1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reality with the King. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: It's me Carlos King, the King of Reality TV and 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 2: one of the most sought after executive producers in reality 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: television with over ten years a production experience. Once a 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: week from Reality with the King, we'll sit down with 6 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 2: shows and revisit unforgettable moments that we are still talking 8 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 2: and tweeting about. Hey, rain drops on today's episode of 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: Reality with the King. 10 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 1: Yes, we've got Let me tell you all something, child. 11 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 2: We have a legend, okay, an Olympian legend, honey, who 12 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: decided to. 13 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 1: Go on a show that is the one of the biggest. 14 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 2: Shows on Bravo, The Real Housewives of Atlanta. I'm so excited. 15 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: I met her in person with her beautiful mom. Her 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: mom is a fan of mine and was like, I 17 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 2: want call your shows, Carlins and I was like, well, Honey, 18 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get you on next, but first it's about 19 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: your daughter. So please welcome to the podcast. Sign your 20 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: bitchess frie Hey, Hey. 21 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 3: Hey, hey, de Carlos King, we in here. How are 22 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 3: you doing. 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me, No, thanks for saying yes to 24 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 2: the mess, honey, So how are you? 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: I am good? 26 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 3: I'm good, caroly in New York. You know the season 27 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 3: has been crazy, so I know we're gonna get into it. 28 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 3: But no, all good things. I'm excited. 29 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 2: Let's get into a. 30 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: See there we go. 31 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: So look, like I said earlier, you are an Olympian, 32 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 2: you are a track star, legend, you are somebody that 33 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: is in the history books, which is a lot to 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: be said about your stature. So with all of that 35 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 2: going on, I need to know this miss thing. When 36 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 2: you got the call to request your presence of seeing 37 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: if you wanted to be on the Housewives of Atlanta, 38 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: what was. 39 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: Your first thought? Did you think like yes? No, maybe, 40 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: Like what did you go into it thinking once you 41 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 1: got the phone call? 42 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 4: So it was funny because when I got the call, 43 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: at first, I didn't think it was real. I was like, 44 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:20,399 Speaker 4: how did you get my number? But Carlos, my first 45 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 4: in thing was yes, Like I'm a yes. 46 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 3: To life kind of girl. 47 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 4: Yes, like I always feel like when opportunities find me, 48 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 4: it is for a reason, and so my first instinct 49 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 4: was yes, I had to work on my husband. But 50 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 4: for me, it was a yes. 51 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: Let's talk about your husband. Honey. 52 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 2: First of all, you one hundred percent have I would 53 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 2: say top two of the finest husband's on Bravo. 54 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: I mean, no, tied. 55 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 4: With Carla because I didn't even remember clearly in the lead, 56 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 4: Like you know what I mean? 57 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 3: So who are we tying? Who was who was he 58 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: vying with? 59 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: Okay, in my opinion, it's a toss up between Ross 60 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: and Eddie, doctor Wendy's husband, and he's. 61 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 3: A post number two. He's a close number two. 62 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: You know what I like about Ross? 63 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 2: Ross reminds me of my African Ross is quiet, fine, 64 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 2: like he ain't loud unless he gets provoked. 65 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: He is a man's man. 66 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:26,400 Speaker 2: Can I can tell he he caters to you in 67 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 2: a way that doesn't demean his manhood or masculinity. No, 68 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: I'm telling you I watch all that now. I've saw 69 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: that a lot last season. Now missing this season, I'm 70 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 2: not saying a. 71 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: Lot of Ross. What's going on? Boo, you and me both? 72 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 4: So this is what this is what happens this season, 73 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 4: and you'll see him later on in this season. But 74 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 4: COVID really hit our car service hard in twenty twenty 75 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 4: and twenty twenty one, and we weren't even sure if 76 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 4: we're going to be able to make it in the 77 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 4: Austin market in the chauffeur business, and so, you know, 78 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 4: for a long time he was in the red, having 79 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 4: a poor money into it. For so we kept thinking, Okay, 80 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 4: what are we gonna do? Are we gonna you know, 81 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 4: and we held onto it and it's rebounding now. So unfortunately, 82 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 4: you know, and fortunately. 83 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: It is a good thing. 84 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 4: He had to go to Austin a lot, you know, 85 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 4: because we lost a lot of drivers, like the businesses, 86 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 4: had to really trim down to make it, and he's 87 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 4: kind of building it back up now. So unfortunately he 88 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 4: you know, the time we were filming was peak time 89 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 4: for travel in Austin, and so he was there just 90 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:25,679 Speaker 4: managing the business. 91 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 3: So I a'm od at. 92 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 4: Him getting this coins, but I certainly did miss him 93 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 4: at home a lot. 94 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 2: Yes, No, me and the girls and the gays, we 95 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: missed seeing Ross on television. And one of the things 96 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 2: that I talked about last season when you first got 97 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: on the show is your personal story reminding me a 98 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 2: lot of Candy's personal story back in the day, when 99 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: you talk about working with family and having a husband 100 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 2: to where obviously you are the star of the relationship 101 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 2: and you have been for so long, and how sometime 102 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 2: that can do something. 103 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: To a woman's marriage. 