WEBVTT - From the Archives: Alex and Jamie Bernstein

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Alec Baldwin here. Before we launch our next

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<v Speaker 1>season of Here's the Thing at iHeartRadio in January, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I'd share a few of my favorite shows from

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<v Speaker 1>the archives. Few people could have convinced Hollywood Studios to

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<v Speaker 1>back a biopic about the life of the composer and

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<v Speaker 1>conductor Leonard Bernstein. But when its director and leading man

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<v Speaker 1>are Bradley Cooper, who could say no? His film Maestro

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<v Speaker 1>premieres tomorrow, December twentieth on Netflix. Here's my interview with

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<v Speaker 1>two of Bernstein's children, Jamie and Alex Bernstein.

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<v Speaker 2>Carnegie Hall in New York City, the home of the

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<v Speaker 2>world's greatest musical events.

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<v Speaker 1>In the nineteen fifties, television was a powerful new spotlight

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<v Speaker 1>in search of a talent that could shine back just as.

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<v Speaker 3>Bright and here is mister Bernstein.

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<v Speaker 1>When it landed on Leonard Bernstein, the young conductor more

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<v Speaker 1>than shined back. His primetime show, Leonard Bernstein Young People's

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<v Speaker 1>Concerts with the New York Philharmonic was a benchmark of

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<v Speaker 1>quality programming and seduced the entire country.

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<v Speaker 4>No matter how many times people tell you stories about

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<v Speaker 4>what music means, forget them. Stories aren't what music means

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<v Speaker 4>at all. Music is never about anything. Music just is

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<v Speaker 4>music is notes, beautiful notes, and songs put together in

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<v Speaker 4>such a way that we get pleasure out of listening

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<v Speaker 4>to them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all there is to Bernstein was a masterful teacher,

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<v Speaker 1>explaining classical music with a passion and clarity that couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>help but influence an entire generation of musicians and artists.

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<v Speaker 1>In those days, there were far fewer celebrities, and Bernstein

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the biggest. He wore it well, taking

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<v Speaker 1>his seat at the piano at the center of the party.

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<v Speaker 5>He really enjoyed the public. Leonard Bernstein, he loved the key.

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<v Speaker 5>Leonard Bernstein loved and he loved being famous, and he

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<v Speaker 5>loved meeting everybody in the world and.

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<v Speaker 6>In fancy hotels and flying first class. And he'd take

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<v Speaker 6>us along and share it with us, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't this cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Bernstein was a musician, a conductor, a teacher, and a

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<v Speaker 1>composer of classical music as well as Broadway musicals. He

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<v Speaker 1>was also a father.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm the bossy one.

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<v Speaker 1>Bernstein and his wife Felicia had three children, Jamie, Alexander,

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<v Speaker 1>and Nina, and while they knew him in the tucks

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<v Speaker 1>and tales. They also knew him as the dad who

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<v Speaker 1>loved games. He was a killer at anagrams and always

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<v Speaker 1>up for tennis or squash or skiing or touch football.

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<v Speaker 3>The word games, you have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Two of Bernstein's children, Jamie and Alexander, spoke with me

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<v Speaker 1>about their legendary father and what it was like to

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<v Speaker 1>grow up with people like Stephen Sondheim and Jerome Robbins

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<v Speaker 1>as regular HouseGuests.

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<v Speaker 3>When we were really little.

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<v Speaker 6>Alexander and I used to share a bedroom when we

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<v Speaker 6>were like, you know, really little, and we lived in

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<v Speaker 6>the Osbourne, which is that grand building, and Alexander and

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<v Speaker 6>I slept, you know, at sort of right angles to

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<v Speaker 6>each other in this bedroom, and we would go to

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<v Speaker 6>sleep listening to the grown ups carrying on downstairs. Is

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<v Speaker 6>what we fell asleep to the noise of the you know,

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<v Speaker 6>the laughing and the roaring around the piano, singing, sneaking

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<v Speaker 6>of the glasses, and the smell of the cigarette smoke

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<v Speaker 6>washing up the sas shape. We could not wait to

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<v Speaker 6>be grown ups because obviously all grown ups did was

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<v Speaker 6>have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>That's interesting.

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<v Speaker 6>That's how it seemed to us, And it seemed like

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<v Speaker 6>our dad certainly had fun when he was working too,

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<v Speaker 6>so we never saw anything that resembled drudgery, which is

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<v Speaker 6>probably a thing that most kids perceive in their working parents.

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<v Speaker 3>It's tough. What about your mother?

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<v Speaker 1>Was your mother someone who was his companion and she

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<v Speaker 1>was along for the ride and all of it and

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<v Speaker 1>loving it.

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<v Speaker 3>Or was she someone who was sitting in the room going,

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<v Speaker 3>when's it gonna stop my eyes?

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<v Speaker 1>The energizer bunny and the Martini in his hand and a.

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<v Speaker 7>Pell Mell in the other Scotch not Martinez, Scotchie, Valentine's

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<v Speaker 7>a Valentine's beer, Oh Scotch, Scotch did am and she

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<v Speaker 7>had a Chesterfield my grandfather vodka and the other.

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<v Speaker 3>But your mother was his trusted companion. She was she

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<v Speaker 3>was in. She was all in, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 6>All in, and I think it drove her crazy, every

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<v Speaker 6>bit as much as she loved it all.

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<v Speaker 3>She was very social. Where was she from? And where

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<v Speaker 3>did they meet?

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<v Speaker 5>They met at a party given by Claudio organist and.

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<v Speaker 3>Who was her teacher because he was studying piano.

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<v Speaker 5>She had told her parents that she was coming to

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<v Speaker 5>New York to study piano, but she really wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>be an actress, so she came.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a beautiful woman, and she was beautiful, very beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>So she had this understanding with Aral that she would

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<v Speaker 5>be sort of studying with him, But meanwhile she was

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<v Speaker 5>studying with my parents.

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<v Speaker 8>Now make this sound of the piano. The debuts we're

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<v Speaker 8>like to make parents now in exactly so America.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was very much like that.

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<v Speaker 6>It was, And the legend has it that our mother

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<v Speaker 6>sat at his feet and fed him shrimps one by one.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the beginning of the romance. Yeah, yeah, not around.

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<v Speaker 3>She might have been doing that and they got engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>But where was he ad in his career then?

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<v Speaker 6>So he had already had his big debut with the

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<v Speaker 6>New York Philharmonic, because that was in nineteen forty three.

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<v Speaker 3>Were he filled in for for he filled in the.

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<v Speaker 6>Ailing Bruno Vaulter, as he's always referred to in that circumstance.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought his first name was ailing anyway, So this

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<v Speaker 6>must have been like maybe four or five years later,

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<v Speaker 6>So he was riding high, but he was not yet.

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<v Speaker 3>That'll be a name.

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<v Speaker 1>I stay in a hotel, and from now I love

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<v Speaker 1>good names for hotels. I'm going to stay in a

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<v Speaker 1>hotel under the name.

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<v Speaker 3>Ailing e h l I aiming. Bruno Vote is the

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<v Speaker 3>name I would use this hotel, and so Bruno Vote.

