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Speaker 1: What's ups for Antelage.

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Speaker 2: My girl Jordy Door is here with me today and

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Speaker 2: we had Naomi sharing here. Oh this is different for us. Hello,

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Speaker 2: how are you feeling today?

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Speaker 3: I'm good. Yeah, it's good to be back in New York.

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Speaker 3: I went to a musical theater show yesterday. Oh would

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Speaker 3: you say Chicago?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and Megan this dallion is coming back today

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Speaker 2: to the show. So you just.

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Speaker 3: Look at us. It's cat.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen either one. I'm gonna be honest.

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Speaker 3: It's really good. You know you should go. Actually, it's

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Speaker 3: like it's iconic, legendary show.

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Speaker 2: But if you feel I've seen The Lion King and

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Speaker 2: I know you did the one the Netherlands and I've

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Speaker 2: also I also said the Tina Turner play here as well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's a great one. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I actually like going to Broadway. But those are the

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Speaker 2: two that I haven't seen.

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Speaker 4: I had never seen Chicago until my friend was in it,

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Speaker 4: and that was the reason I went. Still, no, she

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Speaker 4: hasn't been there for about a year now. I haven't

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Speaker 4: seen Mulan.

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Speaker 5: Rouge in the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I want to see Megan though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and the movie was so good too. Yeah, yeah, yes, I.

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Speaker 2: Remember that, so you do, but you do have a

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Speaker 2: theatrical background. And for everybody listening, she's the first woman

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Speaker 2: signed to OVL Music period period of Obo music. But

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Speaker 2: you're so talk to me about just kind of growing

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Speaker 2: up and Rotterdam Am I saying it right, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: Radadam in the Netherlands and what that was like and

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Speaker 2: how you got into there there.

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Speaker 3: Ronaldam is a I mean, it has some similarities to

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Speaker 3: New York in a small way, like microwave, but it's

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Speaker 3: it's a city, a really cool city, a lot of

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Speaker 3: culture there, very diverse. And oh yeah, I was young

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Speaker 3: and and I grew up in a family with a

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Speaker 3: lot of like musicians, singers, dancers. So it was kind

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Speaker 3: of in the blood, in the blood and in the

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Speaker 3: stars that I was going to do that. And yeah,

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Speaker 3: pretty young, I started to do musical theater while I

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Speaker 3: was doing trek and field as well. For a while

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Speaker 3: I was I thought I was doing the Olympics like

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Speaker 3: in the future. No, for real, like I was serious

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Speaker 3: about it. And then I had to make a decision.

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Speaker 3: And so when I was like fourteen years I decided

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Speaker 3: to do musical theater.

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Speaker 2: What a hard decision to have to make What made

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Speaker 2: you say that was the way you were going to

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Speaker 2: sway toward?

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Speaker 3: I think, you know, being an athlete. I have the

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Speaker 3: utmost respect for athletes. It's a different type of life

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Speaker 3: you have. It's very restricted, where when you're an artist

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Speaker 3: you can create it. Yeah, I can be a little

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Speaker 3: bit more fun, I guess, but it was a hard one.

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Speaker 3: I cried, like I was actually going to be in

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Speaker 3: like the national team, so it was yeah. I was.

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Speaker 2: Also I think, you don't know what's going to happen.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like you were going to be in

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Speaker 2: the national team, so you knew that could happen, but

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Speaker 2: then this was more of a risk.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was. Yeah, I mean I don't know, Like

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Speaker 3: I was very determined and I knew from a young

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Speaker 3: you're a little bit more like, yeah, I'm going to

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Speaker 3: do that, So when you're getting older, you get a

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Speaker 3: little insecure and whatever. But at that age, I was like,

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Speaker 3: all right, well I'll just you know, become a singer.

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Speaker 3: And then I did, thank you, but yeah.

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Speaker 2: You have such a powerful voice too, and I can't

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Speaker 2: even think. When Jordan and I were talking, I was like,

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Speaker 2: who could I even because you know how whenever you're

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Speaker 2: a singer and people you know reminds me of X,

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Speaker 2: Y and Z, there's not a lot that I could say.

