1
00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,320
Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl lix Pete any Sugarls

2
00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,639
Speaker 1: ray in the cold and you are tuned in to

3
00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,240
Speaker 1: another episode of Poor Minds.

4
00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,440
Speaker 2: Red Drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

5
00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:28,160
Speaker 1: What's up, girl, We're mad, We're happy? Color give me

6
00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,600
Speaker 1: a all right cut and print?

7
00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:31,400
Speaker 2: Beautiful guy? Okay.

8
00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:38,120
Speaker 1: Anyways, then they had a little reading. What did I

9
00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:38,800
Speaker 1: do this weekend?

10
00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,559
Speaker 2: Nothing? Nothing? I was in the house. Yeah, all weekend.

11
00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,840
Speaker 3: I mean yesterday I went to go meet my friend

12
00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,199
Speaker 3: at the vun and we went in like eight But

13
00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:48,199
Speaker 3: that was really all of you.

14
00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,120
Speaker 2: I feel like chill weekend. I had a chill weekend

15
00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,520
Speaker 2: as well. I don't know what's been going on with

16
00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,360
Speaker 2: me lately. My nerves has been bad.

17
00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,280
Speaker 1: I've had a short temper with everybody, so I've been

18
00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,840
Speaker 1: kind of like isolating myself that the attitude is very poor,

19
00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:09,040
Speaker 1: it's giving very much nasty, but they I have been

20
00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,199
Speaker 1: very spicy lately.

21
00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,160
Speaker 2: But one thing that I know about.

22
00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,280
Speaker 3: Myself that's good is I recognize when I'm doing that,

23
00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,640
Speaker 3: and I'll alienate myself and keep it to myself rather

24
00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:20,200
Speaker 3: than try to force myself to go out and be

25
00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:24,120
Speaker 3: around people. Because I hate that person that goes out

26
00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,600
Speaker 3: or be around people and they in a bad mood

27
00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:28,920
Speaker 3: and they treating everybody like shit and killing your life.

28
00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,240
Speaker 1: And killing the vibe. I am not a vibe killer,

29
00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,479
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And I know nobody has

30
00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,920
Speaker 1: done anything to me. I'm just not in the move

31
00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:36,839
Speaker 1: to be around people.

32
00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,399
Speaker 2: So yeah, so you just feel like you're just like

33
00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,679
Speaker 2: in a funk. I don't want to.

34
00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,160
Speaker 1: Say in a funk. I just kind of just don't

35
00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,360
Speaker 1: feel like being bothered. I feel like right now, I'm

36
00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,760
Speaker 1: so focused on my goals and things that I have

37
00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,440
Speaker 1: going on in my personal life.

38
00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,640
Speaker 2: I don't have no time for the bullshit.

39
00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:59,040
Speaker 3: And it's bullshit seasons, so the time, it's definitely bullshit season.

40
00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,000
Speaker 3: The niggas being tried at it, and that's my That's

41
00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,440
Speaker 3: why it's funny that I didn't do nothing this weekend

42
00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:09,960
Speaker 3: because I was supposed to be out of town. You know,

43
00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:15,480
Speaker 3: this little nigga nothing too crazy. He did hate that

44
00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,880
Speaker 3: for you, but and I deleted his numbers and stuff.

45
00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,239
Speaker 3: But then he takes me today, So I guess my

46
00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:21,800
Speaker 3: worst one I'm dead.

47
00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,160
Speaker 2: So are you going to give him?

48
00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,040
Speaker 3: It's like I wanted to cut him off, but he's

49
00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,399
Speaker 3: so coold, like I can't really just cut him off.

50
00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,079
Speaker 3: I feel like I should give him another change good, you.

51
00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:31,639
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

52
00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,079
Speaker 3: But I'm also not about to chase you to give

53
00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:36,320
Speaker 3: you some pissy neither, right.

54
00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,120
Speaker 2: You know that's so.

55
00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:41,040
Speaker 1: Weird to me, like men would sliding your den and

56
00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,640
Speaker 1: then just kind of be like, all right, leave the

57
00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:44,320
Speaker 1: ball in your court.

58
00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,680
Speaker 2: Like no, nigga, like you still got it. You can't

59
00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:47,639
Speaker 2: leave the ball in my court.

60
00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:49,600
Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm not tripping at the end of

61
00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:51,920
Speaker 1: the day because I mean we haven't like fucked around

62
00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:52,160
Speaker 1: like that.

63
00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:53,880
Speaker 2: We haven't really, I mean, we don't hung out a

64
00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:55,639
Speaker 2: few times. You know. He cool, you know what I'm

65
00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,880
Speaker 2: talking about? Do I like and I appreciate.

66
00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,919
Speaker 3: One thing I appreciate appreciate about him is that he's

67
00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,440
Speaker 3: like a stand up person. Like I feel like he's

68
00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,360
Speaker 3: a man of his word for the most part. So

69
00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,280
Speaker 3: that's the only reason why I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna

70
00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,160
Speaker 3: give him another chance, because I really don't feel like

71
00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,079
Speaker 3: he intentionally be doing some of the ship that he

72
00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:17,519
Speaker 3: be doing.

73
00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like he really do just be you know,

74
00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:20,680
Speaker 2: having a like.

75
00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,840
Speaker 1: I feel like my roster right now, it's like it's cool, like,

76
00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:26,880
Speaker 1: who's on your roster.

77
00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:27,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think.

78
00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,600
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, it's big Papa always well, yeah,

79
00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:32,639
Speaker 3: Jim we all Lawyer Bay.

80
00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,000
Speaker 2: Lawyer Bay is doing really good. He does good job

81
00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,400
Speaker 2: forgetting about him, but you never talk about him. I

82
00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,200
Speaker 2: don't feel like you're feeling him like this. Well, no,

83
00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:40,880
Speaker 2: it's not that.

84
00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,120
Speaker 1: It's just because it's kind of like a long distance

85
00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,720
Speaker 1: thing and he's not like here, you know what I mean.

86
00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,640
Speaker 1: But I mean we talk every day. But Rapper Bay

87
00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:52,160
Speaker 1: was long distance too, and that was.

88
00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:53,760
Speaker 2: Six years of hell.

89
00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,480
Speaker 1: But you're fucked with him though, even though in the

90
00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,600
Speaker 1: same city. Yeah, but I haven't gave Lawyer back no pussy.

91
00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,000
Speaker 2: It so good point.

92
00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,680
Speaker 1: Once I give him a pussy, y'all know how I get.

93
00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,839
Speaker 1: Y'all can tell when I'm fun somebody on the show

94
00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,640
Speaker 1: because I bring him up every chance I get. I'll

95
00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,280
Speaker 1: be like on the Bop of the week, and I'll

96
00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,200
Speaker 1: be like, well, lawyer Base.

97
00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:20,880
Speaker 2: Well, lawyer Bass. So he definitely got some pussy on

98
00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:21,200
Speaker 2: the way.

99
00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,360
Speaker 1: So once I give him a pussy, I'm pretty sure

100
00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,400
Speaker 1: you know, he'll be more of a character on the show.

101
00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,360
Speaker 3: Man, Yeah, because I honestly, I literally forgot about him.

102
00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,880
Speaker 3: Like here, I wouldn't even consider him.

103
00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,640
Speaker 2: But is a part of the roster, creative bass still

104
00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,800
Speaker 2: on the roster. He's a new one. He's a new one.

105
00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:42,760
Speaker 2: And that's one that I don't understand. But Lily do her.

106
00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,880
Speaker 1: Let me do me, bro, I don't know. Always I'm

107
00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,279
Speaker 1: going through something right now.

108
00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,880
Speaker 2: Man, One thing about me, I always let you do.

109
00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,800
Speaker 1: You don't judge me here, But yeah, I had an

110
00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,599
Speaker 1: interesting weekend too because one of my old niggas, Like

111
00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,960
Speaker 1: I never talked about him on the show.

112
00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:01,880
Speaker 2: You know what I talked to you about this morning.

113
00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:04,599
Speaker 1: I never talked about him on the show because this

114
00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,640
Speaker 1: was something that was like super personal with me and

115
00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,359
Speaker 1: me and him that was like my nigga, Like believe

116
00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,240
Speaker 1: it or not, y'all, everything that goes on in our

117
00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,599
Speaker 1: life we don't talk about on the show.

118
00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,440
Speaker 2: We just talked about funny shit, and you know, you

119
00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:16,920
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

120
00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,120
Speaker 1: So this was a nigga that I was really fucking with.

121
00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,720
Speaker 1: I really cared for him a lot and things just

122
00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:24,520
Speaker 1: didn't work out and he just reached out to me

123
00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,200
Speaker 1: this weekend and it was just a lot of emotions.

124
00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,200
Speaker 1: So I think that kind of like shut me down

125
00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,280
Speaker 1: a little bit too. But you know, I'm just I'm

126
00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,880
Speaker 1: getting stronger every day and I'm getting ready for the sum.

127
00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm really trying to like, yes girl, me and Big

128
00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:43,000
Speaker 1: Papa is outside like somebody outside with y'all too, and

129
00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,280
Speaker 1: it's like people was laughing to him and his hookah exactly, well,

130
00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,039
Speaker 1: you don't small hooker, don't do my man. He had

131
00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,640
Speaker 1: a hookah in one head and he had not.

132
00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,200
Speaker 2: Small hookah. I told y'all.

133
00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,760
Speaker 1: Okay, So this weekend it was funny because Porscha had

134
00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:01,160
Speaker 1: po to the picture of her and Simon.

135
00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick beside him, and I'm gonna stick beside him.

136
00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:08,960
Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's my mass mind.

137
00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,200
Speaker 2: I'm but I'll say this, okay.

138
00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,280
Speaker 1: So I know y'all know all that shit that's going

139
00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,000
Speaker 1: on with like Porsche and her Man.

140
00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:18,680
Speaker 2: Simon. He's a not gery man and he posted the

141
00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,320
Speaker 2: flag is Somebody told me he wouldn't.

142
00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,520
Speaker 1: Knowing not Jerry when I see one, now, you know,

143
00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,320
Speaker 1: I know when I see him, my little radar go off.

144
00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:29,840
Speaker 2: Money in the building, money in the building, money in

145
00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:30,159
Speaker 2: the building.

146
00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:30,440
Speaker 1: Money.

147
00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:30,960
Speaker 2: Oh there you go.

148
00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:31,360
Speaker 1: Right there.

149
00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,560
Speaker 2: That's not accurate because they do not all got No.

150
00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,680
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the ones for me, the ones for me.

151
00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:42,120
Speaker 1: Gardfield be like there go girl anyway. So see Porsia

152
00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,480
Speaker 1: and Simon had posted a picture. Everybody was like, oh

153
00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,000
Speaker 1: my god, I don't get it. He's so ugly this

154
00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,080
Speaker 1: and that. First of all, it's level.

155
00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:50,920
Speaker 2: He's not ugly to me. He's not ugly to.

156
00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:52,680
Speaker 1: Me, first of all. But I mean he ain't no

157
00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,799
Speaker 1: fine ass nigga, but he's not ugly. And second of all,

158
00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,240
Speaker 1: it's level to this ship.

159
00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,599
Speaker 2: He not ugly though I don't think but you know

160
00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:02,040
Speaker 2: what I mean.

161
00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,839
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of especially like younger women.

162
00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:06,520
Speaker 1: Some younger women.

163
00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:10,280
Speaker 2: Don't like today, like older dudes, like like he giving

164
00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,840
Speaker 2: me Grandaddy by I posted a picture. I said, this

165
00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,040
Speaker 2: is how me and my nigga looks.

166
00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,040
Speaker 1: So when y'all see us this summer, mind y'all fucking

167
00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,000
Speaker 1: business because that's how me and Big Papa look.

168
00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:26,000
Speaker 2: We knew and I love you. Here. My man does

169
00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:30,520
Speaker 2: not smoke because definitely you are a liar.

170
00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,120
Speaker 1: I can't believe you're sitting here lying. I'm gonna show

171
00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,880
Speaker 1: him this too. Why would you I want him to

172
00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:36,960
Speaker 1: know that you're lying on him.

173
00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,400
Speaker 2: So it's fine. Is he still taking me on the truth.

174
00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,840
Speaker 2: They're gonna give you the regular suite, the regular sweet.

175
00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:44,040
Speaker 2: He's still a sweet.

176
00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm still outside because we're gonna be all sorry for

177
00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,119
Speaker 1: But yes, I feel like y'all need to stop calling

178
00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:55,520
Speaker 1: Simon ugly. He is not ugly. He is not ugly,

179
00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,640
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times. But you know, it

180
00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,160
Speaker 1: goes back into a lot of times people going into

181
00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:06,160
Speaker 1: like features of like black people and just not just because.

182
00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,960
Speaker 2: They're not like textbook what it looks like to.

