B

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<v Speaker 3>Day weekend? I think there might have been another holiday

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<v Speaker 3>this weekend, but it was it was a national holiday.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I actually wished people a happy b Day all

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<v Speaker 3>day I had. And this is I have such a

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<v Speaker 3>heartbreaking story. I feel like every time her everyone. Once

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<v Speaker 3>in a while, I give you like a Mandy adventure

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<v Speaker 3>Adventures of Mandy, where like it is just a clusterfuck

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<v Speaker 3>and the everything goes wrong. And if you're if you

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<v Speaker 3>have kids at home, with little kids, you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>morning routine of getting out the door fed, everything packed up,

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<v Speaker 3>you know things, get the bottles for the baby, and

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<v Speaker 3>get the lunch, and don't forget the water bottle, not

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<v Speaker 3>that water bottle, the new water bottle, not that Yoda one,

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<v Speaker 3>the Yoda one that's metal, not plastic water bottle. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's every day is different. Today we got there

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<v Speaker 3>like thirty minutes late, you know whatever. It's after spring break.

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<v Speaker 3>But on Friday, I booked myself a ninety minute deep

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<v Speaker 3>tissue massage in a ninety minute facial because the skin

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<v Speaker 3>has been just looking haggard. And I was so excited

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<v Speaker 3>plus the new Cowboy Carter album jopped, and I made

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<v Speaker 3>sure I booked the nice spot that's like a little

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't know, like a thirty minute drive away,

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<v Speaker 3>and I thought, ooh, I'll listen to one half on

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<v Speaker 3>the way there, because you know the album time is

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<v Speaker 3>like one minute, one hour and seventeen minutes. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 3>had to be sure I could squeeze it in. And

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<v Speaker 3>then on the way back I listened and maybe I

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<v Speaker 3>listened to it during I don't know. I was gonna

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<v Speaker 3>vibe and it was going to be such an amazing day.

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<v Speaker 3>Drop off the baby drop off. Rio walk up to

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<v Speaker 3>the door and they were like, oh, ma'am, is he

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<v Speaker 3>here for no, there's no school today. It's good Friday

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<v Speaker 3>and we're in a Catholic church and it's closed, so

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<v Speaker 3>you could take your adorable son and good luck too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>And I was devastated, and Rio and sweet Rio, He's like, Mommy,

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<v Speaker 3>don't be sad. I go to your massage. I could go,

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, you could if it was like a

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<v Speaker 3>thirty minute massage, but I can't. It was going to

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<v Speaker 3>be a three hour, you know, minimum experience. I can't.

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<v Speaker 3>There's not enough YouTube in the world to keep him.

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<v Speaker 3>And I also didn't want that to be his day,

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<v Speaker 3>just like ugh, and then I wouldn't be able to

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<v Speaker 3>really relax. So the whole day was fudged, but we

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<v Speaker 3>ended up going It was every every hour, so I

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<v Speaker 3>just wanted to cry. Also, I was out like three

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<v Speaker 3>hundred dollars because yeah, yeah, because I canceled like forty

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<v Speaker 3>five minutes before and there. It's just what a disaster.

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<v Speaker 3>I keep getting the emails like, how would you rate

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<v Speaker 3>our services? I'm like, the services I did not get,

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<v Speaker 3>but that I paid for it's great. But anyway, so

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<v Speaker 3>and I was so frustrated because I didn't get to

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<v Speaker 3>really listen to Beyonce the new album Cowboy Carter until

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<v Speaker 3>the next morning. But it has been because I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to be alone, like in peace, you know, and rio

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<v Speaker 3>is just anyway. But I finally did and I'd be

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<v Speaker 3>listening to it non stop. It's been the soundtrack to

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<v Speaker 3>my weekend and I yeah, whatever, there was another holiday

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<v Speaker 3>this weekend, but it was fantastic. We all got this

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<v Speaker 3>in his Easter basket. I'm holding my book. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 3>going to realize that Easter Buddy is not real if

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<v Speaker 3>I keep doing this kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I remember when I took I took

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<v Speaker 1>so for Carol's, my sister, her fortieth birthday. I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing a was going to a conference in Puerto Rico.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, come and this will be like your birthday presents.

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<v Speaker 1>So she came and Ameliar, her daughter, whose birthday was

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<v Speaker 1>on Friday, Beyonce Day day. She lost her tooth when

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<v Speaker 1>we were away, and my sister Tracy was watching them,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, what are we gonna do? Auntie

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<v Speaker 1>Chichi that's Tracy's nickname. The tooth fairy is in Puerto Rico.

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<v Speaker 1>Please give me that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean real, really, he's like, ooh, a basket

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<v Speaker 3>full of stuff. I like this, but he didn't ask

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<v Speaker 3>too many questions. But yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know how long had to put the confused her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she woke up to Monday. She was like wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>wa a minute. Like Puerto Rico. She was like, girl'll

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<v Speaker 1>try somebody else. Just give me my money. Just you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta just.

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<v Speaker 3>Put heyb a fan. We're gonna take a quick break

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<v Speaker 3>and we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's talk about some of our face. I know

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<v Speaker 1>you you can't pick your favorite and I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>have it. Oh, so there's some ones that like instantly,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sometimes because there's so many songs, it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is it twenty seven song? How many songs?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the thing is twenty seven tracks, not songs. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because there's the interludes with like Willie Nelson and Dolly

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<v Speaker 3>Parks Carton and Linda Martel. Yeah, so I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>it totally be twenty songs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and do those people in there, because she said,

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<v Speaker 1>try somebody else your greats think I'm great.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, she's exactly. Yeah, she's like the king and

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<v Speaker 3>Queen of country. I mean, Willie and Dolly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, you all you know you love you

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<v Speaker 1>will you know the great think I'm great? You know.

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<v Speaker 1>The way she did that said the level of patty

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<v Speaker 1>is just.

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<v Speaker 3>The level of like and you know what, it's that

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<v Speaker 3>classic like in order to do in order to be received, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to you can't. There's no margin for error

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<v Speaker 3>as a black woman, like you have to get the

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<v Speaker 3>white the great white co sign, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Although I don't think it was as trife like as

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<v Speaker 3>I think she really did it from a place of like,

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<v Speaker 3>I respect these icons and there was oh but this

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<v Speaker 3>was a black and this is a Beyonce album. I

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<v Speaker 3>really get it when she said, this is not a

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<v Speaker 3>country album, It's a Beyonce album. And I'm just so grateful.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so grateful to be living in the time of Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I feel like everybody who came up

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<v Speaker 3>in the eighties, like in their twenties and really got

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<v Speaker 3>to be there for the Michael era, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, the Michael Jackson era and the Prince era.

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<v Speaker 3>And people keep saying that, oh, she's our generations, Michael

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<v Speaker 3>and Prince and all that, and I do and Tina Turner,

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<v Speaker 3>which is, yes, totally fair, but we are so fortunate

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<v Speaker 3>because she is so healthy that I don't think she's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna die, like at a very young age, Like she's

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<v Speaker 3>not going to ode. And I'm just like, in the

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<v Speaker 3>body of work, we all know, like there were the

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<v Speaker 3>classic albums from these artists and they were huge and

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<v Speaker 3>they were the soundtrack of a generation. But I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like she's the soundtrack of like two generations now because

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<v Speaker 3>she still keeps putting out incredible bodies of work, like.

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<v Speaker 1>ABC Easier Jackson. This is true, you know, Michael's right,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael's like, hola, hold on, I'm gonna let you cook.

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<v Speaker 3>But okay, in his last couple of albums like where

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<v Speaker 3>are they giving.

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<v Speaker 1>For a no no no no, but think about you

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<v Speaker 1>have to think from from ABC all the way too

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<v Speaker 1>bad like that, you know, and that's when he was

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<v Speaker 1>like fully grown but you I mean, he gave you

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<v Speaker 1>thriller which had like every single one was the number one,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So I'm not saying obviously Beyonce is amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>But what I am saying is that like, yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>like and similar to Beyonce, because one day we'll be

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<v Speaker 1>looking back and being like Wall, whoa Wall. Don't forget

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<v Speaker 1>Danky's child, right, she was a child. She so we

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<v Speaker 1>got to see her. You know, we haven't even seen her.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think at her peak. But okay, so so

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<v Speaker 1>far the three songs that make me say yes, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>we have to stand for Jolene. Okay, Joline. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>what I love about Joelne is that she said play

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody else, because if you listen to the Dolly

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<v Speaker 1>Parton version, nothing like Dolly Parton's version, very beautiful obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>but in that version, like Dolly Parton is saying, please

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<v Speaker 1>don't steal my man, and Beyonce said, girl, pick somebody

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<v Speaker 1>off before. I think, coming from a space of like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for your own good, you know, like don't

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<v Speaker 1>waste your time. She said, don't don't come from my

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<v Speaker 1>man because we're not we're not pleading, we're not asking.

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<v Speaker 1>It's happening like do you want to I'm still a

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<v Speaker 1>creole from Louisiana. Okay, So she said, yeah, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you don't want none of this, so that I

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<v Speaker 1>loved the intonation. But plus, Joline is just like iconic,

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<v Speaker 1>like Dollie obviously iconic. And then also to Miley. Miley

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<v Speaker 1>Cyrus did a version which was also really beautiful. But

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<v Speaker 1>Miley Cyrus's version was very like the.

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<v Speaker 3>Same lyricism to the original.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you know, but but no, Beyonce said, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're actually not asking. You could just see her bat

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<v Speaker 1>in hand, like, yeah, did you hear what I said? Jolie,

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<v Speaker 1>come here if you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Julie, Julie. I love the beginning where it's like like

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<v Speaker 3>the echoes Jolie, and not only that, but the sequel

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<v Speaker 3>to Joline Daughter right after that, like I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if you listen to that enough. But I did not

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<v Speaker 3>run to Joline because I figured it would just be

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<v Speaker 3>a remake. And then I heard Blackbird, which is beautiful,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was like ready for the original music. So

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<v Speaker 3>but then when I went to I'm like, oh, it

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<v Speaker 3>is an original Joline.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the Daughter after that the sequel where like

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<v Speaker 3>she goes and Jolene tries it and then we find

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<v Speaker 3>out what happens to her and daughter and okay, but

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<v Speaker 3>keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>So you love Joline, no, no, And so my favorite,

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<v Speaker 1>hands down is Blackbird. Okay singing then the Dead, I'm not, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. I love that song prior, but I

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<v Speaker 1>take these Broken Wings and learned the fly. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really mournful and beautiful, but then I learned the history.

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<v Speaker 1>I just always liked that song.

