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Speaker 1: What is of a Bachelor Happy Hour? We have the

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Speaker 1: most exciting episode, one that I have looked forward to

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Speaker 1: announce the most exciting news, and that is I finally

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Speaker 1: have my official co host, Michelle Young. Welcome about you,

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour? Thank you. It's like Minnesotans, Minnesota back together,

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Speaker 1: right together, both of us. That's gonna be this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be a good chest. This is gonna be great,

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Speaker 1: or this is gonna be it's gonna go a little crazy.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling because you've never I mean, you've

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Speaker 1: done podcasts, You've done so many interviews, but now like

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Speaker 1: the roles are reverse, so you get to be interviewing,

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Speaker 1: putting everyone in the hot seat with me. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm going to enjoy being in this position more

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Speaker 1: than being in the hot seat. You know. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: get to ask the questions. Yeahs A reverse a reverse

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Speaker 1: so fun. I mean I was on you before we

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Speaker 1: started recording. The last time we officially announ an official

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Speaker 1: co host with me, I keep saying official, it was

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Speaker 1: two years ago, pre COVID, and obviously we've bopped around,

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Speaker 1: We've had different guest co hosts. With me. That has

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Speaker 1: been so much fun to recap each season. But like

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Speaker 1: you're in it to win it with me, We're in

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Speaker 1: it for the long haul. It's gonna be a wild ride.

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Speaker 1: But I love that I have a former about short

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Speaker 1: and just advice and knowledge to the contestants and other

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Speaker 1: leads coming through. So I can't wait. What are you

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Speaker 1: most excited about for Happy Hour? I think just being

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Speaker 1: able to one watch the show and not be on

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Speaker 1: the show and not have to watch myself on the

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Speaker 1: screen anymore, but to actually dive into all these other

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Speaker 1: contestants and like really get to talk to them, really

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Speaker 1: get to know them and advice. Hey, like you said,

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Speaker 1: I mean being a bachelorette, Like we've been in every

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Speaker 1: single role, right, You've been in every single role, because

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Speaker 1: I've also been in Paradise too. But it's just gonna

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Speaker 1: be I'm really looking forward to it. It's gonna be fun.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. And I mean you already know, like

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation as a whole, with not only the contestants

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Speaker 1: and the leads, but like the followers and the fan base.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. It's like no other. It's like it is

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Speaker 1: truly a nation, and you've seen things, You've read things,

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Speaker 1: you kind of know what people can expect, and so

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Speaker 1: you're like the most primed position to be here with

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Speaker 1: me right now. So before we begin questioning and getting

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Speaker 1: into like all the fun interviews and games, I have

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Speaker 1: a cheers to you. Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. I've

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Speaker 1: been ready for this day for far too long, far

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Speaker 1: too long, So it's so it's here. I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: Cheers to you for today, and I will say for

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Speaker 1: all of our listeners. So this is gonna be a

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Speaker 1: fun episode. So grab your wine, grab your cocktails, grab

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Speaker 1: your mocktails, whatever you wants. Oh, grab some girl woman

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Speaker 1: after my own heart. Whenever you need to sit back

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Speaker 1: and relax. Michelle, the last time we had you on

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Speaker 1: Happy Hour was your ally. Obviously you were very newly engaged,

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Speaker 1: fresh off of the stage of not only being able

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Speaker 1: getting the down payment for a house. So much has

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Speaker 1: happened since then. Can you just catch us up quickly

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Speaker 1: on what life has been like, what you and Nate

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Speaker 1: are planning for your future? Anything? Wow, how much time

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Speaker 1: do we have whole time in the world. We got

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Speaker 1: a full bottle. Well, it's been it's been awesome. It's

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Speaker 1: been just this roller coaster of you know, getting off

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Speaker 1: a decent amount of time with each other's friends and family,

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Speaker 1: and it's been so cool to see how much our

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Speaker 1: friend groups have like embraced each other. Yeah, and so

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Speaker 1: But you mentioned house hunting. So when we saw you,

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Speaker 1: I think so. Nate and I are two people who

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Speaker 1: we like to look at every single option. So our

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Speaker 1: will say this, Michelle, he is your like biggest fan.

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Speaker 1: It was a special moment. I have never seen so

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Speaker 1: doing it together. But also not only for you too,

425
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,560
Speaker 1: but I'm sure for your family. It's like that was

426
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,960
Speaker 1: a really hard thing from especially for my mom and

427
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 1: sister to now kind of be cast into the public

428
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 1: eye and have people recognize them and know them. And yeah,

429
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 1: there were times where they felt like they couldn't even

430
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: come out with me because it was too crazy, like

431
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 1: how has your family been handling that? You know? My

432
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 1: mom and my dad actually recently had a conversation with

433
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: me about all that, just because we are a very

434
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: private family, you know, like with my brother. My brother,

435
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 1: you know, he had just had a baby and went

436
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 1: so he wasn't able to come onto the show for

437
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 1: like hometowns or anything like that. But I was almost

438
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,120
Speaker 1: happy about that, just because he is a very private

439
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 1: person and wherever my mom and dad go. I mean, hey,

440
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: my mom and dad are America's sweetheart's, like you know,

441
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 1: and so it's kind of fun for like me to

442
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:37,679
Speaker 1: see people recognize them. Um, But yeah, they feel the

443
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 1: same way, like they go to dinner and you know

444
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 1: people will come up and talk to them at dinner

445
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 1: and and everything, but you do have in the back

446
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 1: of your head that you're always being watched. And so

