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Speaker 3: By the way, shout out to Supplies for doing this

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Speaker 3: amazing intro for Way Up with Angela. Y. You know,

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Speaker 3: he's got his line of hats. I feel like he's

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Speaker 3: So you guys, it is Wednesday, hump Day. I just

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Speaker 3: This feels like the days when I was on the

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Speaker 4: Yee shame, I'm shine turn your lights on, y'alls, breading

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Speaker 4: love to those who are doing greatness, Light on.

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Speaker 2: Them, shine a light on.

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Speaker 4: It's time to shine a light on them.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Its way up with Angela yee.

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Speaker 3: I'm ange layee, and it is time to shine a

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Speaker 1: I need to get done.

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Speaker 3: Like she'll be like, Angela, you know, they got these

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Speaker 3: COVID tests that you can order at home for free

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Speaker 3: Her birthday's also on Valentine's Day, so that's how sweet

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Speaker 1: I'm good?

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Speaker 7: How are you?

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Speaker 6: Life is amazing? It is what it should be. Okay,

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Speaker 6: I need to shine a light on this show by

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Speaker 6: Too Major, because without them Too, I don't start my

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Speaker 3: We always love to show so much support to you

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Speaker 6: Real, I'm trying you feel me and on suceeding, you

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Speaker 1: Where can people find that album from February by the way.

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Speaker 6: That's on Apple Music, It's on Title, It's on Spotify,

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Speaker 1: What's it called Mellow?

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Speaker 6: Mellow, thank you, easy, I appreciate you all right.

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Speaker 3: Anytime you want to shine a light, we are here

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Speaker 8: It's like the talk like they Angela Jean, like they

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Speaker 1: This is yeak way, what's up?

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Speaker 3: It's way up with Angela yee. I actually just got

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Speaker 7: But Mano is here with me.

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Speaker 9: What's up baby?

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Speaker 10: Okay, Yes, I'm gonna be right back up.

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Speaker 3: I did not anticipate this was gonna take so long.

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Speaker 3: I had an emergency. But let's do some yet. Let's

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Speaker 3: talk about the BET Hip Hop Awards. You saw they

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Speaker 10: They don't do those.

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Speaker 11: Live right now, it's not live. They don't do the

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Speaker 3: Well, just as a Fresh Partid and twenty one Savage

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Speaker 7: And also shout out to Swiss Beats and Timberlan.

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Speaker 3: They're getting the Cultural Influence Award and l O Clu's

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that's well deserved.

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Speaker 3: He's at number three hundred and seventy nine after selling

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Speaker 7: I know, So shout out to him.

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Speaker 3: well that that is your yet.

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Speaker 7: And when we come back, we have about last night.

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Speaker 3: You know, I was in Detroit and I want to

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Speaker 7: But I was in Detroit and I went.

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Speaker 3: To the early screening for the BMF, The First Lady

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Speaker 3: of BMF, the movie about Denisa. She you know, Llah

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Speaker 7: To tell her story. So that's pretty interesting. I'm gonna

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Speaker 7: He about last night?

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Speaker 2: Is next going way out with Angela? Yee n so

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Speaker 2: about last night? Last night? I went down?

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: This way up with Angela? Ye, I'm Angela yee man. No,

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Speaker 7: And there's certain scenes in that movie.

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Speaker 9: I've always been on the all the end of that.

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Speaker 7: I know you have.

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Speaker 9: All of the joint in Big Love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's one part that I was telling Tanisa afterward.

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Speaker 3: Her friends was like, don't leave him, Like when she

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Speaker 10: To chefs there as well.

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Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna see all right, Well that was

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Speaker 7: But also tell us.

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Speaker 14: A secret, now, may No, you know, tell us this

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Speaker 14: is your favorite segments, right, And y'all, as much as

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Speaker 10: Tell us a secret.

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Speaker 7: And y'all all got secrets. And that's why everybody has to.

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Speaker 3: Stop with the judgment, because everybody has these secrets.

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Speaker 10: We all have things that we've done and no one

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Speaker 7: We're like, oh my god, I can't believe I did that.

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Speaker 10: I'm never telling anyone. I'm taking this to the grade.

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Speaker 6: Those are the kind.

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Speaker 8: Of secrets you want to hear.

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Speaker 11: Right, stop, stop with the judgment, y'all, no judging, May

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Speaker 11: May No.

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Speaker 3: Eight hundred two two fifty one to fifty is a number.

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Speaker 8: Call us up and tell us a.

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Speaker 7: Secret, and maybe I'll cool with it. If you want.

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Speaker 10: Mano to judge you, maybe we'll.

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Speaker 9: Make that an option, no judgment.

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Speaker 3: There's a legend status and then there's your sucker status,

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Speaker 3: up eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty tell

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Speaker 7: It's way up with Angela.

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Speaker 3: Ye, this is a judgment freeze on, tell us a secret,

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Speaker 3: all right, it is way up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: I'm Angela Yee and Maino is here.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I made it back in from the bank. You know,

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Speaker 9: Hey, listen, you gotta do what you gotta do, right.

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Speaker 1: I know, But let me tell you something. New York

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Speaker 3: You could be ten blocks away and get stuck in

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Speaker 1: We were calling you. You I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 11: You know. For me, man, life be life in and

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Speaker 3: You're okay, what type of emotion? And you know, also

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Speaker 3: before we do tell us a secret. We'll get into

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Speaker 3: to Morgan State University, anybody there who was going through it.

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Speaker 3: After everything that happened, we're going to tell you the details.

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Speaker 3: We know we should call Jasmine because Jasmine brand went

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Speaker 3: Eight hundred two ninety two fifty is a number. Mano, relax,

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Speaker 3: I'm cooling, I'm down. Just judgment, freeness, ready.

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Speaker 9: No judgment, just call up and get unjudged.

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Speaker 1: All right? And now it was call it.

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Speaker 7: How are you good? How are you good?

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Speaker 1: It's me and mana, We're ready to hear your secret.

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Speaker 16: So I'm gonna stay anonymiss because I don't want to

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Speaker 16: on all of the lingerie and least stuck it back

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Speaker 9: It's at the store that you work at.

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Speaker 1: What Oh my gosh, that's wild.

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Speaker 9: That's a little freaky.

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Speaker 1: I know, okay, and.

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Speaker 3: So people are reason off, but that's why they tell

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: Ever since I was young, my mom is like, you

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Speaker 1: You gotta wash everything.

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Speaker 9: Wow, So you put everything on? Do you like put

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Speaker 17: You're welcome?

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Speaker 9: Do you take texic b?

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Speaker 1: That's crazy?

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Speaker 7: All I gotta go, all right, Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: You gotta watch underwear when you yeah, before you wear

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Speaker 1: How you doing good? It's me and mano. Are we

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Speaker 1: ready to hear your secret?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 18: So I ain't think that my short. They're listening to radio,

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Speaker 1: Wait? Your girl is best friends with your ex?

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Speaker 18: Yeah, they were friends before I met her, but I

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Speaker 9: Wow, that's not your fault, though they ain't.

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Speaker 18: But they both they still don't know each other like that,

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Speaker 3: But they can't be best friends if they don't know.

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Speaker 3: They can't be that cool because then she would know

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Speaker 18: But they really are? They each other six seven times

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Speaker 1: But wait, how long have you been with this new girl?

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Speaker 18: A year and a half.

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Speaker 3: Tight if they don't know about you, that's impossible.

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Speaker 18: I don't think she really wanted to let her friend

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Speaker 18: We don't know, together worng a couple of months, so

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know, this might be something you want to

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Speaker 11: You ain't doing nothing wrong, and you could potentially have

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Speaker 18: But they be seeing me like we do with each other,

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Speaker 3: She might they might know, and they just might not be.

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Speaker 9: They ain't saying nothing to you. They just wait for

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Speaker 18: I ain't making no moves with that one, no more that.

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Speaker 7: Someone like her.

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Speaker 3: gonna have to be around.

447
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Speaker 1: Both of them.

448
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Speaker 18: I already have.

449
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Speaker 1: Oh and nobody said.

450
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Speaker 10: Anything, well, so they not saying non.

451
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Speaker 3: Se Okay, maybe the other girl just doesn't want her

452
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Speaker 3: to know either, Right.

453
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Speaker 18: I would put it out there trying to get me back,

454
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Speaker 18: but I doubt it.

455
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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll keep it a secret as long

456
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Speaker 1: as we can.

457
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Speaker 8: Thank you.

458
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Speaker 18: I appreciate y'all, love.

459
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Speaker 2: Y'all, show, thank you.

460
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Speaker 1: All right, Well, that was tell us a secret.

