1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachler Happy Hour. I'm Joe 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: and I'm Serena and we are with none other than 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: Tanner from Vechelor in Paradise. 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 2: Tanner, what's up guys already? Thanks for having me on this. 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: Thanks of course, we got a lot we want to 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: talk to you about. 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 3: Is this your first time ever on We didn't have 8 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 3: you at Charities Mental hell did we? 9 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: No? No, it is my first time talking to you guys. 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 3: So welcome. 11 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. I was listening to you guys all all throughout 12 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,639 Speaker 2: Charity Season with all my boys like Joey and Dawton on. 13 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:31,479 Speaker 2: So this is cool nice? 14 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: Is this your first podcast? 15 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: Sure? 16 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: Is oh nice? 17 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, you're my first, Joe. 18 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 3: Then it's a special moment, special moment for everyone. 19 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: Let's let's get into a little bit of your backstory. 20 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: How'd you how'd you get on Charity Season in the 21 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: first place? 22 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 2: Yes, I mean I was just working, living in Pitts 23 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: living in Pittsburgh and uh my brother just signed me 24 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: up anonymously. He didn't even tell me he was doing it. So, 25 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: uh I got a ring them call from a from 26 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 2: a cruiter. They said, do you want to be on the show. 27 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, like probably not, but 28 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: let's go through the process and kind of see what happens. 29 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 2: And obviously I made it to the end, and it 30 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 2: was one of those things where it was like, you know, 31 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: you know, opportunity comes, you got to kind of go 32 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 2: that way, and obviously I was single at the time, 33 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 2: and so I said yes, and now we're here. 34 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 3: I feel like that's the thing for a lot of people, 35 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 3: especially people that get nominated or like scouted, is it's 36 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 3: like do I want to be on the show? 37 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 2: No? 38 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 3: But do I want to see if I. 39 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: Could get on the show? 40 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? Exactly, And then you. 41 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 3: Get to the end. It's such a lengthy process and 42 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 3: then the opportunity arises. You're like, well, am I really 43 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 3: going to say no to this? Like I did it, 44 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 3: I got on, Like it's such a once in a 45 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 3: lifetime opportunity. 46 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: Well, I don't think anyone. I don't think anyone. And 47 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: I put myself in this group of people that, like, 48 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: you almost don't want to admit to yourself that like 49 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: you're kind of intrigued, Like you're like, oh, like they 50 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: want me, yeah, wait, You're like your wall is instantly 51 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: up until they finally ask you, and then you're like, well, 52 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: I got to do it now. 53 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, even all my friends were asking me, and I 54 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 2: kept I didn't really tell anybody I was even going 55 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 2: through the interview process because you really can, so I 56 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: was kind of keeping it pretty close to my chest. 57 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 2: But towards the end, once I got the contract, I 58 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 2: was like, yeah, we're going to do this for sure. 59 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: So and are you still in Are you still in Pittsburgh? 60 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, Pittsburgh, PA. 61 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: And what do you do for a living? 62 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 2: So I was I was a mortgage lender for the 63 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 2: past three years, and I've always been part time personal 64 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 2: training and working as a fitness instructor. But as of 65 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: two weeks ago, I finally quit my mortgage job and 66 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 2: I'm going fitness full time. So I'm super excited about it. 67 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 3: Congratulations. 68 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Thanks. It's one of those things where it's like 69 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: your your your main hustle funds or side hustle until 70 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 2: you can kind of go that way. So I'm excited. 71 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 2: So hopefully good things are coming. 72 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: Do you have like do you have a do you 73 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: have a gym? Do you have like a and him 74 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: where you teach classes? 75 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: I do. I don't own it, but I operated a 76 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 2: gym here in Pittsburgh, but I teach like it's almost 77 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 2: like a Berries boot camp kind of feel. It's called 78 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: Walk Run Lift Studio, So I teach classes there and 79 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 2: I also film like my YouTube channel there and my 80 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,119 Speaker 2: own app coming out Probaly later this year. 81 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 3: So it'll be cool, big year, big year for Tanner. Well, 82 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 3: if you guys live in Pittsburgh, you know where to 83 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 3: find him. You know where to go get fit with Tanner. 84 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: I saw, I saw, yeah, I saw you were in uh, 85 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: I saw you were in New York and you did 86 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: that like five You ran like five miles through Central Park, right. 87 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is the I love the run. I 88 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: kind of have a love hate relationship with running. I 89 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: like more of like a weightlifter. But you know, I 90 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 2: had a shoulder injury, so I got into running, and 91 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: New York's my favorite place in the world. So anytime 92 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 2: I'm there, I try to go for at least like 93 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: a long run just to kind of zone out and 94 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: see the city a bit. So it was cool. 95 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: Nice, nice, Yeah, I'm doing the marathon and let's go. 96 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, that goes. But yeah, all the money like 97 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: prepping for for it in all the miles that I'm 98 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: putting in a week. I'm just like, my body's really starting. 99 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 2: How are you? How are your knees? Everything? Okay, my 100 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: knees are good. 101 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: I'm more I'm more actually concerned about my ankles. But 102 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: we'll see. My body feels okay. I'm just I'm it. 103 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: I have a hard time because I still go to 104 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: the gym and I'm having I'm struggling now, like lifting 105 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: weights because I just feel like I'm I'm I'm losing losing, 106 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 1: losing strength from running so much. 107 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: I'll be at the end with the sign. 108 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 2: And me too, I'll be at the end. That's awesome. 