183
00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:12,960
Speaker 1: Be beautiful or whatever, are attractive. People want to always

184
00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,440
Speaker 1: say somebody is ugly, And I just think that's a

185
00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,880
Speaker 1: little well, I mean, I think it's weird in general

186
00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:20,880
Speaker 1: because I don't know, like I guess when I date dudes,

187
00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:25,280
Speaker 1: I don't always date them because they look a certain way,

188
00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,160
Speaker 1: like I care more about other things. Think about all

189
00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,480
Speaker 1: the flying out fucked up ass teeth though, but and

190
00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,559
Speaker 1: he has beautiful teeth. You had a fucked up ass

191
00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:35,520
Speaker 1: teeth in your birth. Can't thing but think about this.

192
00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:39,800
Speaker 1: Think about think about five fine niggas that you dated.

193
00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,680
Speaker 1: How many of them had money? Bro, I haven't dated

194
00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,880
Speaker 1: a fine nigga in a long time. I know, but

195
00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,480
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That got money money, Like yes.

196
00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,400
Speaker 2: Fine niggas, fine niggas, that's we don't even have put

197
00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:53,640
Speaker 2: that nigga in the dirt.

198
00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:55,480
Speaker 1: And maybe I don't want to date no nigga that

199
00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:59,199
Speaker 1: I think he's prettier than me. I'm over and honestly

200
00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:00,960
Speaker 1: for the mirror, not thank you.

201
00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,080
Speaker 2: Well, honestly, I'll saying this.

202
00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,800
Speaker 1: Like with Throwback Bay, throw Back Bank is super fine,

203
00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,319
Speaker 1: but it was just like it's and he wasn't even

204
00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,760
Speaker 1: the type of nigga that's like, oh yeah, I know,

205
00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,360
Speaker 1: I'm fine, But honestly, I feel like half of the

206
00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,040
Speaker 1: relationship the reason I stuck around just because he looked

207
00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,760
Speaker 1: so good and I was just so physically attracted to him, you.

208
00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:18,120
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

209
00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, the last fine nigga that I diated, like fine

210
00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:23,560
Speaker 3: ass nigga was Neighbor Bay.

211
00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,960
Speaker 2: He had he had on sid, he didn't have no to.

212
00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,880
Speaker 3: I made that discovery. I was like, oh hell no,

213
00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:32,640
Speaker 3: it was funny how I found out.

214
00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:36,520
Speaker 1: So he had a fucking and he had a black toe.

215
00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:44,880
Speaker 2: Was he was moaning lawn? Yes, he said, you seen it?

216
00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:48,200
Speaker 2: You've seen that girl, I've seen it. He was on

217
00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:52,199
Speaker 2: the side, I said, ooh, way out and he had

218
00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:53,640
Speaker 2: a black toe. Now he did.

219
00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:55,520
Speaker 3: But the only reason I in his defase, the only

220
00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,920
Speaker 3: reason I seen the black toe, nil, is because I egged.

221
00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:59,520
Speaker 2: So I had these things where like when I started

222
00:09:59,520 --> 00:09:59,920
Speaker 2: talking to the.

223
00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,120
Speaker 3: Is, I asked them to see their feed because I

224
00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,200
Speaker 3: can't proceed with dating you if you got a black toil.

225
00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:09,480
Speaker 2: Problem.

226
00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,760
Speaker 1: Well, no, I just I guess for me in my

227
00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,359
Speaker 1: younger days, you know, I was dating a lot of athletes,

228
00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,200
Speaker 1: so I already knew what came with that.

229
00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,040
Speaker 2: I don't like this ship.

230
00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:23,280
Speaker 1: This niggas so ugly. Niggas be having Bunyon's black toes like,

231
00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:24,319
Speaker 1: but I was just you.

232
00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,400
Speaker 2: Said, like I remember I had an X.

233
00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,200
Speaker 3: He would never take his socks off around me, Like

234
00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,480
Speaker 3: even one time we was like fucking in a shower

235
00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:32,000
Speaker 3: he had.

236
00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:43,000
Speaker 1: I know you're lying now on this ship. I swear

237
00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,880
Speaker 1: to God, I'm not lying right hand to the father,

238
00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm not lying.

239
00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:50,200
Speaker 2: He had to sock so on none of the tomb socks.

240
00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,120
Speaker 2: He had to sock song in the shower. And what

241
00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:54,320
Speaker 2: was young as fuck?

242
00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,880
Speaker 3: Like this is like my high school boyfriend him, I

243
00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:00,000
Speaker 3: like my high school and college boyfriend.

244
00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,240
Speaker 2: Did you like feet? Then?

245
00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,760
Speaker 1: Though I never liked feet, I don't like feet.

246
00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:06,720
Speaker 2: I just don't like niggas with ugly feed.

247
00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,440
Speaker 1: You be popping toes in your mouth. Bro, you you

248
00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:10,920
Speaker 1: do suck one nigga toe.

249
00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:19,880
Speaker 2: That was a big toe. That was a big ass toe. Bitch,

250
00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:29,240
Speaker 2: y'all swear this nigga told about this not big you

251
00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:31,960
Speaker 2: sucking out that toe. I know. He was like, I

252
00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,080
Speaker 2: know she sucking mean dick, because if you can suck

253
00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:36,480
Speaker 2: on that toe, bit, he already knew how I suck.

254
00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:43,120
Speaker 2: The toe came later. Okay, So back to the socks

255
00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:47,120
Speaker 2: in the shower, bitch, did you say anything? Yes? I

256
00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:48,720
Speaker 2: was like, why you got your socks on? And he

257
00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,120
Speaker 2: just never wanted me to see his feet.

258
00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,720
Speaker 3: So then one day I finally was just like this

259
00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,520
Speaker 3: makes me really uncomfortable, Like I have to see your feet.

260
00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:55,760
Speaker 2: I need to know what they look like.

261
00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,079
Speaker 3: And then he took his sock off and they was

262
00:11:58,160 --> 00:11:59,920
Speaker 3: so bad, and I was like, you never take a

263
00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:00,560
Speaker 3: off again.

264
00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:04,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god. See I'm not a foot person.

265
00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,360
Speaker 1: Like I said, I dated guys that play sports, so

266
00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,840
Speaker 1: like I won't say all guys that play sports have

267
00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,199
Speaker 1: ugly feet, but a lot of times they feed the

268
00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,760
Speaker 1: ugly I don't.

269
00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:20,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, but some athletes have nice feet. Like I've dated sports.

270
00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:24,960
Speaker 2: And they've had like nice feet. I just had nice feet.

271
00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,200
Speaker 3: To me, it's just the indication of how much you

272
00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:30,839
Speaker 3: care about chokes yourself and your personal hygiene. I mean,

273
00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,760
Speaker 3: sometimes people feed just out of here and someone come

274
00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:35,000
Speaker 3: on now just cause he got his feet out today,

275
00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:39,280
Speaker 3: we see you over there. Sometimes people sometimes people will

276
00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,200
Speaker 3: get their feet done and do this and do that,

277
00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:41,760
Speaker 3: but they just.

278
00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:45,600
Speaker 2: Don't have nice though. I don't know.

279
00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,679
Speaker 1: I think that's whether does that transition like from like

280
00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:52,000
Speaker 1: hitting your feet stubbing your toe or something.

281
00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:56,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. That's exactly thank you. Then at the

282
00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,840
Speaker 2: point I'm getting there, you just ain't give a fuck.

283
00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:04,320
Speaker 3: You was like, fuck it, it's blead, Like how you

284
00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:06,400
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck about having a black toenail.

285
00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,199
Speaker 1: I don't, So I don't have black tonails. So I

286
00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:12,000
Speaker 1: don't know what causes a black toenail.

287
00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:12,760
Speaker 2: I really would like to.

288
00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:14,520
Speaker 3: I'm not about to google it, but I'm gonna have

289
00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,760
Speaker 3: to research it and find out because I really feel

290
00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,719
Speaker 3: like you don't take care of your feet because it's

291
00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,640
Speaker 3: too many niggas out here who be having nice feed.

292
00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,679
Speaker 2: I don't came across a lot of niggas who got

293
00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,720
Speaker 2: nice feed. Suck. It was a nice toe.

294
00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,640
Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, let's get into these topics. I don't

295
00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,760
Speaker 1: want to think about you sucking a toe. It was

296
00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,720
Speaker 1: we were fucking. It's just it's not like I was

297
00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,880
Speaker 1: just sucking it like it's not like you know, I

298
00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:43,000
Speaker 1: was just watching the movie mom.

299
00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,400
Speaker 3: But some people really like toes like that, like they'll

300
00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,199
Speaker 3: just suck it like nah, we was fucking and.

301
00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,360
Speaker 2: That don't make it no better. People an't even really

302
00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:53,880
Speaker 2: a suck. It was just like a little.

303
00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:55,560
Speaker 1: It was.

304
00:13:55,600 --> 00:14:00,840
Speaker 2: It was real quick. Okay, let's get into these topics. Please.

305
00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:07,040
Speaker 2: Enough of the toe, black toes, missing teeth, missing teeth too.

306
00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:15,240
Speaker 1: No, I have not who dread Drea is lying today?

307
00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:19,440
Speaker 2: What are you mean today? Why we're not gonna get

308
00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:23,080
Speaker 2: in today? First topic? What's up y'all? Is your girl

309
00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,360
Speaker 2: lex Pee any Sugarls Dray in the call.

310
00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,680
Speaker 1: And we want to tell y'all about something that we

311
00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:32,080
Speaker 1: use and we absolutely love. It's called honey, And y'all

312
00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,920
Speaker 1: know me, I only got three dollars. So I love

313
00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,960
Speaker 1: to save some money now. So Honey basically scours the

314
00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,080
Speaker 1: internet and finds coupons for you so you can automatically

315
00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,320
Speaker 1: just save money without even thinking about it.

316
00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love Honey, like LE say, you know, we

317
00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,280
Speaker 3: love a good discount. We use it for so many

318
00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:48,800
Speaker 3: different things all the time.

319
00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,320
Speaker 2: I actually just you know, bought me some little clothes

320
00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,520
Speaker 2: last week. I know that's right. You know, I gotta

321
00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,440
Speaker 2: keep my wardrobe today on camera all the time.

322
00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:01,120
Speaker 3: So I just got a little discount buying some clothes

323
00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:01,720
Speaker 3: last week.

324
00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,440
Speaker 1: And so how it works is basically, you go to

325
00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:07,360
Speaker 1: whatever favorite site that you're usually shopping on, whether you're

326
00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:10,880
Speaker 1: getting like games, clothes, fool, whatever it may be. So

327
00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,400
Speaker 1: when you're checking out, it automatically applies coupons for you,

328
00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,120
Speaker 1: so you don't have to be, you know, searching the

329
00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:20,200
Speaker 1: internet for any coupons. So we never recommend something that

330
00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,760
Speaker 1: we don't use. So make sure y'all go to join

331
00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:27,440
Speaker 1: Honey dot com backslash four minds. That's join Honey dot

332
00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,480
Speaker 1: com backslash.

333
00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,840
Speaker 2: Four minds and get y'all little savings.

334
00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:34,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm dead Okay, you know

335
00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:35,640
Speaker 1: what Can I ask you something before we get into

336
00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:36,560
Speaker 1: these topics real quick?

337
00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,200
Speaker 2: I was watching a movie yesterday. This is totally off topic.

338
00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:47,400
Speaker 1: If a zombie apocalypse happened. If a zombie apocalypse happened,

339
00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,880
Speaker 1: would you like try to fight the zombies or would

340
00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:53,200
Speaker 1: you just turn into one and like not fight it

341
00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:54,400
Speaker 1: just out of curiosity?

342
00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,880
Speaker 2: Gang Gang in the speech you're gonna turn to a zomba,

343
00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:02,480
Speaker 2: I'll fuck with that answer. You think you're gonna win

344
00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,560
Speaker 2: if you fight a zabie. I mean I could fight

345
00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:06,320
Speaker 2: a zombie. Bro Alright.

346
00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:09,800
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is when I really sat down and

347
00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,600
Speaker 1: thought about it, like being a zombie is a lick.

348
00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,720
Speaker 2: Let me tell you why. Though you don't have to

349
00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:18,680
Speaker 2: pay rent.

350
00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:22,800
Speaker 1: You can just sleep anywhere who holds tell you to move? Nigga,

351
00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm coming in here and I'm living here. What are

352
00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:27,080
Speaker 1: you gonna tell me? One, you don't have to you

353
00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,360
Speaker 1: don't gotta pay rent. Two, you really don't gotta.

354
00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:34,840
Speaker 2: Pay for food either. I eat humans. If I want

355
00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,920
Speaker 2: some Chipotle, are you gonna make me pay for it? No?

356
00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,040
Speaker 1: If a zombie came and was like I want a bowl,

357
00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:43,240
Speaker 1: and it's like it's seven dollars, fuck, you.

358
00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:44,440
Speaker 2: I'm not paying for my bowl.

