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Speaker 1: Fired me with no notice. Fine, I'll destroy your entire company.

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Speaker 1: Why not just be a simp for capitalism? Why not

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Speaker 1: just be a cog in the machine. Why can we

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Speaker 1: not just be at the beckon bow of our corporate overlords.

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Speaker 1: Why can't you just lean over and let the monopoly

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Speaker 1: man stick a whole honking hard bunch of cash up

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Speaker 1: that tight little sphincter you got there? Oh god, So

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Speaker 1: start of December, I was let go of my job

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Speaker 1: because they didn't have the time to train me for

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Speaker 1: to survive, as it took me three weeks to find

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Speaker 1: something new. I was hired for a customer services administrator

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Speaker 1: role and I'd never done that type of work, And

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Speaker 1: I was told I'd be given full training on the job,

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Speaker 1: you know, like maybe for a job you haven't done before,

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Speaker 1: they give you full training. Even for a job you

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Speaker 1: That is unacceptable. He should come in with no training

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Speaker 1: and know exactly how to do it. Yeah, unacceptable. Hey,

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Speaker 1: why aren't you a robot? Why aren't you the freaking terminator?

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Speaker 1: Give him already? Let me give you these strategies. Please,

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Speaker 1: terminate these actions.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna be the those that's gonna be the voice

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Speaker 2: of chat GPT once it starts talking to us.

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Speaker 1: What do you want to know? The girls in my

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Speaker 1: office never bothered and I simply learnt the job myself.

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Speaker 1: I was then told my performance was more than they expected.

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Speaker 1: But suddenly was called into the office at eight thirty am.

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Speaker 1: don't have the time. Hurts you? Yeah, I swear, I

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Speaker 1: swear God to add my contract stated I was to

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Speaker 1: be given twenty eight days notice of termination. So they

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Speaker 1: be breaching contract job. They think they're too big for

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Speaker 1: their breeches. Little do they know that there are some

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Speaker 1: breaching bitches as in breaching that contract. Oh damn. The

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Speaker 1: company who worked more uses government grants as a form

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Speaker 1: of payment, so they would regularly claim they have done

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Speaker 1: such as forging signatures, what and lying about the work

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Speaker 1: they have done to get more funding. What bro They

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Speaker 1: definitely need to be shut down. What it sounds like

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Speaker 1: a shitty shitty company op aside, like this is fraud.

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Speaker 1: This is literally fraud. Basically, we get funding from the

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Speaker 1: all I can say. It's a small company, and the

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Speaker 1: director would constantly hassle over the forged signatures as we

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Speaker 1: and if we had an audit, he would go to

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Speaker 1: When I got laid off not by my manager but

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Speaker 1: someone who worked at the same level in my department,

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Speaker 1: I was absolutely livid. Yeah. I mean they dragged me

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Speaker 1: he's gone nuclear. Bro, Ope, he's going nuclear. All right.

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Speaker 1: Nothing came of this until oh a week later, okay

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Speaker 1: of roller coaster, when the FED wanted more details. Thing is,

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Speaker 1: had been going on. Yo. Yeah, if you're gonna do

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Speaker 1: I hate all these videos of kids like knocking some

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Speaker 1: Like you're gonna be stupid, don't be stupid in public.

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Speaker 1: That's like, do you remember boot Gang? What's that?

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Speaker 2: He was this dude in Florida. He would take shit

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Speaker 2: like he likes you know, it's like petty theft or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Wow, imagine stealing a tray of dunkin Donuts. But Internet points, bro,

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Speaker 1: how dumb do you have to be? So? Long story short.

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Speaker 1: by the mantra. Fuck around and find out they found out. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: This is this is a legendary like like anti I

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Op should teach a masterclass in corporate espionage. Actually,

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Speaker 1: because you know, Coke would probably pay a billion dollars

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Speaker 1: for this PEPSI kidding me, NESLEI wow, look up, Neslie.

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Speaker 1: They do some fucked up shit. Uh oh you know, Neslie,

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Speaker 1: chocolate products? Oh my chocolate. Nestlie is insanity. A messed

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Speaker 1: up company, geez. But you know what, it's also messed

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Speaker 1: up in the delicious way our slae o kaope, what

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Speaker 1: a twist. Why would you submit your amazing stories and

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Speaker 1: Send him in, baby, I didn't pay my fiance's mother

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Speaker 1: five thousand dollars, so she ruined my life and now

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Speaker 1: John Fratt, and we tell the funniest stories on the Internet.

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Speaker 1: And John, I have a title for you right now.

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Speaker 1: I am excited. We got some good ones today. I

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Speaker 1: didn't pay my fiance's mother five thousand dollars, so she

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Speaker 2: Man, you know, five thousand dollars and your life is

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Speaker 2: ruined and you're homeless. Like rough, We're not off to

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Speaker 1: Here we go. This just emotionally strapping this. This one's tough.

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Speaker 1: This story is extremely hard for me tell because I'm

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Speaker 1: I need to because this story features the most entitled

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Speaker 1: parents I've ever met in my whole life. But we've

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Speaker 1: this is the story of how my life has been

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Speaker 1: ruined because, like the titles dates, I refuse to pay

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Speaker 1: my fiance's mother five thousand dollars. Buckarooney's sand dollars, Zimbob

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Speaker 1: Wayhan knuckles, Well, there'd be a lot more Zimbabwe do. Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: it's like what like a trillion dollars one American dollar

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Speaker 1: In August of twenty nineteen, when my fiance and I

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Speaker 1: some Simba noises over here, some simp noises. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: My buddy sent me a picture of some lions getting

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Speaker 2: Absurdity of this scenario, like I cannot even imagine.