104 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 2: And it really takes a confident man in order to 105 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 2: say my wife is the star, the bread winner, and 106 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 2: she has all these things going on. And I appreciated 107 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: that level of transparency last season, and that's why this season, 108 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: as we're talking about the show, it was the one 109 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 2: thing that I felt like I want to see more 110 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 2: of because I really felt like Ross came out of 111 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 2: his shell last season, and I want to make sure 112 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 2: that we're going to see more of that dynamic. Obviously, 113 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: we see what your mom and your sister and you 114 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 2: and your family, but Honey, we want to see you 115 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 2: and Ross have those tough conversations. 116 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: So are we going to see that? 117 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's coming. 118 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 4: And I also got to correct you on one thing, Carlos, 119 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 4: because yes, I am a tha, but let's not get 120 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 4: it twisted that my honey is a two time Super 121 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 4: Bowl champ who was the breadwinner for the majority of 122 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 4: our relationship. And so I just don't want that narrative 123 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 4: saves ever switch, right, because just like you know, he 124 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 4: started out making tons of money doing great things and 125 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 4: still has lots of money in the bank, you know, 126 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,919 Speaker 4: that's why he's able to do what he wants to 127 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 4: do and stuff. So I do think it takes a 128 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 4: strong man to be with a woman who is like 129 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 4: myself and like Candy and doing a lot of things 130 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 4: and likes to be in front of the camera. 131 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 3: Like my husband is fine playing in the back. 132 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 4: Even when he was in football, you know, he wasn't 133 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 4: always trying to be upfront. And so I do think 134 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 4: it takes a strong man with a great personality, and 135 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 4: I have that in my husband. 136 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 3: But you know, he's a star, honey, He's a star. 137 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: Yes. Yes. Why was he apprehensive in you joining the show? Yeah? 138 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 4: I think it was more about you know, we all 139 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 4: hear a lot about the reality show, you know, marriage Curse, 140 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 4: and I think that was what he was more worried about. 141 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 4: Is that for him and for me, marriage and family 142 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 4: comes first, like period, and there is nothing that I 143 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 4: would do that will ever jeopardize that, you know, And 144 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 4: so he just didn't want for us to be in 145 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 4: a situation that could potentially jeopardize our relationship. 146 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 3: And I love him for that. 147 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 4: You know, it was really that's it, you know, because 148 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 4: you just don't know, Like you see like a lot 149 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 4: of marriages that look. 150 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 3: Great and then they just they don't make it. 151 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 4: But the reality is, I do think that reality shows 152 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 4: are a snapshot of real life. And the divorce rate 153 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 4: is high in the world period. So it's not that 154 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 4: reality TV is what breaks up marriages. I certainly think 155 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 4: it puts a microscope on issues that are hard sometimes 156 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 4: to navigate when the public is also having their opinions 157 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 4: on it. But that was his ANNGS right. He was 158 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 4: more like, I just don't want this to come between us. 159 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 4: I don't want this to do anything for our family. 160 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 4: If we can navigate it as a unit, boom, but 161 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 4: if not, Like he wasn't going to be down for that, 162 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 4: and I love that about him. 163 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: Were you too afraid of joining the show having an 164 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 2: affecting your legacy in the in the in the sports arena? 165 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 4: Not really, because the truth is, Carlos, is that there 166 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 4: is no blueprint for an Olympic champion, Like can you 167 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: name an Olympic champion and what they're doing now you 168 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 4: know what I mean? And so it's not it's all 169 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 4: of us are kind of charting our own path. And 170 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 4: for me, I was like this is a dope opportunity 171 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 4: for me to stay relevant, to continue to grow my brand, 172 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 4: to be around some dope women. 173 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 3: And so no, I think that is just an extension 174 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 3: of my legacy. 175 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 4: Like nothing can erase what I did on the track period, 176 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 4: you know, and so this is just me trying something else, 177 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 4: seeing how it works, and you know, going through a 178 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 4: new process. So no, I never looked at it that way, 179 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 4: although I have heard people say like, are you. 180 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 3: A friend, Like no, Like, I'm the American record hold 181 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 3: a four time of lipic Medalist's baby, that's that's gonna 182 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: be that. 183 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:41,719 Speaker 2: Did you hear from your friends in your in your 184 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 2: class of sport who said, like. 185 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: Girl, are you sure you want to do this? Or what? 186 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: They're all support of. 187 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 4: The majority of my girlfriends were super supportive, you know, 188 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 4: they were excited for me. Like I said, it's like, 189 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 4: you know, you think about the life of an athlete, 190 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 4: Carlos and most athletes focus solely on sports their entire life, 191 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 4: and then it's like afterwards, you're like, Okay, what do 192 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 4: I do now? 193 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 3: How do I use the skill sets. 194 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 4: That I've learned and that I've sharpened as an athlete 195 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 4: in the rest of the world. And so for me, 196 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 4: I've been very, very blessed to have this very seamless 197 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 4: transition from track and field to broadcasting and not reality 198 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 4: TV and still working with Nike and all these things. 199 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 4: So I feel very blessed, and I feel like a 200 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,679 Speaker 4: lot of my peers really respect. 201 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 3: That hustle, like dang, like she's still doing it, you 202 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 3: know what I mean. It's not easy. 203 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: And congress on the Belk deal as well. Thank you, 204 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: cause that's huge. That's really big. Yeah, thank you, that's 205 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: really big. 206 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 2: Also big, honey is the drama this season, we are 207 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 2: seeing the girls go low sis. I mean, I call 208 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 2: it how Marlow can you go? Like? 209 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: How low can you go? Child? Now Marlow girl? How Marlow? 