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Speaker 1: So Sam, today we're reading cheating stories involving a sister

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Speaker 1: who's a little too friendly, boob jobs, and suspicious pen pals.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: I love all of those topics. It's kind of great.

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Speaker 2: It's great, great assortment for you today.

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Speaker 1: So the first one we're starting off with is I

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Speaker 1: think my sister and my husband may be too close

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Speaker 1: for comfort. What should I do? That's the question.

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Speaker 2: I want to know. How close are they getting? Are

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Speaker 2: getting hot and steamy in the back of a car

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Speaker 2: and the Titanic painting pictures of each other naked? Or

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Speaker 2: is it just like they sat close together at you know,

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Speaker 2: like Christmas or Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 1: What should they do? That's the question. Let's see, what

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Speaker 1: do you think? Break up? Break up? Break up, cut it,

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Speaker 1: close it, break up right now? All right? Or or

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Speaker 1: sister wives or sister wives one of two options? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Or is it? Or three options? What is the sex

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Speaker 1: of OP?

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Speaker 3: Female? Female?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Som woman that we would have let you slide on

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Speaker 1: that one. You've been given the red a story news.

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Speaker 1: Well let's see. Well we're going to get into it.

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Speaker 1: And this is OKAYOP Home to the Craziest True Stories

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Speaker 1: on Earth. I'm John and Sam, let's dive into this story.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. Let's do it so revolutionary Noise three says,

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Speaker 1: eight months ago, my sister moved back into town. A

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Speaker 1: small backstory. She has not lived here in ten years,

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Speaker 1: as she originally left for college and never came back

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Speaker 1: except today. She did come back today.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a red flag your sister should never

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Speaker 2: come home? Oh no, do you live with your sister?

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Speaker 2: That's a red flag?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, throwing it down.

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Speaker 1: We grew apart and we talked maybe once a year,

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Speaker 1: and I haven't seen her physically in four years. That

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Speaker 1: is quite a long time. I've been with my husband

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Speaker 1: for eight years, married for three. She has met him

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Speaker 1: twice in the entire duration of my.

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Speaker 2: Relationship with him, because they don't see each other physically,

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Speaker 2: which is a weird thing to say. It's a word

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Speaker 2: turn of phrase. It just sounds a little sexual real life.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't see you physically in a while.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, y're too much. He's a quiet and serious

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Speaker 1: man who only opens up in front of me and

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Speaker 1: a very you select friends of his. She was struggling

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Speaker 1: to get a job here, so I thought I would

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Speaker 1: be a good person and ask my husband if he

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Speaker 1: could maybe help her find a job at his company

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Speaker 1: since they work in the same type of field. Fast

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Speaker 1: forward to current times, they actually work in the same department.

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Speaker 2: Now, Oh so he was successful in getting her job.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, I'll do anything to get this job.

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Speaker 1: Now they're all cozy together, you know, peering over each

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Speaker 1: other's cubicles.

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Speaker 2: Late nights, doing over there. Yeah, they're working late nights.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but they're in a different department. Or no,

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Speaker 2: they're in the same department. They're in the same in

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Speaker 2: the same department. Yeah, yeah, if they're working on projects together,

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Speaker 2: and I can get a little icy.

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Speaker 3: That's true. It does get pretty romantic when it gets

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Speaker 3: working late.

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Speaker 2: Riley just keeps trying to make me make a threesome happen, dude,

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Speaker 2: we're shutting it down. I did go into like Riley's

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Speaker 2: room at like eleven last night to play some guitar hero.

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Speaker 2: It was pretty great, and there was I mean, when

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Speaker 3: Medium to hard.

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Speaker 1: I guess we did. Wow. Interpret that as you will.

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Speaker 3: A gentleman.

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Speaker 1: That is the singer of this episode, all time singer.

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Speaker 1: But back to Op and the potential singers, that's going

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Speaker 1: on over there, going from medium to hard. So he

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Speaker 1: has been acting more closed off towards me lately, the husband.

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Speaker 1: But he claims everything is fine when I ask him,

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Speaker 1: what is wrong? Oh, oh not fine? Put him on,

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Speaker 1: Put him on.

