1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all all suit giving them like the million 3 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: buck things in the stubs. Stood it? Steve listening to 4 00:00:25,000 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: the other for st Please, I don't join jot. Turn 5 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: you go. You gotta turn to turnout. Turn You lon't 6 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: got the turnout to turn turn the water the water 7 00:01:48,000 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: got me? Come come on your thing? Huh I show? 8 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: Well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice? 9 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 1: Come on dig me NW one and only Steve Harvey 10 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: got a radio show today? Is it? Everybody? On a 11 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: real positive note? Today? Is it? Today? Is the day? 12 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: You know, when I was in high school, you know, 13 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: my mother was a Sunday school teaching until she passed. 14 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: I would walk out the door every morning on my 15 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: way to school, and my mother used to say, listen 16 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 1: to me, son, hey, don't forget. Today is the day 17 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and be 18 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: glad in it. And you know, I ain't think much 19 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 1: of it. You know, it's just my mama being religious, 20 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: you know, my spiritual woman. So you know I just 21 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: took it as that. But as I've gotten older, man, 22 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: you know that's registered more and more with me. Today 23 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: is the day that the Lord has made. Let us 24 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: rejoice and be glad in it. That's pretty cool, man. 25 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: What better blessing will you get throughout the day than 26 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: the fact that he allowed you to live and see 27 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: another day? See sometimes, man, when you're young, you don't 28 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: pay no attention to that. But all you got to 29 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: do is keep living, keep watching some people that you 30 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: know not be here anymore. Go to class reunions and 31 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: they're smaller. See people that you really loved. It meant 32 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: a lot till you leave this world, and all of 33 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: a sudden, man, immortality starts to matter a great deal 34 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: to you. Some of us learned this lesson sooner than others. 35 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: But I know, when you're young, man, you know you 36 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: think you're gonna be here for a while. You think 37 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: you got time to play around, You think you got 38 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: time to get it together, you got time to make 39 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: the mistakes. And but man, oh man, almost every full 40 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: blown adult that I know will tell you and have 41 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: said these words right here many times. And I would 42 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: see the reason I'm saying this because I want you 43 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: to hear them, because you're gonna use them. If I 44 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: only knew then what I know. Now. Do you know 45 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: how many people have said those words right there? Because 46 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: in time, man, you gain so much wisdom. Oh but 47 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: it ain't like nobody didn't tell you though. Somebody told 48 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: you back then. Hey man, it's best to buckle down now, 49 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: he said, Hey man, you better quit wasting time. Hey, look, 50 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: do your best at all the times. You know, stop 51 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: stop worrying about that. I'm telling you, son, in a minute, 52 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: them clubs ain't gonna mean nothing to you. In a minute, 53 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: they're going out all the time, ain't gonna mean nothing 54 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 1: to you. I can't tell you how many times I 55 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: repeat it to my kids. But man, today is a 56 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: different day, because today is the day that the Lord 57 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: is made. So he gave you a shot today. If 58 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: you woke up this morning, or if you're finishing your 59 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: day on your shift, he gave you a new day. 60 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: Nothing bigger than the fact that he woke you up today. Now, 61 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: why don't you do something about that? Why don't you 62 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: take advantage of it? How About if you start today? 63 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: How About if you stop hesitating today. How About if 64 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: you stop delaying it today? How about if you stop 65 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: procrastinating today. How About if you make today to day 66 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: that you go forward. I mean, man, let's all just 67 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: decide today, let's go forward. Let's put forth a maximum 68 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: effort today. I mean really, and what you're doing you look, man, 69 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: take advantage of this blessing of waking up, do something 70 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: to day. If you would just start the process, man, 71 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: start that business you always dreamed of. Go looking to 72 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 1: that other job you always yearn for. Go get the 73 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: training you need to get the promotion. Man, going back 74 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: to school. Man, go see what you need to do 75 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: to lift yourself to the next level. Stop waking up 76 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: every day seeing high it's gonna go, and start waking 77 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,919 Speaker 1: up and do something about how it goes. If you 78 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. But you could people 79 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 1: talk about all the time, Man, it seemed like you're 80 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: always getting a blessing. Oh man, when you're talking to 81 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: a person, Listen to this. If you're talking to a 82 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 1: person and it seems like there's always a blessing coming 83 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: his way, let me tell you what that person doing. 84 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: That person is putting one foot in front of the next. 85 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: That person is putting forth some efforts out there. And 86 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: that's the only way God can bless you. God can 87 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: only bless you with your efforts. He can only put 88 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: his finger on the thing that you are doing all attempting. 89 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: That's all he can help you with. He that are 90 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: no jobs walking up to your door, knocking on your door. 91 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: But if you're beating the payment, if you're sitting in 92 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 1: the apps, if you own line, scouring somewhere to work, 93 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: somewhere to get a job, then God can touch somebody's 94 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: hard to hire you. But if you're sitting at the 95 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 1: house every day, smoke everyday, drinking, But you wonder why 96 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: you just can't get a job. The a couple of 97 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: times you don't want out there, you got to If 98 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: you ain't got a job, you gotta go get one 99 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: every day. You got to go look for one every 100 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: single day. You can't take no days off. How about today? 101 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 1: How about today? If we decide today is a day 102 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 1: that we're gonna make the move. Today is the day 103 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 1: that we stop delaying, hesitating, procrastinating. Today is today that 104 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: we take a step in the direction to do something 105 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: for ourselves, for our lives, for our family, for our wives, 106 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: for our children, for our community, for our school. Do 107 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: something today, for crying out loud, man, stop sitting in 108 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 1: your own life. In just a stew of misery in 109 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: your own life. I'm gonna tell you something. If you 110 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: are in a state of confusion, if you are troubling, 111 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: if you're stuck on what to do next, you let 112 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: me tell you what's happening. You're not doing enough. That's 113 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 1: what it is. Man. See what I get in a 114 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: place man, where I don't know what the next move is. 115 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: It's because I'd unusually stalled out. See, this is the 116 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: way God works. This is the way He's worked for me. 117 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: Every time I'm busy and I'm about the business of 118 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: always trying to live my creed, which is ABC. My 119 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: motto is ABC always be closing. I'm always working on something, 120 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: something to close something. When you're so busy with the 121 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: business of improving yourself and doing with yourself and becoming 122 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: the best you you can be, God is always working 123 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: on your behalf behind some scene of something that you're 124 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: in the process of tempting to close. But because you're 125 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: not doing all you can do, you're limiting you. You 126 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: are because if your decision not to give you all 127 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: in all, you're limiting the opportunities for God to put 128 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: his finger on things and touch them on your behalf. 129 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: I don't know if the average person really understands or 130 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: knows what it takes to truly be successful on whatever 131 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: level you're talking about. But whatever that level is, I 132 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: don't care what a dollar amount you've got attached to it, 133 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: what level you've got if you have made the decision 134 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: that you're going to be successful. I think that a 135 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: lot of people, the average person does not know what 136 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 1: that means. Whatever level you've decided to be successful on. See, 137 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: that's your level of faith, that's where you see your 138 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: life at. Well, guess what you got to maximize your 139 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 1: efforts to even get to that level. So listen to me. 140 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 1: If you want to be successful at your church, if 141 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: you want to be successful in your relationship, if you 142 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 1: want to be successful down at the day, listen, if 143 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: you want to be successful at your college, if you 144 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: want to be successful on your job, guess what it's 145 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: gonna take all you got in that world to become 146 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: a success. I don't know why people think that if 147 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: you don't want to be what somebody else said, you 148 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: ain't got to put forth that effort, Nana, I ain't wrong. 