1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: And I think once something is out there and it's 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: not refuted at that moment, it's easy for people to 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: kind of hang their hats on that hook. 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: Stay tuned, we'll get into this conversation right after these 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 2: quick ass Hey rain Drops of Today's Reality with the 6 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: King podcast, I am joined by one of the stars 7 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: of Marriage to Medicine, Yes. 8 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 3: Honey, the whimsic called missus Quad. 9 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: On this episode, we get into why I think Quad 10 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 2: is one of the most underrated stars on Bravo. 11 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: Do you all agree? 12 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 2: We also talk about whether or not she is sleeping with. 13 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 3: The merried man sinshy'all love to spread that rumor. 14 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: In addition to that, we talk about her relationships with 15 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 2: the other cast members, and last but not least, I 16 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 2: give Quad are her flowers and I want you to 17 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 2: hear why without further ado, here is my conversation with Quad. 18 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 3: Hey, Miss Quad, what the people doing? Miss Quad? Child? 19 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: The people are always very busy, Honna, but just not 20 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: busier than me. 21 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:23,639 Speaker 4: Yes, how are you, Carlos? How were you baby? 22 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 3: I'm good, I'm good. 23 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: Look let's just get right into it. So rain Drops, Look, 24 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 2: I love me some, Miss Quad. I've known Miss Quad 25 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: for years, and let me tell the people, she has 26 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: always been this way. I have friends who went to 27 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 2: high school with Miss Quad, and when I first saw 28 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: Married to Medicine. 29 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: Because she was the breakout star, I was like, who 30 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 3: is this bitch? 31 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: And they said, we went to school with her, and 32 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: she has always been that way. 33 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: You are an icon. 34 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 2: And listen, I don't say shit to gas the girls 35 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: up people not keep it real ms Quad. 36 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 3: Yes, you're an icon. 37 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 4: Thank you. 38 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 2: I appreciate your legend and reality television. You are a 39 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: formidable player. You are everything into the world of not 40 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: just reality television, not just Marriage to Medicine, but in the. 41 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 3: World of pop culture. And I feel like Miss. 42 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: Quad, you may be the most underrated star on Bravos. 43 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: Oh honey, ya honey, Yeah, around the bass, honey for 44 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: the king and get into it the fall face first first, 45 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: and foremost. I do want to say thank you, so 46 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 1: so very much for even acknowledging that often when on 47 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: whatever scale we excel on or excel in, we often 48 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: don't even hear someone say you know what, I see you, 49 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 1: and we most certainly don't get our peers to celebrate us. 50 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: So I'm truly grateful for hearing that. I know you've 51 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: been in this business for a number of years, and 52 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: of course we met upteen years ago. 53 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 4: Baby down to the South Atlanta. 54 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: You came over to my home, and you know you 55 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: just gave me a different outlook on producers. Let me 56 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: start there, but to see how you have grown over 57 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: your career and to see where you are now, I 58 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: have to stop and say I am grateful to hear 59 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: those words from you, because you've seen a lot of 60 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: talent come and go. 61 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 4: I am also. 62 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: Extremely proud and immensely happy for your accomplishments. 63 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 4: So hats off to you too. 64 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 3: Thank you, Miss Quad. No and listen. 65 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 2: This podcast is an opportunity for my listeners to get 66 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: to know my friends, and I talk to people who 67 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: I may have met for the first time on this podcast, 68 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 2: but the majority of my guests have been my friends. 69 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 2: And I remember years ago, guys, me and Miss Quad 70 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: Bitch had a nice key key at the W Hotel 71 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 2: in Los Angeles. And I want to say this show 72 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 2: was on maybe for two seasons, but ms Quad was 73 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: the breakout star of maritime medicine, and I know that 74 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 2: made a few girls mad. 75 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: And we'll get into that later. 76 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: However, do you feel that if you weren't on Bravo, 77 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: do you think you would be the face of another 78 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:43,119 Speaker 2: network with the personality, the characteristics and the success you had. 79 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 2: Because one thing that I've learned from talking to a 80 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: lot of maritime medicine stars, all of them have said 81 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 2: they feel like the step children of the Real Housewives 82 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 2: of Atlanta. And I sometimes wonder if you were on 83 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 2: another network, would you be the face of that network? 84 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 4: I most certainly do think so. 85 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: I think that, you know, listen, Bravo is a huge machine. 86 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: Bravo has birth a lot of reality shows have had 87 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: tremendous success in the franchise of the Housewives, and I 88 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: do think because it is a huge franchise. I mean, 89 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: you have Potomic, you have Atlanta, you have Beverly Hills, 90 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: you have New York, you have New Jersey and so 91 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: forth and so on. I think that with us being 92 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: a standalone show, we kind of get pushed to the back, 93 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: right because you gotta just let's just be real. If 94 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: I'm talking to you about New York, I still may 95 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: think of New Jersey. If I'm talking to you about Miami, 96 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: I still may think of Atlanta because it is a 97 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: larger It's a larger Adam, should I say something that 98 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: takes up space? Okay, so that's kind of how. 99 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 4: I see it. 100 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 2: No, And look, I'm went on the record saying this, 101 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: and I will say this because I like to keep 102 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 2: it real. Marathon Medicine is the best show on Bravo period, 103 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: and it's the best show on Bravo that I feel 104 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 2: like you guys aren't giving enough time and attition in 105 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 2: terms of watching it. It has an all star, stellar cast. 106 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: I believe the friendships. I believe the relationships even when 107 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 2: they're fractured and their shade. You guys hang out off camera. 108 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 2: I know all of the girls. The only one I 109 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 2: haven't met is doctor Simone. Outside of her, I'm friends 110 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 2: with all the girls and they hang out off camera. 111 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 2: When when I watched this past season. By the way, congratulations, 112 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 2: it was a great season. 