1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: My family try to steal my money. I'm getting them 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: arrested Parts four, so Le'll be ready for this final installment. 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: Put me out of my effing misery, John, So. 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: Let's get into the Part three tld R to catch 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: you guys up. Opie's family rebuilds relationships with relatives. Cottle 6 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: Mom faces difficult time after her divorce and rejection of 7 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: her daughter's entitled cousin and Blabermouth are sentenced to prison 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: for their criminal actions. Baby Blabber has been attempting various 9 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: tactics to secure money for his college education. Later, he 10 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: was given a job by his father, Steve Conner, Mom's 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: ex and his daughters keep me updated as they can 12 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: in case Condle Mom decides that I'm being moved upward 13 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: on her priority lessons cos the house has been sold 14 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 1: and the divorce has been finalized. They were forced to 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: sell the house in the divorce. Since then, they had 16 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: renovated the house not long ago. People were very interested 17 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: and they found a buyer pretty quickly. Coddle Mom and 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: her ex, Steve are now officially no longer tied to 19 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: one another. Let's go lfg's in the chat, she walked 20 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: away with a nice sum and had until the fifteenth 21 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: of June to get her things out, out of the 22 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: house and find yourself a new place to live. 23 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 2: That sounds pretty easy. 24 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: See it sounds easy. But remember in part two or three, 25 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: she went around to all of her kids, all of 26 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: her other family members and said, hey, pay for me. 27 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: What did everyone say, Riley, No, they said no. She 28 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 1: even went to a wonder woman even when she shut 29 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: that down. 30 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 3: I think anything easy for this family is just the 31 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,479 Speaker 3: hardest thing to the hardest thing for them to stand. 32 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 2: I should be doing the opposite of this. 33 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, I have tons of money. I can't run 34 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: my own apartment. That's crazy. How can I do that? 35 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: Sign a piece of paper? Oh my god, that's the 36 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: worst thing ever. Someone else's signed up. By the way, 37 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: this comes to Brener account nine to nine, eight seventy 38 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 1: six on our slash entitled people. So Steve again cond 39 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: of Mom's ex had been looking for an apartment since 40 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: the start of the divorce proceedings and found one. It's 41 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: quite close to his daughters and their families. He moved 42 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: in as soon as he could. But I'm to condonmol, 43 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: I don't have everything clear as my inside informants are 44 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: are not close to her anymore. So some details about 45 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: what happened might be vague because of this. But condon 46 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: Mom agreed on the sale as she got a very 47 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: nice sum of money. She also seemed to realize that 48 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: if she did anything now, she would get herself in 49 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: deep trouble. See coddle Mom, is she's using her new 50 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: sens She's actually she's getting sense and sense. 51 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 2: She's using one of her brain cells. 52 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: I think she might be might might even have two 53 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: to rub together at this point. What yet, this wouldn't 54 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: be coddle mom impress of entitlement if something weren't to happen. Okay, 55 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: she has a whopping five weeks at this moment left 56 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: to find alternative housing. Okay, the buyers offered extra money 57 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: if they move. Seems all great. She and Steve gladly 58 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: accepted to this. Her friends have come with some suggestions. 59 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: She has friends my God, offering her their homes and 60 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: one even managed to find a good apartment for coddled Mom. 61 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 2: Don't offer your home to this woman. 62 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: Run away, run away, make sure, do not your home, 63 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: change your number, getting a restraining order, do whatever you can. 64 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: Run away Coddled Mom even went to look at it, 65 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: but rejected the offer. I've seen the pictures as her 66 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: daughter texted them to me. The price was affordable, it 67 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: was a good neighborhood, nice neighbors, as far as I 68 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 1: could tell, no major nor minor problems to the apartment itself. 69 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: It even had the possibility for in home care. Seems 70 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:09,520 Speaker 1: like a dream to me, coddled Mom. Of course, she 71 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: said no. Guys of course. 72 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 3: Said like I said, in their vocabulary, they want to challenge. 73 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: They want a challenge that has to be at someone 74 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 1: else's expense. 75 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 4: They want at them. 76 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: I need an insurmountable challenge to be able to drain 77 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: your bank account. 78 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. Every there's video game that they're playing is 79 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 2: on like extra hard mode, impossible mode. 80 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: They don't even know how to play the game. They're like, 81 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: what's a switch? 82 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're playing it with the upside down controller inverted. 83 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: Why would you reject such nice offers? Well, because coddled 84 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: Mom was still hell bent on living with one of 85 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: her daughters. Remember all the daughters who rejected her in 86 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: previous parts of the sty for free, of course, for free, 87 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: of course, didn't she want that? Though? 88 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 2: This doesn't have a job too write No of course, no, no, no, no, no, okay, 89 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: of course yeah. 90 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: So we know this because her tactic was to wait 91 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: till the last moment right to spring this crap onto 92 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: her daughter's We're all seeing what she's doing here now. 93 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: Coddle Mom went to daughter one's house and told her 94 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: if that the first week of June would be perfect 95 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: for her to move in with them, absolutely perfect, right. 96 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 1: Daughter one asked her if she had lost her mind 97 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: because she isn't moving in with them. Coddled Mom again 98 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: spouted some things about taking care of your elderly mother 99 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: is your duty. You owe me this. I paid for 100 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: your upbringing and you should pay me back. 101 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: Oh there I go, Gosh, there she is again. 102 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 4: You owe me. 103 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: So. Daughter one told me that she used some not 104 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: so nice words to make it clear that what she 105 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: thought and slammed the door before coddle Mother could say 106 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: anything else. I like that. 107 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 2: Oh man, I love that. Wonder woman also did that 108 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 2: to her. She was like, blah bla blah, I should 109 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: before you can start speech. 110 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: So to make sure that coddled Mom got the message, 111 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: she sent a text email and priority letter that requires 112 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: signature for proof of delivery, telling coddled Mom that she 113 00:05:09,960 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 1: is not welcome to live with her place and that 114 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: she will be trespassed if she shows up. 115 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: Oh my freaking we call the police. 