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Speaker 1: Shall we do. Yeah, let's go scrubbing in with Becca

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Speaker 1: Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast. Hello, everybody, we are

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Speaker 1: scrubbing in? Hey everyone, how's everyone doing? This is? This

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Speaker 1: is weird for I'm in North Carolina, so I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: feelings from my cell phone in a hotel, Caroline and

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Speaker 1: not in your room. You're near your room. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I just wait, I just found the landline sitting by

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Speaker 1: This is news that she has to call us. Can

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Speaker 1: you call us? Yeah, give her that. What's the number?

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Speaker 1: I think I have it. I'll put you on Holden

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Speaker 1: and Erica will take it from here. Okay, okay, but

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Speaker 1: we can't have you tell us about dr W until

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Speaker 1: she's back on the phone, right or she pretty up

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Speaker 1: to speed? No, are you kidding? Becca's like way up

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Speaker 1: to speed. But uh, it would be good to have

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Speaker 1: stopped by my apartment before our date to like check

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Speaker 1: her perspective, like how that works. The hype up process

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Speaker 1: did she change anything about your outfit or anything. I

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Speaker 1: think she liked my outfit. Okay, and this was the

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Speaker 1: second second day because date three has not happened yet. Correct.

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Speaker 1: Last time we talked, you were going to go on

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Speaker 1: two dates with this guy, but it turned into only

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Speaker 1: one date. But you're not seeing that as a bad sign.

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Speaker 1: You're not saying he canceled. You can't. I'm back. I'm

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Speaker 1: back by the way the Landline and Orc, but I'm

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Speaker 1: back saying okay, so that you'll started this is out. No, No,

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Speaker 1: probably wave Rebcca because her perspective is probably fun. Because

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Speaker 1: off on Thursday night, Yeah, I did. Tommy asked me

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Speaker 1: looks like crazy over how cute you. I posted a

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Speaker 1: video two of the Gray's Anatomy quote that you shared

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Speaker 1: does can you say it again? Me? Yeah, I said,

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know that he is the

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Speaker 1: knowing he's the lucky one. That is the mindset you

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Speaker 1: And I feel like Tony has kind of been like

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Speaker 1: He gets my job. He doesn't listen to the morning show.

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Speaker 1: He says he doesn't, Yeah, which is go, which is good.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. But he gets that it's a part

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Speaker 1: So then what happened? Uh? Then we actually ran into

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Speaker 1: Were you concerned it all? Like? Oh, no, is he

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Speaker 1: then in relationships it's I think women we lose ourselves

425
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: and go off the rails and like pick me, like me,

426
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: and in work, I'm never like that. So I think

427
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:29,160
Speaker 1: that's why the show really resonates because you see them

428
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 1: in all aspects. It really isn't fascinating show with a

429
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: little candy, But when you go a little more, I mean,

430
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: what's that body? I'm gonna forget Sam Page? Or am

431
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: I making that up? Sage just about to have twins.

432
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: I see him with his wife and kids at the

433
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 1: Country Mark. He's so babe. I'm like, yeah, yeah, it's

434
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: too bad. I always tell him, Sam, if you could

435
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: just work on your jaw line a little bit, the

436
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: show would be much better. Yeah, you know, someone's like

437
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: hit me in that spot. When you google him, you're

438
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:13,199
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, he's pretty gorgeous he is. Where do

439
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: you guys film the show? We filmed in Montreal. It's

440
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: so interesting to me wherever all these shows are? Yes,

441
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 1: I know, And it really seems like New York. Do

442
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: you do exteriors and stuff in New York? We do?

443
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: Doesn't really feel it. Yeah, I always wonder about that.

444
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: Do you have to go out of order when you

445
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: do that? Because you don't. We always go out of

446
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: order every show I've ever been, Okay, you don't ever

447
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: shoot anything in when they shoot scenes outside in Seattle,

448
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: but they'll be across different episodes, and I'm like, boy,

449
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: that's got to be so confusing because they're not going

450
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 1: up there for every episode. They're going up there once

451
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 1: and shooting everything for the seasons. An actor's life so

452
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,919
Speaker 1: interesting because so you live in l A base in

453
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: l A. But then you got to shoot the show

454
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: in Montreal for how three months? Four months? Four months,

455
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 1: and then and then back to back to your house.

456
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: It's like, it's so weird that the life of an actor,

457
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 1: because you just to get plucked out. You get put

458
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: into a new city for three or four months to

459
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: film whatever, and then just back to your life. I

460
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 1: always say, we're still gypsies. We just travel and airplanes

461
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 1: now instead of covered wagons. Yea. And your parents were actors, right, yes,

462
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 1: so this is your whole life. Yeah, you were a

463
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 1: kid when you were first started when I was six

464
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: professionally acting. Yeah, did you have a passion forward or

465
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: they did? They? Oh god no. I begged and begged

466
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: and begged, and they were like, really okay, well let

467
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: her go on ten auditions. If she doesn't get anything,

468
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: well easier out of the business. And I got the

469
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: first thing I went on, of course hilarious. Yeah, they

470
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: were worried about me dealing with rejection, but I really

471
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 1: didn't deal with a lot of rejection. And then the

472
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: rejection I deal with. I guess I just I don't know,

473
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 1: because I was so focused on ballet. I think that

474
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: for me it was just fun. It was so fun

475
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: to act. Did you ever have to face reget like,

476
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: was there any was there ever a role that God

477
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: didn't get that it kind of still not haunts you,

478
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 1: but like you kind of look back and you're like, dang,

479
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: that wold have been a good one. Well, I mean,

480
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 1: it doesn't haunt me, but you know, I was cast

481
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 1: in Back to the Future and it was a two

482
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: picture deal and and um Eric Stoltz was playing the

483
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: Michael J. Fox part, and then Michael J. Fox Eric

484
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: got fired two weeks in and we'd already shot publicity

485
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: stuff and and actually I just found out because they're

486
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: writing a book about Back to the Future right now.

