WEBVTT - Facelifts, BBLs, and Plastic Surgery Red Flags

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<v Speaker 1>My man, what Alan, how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good?

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<v Speaker 1>This week on between Us, I have a very special

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<v Speaker 1>guest and a co host instead of Heather, she's busy

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<v Speaker 1>doing the housewife thing. Okay, my best friend of over

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<v Speaker 1>forty years, doctor Robert Schwartz. Doctor Schwartz, how are you.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so excited to be here doing this with you.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the culmination of forty years of friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a long time coming.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny. When I told i Heeart that I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do this with you, they looked you up. And

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<v Speaker 1>you're known as the best breasts, best boobs in Dallas,

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<v Speaker 1>and you are. You're a very gifted plastic surgeon and

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<v Speaker 1>a phenomenally smart guy. I just want to spend a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of minutes talking about how I know you are,

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<v Speaker 1>friendship in our background, and a little bit about what

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to talk about today. Okay, so very briefly,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've ever met anybody who's a true genius, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that they're different than the rest of us. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and doctor Robert Schwartz is a true genius. I met

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<v Speaker 1>him at Yale where I was which is a joke.

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<v Speaker 1>His mcat instructor when he was a junior at Yale

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<v Speaker 1>Buckunn apply to med school, and I'm teaching him how

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<v Speaker 1>to take the missions test for medical school. When you

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<v Speaker 1>think about it, it's such a joke. And you I remember

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<v Speaker 1>him asking me a question that was kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>complicated physics question because this guy graduated summa cum lauti

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<v Speaker 1>from Yale University in physics. Okay, and he's a true genius.

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<v Speaker 1>You asked me a question. I went, what the hell

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<v Speaker 1>is he? Tom? Thinking, what the hell is he talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>And I and you to this day, you remember how

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<v Speaker 1>I sort of answered in kind of this filibuster, like

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<v Speaker 1>I have no clue. Do you remember that?

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<v Speaker 2>I remember that. I don't remember exactly what the questions

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<v Speaker 2>are what you answered, but I remember sitting there thinking, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not right. So anyway, remember do you remember what

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<v Speaker 2>you said in the first five minutes of that class?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So you started you introduced yourself when we started

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<v Speaker 2>talking about the MCAT and how it works and how

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<v Speaker 2>you know there's six sections each is out of fifteen

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<v Speaker 2>and then so the total is ninety, and so you

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<v Speaker 2>know you can get a maximum score of ninety, and

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<v Speaker 2>that you want to get. You know, a sixty would

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<v Speaker 2>be considered a good score on that and will make

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<v Speaker 2>you very competitive for med school. And then there's like

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<v Speaker 2>the standard Terry pause where you just go.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to something too, What did you get? Come

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<v Speaker 1>on eighty three? Oh my god, which is of course

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<v Speaker 1>ninety nine PERCENTA anyway, left Yale and then we both

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<v Speaker 1>went to Ucilly Medical School. I was a year ahead

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<v Speaker 1>of you, and we caught up again.

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<v Speaker 2>You got me to go to UCLA.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he could have gone anywhere obviously, and he

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<v Speaker 1>decided to go to sile A. And the cell was

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<v Speaker 1>look at this weather, look at these chicks. Yeah, was

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<v Speaker 1>that pretty much the cell.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. We walked outside and it was I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what December, I don't even remember what it was, and

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<v Speaker 2>you look up at the sky and it's like seventy

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<v Speaker 2>five degrees and you just go huh. And then we

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<v Speaker 2>walked to the edge of Westwood and you go and

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<v Speaker 2>then you go one more thing, and you walk me

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<v Speaker 2>back to the BioMed library.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, across from Sorority Row.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the physically closest library to Sorority Row. And so

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<v Speaker 2>it's just filled girls with girls, and you just go,

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<v Speaker 2>so Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus it was like the third or fourth best med

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<v Speaker 1>school of the world at the time, so that wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that wasn't bad either. But anyway, very easy, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>very easy. So you came out and we both graduated

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<v Speaker 1>medical school and then we don't need to get into

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<v Speaker 1>the details of the whole general surgery thing, but we

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<v Speaker 1>went through the very traditional way that we used to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you could be a plastic surgeon in our era,

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<v Speaker 1>you had to complete a full general surgery training, which

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<v Speaker 1>is the most difficult by far and away training that

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<v Speaker 1>you can go through after med school. It's like seven

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<v Speaker 1>years long. Every other night, you're awake all night, tons

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<v Speaker 1>of independent operating between and we're both chief residents. Between

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<v Speaker 1>midnight and six am. You are the doctor, the boss

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<v Speaker 1>of the hospital doing nothing but trauma. You're awake all

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<v Speaker 1>night doing trauma. It was the most intense and let's

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, awesome training that they don't get today because

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<v Speaker 1>they have a lot more controls over you're not allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of operate independently anymore. The way we did, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it was really the wild wild West. Yeah, So we

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<v Speaker 1>graduate a super difficult general surgery program and we're both

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<v Speaker 1>in the same laboratory doing research and reconstructive surgery and

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<v Speaker 1>plastic surgery. And I went onto UCLA's Plus surgery program,

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<v Speaker 1>and you went on to one of the, if not

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<v Speaker 1>the top plastic surgery program in Dallas, right, yeah, ut.

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<v Speaker 2>Southwest, Yeah, okay, I mean both super high level.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, super high level. Yeah. And so we then were

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<v Speaker 1>chief residence in plastic surgery and we graduate and you'd

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<v Speaker 1>weirdly decided decided to stay in Dallas to practice plastic

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<v Speaker 1>surgery and raise your family. Well, it's weird when you

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<v Speaker 1>consider who you were going to Dallas and who you became. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Dallas changed you completely, and I stayed here in Los

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<v Speaker 1>Angeles that open up my practice and the rest is history.

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<v Speaker 1>But we've remained. Truly, You're my closest friend for all

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<v Speaker 1>these years, and you everybody has their person they go

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<v Speaker 1>to when they're in trouble, Okay, like if I have

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<v Speaker 1>an extraordinarily difficult case or even in my my life

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<v Speaker 1>in general, something threatening or I'm very worried about it,

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<v Speaker 1>that you call, you know, is your sort of your

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<v Speaker 1>go to chat tee GPT person human And You've always

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<v Speaker 1>been that guy for me because your advice is not

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<v Speaker 1>only brilliant, but sound and reasonable and moral and ethical.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, we've just remained and we we're like

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of sorority girls the way we talk on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone even to this day.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, well, let me let me throw those back at you, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we can get the sentimentality out of this.

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<v Speaker 2>We could stop asking each other another yeah, another episode.

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<v Speaker 2>You are, unquestionably to me, the older brother I never had.

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<v Speaker 2>You are that guy. To me, you are the guy

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<v Speaker 2>I've always since I was twenty years old, basically my

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<v Speaker 2>entire adult life. You're the guy I've always looked up to.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the guy I've always gone to for advice. You

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<v Speaker 2>are the guy who has never once given me bad

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<v Speaker 2>advice of any significance on anything that I can think of.

