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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesloud dot com. Aleijandro is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for a first day follow up and he's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a woman named Tasha. So in a few minutes,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 1: why she's ghosting him. But first, Alejandro, how long has

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Speaker 1: it been since you heard from Tasha?

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Speaker 2: Hey man, Yeah, thanks for having me. It's been a

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Speaker 2: couple of days now, the last weekend.

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Speaker 3: Actually, okay, that's not too bad. How did you guys

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Speaker 3: leave it after the date?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I thought it went really well. So I'm like,

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Speaker 4: you know, a little stress over here because I thought

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Speaker 4: we were gonna kick it off right away, you know

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Speaker 4: what I mean.

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Speaker 2: And I don't want to be the first one to

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Speaker 2: call and I yeah, I'm just really confused. I thought,

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Speaker 2: ay went really well, so I want to know what's on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll tell us a little bit about the date.

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Speaker 2: So, I mean, Tasha is doping now. I'm just like

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Speaker 2: attracted to her vibe, like right away.

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Speaker 4: You know, she's just a kind of person that's like

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Speaker 4: effortless and everything that she does, and oh, man, the

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Speaker 4: way she knows about her life.

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Speaker 2: The way she swings and moves.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just so natural and confident, like like

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Speaker 4: the dream woman, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: What was the thing that was most dreaming about her?

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Speaker 2: I mean, she's just like just so natural and confident.

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Speaker 5: Like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's the type of person that can.

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Speaker 4: Walk up to anybody and talk where I'm like super

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Speaker 4: afraid to say anything to anybody because I think.

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Speaker 2: They'll hate me. She just has this love for everybody

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Speaker 2: that's just you could feel it, you know. When she

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Speaker 2: walks by, like.

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Speaker 4: A cashier at the she's the type of person that says, hello,

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Speaker 4: hell's your day.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm just like in and out the door,

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Speaker 2: you know what i mean.

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Speaker 3: So she's a good influence on you. You guys balance each.

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Speaker 2: Other, I think, so. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Every time I see her talk to people, though, she

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Speaker 4: smiles and the way people smile back at her, it's

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Speaker 4: it's I'm melting over it.

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Speaker 6: Here.

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Speaker 3: What does you guys do on your day?

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Speaker 4: So I like to do like rock climbing, that's like

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Speaker 4: my hobby. So I thought I'd take her somewhere, you know,

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Speaker 4: where I'm comfortable. And she had told me that she

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Speaker 4: had never been, but you know when she like was

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Speaker 4: adventurous and fearless, and she was like, let's go, even

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Speaker 4: though she had like never done it before.

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Speaker 2: So I thought it was a good opportunity.

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Speaker 4: To me, like, you know, to do you know, like

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Speaker 4: that movie Ghost or he's like behind her making pottery.

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Speaker 4: F would be me, but instead of like pottery, it's

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Speaker 4: helping her climb. I thought I was going to be like,

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Speaker 4: you know, the the awesome guy here. But there was

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Speaker 4: a little like thing that happened while I was there,

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Speaker 4: and like, I'm scared that that's the reason why she's

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Speaker 4: probably not calling me.

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Speaker 3: Why do you think she's not calling you?

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Speaker 4: So when we were climbing, you know, things are going grave,

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Speaker 4: She's she's doing it.

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Speaker 2: I'm being encouraging.

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Speaker 4: And then as I'm growing up about halfway up the wall,

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Speaker 4: like I kind of slipped my foot and I panicked,

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Speaker 4: and then like I yelled to the the layer below me,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, you know, yo, can you know

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Speaker 4: watch out? And it wasn't like a it wasn't like

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Speaker 4: a manly yell, you know, it was more like a.

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Speaker 2: Poddler losing his balloon kind of yelled.

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Speaker 4: You know, it was just like instinctual, like I didn't

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Speaker 4: have time to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: So you squeaked a little bit, just.

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Speaker 2: Just a little bit, you know, I left it off.

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Speaker 2: She just seemed like she was laughing, and I just

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Speaker 2: thought it wasn't doing. I felt like we like shared

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Speaker 2: a moment, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well maybe this squeak did it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that would This sounds kind of silly

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Speaker 3: to go somebody over squeak unless you keep squeaking.

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Speaker 4: Which even after that, I was like really nervous, and

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Speaker 4: so I did, like I have a thing where like

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Speaker 4: I get like really sweaty when I get nervous, and

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Speaker 4: I was trying my best. I wore like an undershirt

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Speaker 4: and I was trying my best to like not show it.

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Speaker 4: But like I mean, I switched so much like he

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Speaker 4: and my chalk back turned into like paste, you know.

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Speaker 5: What I mean.

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Speaker 4: I basically left the gym looking like I had been

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Speaker 4: hosed down. Okay, And I was to say it was

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Speaker 4: not my sexiest moment.

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Speaker 1: You know, Alejandro is on the phone and he's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a woman named Tasha. So we're about to

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Speaker 1: call her and see if she'll tell us why she's

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Speaker 1: ghosting him and maybe get him a second day if

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Speaker 1: he still wants one. But first, Alejandro, why don't you

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Speaker 1: break down your situation again real quick?

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Speaker 2: All right? Cool? So, Tasha, you know I won a

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Speaker 2: second day with her.

