WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Heart Eyes for Air Fries 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:01.800 It's breaking Jeffrey in the morning, and we got a 0:00:01.800 --> 0:00:03.320 brand new Second Date update for you. 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:05.279 Thank you so much for being on the podcast. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:09.039 I'm laughing only because we just spent two minutes off 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:11.440 air trying to figure out the word breaking point. 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:12.200 No, that's not it. 0:00:12.520 --> 0:00:16.400 Deal breaker, Yeah, deal breaker because one of our listeners 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:18.760 deal breakers today is intense. 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:20.200 It's an intense thing. 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:21.840 And I know we're going to get a ton of 0:00:21.920 --> 0:00:25.640 comments about this woman and what she's giving up all 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:30.000 because of one simple thing. Oh yeah, God, you're gonna 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:31.360 hear it in just a second. But what are some 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:34.040 of the comments you're seeing right now, Alexis Yeah, Rosie said, 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:36.280 I've been listening since like twenty thirteen. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:37.640 I love you guys so much. 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:39.720 Also, I love my spouse that I'm out on Plenty 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:45.159 of Fish fifteen years ago. Yeah, yeah, well we were 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:48.120 making fun of Plenty of Fish last week. Yeah, but 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:49.560 I loved it where people met if it was like 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:52.400 a weird place fifteen years ago, I think Plenty of 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:54.240 Fish was kind of like hot, right. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.200 Yeah, I love it all right, liz It. Thank you 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:58.120 so much for being here. 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:01.400 Subscribe and follow, and you're new Second Date update starts 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:01.840 right now. 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:04.120 Second date updated? 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:11.120 Why do women ghost after showing very high interest early on? 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:16.240 Like we're talking two weeks of NonStop flirty talk and 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:20.720 genuine planning of your futures together, and then suddenly one 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:24.320 day Nope, actually never mind, she's completely over you and 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:25.679 doesn't want to talk to you anymore. 0:01:25.840 --> 0:01:26.959 Got the ig. 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.959 Alexis is that? The reason? Is that why someone would 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:30.160 do that? 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.800 You found something bad about you? I was taking online. 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:37.760 Research, some incriminating like family information one. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:41.000 I mean, who knows? Rap she? You can't find anything? Yeah, 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.119 I mean, if it's Alexis, it's just a photo taken 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:45.160 in bad light. Yeah, post it online? 0:01:45.240 --> 0:01:49.520 Yeah, Okay, that's one possibility. Is it also possible that 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.680 maybe you built up a lofty idea of who the 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:55.080 guy was in your mind, and then when you actually 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.960 met him and got to know him, reality didn't even 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:59.560 get close to your expectations. 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:01.000 Well, I don't know. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.080 Do girls build up us guys like that? 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:05.560 Maybe jaxad the guy thought she liked him for two weeks, 0:02:05.600 --> 0:02:07.880 and that's possible. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:12.800 Well, one of our listeners chatted with a girl every 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:17.280 night for almost two weeks. Then they met up and 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.840 things just stopped. So now he's here. 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.400 Maybe she was overwhelmed because she was so in love 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.200 with you and she isn't processing it. 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:25.400 Oh, you can lie to the listeners. 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:29.280 Now, let's welcome into the show. Though. Hey Brad, how 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:29.919 you doing? Man? 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:34.639 Hey guys, dude, bunny, that is an investment. Two weeks 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:38.600 of every day, like, actually, phone conversations are texts. 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.400 We did it all. We did phone, we did text, 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:42.920 we did face times, we did everything. 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:45.560 Wow, she'd even seen you before. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:49.239 Yeah, so you only had one meet up with this woman? 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:50.040 What was her name? 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.240 Her name is Megan? And I know she saw what 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:54.840 I look like on the face time, so she knows 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:56.400 that I look like my photos. 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:57.360 That sucks. 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.400 I don't want to say this, but like most of 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:02.000 the time people are dating around. Is it possible she 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:03.320 was talking to somebody else? 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:06.519 I understand when you're first talking to somebody, you could 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:08.480 be dating someone else or talking to someone else. But 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:11.720 we had such long, deep conversations we go on. 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:14.720 It sounds like you guys connected on such a level. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.440 Right. Yeah, Well, listen to what she told me one night. 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:20.080 She goes, I could see myself growing old with you. 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:23.440 Oh, oh my god, that's almost too much, man, well, 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:27.200 I've said that to my masseuse before. Is that not appropriate? 