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Speaker 2: So we have a question from nine in. She says, Hi,
Speaker 2: Tiffany and Mandy. I'm a huge fan of your podcast
Speaker 2: and have learned quite a lot from you both. I'm
Speaker 2: considering getting a new airline credit card for the benefit
Speaker 2: of the flight promotional credit and free check bag, which
Speaker 2: would otherwise require a thirty dollars fee. This would completely
Speaker 2: cover the airfare for an upcoming trip. I already have
Speaker 2: a few cards, though, and I'm working on paying off
Speaker 2: the balances. Would it be a wise idea to get
Speaker 2: the new airline credit card for only the promotion. After
Speaker 2: the credit, I wouldn't use it further unless I should
Speaker 2: make a one time unless I should make a one
Speaker 2: time small monthly payment on it to build credit or
Speaker 2: completely cancel it.
Speaker 1: Thanks nine In. I like that name, Ninan. That's pretty.
Speaker 4: Ooh, this is good because I mean I actually was
Speaker 4: just on a plane. Obviously we both were, but I
Speaker 4: flew Jet Blue to Costa Rica and on the way back,
Speaker 4: I mean that fifty percent discount on the twelve dollars
Speaker 4: miniature kale salad that I have would have been nice
Speaker 4: with the Jet Blue card. And then they wait until
Speaker 4: like the last ten minutes of the flight. Then they
Speaker 4: come through. They do the big announcement over the speaker,
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I'm trying to finish my movie, but like, fine,
Speaker 4: we'll listen to your credit card pitch. And they come
Speaker 4: down the aisle with the brochures like sixty five thousand miles,
Speaker 4: you know, one time offer on this flight, you know.
Speaker 4: So it's super tempting. But I think what concerns me
Speaker 4: or just like raises my my my alert man dealer
Speaker 4: from her question is the fact that she already has
Speaker 4: cards she's trying to pay the balances off on and
Speaker 4: that she says, I'll stop using it. But I kind
Speaker 4: of feel like that may not be the case. It's
Speaker 4: really easy to say that now, but you keep that
Speaker 4: card and then mid other trip's going to pop up
Speaker 4: and it's like, well, I just put it on this
Speaker 4: card to get the points, and then before you know,
Speaker 4: you have another card with a balance that you're carrying,
Speaker 4: and unless it's a zero percent intro APR, then you're
Speaker 4: gonna end up paying interest on it, and it's just
Speaker 4: gonna be like you have to think about the money
Speaker 4: you be spending on interest at that point. Plus, those
Speaker 4: cards with the best benefits sometimes have like high annual fees.
Speaker 4: You know. I think our Chase Good Time Card that
Speaker 4: we both have the Chase reserve, they want say annual
Speaker 4: feenw like five hundred, four hundred or something like that.
Speaker 4: It ain't cheap, you know. So that's something too. That's
Speaker 4: just something that jumped out at me.
Speaker 2: What do you say, Tiff, I say, I'm not a
Speaker 2: big fan of cards for specific companies like card just
Speaker 2: for Express car, just forget, you know, because you know,
Speaker 2: the benefits are limited typically to just that one organization.
Speaker 2: I remember you, Mandy, you were telling me how I
Speaker 2: was renovating and you were.
Speaker 1: Like, are you going to get a Home Depot card?
Speaker 2: And I considered it because I was buying a ton
Speaker 2: of stuff from home Depot, but I ended up using
Speaker 2: my Chase Good Time Card. Like it's really called the
Speaker 2: Chase Venture, but me and Maddy just be teasing.
Speaker 1: No, it's not.
Speaker 4: It's called the Chase Reserve.
