1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody, 3 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: we are scrubbing it from. 4 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 2: Bahamar in the Bahamas. Do we sound better today? 5 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: Do we sound like we got more than two hours 6 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: of sleep? 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 2: Yes? We do. But we're really excited. It's our second 8 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: day at Bahama. We're in the brand new podcast studio, 9 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: the studio at Baha Bar, and we're about to do 10 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 2: the ribbon cutting. So we're a little bit giddy and. 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: Excited, beyond excited. 12 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, I was telling Becca earlier today, 13 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 2: just like thirty minutes ago, this is really special because 14 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 2: I feel like I don't get to spend a lot 15 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 2: of quality time with you and Haley. Oh yeah, Like 16 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: as we get older and we are starting these new 17 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: seasons of life, it's really weird because like we used 18 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: to spend I used to come to your apartment every 19 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 2: single day after work. Every single day, I would go 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: to your apartment and we would like spend the whole 21 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:04,919 Speaker 2: day together. 22 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: We lived in the same building by way, that was 23 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: next door. She wasn't driving anywhere driving. 24 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,559 Speaker 2: No, Yeah, that would be crazy. You would never would 25 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 2: never do that, but like our lives are so different now, 26 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: you know, and like they're going to continue to get different, 27 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: and we're going to go through different seasons and so 28 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: these times are not as often, but they're so special 29 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 2: when we get to have them. And it's just been 30 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 2: really nice them and I feel very grateful. 31 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: It's been so much fun. Like even yesterday the travel 32 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: and like how tired we were, Haley was like, I'm 33 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 1: having the best time, Like I like, and I obviously 34 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: Haley loves you. We've always known that Haley loves you. 35 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: But I think because it's we're getting so much of 36 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: you because obviously when when you're a couple so much 37 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: on a couple's trip and it's like you do your own, 38 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: like you don't really like without us on this trip, 39 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: you're not going and doing anything by yourself, right, So 40 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: we're getting to have you by yourself, which obviously we 41 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 1: miss robbing. We love Robby, but it's been really fun 42 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: just having like the girls and like the girls and 43 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 1: the giggles, the giggles and the gals, the gals and 44 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: the giggles. Yeah, but we had the same we had 45 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: the same chatless. 46 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 2: It like really kind of got me emotional and like 47 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 2: nostalgic and just kind of like like how we're growing 48 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: up and how like relationships show how like relationships shift 49 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 2: in life. But like you know, in like your twenties, 50 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 2: you're so carefree and you don't have you know, I mean, 51 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 2: we didn't have significant others, so we were like young 52 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: and free, and like now we're it's like any. 53 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: Now we got ball and chain. 54 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: Now we got balls and chains and more to come. 55 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 2: But like they're all so exciting and they're all so 56 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 2: beautiful in their own way. But it does like change 57 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 2: your relationship. And I don't know, I just feel like 58 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 2: very grateful that we've remained so close. 59 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: And I don't know me too, telling ya we should 60 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 3: do a trip, Like we should do just a trip 61 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 3: where like girls like even obviously it's it's kind of 62 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 3: complicated sometimes being with a woman because every every. 63 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: Trip is a girls trip for me. It's the beauty 64 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: of it. Every it's like a slumber party for everywhere 65 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: we go. But it is nice to have like the 66 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: time with you with her, and then I also I'm 67 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: like it's so important to have time with you and 68 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: just me, you know, and and like my friendships and 69 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: even on the way here our second flight, Tanya and 70 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: I I think accidentally we're next to each other. 71 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, we both just and I didn't know where you 72 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 2: were sitting. So that's just like the stars. Yeah, and 73 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: so we had the best part is is I was 74 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 2: checking into the fight. I was like seven am and 75 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: I texted back and I'd be like, what seat are you? 76 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: So I gets the next one and I was like, 77 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: she's not waking up for like three more hours, so 78 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: I'm not waiting that. I just like got my seat. 79 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: She doesn't have a sea yet. I didn't, but Hailey 80 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: was a few roads ahead of us, and Tanya was like, 81 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: do you want me to switch with you? And it 82 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: was like that moment where I was like, wait, do 83 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: I need to switch to Haley? And then I was 84 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: like no, like this is and Haley didn't care. She's 85 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna eat my burger at nine a m. 86 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 1: And her sake and shake burger and yeah, it's just 87 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: been really fun. I'm happy to be here with you 88 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: and you and you. 89 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 4: We're having a great time here the first ever resort 90 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 4: based podcast studio. Did you guys get down to the 91 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 4: beach at all yesterday? Did you go in the water. 92 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,559 Speaker 2: No, but you know what we did do yesterday, which 93 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: was luxurious and decadent. We got massages. 94 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: We did and. 95 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 2: Let me tell you what a massage does when you're 96 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 2: on two hours of sleep. 97 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: They both went to sleep up to slip over. Haley 98 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 1: said she woke herself up twice snoring, and the girl 99 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,160 Speaker 1: told her, she I'm not I can't sleep in a massage. 100 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 2: You also can't sleep bent over. 101 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: I literally can't sleep unless I'm in my bed. But 102 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: we I've talked about this on the podcast. But I 103 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: dropped that mirror my leg and you saw the bruises. 104 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're pretty narly. 105 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: They're quite intense. And so I'm getting ready for the 106 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 1: massage and I'm like, oh my gosh, if she if I, 107 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta let her know these are off limits. 