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Speaker 1: It's breaking Jeffrey in the morning, and we got a

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Speaker 1: brand new Second Date update for you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm laughing only because we just spent two minutes off

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Speaker 1: air trying to figure out the word breaking point.

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Speaker 2: No, that's not it.

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Speaker 1: Deal breaker, Yeah, deal breaker because one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: deal breakers today is intense.

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Speaker 2: It's an intense thing.

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Speaker 1: And I know we're going to get a ton of

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Speaker 1: comments about this woman and what she's giving up all

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Speaker 1: because of one simple thing. Oh yeah, God, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: hear it in just a second. But what are some

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Speaker 1: of the comments you're seeing right now, Alexis Yeah, Rosie said,

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Speaker 1: I've been listening since like twenty thirteen.

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Speaker 2: I love you guys so much.

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Speaker 1: Also, I love my spouse that I'm out on Plenty

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Speaker 1: of Fish fifteen years ago. Yeah, yeah, well we were

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Speaker 1: making fun of Plenty of Fish last week. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I loved it where people met if it was like

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Speaker 1: a weird place fifteen years ago, I think Plenty of

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Speaker 1: Fish was kind of like hot, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it all right, liz It. Thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for being here.

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Speaker 1: Subscribe and follow, and you're new Second Date update starts

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 3: Second date updated?

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Speaker 4: Why do women ghost after showing very high interest early on?

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Speaker 4: Like we're talking two weeks of NonStop flirty talk and

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Speaker 4: genuine planning of your futures together, and then suddenly one

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Speaker 4: day Nope, actually never mind, she's completely over you and

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Speaker 2: Got the ig.

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Speaker 4: Alexis is that? The reason? Is that why someone would

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Speaker 4: do that?

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Speaker 2: You found something bad about you? I was taking online.

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Speaker 4: Research, some incriminating like family information one.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who knows? Rap she? You can't find anything? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, if it's Alexis, it's just a photo taken

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Speaker 2: in bad light. Yeah, post it online?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, that's one possibility. Is it also possible that

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Speaker 4: maybe you built up a lofty idea of who the

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Speaker 4: met him and got to know him, reality didn't even

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Speaker 4: get close to your expectations.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Do girls build up us guys like that?

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Speaker 1: Maybe jaxad the guy thought she liked him for two weeks,

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Speaker 1: and that's possible.

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Speaker 4: Well, one of our listeners chatted with a girl every

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Speaker 4: night for almost two weeks. Then they met up and

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Speaker 1: Maybe she was overwhelmed because she was so in love

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Speaker 2: Oh, you can lie to the listeners.

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Speaker 4: Now, let's welcome into the show. Though. Hey Brad, how

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Speaker 4: you doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, dude, bunny, that is an investment. Two weeks

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Speaker 1: of every day, like, actually, phone conversations are texts.

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Speaker 5: We did it all. We did phone, we did text,

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Speaker 5: we did face times, we did everything.

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Speaker 2: Wow, she'd even seen you before.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you only had one meet up with this woman?

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Speaker 4: What was her name?

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Speaker 5: Her name is Megan? And I know she saw what

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Speaker 5: I look like on the face time, so she knows

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Speaker 2: That sucks.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to say this, but like most of

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Speaker 5: I understand when you're first talking to somebody, you could

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Speaker 5: be dating someone else or talking to someone else. But

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Speaker 5: we had such long, deep conversations we go on.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you guys connected on such a level.

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Speaker 5: Right. Yeah, Well, listen to what she told me one night.

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Speaker 5: She goes, I could see myself growing old with you.

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Speaker 4: Oh, oh my god, that's almost too much, man, well,

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Speaker 4: I've said that to my masseuse before. Is that not appropriate?

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Speaker 2: But you liked that because you were on the same

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that was the thing. It didn't freak me out

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Speaker 5: Oh my god. I started telling all my friends about her.

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Speaker 5: I told my sister about her.

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Speaker 4: Got you a mat or?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like I have like a ninety year old barber

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I just.

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Speaker 3: Life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I bet you were so nervous for your guys'

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Speaker 5: You know what. I wasn't nervous because we had such

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Speaker 5: a good connection. Okay, I kind of felt like there's

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Speaker 4: Sure, But see that goes back to what I was

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Speaker 2: But where's that risk, right, Like with great risk comes

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Speaker 4: Or great letdown in this time?

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Speaker 2: That's the risk part of that sentence.

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Speaker 5: Well, I guess it's just going to depend because I

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Speaker 4: Well, let's go through. What did you do for the date?

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Speaker 4: We went to out back okay, staying up in lofty?