149 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: You've got to put forth your maximum effort at whatever 150 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: role you're trying to accomplish. Lord, have mercy. Man. How 151 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: about today, though, y'all, how about today today as a 152 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: good one. Let's make today today. Let's get out of that. 153 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: Let's get on with it. Stop hesitating, stop delaying, stop procrastinating, 154 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: start today. Watch God have something to put his finger 155 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: on there. And that's all you're trying to do. Man, 156 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: to line yourself up with God's grace, you got to 157 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: put out a lot of effort so God can put 158 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 1: his finger on something. You feel me today, I shall 159 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: hope you do, because I'm on one today. Let's go. 160 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, Let's get at it. This 161 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 1: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The tunes is up. 162 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: I've already done it. I expressed my gratitude to my 163 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: heavily Father. It immediately changed my attitude about the morning 164 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: I was having. So now there's nothing left but the 165 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: third two. I expect to soar today, to glide today, 166 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: to reach new heights today. My altitude is guaranteed because 167 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: I started with my gratitude, which affected my attitude, which 168 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: is now in direct correlation with my altitude. Man, thank 169 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: you Lord for that. I do appreciate it. This show 170 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: is full of stars, ladies and gentlemen. Shirley Strawberry calling 171 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: for real mouth at the South Mississippi, Monica Junior. His 172 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 1: government name is Killed Spates and the legend of nephew 173 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 1: termmy well Junior. Yeah, all weekend huh full weekend yesterday 174 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: yesterday off was Jude Teeth. You know, we celebrated Jude Teah. 175 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 1: I just think about it. It was two years later 176 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: when they got the word out in Texas. Would you 177 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: would have been mad as you was a slave two 178 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:20,439 Speaker 1: years later? Well, I would have been grateful about that. 179 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm free. But yeah, once I understood the timeline, whoever 180 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 1: it was that said over timeline Steve we we free? Now, 181 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: whoever that was that tapped me on the should like, 182 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: I'd have probably had a slave name like Stephanope what 183 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: free now? Now? The one after I just I would 184 00:11:55,720 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: have been overjoyed. Yeah, me and me and C would 185 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: have celebrated stefine me and would have celebrated. But after 186 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 1: at the end of the party that night, when we're 187 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 1: sitting up drinking a moon and shine, if I got 188 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 1: the yeah I was, I had been making that cause Yeah, 189 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: so after I got to drinking and I found out 190 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: the timeline. Yeah, out of beat, Cefas asked, I don't 191 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: know what this to year weight was you took getting 192 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 1: over here. That ain't that damn far. I tell it, 193 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 1: take you two years. You can't run no faster than that. Yeah, 194 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: we found good news. I'll be back in a minute. 195 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: Yeah we're from Africa. We got all the top marathon 196 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: runners that your ass over here then walking stopped being 197 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: fishing them and going to parties and stuff party and 198 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: on the way we free having freedom parties for two 199 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 1: years to get here. For real, dog, I've been yes, 200 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: it's really You've been parties, freedom party. I've been having 201 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: freedom parties on the way to Texas. I've been over 202 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: this hot ass son. Not now you won't hell holiday 203 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Stephanel and see coming up in 204 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, we're gonna start the 205 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: show off with the nephew and run that prank back. 206 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to show. It is time 207 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 1: now to start your morning off with the nephew and 208 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:52,719 Speaker 1: run that prank back. What you got for us now, 209 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say it, but one time you in 210 00:13:54,960 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: my house. Let's go can Hey, this is uh, this Preston. 211 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: Where y'all. Where did y'all lead a kid at? I'm 212 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: about two hours out? You got wrong? On? Bro? Call 213 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 1: him back? Yeah? Is this Troy? Yeah? This Troy? Who there? 214 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 1: I'm Preston. Man. Listen, I'm on my way to the house. 215 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: I'm about two hours out. Where did y'all lead a 216 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: kid at? Man? Oh? Way, you let me get up 217 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: on your way to what? Hell? I'm on my way there? 218 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: Are you at? You at the house? I'm at my house? Yeah? 219 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 1: What what did you say? Your name was? This is Preston? 220 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: I uh okay, okay, hold on, man, I don't understand. Okay, 221 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: I'm on my way to the house. What house? Does 222 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: my question? What has you coming out? Okay? You are 223 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 1: you at six and Woods Drive? Yeah? That's my house? Okay, 224 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: I don't understand that. All right, so listen, I'm I'm 225 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: about two hours out, man. I got two U haul 226 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: trucks were in route there. We'll be there about two hours. 227 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: But I thought y'all went out of the house by 228 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 1: now I'm kind of see where the kid at. Get 229 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: what had? What what you say? You? You? You got 230 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: to you hall? Trust what what you got? What you got? Tim? 231 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: Fuck was it wasn't there? I'm moving into the house. 232 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: I bought the house. You you're moving in the white Okay, 233 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 1: how you don't know? I bought the house man, well 234 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: had way? What the house you talking about? You on 235 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: Woods Drive? That's I bought this house from tids there. 236 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Ti Ti yeah yeah yeah, Tith there. That's 237 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: that's what. That's where we that's where we got the 238 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: house from what you say you about the house? Okay, 239 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: wait a minute, you leased the house from kids there? Right, yeah, yeah, 240 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: we're right right. We stood out about another year lesson 241 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: our least. We we we ain't at this house for 242 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: another year. I mean, and we supposed to renew that. Okay, okay, 243 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: we got a problem. Let me let me try to Okay, 244 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: y we play. I'm let me get my wife on. 245 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: I need to get my wife on the phone. Well, 246 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on a minute. Okay, So 247 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: now tis there tell me that y'all supposed to be 248 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 1: at the house, and I'm calling because he said y'all 249 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: gonna leave the key in a certain place. It's not 250 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: likely live till ain't tell you know, like I mean, 251 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: let me get kicked deal on the phone. Such because 252 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: because how we how do you he ain't man, we 253 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: ain't hear nothing about no selling to no house or 254 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: no nothing like that. Okay, well I didn't. I didn't 255 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: balk the house from Tisdale. And I'm I'm like I said, 256 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: I'm I'm two hours out. I might get there a 257 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: little quicker. How soon do you think y'all gonna get 258 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: the stuff? Get yall stuff out the house? Heah, what stuff? 259 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: I want house? Y'all gonna have to get yall stuff 260 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: out the house? Get what stuff? Did you a ga 261 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: a lot of day you think we're gonna get we 262 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 1: we we we look like I said, man, we need 263 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: to get Tisdale on the phone and get this cleared up. 264 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you bring up. You all trucks 265 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: as you want to, y'all bet to take out back 266 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: where you come from. I tell you that after you 267 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 1: that ain't listen, man, listen the mistake First of all, 268 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 1: you arguing with me about my house. That's my house. 269 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: I'm no, no, no, no, see now I'm at to 270 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: see now you yab, i'ma tell you. I'm gonna tell 271 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: you like I like like I'm gonna tell Tisdale, ain't 272 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: none of this ain't going down the way you think 273 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: it's gonn go down. You know I'm staying. We signed 274 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: the leaf being this house for years. I mean, that's 275 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. We're gonna be in this house 276 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:09,159 Speaker 1: for a hope. Yeah, you ain't over yea, so you 277 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: might get yourself own the house no more I owned 278 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: the house. You got to get your stop. Man. I'm 279 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: two hours out here, mantle man. We look, let listen 280 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: to me. Now, listen, we didn't been in this house 281 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 1: five years. Okay, we got one year nothing this house. Okay. Look, 282 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 1: ain't gonna be no moving end to day. We can't. 283 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: I can't move my man. I got wife, I got 284 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 1: kids in man. I look, I'm teeth. I'm teeth. It's 285 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: like it's Slay said, you got you. We gotta talk Tisdale. 286 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: But I'm telling you, man, you pull up today and 287 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 1: you haul I swear so a little. I'm gonna I'm 288 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: gonna whoop your untilue you and you don't call me 289 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 1: with all this. Ain't got no notice or nothing, gauds 290 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:51,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, you ain't ain't we ain't talk. Ain't 291 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 1: got at one time agree with me name. I'm saying, okay, 292 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,360 Speaker 1: well that swing you and tids there. But right nah, 293 00:17:57,400 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm on my way to my house and you got 294 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 1: to get shown. No, you're on your way to my house. 295 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,399 Speaker 1: I tell you if you if you know, no, you 296 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,400 Speaker 1: came to my house. You're gonna get your hands the tea. 297 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: Let me let me say that. Where is your kids? 298 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: Your is your wife and kids there right now? They 299 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: at church? Where you wants me to be okay, okay? 300 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: Is in a room? And what's in the garage? In 301 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 1: a room in the garage? Can you move out your stuff? 302 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,919 Speaker 1: What's garage? You're raggedy like I just told you. You 303 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: pull up to my house, I'll be something funny. You're 304 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: moving in this man, get you. You're getting your black 305 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: blue and ain't going when you come, make me do it? 306 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: You come, make me do it. Move out of my 307 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 1: house today. What's in my garage? But what's in yogarade? 