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Speaker 3: No. Yeah, I mean it's low register, so I think

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Speaker 3: a lot of people always you know, have their their

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a I mean, that's a good thing right

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Speaker 2: now signing to OVO And I know, I know you've

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Speaker 2: probably told this story a million times, but even how

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Speaker 2: that happened because Drake reached out to you personally on

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Speaker 2: the DM, Yeah, did you think it was real? Because

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Speaker 2: you know, sometimes you get reached out to and people

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Speaker 2: are like I always hear stories again, but being like,

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Speaker 2: oh that wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I yeah, well, I was like, you know, the first

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Speaker 3: all right, you know, let's see, he must be so busy.

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Speaker 3: So but he did. He came back to me and

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Speaker 3: that followed up with like a meeting with like the

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Speaker 3: whole team, and then I was like, okay, yeah, this

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Speaker 3: is legit, Like I want to do this and I think,

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Speaker 3: you know, it's it's great to have something behind you

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Speaker 3: that can push you in a direction or whatever. I

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Speaker 3: was already doing so much by myself though, like I

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Speaker 3: didn't have a label, didn't have management at the beginning, well,

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Speaker 3: doing so many things myself. But it's always great to

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Speaker 2: How did he even see your music to reach out

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Speaker 2: to say, I want to hear.

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Speaker 3: I think someone send it over to him or something.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I asked him this, but the

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Speaker 3: answer was quite fake.

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Speaker 2: So I would say that having worked in the A

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Speaker 2: and R department before previously, yeah, A and I just

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Speaker 2: really love to find people that people aren't bidding over

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Speaker 2: yet already, and so what they want to do is

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Speaker 2: find somebody that has super talent that can be a star,

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Speaker 2: but isn't already.

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, maybe yeah, I mean he was complimenting me

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Speaker 3: on like the music that I made, which I have

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Speaker 3: three songs out, they reached a lot of people though.

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Speaker 3: It was really interesting because I released that independently.

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Speaker 2: Were there people like was there other people reaching out

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, I've had people reaching out to me.

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Speaker 3: I've had labels reaching out to me at the time,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know, this felt felt right, you know.

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Speaker 1: And what happened in that initial meeting with the whole team.

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Speaker 3: It was it was kind of like getting to know

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Speaker 3: about it is that they kind of like they have

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like you can't really you have to

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Speaker 3: rely on your on your own label always, like that's obvious.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, you have to be your

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Speaker 3: so you better like put everything in that and make

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that, because sometimes people think that

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Speaker 2: as an artist, I'm assigned to a label and they'll

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Speaker 2: do everything and something to work. But I think the

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Speaker 2: most valuable thing to do is act like you're not signed.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, they probably appreciated the fact that dependently, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you are already handling business and making things happen on

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Speaker 3: But look, I always, I say always, this one thing

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Speaker 3: that I think is really important. I think what I

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Speaker 3: want is I want people to run as hard or

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Speaker 3: harder than me, Like the pace is fast with me,

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Speaker 3: Like I want to accomplish something, and I'm always looking for.

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Speaker 2: Like and you're a teck star, it is definitely like

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Speaker 2: yeah no, but like I'm definitely always looking for the

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Speaker 2: it's it's an ongoing thing.

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Speaker 3: You can be lazy, right, So but I then I

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Speaker 3: need a team behind me that is doing the same thing.

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Speaker 3: It's it's important to have this cohesiveness with everyone who

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Speaker 3: that as an artist, you're good to go. But you

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Speaker 3: still have to work. You still have to.

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Speaker 1: Work, and you've been putting into work.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I saw your performance to the Miss That song

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Speaker 2: on the Edison Award.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was amazing.

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Speaker 2: And then the video also came out, So tell me

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Speaker 2: how that feels to be like on that because that's

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Speaker 2: And then I had the video come out, and I

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Speaker 2: know you've already had out a project and an EP

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Speaker 2: before that, but it feels like it's.

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Speaker 3: No, it's new, It's like it's a new era. I'm

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Speaker 3: really glad that I'm out of that freaking late extress,

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Speaker 3: Like I couldn't move with that on stage. I was like,

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Speaker 3: it looked fine.

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Speaker 5: Did you have to boil yourself in to get it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So I have to loop myself like it's it's

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Speaker 3: insane like that right right womb Like it was beautiful,

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Speaker 3: I'm addicted to, like the more the better, right Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But like I think I talked to someone about this

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Speaker 3: and they were asking me if I like to perform

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Speaker 3: I'm like, give me fifty thousand people like tonight, tonight,

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Speaker 3: I want it. You know it's nice. It's like I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's not that I do you get nervous

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Speaker 2: or do you feel like no?