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<v Speaker 2>And in fact, the times that I ignored your advice have

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<v Speaker 2>which we don't need to go into right now, have

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<v Speaker 2>cost me dearly.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, but you've done well despite that. Yeah, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you saying that. And what's great about you is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you have such an amazingly intact ego that

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<v Speaker 1>even you know you're not everybody's great with when their

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<v Speaker 1>friends become successful, and you've become very successful. I've obviously

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<v Speaker 1>done okay, and you know we're happy for each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I believe you've done okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've done okay. But I can I can tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this is going to be a very different podcast

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<v Speaker 1>than just two plastic surgeons talking about health, wellness and beauty, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because Rob and I are very different kinds of doctors.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, we're at advanced stage of our career

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<v Speaker 1>and very successful, and we really don't need to operate anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And we operate because we're it's interesting and we still

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<v Speaker 1>like to do it. But we're just I think, extremely honest.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to just sort of I think tell this

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<v Speaker 2>like it is because I think you would agree with

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<v Speaker 2>me that we're blessed to be in this specialty. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of great things that, you know, as plastic

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<v Speaker 2>surgeons we get to do. There's a lot of it's

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<v Speaker 2>really I'm still excited about doing this every day I

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<v Speaker 2>come to work. I'm still I still enjoy operating, I

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<v Speaker 2>still enjoy interacting with patients. And I don't think many

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<v Speaker 2>people get that in life. But they get to be

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<v Speaker 2>excited about their jobs and still want to do it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, decades into it. The problem though, is that

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<v Speaker 2>plastic surgery is these little beautiful nuggets of gold that

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<v Speaker 2>are unfortunately buried in like just a mountain of bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I think what we're going to do in

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast is show you what the gold is and

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<v Speaker 2>scrape away everything else. Well, that's what my hope is

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<v Speaker 2>for this.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think I want to also put a bright

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<v Speaker 1>light on the bullshit, right because when you typically see

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<v Speaker 1>two plastic surgeons on a podcast, it's really just a

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<v Speaker 1>thinly veiled marketing tactic to get patients in their practice

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<v Speaker 1>and talk about how wonderful plastic surgery is, and to

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<v Speaker 1>put down the competitors, the cosmetic surgeons or the dermatologists

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<v Speaker 1>who may take away from some of their business. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to put it all down that we feel deserves

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<v Speaker 1>to be put down, and I think we're just going

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<v Speaker 1>to be extraordinarily honest. And I really want us to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about, you know, what the red flags are when

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<v Speaker 1>you go to meet a plastic surgeon and what you

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<v Speaker 1>should really look out for, but what they're really trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I think the first example in my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>and I of course want to hear what you say

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<v Speaker 1>is when we attach these cute little advertising labels to

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<v Speaker 1>things like ozambic face right, or other things nanotechnology, other

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<v Speaker 1>things that we sort of put out there that you

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<v Speaker 1>and I both know is a load, right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think one of the first things that comes to mind

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<v Speaker 1>that's really out there is the deep plane base lift. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about a little bit briefly, because you and

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<v Speaker 1>I could do this for four hours, right, Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>could probably do this for longer than that.

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<v Speaker 2>But we could do a four part series on the

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<v Speaker 2>DP plane facelift. We could, but no one wants to

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<v Speaker 2>hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>But the Chris Jenner of it all really amplified everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>interest in facelifts. In fact, it's driving younger people into

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<v Speaker 1>plastic surgeon's office to have facelift now, and they're thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody thinks it's a deep plane face lift. Well, first

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you she didn't have a deep plane

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<v Speaker 1>facelift because I know the surgeon who did it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he did a very amazing job. She looks amazing, but

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't even have one. And the Beverly Hills guy

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<v Speaker 1>I know very well who does a lot of these

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<v Speaker 1>sort of higher end celebrities that everyone's heard of. He

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't do a deep plane facelift either. So what is

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<v Speaker 1>in your mind? What's the story with this sort of

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<v Speaker 1>advertorial term DP plane facelift, And how can patients sort

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<v Speaker 1>of avoid falling into the trap of trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>someone who does a DP plane facelift, which is in

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<v Speaker 1>fact a harder procedure with greater complications closer to the nerves.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you happen to find a surgeon who's just

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<v Speaker 1>sort of learning, which most of them are, how to

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<v Speaker 1>do a deep plane, you could be on their learning

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<v Speaker 1>curve and really be complication rather than a good result.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, first of all, I think we need to define

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<v Speaker 2>what a deep plane facelift is, and to me, what

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<v Speaker 2>a deep plane facelift currently means. It's the term you

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<v Speaker 2>use to describe whatever facelift you've been doing for the

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<v Speaker 2>last twenty years, which is now suddenly a deep plane.

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<v Speaker 2>The idea that all these guys are suddenly doing the

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<v Speaker 2>deep plane facelift after having done something different their entire lives.

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<v Speaker 2>Suddenly everyone is the master of the deep plane. By

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<v Speaker 2>the way, by the way, it's the same plane.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, I'm going to go I'm deep. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna turn I'm gonna turn the volume to eleven.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's it's so deep you're coming out the other

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<v Speaker 2>side of the face. It's it's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the TAKEO message here is, you know, let's

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<v Speaker 1>not fall into the I must find someone who does

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<v Speaker 1>a deep plane facelift, and I must go to a

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<v Speaker 1>surgeon who's telling me that they do a deep plane

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<v Speaker 1>facelift and it's the only facelift to have, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not true. And one person's deep pain facelift is

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<v Speaker 1>another person's more superficial facelift or skin only or smass.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the takeo message there is you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to someone who does facelifts all the time?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you want to do someone who's a good Go

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<v Speaker 2>to someone who's a good facelift surgeon.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Period. Because it's not so much what name you give

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<v Speaker 2>the technique. I mean, all these techniques have pretty much

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the same things in common. There's sort

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<v Speaker 2>of variations on a theme, and what matters the most

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<v Speaker 2>is the skill in judgment of the surgeon that's doing it,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely far more than it, and the care that they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to take in doing this because, particularly if someone

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<v Speaker 2>is truly doing what is accurately described as an extended

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<v Speaker 2>deep plane face, which by the way, it's really very

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<v Speaker 2>few people truly doing that, you got to understand that

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<v Speaker 2>what you're doing to do that is you're separating the

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<v Speaker 2>layers of the face, where if you go half a

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<v Speaker 2>millimeter too deep, you're cutting the nerves that move the

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<v Speaker 2>muscles in your face, right, And so yeah, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>you know it. Yes, a good surgeon can do this consistently.

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<v Speaker 2>Although even the very best guys at this will tell

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<v Speaker 2>you that they get at least five percent temporary nerve

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<v Speaker 2>injuries with this. Yeah, and by the way of plastic

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<v Speaker 2>search are telling they get five percent temporary nerve injuries.

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<v Speaker 2>They get more like fifteen percent temporary nerve injuries. Just

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<v Speaker 2>know that because there's no studies of this, right, any

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<v Speaker 2>studies of this is what some guy reported about his

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<v Speaker 2>own work historically.