210 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 3: I think what you did there? I'll see what you 211 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 3: did there? 212 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: There you go? 213 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 3: Love? 214 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: Get you got? Okay? 215 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 2: So you seem to be caught in the middle because, 216 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 2: as we saw in the earlier episodes, Courtney was saying 217 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 2: some not so flattering things about Candy in the presence 218 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 2: of you and Chara, and you told Candy what was said, 219 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 2: and I found it interesting. 220 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: That she was like, well, what you said? 221 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,599 Speaker 2: If you have my back, because and I want to 222 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,520 Speaker 2: get your opinion because for me, obviously. 223 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: I produced a show. 224 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 2: For almost ten years of my life, right, and I've 225 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: known moments where Fedra felt that way about Candy, like 226 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 2: you didn't have my back or what did you say 227 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 2: to defend me against these girls? So I was kind 228 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: of called off guard by that because I didn't again 229 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 2: my okay, because my opinion is, I don't feel like 230 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 2: unless I'm missing something, I don't feel like you and 231 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 2: Candy's relationship it's that deep to where your first instinct. 232 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: Would be to defend her. 233 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: I mean, you're just listening to a conversation where you 234 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 2: also surprised it's like me the audience was that she 235 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: was upset by it. 236 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was surprised that she asked me that because 237 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 4: the tone of the conversation up until that point was 238 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 4: very much friendly. And then she just kind of switched 239 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 4: and was like, but what were you saying while you 240 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 4: know she was talking? And it kind of threw me 241 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 4: off guard, and I was like, what did I say? 242 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 4: Like I'm trying to remember and recall because, to be honest, Carlos, 243 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 4: initially I was just shocked. Right, I'm sitting there like 244 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 4: it's my first time meeting this girl. I'm like, what 245 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 4: was a lot to tea? You're like, okay, you know, 246 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 4: I was really shocked by it. And then of course 247 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: the way she's saying it, it was funny, like anybody 248 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 4: would have laughed when she said. 249 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 3: And girl that ghetto. I was like, so, you know 250 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: what I mean. 251 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 4: But at the same time, I did, on multiple occasions 252 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 4: in the conversation say look, me and Candy cool, now, 253 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 4: are you gonna talk to her? Because if you don't, 254 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell her I do say that to her 255 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 4: in real time, you know what I mean. So I 256 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: was a little bit surprised that Candy was like, what 257 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 4: were you saying and stuff, because obviously, like you know, 258 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 4: these are all fairly new friendships that I'm building and 259 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 4: creating and really trying to figure out, you know, which 260 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 4: ones are going to be the meaningful ones, which was 261 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 4: all going to be the last thing relationships, you know. 262 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 4: So I don't I don't think she took it, uh, 263 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 4: you know, too heavy. I think she just asked and 264 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 4: we kind of moved on from it. But I was 265 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:12,680 Speaker 4: a little bit surprised that she expected me to be like, 266 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:13,959 Speaker 4: now what what what. 267 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 3: Shocked? 268 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: As you were Oh, no, girl, we were gagging. Again. 269 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 2: If that was Manyeta, I would have understood more. So 270 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 2: I was surprised about that line of questioning because from 271 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 2: what I've seen, and you tell me if I'm wrong, 272 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:34,679 Speaker 2: it appears that you're closer to Charae and Marlow, I'm. 273 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 3: Closer to Marlow. 274 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 4: And to be honest, like it's funny because at that 275 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 4: point I was closer to Candy and Marlow. So like 276 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 4: Candy and I had gone on vacation, we communicate a 277 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 4: lot off camera, and of course Marlow, Marlow and I 278 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 4: are the closest, especially now like off off season this 279 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 4: season we talk like every day, so I was actually 280 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 4: closer to Marlow. Candy and then Chari like Sharan are 281 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 4: super cool. We don't talk as much, you know, maybe 282 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 4: like once a week, once every two weeks. 283 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 3: Her and I connect, So Canny and I work fairly close. 284 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 4: But the other thing, too, Carlos, was that I didn't 285 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 4: feel like it was an attack on her, on her character, 286 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 4: like if you as you watched the season progress, like. 287 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 3: Even last night with Marlowe, I don't. 288 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 4: Like when they started calling her trick and stuff like 289 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 4: to me, that's that's a personal affront. 290 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 3: But when you're talking about, like, you know, these people. 291 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 4: To me, that wasn't something where I'd be like, well, damn, Like, 292 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 4: why would you say this about Candy? 293 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: It wasn't that deep to me, you know what I mean? 294 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, But what's getting deep is the lonelness to me 295 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 2: of the dialogue between them. 296 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: You know. 297 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 2: One of the biggest things that the audience is having 298 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 2: a very hard time understanding. And I even called Marlowe 299 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 2: personally to talk to her about this because I do 300 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: love her, is the fact that what happened three years 301 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 2: ago with her nephew. Of course, it's horrendous and it's sad, 302 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: and she and the entire family have all of our 303 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 2: complete condolencence with that, but it is sort of. 304 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: It is sort of. 305 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 2: I'll just use the word weird that three years later 306 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: is being brought up. And I understand she's saying, well, 307 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 2: the shootings that happen at the restaurant triggered it, So 308 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 2: I get that, But to the degree of it being 309 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 2: so volatile. 