113 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 4: Thank you. 114 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 2: Last season was weird for me. I'm just being honest 115 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:54,119 Speaker 2: because ms Quad miss Quad was not a full time 116 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 2: cast member, and I don't think there's a Meriti Medicine 117 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: without Quad. Toya Hemily and I think is just like 118 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:07,119 Speaker 2: the mainstay who keeps things grounded. What happened to where 119 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 2: you weren't a full time cast member last season. 120 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 4: That's a really great question. 121 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: So when we're speaking about season eight, you all, so, 122 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: I don't want you to get it confused with season 123 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: nine because they came back and had to check right 124 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: early on season nine. 125 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 4: Okay, so. 126 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know season eight, You know, it was a 127 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: lot of going back and forward. It was a lot 128 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: of trying to work out the minutia of the deal 129 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: and you know, hey, it didn't come across. You know, 130 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: we couldn't agree on a number, and so guess what. 131 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: They filmed two weeks I mean, I'm sorry, two months 132 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: into the season and then they had to come back 133 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: to the doll and say, hold on, ma'am, ma'am wait 134 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: a minute, ma'am, man, we gonna need. 135 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 4: You to come back. 136 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: But for me, you know, where I saw that some 137 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: of my castmates may have cheered that on or rallied 138 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: behind it and was very happy, like, oh the. 139 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 4: Bitches go on. That bitch is God, She's out of here. 140 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 4: You know. Honestly, for me, it actually was a. 141 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: Setback for set up because it allowed people to see 142 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: my value. It allowed people at the networks and the 143 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: executives of our production company to say, hold on, now, 144 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: did we make the right decision here? 145 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 4: Who couldn't get who could get the numbers right? 146 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 3: Who was it? 147 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: And so you know, and so for me, I accepted 148 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 1: that just fine, and it worked out in my favor 149 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: because we saw how it was without me, and then 150 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: we see how it is with me. If you go 151 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: back to episode one of this season of Married to 152 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 1: Medicine Reunion, I got to tell you a one hour 153 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: show is only really forty five minutes. You got fifteen 154 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: minutes you correct me if I'm wrong, callers yet fifteen 155 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: minutes of ads and promo, and you know the. 156 00:08:55,800 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 4: Bills are being paid well. After Andy's pleasantry, so hey, 157 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 4: how you doing today? And how are you doctor Jack? 158 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 4: And miss Quad? What is it given today? And did 159 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 4: Mason give you some type of advice today? And oh 160 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 4: I like your shoes? 161 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: And after all the pleasantries was over, it immediately went 162 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: in on Miss Quad and it stayed there for a 163 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: good twenty minutes, twenty. 164 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 4: Minutes seriously, and then they gave me a little break. 165 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: They went over there to Aniela Hunter and let her 166 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: fuss and all you with the children, And after the 167 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 1: ten minutes happened, they got right back on me, and 168 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: then it was me going up against. 169 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 4: Heavenly and me going up against Toy. 170 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: So I got to tell you, probably like thirty two 171 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: minutes of the first episode of the reunion was really 172 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: kind of around me. So we got me with thirty 173 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: two minutes, Aniela with ten minutes. We're now at forty 174 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: two minutes, and so we got three minutes to promote 175 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: watch what Happens Live. 176 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm just saying we got so So now we 177 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 4: have three minutes to promote Watch what Happens Live and 178 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 4: then give a little caveat to the next part two 179 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 4: of the reunion, and then the show was over. So 180 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 4: for those of you who are wondering, why is miss 181 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 4: Quiet still here? 182 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: She ain't even married, she ain't even know doctor, she 183 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: ain't married to no doctause, she can't find a mask. 184 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 4: She need to go. Do you really want me to go? 185 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 3: No? 186 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 1: And for those on my on my cast who who 187 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: was rallying for that, because there were some, I just 188 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: want them to understand that, baby, I helped the merry 189 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: go round go around, and so that means I'm helping 190 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: to put coins in your pocket. So you might not 191 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 1: like me but think about yourself when you're trying to 192 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: shade and push me off the show. 193 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 2: May I ask you were all the cast members except 194 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 2: heavenly happy that you weren't back the first two months 195 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: of filming? 196 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,439 Speaker 4: And I don't think it was all of them. No, No, 197 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 4: it was not. It was not. It was one in particular. 198 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 4: And then I think, well, maybe how you know all 199 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 4: the teeth? Baby? 200 00:10:56,440 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: Can't baby heck reality TV. 201 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 4: Comos you know all the tea? 202 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 1: Yes, if it was most certainly her, it was most 203 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: certainly her. She had a fit when they said, oh 204 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: my god, we got to go back, we gotta get 205 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: miss Squad and honey, she just had a She damn 206 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: and had a stroke. She damned the stroke down. Baby 207 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: had to bring a back. Baby, Come on, bababy, it's okay. 208 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: I'm help you get some coins too. 209 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 3: Not changing face. A stroke, struck you up and struck 210 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 3: you down? 211 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 4: Stroke you up? Do you minify s talk you up? 212 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:33,479 Speaker 3: I don't mind. 213 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 4: Manified struck you down. 214 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 3: I don't mind. 215 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 4: You're gonna get me acting the food out to day. 216 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 4: I promise you're not gonna get me act the fool. 217 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:56,319 Speaker 2: But after Toya was resuscitated this season listeners, if you're 218 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: not watching Marton Medisine, you would think I created the show. 219 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: It's the best show on Bravo, hands down, you must 220 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 2: watch it. Quad is the Tom Brady of that show. Yes, 221 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 2: she keeps it going and it's just a. 222 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 4: Really withate though. 