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Speaker 3: The funny thing is that was the first time that

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Speaker 3: haven't been doing that for a long time for the audience,

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Speaker 3: because I had you know, I did that the musical

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Speaker 3: theater that I did Tut Turner was insane. Yeah that

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Speaker 3: was you saw the show.

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Speaker 1: I saw that. That's Hi and dance energy.

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Speaker 3: She was, oh yeah, and just kind of tilted. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So so that was like the first time I was

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Speaker 3: I was nervous. But for singing, I'm not nervous, which

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Speaker 3: is funny. But it has to do with like doing

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Speaker 3: the linking for like three years for sure.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like, yeah, you really have had all

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Speaker 2: the training to be able to do this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I have so much fun. Like it's when

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Speaker 3: it was over, I was like again, Okay, I want

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Speaker 3: to do it again. It's fun, Yes.

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Speaker 2: A good thing when it's because it is really still

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Speaker 2: a jab, but it's a jab that you love, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, and it's it's a passing.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I probably you probably feel like you want to make

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Speaker 2: sure you keep that excitement going too, because and.

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Speaker 3: I'm grateful as well, like I'm practicing bad more, you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like these sometimes these moments are

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Speaker 3: so like fleeting, you're exhausting, and then you're like all right,

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Speaker 3: next and right now, I'm like, no, actually, that was

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Speaker 3: such a beautiful opportunity. Yes, you know, and then I

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Speaker 2: That's a mistake that we make when we think we

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Speaker 3: No, Yeah, they told you exactly.

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Speaker 3: It's just it's it's a feeling. I think we all

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Speaker 1: I want to say this though.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know, there's always people.

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Speaker 3: You're not twenty years old anymore.

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Speaker 1: Because I see.

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Speaker 2: People holding women account but well, he cheated, but he's

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Speaker 3: That's well, there are good people out there. I will

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Speaker 2: What would you say about the guys in Rotterdam because

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Speaker 3: It's funny, funny, funny, all right, And if you see

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Speaker 5: So what do they like do they don't open doors?

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Speaker 3: No, it's like it's very rare. I don't know, Like

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Speaker 2: You do that because I always think Americans are like rude, right,

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Speaker 3: No, Europeans can be rude too, Like every everyone can

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Speaker 3: So we have beautiful people, I would say, we have

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Speaker 1: How is living in la culturally for you?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: It's a bad lie because I started to say like

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know what's the good thing to say?

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Speaker 2: When does if somebody asks you and I'm in between jobs.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm an engineer or something in science. I like no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: Oh right, dog, my dog, my dog.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, but that's I can I can see that though,

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Speaker 3: I love like how people are down to earth here.

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Speaker 3: take like the pool yeah, you know, like there and

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00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 3: I kind of like that. Yeah.

438
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:43,120
Speaker 5: Our patience level is ye, like yeah, it's real.

439
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 3: Also, I think you know, one thing I would say

440
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 3: about this side of the world. I think we in

441
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:51,880
Speaker 3: Europe we have it like, we have a good life.

442
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 3: We don't have to struggle as much as you guys do.

443
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 3: And so sometimes that attitude is also something that I'm like,

444
00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:01,439
Speaker 3: I get it, it's fine. I don't think I'm not

445
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:02,640
Speaker 3: going to take it personal.

446
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 1: Like, I get it. You don't have health insurance, right, no.

447
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. What I do want to say is that the

448
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 3: tipping culture here.

449
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 1: Oh right, because they don't tip.

450
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, but it's I guess we sit here.

451
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: That's so funny, and you guys don't really have that

452
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:17,160
Speaker 2: as part of.

453
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 3: No, because people get paid right first.

454
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: You once and these women were at the table next

455
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 2: to me and I think they were from like Sweden

456
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 2: or something, they said, and they asked me about tipping

457
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 2: because they they don't tip, so they were asking me,

458
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 2: like what are they they?

459
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: I guess they had gotten.

460
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, a crazy bill maybe, or they.

461
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 2: Just didn't understand it, like what am I? I'm like, well,

462
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,159
Speaker 2: we normally leave a tip. I was trying to explain

463
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 2: it to them because it is like a very here.

464
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 5: So you're right, yeah, that's true.