310 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: Obviously you talk to marlow daily. 311 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: Are you on Marlow's side when it comes to where 312 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 2: her and Candy are going through? 313 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: And can you. 314 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 2: Shed some light that we may not know because I 315 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 2: know Marlow for real, for real, and I'm confused. 316 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 4: Well, no, I get it, And I think that it's tricky, 317 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 4: right because you can't tell someone how to feel. 318 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 3: And even for me when I was when I communicate with. 319 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 4: Marl and stuff, and I'm like, dang, like it's a 320 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 4: tricky thing to navigate because somebody died, right like her 321 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 4: nephew died, So there's the gravity of that, and then 322 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 4: there is this feeling where she just feels like, you know, 323 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 4: Candy sometimes just kind of brushes. 324 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 3: Past issues, you know, big and small. 325 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 4: And so, you know, do I always agree with how 326 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 4: Marlow goes at things now, but do I try to 327 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 4: validate her feelings? Yes, And so in the fact that 328 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 4: she felt like Candy never really acknowledged it or showed 329 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 4: up in the way. 330 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 3: See. 331 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 4: The other thing that people have to understand too, is 332 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 4: like a lot of times people value friendship the way 333 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 4: that they are friends, and Marlow is one of the 334 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 4: most thoughtful. She's one of the kindest people I know. 335 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 4: Like last season when I had COVID, she sent me 336 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 4: flowers at Teddy Bear, she sent me medicine. 337 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 3: She called me every day, and that's her love language and. 338 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 4: So you know, she I think, just expects people to 339 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 4: reciprocate that, and like what I understand from Candy when 340 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 4: I was talking to Candy as well as like, she's 341 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 4: not that girl, and I'm not all the way a 342 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 4: thoughtful person like that either, Like marlow is teaching me 343 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 4: how to be more thoughtful of people, you know what 344 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 4: I mean. 345 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 3: So I definitely see both sides. 346 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 4: I understand how Candy could feel like the timing is 347 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 4: so bad. It's like, you know, once again trying to 348 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 4: like you know, make put her business in a bad light. 349 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 4: So I understood why Candy. 350 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 3: Got so upset. But I think, and I think this 351 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 3: happens a lot with the ladies. 352 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 4: If we can stay on just the topic, just the issue, 353 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 4: we can handle it right, Because it's like if Candy's like, Okay, 354 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 4: my bad, I could I could have done more, we 355 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 4: could move on. But then it becomes this big thing 356 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 4: and they're both so heavily vested, and it becomes really 357 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 4: tricky as a group to navigate. 358 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 2: That makes sense to me now, I'm starting to understand, 359 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 2: because you're right, Marlowe, feels like what I give out 360 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 2: I should be able to get in return, and to 361 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: your point. 362 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: Not everyone is wired that way. 363 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: And I will say this on the record, Marlowe is 364 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 2: very generous. She is very giving, She is very thoughtful. 365 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 2: Marlowe loves to give a gift, child, and I love 366 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 2: taking them. 367 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: So I do. 368 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 2: I do know that about her, And now I'm starting 369 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 2: to understand a little bit more about what she was 370 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 2: expecting is because she feels like I will do that 371 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 2: in a situation. So, okay, I understand that much. Do 372 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 2: you understand Manyetta? Though her presence on the show. 373 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 4: Carlos almost Carlos not you passing? Now? 374 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 2: I thought you weren't tracks y'all who could run miles 375 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 2: and breathe? Child? 376 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 3: You know what I've been telling folks. I haven't trained 377 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 3: for poor Olympics. 378 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 4: I have been all of Nothing has prepared me for 379 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 4: the real house sives of Atlanta. 380 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 3: Do you understand nothing? Nothing has prepared me for this? Okay? 381 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 3: Do I understand man Yetta's presence on the show? Yes, 382 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 3: of course I do. Of course I do. 383 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: What do you think? What is it? Tella's enlighten up? 384 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: Because we're not there every day. 385 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 2: My love. 386 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,159 Speaker 3: There are other people in. 387 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 4: This room, cross and they've also fallen out everybody's on 388 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 4: the floor. 389 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:50,439 Speaker 3: My la thought everybody's on the floor, just so you know. 390 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 5: Okay, well, quarter minds want to know, honey, this is 391 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 5: reality with the King, and I want to know the 392 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 5: reality of when y'all together. You cannot believe that you're 393 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 5: asking these quest, Carlos, I would love for you to 394 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 5: answer one. 395 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 3: So, okay, here's the thing. 396 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: I think. 397 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 4: I think Mayetta, like you said, she is like a wonderful, 398 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 4: wonderful person. I think that she is one of the 399 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 4: best human beings I've ever met. However, I think that 400 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 4: it has been tricky for her to navigate the show, 401 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 4: and to navigate, you know, because she loves her and 402 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 4: Candy's relationship is so significant to her and important to 403 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 4: her that I feel like she sometimes isn't able to 404 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 4: step out of that and just be on her own. 405 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:38,879 Speaker 3: And it's hard. This this show is so hard. 406 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 4: Maybe have so many comments about it, but if you 407 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,439 Speaker 4: were in the same situation, trust me, it's not as 408 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:47,400 Speaker 4: easy as it appears when you are watching. 