116 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: He's sorry, Mom, I gotta get you arrested. 117 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 2: That's the only thing you could do with this family. 118 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: Right, all I can do is arrest you, mom. 119 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: But literally, that's the only language they know is jail, jail, 120 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:28,559 Speaker 2: jail time. 121 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: Right, you are guilty. The locks were also changed, just 122 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: for good measure. In God, Coddled Mom went on to 123 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: another daughter, We have more. She called Dotter number two 124 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: and told her yes, told her, not asked, that she 125 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: would move in with them in the first week of June. Right, love, 126 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: the first week of June, love the first Did you 127 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: know what's the perfect week for coddlind mothers to move in? 128 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 3: You know? 129 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 1: You did? You know that? It's crazy? 130 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 4: She's not the only one. 131 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: It's like the best for her schedule. 132 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 2: Remember the wolf with the pigs. The wolf goes to 133 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: every house and he's like blowing down the houses. That's 134 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: what she's doing. But she called is a brick house, 135 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 2: and she can't blow it down. She huffed, it is. 136 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: She puffed and she can't steal any of her daughter's 137 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: money or home or homes or rooms or whatever. 138 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 2: I'm just so upset. I'm beyond like done with this. 139 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, put her aside ward somebody. I'm 140 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: just glad that we got another animal analogy story from Riley. 141 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: This series worth three for three Today, Donna number two 142 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,080 Speaker 1: told her heck no, not happening and did the same 143 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: as her elder sister, but once again, but once again 144 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: her entitlement. She didn't take no for an answer and 145 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: showed up anyways, first at Donna number one's house, where 146 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: she was met with the locked door and Donna number 147 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: one and her husband shouting from the window to leave 148 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: or the police would be called. 149 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: So she left, and she huffed as you puffed, and 150 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 2: she got the police called on her exactly. 151 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: Donna number two was called by her sister about what happened. 152 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: Donna number two locked her house as well as soon 153 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: as her mother showed up. She did call the police. 154 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 1: Nice LFG Conard Mom noticed it and quickly left. Now 155 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: her time is running out, because remember her whole strategy was, 156 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,039 Speaker 1: oh wait till last minute, so force them to guilt 157 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 1: them into getting me to stay with them. 158 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: Right, she had five weeks as she waited to the 159 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 2: last week. 160 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: The clock is run down, right, her strategy is now 161 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: biding her the butt. Okay, this is what you get 162 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: when you when you wait till the last minute to 163 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: find new living arrangements. You see, coddled mother tried her friends. 164 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: One apparently obliged worst decision of your freaking live friend. 165 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: You just you don't even know what you've done to yourself. 166 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: You gave her an inch, She's gonna take it for 167 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: five fucking miles and drag you for ten more. You're 168 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: gonna end up in the fucking antarctica. Oh my god, 169 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm doing I'm fucking done. 170 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I can't. I'm crashing out. 171 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: DN, He's crashing out. 172 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 2: So there was a catch though this doesn't matter. 173 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 3: Letter. 174 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: So the friend was apparently the prozes of moving and 175 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: it would only have the house for another two to 176 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: three months. Right, the friend she didn't mind hosting coddled 177 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: Mom for two months tops, so she could find alternative housing. 178 00:07:58,040 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 4: Right. 179 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: However, Coddled Mom wouldn't need sign a form to make 180 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: sure that she would move out after two months. 181 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: Ry, go sign it, Please sign it? So you can 182 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: go to jail faster. 183 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: Coddle Mom didn't like that. 184 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 4: Of course she did. 185 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: She didn't like of course she didn't like it. She 186 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: didn't like it, and she still showed up to her 187 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: friend's house with some of her belongings. Friend had heard 188 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: from Coddle's coddled mom, she Nanigan's and didn't let her 189 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: in unless she signed the form. 190 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 2: That is still stupid that you know that this is 191 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: happening and you're like, oh, you still have to sign it. 192 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 2: That's not gonna do anything. 193 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: At a minimum, at least she didn't open the door. 194 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: At least she's she's holding her out, which next sentence, 195 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: toddle Mom refused. So her friend didn't let her stay. 196 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 1: Thank god, thank god that was a that was at 197 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: missile a nuke. But coddlin Mom didn't leave her friend's 198 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: house quietly. Oh no, oh no, oh no oh no. 199 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 4: That would be too easy. 200 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: Here's the hard mode. 201 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 2: They stay hard with every decision of their effing. 202 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: Live ron insanity mode. Okay, she was heard going on 203 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: about I thought I would get to leave here. I 204 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: didn't think you wouldn't let me stay. I thought we 205 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: were friends. She then tried her daughters again with no 206 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: luck and a stern warning from some police officer. 207 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: Let's go, lads and blue actually doing something for good. 208 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 4: They're the lads in black. What I think they're British. 209 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 2: She's referred to them as lads and blue. 210 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: That's true. You should read this story. 211 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 4: I'm catching up. But people said they're British. 212 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 2: I'm I'm proud of you. 213 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: Who do we think? Hoddlebaumb calls next wonder woman. It's 214 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 1: a good guess, oh, Steve, Steve, Stave, Steve Steve. Then 215 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: she called Steve, who told her that this was a 216 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: problem she had created for herself. He offered no assistance. 217 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: He told her that she wasn't his responsibility or anything 218 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: else anymore. She even tried Steve's family members, who also refused. 219 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: Just go to the next family, Just go to the 220 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: next family. God. Steve was like, no, by the end 221 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: of the week, she's going to be on her third 222 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: cousin four times, removed lawn with all of her belonging. 223 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: He's like, but I thought we were family. You have 224 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,599 Speaker 1: to do it for family. 