487
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 1: And I found out just about a year ago when

488
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: I was doing the interview for the book, um that

489
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: it was and this is relevant to the show. Um

490
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: that it was the female executives that Bob's Meckis and

491
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 1: Bob Gayle both didn't mind the fact that I was

492
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: taller than Michael J. Fox, but the female executives thought

493
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: it was emasculating for him to have a girlfriend that

494
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: was taller than him. And I was seventeen years old,

495
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: and it was, you know, it was heartbreaking and and

496
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 1: you know Steven Spielberg and you know Bob's Mackis and

497
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: Bob Gayle and and uh yeah, So looking back, and

498
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: if you think about that, so let's see, um, I'm

499
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: what am I'm fifty now and it was I was

500
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 1: seven teen and so whatever year that is, what is

501
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: that or something or something like that. So you look

502
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: at that time, and you think about women at that time,

503
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: and you think about two female executives who've had to

504
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: scratch their way to the top and feel like they've

505
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: got the only two slots up there. I'd love to

506
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: talk to those women actually, and and and that there

507
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: and now they're they buy into the culture. And that's

508
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 1: another thing that I think the Bold Type is really

509
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 1: doing beautifully, is that we are breaking that we're breaking

510
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: that social commentary or that social what is that word

511
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: that that collective unconscious that that women and men buy

512
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: into that is saying that women are limited because and

513
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: it makes a man less man, you know, it masculates

514
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: a young man to have a woman stand taller than

515
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: him physically, just a physical picture of that, being that

516
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: it's a visual medium. You could see that, you know

517
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: that they're like, oh, you know, just he's not sexy.

518
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: Not that Michael J. Fox was ever selling sexy, because

519
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: that's not what he was ever selling. They had to

520
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: say that. But they had all the men and that's

521
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: that's right, and that that and that they were the

522
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: ones that fought for for me to go because of

523
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 1: my height and stuff like that, Like they had tricks

524
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: that they would do to me. And come on, I mean,

525
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: there's a lot of male stars out there, you know,

526
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: like yeah, like Tom Cruise stands on a you know,

527
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, does he always cast a woman that's

528
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: you know, he's not a very tall man. I don't know.

529
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: So the point being that, um, you know, looking back,

530
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: it was a crushing blow in the moment, as you

531
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: can imagine, and floods of tears, but the trajectory of

532
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: my life would have been different. I wouldn't I wouldn't

533
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: have done The Office, I wouldn't have done Transparent. I

534
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: wouldn't be on this show. I wouldn't I wouldn't be

535
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: doing these things, and and um, there's other things I'm

536
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 1: doing that are creative things, and you know, directing a

537
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: documentary and I'm also you know, I'm writing a book.

538
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: And these are things that probably wouldn't have happened because

539
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: it well, other things would have happened. When one door closes, yeah,

540
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: probably more than one of a bunch of windows open,

541
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: right right, Yeah, you have such a pretty smile. Oh,

542
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: thank you. Good. Nice Is it's still a stressful job

543
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: after all these years in the business, your whole life,

544
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: do you still have strong like a gig ends and

545
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: you're like, Oh, what's the next thing going to be?

546
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: Because I think that'd be something that's never been a

547
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: stress that I've felt. I don't know why, I just don't.

548
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't relate to that one because I don't think

549
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: like that, I guess and I and I just sort

550
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: of feel like there's there's opportunities or there's always opportunities,

551
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: and that I also make opportunities and I don't know.

552
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 1: I just that's not really the stress for me. The

553
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: stress is really being apart from my family. That's a

554
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,479
Speaker 1: big stress. And it's actually more of a stress now

555
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: than it was. You know, certainly I used to be.

556
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: That used to be one of the most joyful things

557
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: about my job was the traveling and the and the

558
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: you know, and the planting in another city and starting,

559
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: you know, creating a new relationships and friendships and whatever. Um.

560
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like that at all.

561
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: In fact, it's very difficult. So you're married, kids, two kids,

562
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: nice um, thirteen and sixteen, two girls, both actresses. And

563
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: I say to them all the time, I we had

564
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: a family meal, you know, when I came back, I

565
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 1: was kind of bouncing back and forth as much as

566
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,239
Speaker 1: I could last in the last four months. And and

567
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: I uh, and I said to them, I said, you know,

568
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: I made a toast to the family, and first of all,

569
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: thanking my incredible husband who literally holds up the world

570
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: when I'm gone and does it with joy in his

571
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: heart and a smile on his face. Um. But also

572
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: my children, Like I said to them, if you guys

573
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: were big messes, if you were just you know, just

574
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: a mess and unhappy kids, flailing all over and into

575
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 1: this and doing all these things that I wouldn't. I

576
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to do what I would what I

577
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: do because I would always choose my family first. I

578
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: would always choose my kids. And I just like, thank God,

579
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: you guys are awesome. You guys are awesome from good parenting.

580
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: Try we try hard. How did you and your husband meet?

581
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: We met at a rap party of a movie I started,

582
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: and he ran well yeah, kind of yeah, pretty random.