109 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: All right, let's get into uh, let's get into paradise. 110 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: Were you were you excited? Were you shocked when they 111 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: ask you? Were you hesitant? And all? To go back on? 112 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 2: You know, it was a full day. I was in 113 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: Pittsburgh a whole day before I got the call, so 114 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 2: they gave me a lot of time to prepare thing. 115 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 3: You guys are it's like quick turnaround, but I guess 116 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 3: it makes sense with the guy seduling for filming exactly. 117 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 2: So I you know, I was definitely shocked. I was like, 118 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: you know, give me a minute here to kind of 119 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: decompress from the bachelorette and uh, and it took Honestly, 120 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: it took a while. I wasn't sure if it was 121 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 2: something I wanted to do again. I was looking forward 122 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 2: to kind of getting back into my everyday routine and everything. 123 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 2: But once I found out, you know that some of 124 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: my guys were going, and you know, there was interest 125 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: on the other side with some girls that might be there. 126 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 2: And again, I'm a yes man. I usually say yes 127 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: to fun, exciting things, and you know, a couple of 128 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 2: weeks in Mexico sounded pretty good, so I'm happy I did. 129 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 2: It was those great. 130 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: Well, there's a lot of women right now that are 131 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 1: interested in you, Like they're all been pretty vocal about 132 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: like you've been like one of the number one guys. 133 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: Have been waiting to see who on your end? Have 134 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: were you waiting to see down there? 135 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 2: Yeah? 136 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 3: Like who was your list when they asked who you 137 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 3: were interested in? 138 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 139 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I mean I even told Kat, I said 140 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: I had a very very short list kind of going 141 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 2: in and uh, and Kat was on it for sure, 142 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 2: and uh and Jess was on it as well. So 143 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 2: really those two were the only two that was like 144 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: somewhat interested in. But once I got there, you know, 145 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 2: it's like, well, kind of see what happens. 146 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: So okay, so you go down and you first grab 147 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: at least we see, so you first grabbed Jess. How 148 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: was that conversation and did she because we see a 149 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: lot of things happening right now between her and Blake, 150 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: Was she interested in going on a date with you? 151 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? For me, Jess was kind of hard to read 152 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: in that first interaction. I was definitely super nervous coming 153 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 2: onto the beach in the first place, and I was 154 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 2: really looking forward to meeting her, and I don't know, 155 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: we had We had a pretty good conversation, and to 156 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: be honest, I wasn't sure who I wanted to take 157 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: on that first tape, but I was happy to have 158 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 2: at least met Jess. I mean, she's obviously gorgeous. He's 159 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 2: kind of quirky and funny too, So you know, the 160 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 2: conversation went great, but I didn't know if it had 161 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: I don't know that spark, you know that right off, 162 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 2: right off the bat, and to ask her on that date. 163 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,799 Speaker 2: So okay, yeah, so obviously I chose Kat. 164 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So so you choose so you choose Kat, and 165 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: you guys go on a date. You seem you guys 166 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:12,239 Speaker 1: hit it off, right. 167 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, A quick question, Yeah, before we jump into the date, 168 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 3: So when because now we're like backtracking that all in 169 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 3: terms of the show. At that time Kat was with 170 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: Braiden and we saw that as viewers. Was she open 171 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 3: about her relationship with Braiden? How did she kind of 172 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: describe it to you before you asked her on the date? 173 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 174 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Kat was super excited to meet me, and you know, 175 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 2: I obviously asked about Braiden, and she said that they 176 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: were like, you know, talking right, they were getting to 177 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: know each other. But she didn't give me any kind 178 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: of sense that, you know, she was actively pursuing him 179 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 2: and that she was like super excited about him. And 180 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 2: then obviously things played out a little bit differently after that, 181 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 2: but yeah, she didn't really make it seem like they 182 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: were super super into each other into each other until 183 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 2: you know, I kind of found out later on Gotcha. 184 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so you go on the date, get you, 185 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: you hit it off with her, and you come back 186 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,239 Speaker 1: and then we see all the cat braid and stuff 187 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: come to a head. So we don't really see on 188 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: the show. We don't really see much interviews of you 189 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: talking about it, But what's going on in your mind 190 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: as all this is starting to go down. 191 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. I tried to try my best to stay out 192 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 2: of all the drama as much as possible. So I 193 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 2: was probably talking to Wells at the bar, to be honest, 194 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 2: But you know, the way I looked at it, it 195 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: had nothing to do with me. You know. I came 196 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 2: in and I asked her on a date, and I 197 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: started a relationship with Kat. If Kat and Braiden had 198 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 2: some kind of relationship prior to me, that's that's up 199 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 2: to them to figure out, right. I didn't really want 200 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 2: to get involved in that. I didn't really care to 201 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 2: know more information about that. All I cared at that 202 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: point was getting to know Kat and figuring out if 203 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 2: we were gonna, you know, make it work or not. 204 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: So I just tried to stay out of it as 205 00:08:58,600 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 2: much as possible. 