225 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 3: It sounds like if she even got a castle. She's like, no, 226 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 3: there's a catch. Yeah, everything it's my castle. Now you 227 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 3: owe it to me. 228 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: Do you know what I did for you? Everything? Now 229 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: she's at the point that the transfer was done and 230 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: she had a home no longer. I know that she 231 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 1: managed to find an airbnb, but no real apartment yet. 232 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: So this is the story of how coddled Mom burned 233 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: the bridges she has in her life. What few bridges 234 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: she had left? 235 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that want she has no brain cells. 236 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: Next update is about the family. Okay, do we think 237 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: just big picture good or bad the family? The family? 238 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: But hear me out. The family had been going in 239 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 1: a better direction. 240 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's just everyone's life around them. All the 241 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 2: other stupid family members around them are now just going 242 00:10:58,040 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 2: deeper into the hole that I didn't know could be 243 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 2: dig dug deep already. 244 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that they're gonna they're gonna go all 245 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: the way to angel or anything, but I think it'll 246 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: it'll slowly, baby steps get a little little better with 247 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: the family. Oh with like the immediate family, not the 248 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 1: the the uh like mother in law. Remember how she 249 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: was like getting back in contact with the cousins, the 250 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,319 Speaker 1: mob the family showed up. 251 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 2: Like oh yeah, yeah, the like extended family family the beggars, 252 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: the beggars. I don't know what about it. I I 253 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: think it's gonna be neutral, neutral. I think they themselves 254 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 2: are gonna be better. But opis still gonna keep the 255 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 2: arms length like a a good point, don't get too close, 256 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 2: not giving you anything else. And they're still gonna try 257 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: to find ways to get money from Opie. Of course, 258 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 2: that was their progative from the first. And they're not 259 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 2: gonna stop. 260 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: Update on the family. I got messages from people asking 261 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: for an update on my family and especially in law. 262 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, because she it seemed to be on 263 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,839 Speaker 1: the mend, But did she fully come all the way back? 264 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:54,959 Speaker 2: She was on the mend, but as soon as her 265 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: daughter got put on trial, she probably went backwards, went 266 00:11:58,240 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 2: into a spiral. 267 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: Right, husband and the chill are doing better. Therapy has 268 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 1: helped a lot. They understand that some things are out 269 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: of their control. They don't feel as helpless anymore and 270 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: are in a better place now mentally. We have been 271 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: training with our own dog a lot, which gives the 272 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: children a lot of confidence as well. Our relationship with 273 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: mother in law is so so. The trial has taken 274 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: into men's toll on her. She finally realized what her 275 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: actions did and meant to us. Even though she has 276 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 1: gone to therapy, the reality of how Blabermouth is as 277 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: a person never really sunk in. That reality came crashing down. 278 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 2: Mmmm, Okay, she's starting to realize how bad her daughter is. 279 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: Blabermouth danged herself in the eyes of her mother. Mother 280 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: in law has always downplayed what Brobermouth said about Slash 281 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: to me and did since the start of my relationship 282 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: with husband. She didn't really believe that Blabermouth meant the 283 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: things that she said over the years. The most shocking 284 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:52,800 Speaker 1: thing Blabermouth said wasn't even in court. It was during 285 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 1: a visit from mother in law in jail, where Blabermouth 286 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: was residing as she does. She told her mother that 287 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: I was always overreacting that family shares, that I and 288 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: the children should just shut up, don't complain, and just 289 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 1: do as she said. She said, I should have divorced 290 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 1: husband years ago, but since I was the one who 291 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: brought in more money, I should be a good family 292 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: member and share. She wouldn't be in this situation if 293 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: I would have done what she wanted. 294 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 2: And what she wanted was a thirty five thousand dollars vacation. 295 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: That's what she wanted. That's it, she said, It's cheap, 296 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: it's easy, simple. You've like, yeah, you you paid for 297 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: all five of my children's college funds. But that's nowhere near. 298 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 4: My college fund. 299 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 1: Where's my college fund? Mm? 300 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 4: You took the words right out of my mouth. 301 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: Tipped it genius producers alert. Let's go that no harm 302 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: would have come to me if I had simply done 303 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: what she had told me to. 304 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: It was because of. 305 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 1: Me that she was in jail. That she, Blabermouth had 306 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: to show me that she was the one who decided 307 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 1: what I should do with the money, as she is 308 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: older than I and knew what is best for the family. 309 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: Eye roll, sure, Blabermouth, as what the most spoiled of 310 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: them all talk with me? She told mother in law 311 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: that I wasn't worthy to be part of the family 312 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: to begin with. I had my use, but if I 313 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: didn't just part with my money, it would be better 314 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: if I and my children, not husbands, but mine alone, 315 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 1: in her mind, were no longer part of the family. 316 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, what kind of friends have you made 317 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 2: in jail? Oh? You made yourself a friend in Joel, 318 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 2: and you talked to yourself in a corner in your 319 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 2: jail cell, and this is what you came up with. 320 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: Opie's best friend is her sitting in her like yeah, 321 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: yeah that's right. Yeah yeah. Ope he's evil. Oh he's 322 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: real evil. And I should have just got all the money. 323 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. 324 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: If she give them money, none of this ever would happened. 325 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: And I'll be good. 326 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 2: That is the most accurate thing, I agree. 327 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: The way my poor mother in law interpreted that last 328 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: remark is that her own daughter wished unliving on her 329 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: grandchildren and their mother. She told us so. My mother 330 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 1: in law has the greatest of hearts, but sometimes misses 331 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: the innuendo in things that are being said and done. Now, 332 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: I personally don't believe that blackber moouse wishes for my 333 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 1: existence to end. She knows full well that while Hubby 334 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: earns well, it's the money that I bring in in 335 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: my investments that have given us the nice nest egg 336 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 1: and possibility to help her in her family. She is entitled, 337 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: very entitled. Is she stupid? 