Speaker 2: Call this. That's why Mandy calls it to Chase good Time,
Speaker 2: because not she doesn't know it, because she knows I
Speaker 2: don't know. I'm like, Ochase, run and get him, you know,
Speaker 2: fly with Me card. So what I like about him
Speaker 2: is that and I use that instead of the Home
Speaker 2: Depot is that I wanted the benefits to last beyond
Speaker 2: just shopping at Home Depot because I knew it was
Speaker 2: just a few months of me like like using home
Speaker 2: Depot to renovate. And so with those purchases, I was
Speaker 2: able to get cash back, I was able to earn
Speaker 2: points for a flight. I was able to like I
Speaker 2: typically like, if I'm going to get a credit card,
Speaker 2: which you sound like you don't need right now because
Speaker 2: you have cards you're paying off. But let's just say
Speaker 2: that you didn't have credit cards that you were paying off,
Speaker 2: or you have cards and they're already paid off and
Speaker 2: you were looking for a new card.
Speaker 1: To help with your travel.
Speaker 2: I would look for an overall general card where the
Speaker 2: benefits are more wider reaching, not for one specific airline,
Speaker 2: but like a card that you can get cash back,
Speaker 2: you can earn point you can earn points to like hotels.
Speaker 2: You know, that's what I that's what I would suggest,
Speaker 2: but I right now, honestly, I would slow down as
Speaker 2: you're paying down, I would slow down on getting a
Speaker 2: card just because you don't want to start to like,
Speaker 2: you know, the best piece of advice when you're in
Speaker 2: a ditch is to put the shovel down. And so
Speaker 2: that credit card is a shovel and I want you
Speaker 2: to keep digging nine in so hopefully.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Another thing to think about is like those cards
Speaker 4: often require you to spend money to get that benefit.
Speaker 4: It's like if you spend three thousand dollars in the
Speaker 4: first ninety days, so like, can you afford that much?
Speaker 4: Because that's more than a three hundred dollars flight credit
Speaker 4: would be. So I would say, nah, pass so you
Speaker 4: can you know, pay for the flight the one time.
Speaker 4: And you know, think about what Tiff said about getting
Speaker 4: like a more general travel card, especially if you're not
Speaker 4: traveling back and forth under control. Yeah, but thank you
Speaker 4: so much for your question, miss nine and with the
Speaker 4: pretty name, Let's take a quick breaking break and be
Speaker 4: right back for a real, that's one. I'm like rolling
Speaker 4: my shoulders back for it because I feel like Tiff
Speaker 4: and I. We're gonna go cool and I'll give you
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Speaker 4: question uh is written by my dear sister. Okay, so
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Speaker 4: All right, be a fan. We are back with a juicy,
Speaker 4: juicy question that immediately I was like, let's do this.
Speaker 4: I know we have loss to say on this matter.
Speaker 4: And both of us have sisters and families, and yeah,
Speaker 4: it get it can get a little challenging when there's
Speaker 4: income disparities within the family, So let's get into it.
Speaker 4: This comes from someone who would like to be called
Speaker 4: my dear so her and she says, I have a
Speaker 4: sister who I adore. She and her husband have two
Speaker 4: young children. They recently made a big transition and moved
Speaker 4: halfway across the country to be closer to us her family.
Speaker 4: She has always struggled with her finances, holding on to
Speaker 4: what she has since she is a major spender but
Speaker 4: not a budgeter. They could be considered wealthy, but they
Speaker 4: live extremely paycheck to paycheck due to some lavish choices
Speaker 4: they continue to make over and over. Something major happens
Speaker 4: and they can't pay their bills or afford the expense.
Speaker 4: So she comes to my mom and dad, who are
Speaker 4: retired to ask for help. But recently she's become asking.
Speaker 4: She's begun asking me for help. I'm ten years younger
Speaker 4: than her, live alone, and have a high paying job,
Speaker 4: and I'm putting in the work to end the cycle
Speaker 4: of debt from my family. In my own life, I
Speaker 4: have a financial advisor who I work closely with to
Speaker 4: budget and set myself up for the future. I have
Speaker 4: tried to talk to my sister about getting help and
Speaker 4: working with someone, but she's not open to it at all.
Speaker 4: She feels like she just needs to earn more. What
Speaker 4: should I do. I want to help her because she's family,
Speaker 4: but I also don't want to enable her because she
Speaker 4: refuses to get help. I just don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: Dear system before let it go?
Speaker 4: Oh yes, let it go. Which is like because when
Speaker 4: I was thinking about trying to educate people who are
Speaker 4: not ready to be educated, it's like a losing battle.