409 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 3: It on TV. 410 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 4: And so, you know, I do think that Mayette is 411 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 4: tricky for Mayette because she has such an alliance and 412 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 4: allegiance with Candy that and you saw it when she 413 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 4: was like I almost lost my friend. It's like why, 414 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 4: like just for like you know, sitting with Marlow for 415 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 4: two seconds like that. That doesn't make any sense, Like 416 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 4: you got to you got to be out here on 417 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 4: your own sis. 418 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:09,199 Speaker 3: So I love Mayeta Todath. 419 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 4: I think that this season she brings a lot more 420 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 4: to the show. She brings a lot more to the 421 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 4: show this season. But we'll see, you know, we'll see. 422 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: Do you think she's in Candy Shadow? 423 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I think she's in Candy Shadow. I think that. 424 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 4: I think that I think that her personality type makes 425 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 4: it hard for her to break out of Candy Shadow, 426 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 4: because she's such a loyal friend and she's such a 427 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 4: sweet girl. So yes, I do think that, and I 428 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 4: don't think I think that she would agree. I don't 429 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 4: think that's an insult. I think that she came on 430 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 4: as Candy's friend and she's really been loyal to her. 431 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: I hate your interrupt, but stay tuned for more. 432 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:54,439 Speaker 2: We'll be right back after these quick ads. 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This is Reality 491 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 2: with the King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back 492 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 2: into the show. What are your thoughts on Ralph and Drew. 493 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,360 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously you and Drew have had your moments, 494 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 2: which by the way, was funny, but when you think 495 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 2: about what she's going through and one thing, listen, one 496 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 2: thing I know about everybody on the Atlanta Housewives and 497 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,719 Speaker 2: a lot of reality TV, everybody can throw shade and 498 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 2: do whatever, but no, there's not one person who takes 499 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 2: pleasure in seeing the breakup of a marriage. And that's 500 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 2: one thing I know for sure. Yes, I absolutely there's 501 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 2: never been any gleeful moments of somebody's marriage breaking up 502 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 2: When you learn of the divorce. And again we're only 503 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,719 Speaker 2: in episode six right now this season, right did you 504 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 2: see signs that pointed in this direction? 505 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 4: So it caught me completely off guard, Carlos, because to 506 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 4: give you some context, like I'm not the best on 507 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 4: dates and times and stuff, but I would say probably 508 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 4: about two weeks prior to the announcement of the divorce, 509 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 4: Ross and I were at Ralph's fortieth that drew through 510 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,439 Speaker 4: for him, and they looked super happy. I mean, it 511 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 4: was like it was a vibe, like we were having 512 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 4: so much fun. They were dancing together, they played her songs, 513 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 4: she gave him a whole moment in the club, and 514 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 4: so so I know marriage is tough, and I know 515 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 4: sometimes we got to put on even when things are 516 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 4: not perfect. But I would have never anticipated that a 517 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 4: week or two later they'd be both rushing to the 518 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 4: courthouse to like outsign each other. 519 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 2: They were watching they were watching YouTube videos of you 520 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 2: sprinting and followed suit and ran. 521 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: To the courthouse as. 522 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 2: If but Tom was waiting on them at the end. 523 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: Honey, I was like, but it. 524 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 4: Didn't really surprise me because everything with Ralph and she 525 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 4: was always a little bit Quirky says that this is this, 526 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 4: this sounds about right right, like them rushing to the courthouse, 527 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 4: so just about right. But like you said, I honestly, 528 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 4: I'm really heartbroken, mainly for the kids because there were 529 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 4: three beautiful kids, and I when I met them prior 530 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 4: to the show two or three before we started filming, 531 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 4: I just thought they were a great couple. I thought 532 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 4: they have a lot of fun together. So it just 533 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:51,959 Speaker 4: it's just sad that they're not. You know, haven't been 534 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 4: able to figure it out. 535 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: Have you spoken to her recently? 536 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 3: So I text her. 537 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 4: I had been texting her like consistently, like you know, 538 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 4: just checking in on her, and and then she like 539 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 4: made a tweet the other. 540 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,120 Speaker 2: Day and I'm like about you, and I'm like, girl. 541 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 3: Man, you are good, Like why are you tweeting? 542 00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 4: It's like Drew Sometimes I feel like Drew thinks like 543 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 4: she's supposed to be like wherever the show is, that's 544 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 4: where it's just a mess. 545 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 3: I can't I can't. 546 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 4: Deal with that, Like I want to be real in 547 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 4: the moment, like reality reality. So after that, I was like, Okay, 548 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 4: let me just give her some more space again because 549 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 4: she's just on one again. 550 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 2: So a lot of people have accused Drew of acting 551 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 2: a lot on this show and getting the set confused 552 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 2: with a Lifetime movie set starring Carrie Hillson and directed 553 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:44,000 Speaker 2: by T. D. 554 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 1: Jakes. 555 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 2: So do you feel that when you're in scene with 556 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 2: Drew do you sometimes feel like are you reading a 557 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 2: script or are you being yourself? 558 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 3: One? Like it is? 559 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 4: That has been one of the hardest things to navigate 560 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 4: and my biggest frustration, especially coming on as her friend. 