465
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 3: But it's so funny that it's put on other people

466
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 3: to take care of each other. Which I'm not like

467
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 3: against like taking care of each other, but it's kind

468
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 3: of wild, like if I pay for what if I

469
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 3: have one hundred dollars, that's it, and then I have

470
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 3: to pay one hundred and fifty because I have to

471
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 3: pay for someone sloan With all due respect, but it's

472
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 3: it's what about at me? Hello? No, Like you know,

473
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: I have a good life, but for other people, you know,

474
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 3: like if you don't have that, then it's it's a lot,

475
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 3: but I don't know, like you know, and what I

476
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 3: don't like about it is that if you are getting

477
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 3: a tip and that's how it works in Europe you're

478
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 3: a good waiter yeah, or a waitress yeah, when you're

479
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 3: not giving the tip they want and I'm like, excuse you,

480
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:32,920
Speaker 3: and then.

481
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 1: You end up on social media like Nami sham Yeah.

482
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 3: Now, like I'll leave you a tip, but also just work,

483
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 3: be happy, like you know, yeah, do the job.

484
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah you earn a tip. It's not supposed

485
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 2: to be. That's what still right, Yeah, it is still

486
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 2: like the hospitality of it. And I love when somebody

487
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 2: does a great job.

488
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 3: And I, yes, I love me too, like especially on vacation,

489
00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 3: like I that I love to give to people. Yeah

490
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 3: for sure, but show up right, do your job, do

491
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: your job. I get it. It's not yeah.

492
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: Now, I also saw you at the Telfar. I was

493
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 2: just telling Jordan's even before I knew that you had

494
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 2: went there that I love that store.

495
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I love their clothes.

496
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 2: Not just their bad but I think people have to

497
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 2: understand their their clothes are amazing.

498
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, we're going in tomorrow.

499
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, tel Far is also so nice and so on

500
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 6: it because I think he's a true creative where he

501
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 6: really likes just the music that he likes.

502
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 3: For me meeting him, and he's such an icon of

503
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 3: like this like Rigin of America as well, right, like

504
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 3: he's he's he's like tell far and he did so

505
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 3: many things for the culture and he's such an interesting guy.

506
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 3: Like he comes in I meet him, he has these

507
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 3: glasses on with like a camera, Like, what do you

508
00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 3: mean I haven't I've been filming might No, like he

509
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 3: bought it somewhere. I've been filming my life for like

510
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 3: five years now I'm making I'm like I love that. Yeah,

511
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 3: I love that. You're so like artistic and you're creative

512
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 3: and he lives in his own world.

513
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you see that, like because it's not just fashion.

514
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 2: It's like he has like a multi media company.

515
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:20,679
Speaker 3: The way he does it.

516
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, are you documenting a lot of what you're doing

517
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: right now?

518
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: Because that's valuable for you too.

519
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,679
Speaker 3: I try to do it more and more. I have

520
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 3: this really nice camera that I forgotten thenolence, but I

521
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 3: will get it back. And but yeah, I try to

522
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 3: do it more and more. It's fun to kind of

523
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 3: like watch it back. I missed that when when I

524
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 3: was younger. Yeah, my parents were filming it. It's always

525
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 3: good to see that.

526
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 2: And how has life changed or has it changed for

527
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 2: you after signing, because you know it's it is.

528
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: You're the first lady of Obo now. Yeah, yeah, I

529
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: feel like things are different, do you.

530
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 3: I think some things are different and some are not

531
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 3: because I'm still like working my ass off, and like

532
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,439
Speaker 3: we said, like when you're signed to a label, it

533
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that then you don't have to do anything anymore, right,

534
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 3: It's like I still have to work, so but beautiful opportunities,

535
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 3: you know. Touring with Tames was really nice yea.

536
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 2: And I want to say you and Thames are both

537
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 2: like I could slide from your music to her music.

538
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 3: Yeah nice, And that's.

539
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 2: Just even the way it sounds. It does have like

540
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 2: an Afro type of vibe to it as well.

541
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's great. He's amazing, beautiful and such a nice person.

542
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 3: So these things are are great, you know, and just

543
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 3: making a lot of music and meeting new people like

544
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 3: right now. The new album is executive produced by Jordan

545
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 3: from Modred and Jordan's Yeah, and that whole process was

546
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 3: just so special and dear to me.

547
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, how are your label mats? Like how do you

548
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 2: get along with them? Do you have you met most

549
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 2: of them?