308 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,479 Speaker 1: Do you tell me that what's in yogade? I'm I'm 309 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: gonna allowing you to do this. Move all your stuff 310 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: into the garage. I'm gonna allow you to get your 311 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 1: wom saying what I'm saying. So so I see, I 312 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 1: see now, I see now you won't yap in front 313 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: of your wife and kids. I see so you're gonna 314 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 1: with my should that what you're gonna do. I'll tell 315 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: you what if you bring them, you holls, you bring 316 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,679 Speaker 1: your wife, your kids? It's your dog. Ain't you ranny 317 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: about it? I won't call your right him in front 318 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: of It's not your house, it's not I bought. I 319 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: bought the house from I'm telling a look, I tell 320 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 1: you what you need me right in front of y'all. 321 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 1: I'm be right out here, stay and I'm gonna whop 322 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: your into my rope and my house shoes. How about that? 323 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: Donna kill me to move out my house? And I 324 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: tell you you better call kids. He didn't because you 325 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 1: don't need told me to tell you what you mean? 326 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: What you say? Do you know what these tids there 327 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: told me to tell you? I see you one that 328 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me whatever kids there told me about. 329 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:33,120 Speaker 1: I tell you one, they ain't moving out my house today. 330 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 1: I'm telling you that right now. Ain't gonna be no 331 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,199 Speaker 1: moving out here. He said, what tids there told you 332 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: to tay? I'm gonna tell you to hear what tids 333 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,199 Speaker 1: there told me to tell you. Tear them told me 334 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 1: to tell you that this is neph You tied me 335 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvy Morning showed Troy your wife, and 336 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: tids there got me the brank phone, call you this 337 00:19:52,760 --> 00:20:03,159 Speaker 1: one book, this some this some book, and then I 338 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: put my pains on boos. I'm waiting. I'm sitting right 339 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 1: here in my living room looking at the You all 340 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 1: to pull it up because I sho gonna tear five 341 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 1: from your man. I can't go back to sweep now. 342 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: You don't got me fired up? Hey, s I gotta 343 00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 1: ask you for our go man. What is the baddest 344 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 1: and I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the lane, 345 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: Steve Harvest Morning Show. Ain't bad nah, I'm go ahead. 346 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: Coming up next to this, ask the CLLO with the 347 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building, ready for 348 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:43,639 Speaker 1: your love questions. Right after this, you're listening to the 349 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of 350 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: the hour and Entertainment News. Juneteenth, a global celebration of 351 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: freedom at the Hollywood Bowl was star studded. We'll talk 352 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: about that and then other entertainment news, Martin Lawrence is 353 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: getting it to her on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, 354 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 1: and Carla has some music news about Drake's new album. 355 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,880 Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 356 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: of the hour, but right now it is time to 357 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 1: ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, Ready for you. 358 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: Gilanni in Tennessee writes, I'm a single mother of Gilanni. 359 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: I'm a single mother of a fourteen year old that 360 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: wants to dye her hair blonde and put blue streaks 361 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: in it. I can't control what other parents do, but 362 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: I don't want my daughter looking like she's in a 363 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: rock band. How do I tell her that without her 364 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 1: wanting to rebel? Oh, you're not dying your hair? See 365 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: what happened to that? Simple as that? What happened to that? 366 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: At fourteen? Don't pay rent, ain't got money for dad? 367 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 1: What happened to that? Got to use my sink to dad? 368 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 1: You have? Well? What happened to that? I'm just you're 369 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: not dying your damn hair. They're going there and mils, 370 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 1: sorry dad at ass? Thank you a blue and blond ass? 371 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:17,880 Speaker 1: Don't parents? Come on all right? Christy and Arlington Virginia. 372 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: He says, I'm a thirty five year old married woman 373 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: and I went on a girls trip with women who 374 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,639 Speaker 1: are unhappily married. They were on the trip looking for 375 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,119 Speaker 1: an experience with other men. At the hotel, I realized 376 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: I have nothing in common with my three girlfriends. Do 377 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: I cut them off? Or do I keep them and 378 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 1: avoid future girls trips? Well, you know, look, nobody's perfect. 379 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: If you want some perfect friends, you're not gonna have none. 380 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: Just avoid the girls trips. You don't do what they do. 381 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 1: They are unhappy. It's a lot of unhappy people in 382 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: marriage is out there and they're gonna seek things outside 383 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: of marriage. If that's what they're doing, let them go ahead. 384 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: But that ain't you, you know, disassociate yourself from that 385 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: part of it. But if you keep hanging with them, 386 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: association brains on participation and so like. That's why I 387 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: have learned a none of my friends single. No, so 388 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: all my friends is married, most of them got grandkids. Okay, 389 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: I mean my friends because I've just figured it out. 390 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: I just let me hang with these dudes and do 391 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 1: what I do. That way, ain't nobody bringing no extra 392 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: into the crowd. No, trouble. You know, nobody in our 393 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 1: group does harrowing, so that for haling is not an option. 394 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying? Just trying to help 395 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 1: you understand the degree of different that. That's the example. 396 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm usual. I need your undivided attention, but we got 397 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 1: it when you first said it, all right. Moving on 398 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: to Constance in Florida. Constance says it recently starts working 399 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: from home and my husband works from home too. The 400 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: other day, while I was on a video call, I 401 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: forgot to turn my mic off and my co workers 402 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:13,160 Speaker 1: heard my husband ask me for a very explicit sexual baby. 403 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: My boss and my co workers are cool, but I 404 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 1: was mortified. How do I recover from it? Hey? Baby, 405 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: Hey baby, you off that zoom? Come on in hill 406 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 1: something to me. You know, let's match it up, you know, 407 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 1: tit for tat. You know what I did you last night? 408 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: You can't. You can't even You're so nervous. You can't 409 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:57,199 Speaker 1: find your mute button. Rocket. Yeah, every baby, hammertime, baby 410 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 1: baby time doing a little squash buckling coworking and your boss, 411 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: you know, time to get on some of these pides 412 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 1: of the Caribbean. You know what I'm saying, Hey, okay, 413 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: I think we got it. So why does she recover 414 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 1: from it? That's she's as bad. They didn't say let 415 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: it die out. Yeah, just let it die out. Yeah, 416 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,919 Speaker 1: but you don't definitely don't bring it up because they 417 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 1: may not have heard it, because the average person don't 418 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 1: be ready for stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, I know. 419 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,399 Speaker 1: He ain't say yeah. Sounds like he just like that 420 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,919 Speaker 1: they're doing it like that. Thought is she gonna always 421 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: be a member? Remember that time at working? Wow? All right, 422 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 1: moving gone to this is our last one. Steve Terry 423 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: in the Bay Area says, I think my husband may 424 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: be cheating on me because he it's his car washed 425 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: every week, and he started taking a shower at night 426 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: and in the morning and wearing clean boxes to work 427 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: daily when he used to wear them almost two full 428 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 1: days before he changed. He changed his cloan too, He 429 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 1: changed his clan. What's up with him? There's nothing up 430 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 1: with him. Most like a clean car, said nothing that cheats. 431 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: Do most men like a clean car. Most men. If 432 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,880 Speaker 1: you're gonna wear a clean car, he liked clean draws. 433 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: Come on, you know, he just started changing and he 434 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: and he just started showering at night. And in the morning. 435 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 1: What what? What? Where? Where is cheating that? In this 436 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: it's hot? But you know when when when they change 437 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,879 Speaker 1: like that, when they change their behavior, that it's not 438 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:56,719 Speaker 1: always changing something. Oh ladies, something he's changing. He's growing up. 439 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: He's maturing. Somebody saying something to men work. Damn you 440 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 1: stak somebody because you're cheating. Somebody sitting down a man. 441 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,680 Speaker 1: You smell Harold yesterday And Harold was standing right there 442 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:17,680 Speaker 1: talking about me. See it could be anything. Where you 443 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 1: got cheating from. He ain't missing from home. The money 444 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: you ain't missing. No money at the house. You ain't found, 445 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: no explicit text, He ain't off to the side talking 446 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: on the phone. He clean he's cleaner now, So why 447 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: didn't he turn that into the cheetah? He changed his cologne. 448 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: I told you, somebody down there, said Harold stank. I 449 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: thought you man, because he didn't change his underwear. Well, 450 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: how I trying to figure out everything now? Is you 451 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 1: draws this cologne? He changed his whole site, taking two 452 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 1: showers night and day. It's hot. Why is he cheating? Though? 453 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 1: Where's cheating it? When a man changes his behavior like that, 454 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: that's what a lot of women think. He must be 455 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 1: changed and doing all this for another woman. That's what 456 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: how women think. Yeah, let's just celebrate the fact he's 457 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: shoping and under right there he used to wear for 458 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: two full day. Why jaws ain't even that explicit? The 459 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:35,120 Speaker 1: rest of you working and you gotta washing machine man. Yeah, wow, goodness. 460 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 1: All right, so you're saying it doesn't he's growing up, 461 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 1: he's maturing. He's not. Why she does? Does she want 462 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 1: a problem? Okay, all right, Celo, Chief Love Officer, thank you. 463 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 464 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening 465 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: show Steve Earthwinden, Fire, Shaka Khan, Jill Scott, Anthony Hamilton, 466 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: Mary Mary, the Roots, Belle Bib, Devo, Neo, Yelanda Adams, 467 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: Mickey Guidon, and Moore performed at the Juneteenth, a Global 468 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 1: Celebration of Freedom at the Hollywood Bowl in Los Angeles 469 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: over the weekend. Shout out to the event's musical director, 470 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: of course Love. President Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris 471 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 1: also appeared in a recorded message celebrating the holiday, as 472 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:34,040 Speaker 1: did former First Lady Michelle Obama, who called on people 473 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: to vote so It was a huge celebration for Juneteenth. 