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Speaker 2: Oh we have a double double segment, a red flag

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Speaker 2: and conspiracy break down the red flag. What do you

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Speaker 2: guy that he's becoming distant right after they start working together.

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Speaker 2: Very suspicious, suspicious timing.

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Speaker 1: Very suspicious timing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's a red flag of a conspiracy. That's my

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Speaker 2: red flag moment. But you have a conspiracy. Uh, they're

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Speaker 2: gonna bone.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna go from medium to hard because it's too easy.

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Speaker 2: Oh but I feel like it's like one of those

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Speaker 1: Like if I had the face of my sister, would

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Speaker 1: you still love me? Why? Why are we doing this?

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Speaker 2: It's like, regardless of what you say, you're screwed, right

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Speaker 2: because if you say yes, that it was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you want to hook up with my sister?

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Speaker 1: And if you say no, oh, you wouldn't love me

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Speaker 3: Okay, there's a question, another question like this. Let's say

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Speaker 3: significant other and your mom, like switch souls. Would you

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Speaker 3: Did you bang your mom knowing your significant do?

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Speaker 1: You can't do? You can't do either, dude. Getting back

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Speaker 1: to the story last, but well, real quick, we got

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Speaker 1: to be detailed in these conspiracy theories, right, That's that's

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Speaker 1: the segment. So I'm gonna go with a very detailed

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Speaker 1: guess of the husband and the sister were put on

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Speaker 1: a project together, like a special project, and that late night,

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Speaker 1: They just ended up spending so much time with each other.

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Speaker 1: And then the husband wants to leave ope for the sister.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, because.

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Speaker 2: He spends so much time on the extra hart project

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Speaker 1: And they work so well dude. Literally, the boss is like, wow,

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Speaker 1: you guys are the dream team. And they're like, what

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Speaker 1: if we took this work to our life? WHOA, All right,

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Speaker 1: let's give it back to reality. Let's get into it now.

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Speaker 1: We had our traditional family Christmas meal yesterday and at

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Speaker 1: first he tried to get out of it.

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Speaker 4: Specio suspicious come on like he's distant because they recently

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Speaker 4: started working together and he doesn't want to come to

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Speaker 2: They're both going to be Come on, I mean, Bro's

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Speaker 2: spelling it out for it. Flag red flag, red flag,

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Speaker 2: red flag. There we go, read new chant, there we

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Speaker 2: go another chant too. This is not something that he's

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Speaker 2: After some convincing, he finally agreed to come along for

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Speaker 2: After some convincing, I decided not to go because he

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Speaker 1: To not go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he's probably sweating, dude, He is sweating.

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Speaker 1: That seat is going to be wet, oh, for more

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Speaker 1: reason than one. Yeah, Oh goodness. My sister pulled him

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Speaker 2: It's just come on, don't be that obvious, dude, And

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Speaker 1: In a very deep conversation as if the rest of

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Speaker 1: us just didn't exist. Does it leave a snail trail?

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Speaker 3: Why would you say that?

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Speaker 1: Sam?

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Speaker 2: What the fri?

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Speaker 1: That's so Weirdow dude, this guy is crazy. We gotta

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Speaker 1: we gotta get him off the we gotta kick him

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Speaker 1: off the pod Guys, this is this is too much.

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Speaker 2: This is entirely to first, you totally misrepresent Sam's Golden

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Speaker 2: rules of marriage, and Riley does this.

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Speaker 1: Wow, it's a tough world out here. It's a tough

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Speaker 2: But it's cold out here, dude, it's cold on the pod,

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Speaker 2: you know cold. Anyway, let's get back to the story. Riley,

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Speaker 2: stop telling me about snail trails.

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Speaker 1: So when I approached them every time, they would both

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Speaker 1: talking about, they would say, a work project that's near

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Speaker 3: The work project is figuring out how to divorce. Well,

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Speaker 3: and it's near a deadline. Okay, ultimatum.

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Speaker 1: Do you think she made the ultimatum? Perhaps? Hmm, let's

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Speaker 1: see back to reality. I was feeling a little off

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Speaker 1: her fingers as he walked past her. Show me how

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Speaker 1: like walking, you know, and it's like something like that. Suspicious,

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Speaker 3: A big smile, so suspicious.