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<v Speaker 3>The fluent year was that. That was November fourteenth, nineteen

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<v Speaker 3>forty three.

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<v Speaker 9>Wow, good afternoon, the United States Rubber Company again invites

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<v Speaker 9>you to Carnegie Hall to hear a concert of the

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<v Speaker 9>New York Philharmonic Symphony Orchestra. Bruno Vaulter, who was to

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<v Speaker 9>have conducted this afternoon, is ill, and his place will

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<v Speaker 9>be taken by the young American born assistant conductor of

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<v Speaker 9>the Philharmonic Symphony, Leonard Bernstein.

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<v Speaker 3>And he had to get up there on a moment's notes.

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<v Speaker 6>And he'd been up all night the night before because

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<v Speaker 6>he'd had a premiere of a song cycle of his

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<v Speaker 6>called I Hate Music, and it had premiered the night before.

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<v Speaker 6>So of course it was a cardi a town hall

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<v Speaker 6>and it was very well received, and of course there

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<v Speaker 6>was a party afterwards, and they were up all the

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<v Speaker 6>livelong night. And at the time, you know, our dad

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<v Speaker 6>was living in Carnegie Hall in those little apartments they

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<v Speaker 6>used to have at the top. So he gets back

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<v Speaker 6>to Carnegie Hall at you know, five in the morning

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<v Speaker 6>and passes out and then like an hour and a

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<v Speaker 6>half later, the phone rings and it's Bruno Zerrato of

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<v Speaker 6>the New York Philharmonic saying, this is a.

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<v Speaker 3>Kid you have to go on this afternoon. And it

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<v Speaker 3>was on the radio. It was a national broadcast, which

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<v Speaker 3>is why it was such a big deal.

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<v Speaker 9>Lennard Burns, Dane has come out on the platform.

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<v Speaker 6>It was highly covered in the press, probably because it

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<v Speaker 6>was the middle of the war and everybody needed a

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<v Speaker 6>feel good story. Yes, American boy makes good kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 6>So one guy said, it's like a shoe string catch

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<v Speaker 6>in center field. Make it and you're a hero, Muffett

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<v Speaker 6>and you're a dope. Bernstein made it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he ever reflect on that to you? Meaning when

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<v Speaker 1>people have that kind of debut? He came up that

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<v Speaker 1>night and everything changed after.

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<v Speaker 6>That, Right, he pretty much knew that it was a

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<v Speaker 6>sort of Cinderella tale and that he just got this

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<v Speaker 6>unbelievable lucky break.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And did he believe was it ever discussed even

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<v Speaker 1>by your mother or people like that? Did your father

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<v Speaker 1>realize he must have that his sexuality and that his

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<v Speaker 1>good looks were as much a part of this talent

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<v Speaker 1>as anything else.

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<v Speaker 3>I think there's no.

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<v Speaker 5>Doubt about that, and I think played he played it

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<v Speaker 5>probably from high school on, you know, and as soon

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<v Speaker 5>as he started playing the piano and knew he had

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<v Speaker 5>this incredible talent and could play at parties and get

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<v Speaker 5>all his attention and.

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<v Speaker 3>He had a meeting out of his hands, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>and the shrimp out of the hand. Yeah, at age

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<v Speaker 3>twenty five, he was still a little geeky.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean the pictures of him with the Philharmonic after

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<v Speaker 6>the debut, where he's all exhausted and tousled and sweaty,

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<v Speaker 6>he actually looks like like a bar Mitzvah.

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<v Speaker 9>Boy.

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<v Speaker 6>He was a little funny, and I think he kind

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<v Speaker 6>of grew into his grooviness over the subsequent years.

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<v Speaker 3>So your father, he had three children over ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And what was that like for him in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of were there did he have certain kind of

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<v Speaker 1>rules in terms of how he protected you from the

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<v Speaker 1>public and the schools you went to and the way

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<v Speaker 1>you lived your life, or was he just very loosey goosey?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I would say that he was not your

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<v Speaker 3>mother in charge.

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<v Speaker 6>He was the one who really designed the way our

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<v Speaker 6>lives went on a day to day basis. He was

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<v Speaker 6>busy being the maestro, and then you would come home

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<v Speaker 6>and play with us and hang out, but have fun

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<v Speaker 6>and have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>But he was not really the designer of the domestic scene.

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<v Speaker 5>He was a great He was home. He was really home.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, you didn't have an office to go to.

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<v Speaker 3>And when did you get him aware of who your

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<v Speaker 3>father was?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you when you're growing up, your family's just

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<v Speaker 6>your family. You have no objectivity about it, and your

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<v Speaker 6>parents are just your parents, and you don't really think

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<v Speaker 6>about how different they might be from the others until

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<v Speaker 6>you get older. At some point when we were pretty young,

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<v Speaker 6>there was an episode of The Flintstones.

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<v Speaker 3>What time is it, Betty? It's tenants to nine, Betty

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<v Speaker 3>and Wilma. We're going to go to the HALLI Rock Bowl.

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<v Speaker 3>I love to watch Leonard Burnstown conduct and the first

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<v Speaker 3>thing on the.

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<v Speaker 4>Program is that gorgeous symphony by Rocky Manning A.

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<v Speaker 3>When we were here, he had hit the big time.

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<v Speaker 3>And how old were you kids? Little kids? Yeh, like

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<v Speaker 3>you know, nine and six even less? Was there a

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<v Speaker 3>downside to it? Did you feel like there were things

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<v Speaker 3>that were tough for you with him?

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<v Speaker 5>And looking back on it now or when we got older,

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<v Speaker 5>probably look back and think about some downsides, but at

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<v Speaker 5>the time it really didn't seem so bad at all.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a lot of when we were really little,

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<v Speaker 3>it was just a lark.

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<v Speaker 6>I often try to think back to come on, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>there must have been some he was shadows, But we

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<v Speaker 6>had a pretty fantastic early childhood.

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<v Speaker 2>It was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was kind of wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not some tortured introspective. He was a happy guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 6>Was introspective, he was, but but back in those early

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<v Speaker 6>days of our family life, that was overshadowed by the

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<v Speaker 6>joy and the happiness, the busyness and the family life,

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<v Speaker 6>and the kept that from you.

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<v Speaker 5>We are ascended he kept that from you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll tell you in my memory, the moment when it

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<v Speaker 6>changed was November twenty second, nineteen sixty three, the day

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<v Speaker 6>JFK was assassinated. That was when the shadow fell over

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<v Speaker 6>and life became sort of real. Up until that point,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, grown ups just had fun as far as

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<v Speaker 6>we could perceive. And then that day we saw our

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<v Speaker 6>parents fall apart. They were crying because they were friends

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<v Speaker 6>of the Kennedys. They had been to the White House.

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<v Speaker 6>They had had dinner just the four of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine they had been centerpieces of Kennedy's cultural programming in

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<v Speaker 1>the White Acci.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they could.