206 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 1: Smart, I mean smart. Okay, So now we get Cat. 207 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,559 Speaker 1: You and Cat are kind of you're basically together for 208 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: paradise terms before Davia comes down, What is your what 209 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: is your relationship status with Cat? 210 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 2: Yeah? 211 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 3: Where are you at? Like? Are you like, oh, this 212 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 3: could really go somewhere. Are you like this is nice, 213 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 3: but like we're still open? 214 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: Have you had Have you had the conversation about being 215 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: exclusive yet? Is anything anything like that? 216 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: No? At that point, it was so early, especially for 217 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 2: me because I came in a little bit late. So 218 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 2: you know, from my perspective, Kat had a few days 219 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: on the beach in the beginning to date to meet 220 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 2: multiple people. She ended up liking Brayden, so she went 221 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: that way. But for me, I came in and I 222 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 2: really only got to really know Kat, so you know, 223 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: I wasn't exclusive with her. I made that kind of 224 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 2: clear with her. But I was excited about it, right, 225 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 2: I mean, it was super super excited to be in Paradise. 226 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,439 Speaker 2: We went on an awesome date. Never rode a horse before, 227 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 2: so like that was super fun. 228 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: Did not to cut you off? Did she? Did? 229 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 2: She? 230 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: You made it clear that you didn't want to be 231 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: exclusive yet, But what was her opinion on that? Did 232 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: she want to be exclusive yet? 233 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 2: No? She was on the same page, yeah, saying we 234 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 2: were on this. We were always on the same page 235 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 2: with when it came to that. You know, she didn't 236 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: really press me to be exclusive with her, and I 237 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 2: didn't expect her to be exclusive with me either, you know, 238 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: someone else came down to the beach and asked her 239 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 2: on a date, Like obviously, It's like that's always the 240 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 2: hardest part about Paradise, right, It's like you want to 241 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 2: try to be cool and like now you can go 242 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: do your thing. But and I probably and I probably 243 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 2: would have played that card. But uh, you know that's paradise, right. 244 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: We're there to meet people, were there to date, so 245 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have tried to hold her back. 246 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So Davia comes down, she asked, I want 247 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: to talk to Tanner. You guys have a conversation. 248 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 3: And how does that combo go? Like I'm assuming she 249 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 3: so we know she pulls you first. Are you thinking 250 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 3: like she's gonna pull our guys or are you like, 251 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 3: oh yeah, like there's a spark here? Does she like 252 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 3: kind of like she obviously we know she came down 253 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 3: to meet yo. Is she kind of disclosing that to you. 254 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 2: A little bit? She didn't say specifically when we had 255 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: the conversation that like I'm here for you. She said that, 256 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: like you know, you were on my mind, You're on 257 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 2: my list, and uh, and that was great to hear 258 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 2: from me, because like, I obviously knew that there was 259 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 2: some buy in from her side, and she's like adorable. 260 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 2: She was super cute and bubbly and like excited to 261 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 2: be there, excited to meet me. So that conversation just 262 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 2: flowed really well. But obviously I thought she was going 263 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: to be pulling other guys too, so I wasn't really 264 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: expecting to be the only one that she pulled. 265 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: So how did you feel when she said, Tanner, I 266 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: don't need to pull anyone else. Would you like to 267 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: go on the state with me? 268 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 2: I got super excited, man, I said yes right away. 269 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 3: I like that, and I like the way she said 270 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 3: it of like I want to be in intentional. I 271 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 3: talked to someone I have an interest in them, and 272 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with that. I thought it was great, 273 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 3: and like I can imagine, felt really flattering on your part. 274 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: Oh for sure. I mean it's a badass move and 275 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: that's nerve wracking coming down to the beach. You don't 276 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: know who's there, everyone's looking at you, and you have 277 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 2: a date card and there's a lot of pressure. So 278 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 2: she came in and I thought she was like she 279 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: handled herself really really well. And that was attractive to 280 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 2: me just to kind of see a strong, confident woman 281 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: saying exactly what she wants and she wanted me at 282 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:29,880 Speaker 2: that point. So I've made me real good. 283 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: No, that really that that came across. Okay, So you 284 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: guys go on the date. 285 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 3: And first you pull Kat oh okay, yeah, to have 286 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 3: a chat with her. 287 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 2: That's a key part. I did pull Cat. 288 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 3: That is a key part. We will not skim over that. 289 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 3: Don't worry, har We know you pulled Kat to have 290 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 3: a conversation with her. Were you nervous going to that 291 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 3: conversation because honestly from and it's her birthday, it's her birthday. 292 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 1: What an asshole she have her birthday that day? 293 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 2: I know, I know. And crazy story. I actually broke 294 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 2: up with my last girlfriend on her birthday too, So 295 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 2: this I know. I know. It's horrible. It's horrible. 296 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 1: Jesus should. 297 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 3: That information with people yourself? 