461
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Speaker 3: And in case you couldn't get through, eight hundred two

462
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Speaker 3: nine fifty one fifty is a number. We still will

463
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Speaker 3: always take your calls and your secrets, won't we. Now, Man,

464
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Speaker 3: it wasn't very judgmental today, So we love that for you.

465
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Speaker 9: No, I mean, sometimes you just gotta let people, you know.

466
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Speaker 1: People express people. All right.

467
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Speaker 3: Well, when we come back, we have yet and let's

468
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Speaker 3: talk about Sexy Red. She was on this past weekend

469
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Speaker 3: with the Yvonne and and a lot of what she

470
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Speaker 3: said went viral. We'll talk about some of those momentous

471
00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:04,440
Speaker 3: where you up at Angela yee.

472
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,159
Speaker 2: Oh she's about to blow the lead ab off this,

473
00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:07,159
Speaker 2: but just get it.

474
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Speaker 4: Angela's building at yeete, come and get the tea.

475
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Speaker 3: All right, it is way up with Angela, ye Angela yee.

476
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Speaker 3: And a Maino is here, no man, yeah, I'm here

477
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Speaker 3: baby at a time for some Yet in the flesh

478
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Speaker 3: all right, Jim Jones, your guy, he has announce the

479
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Speaker 3: opening of his mother's restaurant. That's right, that's right, Mama

480
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Speaker 3: Jay's Cafe. So if you want to get Jones a

481
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Speaker 3: soul food Sunday plate.

482
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Speaker 9: It's family right there.

483
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Speaker 1: It's in Newark.

484
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Speaker 9: Yeah, I was supposed to go to the other day.

485
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Speaker 9: I needed my food.

486
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Speaker 1: We love soul food hungry.

487
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Speaker 3: I feel like I don't eat that enough because I

488
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Speaker 3: eat Caribbean food all the time, and I feel like

489
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Speaker 3: there's a lot more Caribbean spot it is.

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Speaker 9: It's not a lot of soul food out here.

491
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Speaker 1: But when you go to like Atlanta, also.

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Speaker 9: Fishy in the south Man fist anywhere. I don't know

493
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Speaker 9: why we.

494
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Speaker 1: Don't have enough.

495
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Speaker 9: So that's sad.

496
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Speaker 1: Way was so, I'm glad.

497
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Speaker 3: I mean, there are some great ones here too, but

498
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Speaker 3: it's just right, not as I guess as many. So

499
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Speaker 3: Mama Jay's Cafe is now open, so shout out to her.

500
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Speaker 3: We got to pull up for a soulfu Sunday one day.

501
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Speaker 3: But people are already raving about the food, and some

502
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Speaker 3: people are also saying they definitely plan to pay a

503
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Speaker 3: visit there in the future and speaking of New Jersey

504
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Speaker 3: and New Jersey's own Lauren Hill. The twenty fifth anniversary

505
00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 3: tour for The Miseducation of Lauren Hill hasn't even started

506
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,800
Speaker 3: in North America yet, but because of the demand, she's

507
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Speaker 3: already added some dates.

508
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Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna lie.

509
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Speaker 3: I know a lot of people in different cities and

510
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Speaker 3: tell me they hitting up that tour absolutely all right.

511
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Speaker 1: So it kicks off actually October seventeenth in Newark.

512
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Speaker 9: So she's performing all those classic hits.

513
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Speaker 3: With the Fujis by the way, So it's Miss Lauren

514
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Speaker 3: Hill with Fujis when you see that on the bill,

515
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Speaker 3: So shout out to her for that. She did say

516
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Speaker 3: the tour is very important, and she said I've almost

517
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Speaker 3: felt compelled to carry a torch or to keep a

518
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Speaker 3: light shining. Regarding the continual performance of the mis Education album,

519
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Speaker 3: I believe there's been a reason for that, and the

520
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Speaker 3: fuji Is coming back together for perform ormans Is too

521
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,000
Speaker 3: feels like unfinished business we are destined to handle. The

522
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 3: connections are real and uncanny, and the magic and synergy

523
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Speaker 3: between us has not been deterred by time. I would

524
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Speaker 3: definitely I saw them perform. This is such a throwback,

525
00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:17,400
Speaker 3: but it was a great performance. They were on tour

526
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Speaker 3: with Outcast, and I remember going to that show.

527
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Speaker 9: Hello, what was this?

528
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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, this was clearly so was this back then? Yeah?

529
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Speaker 3: Okay, back then is absolutely right? All right, So shout

530
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Speaker 3: out to miss Lauren Hill. And we were talking previously

531
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Speaker 3: about that Criminal Justice Reform Reform Alliance event that Jay Z,

532
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Speaker 3: Meek Mill, Kevin Hart, la La, Anthony, Quavo, Travis Scott, Facto,

533
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Speaker 3: all of them attended in Atlantic City for Reform Alliance.

534
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Speaker 3: Well it looks like they raised over twenty four million dollars. Yeah,

535
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Speaker 3: so shout out to them for that raising that money.

536
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Speaker 3: And what reform is about is really about passing legislation,

537
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Speaker 3: you know. So that's the work that has to get gotten.

538
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Speaker 9: Brothers and sisters home, all.

539
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Speaker 1: Right, Love is Blind there's been some changes.

540
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Speaker 7: I don't know.

541
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Speaker 1: You still don't watch Love Is Blind?

542
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Speaker 11: Right, No, that's the show where they were in the

543
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Speaker 11: pine and they speaking but they can't see them exactly.

544
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Speaker 1: All right.

545
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 3: Well, they were having some issues before, so now they've

546
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Speaker 3: had to change some things. And they want to make

547
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Speaker 3: sure they feed people because people were saying they didn't

548
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Speaker 3: get to eat like before, and so now they want

549
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Speaker 3: to make sure that they're showing shots of like food

550
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Speaker 3: and of them eating, and people were like, yeah, there was,

551
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Speaker 3: you know, yeah they was. You know, it's cute though

552
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 3: in the pods they'd be setting up like little dates

553
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Speaker 3: for them and stuff like that. So now they want

554
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Speaker 3: to make sure that they're showing off like different food

555
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Speaker 3: for the new season and show people actually eating.

556
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Speaker 1: All right. Sexy Red was on theo Von Show.

557
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Speaker 3: The comedian Theovon on his podcast and I saw a

558
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Speaker 3: lot of moments did end up going viral from from that.

559
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Speaker 3: One of them was Sexy Red and the the podcast

560
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Speaker 3: is called This Past Weekend. She's talking about how she

561
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Speaker 3: likes Donald Trump and what he's done for black people.

562
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Speaker 1: Hey is there do you think more people are gonna

563
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Speaker 1: support Trump?

564
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Speaker 8: Now?

565
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Speaker 1: And then yeah, they support him in the hood.

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Speaker 5: At first, I don't think people see him like they

567
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Speaker 5: thought he was racist, but once he started getting black

568
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Speaker 5: people out of jail and giving people.

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Speaker 19: Their free money, a begy.

570
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Speaker 1: We love Trump, we need him back in office.

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Speaker 3: I saw Van Jones posted that part two yeah, and

572
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Speaker 3: he said, what did this clip tell you? So she

573
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Speaker 3: also talked about the watch that she got from Jake.

574
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Speaker 3: If you recall, she posted the watch that Jake Yeah

575
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Speaker 3: gifted her. Here's what he had to say, what made

576
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Speaker 3: him give it to me. I'm just a cool person.

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Speaker 13: He with me.

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Speaker 5: I don't know he was excited to give me the

579
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Speaker 5: watch too. Yeah, I feel like he was just like

580
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Speaker 5: he put my vibe and stuff. I don't be on

581
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Speaker 5: the same groupie. Other people probably be on like I'm

582
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Speaker 5: just like chill, like, yeah.

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Speaker 9: She's I'm not gonna lie. I like Sexy Red.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not mad at that.

585
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Speaker 9: I like who she is. She's unapologetic. I respect her.

586
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Speaker 9: She talks a ish you know, mm hmm. I'm a fan.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Listen when I had Country way up here, he was

589
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Speaker 3: talking about how much he absolutely loves Sexy Red and

590
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Speaker 3: her music and everything that she does. I respect it,

591
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Speaker 3: and clearly other people respected to and are connecting with her.

592
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Speaker 1: So I ain't gonna lie. If you know that song,

593
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Speaker 1: you know that song.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, definitely, I can't say it.

595
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Speaker 1: It's so dirty, you can't say yeah peaches and egg plants.

596
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Speaker 1: All right, all right, Well that is your.

597
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Speaker 9: Yeat.

598
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Speaker 3: And when we come back, we have under the radar.

599
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 3: These are the stories that are not necessarily in the headlines.

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Speaker 3: They are flying under the radar. And today we definitely

601
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Speaker 3: are gonna talk about Morgan State though that's not an

602
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Speaker 3: under the radar story. Something that we have to discuss

603
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Speaker 3: because this just happened and we are definitely and in

604
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Speaker 3: our prayers for everybody who's been affected.

