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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject, am I dating Cinderella? Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: When I met my new friend, it was like a

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Speaker 1: fairytale romance. I'm twenty eight and he's thirty five and

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Speaker 1: perfect for me because I prayed for an older man

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Speaker 1: but not too old. He has a photography studio and

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Speaker 1: I booked him for a Christmas photo shoot for me

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Speaker 1: and my daughter. After the photo shoot, he asked me

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Speaker 1: to have dinner with him, so my daughter and I

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Speaker 1: went to dinner with him. After that, he planned dinner

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Speaker 1: dates with us every night that week. I couldn't wait

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Speaker 1: for my daughter to go to her dad's later that

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Speaker 1: week so I could spend quality time with my new friend.

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Speaker 1: He had kept telling me how good he was in bed,

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Speaker 1: and I couldn't wait to see It. Was supposed to

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Speaker 1: go down at his house, but it was raining really badly,

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Speaker 1: so he came over to my house. We didn't waste

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Speaker 1: time talking. We went straight to bed. He had exaggerated

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Speaker 1: a little bit on his skill level, but it was

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Speaker 1: still good for an older man. Since the weather was bad,

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Speaker 1: I thought he would spend the night. He didn't. He

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Speaker 1: got up around eleven thirty and got dressed quickly, like

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Speaker 1: he was late for work or something. I told him

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Speaker 1: to call me when he got home, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: hear from him until the next day. He said he

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Speaker 1: missed me, and he asked if he could see me.

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Speaker 1: I said we could meet for dinner. He said he

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Speaker 1: wanted to pick up food and eat at my house instead.

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Speaker 1: We ate, then we had sex, and then he told

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Speaker 1: me that he needed to be home by midnight. I

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Speaker 1: told him that it was not cute to have sex

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Speaker 1: and run out. He apologized, but said he really had

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Speaker 1: to go. He has done this four times. I wonder

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Speaker 1: what's so significant about midnight. He told me to chill

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Speaker 1: and learn to live in the moment. What's up with

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Speaker 1: this man. Am I dating Cinderella? No, not Cinderella or Cindefella,

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Speaker 1: none of those. He's just married, that's all. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're his sigh piece, and he has to do you

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Speaker 1: then make sure he's home before his wife gets in.

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Speaker 1: That's his curfew, that's all. He's pretty much told you

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Speaker 1: that when he said he had to get home by midnight.

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Speaker 1: Except why didn't you ask him why? Right then? And there?

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Speaker 1: Are you afraid to ask him these important questions? You

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Speaker 1: need to know this. You can't be scared. That's something

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Speaker 1: you definitely need to know because you are clearly not

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Speaker 1: reading between the lines here. Has that not crossed your mind,

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Speaker 1: not even once? That he could be married. That's why

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Speaker 1: he's racing home and doing all this stuff eating at

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Speaker 1: your house. I mean, the clues are there. You want

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Speaker 1: to go out, he wants food, to bring it to

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Speaker 1: the house so he won't get caught being out with

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Speaker 1: you or something. Please ask him these questions so you

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Speaker 1: can get the answers you need and move on with

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Speaker 1: your life.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Well, have you ever read a letter in with

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Speaker 3: because I mean surely answered to the letter really adequately.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just it's glaringly obvious to everybody that

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Speaker 3: has heard this letter what the situation is.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Some people you have to slow welcome through information because

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Speaker 3: a lot of times you want you want to believe

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Speaker 3: for your heart's sake.

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Speaker 2: And I get it, I get it.

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Speaker 3: You want to believe for your heart's sake, so you

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Speaker 3: shut your brain off from doing what it's supposed to do.

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Speaker 2: And that's like think.

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Speaker 3: A person's brain is designed to think, to absorb information

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Speaker 3: to learn. Obviously, you don't want to absorb no information

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Speaker 2: To learn the facts. Here.

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Speaker 3: So there's nothing we can do to help you. But

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Speaker 3: here we go. I met my new friend. It was

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Speaker 3: like a fairy tale romance. See that's all she wanted.