Speaker 4: At that point. You know, it's one thing if they
Speaker 4: come to you and ask, But when you and I
Speaker 4: have been that person, when you think that you know
Speaker 4: better and you want to coach them, and you can
Speaker 4: see how clear it is if they just listen to me,
Speaker 4: and it's family. There's just something ingrained in our DNA
Speaker 4: to just not absorb anything that our siblings say to us,
Speaker 4: like you know, and it may I don't think that
Speaker 4: you need to be the hero in that situation, and
Speaker 4: it's going to cause you more stress to try to
Speaker 4: fix it, you know. And I found myself in that position,
Speaker 4: especially what we do to if, like we talked about
Speaker 4: that before, y'all listen to us, y'all think we're real smart.
Speaker 4: You send us your questions. I don't get any from
Speaker 4: my family, even my husband, you know, And I just
Speaker 4: kind of like, oh, they'll find out on their own
Speaker 4: and their own way. But it's different right when it
Speaker 4: comes to your pockets, and they don't want your advice,
Speaker 4: they want money. So what do you say to that, Tiff?
Speaker 4: I think both of us have had situations where you
Speaker 4: have been and I was even with my family.
Speaker 2: Oh, baby Lisa, where I have to set a boundary,
Speaker 2: and I literally set one recently, like.
Speaker 1: Maybe, like you know, less than six months ago.
Speaker 2: She called and I said, if this is to ask
Speaker 2: for money, just I want this to be so important
Speaker 2: to you because this is last and final, like for life.
Speaker 1: And she was thought about it, and she was like, so,
Speaker 1: how's your day?
Speaker 2: I said, exactly because she wanted that one get I said,
Speaker 2: so I want you to ask yourself, is this my
Speaker 2: get out of.
Speaker 1: Jail jail jail free car? Like you know she was.
Speaker 2: I wasn't even confident. I said, Oh, I'm just letting
Speaker 2: you know that, like you know, because so here's my rule.
Speaker 2: So this is literally what I tell all my sisters
Speaker 2: and my friends who I'm close enough that I would
Speaker 2: lend money to, even though I'm not a money lender.
Speaker 1: Typically I'll just give you like if you're really needing it.
Speaker 2: Like, so my rule is, and this is what I
Speaker 2: told my baby sister, Lisa is I told her. I said,
Speaker 2: the rule is you're not allowed to be homeless.
Speaker 1: You're not allowed to be.
Speaker 2: Hungry, meaning don't ever get to such a dire state
Speaker 2: that it would put you in physical peril, you know.
Speaker 2: So like, if that's the case, obviously come to me,
Speaker 2: because at the very least you could always eat here
Speaker 2: and you can stay with me, you know, So don't
Speaker 2: think like, oh, I got to be on my own
Speaker 2: and struggle struggle through it all, you know, within reason, Yes,
Speaker 2: I want you to look at yourself as your first
Speaker 2: line of defense. But don't go hungry you're homeless, that's
Speaker 2: you know, we're not doing that here. But I cannot
Speaker 2: be your first, second, and third line of defense, you know.
Speaker 2: And so it's okay for people to have bad credit
Speaker 2: for a little while.
Speaker 1: They'll live. It's okay for bills to be late, They'll live.
Speaker 1: Because that's the only way you're gonna learn, Like you.
Speaker 2: Have to get sometimes back pushed up against the wall
Speaker 2: to then lean into yourself and be resourceful.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know your sister's older.
Speaker 2: My sister's the youngest set of five, and if I'm
Speaker 2: being honest, we coddled.
Speaker 1: Her, we babied her.
Speaker 2: I am nine years older than her, so you know,
Speaker 2: there's such a huge difference. So she's like, oh, the baby, mean,
Speaker 2: while Lisa's a whole, like thirty three. Yeah, And so
Speaker 2: she didn't get here by herself. You know, there's these
Speaker 2: bad habits that we have, you know, encouraged and cultivated.