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Speaker 1: He looked down at her and nodded his head suspicious.

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Speaker 2: Oh, there's some there's some sister sister rivalry going on. Oh,

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Speaker 2: she knows what she's doing, she has the audacity. She's

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I gotta catch my breath over here. This is going.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad I like my sister and we're of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is crazy.

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Speaker 3: If your sister y okay, not your sister, or if

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Speaker 3: you were bisexual, love that switch up.

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Speaker 2: Well, at least I would only be stealing her boyfriends

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Speaker 2: and not the other way around.

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Speaker 1: There, you go, wow, true.

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Speaker 3: Well I'll ask her when she gets on here, Sophia,

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Speaker 3: how would it feel like if you had a boyfriend

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Speaker 3: and Sam stole him?

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Speaker 2: She'd probably be pretty pissed. I would never do that

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Speaker 2: because I love my sister.

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Speaker 3: But you're okay with you stealing her boyfriend, but you stealing.

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Speaker 1: Her stealing my girlfriend. I'm trying to get you trapped

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Speaker 1: on this episode. He's just trying to get you many times,

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Speaker 1: all the traps possible, dude.

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Speaker 3: Till next episode. John, Oh, gracious, I love stirring the pie.

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Speaker 3: We have the same conversation sometimes and.

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Speaker 2: You need a little bit of spice season and he's

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Speaker 2: adding that comming I mean cumin, wow, fordy.

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Speaker 1: And slip much hello oh man. Okay, well no more.

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Speaker 2: It was a planned to be clear, Sophia, I will

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Speaker 2: not steal any of your boyfriends.

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Speaker 1: Already go too much. There we go, set the record straight,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. I later asked him what that was about,

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Speaker 1: and he said, it's just a high the work thing.

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Speaker 2: It's just the John and I five all the time exactly.

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Speaker 2: I said it didn't look like a high five, and

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Speaker 2: he said that's all. I've never had any reason to

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Speaker 2: suspect him of cheating, but this has me feeling on edge.

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Speaker 2: I've been battling with myself to investigate further. Another thing

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Speaker 2: I talk, it's always just short answers and lighthearted. They

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Speaker 2: were having some intense conversations where he was hanging on

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Speaker 1: We have an update is another red flag? All right,

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Speaker 1: let's let's hop into the right. But if you don't.

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Speaker 1: But if he's like, babe, you need to work on

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Speaker 3: To reality to reality. Oop, there it goes gravity.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I need internet. I just needed to go,

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Speaker 3: He's probably like a three out of ten quiet, But

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, right, absolutely silently true. I asked if

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Speaker 1: What do you think real quick. I think he's going

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Speaker 3: I think nothing has happened.

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Speaker 1: His face went white.

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Speaker 2: He admitted to falling in love with my sister.

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Speaker 1: Falling in love.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't even like a like a little little sucky

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Speaker 3: It was like love that emotional and physical.

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Speaker 1: Is it physical? We don't know if it's just we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and prematual handholding, that's all right, Yeah, how can

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Speaker 3: It's yeah, the ins he does that with this Christian

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Speaker 1: It was all over him, all over him. Dude, I

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Speaker 2: Dude, this you don't want to know where this back

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Speaker 2: massager has gone.

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Speaker 1: That's giving each other BackRub. That thing was.

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Speaker 2: Great, That's what I'm saying. They got to get their

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Speaker 1: We just bought it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there it's clear good gravy.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. But back to the insanity that we

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Speaker 1: because of how much they have in common. Family, right,

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Speaker 1: They spend more time together at work than he does

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Speaker 2: Dude, I mean it's kind of getting awkward when John

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Speaker 2: keeps whispering sweet nothings in my ear. All work exactly, dude.