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Speaker 3: She wants a fairy tale romance. See just listen to

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Speaker 3: this letter, y'all. I met my new friend. It was

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Speaker 3: like a fairy tale romance. Okay, she's been wanting that

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Speaker 3: since a little girl. He's twenty eight and thirty five

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Speaker 3: and perfect for me because I prayed for a older man. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so now as soon as you meet an older man,

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Speaker 3: you immediately begin your fairy tale romance.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you twenty eight and he thirty five, I

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Speaker 2: don't want to break this two news to you.

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Speaker 3: But that ain't really no older man. That's just another dude.

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Speaker 3: Because women and men mature differently. Women is a known fact.

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Speaker 3: This is not me talking. Women mature more quickly and

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Speaker 2: That has to grow them up a little bit quicker.

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Speaker 3: They have to start working around a certain time and

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Speaker 3: all this hit and they had to prepare theirself, so

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Speaker 3: they mature quicker than boys, and they have to think

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Speaker 3: reproduction and the boys were just done for a long time.

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Speaker 3: So he's got a photography studio. In that studio, you

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Speaker 3: booked for a Christmas photo shoot, you and your daughter.

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Speaker 3: After the photo shoot, they asked you and your daughter

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Speaker 3: to dinner. They went, and after that, he's playing dinner

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Speaker 3: day for us every night that week.

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Speaker 2: Ain't that nice? This is a fairy tale room. And

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Speaker 2: he loves you and the baby.

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Speaker 3: So I couldn't wait for my daughter to go to

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Speaker 3: her dad's later that week. So I could spend some

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Speaker 3: quality time with my new friends. And he had been

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Speaker 3: telling me how good he was in bed. I could

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Speaker 3: not wait to see. It was supposed to go down

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Speaker 3: at his house, but it was raining really bad, so

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Speaker 3: he came over to my house. All right, now, hold

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Speaker 3: up right there, unless he stays in a refrigerator box,

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Speaker 3: I don't really know what that rain got to do

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Speaker 2: Now. If you if you stay.

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Speaker 3: Under the bridge, you know in your roof is a

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Speaker 3: ain't you know?

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Speaker 2: Okay, but I don't know how.

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Speaker 3: But it raining really bad, so he kept We didn't

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Speaker 3: waste no time talking. We went straight to bed. He

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Speaker 3: had exaggerated a little bit on his skill level, but

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Speaker 3: it was still good for an older man. I ain't

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Speaker 3: gonna tell you no more thirty five.

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Speaker 2: That ain't no older.

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Speaker 3: Man don't given know claning for bedroom skills at thirty five.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, coming up for twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Minutes, still bringing it that when you give a pred.

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Speaker 1: Twenty three minutes after the out, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response today Strawberry Letters subject at my dating Cinderella.

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Speaker 1: Come on Steve Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 1: is am I dating Cinderella.

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Speaker 3: Well, this lady that mechtus what she claims as a romance,

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Speaker 3: a fairy tale romance. So what she then did was

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Speaker 3: she done got with this guy that she meant that

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Speaker 3: he's older than her. He's thirty five, she's twenty eight.

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Speaker 3: He said, that's what she had been praying for a

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Speaker 3: older man. He not really older. Five and twenty eight,

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Speaker 3: that's seven years. That's just another dude. You done matter now,

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Speaker 3: y'all got together, y'all went over. You went to a

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Speaker 3: photography studio with your daughter doing a Christmas photo shoot.

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Speaker 2: He took your picture.

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Speaker 3: Then he asked y'all to dinner. You and your daughter,

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Speaker 3: y'all went out to dinner, had a nice time. Then

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Speaker 3: he's just playing the dinner date for y'all every night

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Speaker 3: that week. Okay, cool, let's work. Then you couldn't wait

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Speaker 3: for her, your daughter, to go to a daddy house

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Speaker 3: this weekend, because so you can spend some quality time

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Speaker 3: with your new friend. And he had been bragging about

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Speaker 3: how good he was in bed. Now, I don't know

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Speaker 3: at what part of the dinner when you and the

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Speaker 3: daughter where he was letting you know what how good

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Speaker 3: he was. But I showed would have liked to ben

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Speaker 3: at the table when he was sliding that past.