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Speaker 1: All Right, it's way you put Angela Yee.

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Speaker 4: News, this in the news that relates to you. These

607
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Speaker 4: stories are flying under the radar.

608
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Speaker 1: What's up this way?

609
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Speaker 3: You put Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and new Mano

610
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Speaker 3: is here, New Mayno. And it's time for under the radar.

611
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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 1: This is definitely not under the radar story.

613
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Speaker 3: This has been trending but very important and we actually

614
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Speaker 3: got Jasmine Brand on the line for this on her

615
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Speaker 3: day off. Hey Jasmin, Yes, Hey Angela, Hey doing god

616
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Speaker 3: knows what, but okay, stop it, and we want to

617
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Speaker 3: talk about Morgan State University. Five young people, including four

618
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Speaker 3: Morgan State University students, were shot. And this happened last

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Speaker 3: night on the campus in northeast Baltimore, and it was

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Speaker 3: homecoming festivities too, by the way, and Baltimore police federal

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Speaker 3: agents did respond to the campus around nine thirty PM

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Speaker 3: after university police officers heard those gunshots.

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Speaker 1: Four men and one woman.

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Speaker 3: They ranged in age from eighteen to twenty two years old,

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Speaker 3: were a shot. But fortunately nobody was killed and nobody's

626
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Speaker 3: in critical condition.

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Speaker 1: But that is traumatic.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, it's super sad. You all know that I went

629
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Speaker 13: to Morgan State University, so I got this alert when

630
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Speaker 13: I was out with you Angela Detroit and a lot

631
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Speaker 13: of my girlfriends that went to school with me, and

632
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Speaker 13: a lot of girlfriends that are in my authority were

633
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Speaker 13: telling me about it, and we were really alarmed because

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Speaker 13: we didn't know how big or how you know, how

635
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Speaker 13: devastating the shooting was going to be. So I'm thankful that,

636
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Speaker 13: you know, no one was critically injured. But they're still

637
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Speaker 13: trying to figure out what this all was about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was during the coronation of mister and Miss

639
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Speaker 3: Morgan State, the school's homecoming court ritual.

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Speaker 1: They said it was a beautiful event.

641
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Speaker 3: Parents travel from across the country to attend the ceremony,

642
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Speaker 3: and that happened, so a lot of students were sheltering

643
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Speaker 3: in place for hours.

644
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Speaker 1: They were wearing their gowns and suits and things like that.

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Speaker 9: Still, yeah, that's really crazy.

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Speaker 13: That's scary. And I'm actually this weekend I'm going to

647
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Speaker 13: the homecoming game, but one of my girlfriends hit me, like,

648
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Speaker 13: are we going to go to the all the homecoming stuff?

649
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Speaker 13: Because of the two weeks I think it's gonna be

650
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Speaker 13: pretty safe now. But you know, Baltimore, you know, it's

651
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 13: the school is in Baltimore. It is a city. So

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Speaker 13: I just you know, I'm my prayers grow out to

653
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Speaker 13: everyone that's been affected.

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Speaker 10: It's super scary.

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Speaker 11: We was just talking about Morgan State the other day.

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Speaker 11: Remember and you because the homie Zeke remember tells you

657
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Speaker 11: to tell me what's up. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, I've been.

658
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Speaker 11: I've been over there maybe like three four times.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, they did cancel.

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Speaker 13: It's a beautiful school.

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Speaker 3: They did cancel classes today and they also are rethinking

663
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Speaker 3: remaining homecoming events, so they expect to have an answer

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Speaker 3: on that a decision this afternoon.

665
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so we'll definitely.

666
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Speaker 3: Keep you guys updated as well and see what happened

667
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Speaker 3: as soon as we know. But we are definitely happy

668
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Speaker 3: that nobody was critically injured or killed, so that's a blessing,

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Speaker 3: but still traumatizing.

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Speaker 1: All right, Thank you Jasmin for checking.

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Speaker 9: In, all right, get back to God knows what, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, and anybody with information, they're asking you that you

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Speaker 3: please contact Northeast District Shooting Detectives at four to one

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Speaker 3: zero three nine six two four four four all right.

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Speaker 1: And and another story right now for under the radar.

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Speaker 3: The death penalty for child rape has gone into effect

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Speaker 3: in Florida. So now there's a number of new laws

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Speaker 3: that are in effect as of Sunday, and child rapists

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Speaker 3: can now face execution for their crimes. That is, for

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Speaker 3: child victims, specifically under the age of twelve. All right,

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Speaker 3: So you know, higher courts I've already said imposing death

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Speaker 3: sentences is a violation of the Eighth Amendment in these

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Speaker 3: types of cases. But Florida courts now have a green

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Speaker 3: light to send child rapists to death row. You know,

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Speaker 3: that is definitely one of the worst, most horrific crimes

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Speaker 3: that you can even imagine. It's something that, yeah, just

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Speaker 3: a thought of it, you would want. But you know,

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Speaker 3: I've always had a problem with the death penalty.

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Speaker 9: I'm right after the sentencing the same day, I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Life in jail, you know, live to think about what

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Speaker 1: you did and suffer and.

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Speaker 11: That child suffers their whole lot entire Yeah, you're right,

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Speaker 11: it's putting that traumatic experience is scarred like.

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Speaker 3: Nah, I mean definitely one of the worst, most horrific,

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Speaker 3: most unimaginable innocence child having to deal with that and

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Speaker 3: being affected for the rest of their life lives.

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Speaker 11: And you know how many people are like still messed

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Speaker 11: up behind stuff like that, still dealing with issues that

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Speaker 11: haven't really been really dealt with because of those things.

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Speaker 9: No Electric share right after.

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Speaker 3: That, about ninety percent of child sex abuse victims know

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Speaker 3: their abuser, and about thirty percent of children are abused

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Speaker 3: by family members. But they said, the problem is, and

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Speaker 3: people who don't believe in this, you have a dynamic

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Speaker 3: where a child is going to bear the weight of

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Speaker 3: a possible death sentence to a neighbor, an uncle, grandfather,

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Speaker 3: something that someone they know that everybody in their family

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Speaker 3: is not going to feel the exact same way about.

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Speaker 1: But so that is also something to think about.

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Speaker 3: This new love would require an eight to four Jerry

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Speaker 3: recommendation for a death sentence. Okay, so those are your

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Speaker 3: under the radar stories and when we come back, you know,

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Speaker 3: we got that way up mix at the top of

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Speaker 3: the hour, and also Kim Pennago is going to be

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Speaker 3: joining us. She is the senior director of Economic Justice

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Speaker 3: for the National Network to End Domestic Violence. You know,

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Speaker 3: financial abuse and domestic violence are very interrelated.

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Speaker 1: And we're going to talk about that.

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Speaker 3: If you don't know what financial abuse is, especially in

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Speaker 3: the space of domestic violence, She's going to be here

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Speaker 3: to give us information.

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Speaker 1: It's way up with Angela yu this.

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Speaker 4: The rooms from industry shade to all of gossip out angels.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's way yup with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: And Mano is here.

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Speaker 3: Man you know what it is, and let's get into

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Speaker 3: some Yet, so Diagio and that's the company that actually

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Speaker 3: did he had the partnership with for Sarrak and DeLeon

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Speaker 3: and did he suing them for allegedly neglecting Delion because

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Speaker 3: of his race. Well, now Diagio is countersuing and in

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Speaker 3: their countersuit, it says. In May twenty twenty one, following

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Speaker 3: Diagio's public commitment of one hundred million dollars to help

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Speaker 3: with COVID recovery for the hospitality sector and underprivileged communities,

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Speaker 3: mister Colmbs demanded that Diazio pay him one hundred million

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Speaker 3: dollars and threaten them to reach out to every news

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Speaker 3: outlet to burn the house down and cause maximum damage

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Speaker 3: to Diazio and the Delion brand by making public accusations

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Speaker 3: of racism if Diazio refused to write the check. At bottom,

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Speaker 3: Combs Wind's baseless allegations are nothing more than a poorly

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Speaker 3: veiled attempt to weaponize public accusations of racism in order

741
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Speaker 3: to line mister Combs's pockets even further.

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Speaker 1: So that's part of the lawsuit.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot more to it if you guys want

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Speaker 3: to see what their countersuit is to Ditty's claim.

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Speaker 1: So I guess we're going to see how all this

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Speaker 1: is going to play out.

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Speaker 3: You know, Diddy's lawyers deny all allegations, and they say

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Speaker 3: the company failed to support his Delion to kill a

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Speaker 3: brand in comparison to other brands like a some egos.

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Speaker 3: All right, Kim Zotziak and croy You know Kim from

751
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Speaker 3: Real Housewives of Atlanta, don't be tidy foot of party.