Speaker 2: But then finally I had to be like no, and
Speaker 2: she is figuring it out, but I wanted her to
Speaker 2: know that you have a safety net, Like I want
Speaker 2: you to figure it out, but I do not want
Speaker 2: you to be in peril, you know, And so the
Speaker 2: key is really like it's not easy to set boundaries,
Speaker 2: but if you set them, they learn to navigate with
Speaker 2: you differently, you know, like they do people will learn
Speaker 2: to navigate with you differently if you're like, hey, like
Speaker 2: I had a friend asked me to borrow money for
Speaker 2: the first time and she'd never asked me before, and
Speaker 2: old Tiffany would have just like been like, oh gosh,
Speaker 2: you know, I'm gonna let bart but I'm just scared
Speaker 2: that this is a new precedent.
Speaker 1: What do I do?
Speaker 2: New Tiffany therapeued up. Tiffany was like, hey, girl, no
Speaker 2: problem lending you this money. But although I know you've
Speaker 2: never borrowed before, I don't want to set a precedent
Speaker 2: that I'm the go to for you to borrow from.
Speaker 2: And she said, well, I've never asked I no, no,
Speaker 2: I know you've not asked me that. It's not about
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that this is.
Speaker 1: Something you're gonna do.
Speaker 2: I just want to make it clear that it makes
Speaker 2: me it would make me uncomfortable that I don't mind
Speaker 2: doing this, you know, I expect that you're gonna pay
Speaker 2: me back, like you said, but also too, I expect
Speaker 2: that this is not going to become We've been friends
Speaker 2: for a very very very long time, and I don't
Speaker 2: want this to become the norm, like we've broken the seal.
Speaker 2: I could tell that she was slightly offended, and I understood,
Speaker 2: you know, why she would be, But I also know
Speaker 2: that I needed to set the boundary because I don't
Speaker 2: know where this is going. We've talked about it like
Speaker 2: a couple times after and we both come to like
Speaker 2: an easy like piece about it, like, you know, because
Speaker 2: I don't want that to be like, well, girl, Tiffany
Speaker 2: got it, you know, like, and so I'm glad I
Speaker 2: set the boundary, and I'm glad we talked about it
Speaker 2: and we're still like super good friends, you know. And
Speaker 2: she understood where I was coming from, and I understood
Speaker 2: where she was coming from because it wasn't like she
Speaker 2: had had any habit of this with me, but I've
Speaker 2: seen the habit with other people.
Speaker 1: That's why I said what I said, So, like, I
Speaker 1: just think it's gonna be. It's gonna be, dear sister.
Speaker 2: You have to just you're gonna have to set a
Speaker 2: clear boundary live up to that boundary. You might have
Speaker 2: to say it a couple of times. Your sister will
Speaker 2: learn that you are not the one, the two, or
Speaker 2: the three, and she'll move on to someplace else. It
Speaker 2: sounds like maybe your parents have said no and that's
Speaker 2: why she's coming to you. And then you can you
Speaker 2: could also create that safety net and say, you know,
Speaker 2: don't be hungry, don't be homeless. You know, you guys
Speaker 2: can always eat here or whatever. You guys can always
Speaker 2: stay with me or whatever that is. You know, like
Speaker 2: set that kind of like that lowest basis point, but
Speaker 2: then let her figure it out or she will never
Speaker 2: figure it out. Especially it's one thing if you had
Speaker 2: a sister who was like, you know, like didn't make
Speaker 2: good money, you know what I mean, like to hear that,
Speaker 2: like you make plenty and you're just making bad choices.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: You know. It's one thing if you were like in
Speaker 2: abusive relationship. Your best friend was in an abusive relationship and
Speaker 2: fled her husband. Now that's different and you're like, girl,
Speaker 2: you know, I got you, bring the kids here, we're
Speaker 2: going to figure it out. But just I'm going to
Speaker 2: help you out because you're mismanaging your money. Now, set
Speaker 2: that boundary, create the baseline of don't be hungry or homeless,
Speaker 2: and let it go.
Speaker 1: She's grown.