359
00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:49,120
Speaker 1: Like, you don't got it. You can do whatever you want. Seriously,

360
00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:51,120
Speaker 1: I just need y'all to think about that.

361
00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,840
Speaker 2: It really concerns me. What goesie.

362
00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,040
Speaker 1: I was thinking, like, if you are a zombie, you

363
00:16:57,040 --> 00:17:02,080
Speaker 1: can do whatever you want. Bro, you you driving officer,

364
00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:02,760
Speaker 1: pull you over.

365
00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:04,800
Speaker 2: All he gonna do is be like my bad bro.

366
00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,320
Speaker 3: See, I was just thinking I'm a join because I mean,

367
00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,879
Speaker 3: to me, that's a better alternative than dying, I guess.

368
00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,439
Speaker 2: I mean, that's the only reason why I was not

369
00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:20,080
Speaker 2: gone of that you was just talking about. I was

370
00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,679
Speaker 2: just thinking of the perks, that's all. I was just

371
00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:26,600
Speaker 2: wondering what decision you would make. But anyways, back to

372
00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:27,000
Speaker 2: the topic.

373
00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:30,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so today I wanted to talk about getting rich

374
00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:34,680
Speaker 1: quick schemes. The reason I want to discuss this because

375
00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,240
Speaker 1: you know, my timeline has turned into the Wolf of

376
00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:41,840
Speaker 1: Wall Street beitch, cause everybody was doing everybody want to

377
00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:46,600
Speaker 1: talk about coin this coin, that coin going.

378
00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:46,920
Speaker 2: To the moon.

379
00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:50,880
Speaker 1: First of all, I love seeing let me say this,

380
00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:53,080
Speaker 1: this is not I'm not bashing people that are getting

381
00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,280
Speaker 1: into stocks, people that are making money.

382
00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:57,760
Speaker 2: I love to see, especially black people.

383
00:17:57,760 --> 00:18:00,680
Speaker 1: I love to see them educating themselves on some different

384
00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,199
Speaker 1: and doing things to you know, work for themselves and

385
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,240
Speaker 1: do their own shit. I love to see it, but

386
00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:09,640
Speaker 1: I need people to understand there is no such thing

387
00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,639
Speaker 1: as just getting rich quick. So I feel like a

388
00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:17,200
Speaker 1: lot of times people will see it's like a monkey see, monkey.

389
00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:17,560
Speaker 2: Do type thing.

390
00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,359
Speaker 1: Like the only reason half of you people went out

391
00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,919
Speaker 1: and bought Dodge coin or whatever's because everybody was just

392
00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,000
Speaker 1: saying to do it. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

393
00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,879
Speaker 1: It was like, okay, cool. You know, it's like everybody's like, oh,

394
00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,000
Speaker 1: this shit going to the moon. Bitch that shit went

395
00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:32,840
Speaker 1: to Orange.

396
00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:33,960
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

397
00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,920
Speaker 1: But I just feel like I don't know. But that's

398
00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:40,360
Speaker 1: with everything though. I feel like if you're not passionate

399
00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,439
Speaker 1: about something and you don't want to really go hard

400
00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:47,160
Speaker 1: and educate yourself about it, do the work, invest it's

401
00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:49,679
Speaker 1: not gonna come into fruition like how you want it to.

402
00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

403
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,600
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that's the crazy thing about

404
00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,720
Speaker 3: like everybody getting into stocks and stuff recently, because I

405
00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,679
Speaker 3: feel like a live've been seeing a lot of people

406
00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,160
Speaker 3: who you know, have been investing money into little different

407
00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 3: stuff and then they don't make the return that they

408
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,679
Speaker 3: thought that they were gonna make based off of what

409
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:06,480
Speaker 3: other people were saying.

410
00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,760
Speaker 1: So then they're not they like, fuck doing stock because

411
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that shit. Don't where y'all lie to me.

412
00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,440
Speaker 3: But it's also kind of like, but you wasn't never

413
00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:15,240
Speaker 3: really into it to begin trying to make the money

414
00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:18,840
Speaker 3: real quick, right, People that are really into the stock

415
00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,360
Speaker 3: gaming sh they really be invested into this sheep.

416
00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,560
Speaker 2: They know what to invest in. They study it.

417
00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:27,080
Speaker 1: This is like it's like a lifestyle, just like us

418
00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:30,359
Speaker 1: with podcasting, Like this is not something that we just Yes,

419
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:30,800
Speaker 1: it is.

420
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:34,120
Speaker 3: People that live and breathe, right the stock market exactly.

421
00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:35,320
Speaker 3: I feel like we do this ship.

422
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:37,760
Speaker 1: Yes, it is fun, but it's also our job, and

423
00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:40,359
Speaker 1: we study and we know, we know what the fuck

424
00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:40,879
Speaker 1: is going on.

425
00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,640
Speaker 2: We know what type of content we need to put out.

426
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 2: We study our audience.

427
00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 1: We know who's listening to us, we know the type

428
00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 1: of audience we're trying to reach. Like everything is a

429
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:55,000
Speaker 1: what's the word I'm looking for? Like a everything is

430
00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,960
Speaker 1: a when you put out a plan, what's the word

431
00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:02,439
Speaker 1: I'm looking for? Yeah, Like a formulated move, Like everything

432
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 1: is like we executed because we've studied on what we're

433
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,160
Speaker 1: trying to do. So it's not like we're just like, oh,

434
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,119
Speaker 1: you know what, let's just talk about this today, or

435
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 1: you know what, let's just release this merch like everything

436
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 1: is because we've done our research and we know, you

437
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,640
Speaker 1: know what, if we do this, we know we're gonna

438
00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 1: get a return on this, or we do this, we

439
00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:20,639
Speaker 1: know that it's gonna make us some money, and we

440
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 1: can do this and.

441
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:22,520
Speaker 2: Pay this with that, you know what I mean.

442
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,040
Speaker 3: But so for people just to all of a sudden

443
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:27,879
Speaker 3: everybody want to be there for Wall Street, it's just

444
00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:31,280
Speaker 3: fucking crazy. It is crazy a little bit only because

445
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,960
Speaker 3: like the way people have been acting about bitcoin, you

446
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,320
Speaker 3: would swear to it's a new like me coin being

447
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 3: out for a minion now, Like I used to be

448
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 3: cool with this guy. Remember we ran into him at cobob. Yeah, day,

449
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:46,479
Speaker 3: I used to be cool with this guy. He used

450
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 3: to be talking to me about bitcoin like this was

451
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,679
Speaker 3: like back in like twenty seventeen, right, and now he

452
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,040
Speaker 3: got a lot of fucking money, right because he invested

453
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:55,919
Speaker 3: in it way back then. But it's just so crazy

454
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,440
Speaker 3: to me that people be just like talking about it

455
00:20:58,520 --> 00:20:59,280
Speaker 3: like brand.

456
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 2: It's like it's been around for a long time.

457
00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 3: Go ahead and remember, like I don't know, people been

458
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,120
Speaker 3: trying to get rich quick for a long aass times

459
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 3: at the beginning of time. Remember all of them nown

460
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 3: pyramid schemes and ship that travel sit like a few years.

461
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 1: Ago, I would die here or something. Yes, I hated

462
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 1: that she bro it was like it was a pyramid

463
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: sche hated that she someone finds all over.

464
00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 2: I'm living my life. But you're in Cancun. Let's relax.

465
00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 2: You're in Cabo. Relax, niggas be in Cabo acting like

466
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:39,280
Speaker 2: they just you don't even need a passport. Shut it out,

467
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,879
Speaker 2: Jackson and minute Puerto Rico twice. Relax what I'm saying,

468
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So I just feel like

469
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:48,720
Speaker 2: with anything you have to study it. Yeah you don't.

470
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't know one person that's rich just from just

471
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 1: doing some ship. Now, I will say, once you get

472
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,200
Speaker 1: to a level of success, yeah, you have people who

473
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 1: invest silently into ship that they they don't really know

474
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,359
Speaker 1: nothing about, and they'm just like, you know what, I

475
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 1: got three hundred thousand dollars. But they know that's a

476
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 1: risk and they don't need that three hundred thousand dollars back,

477
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 1: so if they lose it, they can take the ill

478
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 1: because guess what they're worth fifty million dollars or something

479
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 1: like that. But y'all are not at that point yet.

480
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,080
Speaker 1: So if you're trying to, you know, step your game up,

481
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,680
Speaker 1: get a little brand, and you really want to start something,

482
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 1: do your research, y'all.

483
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying is just do your research.

484
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: Really know what you're getting yourself into, because I feel

485
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 1: like it was the same thing with me and you.

486
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: Whenever we started our business, we was just on YouTube

487
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 1: dropping shit, not knowing what we was doing, like just

488
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,679
Speaker 1: trying to do something because we thought, oh, let's do this,

489
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 1: it might go viral.

490
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 2: Let's do this, it might go viral.

491
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 1: And it was just like we wasn't seeing no fucking

492
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 1: nobody wouldn't watch it.

493
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 2: Nobody wasn't watching it. We wasn't getting nothing out of it.

494
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: So I feel like there's no such thing as getting

495
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 1: rich quick unless you playing a lot.

496
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,760
Speaker 2: Of Yeah, I agree, that's it.

497
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,440
Speaker 1: Like some every now and then, every now and then,

498
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 1: somebody might invest in something or do something that they're

499
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 1: not necessarily passionate about, and they might, you know, come

500
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,360
Speaker 1: up on some money and make a little money, but that.

501
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 2: Never lasts, it don't ever.

502
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely think people need to more so just

503
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 3: focus on things that they're passionate about, for sure, And

504
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 3: you got to build a business with long that's gonna

505
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 3: have some longevity because a lot of these ship that

506
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 3: people be investing their money in and putting the money

507
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 3: into these days, it's not even gonna be a thing

508
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 3: in a few years. I mean not saying that like

509
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 3: bitcoin one, because I do think that that's something they probably.

510
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 2: I'm not.

511
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 1: And we're just using stocks, but we're talking about everything

512
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: all around. But yeah, I just feel like a lot

513
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: of times social media has created this atmosphere where people

514
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: are so obsessed with just saying I'm a boss.

515
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 2: I want to work for nobody no more.

516
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 1: I mean I giedyed, I mean I do get fun.

517
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: But at the same time, this this is how the

518
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: world works. Some people are bosses and some people are consumers.

519
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: That's just how the world works. It's okay to clock

520
00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 1: in if you're making six figures a year and you're

521
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: doing it and you like your job, do that. Don't

522
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: make somebody. Don't let somebody make you feel bad. Just

523
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 1: because you're clocking and it's not for everybody. Yes, do

524
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 1: we want financial freedom for everybody where they don't have

525
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: to depend on somebody else, Yes, we want that, but

526
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 1: that's not in everybody's path. So I feel like a

527
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: lot of times people are so obsessed with oh, I

528
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 1: gotta do this because she's doing this. I gotta start

529
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 1: hair business, I gotta start clothing business and this and that.

530
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: I'm not saying don't do that shit, but I'm just saying,

531
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 1: do something that you're passionate about and that you care about.

532
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 2: The money gonna come.

533
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 1: If you're good at something and you're consistent, there's no

534
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: way you're not gonna be successful. If you're passionate about

535
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: something and you're and you're good at what you do,

536
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 1: you may not be making six figures off the top,

537
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 1: but three four years later, if you don't put that

538
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: work in, it's just gonna come to you, you know.

539
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,719
Speaker 1: So instead of just trying to be like, you know what,

540
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: let me just start this podcast real quick, be I

541
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: can see Droon, let's doing it.

542
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 2: I can do that shit too. No, is this something

543
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 2: that you really want to do?

544
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,719
Speaker 3: This all the time too, Like, even with podcasting, It's like,

545
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 3: it's way more that goes into it behind the scenes

546
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 3: than what it looks like.

547
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: In front of the camera.

548
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm sure a lot of people think me and Lick,

549
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 3: that's all we do is show up and record every week,

550
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,360
Speaker 3: But it's so much that goes into making the show

551
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 3: runs smoothly behind the cameras, you know what I mean.

552
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 3: It's so much other a lot of other things that

553
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 3: we have to do as well, you know what I mean.

554
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 3: So I don't know, I just feel like nothing that

555
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 3: people look at and think, oh, that's gonna be easy,

556
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 3: it ain't never as easy as you think it's gonna be, right,

557
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. You still got to put

558
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 3: in work, you still got to grind, you gotta hustle,

559
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 3: you gotta have passion put behind what you're doing or

560
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 3: it's not going to end up making you no money.

561
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 3: I see all day every day on Instagram, on social media,

562
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 3: people starting businesses, clothing businesses, makeup businesses.

563
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 2: You name it here, businesses.

564
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 3: Everybody's starting all this shit and then they be promoting

565
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 3: the shit for like three four months and three if that,

566
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 3: and then after that don't be talking about it no more.