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<v Speaker 3>I never knew this either.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, like so for those who don't know the history.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was written by palmerccartney of the Beatles, and

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<v Speaker 1>he wrote it wrote it during the sixties when all

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<v Speaker 1>the racial unheaval was at It's like, I mean, we've

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<v Speaker 1>had our peaks since then, but it was really like

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<v Speaker 1>at a at a fever pitch you know, he was

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<v Speaker 1>watching you know, people being hosed down, people being attacked

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<v Speaker 1>by dogs. You know, like when everything was publicized, not

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<v Speaker 1>publicized on everything was on TV, you got to really

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<v Speaker 1>see what it looked like to be black fighting for

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<v Speaker 1>your right, you know, rights in America. And so as

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<v Speaker 1>a musician, like so many musicians, he wanted to express

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<v Speaker 1>how he was feeling, but also to do something in

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<v Speaker 1>solidarity with and so he said, I'm going to write

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<v Speaker 1>this song and he called it black Bird. Black obviously

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<v Speaker 1>in in tribute to black people, but bird was a

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<v Speaker 1>it was like just like a slang for what they

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<v Speaker 1>call girls in Europe and England or whatever, and so

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<v Speaker 1>not not a the derogatory slang, but just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like you know how like because when we say

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<v Speaker 1>bird now it means like I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean, you're like, yeah, it's because it doesn't in her song,

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<v Speaker 3>which seemed like yes.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, but is using it the way we

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<v Speaker 1>use it like modern you know, because if you're a

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<v Speaker 1>bird now that means basically the word bird now comes

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<v Speaker 1>from the chickenhead, like your chickenhead, like you're but back

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<v Speaker 1>then bird was just like a girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, so Blackbird because he wouldn't have used the

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<v Speaker 1>word bird. It was disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't and it was supposed to beel like a

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<v Speaker 3>quiet protest or like a solidarity, which is so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>So singing it but not really knowing it was a yes, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just love that. Like so like the first

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<v Speaker 1>couple of lines, blackbird singing in the dead of night,

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<v Speaker 1>take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life,

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<v Speaker 1>you were only waiting for this moment to arise. Blackbirds

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<v Speaker 1>singing in the dead of night, Take these sunken nies

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<v Speaker 1>and learn to see all your life. You were only

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for this moment to be free, or this moment

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<v Speaker 1>to be And so it's just so beautiful. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like and so Beyonce stayed very close to like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the underlying like melody. And what I love is that

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<v Speaker 1>she had four other black country singers on this record

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<v Speaker 1>with her and they just it's just it's beautiful, it's haunting,

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<v Speaker 1>it's beautiful. It's hands down, I probably listened to That's

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<v Speaker 1>already fifty times already. It's my favorites thus far on

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<v Speaker 1>the album, just because when I listened to it, actually

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<v Speaker 1>like it tears me up knowing that like the origin

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<v Speaker 1>and who she's really singing it for, so it's more

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<v Speaker 1>than just the song, it's like the meaning behind us.

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<v Speaker 1>So that is hands down right now my favorite, just

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<v Speaker 1>because of the meaning behind it, and it also it's

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<v Speaker 1>just beautifully.

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<v Speaker 3>Sund And you know, that's another one where I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I listened to the first verse and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>that's pretty, pretty, pretty skip because I didn't hear the

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<v Speaker 3>other women because they have their own verses. Just I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, so eager to get to the new stuff anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>but yes, going back, it is an exquisite song, and

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<v Speaker 3>to hear those other voices, what a beautiful way. She's

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<v Speaker 3>just like always chef's kiss, like let me actually get

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<v Speaker 3>some black. It's like her nod to the up and

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<v Speaker 3>comers who are who are who were here doing the

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<v Speaker 3>thing before Beyonce, you know, because she could overshadow by

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<v Speaker 3>just she is the sun, right so she could outshine

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<v Speaker 3>a lot, but she doesn't choose to. She's like, let

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<v Speaker 3>me take my son and shine on y'all, which I

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<v Speaker 3>think is such an element of her power and why

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<v Speaker 3>she's so amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>But also to like the fact that she chose that song,

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<v Speaker 1>like especially in the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Like now yeah she got it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Still yeah, it's still a protest song, like no, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just yes exactly. So so what about you? So what

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<v Speaker 1>is another what's one that made you say, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So American Requiem the first track, girl, this, I

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<v Speaker 3>just this is not what you guys. You didn't come

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<v Speaker 3>to be a fam You didn't come to brand ambition

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<v Speaker 3>for a Beyonce like to go through every single track

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<v Speaker 3>you can listen to.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna do every single track, but we gotta give.

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<v Speaker 3>Say I have I could have a master's degree in

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<v Speaker 3>her music, and like American Requiem is like me too exquisite.

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<v Speaker 3>So layered the lyrics, the name of the song requiem,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, something that you would perform and sing at

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<v Speaker 3>a burial, a ceremonial sort of song, and the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that it's a can requiem and some of the lyrics

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<v Speaker 3>like the big ideas are buried here, and just the

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<v Speaker 3>haunting like quality of her voice and the way that

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<v Speaker 3>she uses her instrument in so many different ways is

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<v Speaker 3>just so exquisite. And to have that be the entry

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<v Speaker 3>way she's saying so much she's sang so much with

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<v Speaker 3>that song. It's like it's it's laying the foundation for

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<v Speaker 3>the rest of the record, like can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 3>Will you stand with me? It's time to face the wind,

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<v Speaker 3>It's time to stop playing pretend like it's time to

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<v Speaker 3>like embrace the good. And also for those who like

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<v Speaker 3>she actually answers people who did not want her to

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<v Speaker 3>go into country, who said when she went on the

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<v Speaker 3>Cmas with the Chicks back when she had Daddy lessens out,

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<v Speaker 3>said like, what are you doing here? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>And why are you here? Like this, You're not you're

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<v Speaker 3>a pop artist, your R and B. You're not You're urban,

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<v Speaker 3>you're not country. And she's like, well, let me remind

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<v Speaker 3>you who I am, Like let me educate y'all. And

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<v Speaker 3>where I come from. I love that, like Louisiana, Alabama,

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<v Speaker 3>like the creole. Yes, why didn't you say the daughter

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<v Speaker 3>of a moonshiner, granddaughter of a moonshe They.

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<v Speaker 1>Said that girl the way.

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<v Speaker 3>She want way back in the history of books.

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<v Speaker 1>That part when she opens with that part and the

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<v Speaker 1>lines after that, it's like that of a moonshiner. She

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<v Speaker 1>talks about Georgia, but she said something else. They I

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<v Speaker 1>have to look it up because I was hollowing when

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you I was. I took like a two

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<v Speaker 1>hour walk just so I can listen. Yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>know we were in the street like I'm gonna need

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<v Speaker 1>you to I was like girl by somebody else, but

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<v Speaker 1>I live in a black neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 3>So they weren't. Yes anyway, Oh so good. And then

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the album Amen, like it's just she

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<v Speaker 3>and it sounds just it really gave me and I

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<v Speaker 3>read later, I read the press release from Parkwood, which

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think they've really given a press release about

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<v Speaker 3>an album where Beyonce is being interviewed and actually shares

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<v Speaker 3>the making of the album, like some of the back

0:17:57.400 --> 0:18:00.760
<v Speaker 3>behind the scenes. But she was inspired by all these

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<v Speaker 3>old Western films and the way the album is like

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<v Speaker 3>it starts and ends with that same sound. It very

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<v Speaker 3>much was giving. Like if you watch any old films

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<v Speaker 3>from the fifties, like even Bambi, like my son Loves Bambi,

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<v Speaker 3>they start with this big, like like very like orchestral

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<v Speaker 3>sort of opening and it's sort of mirrors at the end,

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<v Speaker 3>and it just the whole thing was like very seepy,

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<v Speaker 3>a toned and like just stunning. So I love that song.

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<v Speaker 3>I love there's too many. I love Levi's jeans. I

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<v Speaker 3>love them. Yeah, yeah alone it's so sixties.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I've heard of him, you know, but I

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<v Speaker 1>never really got to his music.

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<v Speaker 3>Said he's saying, what did he sing at the super Bowl?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it America the beautiful? Or was it the whole beautiful?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it the band or I don't know. He's saying

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<v Speaker 3>something he does.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but Levi's I say, let me other postings to

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<v Speaker 1>post support.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, uh, river Dance, which I love that Beyonce

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<v Speaker 3>is still she's so exquisite, so but she can she

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<v Speaker 3>does ratchet like no one else, and she does sexy

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<v Speaker 3>like I mean, I feel like river Dance and even

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<v Speaker 3>Levi's a little bit. Those were like the drunken loves

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<v Speaker 3>it really and I even felt like some of these

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<v Speaker 3>the sounds that she used, a way that she sang

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<v Speaker 3>was very like reminiscent of her Lemonade era and just

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<v Speaker 3>giving us like so many different genres. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like there was rock, of course, there was country,

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<v Speaker 3>but there was still soul, there were still RB and B,

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<v Speaker 3>there was still she gave us Opera and daughter yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the Opera Girls was going up. Apparently the aria

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<v Speaker 1>that she sung in that song is from a book

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<v Speaker 1>of like arias that if you are going to learn opera,

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<v Speaker 1>your opera singer, your opera teacher is going to give

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<v Speaker 1>you this like top twenty five book of books of aria,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is the aria that almost everyone starts with.

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<v Speaker 1>And I forget the meaning behind that aria, but like

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<v Speaker 1>the Opera Girls were gagging, honey, they were all over

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<v Speaker 1>the ticks and the talks and the id giving us

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<v Speaker 1>all the tea. Just so you know this is intentional.

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<v Speaker 1>It was yeah, Beyonce, I just girl, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And then Protector of course Lulla by such a sweet song.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah. Uh. You know. It's funny with these albums,

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<v Speaker 3>with Renaissance and now with Cowboy Carter. I listened to

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<v Speaker 3>them all the way through. They're so beautiful listening together,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know the names of the songs while

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<v Speaker 3>I'm listening to them, so sometimes I'm like, what is

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<v Speaker 3>this one called? And I'm like, oh, I like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>but I think I've listened to them enough to recognize.

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<v Speaker 3>But Riverdance yeah yeah, oh my not Bodyguard six and

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<v Speaker 3>then Ria not Enrique Rio singing sixteen carriages because I've

0:20:39.520 --> 0:20:45.399
<v Speaker 3>been walking around house sixteen He's like sixteen cabbages. I

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<v Speaker 3>love that. Oh they say Texas, Yes, all of it.

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<v Speaker 3>So just if everyone, if you, if you're if you've been,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, vibing with the Cowboy Carter album, I'm right

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<v Speaker 3>there with you. It is so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I found interesting? Did you did you see that?