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<v Speaker 6>Not have been more connected to the Kennedy administration and

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<v Speaker 6>everything that it stood for. So on that day when

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<v Speaker 6>when he was assassinated, our parents just fell apart, and

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<v Speaker 6>so did the whole rest of the family and all

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<v Speaker 6>their friends. And they pulled down the shades and out

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<v Speaker 6>around crying all day. And just watch TV. Now we

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<v Speaker 6>could perceive that there were shadows and that there were

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<v Speaker 6>ups and downs that wasn't visible to us in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Itself can affect people psychologically. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What about your mom in terms of her music appreciation?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she studied the piano, but did she go

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<v Speaker 1>on have any kind of a serious career even ur

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<v Speaker 1>in her young years when she was with Arau, did

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<v Speaker 1>she play? Did she study? Once she met and married

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<v Speaker 1>your father? Did all that stop?

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<v Speaker 5>Her piano playing stopped? She would play sometimes at home,

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<v Speaker 5>and quite beautifully, but she wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>As passionate about it. No, what was she passionate about?

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<v Speaker 5>Was passionate about her acting? She kept at that sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>she would and what were some of the things she

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<v Speaker 5>was working on During her career.

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<v Speaker 6>She did a lot of early television Playhouse ninety and

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<v Speaker 6>craft Heater and all those live dramas that they had

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<v Speaker 6>in early television.

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<v Speaker 3>She did a lot of that and a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>stage work. Did that stop at some point? It kind of.

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<v Speaker 6>Receded as she came missus maestro and a mom, which

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<v Speaker 6>was a double job that could keep anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, when was she generally happy to do those things?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she ever a voice? Because it's interesting to me

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<v Speaker 1>to have someone who is in the world of music herself.

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<v Speaker 1>She was studied with raw It's a serious opportunity there.

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<v Speaker 1>She had aspirations about music and acting, and did she

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<v Speaker 1>miss those things? Did she ever say gosh, I fondly?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she have a little bit of a wistfulness about it?

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<v Speaker 3>She was pretty ambivalent about it. Yeah she did.

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<v Speaker 5>And she didn't really talk a lot about her inner

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<v Speaker 5>herself too.

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<v Speaker 9>Ah.

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<v Speaker 3>What she did tell you.

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<v Speaker 6>About a little bit was that she had some stage

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<v Speaker 6>fright issues, and so when she started performing less in public,

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<v Speaker 6>she would say that she was relieved, and that being

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<v Speaker 6>you know, this, this Missus Bernstein persona was a way

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<v Speaker 6>of not having to confront her fears about performing, But

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<v Speaker 6>I think you know, anybody who has performed, how a

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<v Speaker 6>part of them that still wants to perform. But she

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<v Speaker 6>knew that that it was just going to be too

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<v Speaker 6>hard to have these two rampant egos in the household.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably a good call.

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<v Speaker 1>Coming up more about Bernstein's early years in Massachusetts and

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<v Speaker 1>his final concert at Tanglewood, which his brother described as

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<v Speaker 1>Lenny coming home to die.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Alec Baldwin.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking with two of Leonard Bernstein's children, Jamie and Alexander.

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<v Speaker 1>I see someone like your dad who sounds very childlike

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<v Speaker 1>did the young People's concerts father, fun and joy and

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<v Speaker 1>and and family and love bursting with love. Leonard Bernstein

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<v Speaker 1>is someone to me who when he's on the podium,

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<v Speaker 1>who love is just shooting out of him like a rainbow.

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<v Speaker 1>Love of this and love of that, and love of life,

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<v Speaker 1>and love of sex, and love of sound, and love

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<v Speaker 1>of women and love of beauty. And I wonder was

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<v Speaker 1>it because as the result of his classical training, did

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<v Speaker 1>he not have enough childhood?

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<v Speaker 6>His childhood was not about music. He was raised where

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<v Speaker 6>he was where he was born, in Lawrence, Massachusetts, and

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<v Speaker 6>then shortly thereafter they moved to the Boston area.

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<v Speaker 10>First they lived in Roxburgh. He was a hair products salesman.

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<v Speaker 10>He was a salesman and his mom was she musical.

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<v Speaker 10>How did the music get into his life?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, here's the thing. There was this Clara who moved

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<v Speaker 6>to Florida, and so she sent all her furniture over

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<v Speaker 6>to her brother Sam's house, and along with all the

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<v Speaker 6>couches and breakfronts, arrived this upright piano.

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<v Speaker 3>Our dad was ten years old.

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<v Speaker 6>The piano got hauled into the house and as our

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<v Speaker 6>father told it, he touched the piano and that was it.

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<v Speaker 6>He knew it's one of those stories. And he taught

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<v Speaker 6>himself theory. He just played the piano.

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<v Speaker 3>He figured he could figure it all out late in

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<v Speaker 3>the modern world.

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<v Speaker 6>And the thing about his dad, Sam Bernstein, is that Sam,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, it was a depression. But Sam was very

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<v Speaker 6>proud that he was able to tide his family over

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<v Speaker 6>the depression because he had this very successful beauty supply business,

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<v Speaker 6>the Samuel J. Bernstein Hair Company in Boston. It's Bernstein

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<v Speaker 6>was the slogan, and he had the New England franchise

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<v Speaker 6>for the Frederick's Permanent Wave machine.

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<v Speaker 1>And everybody knows it, even in a depression. There's two

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<v Speaker 1>things you don't like, go booze and vanity. There you go,

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<v Speaker 1>you have your hair done.

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<v Speaker 6>All those women would go in and be attached to

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<v Speaker 6>that that machine that looks like Bride of Frankenstein. They

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<v Speaker 6>were all doing it. So they got through the depression.

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<v Speaker 6>And Sam was so proud that he was able to

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<v Speaker 6>pass the Samuel J. Bernstein Hair Company along to his

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<v Speaker 6>eldest son to run. And of course Lenny had no

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<v Speaker 6>intention of running the Samuel J. Bernstein Hair Company in Boston.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Bernstein and it was a real problem between hair.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, he did swell had of hair.

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<v Speaker 5>Then what Sam was not going to let him be

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<v Speaker 5>a kletzmer musician, you know, because he can't get weddings

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<v Speaker 5>and funerals. And that was it, you know, that's what

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<v Speaker 5>a musician does in the old country.

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<v Speaker 6>That a musician was a beggar, a homeless guy who

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<v Speaker 6>went from Stettl to Stettele playing the fiddle and.

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<v Speaker 3>Getting a few kopeks at the wedding you call out

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<v Speaker 3>a living.

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<v Speaker 5>So what happened so little by little it became clear

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<v Speaker 5>that he was immensely talented at this and it went

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<v Speaker 5>to the Boston Latin School and then to Harvard.

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<v Speaker 3>And he gets to Harvard to study what music. Just know,

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<v Speaker 3>they had no music, no music department. You couldn't major

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<v Speaker 3>in it. So he was he a literature guy.

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<v Speaker 1>She was born in nineteen eighteen eighteen. So he's there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, class thirty nine. No music department at Harvard.