223 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 2: Without that, but about that now, she she she she, 224 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 2: Everything is bouncy and bounceable. So when we saw this season, 225 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 2: there were tons of allegations throwing your way. A lot 226 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 2: of people said that you slept with a contractor who's 227 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 2: a married man in order to. 228 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 3: Afford your home. 229 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: They said that you have a reputation of sleeping with 230 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 2: married men. And look, I'm gonna be very honest. I 231 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 2: live in Atlanta. I've known Quad for over a decade. 232 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 2: I have my ears to the streets, as Quad knows. 233 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 2: I have never ever heard Quad sleeping with a married man. 234 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 2: I me and Quad hanging go on in the same circles. 235 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: Were indeed very close to Sara Whitfield. We go to 236 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 2: her party to the Chateau and just dinners, Me and 237 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 2: Klobs at a concert recently with timar Bracton and Timmy Campbell, 238 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 2: you know, and Coops with her girl Lena Huggs who's 239 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 2: married to are olt. I've never seen quad with a 240 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 2: man a married man. Why are these allegations coming your way? 241 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: Well, you know, first and foremost, I think they are 242 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: coming my way because initially many years ago, uh, someone 243 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: who is no longer a part of the show anymore 244 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: at any capacity, basically put that out there. And I think, 245 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: once something is out there and it's not refuted at 246 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: that moment, it's easy for people to kind of hang 247 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: their hats on that hook. 248 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:44,560 Speaker 4: And that's what I think. 249 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: But did you see the You did get a chance 250 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: to see the uh, the polygraph results? 251 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 4: You did. 252 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, But there was a third question on there, and 253 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I don't understand why Bravo negated to 254 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 1: put that third question out there. Actually that third question 255 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: was number one because it went back. 256 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 4: To saying, did you hold the line? Here? See the 257 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 4: people don't have time to play with the children. 258 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 3: It's just all the line. 259 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 2: So for my lessons who are visually watching this, as 260 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 2: quiet as going through her phone, honey, to get what 261 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: we call the receipts, the receipts, and it's. 262 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: It's very important because I think you know, once something 263 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: something is said about you, then if there is nothing 264 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: brought forward to say, hold on, wait a minute, this 265 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 1: person is wrong. Then it's kind of easy for someone 266 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: to say, oh, well it could have happened. 267 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 4: Maybe it did happen. 268 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: Well, remember when such and such did it say that 269 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: about her? Or remember when such and such did it 270 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: say that about him? So yeah, you know, and so 271 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: everything it was wrong when that person said it. 272 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 4: It was not true. It was wrong when it was 273 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 4: said about me this time. And you know, I gave 274 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 4: the girls a bonus question as well that the union. 275 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 4: I told the girls, I said, go ahead and asked 276 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 4: me and had the man down to the polygraph test. 277 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: I said, well, ask me and have I slew with 278 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: any other men on the on the on the cast. 279 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: You know, that's just a bonus in case the girls 280 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: want to come for me in the future, then we'll 281 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: just go ahead and. 282 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 4: Put that out there. And all of it was no deception, 283 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 4: detective period. 284 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 2: Well, you could have just called me because I know 285 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 2: you personally and and I hang out with you sometimes, 286 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: and again the same circles I've I've never seen you 287 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 2: out with the man because you are very private, extremely 288 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 2: and and that's what I know about you. So were 289 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 2: these accusations just shade to make a good show that 290 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: these girls were throwing or do they or do they 291 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 2: really believe it? 292 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 4: No? 293 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: No, because I've had conversations with almost all of the 294 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: girls outside of the camera, I think, and they told me, 295 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: why we know better. We know that you didn't do 296 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: those things. We knew it back then. We knew it 297 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: back then when the first person said it about you, 298 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: because that person turned around and had their whole entire 299 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: family wedding. 300 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 4: So we knew it even then that it wasn't true. 301 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 4: It didn't make sense. 302 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: But I think sometimes when certain people probably don't have 303 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: as much going on in their lives, or they're not 304 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: found to be as fascinating or as entertaining, it's kind of. 305 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 4: Like, well, if all of us. 306 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: Fails, I can just attach myself to this and then 307 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 1: make it work. Whether I believe it or not, it's 308 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: already been said. I'm just learned to do it for 309 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: entertainment purposes. The problem is when you do something for 310 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: entertainment purposes, there is a real person that's connected to that, 311 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: and you're hurting them as well. 312 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 4: You understand what I'm saying, So. 313 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: It might be a key key in a leg slap 314 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: till you think, and it's fine if you feel like 315 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: you know, maybe once or twice you did it. But 316 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: once I come and talk to you and say, hold on, 317 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: you need to lay up on that. 318 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 4: You need to lay off on that because. 319 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: This is actually is an assassination to my character and 320 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't find it funny. So we can keyke in 321 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: legs slap all the time or whenever, but we won't 322 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: do it about that because see, if I choose to 323 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: handle you like how you're trying to handle me, you 324 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: won't be able to bounce back. 325 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 4: Baby. 326 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 2: I hatre interrupt, but stay tuned for more. We'll be 327 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 2: right back after these quick ads. This is reality with 328 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 2: the King, and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into 329 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:33,479 Speaker 2: the show. You intimated that there's something real going on 330 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 2: between Toya and Eugene. You like to referred to him 331 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 2: sometimes as Eugenie as Ugina. When it comes to Toya, 332 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: there's also accusations that she is really the one who 333 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 2: is having an affair and sleeping around. Is that something 334 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 2: you've heard? Is that something that was put on you 335 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 2: to try to deflect from them? 336 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 3: What do you gather from that? 337 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: Well, listen I think that so initially I never even 338 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: said that it came to me. I don't know, I listened. 