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<v Speaker 1>Beyonce said this was actually supposed to come out before Renaissance. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was part of that crusturely he said, after riot,

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<v Speaker 1>but after the pandemic, she was like, people deserve to

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<v Speaker 1>dance and something lighthearted, and she knew, just imagine knowing

0:21:14.720 --> 0:21:16.720
<v Speaker 1>you're so powerful that you're like, let me change the

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<v Speaker 1>mood of the nation with my.

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<v Speaker 3>Ay, right, and did and did and did.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we all got to party and had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time.

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<v Speaker 3>I did need it to be outside last summer at

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<v Speaker 3>that huge show. Yes, you know, yes, exquisite.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's bring it on back to the financial part, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So how did I want to see the uptick of

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<v Speaker 1>LEVI sales? Because we're going to see it cowboy esque

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<v Speaker 1>things like I know, cowboy hats, like when this when

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<v Speaker 1>this concert comes out, I mean, I just cannot wait

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<v Speaker 1>to see.

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<v Speaker 3>Expect a tour like she's so she just doesn't do

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<v Speaker 3>Like the way that she did a traditional album release

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<v Speaker 3>is so different to what she had been doing, just

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<v Speaker 3>dropping a whole album and the visual We never got

0:22:01.160 --> 0:22:04.480
<v Speaker 3>visuals for you know, Renaissance. We got the tour, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what to expect. There's still gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>an Act three and like what, I don't know. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, what do you think? You think three is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be rock?

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<v Speaker 3>I would love that because remember one of my favorite

0:22:15.760 --> 0:22:19.040
<v Speaker 3>songs from Lemonade was Oh when she was wearing the

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<v Speaker 3>corn rows, what's it called with the black? The black

0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:23.920
<v Speaker 3>not the black stripes, the white stripes? Guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Where she was like real angry, Who the fuck do

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<v Speaker 3>you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I is this boy.

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<v Speaker 3>To the next boy? Anyway? You just got a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit anyway that song, I don't know the name of it,

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<v Speaker 3>I forget now, but that was so good. And the

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<v Speaker 3>way she does that, she gives lots of rock. She

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<v Speaker 3>gave like I heard like Stevie Wonder. I'm sitting here

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<v Speaker 3>like and I'm trying to like this sounds a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit familiar. He Stevie wonder I heard Fleetwood Mac. I

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<v Speaker 3>was hearing, Yeah, I was hearing even a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of like the Eagles. My mom loved the Eagles growing up,

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit of that, like kind of Western rock style.

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<v Speaker 3>I would be so here for a rock album, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>she's too good. I don't know how.

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<v Speaker 1>I just she's peerless. Want to collect. Let's be wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Beyonce is peerless. She is one of points zero zero

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<v Speaker 1>zero zero zero one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And she is a student of music and of her

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<v Speaker 1>art and her craft.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is a joy to watch her create and share.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah and so and she literally, if we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>bring it back to the brown ambition of it all,

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<v Speaker 1>she shifts economies with the choices that she makes. Like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that dinner. I don't know if you remember

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<v Speaker 1>that time. Not that time that Oprah was being sued

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<v Speaker 1>by the beef industry.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, because what she brought.

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<v Speaker 1>Up because she she said no, she said something like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eat meat anymore, whatever, and then meat meat

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<v Speaker 1>stocks plummeting or something, or meet sales plummeted, and they

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<v Speaker 1>sued her because they said that her voice is so powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>If she says the thing, it's going to affect the market.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she ended up not being found not guilty

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like, well, I mean I say lots of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it wasn't like she said don't buy that

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<v Speaker 1>stock and so that was just but.

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<v Speaker 4>It just goes to show that, you know, there are

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<v Speaker 4>some people who the power is so strong that they

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<v Speaker 4>literally can shift in economic cycle.

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<v Speaker 1>They can literally sell out. It's not just about selling

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<v Speaker 1>out concert tours in this point, you know. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I'm telling Swift. We've seen this with her too,

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<v Speaker 1>right that like certain things, it's like, Yo, Beyonce puts

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<v Speaker 1>it out and we're buying cowboy hats and boots and Levi's.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're going on tour sists, we're going to be red,

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<v Speaker 1>going to be hockey stop it.

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<v Speaker 3>And you want to and you'd want to take your

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<v Speaker 3>time with it, you know. And having now in my

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<v Speaker 3>third week of owning the Sacred Line, her hair care line,

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<v Speaker 3>and being so like, if she sells it, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to buy it, like I because the care

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<v Speaker 3>and even while I was doing the it makes me

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<v Speaker 3>slow down. The Sacred Hair care Line because it's very

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:15.879
<v Speaker 3>like things take twenty minutes and I understand, And a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of it is called the ritual, the sacred this,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, this is like a sacred ritual taking

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<v Speaker 3>care of my hair, which I haven't felt in a while.

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<v Speaker 3>Like she makes me feel better and to and the

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<v Speaker 3>music and the experiences as well. It makes us like

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<v Speaker 3>slow put thought into something the way that she puts

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<v Speaker 3>thought into every single thing that she does publicly, which

0:25:38.480 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 3>might be like a little I don't know, that's just

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<v Speaker 3>that's how I feel like. You want to, like, you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to show up to be in her presence,

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:48.679
<v Speaker 3>even if she'll never see you not being at your

0:25:48.880 --> 0:25:51.200
<v Speaker 3>because she gives you that right, she gives you that perfection.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to like match that exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, be a fan. We're going to take a quick

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<v Speaker 1>break and we'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know when the hell is the Renaissance

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<v Speaker 3>documentary gonna be streaming? Because I never got to see

0:26:07.160 --> 0:26:11.080
<v Speaker 3>it in theaters because too much was life was lifing,

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 3>too much, and I'm so desperate to see it. Did

0:26:14.240 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 3>you ever see it in theaters?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Because I don't say it was a really crazy

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<v Speaker 1>time during that time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but yep, we'll be reading this bed time story

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<v Speaker 3>tonight to be a little Golden book of the Beyonce Book. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>how are you texting? Is its? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, you know, when you're when you're renovating,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I told the pain there painted this. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the collar.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, did you give him his hoodie back? Hate? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, Antonio, we have this amazing painter. He's great.

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<v Speaker 1>But well, one I one day, I was like, we

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<v Speaker 1>both wore a black hoodie one day and I wore

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<v Speaker 1>his all the way home, like what is this? And

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<v Speaker 1>it was not my hoodie because Antonio's is not very

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<v Speaker 1>man on the shorter side.

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<v Speaker 3>But also it's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>It just goes to show you that through your passion

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 1>and your excellence and your joy that it also there

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<v Speaker 1>is an economic whether it's you being a really great teacher,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's an economic impact for bringing your full self.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's just say, like, let's just say in the

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<v Speaker 1>case of a teacher, if I'm this really awesome teacher,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I do such a good job that

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<v Speaker 1>I spark interest in my kids like that I teach,

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<v Speaker 1>they can go on to do things that will then

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<v Speaker 1>make this world better, whether they're a doctor or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean that, Like I think that

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all things intermingle, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And certainly, like maybe Beyonce, you know, hundreds of millions

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<v Speaker 1>of dollars, but who's to say that your impact as

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<v Speaker 1>a teacher is also not hundreds of millions of dollars

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<v Speaker 1>because of the hundreds of students that you've taught in

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<v Speaker 1>your lifetime, if not thousands, and just a handful of

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<v Speaker 1>them shaping the way the world comes comes to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just like but like or like you might

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<v Speaker 1>be a salesperson, you know, like at like a foot locker,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're thinking, well, what how do I shape you know,

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:15.080
<v Speaker 1>what happens economically? Well, that's not true because if you're

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>really passionate knowledge that knowledgeable about like say a certain

0:28:18.520 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 1>pair of sneakers, you can literally start a trend in

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:23.239
<v Speaker 1>that store, and then that trend takes off and all

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:26.199
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, we're all wearing like sambas. But it

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<v Speaker 1>really started in this one store in Detroit because there's

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<v Speaker 1>one really passionate, you know person you know working at

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<v Speaker 1>foot lockers. So I just like it just is fascinating

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<v Speaker 1>to me, like what joy and excellence and focus can

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<v Speaker 1>bring not just in your life personally, but there's an

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>economic ripple, like you know, like no matter where you are,

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:47.600
<v Speaker 1>you can ripple.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I would like just even half of one ripple,

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<v Speaker 3>Like okay, yes, well they have right now. I feel

0:28:57.520 --> 0:29:01.280
<v Speaker 3>like a startup owner, a startup founder who's like, please

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<v Speaker 3>invest in my business. I need thirty million dollars. I

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 3>have one billion dollars in debt. We are stars are

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<v Speaker 3>never profitable for like twenty years or something. That's what

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<v Speaker 3>it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Big, Like you know, you don't know what your baby's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna cost and your.

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:15.960
<v Speaker 3>Baby's baby baby big.

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<v Speaker 1>That big no no, but I love that though, just

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, we just don't know because look, I think

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:27.600
<v Speaker 1>think about like how many women that you've helped right

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<v Speaker 1>negotiate and make more money?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, Like if you think about absolutely, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, like your dad and mom

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<v Speaker 1>being you know who they are, for you created a

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy that comes out into the world and says, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna help Mandy's money makers. And we don't know some

0:29:44.040 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 1>of the women that you've helped whose children they're raising. Yeah,

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:48.920
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like the kids, Like, you know,

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have enough money, but now my kid I

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<v Speaker 1>have enough for them to take violin lessons, only to

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<v Speaker 1>find out twenty years later they're like this violin prodigy

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>that and you might not ever know that, but you

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>played a role because you helped her. And so isn't

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:02.800
<v Speaker 1>that such a beautiful thing that like when you go

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<v Speaker 1>out and you do the thing, you know that you're

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<v Speaker 1>here to do. You know, you might not know, but

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:11.800
<v Speaker 1>we're all planning c and so just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't you can't know they outcome, but certainly you

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<v Speaker 1>can know like I'm going to do my best to

0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>put the best thing out there. So yeah, we get

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<v Speaker 1>to do amazing work like we might.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a really good grounding thought, just to like if

0:30:24.680 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 3>you're wondering, if you're feeling like overwhelmed, the thing is

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 3>you have to do just like do the thing and

0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:32.960
<v Speaker 3>you can't control like what ripples you know come from it,

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<v Speaker 3>but yes, just have faith in doing that thing and

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:42.720
<v Speaker 3>putting good out into the world. Yeah, like Lady b Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I love her.

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<v Speaker 1>Should we take a break or do have some more things?

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<v Speaker 1>I know we had other things to chat expect.

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<v Speaker 3>Mostly on we didn't want to talk about beyond sady war. Okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 3>oh okay, So brown boost or not brown Boost? Sorry, buzzworthy, buzzword.