108 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 1: So I showed her and she's like, oh wow. She's like, yeah, 109 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 1: didn't make me feel better about the parents of them. 110 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: But she had to stay away. But the massage was amazing. 111 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really nice. It was in perfect yesterday. 112 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: But then we made the decision of going back to 113 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: the room and we all laid down on the bed 114 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: and because we had a dinner reservation, and we were 115 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: texting each other like I don't know how I'm gonna 116 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: get back up. 117 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 2: I was like sitting down with a very bad choice. 118 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: Cause yeah, but we went to dinner, and then I realized, 119 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: you know, I've always thought that Tanya Haley is a Tanya, 120 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 1: Tanya is a Haley. 121 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 2: We are. 122 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: It is so crazy how similar like both of them. 123 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 1: We went to dinner and we ate so much. We 124 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: ordered everything on the menu of the I don't think 125 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 1: it was that much, Okay, it felt like I felt 126 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: like a lot. 127 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 5: Like they kept bringing out plates, plates, and we all 128 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 5: kept eating like no, We'd be like, we're so full, 129 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 5: and then it's like, oh, can we see the dessert mini? 130 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: You know, there's no stopping. And then both of them 131 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: after is anyone else's stomach hurting? 132 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: I feel I ate too much, too much. 133 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all are the same. Like when I eat 134 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: too much, it's just I'm like, oh, man, to myself, 135 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: I eat too much. 136 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 2: But the announcements, multiple announcements until it stops hurting. 137 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: Which might be yeah, because they both have gun issues. 138 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: It is like, sometimes I feel bad for you, like 139 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 2: when I'm in like one of my moods and I'm 140 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: like kneeding from you. I'm like, oh, I forget that 141 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: she's in a relationship with the me and that could 142 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: be very tiring at times. But I feel like you 143 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 2: have a new appreciation for me. 144 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: I know how to handle both. Like I feel like 145 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: I anything you come at me with, I'm prepared, Like 146 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: nothing you do, even when you're pouting or you're acting 147 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: because I'm not giving enough attention. I'm like, I know 148 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: how to deal with this. I don't feel stressed. I'm 149 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: just like, okay, you know what Tanya does? Okay, what 150 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: does Tanya do? I was thinking about this this morning 151 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: because I naturally I run late. I'm always barely giving 152 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: myself enough time to get to where I need to be, 153 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: and I'm still probably late even if I get myself 154 00:07:56,440 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: enough time. Tanya will text me as I'm getting ready right, 155 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: she knows she's going to see me, but she'll be 156 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: can I have a sprits of perfume? And I'm like, 157 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: in my mind, I'm like, I don't have time to 158 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: answer to have this conversation. 159 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 2: I'm prepping you to know that I'm ready, well right, 160 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 2: and it's time to be ready. 161 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: Ten fifteen and it's ten, and she goes, I'm almost ready, 162 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, great, see you in fifteen. Ready like 163 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: my planned last night. 164 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 2: I I think if our podcast time is ten thirty, 165 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 2: that Beck, it means Beck and I need to be 166 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: on the couch starting to record at ten thirty. Becca, 167 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 2: I think things ten thirty means on our way walking 168 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 2: at ten thirty. 169 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: Oh, I said ten fifteen. 170 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 2: I know, but we also wanted to get coffee, and 171 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 2: I knew there was going to be a line. I 172 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: knew we were going to be late for the ten 173 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 2: thirty start, right, so I was trying to imagine we checked. 174 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: I was trying, okay, we are respectful before we stopped 175 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 1: and got coffee, and I said it was fine and 176 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: surely happen. 177 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 2: And I will tell you I have to fight my 178 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 2: type a personality when I'm with you, because I'm like, 179 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: I can't push her too hard because what's the point 180 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 2: in me leaving my room at ten am still be 181 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 2: waiting for her, you know, down there. 182 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 1: But if you last night said I think we should 183 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: be ready at ten am, I would have said, okay, 184 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: then that's so that then I would have played at 185 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: ten am. No, he said, we agreed to him fifteen. 186 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: Oh we did. 187 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I'm gonna blame attired because I would not 188 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 2: have agreed to. 189 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 1: Ten text until I'm almost ready. So then I'm I'm 190 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: stopping what I'm doing looking at my phone. It's not 191 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: something I need to respond to. And it's like I 192 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: need air to perfume. I'm like, Okay, ask me that 193 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 1: when you get here and need the perfume. And I'm like, 194 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: it's so funny because when I'm getting ready, I'm in 195 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 1: like I need to be focused because if I start 196 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: texting on the the side, it's going to distract me. 197 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: It's gonna throw me off. So I noticed you do that. 198 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: I do do that. I do do that. I'm also 199 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 2: very I could be very passive aggressive. 200 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, are. 201 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 4: You texting while you're getting ready? Is that something you do? 202 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: Yes? 203 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 4: I know you're ready at this point. 204 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 2: But I was ready. And the thing is I wake up. 205 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 2: I think I woke up earlier than her because I 206 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 2: like to I don't definitely, I don't like the stress 207 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 2: of like I need every minute like I like to know. Okay, 208 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 2: it takes me, like, let's say, all in thirty five 209 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 2: minutes to get ready forty minutes max. I give myself 210 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 2: a full hour so I can like get up, I 211 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: can take my time on the toilet, I can like 212 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: text a little on my phone, you know what I mean. 213 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: I don't like to be so like to the minute 214 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: because that would stress me out, right, So I give 215 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 2: myself I awake earlier on the back end, right right, right, 216 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 2: Well two types of people in the world. 