339 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: I don't sleep with the people. 340 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 4: I'm not in the bed with her or you know 341 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 4: you Jine and no people, I'm not. 342 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 1: I'm not in the bed with them, and I truly 343 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: don't want to be. 344 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 4: No. But so I can't say. 345 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:26,199 Speaker 1: All I can say is that information did come to 346 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:31,160 Speaker 1: me alone, with it coming to a ton of other people, right. 347 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: I do think when it was said about her, I 348 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: think that Simone swooped in to kind of say, okay, 349 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: well let's just throw it back onto Quad and let's 350 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: just say. 351 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 4: You know, to kind of save face for Toya. 352 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: And Simon has told me I had an opportunity to 353 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 1: sit down with her a couple of weeks. 354 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 4: Actually, it was the week of spell House. 355 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 1: Homecoming and we had a great dinner and all of that, 356 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 1: and you know, things have kind of been off between 357 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 1: Simon and I for a number of years. Avinnost to me, 358 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what happened to us, And so for me, 359 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: I came with an open heart, an open mind, and 360 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:10,919 Speaker 1: I said to her, I said, I want you to 361 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: take a moment, and I really want you to think 362 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,919 Speaker 1: about this. I said, you don't have to answer in 363 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: a haste, there's no rushing. 364 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 4: We're here for a while. 365 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: I want you to go all the way back over 366 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: the nine years that this show has. 367 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 4: Been on air. I need you to go back. 368 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 1: I need you to tell me exactly what have I 369 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: done to you? 370 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:36,959 Speaker 4: What have I done to you? 371 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 1: And she looked at me square in the eyes, and 372 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,640 Speaker 1: she said, You've not done. 373 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 4: Anything to me. 374 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: You don't do anything to me, quiet, nothing, And I said, 375 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute. I want you to 376 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 1: really think back, be sure of that. She says, Now, 377 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: I'm sure you've not done anything to me. 378 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 4: Quiet. 379 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: She says, I deliberately go up and I'm paraphrasing her words, 380 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: but ultimately she says, I go up against you because 381 00:20:02,119 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 1: I don't want Toya to be mad at me. What 382 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: So I go up against you for that reason. All 383 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to go against you for that reason. And 384 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 1: she says, I have to protect my couch. Now, this 385 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: is a couch that is set up in a space 386 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: of the reunion. We're not even on television, and so 387 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: my thought process was like, Wow, really you gave someone 388 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 1: this much power that you can't even be the intelligent 389 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: woman that I know you to be if you're going 390 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: to fall into the trap and be like, oh. 391 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,199 Speaker 4: I'm just I'm just going up against you because if 392 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 4: I don't, she gonna be mad. I'm like, what type 393 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 4: of brainwash power is this? I'm confused. 394 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: And it was very disappointing for me to hear that, 395 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,679 Speaker 1: because I'm like, I'm not trying to break up you 396 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: and Toya. 397 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,119 Speaker 4: I would never in my life try to break up 398 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 4: someone and Toya. In fact, I'm happy. 399 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 1: That they were able to get over their hurdle when 400 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: Toya was trying to be the ass back in the 401 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: day down to the reunion in New York, and I 402 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: was a person there who was calming Toya down and 403 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: speaking life into Toya. But okay, let's just forget I've 404 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 1: done that, because these people seem to think that I've 405 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: never been for a toy and that's not true. However, 406 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 1: and I think Simone actually sometimes she's she's brought that up. 407 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 4: You know, she was trying to hit me and you 408 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 4: and you sat there and you do nothing. I'm like 409 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 4: I was, I was trying to hold her and I 410 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 4: was talking, okay, girl, whatever. 411 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:30,199 Speaker 1: So for me to hear Simone say that, I was 412 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 1: just like, Wow, I'm not trying to break you in 413 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: your friendship. 414 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,159 Speaker 4: Up, but why can't you just stand on the truth. 415 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 4: What happened is standing on the truth. You don't have 416 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,880 Speaker 4: to be for me. Damn that. Please don't be. 417 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 1: For quad because we know that you won't be, But 418 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 1: let's just be for the truth. What happened to that 419 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 1: piece of integrity there, I don't understand, and so I 420 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: was very disappointed and hearing that, and I stomached through 421 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,160 Speaker 1: the dinner and we still had a great time together. 422 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 1: But it was by my choice because I decided not 423 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 1: to really go in on her about that. But deep inside, 424 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,400 Speaker 1: I was very disappointed and I was very hurt. This 425 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 1: woman has went against me for years and said, I 426 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: don't really have a reason. I'm just doing it because 427 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 1: I don't know. 428 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 4: Toya be mad at me. 429 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 3: That's so crazy. 430 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 2: And listen, one thing I know as a reality TV 431 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 2: executive is on some reality shows that's a female ensemble. 432 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 2: There tends to be an alliance. And what I want 433 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 2: my listeners to know is sometimes on some shows, a 434 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 2: cast member feels like I need to go against this 435 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 2: person in order for that person to be on my side. 436 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 2: So when Quad says Simone said allegedly that she had 437 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,880 Speaker 2: to protect her couch, look at the reunion. 438 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 3: So each each couch. 439 00:22:54,880 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: Represents a cast member that normally for Mary to medicine, 440 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 2: and I would say, has the same people on the 441 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,160 Speaker 2: same coulch throughout the all the seasons of the life 442 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: of the show. So on Simon's couch is always Toya, 443 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 2: it's Contessa at one point, I think it was Mariah 444 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 2: when she was on, and on Doctor Jackie's couch is 445 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 2: Heavenly and it's miss Quad, and that that goes to 446 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 2: show you how sometimes it does run that deep. So 447 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 2: when people say things about you, Quad, like oh, Quad 448 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 2: is over the top, she's unlikable, she's doing the most. 449 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 3: What do you have to say about that? 450 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 1: Well, I may be unlikable to a person who really 451 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: can't stand my flare. Everybody doesn't life Primetime deyone Sanders. 