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<v Speaker 3>This is a part of the show, or we try

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<v Speaker 3>to come up with some you know, useful information from

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 3>the headlines. Let's see, California fast food workers are now

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<v Speaker 3>make you twenty dollars an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're getting also let go.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you see. I'm not surprised. Yeah, fast food workers

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<v Speaker 3>in California at chains with more than sixty national locations

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<v Speaker 3>now earned twenty dollars an hour. Yeah, but they're getting

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 3>let go. Like, so, how are they getting around it?

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<v Speaker 3>Because they still need workers for their stores, right. Some

0:31:33.000 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 3>affected chains have.

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<v Speaker 1>Responded, No, I think I saw somewhere that they're automated.

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<v Speaker 1>They're leaning into AI and automation. I've gone to somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>ye where it's like you literally order your thing there

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<v Speaker 1>and there's maybe one perserver in the back that makes

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<v Speaker 1>the food and fringshakeshack.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah. Some affected chains have responded to the wage

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<v Speaker 3>hike by slashing their workforces and hiking their medu prices.

0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 3>Pizza chains like Papa John's Pizza Hut, laid off drivers, McDonald's,

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<v Speaker 3>wigs Op, Chipotle are going to pass on the higher

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<v Speaker 3>labor costs to their customers by making their menu items

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<v Speaker 3>more expensive. Listen, inflation is still inflation. This is literally

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 3>inflation at work. You know, wages go up, which is great,

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 3>but then the cost of goods can also go up.

0:32:17.600 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 3>So if you like these restaurants, better hope that you're

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<v Speaker 3>also getting a raise to keep affording yikes. The other

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<v Speaker 3>sort of side of inflation, the inflation conversation has been,

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<v Speaker 3>now that the Fed is getting involved and they've been

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<v Speaker 3>slowly decreasing rates, do they do their first rate decrease yet?

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<v Speaker 3>I forget they're going to or they they would be Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>all sides are pourting toward twenty twenty four being the

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<v Speaker 3>year when rates start to come down the federal FED rate,

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<v Speaker 3>So mortgage prices are indirectly tied to that rate, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and mortgage rates have been super high, like seven percent.

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<v Speaker 1>Although they have gone down some, they've come which I think.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about the Fed rate, but I know mortgage.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think they did lower it. So anyhow, I

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<v Speaker 3>read this article that was talking about Okay, so if

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<v Speaker 3>we can expect rates to go down in twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 3>Should people who were interested in buying a home but

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<v Speaker 3>have been holding back, like me, for example, because of

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:21.080
<v Speaker 3>how high rates are, like advising people to go ahead

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<v Speaker 3>and get a house and then you can refinance when

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<v Speaker 3>rates do fall, which I was like, oh, that makes sense,

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<v Speaker 3>But then I'm thinking, well, we're kind of trying to

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<v Speaker 3>predict the future of markets, which is one you make

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<v Speaker 3>if you want to be right, then just if you

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 3>want to be wrong, trying to predict what any market

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<v Speaker 3>or rates are going to be doing. It's how I feel,

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<v Speaker 3>And it's a really expensive like bet to make because

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<v Speaker 3>a six percent interest rate, how long could it take

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<v Speaker 3>to get back down to the two point four percent

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<v Speaker 3>that it was? I don't think that's what I refined

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<v Speaker 3>last time. Yeah, it's And not only that, but I

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<v Speaker 3>bought my house at twenty eighteen. I refinanced at twenty

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<v Speaker 3>twenty one, so that was a three years I was

0:34:03.720 --> 0:34:06.360
<v Speaker 3>paying that higher like four percent rate.

0:34:06.920 --> 0:34:08.359
<v Speaker 1>Like, which is a great rate.

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was lucky the timing, but I mean, yeah,

0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 3>so I just I went from being like, oh, yeah,

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:16.200
<v Speaker 3>maybe I should just go ahead and buy to like,

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 3>oh wait, maybe don't like, maybe just base something on

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 3>your own ability and your desire to buy something. Their

0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 3>rationale was that when rates do start to go down,

0:34:28.080 --> 0:34:30.720
<v Speaker 3>people will start flooding the market, and like home prices

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:34.520
<v Speaker 3>could go up as a result. But again, trying to

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 3>time the housing market, it's so difficult to do. I

0:34:38.640 --> 0:34:40.279
<v Speaker 3>got lucky once. I don't know if luck's going to

0:34:40.320 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 3>happen twice for me in terms of my timing when

0:34:43.160 --> 0:34:46.560
<v Speaker 3>buying a house. But if y'all are like me, stuck

0:34:46.560 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 3>in a starter home and bursting at the seams, I

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:55.759
<v Speaker 3>really really feel your pain. How many bedrooms it's a

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 3>very cute three bedroom, two and a half bath and

0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:02.320
<v Speaker 3>well actually two yeah, two and to a half baths.

0:35:03.360 --> 0:35:05.560
<v Speaker 3>It's a yeah, it literally is a starter home in

0:35:05.600 --> 0:35:09.840
<v Speaker 3>a neighborhood full of them, and uh, yeah, we are.

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:13.640
<v Speaker 3>I've actually started to just pack things away, like just

0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 3>pack up things that we don't need anymore, but we

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.280
<v Speaker 3>don't want to get rid of because I was getting

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:18.800
<v Speaker 3>rid of so much stuff, and I'm like, this stuff

0:35:18.880 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 3>is good, Like I don't want to just but I

0:35:21.120 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 3>don't have the space for this. So yeah, I've I've

0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:27.040
<v Speaker 3>been pretending like we're going to pack up and move.

0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:30.359
<v Speaker 3>I just don't know when or where, and that's kind

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:34.280
<v Speaker 3>of helping. But yeah, the stuff, it's a constant battle

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 3>against stuff in this house.

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:36.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's a lot of people who are in the

0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 1>starter home stuck right now, who who got great rates

0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 1>and they're.

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:42.080
<v Speaker 3>Like, ah, yeah, I don't want to go my rate.

0:35:42.160 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, yeah, you know, like we

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 1>want something bigger, but homes are only getting more and

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:50.280
<v Speaker 1>more expensive, and then rates are also. It's a really

0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:53.480
<v Speaker 1>difficult time. It used to be like, oh, it's so

0:35:53.600 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 1>great for buyers, but that means it's terrible for sellers,

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 1>or it's so great for sellers and it's terrible for buyers.

0:35:58.040 --> 0:35:59.520
<v Speaker 1>And what you just see now is like it's hard

0:35:59.560 --> 0:36:02.480
<v Speaker 1>for very mindy right now everybody, you know. Sellers are like,

0:36:02.520 --> 0:36:05.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to lose lose my rate, and the

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:07.160
<v Speaker 1>buyers are like, yeah, I can't afford it even if

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 1>you do, like you know, unless you're gonna assume someone's

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:15.480
<v Speaker 1>a loan. Yeah, it's something a tricky financial.

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:17.719
<v Speaker 3>Time right now, very tricky. Well, you're listening to the

0:36:17.760 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 3>right podcast if you want somehow it's going to be true.

0:36:22.400 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I just will just you know, sometimes it's

0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:28.520
<v Speaker 3>like it's harder to make financial choices when you don't

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 3>have some kind of huge event that forces you to

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 3>make a decision, Like you get a new job at

0:36:34.520 --> 0:36:36.480
<v Speaker 3>a different state. Well that I got to do something,

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:41.000
<v Speaker 3>you know, Like just those situations are they may not

0:36:41.120 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 3>happen when you want them to, but it's a little

0:36:43.719 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 3>liberating when you don't really have a choice. You just

0:36:46.200 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 3>got to like do something. But when you have all

0:36:47.840 --> 0:36:50.600
<v Speaker 3>this time to think into all that, Like, I think

0:36:50.640 --> 0:36:56.120
<v Speaker 3>my advice is just to try, Like, following the herd

0:36:56.320 --> 0:37:00.279
<v Speaker 3>is rarely the right financial decision at all. And if

0:37:00.320 --> 0:37:02.760
<v Speaker 3>you're buying the house or play the log gabe anyway,

0:37:02.880 --> 0:37:06.279
<v Speaker 3>so just continue to play that log gabe and I

0:37:06.320 --> 0:37:09.160
<v Speaker 3>would not follow. I would not follow this advice right now,

0:37:09.280 --> 0:37:13.480
<v Speaker 3>even though I almost did for five seconds. I'll keep waiting.

0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 3>I'm so congested. Do I sound like curb it?

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh? You're all right?

0:37:18.520 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 3>Okay, tis the season for allergies, y'all.

0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:22.879
<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not gonna lie. My eyes are burning

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:24.840
<v Speaker 1>right now, if I'm being all the way honest, Like

0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 1>it's it's cherry blossom's season, which is beautiful, but then

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:31.800
<v Speaker 1>it's pillen season, which is not so beautiful, but we

0:37:31.920 --> 0:37:33.759
<v Speaker 1>all want the bees to get their food or whatever.

0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:39.319
<v Speaker 1>So just a little update, Chiall, I remember remember last

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:41.840
<v Speaker 1>was it last week, Mandy when I talked about the scam?

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.959
<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yes, it was last week. It was your broad break,

0:37:45.040 --> 0:37:45.480
<v Speaker 3>I think.

0:37:46.600 --> 0:37:49.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, So I had talked about the scam that's happening.

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:52.880
<v Speaker 1>So the premise of the scam is people someone reaches

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:54.719
<v Speaker 1>out to you and says, hey, do you want to

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:58.560
<v Speaker 1>do this podcast? It's paid, it's going to happen on

0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Facebook Live, and you have to give me some back end,

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:04.000
<v Speaker 1>like you have to link me back end, And like

0:38:04.080 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I said, this is not uncommon because I have done

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.160
<v Speaker 1>it before with larger brands, and that's exactly what it

0:38:09.200 --> 0:38:14.160
<v Speaker 1>looks like. So apparently it's this scam that they get

0:38:14.360 --> 0:38:17.360
<v Speaker 1>access to your back end and as a result of

0:38:17.440 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 1>getting access to your back end, they basically kick you

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:21.960
<v Speaker 1>out and then now they have control of your of

0:38:22.080 --> 0:38:22.719
<v Speaker 1>your platform.

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:24.040
<v Speaker 3>So I don't know.

0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I just thought it wasn't. I knew it wasn't a

0:38:25.680 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 1>one off because I had done a Google search and

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:29.440
<v Speaker 1>realized there was other people, but I didn't realize that

0:38:29.480 --> 0:38:31.840
<v Speaker 1>there were people who I knew, like Chessca Lee on

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:34.200
<v Speaker 1>she's a big YouTuber back in the day and she's

0:38:34.239 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 1>the actress now and writer and such. She shared how

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:40.200
<v Speaker 1>it happened to her and a bunch of her other friends.

