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Speaker 1: Second date, up date. We've read some articles lately where

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Speaker 1: more and more people are getting offline and trying to

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Speaker 1: meet people. IRL.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you added line to the end of that

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Speaker 2: sentence out in.

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Speaker 1: The real world trying to find people to date. But

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Speaker 1: question is like, where do you go? Because Jose's already

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Speaker 1: locked down all the taco bells and free clinics in

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Speaker 1: his area. Oh yeah, so what's left for the rest

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Speaker 1: of us dudes. Well, one of our listeners says he

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Speaker 1: figured out the untapped hotspot where no guys are going yet,

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Speaker 1: but high quality women are all around him, So let's

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Speaker 1: find out where this is. Welcome to the show, Scott.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, man, I'm doing good.

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Speaker 3: How you guys doing?

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Speaker 4: Why do I have a feeling Scott that the women

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Speaker 4: don't want you wherever you're going? I mean, if it's

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Speaker 4: all women, it's usually like mean to be that way.

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Speaker 4: I'm imagining he's in a bed with like ten women surrounding.

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Speaker 5: Him right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't make fun of me until you hear what

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Speaker 3: I have to say.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you, are you out here?

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Speaker 1: You do reserve the right to make fun of you.

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Speaker 1: Where do you go to find single available women?

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Speaker 3: Okay, where I go my secret? I go to te shops,

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Speaker 3: the beverage tea Okay.

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Speaker 4: Those are women dominated. I don't know that I've been

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Speaker 4: in a T shop. Are the women like your age?

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Speaker 4: Like old women.

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Speaker 3: Are like the thing? Right now? It's really trendy, Like

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Speaker 3: a lot of young people are at tea shop.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I want to go to one.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of health forward to where.

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Speaker 4: Are you picking up your loose leaf?

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Speaker 5: Huh?

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Speaker 4: Is that what you're doing? Yeah, I'm just trying to

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Speaker 4: get in on the trends. I'm fine with men in

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Speaker 4: they're just not broken.

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Speaker 1: So how does this work? Picking up girls at the

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Speaker 1: T shop?

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Speaker 3: All right? Well, I have I have a bit of

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Speaker 3: a system.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you do?

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Speaker 3: I go to a tea shop. I go after work

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Speaker 3: and like the you know, late afternoon okay, Okay, got

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Speaker 3: a little notebook and I just sit down kind of

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Speaker 3: a big open neutral area.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So you're sitting clearly in plain sight of everybody.

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Speaker 1: That's your plan, and.

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Speaker 3: Basically you make yourself visible. Okay, and you've got your

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Speaker 3: notebook out there, like, oh, what's you working on? Women?

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Speaker 3: Just get curious. Oh wait a.

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Speaker 4: Minute, Okay, so you look uninterested in them.

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Speaker 1: In them, and you you're smart, you're writing that.

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Speaker 3: He knows how to write.

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Speaker 4: He's just signing his name over and over again in

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Speaker 1: They don't know. Does that work for you a lot? Scott?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, usually just sort of say I'm a part time

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Speaker 4: I'm not you lie? Why do you lie? Why do

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Speaker 1: Well, did you hear do you see how Alexis perked

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Speaker 2: Magazine to be featured in the magazine? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Clearly.

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Speaker 4: Do they ever ask you what magazine and you write for?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Usually I'm just like, oh, you know, it's like

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Speaker 3: a poetry magazine. I like that they wouldn't know.

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Speaker 6: Problem I see a poetry magazine that likes romantic just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're clearly trying to disarm these ones. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about the lie, but the rest of

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Speaker 2: it sounds okay to me. How many times does this

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Speaker 3: It's worked in terms of like an icebreaker, But there's

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Speaker 1: Liked hopefully that's the one that we're calling today.

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Speaker 3: Her name is kN Zach ken Zach.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it couldn't decide between Kendall and Zack Kenzy.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you know, how did you and ken Zach come

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, she was by herself there. I was

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Speaker 3: do is I ask when I order tea for extra

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever heard a guy say, hey,

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Speaker 1: do you need some extra lemon slices? I've got some

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Speaker 4: Is that Is that what you use on ken Zach?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I absolutely offered her a lemon slice, and

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Speaker 3: that's what started the talking. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think if you're at a bar with

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Speaker 4: It was kind of the same thing. I just tried

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Speaker 1: But it's weird if a guy that pulls a line

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Speaker 1: So she took your lemon slice and then you two

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Speaker 1: were on the path to love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked for a guy. I don't like twenty

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Speaker 3: thirty minutes, but longer than like strangers at a tea

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Speaker 4: Like, okay, it felt like a date. You didn't go

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Speaker 3: Well here's the thing. Hey, let's hang out again sometime,

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Speaker 3: but I got to run. I have a deadline. It's

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Speaker 3: good to tell people you have a deadline. It makes

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Speaker 3: you seem important.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm smart.

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Speaker 1: It's not your first roadio.

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Speaker 3: Okay. And then we exchanged numbers and we hung out

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Speaker 3: one time after that at a different tea place.

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Speaker 4: Did did tea again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we were at one time, but it's like kind

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Speaker 3: of didn't count because it was really short.