447
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 1: my mom and I were going to have like a

448
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: mom and shell day the other day, and she's like,

449
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 1: we need to figure out how to do this so

450
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 1: that we can actually spend time together and not spend

451
00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: time just like taking pictures. And so we had skuis

452
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 1: is like we had a mask on, we had a hat,

453
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: we had our hair pulled back with hats on, we

454
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: had a hood flipped up. We looked really sketchy, but

455
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 1: it worked, but it worked, but it worked well that

456
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 1: I think when we first went out before your season started,

457
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: and I think I told you this, but one thing

458
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 1: that I tried to set a rule, like a boundary

459
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 1: on was when I was like sitting down with my

460
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: partner or my family or whoever might be eating dinner,

461
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: like having a meal and sharing that time and if

462
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,640
Speaker 1: people would approach us for pictures or whatever, it would

463
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 1: be that was like our time. So I'd be like,

464
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: I'm happy to do that once this meal is done,

465
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: Like I want to break friends with my family or

466
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 1: my partner, and I think that was so important because

467
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 1: otherwise it just gets so out of handed and then

468
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:49,840
Speaker 1: you start to kind of resent it in a way

469
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: where it's like you can't fully enjoy being at present

470
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: in the moment because so much other stuff is going on.

471
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: So hopefully that helped at all. I don't know. That

472
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: was probably one of the pieces of advice that I

473
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 1: actually really like took and held onto because it's so

474
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: hard because I don't want to come off me and

475
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to come off rude, and I don't

476
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 1: want to come off like I'm too good to take

477
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 1: a picture. Because I really do appreciate the support, but

478
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: there are definitely days where it's like, you know, you

479
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 1: get done with teaching and you're at dinner with friends

480
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 1: and you just have like a mentally taxing day and

481
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 1: you're decompressing and it's hard to constantly, you know, pop

482
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: back into that sometimes. And so I feel like the

483
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 1: place where I put that into effect is the gym,

484
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: where I made the gym my safe space, so like

485
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: I do not take pictures at the gym or anything

486
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: like that, just because it's like that's my getaway. You

487
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: know whether I'm exactly where, whether I'm lifting, whether I'm

488
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 1: getting work done, whether I'm in the sauna. You know,

489
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:56,439
Speaker 1: it is my safe spot and that's like my mental escape.

490
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 1: So I've taken that piece of advice to me and

491
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 1: that has than a huge, huge help. What has been

492
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,959
Speaker 1: the weirdest fanning counter? You've had people showing up at

493
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:11,919
Speaker 1: my house? You mentioned that, Yeah, people showing up or

494
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: just getting getting followed home, I think, and it's like

495
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: it's crossing the line. It is crossing the line, and

496
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 1: it's like I understand people get really excited, you know,

497
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: but I guess what happened is I was at I

498
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: was at a stoplight and this group of girls pulled

499
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 1: up next to me, and then they saw me that

500
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: got really excited and started waving. I was in e Diana,

501
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: and I you know, turned green. So like I kept

502
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: going on, And the first time it happened, I didn't realize,

503
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,719
Speaker 1: Like I didn't think, oh, somebody's gonna follow me home, right,

504
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: because that's not your natural reaction, you know. I waved,

505
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: but like I thought that was the end of it, right,

506
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: Like if I was out walking in a mall, like

507
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 1: you're more observant, right, But I was like I waved

508
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 1: where I was in my car. I was just going home. Yeah.

509
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: Um and so yeah, I get home, you know, literally

510
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 1: park in the driveway, go inside and hit the doorbell ringing,

511
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: and there's like girls crying outside the door, like fangirling.

512
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: And that's when I was like, oh my god, this

513
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: is my like this is my tally safe spot. And they,

514
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: you know, asked if they could take a picture, and

515
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: I just said like I'm sorry, but like this is

516
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: this is crossing the line, Like I appreciate your support,

517
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: but I can't take a picture because I don't want

518
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: to reward you. Like this is my home, right yeah,

519
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: And so now I make sure to use my garage

520
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,439
Speaker 1: door opener. I pull in the garage, I shut the

521
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 1: garage before I get out my but hey, yeah, things

522
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:42,120
Speaker 1: you never thought you would have to think of that, right,

523
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: it's wild? Oh yeah, and there's and there's like you said,

524
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: it's crossing the line, like there are boundaries of your

525
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 1: personal safety and being in your safe space. You shouldn't

526
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, somebody gonna just pop up to my

527
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: door or I'll be walking outside the window. Right. Oh,

528
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: it's wild and you'll still see that. I mean even

529
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: with DMS too, some of the things that you'll read it.

530
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: And I'm sure also do I want to actually ask

531
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: you this because I think it's so funny from a

532
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: guy's perspective too. And obviously we don't have Nate here,

533
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: but people know you two are in love, people know

534
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: you're engaged. Yeah, women, I'm assuming still set into his

535
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: DMS and flirt, hit on him whatever. Correct honestly really

536
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: did not give much thought into it, but yeah, yeah, yeah,

537
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: they definitely do. Or like there was this time where

538
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: I was in Austin. We were out with some friends

539
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: and I was with some of Nate's girlfriends like walking

540
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: away behind him, and he was walking and walked past

541
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 1: this group of girls and these girls like literally turned

542
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: and started screaming like whispering, oh my god, this Nate

543
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 1: is so hot, this and that or like good looking,

544
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: just like drooling over him. And then they turn and

545
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 1: they turn and look at me, and I'm like they

546
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: look like they're like oh shit. And I really was

547
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 1: like I know right like then he I'm like, I

548
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 1: agree with everything you just said. Okay, I don't blame

549
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: you because I like and it'll still happen. I mean,

550
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 1: I even to this day, like we'll ask Thomas, like

551
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: every now we're gonna be like, what like in the

552
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: past week, what's a random weird ass DM You've gone,

553
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 1: And people will still try to hit out and to

554
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 1: be like I'm better than Becca. Like it's really like, people,

555
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: come on, see, I didn't even think to ask. I

556
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: probably won't ask. Yeah, I mean, hey, they got good taste.