Speaker 4: It might be a little awkward in the meantime, like Tiffy,
Speaker 4: you went to that awkward thing with your friend, just
Speaker 4: like you know in the beginning. But people are always
Speaker 4: going to act some type of way when you say
Speaker 4: no and you set that boundary. And I think the
Speaker 4: part that we use boundaries like a throwaway word now,
Speaker 4: but it's going to come at the cost of that moment,
Speaker 4: that that space of discomfort for you and for the
Speaker 4: person who's asking you for something and wants to breach
Speaker 4: your boundary, and for them just for them to hear no.
Speaker 4: Like my, you know, really good friend of mine recently
Speaker 4: found a toxic friend, had a toxic friend who I
Speaker 4: knew they were toxic because I can smell y'all and
Speaker 4: I just don't even And I told her that's as
Speaker 4: bad news, and I backed it up. I was like,
Speaker 4: she's gonna learn. A year later, she's like, I think
Speaker 4: it's time to cut this person out, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: m And as soon as she did, the tech start
Speaker 4: coming in, the calls, the name calling. You know that
Speaker 4: immediate reaction to you studying that boundary and as a
Speaker 4: person who I've had to deal with my own family,
Speaker 4: like a sibling of mine who I had to really
Speaker 4: set a hard boundary, and for me, that boundary was
Speaker 4: like no further communication, you know, until I can trust
Speaker 4: you again. It's it's you. There's there's a cast there,
Speaker 4: it's it's painful, it makes holidays a little awkward. But
Speaker 4: I think you have to put yourself first and remind
Speaker 4: yourself what your goals are. And it's okay if someone
Speaker 4: else is frustrated, put out, inconvenienced, you know, if they
Speaker 4: have to struggle a little bit because of a choice
Speaker 4: you made for your own self, welcome to just being
Speaker 4: a human. You know, at certain points we have to
Speaker 4: make those tough calls. And it's like Tiff said, you know,
Speaker 4: maybe it's if you say, if you if it's money,
Speaker 4: that becomes a band aid. And it does sound like
Speaker 4: maybe your parents have started saying no or they're not
Speaker 4: able to give what she needs, so she's even gotten more.
Speaker 4: Plus she has a spouse too. I'm like, is a
Speaker 4: spouse and does he know or does she know? Or
Speaker 4: they know about this? Like there's deeper things going on,
Speaker 4: But how else might you be able to help? Like,
Speaker 4: it's not advice because I don't think she wants that
Speaker 4: from you. Maybe it's if you want me to babysit
Speaker 4: for free while you get a second job or uber
Speaker 4: so that you can, you know, or go on some
Speaker 4: interviews like how can you support her in other ways
Speaker 4: to show that you still love her? But it's really
Speaker 4: dangerous to set that president of Okay, I'm going to
Speaker 4: say yes this time. And certainly if you actually need
Speaker 4: them to pay you back, I really wouldn't lend that
Speaker 4: money because I just feel like friends and family, there's
Speaker 4: just you're not going to be at the top of
Speaker 4: the list when it comes to paying the bills back,
Speaker 4: you know. So with me, if I was ever giving
Speaker 4: money to fit, I made an early rule and when
Speaker 4: I was younger that if I was going to lend
Speaker 4: anyone money, I wasn't going to be lending it. I
Speaker 4: was going to give it, and I was going to
Speaker 4: tell them so like this is a this is a gift.
Speaker 4: I don't want it back, you know, And if you're
Speaker 4: not comfortable doing that, I would say, the ANSWER's got
Speaker 4: to be no. And you can literally tell her exactly
Speaker 4: what you told us. You know, I've worked really hard
Speaker 4: to get where I am, and I want I don't
Speaker 4: have a partner, I don't have a second source of income.
Speaker 4: I need to be doubly sure that I can support
Speaker 4: myself if something were to happen. And I know that
Speaker 4: you love me and you'll probably understand this, So this
Speaker 4: is why I have to say, I can't help you
Speaker 4: in this way, but maybe there's other ways I can help.
Speaker 4: And I stole that little mini script from my therapist
Speaker 4: because she gave me that language when a family relative
Speaker 4: came to me last year for like a lot of money,
Speaker 4: and she was like, you can tell her I love you,
Speaker 4: I want to help you, but I can't help you
Speaker 4: in this specific way. You know, is there something else
Speaker 4: that we can, you know, talk about And it's up
Speaker 4: to them to decide what they want to do with that.