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:31.640 I could do this until I die. 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.399 But you liked that because you were on the same 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:35.960 page with her. That didn't freak out. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:37.480 Yeah, that was the thing. It didn't freak me out 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.400 because I kept feeling like I was falling for her 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:40.400 before we even met up. 0:03:40.560 --> 0:03:44.560 Oh wow, it's only weird when you're not on the 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:47.840 same page and in two weeks like this is great, 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:49.760 and you're on the same page, then it is great. 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:52.480 But you sound like you're one hundred percent in on 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:53.880 her before you even met her. 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.520 Oh my god. I started telling all my friends about her. 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:57.840 I told my sister about her. 0:03:57.920 --> 0:03:59.200 Got you a mat or? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.960 Yeah, like I have like a ninety year old barber 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:03.480 that I told about it. 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:07.200 Yeah, I just. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:09.320 Life. 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.000 I mean, I bet you were so nervous for your guys' 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:13.880 first meetup right in person. 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.800 You know what. I wasn't nervous because we had such 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:20.000 a good connection. Okay, I kind of felt like there's 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:20.840 only one way to go. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:22.680 Sure, But see that goes back to what I was 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.720 saying earlier about how it could be a little bit 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:28.320 dangerous now that you've put up these lofty expectations for 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.920 how much you're going to connect when you actually meet 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:31.440 in person. 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:34.680 But where's that risk, right, Like with great risk comes 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:36.080 great reward, you know that? 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.040 Or great letdown in this time? 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:41.400 That's the risk part of that sentence. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.400 Well, I guess it's just going to depend because I 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:45.360 thought the date itself went really really well. 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:48.160 Well, let's go through. What did you do for the date? 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:52.400 We went to out back okay, staying up in lofty? 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:53.360 I like it. Yeah. 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.440 The only thing I can think of that maybe with 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:58.640 the stupid thing to say or do I don't know, 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:02.000 is as we're walking into the restaurant, there's this old 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:05.120 mattress out behind it, next to the dumpster, and I 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:06.440 looked at it and I said, maybe I should just 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:10.240 bring that home because I need a new one. Oh 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.080 he actually she actually. 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:15.400 Laughed, Yeah, but do you actually need the mattress or 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:16.920 is that Jeff? He was kidding? 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:19.479 And then she saw him strapping it to the roof of. 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:24.400 The Okay, so she laughed, he said, she laughed great. 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:24.840 Okay. 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:27.120 I actually led into a conversation about what kind of 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:31.239 dream house we would get if we ever had one. 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.320 All the alley mattresses that one home could handle. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:38.280 Yeah, it's not like me, like I don't rush into relationships. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:40.599 I just it felt right, you. 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.480 Know that feeling. It just feels like comfort, like home. 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:43.800 You know. 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:47.039 It felt like we'd known each other for years already. Wow, 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:49.080 like we were doing that thing you know, where you're 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:50.840 sitting at the table and you make little excuses to 0:05:50.880 --> 0:05:52.320 sort of brush up against the other person. 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:57.400 I don't think that's really what it's like to be 0:05:57.520 --> 0:05:59.440 with somebody for a long time. You kind of are 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:03.640 each other's nerves by that. Don't touch my shoulder. Yeah, 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:06.719 you skipped right past the honeymoon phase into twenty years 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:08.520 of marriage. Yeah, that's also. 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:11.800 Good, right, like well the chemist, it felt amazing. 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:13.960 Okay, if it feels good for you, that's awesome. How 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:14.760 did the night end? 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:19.000 Well, the kiss In my mind, I pictured it longer, 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:22.200 but we did kiss. Yeah, And I told her I 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:25.240 wanted to see her again, and she said definitely. 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.960 Said definitely, okay. 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:29.640 And now she's not answering anything weird. 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:32.000 How long has it been since the date. 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:35.479 It's been six days, six which feels. 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:35.840 Like an eternity. 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:38.120 When you talked every day, multiple times a day for 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:38.880 two weeks. 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:42.279 Yeah, and you built your dream house together with each 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.719 other in your minds. I mean basically, I'm going to. 