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<v Speaker 1>But well, that's a good point. This is a question

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<v Speaker 1>I get asked all the time. When's too young to

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<v Speaker 1>have a facelift? When's a proper time to be considering

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<v Speaker 1>a facelift. It really has nothing to do with age.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more of anatomy. Let's be honest, because a thirty

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<v Speaker 1>eight year old who lost one hundred and fifty pounds

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<v Speaker 1>may be a perfect candidate for a facelift, and a

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<v Speaker 1>fifty year old who's got minimal laxity is not really

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<v Speaker 1>a good candidate for a facelift. But what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think about this whole emphasis and enthusiasm or face of

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<v Speaker 1>driving people at younger ages when it's just starting to

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<v Speaker 1>loosen up into our offices for a facelift. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you say to your patients?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, I don't. I'm not, at least in Dallas,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not seeing people in their twenties or early thirties

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<v Speaker 2>coming in for this yet. But I can tell you

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<v Speaker 2>what I tell patients who are even older than this,

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<v Speaker 2>where you're looking at them and they have very fairly

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<v Speaker 2>early changes of facial aging. I always look at this

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<v Speaker 2>as sort of a risk reward ratio in that we're

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<v Speaker 2>doing surgery, so there's guaranteed to be some risk involved. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, in well performed surgeries on appropriate patients, the

0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:19.080
<v Speaker 2>risks are really low because they sort of have to be,

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<v Speaker 2>because if you had a procedure in cosmetic surgery that

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<v Speaker 2>was highly risky. No one in their right mind would

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<v Speaker 2>ever do it.

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<v Speaker 1>What about the Brazilian budlift.

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<v Speaker 2>No one in their right mind. Whatever, No, that's not

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<v Speaker 2>really true. I mean the way some people do it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the way sometimes that's performed. It's insane.

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<v Speaker 1>But remember in the old days, for years and years

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<v Speaker 1>and years, over a decade, we were instructed to do

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<v Speaker 1>it the proper way, which was the dangerous way, injected

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<v Speaker 1>into the muscle. Remember that, until after what was it, ten, twelve, thirteen,

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen years we figured out, m, maybe we don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to inject the fat into the muscle because it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to get into those short, big blood vessels of the

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<v Speaker 1>buttock muscle and get into the vena kiva and go

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<v Speaker 1>to the lungs and oh, it's over, And that happened all.

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<v Speaker 1>It turns out to be the most fatal elective procedure

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<v Speaker 1>in all of surgery, A cosmetic procedure done to make

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<v Speaker 1>your butty bigger. It took Margue that.

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<v Speaker 2>With the science of plastic surgery is after years of research,

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<v Speaker 2>we concluded that no matter how great your buttocks end

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<v Speaker 2>up looking, if you're dead, it's not probably worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>Unless they're gonna do an open casket, face down funeral.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just, you know, not to be glib about this,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's like too late. This is okay, this is okay.

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<v Speaker 2>There you go, there's plastic surgery science for you. We're

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<v Speaker 2>doing something that is you know, not entirely rarely killing people. Ergo,

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<v Speaker 2>we should stop doing this. Wow, wow, Nobel prize material

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<v Speaker 2>stuff there.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, well, I remember do you remember when, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so fat transferred to the butt to the bread is

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<v Speaker 1>a thing now, right, it's an acceptable thing to do,

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<v Speaker 1>just like fat transfer to the buttock is an acceptable thing,

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<v Speaker 1>although now there's some sort of new ways to minimize

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<v Speaker 1>the chance it goes to the lungs and knocks you off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not putting in a blood vessel.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, But do you remember how our society and plast

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<v Speaker 1>Survey felt about the dermatologists doing fat They called it

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<v Speaker 1>a Bambi procedure, doing fat transfer to the breast. We thought,

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<v Speaker 1>that's dangerous, never should be done. That's fat's gonna calcify,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna think it's breast cancer and you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have a mestectomy for dead fat. And then all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, the dermatologists started to take business away from

0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:41.840
<v Speaker 1>plastic surgeons and breast augmentations using silicon with fat transfer,

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<v Speaker 1>and we went, maybe we should start doing that one.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, maybe we should I don't know, check

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<v Speaker 2>with radiologists and see if it's causing them to overread

0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.160
<v Speaker 2>on mammograms and it looks like cancer. And it turns

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<v Speaker 2>out they said, no, Now there's other issues with fat

0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:05.199
<v Speaker 2>trans yes, like that. It ends up that that's not

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<v Speaker 2>really an issue. But for years, based on nothing, plastic services,

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<v Speaker 2>oh never do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I remember, I go back far enough in the game.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember when it went from liposuction was being done

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<v Speaker 1>by dermatologists and we plastic surgeons thought it was dangerous

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<v Speaker 1>and shouldn't be done. To all of a sudden we went, uh, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they're taking away our tummy tucks. They're taking away a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of our operations. We better learn how to do

0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:35.399
<v Speaker 1>this lep bo suction thing. Because it was really popularized.

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<v Speaker 1>Despite what you might say about iloise in Brazil or

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<v Speaker 1>Prance or whatever, it was really popularized by a dermatologist

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<v Speaker 1>in this country.

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<v Speaker 2>True, Yeah, it was. Yeah, he went I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was developed in France and he went over there and

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<v Speaker 2>learned it. Yeah, and started doing.

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<v Speaker 1>It, and we criticized the heck out of it, saying,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, why are dermatologists operating? What's this? Putting

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<v Speaker 1>this tube underneath the skin and sucking fat Out's so dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>They're going to get fat enbaloie. It's horrible. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we went, oh, gosh, we better really learn how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Other words, we're going to miss out on

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<v Speaker 1>all that surgery.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like that. You could sneeze at the American

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<v Speaker 2>Sydio Plastic Surgery meeting and missed the moment where we

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<v Speaker 2>went from liposuction is terrible, terrible, terrible, terrible, terrible, terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Great exactly, and this is how you do it, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is how you do it, and listen to us

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<v Speaker 1>because we're board certified plastic surgeries. Now, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of board certified plastic surers like you and me

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<v Speaker 1>typically would get on a podcast and say, only go

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<v Speaker 1>to someone who's certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery.

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<v Speaker 1>And of course we do feel that way. But being

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<v Speaker 1>being board certified the American Board of plast Surgery in

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<v Speaker 1>and of itself, what does it mean to you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a very low bar to set. It's like saying,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so the guy who drives your for Formula

0:20:00.440 --> 0:20:05.360
<v Speaker 2>one race car should have a driver's license. It's that

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, yeah, okay, but that doesn't exactly necessarily mean

0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:13.840
<v Speaker 2>you're a great driver. It's the minimum. Yes, it means

0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:16.800
<v Speaker 2>you've been properly trained, you've gone through the right programs,

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<v Speaker 2>taking the test, you're taking the tests. Yeah, it should

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<v Speaker 2>be a minimum threshold. But if you think that all

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<v Speaker 2>board certified plastic surgeons are of equal standard, no, right,

0:20:29.800 --> 0:20:32.280
<v Speaker 2>it's still a bell shaped curve. It shifts the bell

0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:35.760
<v Speaker 2>shaped curve a little bit to one side. Right, so

0:20:36.560 --> 0:20:39.040
<v Speaker 2>you tend to get better people than those who didn't

0:20:39.040 --> 0:20:43.040
<v Speaker 2>even bother with the training, obviously, but there's still a

0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:47.239
<v Speaker 2>wide dispersion of ability in this and then so you

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<v Speaker 2>can still get a horrible surgery. There's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>bad surgery done by board certified plastic surgeons.