0:38:40.239 --> 0:38:42.879
<v Speaker 1>So they're going after people with large Facebook So they're

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.839
<v Speaker 1>going after not just people with large Facebook followings, people

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:49.760
<v Speaker 1>with large Facebook followings who also do speaking engagements and stuff,

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.240
<v Speaker 1>because they know that this is not odd the request,

0:38:53.080 --> 0:38:55.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, so if you just had a large Facebook following, again,

0:38:55.080 --> 0:38:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like that doesn't make sense you want to give you. Yeah,

0:38:57.880 --> 0:38:59.840
<v Speaker 1>very and it's a long game because it's weeks in

0:38:59.880 --> 0:39:02.440
<v Speaker 1>the making. They could and they don't email you directly

0:39:02.480 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 1>all Jankie, They like reach out to your management, like

0:39:04.520 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 1>they've reached out to her management team, and so you

0:39:06.960 --> 0:39:09.520
<v Speaker 1>know they're knowing, like, oh yeahvet me, everything's great, child.

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:13.640
<v Speaker 1>It is so thankfully for her and like for me,

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:16.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, it just didn't work because the link wasn't working.

0:39:17.280 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 1>But for her, she was able to reach out to

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:22.319
<v Speaker 1>Facebook and she knew somebody there, Her management knew somebody

0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:25.200
<v Speaker 1>there and were able to get her her account back.

0:39:25.360 --> 0:39:28.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh that's lucky to get a hold of anybody at Meta.

0:39:29.480 --> 0:39:32.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it really is. You know, and so I just

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:34.879
<v Speaker 1>wanted to just like be on the look if you've

0:39:34.920 --> 0:39:38.160
<v Speaker 1>got a large anything suspicious. In general, this is what

0:39:38.200 --> 0:39:40.399
<v Speaker 1>I've learned. I remember, like, this is not my first

0:39:40.480 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 1>roadio at the scam. Y'all know, I've been scammed many

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 1>of times, but I remember there was one scam in

0:39:43.920 --> 0:39:46.960
<v Speaker 1>particular when I was in college where I was going

0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:51.239
<v Speaker 1>on Craigslist looking for babysitting jobs and tutoring jobs. You know,

0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 1>it was semi safe back then. I don't even know child,

0:39:53.520 --> 0:39:55.480
<v Speaker 1>but either way, I found a couple of them and

0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:58.200
<v Speaker 1>they were fine, and then one I got one strange

0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:01.040
<v Speaker 1>one where it was like, hey, he said his name

0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>was Bob or some you know, nondescript name, and I

0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:08.000
<v Speaker 1>want you to tutor my daughter. And I said sure.

0:40:08.120 --> 0:40:09.759
<v Speaker 1>He said, I'm going to send you the money up front.

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, all, I say less. He said, but

0:40:11.640 --> 0:40:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to send you more than you need because

0:40:14.400 --> 0:40:16.799
<v Speaker 1>something about his bank account whatever, and can I send

0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:20.400
<v Speaker 1>him back the rest? And I was like huh. He

0:40:20.440 --> 0:40:22.719
<v Speaker 1>said yes, Like, let's just say that I was going

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:24.840
<v Speaker 1>to tutor and it was five hundred dollars. He was

0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:27.440
<v Speaker 1>going to send me a thousand, like a money order

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:29.400
<v Speaker 1>or a check for a thousand dollars. I was to

0:40:29.520 --> 0:40:32.080
<v Speaker 1>deposit it and then send him back the rest. And

0:40:32.160 --> 0:40:33.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, that isn't Why would I like, why

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 1>not just send me the five hundred And he was

0:40:37.080 --> 0:40:39.759
<v Speaker 1>like no, I forget why he said, so anyway, I

0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:43.880
<v Speaker 1>just said huh. So we went to the I went

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:46.359
<v Speaker 1>to the bank to ask them like, is this real

0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:49.080
<v Speaker 1>because and at the time it was still so new

0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:52.839
<v Speaker 1>the scam. The bank actually took the check and looked

0:40:52.880 --> 0:40:54.320
<v Speaker 1>through it and they were like, yeah, this is a

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.040
<v Speaker 1>real check, you know. And I still was like, I

0:40:57.160 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>was like, huh okay. They're like, still if you got

0:40:59.760 --> 0:41:02.160
<v Speaker 1>it from some of you don't know, be mindful, like

0:41:02.200 --> 0:41:03.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, if you deposit it and you spend the money,

0:41:03.800 --> 0:41:05.600
<v Speaker 1>it's on you. So I still didn't sit well with me.

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:08.680
<v Speaker 1>So I had told Bob to call me. He said

0:41:08.719 --> 0:41:11.359
<v Speaker 1>he was from Thailand. That's why he had to send

0:41:11.400 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 1>me the money in this way for whatever reason. And

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:18.280
<v Speaker 1>he told Bob. So Bob told me. I said, you know, Bob, fine,

0:41:18.520 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'll do this, but I want to talk

0:41:20.480 --> 0:41:22.839
<v Speaker 1>to you on the phone. He said, okay, no, say less.

0:41:23.120 --> 0:41:25.120
<v Speaker 1>And this is how I caught Bob.

0:41:27.320 --> 0:41:32.560
<v Speaker 3>Time you really like. I was like, shot, yeah, because

0:41:32.600 --> 0:41:32.920
<v Speaker 3>you know what it.

0:41:33.000 --> 0:41:34.600
<v Speaker 1>Is at the time when you're broke, You're like, child,

0:41:34.719 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>let this be real. I could use the phone, so

0:41:37.440 --> 0:41:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Bob said, let's get on a call. So immediately the

0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:43.279
<v Speaker 1>phone rings, you know, and I didn't even look at

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:45.320
<v Speaker 1>the phone. I picked up said hello, and I heard hello.

0:41:45.560 --> 0:41:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Can I speak to Tiffany? And instantly I was like,

0:41:47.920 --> 0:41:50.840
<v Speaker 1>which one of my uncles is? Because I didn't because

0:41:50.960 --> 0:41:55.640
<v Speaker 1>I I can spind a mile away, how would I

0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:58.319
<v Speaker 1>look at the phone? I was like, hello, uncle? Which

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:00.160
<v Speaker 1>uncle said? He said, no, no, this is not well.

0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:04.160
<v Speaker 1>This is all I said. From Thailand? He said yes.

0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I said, yeah, Nigerian, I can tell you an accent.

0:42:08.520 --> 0:42:11.400
<v Speaker 1>I said, I myself Nigerian as well. You was like,

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:15.400
<v Speaker 1>oh no, I said, you should be ashamed of yourself.

0:42:16.200 --> 0:42:19.080
<v Speaker 1>Shamed of yourself. I pulled out the full accent. Oh,

0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:22.560
<v Speaker 1>and that's when I was like, oh, my countryman, what

0:42:22.640 --> 0:42:25.080
<v Speaker 1>are we doing out here? It wasn't bottom Thailand. That

0:42:25.200 --> 0:42:28.080
<v Speaker 1>was cheenaidoo from ladies okay, from Abuja.

0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:31.960
<v Speaker 3>Nagians are like, first of all, I feel like behind

0:42:32.120 --> 0:42:35.880
<v Speaker 3>so many successful like when you just black excellence in

0:42:36.000 --> 0:42:38.560
<v Speaker 3>Nigeria just go hand in hand, like y'all.

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Just I don't know what I was about to say, huh,

0:42:41.040 --> 0:42:42.360
<v Speaker 1>why are they behind sobody scams?

0:42:42.440 --> 0:42:44.680
<v Speaker 3>But also you have these high heights, you know, like

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:48.560
<v Speaker 3>so many incredible business people and successful people, like I

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:52.440
<v Speaker 3>associate Nigerian's with like success and you're all like very impressive.

0:42:52.880 --> 0:42:57.080
<v Speaker 1>But on the other hand, well, here's what, like my

0:42:57.800 --> 0:42:59.840
<v Speaker 1>dad told me. I asked him that, I said, and

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 1>it's not a regular scams. It's like these elaborate whatever scams,

0:43:03.400 --> 0:43:05.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, because how do he even get the check

0:43:05.160 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 1>or the money order to be real? Only to like

0:43:07.239 --> 0:43:09.360
<v Speaker 1>because what happens is the bank finally figured out that

0:43:09.400 --> 0:43:11.360
<v Speaker 1>it was all alive. And what would happen is you

0:43:11.360 --> 0:43:13.719
<v Speaker 1>would put the money order in the account and then

0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:17.160
<v Speaker 1>it would at first clear and then you would get

0:43:17.160 --> 0:43:19.000
<v Speaker 1>the money back and then it wouldn't clear, so then

0:43:19.040 --> 0:43:20.520
<v Speaker 1>you'd be on the hook for the money you gave

0:43:20.560 --> 0:43:22.399
<v Speaker 1>back plus the money that you spent. So I don't

0:43:22.400 --> 0:43:23.880
<v Speaker 1>even know how they figure that out. So when I

0:43:23.960 --> 0:43:26.000
<v Speaker 1>asked my dad, I asked that question. I said, Daddy,

0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:28.239
<v Speaker 1>why you know Nigerians, you know, if they did the

0:43:28.280 --> 0:43:31.040
<v Speaker 1>study and that they're at least in America, the most

0:43:31.120 --> 0:43:35.879
<v Speaker 1>educated population in America. So about doctors, masters, etc. I said,

0:43:35.920 --> 0:43:39.399
<v Speaker 1>why is it that so many Nigerians, well, so many

0:43:39.560 --> 0:43:42.879
<v Speaker 1>scams are attributed to Nigerian's Like what is that? He said, Well,

0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 1>in Nigeria, just like in America, education is first, second,

0:43:47.600 --> 0:43:49.800
<v Speaker 1>and third. So you have and I've seen that, Like

0:43:49.880 --> 0:43:52.600
<v Speaker 1>I have little cousins who farmed, but I have their doctorate,

0:43:53.440 --> 0:43:55.720
<v Speaker 1>you know. He said, So you get all these highly,

0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:59.760
<v Speaker 1>highly highly educated people with no access to upper mobility.

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 1>So here I am a doctor and I'm farming, you know.

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:05.759
<v Speaker 1>And so what do you do with all this intelligence?