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Speaker 1: My fiance kindly asked his mother who he was staying

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Speaker 1: with if I could live with them long enough for

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Speaker 1: h seems nice. Maybe not an entitled parent after all.

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Speaker 2: Ah, we will see. By the way, I want to

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Speaker 2: do this with the entitled parents. At the end, we

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Speaker 2: should give zero out of ten karens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, out of ten karens. How many karens? This so

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Speaker 1: I moved from Illinois to Florida Within a week of

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Speaker 1: me being in the house. Fiance's mother made our lives

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Speaker 1: are living. They just need to hire you for Jurassic

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Speaker 1: What are my noises.

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Speaker 2: If only these stories featured dinosaurs.

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Speaker 1: When I first met my girlfriend's parents, the feedback that

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Speaker 3: Let's see it, let's see it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, listen.

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Speaker 2: If if my daughter came home with that, I would

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Speaker 1: of a part? I need? John? So t Rex should

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Speaker 1: be a selling point, baby, go off, king, King of

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Speaker 2: The fucking prehistoric era, whatever the fuck era the dinosaur.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, ship, give me that ship, bro. Despite me

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Speaker 1: She would gaslight and picked petty fights with my fiance

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Speaker 1: and then play the victim like a true narcissist. It

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Speaker 1: then we'd be away from her deathly grip hallelujah, hallelujah,

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Speaker 1: and it'll be fine. Right, Yeah, wrong, wrong. After the weekend,

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Speaker 1: fiance's mother drove us back to her house. On the

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Speaker 1: way back, she sprung something on me. She wanted us

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Speaker 1: to pay her five thousand dollars five thousand smack of

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Speaker 1: rooms twenty trillion Zimbabwe dollars. I want everything to be

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Speaker 1: in Zimbabwe. Do everything now is adjusted for hyper hyperinflation? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to invest in I guess I should invest

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Speaker 2: I know I should maybe maybe you know, like it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let us put in the comments. Please. We're broke.

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Speaker 1: We're broke. We're very broke. My fiance's mother's behavior worsened.

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Speaker 1: We've been homeless on and off for two years now,

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Speaker 1: two years time. I've been attacked twice because being homeless

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Speaker 1: has put us in dangerous and unsafe situations. I've witnessed

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Speaker 1: someone almost shoot my spouse, and the fiance's mother didn't care,

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Speaker 1: didn't care.

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Speaker 2: Insane, it seemed like she enjoyed watching us suffer. That's real,

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Speaker 2: like really bad mental.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't imagine. Finally, in early twenty twenty, when

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Speaker 1: we were practically begging on our knees, fiance's mother co

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Speaker 1: signed on our apartment, a two bedroom model we couldn't afford,

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Speaker 1: but she insisted it was death or nothing. But after

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Speaker 1: everything was finalized, she told us, uh, you can't have roommates.

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Speaker 1: We had to try and keep ourselves afloat during the pandemic,

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Speaker 1: something that ruined our finances more than they already were ruined.

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Speaker 1: And when our lease ended in April, Fyonce's mom insisted

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Speaker 1: she had fulfilled her promise, so she had no obligation

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Speaker 1: to help us, even if that action co signed us

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Speaker 1: to the streets again. We're homeless again now, and she

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Speaker 1: continues to lie about us to the rest of the family,

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Speaker 1: saying we ruined the apartment, which we left in perfect condition,

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Speaker 1: and saying that's the reason she won't co sign for

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Speaker 1: us again. To tie up this story, I found out

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Speaker 1: recently that refusing to co sign and watching our finances

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Speaker 1: dwindle was very much intentional on the mother's part. During

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Speaker 1: the weekend, my fiance and I went to the hotel

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Speaker 1: for a week and escape. His mother went to a

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Speaker 1: family get together. We weren't invited to this event because

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Speaker 1: my fiance has dissociative identity disorder in addition to his

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Speaker 1: physical limitations, and the rest of the family ostracizes him

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Speaker 1: because he's crazy. I mean, but he's well behaved and

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Speaker 1: it all works together, so this is like seems utterly ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: Doing his best, seeing his best, that situation for it,

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Speaker 1: but they've treated him this way as whole life. During

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Speaker 1: the family event, someone joked that I probably had more

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Speaker 1: money than my fiance's mother, which I don't know is true,

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Speaker 1: because the woman gets five thousand dollars a month due

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Speaker 1: to a combination of retirement pension and money she inherited

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Speaker 1: from her late husband, So I severely doubt it, According

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Speaker 1: to a family member, she calmly said in response, let's

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Speaker 1: see how much money that bad word for a gay

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Speaker 1: person has when I'm done with her. WHOA, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: this is a shit situation. Yeah, this is really so

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Speaker 1: fricking shitty. I can't even imagine. I can't even imagine.

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Speaker 2: OP is definitely like, I mean, shout out to you

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Speaker 2: and your significant other because you have both been through

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Speaker 2: so much and yeah, impressive, impressive how you've just like

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Speaker 2: kind of pushed through it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And also OP is LGBTQ, so I imagine that

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Speaker 1: probably it seems like that has something to do with

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Speaker 1: how they're being treated, yep. And but there are resources

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Speaker 1: to help with that, and like there's also a lot

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Speaker 1: of churches, especially in the Orlando area, that are LGBTQ. Family.

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Speaker 1: I saw some comments pointing OP in that direction, So

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Speaker 1: it seems like OP might get the help that they need.

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Speaker 1: I definitely definitely hope.

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Speaker 3: So