338 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 4: Why? 339 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: Yes, but not to this degree because if ope, he's gone, 340 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: where is she going to? 341 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 3: Uh? 342 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: Who's she going to harass? For more money. That's the 343 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 1: kicker here, ladies and gentlemen. She has expressed many times 344 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: that husband should have divorced me, and has always tried 345 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: to sabotage and even end a relationship. Of course, of course, 346 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: why would I let you be happy? Of course, give 347 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: me all your money and suffer, but never my life. 348 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: I also know for a fact that when the suggestion 349 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: arose that she could be indicted for attempted manslaughter after 350 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: an entitled cousin's attack on me, she got scared. She 351 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: wanted me compliant, not deceased. She knows that her brother 352 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: my husband, places me and my children on a pedestal, 353 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: and by hurting me to this point, she has damaged 354 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: their sibling relationship beyond repair. He has shown his anger 355 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: towards her because of her actions against us. What would 356 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: have happened if she was found to be responsible for 357 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: my passing away? Blabermouth had his respect for her as 358 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: a sister. She has lost that utterly. He doesn't care 359 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: what happens to her anymore. He's completely disowned her. But 360 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: this isn't the only thing. Her own mother thought that 361 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: Blabermouth wished for me to be deceased. That my children 362 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: to be deceased. We explained the above mentioned to her. 363 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: We told mother in law that we knew all the 364 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: things we have done for Blabbermouth and her family and 365 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: for others as well. Mother in law didn't seem to 366 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: hear us, understand or be willing to understand. Mother in 367 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: law now saw what her daughter had put me through. 368 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 2: About freaking time. 369 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: I thought we were already here though, am I wrong? 370 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: We were here? And then she got put on trio. 371 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 2: She got sad and she was like, no, don't put her. 372 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to see my baby go away. She's 373 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 2: now talking to her baby that is in jail and 374 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 2: is like, oh my gosh, the monster that is here. 375 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,360 Speaker 1: Maybe I take back my prediction that mother in law 376 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 1: will come all the way back around, because it seems 377 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: like mother in law is just swayed by whoever. She's like. 378 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 2: I think she made good progress till the trial. She 379 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 2: spiraled she's gonna come back. She has realized who this 380 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 2: person actually is, and she's gonna come back. She's gonna 381 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 2: be really sorry. She's gonna come back. 382 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 3: Or maybe just maybe she believes the one in jail 383 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 3: and is like trying to finesse like they're working together. 384 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: That's a while conspiracy theory. Yeah yeah, boy, I mean 385 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: this entire story is wild, so crazier has happened in 386 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: the story. 387 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 4: Couldn't put it past her. 388 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 2: Blabermouth did try to get the brother in law to 389 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:27,880 Speaker 2: do her bidding for. 390 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 4: Her, so might as well put in. 391 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: Might as well try to put in the work for 392 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 2: the mother in law. 393 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,719 Speaker 3: Mother in law might be like trying to like, all right, 394 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: let's let's do that, do different tactic here. Let's you 395 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: go over there and you know, try and get in. 396 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: It could be, it could be. 397 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 2: I hope we see. 398 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: Mother in law now saw what her daughter had put 399 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 1: me through, all those comments, all those Snyder marks, all 400 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: of those digs, all the things she had done to 401 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 1: slyly undermine me. Mother in law always excuse those things. 402 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: Now she understands what her daughter had done. She understands 403 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 1: the severity of her daughter's actions to make me comply 404 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: to her will, endangering my health and even my life, 405 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: inflicting trauma onto my children. As long as my husband's 406 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: will was broken and her demands would be fulfilled, it 407 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: didn't matter to her. The change in mother in law 408 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 1: was immense and it left her broken. She no longer 409 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: saw her daughter only as a loving mother, but also 410 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: as entitled and the woman she is and the consequences 411 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: of her own actions. Mother in law has been apologizing 412 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 1: so much, she's been crying a lot. Oh, she is 413 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 1: kind of coming around, definitely coming around. We look at 414 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: mother in law with a mixture of sadness and relief. 415 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: Blobermouth no longer has an ally in her mother. Blabermouth's children, 416 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,959 Speaker 1: especially the two oldest, bluntly told mother in law that 417 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: they were glad. Mother in law finally came to that conclusion. Yeah, 418 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 1: when her own children are telling you, hey, it's a 419 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 1: good thing that you're not listening to anymore. Like, come on, 420 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: they were sick and tired of mother in law's rugsweeping. 421 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: They're not angry with her. Mother in law is not confrontational. 422 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 1: When there are confrontations, she would rather ignore it and 423 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: pretend all as well. Mother in law continues with therapy. 424 00:18:58,359 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: She has a long way to go. 425 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 2: Curious if she was still going to therapy. 426 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: Still going to therapy, But to Opie's last centence, it 427 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: sounds like, yeah, she's improving, but there's still this is 428 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: a long, long run. 429 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,439 Speaker 2: And I guess they stopped doing family sessions because for 430 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 2: a little bit the mother in law in initiated family sessions. 431 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 1: I think you're right. Yeah, it sounds like maybe they 432 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 1: stopped that. 433 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't think she's going to be able 434 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: to do that for a while. 435 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like which kind of makes sense. Like 436 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 1: this isn't like a straight, clean path. It's it's a 437 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: bumpy road, a lot of it's up and downs, all 438 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 1: of that stuff. The rest of the family is quiet. 439 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 1: They haven't asked for money, they didn't ask for budgeting 440 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: and advice and such. We are civil but cordial with 441 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: those who went against us. So we have an update 442 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: coming up. How are we feeling, gentlemen, talk to me. 443 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 2: I'm disappointed in the mother in law. I thought she'd 444 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 2: see clearly now that the rain is gone. She should, 445 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 2: she should be. 446 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: All the way back around at this point, But she 447 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 1: kept flip flopping like just see reason, Yeah, it's not 448 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: that hard. 449 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 3: Like well, you know what, you know, it's very easy. 450 00:19:57,840 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 3: But they don't take easy as a word of their vocabulary. 451 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: Her own herber Mouth's own children are like, no, she sucks. 452 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: Why are you still like on her side. 453 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 2: We also haven't heard a lot from entitled cousin much 454 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 2: Sorry just thinking about that's. 455 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: A good point. That's a good point. 