752
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 3: She used to be on there, the white woman Candy

753
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Speaker 3: was writing music for her. She's been married to Croyd,

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Speaker 3: a football player. Then they had their own spin off show. Well,

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00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: now their nine to one one call has been released,

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Speaker 3: and there's also police body kim footage that shows the

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Speaker 3: two of them going at it in the house. She

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Speaker 3: says that he allegedly locked her out of the main

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Speaker 3: bedroom and that's when she caught the cops. She was

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Speaker 3: trying to get in to retrieve her personal belongings and

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Speaker 3: her medication. Throughout the police visit, she bashes him to

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Speaker 3: the officers, saying that he's jobless and that she's the

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Speaker 3: reason that they even still have the house.

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Speaker 1: Here is some of that nine to one one call.

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Speaker 8: He's threatening me.

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Speaker 13: He will not open the door.

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Speaker 12: I've had an This is insane to me.

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Speaker 16: Okay, Tim, I am getting some help starters.

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Speaker 8: Just stayn aling with me. Okay, thank you very much.

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Speaker 8: I appreciate it very much.

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Speaker 20: I'm so tired of being treated this way.

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Speaker 12: This person's disgusting.

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Speaker 20: I love partaking in your behavior.

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Speaker 13: I'm try to you're threatening me open the door, which

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Speaker 13: is my house too.

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Speaker 10: You don't own this how of course I've been more

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Speaker 10: than accommodating.

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Speaker 21: I will Does anyone have access to weapons?

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Speaker 13: I don't know Kray has guns.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what he does with them.

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Speaker 13: I don't know if they're locked up in the face

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Speaker 13: probably woof.

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Speaker 3: I would never want to have to be in a

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Speaker 3: situation where I'm calling nine one one because I'm locked

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Speaker 3: out of the bedroom and we really hate each other

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Speaker 3: that much. But they did eventually convince him to hand

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Speaker 3: over her comforter, her phone charger, her medication, and a

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Speaker 3: one thousand dollars beauty.

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Speaker 9: Cream, So they didn't let her end. She just got

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Speaker 9: her comforterble, she.

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Speaker 1: Got her things out the room.

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Speaker 3: You know, sometimes though, when tempers are that bad and

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Speaker 3: you're that mad, you don't want to end up getting

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Speaker 3: into a physical altercation.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was barricaded in the room, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be honest, I'm not mad at any man. That's like,

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Speaker 3: I don't want her to put her hands on me,

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Speaker 3: because I don't want to, you know, put my hands

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Speaker 3: on anybody. Let me just stay in here, barricaded until

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Speaker 3: the police come and let them handle it. I'm never

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Speaker 3: mad at somebody who uh I like them will stand down.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, lock myself in the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: I would hate for you to do that. I would

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Speaker 3: hear Maino's locked in the balls I don't want, but

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Speaker 3: I would respect it.

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Speaker 1: All right. Beyonce's Renaissance World Tour. I guess how much

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Speaker 1: it made?

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Speaker 9: How much?

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Speaker 3: Five hundred and seventy nine million dollars worldwide? That is

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Speaker 3: two point seven million fans attending across fifty six dates

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Speaker 3: and thirty nine cities. Imagine that five hundred and seventy

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Speaker 3: nine million dollars from just one tour alone.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that is crazy all right. In London she played

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Speaker 1: five nights.

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Speaker 3: That's the most and artists has had at the stadium

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Speaker 3: since it opened in twenty nineteen, two hundred and thirty

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Speaker 3: eight thousand fans.

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Speaker 1: So shout out to Beyonce. And you know she's about

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Speaker 1: to make even more.

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Speaker 3: Money with the movie Renaissance, a film by Beyonce that's

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Speaker 3: going to be in theaters on December first, and ticket

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Speaker 3: pre sales were available at all amc and Regal and

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Speaker 3: cinema chains as well.

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Speaker 9: So that's uh, a movie version of the tour.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I wonder how much she paid Blue Ivy because

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Speaker 3: Blue Ivy was out there doing her thing too like,

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Speaker 3: and you gotta.

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Speaker 1: You know, pay her.

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Speaker 9: She's good, Yeah, she's good.

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Speaker 3: It's so cute all right, and Cardi B is threatening

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Speaker 3: to expose some haters with receipts that she says, well,

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Speaker 3: shake up the internet.

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Speaker 1: Here's what she said on Instagram Live on Monday.

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Speaker 22: And to my haters and to your mother, don't want

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Speaker 22: to see miss leave me the fuck alone, because I

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Speaker 22: come with receipts years old receipts. I got receipts on

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Speaker 22: all you need and you and I will bring this

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Speaker 22: Internet into shambles.

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Speaker 19: So let me keep it cute.

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Speaker 22: I have mature, keep me thereof.

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Speaker 1: I want to see these mistakes? Am I wrong for that?

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00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 9: Anytime somebody say they got some receipts, you do want

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Speaker 9: to see them.

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Speaker 7: I want to know.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, somebody piss off off so we can see.

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Speaker 1: But I don't want her to be mad. So peace

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Speaker 1: and love, blessings.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well that is your eut And when we

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Speaker 3: come back, we were just in here talking about the

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Speaker 3: best TV shows and what are we watching on television? Well,

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Speaker 3: Hollywood Reporter critics have picked the fifty best TV shows

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Speaker 3: of the twenty first century so far.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if you are watching any of them. It's

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00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: way up at Angela yee.

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Speaker 2: Hey, yays you back at it. Bring bring in the

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Speaker 2: way up with Angela Yee is on.

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Speaker 3: All right, it's way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 3: And Maino is here No Maya back Baby, and you know,

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Speaker 3: just off the air. Earlier, we were talking about some

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Speaker 3: shows that we've been watching on TV and trying to

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Speaker 3: figure out because sometimes, like I binge watched things and

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Speaker 3: then I'm sad that it's over or something comes to

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Speaker 3: an end, Like I was very sad when Insecure ended.

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Speaker 1: I was sad when Sex and the City ended.

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Speaker 3: The office Curb your Enthusiasm, Ozark, Oh, Zark, I was

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Speaker 3: sad about coming to an end Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: I'm sad that that. Hear my voice? It didn't end?

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Speaker 3: It ended right? Or do they have one more season?

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Speaker 3: I don't remember what show Atlanta Atlanta.

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Speaker 9: I didn't watch that.

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Speaker 3: It was good, Yeah, I know a lot of people

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Speaker 3: were also said, what was the other show on FX?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh that I'm forgetting damnse and Indris.

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Speaker 9: Is in Oh Snowfall. Oh that end is sad. I

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00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 9: was thinking about that for a week straight.

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Speaker 1: Like, Damn that was snow Fun didn't make the list,

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Speaker 1: did it?

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Speaker 9: Snowfall didn't make that list?

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00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 3: So we're talking about the fifty best TV shows of

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Speaker 3: the twenty first century so far. According to Hollywood Reporter,

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00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 3: they had critics picked these. They were they said, several

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00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 3: zoom meetings, lots of emails, Excel spreadsheets. They were three,

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00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 3: Hollywood reported TV critics that joined forces to say what

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Speaker 3: they think are the greatest shows since two thousand so far?

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00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 3: And let's talk about some of these shows that made

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Speaker 3: the list? All right now, I want some shows didn't

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Speaker 3: make the list. Let's say that first that I felt

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Speaker 3: like should have been on there. The Office got an

890
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: Honorbrole mentioned, h we both love Curb your Enthusia.

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00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 1: That wasn't on there.

892
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Speaker 3: What else did we say should have made that? I

893
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 3: also like Shit's Creek that was a good one, and

894
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Speaker 3: no ighting Curse is sc H. I t t the

895
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Speaker 3: Simpsons Family Guy, although maybe.

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Speaker 1: It was that before.

897
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Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, Ozark wasn't Ozark wasn't on there.

898
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Speaker 3: But let's talk about what was on there and see

899
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Speaker 3: what you guys think. I'll give you some beef from Netflix.

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Speaker 3: That series was number forty one. That was actually very good.

901
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,439
Speaker 3: I enjoyed that too. Forty was Insecure, And you guys

902
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: already know I'm a huge fan of that show, and

903
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Speaker 3: like I said, I was sad to see that. And

904
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Speaker 3: oh and at number fifty was Sex in the City. Okay,

905
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Speaker 3: all right, so that definitely deserved to be on there.

906
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Speaker 3: Other shows The Deuce was at number thirty nine on HBO.

907
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Speaker 3: Orange Is a New Black made it on the list

908
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Speaker 3: number thirty three. Game of Thrones was number thirty.

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Speaker 1: I know you thought that.

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Speaker 9: Would be higher, right, Yeah, I would think that that

911
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 9: was high.

