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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor, Happy Hours, Golden Hour, and hello

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Speaker 1: to twenty twenty six. How are you doing today's season?

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Speaker 2: Excited? It's twenty twenty six. I can't wait to see

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Speaker 2: what this year brings us.

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Speaker 1: It is going to be a great year. I just

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Speaker 1: know it is. I know it is.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, don't we say that every year?

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Speaker 2: It's you ever said it's it's not going to be

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Speaker 2: a good year.

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Speaker 1: Because you and I are positive people. But you know what,

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Speaker 1: last year was a great year. This year is going

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Speaker 1: to be a great year.

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Speaker 2: The last few years have been wonderful. Yeah, and we've

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Speaker 2: had so many new people in our lives. I'm blessed

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Speaker 2: are we Kelly.

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Speaker 1: We've got to travel, We've gotten to meet people. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. For me, it's just been it's just been

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Speaker 1: fun there. You know when they say when you say

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Speaker 1: they're yeah for New Year's But what I just want

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Speaker 1: to say when people say they're ready to say goodbye

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Speaker 1: to the last year, like bring on the new year

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Speaker 1: and bury the last I never feel that way because

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Speaker 1: I've learned things. I learned things. Every year I've had

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Speaker 1: a good year. Sure we all have ups and downs,

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Speaker 1: but it's been a great year, and I believe twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty six is gonna be just as good. But tell

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Speaker 1: me how do.

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Speaker 2: You do ever? I reflect, like in the month of December,

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Speaker 2: usually after the rush of all the good things that

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Speaker 2: happened during that year, And there's times I think about

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Speaker 2: anything bad that happened. Death's usually the first thing that

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Speaker 2: come to mind. Other than that, I couldn't think of

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Speaker 2: anything negative at all. Like I was sad to see

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Speaker 2: twenty five go. Yeah, I really was so.

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Speaker 1: Funny you said that. People have asked me on different

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Speaker 1: different things I've been doing. You know, how what do

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Speaker 1: you want to leave bend a twenty twenty five? And

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Speaker 1: not much. There's really not a whole lotow you know,

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Speaker 1: some laundry that I didn't get done.

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Speaker 2: From the color on your hair, maybe that might have

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Speaker 2: been the biggest.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll get to that. We'll get for those of

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Speaker 1: you who can't see me, and thank god most of

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Speaker 1: you can't. My daughter encouraged me.

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Speaker 2: It looks like the black Irish. Yeah, black Irish with

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Speaker 2: the light skin and the really dark hair. Not that

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Speaker 2: it's not flattering. It is, Kathy, it.

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Speaker 1: Is not flattering.

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Speaker 2: I've been.

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Speaker 1: Enough about my hair. I can't. I'm just miserable. Tell me,

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Speaker 1: that's that's what I want to leave behind in twenty

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Speaker 2: Is the color of her hair.

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Speaker 1: I want to know what did you do for New Year's.

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Speaker 2: I was actually on the beach celebrating the New Year.

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Speaker 2: There was fireworks on the beach. It was absolutely beautiful.

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Speaker 2: It was different than it was different than most of

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Speaker 2: my New Year's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was okay, fine, because I think I told you.

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Speaker 1: Nancy came to visit and she very sadly. She and

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Speaker 1: her family had to put their dog down Christmas, and

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Speaker 1: they were that dog was, you know, just a very

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Speaker 1: special part of their lives, as most pets are, but

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Speaker 1: this dog even more so for a variety of reasons. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: she said, you know, could I come visit you? And

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Speaker 1: I thought she was kidney, but no, she jumped on it,

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Speaker 1: came to visit me. We had a great time. We

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Speaker 1: were going to go downtown for New Year's even see

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Speaker 1: the fireworks, but ultimately we went out for dinner, early dinner,

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Speaker 1: and then we just kind of hung around and we

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Speaker 1: watched the ball drop it. I don't know how many

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Speaker 1: countries we and then I.

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Speaker 2: Like doing that. It was fun being home and watching

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Speaker 2: and do you hear great music?

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Speaker 1: We did? We did. We opened a bottle of champagne.

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Speaker 1: Sad to say, Susan Nancy and I could not even

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Speaker 1: polish off one bottle of champagne.

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Speaker 2: Well I couldn't either, But.

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Speaker 1: Then we started talking to like three in the morning.

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Speaker 1: So all in all, I like you. It was a

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Speaker 1: very different New Year's but a great New Year's.

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Speaker 2: I love it. All right, Well, we are all both

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Speaker 2: so excited to catch up with you all everything new year.