298 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 2: All right? I didn't say that, but no, I mean, 299 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 2: obviously horrible, horrible timing with birthday. And obviously don't want 300 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: to ever hurt anybody, right, That's like the one thing 301 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: I never want to hurt anyone. But I was excited, I. 302 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 1: Thought quick breaking up with people out of their birthday, 303 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: for one, So we're. 304 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 3: Cutting that part out or striking from the record. 305 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: But yeah, so I pulled Cat, and you know, maybe 306 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 2: I should have pulled her first, had a conversation and 307 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 2: then decided, but I was so in the moment and 308 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 2: I was excited, so I responded pretty quickly. But I 309 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 2: thought I did the right thing by pulling Cat and 310 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: just letting her know where my head was at. And 311 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 2: I just wanted to let her know that, you know, 312 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: going on this date is going to give me clarity 313 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 2: either way. Right. It's it's one of those things where 314 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 2: it's if I go on the date with Dabia and 315 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 2: we have a shitty date and it sucks and we 316 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 2: don't like each other, then like great, and then come 317 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,559 Speaker 2: back and Cat and I keep building something that was 318 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: already pretty strong, or like the opposite happens, right, So, uh, 319 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: you know, I say yes and yeah, so we'll see. 320 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 1: And what was what was Kat's response to basically you saying, like, 321 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to go on this date? 322 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 2: She she wasn't happy. No, no, she was she was 323 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 2: not not happy. 324 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: I mean, what was her what was her reasoning for 325 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: not being what was her. Did she tell you, like, 326 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: I don't think you should go? 327 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 2: She didn't know, She didn't say that. She's like she said, 328 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 2: she was kind of passive aggressive in the way she 329 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 2: was saying, you know, go do your thing, whatever makes 330 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: you happy. And you know, it put me in a 331 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: bad situation too, because I wish that you would have 332 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 2: been somewhat understanding of the position I was in, but 333 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 2: there really was no understanding from her point, and she 334 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 2: kind of stormed off. So obviously no hard feelings at 335 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 2: that time. I went on and went on the date anyways, 336 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 2: but it was it was definitely tough because you don't 337 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 2: want to hurt anyone, and obviously it being her birthday, 338 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: we planned on spending her birthday together at Paradise. So yeah, 339 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 2: just just bad timing all around there. 340 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: So was there anything that she could have said to 341 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: stop you from going on the date. 342 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 2: I don't think so, to be honest. At that point, 343 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 2: it was so early in our relationship and I wanted 344 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: to go on a date with Dabya. You know it 345 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 2: was she was a gorgeous girl that came down super excited, 346 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 2: and I knew we were gonna have fun. So I 347 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 2: don't think there's anything that Kat could have said that 348 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 2: it would stop me. But I thought of Kat maybe 349 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: handled it a little bit better. It could have maybe 350 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 2: had a better impression in my mind about about Kat right. 351 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 3: The way she handled it, Like if she handled it 352 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 3: and the conversation had gone really well and she was 353 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 3: really understanding that, Yeah, you would have been attractive to 354 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 3: that quality and maybe a little more like you probably 355 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 3: still would have on the date but been like, oh, 356 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 3: like I'm excited to come back and talk to her. 357 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 3: Yeh like left you with a good impression before you 358 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 3: went on the. 359 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: Date and that. Okay, so you're having your date with 360 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: Davia now and it's from our point of view, it 361 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: looks like it's going great. Could you talk a little 362 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: bit about just how it went and everything. 363 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, uh, we went to dinner and we 364 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 2: had a beautiful conversation. Honestly, we were so engaged with 365 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 2: each other and we shared a lot of deep things 366 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 2: about one another, and it was awesome. We really had, 367 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 2: you know, uninterrupted time to get to know each other, 368 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 2: and we were actually a lot more similar than when 369 00:16:33,480 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 2: we thought, you know, and we had a great dinner. Obviously, 370 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 2: we had a little surprise on the rooftop after we 371 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 2: had a little private salsa band up there and we 372 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 2: danced the night away. And she's honestly a fantastic dancer. 373 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: Like I was gonna say, was she like a dancer 374 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 3: or ballerina or something, because like you guys did the 375 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 3: journey dance left, I was like, oh, she's like you 376 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 3: say she she's like the way she's holding her body, 377 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 3: she's done this before. 378 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 2: And I like that big dumb, strong guy like, yep, 379 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: I can do this part. But yeah, I don't know 380 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 2: if she was in ballet, but she was definitely a dancer. 381 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,239 Speaker 2: So I was just following her lead and we were 382 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 2: cracking up like we were having so much fun, and 383 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 2: it was honestly, it was a great, great night. It 384 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 2: was a great date. 385 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 3: So yeah, it looked like a lot of fun. 386 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have a good time, all right. 387 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 1: So then what is give us like a percentage of 388 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: where is your mind at with who? After this date 389 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:30,880 Speaker 1: you're leaning more towards dove. 390 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 3: Out, I mean like seventy. 