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Speaker 2: Trea is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted from a date she

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Speaker 2: went on with a woman named Carolina. So we're going

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Speaker 2: to see if we can help figure it out for

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Speaker 2: and maybe get another date if you still wants one.

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Speaker 2: In a second, but first, Draya, how long has it

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Speaker 2: been since you heard from Kroolina.

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Speaker 3: It's been about a week now that I hadn't heard

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Speaker 3: from her, Okay, And yeah, so I'm just really confused

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Speaker 3: because we well, for like, we met at work and

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Speaker 3: we've kind of been flirting, like back and forth, you know,

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Speaker 3: just kind of office romance. I guess, yeah, exactly. But

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Speaker 3: she's really pretty. She has a great sense of humor,

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Speaker 3: and we've actually been having coffee like in the office

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Speaker 3: other before going into the date, and so I finally

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Speaker 3: got up the nerve to ask her out, and I

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Speaker 3: wanted I've been wanting to play pickleball because I've heard

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Speaker 3: there's so much hype around it, and I thought it

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Speaker 1: Is that what you did for your date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we went, we played, We played a couple of

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Speaker 3: rounds of pickleball, and then we had some drinks after

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Speaker 3: words at bar. Okay, And I mean, as far as

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Speaker 3: I'm concerned, the date was great. Like the conversation was wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Like I said, she has a great personality, She's funny,

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Speaker 3: a little kiss. Oh but yeah, the next day, I

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Speaker 3: was excited to like get to work and see her,

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Speaker 3: and she wasn't there. So I texted her because I

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Speaker 3: make sure she was okay. Maybe she was sick. I

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Speaker 3: me back, and so she hasn't been at work all week.

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Speaker 1: She get fired.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I haven't heard anything, so I don't

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Speaker 3: think so. But I've been reaching out to her, and

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Speaker 3: I'm actually like kind of worried because like I don't

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Speaker 3: if I mean maybe I just don't know. I thought

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Speaker 2: Do they have like a policy about dating other coworkers

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Speaker 2: at your office only if.

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Speaker 3: You're like you can't like supervisors can't be hourly employees

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Speaker 1: It's a free for all.

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Speaker 4: Does she usually show up to work every day?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 4: I mean, is she the type of person that just

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Speaker 3: Or No. She's actually pretty good with attendance, so which

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Speaker 4: Did anything weird and on the date, like, was there

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Speaker 3: Mean not on my end, I thought everything went went great.

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Speaker 3: Like when we parted, we parted on great terms, and

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Speaker 3: you know, we even said we were kind of even like,

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Speaker 1: But I'd be worried too. Have you asked around about her?

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Speaker 3: I asked a couple of people, but nobody really made.

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Speaker 3: Everybody just kind of says they haven't heard from her either.

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Speaker 4: Especially a week. I feel like it's a good amount

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Speaker 4: do you know where she lives? Just do a drive

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Speaker 4: by or I mean, I don't know. It's an idea.

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Speaker 3: I did call her from a block number to see

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Speaker 2: Oh no, so you know that she's answering her phone

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Speaker 2: at least.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, good, she's alive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she is alive, So that's good. I guess now

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Speaker 3: it's so I'm worried that she's just avoiding me.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come Back, and then we'll call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date if you still

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Speaker 3: Okay, great, thanks.

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Speaker 2: Guys, All right, well play a song come back, get

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up next. Drea is on the

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted by a date she went on with a

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting and maybe get Drea another date if she

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Speaker 2: still wants one. But first, Drea, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: everybody up on your date with Carolina?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Carolyne and I met at work. We've been kind

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Speaker 3: of flirting back and forth, and I finally got the

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Speaker 3: nerve to ask her out. We went and we played pickleball.

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Speaker 3: We had drinks, great conversation, and even a little kiss

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Speaker 3: at the end. So I'm just wondering why she's not

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Speaker 3: returning my text to coast.

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Speaker 1: And she hasn't been to work for a week. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the alarming dyeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, all right, Ye, that's where I'm worried.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, mccaller. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Carolina?

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Speaker 3: Please? Yes, this is Carolina, Carolina.