583
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: He came with a with a woman that had designs

584
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: on him. I think she was the script s advisor

585
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: and I think she had a crush. Also, he had

586
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: brought a date to this party, well, she had the

587
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 1: scripts advisor had brought him as her date, I think,

588
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: or at least maybe hopes of being a date, which

589
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: shattered after he saw me. A love of first sight.

590
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: Kind of was a movie moment. I have to admit,

591
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: it's kind of a movie moment. Yeah, and he plays

592
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: my husband on the show. My real husband's like, that's

593
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: my real husband. Yeah. I remember your dinner in the

594
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 1: office and that dinner party in the office. I just

595
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: want to tell you a little tidbit that's pretty fun,

596
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: which is that that dinner party in the office we

597
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: show on a Sunday because there's there's one location we

598
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,479
Speaker 1: can only get on Sundays in Montreal, and so our

599
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: weekends are Fridays and Saturdays, and we work on Sundays.

600
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: And so this Sunday, this last Sunday was our real

601
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: my husband Gilbert Jackson and I are Real twentieth wedding anniversary.

602
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: And it happened to fall on Sunday, June four, and

603
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: that was the day that we filmed Ian and Jacqueline

604
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: celebrating their twentie wedding anniversary the office. So that was

605
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: just weird real food. It's kind of like PV fake

606
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: painted food. No, they didn't. That's really sweet. So does

607
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: he go to Montreal to she obviously when when he's

608
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: out there like the whole time with you know, just

609
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: when he's working, he comes you like that a little bit?

610
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: Do I like that? Oh the alone time? I thought

611
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: you meant when he comes like, yeah, when he comes

612
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: on your way? Is that she was saying she used

613
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: to like it but not now. Yeah. Yeah, it's you know,

614
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean I can't tell you I had a mom

615
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: at school when when I told her I was going

616
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: away for four months, and you know, I was sad

617
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: to be away from the kids and guilders. Just like God,

618
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: I wish somebody would pay me to leave my kids.

619
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: But I really don't feel that way. I really, really,

620
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: actually really really liked them and they're my main playmates.

621
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 1: So I feel sad because I don't have my playmates

622
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: one more. I have a quiet what what do you

623
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: get recognized for the most? In airports and stuff? You

624
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 1: have such a long IMDb paid what is the number

625
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: one thing people say, Oh, you're from this? Yeah, the office? Yea, yeah,

626
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: several times every day. But it isn't that the goal

627
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: to get something like that that people remember you for?

628
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: Or is it annoying because you've done so much you

629
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 1: don't want to know. Nothing's annoying about that. It's wonderful.

630
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: And I don't know about the goal. I think the

631
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: goal is to do really interesting create it of work

632
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: all the time and continue doing that. But the fact

633
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: that I that I that I have played a very

634
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: iconic character that's become iconic on a show that is

635
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: iconic and enjoyed by several generations and by now across

636
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: section of people and so many young people. I have

637
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: so many young fans. I love it more rapid than

638
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: the first wave of fans. Um is amazing. Is amazing.

639
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,399
Speaker 1: And yes it's not it's not to me. It's not

640
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: like I don't look at that like, oh, that's the

641
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 1: actor's dream at all, but I do. It's a wonderful

642
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: perk of the job. I mean I really, for me,

643
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: an actor's dream is is doing creative work and doing

644
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: and continuing to expand as an artist, because that's what

645
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: I connect to and that's really where my passion is.

646
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: The fact that I've ended up on a few like

647
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: a series of shows that are speaking to people and

648
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: really making their lives better and different and opening people's

649
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: minds and hearts with Transparent and making people laugh and

650
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 1: heal with the Office and now with with the Bold,

651
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: I think saying really important things about women that aligns

652
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: with with my you know, personal beliefs, and really elevating

653
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: women and women helping women and empowering them. I mean,

654
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: that's just like icing on the cake. That's amazing. Yeah. Um,

655
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: how do you uh do you work out? Like? How

656
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: do you stay in shape when you're well? When I'm

657
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: in Montreal. I work out a lot because I have

658
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: nothing else to do, um except work. Um. But yeah, no,

659
00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: I work. I have a trainer in in Montreal that

660
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 1: I love, really wonderful, um, amazing trainer and really nice person.

661
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: And I have a trainer here that I work with.

662
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: But I also dance one then, um, I take a

663
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: couple dance classes a week as much as I can,

664
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: especially here, and I do pilates Matt class of amazing

665
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: pilates teacher. I love. I like classes. I like classes.

666
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: You know what you would really enjoy? What beach Body.

667
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: What's beach Body? So let me tell you. Tell me

668
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: about beach Body, because I tell you right now, I'm

669
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: not doing anything a bikini. So it's beach Body on Demand.

670
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: And it's an easy to use streaming service that gives

671
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: you instant access to a wide variety of super effective

672
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 1: workouts that you can do from the comfort of your

673
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: own living room. Seven. So they have a lot of

674
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: different things, like like I have a five minute workout

675
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 1: for a while. Yeah, they have people. They have Pennine

676
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Speaker 1: t X in Sanity, twenty one Day Fix, Brazil Butt Lift,

677
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: hip hop apps. There's a lot of like dancings that

678
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 1: you can do yoga kind of just like expands all

679
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: type of working out. So whether you have five minutes,

680
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: ten minutes, thirty minutes, or a program for you and

681
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: you can get to work on your schedule, so workouts

682
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: are short at ten minutes. I already said that that's fine, Becca,

683
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:46,359
Speaker 1: you want to jump in here anyway. It's a cool app,

684
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,760
Speaker 1: is what you're saying. Yeah, it's a cool app. What's