561 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 3: You know, it was it was. 562 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,639 Speaker 4: Really hard because but you know what's funny, Carlos and 563 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 4: I ain't never told nobody this, but I'm gonna just 564 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 4: drop your little tea right here. When I when I 565 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 4: first met them, right when I first met Ralph and Drew, 566 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 4: he one of the things he said was He's like. 567 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 3: You know, we'll be cool. 568 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,439 Speaker 4: And then all of a sudden the mood scene, she 569 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,120 Speaker 4: just like flips the script like she'll just like go 570 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 4: like do something crazy. 571 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: About his own wife. 572 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, And so it shouldn't have surprised me that she 573 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 4: did that to me in season one and that she 574 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 4: continues to do that. I just I but here's the 575 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 4: thing about it, and this is gonna be crazy. Is 576 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 4: that I don't feel like she knows that she's doing it. 577 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 4: I don't feel like she understands like when she goes 578 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 4: into this actress mode, I really don't and I think that, 579 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 4: but but she does it a lot, and it's it's 580 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 4: really tricky to be around her because literally we'll be texting, 581 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,239 Speaker 4: we'll be cool, and we'll talk off camera, and then 582 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 4: she comes on camera and she has a whole different 583 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 4: vibe and it's like, girl, like I don't like it, 584 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 4: Like I'd prefer to like know, like we're not cool 585 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 4: or we're cool, but don't like flip the script on 586 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 4: me on screen, and you know what I mean, because 587 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 4: I'm not acting. So it's it's really hard for me 588 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 4: to be able to figure out how to move with 589 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 4: her in that case. 590 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, No, I love you, Drew. 591 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,879 Speaker 2: Just note that they don't give about oscars for the 592 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 2: real Housebots of Atlanta, Baby, so we can stop auditioning 593 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:33,600 Speaker 2: for an oscar, leave that for a movie directed by 594 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,880 Speaker 2: Martin Scorsese because these scenes are directed. 595 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: By Eric Fuller. Okay, exactly, I love you, Okay. 596 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 2: One of the biggest conversations about this season is a 597 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 2: lot of people are saying the cast feels disjointed, that 598 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:58,520 Speaker 2: there doesn't seem to be this cohesive sisterhood that Conda 599 00:28:58,680 --> 00:28:59,959 Speaker 2: was apparent last season. 600 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 1: And what did you contribute that to? 601 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 2: Because again, I've worked on the show, and I've known 602 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 2: that relationship goes through up and down. 603 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 1: We've seen it with Kim and Nini, Minia and Charie, We've. 604 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 2: Seen it with Kenya, Porscha, Cynthia King, Like, we've seen 605 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 2: these up and downs, but the girls always found their 606 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 2: way back. 607 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 1: Why is it in your feelings? 608 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 2: Obviously is your second season, but why it seems to 609 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 2: be this jointed so much to the point where everyone 610 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 2: is confused by where this friendship can go. 611 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's so unfortunately to me, Carlos, because I 612 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 4: felt that this season we were building on this sisterhood 613 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 4: and friendship and I thought it would you know, radiate 614 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,479 Speaker 4: through the screens this year if you would see that 615 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,080 Speaker 4: we were, you know, actually really trying to be great 616 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 4: friends and stuff. So it's disappointing that the opposite is happening. 617 00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 3: But I think I think ultimately where. 618 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 4: The break happens is when Marlowe and Kenya, which obviously 619 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 4: that's been a few that's been predates me and has 620 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 4: been going on for a long time. 621 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 3: I think it's okay when they're like. 622 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 4: Two girls that are not not really getting along. But 623 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 4: I think the issue really happens when marlow and Candy 624 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 4: start to feud, and then because Kenya and Marlowe you know, 625 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 4: are you know, you know, Nemesis, It then really devised 626 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 4: the group because I think that Candy when Cay like 627 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 4: and one thing I really do respect about Candy is 628 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 4: that she's very level headed and even after the worst feud, 629 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 4: she kind of always finds her way back to like, 630 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 4: you know, a cordial place, like a place where we 631 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 4: can all coexist. 632 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 3: And so I think what happens this season. 633 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 4: Unfortunately, is that with marlow and Candy feuding so much, 634 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 4: and of course Kenya and Marlowe, it makes it really 635 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 4: hard for our group, our group to be cohesive because 636 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 4: you know, those are two big players in the group, 637 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So unfortunately, I think that 638 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 4: causes the divide. But but there is hope, Like I 639 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 4: think that as you continue to watch this season, especially 640 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 4: when going our group trip to Portugal, there is some mending, 641 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 4: you know, and and we do, we do go on 642 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 4: some really cool journeys, and I think we have some 643 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 4: really beautiful moments, but it is hard when you have 644 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 4: so many women with big personalities who do have real 645 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 4: feelings of their issues. I think, you know, it makes 646 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 4: it really hard to push past some of those things. 647 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 4: But you know, we do try and think that. I 648 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,080 Speaker 4: think that people will be happy as a season progresses. 649 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 2: Okay, when you joined the show, is it everything that 650 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 2: you imagine it would be or are you completely caught 651 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 2: off guard? 652 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 4: I don't know what I imagined it would be, but 653 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 4: not out of ten times I'm completely caught off. 654 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: Because sometimes I want this up. Times that you like, 655 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 1: what do I get myself to? 656 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 4: But you know what, it's funny, it's like, but not 657 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 4: ten times I'm having a lot of fun too. 658 00:31:57,920 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 3: Like, So here here's the. 659 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:00,959 Speaker 4: Thing that people need to know about me, because I 660 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 4: know people write all kinds of stuff about me, and 661 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 4: stuff is like I am old, Like I am okay 662 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 4: with trying and failing. 