452 00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 4: But he has a flare. Right, I am not for everyone, 453 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 4: and they are. 454 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: They are truly, truly, truly entitled to their opinion. But 455 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: don't expect me to dim my lights or you can shine. 456 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,399 Speaker 1: You gotta step your you gotta step it up. You 457 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: just got to step your game up. I don't know 458 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: if you need a new light bulbs. I don't know 459 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: what you need. But I'm most certainly not gonna deal 460 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 1: in my life to see to it that you shot. 461 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: But it's perfectly fine for them to have their opinion. 462 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: This is who I've always been. I'm forty one years 463 00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: old now. There is no way in the world on 464 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: God's green earth am I going to change for anybody. 465 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 1: I'm not appeasing anyone. I'm not doing it. I'm either 466 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 1: for you or not, and I'm okay with not being 467 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: for you. I can still be pleasant, I can still 468 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: be courteous, and we don't have to rock with one another. 469 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 4: That's okay with me. 470 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 2: And one thing about you, you are a woman with 471 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 2: a good heart. You are a and listen, you a 472 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 2: bad chick. If y'all ever saw a quiet in person, 473 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 2: clip Body is a stallion and she's petite, and she 474 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 2: has a million dollar smile. And one thing that we 475 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 2: loved about the show too, was you know, a lot 476 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 2: of people were rooting for you and your ex husband 477 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: to make it, and we were all surprised to see 478 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 2: that relationship dissolved, especially because as someone who knows you, 479 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 2: and I want the world to know this. I saw 480 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 2: the pain in your eyes when he made a mockery 481 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 2: when there was this scene a couple of seasons ago 482 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 2: where he was pretending to be foaming at the mouth, 483 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 2: and I saw the paint in your eyes. And when 484 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 2: I was working on the Real Housewives of Atlanta, we 485 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 2: shot a scene because Phedra and Doctor G obviously are friends, 486 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 2: and we came over their house. Miss Quad was so 487 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 2: marry Miss Quad. Y'all don't know this about mis Quad. 488 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 2: This is off camera. We're there to set up. Miss 489 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,439 Speaker 2: Quad was truly a housewife. She let us in, she 490 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 2: prepared food for the crew, She made sure Doctor G 491 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 2: was ready to film, and Miss Quad was not even 492 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 2: on camera. 493 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 3: This was a scene between Doctor. 494 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 2: G and and. 495 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:58,199 Speaker 3: I saw the domestic side of you. No cameras. You 496 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 3: were a housewife. 497 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,800 Speaker 2: Yes, So when people say she was with him for 498 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 2: his money, she got the fame and divorced this man. 499 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 2: As someone who knows you, I know that not to 500 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,679 Speaker 2: be true, but did it hurt your feelings when people 501 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: made these again accusations that you were only with this 502 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: man for his money and clout? 503 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 4: Well, you know, here's the thing. 504 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: People grasp for straws when they don't know something, or 505 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: they don't understand something completely. They're grasping for straws. And 506 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: the interesting thing about that is it could have been 507 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: because my ex husband, you know, he. 508 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 4: Was more of the very square, preppy type. 509 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:39,199 Speaker 2: Me. 510 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: I'm more, you know, full out and colorful with the 511 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: way I express myself and the way I talk and 512 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 1: the way I dress, and so I don't think that 513 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 1: people understood the connection. And not only that I was 514 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: thirteen years his junior. Now he has someone who is 515 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: actually even much younger than even I am. 516 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 4: I think there's a twenty year spread there. I'm not sure. 517 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: Don't call me, but I do know that there's a 518 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 1: difference there. And I just wonder is it a societal 519 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 1: thing when they see a younger woman with an older guy, 520 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: they automatically equate that with being a gold digger. That 521 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: is definitely not the case, Honey. My husband did not 522 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 1: have this. My ex husband did not have this world 523 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: renowned name. Okay, he was I'm sorry, not doctor oz 524 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 1: or not one of the doctors that was already on television, honey, 525 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: and very famous and bringing in millions of dollars. 526 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 4: That was not our story. 527 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 1: My ex husband and I both grew together, and I 528 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: most certainly was a driving force behind him and pushing 529 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,679 Speaker 1: him to his potential. And I'm happy to see that 530 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 1: he has flourished in that arena of having his own practice. 531 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 1: And I'm actually very pleased that I can say that 532 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 1: I had. 533 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 4: A hand in that. 534 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 3: Oh and you did haven't handed it? 535 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 2: And I think a lot of women need to give 536 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 2: more respect on their name for being the force behind 537 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 2: their husbands. I created a show called Bell Collective, and 538 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 2: I hosted the reunion, and I at the reunion, I 539 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 2: did this speech that came deep from my heart and 540 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:25,719 Speaker 2: soul about men who are successful and sometimes when they 541 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 2: get married to a woman who's a housewife, they believe 542 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,199 Speaker 2: that this is the woman who needs to be this 543 00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 2: way for the rest of my life, and that if 544 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 2: a woman dared to dream is sometimes is at the 545 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 2: expense of her marriage. And you liked the post, and 546 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 2: you did this beautiful comment that I pinned, and you 547 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 2: shared your own personal connection to my speech. Was your success, 548 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: in your opinion, driving a wedge between your husband and 549 00:28:58,640 --> 00:28:59,479 Speaker 2: you at the time. 550 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 4: You know, here's the thing. 551 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 1: I will start with first of all saying, I have 552 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: never been a person who will just sit back and 553 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: do absolutely nothing and use my looks and use my 554 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: physique or whatever to gardener things for men. For me, 555 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 1: I despise that. Now for the girls who are doing 556 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: a honey, do it girl, do it, do it, do 557 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:20,960 Speaker 1: it to a. 558 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 3: Do at, and. 559 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit on the sideline and applaud you for 560 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: doing what you do. 561 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 4: But that's not my story. 