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<v Speaker 1>There and the just immediately prior of the war. And

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<v Speaker 1>then when he leaves Harvard, where does he go. He

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<v Speaker 1>goes to Curtis. So Curtis where for one he goes

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<v Speaker 1>to the next level he was.

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<v Speaker 5>Curtis is where the music at Harvard, he's writing music,

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<v Speaker 5>he's putting on shows constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>Curtis is the real temple of musical study that he enters.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the real formalizing of his musical education.

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<v Speaker 5>He studies with Fritz Reiner, right, you know, studies conducting.

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<v Speaker 3>It all goes on a big level here, a big level.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was it was tough. He was very lonely.

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<v Speaker 3>It was it was a tough year or two for

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<v Speaker 3>him at Curtis. He's there for how long a little

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<v Speaker 3>over a year?

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<v Speaker 5>I think, then what happens a long time? And then

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<v Speaker 5>he came to New York, desperate to find work. He

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<v Speaker 5>was ready to hit New York and do what he started.

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<v Speaker 3>He wrote.

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<v Speaker 5>Arrangements, arrangements and stuff under an assumed name Lenny Amber.

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<v Speaker 5>He arranged Ornette Coleman charts. He did all sorts of

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<v Speaker 5>weird things he did, didn't you do? Like a fourhands

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<v Speaker 5>version of Ilsel and Mickey co for Aaron Copeland. Well

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<v Speaker 5>that was the big thing that he got to know

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<v Speaker 5>Eric Copeland to know how did that happen?

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<v Speaker 3>That he was still in college when he met Aaron

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<v Speaker 3>Harvard or Curtis Harvard, Harvard. Yeah, so at Harvard he

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<v Speaker 3>meets Copeland under what circumstances? Because if he's not in

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<v Speaker 3>a music program, how does he rub shoulders with?

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<v Speaker 5>I think he gets invited to He came to New

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<v Speaker 5>York for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>He was invited to be seeking out and sniffing out

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<v Speaker 1>the musical world, even though it was at Harvest and

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<v Speaker 1>he's an a concert.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it was now sitting next to Aaron and

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<v Speaker 5>they get to know each other.

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<v Speaker 6>And it turned out to be Aaron's birthday and Aaron

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<v Speaker 6>invited our dad back to his loft for the party.

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<v Speaker 3>Clara Ships the piano of the house.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's ooh moment number one. He gets seated next

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<v Speaker 1>to Copeland Ooh moment number two, and.

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<v Speaker 6>Then goes to the birthday party and plays Copeland's piano

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<v Speaker 6>variations in front of the whole crowd, which our dad

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<v Speaker 6>was in the habit of doing and clearing rooms because

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<v Speaker 6>it's a very gnarly piece.

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<v Speaker 3>And so he said, are you sure you want me.

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<v Speaker 6>To play it at this party because it usually clears

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<v Speaker 6>the room, And Aaron said, not at this party.

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<v Speaker 3>And he played it and didn't clear the room. He

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<v Speaker 3>did not clear that lands.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's all of Copeland's contemporaries, and he plays, and

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<v Speaker 1>a friendship and a relationship with Copeland commences there right

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<v Speaker 1>lifelong another than I would say, probably as much, if

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<v Speaker 1>not more than slat Can. Your father was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the great interpreters of Copeland. I mean that the two

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<v Speaker 1>of them were my two favorites. Bernstein and Slatkin are

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<v Speaker 1>my two favorite Copeland isers. And then what is the

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<v Speaker 1>quick series of steps that gets them to the associate

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<v Speaker 1>directorship of the Philharmonic?

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<v Speaker 5>I think an introduction to Krusoviski going to Tanglewood conducting

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<v Speaker 5>a tangle.

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<v Speaker 3>She was a guest conductor of tangle You know, he's

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<v Speaker 3>a student student conductors student.

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<v Speaker 6>Tangle would have just been invented by Krusovitski, and our

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<v Speaker 6>dad was in that first class.

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<v Speaker 3>And so Kruzovitski is the one who builds tango, would

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<v Speaker 3>he he.

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<v Speaker 1>Is, He's the music director, He's theso who oversees the

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<v Speaker 1>construction of that. What are some of your best memories

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<v Speaker 1>of your dad there?

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<v Speaker 3>What would you do? Remember? What was this?

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<v Speaker 6>If you will go ahead, give me give me here

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<v Speaker 6>you're laughing, Well, we're laughing because our dad loved to

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<v Speaker 6>go to tangle Wood so much his entire life. Every

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<v Speaker 6>time he went up there, it was like he would

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<v Speaker 6>be rejuvenated, he would turn into a kid again.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a holy place. It's a holy place.

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<v Speaker 1>And what he really loved was being with all those

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<v Speaker 1>Can we say that again, that that that the Berkshires

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<v Speaker 1>is a holy place. Your father loved it there.

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<v Speaker 5>Tell you we both worked at Tanglewood. What did you

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<v Speaker 5>do it for a few more years than James.

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<v Speaker 3>We were guide.

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<v Speaker 5>We were guides, which was a fancy name for just

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<v Speaker 5>doing anything that they need to be done. But you know,

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<v Speaker 5>you man the gates and you show people around. That

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<v Speaker 5>was the guide part. Sometimes there would be tours, and

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<v Speaker 5>also you would tend to be backstage and help the

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<v Speaker 5>artists and move them around and pick them up at

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<v Speaker 5>the airport stuff like that. And it was just heaven

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<v Speaker 5>to be up there for a summer.

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<v Speaker 3>And there was also this sense I think our dad

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<v Speaker 3>had it from the very beginning that.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, everybody was sort of out in this beautiful weather,

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<v Speaker 6>in this beautiful place with all these fun people, and

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<v Speaker 6>there would be Shenanigans. We just fell right into the

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<v Speaker 6>Shenanigan's sensibility of the place that you know, it was

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<v Speaker 6>just fun and everybody was partying all night and having romances.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny you say that, because it is probably

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<v Speaker 1>one of the two or three most romantic places I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever been.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you can go.

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<v Speaker 1>For those people listening who don't know, the tangle Wood

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<v Speaker 1>is in the Berkshires and Massachusetts and it's the it's

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<v Speaker 1>the summer residency of the Boston in the Orchestra.

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<v Speaker 3>And you go up there to Lennox massive piece of land.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a massive tract of land, and in that way,

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<v Speaker 1>in a good way that you can talk about going

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere with someone and driving that decompressing road trip that

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<v Speaker 1>as you drive and drive and you get closer and closer,

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<v Speaker 1>you just feel your your body relaxing. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>get the excitement of going to Tanglewood and you go

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<v Speaker 1>and you get your your basket.

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<v Speaker 3>And your food and your wine. The real fun is

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<v Speaker 3>to be out on the lawn. The lawn.

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<v Speaker 1>The lawn is even better in a way if you've

0:23:36.640 --> 0:23:38.720
<v Speaker 1>got the basket and the girl and the wine or

0:23:38.920 --> 0:23:42.119
<v Speaker 1>whatever your preference is there. And I think I've never

0:23:42.240 --> 0:23:45.040
<v Speaker 1>seen more people who are getting it right, you know,

0:23:45.080 --> 0:23:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean in terms of having a lovely evening and

0:23:46.680 --> 0:23:48.440
<v Speaker 1>if they get smashed on top of it, you know,

0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:50.120
<v Speaker 1>I guess what I'm saying is, there's nothing like getting

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:51.240
<v Speaker 1>smashed at Tanglewood.