217 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and we are then, Yeah, we represent it. 218 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: I even do it, like when I get ready for work, 219 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 2: Like if I wanted to, I could wake up probably 220 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 2: half an hour after my alarm. But I don't like 221 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 2: to have that rush in the morning. I like to 222 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 2: like drink my bone broth. I like to write my letters. 223 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 2: I like to step on my vibration plate if I can. 224 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is introducing a bigger thing that we don't 225 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 4: have to get into. But have we had the ADHD conversation? 226 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 1: Oh? I think we haven't. But I myself have had 227 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: it with myself. 228 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 4: Because I don't see a lot of the symptoms in you. 229 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 4: But also that's me. Maybe no, But like that's the 230 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 4: thing that people who have this is like that they 231 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 4: if there's like a deadline and it's coming up. That's 232 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,959 Speaker 4: when they work the best, you know, Like yeah, and 233 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 4: I'm kind of that way. 234 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and ah. 235 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 4: I that re means to be seen. 236 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 2: Yea as of now. 237 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 4: We'll see what happens later. But I don't know. I 238 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 4: just I was thinking about that with you because like, 239 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,840 Speaker 4: I know that because you always get here, I mean 240 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 4: you look amazing, like. 241 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: Everything always get here, get here. But does she get 242 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: here on time? 243 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 4: Not super late, I mean not hours, It's like ten minutes. 244 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 2: Right all the same time every week. That's what I 245 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 2: don't understand. I'll look at no, I m I at 246 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 2: like eleven fifty five, and you're still at your studio. 247 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what, nothing enrages me more than 248 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: when I make the effort to be there ride or twelve. 249 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: I walk into you all in a meeting. So I 250 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: purposely am never there at twelve because I loathe walking 251 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: in and then having everyone stares at you. It's the 252 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: worst feeling. 253 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 4: I understand completely, thank you, and I would do the 254 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 4: same thing. 255 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, I do think there might be a tinge 256 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: of ADHD just some I have some of the thing 257 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: the tendencies, yea, of like knowing my time and then 258 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 1: pushing it and then. 259 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 4: The other thing I noticed from the story is the 260 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 4: oh god, there's a name for this executive function or something. 261 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 4: But like you're getting ready, you're seeing the text from 262 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 4: tany coming in. I can't switch easily from one to 263 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 4: the other. If I if i go text her, I'm 264 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 4: gonna start scrolling or something like that. That's interesting. 265 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, I have the thing which I hear people 266 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: that have ADHD that this is the thing where a 267 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: notification or like a text on their phone can just 268 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: or email that you need to respond to can like 269 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: overwhelm you. Oh yeah, And it doesn't make sense, like logically, 270 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 1: I'm like I just responded to the email or I 271 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 1: just responded to the text. But for whatever reason, that's 272 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: why I would. I think that's also a reason why 273 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: when you text me like just like how are you 274 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: feeling or things like that, and it's not something that 275 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: I'm like immediately needing to respond to that, I just 276 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: shut it off and then you feel ignored nothing. 277 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 2: And enrages me more like a therapy and yeah we're 278 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 2: at the Bahamas and couples therapy. Nothing enrages me more 279 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 2: than when I'm being a attentive, wonderful friend when my 280 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 2: friend is sick and I'm checking out her daily, like 281 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: I'm like her mother, Hey, how are you feeling today, honey, 282 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 2: like every morning checking in, I will wait hours for 283 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 2: a response, and then I'm in three other group chats 284 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: with her and she's pink pank pin and in the 285 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 2: group chat, yeah, get tonya. Still how are you feeling? 286 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 2: Has been left on red for five hours and she's 287 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 2: yapping away in the group chats. Nothing infuriates me more. 288 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 1: I don't like to. Like even when I was sick 289 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: at home growing up, and when my mom would check 290 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: on me and ask me how I was feeling, it 291 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: made me feel like it's just like not great. I 292 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 1: don't know, I'm just like not great. I don't need 293 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: to be checked on when I'm sick. But I here's 294 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: the thing. I appreciate the sentiment of it because it 295 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 1: makes me feel loved that you care. But I don't 296 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: want to feel inclined to respond, especially when I'm not 297 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: feeling well. And if it's a group chat and it's 298 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: like fun and like light and I'm not having to 299 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: talk about how I feel, That's why I it. 300 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 4: Seems like if the group chat was But I think 301 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 4: if you text her and said how is Wuthering Heights? 302 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 4: You would get a response yes, but. 303 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 2: That's so frivolous. I don't care about that she's ill. 304 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 2: I want to make sure she's feeling better on the 305 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 2: men on the up and up. Yeah, I don't know 306 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: what for this is really Yeah, it's interesting because so 307 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 2: but it's interesting that you say you don't care about 308 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 2: me asking. So that's like a good note for me. 309 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 2: I can take that and run with it because after 310 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 2: my surch dream, I'm also like you. I'm like, I 311 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: don't need anybody checking in on me after my surgery. 