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Speaker 1: How are you? My name is Jewbell and a host

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Speaker 1: the radio show and it's called The Jewbell Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Carolina, the show's here too. My name is Nina.

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Speaker 1: Hi An, I'm Victoria. There's three of us on the

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Speaker 1: phone with you right now.

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Speaker 3: Hi. Okay, sorry, three of this Okay, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: We do a segment on our show it's called the

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Speaker 1: first Date follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: somebody and end up ghosting them, that person can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody that you dated recently.

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Speaker 1: Okay, any idea who would be?

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Speaker 3: Was it Drea?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: It was Drea wants to know why you're ghosting her,

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Speaker 2: why you haven't been to work.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I'll tell you about that. Okay. Cool. I

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Speaker 3: mean if you don't mind about it, yeah, sorry.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, but you know what, fine, So I'm go

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Speaker 5: seeing Draya. You can tell her this because you know,

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Speaker 5: as we were leaving our date, something just didn't really

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Speaker 3: It was a comment that she made.

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Speaker 5: She's kind of like, oh, do you know, it's going

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Speaker 3: So I was hurt by that.

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Speaker 5: I thought it was really uncalled for, and from there

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Speaker 1: She was saying that going out with you was going

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like basically like getting back at her, Like happiness

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Speaker 5: Actually I haven't been around her because I called out

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Speaker 3: But I'm to figure that out.

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Speaker 2: You think that she didn't really like you that much,

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Speaker 2: She just wanted to make her ex jealous.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's see, because she's actually on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's been listening this whole time, and she wants to

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, so Treya, you're there right? Oh? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm here. Sorry, I just got kind of like I

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Speaker 5: Would say right now, like, I do appreciate the apology

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Speaker 5: prea why, it's just kind of like the whole X talk.

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Speaker 5: I feel like this is a lot of talk about

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Speaker 5: your acts, and like I don't even like bringing up

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Speaker 5: like past girlfriends or even guys I dated about nothing from.

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Speaker 3: The past like early on, So I feel like this

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Speaker 3: is a lot coming at me.

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Speaker 5: Does that make sense you dated guys?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I date people for sure. Yeah. Oh yeah, you

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Speaker 3: didn't tell me that, so I didn't know that. So

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Speaker 3: I just thought I'll mention you know, your secrets for sure.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, that's kind of Oh, this is a lot. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: well you're getting on to me about like my ex

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Speaker 3: but you didn't even tell me about your x's so

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Speaker 3: it's just kind of it's just kind of odds to me.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't really getting on too about your acts. I

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Speaker 5: think for me it was just more about like, oh,

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Speaker 5: that seemed like some game playing there.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, well I just I mean, I guess like

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Speaker 3: I kind of like tow you upfront about things. I

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Speaker 3: you know, I don't really like to keep things from people,

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Speaker 3: even though early on in a relationship, you know, because

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Speaker 3: when you're trying to get to know somebody, you're trying

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Speaker 3: to get to know somebody.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but like in time, for sure, that is.

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Speaker 3: Exactly what I'm trying to say. You just pretty much

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Speaker 3: stated it there. You know.

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Speaker 5: I just think it takes time to get to know

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Speaker 5: one that I don't need to know everything up front.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'm just kind of different on that end.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like, you know, I mean, we're different.

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Speaker 2: Carolina, would you would you like to go with your

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Speaker 2: egg in another day? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I think I've just made myself pretty clear here.

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Speaker 3: Again.

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Speaker 5: I think she seems like a cool girl, but I

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Speaker 5: think you know she's I'm not the one for her.

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Speaker 5: You know that it's early on, but I can tell, I

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Speaker 5: can definitely tell this.

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Speaker 3: We're just not a match. But yeah, no, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would feel like to be friends because

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Speaker 3: I think you're a really cool girls. But I mean,

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Speaker 3: I just I'm not really interested either, because you know,

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Speaker 3: it's like doing to hype things from me.

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Speaker 5: So well, hopefully you know, work friends will leave it

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Speaker 5: at that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well see it work, Carolina.

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Speaker 4: I have a good birthday back after being sick.

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Speaker 5: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate that. Jubile's first date follow up