685
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: what the heck is it called? Then? Um So it's

686
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Speaker 1: the best deal in fitness, and our listeners of of

687
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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in Mecatellia can try it absolutely free. Is this

688
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Speaker 1: like a commercial break? I thought so? Right now you

689
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,959
Speaker 1: can get that special free trial membership. When you text

690
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Speaker 1: Becca to thirty thirty thirty, you'll get full access to

691
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: this entire platform for free, all the workouts, the nutrition

692
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: information and the support totally free. Again. You just text

693
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: the word Becca to thirty thirty thirty and you get it. Yeah,

694
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: you try it out, try it out. What I like

695
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: about it is because it's it's it's um the workout

696
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: and a nutrition guide. Because it's when they say abs

697
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: remain in the kitchen. Yeah, but then you gotta like

698
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: you gotta. Yeah, I mean it's sixty what you eat,

699
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: and totally it's more than that. I feel like it's

700
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: like five percent what you eat. Yeah, I just gotta

701
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: figure out that arms. What's going on with these arms?

702
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,959
Speaker 1: You know what? With women? You gotta do your arms

703
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: every day, every day. Just a little something something, just

704
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 1: a little something you don't have to do. You can

705
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: do like little push ups on the desk, lean like

706
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: a little plank on you know, the push ups on

707
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 1: the push ups on the desk. A ten minute plank

708
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: every you know, a few hours, I'm telling you can

709
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: hold a plank, right, No, I didn't say that. I

710
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: did say that, but I didn't mean that. I was like, oh,

711
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: I'm crazy. I did not mean that. Guy, I cansanea

712
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 1: A thirty second plank, A thirty second plane. I think

713
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: I think I meant like I'm insane, you guys, I'm tired.

714
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm talking about. Anyway, A thirty

715
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: second plank every I don't know three times. I got

716
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 1: to do those arms every day because then you gotta

717
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: squeeze everything. I actually googled last night, how do I

718
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:29,319
Speaker 1: fix these arms? And a thousand millions anything. That's why

719
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 1: you gotta just do the easy thing. I'm telling you,

720
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: just some push ups on this desk right here, or

721
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: even just like getting what are they called, like wrist

722
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 1: weights and just kind of going like this. I ordered

723
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: a five pound way from Amazon arm kick last night life.

724
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 1: Did you actually what do I do about these arms?

725
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:49,640
Speaker 1: A hundred percent? And it totally worked, like it came

726
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: right up. I got two videos. I wrote it down.

727
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: She said, do the scissors the up down. It knew

728
00:39:56,040 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 1: what you meant. Hun the most random question and it

729
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 1: knew what you meant. It's so interesting because it's like

730
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Speaker 1: I even sometimes I like because I used to box

731
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: and I thought my arms were in such great shape

732
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: and off the boxing and I still felt like I

733
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: had the chicken wattle, Like I was, like, what goes all?

734
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: A healthy muscle is when it's relaxed and a relaxed state,

735
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: it moves. I mean your thighs as does that. You're

736
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 1: you know, that's a healthy muscle. You don't want a

737
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: muscle to be like frozen. That's not that's a steroid

738
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: steroid muscle. Plus you're it's nice, you're a woman. You

739
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:30,919
Speaker 1: don't want to be like a hard like a rock.

740
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 1: You want to be agree be able to be toned,

741
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: smoothed and toned, tone tone tone, eat well, tone up,

742
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: and a healthy muscle stuff. Okay, well you boy, here

743
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: I go. Yeah, you seem like a very well rounded human. Well,

744
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: thank you very much. So we have listeners that that

745
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: um send in questions that they like for us to answer.

746
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: Good and I feel like you would have a really

747
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: good perspective on some of these, considering you're much more

748
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 1: well rounded than Beaca or I. Okay, I'll do my best.

749
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm not even there, so it's not even fair. You

750
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: can't even fight against You're not even offended by that,

751
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: because it's true. It's true. Mark, Where would you like

752
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: to start? How about the secret Jim admirer? Okay, Stephanie.

753
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: Last week she left the gym, she found a sticky

754
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: note on her card on her car. There it is

755
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: on the note itself, You're really cute. I promised to

756
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: finally say hi next time in person, your secret crunch

757
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 1: admirer crunches the gym. I hope I have the right car.

758
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: So she's a little confused by this. She mentioned it

759
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: to a guy there named Jordan's he says that looks

760
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: like Ezra's handwriting as her works there. Should she approach

761
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: Ezra or not because she doesn't really know if that's

762
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: actually his or not. Well, he says, I promised to

763
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: finally say hi next time in person, so that's his job.

764
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: He didn't do that. Yeah, what Eden do? Go back?

765
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 1: And he didn't. He has nothing. It's been silence from everybody.

766
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 1: No one said a word about ownership of this note. Well,

767
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 1: then I think she could. Uh. I mean two things.

768
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: Does she she knows who Ezra is and she likes

769
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: him or thinks he's him? Yes, okay, so if she

770
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 1: likes Ezra, then I go right up to Ezra with

771
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: the sticky note and I go, hey, Ezra, did you

772
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: put this in my car? And Ezra goes, no, I

773
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,120
Speaker 1: don't even know what that is. Okay, that's awkward. That's

774
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: what she's trying to avoid. I think. But you're saying

775
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 1: about if she likes Ezra. She goes to Ezra and says,

776
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 1: did you put this note in my car? If he doesn't,

777
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: if he didn't, he didn't. If he did, he did,

778
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: and you're done. And if he didn't, maybe he says, oh, well,

779
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: I wish I would have what are you doing Friday? Right? Yeah?