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<v Speaker 1>I always tell people if you pulled back your face

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<v Speaker 1>with two fingers on each side, you know your middle

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<v Speaker 1>finger and your thumb, and look remarkably better. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you might be a canon no matter what your

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<v Speaker 1>age for a facelift. To me, that's a good starting

0:21:07.440 --> 0:21:11.440
<v Speaker 1>point to figure out, because if you go in for

0:21:11.560 --> 0:21:16.959
<v Speaker 1>a facelift to a cosmetic or facial or regular plastic surgeon,

0:21:17.359 --> 0:21:21.520
<v Speaker 1>they're probably unless they're very busy, they're probably gonna want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a facelift on you. Would you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sadly, yes. I can tell you. What I tell

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<v Speaker 2>patients and consultations, okay, is that there's a risk benefit

0:21:31.440 --> 0:21:34.879
<v Speaker 2>analysis to this, okay, And the risk is always going

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<v Speaker 2>to be there to some degree. The question is what

0:21:36.600 --> 0:21:39.520
<v Speaker 2>is the benefit? And if you have very minimal early

0:21:39.640 --> 0:21:43.560
<v Speaker 2>facial changing, you can only get so much better, and

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<v Speaker 2>so if there's barely anything going on, yeah, it might

0:21:47.640 --> 0:21:51.440
<v Speaker 2>be you might notice something, But do you really want

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<v Speaker 2>to undergo a surgery and spend tens of thousand dollars

0:21:54.720 --> 0:21:58.000
<v Speaker 2>to get an end result where you go like, yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want to wait until it's horrible, right, because

0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:03.879
<v Speaker 2>you can only get so much better, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>as you get past a certain age, the skin loses

0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:09.080
<v Speaker 2>its elasticity, nothing works quite as well. So you want

0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:11.720
<v Speaker 2>to have enough visible that there's a meaningful change to make,

0:22:12.680 --> 0:22:15.879
<v Speaker 2>and that's that's the time. If you're before that point,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just silly to do it, and certainly someone in

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<v Speaker 2>their twenties, you know who has other than massive weight

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<v Speaker 2>laws or something, or just horrible genetics or early thirties,

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<v Speaker 2>come on, there's very little that can be a changing.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus, I feel there's no science behind this, and we

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<v Speaker 1>all have our feelings about this. You know, anecdotal experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel if you start too young and then

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<v Speaker 1>you have too many facelifts, once you get past a

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<v Speaker 1>certain unknowable point, it starts to relax because they all

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<v Speaker 1>relax a little bit, and it relaxes in a potentially

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<v Speaker 1>unnatural way or angle or sweep. And once it does that,

0:22:55.440 --> 0:22:59.800
<v Speaker 1>now you're into altered. And once you get to altered

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<v Speaker 1>slash weird. No matter how good you look, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>a weirdness, it's kind of like a hair in your

0:23:08.280 --> 0:23:12.159
<v Speaker 1>salad or smell in the kitchen. It's just like, no

0:23:12.200 --> 0:23:14.920
<v Speaker 1>matter how good the food is, if there's kind of

0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:20.040
<v Speaker 1>this rancid something smell in there, it's over. The whole

0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:24.639
<v Speaker 1>meal's ruined, the whole face result is a disaster once

0:23:24.760 --> 0:23:27.560
<v Speaker 1>you get too weird. And by the way, even with

0:23:27.640 --> 0:23:32.320
<v Speaker 1>the best surgeons, we can have it heal even with it.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's not even without a complication, we can have

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<v Speaker 1>it heal in a slightly weird way. And I think,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you agree with this. I think

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<v Speaker 1>if you have too many facelifts, your chance of getting

0:23:44.520 --> 0:23:49.359
<v Speaker 1>a slightly weirdness to your face is significantly elevated.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh look, I think I don't even think it's like

0:23:54.480 --> 0:23:55.520
<v Speaker 2>it's almost guaranteed.

0:23:55.680 --> 0:23:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you do too many, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Only get But first of all, you know, with most

0:24:00.280 --> 0:24:04.280
<v Speaker 2>cosmetic surgers, but particularly facelifts, your first one is your

0:24:04.280 --> 0:24:06.960
<v Speaker 2>best one, and you want that one done properly at

0:24:06.960 --> 0:24:12.760
<v Speaker 2>the right time, because everyone after that is diminishing returns.

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 2>Because the things you can really affect with a facelift meaningfully,

0:24:16.760 --> 0:24:20.479
<v Speaker 2>you just can't do over and over again. Because you ye,

0:24:22.680 --> 0:24:29.200
<v Speaker 2>facelift is a simulation of youth. So when people come

0:24:29.240 --> 0:24:31.159
<v Speaker 2>in and they go, well, you know, then they're sixty,

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:33.200
<v Speaker 2>they go, well, I don't want to look twenty again,

0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:37.760
<v Speaker 2>and I'm thinking, don't worry, it's not gonna happen. Okay,

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:41.320
<v Speaker 2>So well, first of all, the first thing that is

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:44.840
<v Speaker 2>that's not true, because you do want to look twenty again,

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<v Speaker 2>because if there was an operation that would make me

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<v Speaker 2>look like I look when I was twenty, I wouldn't

0:24:50.200 --> 0:24:52.119
<v Speaker 2>be on this podcast right now. I'd be getting it

0:24:52.160 --> 0:24:56.680
<v Speaker 2>done right, right, Yeah, I'd love to look twenty again. Unfortunately,

0:24:56.960 --> 0:25:00.360
<v Speaker 2>we can't do that. We can do a simulation of it.

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:09.280
<v Speaker 2>We can move you in that direction, right. So it's

0:25:09.320 --> 0:25:13.200
<v Speaker 2>not a perfect simulation. It's like a virtual reality or something.

0:25:13.240 --> 0:25:16.320
<v Speaker 2>So it's not exactly right. And so every time you

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<v Speaker 2>do it, you're deviating a little more and more from

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<v Speaker 2>where you really were into something that never existed.

0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:25:23.840 --> 0:25:27.640
<v Speaker 2>But the more you get into never existed, the more

0:25:27.680 --> 0:25:28.720
<v Speaker 2>it looks like a face.

0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:31.240
<v Speaker 1>Look right, So I not to Let's switch gears a

0:25:31.240 --> 0:25:33.560
<v Speaker 1>little bit, because again, you and I we literally could

0:25:33.600 --> 0:25:37.160
<v Speaker 1>talk for two hours about anything in this field because

0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:39.439
<v Speaker 1>we love it so much. But I just did a

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:42.640
<v Speaker 1>podcast which I guess is getting some there's some virality

0:25:42.720 --> 0:25:44.600
<v Speaker 1>to some of the things I said. And I was

0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:49.320
<v Speaker 1>discussing male plastic surgery on celebrities, Okay, yeah, and you

0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:53.720
<v Speaker 1>know why are the female celebrities looking so amazing and

0:25:54.359 --> 0:25:57.680
<v Speaker 1>the male's looking so weird? And you know they're being

0:25:57.720 --> 0:26:02.360
<v Speaker 1>done by the same surgeon. Okay. And I posited a theory, okay,

0:26:02.960 --> 0:26:04.440
<v Speaker 1>and the theory is this, and I want to see

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:06.240
<v Speaker 1>if you agree with this, and I, well, the things

0:26:06.280 --> 0:26:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I love about you, besides effect your incredible genius, is

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:11.640
<v Speaker 1>that you're completely honest. You'll call me out on any

0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>bs and you won't agree with me just to you know,

0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:14.879
<v Speaker 1>just agree with me.