0:23:52.520 --> 0:23:53.679
<v Speaker 3>It's it's the best kind of thing.

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>That I was a guide, there was no comment.

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<v Speaker 6>And the year that I was a guide, there was

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<v Speaker 6>the year the Fillmore East came up there like three

0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:07.320
<v Speaker 6>different times, and I saw.

0:24:08.800 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 3>And Jimmy Hendrick, you're saying that Bill.

0:24:13.240 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 1>Graham, he had his production company Fillmore meaning as a

0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:17.280
<v Speaker 1>production company.

0:24:17.520 --> 0:24:21.440
<v Speaker 3>The Artist Boys.

0:24:22.040 --> 0:24:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Played the Shed played the Shed, And I was in

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<v Speaker 1>a bathroom. To them, we.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, what real pleasure has to be back in Tangleod again.

0:24:36.600 --> 0:24:38.080
<v Speaker 3>We were on the heir last August.

0:24:38.440 --> 0:24:41.040
<v Speaker 6>They trashed that long. That's why they were never invited back.

0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:43.200
<v Speaker 6>You would not have wanted.

0:24:45.119 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Is it funny how we've changed Back then? I would

0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>have been the who I'm like, we're not having them here.

0:24:49.600 --> 0:24:51.800
<v Speaker 1>We can have that that likes Sara and Tanglewood.

0:24:52.160 --> 0:24:53.440
<v Speaker 3>They tried. Who else did the Graham?

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:57.280
<v Speaker 5>Mister Kylie, who ran the head of the groundskeepers, was

0:24:57.600 --> 0:24:58.480
<v Speaker 5>just beside himself.

0:25:00.760 --> 0:25:03.440
<v Speaker 3>He really was. It was a disaster. Your father loved

0:25:03.440 --> 0:25:03.879
<v Speaker 3>it there.

0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:06.159
<v Speaker 6>Though he loved it, and you loved to stay up

0:25:06.200 --> 0:25:07.920
<v Speaker 6>all night yacking with the students.

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:11.879
<v Speaker 3>That was what really did your dad admire in his constellation?

0:25:11.960 --> 0:25:15.000
<v Speaker 3>Who did he? I heard a story once from someone.

0:25:15.240 --> 0:25:18.760
<v Speaker 1>They said they were at your family's home and your

0:25:18.800 --> 0:25:20.560
<v Speaker 1>father's standing there with a cigarette in his hand and

0:25:20.640 --> 0:25:22.200
<v Speaker 1>a drink in the other. And someone says, I just

0:25:22.280 --> 0:25:24.800
<v Speaker 1>came from seeing the Beatles and the and the quote

0:25:24.920 --> 0:25:26.880
<v Speaker 1>was a very simple one. They said that Bernstein said

0:25:26.920 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>turned to my friend and said.

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<v Speaker 3>You came and sold the Beatles. He says, I can't

0:25:29.680 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 3>wait to see them myself.

0:25:30.800 --> 0:25:33.719
<v Speaker 1>He said, I'm mad for them, and he just had

0:25:33.760 --> 0:25:36.480
<v Speaker 1>a passion for all disparate forms of music.

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:39.720
<v Speaker 3>And he really did love the Beatles a lot.

0:25:39.840 --> 0:25:42.359
<v Speaker 6>And we were so lucky as we were growing up

0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:46.120
<v Speaker 6>because I was a complete beatlemaniac and my dad loved

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:50.200
<v Speaker 6>their music too, So together we would discover the Beatles,

0:25:50.240 --> 0:25:52.560
<v Speaker 6>and when they had a new album, I would run

0:25:52.600 --> 0:25:54.399
<v Speaker 6>out and get it and go straight to my father's

0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 6>studio and say, look, look I've got rubbers Oll and

0:25:57.440 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 6>you'd say, great, let's put it on right now, and

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:01.920
<v Speaker 6>we'd stick the echered on. And I learned more about

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:04.919
<v Speaker 6>music by listening to the Beatles with my dad than

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:06.160
<v Speaker 6>I think I did any other way.

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:09.160
<v Speaker 3>You know, my dad passed away. He was very young.

0:26:09.400 --> 0:26:11.200
<v Speaker 3>My dad was only fifty five. He was a year

0:26:11.240 --> 0:26:12.200
<v Speaker 3>older than I am now.

0:26:12.359 --> 0:26:15.200
<v Speaker 1>He had a very rare form of cancer and he

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:18.040
<v Speaker 1>died of lung cancer when he was fifty five. And

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:20.359
<v Speaker 1>your dad didn't live a very long life either. How

0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 1>old were both of you when your dad passed.

0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:26.480
<v Speaker 3>Away, Well, he died at seventy two, which is not five.

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:31.480
<v Speaker 3>It was you were thirty five and I was thirty nine,

0:26:31.600 --> 0:26:33.639
<v Speaker 3>So you were grown a dull people.

0:26:34.040 --> 0:26:34.639
<v Speaker 1>But like you.

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:37.920
<v Speaker 6>Our mother died when she was fifty six, and we

0:26:38.040 --> 0:26:41.200
<v Speaker 6>were much younger when that happened. She died in nineteen

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:45.720
<v Speaker 6>seventy eight, so we were in our early twenties, and.

0:26:46.040 --> 0:26:47.160
<v Speaker 3>Our dad died in what year?

0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 6>He died in nineteen ninety, so by then we were

0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:53.640
<v Speaker 6>you know, adults more or less. But when our mother died,

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:56.280
<v Speaker 6>we were still a very young family. Nina was only

0:26:56.760 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 6>fifteen or something. But did your mother die from un cancer?

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.120
<v Speaker 3>Was a smoker? Yep?

0:27:03.119 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>My point is that your dad didn't live a very

0:27:06.160 --> 0:27:09.560
<v Speaker 1>long life. Did he die suddenly or did he get

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:11.840
<v Speaker 1>sick and he knew he was in trouble he got

0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:15.439
<v Speaker 1>he was sick for like six months of being released.

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:19.440
<v Speaker 5>He was diagnosed with Uh he had all sorts of

0:27:19.520 --> 0:27:22.080
<v Speaker 5>chess problems, sure, you know, through his life, but uh,

0:27:22.680 --> 0:27:27.320
<v Speaker 5>it was it was not cigarette related, which was probably

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:29.440
<v Speaker 5>asbestos thing when he was a kid or who knows.

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 5>I mean, it didn't help that he smoked, obviously, but

0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 5>but you know, just having the oxygen and stuff. That

0:27:37.840 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 5>was the last, you know, a month or so. He

0:28:08.520 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 5>died in October and his last concert was at Tanglewood

0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 5>in August that nineteen ninety's okay, so he could barely

0:28:17.560 --> 0:28:18.119
<v Speaker 5>get through the.