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Speaker 3: Oddly enough, I've never seen Game of Thrones full disclosure,

913
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Speaker 3: but I know everyone loves it. Also, Parks and Recreation

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Speaker 3: was number twenty seven. Number twenty four was I Made

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Speaker 3: Destroy You. That was on HBO and on BBC one.

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Speaker 3: But I did actually watch that. I thought it was

917
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Speaker 3: I thought it was really good and it was powerful.

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Speaker 3: Number twenty three is Survivor. Number sixteen was Breaking Bad.

919
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Speaker 3: Now our producer Dan definitely thought that should be higher.

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Speaker 3: You thought it's top five. See I've watched Breaking Bad.

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Speaker 9: I didn't watched it.

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Speaker 3: It's good, but I don't know that I would have

923
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Speaker 3: put it in a top five, not my top five

924
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Speaker 3: though it's all subjective.

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Speaker 1: Right on the list.

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Speaker 3: Also, Atlanta made it to number fifteen. You would like Atlanta.

927
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Speaker 3: Why it's funny.

928
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Speaker 11: I've watched it, but I didn't watch it. You need

929
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Speaker 11: to realize I watched me an episode or two, depending

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Speaker 11: on who I was with.

931
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Speaker 2: What was I with?

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Speaker 3: My favorite one, yeah, stop in. My favorite one was

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Speaker 3: where when Donald Glove was playing the old guy.

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Speaker 1: What was his name?

935
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Speaker 2: Teddy?

936
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Speaker 1: I can't Oh.

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Speaker 3: It was so funny to me. And they were episodes

938
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Speaker 3: that they weren't even in. There was just a random,

939
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Speaker 3: like standalone episode.

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Speaker 1: So I enjoyed that.

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Speaker 3: At thirty for thirty on ESPN made it to number thirteen.

942
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Speaker 3: The Daily Show was number eleven. Now let's get into

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Speaker 3: these top ten. Here's the show I've never heard of,

944
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Speaker 3: BoJack Horseman. That's number ten. It's a cartoon, okay, that's

945
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Speaker 3: why I never heard of that. Number nine Freaks and Geeks.

946
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Speaker 9: WHOA I like that name.

947
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Speaker 1: I never heard of that already?

948
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Speaker 9: Is that a cartoon?

949
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Speaker 1: So I never seen it. That's on NBC. It was

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Speaker 1: from nineteen ninety nine to two thousand. I only had

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Speaker 1: one season. Number eight Girls. I did watch Girls on HBO.

952
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 3: That's actually where I found that song that Jasmine loves

953
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 3: is called Yankin by Lady and they actually would have

954
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 3: some good like random songs. I remember they had a

955
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 3: Moley Brazy song on their you know but oh no, wait,

956
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Speaker 3: maybe that was on it. You know, that was on

957
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 3: girls Okay, also a better Call song.

958
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Speaker 1: Number seven.

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Speaker 3: Reservation Dogs on FX and Hulu was number six, number

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Speaker 3: five The Wire Wire.

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Speaker 9: Okay, I would put that in my saying that they

962
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Speaker 9: got right.

963
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Speaker 3: Number four thirty Rock. I like thirty Round, number three, Succession,

964
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Speaker 3: number two, the Sopranos, okay, Sopranos, and number one drum

965
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Speaker 3: rop please please, we don't have one.

966
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Speaker 1: Mad Men? What mad Men? That was on AMC and that.

967
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 3: Actually had eight seasons, I believe. I've actually never watched it,

968
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Speaker 3: but I know people have really enjoyed it, so I

969
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 3: can't judge whether it is that a popular show. It's

970
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Speaker 3: definitely a population of Thrones. I also think that culturally,

971
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Speaker 3: there are certain things that we would like that should

972
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Speaker 3: have been on this list.

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Speaker 9: You know, like Stranger Things.

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Speaker 3: Oh right, okay, okay, yeah, all right, Well that is

975
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Speaker 3: the list, so you guys can check out the full

976
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Speaker 3: best TV shows.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing about lists.

978
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Speaker 3: You're never going to agree with it all the way,

979
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 3: all right, And it is a wealth Wednesday, So we

980
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Speaker 3: do have Kim Pentaco joining us. It is Domestic Violence

981
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,240
Speaker 3: Awareness Month and we're going to talk about how financial

982
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 3: abuse plays into domestic violence. She is the senior director

983
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 3: of Economic Justice for the National Network to End Domestic Violence.

984
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Speaker 3: A really important conversation for Wealth Wednesday. It's way up

985
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 3: with Angela Yee.

986
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:07,879
Speaker 2: You riding a way up with Angela Yee.

987
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Speaker 3: Yes, it's way up with Angela Yee, Angela Yee and

988
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Speaker 3: mayno is here man.

989
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Speaker 1: Listen.

990
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 3: I woke up this morning super early to fly back

991
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 3: here from Detroit. So I was out there over the

992
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 3: weekend and you haven't been there, you said since last year.

993
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 3: You got to get back out there, like Detroit, you

994
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 3: got to get back and we as.

995
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 7: A matter of fact, I got to.

996
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Speaker 3: I think I'm going for a coach for kids, you know,

997
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 3: to do a nice give back with job. So maybe

998
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 3: around that time that's gonna be good, Yeah for you

999
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 3: to go out there. But you know, we have this

1000
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 3: building in Midtown that we're working on. Jasmine has come

1001
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 3: in to invest, and my girl to Peka, Sam and

1002
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 3: Jessica Sanchez, all of us are working on it. So

1003
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 3: all women team behind actually acquiring this building, but I've

1004
00:42:59,000 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 3: learned a.

1005
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: Lot so far.

1006
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,359
Speaker 3: This is my biggest project to date, so I said,

1007
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 3: I'm always going to keep people updated. I'm gonna post

1008
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 3: a little video in a minute just to show the units.

1009
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 3: There's thirty units, so they've been painted. We picked out

1010
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 3: the flooring while we were there, and then we also

1011
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 3: just got approved. It's a historic district, so we have

1012
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 3: to get the outside approved also from the board, the

1013
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 3: colors that we choose to use, whatever plans that we have,

1014
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 3: everything is like an approval process. So that just happened,

1015
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 3: and now we're at the point where we just have

1016
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 3: to make sure the building is secure. That's all I'm

1017
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 3: gonna say, because there's there's nothing in there yet. But

1018
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 3: I'm just nervous because there, yes this guy somebody broken.

1019
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 3: So we've now had to handle some things. But that's

1020
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 3: not easy though, when you have something like that that

1021
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 3: you're working on and it doesn't matter where you are

1022
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 3: right to make sure because there's a certain point where

1023
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 3: there might not be electricity like that, and you know

1024
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 3: the lights aren't up, there's no why. So now we're

1025
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 3: getting all that done, so there might be issues where

1026
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 3: it's hard to have those things set up because you're

1027
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 3: not at a point. But then people do things like

1028
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,279
Speaker 3: break a window and that might cost more money even

1029
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: though there's nothing inside.

1030
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: Now I got to get the window fixed. I gotta

1031
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: do this, you know, certain things like that.

1032
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: I always tell people when you're doing real estate, it's

1033
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 3: always going to cost more money than you think. So

1034
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 3: just make sure you have it in the budget because

1035
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: we've been having to come out of our pockets for a.

1036
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: Lot of things. So you can't ever be like I

1037
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: put all my last to go get this, because you're

1038
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: always going to need more. That's right, all right.

1039
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 3: Well that's just a little update, and you know it

1040
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 3: is also a Wealth Wednesday, and so shout out to

1041
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 3: everybody who is thinking about their finances and investing. And today,

1042
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 3: because it is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we wanted to

1043
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 3: bring attention to financial abuse. So we have Kim Panagoda Tian,

1044
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 3: director of Economic Justice for the National Network to End

1045
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 3: Domestic Violence, joining us for a Wealth Wednesday.

1046
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: It's way up.

1047
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 11: I had a dream of wealthy and I don't mind

1048
00:44:59,160 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 11: sharing my wealth.

1049
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 4: Dove getting you straight financially, mentally and physically. This is

1050
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 4: Wealth Wednesday on Way Up with Angela yee.

1051
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: What's episode up with Angela Yee.

1052
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,240
Speaker 3: I'm angel La Yee and you know it's a Wealth Wednesday,

1053
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 3: So I have my Wealth Wednesday partner Stacey Tisdale here, and.

1054
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 23: This week we are bringing attention to something that a

1055
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 23: lot of you probably know about but don't even know

1056
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 23: you know about, called financial abuse, and we're shining a

1057
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 23: special spotlight on it because it's Domestic Violence Awareness Month

1058
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 23: and ninety nine percent of domestic violence cases start in

1059
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 23: financial abuse and most of us don't even know what

1060
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Speaker 23: it is. So we are really excited to have Kim

1061
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 23: Pentago with us today.