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.039 Say, and you told your ninety year old barber, I 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:49.760 mean you can't that he is going to be disappointed. 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.120 Yeah, I know he's got he's got a lot writing 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:52.320 on this. 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:55.520 All right, Well, we cannot give your barber bad news. 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:58.080 So we're going to come back, get you your second 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:01.360 date update and hopefully and on a positive note coming 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:02.240 up right after this. 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:05.760 Hold on second date update. 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:10.160 No pressure, but true love is on the line today 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:13.960 for our listener Brad, because he met a girl online. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:18.880 They texted, they called each other, facetimed even for hours 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:21.360 and hours on end, and got to the point where 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:25.400 they were literally planning out their future dream home together, 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:30.800 complete with roadside mattresses. And it's not just him who 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:33.560 feels that way, he told us. Megan brought up I 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:36.960 could see myself growing old with you. Those were her words. 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:39.840 So clearly they were both drinking from the same that 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:44.560 of love juice. But one dinner date whatever is in there. 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:48.600 One dinner date though at the outback, and everything is changed. 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:50.480 So I feel like we say that all the time. Yeah, 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.760 nobody's the same after, but especially not Brad. He's trying 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.320 to figure out what happened, what changed, because she is 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.920 totally ignoring him. Now, Brook, you're sticking with the he's 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.080 too sexy and emotionally mature angle. 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:06.840 Oh yeah, she's overwhelmed and doesn't know how to handle it. 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:09.080 And right now she's just talking to her therapist about 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:12.360 letting go of her old baggage and thoughts and moving 0:08:12.440 --> 0:08:13.720 forward into the future. 0:08:13.840 --> 0:08:16.200 Yes, she wants to be the perfect woman to fit 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:17.200 your perfect man. 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:18.800 I mean that's what I'm hoping for anyway. 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:23.800 Okay, sounds good. Yeah, that's great. Yeah, I'm sure that's 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.520 what she's gonna say when we call her right now. 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:27.840 It has nothing to do with a dumpster mattress at all. 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:30.760 I would hope not. I hope she knows I'm joking. 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:32.800 Yeah, I've read him. 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:33.080 Question. 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.360 You said you had a quick kiss, like really quick. 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:39.080 Did you eat bloomin onions? Onion breathing? 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:44.000 We ate a bunch of different stuff. If her breath 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:47.600 smelled like twenty bloomin onions wouldn't have mattered. I feel Oh. 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:55.080 That is so sweet. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:59.280 He would kiss her if she had hot bres really cute. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:02.000 If Brooke thinks it's cute. That's how you know you're doomed. 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.960 So let's just call Hopefully it's not the breath thing, 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:10.120 but brooking her husband just eating raw onions, Like, oh honey, hey, 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:10.600 if you do. 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:11.520 It together, it doesn't matter. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.400 Okay, let's eject from this as quickly as possible. I'm 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:15.160 down on you right now. 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:24.040 Hello. 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:25.760 Hey is this Megan? 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:31.320 Yeah, calm down, Brook. 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:33.839 This is a radio show that you're on right now. 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:36.320 It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Thanks for 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:36.760 being here. 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:40.600 Hi, good morning, so happy. 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:43.120 Yes, what is this? 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:43.920 Yeah? 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.200 This is a segment that we do, a dating segment 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:49.319 called Second Date Update, where we try to help out 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:51.680 listeners who've gone out with someone and afterwards they're not 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:54.760 getting a call back or no chance for a second meetup. 0:09:54.800 --> 0:10:00.320 We try to help them figure out why. Oh okay, 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:03.800 I know you're probably expecting some prizes or whatever, but. 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:06.480 I think this is even cooler than a prize. Yeah, like, 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:09.079 could be a chance. I don't know, a relationship for 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:10.400 love depends on a prize. 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:13.880 Well, it's good. So this is a guy, a listener 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:15.640 of ours that you went out with named Brad. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:23.360 Oh wow, okay, yeah, I mean like oh wow, or like, oh, 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.439 I don't even want to talk about this. I mean, really, 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:30.880 I mean. 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:33.960 It sounds like you two are so invested in each other. 