663 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 3: I am okay with like you know, it's like none 664 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 3: of those things bother me. 665 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 4: Like I chase my dreams college for twenty years to 666 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 4: the Olympic champion and in two thousand and eight I 667 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 4: failed on the largest scale, there's nothing that can ever 668 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 4: rattle me, you know what I mean. Like after that, 669 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 4: I came back and I won in twenty twelve. So 670 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 4: it's like I'm navigating a new space. I'm figuring out 671 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 4: how to show fully authentically as myself, trying to figure 672 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 4: out who I'm gonna be, my ride or dies, like 673 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,560 Speaker 4: all of these things like comes with pitfalls in real life, 674 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 4: much less on camera, you know what I mean. So 675 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 4: it's like I think I'm someone who's self deprecating. I 676 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 4: don't take myself too seriously. I'm not like trying to 677 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 4: be perfect. 678 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 2: You know. 679 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 4: It's like it is what it is, and as people 680 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 4: get to know me, you know, my hope is I'm 681 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 4: in for the long haul and people will see over 682 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 4: time who I am and that, you know, the little 683 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 4: things and the little pitfalls and a little moments, I 684 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 4: don't I don't harp on them too much. I keep 685 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 4: it moving and I'm genuinely trying to build real friendships 686 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 4: and I really want this show to go back to 687 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 4: what it really was, which was a group of women 688 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,719 Speaker 4: who really care about each other, who are bonded on 689 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 4: issues and you know, we're connected because we have commonalities, 690 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 4: but obviously it's not going to be perfect because life isn't. 691 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 4: And you know that's that's really what I hope for 692 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 4: the show. 693 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 2: No, I do too, And I love the fact that 694 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 2: you don't take things too seriously and you're you're aware 695 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 2: that girl. One thing about the Real Housewives of Atlanta fans, 696 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 2: Those fans are tough. 697 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:32,520 Speaker 4: What they like worse than sports. 698 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 2: Fans, Oh girls, forget look forget the basketball, baseball, football, 699 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 2: all of that. The Real Housewives of Atlanta, of all 700 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:46,880 Speaker 2: the franchises Atlanta, those fans have very strong opinions. When 701 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 2: you hear people say things about you, they call you boring? 702 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: Why is she on the show? 703 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 2: Does that hurt your feelings when you when you hear 704 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 2: people say you're boring? 705 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 4: Well, not really, because what I have seen is that 706 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 4: a lot of times the fans really don't know what 707 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 4: they want, you know what I mean. On the one hand, 708 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 4: they will say we want positive women who have real relationships, 709 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,960 Speaker 4: who have businesses and stuff, and then you get that 710 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,640 Speaker 4: and it's like, oh, she's boring, you know what I mean? 711 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 3: And it's like the fans can also be really fickle. 712 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,359 Speaker 4: One week they love this person, next week they love 713 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 4: that person, and so I kind of take it with 714 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 4: a grain of salt. 715 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 3: You know. 716 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 4: I've seen over the years where people complain about a 717 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 4: person then they're gone and they want them back more 718 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 4: than anything, and you know, it's like just this constant, 719 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 4: you know, desire to have what isn't there. And so 720 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 4: for me, I just kind of learned from sports to 721 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 4: quiet the noise, like, you know, focus on the fact 722 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 4: that I'm blessed to be on this platform and I'm 723 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 4: gonna keep being me and whether you know, I thank 724 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 4: god the fans don't cast. 725 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 3: And you know, just keep it pushing. 726 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, So this will be my advice to you. 727 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,600 Speaker 2: I got one more question for you, but as somebody 728 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 2: who produced that show from seasons one through four and 729 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 2: then six through nine, I want to give you some 730 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 2: advice if you if you if you want it. 731 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 3: Honey, Okay. 732 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 2: So look, I said this about you last season that 733 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,240 Speaker 2: I did feel like your personal story was super strong 734 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 2: because it reminded me of the early days of Candy, 735 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 2: like I said earlier, in the sense of working with 736 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 2: your husband and the family and your your mom is 737 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 2: fan fantastic television, and it reminded me of like the 738 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:31,840 Speaker 2: great Mama Joys and getting I'll say this, I felt 739 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 2: like you were bringing the old school Atlanta Housewives personal 740 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 2: story back to the show in terms of what it 741 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:45,240 Speaker 2: looks like for a family dynamic because of some listen, 742 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 2: no shade, but some of these women are older and 743 00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 2: they don't have a robust family with young kids. So 744 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 2: for us to see that from you, I felt was 745 00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 2: super strong. And I what I would want more from you, 746 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 2: if I can say this to you, is I want 747 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 2: to see more of that. I listen, my opinion, I 748 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 2: could care less about your relationship with the girls to 749 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 2: a degree, I really am invested in you and Ross 750 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 2: and what you guys are talking about and what you 751 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,839 Speaker 2: have going on. I really want to see more with 752 00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 2: you and your mom, and I want to see your 753 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 2: mom around the girls more. When I met your mom 754 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 2: in person, first of all, your mom. 755 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 1: Is a baddie. 