0:28:18.520 --> 0:28:23.440
<v Speaker 1>Last thing your father conducted was a public performance into

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:28.960
<v Speaker 1>the summer. He did the Beethoven seven at Tanglewood in

0:28:29.160 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 1>August of nineteen ninety yep, and died that October. I

0:28:41.520 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 1>think about your dad and did he just when he

0:28:43.760 --> 0:28:45.000
<v Speaker 1>knew he was sick and he knew he was in

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 1>trouble healthy because my dad knew he was in trouble.

0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was a moment I had with my

0:28:49.160 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 1>dad where he like, he looked at me with this

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:51.960
<v Speaker 1>look in his eye, like he knew it was over,

0:28:52.480 --> 0:28:54.000
<v Speaker 1>and he and he just I mean, he had a

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:55.680
<v Speaker 1>tear one down his face. And my father said, I'll

0:28:55.720 --> 0:28:59.160
<v Speaker 1>never know my grandchildren. And when I think about this

0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 1>with your dad, a guy like that, who had so

0:29:01.760 --> 0:29:03.960
<v Speaker 1>much more he wanted to do, did.

0:29:03.920 --> 0:29:05.680
<v Speaker 3>He ever express that too? Did he ever talk about

0:29:05.720 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 3>that he wasn't done?

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:09.760
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he did, you know, And I think, you know,

0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:14.160
<v Speaker 6>he had this fantastic climactic moment at the very end

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 6>of nineteen eighty nine, the year before he died, when

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.280
<v Speaker 6>he conducted at the Fall of the Berlin Wall, and

0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:22.240
<v Speaker 6>he did the Ode to Joy and instead of singing Freuda,

0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:25.120
<v Speaker 6>which means joy. They sang thrii height, which means freedom.

0:29:32.240 --> 0:29:34.560
<v Speaker 6>It was such a big deal for him to be

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:37.200
<v Speaker 6>there when the Berlin Wall came down, and it was

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 6>such a momentous occasion.

0:29:39.520 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 3>Where were you when that happened?

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:44.200
<v Speaker 6>I wish I had been there, And in retrospect, I

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 6>regret that I wasn't there, But I had just given

0:29:47.560 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 6>birth to my son, Evan, like.

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:52.920
<v Speaker 3>Less than eight weeks earlier. Do you have an excuse?

0:29:53.280 --> 0:29:54.120
<v Speaker 3>That was my excuse.

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 6>So I watched it on the couch on Christmas Day

0:29:57.400 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 6>while I was nursing my infant son. I watched it

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.200
<v Speaker 6>on TV because they showed the whole thing in the

0:30:02.240 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 6>live broadcast about you.

0:30:03.760 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 5>I don't even have an excuse, and I can't remember

0:30:06.000 --> 0:30:08.480
<v Speaker 5>why I didn't go. I can't believe that I wasn't there.

0:30:08.640 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 5>It's just unbelievable.

0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:11.320
<v Speaker 6>You know, we didn't know he was going to be

0:30:11.440 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 6>gone within the year, so you know, he was always there,

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:17.040
<v Speaker 6>and there were always these occasions where you could go

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:20.160
<v Speaker 6>and meet him on the road, and there were hundreds

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 6>of them, and it was kind of a pain to

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:26.640
<v Speaker 6>go get in with that whole retinue and the whole

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:28.800
<v Speaker 6>madness of being of the tour thing.

0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:31.680
<v Speaker 5>And so but Bill did it become entourage city.

0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:31.920
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:30:32.840 --> 0:30:35.040
<v Speaker 3>Right after that he got really sick with a flu.

0:30:36.000 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 3>And what year was that, nineteen eighty nine. It was

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 3>like this at the fall.

0:30:39.880 --> 0:30:43.120
<v Speaker 6>Christmas of nineteen eighty nine. And I remember visiting him

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 6>about a month later, less than a month later in

0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:50.240
<v Speaker 6>Key West, and he was just not feeling right and

0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:52.360
<v Speaker 6>he told me so, he said, I just I'm not

0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:55.720
<v Speaker 6>I don't feel right. That was the beginning of the

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.600
<v Speaker 6>slow decline. And then things got a lot worse in May,

0:30:58.760 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 6>and then he just kind of struggle through all his

0:31:01.240 --> 0:31:04.239
<v Speaker 6>gigs over the summer and then barely made it through

0:31:04.280 --> 0:31:07.920
<v Speaker 6>that Beethoven seven. We were all in the audience clutching

0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:09.600
<v Speaker 6>each other's hands, like, is he gonna make it?

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:10.360
<v Speaker 3>Is he gonna make it?

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:15.200
<v Speaker 1>We're taking a break, so stay with us. What was

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 1>his life like after your mom passed away? He didn't remarry,

0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:19.280
<v Speaker 1>did he?

0:31:20.280 --> 0:31:20.320
<v Speaker 6>No?

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:23.120
<v Speaker 5>He did not, And it was why do you think

0:31:23.160 --> 0:31:26.400
<v Speaker 5>he was so miserable for a long time after she

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:30.120
<v Speaker 5>He needed her, he needed her, and he was just

0:31:32.040 --> 0:31:37.000
<v Speaker 5>a long long time until we went on vacation. Probably

0:31:38.000 --> 0:31:39.800
<v Speaker 5>I don't know. Eight months later or something like that,

0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 5>and we sort of started seeing signs of a person again.

0:31:45.760 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 6>Tell about what happened in Jamaica. After the Christmas dinner

0:31:50.880 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 6>and then we went to the bar.

0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, this was the vacation in Jamaica. A

0:31:56.840 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 5>bunch of our family and a couple of friends, and

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 5>we went down to the bar and there were probably

0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:08.239
<v Speaker 5>a couple of people in there. And he sits down

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:11.880
<v Speaker 5>at the piano at the bar. And this was after dinner,

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:14.239
<v Speaker 5>after you know, a lot of Scotch whatever, a lot

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 5>of wine, and he plays Rhapsody in Blue from beginning

0:32:17.600 --> 0:32:21.640
<v Speaker 5>to end. It was the most amazing performance you could

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:49.000
<v Speaker 5>possibly imagine. I mean, he's just ripped it. It was unforgettable.

0:32:49.040 --> 0:32:51.200
<v Speaker 5>And then that's kind of when I knew he was back,

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 5>And it was just through the music he was.

0:32:54.960 --> 0:32:56.960
<v Speaker 3>He tells us, Oh my.

0:32:57.000 --> 0:33:00.760
<v Speaker 5>God, so obviously never married again.

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 3>But why do you think he never married again?

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:04.760
<v Speaker 1>You see a guy like that, You mean, my gun,

0:33:04.840 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>he could have had any woman in New York. He

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:09.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't have room in his life for that anymore.

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 5>No, And there were some men that he was very

0:33:11.440 --> 0:33:11.840
<v Speaker 5>close to.