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Speaker 2: You saw that caress earlier. Today, you saw it. There

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Speaker 1: He says. He feels like he can talk to her

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Speaker 1: That sucks, due, he says, he's God, Yes, it's so

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Speaker 1: much worse. He said he's never felt more alive than

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Speaker 1: he does when he's with her. That hurts so much

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Speaker 2: But he's gonna be like, I am sorry, but I

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Speaker 2: It is a terrible way to start because you're always

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Speaker 2: going to be worried. Oh if he's working with someone else,

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Speaker 1: And again, yes, we are reading in between the lines,

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Speaker 2: I'm just calling it. I'm just calling it. Does he

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Speaker 2: know I think she's in it for the wrong reasons?

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Speaker 2: She's yeah, she could be in it for the wrong reason.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, once you guys have thought this, once the sneakiness

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is a spark. Girl is gone and

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Speaker 1: I'm not torturing my sister could be or some kernel

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: The most painful thing I've ever heard in my life

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Speaker 2: Dude, Like, like, there's a certain point where do you

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Speaker 1: You really don't. I really do not think so, like

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Speaker 2: That fucking tragic. But it's not like the twist of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe he's also maybe the sister's brainwashed him.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, dude, this feels like like way too

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Speaker 1: So out of pocket she's.

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Speaker 3: She's brainwashed him with all the head's.

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Speaker 2: Dude, dude, bro, that actually is a great name for

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Speaker 1: Honestly, all right, you got that.

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Speaker 2: Yo, we just invent a new turn of phrase. Well

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Speaker 1: Because you exactly over time and gets wet.

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Speaker 2: Oh too much sexual talk, it's too much sexual roll

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Speaker 2: it back, they come on, there we go, We're we're back. Lady,

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Speaker 1: He said, it's not God. He's still going. He's not stopping,

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Speaker 1: He's dying deeper. He said, it's not comparable by any measure,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't feel right staying married to me. Why

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Speaker 1: hope he dies me too. Okay, it was a little

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Speaker 1: It's a bit dog yeah, peanut kids there by a

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Speaker 1: Well maybe, I mean they do work the same job.

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Speaker 2: If that is true, if that'd be crazy if he

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Speaker 2: It seems like they're the same level if they're working

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Speaker 1: some time for me not to be so heartbroken. No shit, dude. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my sister, on the other hand, is not handling it

440
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:18,679
Speaker 1: as kindly as he is.

441
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:24,399
Speaker 2: What do you mean my sister is not handling it

442
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:26,479
Speaker 2: as kindly as he is?

443
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:30,520
Speaker 1: That was kind? Are you read everything he said? You're

444
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: not ready, You guys are not ready for what's coming next?

445
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:39,400
Speaker 1: Oh I can't. She is gloating. She even accidentally sent

446
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 1: me a photo of both of them where you can

447
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: tell she is in heaven because she won him away

448
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 1: from me, not NSFW, I don't think, but like they're like, ah,

449
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,800
Speaker 1: you know, like ye, like yeah you don't.

450
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:57,680
Speaker 2: I feel like have some solace just knowing that if

451
00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 2: she's doing this out of revenge, she probably not actually

452
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 2: that secure or happy. Yes, because a secure, happy person

453
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,040
Speaker 2: doesn't need to photo send that photo.

454
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 1: Exactly Like I need karma to hit both of these,

455
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 1: the sister and ex husband now again, like living that

456
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: life is karma enough.

457
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 3: I want more, I want more, I want more.

458
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, good gravy. She changed her profile photo to

459
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 1: a picture of her taking a selfie of herself smiling

460
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: very smug as he is kissing her forehead.

461
00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, imagine being a cousin and seeing all

462
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 3: this happen.

463
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, the family group chats going off.

464
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 3: It's like whoa was it?

465
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 1: Yeah? Family group chats just my immediate family.

466
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 3: Yeah it's not active though.

467
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, story time about my family group chat. All

468
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 2: my cousins are forty. My family group chets like all

469
00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 2: the aunts, the uncles, the cousin's like sixty people in there.

470
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 1: Fair oh fair enough. Yeah, it doesn't matter that they're forty.

471
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, what are you talking about you don't have

472
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 3: any room to talk.

473
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that sounds it's like your people, guys, those millennials.

474
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 1: I'm not forty. Just to set the record super clear.