474 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 1: You know, people are getting into it now. You know, 475 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: we have this holiday, let's celebrate it, let you know 476 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: about what's going on. And it was just really something 477 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 1: to see. Just a huge celebration and thoughtful messages as well. 478 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: Jill Scott gave a powerful poem. Yeah I'm not reading 479 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: reading yeah, yeah, I'm not used to it yet. I 480 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 1: haven't quite locked in on the chat. So it kind 481 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: of crept up on me and I didn't realize it 482 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 1: was here because it was right at Father's Day weekend 483 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: and it was my mentoring camp, so it kind of 484 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: just crept up on me. I didn't even know what 485 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 1: it was, you know, mist this year, be honest with you, 486 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 1: I just had a lot, you know, Father's Day and 487 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: stuff like that, great celebration. I've been doing God's work, 488 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: helping young men. Mentoring campus is all part of it. 489 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: It's all good. Yeah. Yeah. Well. In other entertainment news, 490 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: we have to say congratulations going out to Martin Lawrence, 491 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 1: Charlie Wilson, Ludicrous, Lenny Kravitz, Sheila E and Melbourne Moore. 492 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 1: They will all be receiving a star on the Hollywood 493 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 1: Walk of Fame next year. No date has been set 494 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 1: yet for the ceremony, so congratulations early though. And speaking 495 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: of Martin, he recently appeared on Jimmy Kimmel and jokingly 496 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 1: said that if his daughter Jasmine Lawrence tied the knot 497 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: with Eddie Murphy's son Eric Murphy, that he's sending the 498 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 1: wedding bill to Eddie. You know, they've been for a minute. 499 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: The two have been dating for a while. But Martin 500 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,760 Speaker 1: said um that he and Eddie stay out of their kids' business. 501 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: That that's really really cool. Yeah. Yeah, but it's hard 502 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: to say that Martin Lawrence doesn't have a star from Martin. Yeah, 503 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 1: I think he's I don't know, I think he's seems 504 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 1: like he's just being recognized almost for for that groundbreaking 505 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 1: show you know and everything, and we love it so much. 506 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: But it seems like people are still discovering Martin, you know, 507 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: the show and all the I mean, he broke so 508 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 1: many records and just did so much you know, movies, yeah, movies, 509 00:31:52,200 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: and yeah, Steve, he got classics. It's nothing wrong. I mean, 510 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: it's it's everybody gets it in the in the due time, 511 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 1: in due time, you know, everybody gets it. In the 512 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 1: due time. You know, some people have people pushing forward 513 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: a little bit harder than others. Of course, I think 514 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: he's definitely worthy of one by long shot, by long 515 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: shot major stars. So yeah, but you know, it happens 516 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: in due time. It just depends on who's pushing for 517 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 1: you know, some people push harder than others. I mean, 518 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 1: and it's not you that can get it done. There's 519 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 1: got to be a committee of people that go to 520 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: the committee and then they start their research and see 521 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 1: who you are and everybody you know. M On his reunion, 522 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 1: Snoop said he really owed Martin a debt of gratitude 523 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: because he put him out there on The Martin Show 524 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 1: and then Joe to see Junior, you know, and they 525 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: were on the Martin Show and Martin came in and 526 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 1: was singing with Jody. See like he said, he didn't 527 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: even tell them. They didn't even know that he was 528 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:14,280 Speaker 1: gonna do that. Joe remember that. Yes, he said, they 529 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 1: didn't even know that. But anyway, singing of musical people, Carlor, 530 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 1: you're here with today's musical news. What you got, Well, 531 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: let me tell y'all. You know, Drake dropped an album 532 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 1: over the weekend and people are hating it. It was 533 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 1: just seventh solo album. It's called honestly never Mind, and 534 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: some people are really really hating it is getting a 535 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: lot of mixed reviews. It's a different sound for Drake, 536 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,200 Speaker 1: and I listened to a few tracks on it. It 537 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 1: has this club house music sound to it, so I 538 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: like it though. I like that kind of sound. Do 539 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: you know what it reminds me of? You know how 540 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 1: one week you go to like a hotel and we 541 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 1: hear that music playing in the background, especially like we're 542 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 1: over in France. It's just a different house sound. But 543 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: it's cool, Like I enjoyed it, Drake. He did address 544 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: the negative response. He said, it's all good if you 545 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,840 Speaker 1: don't get it yet. Talking to this fans, this is 546 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 1: what we do. Well, wait for you to catch up. 547 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 1: Yeah we didn't hit though, we didn't. We caught it already. Yeah. Yeah. 548 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 1: I think people don't like change, yea. And once you 549 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: get creative and innovative, and it takes a lot of 550 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,759 Speaker 1: people because they just like what they like, you know, 551 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: they want to trust what they've been trusted. So I 552 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,320 Speaker 1: haven't heard it. I ain't heard number six five for 553 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:53,359 Speaker 1: a Yeah, Drake but clearly Drake don't need me at 554 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,879 Speaker 1: all to know who he is, Nor could Drake give 555 00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: a damn about me in my opinion of his needs. 556 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,879 Speaker 1: I just like him as a person. Yeah, I don't really, 557 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,799 Speaker 1: you know, we don't need to do no more. Day 558 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 1: remixes the nerves winging five. So I tell you who 559 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:24,360 Speaker 1: I do know, Champagne Poppy. Though I love low response, 560 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 1: though I love his response to it, I love his 561 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 1: flap back. All right, coming up in twenty minutes after 562 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: the hour, Thank you, Carla. Today's primary election day, and 563 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: herschel Walker is now publicly discussing his other three children. 564 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to 565 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:55,279 Speaker 1: morning show. Well, there's a lot at stake with midterms 566 00:35:55,360 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: this November, as you already know, attention voters. To day, 567 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:04,120 Speaker 1: there are primaries in Virginia, the district of Columbia, and 568 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: runoff elections in Alabama and in Georgia. Now, speaking of Georgia, Republicans, 569 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: Senate candidate herschel Walker recently said that he has never 570 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: denied any of his children. But if you recall, Walker 571 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,239 Speaker 1: said he was the father to only one child, and 572 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 1: then he complained about children being raised in fatherless homes 573 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:30,319 Speaker 1: in the black community, but recently he admitted to having 574 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 1: three secret children and said he has never denied the 575 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 1: existence of his four children. That sounds like a contradiction. Yeah, 576 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 1: so he's never denied the existence of his four children, 577 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,839 Speaker 1: three of whom he has never never publicly discussed until now. 578 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,799 Speaker 1: N So, he has four children, but he only claimed one. 579 00:36:56,200 --> 00:37:00,400 Speaker 1: We're here with a new Republican senator candidate, Hersh Walker. 580 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 1: We're on the seat here, mister Walker. There's been all 581 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 1: things have been come to light. Now is it true 582 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: you've only claimed one child? But it turns out there's 583 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: three others, sir. Or they tried. They tried to a cubball. 584 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: The cubball, they tried to each other. These other three 585 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: chillings now they nothing. They always be part. They might 586 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:32,880 Speaker 1: be part of my little I don't know, mister Walker. 587 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:37,720 Speaker 1: Litter sure they might be. Now they might be parts 588 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: of my little But nothing gonna blaify this. Now you're 589 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 1: chilling him. You're chilling him. Ain't saying nothing. All these 590 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,440 Speaker 1: here year, they ain't hit nothing. They're gonna wait. I'm 591 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,480 Speaker 1: up here here running for something, you know what I mean, 592 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 1: here trying to be the bills how I can be, 593 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,320 Speaker 1: and they're gonna show up and try to try to 594 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: try to show let them take something. Mister Walker, this 595 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 1: is not I can tell you right now, sir, this 596 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,319 Speaker 1: is not acceptable behavior coming from a man running from 597 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: the Senate. Do you understand the outcry that's coming from 598 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:13,279 Speaker 1: even the African American community. Let me tell yourself, oak 599 00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:14,920 Speaker 1: tree ain't got nothing to do with the pantry you 600 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 1: talking about. No, we don't. Oak Tree ain't got nothing 601 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 1: to do the panetree. But the pantry won't say something 602 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: when oak Tree say something? You are you kidding me? Sir? 603 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:37,280 Speaker 1: Can you tell us other children's names? Samuel, sam Samuel 604 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: at that board there, and you got a pope, see 605 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 1: the pope see that. That's what child? But but but 606 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 1: what when it comes down to it, the third Roe 607 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: they raised itself and they do the good at raising 608 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,799 Speaker 1: the seal. And sometime you got a little old tell 609 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 1: you a little God's kidding me? Shriek check you we 610 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: got that. We'll be back right after this. But a 611 00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: concrete asphalt, it don't make no difference. You're listening, all right, 612 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 1: so Steve. This past Father's Day weekend was the annual 613 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,880 Speaker 1: of course, Steven Mark Marjorie Harvey Foundation mentoring camp for 614 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,399 Speaker 1: young men. And this was the first in person camp 615 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 1: that you've had in about three years, right because because 616 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: of the pandemic, you've been having them virtually. They've been well. 617 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,800 Speaker 1: Now COVID. COVID took it out, so we're back. We 618 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: had a great weekend. Uh. Uh, two hundred some boys 619 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 1: were there. Wow. Um, we had COVID testing. It was 620 00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 1: all good. We didn't have any outbreaks, were very successful. 