Speaker 2: And don't expect Sometimes I think that we are like
Speaker 2: trying to figure out how to do the hard work
Speaker 2: and for it to feel good and easy, Like, well,
Speaker 2: it's not feeling good, so maybe we're doing something wrong.
Speaker 2: And it's like no, actually, it's like I got my
Speaker 2: eyebrows wax today, it's supposed to sting a little.
Speaker 1: That's what that's how it goes.
Speaker 4: They do it good.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm just saying that. So that's
Speaker 1: the thing.
Speaker 2: It's that I want to it's just in general, especially
Speaker 2: if you talk about money and career changes and all
Speaker 2: things we talk about here. I want to normalize that
Speaker 2: there are moments of discomfort that ought to be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Like it's not because you did anything wrong. That's just
Speaker 2: what it looks like, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 2: so like when you realize, like, oh, I'm going to
Speaker 2: have this conversation with my sister and it's going to
Speaker 2: be awkward, and it's going to feel uncomfortable and I'm
Speaker 2: going to feel.
Speaker 1: Bad about it, that's part of it. And that's okay,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: So you know, don't think like you feeling bad means
Speaker 2: something is wrong. No, you're feeling bad is that you're
Speaker 2: a human being period, right, And so just like keep
Speaker 2: that in that, Like, there is no easy way to
Speaker 2: tell someone you super love.
Speaker 1: I can't give you money.
Speaker 2: They're just not you know, and so you're just gonna
Speaker 2: say it to the best of your ability. You might
Speaker 2: have to tell her a couple of times and eventually
Speaker 2: she'll get it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, amen to that. It's yeah, it's it's not supposed
Speaker 4: to feel good, especially not waxing. I went and got
Speaker 4: waxed for my vacation, and I.
Speaker 1: Was like, why I never You know, I've got movies.
Speaker 1: I've never gotten waxed down there.
Speaker 4: You know you're not missing out. But I will say,
Speaker 4: the results are everything I felt. Maybe that's why I
Speaker 4: felt so hot in my being vacation.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm because the eyebrow is already like, girl,
Speaker 2: I gotta get myself together, so I can't imagine.
Speaker 4: I think they get in there.
Speaker 1: Girl, I feel like I'm liable to pass down.
Speaker 4: I was afraid I was going to go into pre
Speaker 4: term labor. I was like, should I have google this?
Speaker 4: Maybe this is going to be triggering anew that.
Speaker 2: Lady's gonna get a face full of fart because I'll
Speaker 2: just be so like, oh my god, they've seen it all.
Speaker 4: You just have to like imagine, you know, I got
Speaker 4: a girl for your name, Sean, tell you come up
Speaker 4: to you know, come up to Worchester, hook you up
Speaker 4: European wax Center.
Speaker 1: I'm scared, scared, scared, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like maybe once in my life I'm gonna
Speaker 2: do it, but I'm so terrified of like the pain child.
Speaker 2: So you know, we gotta work our way up, work
Speaker 2: our way up. Rember, just when we first started doing Brandabision,
Speaker 2: I was still wearing pack pandies.
Speaker 1: Remember, I mean, now we've elevated.
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you for reminding me where you came from.
Speaker 1: Slowly, So we gotta work our way up, work our
Speaker 1: way up.
Speaker 2: So yeah, sorry, dear sister, we work from like girls
Speaker 2: that your sister to us do a sister girl talk.
Speaker 1: But let us know how it goes, and you know,
Speaker 1: we hope for the best.
Speaker 4: Yes, I genuinely want an update on this one. Please,
Speaker 4: dear dear sister, please send us an update.
Speaker 1: So when you said this update, just say it's me,
Speaker 1: dear sister, so we know it's you.
Speaker 4: I hope that we got to you in time. Yes, Okay,
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 4: Ba fan, Well again, you can hit us up anytime
Speaker 4: you want. You with your questions, you can go to
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Speaker 4: you to the STU. That's what Tippany told me to
Speaker 4: call it, y'all, and so next week bye, see you
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