780
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: Or she and she goes and he goes, well what

781
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 1: if I did, and then she goes, I would That's

782
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: why I'm here. I would like to accept your I

783
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: would like to accept your rotation. And then it's cute.

784
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: Not usually the one to say go for it. Kanya

785
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: wants to be pursued. Yes, I like to be pursued,

786
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 1: but I'm also in the like what do you have

787
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: to lose? Kanya is totally more the one to say

788
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: go for I'm the one who's like, no, it is true.

789
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: Beca holds me back a little bit that way. I

790
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: appreciate it because I'm like, Lana, I really came through

791
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: for you to begin with my tactic. Yes, it's this,

792
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: this is true. She really it's a good balance. Becca's

793
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: really won one like She's a lot that way and

794
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 1: I'm a lot this way. So we always think that

795
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 1: the two of us together would make a really balanced

796
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: human Stephanie go forward basically perfect. This is a good

797
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: question from Maddie. She says he's going to a strip club,

798
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: considered cheating. Here's the backstory, but he didn't got two

799
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: years now, back in December, he went out for a

800
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: friend's twenty one birthday party. We're twenty three. My boyfriend

801
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: comes to my house. It's very nonchalantly drops the fact

802
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: that they went to a drip club. Now, mind you,

803
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: we were texting the whole night because I was out

804
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: with my friends as well. He chose not to tell

805
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,360
Speaker 1: me during texts and then casually brings it up in person.

806
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: I didn't make a big deal out of it, but

807
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: I did ask why he didn't tell me. It's no, no no, no,

808
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: three am. We were drunk, It's no big deal. Three

809
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,760
Speaker 1: months later, he confesses that he bought a lap dance.

810
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: My heart sank. Is that considered cheating. I'm more upset

811
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: about the fact that he lied to me about it,

812
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: because now I feel like I don't know else he's

813
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 1: going to confess to, or is he in the wrong

814
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: for paying for something he could get for free at

815
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: home with someone who loves them. And then she said, ps.

816
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: When I read this email over in my head, I

817
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 1: could hear it in Mark's voice, and it's toothed me sweet.

818
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 1: I would actually like to hear from you first, because

819
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: my initial knee drink reaction is like, I don't like it.

820
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't like it either, Mark, what do you think, Well,

821
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: we should let our guests go first. What do you think?

822
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: I mean? I look at the facts, ladies and gentlemen,

823
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: and they're twenty three years old, and who didn't go

824
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 1: out and get drunk when they were twenty three years

825
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: old and be in a relationship and not tell all

826
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 1: the truth but then confess to the person to see

827
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: how the person is going to react. And that can

828
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: either deepen your relationship or that can end your relationship.

829
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: And it sounds to me like she's thoughtful and she's

830
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: sort of like so I think she should talk to

831
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:56,360
Speaker 1: him about it, and she should say, well, I'm a

832
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 1: little hurt that you lied, but I kind of understand

833
00:44:58,280 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: that you lied because you were drunk and it was

834
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: three am, and you were alt with your friends, and

835
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: it was a bachelor party. And what year old guy

836
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't get a lap dance at twenty three when they're

837
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: totally drunk at a bachelor party. Personally, I can't imagine

838
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: one that wouldn't. And I don't think it's cheating. I don't,

839
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: But that's me, guys. I'm like, I'm I'm I'm a

840
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: person who is like, bring it up, talk about it.

841
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: We're human beings, were all allowed to have mistakes. And

842
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,479
Speaker 1: also consider where you are in your life. Consider where

843
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: you are, consider what the relationship is. At three. I

844
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: think I was like making out with like five people

845
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: at night. I mean, come on, he could have kept

846
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 1: it a secret and never told her anything. So the

847
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 1: fact that even though he maybe didn't say it's the night,

848
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 1: that's the fact that he brought it up eventually and

849
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: was honest with her. I mean, it's sweet. I think

850
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 1: he cares if you're a difference be going to a

851
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 1: strip club and paying for a lap dance, because going

852
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: to a strip club, like, hey, they're all going. I

853
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:52,800
Speaker 1: didn't want to be that guy that said no, I can't.

854
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 1: But it's if it's it's an overt act to purchase

855
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: a lap yeah, and then like her, you're drunk. What's

856
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: an overt I mean? And everything and over I mean,

857
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, haven't we all? And then of course

858
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: you can use that as as a way of getting

859
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 1: out of everything. Doesn't sound like he was using it

860
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 1: to get out of something. You know, you could easily say, like,

861
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,240
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I did. I don't remember

862
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: how many times have I said to people, I don't

863
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: remember kissing that person. You know what I mean? You

864
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: know when you remember, Come on, you do remember. You

865
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: kind of know what you're doing. You do know what

866
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 1: you're doing. But I just I don't know. I give

867
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 1: him lots of space because I think I think it's

868
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 1: cool that she's communicating about it. She's asking you guys.

869
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,360
Speaker 1: I think it's cool that he's communicating about it. That

870
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: they could get deeper through that they could use this

871
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: as a way an inroad into a deeper relationship. What

872
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: I'm sensing from you is grace and acceptance, and I

873
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: like it. It's true though, like we're so quick to

874
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 1: be hard, too hard on each other. Like, look a real,

875
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,439
Speaker 1: if you want to have a lasting relationship, you gotta

876
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: be able to talk. You gotta be able to talk,

877
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 1: and you've gotta be able to go to the dark

878
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 1: places together. You gotta be able to be in the

879
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: fear in the scary place. People make mistakes, People should

880
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 1: sif the I always hate it when people when they

881
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: cut me off or they like flip me off if

882
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: I cut them off, or you know, I turned in

883
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: front of somebody. I just think it's hilarious. I'm thinking

884
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 1: to myself, Really, you've never cut anyone off, You've never

885
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: turned in front of someone. You know, we're driving in

886
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: Los Angeles where there's a million in how many cars,

887
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I just think it's it's it's

888
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: just silly. We've all made mistakes driving. We should be

889
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 1: more understanding of other people, a little more empathy, a

890
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: little more empathy, a little more understanding, more more tolerance.