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Speaker 2: So sit back, relax, and let's dive right in. And

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Speaker 2: I'm going to start us off. Kathy. Okay, alrighty, what

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Speaker 2: is a dating and relationship resolution you have for this year?

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Speaker 2: And why, oh god do you have a dating resolution

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Speaker 2: for you just want to do it?

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Speaker 1: Well, there's that I think if I can do. But

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to be strategic this year. So

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Speaker 1: my resolution is in dating is to sort of be

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Speaker 1: more strategic, and by that I mean maybe try to

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Speaker 1: go to more co ed events, co ed sporting events,

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Speaker 1: maybe join a co ed golf league, something where I

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Speaker 1: put myself in situations that I have a better chance

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Speaker 1: of meeting single people. So that's my resolution to get

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Speaker 1: out and do more events, more things like that. What

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Speaker 1: about you?

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Speaker 2: Well, I see one that's interesting, dating yourself. What do

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Speaker 2: you think that means, Kathy?

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Speaker 1: Well, for me, that's easy. Dating yourself means enjoying who

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Speaker 1: you are, spending time with yourself and doing things that

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Speaker 1: make you happy and not focusing to is that I

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Speaker 1: always do.

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Speaker 2: That's what I do.

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Speaker 1: So you're telling me you have no New Year's resolution

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Speaker 1: for your relationship, because in your case, it's a relationship

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Speaker 1: you're in, so it's got to be. It's got to be.

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Speaker 1: How are you going to make it changed?

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Speaker 2: A little bit? It's changed?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, do you have a word for twenty twenty six?

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Speaker 1: Uh wait a minute, hold on, I want to know

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Speaker 1: if you have a dating resolution for me?

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Speaker 2: For you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you think I should do?

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Speaker 2: Date yourself?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: One date per month, one new date per month. You

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Speaker 2: have to try. I think they should put us on

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Speaker 2: a date per month.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I like that. You're not telling me how

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Speaker 1: to get that one day to month, which brings me

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Speaker 1: back to my resolution to a ten more events. I'm

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Speaker 1: going to tell you One other thing that that goes

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Speaker 1: with dating is sort of smiling when you're out in public,

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Speaker 1: being open to men who, well, I do too, but

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Speaker 1: more I'm my heart.

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Speaker 2: How much more If I smile anymore? They're going to

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Speaker 2: think I'm crazy? Like, what's up? Woman? Laughing about over there?

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Speaker 2: She's all by herself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well do you want to know?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know? I have a I have

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Speaker 1: a dating resolution for you. Okay, more relationship really whatever

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Speaker 1: for you, and that is I'm not sure you can

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Speaker 1: do it. But that's where New Year's are all about,

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Speaker 1: Susan trying new things. I would love to see you

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Speaker 1: stop doing so much except for me. I just want

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Speaker 1: to stop doing so much for your relationships. Sit back

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Speaker 1: and let particularly you know your person do Kathy? You? Kathy? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Then I might not be happy, and I like to

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Speaker 2: stay happy.

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Speaker 1: You're not happy because you like to be in control.

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Speaker 1: So my date, my religihis give it up, give up control.

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Speaker 2: That's going to be difficult. I am truly a type

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Speaker 2: a personality. I I have made little teeny itty bitty

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah right, I'm gonna share one tunes. Oh, stay tuned,

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Speaker 1: all right, gosh, that sounds ominous. I can hardly way

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Speaker 1: we'll talk.

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Speaker 2: I have to say next month when I return, I

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Speaker 2: have a different place I'm staying.

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Speaker 1: Really, yes, I might. Does this mean I'm coming with

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Speaker 1: you next month?

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Speaker 2: Maybe? I don't know. But do you have a word

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Speaker 2: for twenty six now?

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Speaker 1: Yes, crowd, No, my word for twenty twenty six is believe.

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Speaker 1: And I you know I'm a very optimistic person, but

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Speaker 1: I really the word belief came to me. Somebody else

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Speaker 1: saying this said the word was going to be imagine

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Speaker 1: to me. Believe and imagine all are both really synonymous.

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Speaker 1: Believe that good things can happen. Believe that your person's

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Speaker 1: out there. Believe that travel is going to be in

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Speaker 1: my future, good health in my future, good relationship, seeing

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Speaker 1: my kids, my grandkids. I just believe it. I truly

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Speaker 1: believe it. What about you?