456 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 4: Has an entitled cousin lost everything though? At this point? 457 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 2: Oh never mind? 458 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: But has that stopped any of them from being crazy before? 459 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 3: It literally does feel like a Batman thing where like 460 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 3: they're all different villains. 461 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:31,159 Speaker 2: This has to be like a movie or something like. 462 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 2: I I it probably is real, and I hope that 463 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 2: this isn't real because this is crazy. But it sounds 464 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 2: like someone stripped the TV series and just like made 465 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 2: this so many plot lines on an o P. I'm 466 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 2: so freaking sorry that you went through all of this 467 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 2: and you're going to so much detail on how everyone's feeling. 468 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 2: And we're getting the mother in law's perspective, the wonder 469 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 2: woman's perspective, your own perspective, multiple characters perspectives. This is 470 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 2: a movie. Well, wow, you can make a book. Please 471 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: make a book out of this. 472 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 473 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys probably have said it that money drives 474 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: people crazy. 475 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: Yeah we haven't said that. 476 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 3: Oh well, money drives sometimes money drives people crazy, talk 477 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 3: about it. We've seen it, especially this amount of money. 478 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 3: If it's like twenty bucks. Twenty bucks is twenty bucks, 479 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:18,959 Speaker 3: but twenty million. Ooh, and look we we still want 480 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 3: to that pie. 481 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 1: All we know is that OPI was comfortably able to 482 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: fund or was planning to, was like ready to fund 483 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 1: five kids college tuition, mortgage and probably have enough left 484 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: over in each of those to pay off down payments 485 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 1: for a mortgage, and that that, you know, it's a strain, and. 486 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 2: Also paid off blabbermouths and brother in law's mortgage. 487 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do Let's do some math real quick, can't 488 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: we hear? 489 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it 490 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 2: quick maths. Try chat GPT. Oh, give me a freaking number. 491 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Uh. 492 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,959 Speaker 2: The median home price in the United States is around 493 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 2: four hundred thousand dollars. 494 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: Your boys on it. So now we're at over half 495 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: a million dollars, five hundred and seventy five thousand dollars. Right, 496 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 1: that's what estimated was going to spend on all five 497 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: of these children. Right. Opie was ready to do it, 498 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: had the money at the beginning, you know, had had 499 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: set the money aside, already. 500 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: Paid off another mortgage, we'll say, oh, paid. 501 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: Off another mortgage. You're right, another four hundred, so plus 502 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,439 Speaker 1: four hundred there. Or let's say let's say it was 503 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: a half the mortgage, right fifteen years, that's seven hundred 504 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: and seventy five. Guys, we're at three quarters of a million, 505 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 1: right years, just for family, just a lot of family. 506 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: And that number, May I remind you, ladies and gentlemen, 507 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: that number was not a financial strain for ope. 508 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 2: And this is how much the sister wanted her to pay. 509 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: Because I just added on the thirty five thousand dollars. 510 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: A smart man, smart man, we're now at eight hundred 511 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 1: and ten thousand dollars. 512 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 2: That's what they wanted, and she was willing to give. 513 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 1: She was willing to give all one hundred ten. 514 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 2: Seven hundred seventy five grand, but she wanted eight hundred grand. 515 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: But she wanted eight hundred and ten. 516 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 4: This is like the loose ballpark here. 517 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 1: This is guys. We're as you can see, we're just 518 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: trying to get the roughest napkin math possible. But even 519 00:22:59,119 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 1: even five even half a million dollars, let's say we're 520 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: off by three hundred even even half a million dollars, 521 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: absolutely crazy, absolutely nuts, So lazier gentlemen. That just shows 522 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: you a what hope he's got? And then be how 523 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: family family guys update, some wonderful news. A very good 524 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: friend of mine, Jake fake name. Wow, another new character. 525 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: We thought we were done getting right down, write it down, 526 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:25,120 Speaker 1: shut up at my door with his great love. As 527 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: a surprise, he's trying to marry her. 528 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, Jake, and. 529 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: They are getting married this summer. And I get to 530 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: be the best woman, husband is best man. Eldest and 531 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 1: youngest are the ring bears, and my daughters get to 532 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 1: be flower made. And they thought that girl didn't apply 533 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,919 Speaker 1: as she is a teenager. Okay, so that was a 534 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: small update. So that's that was our good news. O 535 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 1: good news. I hate that your good news is so short. 536 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,719 Speaker 1: It's like two Oh my god, let's get into this 537 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: next update. Some more Mama drama trigger warning terminal illness, 538 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: death and abuse. As of now, me and my family 539 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: are in Australia. Jake and his fiance they came to 540 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 1: visit us a couple of months ago to tell us 541 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 1: in person that they are trying to not We have 542 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: traveled with them as the fiance's surviving parent is unable 543 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 1: to travel due to a terminal illness. Our lawyer friend 544 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 1: is Jake's older brother. Jake is the lawyer friend's brother. Dude, 545 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,119 Speaker 1: what a small world? Wait? What is this kid? Okay? 546 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,719 Speaker 1: So so basically Opie's This is Opie's lawyer's brother, and 547 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: he and his family came as well. Now, the last 548 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 1: time I posted, Jake and his fiance came to tell 549 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,320 Speaker 1: us some wonderful news. Since we had a spare bedroom, 550 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:33,160 Speaker 1: they stayed over alas their stay was not without problem. 551 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: What no, oh no, please not with them? Please please, Jake, 552 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 2: we have OPI a fucking break. Please. Why don't just stop? 553 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: Just stop meeting people? 554 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: Stop, just lock yourself in a Are. 555 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 2: Your neighbors enough? Why do you need friends? 556 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 1: Ov? Yeah, just stick to the neighbors. To explain all 557 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: the events of the present, I need to tell you 558 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 1: about the history between me and Jake, please please do. 559 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 1: This is chrispyd So. Jake and I go back thirty years. 560 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,120 Speaker 1: We met during a birthday party, and since we had 561 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: similar interest and personalities, we clicked on a platonic level. Instinctively, 562 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 1: I knew that he didn't have a thing for women. 563 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: He confirmed that later. 564 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 2: Here we are Oh sorry, I had just assumed Jake's 565 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 2: fiance was a women. Oh yeah, women. 566 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: Coming out like it happens nowadays wasn't a thing, as 567 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 1: it sometimes opened the gates for discrimination and acts of violence. 