312 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 2: I will Sophia was the most on me friend that 313 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 2: I could have ever asked for. And I loved it 314 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: so much, like it made me feel I loved it, 315 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 2: and I was like, I like cried to her because 316 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 2: I was like the way that you handled this situation, 317 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 2: I've never felt like more loved or cared for in 318 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 2: her friendship. And I was like, and I feel like 319 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 2: I've never been this good of a friend to you, 320 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 2: like or to you or to her like I said, 321 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 2: I was saying this to her, like I've I haven't 322 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: been that good of a friend to you like you've 323 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 2: been to me, and so it made me want to 324 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 2: be like that for all my friends. And so even 325 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 2: when you were sick, I'm like, I'm gonna do the 326 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 2: Sofia thing and I check in. 327 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't want to be Sophia. Yes, so 328 00:15:48,640 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: I can be more. I can be more the way 329 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: that you were to me, and you can be less 330 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: the way you were to me. Yes, yes, because if 331 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: you just I like distraction. So if you're like, oh 332 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: my gosh, like blah blah blah happened at work or whatever, 333 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: it is, like. 334 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: Distract me. 335 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 4: Okay, I mean, it's like knowing each other's love language, 336 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 4: but to what degree do you need? 337 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: Thats a. 338 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: She is And like I'm not even kidding. It was 339 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 2: so crazy, like I and like it's so weird because 340 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 2: I have Robbie and he's so attentive and so wonderful, 341 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 2: and like, I'm so grateful to have people around me 342 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 2: that like take care of me, and I don't need 343 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I was like, I I 344 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 2: didn't need anybody checking in, But just the way she 345 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 2: was checking in and like the way she handled the 346 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 2: whole situation made me feel like I haven't been like 347 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,920 Speaker 2: that to like my friends, and it made me want 348 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 2: to step up and be better. 349 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: I'll get some notes for her, see what she did 350 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: be like, what was your I. 351 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 2: Didn't feel slighted. I'm telling you, I didn't feel slighted 352 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 2: or I didn't feel like any of my other friends 353 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 2: weren't there for me at all. But it was just 354 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: this like it it's like a five star like. 355 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 4: Realizing, Yeah, what makes you feel loved and cared for you? Yeah, 356 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,479 Speaker 4: it's just such an interesting thing to learn about yourself 357 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 4: at thirty eight. 358 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 2: But I've also never and I've also never been that vulnerable, 359 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 2: like I've never had surgery. I've never you know what 360 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 2: I mean, Like I've never been like. 361 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 1: It was your first time going through something anything like that. 362 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, good to know. 363 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: It's good information for both of us. 364 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is good. 365 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 1: Something I'm really needing from Tanya on this trip and 366 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 1: she's refusing to do it that we're going to talk 367 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 1: about when we come back. All right, we are back. 368 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: We're back. 369 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: We are back. I don't know if you heard Becca say, 370 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 2: but we're back. We are at the brand new podcast 371 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 2: studio at Baha Mar celebrating the grand opening. We are here. 372 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 2: We just had couples therapy. 373 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 4: And progress. 374 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's feeling good. 375 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So first of all we mentioned but this resort 376 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 1: has endless activities. There's pools everywhere, there's a water park, 377 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: And I have this vision of watching both Haley and 378 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: Tnya go down to slide at some point, yes, and 379 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,639 Speaker 1: I'm begging for them to do it because I just 380 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: know the content is going to give in maculus and 381 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: both of them are saying they don't look Hailey's a 382 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:41,199 Speaker 1: little more willing, but Tonya's like, nah, she's poo pooing 383 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: it down. 384 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: I'm trying to stay away from plastics. No, I feel 385 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 2: like I'm gonna get some sort of like rash on 386 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 2: my butt cheek. And you're in a tube floating, Yeah, 387 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 2: you do that. 388 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 1: No, I don't need you to do this straight down. 389 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 2: Oh I thought you wanted me to do that one though, 390 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: like my ass is on the tube or my ass 391 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 2: is on the slide. 392 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: I don't like that one either. 393 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 2: And I was like I could see myself coming out 394 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 2: with like scratches and like. 395 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: No, because those when the slides that go straight down, 396 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,640 Speaker 1: water gushes up your body and like the last thing 397 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: I need is you having like a uti because I 398 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: forced you to do it on the slide. But but 399 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,719 Speaker 1: the tube one you get in a tube and you 400 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: go down and you like like kind of go like 401 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 1: slide side to side and then you go down like ah, 402 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: I think okay, I could do the tube. 403 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 4: Okay, would you do a double tube with Haley? 404 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: Yes? 405 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: Yes, changes everything, Okay, okay, Yeah, there's a layer between 406 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 2: me and the plastic. 407 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: I need this, so fingers crossed, I can get what 408 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: I need. But we're also at the ribbon cutting today. 409 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 1: They're gonna bring flamingos. 410 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 2: I love flamingos. 411 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 1: I've never been around them. 412 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 2: They're regal. 413 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're stunning. Yeah. I don't think we're so used 414 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:04,239 Speaker 1: to I think we're so numb to animals. And like 415 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: you think about the zebra and like it's pattern and 416 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: how wild it is, and then you see a I'm 417 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 1: going to freak out. See if you're gonna go I 418 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:12,679 Speaker 1: r L. 419 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 2: Yeah. I know the selfies are gonna be really cute. 420 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 4: There's a little like flamingo area over here the sanctuary, 421 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 4: and there's a science saying meet the mingos, and I'm like, 422 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 4: I'm gonna. 423 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 2: Be saying that a lot a few years ago. Yeah, 424 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 2: just me, I was the only one to v I 425 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 2: how am iconic? 426 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: Wow? So yeah, today will be our day of like 427 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: splashing around water water parks. 428 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 2: We got the therapy out of the way. Yeah. 429 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like once you get the therapy out of 430 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: the way, it's time to play. 431 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 2: That's what they say. 432 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 1: We were by the Traders last night. I'm just gonna 433 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 1: ignore that one. We watched The Traders finale, which was 434 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: really fun. I have never watched a show that was 435 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 1: airing live on TV at like I watch. I'm saying, 436 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: I've never been So what's the word like committed to something? 