557
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: You know, how is your family totally changing gears here?

558
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: But how has your family been with Nate? I'm assuming

559
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: because it seems like both of your moms were like

560
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: already best friends at the finale. Have they embraced him?

561
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: Do they still love Nate? Yes? They love him a lot.

562
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: They I mean, I feel like Nate texts my mom,

563
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: my brothers, my or my brother, my sister, sister in law,

564
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: and I have do the same with his family, and

565
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,320
Speaker 1: so I feel like our families have just really embraced

566
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: each other. And you know, my mom on him FaceTime day.

567
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: I love she loves him. I love it loves him

568
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: and she's so happy that good. You know, even just

569
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: after I had gotten home from filming. You know, they

570
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: had that conversation that seemed to end a rough when

571
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: it was when I was hometowns. But she like absolutely

572
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: loves him. Good good, I mean, and obviously, like it's

573
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: a show, there are certain things that are placed to

574
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: know weird times, to make it look probably more exaggerated

575
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: than it was. Um, but yeah, that was what I

576
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: remember watching it was. It was kind of a rough

577
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: go for him, and I felt so bad. But then

578
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: finally when you guys come out on stage, you seemed

579
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: so and love so happy for watching you two together,

580
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, this makes sense. It fits and I'm sure

581
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: your family saw that right away too. Yeah, And that's

582
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: exactly where you know, a mom looks at you know,

583
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: their daughter, and she's gonna know she like, she's gonna

584
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: know that she can look into my eyes, she can

585
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: see us together and be like okay, like yeah, and

586
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: it happened right away. So did Nate ever ask for

587
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: your parents blessing or disas too? Yes? He did, he did. Okay,

588
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: why do I feel like I don't know the answer

589
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: to that question? It's okay, I don't. Oh my gosh,

590
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: that is the first thing that I need to ask

591
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: when I get home. When I came off the show,

592
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: because I mean, that's what You're already engaged. There's so

593
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: much whirlwind around the proposal and then the finale. So

594
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: why do I feel good? Don't I need to? Because

595
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: what if it's no, like well not making you up?

596
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: Said I would. Here's the thing I will say, like

597
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: to his credit and to give him, you know, some support.

598
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: It's like you guys are still getting to know each

599
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: other too. You didn't get engaged in normal circumstances you

600
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: have time, No, But I really I think he did.

601
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure, Like I'm ninety nine percent sure because

602
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: I want to say, asked that question, Well, Nate, if

603
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: you're listening and you didn't yet, do it before I

604
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: get home? Okay, gets home? Somebody said, okay, wait wait,

605
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: So speaking of getting the blessing and going into wedding planning,

606
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: when we had you on Happy Hour, I think you said,

607
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: and I don't even know if you meant this summer,

608
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: but just you wanted to get married in the summer

609
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: at some point? Do you have any more money? Is right?

610
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: I'm laughing because we were when we talk about that.

611
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: I was asked that question. You know, that's the question

612
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:19,239
Speaker 1: that is going to be asked that's the first question. No,

613
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: it's fine, It's totally fine. And Nate literally said summertime,

614
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: which is very true. We mean like we want like seasons, Yeah,

615
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 1: we want to give it, but a season one of

616
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: the four seasons. Yes, yes, not lowry seasoning, but summer's season.

617
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: If you know what I'm talking about. Listeners, Hey, I'll

618
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: give you a good laugh. But I mean, I yeah, summertime,

619
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: warm weather. You know, because okay, because when I asked

620
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: you that question, I took it as like, just what

621
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: you said in this summertime at some point, not necessarily

622
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: summer of twenty twenty two. I mean it makes sense though,

623
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: because people in this position do move fast, right, You

624
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: just got engaged after knowing somebody for what fifty days?

625
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: You know. I kind of joked. I can't remember the

626
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: first time I got home from Matt's season and I

627
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: was actually thinking about how fast this was, and I

628
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: was like, I don't understand. I was watching a show

629
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: with my mom, was like I don't understand how people

630
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: can go on like this ninety day fiance and then

631
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 1: I was like time out. She's like, shall like you

632
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: you do that in like fifty days. I'm like dang.

633
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: But things do move really fast, and so I think

634
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: people assume that, like everything else is going to come

635
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: just as quick, and sometimes it does. And sometimes it's like,

636
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: you know, we want to take our time. But also

637
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: we know a lot of people and we have a

638
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: huge friend group and so a pandemic wedding would be

639
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 1: really stressful to like that not everybody could come, and

640
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: so I think that's something that we want to just

641
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: make sure that we're completely out of total. Um, I

642
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: better get an invite. That's all I have to say.

643
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: Oh app without hesitation you and Thomas right there. Oh um,

644
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: speaking of just like the fact that you mentioned ninety

645
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,719
Speaker 1: day fiance, I still to this day do this. But um,

646
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: even some of my friends, like some are happily married,

647
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: some will rush relationships and so and I get so judgmental.

