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Speaker 2: Well, so over the past two months, so he started

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Speaker 2: So I don't know what I And then last weekend

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Speaker 1: So where does he say?

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Speaker 2: That's why I called you guys.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's always unnerving when they change their passwords

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Speaker 2: He was just it was it was a work thing, work. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And turning off location sharing thing is interesting. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, And like you said, when it hasn't been

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Speaker 2: it's definitely been a news thing, all right, if you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us for to catch a cheater. Alyssa is

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Speaker 2: grocery store that he's a rewards card member and say

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Speaker 2: we'll see if he sends those to his wife, Alyssa

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Speaker 2: or to somebody else. Before we do that, Alyssa, why

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Speaker 2: don't you recap your situation for us again real quick?

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Speaker 1: All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready to go? All right? Here we go

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Speaker 1: and call him right now. Hello, Hey, this is Corbett

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Speaker 1: calling from grocers. I was looking for our rewards card

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is a Brandon.

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Speaker 1: Hey Brandon, how are you? Please don't hang up. This

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Speaker 1: what oh? Every single month maybe you didn't know this.

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Speaker 1: Every single month we choose one Rewards Card member who

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Speaker 1: Okay, great, then uh let me just get my stuff

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Speaker 4: Sure, okay, could you actually just address it to M,

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Speaker 1: Last night felt right? Got that? Okay? Great? And Brandon.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I'll let you know that this is

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Speaker 1: I'm Nina, Hi, I'm Victoria, and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 1: How are you busted? What? Yeah? We do a segment

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Speaker 1: on the show called to Catch a Cheater. Wherever you seek,

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Speaker 1: your significant other might be messing around you see the

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Speaker 4: Alyssa, wait, why are you on the phone?

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Speaker 2: I just I want to know who em is and

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: You set this up? You think I'm you think I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you started going to the gym late at night,

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Speaker 4: This is way out of proportion, Like, it's not it's

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Speaker 2: And what does it sound like? Because to me, it

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Speaker 4: All I All I did, honey, is all I did

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Speaker 1: Wait with someone else, there is someone he didn't. I

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Speaker 4: Her name's Madison. We met at a hotel bar after

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Speaker 2: A work conference that you suddenly had.

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Speaker 4: We hung out a couple of times, and yeah, it

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 2: You can't you canceled dinner with my parents for her?

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Speaker 1: Well, I didn't even plan for it to go with

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Speaker 1: that far you have on your wife. Yes, well, last.

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Speaker 2: Night felt right? It wasn't an accident. It doesn't.

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Speaker 1: You also literally just said it's not what I think.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel bad? I mean.

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Speaker 1: You're being very calm.

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Speaker 4: I'm just kind have been shocked right now. I didn't

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Speaker 2: Low.

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Speaker 1: Oh low, you're cheating on me.

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Speaker 2: We be married for seven years? Does that mean nothing?

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Speaker 1: Of course it does.

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Speaker 4: I didn't plan on leaving you. It just this all

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, you're you're leaving me? Don't.

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Speaker 4: Don't pretend like you haven't been distant too, because.

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Speaker 2: They've been trying to build our life together.

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Speaker 1: Well maybe that's the problem.

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Speaker 4: It's everything's been moving way too fast for us.

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Speaker 1: Too fast. You guys have been together like twelve years,

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Speaker 4: I mean I've been married seven years. You don't even

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Speaker 1: Okay, but whatever, you're still cheated man, and you said

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Speaker 1: it's too soon. Twelve years total.

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Speaker 2: I keep going back to to them. Let's keep this

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to hurt you.

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Speaker 2: He didn't want to lose me. There's a difference.

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Speaker 1: How is cheating on her not like that's that's hurtful?

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Speaker 1: Like how would you not hurt her by cheating on her?

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Speaker 4: Well, if she wouldn't have found out, if she didn't.

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Speaker 1: Call you, what so, So it wouldn't hurt her if

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Speaker 4: Obviously, you guys just don't understand.

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Speaker 1: Let's said, please, let's just let's talk about.

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Speaker 4: This later, off the off the air, and we'll work

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Speaker 1: He just hung up, Melissa. Okay, that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: It does sound like you guys, are you gonna need

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Speaker 3: to have a conversation though? But wow, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I appreciate that. Oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 2: think Madison. I think he's lying about meeting her at

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Speaker 2: a bar. I think it's who you hired to be

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Speaker 2: her babysitter for a while. Oh wow, she nineteenth years old.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, Alyssa, I'm very sorry. You obviously have

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Speaker 1: a lot to figure out, so keep us, give us

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Speaker 1: updated if you if you need anything from us. Okay, sure,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys. It's better than I know now, So yeah,

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Speaker 2: now I can deal with this all right, take care yeah,

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Speaker 2: thanks