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Speaker 5: The only thing I can think of that maybe with

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Speaker 4: is that Jeff? He was kidding?

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Speaker 2: And then she saw him strapping it to the roof of.

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Speaker 5: I actually led into a conversation about what kind of

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Speaker 4: All the alley mattresses that one home could handle.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not like me, like I don't rush into relationships.

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Speaker 2: Know that feeling. It just feels like comfort, like home.

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Speaker 5: It felt like we'd known each other for years already. Wow,

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Speaker 4: I don't think that's really what it's like to be

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Speaker 5: Good, right, like well the chemist, it felt amazing.

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Speaker 4: Okay, if it feels good for you, that's awesome. How

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Speaker 5: Well, the kiss In my mind, I pictured it longer,

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Speaker 2: Said definitely, okay.

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Speaker 5: And now she's not answering anything weird.

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since the date.

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Speaker 6: It's been six days, six which feels.

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Speaker 2: Like an eternity.

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Speaker 1: When you talked every day, multiple times a day for

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you built your dream house together with each

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Speaker 1: Say, and you told your ninety year old barber, I

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Speaker 1: mean you can't that he is going to be disappointed.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know he's got he's got a lot writing

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we cannot give your barber bad news.

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Speaker 4: So we're going to come back, get you your second

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Speaker 4: date update and hopefully and on a positive note coming

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Speaker 3: Hold on second date update.

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Speaker 4: No pressure, but true love is on the line today

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Speaker 4: for our listener Brad, because he met a girl online.

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Speaker 4: They texted, they called each other, facetimed even for hours

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Speaker 4: they were literally planning out their future dream home together,

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Speaker 4: complete with roadside mattresses. And it's not just him who

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Speaker 4: feels that way, he told us. Megan brought up I

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Speaker 4: could see myself growing old with you. Those were her words.

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Speaker 4: So clearly they were both drinking from the same that

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Speaker 4: One dinner date though at the outback, and everything is changed.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like we say that all the time. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: nobody's the same after, but especially not Brad. He's trying

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Speaker 4: to figure out what happened, what changed, because she is

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Speaker 4: totally ignoring him. Now, Brook, you're sticking with the he's

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's overwhelmed and doesn't know how to handle it.

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Speaker 1: And right now she's just talking to her therapist about

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Speaker 4: Yes, she wants to be the perfect woman to fit

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Speaker 2: I mean that's what I'm hoping for anyway.

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Speaker 4: Okay, sounds good. Yeah, that's great. Yeah, I'm sure that's

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Speaker 4: what she's gonna say when we call her right now.

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Speaker 2: It has nothing to do with a dumpster mattress at all.

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Speaker 5: I would hope not. I hope she knows I'm joking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've read him.

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Speaker 6: Question.

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Speaker 4: You said you had a quick kiss, like really quick.

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Speaker 4: Did you eat bloomin onions? Onion breathing?

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Speaker 5: We ate a bunch of different stuff. If her breath

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Speaker 5: smelled like twenty bloomin onions wouldn't have mattered. I feel Oh.

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Speaker 2: That is so sweet.

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Speaker 1: He would kiss her if she had hot bres really cute.

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Speaker 4: If Brooke thinks it's cute. That's how you know you're doomed.

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Speaker 4: So let's just call Hopefully it's not the breath thing,

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Speaker 4: but brooking her husband just eating raw onions, Like, oh honey, hey,

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Speaker 4: if you do.

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Speaker 2: It together, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let's eject from this as quickly as possible. I'm

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Speaker 4: down on you right now.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey is this Megan?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, calm down, Brook.

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Speaker 4: This is a radio show that you're on right now.

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Speaker 4: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: Hi, good morning, so happy.

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Speaker 6: Yes, what is this?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: This is a segment that we do, a dating segment

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Speaker 4: listeners who've gone out with someone and afterwards they're not

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Speaker 4: getting a call back or no chance for a second meetup.

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Speaker 4: We try to help them figure out why. Oh okay,

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Speaker 4: I know you're probably expecting some prizes or whatever, but.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's good. So this is a guy, a listener

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, okay, yeah, I mean like oh wow, or like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I mean that's how strong the connection was. We've heard

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I was pretty devastated him.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, Well can we ask, like what caused that

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we were talking about the future and

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Speaker 1: He doesn't like pudding, off putting jezz Okay, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: Oh god, it's not about the street mattress thing, is it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, it was when we were eating.

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Speaker 6: We had a lot of stuff to eat, and I

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Speaker 4: He laughed at you.

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Speaker 6: He laughed at me, and he said that air fryers

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Speaker 2: I mean, they are just convection ovens.