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Speaker 1: How sure are we talking?

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Speaker 3: Like within ten minutes? But she got a text and

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Speaker 3: said it was an emergency and she had to leave.

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Speaker 3: And that's the laugh i've heard of her.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's hardly anything even accomplish in that time.

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Speaker 2: Maybe when she first met you, she was tea drunk

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Speaker 2: and she had those tea goggles on.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know what you really looked like drinks.

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Speaker 3: Why am open to all possibilities here?

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Speaker 6: Okay, even if you're not on some long all right,

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Speaker 6: you're just adding more words that the editors are going

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Speaker 6: to have to cut out of just before we send

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Speaker 6: it on to any of this.

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Speaker 2: Don't don't do not end this by saying we're going

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Speaker 2: to get the tea next I'm done.

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Speaker 4: I'm leaving.

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Speaker 1: That might give for a while and don't come back.

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Speaker 1: But sorry, Scott, back to you. How long has it

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Speaker 1: been since that last date happened, that ten minute date?

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Speaker 3: Like two weeks.

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Speaker 4: There's been Yeah, no follow up up?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Do you believe in the emergency or do you think

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Speaker 2: it's as real as your magazine writing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I want to believe it. You know, maybe like

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Speaker 3: she had a real emergency, like someone passed away and

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Speaker 3: time for me. Like like if that's what it is,

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Speaker 3: I want to know that, so like I could be

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Speaker 3: there for her if I need to be. But also

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Speaker 3: it can like ease my stress about it.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Okay, Sorry to end it on a sad note,

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Speaker 1: but we're gonna bring it back up. Do your second

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Speaker 1: date update with ken Zach. Right after this second date update,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for music to play for a tea house,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure we could find something. This is what

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Speaker 1: I came up with, old like Chinese ancient music.

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Speaker 4: This is an old English English.

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Speaker 1: I had dis labeled this coffee house in the system, which.

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Speaker 4: Is different than I should label it nap time.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: It's a sleepy piano, ye turn up. Yeah, it's not

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Speaker 1: good enough, I know that. But this team movement is

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Speaker 1: just so far ahead of us. We're late to the game. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because one of our listeners, Scott. So that's how he

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Speaker 1: up right in the middle with a notebook out and

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Speaker 1: tells the ladies that he's a writer for some fancy

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Speaker 1: poetry magazine.

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Speaker 2: Which nobody questions because nobody can actually name a poetry magazine. Ye.

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Speaker 1: No, he just makes him sound sophisticated and deep. You

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Speaker 1: ever heard of poetry magazine. That's how he met a

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Speaker 1: woman named ken Zach recently ended up turning that into

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Speaker 1: a second tea time hangout. Second one ended kind of quickly, though,

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Speaker 1: so hopefully we can get ken Zack back on the

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Speaker 2: That was my one time already, and that was kind

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Speaker 2: of cute, But that was literally sitting.

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Speaker 1: Down with tea. So Scott, we've got all our jokes

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Speaker 1: out of the way. How are you feeling.

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Speaker 3: I'm killing all right, doing pretty good.

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Speaker 4: Okay, are you gonna have your pinky up when you

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Speaker 4: make this call?

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be as classy as I can be. I'll

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Speaker 1: Okay, glossy, but don't be chy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's good. Can I ask her real quick?

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Speaker 2: In all honestly, do you think she Google searched your

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Speaker 3: Not ten minutes into the day.

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Speaker 4: Not ten minutes into the day. Wait, why would you

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Speaker 4: show up for this? Yeah, that's true, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, we won't out you. I mean you're gonna

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Speaker 2: be out it at some point.

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Speaker 1: On her own.

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Speaker 4: So I can't keep up that line for too long.

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Speaker 1: Brook has anymore of her spiked teas. You don't know

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Speaker 1: what she's gonna say in a second. But here we go.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Ken's I keep forgeting her name, ken Zach.

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Speaker 1: We're called ken Zach. Let's see what she has to say.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hell else, Hi, we're looking to speak with ken Zach.

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 5: Who is this?

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Speaker 1: This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning at Kenzach. The whole show is here, is

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Speaker 1: this ken Zach?

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Speaker 5: Uh? Yeah, I'm kind of busy. I don't know if

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Speaker 5: I what is this about.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's okay, we're real quick. Yeah, we're gonna make

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Speaker 1: this real fast. We're doing something called a second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: and we're trying to help out one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: get back in touch with you after you went on

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Speaker 1: a couple of dates with him.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I don't I don't know, Like, do you have

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Speaker 5: a name? Who is it for?

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Speaker 3: It was?

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Speaker 1: It was a few weeks ago that you last met

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Speaker 1: up with him. His name is Scott.

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Speaker 5: Do you remember, Oh, you mean the guy that I blocked, Yes.

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Speaker 3: Blocked him.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, the guy from the tee shop, the very one.

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, he said.

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Speaker 2: You left the date like the second time you guys

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We have a little bit of background before we

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Speaker 5: And can I asked, like what he told you?

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Speaker 1: What's the bullet point? Reta two dates at teahouses separately.