567
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: You don't see nothing about the business no more. You

568
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 3: know why, because running a business.

569
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 2: Is hard work.

570
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 3: That shit is hard, and it's it's like people glorify

571
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 3: it these days, not giddy because it should be glorified

572
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 3: to be a boss, because especially as black people, you know,

573
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 3: we weren't always able to be in the positions that

574
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: we are now.

575
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 2: So I get everybody.

576
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 3: Wanting to work for theyself and don't want to work

577
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 3: clocking for the men no more.

578
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 2: And shit like that. So I get it.

579
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 3: But at the same time, it's hard work, Like you

580
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 3: need to be passionate about what you're doing or it's

581
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 3: not going to last if you're.

582
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 2: Not in a space like like it's.

583
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,479
Speaker 1: Literally it's not just on Mondays, were recording on Fridays,

584
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: we dropping that's it.

585
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 2: It's literally we're doing something for poor minds every every day.

586
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:48,639
Speaker 1: And you know what, I know, a lot of people

587
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 1: had just started tuning in whenever we signed with eighty five.

588
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: A lot of people hadn't heard of us, you know,

589
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: before eighty five, so they just think, oh, these bitches

590
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: just popped up out of.

591
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: Nowhere, and then they now they live like, nah, we was.

592
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,199
Speaker 1: Doing this shit for a long time, like trying to

593
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 1: figure it out, trying to make the you know, make

594
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: sense of everything. But we didn't stop because we knew

595
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,440
Speaker 1: that this is what we wanted.

596
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 2: To do, you know what I mean. And look at

597
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 2: the old videos. They still love she was not leave.

598
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: We want to talk not always trust me. We talking

599
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 2: about we want to talk about I.

600
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: Just want to let those wigs go so bad. And

601
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: the girls just won't let me forget. They'd be like, oh,

602
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: this that week you was talking about.

603
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: Home, But I told you I still got one in

604
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 2: my closet at my house. Why why it's a keepsake.

605
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do with it? It's a keepsake.

606
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 3: I'm gonna look back on it in twenty years from

607
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 3: now and be like, damn, man, it's crazy.

608
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:39,959
Speaker 2: This was when we were struggling.

609
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 3: I'm be like, I'm was like, I don't know, he's

610
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 3: still got a ponytail hold on it and everything.

611
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 2: It's still in a ponytail. You are a sick am.

612
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 2: I see you the one who left it at my house.

613
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: I was trying to leave it and to move on

614
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: to bigger and better things. I closed that chapter, and

615
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 1: here you gonna keep wanting to.

616
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 3: You know what else, I told you I got that week,

617
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 3: and I still got your puffball.

618
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 2: All right. I see. I even told the people my

619
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: puffball was fake. Oh I thought they knew you could tell. Well.

620
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 2: In one video my puff was real. No at my

621
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: house and we recorded at Kiki House. I don't know

622
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 2: my puff sometimes my puff was real. But yeah, I

623
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: mean we came a long way. I like to keep things,

624
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 2: you know, for memory.

625
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:30,879
Speaker 1: Girl, throw that away. I hated here alright, word for

626
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: Halloween one year?

627
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,239
Speaker 2: All right.

628
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, so the get rich quick schemes, we're not

629
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: doing that no more. We're gonna focus on our passion

630
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: and do what you gotta do to get to where

631
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: you want to be.

632
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: Amen. Amen, Okay, so go ahead and bringing that next

633
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 2: top and the drown. Okay.

634
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 3: So for the next topic, Okay, I wanted to talk

635
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 3: about dress. How you want to be the statement dress,

636
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 3: how you want to be a dress. So you know,

637
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 3: unless you live under a rock, I'm pretty sure most

638
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 3: people have seen that little club on social media where

639
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 3: that lady had went on the podcast. I don't even

640
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 3: know her name, but she's obviously a lady who like

641
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 3: makes a whole bunch of videos telling women what they

642
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 3: need to do to keep them in. So anyways, right exactly?

643
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: Hell? Hell okay, So.

644
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, So she makes a lot of videos, always like

645
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 3: giving women advice on what they need to do to

646
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 3: keep a man.

647
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 2: Not sure if she has one, but she always be

648
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 2: giving advice.

649
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 3: So she went on a podcast and they were basically

650
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 3: talking about, you know, how women dress, and she was saying,

651
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 3: she feels like, if you want to be addressed a

652
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 3: certain way, then you need to dress I mean, yeah,

653
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 3: if you want to be addressed a certain way, you

654
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 3: need to dress.

655
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 2: A certain way.

656
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 3: You can't be half naked thinking that men are gonna

657
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 3: respect you. And she like that, and one of the men,

658
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 3: surprisingly one of the men on the episode, was disagreeing

659
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 3: with her and was like, no, I don't agree with that.

660
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 3: She like, I feel like, if you half naked, that

661
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that I'm supposed to automatically disrespect you, And

662
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 3: I agree with him. I just think it's crazy that

663
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: a woman would be saying something like that, because.

664
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: Especially in the times that we are in now as

665
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: black women, it doesn't matter what the fuck we have on.

666
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,479
Speaker 2: People are overly sexualized in US no matter what.

667
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: Now, Just like that girl went viral a couple of

668
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: years ago, teacher Bay, why did she go viral? This

669
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: lady was in a pencil skirt and a button up

670
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: blouse and everybody was.

671
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: Like, Ooh, she fine, she bad, she's They.

672
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: Were over and disrespecting her, talking about, oh is its

673
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: appropriate for her to wear She's in a pencil skirt,

674
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: still getting disrespected just because she's scurvy, just because she's curvy.

675
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: So as a woman, as a black woman, and you

676
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: know how it is.

677
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what we have on.

678
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: A man is gonna or whoever is gonna treat us

679
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: how they feel like they're gonna need to treat us,

680
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: first of all, And so being the fact that as

681
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: black people were already judged by the color of our skin,

682
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:49,719
Speaker 1: but you're saying it's okay for people to judge us

683
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: bout other things because somebody had actually made a point

684
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: on Twitter. They were saying, that's the same thing that

685
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: God did the Trayvon Martin because he had a hoodie on. Yes,

686
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 1: I seen that, and I was gonna say the same

687
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: thing because it's like we're talking about and no shade

688
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: to the to the lady, but we're talking about someone

689
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: who you have a whole bunch of tattoos and you

690
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: be wearing crop tops and she the same. People could

691
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 1: people could judge you and be like, oh, that's a

692
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: ghetto ass beach.

693
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 2: Now I ain't say that.

694
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 3: Now I'm saying that she could fight. I got security, Okay,

695
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 3: okay in a caser. So back to what I was saying.

696
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 3: People people could be like, she ghetto because you got

697
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 3: all them tattoos and stuff like that, You know what

698
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 3: I mean. I just feel like it's ignorant to say

699
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 3: starting in twenty twenty one, people could dress how to

700
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 3: fuck they want to dreads.

701
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: But not only that.

702
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: I feel like there's nothing wrong if a woman is

703
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: super educated and she has.

704
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: You know, a great job, a lawyer, a doctor.

705
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: Who's to say, you know what? She might wake up

706
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: one morning, you know what, I feel sexy today. I

707
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: want to put on my swim suit and I feel

708
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: good today, and let me post this picture and she

709
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: wants to get that attention. That's oh okay, what is

710
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: wrong with that?

711
00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 3: I tweeted the c yesterday. I said, okay, ibouty slatshame

712
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 3: about the sheet that I want to wear. If I

713
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 3: want to wear something, I'm gonna wear it what the

714
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 3: fuck I want to wear and you could call me

715
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 3: or how it's fine, I'm still gonna wear this crop top.

716
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: But that doesn't give somebody the right to sexually assaultru,

717
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: to assault.

718
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 2: Someone, or to treat them badly, or to talk to

719
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: them to judge them.

720
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, because it's like this goes back

721
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 1: to how, like I said, white people were treating us

722
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: just because.

723
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 2: Of our skin, or how people.

724
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: Treat us just because you know, we don't live in

725
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: a certain neighborhood or we can't afford certain things. Because

726
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people out here who they may

727
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: not have the best threads on and this and that,

728
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: but they are the most the smartest person in the room.

729
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: And then you got somebody who probably is not that

730
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: smart up here, but made some little money, but they

731
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: got on a rolex and they got on, you know,

732
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: a three thousand dollars outfit, but you're gonna give them

733
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: the respect, not knowing that they hold dummy upstairs. And

734
00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 1: it's like the world alienates us so much already as

735
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: a people, as a race. It's like, why do y'all

736
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: be wanting us to be against each other in judging

737
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 1: each other in dividing against each other, Like, I just

738
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: think it's crazy as hell because it's like.

739
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: Who gives a fuck. Let people wear what they want

740
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 2: to wear. It's not that fucking period.

741
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 1: What you wear and what you have on is does

742
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: not represent who you are as a person and what

743
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: you offer to the world, like or what you can

744
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: offer to a conversation.

745
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying.

746
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: I feel like we're so fucking is it like nineteen

747
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: forty Like the fact that we even have to have

748
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: this conversation with people is just crazy to me because

749
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: guess what, Yes, my ass be out on my Instagram.

750
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 2: I'll be and I be all that and this.

751
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: But when I'm like chilling with my friends like me

752
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: and you, or even when I'm chilling with like guys

753
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: i'm dating, it's not always about oh, let me see

754
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: your titty's legs or let me see but it ain't

755
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: all about that.

756
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 3: The thing for me is like people always try to say, oh,

757
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 3: you shouldn't dress a certain way because it'll provoke you

758
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 3: to get the wrong type of attention. People have been

759
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 3: sexually assault and raped who have been fully closed, right,

760
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 3: So that's.

761
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 2: Not even a good argument you know what I mean.

762
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 3: And then on top of that, Okay, if dressing, if

763
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 3: dressing modestly issue a man, then why he's so many single,

764
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 3: modest coldes.

765
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: I don't understand. We both out here looking you know

766
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

767
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,160
Speaker 3: I'm just asking because I know plenty of women who

768
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 3: dress like fully covered up and shit all the time,

769
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:22,760
Speaker 3: and they still.

770
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 2: Ain't got no niggas. So it's just it's just like

771
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:26,760
Speaker 2: that doesn't matter.

772
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: But it's just so crazy to me that like people

773
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: even make whole platforms on women on how to keep

774
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 1: a man. You can't keep somebody that don't want to

775
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: be kept. Who cares. Somebody that's for you is gonna

776
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: be for you. You don't have to change anything about

777
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 1: who you are. I mean, if you have fucked up ways,

778
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that. I'm talking about if you're a

779
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: confident person, you feel like you're a whole by yourself,

780
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: you're a good person, you're you're educated, you have things

781
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: going for yourself. The right person is gonna find you.

782
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: It ain't no fucking rush. So y'all be making these

783
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 1: videos on how to keep a man and how to

784
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: do this and how to bitch.

785
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 3: And I just be trying to figure out why y'all

786
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 3: even be listening to certain people would make people certain

787
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 3: people qualified enough to give y'all advice on certain things

788
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 3: like don't get me wrong, like even with us, we

789
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,919
Speaker 3: give people advice and tell y'all how we feel because

790
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 3: y'all be writing us asking us questions that I feel like,

791
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 3: but to just always be giving my unwarranted opinion about

792
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 3: things like that's dumb.

793
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not even gonna lie like I'll

794
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 2: say this.

795
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, because we live a certain lifetime,

796
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: we've done certain things like yeah, we go on trips,

797
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: guys have taken us shops back. But the reason I'm

798
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: saying that is because that's why we have the creditionals

799
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 1: to tell people, Okay, this is what we did to

800
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: get the stuff that we got.

801
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 3: Well, now i'm agreeing with you. I'm just I don't

802
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 3: know I'm agreeing with you. I'm just saying I feel

803
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 3: like people ask us, you know, that's why we tell them.

804
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: But we're never just always on the internet giving our

805
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 3: unwarranted opinions about things that we don't believe in or

806
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 3: we don't agree with.

807
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 2: Cause I might not agree with it, and that's fine.

808
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 3: I don't agree with it, but I don't have to

809
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 3: try to convince you that you're wrong, right because you.

810
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: Feel that way or you believe in something.

811
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 3: So I think it's very strange when women and men

812
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 3: always attacking shit that they don't like on the internet.

813
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 3: It's like, that's fine that you don't like that with

814
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 3: each Why you got to try to make people feel

815
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 3: bad about it, Like it's just y'all live two different lives,

816
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: makes you qualify, Like do you have a men? You know?

817
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: That's and that's what I was saying, Like a lot

818
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: of people be I feel like are you a man?

819
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: How you know what me?

820
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 1: And like I feel like a lot of times we

821
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: try to give guidance too, cause I feel like a

822
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: lot of times when girls start messing with bdb's, they'd

823
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: be like, oh, what should I do this and that?