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Speaker 4: But on the first day, we went rock climbing, and

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Speaker 4: I was a little nervous.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like had a squeal at one point.

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Speaker 4: Because I almost fell off, and then I was sweating

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Speaker 4: so much that I was just basically drenched in my

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Speaker 4: sweat and it will be a good look.

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Speaker 2: And I'm hoping that that's not the reason why she.

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Speaker 7: Won't call me squealer. I mean, all right, are you

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Speaker 7: ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 2: Please? I'm dying here?

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Tasha please.

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Speaker 6: This is her.

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Speaker 3: Hey Tasha, how are you? This is a Jubil show.

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Speaker 3: It's a radio show. Hi Tasha. I'm Nina, I'm Victoria

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Speaker 3: and my name is Jubil. What's up?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Okay? Wow, I wasn't specting this.

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Speaker 3: Be weird. If you were, have you ever listened to

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Speaker 3: the show before? Yeah, I have sweets.

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Speaker 1: Well, then you might have heard a first date follow

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Speaker 1: up before you know, it's the segment where if you

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Speaker 1: end up ghosting somebody, that person can email us to

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Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 1: And we got to email about you. Oh you did,

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Speaker 1: yes from Alejandro?

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Speaker 3: Remember him?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: He says it's been a while and.

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Speaker 1: You haven't called him back and he is just wondering

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Speaker 1: if you'll tell us why you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Like, honestly, he was sweating a lot, but that

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Speaker 6: wasn't the problem.

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Speaker 5: I mean, he was basically like a human waterfall with

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Speaker 5: like chalk paste ripping down his arms. But the real

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Speaker 5: reason is, well, we were climbing on one of.

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Speaker 6: Those rock wall things and.

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Speaker 5: He slipped on the wall, and when he slipped, he

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Speaker 5: yelled and it was so high pitched, like a cartoon

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Speaker 5: character high pitch.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he told us about that. Yeah, I was a

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Speaker 3: little worried about it. He thought that is that the

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Speaker 3: reason you're ghosting? Because that's what he thought.

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Speaker 6: Uh No, not exactly. He was making like.

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Speaker 5: A bunch of noises when he was climbing.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean.

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Speaker 5: No, he was making like weird like grunting sounds and

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Speaker 5: like not to be like too graphic or anything, but

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Speaker 5: I it made me, like, picture him doing like something else.

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Speaker 6: And it really just turned me off.

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Speaker 1: Who He's climbing rocks, squealing a little bit when he

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Speaker 1: fell off, and then making grunting noises and you were like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Hear that in another bedroom type situation.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, I mean it makes you sound like that now,

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Speaker 6: like I don't even even want to think about when.

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Speaker 1: He's like, you know, oh wow, well, thank you for

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Speaker 1: telling us the reason why a Tasha. I'll also let

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Speaker 1: you know that Alejandro is on the phone listening and

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Speaker 1: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh he's here, yes, hey.

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Speaker 8: Tasha, Wait, is that really the reason? Come on, let's

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Speaker 8: look Craig Gray, right, I'm sorry, but no, I mean

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Speaker 8: it is. It is the reason. Oh, come on, you're

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Speaker 8: gonna go see over that.

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Speaker 4: Oh come on, hey, look you know what, at least

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Speaker 4: you're thinking me that way. And I'm kind of happy

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Speaker 4: to think that you're thinking that. That's kind of cool,

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Speaker 4: but look, come on over that.

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Speaker 3: I think about it.

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Speaker 4: Hey, And look, you know, by the way, I definitely

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Speaker 4: do not sound like that when that's going on.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, like, you know, you don't

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Speaker 2: got to worry about that are you sure you promise

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Speaker 2: you I'll show you what's up.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Like all I can think about was like you're looking

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Speaker 5: at me and spilling and being like.

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Speaker 4: You know I was going on that used to Those

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Speaker 4: are not regular sounds.

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Speaker 2: I'll stick to.

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Speaker 4: The medium, hard wall. You got a word about that, baby,

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Speaker 4: Just give me another chance.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're just animated.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you know I was working hard. I

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Speaker 2: was trying to impress you.

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Speaker 4: But again, guarantee you that sound and that other sounded

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Speaker 4: completely different, completely different compartments.

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Speaker 3: Like another date with Alejandro will pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, but no.

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Speaker 9: Really, but we'll be near it. You could gate weird

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Speaker 9: sounds doing not too Hey, I'll make whatever weird sounds

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Speaker 9: you want me to make. Just give me another second date. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: I promise, I'll make it up to you.

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Speaker 4: Look, they're gonna pay for it, so you know we're

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Speaker 4: not losing anything. At least we get a dinner together.

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Speaker 2: I love that. You know, things go well, we go back.

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Speaker 2: You could take my mouth shut, you could take me up,

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Speaker 2: tie me up. Whatever's that second day?

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Speaker 6: Huh?

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Speaker 3: What do you think, Tasha? Just one more chance? I mean,

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Speaker 3: you know he's really willing to. Yeah, you're also jumping

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Speaker 3: to conclusions on that you don't know. I mean, you

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Speaker 3: know I can't.

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Speaker 6: I am sorry.

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Speaker 3: Sorry man, no second date for you.

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Speaker 2: What can you say? I appreciate you trying, though,