437 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 1: And so Sonya and Hailey are very committed. 438 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 2: If there's nothing about me, if there's something about me, yeah. 439 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't think you're saying these Yeah there's. 440 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 2: Something about me. I'm committed you are, and like it's 441 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,919 Speaker 2: it's it's really my love language, because you'll even when 442 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 2: Rob and I are like on vacation, like we're like 443 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 2: in the south of France and we're deep into a 444 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 2: Love Island season, we will come home and put our 445 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,400 Speaker 2: VPN on and watch that bad Boy every single night 446 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 2: when we get back from whatever we're doing. 447 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask Kaylee if that's something she would like 448 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: for me, because I don't get so sucked into TV shows, 449 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: but she does. 450 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,880 Speaker 2: So I'm going to say it's like the comfort of 451 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,120 Speaker 2: like your routine from home, do you. 452 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 6: Know what I mean? 453 00:21:55,600 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 2: But like whilst whilst away, it's like, well you put Traders. 454 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: On last night, mind you. I'm like needing toothpicks to 455 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:09,679 Speaker 1: hold my eyes open. I'm so tired. You would have 456 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,520 Speaker 1: thought Tanya got like a thirty minute nap curled up 457 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: in a chair at the airport and somehow that sustained. 458 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 2: No, it was my nap during the massage. 459 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 1: Oh that's right. 460 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, fifty minute nap really got me good. 461 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 1: Both of y'all had that, and you bud down a 462 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 1: little more energy than me, which makes sense. But can 463 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: we just get into Traders? 464 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 5: Yeah you must, Oh my gosh, Oh that's okay. 465 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 4: I work on a Traders podcast, so by osmosis, I 466 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:39,239 Speaker 4: kind of know what's going on. 467 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, therapist, you can help be the middle manager anybody 468 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 2: that's something that maybe does not watch the Traders. Yes, 469 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 2: So the episode started off with like the final killing. 470 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 1: Let's just say spoiler alert, spoiler alert, but this is 471 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: this You should have if you're watching the show, you 472 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: should have watched it by now. But if you haven't, 473 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,120 Speaker 1: there are there will be spoilers. 474 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 2: There will be spoilers. So they the first kill right 475 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,639 Speaker 2: off the bat. I was expecting it to be Johnny 476 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 2: or Tara. You were expecting it to be Maura. 477 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be Maura, but in fact 478 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: it was Mark. It was Mark, which was actually a 479 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: really good choice because in my opinion, out of Mark, 480 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: Tara and Johnny, I felt like Mark had the most 481 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 1: leadership that people would follow his opinion, like he could 482 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: convince Maura, and well he could have thought he was 483 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: convincing Eric. 484 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 2: My thought process was it was really smart that they 485 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 2: didn't kill Johnny or Tara, which I thought that they would, 486 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:43,640 Speaker 2: because then how is he going to convince Maura that 487 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,160 Speaker 2: Tara is a trader if she just killed Johnny her 488 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: best friend, How's she gonna How's he gonna convince Maurraa 489 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 2: that Johnny's a trader if he just killed Tara his 490 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 2: best friend. 491 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: Now, you can spend that either way, because that would 492 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: be the perfect crime. Like this whole time, it's like 493 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:57,640 Speaker 1: they would never do that to each other. 494 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 7: But Tara. 495 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 2: The whole thing was, I know Johnny's they were both 496 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 2: saying how they were both faithful. 497 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: I know, but that's the game, like they with how 498 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 1: Rob was able to convince her of anything. I think 499 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: he brought up could have easily said, don't you see 500 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: this is like the perfect way to play the game. 501 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: That the whole time she's saying they both know they're 502 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: faithfuls and then she kills him. Yeah, so either way, 503 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,679 Speaker 1: I think you could have made a defense for anyone 504 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: they killed as a good option. 505 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 2: So going into that last roundtable, I really thought they 506 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 2: got Maura. Like I thought Maura was in it with 507 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 2: the with the girlies and she was gonna go with 508 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 2: Tara and they were gonna vote off Eric, and I 509 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 2: was like convinced. 510 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: When she turned the sign. First of all, it went 511 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: to break. I had a video and Tanya's leaning up. 512 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: We were watching on Haley's computer, and Tania's leaning up 513 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 1: like almost face and face with the screen and maras 514 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 1: about to turn her board, and then it goes to 515 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,640 Speaker 1: break and she's like no, what. She grabs my leg 516 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: where my bruises and squeezes it. One thing you need 517 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: to know about to here she is heavy hand and 518 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: I was like, not the froot. So it comes back 519 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, that's all dramatic. Of course she's 520 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: gonna choose Eric, Like she basically told Tara like I'm 521 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,439 Speaker 1: with you, yeah, and she chose Johnny And at that 522 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 1: point I was like, we've. 523 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 2: Lost her, lost her. But they did a really good job, 524 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 2: I will say, of making me feel like Mara was 525 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 2: turning every step of the way. Every vote Maura had, 526 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yeah, she's she's hit with it. 527 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 2: Now she's gonna get it. She's gonna get him in 528 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:35,639 Speaker 2: every vote. It was like I was like, damn. 529 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 1: But even even Rob was like the way Morris talking 530 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: to Eric is how she talks to me, right, which 531 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: is like she's lying to me. 532 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 533 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 1: I was like, maybe she's smarter than we're giving her, 534 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: Like maybe she. 535 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: Knows so she in fact is not the way. 536 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: My whole stomach dropped when she voted for Tara because 537 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,320 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, they're taking her out. 538 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 2: Once it was the four, then once it was Maura, Tara, 539 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,840 Speaker 2: Eric and Rob, I was like, Okay, Mara's got it. 540 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 2: She's gonna vote with Tara. They're gonna get Eric. It's 541 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 2: gonna be a tie two to two. I don't even 542 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 2: know what they would do with that, And then she 543 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,880 Speaker 2: voted Tara out and I was like, damn. 544 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:22,320 Speaker 1: But man, I mean when Eric realized also that Rob, 545 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: Maura and Rob were teaming up against him, I felt 546 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 1: it was a really sad ending in the sense of 547 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 1: like watching everyone realize the betrayal, like Eric's face when 548 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: it happened in him, like seeing them by each other. 