621 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 1: The boys were amazing. Uh. You know, it's a lot 622 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,320 Speaker 1: of problems in our community, but uh, you know, we 623 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 1: have counselors there, we have doctors there, we have everybody 624 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,719 Speaker 1: there to handle whatever comes up. But for the most part, man, 625 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: it was a really, really success a weekend. I got 626 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 1: home on Father's Day about four o'clock in the evening, 627 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,799 Speaker 1: you know, so I could have some type of celebration 628 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,840 Speaker 1: as a father myself, But the work that I do 629 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: in my mentoring camp program, and the reason that we 630 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 1: have it that and the graduation is on Father's Day, 631 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,600 Speaker 1: is so that these young men get to be around 632 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,680 Speaker 1: men who love them and been loving on them for 633 00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 1: four days and been having some requirements of them for 634 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:30,239 Speaker 1: four days, and so the culmination of it is on 635 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 1: Father's Day, so that on this Father's Day don't have 636 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: to just sit there and think that they don't have 637 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 1: a father, that they're in a program filled with men 638 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:41,919 Speaker 1: who've been pouring into them for four days. They all 639 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 1: have access to a mentor when they leave the camp. 640 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,919 Speaker 1: So when they leave the camp, they have a phone 641 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:53,120 Speaker 1: number of a mentor, a mentor, junior counselor, or one 642 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 1: of the soldiers who are gonna be able to answer 643 00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: question for them and help guide them through manhood. So 644 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 1: really really successful program this week. Man, we're back. We're 645 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:06,839 Speaker 1: back in action. Next year the program will be held 646 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 1: at the newly acquired UH Legacy Ranch. We're working very 647 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,800 Speaker 1: hard with that. I'm looking forward some assistance though with 648 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,800 Speaker 1: the Legacy Ranch to get it built out on time. 649 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:23,279 Speaker 1: I'm in meetings with Loads about it, Coca Cola about it. 650 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,680 Speaker 1: I'm in meetings with NBA Cares about it. I'm in 651 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 1: meetings with Microsoft. I'm in meetings with Morgan Stanley about it. 652 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm in meetings with having a meeting set up with 653 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: the Michael Jordan Foundation, Robert Smith, Tyler Perry, I'm just 654 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: trying to get some help. You know, I'll be having 655 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:48,000 Speaker 1: these meetings now. But you know, and I think, man, 656 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 1: we have enough responsible and willing to do me and 657 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,320 Speaker 1: in our community that do so many things. Michael Jordan's 658 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:01,279 Speaker 1: Foundation does an amazing amount of work, Tyler Perry does 659 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:05,680 Speaker 1: an amazing amount of philanthropic work, and Robert Smith's camp 660 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,520 Speaker 1: out in Colorado when horses involved in all this for 661 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 1: special needs children and all of that. He has a 662 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: lot of these men are doing some great work. So 663 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,400 Speaker 1: by no means am I calling anybody out, but I 664 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:21,439 Speaker 1: am going to have to call on some people because 665 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't have enough to get it done myself. I 666 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,359 Speaker 1: know what it's gonna really cause to build this place out, 667 00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 1: and I don't have enough. Now. If I do it myself, 668 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,640 Speaker 1: it'll take me longer and I'll eventually get it done. 669 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 1: But I know that there are people out there in 670 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: corporate a miracle who works for corporations, who have dollars 671 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 1: earmarked for people who are trying to change lives and 672 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 1: change minds in our community, and we just got to 673 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 1: take advantage of it and get this done great. I mean, 674 00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 1: the work that you're doing is phenomenal, Steve, And I 675 00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:58,960 Speaker 1: just got to ask you, because you always do any 676 00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 1: stories you want to show anything, you know, I had 677 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 1: a all, you know, let's see, can't I have to 678 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,160 Speaker 1: filter these stories a little bit. I can't just tell 679 00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: him as he is. I had some funny stuff was 680 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,560 Speaker 1: happening out there, and then there's just some boys being 681 00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 1: boys stuff. Whenever you put a couple of hundred boys together, 682 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 1: that testosterone is real, and they got and they got 683 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 1: to get the pecking order in line. Who's the alpha male? 684 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 1: And you know that's got to get figured out. And 685 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 1: when one dude try to be out for mail and 686 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 1: another one thing, he iss got to be some okay, 687 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,920 Speaker 1: some solving the problems. So now I ain't got no 688 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 1: stories I can tell on radios. Plenty of stories, Yeah, 689 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 1: plenty of stories. I just figure out which one I 690 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:50,840 Speaker 1: can tell without somebody that's appalling. Well, Steve, Congratulations for 691 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: the fine work that you do with your mentoring camp 692 00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,960 Speaker 1: every year. We certainly said, especially those of us who 693 00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,520 Speaker 1: have daughters. You know, uh, coming up next, the nephew 694 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 1: is here with today's praying phone call. Right after this 695 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:10,479 Speaker 1: you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour. 696 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for 697 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 1: today and the subject is why can't he cut her loose? 698 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 1: We'll find out why um in just a few but 699 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 1: right now it is time for the nephew and today's 700 00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 1: praying phone call. What you got for us? Nev Are you? 701 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: What are you? What are you crying for? My mama? 702 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 1: He's crying my mom my mama tree, about mother's tree. 703 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 1: My mama made my mama tree, my mama tree. So 704 00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:56,080 Speaker 1: method with his acting. That's that tree. That's that tree. 705 00:44:56,160 --> 00:45:03,399 Speaker 1: We play. I gonna Seco five twenty about thirty thirty 706 00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:10,279 Speaker 1: body part about fifty Ready out o here, that's my mama. 707 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:21,319 Speaker 1: Thank God. Down Hello, man, I speak to Lord. Yea Lord, 708 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 1: this terror who just terry. I'm about ten minutes from 709 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 1: the yard picked dog. This ain't no tear. Look man, 710 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 1: it's this lord that worked for Yes, sir. Listen, you 711 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 1: just came down Clayton Street and hit and tow all 712 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,560 Speaker 1: the limbs off my mama maple tree that's hanging over 713 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,800 Speaker 1: the street. And now she got limbs hanging all in 714 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 1: the street. We got to cut this whole tree down 715 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,400 Speaker 1: because you didn't messed it up, and you were the 716 00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 1: one that just drove through here. Sir, I ain't been 717 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,799 Speaker 1: down Clayton Street today, Sir, say what. I ain't been 718 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:51,800 Speaker 1: down Clayton Street today. I ain't ever been in a 719 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 1: residential neighborhood today. You just came down Clayton Street a 720 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,280 Speaker 1: couple of hours ago and then tow all the limbs 721 00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 1: off my mama tree, My mama, that tree and I 722 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 1: founded twenty five years and then you just came down 723 00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 1: the street and just tore it all apart. Sir, I 724 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: ain't been down Clayton Road today. And how did you 725 00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,239 Speaker 1: get this number? By the way, don't worry about how 726 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,600 Speaker 1: I got your number. Somebody got to pay for my 727 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,120 Speaker 1: mama treat. So I ain't been down Clayton Road today. 728 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, call it call him back down? Hello lord? 729 00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 1: Did you just hang up on me? Yes, sir, I 730 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 1: told you I didn't been down on the clay Road today. 731 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,399 Speaker 1: Now now what, Look, I told you you just came 732 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,839 Speaker 1: down Clayton Road and just and just told my mama 733 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 1: tree up a live down residential neighborhood today. Man quick 734 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 1: calling my phone. Look, my grandmama planet that treat. Now, 735 00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,200 Speaker 1: you didn't gonna do it. Planet it move to my 736 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,960 Speaker 1: ben cut the branches out to some of the if 737 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,360 Speaker 1: them branches. It's clear enough you're not supposed to be 738 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,200 Speaker 1: driving them at wheel trucks down this residential area like 739 00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,759 Speaker 1: this here. Man, I was making delivery. Guy. Now, if 740 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: I had to come down that tree, I would have. 741 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,719 Speaker 1: But I told you once I ain't came down on 742 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,360 Speaker 1: Clayton's Treat to day you just said you had to 743 00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,880 Speaker 1: make a delivery. Now you're saying you ain't been down Clayton's. 744 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 1: I said, if I hadn't make liver down there, I 745 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 1: would have came down that tree. You can't have to 746 00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,239 Speaker 1: come down now you've been on Clayton Street today. Now 747 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,920 Speaker 1: that part I do know. And what you got the 748 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,440 Speaker 1: wrong Robert dude, No no, no, no, no, no no, 749 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 1: I got the right driver. And what I do No, Ill, 750 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 1: you didn't tell my mama tree up. We got to 751 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 1: cut this old tree out. And you know what you're 752 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,680 Speaker 1: gonna pay for this? Then I ain't saying for a 753 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 1: mud treat that tree. And kidding, I know you ain't 754 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 1: talking about my mama tree. Well guess what, take your 755 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 1: tree and take your mom and both of y'all go 756 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,520 Speaker 1: out there and planning another tree. Then we ain't playing 757 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 1: no more tree. That tree been in our family for you. 758 00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,919 Speaker 1: You're gonna mess around and get your swept behind this tree. 759 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,200 Speaker 1: Bring it on, then bring your and bring the tree 760 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,800 Speaker 1: with you. You're gonna make me whoop with a bridge 761 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,879 Speaker 1: off that tree. Well, I tell you what if you're 762 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 1: that bad, then I tell you what if I was 763 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 1: on Clayton the street today I meet don't play the 764 00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: street with the tree. You come on over here to 765 00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 1: Clayton right now, because I'm right out here in the 766 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 1: street on the card this phone. You come on outside. 