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Speaker 2: Oh baby, you like the wear your steak done? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I really know how to do steak. Feel me.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Hey, you want some baked cooking or when it

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Speaker 3: So I'm just assuming these are the conversation he had

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Speaker 2: You couldn't wait, Well, you got there.

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Speaker 3: Now, y'all was supposed to go down at your house,

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Speaker 3: was coming to he was. He was supposed to be

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Speaker 3: came over to your house. Now, like I said, unless

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Speaker 3: don't know what the hell they got to do with it.

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Speaker 3: But you didn't see that. It's okay. So now then

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Speaker 3: you said, he exaggerated a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit how good he was in bed, but it was

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Speaker 3: And uh and and she said, and he was uh,

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Speaker 3: he said, but it was still good for an older man.

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Speaker 3: Let me explain some of you supposed to still be

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Speaker 3: good at thirty side. Matter of fact, you're starting to

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Speaker 3: come into your own. You don't really get this sex

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Speaker 3: thing down as a man. To you an embarty, you

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Speaker 3: got to help you, you know, disappointed a couple of

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Speaker 3: couple of times, you know, to get your game up,

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Speaker 3: you got to be in your forty. He was pretty

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Speaker 3: good for an old man at thirty five, lady, If

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Speaker 3: that's what you're thinking, oh, you're in trouble now. If

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Speaker 3: be clapping for the dude. But he thirty five. He

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Speaker 3: posted to still be good, don't get you don't get there.

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Speaker 3: You getting no credit for being thirty five and can

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Speaker 2: That's no good. Anyway.

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Speaker 3: He got up and he got about eleven thirty, and

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Speaker 3: He said he missed me and asked him he could

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Speaker 3: He said he wanted to pick up the food and

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Speaker 3: eat at my house instead. We ate, then we had sex.

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Speaker 3: Then he told me he needed to be home by midnight.

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Speaker 3: I told him that's not cute to have sex and

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Speaker 3: I'll give it about what you think is cute. I

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Speaker 3: got skipped miay to the house. He was done. He

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Speaker 3: learn to live in the moment. What's up with this

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Speaker 3: man and my dating of Cinderella. Well, you're not dating

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Speaker 3: a Cinderella. You're not dating to send a fella. You're

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Speaker 3: dating somebody else's fella. That's all it is. You ain't

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Speaker 3: dating Cinderella. You're dating somebody else's fella. He got to

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Speaker 3: be at that house by twelve because she know what

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Speaker 3: and she know how far that appointment is from the house.

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Speaker 3: Why are you sitting up here talking about what's up

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Speaker 3: with this man and my dating of Cinderella?

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Speaker 1: No, yahn.

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Speaker 2: You maybe you don't need the older man. Matter of fact,

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Speaker 2: you twenty eight.

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Speaker 3: You need to start dating a twenty one year old

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Speaker 3: need That's what you need to do.

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Speaker 2: Once you got up in the thirties.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what man in his thirties and don't

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Speaker 3: don't come with with nothing or what man don't have

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Speaker 3: find out if he got children, if he got a wife,

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Speaker 3: he got a family, he got.

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Speaker 2: A living in lover. You need to find out where

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Speaker 2: his kids stay.

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Speaker 3: You ain't asking no question because you were so content

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Speaker 3: on saying you met your fairy tale romance and he

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Speaker 3: was what you prayed for.

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Speaker 2: He was older.

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Speaker 3: Just because you pray for something don't mean as God

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Speaker 3: descending the teeth. See, you gotta ask some questions.

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Speaker 1: God.

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Speaker 2: You can always meet the older man. Hell, that ain't hard.

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Speaker 3: But why that's hard? You can meet the older man,

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Speaker 3: that's easy. But you want an older man that's available

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Speaker 3: for you?

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Speaker 2: Right? You didn't get none of that information, sister, You not.

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Speaker 3: You haven't asked one relevant question because you were too

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Speaker 3: busy and join your fairy tale romance. And this older

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Speaker 3: man that you had prayed for that God said to you.

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Speaker 3: Only thing was God didn't send him to you. You

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Speaker 3: just coincidentally met an older man. Several women have met.

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Speaker 2: That same man. All right.

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