550
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 3: I met most of them. We kind of everyone is

551
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:15,920
Speaker 3: working hard, you know, everyone is busy, and so it's

552
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 3: not that we have dinner every week, right yeah?

553
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: But is it like studio link ups?

554
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 2: Like I think about other crews, like they'll be in

555
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 2: the studio this person, this person, like you know.

556
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, I think we have our like right now,

557
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: I'm like working with Jordan Yep. Sometimes we've moge in

558
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 3: the studio. Like that's kind of like my world. It

559
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 3: does make sense with the music as well, right, Like

560
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 3: it will be a fun crossover if me and Smiley

561
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 3: would make something, but like it's it, that's rep right

562
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 3: and so yeah, I think that's how it moves around,

563
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:53,919
Speaker 3: Like we all find each other in different a different timing,

564
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 3: right Yeah.

565
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 2: And I know people ask you is Drake has Is

566
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 2: he going to have something on the album?

567
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 3: It's so funny that question because the answer is no,

568
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 3: but like no, but because I know people are going

569
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 3: to ask because you are on ovo and he yeah,

570
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 3: because he posts the music and history. Yeah, yeah to me,

571
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 3: it's important that I can show myself but also other

572
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 3: people that I can do this by myself. I don't

573
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 3: need a feature to get there. These are stepping stones

574
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 3: and they're really good, and of course I would be grateful,

575
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 3: but it's not like the number one priority for me.

576
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 1: Is that album done.

577
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 3: The album is done, Okay, my album?

578
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: Yeah right, I said, you're telling people text Paradise if

579
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: you want to hear.

580
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it's done.

581
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, stealedn't delivered, so it's gonna come out very soon.

582
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 2: It's a vibe though, too, and I just feel like

583
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 2: it gives you, like the feels, it gives you the

584
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 2: you know.

585
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: The other song that's the standout is better Days.

586
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 3: Yeah you like that song?

587
00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? I do.

588
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 3: I love that song.

589
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: I haven't heard I don't have everything.

590
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: They just gave me a little couple of you know,

591
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: yeah nippets to be able to hear.

592
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 3: It's really good. It's as in sorry, well not sorry,

593
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 3: I don't want to be argod but like, I really

594
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 3: love that song. Now. I just really loved that song

595
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: and I made it with Blush, amazing singer songwriter, and

596
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: we had some like working with her. It's just like

597
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: riffing off ideas, and then every time we're in the

598
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 3: studio it's like an hour or two hours and we

599
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 3: have a full song and better days, like she's so

600
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 3: good in like listening to your story and whatever, and

601
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 3: then you're creating the lyrics together and then that came along.

602
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: It's a very like, yeah, listen, you talk about healing

603
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 1: a lot.

604
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: Also, do you feel like you've do you feel healed

605
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 2: from past experiences?

606
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: And I mean it's good for the music too.

607
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: Journey of hearing your thoughts and what you've been going through.

608
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm way happier than I was, but

609
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 3: I think now I have to heal from that, right,

610
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: So I taking my time to taking the time and

611
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 3: also giving myself some grace that healing doesn't have to

612
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 3: happen over a week or a day or a night,

613
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 3: and I try to be kind to myself.

614
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: But yeah, because better days and then worse days.

615
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's it's kind of like if you go

616
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 3: through a lot, and let's say you stay in a

617
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 3: relationship for a long time, you deal with things and behavior,

618
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 3: and then after that you're like, so is that love

619
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: or was that me? And like I said, you will

620
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 3: have to be accountable as well. I have to work

621
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 3: on myself as well.

622
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 2: And yeah, now what is no Sleep in Paradise even mean,

623
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 2: I know it's open to interpretation, but for you, no.

624
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 3: For me, the title came after I had no sleep

625
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 3: after five weeks in like the studio, and I did

626
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 3: that to myself. By the way, I'm I'm my work

627
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: attic is pretty intense. But when I go in, I

628
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 3: lock in and we were running on like three hours

629
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 3: of sleep a day, which is insane. That is insane,

630
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 3: and we were kind of just on a high, like

631
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 3: on a high of like adrenaline and success that we

632
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 3: were experiencing through this whole process. And after that, I

633
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 3: was like, wow, it's so funny how how we like

634
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 3: romanticize our relationship with work, and especially as artists or creatives.