767 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,359 Speaker 1: My mama's sitting up in there crying behind this tree 768 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 1: because you didn't told the lives off and we got 769 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 1: to cut it down now because you didn't mess it up. 770 00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:12,440 Speaker 1: Don't get up napping this yellow wife. Mins. Then I 771 00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,919 Speaker 1: ain't been down on the tree. I know you ain't 772 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,520 Speaker 1: sitting here talking about my mama. Not see you tripping 773 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:21,319 Speaker 1: not dog and tripping dog. You are ready. Look, man, 774 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,919 Speaker 1: I grew up with this tree in my front yard. 775 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 1: I grew up with this tree. Now you got the 776 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,840 Speaker 1: nerve to drive to hell and driving too fast, because 777 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,040 Speaker 1: if you're the droll slow. You wouldn't have been hitting 778 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 1: all them lives like that. Y'all be running down here 779 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 1: too fast to hill man. Look here, I've told you once, man, 780 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,560 Speaker 1: I ain't been down on Clayton Street, not like I 781 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 1: told you. If you want to meet me on Clayton Street, 782 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 1: we'll all right. Now. I'm sorry about your mom treep. 783 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 1: What hell. It ain't nothing I can do about it 784 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,359 Speaker 1: because I ain't been down on Clayton Street. It's one 785 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,400 Speaker 1: thing you can do about it. You can pay for it. 786 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,600 Speaker 1: And that's what you're gonna do. Now. You're gonna either 787 00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: give me some money. I'm gonna get it at you. 788 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: But you're you're gonna you're coming over here. Matter of fact, 789 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,920 Speaker 1: you're gonna come over here him now that big truck 790 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,840 Speaker 1: around and bring your butt on over here right now. 791 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 1: Well I might well don't turn it around, because I 792 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 1: ain't paying for no tree right now. That's fine, that's fine, 793 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: But I tell you, when you get here, my cousin 794 00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 1: here and all my uncles is here sitting up there 795 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 1: looking at what you hadn't done in this tree. So 796 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: bring yo, I don't. Yeah, well, look a here, take 797 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 1: that tree and stuff it up you yo, yo, all right, 798 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,439 Speaker 1: I ain't in a word with you, and just treat 799 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 1: no more because I don't told you one. Let me 800 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:33,040 Speaker 1: ain't this tree? You come on right now because you 801 00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,439 Speaker 1: don't know what this tree means to me. This tree 802 00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,160 Speaker 1: right here used to be home base for a hide 803 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:43,000 Speaker 1: and gold seat. Are you crying? You big? You crying too? Man? 804 00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: Look at a dog. I ain't. Don't treat dog. Didn't 805 00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 1: look at Wipe your eyes and to hell with you 806 00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,440 Speaker 1: this tree right, I'm turning my you just meet me 807 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,879 Speaker 1: on Clayton Street. All right. Let me tell you something. 808 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,640 Speaker 1: This tree used to be first base for kickball. Do 809 00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,200 Speaker 1: you hit me? Bosh? Dude, I don't told you one. 810 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:04,359 Speaker 1: I ain't tree all right? All around it dude. Your 811 00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:09,719 Speaker 1: name Lloyd, but you ain't. He Hell is cool Jay, 812 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,799 Speaker 1: and he would not He wouldn't not Hell come down 813 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 1: here and told my mama tree here not that kind 814 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,960 Speaker 1: of person. But you, you lord, you crying for? Man? 815 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 1: What crying for? Because you didn't mess up my mama 816 00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 1: treat you sound like a girl. I'm crying because my 817 00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,880 Speaker 1: mama Tree wrote. Let me tell you something around and 818 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 1: bring your down. I in ten minutes to meet your Dona, 819 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: where be moding me? My uncles is ill, my cousin's hill, 820 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 1: all the braid of brunch family whatever. I'll tell you 821 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: what here that night, it's gonna be hot water in this. 822 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 1: Don't make me no difference. They call you all hell Mama, 823 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 1: knock you out, and that's what you find to get 824 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:58,040 Speaker 1: all that. I'm on with it because I'm here. All right, 825 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,919 Speaker 1: We'll let you go run it by my cool. Don't 826 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:05,279 Speaker 1: make me listen straight up. I'm gonna tell you one 827 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,759 Speaker 1: more thing about this treat. Is you listening to me? 828 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 1: I'm listening? Is you listening? I don't told you one 829 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,360 Speaker 1: I don't give a about that treat, But if you 830 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,920 Speaker 1: want to talk about it, go ahead. Let me tell 831 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,480 Speaker 1: you something. This is Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey 832 00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,280 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just got pranked by your boy JJ 833 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:27,320 Speaker 1: and Man, what did you gonna say? This is nephew 834 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:31,000 Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got 835 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:36,480 Speaker 1: pranked by your boy. You got to be kidding me. Man, 836 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 1: ain't no, ain't no tree messed up and you ain't 837 00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:51,800 Speaker 1: been on Clayton Street, Joe Joe and oh man? You 838 00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:57,440 Speaker 1: are hey? Man? What is the baddest radio show in 839 00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:04,480 Speaker 1: the land. Steve Harvey Morning Show was about to get it. 840 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:10,160 Speaker 1: You were about to get it. Now come on right here, 841 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:18,240 Speaker 1: right What are you crying? Fall like tree, my uncles, 842 00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:25,200 Speaker 1: my cousin, all the Brady Budge huh. I'm by myself 843 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:34,120 Speaker 1: playing another one man. I'm telling you can do that. 844 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 1: Damn Tree. I ain't been down clay today. It's jumping 845 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,719 Speaker 1: off this weekend. It's the Thomas Miles Experience. It's a 846 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 1: Thomas Miles Experience weekend by miles of giving us going 847 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,319 Speaker 1: down in New Orleans, Louisiana. Oh my god, I got 848 00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: a social I got We're giving back to wounded warriors. 849 00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: We got an all white party, we got Oh my god, 850 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 1: we gotta. We got a golf tournament at the English 851 00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:01,719 Speaker 1: Turn on Monday on and go to my go to 852 00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 1: miles of Given dot org. That's miles of Given dot 853 00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: org and get all the information. Is going down in 854 00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:10,040 Speaker 1: the n old Bibe the n oh. All right, if 855 00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 1: you can play golf, come on. If you can't, it 856 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,279 Speaker 1: don't matter. Come on, because I can't play all right now? 857 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:19,359 Speaker 1: Coming up next, thank you Strawberry letters subject why can't 858 00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:22,440 Speaker 1: he cut her loose. We'll find out right after this. 859 00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:28,400 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Today's election 860 00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,800 Speaker 1: day in Virginia, in DC and run up elections in 861 00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:36,080 Speaker 1: Alabama and Georgia. We need you to go and vote today. 862 00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 1: Go to when we All Vote dot org. Get out 863 00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:42,160 Speaker 1: all your voting information. To get it all, just go 864 00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:46,200 Speaker 1: to when We All Vote dot org. And it's time 865 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,360 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letters. We switch gears. If you 866 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:53,239 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 867 00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM and 868 00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry letter and we could be reading your 869 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,000 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 870 00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:05,320 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. You never know, it 871 00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,920 Speaker 1: could be yours. You never know. Buckle up and hold 872 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here it is. 873 00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,520 Speaker 1: Draw up every letter thanking ap you subject, why can't 874 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:18,479 Speaker 1: he cut her loose? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty 875 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,480 Speaker 1: eight year old single woman and I've raised a handsome 876 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 1: and productive young man with the help of my ex husband. 877 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:29,200 Speaker 1: My ex husband was a very hands on dad, but 878 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,920 Speaker 1: we did not see eye to eye in our marriage. 879 00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 1: His father always spoiled him, but lately his dad has 880 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:38,440 Speaker 1: been busy with the new woman, and now he's become 881 00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,640 Speaker 1: distant from our son. If I call his dad, it 882 00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,839 Speaker 1: takes him days to call me back. My son told 883 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,680 Speaker 1: me who his dad is dating now, and she's nothing 884 00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,959 Speaker 1: but trouble. She's married to an older man and she's 885 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,879 Speaker 1: got control of the money, but she lusts after other 886 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:58,000 Speaker 1: men because she's not satisfied sexually. So now she's got 887 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,880 Speaker 1: her claws and my ex and he can't think straight. 888 00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:04,360 Speaker 1: She has a bad reputation for messing around on her husband, 889 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,840 Speaker 1: but these men don't seem to mind. I mind a 890 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:12,040 Speaker 1: lot because my ex and I have a sexual relationship 891 00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:15,320 Speaker 1: and he's cut me off because of her. He and 892 00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,960 Speaker 1: I can go weeks without a word, but as soon 893 00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,960 Speaker 1: as we see each other, it's clothes off and we're 894 00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 1: in the bed together. It is what it is, and 895 00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,879 Speaker 1: after twenty years, we still can't keep our hands off 896 00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,600 Speaker 1: each other. I know that he sees other women, but 897 00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 1: I don't have time to date, so he meets my 898 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:36,680 Speaker 1: sexual needs. What this woman has done has messed up 899 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,080 Speaker 1: my good thing, and I want to know why he 900 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,720 Speaker 1: can't cut her loose. I got him on the phone 901 00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,560 Speaker 1: recently and I told him I need a tune up, 902 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: and he told me he'd see what he could do. 903 00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 1: If I told him that a month ago, he'd be 904 00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:53,160 Speaker 1: at my house or I'd be at his within an 905 00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,399 Speaker 1: hour or so. He's never put me off. So why 906 00:55:56,520 --> 00:56:00,440 Speaker 1: is he picking someone who's been passed around or something 907 00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,200 Speaker 1: he's been getting for twenty years over something he's been 908 00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:06,320 Speaker 1: getting for twenty years. Why can't he cut this woman 909 00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:12,240 Speaker 1: loose to that? I say, don't worry about him cutting 910 00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 1: her loose, You cut him loose? What's wrong with you? 911 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:18,520 Speaker 1: I mean, this is really a stupid letter here. I 912 00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 1: thought this was going to be about your ex and 913 00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,120 Speaker 1: how he's no longer there for your son. You say, 914 00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:27,080 Speaker 1: you know, because that's the most important thing here, But 915 00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 1: then the letter took a hard left and turns out 916 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:31,840 Speaker 1: you're just mad because he's got a girlfriend and you 917 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 1: can't cutch up with him to have sex. What this 918 00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,160 Speaker 1: is not making any sense? I mean, you know it's 919 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 1: over if you can't give it away. You're really selling 920 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:46,720 Speaker 1: yourself short here. Why are you so disrespectful to yourself? 