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Speaker 2: So I got to tell you something about the word

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Speaker 2: that you just chose. Okay, I don't have any tattoos. Yes,

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Speaker 2: all of our listeners, I'm sure most people assume, because

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Speaker 2: and I'm not.

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Speaker 2: But if I ever were to get one. It would

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Speaker 2: So I will never get one. But that was the

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Speaker 2: choice that I chose the word believe. That's so funny

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Speaker 1: That, Well, that's that's my word, and I just gave

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Speaker 1: you the reasons. Why not tell me what's your word?

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I have one. I want to

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Speaker 2: be true to myself. Okay, to myself. That's other than

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Speaker 2: a word. What's that word?

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Speaker 1: Well, it could be self evaluation, self honesty, self, self,

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Speaker 1: self preservation. They're hyphenated so we can count them as

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Speaker 1: one word. All right, all right, what are you hoping?

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Speaker 1: What are you hoping to get out of this year?

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Speaker 1: Susan more?

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Speaker 2: Even more? I just never stop learning. I never stopped

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Speaker 2: meeting people. I never I just more of the same.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny because that's when I was talking about

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Speaker 1: my word being believe. And I believe that if you

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Speaker 1: believe that good things will happen and you'll have more opportunities.

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Speaker 1: So it's exactly the same for me. I want to

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Speaker 1: continue to have good health, I want to continue to travel,

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Speaker 2: Exactly everybody, Kathy, are you excited to leave anything behind

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Speaker 2: in twenty five? Like what?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm really not, except except this maybe the six

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Speaker 1: pounds or this hair color. This hair color. No, I

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Speaker 1: gained like three or four pounds over the holidays.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it's a cookie weight. It's all cookie weight

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Speaker 1: For me, it's pecan pie, cheesecake and egg noow bread

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Speaker 1: because I made all three. But no, I I mean sure,

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Speaker 1: I'd like to leave behind negative that it. Try that again.

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Speaker 1: I would like to leave behind negative thoughts that came

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Speaker 1: self defeating, right, that doesn't help me move forward positively.

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Speaker 1: But we all have We're not perfect. We all have

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Speaker 1: those negative days, those sad days, those hard days. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, if we leave behind I don't tell

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Speaker 1: me if you believe this. If we leave behind the

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Speaker 1: hard days, if we don't have them in our life,

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Speaker 1: then how do we really appreciate when the really good

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Speaker 1: times come? I think that gives perspect're.

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Speaker 2: Both the same. We both appreciate every day we open

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Speaker 2: our eyes, the sun's out or whatever you're awake, You're alive.

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Speaker 1: didn't know what else to do, and she's she was

440
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,880
Speaker 1: so angry, and I said, Leah, don't just be cool.

441
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 2: Don't but yourself.

442
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: And so nobody knew until we were walking in and

443
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: she said, oh, I've got a few choice words for him, literally, Leah,

444
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:53,679
Speaker 1: You're welcome. I'm gonna ask you what was the hottest

445
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: tea of twenty twenty five?

446
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna forget it his name I again, I'm

447
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 2: going to refer to Paradise. When the mayor there came in,

448
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 2: Sean started Sean came in and start telling tales.

449
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: That's that was like, whoa so well, I'm not sure

450
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 1: if it was tales or not, but you're thinking of

451
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: uh so Uh. Alicia and Sean had started dating, and

452
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: there was a lot of talk about Kat coming on

453
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: the show and having a boyfriend, no, having a boyfriend

454
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: and bringing sneaking in an iPad, contacting her boyfriend and

455
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: talking with truly, we don't I don't know, well, I

456
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 1: don't know, but they kept saying, and I've never heard

457
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: this expression before. Sean and Alicia kept saying, we have receipts,

458
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is this a shot? Hell?

459
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: Uh?

460
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: That? And and for me the because you know, nobody

461
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: rings and phones, no brings and iPads. I kind of

462
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: want to know, like are they spies? Like if she

463
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: did it? How did she do it? How?

464
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 2: How?

465
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 1: But to me that she had done that, if she

466
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: did do it, and that they somehow And I still

467
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 1: I was there and I still can't figure out how

468
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 1: Sean spoke with the boyfriend, uh, the or the whoever

469
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: it was, the guy that's supposed guy. I feel like

470
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: a legal analyst here. The alleged the alleged boyfriend, but

471
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 1: he had said, yeah, she was texting me on you know,

472
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 1: from from Costa Rica.

473
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: So that to me in that the only one that

474
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 2: I know is our next one. With Taylor Frankie being

475
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: able to post while filming the show, that's the first

476
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 2: time ever in Bachelor history, I believe that that has happened.