568 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 1: To keep a long story short, Jake to helped me 569 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,199 Speaker 1: get out of an mentally and emotionally abusive relationship. My 570 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: ex isolated me from my family entirely. Jake managed to 571 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,160 Speaker 1: get me out. Perhaps you avid readers can now see 572 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: why I put up with family's crap for so long. 573 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 1: Jake and I were friends for three ish years to 574 00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: this point. Now, after the breakup with the ex, I 575 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: visited Jake regularly. I knew his parents, as Jake still 576 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 1: live there. Two years after the breakup, I met husband. 577 00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: Husband and Jake also became good friends. Husband had his 578 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,199 Speaker 1: own apartment that I moved into two years into the relationship, 579 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: shortly after we got into the financial difficulties I mentioned earlier, 580 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 1: So the breakdown of the relationship between Jake and his parents. Now, 581 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 1: Jake has always been gay, never had a girlfriend, and 582 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: he had something about him that just said you fall 583 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 1: for men. However, openly telling people that you were so 584 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,159 Speaker 1: was not a thing. Mind you, guys, Remember this was 585 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 1: thirty years ago. 586 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 2: So this was nineteen nineties, nineteen ninety, nineteen ninety four. 587 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: Yep, not when I was born, don't even think about it. 588 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 2: So he was born many years before that. 589 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, So Jake never told his parents, his brother, the 590 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 1: lawyer friend, or other relatives. So after me and husband 591 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: got together, I would went to go visit Jake. Husband 592 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 1: was sweet as ever and gave me a ride. We 593 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 1: kissed goodbye, and his mother saw us. When I entered 594 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: the living room, she was livid. She started accusing me 595 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: of cheating on Jake, calling me every horrible name in 596 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 1: the book. The father joined in as well, so Jake, 597 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 1: his brother, the lawyer friend of course, and his future 598 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 1: wife and I just stood there in shock. Eventually they 599 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 1: had to breathe, and that's when I said that Jake 600 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: and I were friends, good friends, but nothing more. More 601 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: screaming and cussing. Dude, Why is Opie a magnet for 602 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 1: insane people? 603 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 2: People just hate Opie for no reason. 604 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: Don't get it. Then Jake told his parents that I 605 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: was right. I was a very good friend, but nothing more. 606 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 1: They didn't believe him. So they're over here assuming that 607 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: Jake and OPI were in a relationship. Yeah, so Opie 608 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,959 Speaker 1: kisses her her husband and they're like oh, and they're like, oh, 609 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: we're not in a relationship. And they're still like, no, no, 610 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: you're evil. Blah blah blah. Terrible name, terrible name, exploiti explative. 611 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,080 Speaker 2: It'd be hilarious if Jake were wears like pink button 612 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 2: I'MB shirts that go down to here and it's just 613 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,439 Speaker 2: like very very like slim and like very like like 614 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 2: no hair at all, and he just blatantly looks like 615 00:27:55,800 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 2: he likes other dudes, and they're like super upset about it. 616 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 4: It's kind of that was oddly specific. 617 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you have. 618 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: Something to tell us about? 619 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do not have any pink shirts or and 620 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: I have hair on my face. 621 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 1: I got a pink shirt. 622 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 4: I got a pink shirt. 623 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 1: But here's the thing, though, what in my closet. 624 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to get it out. But guess it's 625 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 2: gonna have to come out. 626 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: Oh oh, so they said you are decent enough to 627 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: snag her. You should be lucky that she wants you. 628 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 1: This talk was normal. The lawyer friend was the golden child, 629 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: so they're talking down on him. Jake proceeded to drop 630 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: the bomb, telling them that women were not as sing 631 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: but men were. 632 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 2: WHOA take that? 633 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: Parents stunned silence. Then his mother stepped forward and slapped 634 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,719 Speaker 1: him across the face, screaming, I could remember the words 635 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: of shame, sin, not as good as lawyer friend, despicable, 636 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: funny as they can, had considered themselves open minded and 637 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 1: weren't religious at all. Whoa dude, lawyer friend. Yeah right, 638 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: it's like you don't even have a reason to be 639 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 1: my god. Lawyer friend and his future wife had to 640 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: stay in in between them. The parents screamed at him 641 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: to get out, that they kicked him out. Lawyer friend 642 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: told Jake to get all his things and leave. Lawyer 643 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: friend was a new lawyer at this point. He was 644 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 1: only friend. 645 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 2: He was just starting his journey. Yes, friends, he hadn't 646 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 2: put the l in LF. 647 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: Yes. Jake and I ran upstairs. He packed important documents, 648 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: and I grabbed every bag that I could find. Every 649 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: drawer in his closet was open, and as many of 650 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: his clothes went into the bags as could fit, and 651 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: I just threw them out of the window into the 652 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: front yard. Screaming continued downstairs. Jake and I managed to 653 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: get away after packing everything into Jake's car. We went 654 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 1: to my husband's apartment, where lawyer friend and his future 655 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: wife joined us. After some time, husband came home not 656 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: long after. I also love how like by getting Jake's backstory, 657 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: we also get the lore of OPI and lawyer friend. 658 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, dude, it's all interconnected. 659 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: That's all connected. Lawyer friend could not take Jake in 660 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 1: as he has in laws that were already staying there 661 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,240 Speaker 1: due to construction at their home. So what does W 662 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 1: husband's say? W husband says that Jake could stay with him. Ah, 663 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: W husband at their place. At their place, It was 664 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 1: during that time that husband and I had some financial problems. 665 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 1: We discussed what Jake would contribute, so sadly things got 666 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 1: messy afterwards. A couple of examples that the parents did, 667 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: in random order, but not limited to this one calling 668 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 1: other relatives outing Jake as a man who likes men, 669 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 1: lying about everything that they could think of, substance abuse, 670 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: being a criminal, et cetera, et cetera. He just likes dudes, man, dude, 671 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: come on, that's good. When Jake was still living at home, 672 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: he paid the electricity and water bill instead of his rent. 673 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: His parents opened up all the faucets and turned on 674 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 1: every electrical appliance they had, and even borrowed a portable 675 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: air conditioner and left them running for They called his 676 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: workplace to get him fired, telling lies which almost works. 