475
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm sixty years old. I also love

476
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 1: how Sam has been bringing back the lego set, but

477
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 1: he's the one that has been destroying it. He's by piece.

478
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 3: Oh good.

479
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 1: But back to the story.

480
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 3: I unfollowed her on TikTok because.

481
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: That don'll show her Yeah, oh jeez, right, Oh, that's

482
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 1: like all she can do, because now she is posting

483
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: videos and photos of them together. Some of them are

484
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 1: from months ago, and it chacked me in the heart.

485
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: I asked him if he could get her to please stop.

486
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 1: He said he talked to her about it, but nothing

487
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: has changed. I have removed myself from social media for now,

488
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: except for Reddit. Yeah yeah, talk to us, op, talk

489
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: to us. My mother?

490
00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 3: Oh no, good, John, Oh no, no, what's happened?

491
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:05,400
Speaker 1: No, my mother is favoring my sister's side.

492
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 3: How how how?

493
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:15,239
Speaker 2: Oh you've got to be kidding me. She comes from

494
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: a poison family.

495
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

496
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 1: This is one of those like Hall of fame, like

497
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: toxic evil families where op is just like the.

498
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: Like like, why is everyone so crazy? Au Yeah dude,

499
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 2: oh okay, what what's the reason.

500
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,959
Speaker 1: Saying that she's not posting those things to quote unquote

501
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: hurt me? And my sister deserves to be happy with

502
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: someone else, doesn't OP deserve.

503
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 3: To be happy?

504
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Why that? Also, why are you condoning the relationship? Literally,

505
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: like you're having zero zero, zero zero zero empathy for Op,

506
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 1: who's also your daughter, Like favoritism is going the max ridiculous.

507
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: My mom said, it's my fault for looking, and I

508
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 1: need to stop being so petty. She literally stole your husband.

509
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: She literally stole the husband, so this shouldn't even be

510
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: a discussion even all that said, Like she is like, no,

511
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 1: you know what, you can't even argue with this insane logic.

512
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: You can't even do it because, I mean, you just

513
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: got to distance yourself from that whole family. Yeah good.

514
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 2: I think this is one of these stories where I'm

515
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 2: like fully on board no contact, no contact, like zero contact.

516
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just too poisonous. My father is taking the

517
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: white flag and said he'd like to stay out of it, which, honestly,

518
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 1: taking a white flag in that scenario.

519
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: Is a red flag tell me why, Sammy, break it down.

520
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 2: Because there's an obvious person who has done wrong here.

521
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 2: It should be condemned.

522
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: Yep.

523
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 2: They should just be like allowed to just do this

524
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:50,479
Speaker 2: and there be no I don't know, consequences or just

525
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 2: no say like condemning the behavior. The behavior should be condemned.

526
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 1: The white flag is the get out of jail free

527
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: card for the system.

528
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 2: The white flag is almost condoning it, ye behavior which

529
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: is totally not okay.

530
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 3: Yes, I would say I'm giving the benefit of the

531
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 3: doubt that he believes is wrong, but he's not going

532
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 3: to say anything because the mother is so on board,

533
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 3: so he doesn't want to start something.

534
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care, but it is a

535
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: red flag.

536
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 3: But I think he thinks it's wrong, but he's not

537
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 3: going to say anything because he doesn't want him and

538
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 3: the missus to be on.

539
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, already, I'm still a fucking red flag.

540
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: If you can't stand.

541
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: Up to your wife for doing something terrible, that's a

542
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 2: red flag.

543
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. And just like the type of relationship and being

544
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: able to talk to someone and challenge someone on something,

545
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: especially like your own daughter. Man, I mean, just red flags,

546
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 1: red flags. Moor ladies and gentlemen. He said, it's not

547
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 1: right what my sister did, but she's still his daughter.

548
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: I mean, what is op I agree with that he

549
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: is his daughter and it's not right, but he still

550
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 1: should condemn the bad behavior and be like, look, I'm

551
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: not going to like cut her out of my life.

552
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 1: I will hold her accountable, but I also love to.