921 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 1: Why are you settling for this? I mean you say 922 00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:52,160 Speaker 1: you don't have time to date. But you really don't 923 00:56:52,200 --> 00:56:55,320 Speaker 1: have time not to date. It's over. You have to 924 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,680 Speaker 1: make time for you now. I mean, can't you say, 925 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,480 Speaker 1: can't you see that he's not even thinking about you 926 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:04,040 Speaker 1: at this point. He does not want you. Focus on 927 00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,440 Speaker 1: that so you can get the strength to get him 928 00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:08,920 Speaker 1: out of your system. I mean, you're playing yourself right now. 929 00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:12,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what her reputation is. None of that. 930 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:15,759 Speaker 1: Your husband doesn't care. Is what he likes right now. 931 00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:22,919 Speaker 1: You gotta get yourself together and move on. Steve, Well, well, well, well, well, 932 00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:32,280 Speaker 1: right down my alley. Let us like this, go right 933 00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:35,840 Speaker 1: down to the street that I stay on. I love 934 00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:42,240 Speaker 1: when women ask the question, why can't he cut her loose? Well, 935 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:45,320 Speaker 1: I think we all know the answer to that. Let's 936 00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:50,560 Speaker 1: walk her down memory lane, down the movie lane. I 937 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 1: saw a photograph. It was such a happy pad. Oh 938 00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:05,600 Speaker 1: look at me down mem Red. Well, you're forty eight 939 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,800 Speaker 1: year old single woman. You raised a handsome and productive 940 00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,960 Speaker 1: young man with the help of my ex hug. Now, 941 00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:17,840 Speaker 1: your ex husband was a very hands on dad. But 942 00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:22,160 Speaker 1: y'all didn't see eut the eye in the marriage. Things happened. 943 00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:28,320 Speaker 1: His father's always spoiled him. Probably true. But lately his 944 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:31,280 Speaker 1: dad has been busy with the new woman, and now 945 00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:37,000 Speaker 1: he's become distant from our son. Now, let's look at 946 00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: this moment in this letter. His dad has been busy 947 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 1: with the new woman, and now he's become distant from 948 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,880 Speaker 1: our son. Now, as I read the rest of this letter, 949 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 1: I want you to notice that we never ever mentioned 950 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:57,680 Speaker 1: the son. Again. That ain't nothing in this letter about 951 00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:03,080 Speaker 1: the distance between the ball and the dad. There's no 952 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,160 Speaker 1: instances of where he don't pick up his son. No more. 953 00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:11,560 Speaker 1: This boy is a grown ass son. He don't need 954 00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,720 Speaker 1: to get picked up. Take nowhere. The boy can probably drive, 955 00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 1: he's a productive young man. No more mentions of the 956 00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:22,400 Speaker 1: boy in this letter. So she tried to fool us 957 00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:26,919 Speaker 1: by blaming this on her husband's relationship with this new 958 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 1: woman's hurting the relationship with the son. If I call 959 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 1: his dad, it takes him. If I call his dad, 960 00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:39,400 Speaker 1: it takes him days to call me back. That ain't 961 00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,840 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with the son. Then my son 962 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:45,640 Speaker 1: told me his dad is dating now, and he's and 963 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:49,880 Speaker 1: he's dating now, and she's nothing but trouble. Wait a minute, all, 964 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:53,080 Speaker 1: I bet you all the son told you was daddy dating. 965 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:57,320 Speaker 1: Now you've added in here and she's nothing but trouble. 966 00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 1: See so far he still daddy. Oh, this ain't about 967 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:06,320 Speaker 1: the boy. It ain't gonna Steve. We'll have part two 968 01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:08,920 Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after 969 01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:12,680 Speaker 1: the hour. Today's strawberry letter, subject why can't he cut 970 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,920 Speaker 1: her loose? We'll get back into it right after this. 971 01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:21,360 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 972 01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:24,800 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is why can't he cut 973 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:28,600 Speaker 1: her loose? Well, see, lady, why can't he cut her loose? 974 01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:32,760 Speaker 1: Is obvious. I'll tell you that in a little minute. 975 01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 1: But the real thing is you tried to make this 976 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 1: letter like you and your ex husband have raised his 977 01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,760 Speaker 1: really hands on, productive, handsome young man. And you know 978 01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:44,440 Speaker 1: he was such a hands on dad and now that 979 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:47,760 Speaker 1: he's dating this woman, he didn't cut his son out 980 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,920 Speaker 1: of his life. But then there ain't no evidence in 981 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,400 Speaker 1: the letter that he didn't quitn't fool it with his son. 982 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:56,280 Speaker 1: You said his father has always spoiled him. But lady, 983 01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 1: his dad been visited with this new woman, and nine 984 01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:02,120 Speaker 1: has become distant from my son. If I call his dad, 985 01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 1: it takes him days to call me back. My ex 986 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 1: is never hear from me or I ain't no damn days, 987 01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:22,440 Speaker 1: we're talking years, he email nothing, not a So I 988 01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:26,400 Speaker 1: don't what you're tripping for now. My son told me 989 01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 1: that his date dad is dating. Now, well that means 990 01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,120 Speaker 1: the son is talking to his dad on levels that 991 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:35,720 Speaker 1: you ain't because now the son had told you that 992 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,600 Speaker 1: the dad is dating. And you say, but now she's 993 01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,000 Speaker 1: nothing but trouble. She's married to an older man, and 994 01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,840 Speaker 1: she's got control of the money, and she lusts after 995 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:48,600 Speaker 1: other men because she's not satisfied sexual y'all, musn't live 996 01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 1: in a small term. So now she's got her claws 997 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,320 Speaker 1: in my ex and he can't thank straight. She got 998 01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,120 Speaker 1: a bad reputation for messing around on her husband, and 999 01:01:57,280 --> 01:02:01,640 Speaker 1: these men don't seem to mind. Why because now I 1000 01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:05,080 Speaker 1: mind a lot because my X and I have a 1001 01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:09,200 Speaker 1: sexual relationship and he's cut me off. Here's what the 1002 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 1: wrong with the damn letter. Here is to why she 1003 01:02:13,120 --> 01:02:15,080 Speaker 1: can't cut him off. It ain't got nothing to do 1004 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:22,120 Speaker 1: with your son now, and he's cutting me off because 1005 01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:25,200 Speaker 1: of her. He and I can go weeks without a word, 1006 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:28,840 Speaker 1: But as soon as we see each other, it's clothes off. 1007 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,280 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, lady, you need to 1008 01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 1: make up your mind. A minute ago you said I 1009 01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 1: called his dad and it takes some days to call 1010 01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,200 Speaker 1: me back. Then then the letter say, he and I 1011 01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:44,240 Speaker 1: can go weeks without a word, but as soon as 1012 01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:46,720 Speaker 1: we see each other, this close off and we're in 1013 01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:51,400 Speaker 1: the band together. It is what it is. After twenty years, 1014 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,000 Speaker 1: we still can't keep our hands off each other. So 1015 01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:56,160 Speaker 1: you mean he get to have his cake and eat 1016 01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:59,920 Speaker 1: it too. He get to divorce you, not call you. 1017 01:03:00,440 --> 01:03:02,240 Speaker 1: Ain't got to deal with none of the things in 1018 01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:04,760 Speaker 1: the marriage. But then he can do you whenever he 1019 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:09,400 Speaker 1: wants to. Oh my god, this is amazing. And after 1020 01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 1: twenty years, we still can't keep our hands off each other. 1021 01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:16,640 Speaker 1: I know that he sees other women really and can 1022 01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:19,919 Speaker 1: still have you. Oh my god, this is great. Christ. 1023 01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:23,480 Speaker 1: Do you know how many people are signed up for this? 1024 01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:29,760 Speaker 1: But I don't have time to date, so he meets 1025 01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:35,040 Speaker 1: my sexual needs. What this woman has done has messed 1026 01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:37,960 Speaker 1: up my good thing, and I want to know why 1027 01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:42,360 Speaker 1: he can't cut her loot. Let's answer this question right now. 1028 01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:46,480 Speaker 1: This woman has messed up your good thing. And I 1029 01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,360 Speaker 1: want to know why he can't cut her loose because 1030 01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:56,680 Speaker 1: she got a good thing. Whoa what? She has messed 1031 01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,440 Speaker 1: up my good thing? And I want to know why 1032 01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:04,320 Speaker 1: he can't cut her loose because she got a good 1033 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:12,560 Speaker 1: a thing. What hey, man listening to this, know what 1034 01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. She got a good thing. That's why 1035 01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:21,360 Speaker 1: I can't cut her lose. Now I know women that's 1036 01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:26,680 Speaker 1: a little Now, that's like, oh my god, Steve, that's 1037 01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:30,320 Speaker 1: what it is. Why he can't cut her loose. I'm 1038 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:32,680 Speaker 1: calling her and takes her left. I got him on 1039 01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:34,640 Speaker 1: the phone recently and I told him I need to 1040 01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:36,560 Speaker 1: tune up. And he told me he'll see what he 1041 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:39,640 Speaker 1: can do. Now you know what Ray said, he dating 1042 01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,120 Speaker 1: other women, and now he'd have found goody two shoes 1043 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:48,080 Speaker 1: tune up. I don't need no tune up. Plus, after 1044 01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 1: twenty years, I can do you anytime I want to, 1045 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 1: So sit tight. You ain't got time to date. Sit tight, 1046 01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:02,120 Speaker 1: you know each of potato chips. Get you some Netflix, 1047 01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:03,760 Speaker 1: and I'll be over there when I get there. I 1048 01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:07,800 Speaker 1: get to you when I get to you. If I 1049 01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,160 Speaker 1: told him that a month ago, he'd be in my 1050 01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:12,760 Speaker 1: house or I'd be at his within an hour or so. 1051 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,920 Speaker 1: He's never putting me off. So why is he picking 1052 01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 1: someone who's been passed around over something he's been getting 1053 01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:24,840 Speaker 1: for twenty years? You don't hear that sentence. Let me 1054 01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,320 Speaker 1: translate it for you. See you said, so, why is 1055 01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:31,000 Speaker 1: he picking someone who's been passed around over something he's 1056 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 1: been getting for twenty years? Let me read what you 1057 01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:36,280 Speaker 1: really wrote that you don't know yet? Come on, So 1058 01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,680 Speaker 1: he never put me off, So now he's picking somebody 1059 01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:46,120 Speaker 1: who is really good, fresh and new. May have been 1060 01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 1: passed around, but it's it just got passed to him 1061 01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 1: over something, same old thing he'd been getting for twenty 1062 01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:59,360 Speaker 1: years anytime he wanted. Why can't he cut this woman loose? 