477
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: Well, the hot tea's going to be I I first

478
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: of all, we don't know yet because we're not even

479
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: there yet. I think her season is going to be

480
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: filled with so much tea it's going to scald the skin.

481
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 1: It's going to be really hot. And I, for one,

482
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: I don't think before we move on with this with

483
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: our Rose Awards, because this show hasn't starting yet. I

484
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,199
Speaker 1: think I'm most excited about her show that I've been

485
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: on any show.

486
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: Me too. All Right, all right, do you know who

487
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 2: had the best kiss?

488
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: I didn't get any, Susan, I never got one, So

489
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: you know, I frankly don't pay attention to the people's kisses.

490
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't get one. I don't care

491
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: who else got one.

492
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 2: Well, I can't say anything about mel show because there

493
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: wasn't a lot of good kissing on that show. And

494
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: let's go back at once again too.

495
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: No, I'm not. I'm done with that because there was

496
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: no good kissing from the Goldens. Don't talk about that, please, No,

497
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: not the gold Oh who Who's I mean? There was

498
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: a lot of Yeah, they're all young, they all you know,

499
00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: they're all Wait a minute, wait, wait who had the

500
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 1: best kiss? My answer for that one is the one

501
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 1: who got the kiss? That's all right? What was the no, no,

502
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: you're jumping ahead her. I want to know what was

503
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: the best night one Limo entrance.

504
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 2: And twenty five.

505
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:19,199
Speaker 1: In any season?

506
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, I have a few. I love somebody pulling

507
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 2: up on a Harley, of.

508
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: Course you do. I went through. I have to say

509
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: I looked back because you know, I'm over sixty, over

510
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 1: seventy my memory shot. I look back at several going

511
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: way back. But you know what, at the end of

512
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: the day, I loved Alex coming in on the Lama,

513
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: Linda the Lama. You know, there were several us Leslie

514
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: coming in on a although I didn't love the creative.

515
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: You know, there were several There were several people coming

516
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: in as I don't know, sharks, A bunch of them

517
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: but but uh, I'm going to tell you I'm a

518
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,239
Speaker 1: romantic at the end of the day. The one when

519
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: I started looking back was Joey and it's not It

520
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: wasn't what was the best to me, it was the

521
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: most romantic, or one of the most romantic. When he

522
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: got out of the limo and he gave Charity a flower,

523
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: a plumeria flower, it was so romantic to me because

524
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: he explained he lived in Hawaii. Plumeria is grown Hawaii.

525
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: But that wasn't what made it romantic. He said to Charity,

526
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: when you put the flower behind your right ear, it

527
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: says you're available. When the flower is behind your left ear,

528
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: it says you are taken. And I thought to myself,

529
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: and then he said something like, I hope that you

530
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: know you'll leave here with the flower in your left ear,

531
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: meaning he choose, she chooses. But I just thought, you know,

532
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't grandiose, It wasn't a Harley, it wasn't coming

533
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: in in a station wagon. It was it was beautiful,

534
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: It was romantic, and it reminded me, in looking back,

535
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: that is what the show is about, you know, finding love,

536
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: And so for me, the old twenty twenty six I'm

537
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: going to become a romantic. That's another goal of mine.

538
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: All right, Kathy, who has had the best new friendship

539
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 2: besides us? You know, I think we win that award.

540
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 1: I think we do. I think we win that award.

541
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: You know what's hard is I like, Alex is really

542
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: good friends uh with Letia. They're they're all friends. The

543
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: girls from the shows are all really good friends with

544
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: each other. And but we don't know that. We didn't

545
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: see it from the season. But I think the answer

546
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,719
Speaker 1: for me is who has the best friendship besides us?

547
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: All of us who have been lucky enough to be

548
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: on one of these shows have found great friendships that

549
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: have developed over time. And again that's just another gift

550
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: that the that the Bachelor gives. Okay, one more I

551
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: want to ask who had the best exit speech?

552
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: It was a few I liked.

553
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh I got this one. You go give me yours.

554
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 2: I mean, it has to be your girlfriend she put it.

555
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 2: Cindy there and Cindy.

556
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we actually we're gonna be one more after

557
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: this because I just but we'll do it quickly. Cindy.

558
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: I again, I went back and listened to the whole thing.

559
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: I found it on YouTube, and I'm gonna just read.