553
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: Hold her accountable. And I actually have a I think

554
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 2: I have the proper punishment in mind. Okay, I like this,

555
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: but what what will be away? I have a proper punishment,

556
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 2: I think.

557
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: I say, yeah, what's what's a good punishment? I mean, one,

558
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: this is maybe maybe more extreme, and maybe you don't

559
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: have to go to this extreme, but saying something like

560
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: I need you, like, definitely you have to apologize to

561
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: your sister, creating some conditions maybe even like you know,

562
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: don't see this guy because like it's ruining the family.

563
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: That's like it will probably wouldn't be able to control that.

564
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 2: But I think what they can say is like Christmas thanksgivings, Yeah,

565
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:32,959
Speaker 2: your sister decides whether you come or up.

566
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: That's great.

567
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 2: That's which I think happened to another in another This

568
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 2: was actually when Ope was in the right, and the

569
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 2: family like basically banned or whatever. But actually, no, no, no,

570
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 2: I think I think basically OP got cheated on and

571
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: their family did the right thing by saying, like, hey,

572
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: this your sibling that fucked up your life. They are

573
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 2: not invited at all until you feel that you're healed

574
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 2: and you want her, but you're you get to decide. Yeah,

575
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: I think that feels like it makes sense totally. It's

576
00:27:58,520 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 2: not like they're cutting them out of their life, but

577
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: it's like we're choosing you on the holidays that we

578
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 2: spend time together.

579
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's perfect. Like the whole thing of like,

580
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: oh well, she's still my daughter. It's like, yeah, you

581
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: can still have you know, you can still like stay

582
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: in contact with her and like still love her. You know,

583
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 1: that's okay, but like just love your other daughter, your

584
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: father daughter, Like oh the favorite isn't just insane? Yeah. Anyways,

585
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,479
Speaker 1: he said that he won't accept their relationship and he

586
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 1: is here for me for whatever I need, but he

587
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 1: won't be in the middle of this. I respect his

588
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: decision on that. I'm sure it's not an easy place

589
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: to be in. Yeah.

590
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 2: So wow, yeah, I mean there all right, all right,

591
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 2: I mean he I think I agree with everything he said.

592
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 2: I would just add the thing that we just said

593
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: about the Christmas is.

594
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: The thing that bothers me is the complete get it

595
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: of jail free card for the sister totally like, Yeah,

596
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,479
Speaker 1: you don't have to like go no contact with her,

597
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: like say like, oh, you're not my daughter anymore, but

598
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: just do some at least the barest of minimums. Sit

599
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: her down and be like what you did is wrong

600
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: and here's why. And this is firmly what I believe.

601
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: You can't sway me from that. Thank you for all

602
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: of your kind words, all of the advice that was given.

603
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: I probably didn't add everything. My brain is kind of

604
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: foggy at the moment. And we do have one final

605
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: closing edit for this story. Edit for those thinking that

606
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: this is unrealistic because it was magically resolved in eighteen days,

607
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: it is far from resolved. They are moving to a

608
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: different office because he said he feels guilty and doesn't

609
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: want to be near me. Yeah, he doesn't want to

610
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: be constantly reminded of what a piece of doogie is. Yeah. God.

611
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: They have not transferred yet because they can't for a

612
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: while due to lack of openings. I worded it wrong,

613
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: which is my fault. I wanted to update as much

614
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 1: as possible as to try to put closure to this

615
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: for those people that were asking for an update. Also,

616
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: I have no contact with all of them except for

617
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: my soon to be X at the moment and will

618
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: be for a long time, if not forever. I will

619
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 1: be no contact with him after the divorce. Well, I

620
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: mean that is a good Yes, that is a good

621
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: decision for sure. Yeah. I feel so bad for Op,

622
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: like talk about doing absolutely nothing wrong, getting the raws

623
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: worst most gut wrenching, knife twisting deal of all time. Yeah, dang,

624
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Op. My Okay.

625
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: Story time, which basically relates to, like my advice on

626
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 2: this is I was reading the Seven Habits of Highly

627
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 2: Effective People, which great book, and it talks about just

628
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: like living a principled life and something that one of

629
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 2: the examples he gave this like he ran into this

630
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 2: guy at this conference and he's like, my wife doesn't

631
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: trust me, Like she's always like nagging me, but whenever

632
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 2: I go to.