824
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: And like, like we said, for a long time, we

825
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 1: was talking to guys that had money, but we wasn't

826
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: going out shopping. We was paying off our credit cards,

827
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 1: paying off our student loans, like doing shit, investing in

828
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: our business. Like, so we'd be trying to guide people

829
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: in the right way, like baby that Louis Vaton is

830
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: not going nowhere, you.

831
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,279
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. It's like if there's other things

832
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 2: you have to do. But that's what I'm saying.

833
00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: I feel like the reason we uh talk out the

834
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: things we talk about is because, yeah, we got the

835
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: credentials to say it, you know, But sometimes people just

836
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: it's not matching up.

837
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 3: And sometimes it's not coming from a good talking about

838
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:12,840
Speaker 3: the lady.

839
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 2: Talk about that lady.

840
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 1: No, I'm just talking about like people in general on

841
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 1: social media.

842
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and like I said, sometimes I feel

843
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 3: like the intentions aren't correct, Like the intentions aren't right.

844
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 3: I feel like with us we be really trying to

845
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 3: tell people stuff because we be trying to help them.

846
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 2: And then go through what we went right.

847
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes I feel like when people are talking about things

848
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 3: that they don't like, are saying I disagree with this,

849
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 3: I disagree with that. They're doing it in a way

850
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 3: to down other people. Not because you want to see

851
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 3: them win or you want to see them do better.

852
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 3: You're just trying to down in because you think you

853
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 3: better because you don't do that right. You know, people

854
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,959
Speaker 3: don't respect people's lifestyles.

855
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,919
Speaker 1: But you have to realize not everybody wants to live

856
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: like you. People have main character syndrome so fucking bad.

857
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: They think they are so important. Everybody wants to be

858
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: like you. Everybody's cloud chasing, everybody wants Oh if I

859
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,879
Speaker 1: do this, everybody gonna start doing the baby.

860
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: Girl to you. Calm the fuck delusional.

861
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 3: We say this every day, Like people are literally like

862
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 3: the shit I see online every day, dellusional as fuck

863
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 3: and think they way more important than they really are.

864
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 2: Like the world is like dc B, and you're like DCB,

865
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: it's that. It's that. So that's what I'm saying.

866
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times when I see somebody doing

867
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 1: something that I necessarily don't agree with, I'm like, you

868
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: know what, lex take yourself.

869
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 2: Out of that.

870
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 1: Maybe they're happy that way, Maybe they're happy with that,

871
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: like happy with what like for example, like I don't

872
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 1: use us as an example, so I don't even have

873
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: to bring nobody into this. Whenever I first moved here

874
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: and I was dating that guy and then the situation

875
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: was just bad and it wasn't like you were telling

876
00:38:56,520 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: me stuff to like hurt my feelings or be mean

877
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,240
Speaker 1: or talk down on me, because you knew what I wanted.

878
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: You knew that I wanted better. You knew I wanted

879
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: to get the things that I deserved. So it's like

880
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: you were giving me advice to like help me and

881
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,479
Speaker 1: get me out of that situation, you know what I'm saying.

882
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: So because you knew that we had, we were like

883
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: minded in that way. A lot of times people will

884
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: look at somebody that's not dating a nigga with money.

885
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: They'd be like, what are you doing? That's disgusting, that's sick.

886
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: Why would you be dating a nigga that got no money?

887
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: But it's like, maybe that's not what she looks for

888
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: in a partner. So you can't talk down or look

889
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: down on that girl because she chooses to date a

890
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 1: guy that makes twenty thirty thousand dollars, that's her choice.

891
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 2: You know about everybody don't care about money like that.

892
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: So I feel like we have to stop looking at

893
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: other people's lifestyles and judging them. Like I'm not even

894
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: gonna lie, because I feel like we have talked about

895
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 1: this before. The girl Another girl went viral the other

896
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: day for a proposing to her man.

897
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: Now, as silly as the thing that I see.

898
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,320
Speaker 1: As silly as I think that is, I just didn't

899
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: feel the need to go in on her about it

900
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: because I'm like, that.

901
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 2: Ain't my life, yeah that has.

902
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: It doesn't do me any good to sit up here

903
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: and bash this woman for the decision that she's made.

904
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 1: All I'm here to speak to is the women that

905
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,720
Speaker 1: can relate to me and want to do things how

906
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm doing it right, you know, and we can just

907
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 1: figure something out because other than that bit, I ain't

908
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: got nothing.

909
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,959
Speaker 3: I mean, what other people do in general just don't

910
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 3: really concern me like that. But I've always kind of

911
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 3: been in that way, So I just think it's weird

912
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 3: when people care so much. The only people I really

913
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,719
Speaker 3: be caring what you having going on is myself and

914
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 3: the people around me. Everybody else I really careless. So

915
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 3: I just think it's weird that people be so invested

916
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 3: into other people's lives when you don't even know this,

917
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 3: right and.

918
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 2: So yeah, So basically, dress how you want to be

919
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: addressed is bullshit. Respect. Everybody deserves respect.

920
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: Right, I don't matter if you're a fucking a homeless

921
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: man under the bridge or you're a fucking CEO of

922
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: a billion dollar company. Everybody fucking deserves respect, and it

923
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: doesn't deserve to be.

924
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,879
Speaker 2: Treated like I don't even I can't believe I even

925
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 2: have to say that, what's up, y'all, it's your girl

926
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: ex pay any Sugarl Drey and the Call.

927
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: And y'all know we always go embedded in y'all brain

928
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: to use a better help dot com.

929
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, I think you know, with everything that's going

930
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 3: on in the world right now, mental health is so important,

931
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: especially for us, you know what I mean, being having

932
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 3: a huge platform and everything, and I know we have

933
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 3: a lot of personal things going on. I think it's

934
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 3: very important for us to keep our mental health together.

935
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 3: And that's why I love to talk to my counselor

936
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 3: every week. Shout out to Tiphany. She be helping me

937
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 3: with a lot of things that I'll be going through.

938
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 2: All the time. And we just have a great relationship.

939
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 3: And so you know, we want to give y'all the

940
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,919
Speaker 3: same opportunity because I know y'all probably have some things

941
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 3: that y'all going through as well.

942
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 2: Right, I definitely agree.

943
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 1: I feel like mental health is something that's not talked

944
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: about in our community a lot, and we take it

945
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: very seriously on this podcast. So what we have done

946
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: is we have partnered with better Help to give y'all

947
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: a discount so for your first month to get ten

948
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: percent off of your counseling and also financial aid is available.

949
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,399
Speaker 1: You do this from the comfort of your own home

950
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 1: with video or phone sessions, so you're not in a

951
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: doctor's office waiting, feeling uncomfortable and anything like that. You

952
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: do this from the comfort of your own home. You

953
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: pick exactly what type of counselor you want, and if

954
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,720
Speaker 1: you don't like that counselor, that make it very easy

955
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: in prase switch counselors. So all you have to do

956
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: is go to betterhelp dot com backslash poor Minds, get

957
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: set up and start your counseling today period next time.

958
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: But we're gonna get into the by ow bow bow

959
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: Bow Bow bow.

960
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 2: You know what's so funny, I just remember it I

961
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 2: forgot my toy. You're an idiot. I literally told you.

962
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 2: I wish y'all knew how forgetful this girl is? I am?

963
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 1: You remember that one though, that's one thing you didn't

964
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: forget Anyways.

965
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy.

966
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I needed to bring the toy

967
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: to give a review on anything, okay, but I just

968
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: wanted them to see, you know, see what it was

969
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: working with. But first of all, before we get into this,

970
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: it's so funny. Somebody had sent me a message that

971
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: was like, I can tell you from you know, Orange,

972
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 1: close by Louisiana, because when you started doing that Bow

973
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: Bow Bow ship. And it's just funny because you know

974
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: that song that's went viral on TikTok. It's like a

975
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 1: jinging song. They be saying, yeah, and the song like

976
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,879
Speaker 1: in the verse he said, I mean in the beginning.

977
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 2: Bow bound fount.

978
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I mean and of course he'd be

979
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:26,720
Speaker 1: like bow you know. So it's just so funny because

980
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: like all my friends like send me like the little

981
00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: viral means they're like, girl, this remind me of high school.

982
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: Like this reminded me because of bitch. We used to

983
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: be jigging in high school. Bro with this one for

984
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: the jigg laters.

985
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 2: It was for the jigg It was it was these

986
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 2: ones for the.

987
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:48,319
Speaker 1: Song.

988
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:49,879
Speaker 2: I don't know, but you remember that song.

989
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 1: I mean that bag Hollywood up, hill Man, that I

990
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 1: me in that bag Hollywood up.

991
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:57,440
Speaker 2: No, okay, we used to be in the Orange. It

992
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 2: was some Louisiana. Shep close to Louisiana.

993
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: But it's just so funny. I love the fact that

994
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: he made this song. I feel like jigging is back.

995
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 1: It's who Big Papa and kpe y'all.

996
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:13,919
Speaker 2: That's the Jiggulator song.

997
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm in the back holloween a pill Man.

998
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: I can't believe you never heard that song. I don't

999
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: think I've heard it before.

1000
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 2: I really don't.

1001
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: I mean I probably have, but they used to have.

1002
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 1: You never heard that song? Brown and White?

1003
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: Full of that brown? Yeah yeah, I'm full of that

1004
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:32,439
Speaker 2: all white. Yeah yeah.

1005
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: I can't wait till Jim hit this episode because he's

1006
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: gonna be like Jim Jim is you know mister Golden

1007
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 1: Arches that always be at Yeah, Jim, we grew up

1008
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 1: in Orange together song.

1009
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 2: He don't know. So I just used to be listening

1010
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 2: to Webb and Little boost.

1011
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I think that's what most people listen to,

1012
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 1: but like an Orange, like, we really used to be jigging.

1013
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 2: Bitch, they crazy. I mean we used to be jigging too,

1014
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 2: but like I said, just to like Boosty.

1015
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 1: And yeah nah, we we had that jigging music for real. Anyways,

1016
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm just happy that this song is like going bolved

1017
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,240
Speaker 1: because it just reminds.

1018
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 2: Me of like high school, being in Orange and being

1019
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 2: at home. I was like, damn, now the world knows

1020
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 2: how to gen. So I wanted to do a toy

1021
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 2: review because we had an episode with a sex expert

1022
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 2: and she basically gave us this tool. How you put

1023
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: it back in the box? I did, like, you had

1024
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 2: to use them. I feel the judgment.

1025
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,960
Speaker 1: We just talked about not judging people. She so, okay,

1026
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: So I have this little toy. It's called the air

1027
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 1: Post Stimulator. So whenever I got home, I charged it

1028
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: up and I was so mad at first.

1029
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 2: I didn't even have to charge mine. Yeah, I had

1030
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 2: to charge mind. I got to make up all on it.

1031
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 2: So well I was doing my math. I'm not as

1032
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,720
Speaker 2: don't I don't need no. So this is the toy.

1033
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 2: So whenever I first got it, let me turn it on.

1034
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 2: I hope nothing's plush out because it got just keep

1035
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 2: it that way because if this flags on me, I'm

1036
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:09,760
Speaker 2: scream so I'm missing you can hear. It doesn't vibrate

1037
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 2: that hard.

1038
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: So when I first got it, I was like, bro,

1039
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:14,760
Speaker 1: this toy is trash.

1040
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 2: I was very cause I hate but you can change

1041
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: the speed. That's just how as it goes. That's just

1042
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 2: how as it goes. Oh but you out the little

1043
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 2: beginner one. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So y'all know me.

1044
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 2: I like this, You know, I like to zap that motherfucker.

1045
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, stop fucking playing with me.

1046
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: The fuck you gave me this baby?

1047
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 2: You seeing Godfield, motherfucker, I'm turn this bitch off. It

1048
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 2: looks like I'm so, let me tell y'all.

1049
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 1: Anyway, So I was like, oh my god, this toy

1050
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 1: don't even vibrate hard enough. I didn't even want to

1051
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: use it. I was like, maybe I didn't charge it

1052
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: up long enough. I put it back on the charge

1053
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: it for like two hours, and I was like, okay,

1054
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:54,879
Speaker 1: let me just try it.

1055
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 2: So I made sure because I was.

1056
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: Looking at like reviews on it and like people that

1057
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 1: said so they were like, make sure you like open

1058
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 1: your legs up really wide and put it right on

1059
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: your clip and then you'll get the stimulation.

1060
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 2: Beach.

1061
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 4: When I tell you this, motherfucker, maybe a little motherfucker

1062
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 4: packs from punch.

1063
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 2: Now, well not, y'all. I was literally shot. Garfield said,

1064
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 2: hold on.

1065
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: Baby, we weren't ready. I was not ready because it

1066
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:27,479
Speaker 1: doesn't vibrate that hard. I don't know what it does,

1067
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: what exactly is going on, but it's like air, it's

1068
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: fair and it's y'all this toy. I'm not gonna lie

1069
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: to you. I've used a lot of toys in my day.