562 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 1: My father has always taught me to work extremely hard 563 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: for what I want to be able to sustain myself 564 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 1: with or without a man, because I remember him saying, 565 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: one day a man could just wake up and say, 566 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: you know what. 567 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 4: I want this anymore. 568 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: And if you're solely dependent on that man and he 569 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: says he doesn't want it anymore, then your shit out 570 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 1: of luck. It's a done deal for you. And so 571 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: that has never been me. My father will say, it's 572 00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 1: a lot of pretty women with four and five different 573 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: kids and four and five different baby daddies. You make 574 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: sure you do something with this. And so I came 575 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:03,480 Speaker 1: up with that attitude. I came up being very domesticated. 576 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: You know, A spring cleaning in our household was completely 577 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 1: different honey, you're talking about, Oh, we're just gonna change 578 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: the bed spreads and we're gonna go ahead and dust this. No, 579 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 1: it was scrubbing the the the grout in between the 580 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: toil with a toothbrush. 581 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 4: It was wiping down the base boards, it. 582 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,479 Speaker 1: Was going into the covers and the cabinets and the 583 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: pantry and wiping down the can goods. 584 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 4: That's how I was raised. So let's fast forward. 585 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: You say, your next question to me was, do you 586 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: feel that your husband may have gotten your success may 587 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: have driven a wed a wedge between you and your 588 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: ex husband. I don't necessarily say that it was probably 589 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 1: my success. I wouldn't say that. I think I remember 590 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 1: him saying, Wow, you're just so confident, you know. I 591 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 1: do remember him saying to me, like, you're never embarrassed 592 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: about anything You're You're always like you're just you're always 593 00:30:56,520 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: just like ready to face whatever you're you're not, You're fearless. 594 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: And I do remember that being something that that definitely 595 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: stuck out in my head, like he felt like that's 596 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: an area maybe he needed some more improvement in, but 597 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: I had it and it came very natural to me. 598 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: And sometimes what I've learned is that and not just 599 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: speaking of him, but overall, when when someone perceives something 600 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: that to come so natural for you, but they have 601 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: to work so hard for it and they still don't 602 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 1: have it like you, Maybe they're big mad. 603 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 4: It's a different type of envy that comes with that. 604 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 3: I e. 605 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 1: This is probably why the people say, oh, she's up 606 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: with her contractor to get a house, and I'm trying 607 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: to realize, how how do you sleep with the contractor 608 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: to get the house? 609 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 4: How the contractor helping you get that house? 610 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 3: That's hustling backwards. 611 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 4: I don't understand how the contractor is helping you to 612 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:57,880 Speaker 4: get the house. 613 00:31:58,240 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 3: I don't. 614 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 4: I don't really get that. I don't don't understand that. 615 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 3: I don't. 616 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,719 Speaker 1: I do know, miss Fyco score, if you wanna, if 617 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: you want to, if you want to snuggle up to anybody. 618 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 3: Miss uncle Sam. I'm just trying to tell that who 619 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 3: you with, Hondie No. 620 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 2: And that's why when they made those accusations, I I 621 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 2: honestly was like, Okay, that's a reach. 622 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 3: Reach. 623 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 2: The other thing is the girls are saying, you're dating 624 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 2: an African? 625 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 3: Are you? Are you Wakanda forever? What's t sus baby. 626 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 1: Let me give you the people say updating in the 627 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: African honey way, where what do you look like? The 628 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: people need to tell me so I can get on 629 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 1: that same program. 630 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 4: But I will tell you this. I am not dating Africa. 631 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 1: But I will be down to portion in Simon's Wait, Yes, God, Honey, 632 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm going. 633 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 4: St Yes, We're gonna find man. Honey, it is and 634 00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 4: is honey, A few good win and you good men, 635 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 4: and the wood out the movie. The movie is Carlos 636 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 4: the movie Girl. 637 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 2: We want the wood, we want the furnace, we want 638 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 2: the fire, we want the heat. 639 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 3: And the deep pockets ain't bad either. 640 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 4: Say no, that helps out, That helps out. 641 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: But I'm simply saying so people want to know, and 642 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 1: I don't understand they're so fascinated with like who is 643 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 1: she dating? 644 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 4: She gotta be dating somebody and this person. At first, 645 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 4: I was like, really, am I dating all of these people? 646 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 5: Y'all feel me in what do they look like? When 647 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 5: did we hang out? Where did we meet? Because I 648 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 5: need to just get on your program. I just want 649 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 5: to be on the same page, you know, And I 650 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 5: am dating. 651 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 4: I do date. 652 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 1: There's no one in particular, but I do go on dates. 653 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 4: I enjoyed dating. 654 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 2: Would you ever bring if you were in a relationship 655 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 2: or when you get into one things to existence? When 656 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 2: you meet that fine chocolate man, honey, who is successful, 657 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 2: has eight figures ten inches and a lot of money. 658 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: Baby speak to me, I'm going down to the color 659 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: purple one. 660 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 3: Sely honey. Yeah, okay, baby, I'm going down. 661 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 4: I'm going down there like sugar, gaver babies. 662 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,400 Speaker 3: Or just a breath my sugar. So yes, this quad. 663 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:35,319 Speaker 3: When you meet that man, would you bring him on 664 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,280 Speaker 3: Marria to medicine. 665 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 4: This is the thing I don't really agree with women. 666 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: And we've seen this happen over and over and over 667 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,400 Speaker 1: and over again, where production like puts so much pressure 668 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 1: on these women to. 669 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 4: Bring a man, Bring a man, Bring a man, bring 670 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 4: a man, it doesn't matter if he's this or that. 671 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 4: I don't think that that works. 