0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:08.440
<v Speaker 1>What do people do when they're really poor? Not everyone,

0:44:08.760 --> 0:44:11.000
<v Speaker 1>but oftentimes when people are really poor and there's no

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:13.719
<v Speaker 1>access to any upper mobility, then you resort to a

0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>life of crime. Now, maybe if you're uneducated, you might

0:44:16.800 --> 0:44:19.400
<v Speaker 1>knock somebody over the head and steal their purse. But

0:44:19.520 --> 0:44:21.360
<v Speaker 1>if you're like Chiah, I got all these smarts. Let

0:44:21.400 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>me get on this computer and get to scam. So

0:44:23.760 --> 0:44:27.360
<v Speaker 1>that's what you get. You have basically a Nigeria. Unfortunately

0:44:27.440 --> 0:44:29.080
<v Speaker 1>the government has not done a very good job looking

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:33.000
<v Speaker 1>after its people. So you have really smart, educated motivated

0:44:33.040 --> 0:44:35.840
<v Speaker 1>people with no access to be able to support themselves

0:44:35.880 --> 0:44:37.759
<v Speaker 1>in their family. And I'm not saying it's right, but

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying this is why the scams a right like

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of level. Okay, it is because they're like,

0:44:41.640 --> 0:44:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to put my smarts toward yes to this

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:46.160
<v Speaker 1>intricate So because my dad told me one time, like

0:44:46.239 --> 0:44:48.200
<v Speaker 1>you might apply there might be a job where there's

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:51.319
<v Speaker 1>fifty fifty positions open. Nigeria is also most the most

0:44:51.360 --> 0:44:54.399
<v Speaker 1>populated country in Nigeria, and so let's just say it's

0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:56.640
<v Speaker 1>in America, there's fifty positions open at a job and

0:44:56.760 --> 0:44:59.560
<v Speaker 1>five hundred, maybe even five thousand apply. In Nigeria, you're

0:44:59.600 --> 0:45:03.760
<v Speaker 1>looking at fifty thousand applicants for a fifty person slot.

0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:07.560
<v Speaker 1>There's just nothing or you'll get you'll be a teacher

0:45:07.600 --> 0:45:09.440
<v Speaker 1>or policeman. You won't have gotten paid for three or

0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:09.960
<v Speaker 1>four months.

0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:10.880
<v Speaker 3>So what do you do?

0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:13.759
<v Speaker 1>Do you quit? And then maybe this is you finally

0:45:13.800 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 1>get your retroactive paid next month and now you don't

0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:17.520
<v Speaker 1>get the money. So anyway, I'm just saying there's not

0:45:17.600 --> 0:45:20.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm not making excuses, just explaining, according to my father,

0:45:21.400 --> 0:45:24.120
<v Speaker 1>why some of the scams from Nigeria end up being

0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 1>like these high tech, high level scams. It's because you know,

0:45:27.440 --> 0:45:30.480
<v Speaker 1>you get the population of people with no access to

0:45:30.760 --> 0:45:34.080
<v Speaker 1>to money and food and things like this, and and

0:45:34.160 --> 0:45:36.279
<v Speaker 1>then but you have all this education and you're like, child,

0:45:36.320 --> 0:45:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get this one way to the other and

0:45:37.640 --> 0:45:39.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm leaving here with some I'm from around the way.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that it's very helpful to understand it that

0:45:42.040 --> 0:45:42.400
<v Speaker 3>way too.

0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:44.799
<v Speaker 1>But I just say, if you ever get a call

0:45:44.840 --> 0:45:46.400
<v Speaker 1>from Bob and a Nigerian accent.

0:45:46.920 --> 0:45:51.320
<v Speaker 3>From Thailand Nigerian, I couldn't believe it.

0:45:51.440 --> 0:45:54.600
<v Speaker 1>I said, Sah, you're not from Thailand.

0:45:54.800 --> 0:45:59.239
<v Speaker 3>My friend reels is like, Nigerians don't insult to you.

0:45:59.400 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 3>They like, what are theys? It's a Nigerian insult. Is

0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:04.080
<v Speaker 3>that Like, I had a bad day, but it's like

0:46:04.600 --> 0:46:06.759
<v Speaker 3>today my enemies are prospering against me.

0:46:08.080 --> 0:46:12.200
<v Speaker 1>You're the enemy. You're the enemy of promise. Like someone said,

0:46:12.200 --> 0:46:14.680
<v Speaker 1>like their dad used to tell them, Hey, you're lucky

0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:17.640
<v Speaker 1>I didn't beat you today. Today it's Christmas. Next time

0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:23.239
<v Speaker 1>it will be your holiday. So poetic, but oh yeah,

0:46:23.400 --> 0:46:26.040
<v Speaker 1>very poetic. Or they'll say something like hey, you know

0:46:26.200 --> 0:46:29.520
<v Speaker 1>every day you are you are running from stupidity today.

0:46:29.680 --> 0:46:36.360
<v Speaker 1>It has caught you. Yo. It was so poetic. You like,

0:46:36.400 --> 0:46:39.920
<v Speaker 1>did I just get insulted? As like, yes, insulted. Yeah,

0:46:39.960 --> 0:46:41.759
<v Speaker 1>it's just very very very poetic people.

0:46:42.360 --> 0:46:45.880
<v Speaker 3>I love it. I love love love And it's time.

0:46:46.360 --> 0:46:51.800
<v Speaker 1>No, let's be a Q and wait I wait but no,

0:46:51.920 --> 0:46:57.799
<v Speaker 1>but it's a before that what wait? And now it's

0:46:58.040 --> 0:47:02.320
<v Speaker 1>time to boost up breaking go boostop break up, boostop? Breaking?

0:47:03.120 --> 0:47:07.839
<v Speaker 1>Are you gonna boost? Is you gonna break? What you're

0:47:07.880 --> 0:47:13.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna do? What you're gonna say? You're gonna go first? Second?

0:47:13.840 --> 0:47:14.480
<v Speaker 1>How you want to do this?

0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:17.760
<v Speaker 3>You go first? I was gonna are you gonna boost

0:47:18.280 --> 0:47:23.279
<v Speaker 3>a break? What's your vibe? No? No, are you gonna

0:47:23.280 --> 0:47:28.480
<v Speaker 3>do a boost? You don't know yet? Yes, you don't know.

0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:31.000
<v Speaker 3>You want me to go first? You can figure it out, gotcha.

0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 3>So my friend Amelia, friend of the show, Amelia has

0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:37.840
<v Speaker 3>been doubt holding us down as part of the original

0:47:38.080 --> 0:47:43.520
<v Speaker 3>BA faners. She sent me a message because Amelia is

0:47:43.600 --> 0:47:46.880
<v Speaker 3>a marathon runner and also a sports writer, like a

0:47:47.239 --> 0:47:50.840
<v Speaker 3>health and fitness writer, and she's working on a book Amelia.

0:47:51.480 --> 0:47:53.960
<v Speaker 3>But she sent me a message because I don't know

0:47:53.960 --> 0:47:56.200
<v Speaker 3>if you remember, but last year the Boston Marathon is

0:47:56.280 --> 0:47:59.200
<v Speaker 3>coming up this April. Right, last year, the best Boston

0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Marathon is like the marathon if you like to run,

0:48:02.480 --> 0:48:04.800
<v Speaker 3>it's really hard to qualify for Only the best of

0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:08.000
<v Speaker 3>the best get through, et cetera. Last year, I mean,

0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:10.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, we know Boston's history, it's not exactly like

0:48:10.960 --> 0:48:13.520
<v Speaker 3>there's a lot of issues right in terms of like

0:48:14.040 --> 0:48:18.359
<v Speaker 3>inequities and the way that minorities are treated. Last year

0:48:18.560 --> 0:48:22.240
<v Speaker 3>at the Boston Marathon, there were there was an incident

0:48:22.320 --> 0:48:25.160
<v Speaker 3>where this crowd of spectators, you know, people lined the

0:48:25.239 --> 0:48:27.920
<v Speaker 3>course and they cheer on their runners or whatever. There

0:48:28.000 --> 0:48:30.279
<v Speaker 3>was a group of black and brown spectators who were

0:48:30.320 --> 0:48:34.200
<v Speaker 3>really cheering on some runners very loudly, like excitedly cheering

0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:37.360
<v Speaker 3>them on. And the police I don't know if they

0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:40.000
<v Speaker 3>arrested them, but they definitely like stopped them. The police

0:48:40.040 --> 0:48:41.759
<v Speaker 3>pulled them aside and made it stop. They were like

0:48:42.080 --> 0:48:44.400
<v Speaker 3>they just got all over them. And it's one of

0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:48.160
<v Speaker 3>those things that policing a black joy is so like pervasive,

0:48:48.400 --> 0:48:51.240
<v Speaker 3>Like you have a cookout and it's a black cookout,

0:48:51.239 --> 0:48:53.800
<v Speaker 3>all of a sudden you get noise complaints. Like I

0:48:53.840 --> 0:48:56.520
<v Speaker 3>don't know if you recall a Fantasia Burno. She came

0:48:56.560 --> 0:48:58.920
<v Speaker 3>out with a story about how she had done a

0:48:59.239 --> 0:49:02.480
<v Speaker 3>birthday party for her little boy and his friends at

0:49:02.760 --> 0:49:05.400
<v Speaker 3>like a beautiful Airbnb kind of thing and they had

0:49:05.440 --> 0:49:07.760
<v Speaker 3>all these noise complaints just because the boys were outside

0:49:07.800 --> 0:49:08.880
<v Speaker 3>playing and being boys.

0:49:09.640 --> 0:49:09.879
<v Speaker 1>Ag.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So Boston Marathon, uh, And my friend texted or

0:49:13.840 --> 0:49:19.120
<v Speaker 3>sent me this message because they the Boston Marathon, they

0:49:19.680 --> 0:49:24.719
<v Speaker 3>apologized to the police just this year. They issued they

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:27.480
<v Speaker 3>made an agreement because the police were so livid, like

0:49:27.719 --> 0:49:30.799
<v Speaker 3>whatever the police used in the police institution, they were

0:49:30.840 --> 0:49:33.560
<v Speaker 3>so livid, and I guess they hold so much like power,

0:49:34.200 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 3>like without their participation, Yeah, right, Boston, Without their participation,

0:49:39.760 --> 0:49:41.440
<v Speaker 3>it would make it really hard for the marathon to

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:47.200
<v Speaker 3>keep going. So they issued an apology to the police.

0:49:48.080 --> 0:49:50.760
<v Speaker 3>And my friend Amelia says, yeah, the Boston at Boston

0:49:50.800 --> 0:49:54.400
<v Speaker 3>Athletic Association has apologized, apologized to the police rather than

0:49:54.400 --> 0:49:58.359
<v Speaker 3>the affected community the whole thing. And Amelia has been

0:49:58.400 --> 0:50:01.680
<v Speaker 3>working toward Boston forever and that was her first year

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:04.880
<v Speaker 3>running it. It was such a long time goal for

0:50:05.000 --> 0:50:08.800
<v Speaker 3>me to qualify, especially because I know that there's a

0:50:08.920 --> 0:50:13.120
<v Speaker 3>lack of representation. Amelia is a Peruvian And then she

0:50:13.200 --> 0:50:15.480
<v Speaker 3>sent me I'll send a couple of links to and

0:50:15.760 --> 0:50:19.200
<v Speaker 3>put them in the group chat about the Boston Marathon.