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 1>And and would you say that once your mother passed

0:33:15.160 --> 0:33:18.360
<v Speaker 1>away was your father's life as a bisexual man, that

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 1>he just lived it more vividly once your mother was gone,

0:33:21.480 --> 0:33:23.720
<v Speaker 1>was much more, much more living color about it.

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:27.720
<v Speaker 5>His uh, his mother was still alive. Oh, and I

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 5>think that played a great role. That was kind of

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 5>a governor there that for him, kind of a governor

0:33:32.400 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 5>yet and then when he still had a public it

0:33:35.880 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 5>was a different time.

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:37.960
<v Speaker 3>She outlived him.

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:41.880
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she was ninety two when he died, and she

0:33:42.080 --> 0:33:45.120
<v Speaker 6>said memorably, this will shorten my life.

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:48.000
<v Speaker 3>Wow. And so he and so he.

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:51.200
<v Speaker 1>You think that he kept that quiet and kept that private,

0:33:51.640 --> 0:33:53.840
<v Speaker 1>not only because it was that that is nature to

0:33:53.920 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>be a little more private.

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 3>Like theatre.

0:33:55.520 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 5>He sort of came out sort of a few times,

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:05.480
<v Speaker 5>and I think he was once he was hoping people

0:34:05.480 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 5>would take more notice of it than they did, I think.

0:34:07.880 --> 0:34:12.080
<v Speaker 5>But I think he didn't want his mother to have

0:34:12.239 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 5>to deal with it with her friends and you know,

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 5>people talking about it.

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:17.960
<v Speaker 3>If he was alive now, how old should that be?

0:34:18.800 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 3>If he was alive now, he'd be nice.

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yes, centennial will be twenty eighteen.

0:34:25.120 --> 0:34:25.800
<v Speaker 3>Who was someone?

0:34:25.880 --> 0:34:27.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sure that we're boundless people because your

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.760
<v Speaker 1>father was very generous of heart, it seems very passionate.

0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:33.399
<v Speaker 1>But who were some of the people other than Kuzovitski

0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:35.600
<v Speaker 1>and Copen that we've covered before. Who were some of

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 1>the people that were contemporaries of your father that you

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:40.280
<v Speaker 1>remember him speaking very glowingly abou Who did he admire?

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 5>Lucas Voss would be one.

0:34:42.719 --> 0:34:45.040
<v Speaker 6>They were a Curtis together, that's where they met, and

0:34:45.200 --> 0:34:50.400
<v Speaker 6>they stayed friends and colleagues their entire lives. And Lucas

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:53.880
<v Speaker 6>was a stupendous pianist in addition to being an excellent composer.

0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:58.320
<v Speaker 6>So he played our dad's Age of Anxiety, which is

0:34:58.360 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 6>a sort of like a piano concerto. Older it's called

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:15.280
<v Speaker 6>a symphony, and Lucas could.

0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:16.279
<v Speaker 3>Just play the hell out of it.

0:35:16.400 --> 0:35:20.480
<v Speaker 6>And and our dad premiered many of Lucas's pieces with

0:35:20.600 --> 0:35:23.839
<v Speaker 6>the Philharmonic, And so that was he was one of them.

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:27.800
<v Speaker 6>Michael Tilson Thomas was someone that our dad kind of

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:29.560
<v Speaker 6>nurtured along when.

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:34.359
<v Speaker 3>Hezovitsky to a degree, Yes, to a degree. Who else

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 3>did who else did he mentor? Oh well, he was

0:35:37.600 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 3>mister mentor to a great degree.

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:46.359
<v Speaker 10>I think yeah, John, another guy with great hair, great hair,

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:47.200
<v Speaker 10>school of conducting.

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:49.439
<v Speaker 3>Nothing like that hair flying through the air looks great.

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<v Speaker 3>It's amazing how many great hair conductors there are, isn't

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<v Speaker 3>that so? Right? Well, when nothing at the Philharmonic, it

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<v Speaker 3>was his relationship with Sondheim.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh that was a big, big relationship, big friendship and

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<v Speaker 6>colleague ship.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, west Side Story.

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry Robins, all of them had this phenomenal success. Initially,

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<v Speaker 1>West Side Story was supposed to be if I'm if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an Irish.

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<v Speaker 3>Jewish gang, Yeah, a lower east Side. It was going

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<v Speaker 3>to be east Side. It was going to be Lower

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<v Speaker 3>east Side. Tempers would flare over the Easter passover holidays

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<v Speaker 3>right right right right as Leles versus the Missus. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>something like that.

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<v Speaker 6>And then apparently Jerry Robins saw some article about gang

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<v Speaker 6>wars with Puerto Ricans on the Upper West.

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<v Speaker 3>Side and he went, ding, you know the bulls, Jerry

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<v Speaker 3>it was I think it was Jerry or was it Arthur?

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<v Speaker 5>Always said it was Arthur, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it was Arthur.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably the most romantic line in the movie I've ever heard,

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<v Speaker 1>and it always brings me to tears when he turns

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<v Speaker 1>to her, they have the moment of the dance. Then

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<v Speaker 1>he turns to her and says, you're not lying to me,

0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:58.799
<v Speaker 1>are you? And she says, I have not yet learned

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<v Speaker 1>to lie about such things.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right. I have not yet learned to joke that way.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you're not joking that what she says, you're

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<v Speaker 3>not joking. I have not yet to give it to

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<v Speaker 3>me again. You say it here we got rid of

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<v Speaker 3>a live performance.

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<v Speaker 5>Go you're not joking with me.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not yet learned to joke that way. I

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<v Speaker 3>think now I never will. There you go, there it is.

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<v Speaker 6>And the reason we're laughing is because there's a recording

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<v Speaker 6>of our dad conducting west Side Story for in a

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<v Speaker 6>recording session, and he got Alexander and my sister Nina

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<v Speaker 6>to do that dialogue so much to believe you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>Joking me, I have not yet learned how to joke

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<v Speaker 3>that way.

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<v Speaker 8>I think no, I never will.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of films, your father only composed I mean, other

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<v Speaker 1>than them transferring west Side to the film, your father

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<v Speaker 1>only composed one film score, that's right, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a hell of a film.

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<v Speaker 3>Score and very Wartenstein asque.

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<v Speaker 1>And why do you think he only did? Your father someone?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I see people, this is interesting because I

0:38:03.719 --> 0:38:07.960
<v Speaker 1>see so many people Billy Joel Sting. I mean, you

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 1>see Elton John make his fore way into that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I see so many people who I think the mess

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<v Speaker 1>of Billy, especially who's a friend. I say, my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you could be doing so much music a movie score

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<v Speaker 1>if you wanted to, and they just don't. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a passion for it. Why did your father just

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<v Speaker 1>do the one?

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<v Speaker 6>You think, Well, because he really did not enjoy the experience.

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<v Speaker 6>Why because he was being bossed around? Because an yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>well what happened. For the example he gave was that

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<v Speaker 6>he wrote, you know, the soaring music, that the dynamics

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<v Speaker 6>that he composed were all in his head and all

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<v Speaker 6>recorded a certain way, and then when they're mixing, they

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<v Speaker 6>just dunk the fader on it so that, as our

0:38:45.800 --> 0:38:49.400
<v Speaker 6>dad put it, so that you could hear Marlon Brando's grunt.