891
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,919
Speaker 1: Text thing with one hand and a drink and the other.

892
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,359
Speaker 1: I mean, that's different, but well cut people off. One

893
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,240
Speaker 1: more thing I want to say about this. The question

894
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 1: is going to a strip club considered cheating. Cheating is

895
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: whatever you and your relationship established to be cheating. That's right,

896
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: because everyone's got their own that's where the communication needs

897
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: to be. And if maybe that wasn't discussed before, well

898
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 1: maybe now it is. And if you have an issue

899
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: with it, you got to let him know because then

900
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:55,919
Speaker 1: in the future it would be cheating. Yeah, good point.

901
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: That's what I was going to say. Like if if

902
00:47:58,200 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: he had no idea that she didn't like it, and

903
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: then he was like, I'm sorry, we didn't talk about that,

904
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: and then she's like I don't like it, and he's like, hey,

905
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: I won't do it again. There you go, Or I

906
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: think I might not be able to not do it again.

907
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: How do you feel about me going once a year?

908
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: There's also those kinds of compromises. People don't have to

909
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: be People don't have to be like black and white

910
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: about everything. Life is not black and white, ladies and gentlemen.

911
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: I know it's so true. I mean because I had

912
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: an ex boyfriend of mine that used to watch porn.

913
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: Am I allowed to say that on here? Okay for him,

914
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: but we were doing long distance, and so I kind

915
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: of like didn't bother me. But I've had friends. I

916
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: had friends that were like, he does what you let him.

917
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: And I think that's your point, right, is like whatever

918
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 1: works for you as a couple. Some people can't make

919
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: something work, and some people can and and there's millions

920
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: of ways to make it work, and it needs to

921
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 1: be just something you agree upon. Wow. I had a

922
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 1: really great line in a movie I did Its soul Man.

923
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: Some people might wow. I said no, there's no there's

924
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 1: no black and white, only shades of gray. Wow. That

925
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 1: really brings it full circles. I could never be my

926
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: God could never and would never be made into it.

927
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 1: Pretends to be African American to get into college. He

928
00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: takes a pill that turns his skin black, and he

929
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:24,280
Speaker 1: gets he gets a scholarship to Harvard because he's a minority. Comedy.

930
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: There is no black and white. There's only shades of gray. Yeah,

931
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: putting that on her yeah, stetically completely incorrect. But it

932
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: was really a funny movie. That's sad. I can't say

933
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: all day you guys, that is okay, that was fun though.

934
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: I like to answering the questions. I like interacting with people.

935
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you so much for scrubbing in. And

936
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: make sure everybody, make sure you guys watch The Bull

937
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: Type season two in Tomara, United premieres. Premieres tomorrow night, United,

938
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939
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Speaker 1: Form and being the first season, so you're all caught

940
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Speaker 1: up because yeah, and Hulu you can do that and

941
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Speaker 1: on free Form dot com. And this first season is fantastic. Yeah,

942
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: it's pretty pretty fun and second season is gonna just

943
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: be even better. Thank you, so muar you guys, by

944
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: thank you, Sorry you weren't here. We'll do it next

945
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: time in person. Okay, Bye. I never get tired of that.

946
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: I never get hired of meeting someone I've seen on

947
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: TV for years and it's still it's always exciting. Yeah,

948
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: Mark was really giddy back. I wish you could have

949
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: seen it. She's been in everything I could hear it. Yeah,

950
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: she's pretty badass. Like as long as we've been doing

951
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: this show and the Secrest Show and celebrities come in

952
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: all the time, but it's still it's an exciting thing.

953
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: She's pretty cool. Um. Do you know what else I

954
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957
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965
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966
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967
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979
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980
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: sounds fine on this end, it probably doesn't to you.

981
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, Yeah, do you have time for a few

982
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: more emails? Because I know you have busy schedule in

983
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 1: North Carolina? Can I actually do one more? And that

984
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: I have to go? Oh my gosh, okay, Uh well first, sorry,

985
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 1: this is a quick withe but Tanya, you never told

986
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 1: us what the other guy that Georgio and Jordan tried

987
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 1: to say. You heard the podcast when he talked about him. Oh? Yeah, Actually,

988
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,359
Speaker 1: Beck and I talked about that. We were so surprised

989
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:10,240
Speaker 1: that a lot of people really globbed onto that section

990
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: of Yeah, I got a lot of questions about Um.

991
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 1: So he heard the podcast and Joe, Joe and Jordan's

992
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:20,959
Speaker 1: told us at Wango right that he wasn't. I guess

993
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 1: he said he's not not interested. Survibed that he is interested,

994
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:32,320
Speaker 1: but he has it. Yeah, exactly, So he is interested,

995
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: but he hasn't made any moves. So that's kind of

996
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: where we're at. Um he heard the podcast and uh,

997
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: I don't. I can't remember. It was just like he

998
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 1: he just said it was like an unfortunate situation that

999
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 1: he brought this girl or whatever, and he was interested

1000
00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: from what I heard, but hadn't. I think it was unfortunate.