648
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: So I'm like the best judge shooting. I'm like, you've

649
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,239
Speaker 1: only known each other for three months? How are you

650
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: already moving in together? And I'm like, wait, oh, god back,

651
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: And I know that's so hard, right, it's so hard,

652
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: but kind of to give an idea of it, it's

653
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: just like you've also we've spoken about so many different

654
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: topics that you would normally not speak about right, So

655
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,480
Speaker 1: I feel like in that you are kind of channeled

656
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: to talk about nothing. That's small talk, you know, And

657
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: that's I think That's something that I told you too,

658
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: is like you'll only have limited time on the show

659
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: with these guys, so you ask the questions and I

660
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: will say I didn't do the best job my time around,

661
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: which is why I went into Paradise. I was like, Oh,

662
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask all the questions. The question they will

663
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: never make TV because they are too boring or you know,

664
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,760
Speaker 1: too normal, But to just like be in that mindset

665
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 1: to know, Okay, at the end, you this person sitting

666
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: in front of me could be my fiance. I have

667
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: to know, like for me personally, whould you vote for?

668
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: Do you have debt? Like how is your savings? Like

669
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: how do you live life? And like financially like everything.

670
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: It was so important to me. So, like you said,

671
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: like those whole conversations you have usually on a second

672
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: or third date that you probably have with them, but okay,

673
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 1: so I want your opinion. That's one thing that I'm

674
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 1: really curious about is when people go on this show

675
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 1: and you learn to be vulnerable, like you really do.

676
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: I think that's one of the positive things about the

677
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 1: show is that you really learn how to open up genuinely.

678
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 1: I was not a vulnerable Christian. I did not talk

679
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: about emotions. I did not talk about my feelings, and

680
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: im sure as heck did not let people see me cry.

681
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 1: And so now I cry all the time. And I

682
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: can tell you. He's like, that's one thing. You're like,

683
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna cry, and I was like, you're gonna cry.

684
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: Weak too. They will break you. It will happen. Yeah,

685
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: the fatigue, you know, the fatigue gets to you. But

686
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: when people come off of this show, if it doesn't

687
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: work right, like if you don't end up with that person,

688
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: whatever it is, and if you go back to real

689
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 1: world dating, do you go back to real word world

690
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: dating speed or no? Like Nate and I had this

691
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 1: conversation the other day that's you're kind of going back

692
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: and forth, and it's like, is it hard to go

693
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 1: back to dating normally? Because now for me, I feel

694
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: like it'd be personally like I'd sit down on a

695
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: first date and be like, I don't care about your

696
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: favorite color. I don't care about I mean I do,

697
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: but I don't get these things, you know what I mean, Like,

698
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: there's just so many things that you can figure out quickly.

699
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 1: Is this gonna work? Or do I even want a

700
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: second date or not? You know, it's hard to go

701
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: it'd be hard to go through those small talk conversations. Yeah, well,

702
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: I probably not the person to ask, because I went

703
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 1: from bachelor right way to bauch Charrette. Obviously was with

704
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: my ex for a while and then when you know,

705
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 1: went through the breakup, had was not ready to day

706
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: and then went up paradise. So I never went back

707
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: to the real world. As Tom was slowly walks by

708
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: with bagels. What a sight to behold of. So I

709
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: never went back into like quote, real world dating. But

710
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: I think that's something also that comes with age that

711
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: like for me, if I were to, I would probably

712
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: want to ask more of those questions early on, just

713
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: to see if I'm compatible. I think it's something that

714
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: comes with age because at that point, you know, dating

715
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: when you're younger, say in college and in your twenties,

716
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: it's so fun, but you really do have I would say,

717
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: so much more time to kind of explore things. Like

718
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 1: for me now, I just hate wasting time and I

719
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 1: want to see if I am actually compatible and we'll

720
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,879
Speaker 1: work out in the long run with somebody. So I

721
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: think had I had the opportunity to date in the

722
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: real world, I don't think I personally would have had

723
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: a problem with asking those types of questions, especially if

724
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: they knew kind of like where I was coming from. Yeah,

725
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: but I think like now that I see some of

726
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: my friends date now that we're in our thirties and

727
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: we're a little bit older, and I would I would

728
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 1: hope to think more mature at times that we that

729
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: we wouldn't have as much of an issue, you know,

730
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 1: like getting down and dirty. Really, Yeah, what do you

731
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: think I think? Yeah, I think it kind of comes

732
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: with it. I mean you bring a really good point

733
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: with like the whole age thing. You know, some contestants

734
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: I want, like the younger younger contestants, did they come

735
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: off And obviously each person is different, right, but like

736
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: do younger contestants tend to come off the show and

737
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: then really go back to that, you know, just exploring

738
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: just writing fun whereas like, you know, coming off the

739
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: show as twenty eight, you're like, I want to find

740
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 1: my person, I down, let's do this, yeah, you know,

741
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: and then no wasting time, and especially too, I mean

742
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 1: the fact that we were able to date thirty men

743
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: of all walks of life from everywhere in the country,

744
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: different backgrounds, if it races, different religions, everything. You can

745
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: really get to know what you gravitate towards and what

746
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: you're compatible with and what you're looking for in a partner,

747
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: which helps, and you learn how to see it so

748
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: much quicker, like you do actually learn those questions to ask, Yeah,

749
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: to learn that very quickly. Yeah, And I will say

750
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: for me it was I didn't do it the first

751
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: time around, and I kind of fucked up there, but

752
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: I did learn, I will say that. So, Okay, so

753
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: the biggest question, what is like a super important question

754
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: that you felt like you should ask? Well, so for

755
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 1: me personally, when I was in Paradise this time around,

756
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: and also I went in with the mindset of like,

757
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm not going to date and fall for any guy.