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.800 We've heard a lot from Brad about you, and he 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.400 said that it's been six days since your date, but 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:42.760 it's kind of felt like a lifetime to him, because 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:44.959 I mean that's how strong the connection was. We've heard 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:46.920 a lot of people going on normal dates before on 0:10:46.960 --> 0:10:49.439 the show, but the way he described your connection and 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.120 your kind of journey together, he put a lot of 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.280 hope into this, and he's felt kind of devastated that 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:55.080 you've stepped back. 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:56.160 Yeah. 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:57.600 I was pretty devastated him. 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:02.160 Oh okay, Well can we ask, like what caused that 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:03.920 change in feeling towards him? 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.840 Yeah, I mean we were talking about the future and 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:11.400 everything was good, and then we met up and it 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:14.679 started off right, it was fun, it was sweet, and 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.400 then he said something that was just so off pudding. 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:25.040 He doesn't like pudding, off putting jezz Okay, oh my god, 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:26.920 Like immediately you had. 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:28.360 To reaction as soon as he said this. 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:30.839 I mean at first I thought it was a joke 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.120 and then I realized he was serious. 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.240 Oh god, it's not about the street mattress thing, is it? 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:38.880 He wants to design a dream home or on a 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:39.640 stained mattress. 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:40.240 Yeah. 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:42.080 No, it was when we were eating. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:44.480 We had a lot of stuff to eat, and I 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:47.480 said that I make the best blooming onion in my 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:50.040 air fryer. Oh wow, And he laughed at me. 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:51.480 He laughed at you. 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:54.120 He laughed at me, and he said that air fryers 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:55.079 are a scam. 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:58.360 I mean, they are just convection ovens. 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:01.520 But right, wait, what does that mean? 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.560 Oh? He said, it's just a loud toaster. 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:06.560 Oh that's kind of funny. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:09.040 I mean it's like the George Forman Grille of today. 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:11.400 Like everybody's buying them. Everybody's got to have him. 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:13.360 But she said, but she said he wasn't joking, that 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:14.360 he was serious. 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:15.880 He was serious. 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:18.800 What he was that passionate about air friers? 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:22.199 Yeah, well maybe I was passionate about it and he wasn't. 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.240 But he said he just didn't believe in them. And 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:26.880 that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:31.440 Okay, wow, So his comment about air friers being a 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:35.200 scam for you, that completely shifted how you saw him. 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.560 Yeah, in that moment, I was like, Nope, I don't 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:38.640 see my future husband. 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:42.320 Okay, oh wow, not the trash mattress. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:46.160 We were joking about that. He was dead serious about this. 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:48.560 Okay, that is such a hard take. 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:52.040 That is weird. It seems like that's where she draws 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:54.320 the line, like you can come after whatever else, but 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:55.920 don't cross me in my air frier. 0:12:56.080 --> 0:12:58.600 No I actually met him. Oh say in the airfriars 0:12:58.600 --> 0:12:59.560 were a belief system. 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:04.199 Oh yeah, you never discussed it with him and told 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:05.240 him how it made you feel. 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:08.600 I mean, he was so serious, he was just digging in. 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:11.280 I just sat back and crossed him off my list. 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:15.280 Oh geez, wow. Well I can still sense a little 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.760 bit of pent up frustration that you have towards Brad 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:20.880 even thinking about it, and if you wanted to unload 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.480 on him, just saying, now's your chance, because he's on 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:25.360 the other line right now waiting to talk to you. 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.600 Are you serious? I don't want to talk about this anymore. 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:33.120 I'm sure he wants to say something about it this. Yeah, 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:34.560 me too, Brad, are you there? 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:38.640 Hey, Megan, I had no idea you were so bothered 0:13:38.640 --> 0:13:40.240 by those comments. 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.000 Well, I mean you were so serious. I mean, what 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.120 are you going to stick fries in the microwaves. 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:47.920 I mean, you have an oven, you can put things 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:48.400 in the oven. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:53.880 You're sounding like a lunatic right now, Brad, in an oven. 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:54.760 You're great. 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.600 Brad, I don't know, I don't know. I don't know 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.800 what to say, because I mean, our connection I thought 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:03.200 was so strong and I can't imagine that something as 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:06.720 simple as my feelings about an air fryer have changed 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:09.679 your optimism about where a relationship could go. 