1070
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: Now I'm a lonely ass bitch. I haven't had sex

1071
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: some long time.

1072
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 2: Me neither.

1073
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 1: So when I use this thing, I was like, this

1074
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: is a good toy.

1075
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 2: It's travel sized. I can fit into my purse. It

1076
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,879
Speaker 2: is is travel sized my night. So if I want

1077
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 2: to go to the bathroom real quick, like hold on,

1078
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 2: time here, let me take a little smack break, y'all

1079
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:02,479
Speaker 2: know what I'm doing.

1080
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: Meet you in the bathroom, like, yeah, girl.

1081
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:12,760
Speaker 2: Set the moods.

1082
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 3: But no, so ya min is actually like bigger than

1083
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,399
Speaker 3: your and I didn't have to charge mine.

1084
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 2: But I already kind.

1085
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 3: Of knew what it was gonna do because I have

1086
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 3: another toy like it's called Tracy's Dog, Andy's Dog. So

1087
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 3: it has like the little air airport stimulator that's the

1088
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 3: tongue at the top, and then it has a vibrating

1089
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 3: part that goes in your vagina. Okay, so it does

1090
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 3: both at the same that's the one you have right now,

1091
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 3: I being already had it, and his waterproof I already

1092
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 3: had it, so when she gave us those toys, I

1093
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 3: already kind of knew like what it was gonna do.

1094
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 3: So the only difference is this one just doesn't have

1095
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 3: the part it goes inside.

1096
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:03,399
Speaker 2: So you like your toy? Yeah, I like me. Yeah,

1097
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 2: you know, I know.

1098
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: Literally after charge mine, literally after I got done using

1099
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: the toy, I text her like, what the fuck was that?

1100
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: Like what the fuck was that? Like it got crazy?

1101
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 2: You donna start using it? Why you?

1102
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 1: Next time I have sex with whoever the lucky man

1103
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: is pick a number. Honestly, at this point, the next

1104
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:27,240
Speaker 1: guy I have sex with, I'm.

1105
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 2: Definite gonna use it. I have to. I have to.

1106
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 2: And the thing about the line to it looked like

1107
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 2: a clarasonic.

1108
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: I pull that out a nigga gonna be like, what the.

1109
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 2: Fuck is that?

1110
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: Yours is cute and little, cute and little, But like

1111
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,400
Speaker 1: I said, I like the fact that it doesn't like

1112
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: vibrate too hard, because I said I hate toys that

1113
00:49:57,719 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 1: vibrate too hard.

1114
00:49:58,520 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 2: Is I feel like you start to like.

1115
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: Your vagina, and you know it makes it hard for

1116
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: a man to keep up with. This is the perfect

1117
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: thing for people to use, like I cannot wait to

1118
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: use it in the bedroom. So yes, the bed today

1119
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 1: is my toy. Review of the air post satisfied.

1120
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,479
Speaker 2: So how many speeds does yours have? Mine have like ten?

1121
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 2: I think it's like four. Mine has ten? Mm mm hmmm.

1122
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 3: I accidentally put it on ten. It almost passed out,

1123
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 3: almost went to heavey. Accidentally almost took me up the game.

1124
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,760
Speaker 2: I said, hold the fuck up. It was an.

1125
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 3: Accident because I was trying to figure out how to

1126
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 3: turn it off and he went up to ten and

1127
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 3: I was just people ever.

1128
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 1: Put like a camera in our rooms? Bro, I would

1129
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 1: be so embarrassed.

1130
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 2: I do some embarrassing things at home. Were gonna even

1131
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 2: talk about it?

1132
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: Very shameful, it is, so yes, I'm gonna put the

1133
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: link for that in the description Boxcuse y'all need that.

1134
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: I need to figure out how can because I'm gonna

1135
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: tell y'all right now, I'm gonna put the description in

1136
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: the box when I make sure I get some kind

1137
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:02,839
Speaker 1: of check from it too, because y'all about to buy

1138
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 1: the fuck out that motherfucker because that motherfucker did with

1139
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 1: it out.

1140
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie behind it too, but yeah,

1141
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 3: I would tell y'all I should never see the name

1142
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 3: of the other one because they need to pay us too.

1143
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 2: Because that shit worked good. I ain't gonna lie. It

1144
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 2: was like two hundred dollars.

1145
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: So the one that, oh, the one that you bought

1146
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: Tracy's dog, or maybe it wasn't two hundred.

1147
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 2: Maybe it was like a hundred. Maybe I'm enough, I

1148
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 2: don't know, but Tracy did think a hundred dollars. It

1149
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: was one hundred dollars. Maybe I'm gonna be humbling my.

1150
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: Pillow for it works so good. It worked so goodly. Yes,

1151
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: but it's like double penetration. I mean not double penetration.

1152
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: It's doing two things at one time, like he's fucking

1153
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: on heal cly and he got the little park extremely horny.

1154
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 2: Makes it be like twelve hundred dollars. I'm a giddy.

1155
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 2: That ain't that bad. I would never buy no toylet's

1156
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:04,439
Speaker 2: twelve hundred dollars. Oh, I'm okay. So now we're gonna

1157
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: get into the byp A the by A the bop. Okay,

1158
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: So switching up gears a little bit.

1159
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: I made my Bop of the Week this week because

1160
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:16,280
Speaker 1: I wanted to dedicate it to someone.

1161
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: Uh this girl. No, no, not like that.

1162
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,280
Speaker 1: Oh well, this girl she's she was actually from Houston

1163
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: and she was a singer, and she recently passed away

1164
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: in a car accident. And somebody has sent me her music,

1165
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: Like y'all send me music all the time, and I

1166
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: love that, thank y'all. So somebody had actually sent me

1167
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: her music and they was like, man, this girl's from Houston.

1168
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: She could sing really good. She had a lot of

1169
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: good music. But you know, unfortunately she passed away recently.

1170
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: But I just wanted you to, you know, listen.

1171
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 2: To her stuff.

1172
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: And I went through her music and I was actually like, damn,

1173
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: this girl man, really yeah, she could really and it's

1174
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 1: so sad and unfortunate that, you know, that's this is

1175
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,919
Speaker 1: how I had to hear about her. But her name

1176
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,280
Speaker 1: is jay Renee. She has a song called safe Place,

1177
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: and it's just.

1178
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 2: Like, you know, it hit a little home for me.

1179
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1180
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 1: It's basically talking about somebody who's tired of being strong

1181
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,560
Speaker 1: and they just want to be with somebody who's their

1182
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: safe place, like they just want to be vulnerable and

1183
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: let their guards now. And it's crazy because her cousin

1184
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 1: is Ari Lennox, So her and Ari had did a

1185
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: song together. I guess before she passed that they're putting together.

1186
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: They're putting together her last project that they're gonna release soon.

1187
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,879
Speaker 1: So she has a song dropping with Ri Lennox really soon.

1188
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, she was from Houston and she passed away,

1189
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: So shout out to her, prayers up to her and

1190
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 1: her family. Super talented. She was only nineteen. When I

1191
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 1: tell you that girl could sing, I was like, damn girl.

1192
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: She sound like me.

1193
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:42,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember like seeing that when it happened. Yeah,

1194
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: it was really really sad.

1195
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 2: Instagram it happened a few months ago. Yeah, but her

1196
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 2: name is jay Renee. That's j A e r e

1197
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:49,359
Speaker 2: n E.

1198
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: And the song is called safe Place, Like I said,

1199
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: shout out to her and prayers up to her family.

1200
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:58,439
Speaker 1: Super talented girl, very beautiful. So yes, we gonna live

1201
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: make sure her music lives on the poor crew because

1202
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: we don't get her period. What's your bob girl?

1203
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 3: So my Bob of the Week is a song by

1204
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 3: Ja Cole featuring a little baby you know, shout out

1205
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 3: to joy. He part of the poor cruis. So he

1206
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 3: has a song with a little baby called Pride.

1207
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 2: Is the Devil. I ain't it though, it is? It is.

1208
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 2: It's a good song, y'all know. I love love Baby and.

1209
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: Little Baby went by al yesterday and I could not

1210
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 1: stop laughing. He was doing something now and he was like, hey,

1211
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: it's a little baby here.

1212
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 2: You need see that. No, he was like, hey, it's

1213
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 2: a little baby, please see you guys. He did not

1214
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,760
Speaker 2: do that. I swear do it again.

1215
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: Hey, it's a little baby here. She said it just

1216
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 1: like that. I swear I'm not making this song, bro,

1217
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

1218
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:54,919
Speaker 3: Anyways, I love y'all, I love little Baby ed I've

1219
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 3: had a little Baby bop in a minute. But I

1220
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 3: also fuck with Ja Cole like so, I'm so excited

1221
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 3: that he has a new project.

1222
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 2: And like I said, he a poor boy.

1223
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: Hey, yes, she took up the check and he was

1224
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:09,399
Speaker 1: out there hoopid too.

1225
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 2: He was, he was, we see you out there bawling.

1226
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,919
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into our my favorite saying

1227
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 1: this is your favorite segment.

1228
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:18,800
Speaker 2: This is my first question.

1229
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 3: Y'all love the questions because y'all.

1230
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So make sure if you want your question answered

1231
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: on the show, you email us at ask Poor Minds

1232
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. That's a s kp oh you

1233
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: are in my n d s at gmail dot com.

1234
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,880
Speaker 1: If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that

1235
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 1: in the subject so we know to you know, push

1236
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 1: it up ahead.

1237
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 2: All right, So question number one, Hey ladies.

1238
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 1: A year before I got married, my husband had this

1239
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: female associate he was cool with. One day, I saw

1240
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: a message from her saying she wished she could send

1241
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: him nudes and sent her our and he sent her

1242
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 1: our address. Nothing took place, they were flirting. I guess

1243
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,800
Speaker 1: I've met the girl once before. These we all have

1244
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: brush together. I forgave him and told him I didn't

1245
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: want him speaking to her because I felt disrespected. The

1246
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 1: girl and us have a mutual friend, so we end

1247
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 1: up at the same events occasionally. I told him I

1248
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 1: don't want him speaking to her, but he tells me

1249
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: stop being insecure because nothing is going on. I feel

1250
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: disrespected by their actions, and I feel like I'm the

1251
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: odd man out at events because they're all talking and

1252
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 1: I feel awkward. I feel my man is supposed to

1253
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:25,720
Speaker 1: stand by my side and listen to me again.

1254
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 2: Am I being insecure? Or are my feelings justified? What

1255
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 2: should I do?

1256
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: Your feelings are valid? Let me tell you something. Yeah,

1257
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship with somebody, if I tell

1258
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: you it bothers me when you do a certain thing,

1259
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: that's not your place to tell me you're tripping. My

1260
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: feelings are valid and you need to recognize that. That's

1261
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: where miscommunication comes. Just because you feel like it's silly

1262
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 1: and it's dumb, that's not your place to feel like.

1263
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: So he needs to definitely be by your side if

1264
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: you feel I'm comfortable with him talking. Your friendship with

1265
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: that girl is not that important you You have a

1266
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 1: wife and that you made vows to her, So that

1267
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: situation where her needs to be dead because I feel you.

1268
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,359
Speaker 1: I don't want my husband talking to somebody who tried

1269
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: to send him news and you sending him our address

1270
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 1: and shit like that. So yes, your feelings are justified,

1271
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: and he needs to understand that, even if it's nothing

1272
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: going on, you don't feel secure in this situation.

1273
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 2: So he needs to cut it off. She ain't that

1274
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 2: good of a friend.

1275
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 3: He'll be all I mean, he could find more friends

1276
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 3: that are more respectful exactly, all relationship y'all's married.

1277
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 1: I one hundred percent agree with you. I definitely feel

1278
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: like you need to did the hell now. It would

1279
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 1: be different if it was like a friend that they

1280
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: never had nothing going on, they've always been friends, then

1281
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: that would be like, okay, sis, you need to relax.

1282
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 2: But the fact of the matter is y'all saying, y'all

1283
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 2: to send him news.

1284
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: Exactly, y'all have had sexual conversations before.

1285
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: That shit needs to be dead, right because I've been in.

1286
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: A relationship before where a guy asked me to stop

1287
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:00,840
Speaker 1: talking to somebody and I could understand because we had

1288
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: had sex before. Mind you, Now, the relationship was splotonic

1289
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: and we weren't like that, but I get it.

1290
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,160
Speaker 2: So I cut the situation off.

1291
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: I let him know, Hey, my dude doesn't feel comfortable

1292
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: with me hanging out with you, talking to you, no disrespect,

1293
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: but this is just what it is.

1294
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 2: Nigga was like, okay, cool. I mean, yeah, I got.

1295
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 3: Cut off by one of my ex boyfriends that I

1296
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 3: was really cool but I was cool with or whatever.

1297
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 2: Like we were like really really close, really really close.