758
00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like any guy. I'm just gonna have

759
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: a good time. So when I actually started to spend

760
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: more time with Thomas and start to like him, I

761
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 1: was like, okay, shit, now I actually do have to

762
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: ask his questions. And so I kind of went into it.

763
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: We had one night that was never shown. It was

764
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: the night after our first date, and we had all

765
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: night to just we laid on like this bean bang

766
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: in the middle of the beach for hours. It started raining,

767
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, here's my experience in life,

768
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: here's my dating history, here's kind of why we broke up.

769
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: And so I gave the backstory to everything, and I

770
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,959
Speaker 1: was like, so because of the reason, there was many

771
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: issues of why we broke up, but because of that,

772
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 1: these things now are important to me. Where do you stand?

773
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: And so I kind of went into it of like

774
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: where do you stand? Like I would say, part of

775
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 1: it was politically, but also just like where's your mindset

776
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: and how you want to raise kids? Because that was

777
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: such a huge thing for me, as I know, one

778
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: day I want to have kids, but I also want

779
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,720
Speaker 1: to be on the same page as my partner, my husband,

780
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: and so things like that and so, and Thomas was

781
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: so great and open and he didn't watch my season

782
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 1: and so he didn't really know about that. So he's like, well,

783
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 1: you know, from my experience, I'm this way, and it

784
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: just all seemed to line up perfectly with him. But

785
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: I really wanted to go and being like learning from

786
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: I would say my mistakes and where I messed up

787
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: in the past, and like didn't necessarily ask questions right away.

788
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, it was. It's so funny to think

789
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: about that now because those are moments that I like

790
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: kind of forget about, you know, but I have so

791
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 1: many more questions I want to ask you. We're going

792
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: to get into some fan questions, but one thing is,

793
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: and we don't have to get into Clayton's season or

794
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 1: the finale because obviously that is done and he's living

795
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: his life. But overall, like at this point in Clayton's life,

796
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: now that he's done airing, you can finally be who

797
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: he is. What's advice now for this point in his

798
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: life that you can give him? You know, I think

799
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: the biggest thing that I biggest piece of advice is

800
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: just I think I said this somewhere else as well,

801
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: but to truly give yourself grace because you have all

802
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: these different moments, all these different stages of this position

803
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: like pre lead, pre bachelor, bachelorette, and what you kind

804
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 1: of have in the forefront of your mind and the

805
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: advice that can help you and then you know, the

806
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: show unraveling and you navigating through seeing yourself on the

807
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 1: screen and you know, coming into that criticism and that

808
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: that spotlight. And then now that the show is done,

809
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: you kind of feel like you can take a deep breath.

810
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: But then at the same time, you know, I'll have

811
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: this platform and there's just still so much learning and

812
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: figuring out like where you stand what you want to

813
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: do with it? Do you want to do something with

814
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,439
Speaker 1: your platform and kind of still navigating all of those

815
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: different pieces, and so to just understand that it's going

816
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: to feel like you have this constant, large learning curve

817
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: and it's going to be like that for a little bit.

818
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: But to just listen to your gut and to give

819
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: yourself grace with how you're navigating things. You're gonna make mistakes,

820
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 1: You're gonna you know, okay, like I need to make

821
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: sure that I am just you know, naw. Getting social

822
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: media is a whole Somebody give me a class on

823
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: nav getting social media, because wow, oh, but you could

824
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: do a class. But then even when you when it

825
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: happens to you reading, it's like it's still like kiss

826
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 1: ever changing. It's just ever changing, and it's just it's

827
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: so easy to mess up. It's so easy to not

828
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: think past your post and like how you know this

829
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: post could come off, or how it could be received,

830
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 1: or how it could you know, it's just like you do.

831
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 1: You have to be very tactful with the way that

832
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: you move forward or you could not be tactful. And

833
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 1: you know word vomit too. You know, whatever you're looking for,

834
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: but it is, it's just a lot. And so to

835
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: just keep holding on to who you are, keep yourself

836
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: system around you, and just understand that it's gonna be

837
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a ride, totally. And I think that's

838
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: I mean, that's perfect advice for Clayton because we both

839
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: know him and he's such a kind dude, but he

840
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: also likes to please others and make sure others feel

841
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: good and he doesn't like that confrontation or the drama

842
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: if he will, and so at the same time, he

843
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: also still needs to please himself as well and be

844
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: okay with his decisions and just yeah, yeah, give himself patience.

845
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 1: I think that's great advice. Um, don't read the comments

846
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: that I've talked to him so many times, Clayton, get off,

847
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: Get off the comments. I don't do what We've all

848
00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:42,479
Speaker 1: told him. We've all told him as we sit because

849
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: stop reading everything. Do what you gotta do, Clayton. But

850
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,479
Speaker 1: it's just I mean no, I feel like that comes

851
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: with time though. I feel like everybody kind of goes

852
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:55,280
Speaker 1: through that, and there comes a certain point where you're okay,

853
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: You're like, okay, I'm good with putting it down. Oh yeah,

854
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: Like I remember getting to that moment where I was like,

855
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 1: why my feeding so much of my time and energy

856
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 1: into people who don't actually know me? And like half

857
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: the time things that you read aren't even accurate. So

858
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, why am I carrying so much about things

859
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: that are just always wrong? Anyways, Hey, I own a

860
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 1: food truck. Actually, during to the Internet, I would not

861
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: be back about that if honestly it's really might good thing.