391 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, like where are you? 392 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,439 Speaker 2: You know? I hate this about myself, but I'm very 393 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:42,359 Speaker 2: indecisive and I try not to be, like I really like, 394 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 2: take me to cheesecake factory, and I'll crumble because if 395 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 2: there's too many options here but it's too big, like 396 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 2: give me eight entrees, it'll be good. But uh, But honestly, 397 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 2: between Cat and Doggya, they were so different, and and 398 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 2: Cat and I started off so strong, and I went 399 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 2: there to meet Cat, so that was always in the 400 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 2: back of my head, where you know, I came here 401 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 2: specifically to meet Kat. I'm here with Kat. Let's see 402 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 2: where that goes. But then Dabia came in and kind 403 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 2: of shook things up for me. So I hate to 404 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 2: say it, but and that in those moments, I was 405 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 2: really fifty to fifty I really was wow. Interesting. 406 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 1: See, I would have thought you would have been like 407 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: especially the way Kat handled the initial conversation before you 408 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: went on the date. I would have thought that day 409 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 1: after watching that date, you would have been like eighty 410 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 1: twenty Dabya. 411 00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I had spent like three days with that, so 412 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 3: there's a lot of like foundation there too, I guess, yeah, yeah. 413 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 2: I mean it was tough, and especially because like I 414 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:39,199 Speaker 2: wanted to, I never wanted to make too quick of 415 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: a decision either too. I kind of wanted to see 416 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: where things played out. So in those moments, it was 417 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 2: fifty to fifty because in my head I was like, well, 418 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 2: maybe even Cat and I can work on things. Maybe 419 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: Cat and I can get there. Right, So it's it 420 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:54,439 Speaker 2: was tough. It was definitely tough. But yeah, I don't know, 421 00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 2: I was fifty to fifty in those moments. It was 422 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 2: pretty hard. 423 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: Okay, so then you get you get down, you guys 424 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: get down to the beach. We we we see in 425 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: the teaser that you end up Pulley Cat have that conversation. 426 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 1: So we can't talk about that. But what are you 427 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 1: are you talking to any of the guys? Are you 428 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: getting in? 429 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 3: Oh? Hey, I have a question. So yeah, did you 430 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 3: come down late that day? 431 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I don't think we didn't see anybody on 432 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 2: the beach when we came back. 433 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 3: Okay, that's yeah, that would have been part two my question. 434 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 3: So it looked like the way it was all showed 435 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 3: was you guys came back after everyone had gone to bed, 436 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 3: and then you came down to breakfast at lunchtime. 437 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 2: Oh yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah, that's exactly what happened. 438 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 3: Okay, so you came down I'm assuming correct me if 439 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 3: I'm wrong. After Kat and Davia had had their morning 440 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 3: chat about. 441 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: Correct, yep, yep. I had no idea that they talked 442 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 2: at that moment, but yeah, they had already spoke when. 443 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 3: You pulled Kat, Did you know that Davia and her 444 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 3: had already had a conversation. 445 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 2: I don't think so. No, I don't even I wasn't 446 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 2: even thinking about that, to be honest, I was just 447 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 2: kind of laser focused on the conversation I was about 448 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 2: to have with Kat, you know. 449 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 3: And going into that conversation, how did you feel, you know? 450 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 2: I would I wouldn't say I was conflicted because I 451 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 2: made up, made my decision and I went with it. 452 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:21,640 Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I didn't want 453 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,439 Speaker 2: to have to hurt anybody, and I knew that Cat 454 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: was into me in that moment, so I was nervous 455 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,120 Speaker 2: to have the conversation, But with the conversation you need 456 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:30,919 Speaker 2: to be had, you know. 457 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 1: But did you did you talk to any of your 458 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: boys before that and kind of try to get the 459 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 1: temperature of what happened the night before, what was going 460 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 1: on with Kat? 461 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, a little bit. I actually talked to Braiden, of 462 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 2: all guys in the room a little bit about it. Uh, 463 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 2: that that next morning, because when Dogby and I got 464 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:51,360 Speaker 2: back from our date, everyone was pretty much asleep. So yeah, 465 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 2: I woke up the next day, talked to the boys 466 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 2: and the room. I was talking to a then talking 467 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 2: to Tyler, talking to Braiden a bit, and you know, 468 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if they gave me any advice that 469 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 2: made me kind of go either way, just kind of 470 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 2: following my heart in that moment. But your boy had 471 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 2: to do what he had to do, you know. Wow. 472 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 3: So pulling cat aside that morning, and you know, obviously 473 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 3: we're going to see how the conversation unfolds, But what 474 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 3: are your intentions and your kind of like mental game 475 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 3: plan going into this conversation with her? Like what do 476 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:22,320 Speaker 3: you want to tell her? 477 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? I was going to tell her exactly where my 478 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 2: heart was, and I was going to try to just 479 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 2: try to stay calm as possible, you know, I'd try to. 480 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 2: I pride myself, I'm not getting too high or too low. 481 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 2: So I was just trying to stay calm, cool and 482 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 2: collected and just let her know exactly where I was, 483 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 2: exactly why I went on the date, where I thought 484 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: we were in that moment, and where I thought we 485 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 2: could go, So just trying to wrap my head around 486 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: all that so I can kind of tell her the 487 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 2: best way possible. 488 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 1: So did you know where Davia stood before going into 489 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 1: that conversation? 490 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: Uh? 491 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 2: Not really, I mean, there wasn't it. We didn't confirm anything, 492 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 2: we didn't really talk about it, but we knew we 493 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 2: had a really good night and I felt like the 494 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 2: energy was there and it was you know, we just 495 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 2: had a really fun time and we were kind of 496 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 2: meeting each other halfway, so I didn't feel like I 497 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:15,439 Speaker 2: had to ask her where we were. I kind of 498 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: felt like I knew that in that moment. 