549 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,120 Speaker 1: And then I don't know that I've ever seen a 550 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: more devastating reaction than when. 551 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 2: Maura Rob was a trader. I knew it was gonna 552 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 2: be bad, but it was very bad. 553 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 1: And Haley was getting so upset. 554 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 2: She was like so mad, she was so sad. 555 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: And I'm like, he played a perfect almost a perfect game. 556 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 2: But I get what she's saying, because like, okay, Bean Steel, Yeah, 557 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,440 Speaker 2: like the whole game is to like and he did 558 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 2: I cheat and steal. But I get what Hailey's saying. 559 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 2: There's something so icky about the fact that he like 560 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 2: globbed on to this innocent, like petite girl. 561 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? 562 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 2: I say petite because she's just like this little like innocent, 563 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 2: like being and he just like use her as this 564 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 2: like pawn in the game. I know, I will just 565 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,920 Speaker 2: like it with everyone I know. I know, but there's 566 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 2: something so I don't know. It's like the hot guy wins, 567 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 2: like of course, the hot guy wins, like they win 568 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 2: at everything, do you know what I mean? Like it's 569 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 2: a little bit like that. Like I I was seeing 570 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,920 Speaker 2: how Haley was getting upset, and I understand because it's 571 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,560 Speaker 2: just like such a metaphor in our world. But like 572 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 2: the hot guys, we just believe the hot guys what 573 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 2: they say because they get away. They can get away 574 00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 2: with it whatever they want. I hate that. 575 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 1: I totally understand her being like, oh, like disappointed. 576 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, it's a game. It is the game. 577 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: So that's what like I kept. 578 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 2: Coming that day. 579 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,679 Speaker 1: You zoom out, and it's like it's this game show 580 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: that he's literally picked to do exactly what he did right, 581 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: and he did it right. 582 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 2: And it's interesting because like we watched a little bit 583 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 2: of the reunion. I had the grandmas wanting to go 584 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 2: to bed, so I had to leave, Oh my god, 585 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,160 Speaker 2: So but I watched a little bit of it and 586 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 2: I found it interesting, Like some people take it so 587 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,119 Speaker 2: personal and like get so upset about like the lying, 588 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's so you lied to she I'm like, 589 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 2: you all lied to everybody, Like it's the whole game. 590 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 2: That's like what you're supposed to do. 591 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 4: It's the game. But then I also think a lot 592 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 4: about like sometimes when I watch like The Bachelor and 593 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 4: I see people reacting to stuff that I'm like, this 594 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 4: is a game show, Like why like when you're like 595 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 4: away from home and you're this is all you're doing. Yeah, 596 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 4: I can kind of see how people would be like, 597 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 4: oh my god, I've been so betrayed. 598 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 6: You know. 599 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 2: It was interesting for me to see like how some 600 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 2: people took it and then how some people kind of 601 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 2: just like took it on the chin, like Maura. I 602 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 2: thought were Maura. I would be so pissed at Rob 603 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 2: and she's like on Instagram saying like congrats Rob and like. 604 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: But but also a lot of time has passed. 605 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 2: Two months, not so much time. 606 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hung out with her at the what was 607 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 1: that Dancing with the starspinel? 608 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 2: Yeah that was like in December, Oh wasn't it. 609 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, either way, it's been some time. Two months is 610 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: a long time to recover the grudge like that for 611 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,480 Speaker 1: two years. I guess my thing is like I think 612 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: the ego gets bruised because you're in and of course 613 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: people come are coming at the faithful. It's like are 614 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: you all idiots? Like how do you not see this? 615 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,719 Speaker 1: As we're like sitting on the couch watching it all 616 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: play out right, And so I think there's like the 617 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: ego of it all, and I think it's like do 618 00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: I not trust? Like can I not trust myself and 619 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 1: my instincts with people? And I think that's what upsets 620 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: people more than like the game being I do. 621 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 2: Hope that Maura like takes an inner look at herself 622 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 2: a little bit, just no, because of like what she 623 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 2: was saying, like she picks men who like cheat on her, 624 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 2: Like she chose Rob as like her trustworthy guy in 625 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 2: the game and he ended up being like a total liar, 626 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 2: you know. Like I'm hoping that she like listened, like 627 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,240 Speaker 2: it is like maybe my gut or like my instincts 628 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 2: aren't leading me in the right direction, and like she 629 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 2: can start leading in the right direction. 630 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 1: Do we think Rob? Rob disclosed that he's in a relationship. 631 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,719 Speaker 1: He's been in the relationship for two months. They were 632 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: kind of trying to make Mora and Rob like a thing. 633 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: Like you felt like they were trying to be like, 634 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: is there any chance? And then he was They were like, 635 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: are you single? 636 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 7: Rob? 637 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: And he said no, I'm not. And they said how long? 638 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: And he said two months? 639 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 4: Can we trust that? 640 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: I was thinking, if I'm this new girl I am, 641 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,560 Speaker 1: it's studying him on that show. 642 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 2: Really? 