1001
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: But he had the other girl with him because he

1002
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: couldn't just leave her back herself the whole time, like

1003
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: he didn't really have a choice. Yeah, So I to

1004
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: summarize where it left off, we still haven't seen each

1005
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: other again. He hasn't reached out, and you're taken as

1006
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. Okay, question, Oh no, I don't know.

1007
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to ask this question. You can ask

1008
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: this guy reaches out today to say I'd love to

1009
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: take you out this weekend. Do you go? I know,

1010
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,800
Speaker 1: because everything in me is saying I should go, because

1011
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not in a relationship, I'm not attached

1012
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 1: to anybody, so I should go. However, the like loyal

1013
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: person in me just I feel like I have a

1014
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: good thing going, so I wouldn't want to compromise it. Yeah. Similarly,

1015
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 1: let's say you're walking around West l A. And you

1016
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 1: walk by a restaurant and inside is Dr W on

1017
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 1: a date with another girl. That I would think that

1018
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 1: would bother you. It would make me sad. I have

1019
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: no I would not be able to be mad about. No,

1020
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: you have no leg to stand on there, but it

1021
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: would make you sad. So I think that's a reason

1022
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: you shouldn't go out with another guy, because it would

1023
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: make Dr W sad. At least hopefully it would write Wow,

1024
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 1: do you not Agreebacca? No, Beca is probably gonna tell

1025
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: me to go on the date. I think I just don't.

1026
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like Dr W kind of told

1027
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 1: Tanya on their first date that he was like dating,

1028
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: you know, like it wasn't like he had told her

1029
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: that he's been on another date with a girl like

1030
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: the week before or something like that. So my thing is, chill,

1031
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 1: do you feel like he's not dating anyone else? Why

1032
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: should she only be dating him? I don't know that

1033
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: he's seen anyone else since he went out with right

1034
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't either, But if he's not,

1035
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: then definitely don't go on to day. But also it's like,

1036
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just want Tanya to like not

1037
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 1: put all her eggs in one basket she has. She

1038
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: can put one egg, her best egg, in special spot

1039
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: in the basket. It's such a nice basket though. We

1040
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: love this basket so far baskets and for Dr topping

1041
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,879
Speaker 1: you and the others, just for like to be out

1042
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: there putting other eggs in there. Such a nice basket.

1043
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 1: All right, one email, here we go, Lauren. I went

1044
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,240
Speaker 1: to high school with this guy who's always very overweight,

1045
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: and we called him the big funny guy friend. We

1046
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: never knew each other well, we had mutual friends. Fast

1047
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: forward after college about a wedding and I see this

1048
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:36,760
Speaker 1: dreamy guy. Turns out it's him. He got in shape,

1049
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: great job, great family, great personality, everything I've been looking

1050
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: for in a guy, except that he lives eight and

1051
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: a half hours away from me. But we hit it

1052
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 1: off at the wedding, talked regularly afterwards. I was not

1053
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: in it because of the distance, and he pushed forward.

1054
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 1: He convinced me he'd come home once a month. We

1055
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 1: go on dates, spend time together, and then he go back.

1056
00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: It's going everybody a year now. But now he says

1057
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 1: he doesn't know that we have a solid enough base

1058
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:02,840
Speaker 1: to do the longest instance. This broke my heart. I

1059
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: already felt like we were in a long distance relationship,

1060
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: just to find out that he doesn't think it will

1061
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 1: work right now? What do I do? If you agree

1062
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 1: our connection is as good as we say it is,

1063
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,720
Speaker 1: why wouldn't he want to try it? Would you wait

1064
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:15,319
Speaker 1: for him because it might be worth it? Or do

1065
00:57:15,320 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 1: you cut him off? Help? Mm hmm. You know, from

1066
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: an outsider's perspective, it's easy to say, you know, move on,

1067
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: he's note into it. He's not into it. Eight hours

1068
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 1: doesn't help the situation. But when you're in something like that. Well, actually,

1069
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: one of my best runs from high school, the guy

1070
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: it to his dating she was like a love with

1071
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 1: him and he ended up I don't really remember the

1072
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: story fully, but I'm pretty sure he ended up breaking

1073
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 1: up with her, and he moved to either North Carolina

1074
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: or South Carolina and she randomly was going there, and

1075
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: she he had just like cut things off cold turkey,

1076
00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: like didn't have any residual text or anything. And then

1077
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: she reached out to him she was going to be

1078
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: wherever he lived, and they met up and realized that

1079
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 1: he broke up with her based on a reason that

1080
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: he thought it was the right thing to do, and

1081
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 1: when she reached out to him, it made him realize

1082
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:16,280
Speaker 1: that he was still love with her. And they're married now. Okay,

1083
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: it's very convoluted. Well, but I think her what she's

1084
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 1: saying is if it's meant to be, it'll be right.

1085
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: Isn't that basically what you're saying. I'm just saying, if

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00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: you really think it's the right thing. And I think

1087
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 1: he's sometimes such a fight for things, but if he's

1088
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 1: just over it, he's not interested, like he's just if

1089
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to put in that, because here's the thing.

1090
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: If he doesn't want to put in the effort, it's

1091
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: never gonna work because there's eight hours and that's going

1092
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: to take that's gonna take a lot of effort from

1093
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 1: both sides. Yeah. I think a relationship is to people,

1094
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 1: and I think it requires both people putting an equal

1095
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: amount of effort. And if if you're not getting that,

1096
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 1: it's not going to go anywhere. I think the owner

1097
00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 1: maybe just I'm gonna move on. I think so. Just

1098
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: because it's eight and a half hours. I mean, that's

1099
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: a massive hurdle to begin with, and that's cool to

1100
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,439
Speaker 1: you hung with that for a year, but now there's

1101
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 1: not that hurdle just become insurmountable. It's not a hurdle anymore.