0:50:20.320 --> 0:50:22.839
<v Speaker 3>But to then, it was a run club. My run

0:50:22.920 --> 0:50:27.920
<v Speaker 3>club was profiled for cheering while while black. So to

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:32.080
<v Speaker 3>that run club in Boston, you know, I hope that

0:50:32.200 --> 0:50:36.560
<v Speaker 3>they haven't stopped, but they're called the Pioneers Run Crew.

0:50:37.280 --> 0:50:38.520
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, it's so.

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<v Speaker 1>Sad because I'm not gonna lie. Even when I'm like

0:50:40.640 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 1>in a restaurant, like I'll be like, you know, because

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:45.239
<v Speaker 1>I've got quite the voice that carries and I'll be

0:50:45.280 --> 0:50:46.920
<v Speaker 1>like huh, and then some of my friends are like

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:49.200
<v Speaker 1>tiviny Tiffany. But then it'll be like a table of

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 1>like you know, white girls, like yes, said, I was

0:50:51.000 --> 0:50:53.080
<v Speaker 1>at a type place and they were so loud, but honestly,

0:50:53.280 --> 0:50:56.440
<v Speaker 1>joyously it was like a f and I thought to myself, well,

0:50:56.520 --> 0:50:58.399
<v Speaker 1>why can't I exprest, like you know what I mean,

0:50:58.600 --> 0:51:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Like why it I'm like everyone here is laughing, yeah,

0:51:03.160 --> 0:51:05.359
<v Speaker 1>but the black girl laughs and it's an issue. It's like, oh,

0:51:05.480 --> 0:51:08.000
<v Speaker 1>the table, not the table that's cussing if us and

0:51:08.080 --> 0:51:13.680
<v Speaker 1>next to me having an issue. Honestly, it's really really frustrating.

0:51:14.080 --> 0:51:16.000
<v Speaker 1>And then you end up policing yourself, like, well, let

0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:18.759
<v Speaker 1>me not be too joyful or joyous, because I don't

0:51:18.760 --> 0:51:20.799
<v Speaker 1>want anyone to say even though they're freaking loud over

0:51:20.840 --> 0:51:22.719
<v Speaker 1>there talking about what she did last night, you know

0:51:22.840 --> 0:51:24.560
<v Speaker 1>so much so I can hear him, yeah, you know.

0:51:24.719 --> 0:51:27.120
<v Speaker 1>And so like that happens a lot, especially like being

0:51:27.239 --> 0:51:30.040
<v Speaker 1>out in public spaces, you know, where your joy is

0:51:30.080 --> 0:51:31.080
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be expressed.

0:51:32.760 --> 0:51:35.839
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and just being able and knowing that you can

0:51:36.040 --> 0:51:40.160
<v Speaker 3>be celebrating the wrong way apparently, can you imagine. And

0:51:40.239 --> 0:51:42.480
<v Speaker 3>then for the police to be apologized to I just

0:51:42.520 --> 0:51:44.920
<v Speaker 3>feel like it was a huge letdown for that running club.

0:51:45.200 --> 0:51:49.680
<v Speaker 3>And so thanks to Amelia for bringing that to our attention.

0:51:50.000 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, America, America, I know, what is it? Like?

0:51:58.960 --> 0:52:01.799
<v Speaker 1>The American dream is living in America? Those T shirts?

0:52:02.960 --> 0:52:05.680
<v Speaker 3>Can we bring it back to the Beyonce album? I

0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:07.680
<v Speaker 3>mean another half an hour?

0:52:10.280 --> 0:52:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So this is I guess it's this is kind

0:52:16.040 --> 0:52:18.080
<v Speaker 1>of like a boosty breaking. So I'm reading this book

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:19.759
<v Speaker 1>called ten Next is easier than to it?

0:52:20.200 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 3>Oh? Yes, you sent me that book.

0:52:22.080 --> 0:52:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's very good. I recommend it to anybody. Is

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:27.600
<v Speaker 1>especially here's the thing. It's going to be hard to

0:52:27.760 --> 0:52:30.200
<v Speaker 1>take action if you're not an entrepreneur, because some of

0:52:30.239 --> 0:52:33.080
<v Speaker 1>the things require like you to have the flexibility of

0:52:33.120 --> 0:52:35.440
<v Speaker 1>an entrepreneur. But it's still really good either way. But

0:52:35.800 --> 0:52:40.080
<v Speaker 1>it's specifically written for business owners to like maximize the

0:52:40.160 --> 0:52:43.320
<v Speaker 1>way they navigate their time, their energy, their talents or whatever.

0:52:43.760 --> 0:52:46.800
<v Speaker 1>So one of the parts of the book, so this

0:52:47.000 --> 0:52:49.000
<v Speaker 1>author due well Dan Sullivan, and I forget the other

0:52:49.040 --> 0:52:53.640
<v Speaker 1>guy's name, they've written a couple books together, who who

0:52:53.800 --> 0:52:56.040
<v Speaker 1>not how, But also they've written this book called Gap,

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:58.359
<v Speaker 1>the Gap and the Game, And so there's a part

0:52:58.400 --> 0:52:59.640
<v Speaker 1>of the book. So I don't know if this is

0:52:59.680 --> 0:53:02.440
<v Speaker 1>a book break, but I guess it's both because they

0:53:02.520 --> 0:53:05.960
<v Speaker 1>talk about how you view things versus the gap and

0:53:06.000 --> 0:53:08.840
<v Speaker 1>the game really affects how happy, how satisfied it you

0:53:08.880 --> 0:53:12.600
<v Speaker 1>get burnt out and I realized how much I was

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:14.400
<v Speaker 1>living in the gap. And I'll explain to you what

0:53:14.440 --> 0:53:16.560
<v Speaker 1>the gap in the game is and how that's one

0:53:16.600 --> 0:53:18.440
<v Speaker 1>of the things they try to reframe for you in

0:53:18.520 --> 0:53:22.320
<v Speaker 1>the book that's going to help you one not be overwhelmed,

0:53:22.360 --> 0:53:24.960
<v Speaker 1>not be overworked, but also work more joyfully. And so

0:53:25.520 --> 0:53:28.120
<v Speaker 1>when you live in the gap, that is when you

0:53:28.280 --> 0:53:32.000
<v Speaker 1>compare where you are now to whatever your goal is,

0:53:32.239 --> 0:53:35.920
<v Speaker 1>whatever your your you know, your ideal goal is like, ah, man,

0:53:36.160 --> 0:53:38.040
<v Speaker 1>i want to be ten million dollars a year, I'm eight,

0:53:38.760 --> 0:53:41.840
<v Speaker 1>where there's a gap of two million. Oh man, I

0:53:41.960 --> 0:53:43.480
<v Speaker 1>want to be you know, I wanted my hair to

0:53:43.520 --> 0:53:45.759
<v Speaker 1>be shoulder length, but it's only earlength. There's a gap,

0:53:46.120 --> 0:53:48.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, like whatever that is. You're always comparing where

0:53:48.680 --> 0:53:50.320
<v Speaker 1>you are to where you want to be, and a

0:53:50.400 --> 0:53:53.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of entrepreneurs and just people in general navigating the

0:53:53.160 --> 0:53:55.960
<v Speaker 1>gap because we believe that the gap is what drives

0:53:56.000 --> 0:53:58.239
<v Speaker 1>us forward, like go go, go more, more and more.

0:53:58.280 --> 0:54:00.120
<v Speaker 1>I could do it. I could do it. But what

0:54:00.200 --> 0:54:02.759
<v Speaker 1>it does is that it leads you constantly dissatisfied with

0:54:02.840 --> 0:54:06.560
<v Speaker 1>yourself because what happens is inevitably you do close that gap,

0:54:06.640 --> 0:54:09.880
<v Speaker 1>your hair grows, you make that money, you know, you

0:54:10.320 --> 0:54:12.239
<v Speaker 1>get that dress or whatever it is, and then what

0:54:12.400 --> 0:54:17.640
<v Speaker 1>happens is that the goalpost moves and you're like, oh

0:54:17.719 --> 0:54:20.280
<v Speaker 1>what before I remember me making one hundred thousand dollars

0:54:20.760 --> 0:54:23.279
<v Speaker 1>in a year was like one of my biggest goals.

0:54:23.320 --> 0:54:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't know what I got to do.

0:54:24.960 --> 0:54:26.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, and now if I make that only in

0:54:26.920 --> 0:54:29.080
<v Speaker 1>a month, I'm talking about gross business. I'd be at

0:54:29.080 --> 0:54:32.040
<v Speaker 1>a business, yeah, you know, And I'm like, oh, you know,

0:54:32.160 --> 0:54:34.080
<v Speaker 1>what used to be like less than ten years ago,

0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:36.680
<v Speaker 1>was like that if I could just do this, And

0:54:36.760 --> 0:54:38.880
<v Speaker 1>now I'm like, I better do better than that. So anyway,

0:54:39.000 --> 0:54:42.319
<v Speaker 1>that's the gap. And like I and oftentimes, if you're

0:54:42.360 --> 0:54:44.160
<v Speaker 1>living in a gap in business, you're likely living in

0:54:44.200 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 1>a gap at work, living in a gap with your partner,

0:54:46.760 --> 0:54:49.160
<v Speaker 1>living the gap with your kids. Like how many when

0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:51.839
<v Speaker 1>I taught preschool, how many parents came to me like, oh,

0:54:52.280 --> 0:54:54.680
<v Speaker 1>my son does not speaking like I thought. You know,

0:54:55.080 --> 0:54:57.600
<v Speaker 1>she's not walking, she's holding thispoon in this way. That's

0:54:57.680 --> 0:54:59.800
<v Speaker 1>living in the gap. This is where they're supposed to be.

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:02.960
<v Speaker 1>They're here now. What they try to reframe is to

0:55:03.080 --> 0:55:07.360
<v Speaker 1>practice living in the game. So instead, you're supposed to

0:55:07.480 --> 0:55:10.960
<v Speaker 1>use the ideal as inspiration, not a measuring stick, because

0:55:10.960 --> 0:55:12.880
<v Speaker 1>you will never live up to whatever that thing is.

0:55:13.200 --> 0:55:15.440
<v Speaker 1>It's just supposed to inspire you to keep going. But

0:55:15.520 --> 0:55:18.360
<v Speaker 1>if you live in the game, you only compare yourself

0:55:18.440 --> 0:55:23.160
<v Speaker 1>to your past self. So like, wow, Tiffany, ten years ago,

0:55:23.960 --> 0:55:27.200
<v Speaker 1>you want to make one hundred thousand dollars in a year.