643 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know. 644 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 2: I watched him on Love Island. I don't think he's 645 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 2: a bad guy. I really don't. I know, he like 646 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 2: did some a lot of dirty things in this game, 647 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 2: but it is that is what the game is. I 648 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 2: don't think I think he's like innately a bad guy, 649 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 2: and I wouldn't personally, like if I was his girlfriend, 650 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 2: think that he was like an aligned cheat and steal 651 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 2: from me. 652 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't think he's a bad guy, but I also 653 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 1: think he is adored simply. I mean, I think he's 654 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 1: probably not. I'm sure he has is charming and nice, 655 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: but I think he's so good looking that he can. 656 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 2: Get away with it everyone. 657 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: I mean, look the way that people were just like 658 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 1: whatever you say, Master, because it was. 659 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 4: Like it's like it's a game, Like if there was 660 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 4: a game where you had to like destroy a children's playhouse, 661 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 4: like and someone does it really well, It's like, okay, 662 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 4: this is the game. But also the fact that you're 663 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 4: so capable. 664 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 2: I know, like me and traders. And I was a trader, 665 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 2: I would be caught immediately. 666 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 6: I would be I think you might slip under people's 667 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 6: tradar because you're so bad that they're like I've played Mafia, 668 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 6: like Robin, I went to a game night and we 669 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 6: played Mafia, and I was like the doc R or 670 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 6: something like. 671 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 2: I was not whatever, and no, I was the investigator. 672 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 7: I don't know. 673 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,840 Speaker 2: I was somebody that was trying to like get like 674 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 2: trying to help the faithfuls. And because I was acting 675 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 2: so weird, I was killed like the second round because 676 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 2: Robbie's like she I know her and she's acting weird. 677 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 2: Was like, well, yeah, it's like that he killed me. 678 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 2: And I was like, dang, but I don't know. I 679 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 2: I uh oh wait. I wanted to pivot to the 680 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 2: the Donna Kelce of it all. So Donna Kelsey's like, 681 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 2: bless her heart, she was the first one out gone to. 682 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 2: She was like trader, yeah, which I think they made 683 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 2: up just for her, but. 684 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: They just wanted her on the show. 685 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 2: I the like literally, like the second question she gets 686 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 2: asked is did Taylor watch? Yeah, And like I could 687 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 2: see it on her face that she was just like 688 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 2: h And I like felt bad for her because I'm 689 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,400 Speaker 2: just like I would be so scared. But it's his 690 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 2: her mother in law, so she kind of has the 691 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 2: upper hand. 692 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's the thing. Obviously. The Kelsey brothers are 693 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: entity of their own selves. You know, you bring Taylor 694 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 1: Swift into it all and it just explodes them and 695 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: their family name and Donna Kelcey, and it's like, of course, 696 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure it is annoying that everything that is involved 697 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 1: around them is Taylor Swift, and at the same time 698 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 1: you have to just accept it and embrace that. People. 699 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 1: It is interesting Taylor does Taylor watch The Traders? Like 700 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:32,720 Speaker 1: I know, I have a show. 701 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 2: The fact that she said all of her family watches, 702 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god. If I was on the 703 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 2: season of The Traders, I'd be like Taylor Swift and 704 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,200 Speaker 2: her mom and her dad and her brothers sit around 705 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 2: their TV and they're watching me Mark ballas play Traders? 706 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? That's what I'm saying. 707 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just it's sometimes I it. 708 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 2: Does humanize them a little bit. 709 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,480 Speaker 1: I feel like it would be if if someone asks 710 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: this is like the smallest scale ever, But I'm putting 711 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: my own self in there. If someone and asked about 712 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: The Bachelor and I was like, can we just not 713 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 1: associate with that with me anymore? Because I like, I 714 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: that's a part of my past. 715 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 6: It's like, that's why people, that's why you're here, That's why. 716 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 2: I get it. 717 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: I get it. 718 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 2: And I feel like if they didn't ask her that, 719 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 2: all the tweets and stuff would be like why did 720 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 2: you ask Donna Taylor? 721 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the most innocent question. 722 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:23,399 Speaker 2: Yeah right. 723 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: She wasn't like who was she rooting for? 724 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 5: Right? 725 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: It was just like did she watch right? It's as 726 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: basic as you can get, as basic as you and 727 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: I'm sure Donna was like I don't care if she 728 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: watched or not, and she just wants to be sure. Yeah. 729 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, they make a big thing of popcorn and watch 730 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 2: it down and. 731 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:43,799 Speaker 1: She's like, did I say too much? That's what I did. 732 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 1: I say too much. All she said was like, yeah, 733 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 1: she watches I thought this was really. 734 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 2: It was a really great season. So I just want 735 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 2: to say to all the contestants and. 736 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 1: Traders, faithfuls, all of the producers, editors, like, y'all crushed. 737 00:34:59,040 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, they crushed. 738 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:19,240 Speaker 7: Shit I've heard and I don't. 739 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: Know if this is accurate, that they're doing the next 740 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: season will be like All Stars. Oh I heard it 741 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 1: was normal, just like regular people. Civilians. 742 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 2: Oh, I heard all Stars, and I'm really fast to 743 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,240 Speaker 2: see if there's potentially a Traders All Stars. 744 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 3: Yes. 745 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 1: Wait, so are they doing both a Civilian and All 746 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 1: Stars Civilians? 747 00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? See, okay, okay, so season five will be Civilians 748 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,360 Speaker 2: and the season six will be All Stars. And I 749 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 2: what I was so happy that I was correct. What 750 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 2: I was reading about the All Stars is that like 751 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 2: they're going to bring back They're looking at Lisa, Rinna, 752 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:01,480 Speaker 2: They're looking at Rob, They're looking at Souri and Ari 753 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 2: from the first season. They're looking at Rob from Survivor. 