635
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 3: Were like, we subject ourselves to the most intense process

636
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 3: ever because we think that that's the best thing, and

637
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: then we look for a quick fix. And so no

638
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 3: Sleep in Paradise means like paradise to me? Is this

639
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 3: like artist world that I'm in right, Like from the

640
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 3: outside it looks beautiful. Like so many people, I have

641
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 3: these ideas about being a celebrity or like an artist,

642
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, honey, I still have to pay my rent,

643
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 3: like it's not yeah, no, it's not all that like and.

644
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 2: Then people do have these expectations and yeah, I also

645
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: expected to like post and like be everything and do

646
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 2: everything be in the studio.

647
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, so and so like that whole paradise thing. And

648
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 3: I kind of made this like dystopian concept around it.

649
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 3: So you're going to see that like when I release it.

650
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 3: But quick Fix l A is known for that, Like

651
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 3: we're all on the copper peptides and things, and I'm

652
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: not against it, like I wouldn't look good too, But

653
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 3: it's funny how we do it, like we we tire

654
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 3: ourselves and then we're like, oh no, I want to

655
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 3: have an ivy Dripp's even really work because they do.

656
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I feel different or if

657
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm the same, Like I just can't tell.

658
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 3: I like it.

659
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 4: I like getting them right before I can feel I'm

660
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 4: getting a cold. I feel like it saves me from

661
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 4: the cold every time, or if I really am am

662
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,800
Speaker 4: just like drained, it will give me the vitamins and

663
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 4: that hydration that I don't have.

664
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 3: Are you big on supplements? I need to be better.

665
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: I take I take vitamins every day, supplements every every day.

666
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's good. Yeah, I'm not so good. So

667
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 3: I found a way. I was in aern and I

668
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 3: and I found this like mineral like dropper and has zinc, magnesium,

669
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 3: all these things. I'm like, yeah, like I just want

670
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: to have something that I can put in my drink

671
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 3: and yeah, that's what I need, right, So I bought

672
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 3: that and I'm sold. Yeah it works. You can feel

673
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 3: the magnesium they have the electrolyzed the magnesium. It just

674
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 3: puts me to bad. I'm relaxed.

675
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 2: I have magnesium gummies at home and I take to

676
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: go to Yeah, isn't it good? And I sleep so good?

677
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 2: And you don't feel graggy when you make it up.

678
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 2: You just feel like okay right now. It was like

679
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: a nice smooth like but you know, like.

680
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 3: We were, we need that. Like a lot of people

681
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 3: don't realize that based on your mood and whatever. It's

682
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 3: like food where you put inside your body is so important.

683
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why you can't sleep for three hours a

684
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: night and then go right. So that's why I was like,

685
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: well after that, I was on edge and I was like,

686
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 2: all right, but you also do a great job of

687
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 2: staying in shape and working out. And I know you've

688
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 2: also done martial arts. Tell me about that and.

689
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:21,760
Speaker 1: Why that was a decision.

690
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,280
Speaker 3: It's still it's passed right now because I have my nails,

691
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 3: but I love martial arts. The decision came after I

692
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 3: had a moment on the street where someone put his

693
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 3: hands on me. Wow, when he was asking the way

694
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 3: and I was like, you know, in the moment itself,

695
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna tell

696
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 3: him where it is. And I was not anxious. I'm

697
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: not really like that, but I can. It was definitely

698
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 3: a lot and so when that happened, I remember I

699
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 3: was so mad. I had so much rach in me.

700
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 3: And you know, as a woman, we're subjected to a

701
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 3: lot of that. I think unfortunately, there are people and

702
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 3: men that can I don't know, they're just like they

703
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 3: have a problem with just keeping it in, you know,

704
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:14,320
Speaker 3: or or keeping their hands to themselves. And I was like,

705
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 3: that rage needs to be I don't know, put into somewhere.

706
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,439
Speaker 1: I need to know. If that happens, I'm a drop

707
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:22,919
Speaker 1: kick him.

708
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 3: In the throat. Well, what's funny, because that was my

709
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 3: that that was my first initial thought then, but later

710
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 3: on you're gonna learn that you don't know what you're

711
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 3: gonna encounter, like you never know. You think you might,

712
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 3: you know, handle that guy or a person, or you

713
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 3: never know, so you kind of handle with I think

714
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 3: martial art comes to a lot of discipline and respect

715
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 3: and also knowing that you have to walk away from

716
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 3: a situation first. You don't want to end up around.