633
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: These conferences and blah blah blah.

634
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 2: And he's like, oh, like why, It's like, well, I

635
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: met her at one of these conferences when I was

636
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 2: with my ex wife and she's worried that so that

637
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: it'll happen again. Yeah, right, and it's like, of course,

638
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: because you have shown her that that's how you treat

639
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 2: a relationship.

640
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

641
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: And I think it's like you reveal who you are

642
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 2: through your action, right, and like how how you treat

643
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 2: people and how you treat others, And if this is

644
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 2: how this relationship starts really shaky ground, even if they

645
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: have a deep connection, even if that a deep connection,

646
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 2: because both of them, especially maybe the sister at some

647
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: point is going to feel insecure and it is going

648
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: to be like, what if he did this to me?

649
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: Can we play through this scenario? So let's say it's

650
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: early on with the husband and sister working together, they

651
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: start to know, like the first inklings of noticing some

652
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: feelings are there. You, as the husband, what do you

653
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: do if you're in this exact same scenario.

654
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I think we've talked about this a little

655
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 2: bit before, and I do have a golden rule on this. Oh,

656
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 2: so as soon as you notice there's romantic feelings, you

657
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: kind of stop contact and then you address that with

658
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 2: your wife. Yes, and in that moment, you could probably

659
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 2: find you could probably like, oh, like this relationship isn't working,

660
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 2: Like I'm not, I don't feel this way for you.

661
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: And you can end a relationship because of what you

662
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 2: don't have, not because of what you have with someone else.

663
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: And it's like it's more about you realizing what this

664
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 2: relationship is missing, rather than you know, jumping ship to

665
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: another ship.

666
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it is. I'm sure there's some scenarios where

667
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: it's like someone's God, can we really even say this

668
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: someone's soulmate isn't actually you, it's rather your simpling. And

669
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: I think it could be true. It could be true, true.

670
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 3: But one in a million it's gonna happen to be true.

671
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 2: But the thing is he totally ruined it because he

672
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 2: let it go too far, and now it's built on

673
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 2: that relationship is built on really unstable ground exactly.

674
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this you can't do it. You can't do it,

675
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: can't have it all. But we can't have another. Okay,

676
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: story time on the family group chat.

677
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean I just wanted to show you

678
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 2: guys my family group CHET so like we I don't

679
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 2: even know, I never look at it. Actually, let's see where.

680
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: Where are their numbers and their addresses. It's called Donnerville. Nice,

681
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: I like that.

682
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: Someone two numbers recently left. It's there's twenty six.

683
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: People in there. Oh oh oh, and I don't.

684
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 2: How I mean it's my cousins. I don't even have

685
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,719
Speaker 2: like these numbers.

686
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: I mean that's sixty people like that's yeah, that's a lot.

687
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 1: A beautiful birthday.

688
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 2: Girl.

689
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

690
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: It's my cousin and his wife. One of my cousins

691
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 2: is pregnant. Nice, I haven't even seen these pictures.

692
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: For a guy who was talking up all this family

693
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: group chat stuff, I don't look at it.

694
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: We'll show you, guys this one. My aunt Nan sent

695
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 2: this in the chat. These are my grandparents back in

696
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 2: the day.

697
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: Oh dude, whoa that is such a great picture. Is

698
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: that a great photo? Yeah, dude, it's duds. That's I

699
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: love that picture. Yeah.

700
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 2: I love a family group chat. Yeah, I should look

701
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: at it more. Honestly, I'll participate.

702
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: What do you do? I live here? It was like,

703
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: wait a second, do you have a family group chat? Really? No?

704
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 3: I probably should. I could probably start, well, I can

705
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 3: initiate that.

706
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, lets hate it old make you feel closer to

707
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: your family.

708
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, FaceTime them.

709
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: Here and there, brother, we heard this morning. Yeah, you're

710
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: always talking to tape wild and wild, And you know

711
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: what I do want you to talk about what next story? Oh,

712
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: let's do it. Let me pull it up, big boys,