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00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 1: Yes, the senior.

1063
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 3: Director of Economic Justice for the National Network to End

1064
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 3: Domestic Violence. Thank you so much for joining us. So

1065
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 3: can we define what is financial abuse?

1066
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 19: Great question?

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00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 15: So I think it's important to recognize what I'm here

1068
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 15: to talk about is financial abuse within the context of

1069
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 15: domestic violence. Okay, So, domestic violence first and foremost is

1070
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 15: a pattern of coursive behaviors to intimidate and threaten a

1071
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 15: current or former partner, and financial abuse is one of

1072
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 15: those tactics used.

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00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 19: Within the context of domestic violence.

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00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 15: Right, So you can have sort of bad behavior that

1075
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Speaker 15: is financial abuse, but not within the context of domestic violence.

1076
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So that pattern, of.

1077
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 15: Course a behavior is critical when you talk about domestic violence.

1078
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 15: So what it looks like in that context is it

1079
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 15: can be be aware from stealing money out of my

1080
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 15: wallet to taking my credit card and charging up a

1081
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 15: line of credit I don't know about, or taking out

1082
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Speaker 15: a new line of credit that I'm unaware of, or

1083
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 15: not paying bills and lying about that.

1084
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 19: So it can run the gamut of what that looks like.

1085
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 3: Or maybe even getting me to co sign something for

1086
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 3: you and then defaulting on that and now I'm responsible.

1087
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 15: Absolutely putting all the credit in my name, or giving

1088
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 15: me no credit. It can look like all kinds of

1089
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 15: ways for different folks, depends on their individual circumstance.

1090
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Speaker 23: You've even told the examples of someone messing up your job.

1091
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 19: Right, So if you call the time at my workplace

1092
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 19: and get me fired, or.

1093
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: I have somebody to do that to me.

1094
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 23: Yeah, and people have experience financial abuse and they don't

1095
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 23: know what it is, right, So if I don't have

1096
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 23: access to my own funds, then I'm further trapped in

1097
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Speaker 23: that relationship.

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Speaker 15: The other thing to remember is that let's say decide

1099
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Speaker 15: I want to leave my relationship because it's not safe

1100
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Speaker 15: for me.

1101
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Speaker 19: It's no longer serving me and my children. So I

1102
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Speaker 19: want to leave.

1103
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,439
Speaker 15: I need finances to do that. Yes, I just don't

1104
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 15: leave and go find housing. It's very expensive, as you

1105
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Speaker 15: can imagine, and so leaving's not easy leaving, particularly for

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Speaker 15: women living in poverty, Leaving often looks like doubling up

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Speaker 15: with friends or family, right.

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Speaker 3: And then when you have children, knowing that you have

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Speaker 3: to take your children to a shelter if you have

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Speaker 3: no place to go, sometimes you're thinking about them because

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Speaker 3: you don't want to put your children in a situation,

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Speaker 3: but you're not going to leave them behind, and.

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Speaker 15: So leaving doesn't look easy or simple, and so finances

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Speaker 15: play a huge piece in that.

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Speaker 3: Well, Wednesday, it's also domestic violence awareness meant and we

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Speaker 3: have Kim Pentago, Senior director of Economic Justice for the

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Speaker 3: National Network to End Domestic Violence here in studio with

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Speaker 3: me and Stacy Tisdale.

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Speaker 23: You know, the number one reason people stay in these

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Speaker 23: financially abusive relationships is because of children, and also talk

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Speaker 23: about the subtle aspects. A lot of friends, for example,

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Speaker 23: who have stayed in very emotionally unhealthy relationships and said

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Speaker 23: that they're doing it for the sake of their children.

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Speaker 23: And I was reading a story about a woman who

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Speaker 23: was in that situation and she just said to heck

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Speaker 23: with it, and she left and she did what she

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Speaker 23: didn't want to do. She had to move her kids,

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Speaker 23: who had a very nice lifestyle, into an apartment, and

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Speaker 23: her kids were so much happier. So when people get

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Speaker 23: to that point where they say, I'm staying in unhealthy

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Speaker 23: relationships before the children's sake, it's not always that great.

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Speaker 9: For the children.

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Speaker 15: Yes, I think it's important that we contextualize what this

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Speaker 15: looks like. For many survivors of domestic violence. Lethality increases

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Speaker 15: by seven times. When a survivor makes an active independence

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Speaker 15: like leading, like getting a job, like telling a friend

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Speaker 15: or taking a new line of credit out or whatever

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Speaker 15: that looks like, whatever that active independent is, that risk

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Speaker 15: of dying at your partner's hands increases by seven times.

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Speaker 15: Because the center of domestic violence is power control. So

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Speaker 15: when you've done something that sort of challenges that power control, well,

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Speaker 15: then you see physical and sexual violence be employed. And

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Speaker 15: so what we may not always recognize as helpers and

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Speaker 15: people that love survivors is that they know their safety best,

1145
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Speaker 15: which is counterinto it if you're being believe what I don't,

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Speaker 15: what you don't realize, is that when I leave, I

1147
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Speaker 15: can no longer kind of keep tabs on knowing where

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Speaker 15: my safety is at all times. So leaving can be

1149
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Speaker 15: really dangerous for survivors. Right at the same time, we

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Speaker 15: know that when we can do it safely, in a

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Speaker 15: planful way, helping folks get a financial stash of money

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Speaker 15: set aside, helping them find safe housing, all of those things,

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Speaker 15: we know their ability to leave is more successful, their

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Speaker 15: ability to do that last longer, and in the end,

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Speaker 15: kids tend to be much much happier.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've seen people have to leave in the middle

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Speaker 3: of the night, but you have to have everything set up,

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Speaker 3: like you said, and have a secure place to go,

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Speaker 3: and sometimes, you know, you really have to find a

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Speaker 3: place where they don't know where you're going until you

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Speaker 3: can get everything secure for yourself.

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Speaker 1: And that's not an easy thing to have to do.

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Speaker 3: I remember having to be in courtant with I had

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Speaker 3: a whole other situation going on, but hearing some it

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Speaker 3: was family court and hearing some of these women's stories

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Speaker 3: who were talking about, you know, the abuse that they

1167
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Speaker 3: had to go through and seeing women in court with

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Speaker 3: their kids trying to get restraining orders and dealing with

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Speaker 3: trying to leave somebody who was abusive to them, but

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Speaker 3: also have nowhere to go because a lot of times,

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Speaker 3: especially for women, when maybe you've had to stop working

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Speaker 3: because you've had children, and then this person is the

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Speaker 3: primary caretaker financially, but you're holding down the household for

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Speaker 3: a period of time.

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Speaker 1: It's not an easy thing to be able to do.

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Speaker 3: And sometimes women can feel like they're being selfish if

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Speaker 3: they're not sacrificing and staying in a situation because they

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Speaker 3: want to make sure people get scared. Is he going

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Speaker 3: to still financially take care of the kids? Do I

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Speaker 3: have to take the kids out of school. It's a

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Speaker 3: lot of things that go on when it's time to leave.

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Speaker 19: Well, I think the idea of also being able to

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Speaker 19: really leave and disappear with your kids is not realistic.

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Speaker 20: Yeah, it's that is still a thing children, absolutely, so

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Speaker 20: you have at some point you have to figure out

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Speaker 20: how to manage your safety, your children's safety, and still

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Speaker 20: hopefully co parenting on some level, which is really challenging

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Speaker 20: when you're working with somebody who's been historically abusive and

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Speaker 20: unsafe to you.

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Speaker 19: And your kids. You still required to figure out how

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Speaker 19: to manage that.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's talk about some solutions, right, and what you've

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00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 3: been doing, because we see what the problems are. But

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Speaker 3: I love the fact that you actually have programs implemented

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Speaker 3: to help people.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 15: So we've really been lucky to partner with the All

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Speaker 15: State Foundation for almost twenty years now, and so we

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Speaker 15: co authored a financial literacy curriculum that is available online

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Speaker 15: for free for anybody to access. It's a very traditional

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Speaker 15: financial literacy curriculum and that we talk about budgeting and

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Speaker 15: loans and how credit works and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 15: But then we also address how to do safety planning

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Speaker 15: within the context of domestic violence, and that's how you

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Speaker 15: make application.

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Speaker 1: All Right, it is a Wealth Wednesday, and Kim Pentago

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Speaker 1: is here.

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Speaker 3: She is the senior director of Economic Justice for the

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Speaker 3: National Network to End Domestic Violence. When we come back,

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Speaker 3: we'll talk more about how financial abuse plays into domestic

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Speaker 3: violence and how a lot of people don't even know

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Speaker 3: it exist.