717
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 3: And I did boxing, kickboxing or tie boxing and brazil

718
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 3: In jiu jitsu. If I can recommend a martial art

719
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,320
Speaker 3: to women, Brazilian.

720
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: Jiu jitsu, Oh wow, okay, yes good, if.

721
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 3: You're ever in a situation, I think it's really important

722
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 3: to know what you have to do on the ground

723
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 3: or like to protect yourself.

724
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 2: And you took it very seriously, like not just I

725
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 2: was competing. Yeah, I love that for you and even

726
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 2: but I do want to say I'm sorry that that

727
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: happened to you. Yeah, yeah, you know that's awful and

728
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 2: nobody should have to experience that. I want to say,

729
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that happened, but it led you on a

730
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: path of.

731
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,959
Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I understand more and I understand more about

732
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 3: my rage as well. Sometimes it's I think a lot

733
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 3: of women have that. You know, it's you have this

734
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 3: like thing and you don't want that to come out ever, right,

735
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 3: that's dangerous.

736
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 2: So well we're trying to control that. Yeah, we're trying

737
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 2: to act like everything's okay.

738
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 3: No. Yeah, but I think one thing is really good

739
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 3: if you can walk around with like security, like just

740
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 3: like in yourself, within yourself, I think that also affects

741
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 3: how people approach you. I'm not saying that it will

742
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,800
Speaker 3: be much different, but you knowing that you can do

743
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,239
Speaker 3: something is a really good power, right you can have

744
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 3: And I can told myself if I have yes, and

745
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 3: I hope that no one gets into that, or if

746
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 3: you listen and you had gone into that, I'm sorry too,

747
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 3: like it's it's not nice. But yeah.

748
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: And I also and even just as far as the

749
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 2: fitness aspect and the therapy and the I'm sure a

750
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 2: meditative aspect of working out and feeling better about yourself

751
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 2: and strong.

752
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,399
Speaker 1: Being strong is a great feeling.

753
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, which is interesting because I think a lot

754
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 3: of times, even on social media, I see people react

755
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 3: to my body being like oh my god, like you're

756
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 3: so big, or like are you a man or whatever.

757
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 3: And I'm like, since when do women have to be petite? Like,

758
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 3: if you are, that's great, but I think, like I

759
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 3: love my strong body.

760
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you look amazing. You say, he's not

761
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 2: in here right now, but are board up? We're not

762
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 2: tell them you were coming. There's a picture of you

763
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: that's so viral. He's like, yeah, this is the picture

764
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: a picture.

765
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 3: We asked him.

766
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: And he was like yes. I was like, all right,

767
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: calm down. But now that I know you, could you know.

768
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, But I think it's so important to

769
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 3: just like be good in your body. For me, that

770
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 3: means that I go to the gym every now and then.

771
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: Look at it and I'm like I want to like yeah,

772
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: like I need to go to to go.

773
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: Some class, but also something something. But also i'm you know,

774
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 3: like if I if I A lot of people are like, oh,

775
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 3: what is your your your gym like your workout thing,

776
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 3: and I'm like, it's also genetics, like my dad his

777
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 3: body is you know, he's Caribbean. Like it's a bill too, what.

778
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,320
Speaker 1: Part of the Caribbean because I know you're a Caribbean.

779
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 3: And yeah, he's born in a Ruban Okay, But the

780
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 3: family is from Saint Martin.

781
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: When I get out of here, what do you mean

782
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 1: the Dutch side?

783
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 2: No, I mean his Oh okay, Saint Martin though, because

784
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 2: I know there's the French side and the dead side.

785
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 3: Oh the Dutch there, yeah, so French English side side.

786
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I love Saint Martin.

787
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never been.

788
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: What listen you said the girl, you have got to

789
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: go there. That's one of my favorite places.

790
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 3: I know, I have to.

791
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: I have to go because I have no reason.

792
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 3: You were love it, I know, but I didn't know.

793
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: So first of all, my grandma rests in peace. She

794
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 3: was five years ago. She was like, now you're not

795
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 3: you're not from a Ruba. Like, that's not I'm like,

796
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 3: what do you mean, it's not a thing. That's not

797
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,839
Speaker 3: a thing. I was like, what do you mean. She's like, well,

798
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 3: your dad was born there, but we're all from Saint Martin.

799
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: So I know this.

800
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 3: For like five years, I've been to a Ruba and Cursel.