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:29.879
<v Speaker 1>Now you make multiple hundreds of thousands in a month.

0:55:30.239 --> 0:55:33.959
<v Speaker 1>Look how far you've come, Wow, Tiffany, or like wow,

0:55:34.080 --> 0:55:37.320
<v Speaker 1>look at my kid. I know that there is speech

0:55:37.360 --> 0:55:39.360
<v Speaker 1>delay and we're getting him to the place. But literally,

0:55:39.520 --> 0:55:42.719
<v Speaker 1>just six months ago, baby boy wasn't saying anything, and

0:55:42.800 --> 0:55:46.000
<v Speaker 1>now he's saying mama and data. That's huge, you know,

0:55:46.200 --> 0:55:49.560
<v Speaker 1>like that's huge, or like wow, like you know a

0:55:49.600 --> 0:55:52.680
<v Speaker 1>minute ago, like I didn't even have a business, you know,

0:55:52.920 --> 0:55:55.320
<v Speaker 1>like I worked in corporate. Now I took this idea

0:55:55.440 --> 0:55:58.480
<v Speaker 1>from my head and it's like it's like here and

0:55:58.640 --> 0:56:01.279
<v Speaker 1>like living and breathing, you know, like this business is

0:56:01.320 --> 0:56:03.880
<v Speaker 1>out into the world, and so living from the game

0:56:04.480 --> 0:56:08.080
<v Speaker 1>keeps you motivated, keeps you joyful, keeps you grateful. And

0:56:08.200 --> 0:56:09.839
<v Speaker 1>so it was just something that I just wanted to share.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if it's a boost a break.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like boos half and half because part

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<v Speaker 1>of me realize how much I was living in the gap,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I want to stick it on my wall somewhere,

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<v Speaker 1>Like Tiffany, what is the gain component? Because I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>comparing myself to like where I think I ought to be,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's and I tell myself, no, no, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>true when I make this twenty million, No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. When I make thirty million, it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you've made all the other like leaps before, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still not satisfied. And so I'm really, really really going

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<v Speaker 1>to really try my best to reframe me every time

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, you know what, what's the gain here?

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<v Speaker 1>Where were you five months ago, five years ago? Where

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<v Speaker 1>were you?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like, and all that's two million? Bring more joy?

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<v Speaker 3>And is that what you're after? Are you after the

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<v Speaker 3>more joy or the dollar signs?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to be as happy as I pop. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>trying to create. Like when I think about my little

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<v Speaker 3>starter home and I really tell myself, like, we have

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<v Speaker 3>such a happy little family in this little house. We

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<v Speaker 3>don't need a bigger home to be happier. We need

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<v Speaker 3>a bigger home for like, it's not a bigger home

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<v Speaker 3>is not going to fix like any like relationship issues

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<v Speaker 3>we may have or certainly not like you know rio

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<v Speaker 3>speech delay, which is basically gone now he's doing so good, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>which is like come on anyway, Yeah, but how are

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<v Speaker 3>you how how much joy can you feel in your

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<v Speaker 3>little container? And then everything else? Yeah, it doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 3>that you don't you stop striving at least for me,

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<v Speaker 3>for more and all that for better. But at the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the day, I know that I was just

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<v Speaker 3>as happy here, and I'll be just as happy if

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<v Speaker 3>I end up back here, you know. So that's a

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<v Speaker 3>really beautiful message that I wouldn't have expected from a

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<v Speaker 3>book with that title.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's yeah, Because I thought the book was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be about like go, go, go more and more,

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually about less less less truthfully, yeah, I suggest it, Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but meaning like less as in like that. The premise

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<v Speaker 1>of the book is that like when you get really

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<v Speaker 1>good at like your thing, and you really teach yourself

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<v Speaker 1>how to focus, you actually end up doing less and

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<v Speaker 1>gaining more. So so he gives this example of like

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<v Speaker 1>driving a car. Remember when we first started driving, girl,

0:58:30.200 --> 0:58:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like the mirror, the other mirror, My hands

0:58:32.480 --> 0:58:36.280
<v Speaker 1>are here, the gas right, Because when you're when you

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<v Speaker 1>are inexperience, you're using so much energy just to go

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<v Speaker 1>from here to wherever you're going. But what happens with

0:58:44.120 --> 0:58:47.280
<v Speaker 1>time and experience and mastery. Girl, Sometimes I get home,

0:58:47.320 --> 0:58:49.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how did I get home? Barely using any

0:58:49.600 --> 0:58:52.440
<v Speaker 1>mental strength? Like I could literally be thinking of a

0:58:52.480 --> 0:58:55.720
<v Speaker 1>whole business plan while I'm driving because I'm on autopilot

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<v Speaker 1>with like the mental strength. And so that's what ten

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<v Speaker 1>ex is easier than two x that It's like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you can harness your mental strength and mastery and focus,

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<v Speaker 1>you actually will use less of it, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>order to get from here to where you want to

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<v Speaker 1>get to. So it's like, how do you do that?

0:59:11.040 --> 0:59:13.280
<v Speaker 1>How do you go from an inexperienced driver to an

0:59:13.320 --> 0:59:17.600
<v Speaker 1>experienced driver because it's easier driving when your experience and

0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:20.120
<v Speaker 1>so that's what he talks about that, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just like, you know, I'm just for me.

0:59:22.280 --> 0:59:26.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm in search of how do I you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to of course I want to be successful, but

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that it does not drain me, Like

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that doesn't require like, ugh, I'm so

0:59:36.120 --> 0:59:38.480
<v Speaker 1>beat up. I don't want to do this anymore. And

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<v Speaker 1>so like I don't want to do because I've hit

0:59:40.520 --> 0:59:44.120
<v Speaker 1>some huge numbers, but it costs nearly everything, and I

0:59:44.160 --> 0:59:45.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do that. Like as I kind of

0:59:46.040 --> 0:59:48.040
<v Speaker 1>rebuild what I'm doing in business and things like that,

0:59:48.120 --> 0:59:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to I want to build in ease and

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<v Speaker 1>comfort and rest and recovery, and I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>intentional about it and so yeah, so, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>the book is ten X is greater than two X,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think I might like like read the gap

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<v Speaker 1>in the game after this is all said and done,

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<v Speaker 1>just to like really cement that Reframe is its own book. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's its own book. Although they talk about a lot

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<v Speaker 1>in this book because it's the same two authors, so

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<v Speaker 1>they wrote this book together. And I would suggest that

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<v Speaker 1>do the audio book because in between chapters they have

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<v Speaker 1>a mini podcast almost, so they'll like finish the chapter

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<v Speaker 1>and then the two authors will kind of like shoot

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<v Speaker 1>the breeze about what the chapter is about. How so

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to get that in the book. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you get the physical book, I definitely recommend the

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<v Speaker 1>audio just for that. Those nuggets and the like fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes in between are really amazing in the audio.

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<v Speaker 1>We you know, Amandy, we need to have a brown

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<v Speaker 1>Ambition Amazon store, do we, Yeah, meaning like so that

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<v Speaker 1>way we could put like books that we're reading. So

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<v Speaker 1>the girls can just probably like.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like if you make a suggestions and stuff

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<v Speaker 3>like everyone else on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I meant like like an Amazon store, meaning like

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<v Speaker 1>the things that like right now, like you have your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite water bottle, but also too, like these are the

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<v Speaker 1>books that we've.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I would love it. I love a bookstore.

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<v Speaker 3>You could do nonfiction books and then I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm reading The Viscount Who Loved Me, one of the

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<v Speaker 3>Bridgerton books, listening to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a little myself as well. Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>But since you mentioned books, there is a book that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really excited to listen to by Attica Locke called

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<v Speaker 3>Bluebird Bluebird, which is a novel and she's a black author,

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<v Speaker 3>and her sister wrote from Scratch, which became this incredible

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<v Speaker 3>Netflix series. Anyway, I loved I just I'm excited about

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<v Speaker 3>this book, and I'm yeah, once I'm done with Cowboy Carter,

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<v Speaker 3>I will be listening to some books again. I listened

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<v Speaker 3>to hemrin Or North's Grocery Store, which is like the

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<v Speaker 3>book everyone's talking you know. I didn't like it that much.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, before we jump off, you want to read a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of reviews because we want you guys to leave

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<v Speaker 1>will read your review, will even shout you out. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying by we, I mean Mandy, because.

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<v Speaker 3>We got three new pipe and hot reviews. Let's see,

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<v Speaker 3>did I not read these? What's what's some? I texted

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<v Speaker 3>you some? I think these came after the show aired

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<v Speaker 3>last time. Okay, Dynamic Duo, says a German boxer. I

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<v Speaker 3>love the energy and how financial topics are discussed in

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<v Speaker 3>super simple ways. You go, girls, I feel at home Rita.

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<v Speaker 3>This listener called Rita rita Chick says, I feel at

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<v Speaker 3>home with this podcast. I learned loads of information in

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<v Speaker 3>an authentic and fun way. I just found this this

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<v Speaker 3>podcast and I will be reviewing all the past episodes.

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<v Speaker 3>Many thanks to you, ladies. Oh thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Two awesome reviews. If we would like us to shout

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<v Speaker 1>leave us one and you have to share this podcast?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you keeping us to yourself? Oh Mandy, someone

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<v Speaker 1>gave me a hug to give to you. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what we're gonna be cause I know like we've been

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<v Speaker 1>like and then and then no. So I told you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Amelia's seventh birthday, her best friend Elena. Her

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<v Speaker 1>mother's name is Dina and Dina was like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying a fangirl, but I love your podcast. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so shout to you, Dina. If you're listening, please tell me.

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you. I think I said, any right, And

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<v Speaker 1>so she's a big podcast listener.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, she was like she was so cute. Her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter is so cute, Like you know, that's like the

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<v Speaker 1>only question apparently Amelia listens to. I'm like, Dina, can

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<v Speaker 1>you ask a million why she's embarrassed when we come

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<v Speaker 1>visit her at school? And Alina was like, I asked her.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why we're gonna ask again. I said yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because apparently she don't talk to nobody but you. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get to the bottom barre a million don't

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<v Speaker 1>like us to shout her out of school, although she

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<v Speaker 1>does want us to come, so like, shout che Dna,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for coming to the crib. We had an old

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<v Speaker 1>school birthday party in the living room or dining room,

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<v Speaker 1>all decorated with hello, kitty.

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<v Speaker 3>Stuff there and come back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes apparently, and so yeah, so that was cute. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all until Friday when we do our b a q A.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see you then