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Speaker 1: It's way up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 13: I had a dream of living wealthy, and I don't

1215
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Speaker 13: mind sharing my wealth.

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Speaker 4: Dog getting you straight financially, mentally, and physically. This is

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Speaker 4: Wealth Wednesday on Way Up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: It's Way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and

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Speaker 3: it is a Wealth Wednesday. We have cam Pentaco here,

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Speaker 3: she's the senior director of Economic Justice for the National

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Speaker 3: Network to End Domestic Violence. We are talking about domestic

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Speaker 3: violence and also financial abuse, how those two are related.

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Speaker 3: And Stacy, my partner in Wealth Wednesday, has her own

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Speaker 3: personal story.

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Speaker 23: I was in a financially abusive situation as much as

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Speaker 23: I know about it, and this person stole from me,

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Speaker 23: tried to extort money, blackmail, tried to ruin my relationship

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Speaker 23: with my clients, took down my website Hole nine Yards,

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Speaker 23: and just by the nature of their personality, they ended

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Speaker 23: up getting kicked out of the United States for a

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Speaker 23: three year period. So I had all the police reports

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Speaker 23: and everything that I needed. But when I went to

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Speaker 23: the police and said, can I also get a restraining

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Speaker 23: order because that three years is coming up? They said

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Speaker 23: when he touches you, yeah, they waited when he and

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Speaker 23: I was like what, yeah, I'm like the restraining orders

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Speaker 23: to prevent that.

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Speaker 15: No, there has to have been a history of it

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Speaker 15: to show that that's a possibility or a threat of it.

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Speaker 23: So a lot of women in these situations don't feel

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Speaker 23: like the courts have that the legal system has their backs.

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Speaker 3: It's really tough because it's like, do I have to

1244
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 3: wait until I could get killed before something you know

1245
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 3: can happen. Especially people can leave you messages, they can

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Speaker 3: pop up places and do things like that, and a

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Speaker 3: lot of times it's really hard to legally get a

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Speaker 3: restraining order well.

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Speaker 15: And I think also what's interesting is that if you

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Speaker 15: many states do what they call fatality views and they

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Speaker 15: find that most victims of domestic violence who are killed

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Speaker 15: by their former partner there is some sort of restraining

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Speaker 15: order have recently been fired.

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Speaker 19: That's very common.

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Speaker 15: They made that active independence to try to protect themselves

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Speaker 15: and amped it up in their abuser's mind or their

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Speaker 15: harm doer's mind, and then we saw this, you know,

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Speaker 15: very tragic form of domestic violence occur.

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Speaker 3: Now he's listening right now, and they're like, this is

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Speaker 3: making me want to act on the situation that I'm in.

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Speaker 3: I'm in a situation that is physically abusive, a domestic

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Speaker 3: violence situation, and financially abusive as well, what are some

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Speaker 3: of the steps that you would tell them to take?

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Speaker 15: First and foremost, If you're really concerned about your safety,

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Speaker 15: please call the Domestic Violence Hotline and there can also

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Speaker 15: go online the DV Hotline.

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Speaker 19: They've got great resources.

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Speaker 15: They can get you in touch with a local domestic

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Speaker 15: violence advocate or shelter program in your area.

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Speaker 23: And if you feel unsafe, you call one eight hundred

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Speaker 23: seventy nine to nine safe.

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Speaker 1: It's a Wealth Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: It's also Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and we have Kim Pantago,

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Speaker 3: Senior Director of Economic Justice for the National Network to

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Speaker 3: End Domestic Violence here in studio with me and Stacy Tisdale.

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Speaker 23: A lot of people out here are like, hmm, maybe

1277
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Speaker 23: my relationship. You know, the financial part isn't healthy for

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Speaker 23: a lot of women. This lends and a lot of

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Speaker 23: victims this lands and credit.

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Speaker 15: Yes, So we've had lots of survivors come through and

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Speaker 15: they want to they've gone through the shelter program or whatever,

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Speaker 15: and they're ready to get on their own and start

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Speaker 15: their own housing and how and credit is such a

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Speaker 15: huge challenge. They've got their their credit's been ruined because

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Speaker 15: of their harmdoor or because of the extreme poverty and

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Speaker 15: they're not able to get new housing.

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Speaker 19: Or buy a car to get to childcare and jobs.

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Speaker 15: And all those things. And so we see credit being ruined.

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Speaker 15: So we started the Independence Project, which is a no feed,

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Speaker 15: no interest credit building microlon for survivors. It's a one

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Speaker 15: hundred dollars, no fee, no interest loan. They pay it

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Speaker 15: back ten dollars a month, and every month they make

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Speaker 15: their payment, we report it to the three credit bureaus.

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Speaker 9: That's so.

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Speaker 23: Yeah, we talked about how people access that.

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Speaker 19: Yeah, so you can go to our website.

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Speaker 15: You can type in Economic Justice or Independence Project on

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Speaker 15: our website NNEDV dot org and you can make applications.

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Speaker 19: Survivors apply on their own.

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Speaker 15: They have to have worked with the Domestic Ballence Advocate

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Speaker 15: at least three times, just so we know folks are

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Speaker 15: victims of domestic violences. That's are we teller funders who

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Speaker 15: the funds are going to. If you want to donate

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Speaker 15: so we can continue to support the Independence Project.

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Speaker 19: You know, just takes ten dollars to back a loane.

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Speaker 15: So we'd love to have folks come in and back

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Speaker 15: alone for us and help a survivor rebuild credit.

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Speaker 23: And Kim's out there fighting the fight in Washington, talking

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Speaker 23: to Congress, talking to the White House, really lobbying for

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Speaker 23: all of us on this issue. And everybody out there

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Speaker 23: can also check out this curriculum, which I think all

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Speaker 23: women should check out. So tell us how to get

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Speaker 23: that in the micro loans.

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Speaker 15: So you can also get the curriculum on our website,

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Speaker 15: but you can also go to the All State Foundation.

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Speaker 15: You look up domestic violence relationship abuse on the All

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Speaker 15: State website and you can get the curriculum there. It's

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Speaker 15: very accessible, which is lovely. It's available in multiple languages.

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Speaker 15: You can do a self guided piece of that and

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Speaker 15: go through yourself, so it's super accessible. And again, just

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Speaker 15: the fact that we have companies willing to really speak

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Speaker 15: out about this is truly remarkable.

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Speaker 1: Well Mner, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: To Senior Director of Economic Justice for the National Network

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Speaker 3: to End Domestic Violence.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. We appreciate all the amazing work that you're doing.

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Speaker 3: What a treat And when we come back, we have

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Speaker 3: asked ye eight hundred and two nine two fifty one

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Speaker 3: fifty is a number. I'm here and the award win

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Speaker 3: advice giver Mano is here as well. It's way you

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Speaker 3: put Angela yee.

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00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 4: Whether it's relationship or career advice, Angela's dropping facts.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Is way?

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Speaker 3: Put Angela yee. I'm Angela Yee and Maino is here

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00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 3: and we are doing ask Yee. So my award winning

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Speaker 3: co hosts Mano.

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Speaker 9: Listen, I'll give the greatest advice.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hello, who's this?

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Speaker 15: Hi?

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Speaker 8: This is Leisia.

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Speaker 1: What is your question for? Ask ye?

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Speaker 8: I've been in a relationship with a man for almost

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Speaker 8: six years. He is an amazing guy. He is my

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Speaker 8: best friend. However, lately he has been consuming alcohol on

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Speaker 8: a regular and he's becoming an aggressive drunk. So it's

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Speaker 8: starting to disturb my peace in our relationship. I don't

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Speaker 8: know whether I should stay and kind of help him

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Speaker 8: get help or in the relationship. Now, really quick backstory.

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Speaker 8: In twenty twenty, I got COVID and I was temporary

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Speaker 8: paralyzed from the waist down.

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Speaker 7: So he was there for me.

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Speaker 8: So I kind of feel like I owe him.

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Speaker 3: Owing somebody in a relationship is different than wanting to

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Speaker 3: be there and loving someone.

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Speaker 1: So you never owe somebody for a decision that they made.

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Speaker 1: He decided to do that.

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Speaker 3: I get it because I think a lot of times

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Speaker 3: we feel like, well, this person did this for me,

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Speaker 3: so I owe them. People do things for you because

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Speaker 3: they want to write, and you've done things for him

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00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 3: too because you want to. So if you want to

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Speaker 3: help him, that's one thing, But you don't owe him right.

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Speaker 8: And I want to help him because this is someone

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Speaker 8: I imagine being my husband. He doesn't want to help yet.

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Speaker 9: The thing about addiction, it becomes when it's so bad,

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Speaker 9: it becomes a disease.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is a dease. So let me give you

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Speaker 1: some things that I think you should do.