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:13.280 I mean, I use it every single day. My friend 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.800 use it every single day. I mean it's like the 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:20.240 best invention. I mean, this guy like, wait, he doesn't 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:21.680 understand how great it is. 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:22.520 What's wrong with him? 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.840 Maybe that's like an invitation to teach you bring him to. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:28.680 The air fire side. 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.600 Brad, do you see how like you've clearly touched a 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.600 nerve for her. It's not like you've just made a 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:37.760 funny joke about air frers. You've attacked her life. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.400 I'm just so shocked. Guys, I thought you were in 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:43.600 the hospital because things were going so well. 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:46.960 You almost put me in the hospital with your comments 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.800 about that, and that is so dramatic. 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:53.040 I mean, it doesn't even sound like Brad really cares 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:55.360 about air fryers that much, right, Brad. 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.760 I don't believe in them, but who cares? Like, I'm 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.040 not gonna let it get in the middle of a 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:00.640 potential great re relationship. 0:15:01.360 --> 0:15:04.880 Clearly, it's an important touching point for Megan that you 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:08.000 value it because that's how she eats all of her meals. 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:10.240 She wants in the air fryer. 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:13.200 I mean, if you don't believe in air fryers, what's next? 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:17.120 Seasonal candles, fitted sheets, marinating things overnight? 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:21.360 You do not believe in fitted sheets, bread? 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:26.000 It's your dream home? Okay. 0:15:26.080 --> 0:15:28.560 I think we're putting a little too much emphasis on 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:30.560 one kitchen appliance. 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:33.200 I mean, go buy an easy bake oven. I don't 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:39.920 care whatever. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:41.960 You guys are laughing at me, but it's it's a 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:42.600 deal breaker. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.520 He said you can use your air. He doesn't care 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:46.720 if you use an air fryer. 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:48.920 I mean, but he also is like, I don't believe 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.280 in them. At the same time, he. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:53.160 Hasn't had her bluemann onion. You know he may change 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:53.680 his mind. 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:56.920 You think he's getting invited over to try any of 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:58.680 my foods. That chance. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:03.080 Doesn't deserve it. You'll never taste her blooming on you 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:03.840 in there, Brad. 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:04.720 Sounds like. 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:10.240 It is in a way. Well, we went from the 0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:14.400 most romantic story of all time to air frars burning 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:15.880 down a relationship. 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:17.480 Yeah it's pretty simple. 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:21.000 Yeah, and quick too, under fifteen minutes. They're so efficient. 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.520 I can't believe I actually imagine myself growing old with you. 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.000 You're clearly gonna die young from the way you're eating. 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:29.560 Oh wow, that was dark. 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:32.240 I mean, I gotta be honest. If this is the 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:35.000 thing that is your deal breaker in a relationship, dying young, 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:36.200 I'm gonna be getting out easy. 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:44.160 Oh should we keep the disses going for another few 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:46.840 minutes or should we just call it here? Okay, we're 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:47.880 gonna call it anyway. 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:49.960 Brook Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:53.040 Man, I need to be a better host, I think, 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.640 just in general, particularly for this second date. 0:16:55.720 --> 0:16:57.400 Updated don't comment. 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:01.240 I know it's true because we kind of got sidetracked 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:05.040 on air fryer burns and kind of jokes and put downs. 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:08.280 I never tried to reconnect those two back to their 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:11.200 original feelings for each other and what they liked about 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:13.679 each other. I was just sitting back and joining the show, 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:16.760 eating popcorn, not being a good host. 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:18.880 I feel like I tried to create some middle ground, 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:20.639 at least on the air Frier front, and there was 0:17:20.680 --> 0:17:22.000 no middle ground to reach. 0:17:22.080 --> 0:17:24.520 It wasn't gonna work. It's so weird. 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:27.080 I mean, she just wrote him off in that moment 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:28.640 and would never change her mind. 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:31.040 Yeah. I actually was kind of shocked that you don't 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:32.879 own an air frier, brook I thought that you were 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:34.440 one of the air friers Stands. 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:38.000 I hate kitchen gadgets. It's like a thing for me. 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.119 Brooks, Like, let's just put it over an open fire 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:42.360 in a trash can and. 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:45.040 Call it a day, like a nineties where everyone had 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:46.760 like food dehydrators. 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:48.560 You'd realize what it's a dumb mistake. 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:51.160 I am glad. 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:53.320