801
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: Okay, that's beautiful, that's beautiful.

802
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 3: But I have to go to Saint Martin.

803
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 1: Now, I got listen, he knows, I'm like, I go there.

804
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 3: Yeah.

805
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

806
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 3: A couple of times ago a lot of Americans go

807
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 3: to that part. It's so funny.

808
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: Even a Ruba, right, like it's yeah, yeah, people love

809
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: a Ruba, but I do love same.

810
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,760
Speaker 2: And the British Virgin Islands and the US Virgin Islands

811
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: are like some of my favorite places to go.

812
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: I'm going the same time. It's at the end of

813
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: the month.

814
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 3: Wow for you when you are you carebban?

815
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 2: Yes, my mom is Caribbean, she's from she's from Manserrat,

816
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: but it's a really small, small yeah yeah.

817
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: And then my dad's Chinese.

818
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 3: Oh wow, yeah, what a beautiful what are you.

819
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 4: We've been in America all four hundred years. I fear

820
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 4: we run the first boat over and I don't.

821
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 3: We're American.

822
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 5: That's down to the boat.

823
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:47,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yes. Well, when I did my blood test, yeah,

824
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 4: it actually said that I was Scandinavian, that I'm Scandinavian

825
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 4: and Nigerian.

826
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:58,760
Speaker 3: Wow, okay, wow, And do you know any of your lineage,

827
00:40:58,880 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 3: like you.

828
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 5: Know, you know what ironically just said. At one point

829
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 5: it just said Viking. I was like, oh, oh, so

830
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 5: that could be a couple of different places.

831
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 3: It's so funny.

832
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 5: And then it said Scandinavian.

833
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so it still hasn't like broken down into

834
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 4: yeah Scandinavia.

835
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 3: No, I don't know. I was joking, but it was real.

836
00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 5: It's real.

837
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 3: Yep, yep. No. I the other day at sol Far,

838
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 3: someone came up to me and he's like, are you Viking?

839
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 3: And I'm like, what do you mean?

840
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: Right right?

841
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, no, I I mean I know a

842
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 3: little bit of my heeritage, like but yeah, like I

843
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 3: know that they're Irish, they're black Irish people.

844
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, my family in Man, there's a lot of people.

845
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 2: They call it the Emerald Isle because a lot of

846
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 2: Irish settlers. Yeah, but yeah, Passions Day is their biggest holiday.

847
00:41:55,560 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, See my last name, Webster is Irish.

848
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: Okay, So look as we got into all kinds of things,

849
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: I know, conversation.

850
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.

851
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: So when you got your tattoo, which was extensive, you

852
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 2: said you talked for like seven hours before even getting started.

853
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 3: Yeah. Sorry, I were that wrong because the session was

854
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:20,280
Speaker 3: seven hours.

855
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 1: I was like, dang, you got time.

856
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 3: No, no, no, this session was seven hours. But yeah,

857
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 3: I mean I was with him for seven hours. It's

858
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 3: a very personal thing that you do with him, because

859
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 3: he goes in with you only that day you talked

860
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 3: to him and then based on you know, your energy,

861
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 3: he does something intuitive. But I was in that room

862
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: for seven hours. So yeah, we talked for seven hours, but.

863
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: I was in pain.

864
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 2: I bet because that your tattoo is extensive. I know,

865
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,320
Speaker 2: anybody listening, go and look it out and have a

866
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: chance to see.

867
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 3: Yes, but you left it. I love it, but it

868
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 3: was it was a very beautiful moment getting a tattoo

869
00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 3: like this. Someone putting it on you, intuitively is a

870
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 3: very spiritual woman, even the pain, like enduring the pain.

871
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 2: And that's something you should have filmed because you probably

872
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: got all kind of gems. Yeah, next one, no kidding

873
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Speaker 2: that part.

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Speaker 3: Next lag.

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Speaker 5: Put the little blastes on that could record the whole thing.

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Speaker 2: Well, Naomi, thank you so much for joining us nicely

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Speaker 2: in Paradise, coming very soon, sooner than we think.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, and to tour anything, what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: We are definitely touring.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's all I can say.

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Speaker 3: I mean, no, I'm touring and maybe something earlier.

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Speaker 1: And uh, who knows, I don't know, Okay, who knows?

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Speaker 1: You know I know that I'm gonna tour. Okay, all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: It's well