1102
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: It's amount and it's um, I was gonna say, what

1103
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: are those things pull vault? It's not a hurdle anymore.

1104
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 1: It's supposing it doesn't sound right, no yo poll ball

1105
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: thing where you have to jump over the big hurdle thing.

1106
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh so it was like a high jump and now

1107
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 1: it's all. It was a hurdle like the little hurdles

1108
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: that you jump over on the track, and now it's

1109
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: a poll. Vall gotten way, bigger, way harder. You can't.

1110
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: I'm on board. I like it. Okay always gets away

1111
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: with her Becca. When are you coming home to me tomorrow? Angel?

1112
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: Thank goodness you know I'll be home tomorrow. Well, that's great,

1113
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: I have to go. I'm so I'm so happy I

1114
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: got to do this. I was very worried about not

1115
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: being a part. No, we're thrilled that we could get

1116
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 1: you on the phone. I mean, these one day week

1117
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: jobs can be real tough logistically, so Mark with the

1118
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 1: stinger so good. I feel like I've gotten roasted a

1119
01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: few times a day. I don't know. It's like I'm

1120
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:33,760
Speaker 1: not there to defend myself and don't like hit me

1121
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: and all hab it at me. It's rude. I didn't

1122
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 1: say anything I wouldn't say to your face, true, Mark,

1123
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: I just said it to your ear. That's true. Yeah,

1124
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 1: I do feel like I do feel like I just

1125
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: needed to tell me, Laura, our guest, that you and

1126
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 1: I are not balanced humans, but seem to be We're

1127
01:00:55,400 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 1: not very balanced humans, right, I think I'm so. I

1128
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 1: feel like I don't feel like I'm well round it. Okay, Yeah, yeah, Um,

1129
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 1: I do need to mention that the California Pizza Festival

1130
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: is coming to Los Angeles. You want to talk about it? Yeah,

1131
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 1: It's a two day event and features unlimited pizza from

1132
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: some of the world's best pizza yolos yep like and

1133
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: local beers from Golden Road Brewery, live entertainment, pizza acrobatics,

1134
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 1: and much more. It's just two days only, and Angelinos

1135
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 1: have the chance to try some of the world's most

1136
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 1: famous pizza right in the heart of l A. Seven

1137
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: Degrees Pizza from Sun Valley is going to be their

1138
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: representing their national international, multi award winning restaurants serving Neapolitan

1139
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: pizzas by chef Pizza Yolo Ali. So get your tickets

1140
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: to California Pizza Festival, this summer's can't miss event online

1141
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 1: now it's www dot Calli Pizza Festival dot com and

1142
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 1: Calli's like cla, you know, like Calli Pizza, Calli Pizza

1143
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: Festival dot com. Huh um, I need to do a

1144
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: couple of quick shout outs. There was the Uh there

1145
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 1: was a Columbus, Ohio meet up was this week that

1146
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:07,600
Speaker 1: was so cute. That was great. Uh. I wrote some

1147
01:02:07,760 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: down and I think I overwrote them and I'm sorry

1148
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 1: about that, okay, and we're not on our tiptop shape.

1149
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 1: I feel that for some reason, I wanted to shout

1150
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: out to Corey Boyd and South Haven, Kansas, who was

1151
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 1: tiptoeing around her house right now so her two year

1152
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 1: old won't wake up during naptime. That's when she listens

1153
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:29,000
Speaker 1: to this show. Let's see. Christina Davis is driving to

1154
01:02:29,120 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 1: work at her office job at Disney in Orlando, Florida.

1155
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: Isn't that great? She works at an office Disney World.

1156
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 1: She shouts me out because I was also a cast member.

1157
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: Cast member. Davaney Marsaw lives in Saudi Arabia. She moved

1158
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 1: there from here and she loves the podcast while her

1159
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: daughter naps. I mean, can you believe somebody's listening to

1160
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: us right now in Saudi Arabia. That's Amazingteve Barbara Stilla

1161
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: is listening in Argentina. Wow, it's crazy. Yeah, So thank

1162
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,080
Speaker 1: you all for listening. We really appreciate it. Let's see.

1163
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: Oh here's one more Blake Escobado. Uh. This week she

1164
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: is scrubbing in in Pouquette, Thailand. Wow. If I was

1165
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: scrubbing into Quete. Yeah, that's pretty great, pretty great all

1166
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 1: over the world. I ran into I ran into some

1167
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: listeners last night at the movie theaters and it was

1168
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: a husband and why and they both listened. She got

1169
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: him to listen. That's so cute. It's Nick and Francie

1170
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: and they were so sweet. Actually met them in Panama

1171
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: City Beach, where my family lived a few summers. Like

1172
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: you been there and I met them there, So they

1173
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 1: were here for a wedding, just randomly right to each other.

1174
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: Nick and Francie, we love you. What movie did you see? Ocean? Hey?

1175
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 1: It's so good. Wait really it did really well. It

1176
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: was casted so perfectly. I loved it. Okay, all right,

1177
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:06,479
Speaker 1: here we go. You want to do North Carolina time today? Oh? Yeah?

1178
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: Oh shoot? What? Um? It's um wow Mecca three? Is

1179
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 1: that right? Wow? Sorry that was a se