677 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: Oh no, sounds like, thank god, great suspicion. That they 678 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: damaged his car. Car windows were smashed, his tires were slashed, 679 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 1: and the car was keyed. It happened more than once. 680 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 1: Unfortunately they got away. Number five the Pieceta resistance would be. 681 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: They and some homophobic family members ambushed him. He ended 682 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: up in the hospital, no charges because he had no 683 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,240 Speaker 1: proof of them. CCTV cast some dark figures, but other 684 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: relatives gave them an alibi. Du jail jail joie jo. 685 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 2: He had his own thing happened to him, like oh, 686 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 2: p did yeah, But he had his own series happened. 687 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 2: That's true, Like we could literally read a series off 688 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 2: of all these events if he went more in detail. 689 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, my gosh. 690 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: It was a mess, As luck would have it. Husband 691 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: and I were spared their wrath. It went on for months. 692 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 1: Jake was no longer the man and friend than I knew. 693 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: Then it all stopped. Lawyer friend came by when Jake 694 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 1: was released back at our apartment, he simply told us 695 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: that their parents would not be bothering him again. 696 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 2: Dude, low key conspiracy theory, yep. Lawyer Friend became a 697 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 2: lawyer so he could prosecute his parents to go to 698 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 2: jail because he knew that his parents were homophobic and 699 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 2: he knew that his brother was gay. So he was like, 700 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 2: I'm going to become a lawyer so that they can't 701 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 2: hurt him. 702 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: That was the day that he put the lawyer in 703 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 1: lawyer Friend. 704 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 2: Yep. That's the day he put on the mask and 705 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:13,200 Speaker 2: became Batman. Lawyer brother, I'm lawyer brother now, oh Man, 706 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 2: lawyer friend is Batman in the scenario. 707 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: He really kind of is like he low key was 708 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,680 Speaker 1: the unsung hero that we didn't really like think about 709 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 1: him as he because like, oh, obviously, op, she's she's 710 00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: the saint, she's the angel, she's a genius. But lawyer 711 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 1: Friend was there the whole time. Lawyer's Friend was there 712 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,560 Speaker 1: fighting the battles in court. 713 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 2: That is true, either lawyer Friend was the commissioner or 714 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 2: Harvey Dent. He was Harvey Dent, but then they went 715 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 2: bad well before before before universe. 716 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 4: He's Harvey Dent the White Knight. 717 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: Yep, the White Night piece of Dark Knight. 718 00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I should be Harvey Dent sometime for No. 719 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:46,320 Speaker 2: That'd be cool. 720 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 4: Why Harvey, you're gonna be two face? 721 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 2: Yeah you could do it. 722 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you got two faces. 723 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: You can put my hair up in a joker. 724 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 2: You could pull up, pull off a joker because. 725 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: The blonde one in the the reboots. You see, I've 726 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 1: seen frickin' movies. 727 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 2: He watches stuff. 728 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: I've watched a movie. 729 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 4: I hope you've seen The Dark Knight. 730 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 2: I've watched the Robert Pattinson Batman. 731 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: I haven't seen the one. 732 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 4: I'll be Michael Keatona. 733 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 1: He simply told us that their parents would not be 734 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: bothering him again. To this day, we have no clue 735 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 1: what lawyer friend did or said, but it was true. 736 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: Did he you know? 737 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that has to be Come on. 738 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 2: What did lawyer friend become batman that day? When his 739 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 2: parents were in the alley. 740 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: He said, he said, I don't have a robber, but 741 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: I'll take action matters in my own hands. Oh my god. 742 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 1: They never bothered Jake again. Lawyer friend also removed them 743 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 1: from his and his now wife's life, although lawyer friend 744 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 1: has never uttered a word on what he had said 745 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: to their parents. I can guess picture lawyer friend like 746 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: a trained and vicious hunting dog with the law as 747 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: his leash. 748 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 4: So he's batman. 749 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 1: He's batman, he's law batman. He's law man. If he 750 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 1: can use the law against you and he's given a reason, Den, 751 00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 1: I sincerely pity you. He won't hold back ouch Until 752 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: now it has stayed quiet, we have another update. 753 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, was that just like a side like 754 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like we're okay. I'm gonna 755 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,280 Speaker 2: be real, guys, this story has been great and everything. 756 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 2: I think it's fake. I don't know why. You know 757 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 2: what hot take it's this is fake. She's trying. 758 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 4: She got a lot of she could be fluffing up. 759 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a lot of karma on freaking Reddit. 760 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,839 Speaker 2: OPI please come to see me if this is not fake. 761 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna it's been a journey. It's been a 762 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:32,320 Speaker 2: beautiful journey. This is entertainment. But like she's rebooting another series. 763 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 2: She's trying to do Shrewds Farm. 764 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:36,880 Speaker 4: It's like a prequel. 765 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 2: And we're gonna get a whole nother thing. And then 766 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 2: guess what's gonna happen. We're gonna get the gay best 767 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 2: friends read it, and he's gonna explain this whole series, 768 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 2: which I would love to read. 769 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 1: That would be another great follow up series like. 770 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 4: The Avengers at the end, like they all, yeah, like. 771 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 2: The series they've made the Batman movie now that had 772 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:54,960 Speaker 2: the pop series. This is what's happening? 773 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me, But I was like, what what is it? 774 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna lie, what is this part with Jake have 775 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,280 Speaker 3: to do with any of the friends the family. 776 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,439 Speaker 1: I think she's giving us like super because. 777 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: How many freaking characters we have in this fucking series. Yeah, 778 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 2: this is a movie, this is a TV series, come 779 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 2: from dude, Come on. And then we got Jake and 780 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 2: lawyer friend. Jake, your lawyer friend have history, they're brothers. 781 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is this is all tied to neatly. 782 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: Come on, I don't know. 783 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 2: Maybe Riley, thank you, Ashmere, I'm We're there with you. Riley, 784 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,839 Speaker 2: thank you. Yeah, yeah, like it was real until this part. 785 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 2: Thank you. Ellie. I'm sorry. 