1298
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 3: We were like best friends and he had to cut

1299
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 3: me off because his baby.

1300
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 2: My mom was like, no, m I would.

1301
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: Have said the special things you've seen them them pictures.

1302
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh No, I would have went to your Instagram and.

1303
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 1: Said, oh h oh image your nigga be like, yeah,

1304
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: this's my best friend, Drean the cold.

1305
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 2: Let me go see boy, you got me fun look crazy.

1306
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 3: But I will say this, in my defense, that situation

1307
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 3: was very unfair though, because in my defense, I had

1308
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 3: not had sex with my ex boyfriend since we were

1309
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 3: like twenty and this was like when I was like

1310
00:58:58,920 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 3: twenty seven.

1311
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:02,920
Speaker 2: Twenty eight. She know, she know, she obviously don't know.

1312
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: She saying she know that she needs to protect her man,

1313
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: and she donna stick beside.

1314
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 2: Him, protect him from one. Though I didn't want him,

1315
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 2: he wanted me exactly, I see exactly. That's even one.

1316
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 1: That's not worse though, because can't nothing happen if I

1317
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 1: don't allow it to happen.

1318
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 2: And I was kind of I was still holding on

1319
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 2: to a little hope.

1320
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 3: But still it's like it didn't matter because he had

1321
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 3: been holding on to their hope before she came.

1322
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: Into the picture. But I want him, right, so you

1323
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 2: didn't care.

1324
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 1: But on her end, she saw her man confiding in

1325
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: another woman that wasn't her, having feelings with another woman

1326
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,919
Speaker 1: that wasn't her, even though your feelings weren't there.

1327
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, you got to go. That she was fucked up.

1328
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 2: He really gave me the booth. Bitch, you got to go.

1329
00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 2: You and that heath clipped and the perfect little supple

1330
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 2: tentis talking to my man.

1331
00:59:52,040 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 4: You laughing on facetip, girl, be laughing at my man.

1332
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 2: He is not that funny, but still kind of sad

1333
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 2: about that. Away, keep me anonymous.

1334
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:12,720
Speaker 3: I guess I just enjoy corresponding with y'all, so lend

1335
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 3: me your eyes. What do you say to a guy

1336
01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 3: that's been dipping in a pussy for years and then

1337
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 3: starts making comments like you got a deep pussy, or

1338
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 3: I can't hit bottom.

1339
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 2: But when we.

1340
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 3: First started fucking years ago, he would come in it's

1341
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 3: so tight, or he would not be able to push

1342
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 3: back in right after he pulled out, and he would

1343
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 3: say it's too tight and I can't get back in.

1344
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 3: Now he says that I'm deep and he can't touch bottom.

1345
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 3: And when I squeeze his deck with my pussy, he says,

1346
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 3: I can only do that because there's extra space.

1347
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,919
Speaker 2: Bro. I'm sorry, I'm not trying to laugh, I swear.

1348
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's the commentary in the background, like something

1349
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 1: is wrong with princess shnigga, please not snigger?

1350
01:00:55,440 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 2: Not before before and who is I guess princess? We

1351
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 2: see prince?

1352
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 3: Okay, Now, before I met him, I was strictly missionary

1353
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 3: what I was getting ahead, but not giving head. No cowgirl,

1354
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 3: no sixty eight or sixty nine, no DOGI nothing. So

1355
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 3: he was my first sexual liberation situation. But while he

1356
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 3: was introducing me to all those x at first, he

1357
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 3: now wants to imply that I was experienced with all

1358
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 3: that before we met.

1359
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 2: I don't care what he says.

1360
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 3: I know for myself and there is not a dude

1361
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 3: out there other than him that I can say participated

1362
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 3: in anything other than missionary and getting head. Seriously, and

1363
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 3: I was thirty three when we met. It took time.

1364
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 3: It took some months before I started exploring with him.

1365
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 3: I was okay with that because we decided to be exclusive.

1366
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 3: He was overloading me with time and money from the beginning.

1367
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 3: But now he's making those crazy comments. What are your

1368
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 3: thoughts on him saying those things?

1369
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 2: He fucking somebody else.

1370
01:01:56,600 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 1: Dug, your pussy does not change. He don't all of

1371
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: a sudden get loose and then on all of a

1372
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 1: sudden get tight. Your pussy has not changed. He's just

1373
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: fucking somebody else with a tighter pussy.

1374
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:08,120
Speaker 2: Yep.

1375
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,400
Speaker 3: And now he like, why is this ship and not

1376
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,080
Speaker 3: saying y'all shit loose? Yeah, but the other beach shit

1377
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 3: probably just tighter.

1378
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 2: So he's trying to I was.

1379
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 1: Thinking the same, Like, I feel like he's trying to

1380
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 1: move the blame, so you don't be suspicious on what

1381
01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 1: he's doing.

1382
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:28,479
Speaker 2: Niggas, Baby, your princess is the same. Yeah. I'm said

1383
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 2: this before and I'll say it again.

1384
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 3: Women be pushing out seven pound babies out the pussy

1385
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 3: and then after they had a baby, they pussy goup

1386
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 3: ex normal. You mean to tell me that y'all pussy

1387
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 3: done got loose. They all you've been doing is fucking

1388
01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 3: these niggas for the past few years.

1389
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 2: No, he's flatter himself.

1390
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like like that even if he

1391
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 1: even if he's not fucking somebody else, something is going on.

1392
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 2: But it has nothing to do with your vagina. Like,

1393
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 2: I think that's bullshit. That that's just fucking weird. Like,

1394
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I would stop talking to him though,

1395
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:00,439
Speaker 2: because that's rue.

1396
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, why would you say this to me talking

1397
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: about I.

1398
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 2: Gotta lose pussy boy? You got some niggas, you.

1399
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 4: A fucking nerves talk about That's what I'm saying. Your

1400
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 4: dig mustle trunk bitch, that's what you need to say.

1401
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 2: The motherfucking audacity. I'm telling you.

1402
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm telling you no, it sins you good. It's definitely

1403
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 1: him trying to play you on.

1404
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 2: She stopped talking to him.

1405
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: Yes, okay. Question three. I'm a newly wed. My husband

1406
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: and I got married in the middle of the pandemic.

1407
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: What was supposed to be a joyous occasion for me

1408
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,840
Speaker 1: was a nightmare from hell from the beginning. Yes, I

1409
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: got to marry the love of my life, but my friends,

1410
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 1: who are supposed to be my supporters outside of family,

1411
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,680
Speaker 1: made things very difficult. From planning my bridle shower to

1412
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: picking dressings, et cetera. It seemed like everything was an issue.

1413
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: They even began to clash with my mom, which I

1414
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: felt like could have been resolved if they were truly

1415
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,560
Speaker 1: my friends. Despite the fact that I canceled my big

1416
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: wedding to the pandemic. My two friends, one being my

1417
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: maid of honor and the other a bridesmaid, decided to

1418
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 1: take me on a trip in the US, which was

1419
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 1: supposed to feel like a bachelorette trip, but when I

1420
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:12,919
Speaker 1: got there, it felt like it was mostly about them

1421
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: and not me.

1422
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 2: It felt forced.

1423
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: Did I mention that my maid of honor had a

1424
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 1: bad attitude when she came to an event I planned

1425
01:04:19,360 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 1: for my bridal party to ask her to be a

1426
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 1: part of my wedding. I still struggled with whether or

1427
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,400
Speaker 1: not she's actually happy for me or being a hater.

1428
01:04:27,720 --> 01:04:29,919
Speaker 1: She's very moody, so sometimes she can be a friend

1429
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 1: and other times I'm like, who are you like you?

1430
01:04:32,920 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 2: Drea? I'm a person. Oh, she's saying, like you like you, Drea.

1431
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm a person who doesn't feel like I need people,

1432
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: and my friends noticed that. So I have been very

1433
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 1: staying offish for the past several months. I need to

1434
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,280
Speaker 1: know is it worth having a conversation. If so, how

1435
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 1: should I approach it?

1436
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 2: Thank you?

1437
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 3: I feel like, if you really fuck with her, yeah,

1438
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 3: it's definitely worth having a conversation about it. To me,

1439
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 3: That's what always makes the difference for me about talking

1440
01:04:59,160 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 3: to people about things.

1441
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 2: This is like how much do I really fuck with you?

1442
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 3: Like, if I really fuck with you and I don't

1443
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 3: want to lose the relationship, don't want to lose the friendship, well,

1444
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to have a conversation with you about it,

1445
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 3: and then whatever I'm talking to you about, if it

1446
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 3: continues to proceed after I have a conversation with you,

1447
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 3: then okay, I'm probably not gonna fuck with you no more.

1448
01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 3: But if you just be giving me hater vibes and

1449
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 3: you just don't make me feel good when I'm around you, bach,

1450
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 3: we don't really need to have a conversation because I

1451
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 3: already know, like I already see what it is. People

1452
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 3: could say whatever the fuck they want to say. I'm

1453
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:30,439
Speaker 3: very big on these people could say whatever the fuck

1454
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 3: they want to say. But actions do not lie. So

1455
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 3: sometimes if you feel like somebody being a hater is

1456
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 3: because they are a hater.

1457
01:05:36,320 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 2: Because I feel like this they are.

1458
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 1: If Drena decided to marry somebody tomorrow, then I do

1459
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:44,480
Speaker 1: not like if she knows that I don't like this person,

1460
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: you know what if they decided to go through and it,

1461
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 1: we have to broader party, bachelorette party, whatever.

1462
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:51,280
Speaker 2: You know what, because that's what I'm doing.

1463
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: This point is happening, so I need to put my

1464
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: personal feelings aside and celebrate the fact that my friend

1465
01:05:56,920 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 1: is getting married. So the fact that she couldn't shut

1466
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 1: the fuck up and just be happy, I.

1467
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 2: Don't like that. Ya, don do not like that.

1468
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 3: And it might not be that she's hating, you know

1469
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 3: what I mean. Maybe she's just she's not happy. Either way,

1470
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 3: she's not happy for you, And we don't have no

1471
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:18,240
Speaker 3: room for unsupportive friends in one and beyond, we don't

1472
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:18,840
Speaker 3: have room for that.

1473
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: So how should she approach it? So you should have

1474
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:22,960
Speaker 1: a conversation how she.

1475
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 3: Think that she should sit and reflect on her friendship

1476
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 3: with the person and think if she really feels like

1477
01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:31,280
Speaker 3: it's an important friendship for her to keep, If she

1478
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 3: feels like it's something that she wants to keep, then

1479
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 3: have the conversation. If not, cut her off because you're

1480
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 3: not tripping about feeling like she's hating, that's for sure,

1481
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It was definitely some funny

1482
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 3: shit going on, right, So now you have to be like, Okay,

1483
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 3: how important is this relationships?

1484
01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 2: Right? And then proceed and then going back to what

1485
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 2: I was saying earlier.

1486
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times, to all of our listeners,

1487
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 1: whenever you have a problem with somebody, or whenever somebody

1488
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:56,439
Speaker 1: has a problem with you and they approach you like, hey,

1489
01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: you made me feel this way, we need to stop

1490
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: and validating how people feel because I know whenever she

1491
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:04,040
Speaker 1: sits down with this friend, she don't.

1492
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:05,400
Speaker 2: Be like no I did. And that's what I was

1493
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 2: about say to what you're talking about. That's what I

1494
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:08,560
Speaker 2: was about to say.

1495
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes to me, having a conversation with somebody is just

1496
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: another opportunity for you to let them play you again.

1497
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 3: And then what do you have a conversation They gonna say, Oh,

1498
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, y'all didn't mean to make you feel that way.

1499
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 3: Are you gonna forgive them because you fuck with them?

1500
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 3: And then two months later, three months later, they're gonna

1501
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 3: do the same shit.

1502
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 1: But not only that, A lot of times this is

1503
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:29,880
Speaker 1: what people do. Hey, you did this that bothered me?

1504
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 1: Oh well, I didn't say nothing when you did this, right,

1505
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 1: that's not your opportunity to bring up something that you've

1506
01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: been harboring over for three, four or five months.

1507
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,919
Speaker 2: This part said it what she just said that back then.

1508
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 1: So, yeah, don't let people try to play you when

1509
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 1: you have this conversation with her. Make sure y'all keep

1510
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 1: it on y'all's issue at hand and not don't let

1511
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 1: her try to bring up other issues. I don't let

1512
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: her try to be like I wasn't tripping like you know,

1513
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:56,440
Speaker 1: so a lot of times it's.

1514
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:59,480
Speaker 3: Your wedding, so exactly, like that's one of the biggest

1515
01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 3: things that's happen to you in your life, and your

1516
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 3: friend was not being supportive of that something like that.

1517
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 3: I don't know me personally, I probably would stop being

1518
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 3: friends with the person, but I'm not you.

1519
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:11,360
Speaker 2: You got to see and reflect, like I.