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:19.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's going to be half of this podcast. And

0:26:19.119 --> 0:26:21.440
<v Speaker 2>you're doing the same to me because you know.

0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 1>That's what we do for each other.

0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.

0:26:23.720 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 1>So I have this theory, and that is, if you

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:30.560
<v Speaker 1>do the typical baselift that you would do on a

0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:34.240
<v Speaker 1>female on a male, it really only works with feminine males.

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:37.280
<v Speaker 1>And that's why. And I don't know about any of

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:39.280
<v Speaker 1>these people, whether they've had plasters or not. But they

0:26:39.320 --> 0:26:41.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about the Brad Pitt, I don't know if he's

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 1>had anything done. He looks great. They talk about Bradley Cooper.

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I have no idea if he's had anything done. And

0:26:45.800 --> 0:26:47.639
<v Speaker 1>then they're asking me a lot when I walk out

0:26:47.640 --> 0:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>of restaurants about Jim Carrey. So why are they sat

0:26:52.640 --> 0:26:56.520
<v Speaker 1>setting things aflame in terms of their results? And my

0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:59.760
<v Speaker 1>theory is this, if you're a feminine looking person, if

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:02.960
<v Speaker 1>you're a pretty guy like a Brad Pitt, a John

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:06.960
<v Speaker 1>Stamos or a Rob Low, you can pretty much have

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:12.440
<v Speaker 1>more feminine looking, feminizing regular female plastic surgery, because you're

0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:15.200
<v Speaker 1>just making you look pretty. But once you go from

0:27:15.320 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>rugged okay, with heavy brows and putted upper eyelids and

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:25.879
<v Speaker 1>maybe some wrinkles on the forehead to a sort of

0:27:26.119 --> 0:27:29.359
<v Speaker 1>feminized version of that, if that's your thing. You know,

0:27:29.520 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 1>like a Ryan Gosling could probably look good with feminizing plaster.

0:27:33.240 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of a pretty dude, right. But you take

0:27:35.280 --> 0:27:38.040
<v Speaker 1>a George Clooney, although he's not not feminine, but he's

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:40.720
<v Speaker 1>much more masculine looking, and you do that kind of

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 1>surgery on a George Clooney, it's gonna scream facelift. Don't

0:27:45.520 --> 0:27:46.159
<v Speaker 1>you agree with that?

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 2>I think that's absolutely true. But I also think that

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:56.120
<v Speaker 2>what you're saying really applies to every man in that

0:27:58.200 --> 0:28:01.200
<v Speaker 2>if I think part of what's going going on is

0:28:01.880 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 2>it's men or you know, plastic surgeons doing facelifts on

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:11.920
<v Speaker 2>men and doing facial rejuvenation, filler, eyelid surgery, brow whatever

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:14.520
<v Speaker 2>it is, doesn't matter, and they're doing it the way

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 2>they would on a woman. Yeah, and the aesthetic is

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:24.879
<v Speaker 2>totally different because you know, I I'm not fascinated particularly

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:29.440
<v Speaker 2>with celebrities, and I'm not fascinated by celebrity plastic surgery either,

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 2>but you know, my patients ask about it, so I

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:35.639
<v Speaker 2>try to stay up with it, right, right, So you

0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:38.040
<v Speaker 2>get aggressive on any of these things. On a man,

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't matter where they started off, and it's going

0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:43.360
<v Speaker 2>to look feminizing, and in some ways it's going to

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 2>look less handsome. Less is more on a man. A

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 2>male facelift is a very different surgery from a female facelift.

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:56.080
<v Speaker 2>If you're gonna air one way or another, if you're

0:28:56.080 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 2>gonna air one way or another, and one obviously you

0:28:57.800 --> 0:28:59.240
<v Speaker 2>don't want to air at all. But if you're gonna

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:02.200
<v Speaker 2>it's okay to maybe overdo just a little bit. It'll

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:04.720
<v Speaker 2>be fine. Okay, it may take a little longer to

0:29:04.760 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 2>get there, but it'll be fine. If you're gonna air

0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:10.600
<v Speaker 2>one way or another. On a man, you should underdo it.

0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:11.560
<v Speaker 1>You can always take.

0:29:11.440 --> 0:29:17.360
<v Speaker 2>More anything well, and anything overdone starts to look feminized.

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Well. Remember, you know, it's funny people seem to plastic

0:29:21.560 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>surgeons now somehow seem to forget who Kenny Rogers was

0:29:24.960 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 1>or Robert Blake. Do you remember of course, I know

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:31.959
<v Speaker 1>you know who Robert Blake was. He had clearly very weird,

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:35.520
<v Speaker 1>feminizing plastic surgeon. And Robert Blake was a very handsome guy,

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 1>but a very rugged guy, and he was massively feminized.

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:42.480
<v Speaker 1>And yet we still don't seem to understand the lessons.

0:29:42.520 --> 0:29:47.600
<v Speaker 1>But I think the scariest operation that a man can

0:29:47.680 --> 0:29:53.760
<v Speaker 1>undertake in plastic surgery is an upper eyelid blephoplastic, because

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:57.280
<v Speaker 1>you just take a little too much skin and not

0:29:57.320 --> 0:30:00.160
<v Speaker 1>only is there no going back, but you're completely for

0:30:00.200 --> 0:30:04.640
<v Speaker 1>the looking person. And if you're a guy and you're

0:30:04.680 --> 0:30:07.360
<v Speaker 1>going to have your upryland is done, just tell him

0:30:07.360 --> 0:30:09.480
<v Speaker 1>to take one or two millimeters. You can always take

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 1>a couple more later, right, and you.

0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 2>Know what, you're not going to need to because you

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:18.360
<v Speaker 2>don't want to look that refined as a man. You

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 2>just don't, you know. So look, Brad Pitt is obviously

0:30:25.160 --> 0:30:28.480
<v Speaker 2>a great looking guy. I think you could make the

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 2>argument that whatever he's had done, I don't know, he's

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 2>still great looking. He had good work done, whatever, he

0:30:34.840 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 2>looks great. Yeah, I don't think there was a problem

0:30:41.120 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 2>that needed to be addressed there. And whoever did it

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 2>obviously did subtle which is good, but you know, a

0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 2>little craggy, the lines in the face in a man,

0:30:49.880 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 2>the aesthetics for him. That's the other thing is that

0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 2>the aesthetics for a man and a woman are very

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 2>different as we age. It's fair, not fair, it's just

0:30:57.080 --> 0:31:00.680
<v Speaker 2>what it is. Let's just let's as they get older

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:03.480
<v Speaker 2>and you know, more rugged looking, it just works in

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 2>terms of what society likes.

0:31:05.720 --> 0:31:09.640
<v Speaker 1>It's true. Let's let's be honest. Brad Pitt never looked bad.

0:31:10.080 --> 0:31:12.920
<v Speaker 1>He never looked like he needed work done now the day.

0:31:13.080 --> 0:31:15.920
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, he actually I think he looked even better as

0:31:15.920 --> 0:31:17.960
<v Speaker 2>he got older, which was just so painful to walk.