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Speaker 2: The first time you guys talked for twenty third minutes

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Speaker 4: So I did you think that was rude that he

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Speaker 5: I was a little surprised, but like it wasn't a

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Speaker 4: Okay, So that's that's not the reason.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're trying to help him figure out if there

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Speaker 5: So basically we chat for a few minutes and then

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Speaker 5: Because I well, so, like I turn around and I

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Speaker 1: Into his into his own tea.

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Speaker 5: Huh yeah, well I didn't have one yet.

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Speaker 1: Would what kind.

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Speaker 4: Of expectations would you have it at tea date?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 5: That was my question. I was like, I don't know

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Speaker 4: Are you sure it wasn't like a sugar cube or

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Speaker 1: Maybe you just a normal multi vitamin perhaps.

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Speaker 4: But why wouldn't you just take it? Why did you

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Speaker 5: I had all those same questions. It's definitely threw me off.

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Speaker 5: But I was like, maybe I didn't see what I

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Speaker 5: I just got the backseat of my car upholstered. We

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Speaker 4: You be so unclassy? Show what?

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Speaker 1: You don't believe him? You don't think he really got

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Speaker 4: Who cares to see that?

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Speaker 5: It was very odd and it sounded like a line.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I just very awkwardly pretended I had.

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Speaker 1: I think we can all definitely see how that looks bad.

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Speaker 1: But there is a chance that a totally logical, reasonable

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Speaker 4: For this, the really honest guy totally.

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Speaker 1: And he just happens to be on the other line

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, ken Zach, have it going?

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Speaker 4: Did you just hear what she said?

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Speaker 3: Is that what you think you saw me putting a

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Speaker 5: What I think I saw? Are you saying like, I

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Speaker 5: don't know what I saw?

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Speaker 3: What do you think you saw?

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Speaker 4: Why is getting higher there? Man?

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Speaker 1: I think he's like trying an exit strategy right now.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, this is not really helping your case right now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's weird. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You don't know, do you recall any of the details

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Speaker 1: of like putting something into your own tea? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I wish you could just say it was a skittle

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Speaker 4: There's no blue skittles eminent someone.

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Speaker 5: I would love to hear a different explanation of what

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what happens interesting?

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Speaker 4: How long it's taken to you to what.

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Speaker 1: Was happening in your mind? Scott?

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Speaker 4: Okay, here give it to Scott.

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Speaker 1: It's a long story. He needs a big breath. It's

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Speaker 1: the story, man, Go ahead, Scott? What was going on?

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Speaker 3: I just don't know why you'd be offended by someone

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Speaker 3: That's my motto.

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Speaker 1: You can't walk.

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Speaker 6: Around always ready like that.

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Speaker 2: Shop.

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Speaker 4: That's so gross.

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Speaker 1: That's objectively not good.

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Speaker 2: Date behavior, and it's such a turn off.

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Speaker 3: You know, journalists got to learn things.

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Speaker 5: Were a poet?

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Speaker 4: Are you honest about anything? Scott?

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Speaker 3: I really did have the back seat of my car reupholstered.

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Speaker 3: It's really nice back there.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't all right?

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Speaker 4: Well, why was it bad to begin with?

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Speaker 1: Back there?

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Speaker 3: I just like to treat people right. I don't know

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Speaker 1: We don't know that until we have because we always

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Speaker 1: we always time, we always offer to send out for

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Speaker 1: we would pay for.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that you saw what you saw. It

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Speaker 1: Tea and chill.

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Speaker 3: I would love to hang out again, if you're.

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Speaker 4: Up for it, she interrupted.

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Speaker 1: Them, Scott that that's going to be a no. It

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Speaker 4: What are you doing man for me?

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Speaker 5: Why did you wait till I got there?

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Speaker 1: You walk into the freaking shop that she walks in?

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Speaker 1: He said, like, full attention.

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Speaker 3: You gotta plan these things out.

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Speaker 4: You didn't.

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Speaker 1: All right, we've learned. We've learned some stuff, Scott, too much.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to learn it anymore. That's enough of

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Speaker 4: a lesson. I'm not going to That was too much tea.

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Speaker 2: Too much tea was too hot, freaking Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: In the that's the problem with people who stretch the truth.

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Speaker 1: You're ride and hide talking about a job that you

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Speaker 1: Suddenly you're flailing trying to come up with an explanation

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Speaker 1: for the performance enhancing pills you've slipped into your own

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Speaker 4: It's still so.

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Speaker 1: It's why.

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Speaker 2: It's daytime and a t shot I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, sometimes things sound good to you in your mind

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Speaker 1: I was so stupid, Why.

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Speaker 4: Did I do that? You can't get it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just going to go into details that I

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Speaker 4: I just I hope he learned his lesson. Yes, you know,

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Speaker 1: That is the goal of these segments is if we

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Speaker 1: and get you something to work on yourself. Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: don't put pills in your own teeth.

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Speaker 4: On yourself.

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Speaker 1: Not the message everybody needs, but at least somebody had

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Speaker 4: It's like those laws and you're like, who did this?

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Speaker 1: There's a sign of this shop now no bill.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one of those moments.

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