1520
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 3: Said, on how much that relationship is important to you,

1521
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 3: how much do you really value her friendship? And then

1522
01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 3: if you feel like it's something worth working on, have

1523
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:22,479
Speaker 3: the conversation with her. But I feel like when people

1524
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 3: do this like she deal do it again. So next question, Hey,

1525
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 3: I've been in a bless you. Hey, I've been in

1526
01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:32,639
Speaker 3: a relationship for a few years and the whole time

1527
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 3: my heart has been split between my men and my

1528
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 3: close friend. O.

1529
01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 2: What is some tea when I'm with my man?

1530
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:40,560
Speaker 1: I mean, when I'm with my friend, I feel the

1531
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 1: butterflies and all that, and I truly think I'm in

1532
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: love with him. When I'm with my man, I only

1533
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: feel that on occasion, and I try to force my

1534
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:49,799
Speaker 1: feelings because I want to keep our family together.

1535
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:52,679
Speaker 3: Yes, we have a daughter. How do I get over

1536
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:54,920
Speaker 3: my feelings for my friend? Or should I just be

1537
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:55,400
Speaker 3: with him?

1538
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 2: Ps?

1539
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 3: I feel more stable with my man and can build

1540
01:08:58,280 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 3: the life I want with him. With my friend, I

1541
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 3: know he'll give me the world.

1542
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 2: I'm torn. What would you do? I'm not a risk

1543
01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 2: taker wwld, I'm not. So I feel like you should

1544
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 2: stick beside him.

1545
01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 1: You're stay because you know what, a lot of times

1546
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 1: people confuse us with love. So I feel like something

1547
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:27,679
Speaker 1: in your relationship is missing, and your friend might.

1548
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 2: Just be fulfeeling it temporarily.

1549
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:33,280
Speaker 1: So you're feeling something that you're mistaking for love because

1550
01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:36,559
Speaker 1: something in your relationship is missing. I never suggest somebody

1551
01:09:36,680 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: leave somebody for somebody else. If you leave somebody, it

1552
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,240
Speaker 1: needs to be because it's not working between y'all. Don't

1553
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: leave somebody because you just have feelings for somebody else.

1554
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: It's normal. We're humans. We're not just gonna be in

1555
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,639
Speaker 1: love with one person and not be attracted to another

1556
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:53,800
Speaker 1: person or like another person. That's normal, But just to

1557
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 1: completely end a relationship just because you have feelings for

1558
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 1: this person, I don't think this.

1559
01:09:58,600 --> 01:09:59,400
Speaker 2: I do agree.

1560
01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 3: I agree with that, but I don't agree with the

1561
01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 3: part that you said where she might not be in

1562
01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 3: love with him because being at their friends, Maybe she

1563
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 3: really is in love with him, Like maybe over the

1564
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 3: years she's really grown strong feelings for him and she

1565
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 3: realized that her feelings for him are stronger than they

1566
01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 3: are for her men.

1567
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 2: I agree with you in not.

1568
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 3: Leaving her men for the friends, but I do feel

1569
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 3: like she could possibly really be in love with her

1570
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 3: for all the time.

1571
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, it does, But I'll say this, Like I said,

1572
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:27,200
Speaker 1: she might be confusing her feelings because her relationship is

1573
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: missing something. You see what I'm saying, But like she

1574
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 1: might be feeling like, oh, I love him just.

1575
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:36,440
Speaker 2: Because her husband is not giving.

1576
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 3: Her certain I think you should leave y'r man for him.

1577
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 3: But maybe y'all should take a break.

1578
01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 2: Aren't they married? Can marriage people take break? Yeah? You

1579
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 2: can be separated. Oh way, she just said a relationship

1580
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 2: they do. But even if they was married, you could

1581
01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 2: be separated from your party. If I separate, I'm getting

1582
01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 2: big down, I mean.

1583
01:10:55,880 --> 01:10:59,799
Speaker 1: Separate shit, bitch, did I'm getting fucked.

1584
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 2: Don't separate me, bit, don't do it. You probably gonna

1585
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 2: be getting before this sporation.

1586
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:14,000
Speaker 3: But no, I don't think that you shouldn't necessarily, like

1587
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:17,559
Speaker 3: I said, leave him for the friend. But y'all should

1588
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:19,640
Speaker 3: probably take a break just so you can have some

1589
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:22,880
Speaker 3: time to like, really think about what you're going because

1590
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 3: it's obvious that you're confused, and we don't really have

1591
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 3: the answers to give you because.

1592
01:11:28,720 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: We ain't got no ma and girl, and we don't

1593
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 1: know you know. And I ain't gonna I'm not likely

1594
01:11:32,920 --> 01:11:34,599
Speaker 1: cause I'm not gonna tell you stick beside him.

1595
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:39,519
Speaker 3: I'm a stick side because this episode that's mine. No

1596
01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 3: it needs I'm not gonna tell you to do that.

1597
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:46,360
Speaker 3: But I definitely think y'all take a break so you

1598
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 3: can have some time to really think about things, and

1599
01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 3: then you can maybe like with your friend, and I

1600
01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 3: feel guilty.

1601
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 2: Is and she and then you might not even yeah,

1602
01:11:56,640 --> 01:12:00,880
Speaker 2: Dick might be simply I'm then I didn't say that.

1603
01:12:01,280 --> 01:12:02,840
Speaker 2: I don't agree, I believe, but break up with your

1604
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 2: nigga hurt. You don't want to be a cheated Okay.

1605
01:12:08,240 --> 01:12:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm a loyal cheating his licks.

1606
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 2: Okay.

1607
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 1: Yes, So if you want your question answered on the show,

1608
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:18,879
Speaker 1: to make sure you email us at.

1609
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, this is real. Who the hell is day

1610
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 2: not name? Saved them their Disney's name. You're too smoothie.

1611
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 2: I hated here, I've seen it. Who was ya? That's

1612
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 2: what he said to Marian when you want me to

1613
01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 2: deliver in this peace. Anyways, if y'all want your question

1614
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 2: answered on the show, make sure y'all email us at

1615
01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,280
Speaker 2: ask for Mine at gmail dot com. Y'all ready for

1616
01:12:56,320 --> 01:12:58,800
Speaker 2: this song today? Y'all know I always have a story

1617
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:00,719
Speaker 2: behind why I sing a song.

1618
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:04,880
Speaker 1: So y'all know I used to brother how I was

1619
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: kind of like emo in high school and I was just,

1620
01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:10,519
Speaker 1: you know, I wore my ties and I had my

1621
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 1: thick bang.

1622
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:14,320
Speaker 2: That picture that you sposed to had me weak as.

1623
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:17,800
Speaker 1: Fuzzed, so literally, I was like trying to share a

1624
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 1: moment with the listeners and my followers on Twitter. I

1625
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 1: was like, oh, y'all want to see a picture of

1626
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 1: me when I was going through my emo bang, And

1627
01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:25,800
Speaker 1: I was like yes, drug me to hell.

1628
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:30,439
Speaker 2: So if this fuck y'all first you was down, iin't

1629
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I had on Pi lipstick, but I was

1630
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:35,400
Speaker 2: sitting there like this. I was deep.

1631
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: I was a little piercing right here. My head bang

1632
01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: was swooped to perfection.

1633
01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 2: Like this, you know, like get the hair out of

1634
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,400
Speaker 2: the head. He used to shop at Hot Topic and Spencer's.

1635
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 2: Spencer's not so much Hot Topic. I used to love

1636
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:51,599
Speaker 2: hot Tea.

1637
01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:54,440
Speaker 3: It was a little too much for me, like Spencer's

1638
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 3: was worse. Like Spencer's was more emo than Hot Topic.

1639
01:13:57,200 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 1: Well, I like, I like to get little stuff out

1640
01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 1: of Spencer's, like my acessories and stuff. But I don't

1641
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 1: know Hot Top it was a little too like I

1642
01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:06,800
Speaker 1: wasn't emo, like with the black makeup and stuff.

1643
01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:09,560
Speaker 2: I was like the cute emo like I remember.

1644
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:11,760
Speaker 3: I used to buy like the little hair dye the

1645
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 3: manic Panic. Yes, I knew about it, and I used

1646
01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 3: to like die to tip somebody.

1647
01:14:16,320 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 2: And that she used to be everywhere. I had purple

1648
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:19,760
Speaker 2: green I had.

1649
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 1: So yeah, they were like, y'all were like cropping my picture,

1650
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,280
Speaker 1: putting it in front of Spencers, putting it in front

1651
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:25,800
Speaker 1: of Hot Top.

1652
01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 2: They put me like there was.

1653
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 1: Like remember that little mean that had went viral a

1654
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 1: few years ago with all those golf people and they

1655
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 1: were like dancing like they put me in.

1656
01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 2: A corner at the end of the day, at the

1657
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 2: end of the day. That's who I was in the

1658
01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 2: moment to my friend exactly. So this simmon, and I'm

1659
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 2: gonna steik beside. Thank you, you welcome, Thank you friend.

1660
01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 1: So I decided to sing this song because I feel

1661
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 1: like y'all didn't understand me.

1662
01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:02,880
Speaker 2: So this is that give us like more insight? No,

1663
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:04,920
Speaker 2: this to the haters kind of.

1664
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 3: Like into the hitters to the haters like mind you

1665
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:12,960
Speaker 3: fucking business type cheep, okay you ready.

1666
01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 2: Now, I don't think this is a snack, is a

1667
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 2: sapping song?

1668
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:22,759
Speaker 1: Come on, because life's like this uh huh uh huh,

1669
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: because that's the way it is.

1670
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 2: Chill out. What you yelling for, lay back gets all

1671
01:15:31,320 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 2: and done before.

1672
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 5: And if you could only let it be, then you

1673
01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:42,240
Speaker 5: will say I like you the way you are when

1674
01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:47,200
Speaker 5: we're driving in the car and you're talking to me

1675
01:15:47,640 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 5: one on one, but you.

1676
01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:51,840
Speaker 2: Will become somebody else.

1677
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 1: Now everyone else watching your back like you can't relax.

1678
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 2: You're trying to be cool. You look like a fool

1679
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:04,960
Speaker 2: to me, and dream was my friend. Tell me, I

1680
01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:09,800
Speaker 2: just have to gonna make things so complicated. I see the.

1681
01:16:09,920 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 1: Way to making me for Creed.

1682
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 2: Life's like you and you falling, you.

1683
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:23,320
Speaker 1: Crawling and you breaking, and you turn it into honestly,

1684
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:26,040
Speaker 1: you promise me, I'm never gonna find your baby.

1685
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:29,520
Speaker 2: No, no, no.

1686
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:36,800
Speaker 3: That was about everything hot too.

1687
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:45,439
Speaker 1: I'm not going into my face pictures features. Oh somebody said,

1688
01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: I don't know why dre laughing like she wasn't posting

1689
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 1: her on her baby fat the other day.

1690
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 2: I said, first of all, first of all, I did

1691
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 2: used to wear baby feed. I ain't posting pictures in it.

1692
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 3: So I know you liked to be be said Roe,

1693
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 3: we're down, don't play with me South post c I

1694
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:07,519
Speaker 3: t I City trains, don't play.

1695
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:09,880
Speaker 2: I definitely needs to be in the beach, all right.

1696
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,680
Speaker 2: Shout out to Alva Levine. She got me through some

1697
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:14,640
Speaker 2: hard time. She got me through some hard time. So

1698
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:17,400
Speaker 2: I used to like Panic get the disco though personally,

1699
01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 2: now you're getting in your bag. Now I'm getting in

1700
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:21,519
Speaker 2: my bag.

1701
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 1: When I used to listen to Panic at the disco,

1702
01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:23,720
Speaker 1: that's when I.

1703
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:29,600
Speaker 2: Would take my pictures like and evan essence. I was

1704
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:34,200
Speaker 2: deep in my emo bag'll playing with me. It was

1705
01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 2: both of us. It was I said, I used to

1706
01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:38,000
Speaker 2: be shopping at hot topics. I used to warn a

1707
01:17:38,040 --> 01:17:41,240
Speaker 2: little chains on my jeans and she okay, bitch, now

1708
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:48,599
Speaker 2: you too far. I did a movement with my vans on,

1709
01:17:48,800 --> 01:17:52,360
Speaker 2: but they look like sneakers. Thank y'all so much for

1710
01:17:52,439 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 2: tuning in. We will see y'all next week. Make sure

1711
01:17:56,240 --> 01:17:57,439
Speaker 2: that you go to buy poor.

1712
01:17:57,360 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 1: Mines dot com if you haven't already, and get your

1713
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:00,240
Speaker 1: merch bright.

1714
01:18:02,360 --> 01:18:05,040
Speaker 2: Can you please? Can you please make that the dumb

1715
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 2: nail alight here?

1716
01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:17,160
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god, it's soul like blaby Poor Avril.

1717
01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 2: Why you say poor her? I don't know where she