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:21.120
<v Speaker 1>I hate that that guy. Remember him in the Legends

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>of the Fall, Yeah, I mean he was the best

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 1>looking actor bar non female or male on the set

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:31.360
<v Speaker 1>of that. I mean, he's just you know, it's.

0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:35.480
<v Speaker 2>Like painfully good looking and like inglorious bastards and fury,

0:31:35.520 --> 0:31:38.600
<v Speaker 2>and you know, it's just he can't look bad.

0:31:39.120 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 1>It's funny to get not to get too personal about this,

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 1>but you've embraced getting older with the beard and having

0:31:46.720 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>the gray. But you, let's be honest, you were a

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 1>very pretty slightly slightly as being generous to you because

0:31:57.040 --> 0:32:02.400
<v Speaker 1>you were more than slightly feminine, feminine looking guy. I mean,

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:06.920
<v Speaker 1>you were a classic blue eyed, dark thick, black haired

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:09.880
<v Speaker 1>model when you came to UCLA. It's funny because when

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I knew you at Yale, you were kind of this

0:32:12.080 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 1>skinny I remember, not very tall, nerd genius. And then

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 1>a few years later I see US medical school and

0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:26.120
<v Speaker 1>you're like this super fashion model perfect. What the fuck

0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 1>happened between Yale and ucllly medical School? Did you just

0:32:30.160 --> 0:32:33.320
<v Speaker 1>wake up and you were like this feminine, gorgeous looking

0:32:33.360 --> 0:32:35.719
<v Speaker 1>guy overnight? And did it mess with your head? And

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I know we're getting way off topic here, but it

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 1>was weird.

0:32:38.200 --> 0:32:41.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's a lot to reveal on the first episode,

0:32:41.920 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 2>but I don't know. I know we've talked about it.

0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:46.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure we talked about this. I had a

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:50.120
<v Speaker 2>very weird, like teenagehood. You know. Well, first of all, okay,

0:32:50.160 --> 0:32:53.880
<v Speaker 2>I went to Yale to become a physicist. Okay, okay,

0:32:54.520 --> 0:33:01.320
<v Speaker 2>let's let's be real here. Dork, seriously dork, right, So,

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:05.000
<v Speaker 2>and when I started freshman year in September, how tall?

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 2>I was five ft four inches fall Wow?

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:08.160
<v Speaker 1>How tall?

0:33:08.360 --> 0:33:12.520
<v Speaker 2>Chubby and chubby sixty. Yeah, sixty. I grew six inches

0:33:12.960 --> 0:33:16.880
<v Speaker 2>out of nowhere in my freshman year of college and

0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:20.960
<v Speaker 2>it completely changed my look, and honestly it was Yeah,

0:33:21.000 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 2>it did mess with my head because suddenly.

0:33:24.080 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Girls they paid it. They oh attention, dude, you were killer.

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I remember you gave me to UC med school. We're

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 1>going med school ahead, you're going girls, and it was like, wait, wait,

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>that's a college thing. You're going now. And you took

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:40.080
<v Speaker 1>a year off to go model in Europe?

0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, not the best use of the year, but

0:33:45.920 --> 0:33:47.480
<v Speaker 2>I took a year off to model in Europe but

0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:48.640
<v Speaker 2>not model successful.

0:33:48.800 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Aren't you glad you did it? Though?

0:33:50.880 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm glad because the modeling didn't really work out.

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:55.920
<v Speaker 2>So after about two months, my buddy and I who

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:59.360
<v Speaker 2>we went over there, we just said, you know, screw it, and.

0:33:59.200 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 1>We backpack through Europe and let's go back.

0:34:02.240 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 2>He only stayed like another month or so, but I

0:34:03.880 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 2>stayed there like six seven months, right on my own,

0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 2>backpacking through U and it.

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>Was like, let's go back and be doctors. Let's leave

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:20.160
<v Speaker 1>people with the what to look out for when you

0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:23.240
<v Speaker 1>go for a plastic surgery consultation? Can you go in

0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 1>to a plastic surgery's office, and they've got all the

0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:30.080
<v Speaker 1>good looking furniture and the art on the wall and

0:34:30.120 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the degrees hanging. Okay, so they have pretty offices. We

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:36.520
<v Speaker 1>spend a lot of money in our offices to entice

0:34:36.520 --> 0:34:39.680
<v Speaker 1>people to have plastic surgery. All right, but what should

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:42.839
<v Speaker 1>you look for that's good and not so good that

0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:44.680
<v Speaker 1>may be a red flag in a consultation?

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:47.360
<v Speaker 2>I think. Okay, so you know we said before, usually

0:34:47.360 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 2>this discussion begins and ends with look for a board

0:34:50.760 --> 0:34:56.440
<v Speaker 2>certified plastic circuit. And yeah, obviously, but the next thing is, Okay,

0:34:56.440 --> 0:34:58.719
<v Speaker 2>before you've even gone there, you should have looked at

0:34:58.760 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 2>their web and looked at them before and afters. Okay,

0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:05.759
<v Speaker 2>Now that is only so useful because anyone on their

0:35:05.800 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 2>website it's like their greatest Hits album.

0:35:08.160 --> 0:35:09.719
<v Speaker 1>But just you know, by the way, if I can

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:12.799
<v Speaker 1>add to this, just you know, it's now that's primarily

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:17.280
<v Speaker 1>and more broadly replaced by Instagram. Now they're showing amazing

0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 1>before and afters on Instagram, and that's the main catch

0:35:21.120 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 1>point for getting patients at their office. And boy, there's

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:26.760
<v Speaker 1>no more bs than an Instagram before and after.

0:35:27.840 --> 0:35:30.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, be really careful with that because I can tell

0:35:30.360 --> 0:35:33.680
<v Speaker 2>you what I've started seeing in the last year or so,

0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:38.520
<v Speaker 2>not so much on plastic surgeons in this country, although

0:35:38.680 --> 0:35:42.680
<v Speaker 2>definitely happening. It's results that have clearly been doctor right,

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:47.360
<v Speaker 2>clearly altered, aside from the usual tricks of the you

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.400
<v Speaker 2>know face of the before.

0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh I know and they know that thing. So but okay,

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:55.680
<v Speaker 1>so the patient comes in and you meet.

0:35:55.600 --> 0:35:58.040
<v Speaker 2>So anyways, the photos I think are useful only in

0:35:58.080 --> 0:35:59.719
<v Speaker 2>the sense is if you look at their photos and

0:35:59.719 --> 0:36:01.000
<v Speaker 2>you go like on any of them.

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:04.320
<v Speaker 1>You're like, right done, because that's their best.

0:36:04.120 --> 0:36:08.160
<v Speaker 2>If their best stuff is not meeting your approval, don't.