756 00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 2: And I feel like the beauty of Atlanta housewise was 757 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 2: there was always that specialness when it came to the moms. 758 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,320 Speaker 2: And because we haven't seen Mama Joyce in a while, 759 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 2: who's an icon and a legend herself, I would love 760 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 2: to see your mom more and I would love to 761 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 2: see more of what you and Ross are talking about, 762 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 2: because I feel like when you have these marital relationships, 763 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 2: that's what we want to see. And I feel like 764 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 2: you're getting your footwear, and when I'm. 765 00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 1: Watching you, I feel like. 766 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,799 Speaker 2: I feel like you'd be thinking, like what is going 767 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 2: on here? Like is this really happening? Or like when 768 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 2: Kenya stormed out to her room child in Alabama and 769 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 2: on the speakerphone, she said, y'all can go, and you said. 770 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,560 Speaker 1: I will leave. I don't have to be here. 771 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 2: So I do feel like sometimes you're like, are y'all 772 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 2: putting on? Or what is really happening here? Because I 773 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,360 Speaker 2: don't navigate this way, So I would just say, you know, 774 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 2: let's see more because I feel like you're trying to 775 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 2: figure these girls out. And I get it because there 776 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 2: are fifteen seasons and I feel like girl focused on 777 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 2: showing us the personal story because I do feel like 778 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:44,600 Speaker 2: I want to see more personal story. 779 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 3: I love that and I mean that we can deliver on. 780 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 4: So thank you for that note, and I'll, you know, 781 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 4: definitely want to incorporate more and hopefully next season, you know, 782 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 4: Ross will be more put you know, staying in the 783 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,200 Speaker 4: house more and so we can do more of that, 784 00:37:58,239 --> 00:37:59,239 Speaker 4: So I appreciate it. 785 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: Okay, question. 786 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:07,360 Speaker 2: If you had a magic wand yes, and you're looking 787 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 2: at this show for next season, and if someone came 788 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 2: to you a Genie in a bottle, not Christina Aguileras 789 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,600 Speaker 2: Genie in the bottle, because that was about some nest child, 790 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,680 Speaker 2: a real genie in a bottle. 791 00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:19,880 Speaker 1: And they said, Okay. 792 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,399 Speaker 2: Sonya, you're able to cast the women around you who 793 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:27,760 Speaker 2: you want to move forward with. Who are five women 794 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:32,239 Speaker 2: that you would love to be on a season with? 795 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:37,320 Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's a that's a good that's a good one. 796 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:44,320 Speaker 3: So obviously I bring back my girl Marlowe. So Marlowe 797 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 3: and Chara. 798 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,240 Speaker 4: So five though, because that makes it shouldn't it be six? 799 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 1: Well you're six, it's you plus five. 800 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:59,200 Speaker 3: Okay, So me, marlow Chare uh huh oh man. 801 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 2: Any House White, past, present, future. 802 00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,240 Speaker 4: But I'm thinking, I'm like, I've been on with Candy 803 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 4: and Kenya, so I feel like I've you know, experienced them. 804 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 3: So do I bring them back or do I bring 805 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 3: on somebody new? 806 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:16,959 Speaker 4: So I always thought Phaedra was a wots so I think, 807 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 4: you know, it'd be cool to film with Phaedra. Even 808 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 4: though I know Candy and Phaedra won't film, so that 809 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:24,920 Speaker 4: means I have to leave Candy off for next time. 810 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring her back. 811 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 1: I bring her back for season twenty okay. 812 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 3: And and Porsche. 813 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,400 Speaker 2: Oh okay, Yeah, that's a good list. 814 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,920 Speaker 1: That's a good list. Is that so? Yeah? So it's 815 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,359 Speaker 1: yeah you so you plus five? 816 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:49,320 Speaker 2: So that's Marlowe, Charae, Phaedra, I get one more more. 817 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 3: So I would bring back Dangs. 818 00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 4: So who else is somebody that's from the past that 819 00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 4: I would love to film with? 820 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 2: Because you have have Deshaun Snow, Lisa will Niani, Leeks, Kim, 821 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 2: Zoe Ziak, Claudia Jordan Shamari, the Claudia Claudia Claudia. 822 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,520 Speaker 1: Okay, there you go. See that wasn't so bad. 823 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 3: I wasn't one last question. 824 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you go. I know you're busy. Do 825 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 1: you know who Tamra Judge is. 826 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, she's one of the housewives. 827 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 2: Right of Orange County. Yes, she did an interview recently 828 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 2: and they asked her which housewife shod be put on 829 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 2: Pauls And she said, you why why? 830 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 1: She hadn't know me? 831 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 2: She said, as she's watching this show she thinks you're 832 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,880 Speaker 2: a nice girl, but she had to choose anybody she 833 00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,360 Speaker 2: would choose to put you on pause? 834 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,719 Speaker 3: Is she still is she still on the show? 835 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: She was on Pauls but now she's bad. 836 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 3: Uh, well she she should go like a pause, tune in. 837 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:56,520 Speaker 3: People don't know what they won't. People don't know what 838 00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 3: they won't. 839 00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,800 Speaker 1: Okay, and you're saying that includes housewives saw. 840 00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,440 Speaker 3: The dynamic to the show, that it is what it is. 841 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, well sonya, thank you so 842 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 2: much for coming on Reality with the King, and I 843 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 2: am going to continue watching the show, and I want 844 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,719 Speaker 2: you to follow my bodies. We want to see you 845 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 2: and Ross mamm We want to see and listen, listen, listen. 846 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 2: I know it's not your control what's get shown, so 847 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 2: trust me, I get that, but I speak for the 848 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 2: congregation and just know that that's our biggest request. We 849 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 2: want to see more of that. 850 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 4: All right, Well, I appreciate that. Thanks for having me, Carlos, 851 00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 4: was a pleasure. 852 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to Reality with the King. 853 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:47,839 Speaker 2: New episodes drop every Tuesday, Share, comment, follow, and subscribe 854 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 2: to Reality with the King. 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