672 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: I think that often if there's no chemistry there, it 673 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:03,720 Speaker 1: reads fake. I think we've seen where it has blown 674 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 1: up in certain women's faces when they just go and 675 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 1: pick a man out the bush, chout and be like okay, 676 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: come on, come on on a show. I don't agree 677 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 1: with that. I think that for me, I need to know, 678 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: what are your motives? What are your motives? And I 679 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 1: need to have a personal connection with you. I need 680 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,919 Speaker 1: it to be real, you know. And I just don't 681 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 1: agree with just pulling anyone you know off the shelf 682 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: said Okay, come on be on this show because I 683 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,719 Speaker 1: got production down my throat and they're mad and I 684 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: need to just bring somebody on the show. 685 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:35,919 Speaker 4: I don't think it reads well. 686 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 1: I don't think it reads well at all, and I 687 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,640 Speaker 1: think it comes across fake. 688 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 3: It does. 689 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 2: And I worked on shows where people are brought on 690 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,319 Speaker 2: boyfriends because they felt the pressures to bring a man 691 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 2: to the show, and it never it never felt real, 692 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,479 Speaker 2: It never came across real. It allays came across fake. 693 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 2: And listen, you are such a force multiplier on that show. 694 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:01,840 Speaker 3: You don't need a man to make you successful. You don't, no, Carlos. 695 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 4: I appreciate you saying it, but it's an absolute truth. 696 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 1: In fact, I'm probably living better than most women with husbands. 697 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: And a lot of times people are married and they 698 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: don't even like their spouse and they got asked to 699 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 1: do this, head on a swivel, looking at everything, so 700 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to put on it was a huge 701 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: step for me to make the decision to move on 702 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:29,680 Speaker 1: from my ex husband. 703 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 4: I was not happy. 704 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,560 Speaker 1: I don't think that if we would have kept going, 705 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: I don't think that happiness would have re entered our marriage. 706 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 4: I don't. 707 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: I think things were so far gone, and I thought 708 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,280 Speaker 1: that he deserved happiness. I for sure, I most certainly 709 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 1: I deserve happiness, And so I made the decision to 710 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:55,440 Speaker 1: choose happiness. It wasn't me choosing a show. It wasn't 711 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 1: me choosing a title. Oh he's a doctor, so oh 712 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 1: my god, you know that's my that's my that's my 713 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 1: right to passage. Oh that's my identity. If I if 714 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,359 Speaker 1: I divorced a doctor, then who would I be? Miss 715 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: quad baby? Before, during, and after. See that's a different 716 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: type of confidence, you understand. And so for me, I 717 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,720 Speaker 1: never married the man for the title. I never married 718 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 1: for money. It wasn't like that we had a When 719 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,320 Speaker 1: I met my ex husband, I lived right around the 720 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 1: corner from him, and he lived in a town home 721 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 1: and it wasn't even as nice as the town. 722 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 4: Home that I previously had. 723 00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: While we were going through the divorce, I say that 724 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,720 Speaker 1: to say not to focus on things, but I'm saying 725 00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 1: that to dispel the whole rumor or whatever it is, 726 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:47,439 Speaker 1: that Quad was with him for money. We didn't have 727 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 1: a lavish lifestyle. We had a very comfortable middle class lifestyle, 728 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 1: but we didn't have a very lavish lifestyle. There was 729 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: no Rolls Royce's in the ridway. There was no marble floors. 730 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 4: In our home. 731 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 1: And let go back, you girls who have said that, 732 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 1: go back and watch one, two, three four uh at 733 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: one two and three at least one two and three 734 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: uh parts of the season Mary's Medicine. There was not 735 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 1: h you know, these lavish trips on on yachts and 736 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 1: you know, you know, going over shopping in Paris and 737 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:26,720 Speaker 1: all of that. 738 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 4: We didn't have that. We didn't have it. 739 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: So when I when I think about gold digging, I'm 740 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 1: thinking about real digging or or baby, you can't say 741 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:40,000 Speaker 1: you gold digging. You girls got you got a meal. 742 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 1: That's not gold digging. Baby, you understand what I'm saying. Okay, 743 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,280 Speaker 1: you you guys went to the Bahamas. That's not gold digging. 744 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 3: Baby. 745 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 1: I'm talking about trips to the south of France, and 746 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,479 Speaker 1: you know, the trips to Dubai, living and and and 747 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 1: and really seeing life through a different a different lens. 748 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 1: We didn't have a private plane. I'm still trying to 749 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 1: find out what goal they talking about, and. 750 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 2: It's showing the goal that the contractor was digging up 751 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 2: Dirk to build the household. Let's just feel that before 752 00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 2: I let you go. The most asked question I got 753 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 2: is there ever a world ever. 754 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 3: To where you and Mariah can at. 755 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 2: Least coexist in the same space on marriat to medicine 756 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 2: or in real life to where listen. I think too 757 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,360 Speaker 2: much has been done for y'all to get back to 758 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 2: where you were seasons one and before that. 759 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 3: So no one's stupid. But when you think about this show. 760 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,439 Speaker 2: Is there a world where you can sit back and say, 761 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 2: just like how the girls have to admit, at the 762 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 2: end of the day, Quale is good for the show? 763 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 2: Do you see that at the end of the day 764 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 2: she was good for the show and in the perfect world, 765 00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 2: would you like to see her back? 766 00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: I don't make those decisions, so I can't say who goes, 767 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: who stays, who's part time. 768 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 4: I can't say. What I will say is that her 769 00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 4: and I were very good together. 770 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,840 Speaker 1: We were very good together, and we understood one another. 771 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 4: You know, we could just easily, I mean. 772 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,759 Speaker 1: Effortlessly just bounce off of each other. You see how man, 773 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: you do you know how we and I think her 774 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,080 Speaker 1: and I had the same thing. We were very much 775 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,280 Speaker 1: so in tune with one another, and we were good together. 