754 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 2: They're looking at Pilot Pete. 755 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 1: These are all expected most didn't have a fair chance. 756 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,319 Speaker 2: Who's gone first? 757 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 6: Right? 758 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 7: So sad? 759 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 2: I would be devastated if I was like one of 760 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 2: the first two or. 761 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,239 Speaker 1: Three to go. Yeah, that would be sad. Yeah, I'm 762 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,400 Speaker 1: excited for the Civilian season because I like watching without 763 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: no like you don't know anyone strength. 764 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 2: There's like alliances like the Housewives and like Love Island 765 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:39,439 Speaker 2: and all that. Ice skaters, ice skaters, yeah, Olympians, Olympians. 766 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:40,440 Speaker 7: Yeah. 767 00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,239 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was a really fun season, great finale, 768 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:47,319 Speaker 1: but like devastating breaking for the television. 769 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 2: Like so nobody here watches Beast Games. I'll make it quick, 770 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:59,440 Speaker 2: but please please make the Beast Games finale air this week. 771 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 2: The Ters finale aired this week. The Survivor season fifty, 772 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 2: it's a three hour premiere episode aired this week. I'm 773 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 2: get I get to watch it. My family's waiting to 774 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,799 Speaker 2: watch it with me. So when I get back. Yeah, 775 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 2: so I'm excited to watch that when I get home. 776 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 2: I mean, TV is popping right now. 777 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:18,880 Speaker 4: If I were. 778 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: Three hours for premiere is. 779 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 2: I know. But Robbie said he's been hearing from people 780 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 2: he trusts that like it was a really good premiere 781 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:33,800 Speaker 2: because Survivor has kind of gotten like a little I 782 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 2: don't know what the word is. It used to be 783 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,880 Speaker 2: super gnarly, like they were like out in the woods 784 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 2: and like they would have like all these bug bites 785 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 2: and they were like in like the same clothes Now 786 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,359 Speaker 2: they give them like all kinds of clothes, like they 787 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 2: barely look like they just got manicures. It's not as 788 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 2: like rough and tough. Yeah, it's not as rough and 789 00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 2: tough as it used to be. And like I'm hearing 790 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,879 Speaker 2: that this season. It's like back, I hear the. 791 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 4: Jeff props is gonna participate in a little. 792 00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,839 Speaker 1: Bit of it at Yeah. 793 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 4: I saw that headline the other day and people are 794 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 4: saying like, oh, I bet he's just gonna be like 795 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 4: in a challenge or something. He was saying like, I'm 796 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 4: a contestant this year. Don't quote me. I just saw 797 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 4: a headline. I did not investigate it further. 798 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:13,439 Speaker 1: You could play the game. 799 00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 800 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,920 Speaker 1: So I imagine him being in his trailer and then 801 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: being like, all right, Jeff, come out from the I'm excited. 802 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: I'm excited for you. Thank you anything to get home too. 803 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something to be excited about. Yeah. 804 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: I think that's all because we have a ribbon to cut. 805 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,760 Speaker 1: Vote do we have a ribbon to cut? It's time 806 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 1: for the ribbon cutting ceremony for the studio at Baha Maar. Yeah. 807 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 2: We really just want to say thank you so much 808 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 2: to everybody. Here at Bahama, the studio Baha Mare. Congratulations, 809 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,960 Speaker 2: thank you for having us in our podcast and choosing us. 810 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 2: If you guys want to make this your luxury resort destination, 811 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 2: it is Bahamar. There are three iconic hotels here. There's 812 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 2: the Grand Hyatt, which is where we're saying that slus 813 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 2: and the Rosewood. They offer more than two three hundred 814 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 2: rooms and forty restaurants and lounges. The spot was amazing, 815 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 2: which we talked about. There's golf courses, there's tennis, there's 816 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 2: retail shopping, there's gambling. I mean there's literally a. 817 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 4: Jet ski shaped like a Lamborghini saw. 818 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:25,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this would be a great vacation with the kids, 819 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,360 Speaker 2: without the kids. Something for everybody. 820 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: And by the time we're back, you guys will have 821 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: a new Harry Styles album. 822 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:37,920 Speaker 2: No, yeah, yes, Oh my gosh. Can I tell you 823 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 2: guys something really quickly before we leave please. So we 824 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 2: booked this trip and we've had this trip planned for 825 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 2: a while. I got invited to listen to the new 826 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 2: Harry Styles album before it came out. 827 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: Wow where. 828 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,720 Speaker 2: I don't know where, not with him songs him okay, 829 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,359 Speaker 2: but nonetheless listened to the album and it was when 830 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 2: we were already here. It's like happy as we speak. 831 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well you know, maybe someone can send 832 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: you a link. 833 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 2: Well, no, no, I just have to listen. 834 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 4: With the rest of the world that listened. Can you 835 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,400 Speaker 4: get like a secondhand, like is there someone else that 836 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 4: went your place? 837 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? No, not in my place. But there are a 838 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 2: couple of people from Kiss that went. 839 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, consistent to say like it's good. 840 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,879 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think Ronnie went to yeah, we just need 841 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 2: like what are the highlight Like, what are the songs. 842 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 1: The vibes? 843 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,880 Speaker 2: I wonder if they signed n d as it would 844 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:28,440 Speaker 2: be very. 845 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 4: Funny if it was bad. I'm just gonna say it 846 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 4: would be very funny. 847 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,359 Speaker 1: I would not I feel like no one will say 848 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,839 Speaker 1: if it's bad. He's one of those artists. 849 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 2: Say the internet is ruthless these days. People will be saying. 850 00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:45,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, not his real fans, though his real fans are 851 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 1: They're it's amazing. 852 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 6: Yeah. 853 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 2: Like he could like say that Encyclopedia and I'd be like. 854 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 1: Okay, let's go hang with the Flamingos. Okay, cut the ribbon, 855 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 1: love you all, Love you All by He