499 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, were you ever? And I mean like, obviously Kat 500 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 3: is not a scary person, but were you Were you 501 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 3: scared or nervous about her response going into the conversation 502 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 3: just because the first combo of just going on the 503 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 3: date hadn't gone well and now you're about to have 504 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 3: a second conversation. 505 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,159 Speaker 2: Yes, he was, yeh, I mean a little bit. I 506 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 2: mean I am scared of Cat. I was. I was 507 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 2: scared of Cat in that moment, you know, especially because 508 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 2: Kat was super tight with all the girls in the 509 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 2: beach too, so you know, if I rubbed her the 510 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: wrong way, she could, you know, kind of room my 511 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: reputation with the other girls or something like that. So 512 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 2: that was kind of on my mind where I didn't 513 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: want to hurt her, but I also didn't want to 514 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 2: like room when you know, the reputation that I had 515 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 2: on the beach. 516 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't want to feel like you're like public 517 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 3: enemy number one now with the. 518 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly. So trying trying to play both sides. 519 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 2: It's kind of tough. 520 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: And we see we see a lot of we see 521 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: a lot of things go down on this episode. What 522 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: are your thoughts on the other couples on the beach? 523 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 3: Let's talk through some of the. 524 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 2: Couple somebody else really, yeah. 525 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: We really do. On your situation, let's talk what is 526 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 1: your what are your thoughts? Because we see, just for 527 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 1: the first time, kind of open up that Blake is 528 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: not really her number one. 529 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 3: Well she says she he is her number one, but 530 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 3: with a lot of hesitancy and basically is just like 531 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 3: he's my strongest connection number or like that's basically the 532 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,639 Speaker 3: tone is like there's no one else that I have 533 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,680 Speaker 3: a connection with, so because of that, he's my number one. 534 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 3: And we're kind of just starting to see their relationship. 535 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,560 Speaker 3: I don't want to say crumble, but I feel like 536 00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 3: they're finally being like tested, yeah, tested. What was your 537 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,200 Speaker 3: take on their relationship at this point? 538 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 2: At this point, I mean, it seemed from me a 539 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 2: pretty surface level. You know. I saw other relationships that 540 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: were that were developing and getting stronger, and I can 541 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 2: see them interacting, and it seemed like it would work. 542 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 2: At times when I would look like see Blake and Jess, 543 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 2: it looked like it was pretty surface level, almost like 544 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 2: you know, this is my boyfriend, this is my girlfriend, 545 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,800 Speaker 2: and we're gonna sit next to each other, right, So, 546 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 2: but I don't know how many behind closed doors or 547 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: you know, elsewhere on the beach. I don't know what 548 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 2: their conversations are looking like. But from from my. 549 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,640 Speaker 1: Thing, that's the thing. On the beach, there really are 550 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 1: no closed doors, so what you see is usually correct. Yeah, 551 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: you know. 552 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 2: That's very true. 553 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 3: So then in contrast to yeah, I feel like that 554 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 3: is what we're seeing as viewers. But it is interesting 555 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 3: to hear that. 556 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 1: Well, I want to ask you, who. 557 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 3: Do oh I got a question for me? 558 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 1: Okay, because I want to hear I want I want 559 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: Tanner's opinion on this who at this point do you 560 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 1: think is Serena do you think is the strongest couple 561 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: on the beach. 562 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 3: I'm going to go Kylie and Evan. 563 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: So I think the strongest couple on the beach right 564 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: now is is Aaron b and Eliza who who in 565 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 1: your opinion, is the strongest at this point. 566 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,879 Speaker 2: I gotta go with you, Joe. I gotta go with you. 567 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not not taking anything again. 568 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 3: That was like my pickers off, I'm not as good 569 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,160 Speaker 3: as they used to be. So now he's feeling pretty 570 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 3: good about himself. 571 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 2: Joe had me go and top four in the Bachelorette too, 572 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 2: and I was one off. I couldn't make them proud. 573 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: Let me down, Let me down, Tanner, Yeah. 574 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 2: I'm sorry man. But and Eliza, I love them at 575 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 2: that point, like they were just they just look great 576 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 2: together and I love their energy and like he respected 577 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 2: her so much, So like at that point, I thought 578 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 2: that was the strongest. Even even Aaron said it a 579 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,239 Speaker 2: few weeks ago. He's like, you know, if anyone's going 580 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 2: the distance, he thought it was going to be them, 581 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 2: So yeah, I gotta go with you, Joe. But even 582 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 2: and Kylie like that, next that next strongest couple for sure. 583 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:17,480 Speaker 3: Okay, gotcha. 584 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 585 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 3: I feel like Eliza and Aaron did have that like 586 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 3: test of her going on that date with John Bee 587 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 3: and her coming back, and I feel like when that 588 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 3: does happen, it like really solidifies a couple if you 589 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 3: can kind of get through that. And she came back 590 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 3: and was like, Nah, it's you. 591 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, or you do it, or you don't. 592 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 2: Don't do it, don't do what I do, what not 593 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 2: to do. 594 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 3: Either thing is a good thing, though, because you either 595 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 3: come back and you know one way or the other. 