862
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: It's kind of one of those rumors that I'm almost

863
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:27,919
Speaker 1: upset that it's not true. I wish it was. Hey,

864
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: let's just travel around the world. What what would we sell?

865
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 1: I would sell well, for sure, if we would have champagne,

866
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: we would need bore down there champagne. And then like

867
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,320
Speaker 1: I would say, just anything with a carbonet or a

868
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: chicken nugget. Even there's a chicken nugget food truck. I

869
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: think we might be onto something about chicken nugget and

870
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: champagne that is quite chicken and champagne bubble chicken if

871
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: it does it a little bit. Um Okay, we're gonna

872
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: get into some of these fan questions. What couples are

873
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: you hoping to get together? I'm gonna give you some

874
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: time to think about who your dream Paradise couple people.

875
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 1: But we did hear the rumor on women to all

876
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 1: that Jenevieve and Aaron Clancy know each other and may

877
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,920
Speaker 1: or may not have had a little fling. So how

878
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: would you feel about those two in Paradise. I don't

879
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: know much, so I can't sleep on it. But I

880
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 1: would love to see Olu and Eliza because they both

881
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: seemed really sweet. Oh it was so sweet. We had

882
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: him on the podcast and I really enjoyed him also,

883
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: like I watched He's with Rodney now? Or um whoa Clinton? Riley?

884
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: Olu and Riley work out all the time together. Have

885
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: you seen our squad? I was like, how many muscles

886
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 1: can we fit on the one screen? They? Honestly, I know,

887
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,919
Speaker 1: I know? Oh man, Okay, I like that I could

888
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:50,919
Speaker 1: get up board with that. I would like that. Um okay,

889
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: I have one question. I want to stay for the end,

890
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: but this one dream stelebt to have on our podcast

891
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: honestly after this weekend, Rihanna, let's go. Okay, I will

892
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,800
Speaker 1: back you up. I'm gonna manifest. Can I also say,

893
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: I don't even know if there's a name for this person,

894
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:13,879
Speaker 1: but whoever is the founder of Chipotle? I would love

895
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: to have it, Okay. I feel like I need the

896
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: background story just a little bit, like a little snippet

897
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: of this background story of Chipotle, because I have been

898
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: with you probably a few hours today and the amount

899
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 1: of times Chipotle has come into the conversation. I've been insane.

900
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: Thomas and I are just obsessed. We go far twenty

901
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 1: times a week. And when we had Clinton on the podcast,

902
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:38,400
Speaker 1: he got a gold card and I was like, dude,

903
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 1: I have been plugging Chippoleon and taking them on Instagram.

904
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 1: What's a gold card? Unlimited? Chipotle? No? Ya? So I'm like,

905
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: what does a girl have to do? Does Thomas have

906
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: to propost me in a Chipotle? Do I have to

907
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 1: go streaking through Clinton get a gold card because he

908
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: loves Chipotle? But I love it more. I don't eat

909
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: as much as him, but I love it just as much.

910
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm about to like rip off my I'm gonna get

911
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: like those terror away pants and like jump behind the

912
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 1: buffetvor just and like let's come up with something. Yeah.

913
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: The other night, Thomas and I got it surprise surprise,

914
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, do I just have to get

915
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 1: a part time job there I'm about to sign. I'm

916
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: about to submit my resume to that to be breaking even, right, Yeah,

917
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know. I wouldn't I would gain too many

918
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: pounds and not gain any money. But I'm okay with it. Okay.

919
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: What is your bucket list trip? Grease acting Nate's bucket trip?

920
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 1: Bucket list trip to bucket list trip. Why am I

921
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: tripping over those world words? Oh my gosh, yes, that's

922
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: something we discovered and overnights. Okay, Grease, we both want

923
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: to go to Grease? Oh you should? Yeah. Oh and

924
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: then let me come and I'll be your handler. Perfect. Okay,

925
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: this is gonna be one last fan question. Then we're

926
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: gonna play a little game. Okay, but this is a

927
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 1: good one. So what can we everyone do to help

928
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: support teachers? Oh? My goodness, So this might sound like

929
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: a really weird thing, but mental health has been such

930
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: a huge thing with teaching, like these past few years,

931
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: always is, but specifically these past three years, and there's

932
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: this pressure, there's this pressure to stay in the classroom

933
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: where we all love what we do, we all are

934
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: incredibly passionate, but you know, when people come up to you,

935
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: there's so many different pressures that are put on us,

936
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 1: where like, you know, when somebody says, I appreciate what

937
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: you're doing, like that does so much just saying that.

938
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: But to have someone come up to you and say,

939
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: like I appreciate what you do, you need to continue

940
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: to stay in the classroom because those kids need you,

941
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: and that right there, like that comment right there puts

942
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: so much pressure on it. It's like, Okay, I have

943
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 1: to continue to put you know, my mental health below,

944
00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: you know my passion, which the year is hard and

945
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: so just you know, when you're showing your appreciation, one,

946
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: just show appreciation. But when you're showing your appreciation like

947
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 1: this these fat past few years, like we are really struggling,

948
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: like it is really difficult, and you know we're bobbing

949
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: and weaving and catering and doing everything possible, because we

950
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: truly do love our students more than we love ourselves.

951
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: But you know, when when you're showing your appreciation, kind

952
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: of being tactful with your words in a way where

953
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: it's not adding pressure, you know, and then when they

954
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 1: say that, it's kind of them projecting what they want selfish,

955
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: you know, Like teachers are incredible, and again like I

956
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: grew up with them. My sister is a current teacher.