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Right, But what about what about the general demeanor, Like

0:36:11.440 --> 0:36:13.279
<v Speaker 1>how much time they spend with you? I think ten

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:17.920
<v Speaker 1>minutes is not enough. You know, there has to be

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:19.360
<v Speaker 1>a get to know you. You have to have a

0:36:19.400 --> 0:36:21.759
<v Speaker 1>cocktail with them first, and they have to learn. I

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>think it's important they learn a little bit about you,

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:25.120
<v Speaker 1>to get to try to get a feel for you,

0:36:25.200 --> 0:36:28.040
<v Speaker 1>because you know, you may have red flags that they're

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 1>that they're not even looking for because they just want

0:36:30.080 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 1>to get you on the operating table. And you know,

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:36.319
<v Speaker 1>for me, I say, my big thing is I want

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:39.120
<v Speaker 1>to know why you're thinking about doing it now, like

0:36:39.160 --> 0:36:42.480
<v Speaker 1>you're forty three years old, coming for a breast augmentation. Why,

0:36:42.600 --> 0:36:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm very nice about it if I really want to

0:36:44.640 --> 0:36:47.960
<v Speaker 1>get at the why. Because if your marriage is failing

0:36:48.160 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>and you're doing breast implants, you can still do breast implants,

0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:53.640
<v Speaker 1>but it's good to know you're you know that you're

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:58.360
<v Speaker 1>maybe expecting something that's going to really change everything about you,

0:36:58.480 --> 0:37:02.719
<v Speaker 1>and your expectations are overwhelmed by the results. So that's

0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 1>what I do. I spend at least thirty forty five minutes.

0:37:06.600 --> 0:37:08.720
<v Speaker 1>I try not to spend an hour, but I'm willing

0:37:08.719 --> 0:37:10.440
<v Speaker 1>to if they want to talk that much. But I

0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:12.520
<v Speaker 1>want to get to know the person. I think your

0:37:12.520 --> 0:37:14.000
<v Speaker 1>plastic surgey should get to know you.

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:19.200
<v Speaker 2>I think your plastic surgery consultation should be done primarily

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 2>by your plastic surgeon and not by a coordinator or

0:37:23.000 --> 0:37:26.520
<v Speaker 2>a salesperson or right whatever it is. That's a red flag,

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:29.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's total red flag. First of all, aside

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:32.760
<v Speaker 2>from the fact that this is surgery. This is serious business.

0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:35.960
<v Speaker 2>You know, people forget that. You know, the second half

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:39.960
<v Speaker 2>of plastic surgery is surgery. It's real, it's very real.

0:37:40.520 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 2>It's a real thing. It's real surgery. Yeah, and so

0:37:43.960 --> 0:37:46.840
<v Speaker 2>you should know the person who's going to be cutting

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:49.080
<v Speaker 2>open part of your body and putting it back together.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good point of that because if you meant

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>the coordinator, it's almost like going in for the car.

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:57.359
<v Speaker 1>The guy goes put a cigarette down and goes, let

0:37:57.360 --> 0:37:59.480
<v Speaker 1>me go talk to my manager. And the manager in

0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:01.400
<v Speaker 1>this case is the plastic surgery is going to come

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:03.320
<v Speaker 1>in and do the clothes right.

0:38:03.120 --> 0:38:08.240
<v Speaker 2>Right, right right. So yeah. So and second of all,

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:12.319
<v Speaker 2>you're purchasing, aside from the fact that it's surgery and

0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:14.960
<v Speaker 2>it's your face or your body, and in some ways

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:19.200
<v Speaker 2>there's no going back from this. You're purchasing a very

0:38:19.239 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 2>expensive luxury service, and you deserve to be treated like

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:28.240
<v Speaker 2>someone who is receiving a luxury service. And that means

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:31.040
<v Speaker 2>I have all the time in the world that you

0:38:31.239 --> 0:38:33.680
<v Speaker 2>need me to spend with you to make sure that

0:38:33.760 --> 0:38:36.680
<v Speaker 2>you're comfortable. I'm sitting there and we're chit chatting. And

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:38.960
<v Speaker 2>we're chit chatting for two reasons. One because it's just

0:38:39.800 --> 0:38:43.360
<v Speaker 2>good manners to walk in and I ask people about,

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, what they did or something that you know

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:47.920
<v Speaker 2>has come up something that you know, I noticed what

0:38:47.960 --> 0:38:51.959
<v Speaker 2>they do for a living or whatever one because part

0:38:52.000 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 2>of what's a blessing about being a plastic surgeon is

0:38:55.640 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 2>we're not beholden to whatever Blue Cross blue Field is

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:01.799
<v Speaker 2>going to pay us for the visit. So that's not

0:39:01.840 --> 0:39:04.440
<v Speaker 2>what it's about. And so I have that luxury. Right,

0:39:04.520 --> 0:39:06.640
<v Speaker 2>I can spend an hour with a patient if I

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:09.680
<v Speaker 2>want to. You know, your intern is can't do that, right,

0:39:09.920 --> 0:39:11.320
<v Speaker 2>They can't make a living doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you agree with this? They? Okay, So we discussed

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:18.200
<v Speaker 1>they should take a januarine interest to you. Really, they

0:39:18.239 --> 0:39:22.319
<v Speaker 1>should try to understand you to determine whether they can

0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:25.719
<v Speaker 1>meet your expectation. Number one. Number two, I think it's

0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:30.520
<v Speaker 1>important that every procedure you talk about doing, they discuss

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 1>the pros and they all discuss the cons because every

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:38.120
<v Speaker 1>procedure you're considering has cons. Like the first when a

0:39:38.120 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 1>patient comes in for a breastlift, first thing I say

0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 1>to them, I go, let me ask you a question,

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:44.080
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about breast cars? Now I've started

0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:47.800
<v Speaker 1>with breast scars. That's not a good sales tactic because

0:39:47.840 --> 0:39:51.399
<v Speaker 1>now I've highlighted the thing that they would turn them

0:39:51.440 --> 0:39:54.160
<v Speaker 1>off to. Signing up for the procedure, right, the scars.

0:39:54.440 --> 0:39:59.319
<v Speaker 1>But if I can see right away whether they go scars, Oh,

0:39:59.360 --> 0:40:01.560
<v Speaker 1>you didn't know they were scars, let's talk about it.

0:40:01.760 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>And some people in the middle in the very beginning

0:40:04.680 --> 0:40:06.880
<v Speaker 1>of that consultation will go, I'm not doing it if

0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:10.480
<v Speaker 1>there's scars. You go, yeah, there's scars. There's scars for sure,

0:40:10.480 --> 0:40:12.719
<v Speaker 1>and they're permit, you're gonna see them. And they go, yeah,

0:40:12.719 --> 0:40:14.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't want that. You go great, I go, maybe

0:40:14.800 --> 0:40:17.759
<v Speaker 1>there's other things you can do, but I highlight and

0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to necessarily do this, but I think

0:40:19.640 --> 0:40:23.640
<v Speaker 1>it's important every single procedure they offer you should come

0:40:23.680 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 1>with various options, and they should highlight every one of them,

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:31.280
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily all the risks, but the cons the cons.

0:40:31.360 --> 0:40:35.040
<v Speaker 1>The cons are a tummy tuck, for example, That is

0:40:35.080 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>a big recovery, big recovery, and it hurts, and it

0:40:40.320 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 1>has more risks than any of the other plastic surgery procedures.

0:40:43.880 --> 0:40:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I start with that. Now. I don't care if people

0:40:46.640 --> 0:40:48.319
<v Speaker 1>have surgery with me anymore or not. I don't care,

0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:50.879
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, And you don't either, because

0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you're you know, we both have these advanced practices now.

0:40:54.520 --> 0:40:56.880
<v Speaker 1>But I care that I've told them all this stuff,

0:40:56.880 --> 0:40:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and if anything untoward happens, I look at them and go.