786 00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: Listen, we still have more to it. 787 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,799 Speaker 2: Because guess what. Caddled Mom and titled cousin Black and 788 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,879 Speaker 2: Mouth are in jail there's nothing that's gonna happen till 789 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 2: five years from now. This is gonna launch part two 790 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 2: five years from now. When that happens, we're gonna fucking end. 791 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 1: Guess what. 792 00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,279 Speaker 2: Guess what's gonna happen. Oh, he's gonna die, and guess 793 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,359 Speaker 2: who's gonna take it? Her effing kids are gonna take 794 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 2: over the red account. We're gonna start doing it, and 795 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 2: then the Blacker Baby's gonna have kids, and then they're 796 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:03,759 Speaker 2: gonna have a trailer little fight and then they're gonna 797 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,840 Speaker 2: do a dash would do it for dance series, and 798 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 2: it's never end. I have a fight. 799 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 4: I'm just really upset about last night story where the 800 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 4: grandma didn't fight. 801 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 1: Dude. 802 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 2: Conspiracy is advertising for writing career? 803 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: Could be it was this all free marketing, which we 804 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 1: all know I hate. Maybe maybe I don't know. I 805 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 1: don't know. 806 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,360 Speaker 2: Shut the stream off right now, turn everything. 807 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: We have more we have to see, we have to see. 808 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 3: I really just don't understand where this Jake thing came 809 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 3: out of there, Like because she wants another series. This 810 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 3: was like a side story that was a like prequel 811 00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 3: to Lawyer Friends, Like this is a Lawyer Friends. 812 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 1: She's good though she's good. This is entertaining. I love this, 813 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:42,000 Speaker 1: but get ready for it. Yeah it doesn't update some 814 00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 1: more Mama Drama part two. Now we're back to it. 815 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a little, had to give you a 816 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 3: little like fluff so we can work on the other. 817 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,360 Speaker 1: We're building up, our characters were building. Okay, how do 818 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,240 Speaker 1: you have character development without the side series? 819 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 4: So okay. 820 00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 1: Lawyer friend decided to stand beside his younger brother and 821 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: went no contact as well. After the debacle twenty four 822 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 1: years ago. The parents were not invited to the wedding. 823 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,799 Speaker 1: They were not notified of the births of their grandchildren. 824 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 1: No birthday parties, no Christmases, no few years, no other 825 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 1: special days. Nothing. The parents wailed and berated him for 826 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: denying them their rights and not doing his duty by 827 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 1: abiding to their will. So Lawyer Friend and the wife's 828 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,359 Speaker 1: reason for their no contact was they were horrified by 829 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,240 Speaker 1: what they had done. 830 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 2: Another reason, Wow, sorry, sorry, wow, I'm sorry that I'm 831 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 2: a little mad right now. But like she's like he 832 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 2: would he never spoke a word about what had happened. 833 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,520 Speaker 2: Now we get update. Now we're gonna get explained to 834 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 2: what word for. 835 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 1: Getting the word we want to know. Another reason was 836 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 1: that they did not want their children exposed to them. 837 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 1: The parents were very disappointed when Jake wasn't a girl 838 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,320 Speaker 1: because they wanted a girl. Dude, dude, what. 839 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:49,799 Speaker 4: The heck again? 840 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 3: You gotta make this plot really sticky. 841 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 2: But listen, listen. They wanted a girl so they could 842 00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 2: bring in another man into their life. You doing that, 843 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 2: You're getting another manager you. 844 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 1: Like literally literally you're getting. You're getting what you wanted 845 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:07,359 Speaker 1: on you about it. Framework Due to an emergency hysterectomy, 846 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 1: the mother could not have another child. The parents resented 847 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: that because Jake wasn't a girl. 848 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 2: Wow, I thought he was a golden child. 849 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 1: Though, lawyer friend is a golden child. 850 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,879 Speaker 2: Oh, Jake friends, so sorry, so sorry, Jake, so sorry, gay, 851 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,319 Speaker 2: sorry sorry sorry sorry, We got your stand now, Wow 852 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:22,840 Speaker 2: that sucks. 853 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 1: Lawyer friends views are that Jake being gay was the 854 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 1: excuse they needed to do the things they did, so 855 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:31,880 Speaker 1: like they were just looking for an excuse to like 856 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,880 Speaker 1: brate and disown him and attack him later on. They 857 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,920 Speaker 1: were very afraid. Since their firstborn is a daughter, his 858 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: parents would do everything they could to get their talents 859 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 1: on her. Past talks of when you get pregnant with 860 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,080 Speaker 1: the girl. She must be named after lawyer friend and 861 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 1: Jake's mom. And when you have a daughter, you must 862 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,919 Speaker 1: bring her to us so we can help Slash raise 863 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 1: her properly. You gotta make sure we raise all right. 864 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, more entitled parents lovely. 865 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 1: Hence the now Contacts Part two. 866 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 4: They titled it part two. 867 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,400 Speaker 2: They tell her this part two, Bro, they know what 868 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 2: they're freaking doing. The parts you have in your epic, 869 00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 2: there's a lot of parts are not gonna lie. 870 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 4: It's like two point it's like one point five. 871 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 2: You know what I can makes sense, makes sense. And 872 00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,279 Speaker 2: I saw Lucy Ford series something said that like she 873 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 2: believes this is true because a lot happened in her life. 874 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,560 Speaker 2: That makes sense. A lot can happen in someone's life. 875 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 2: But I just feel like this person, this online person, 876 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,320 Speaker 2: has gotten in love for writing, and this is what's happening. 877 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 1: I'm still holding that hope. Not so long after Jake 878 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,320 Speaker 1: and his fiance arrived, I noticed some unusual activity for 879 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 1: my own peace of mind. I watched the recordings of 880 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 1: our doorbell video every week. I noticed the same man 881 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: and woman walking past her house, sometimes alone, sometimes together. 882 00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 1: They seem familiar, but I couldn't place it, couldn't placed 883 00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 1: my finger on it, over it. Riley's We've broken Riley 884 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,040 Speaker 1: with this series. We've actually broken Riley. 885 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 4: He's calling it. 886 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 1: He's calling it right now. 887 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 2: Special promotion for Select Congress for calling today. 888 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 1: We're offering you a free medical. 889 00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 2: Alert device. 890 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 4: But you can wear on your neck in case of 891 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 4: an emergency. 892 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,759 Speaker 1: That very expensive. 893 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 4: This is literally an ex. 894 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:27,840 Speaker 2: Alert Riley's spirally, Dude, they just send me a freaking 895 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 2: thing for a life alert. It was a life alert 896 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,239 Speaker 2: hotline so John could have somewhere on his neck when 897 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:33,839 Speaker 2: he falls to the show. 898 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 1: Dude, I'm safe now, I'm good to good, gracious. When 899 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: my knees get to wobble in my thing will be 900 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:40,879 Speaker 1: to a calling. 901 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 4: I've fallen. I can't get up, I can't Hey, no 902 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:48,319 Speaker 1: Free sponsors, no sponsors, sorry, so thank you