776 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,800 Speaker 4: I will say that for sure. 777 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:35,640 Speaker 2: When you see those clips that's sometimes online and it's 778 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:37,759 Speaker 2: like you and her at the reunion with the with 779 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 2: the snow white would carry will you when you see 780 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,759 Speaker 2: those moments, doesn't make you like, like you said, like 781 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, we were good together. 782 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. So it's interesting because I remember I had those 783 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 4: little thing, babe. Let me tell you something. 784 00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,319 Speaker 1: I remember I was down to the garage, honey, and 785 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: I was making those little thick bubbles. I went down 786 00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,440 Speaker 1: to the Michaels, you know, at the what is it 787 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: the Michaels what are they called, Michael's, uh, Jonathan, you know. 788 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:06,359 Speaker 4: Craft store. 789 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,680 Speaker 1: So I went down to Michael's Arts and Craft store 790 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: and I found these little think bobbles, and I found like, 791 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,520 Speaker 1: you know, the spray paint, and I found like these words, 792 00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this is. 793 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 4: Gonna be good. And that's just my originality, you know what. 794 00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,800 Speaker 1: I mean, and so UH to go back and see 795 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: you know that I was able to put that type 796 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: of thought into making the reunion and that particular reunion 797 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 1: UH stand out more and then she was able to 798 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,320 Speaker 1: kind of read what was there and kind of bounce 799 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,799 Speaker 1: off of it. It was great, It was great. It 800 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:41,160 Speaker 1: was no one you've never you had never seen that before. 801 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,800 Speaker 1: And so I think of those moments to be moments 802 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:49,880 Speaker 1: that I think Bravo, UH, as a network, prevar as 803 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: a pop as a production company, and even cast members 804 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 1: should should should find value in those things because those 805 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 1: are the things that has have helped us along the 806 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 1: way to be where we are today. 807 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,919 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and it's the reason why again you are the 808 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,359 Speaker 2: most underrated star and Bravo, I wish you nothing but 809 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:12,240 Speaker 2: the best success. 810 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,759 Speaker 3: And and I feel like. 811 00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:18,719 Speaker 2: Miss thing, the world hasn't seen the fullness, the fullness 812 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:22,680 Speaker 2: of you. They have not, And I'm happy you joined 813 00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 2: the podcast finally. 814 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,880 Speaker 4: Yeah now, honey, I'm so happy to be on the podcast. 815 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, this was long overdue. 816 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 3: We had we had a few roadblocks to get here. 817 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,120 Speaker 3: But God is good all the time, all the time. 818 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:38,799 Speaker 3: God is good. 819 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: So missus Quad, where can't the listeners, Honey, the girls, 820 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 2: the guys and everyone find you, follow you and support you, 821 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:45,759 Speaker 2: my love. 822 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: Yes, please well, first and foremost, we are off the 823 00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:53,359 Speaker 1: cuff of Thanksgiving. I hope you all Enjoygiaselves, Goba, all 824 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,040 Speaker 1: the turkeys. But I want to be to prepare you 825 00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,040 Speaker 1: all for Christmas. 826 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,240 Speaker 4: We are upon the holiday season. 827 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,640 Speaker 1: And if you don't have my book Cooking with Miss 828 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,359 Speaker 1: Quad Honey, get into it. You gotta go ahead and 829 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,400 Speaker 1: order this book today. Get ready for Christmas. We actually 830 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:13,280 Speaker 1: have one hundred recipes here in the book. The book 831 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:17,120 Speaker 1: is found and sold everywhere. Five books are sold. You 832 00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 1: can go to Amazon, you can go to Barnes and 833 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 1: Noble Books a million, it's there. 834 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 4: But one thing that I'm extremely proud of. It's my 835 00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 4: new All Purpose Season, Glenn, Honey, let me tell you something, sad, Yes, 836 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:31,319 Speaker 4: get into her. 837 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 1: If you don't have it, please please, please, by all 838 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,840 Speaker 1: means go ahead to go to sas by Miss Quad 839 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 1: right now and order your All Purpose Season and blend. 840 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 4: Baby, I put this on everything. 841 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:45,920 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that I made some scallops 842 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 1: the other day, baby. It was good books out to 843 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,840 Speaker 1: the floor child. Then the other day, I mean good honey. 844 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,800 Speaker 1: Then the other day I did old rotests with chicken. 845 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 4: Honey. 846 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 5: I said, let's rink a little little sass. 847 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 4: On it, honey. It was awesome. We did a little 848 00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,279 Speaker 4: bee stood the other day, child and it was good 849 00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:02,319 Speaker 4: as well. So this can go on anything. I'm so 850 00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 4: proud of it. I really am. 851 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:09,840 Speaker 1: It is gluten free, low and sodium no MSG. 852 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 4: It is just a really great I mean listen, if 853 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:14,759 Speaker 4: you use it, you don't need anything else. 854 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 1: So you can also find me on all social media 855 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:22,400 Speaker 1: platforms at absolutely quad and that's how you can find me. 856 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely quid. 857 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it. Love. 858 00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:34,399 Speaker 2: I love you Quad, I love you too, baby, Yes, 859 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,360 Speaker 2: frame drops, what's not a good episode? I love me 860 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 2: some miss Quad. Don't you guys love that I spilled 861 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 2: the tea for her, because. 862 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,680 Speaker 3: You know, usually they spilled the teeth for me. 863 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 2: But no, all dump aside, I help you all got 864 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,320 Speaker 2: a chance to really understand. 865 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 3: The real Quad, because. 866 00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,720 Speaker 2: She is someone who I've known for so many years 867 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 2: and I don't think that show really shows. 868 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:01,920 Speaker 3: The full side of her. 869 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:06,840 Speaker 2: And this podcast definitely is an opportunity to get to 870 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 2: know your favorite reality stars in a much deeper and 871 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 2: meaningful way. Thank you for listening to Reality with the King. 872 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:23,920 Speaker 2: New episodes drop every Wednesday and Friday. Share, comment, follow, 873 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 2: and subscribe to Reality with the King. Wherever you get 874 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:32,960 Speaker 2: your podcast, visit Reality withthe King dot com and be 875 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:37,399 Speaker 2: sure to follow me at the Carlos King Underscore on 876 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:41,720 Speaker 2: Instagram and Twitter. Tweak me your thoughts and hot takes 877 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:46,839 Speaker 2: about this episode using the hashtag reality with the King. 878 00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 2: Reality with the King is a production of more Soft 879 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 2: by Stitcher. It is executive produced by Me, Carlos King, 880 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:59,840 Speaker 2: and Jasmine Heinley Brown. 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