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Speaker 5: Oh? He said, it's just a loud toaster.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's like the George Forman Grille of today.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody's buying them. Everybody's got to have him.

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Speaker 4: But she said, but she said he wasn't joking, that

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Speaker 6: He was serious.

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Speaker 6: But he said he just didn't believe in them. And

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, So his comment about air friers being a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, in that moment, I was like, Nope, I don't

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh wow, not the trash mattress.

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Speaker 6: We were joking about that. He was dead serious about this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that is such a hard take.

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Speaker 4: That is weird. It seems like that's where she draws

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Speaker 2: No I actually met him. Oh say in the airfriars

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you never discussed it with him and told

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Speaker 6: I mean, he was so serious, he was just digging in.

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Speaker 4: Oh geez, wow. Well I can still sense a little

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Speaker 4: even thinking about it, and if you wanted to unload

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Speaker 6: Are you serious? I don't want to talk about this anymore.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure he wants to say something about it this. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: me too, Brad, are you there?

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Speaker 5: Hey, Megan, I had no idea you were so bothered

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean you were so serious. I mean, what

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Speaker 5: I mean, you have an oven, you can put things

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Speaker 6: You're sounding like a lunatic right now, Brad, in an oven.

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Speaker 4: You're great.

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Speaker 5: Brad, I don't know, I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 5: what to say, because I mean, our connection I thought

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Speaker 6: I mean, I use it every single day. My friend

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with him?

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's like an invitation to teach you bring him to.

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Speaker 2: The air fire side.

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Speaker 4: Brad, do you see how like you've clearly touched a

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Speaker 4: nerve for her. It's not like you've just made a

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Speaker 5: I'm just so shocked. Guys, I thought you were in

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Speaker 6: You almost put me in the hospital with your comments

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Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't even sound like Brad really cares

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Speaker 5: I don't believe in them, but who cares? Like, I'm

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Speaker 4: Clearly, it's an important touching point for Megan that you

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Speaker 4: value it because that's how she eats all of her meals.

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Speaker 4: She wants in the air fryer.

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Speaker 6: I mean, if you don't believe in air fryers, what's next?

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Speaker 6: Seasonal candles, fitted sheets, marinating things overnight?

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Speaker 4: You do not believe in fitted sheets, bread?

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Speaker 2: It's your dream home? Okay.

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Speaker 1: I think we're putting a little too much emphasis on

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Speaker 5: I mean, go buy an easy bake oven. I don't

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Speaker 6: You guys are laughing at me, but it's it's a

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Speaker 2: He said you can use your air. He doesn't care

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Speaker 4: I mean, but he also is like, I don't believe

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Speaker 2: Hasn't had her bluemann onion. You know he may change

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Speaker 6: You think he's getting invited over to try any of

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Speaker 4: Doesn't deserve it. You'll never taste her blooming on you

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Speaker 4: It is in a way. Well, we went from the

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Speaker 2: Yeah it's pretty simple.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and quick too, under fifteen minutes. They're so efficient.

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Speaker 6: I can't believe I actually imagine myself growing old with you.

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Speaker 6: You're clearly gonna die young from the way you're eating.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, that was dark.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I gotta be honest. If this is the

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be getting out easy.

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Speaker 4: Oh should we keep the disses going for another few

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Speaker 3: Brook Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Man, I need to be a better host, I think,

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Speaker 4: just in general, particularly for this second date.

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Speaker 2: Updated don't comment.

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Speaker 4: I know it's true because we kind of got sidetracked

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Speaker 4: I never tried to reconnect those two back to their

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Speaker 1: I feel like I tried to create some middle ground,

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Speaker 2: It wasn't gonna work. It's so weird.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she just wrote him off in that moment

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Speaker 1: and would never change her mind.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I actually was kind of shocked that you don't

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Speaker 4: own an air frier, brook I thought that you were

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Speaker 2: I hate kitchen gadgets. It's like a thing for me.

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Speaker 4: Brooks, Like, let's just put it over an open fire

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Speaker 1: Call it a day, like a nineties where everyone had

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Speaker 2: You'd realize what it's a dumb mistake.

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Speaker 4: I am glad.

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Speaker 2: Seriously, how many banana chips can you make?

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Speaker 4: But if you want help from our show, I promise

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Speaker 4: Brooks willing to help you. It might not sound like it. Okay,

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Speaker 2: You're the one that was apologizing, not me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I am the bad host. Brooke is the good one,

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Speaker 4: I mean it, Brooks the good one.

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Speaker 3: We're all doing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, reach out to us, email us. We'll call that

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