0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:02.480
<v Speaker 1>But remember we did discuss this. But I know that

0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:04.920
<v Speaker 1>they made the decision based on having heard that they

0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:08.360
<v Speaker 1>can never say. My patients can never say. Boy, had

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I known, I would not have done this. So I

0:41:11.920 --> 0:41:14.760
<v Speaker 1>think pros and cons. Would you agree?

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:19.920
<v Speaker 2>I one hundred percent agree, And I don't even look

0:41:20.040 --> 0:41:22.080
<v Speaker 2>you said. It's not a good sales tactic. It's not

0:41:22.120 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 2>a good sales tactic. But it is a good doctor tactic,

0:41:25.520 --> 0:41:29.439
<v Speaker 2>and aside from just the medical legal aspect of it,

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 2>it's just the right thing as a human being to do.

0:41:32.920 --> 0:41:35.920
<v Speaker 2>And so you know, I'd like to I try to

0:41:36.040 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 2>walk my patients backwards from what they're trying to get

0:41:39.320 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 2>out of this operation. And it took me a long

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:45.680
<v Speaker 2>time in practice to really understand the psychological aspects of this.

0:41:46.080 --> 0:41:48.400
<v Speaker 2>What are we really doing with any of these operations.

0:41:49.040 --> 0:41:52.640
<v Speaker 2>We're taking a part of someone's face or body that

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:57.560
<v Speaker 2>they feel self conscious about, rightly, wrongly, whatever, Okay, they

0:41:57.560 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 2>feel self conscious about it, and ideally want to move

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:03.280
<v Speaker 2>it from a place where they feel self conscious, ideally

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 2>to a place where they feel proud of it, or

0:42:04.719 --> 0:42:06.399
<v Speaker 2>at least a place where they feel a lot better

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:09.600
<v Speaker 2>about it. And so if you discuss something like a

0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:13.399
<v Speaker 2>breast lift without talking about the scars and without having

0:42:13.400 --> 0:42:17.280
<v Speaker 2>them in their head asking themselves, Okay, if my nipples

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:19.479
<v Speaker 2>are in the perfect position, or my breast no longer

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:21.800
<v Speaker 2>a hang down, but I do have some visible scars

0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 2>around my nipple on the lower part of my breast,

0:42:24.400 --> 0:42:26.279
<v Speaker 2>do I feel better about my breasts or do I

0:42:26.280 --> 0:42:29.680
<v Speaker 2>feel worse about my breasts? Because unless the answer is

0:42:30.640 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 2>I truly feel better about my breast despite the scars,

0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:37.440
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't do it? I agree, because ultimately you're not going

0:42:37.520 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 2>to achieve what the goal is, which is feeling good

0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:43.880
<v Speaker 2>about your breast. No one's goal is to have nipples

0:42:43.880 --> 0:42:47.000
<v Speaker 2>that are twenty centimeters from their sternal notch, you know,

0:42:47.040 --> 0:42:49.560
<v Speaker 2>the things that often blasphic. No one comes in going

0:42:49.560 --> 0:42:52.160
<v Speaker 2>like I don't like my external notch to nipple distance.

0:42:52.800 --> 0:42:55.160
<v Speaker 2>They don't like their breasts. They don't always know why

0:42:55.160 --> 0:42:57.279
<v Speaker 2>they don't like their breasts, but they want to be

0:42:57.320 --> 0:42:59.279
<v Speaker 2>proud of their breasts again or maybe for the first

0:42:59.280 --> 0:43:02.080
<v Speaker 2>time in their lives. Right, And so if you can't

0:43:02.080 --> 0:43:03.680
<v Speaker 2>do that in a way. That's me. If you just

0:43:03.719 --> 0:43:06.160
<v Speaker 2>make them self conscious about something else, you've achieved nothing.

0:43:06.280 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Well, you and I could talk forever about this, but

0:43:09.560 --> 0:43:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I do want to make one final point. So people

0:43:11.800 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 1>have a practical red flag. I think if they've say

0:43:14.320 --> 0:43:18.600
<v Speaker 1>it's easy, if they use that's easy, that's a chip shot.

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:21.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, it's going to be so easy, that's

0:43:21.719 --> 0:43:26.000
<v Speaker 1>a red flag. I think. Don't you agree completely?

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<v Speaker 2>This comes up a lot where PA goes this an

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:30.560
<v Speaker 2>easy operation, and I always say, it depends what you

0:43:30.600 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 2>mean by easy.

0:43:31.440 --> 0:43:32.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, A.

0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Lot of things in plastic surgery, strictly speaking, not that hard.

0:43:36.680 --> 0:43:38.800
<v Speaker 2>It's not like taking a tumor out of the base

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:42.920
<v Speaker 2>of the brain. You know, it's not the technical aspects

0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:46.040
<v Speaker 2>that aren't that hard. But it's hard in the sense

0:43:46.120 --> 0:43:48.960
<v Speaker 2>that you have to get everything exactly right right. So

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 2>it's easy in some sense to do breast implants. It's

0:43:54.800 --> 0:43:59.400
<v Speaker 2>hard to get the very best breast augmentation result time

0:43:59.440 --> 0:44:03.120
<v Speaker 2>after time after time, given all the differences between patients

0:44:03.160 --> 0:44:05.799
<v Speaker 2>and even between their own breast. That takes a lot

0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 2>of work, a lot of judgment, and a lot of right.

0:44:08.680 --> 0:44:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we have this thing we say, you know,

0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:14.520
<v Speaker 1>among us plastic surgeons in the lounge, the only easy

0:44:14.560 --> 0:44:19.400
<v Speaker 1>operations and operation done on somebody else. Yeah, right, well, listen,

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:21.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's so many more and we're going to

0:44:22.000 --> 0:44:24.200
<v Speaker 1>do this again. I loved doing this with you, and

0:44:24.239 --> 0:44:27.080
<v Speaker 1>we have so much more to talk about, and I

0:44:27.120 --> 0:44:29.360
<v Speaker 1>hope you'll do this again with me many more times.

0:44:29.520 --> 0:44:31.799
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, by the way, I just want

0:44:31.880 --> 0:44:34.440
<v Speaker 1>the audience to know that there will be a bonus

0:44:34.480 --> 0:44:38.200
<v Speaker 1>episode to look forward to, okay, where we'll talk more

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:40.080
<v Speaker 1>about this. And I can't tell you how much I

0:44:40.120 --> 0:44:42.960
<v Speaker 1>appreciate you, know. I love you, you know, and you

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 1>know you're like one aside from my wife and my kids,

0:44:46.680 --> 0:44:50.399
<v Speaker 1>well some of my kids, you're like most important people

0:44:50.440 --> 0:44:54.640
<v Speaker 1>in my life, my life, and I adore you and

0:44:54.680 --> 0:44:58.160
<v Speaker 1>thank you for doing this. And I hope, I know

0:44:58.280 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 1>and hope that the audience will get to hear more

0:45:01.239 --> 0:45:04.799
<v Speaker 1>from you and me about this in the future. All right,

0:45:04.840 --> 0:45:06.000
<v Speaker 1>So thank you for joining me.

0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:08.359
<v Speaker 2>I would love to do this again and again. At

0:45:08.400 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 2>the risk of us sounding maudlin, I love you like

0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 2>the older brother you've always been to me. Thank so,

0:45:14.080 --> 0:45:16.960
<v Speaker 2>thank you for having me on at anytime. Thank you