596 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 3: It brings you that clarity. 597 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: And then what about what about Tyler and Mercedes? Because 598 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: we see Mercedes make out with John Henry and then 599 00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 1: we do see in the super teaser that Jack Tyler 600 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: and Jess hook Opper makeout. So what is their relationship 601 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: status because that has to be surface level in my opinion. 602 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:11,959 Speaker 2: You know, it didn't seem that way to me at 603 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 2: that point. It looked like Tyler and Mercedes were actually 604 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 2: hitting it off. And I really didn't see Tyler pursuing 605 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 2: anybody else on the beach, and I didn't and I 606 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,960 Speaker 2: talked to Mercedes a few times. She's a good friend 607 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 2: of mine at that point in the in the show, 608 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 2: and it didn't seem like she was really pursuing anybody 609 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 2: else either, so it seemed like there was something there, 610 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 2: but they were probably just not exclusive yet, so I 611 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 2: guess we'll see how it plays out. But yeah, and. 612 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: Were you said to see how Sewn leave sew Well, 613 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:45,640 Speaker 1: Sean Sean's technically at this point, you and Sean went 614 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: against each other in the in the tu on one. 615 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you guys did do the two one. Who 616 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 3: are your closest friends on the beach You can include Sean, Aaron, 617 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 3: and Well in that even though we just saw them. 618 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 2: Leave, gotcha. Yeah, when John Henry and John B showed up, 619 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,199 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, let's go my boys here, but 620 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,479 Speaker 2: definitely Sean. I mean I was blessed. I mean all 621 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 2: my guys for my show, for my season were on 622 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 2: the beach, right, So yeah, I mean it was really 623 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 2: only Tyler, Avan and Blake that really weren't and Will, 624 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 2: but I don't know. I hate to give you the 625 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 2: answer that I liked everyone, but I really do. So. 626 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so funny because when we had Joey on 627 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 3: way back when at the beginning of Charity season, He 628 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 3: also said John Henry's name, and I feel like we're 629 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 3: just getting to know John Henry now as viewers, but 630 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 3: he seems to be very well liked amongst them. 631 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: John Henry is a nervous wreck, which understandable. I was like, yeah, 632 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: I was like that when I was first in the showing. 633 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: I see him shake, I'm like, oh, but you could 634 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: tell he's probably very social and personable, but he just 635 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 1: he has stage train at the beginning. 636 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 3: Is that accurate? 637 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 2: You know? He's he's so dry, So like the more 638 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 2: you're around him, you kind of pick up on his 639 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 2: humor and then all of a sudden, everything that comes 640 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 2: out of his mouth it's hilarious. So he's kind of 641 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 2: one of those so you kind of have to be 642 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 2: around him for a while he has to warm up 643 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 2: to you. But he's just a good human being. I 644 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 2: love John Henry. 645 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: I'm not very dry. 646 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 3: You're not very dry. 647 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 2: Now. 648 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 3: Do you feel like it helps or hurts the guys 649 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,240 Speaker 3: when all of them are friends and buddies, because we 650 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 3: do talk a lot about like the guys coming down 651 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 3: and like they grow out and that ends up being 652 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 3: like to their detriment, and also then the guys don't 653 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,719 Speaker 3: want to like step on each other's toes. You know, 654 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,360 Speaker 3: like you just said, John Henry's one of your friends. 655 00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 3: We see in the super Tease cat going after John Henry. Like, 656 00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 3: does it create kind of a weird dynamic. 657 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 2: A little bit. I would say it created a lot 658 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:48,320 Speaker 2: weirder of a dynamic for the girls actually. So yeah, 659 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 2: even though us guys were super close, I felt like 660 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 2: we we knew the roles of like Paradise, right, we're 661 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 2: there to date, we're there to meet people. Yeah, we're 662 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 2: eventually gonna step on each other's toes, but there was 663 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 2: always kind of a respect factor there too. Where the girls. 664 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of the girls actually shut 665 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 2: themselves off to dating anybody else because they maybe kissed 666 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 2: one of their friends and they were really treating Paradise 667 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 2: almost like you're out at a bar and like, you know, 668 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 2: someone's talking to your friend, where you know, it's not 669 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 2: really like that. We're on the reality dating show. We're 670 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 2: supposed to be dating people and meeting people. So I 671 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 2: feel like it actually hurt the girls more than hurt 672 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 2: the guys because some of the girls really just like 673 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 2: close themselves off. 674 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you have to have. I feel 675 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: like you have to have a conversation with your friends 676 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: going into that show of like, hey, my my number 677 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: one goal here is to meet someone, so like, yeah. 678 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 3: But you just never know how it's going to go 679 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 3: till you get down there. Like Abigail and I didn't 680 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 3: have that conversation, and like we never needed to. We 681 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 3: went for different guys. We're interested in different guys, and 682 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 3: I feel like you kind of hope that's how it's 683 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 3: going to go. And I feel like this season we're 684 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:59,479 Speaker 3: seeing a little more crossover, a little more like, you know, 685 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 3: people worried about exploring and stepping on each other's toes 686 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 3: than maybe we've seen in the past. But that's interesting 687 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 3: that it was the girls this season. 688 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: That's why there's a truth box, and that's why there's 689 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: the truth. 690 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 2: Truth, the truth box, the truth box. But yeah, that 691 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 2: truth box is crazy. 