957
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 1: You do not get enough credit all of you. You know,

958
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: like every teacher should be paid way, way, way, way

959
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: way more than what you are with just the time,

960
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: the effort. You don't It's not like a normal nine

961
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: to five where you clock in and then you'll leave

962
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: and it's shut off for the day. It's like you

963
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: take it with you home. It's it is your life

964
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: and really so much and you just you are so

965
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: emotionally invested and you will truly do anything for your students.

966
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: And you know, it's not like you come into it's

967
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 1: not like you come into the classroom and you know,

968
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: teach and then you just take off all those emotions

969
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: and leave the classroom. Like you truly like lose sleep

970
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: over different situations, and you know, you know, what kind

971
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 1: of households your students are going home to, Like you

972
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: worry about them at times as well, and it's like

973
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: you want to do and you are willing to do

974
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: anything for them, but yeah, I can't make a teacher

975
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 1: if you don't get take care of your mental health

976
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 1: and that balance too, And so having you know other

977
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: people truly understand that takes the pressure out when it's

978
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: like any main aspect of your life, you have to

979
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: take care of yourself before you can fully invest in

980
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: your career, your passion, your other relationships with friends or family,

981
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: or your partner. And so I'm glad that you that

982
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: you said that, because I feel like it's probably something

983
00:50:57,120 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 1: that most people probably don't even think about out tight

984
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 1: on it because it's like, yeah, I mean supplies, absolutely,

985
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: always grateful for supplies, But like, if I'm actually thinking about,

986
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: you know, what would truly help me, I guess in

987
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 1: this moment, it's it's that it's showing appreciation in a

988
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:23,720
Speaker 1: way where it's not putting pressure on me to put

989
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: my mental health below. Yeah, you know, Oh right, I

990
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 1: love that answer. I'm going to switch it up a

991
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: bit now. We're gonna get into one game, which I mean,

992
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 1: you will soon learn that we love our games. Here

993
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 1: about your happy hours. I love games, so I'm ready

994
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: for it, and we also love I feeling every week

995
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: we play our superlative games. But this one is bad

996
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: short superlatives. So basically, I'm going to give you a

997
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: question or a phrase or something and you just I

998
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: hope that you know most of most of your fellow

999
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: bad shorettes, but we're going to so I'm going to

1000
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: give you this and you can say yourself too if

1001
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: you want so. Best smile, Tasia, m hm, oh that's

1002
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: a good one. She's got a good smile, right, She's

1003
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 1: got a really good she does. She's stunning. All of

1004
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 1: you are stunning, Okay, miss congeniality. Part of I'm gonna

1005
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: say this, I will say it's probably Trista, Okay, because

1006
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: she is the number one boucherette to constantly be reaching

1007
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: out to everyone else. Whether you're going through an incredible

1008
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: time in your life, whether you're going through a rough time,

1009
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: she will always text, call check in on you. She's

1010
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: the first to remember birthdays. So yeah, thrown in back

1011
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: to the og. Trista Okay, yeah, all right, all right, Okay,

1012
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,440
Speaker 1: I just lost the list, let's find it. Um the

1013
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:54,879
Speaker 1: best laugh Rachel. She doesn't got to get cackle, doesn't she? Yeah,

1014
00:52:55,120 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: I've got Orca anyway, Yes, he the best Haitln number. Okay, sorry, Rachel,

1015
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: I'm Sucina Caitlin. I'm Asuchina Caitlin on this one. She

1016
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 1: Halyn has a cackle. Oh my god. There are times

1017
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: where even even on my show, there was like a

1018
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 1: clip from like just does listen to your laugh here?

1019
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: I asked them to piece together a compilation of all

1020
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: of her cackle laughs from like her time on the Bachelor,

1021
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: her seasons with bau Scherette, like when she was hosting.

1022
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: She has the best laugh she does she does okay, okay, okay, yep,

1023
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: that one took me a minute. But Rachel does have

1024
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:36,240
Speaker 1: a great laugh where she has voice. I love Rachel's voice.

1025
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: Best dressed, Oh, I'm gonna probably say I'm gonna say

1026
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 1: Joel Jojo. I don't know why I just called her Juel.

1027
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: I would say Jojo. Who was thinking? She just because

1028
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: she has such a good range of classy, dressy, also casual.

1029
00:53:55,600 --> 00:54:00,080
Speaker 1: I'll go with her dood okay, yeah, okay, um m

1030
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: most likely to get the parties started, Ooh, Becca me,

1031
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: I feel like they're always a beat. That could be

1032
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 1: a part of it too, but this is nonetheless, it

1033
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: still gets the party started. Oh hell yeah, that who

1034
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:27,359
Speaker 1: gives the best advice? That's so hard because it's like,

1035
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: I feel like I've only taken advice from a few people.