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Speaker 3: First of all, make sure that you know as much

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Speaker 3: information possible so that you can know how to help

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Speaker 3: him right. You can see whatever certain symptoms, treatment options

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Speaker 3: so you can help offer those options when he's ready

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Speaker 3: for them.

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Speaker 1: So that you also can be empathetic to what it

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Speaker 1: is that he's going through.

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Speaker 3: When you're educated about it, it will help you have

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Speaker 3: more of an understanding of why he's doing the things

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Speaker 3: that he does. Make sure that you can have an

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Speaker 3: open line of communication with him where it's not an argument.

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Speaker 3: You're not angry, but it's at a time when he's

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Speaker 3: not drinking, when you guys are calm, you know, and

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Speaker 3: having a good night and just trying to have that

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Speaker 3: conversation and encourage him to get help. And sometimes people

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Speaker 3: don't accept help from the people closest to them and

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Speaker 3: that's really really hard for them.

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Speaker 1: So that might mean counseling.

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Speaker 3: You know, they have group meetings that people can go,

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Speaker 3: so he might not even think that he's got an issue,

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Speaker 3: but maybe.

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Speaker 8: Exactly right the problem. He doesn't he doesn't think it's

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Speaker 8: an issue because he drinks to the point where he

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Speaker 8: blacks out, so he doesn't even know what happened the

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Speaker 8: night before.

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Speaker 13: So that's how big it is.

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Speaker 1: Has he put his hands on you once.

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Speaker 8: Before, just recently, that's it. That's why we're now separated.

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Speaker 8: We haven't spoken in about two weeks. But when he

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Speaker 8: gets drunk, he shows up at my.

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Speaker 3: House, listen, putting his hands on you. I don't see

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Speaker 3: this going in a great direction. I'm glad that you left.

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Speaker 3: When he comes to your house, don't let him in.

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Speaker 3: Make sure you're very specific with him with the issues

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Speaker 3: that you have, and you should really tell him if

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Speaker 3: he's not going to get the help that he needs

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Speaker 3: to get, you can't be there because at the end

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Speaker 3: of the day, you're not helping him by staying with

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Speaker 3: somebody who's doing these things and he's not getting any better,

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Speaker 3: and so you doing that is actually enabling him. And

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Speaker 3: I know it's hard to look at it that way,

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Speaker 3: but you know, still being in communication making him feel

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Speaker 3: like he has a chance. He's got to get the

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Speaker 3: help he needs for himself. He's not good for you

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Speaker 3: if he's not good for himself. And let me tell

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Speaker 3: you something, you can never put yourself below someone if

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Speaker 3: you're not at your best, if you're not safe, okay,

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Speaker 3: because to me, the fact that he put his hands

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Speaker 3: on you once recently, you're not safe and you don't

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Speaker 3: feel safe, and that's not something that you can just forgive.

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Speaker 3: So I'm concerned about you. I'm glad you got out.

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Speaker 3: Do not let him in the house when he does that.

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Speaker 3: Give him the information that he needs to get better.

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Speaker 3: That's the most you can do for him. Now, it's

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Speaker 3: up to him. You don't owe him, you know, to

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Speaker 3: risk your life, because that's what it is when somebody

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Speaker 3: can do something like that to you.

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Speaker 1: You don't owe him that.

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Speaker 3: But what you can say, you feel like I want

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Speaker 3: to do for him is give him the resources point

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Speaker 3: him in that direction now. It's on him if you're

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Speaker 3: willing to give him another chance after that, and you

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Speaker 3: feel like the disease is the reason why whatever. He

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Speaker 3: needs to show how serious he is, because that's serious

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Speaker 3: and I would not trust it. Okay, you got to

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Speaker 3: give it time, give it space, but take care of you,

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Speaker 3: give him those resources. Let him know I care enough

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Speaker 3: to let you know. You need to do this for yourself.

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Speaker 3: If you're not doing this for yourself, please don't contact me.

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Speaker 9: Okay, this is the greatest advice I've ever heard you.

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Speaker 3: Give out Well Lazier honestly, because I feel like I

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Speaker 3: want to give you a hug right now, because I

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Speaker 3: get it. You feel like you owe him. He's doing

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Speaker 3: things that's harmful to him. It's harmful to the relationship.

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Speaker 3: He put his hands on you, and I don't want

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Speaker 3: to ever be little something like that, and I don't

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01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 3: want you to feel like, well, I can't just leave

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Speaker 3: him at this time.

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Speaker 7: No likes.

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Speaker 8: And the thing is he didn't remember.

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Speaker 9: That's the thing. That's the thing, the fact that he

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Speaker 9: doesn't remember.

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Speaker 11: It's crazy because he doesn't even remember, so he's like

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Speaker 11: a totally different person.

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Speaker 9: And that's when you know that's.

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Speaker 3: Really bad, right, because what if he would have did

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Speaker 3: something worse, right, we wouldn't even be speaking right now,

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Speaker 3: and so I'm just concerned about that for you. Okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, so let's take this seriously and let's hope

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Speaker 3: he does too.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, Lesia, please thank you, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, that was ask ye And in case

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Speaker 3: you couldn't get through or you have a question, eight

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Speaker 3: hundred two nine two fifty one fifty is a number.

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Speaker 3: And when we come back, of course, you guys have

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Speaker 3: the last word. It's way up for the intel the yee.

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Speaker 2: Take up the phone to get your voice heard.

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Speaker 23: What the word is?

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Speaker 2: He is the last word on way up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: It's way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and

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Speaker 3: new Mayno is it may No. Thank you so much

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Speaker 3: for holding it down for me today. You know, I

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Speaker 3: got stuck outside. I had to run to the bank.

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Speaker 3: I got stuck in so much traffic coming ten blocks

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Speaker 3: and you really did hold it in.

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Speaker 9: Hey, listen, is what we do right?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I appreciate you so much and it is a

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Speaker 3: wealth Wednesdays. We want to thank Kim Pentaco for coming by.

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Speaker 3: She is the Senior director of Economic Justice for the

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Speaker 3: National Network to End Domestic Violence. It is Domestic Violence

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Speaker 3: Awareness Month, and since it is a Wealth Wednesday, shout

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Speaker 3: out to my guy, Jay White from Wealth Wednesday. Well,

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Speaker 3: Jay White has the Federal Code, but he also does

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Speaker 3: the after party on Wealth Wednesdays. He has an interview

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Speaker 3: with Tabitha Brown that's out right now, so I want

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Speaker 3: to make sure you guys check that out.

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Speaker 1: It's on my YouTube page for you to be able

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Speaker 1: to see that full interview in its entirety. So shout

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Speaker 1: out to Jay White.

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Speaker 3: He does this every Wednesday, the Wealth Wednesday's after party

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Speaker 3: and mayno, Yeah, I feel like you need some type

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Speaker 3: of honor.

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Speaker 19: We need to a he it's happening right.

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Speaker 11: So I got to look into what we got going

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Speaker 11: on because I'm supposed to be getting on it very

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Speaker 11: very very.

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Speaker 3: Soon, and I'll be there. Yes, I'm gonna be front row. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like, can I present this? But you

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Speaker 3: guys of course have the last word. Eight hundred two

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Speaker 3: nine two fifty one fifty. It's way up time.

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Speaker 21: This is Angela also known as Cookie. I'm shining the

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Speaker 21: light on my beautiful son. My baby is eighteen and

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Speaker 21: he goes to Norfolk State. He is always checking up

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Speaker 21: on me, even though he's around the corner and living

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Speaker 21: his own life.

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 21: He goes above and be on. Last week, I called

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Speaker 21: him at the last minute and I said, hey, I

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Speaker 21: need you to go take your brother the go take

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Speaker 21: his pitchers. He didn't give me any lisps. He was like, okay,

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Speaker 21: I'll be there in fifteen. So I'm definitely shining the

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Speaker 21: light on him. He's my heart. I love you, Marty.

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Speaker 17: I was proposed on the Toilest because my boyfriend asked

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Speaker 17: my twelve year old dog her permission to marry me

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Speaker 17: and she said no, it is too soon. So he

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Speaker 17: proposed to me on the Battle Yo.

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Speaker 6: I want to shine a light on super producer Dan Dan,

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Speaker 6: you're the man.

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Speaker 10: Good luck with your engagement.

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Speaker 7: Man, I hear you're engaged, all right. Good luck with

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01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 7: your engagement.

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Speaker 18: Brother, All the best, God bless you.

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01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 10: I want to try a line on my beautiful wife

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Speaker 10: Nicki Beckett.

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Speaker 8: Tell her had birthday October the seventh, coming in Saturday,

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Speaker 8: down and tell my wife I love her and.

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Speaker 16: She's a beautiful woman I've ever seen.

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Speaker 7: Thank you Nicky Becky, I love you baby.

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Speaker 2: Going way out with Angela yee