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<v Speaker 6>And so just at the climactic moment of his love music,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, in the final mix, they just dunk the fader.

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<v Speaker 5>They would say, okay, fifteen bars of passion and then

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<v Speaker 5>you know, thirty seconds of you know, quick. And he

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<v Speaker 5>just couldn't write that way. That way, it was impossible,

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<v Speaker 5>So he he loves they but he just hated doing

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<v Speaker 5>the work.

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<v Speaker 3>You have children. I have a daughter. You have a

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<v Speaker 3>daughter who's how old?

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<v Speaker 5>She'll be fourteen in two weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>You have a daughter that's fourteen, and what does she into?

0:39:28.200 --> 0:39:28.680
<v Speaker 3>What does she do?

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<v Speaker 5>She's into her first year of high school and loving it.

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<v Speaker 5>And she's into theater in a big way. She loves

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<v Speaker 5>to you're raising your kids in the city. You're outside

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<v Speaker 5>the city in the city. You're raising your daughter inside

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<v Speaker 5>the city. And she likes acting. She likes acting, but

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<v Speaker 5>she's also you know, she loves her English class and

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<v Speaker 5>history class and math, to her school and her friends

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<v Speaker 5>and her What about you.

0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 3>I have two.

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<v Speaker 6>I have ad they're in their twenties now, they're in

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<v Speaker 6>their early t do My daughter, Frankie, lives in Brooklyn,

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<v Speaker 6>she's a right and my son is still in school

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<v Speaker 6>up in the Berkshires.

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<v Speaker 3>As a matter of fact, he's up and he lives

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<v Speaker 3>in Lee, Massachusetts.

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<v Speaker 1>No, well, you know, for both of you, your children,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously they know they didn't have to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>In their case, they weren't watching Leonard Bernstone. That wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the cartoon, wasn't the gateway into an understanding of who

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<v Speaker 1>their grandfather was.

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<v Speaker 3>But they know who he is and have you had

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<v Speaker 3>and do they do? They have an appetite and a

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<v Speaker 3>passion to understand who he is and see who he is.

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<v Speaker 3>My kids don't.

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<v Speaker 6>They're very careful about sort of keeping their distance from

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<v Speaker 6>that whole connection. I think it makes them a little shy,

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<v Speaker 6>a little a little anxious, and so they don't.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't embrace.

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<v Speaker 1>Based on without getting too personal, because I have an

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<v Speaker 1>opinion about that because of my daughter. Oh really, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what they want is that they sense that celebrity has

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<v Speaker 1>become so exponentially out of control now and they prefer

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<v Speaker 1>their privacy. If knowing that I was related directly to

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<v Speaker 1>Leonard Bernstein was going to lead to something appropriate or

0:41:01.400 --> 0:41:04.280
<v Speaker 1>comfortable or rite, there would be one thing, But nowadays

0:41:04.280 --> 0:41:05.640
<v Speaker 1>everybody's after the wrong thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I think about that a lot because our

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<v Speaker 5>father really loved being famous and we had fun with it,

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<v Speaker 5>and it was just a different type of thing in

0:41:17.480 --> 0:41:18.000
<v Speaker 5>those days.

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<v Speaker 3>It was different.

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<v Speaker 5>It's more of an industry now. And he started seeing

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<v Speaker 5>that more and more starting in the eighties, and you

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<v Speaker 5>talked about it a lot, and he once said to

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<v Speaker 5>me I'm so sick of Leonard Bernstein.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had it with him. I've always had a problem

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<v Speaker 3>about time. But when I had a problem about.

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<v Speaker 2>Time at the age of twenty five or thirty, when

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<v Speaker 2>you're still, at least in part, thinking you're immortal and

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<v Speaker 2>nothing's ever going to change the way you are.

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<v Speaker 3>Abbreviated, everything's all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I would go on concert tours and compose

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<v Speaker 2>in the airport or on the plane, or on the train,

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<v Speaker 2>or I wrote half of the Age of Anxiety and

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<v Speaker 2>airports and trains and hotels. I can't do that anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's been some time since I could. One of

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<v Speaker 2>the reasons is one's standards get higher and higher. Self

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<v Speaker 2>identification with the composer whose works you are performing become

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<v Speaker 2>closer and closer to the point where there are performances

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<v Speaker 2>which are the ones I call good performances, but I

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<v Speaker 2>know it's been a really good performance. It's one in

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<v Speaker 2>which I have the feeling I've written the piece standing there,

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<v Speaker 2>and when it's over, I don't know where I'm standing.

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<v Speaker 1>As he grew older, Bernstein's connection to the music of

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<v Speaker 1>Gustav Mahler, whom he had championed throughout his career became

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<v Speaker 1>even stronger.

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<v Speaker 5>I think he felt a deep association I mean, apart

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<v Speaker 5>from the music itself, obviously, an association with Mahler as

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<v Speaker 5>a conflicted musician, Mahler being Jewish and in a Georgian

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<v Speaker 5>Jewish world and being a tonal composer in an a

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<v Speaker 5>more atonal world, becoming so being a European man who

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<v Speaker 5>came to America. You know, somebody from the classical tradition

0:43:57.239 --> 0:44:03.000
<v Speaker 5>coming to America and suddenly finding themselves in this crazy world.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think there was an affinity there.

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<v Speaker 6>Plus, he was the combination of composer and conductor, which

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<v Speaker 6>there aren't.

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<v Speaker 3>That many of. I would love to have known your father.

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<v Speaker 1>Your father was so singular and remains so singular because

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<v Speaker 1>number one, whenever he came on, I was happy, And

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<v Speaker 1>whenever he came on, I was excited, and he never

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<v Speaker 1>disappointed me. And when I would see him, I'd say,

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<v Speaker 1>once you get from Bernstein, you can only get from Bernstein.

0:44:55.920 --> 0:45:13.280
<v Speaker 1>He was the original in his field. Leonard Bernstein's children,

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<v Speaker 1>Jamie and Alexander, say their father was so original in

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<v Speaker 1>part because he just never stopped celebrating music, celebrating life.

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<v Speaker 6>He never slept. He was a terrible insomniac. I think

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:27.560
<v Speaker 6>that's probably why I managed to squeeze in so much action.

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<v Speaker 3>He was always at it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish he was around.

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<v Speaker 1>He and I could have hung out together. Oh oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an insomniac. And could you imagine you're in Stein

0:45:36.600 --> 0:45:38.920
<v Speaker 1>and I watching YouTube together.

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<v Speaker 3>Would have come over at four am and you could

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<v Speaker 3>have hung out. God, we could have been watching old

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<v Speaker 3>movies together. And yeah, you would have gone to the

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<v Speaker 3>piano and played all the old Hermann scores. Yes, everything.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alec Baldwin. To learn more about Leonard Bernstein

0:46:06.880 --> 0:46:11.440
<v Speaker 1>and artful learning and educational organization that his son Alex spearheads,

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<v Speaker 1>go to Here's the thing dot org