1036
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 1: Who gives the best advice? Can we repeat? Yeah? Totally? Honestly,

1037
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: I feel like the people who I've spoken to. The

1038
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 1: best advice that I've ever gotten was from Caitlin Brisso,

1039
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: and it was her advice to surrender and talking about

1040
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 1: how like surrender is usually seen as a weak word

1041
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: or has like, you know, a week meaning to it,

1042
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: and she talked about how really like when you're in

1043
00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: that lead position, surrendering to your feelings, like allow yourself

1044
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: to fall, even if it's falling for a more than

1045
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,720
Speaker 1: one person, allow yourself to be in the moment, allow

1046
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: yourself to have those emotions, and allow yourself to just

1047
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 1: accept that the situation is different. And that right there,

1048
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: changing the words surrender from a weakness to almost like

1049
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 1: a strength helped me through so many situations. So Caitlin, Caitlin,

1050
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: I love that. That's such a good bit of advice,

1051
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,760
Speaker 1: and I will say she is incredible about giving advice

1052
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: for really anything, because she's been in this world for

1053
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: so long. She's gone through the happy times, the engagements,

1054
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 1: the breakups, everything, So she's she's so well rounded and

1055
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Speaker 1: such a good person to get that advice from it,

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Speaker 1: she really is. Okay, here's this one for you. Most

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Speaker 1: likely to get everyone laughing. Oh. I would also probably

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Speaker 1: say Caitlin. Honestly, Haylin, just the queen of the relatives.

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Speaker 1: I will also say this. We did the Batchelotte Reunion

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Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, and after we were done filming,

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Speaker 1: about half of us went back to a room and

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Speaker 1: just like ate and drink and had a good time.

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Speaker 1: Emily Maynard had me cracking up all night. She was

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Speaker 1: so much fun. It was and I didn't expect it,

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Speaker 1: I guess because I didn't know much about her other

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Speaker 1: than her time on the season yea, but she was hilarious.

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Speaker 1: She liked at one point she took out her extensions

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Speaker 1: and like popped them in my hair. And she's very

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Speaker 1: blonde and I'm not, and it just in such a

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Speaker 1: good way. So I will also say Emily, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: most fun to share a glass of wine with got

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Speaker 1: any of us? Honest, I would love to sit down

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Speaker 1: and have a glass of wine with anybody. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: there's one involved, anyone. Um. I feel like all of

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Speaker 1: these is so hard to just not go into stories.

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Speaker 1: I owe another one too, who I have to give

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Speaker 1: credit for is Dianna. She I've done her podcast several times.

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Speaker 1: She was part of the Reunion. She's she's incredible to

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Speaker 1: you will meet her too. She likes California, so one day, okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean you'll meet us coming okay. Last, and not least,

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Speaker 1: who is your favorite to follow on Instagram? M I

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00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: don't know, because that means I would have to be

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Speaker 1: on Instagram like actively, It's true. What would your answer be? Oh,

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Speaker 1: it depends on like what kind of content I want.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I follow every most of them for

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Speaker 1: different reasons, like I love seeing some of their kids.

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Speaker 1: I love following Jillian because she's so well rounded. She's

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Speaker 1: such a badass boss woman. She has so many incredible

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Speaker 1: business ventures that I just aspired to. Also, it's been

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Speaker 1: nice for me personally to follow Caitlin lately because she's

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Speaker 1: currently on tour and I'm about to go on tour,

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Speaker 1: so It kind of helps me like get in that

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Speaker 1: mindset of like the tour bus behind the stage all

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Speaker 1: of that. Will you be like going via tour bus?

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Speaker 1: Oh I will that's tour bus is back? Maybe and

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Speaker 1: why you have anxiety? Now? Yeah, it's gonna be a lot.

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Speaker 1: Are you the only girl? Time out? Time Out? I

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Speaker 1: never thought about this. You're going to be the only

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Speaker 1: female because like Kalin, they are male and females on

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Speaker 1: this tour of us, right, you are going to be

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Speaker 1: the only female on this tour of us. Well, so

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Speaker 1: I so we'll have separate one so I have I'm

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Speaker 1: the host of the show, and then I'll have like

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Speaker 1: the female dancers, and then we have a casting team.

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Speaker 1: This is a social media manager. And then the guys,

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Speaker 1: like each week we'll have a new guy, so Rodney's

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Speaker 1: there for a week. We have Rick, we have andrew S,

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Speaker 1: Justin who am I'm Blanket, and Connor, Ivan and James.

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Speaker 1: So they'll be on their own bus with the dudes,

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Speaker 1: which all I feel like we could talk forever. Thankfully,

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Speaker 1: I still have one or two more days with you.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait. But I'm so excited that you are

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Speaker 1: my official I can't even tie I'm so damn excited

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Speaker 1: that you're finally my official co host. This has been

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Speaker 1: such a long time coming, and I knew like every

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Speaker 1: time we would figure out, like who do we want

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Speaker 1: to co host, I kept coming back to you because

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Speaker 1: not only you're my Midwest girl, but you are just

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Speaker 1: You're going to give such good insight to the show

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Speaker 1: with such good comments, feedback, opinions, so I cannot wait.

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Speaker 1: So thank you. You're crying, Oh no, don't cry, Please

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Speaker 1: happy here, But thank you so much for joining me

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Speaker 1: today and it has been such a blast and you'll

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Speaker 1: get her each and every week Bachelor Happy Hour And

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Speaker 1: a huge thank you to all of our listeners because

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Speaker 1: without you, we would not be here. And I've said

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Speaker 1: it before, I'm going to keep saying it. But as

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Speaker 1: a reminder, we are still casting for The Bachelor and Batcherette,

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Speaker 1: so make sure to head to batchel Nation dot com

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Speaker 1: slash apply to nominate yourself or somebody else. Make sure

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Speaker 1: to hit us up on social. You can follow us

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Speaker 1: at Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and from there you'll

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Speaker 1: find everything you need to know to follow us on

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Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts or the Wondering app. Thank you everyone, and

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Speaker 1: see you next week. Can't wait, it's all. Here's a rap,

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