560
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: She said, I didn't come here to explore options. I

561
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: came for a life partner, and I can't wait for

562
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: two years. I need a commitment. And then a couple

563
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: other grade lines. She said, to behave, she said to Mel,

564
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: to behave as if my future husband will be proud

565
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: of me. I want my guy to feel like he

566
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: got struck by lightning and can't live without me. I

567
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: listened to that, and then she said, you know, will

568
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: you walk me out? I don't know. Again. I did

569
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: a little research on that too. Some of these guys left, uh,

570
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: Cassie left from Colton season, but not when it was

571
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: down to the last two. Andy Dorfmann left Wuan Paulo

572
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: in the Fantasy Suites, Juan Pablo. But I don't know

573
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: of anyone, and I could be wrong. We can fact

574
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: check if anyone a fun person left.

575
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 2: For Mel season. She also exited on her own.

576
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: No no, no, you're not hearing me too when it's

577
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: down to the last two people. That is effectively saying

578
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: you got one left taker or leave her. That to

579
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: me was a grand, amazing exit. Whether you agree with

580
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: Cindy what she did, whether or no, would have chose

581
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: or it was and a best exit speech I think, and.

582
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 2: It took courage overall moment.

583
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: Oh so easy for me, Go ahead, you have one.

584
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: Go Mine's so easy. And again it's from It's from Paradise. Uh.

585
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: When it got down, we all came back to vote.

586
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: So Alex and Andrew won the final challenge, so we

587
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: had to vote whether to let them, you know, have

588
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: all the money or whatever, or whether we should vote

589
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: to let one or two the other couples. Long story short,

590
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 1: we all came back as a jury and we voted

591
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: for uh, Alex and Andrew and Jessin Spencer. Then it

592
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 1: came down to they could pick a card, but they

593
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 1: had to.

594
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 2: Choose to vote on each other.

595
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: No, they had no no, no, We all voted, but

596
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: then it.

597
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 2: Was the vote.

598
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: But was it love?

599
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 2: Thank he's going to come for love or money? Like

600
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: second guess in somebody we live it in that bubble

601
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: and you think everything's perfect.

602
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: That was a true test right there and again to

603
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: me all Bachelor, they chose love and they got the money. Yes,

604
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: justin Spencer, they picked numbers or whatever, picked cards and

605
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: Justin Spencer one of the most but that's immaterial to

606
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,479
Speaker 1: the fact that those two couples, who, by the way, uh.

607
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 2: Are still happy.

608
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: They're happy, and Olt lives with Andrew. I mean there

609
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 1: are still couples, and Justin Spencer of course are engaged.

610
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 1: To me, what an amazing moment that you choose love

611
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: over money and you get both and you get loved.

612
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 2: All right, Now, before we go, Kathy, we're going to

613
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: do one last thing to bring in twenty twenty six.

614
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: Kathy and I will each put our entire music libraries

615
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 2: on audio Shuffle. Whatever song comes up is gonna be

616
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 2: our twenty twenty six vibe. Kat, you could go first

617
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 2: and my music.

618
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: All right, here's my music.

619
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 2: You have to hit shuffle.

620
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: I got it. I'm hit and play. Oh God, Susan,

621
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: are you ready?

622
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 2: What's it?

623
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 1: Olivia? Dean Man? I need.

624
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: He wasn't mine? Hey?

625
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: There it is? That is twenty twenty six right there

626
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: for you?

627
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 2: What mine's surf? Messa? I love you baby? Oh Jesus,

628
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 2: that was shuffle.

629
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: Wait. I can't do you feel like Spotify just knows

630
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 1: it is not even Spotify. Oh, let me just say

631
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 1: I have I don't know in my library. I've probably

632
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: got five man's world. It's a man's world. There you go.

633
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: It's I have probably five hundred songs in my library

634
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 1: and will shuffle. Gods took it upon themselves to shuffle

635
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: and bring up man I Need. If Susan can we

636
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: just talk for a second. If it were that easy

637
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: of oh god, if you was play a song man

638
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: I Need, he would materialize? Would that be the best

639
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: twenty twenty six gift ever?

640
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: Unbelievable, unbelievable.

641
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 1: I love you, okay, I don't know. All I can

642
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: say is twenty twenty six year show. It was a

643
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: fun show. Thank you for joining us. To all our listeners,

644
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 1: we're wishing you a happy twenty twenty six. We are

645
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: having a blast. We're so glad to be back.

646
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 2: And pick your word for twenty twenty six, and make

647
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 2: sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hours. We have new episodes

648
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 2: coming out every single week and you don't want to miss.

649
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: Listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio

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00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: app or wherever you listen to your podcasts. Until next time,

651
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 1: have a great bill next time,