692 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 3: It was you weren't there for truth and dare the truth? There? 693 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 3: You were on your day with dab right, Yeah, yeah, 694 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 3: I was dancing the night away. You're dancing the night away. 695 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 1: All right, all right, we're gonna we're gonna jump in. 696 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: We're gonna play a quick game Tanner before we do, though, 697 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: I want to ask you have any any regrets? 698 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,479 Speaker 2: No? Okay, zero, I didn't think so. 699 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: You don't strike me as a guy that regrets things. 700 00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 2: I got a tattooed on my arm. 701 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 3: Not kidding, I have no regrets. 702 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: Do you do you want to do what you want 703 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: me to do? 704 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 2: It? 705 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: You do it? 706 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 2: Joe? 707 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,840 Speaker 1: All right, rabbit fire. Are you more of an introvert 708 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: or extrovert? 709 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm introverted extrovert to be honest. 710 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: Okay, already breaking the rules. What would you what would 711 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: what would be your go to paradise cocktail? 712 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:06,239 Speaker 2: Oh, it depends on the time of day. Sorry, It's 713 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 2: supposed to be one word answers. It depends on the 714 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 2: time of day. It goes early to be Mimosa with Rachel, 715 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 2: and if it's anytime past like two pm, probably tequila 716 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 2: soda a lot. 717 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 1: Okay. What is the first thing you would buy if 718 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: you won the lottery? 719 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: You can answer this so many different ways. Probably real estate, 720 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 2: probably by real estate be rich forever, and by beach 721 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 2: house too. 722 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 1: What all time favorite Taylor Swift song? 723 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 2: You know I'm actually a new Swifty. I used to 724 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 2: love Taylor Swift. I'm kind of getting back into it. 725 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 2: I love Cardigan Cardigan. 726 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 3: Wow, Yeah, that is a good one. 727 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 2: It's so good. I listen to that Song's gonna love. 728 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 1: That Sean Johnson Swifty. He said it eighteen hundred times 729 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 1: in the show. What is one item on your bucket list? 730 00:32:58,040 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 2: You know, a lot of this is out of my control. 731 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 2: But the Steelers ever go to the Super Bowl, I'm 732 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 2: gonna go see them with it. Steelers, Well, they say 733 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 2: it might not be for a while, Joe, but we'll see. Well, 734 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 2: I'm a Bears fan, so you're similar. 735 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 3: In this recent episodes have done his absolute best to 736 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 3: integrate football into every single podcast. We go back and 737 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 3: listen to our last like six episodes. Somehow Joe has 738 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 3: found a way to brant football just so funny belist. 739 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: The Steelers have have been in the past ten years, 740 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: They've they've made the playoffs a few times, right, Yeah. 741 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 2: I mean Mike Tommins never had a losing season. I mean, 742 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 2: we kind of had a lot of good teams that 743 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 2: didn't win anything. But I don't know, We're used to 744 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 2: winning championships in Pittsburgh, so it's been it's been bad recently. 745 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 1: We're not in Chicago. Do you have any dating deal breakers. 746 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 2: Not not really. I mean I like to exercise and 747 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 2: like live like a healthy life, so they that needs 748 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 2: to be a priority for my girl for sure. 749 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: What is your love language? 750 00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,400 Speaker 2: It is access service. 751 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 1: What is your favorite dessert? 752 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 2: Favorite dessert? I like like a like a hot brown 753 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 2: like chocolate brownie with like vanilla ice cream, a little 754 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 2: hot and cold. 755 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,279 Speaker 1: Do you think you will end up breaking up with 756 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: somebody on their birthday in the future, I would never do. 757 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: What is What is the important item to pack for paradise. 758 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 2: I've heard people say this in the past, but for me, 759 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 2: it's one hundred percent sure. It was bug spray. I 760 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 2: got killed with the bugs. Like if you if you 761 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,439 Speaker 2: watch the show, if you pay attention to my back 762 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,920 Speaker 2: at any point in time, like I had huge welts 763 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:49,439 Speaker 2: all over my back then, that's sorry. 764 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 3: Crazy. So our season, the weather was too insanely hot, 765 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 3: like it was brutal. The only good thing about that 766 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 3: is we had no bugs. But we came back the 767 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 3: following year and did a little visit and I was 768 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,759 Speaker 3: getting eaten alive. I was like, what is going on? 769 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 3: The weather is beautiful, but I'm like covered in bug bites. 770 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,360 Speaker 3: Oh my god, the worst. 771 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was bad for us. And it wasn't too 772 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 2: hot for us either. Down there. It wasn't nice. 773 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, lucky it was hot in our season. 774 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 2: We had made a couple of hot nights like that. 775 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 2: The last road ceremony, I was dripping sweat. It looked disgusting, 776 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 2: but yeah, the worst. 777 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: All right, Tanner, thank you, thank you for coming on 778 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,040 Speaker 1: a Happy Hour. 779 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 2: Thanks yeah, thanks very thanks Joe. 780 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 1: I appreciate you, guys, and thank you everyone for tuning in. 781 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 1: And remember new episodes of Bachelor and Paradise here every 782 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 1: Thursday on ABC at nine to eighth Central following the 783 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,799 Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor, or you can stream them both the next 784 00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 1: day on Hulu. 785 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 3: And make sure to tune into new episodes of Bachelor 786 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 3: Happy Hour every single week. We're gonna have some great 787 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 3: guests on and we've got all kinds of exclusive interviews 788 00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,320 Speaker 3: coming up, so do not forget to subscribe. 789 00:35:53,680 --> 00:36:00,280 Speaker 1: Thanks again everyone, and see you next time. Bye,