1063 01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:05,320 Speaker 1: Because she has messed up your good thing with a 1064 01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:11,640 Speaker 1: goodder thing. That's all. That's good. It's she's got a 1065 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:17,880 Speaker 1: goodder thing, all right, that's all to it. I'm sorry, 1066 01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:20,960 Speaker 1: all right, all right, Thank you. Steve. Post for comments 1067 01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:23,800 Speaker 1: on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve vr fm, on Instagram 1068 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:27,520 Speaker 1: and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand 1069 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:31,200 Speaker 1: as well. That's coming up to forty six, coming up 1070 01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 1: to forty six minutes after the hour, it's Junior and 1071 01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:40,600 Speaker 1: Sports Talk right after this. You're listening show, all right, guys, 1072 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,080 Speaker 1: it is time now for junior and sports talk. What 1073 01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:45,800 Speaker 1: you got junior? Thank you for Let me say thank 1074 01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,840 Speaker 1: you to Spartan Burn, South Carolina in the LD Barksdale 1075 01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:52,080 Speaker 1: Sickle Sale Foundation for having me on Friday night for 1076 01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:55,720 Speaker 1: jazz and laughter. I appreciate y'all really really showing up 1077 01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:57,880 Speaker 1: man and doing what you did for Sickle Sale. Also, 1078 01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:02,840 Speaker 1: we gotta say congratulations to Howard University Sickle Celles Centering 1079 01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:05,360 Speaker 1: up Hill. I was sick of selling all day Sunday 1080 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:08,600 Speaker 1: because it was World Sicknal Cellar Day on Sunday. I asked, 1081 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:14,560 Speaker 1: Sickle Sale Father's Day June. I would busy, and it's 1082 01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,600 Speaker 1: Sickle Sale Day on Sunday too. It was World Sickle 1083 01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:19,800 Speaker 1: Cell Day Sunday. Yeah yeah, man, So we had a 1084 01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,320 Speaker 1: really good time. You went through that freedom and suckle, 1085 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,880 Speaker 1: yeah all that. So let's get to it, man, to 1086 01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,320 Speaker 1: go to State. Warriors are the champions, the fourth title 1087 01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 1: in eight years. Do y'all see anybody beating them next year? 1088 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,680 Speaker 1: Because they the favorites already to beat. They could beat 1089 01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: the favorites, but they got some teams out there, man, 1090 01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:42,560 Speaker 1: that's strong. If Miami get one player, Miami gonna be wicked. 1091 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 1: Boston gonna be back because they're strong. Man, Phoenix is 1092 01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:48,960 Speaker 1: gonna be back. I wish I could say that for 1093 01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:52,920 Speaker 1: Chris Paul. I really do, because I want Christ. Do 1094 01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:58,320 Speaker 1: anybody see the Lakers if the Lakers are nah? No, 1095 01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:02,439 Speaker 1: until they solve that mystery. The Lakers have to figure 1096 01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:06,400 Speaker 1: out how to incorporate Westbrook. He's too great a player, man, 1097 01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:11,320 Speaker 1: And they got to find out how to incorporate Westbrook 1098 01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,280 Speaker 1: because he's a baller man and he was never able 1099 01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:18,080 Speaker 1: to be the real Westbrook on that team. And Anthony 1100 01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:20,600 Speaker 1: Davis has to go somewhere doing the off season and 1101 01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:25,719 Speaker 1: learn how to take care of his bat close street clothes. 1102 01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:34,080 Speaker 1: He just out there all the las, don't know how 1103 01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:38,640 Speaker 1: uniform street cloth. He got all the latest jobbers out, 1104 01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,360 Speaker 1: all the best jeans you ever want to see, all 1105 01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:44,200 Speaker 1: the nice shirts, everything. And you know, he made a 1106 01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:46,599 Speaker 1: comment already said that since he'd been out the season 1107 01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:48,040 Speaker 1: been over. He said he ain't picked the ball up 1108 01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:53,479 Speaker 1: in two months. Sto, he picked the ball up in 1109 01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:55,200 Speaker 1: two months. Man, If you don't go over there with 1110 01:08:55,320 --> 01:09:00,479 Speaker 1: Lebraun and get the training and bring them eyebrows down. Lord, 1111 01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:06,120 Speaker 1: we can cut that down. So what's wrong with his brows? Yeah? Yeah, 1112 01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:10,559 Speaker 1: the Uni brow got a Uni brows shirt. Go all 1113 01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:16,320 Speaker 1: the way, cross you go all way? Sure, only bother 1114 01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:22,959 Speaker 1: short people. Oh no, don't, don't make that demands problems. 1115 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 1: We're gonna see you. It happens though. Man. I'm excited 1116 01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:29,800 Speaker 1: for me and congratulations, go to State. Let's see what happen. 1117 01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:33,360 Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you. Coming up at the top 1118 01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:36,240 Speaker 1: of the hour. We'll check Steve's voicemail right after this. 1119 01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:42,519 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it 1120 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,559 Speaker 1: is time now to check Steve's voicemail. If you want 1121 01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 1: to leave Steve a message, call him eight seven seven 1122 01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:52,000 Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve. All right, Steve, here we go. You ready. Yep. 1123 01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: This caller is upset about mothers not letting their fathers 1124 01:09:56,520 --> 01:10:00,320 Speaker 1: see their kids. Steve Harvey, Maybe the state chairs y'all 1125 01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 1: make the comments on all the fathers that are doing 1126 01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:05,720 Speaker 1: positive things in their kid's life for a Father's Day, 1127 01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:09,519 Speaker 1: But what about the mothers that are keeping the fathers away? 1128 01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:13,439 Speaker 1: Come to kids that cannot be a positive role model. 1129 01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:15,760 Speaker 1: In their life. So you need to tell you a 1130 01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:18,800 Speaker 1: Sunday crowd, don't do that. You're telling us that we 1131 01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 1: are no good. We are about nothing that is wrong. 1132 01:10:22,280 --> 01:10:25,000 Speaker 1: That is absolutely wrong. You need to go back and 1133 01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:27,439 Speaker 1: tell them to retract that statement, because they're awesome good 1134 01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:30,240 Speaker 1: fathers out here, but the mothers would not less us. 1135 01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:33,360 Speaker 1: He had cast up our kid's life. Have a good day. 1136 01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:36,360 Speaker 1: I understand, Hey, brother, I understand what you're saying. I 1137 01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. I don't know what 1138 01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:42,160 Speaker 1: people I need to go and tell to retract that statement. 1139 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:45,040 Speaker 1: I agree with what you're saying one hundred percent, and 1140 01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:48,320 Speaker 1: I on this show have talked about it on numerous 1141 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:51,840 Speaker 1: occasions about how women got to stop using these children 1142 01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:54,920 Speaker 1: as pawns and everything, and because a man can't pay 1143 01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:57,639 Speaker 1: child supporting, that you won't let him see the sound 1144 01:10:57,680 --> 01:10:59,920 Speaker 1: when the most important thing is not money. It's time. 1145 01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:02,320 Speaker 1: I've said that over and over. So I don't know 1146 01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 1: who you want me to call and check. I wasn't 1147 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,800 Speaker 1: clear about that somebody on Sunday. I don't know what that. 1148 01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I have no idea, but I 1149 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:17,680 Speaker 1: agree with no Steve. You're talking about maybe they're talking 1150 01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:21,120 Speaker 1: about Father's Day. Actually, I don't know on Sunday, Yeah, 1151 01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:24,080 Speaker 1: on Sunday, this past Sunday. Yeah, but he sounds like 1152 01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:27,840 Speaker 1: he's a brother going through here in the middle of 1153 01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:29,840 Speaker 1: I know that sounds here in the middle. Yes, what 1154 01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's hard right now. Yeah. Next Colors from Indiana, 1155 01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:38,600 Speaker 1: just a Father's Day shout out to Steve. What up? 1156 01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:42,679 Speaker 1: What um? Steve Harvey? This is your boy, Chris Colors 1157 01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:47,439 Speaker 1: with Indianna any Anna what you got going on the day? 1158 01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,799 Speaker 1: And then in the world and me and my wiffing 1159 01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:54,080 Speaker 1: kids were enjoying the day. Happy father Day to you, man, 1160 01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:57,040 Speaker 1: Happy Father Day to you and the rest of the 1161 01:11:57,160 --> 01:11:59,920 Speaker 1: fathers on the show. We love listening to your real 1162 01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:05,000 Speaker 1: your show. You is the man piecing Holy down. Hey, Chris, 1163 01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:08,240 Speaker 1: everything good Man. I ain't know you gonna call man. 1164 01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:11,640 Speaker 1: Appreciate it, Chrin. We're doing good man, Me and the 1165 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:13,880 Speaker 1: other dude that to fall on the show. Man. We 1166 01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:16,360 Speaker 1: had a good with y'all to day. Spend some time 1167 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:18,880 Speaker 1: with our families too. Man. Got a couple of nice 1168 01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:22,320 Speaker 1: little gifts and everything. Appreciate you, Chris Man holding it 1169 01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:26,840 Speaker 1: down Indiana. Yeah, you know all that man, go ahnd 1170 01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:32,040 Speaker 1: you bis man, appreciate chrit but you the man I 1171 01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:34,800 Speaker 1: felt it. He read through me when he said that, 1172 01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:39,439 Speaker 1: I knew you would like that one. Right, all right, 1173 01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:42,840 Speaker 1: caller from Illinois, a third shift worker, Steve. Here we go, 1174 01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:47,960 Speaker 1: Uncle Steve. Well good Marttell from Illinois. I listen to 1175 01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:50,640 Speaker 1: y'all show everything. Man. One thing I will say about you. 1176 01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:55,560 Speaker 1: I like your gratitude affects your attitude, but affect your outtitude. 1177 01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:59,679 Speaker 1: Keep up the good work, Uncle Steve, and uh Tell, junior, 1178 01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:02,960 Speaker 1: nephew and everybody. He trained it with the frank calls. 1179 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:05,200 Speaker 1: So keep it up, y'all have a good day. God 1180 01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:09,519 Speaker 1: bless Yeah. Right, ye know, we appreciate that man. Everybody 1181 01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:12,200 Speaker 1: hunt you much love to everybody on the mother's shifts. 1182 01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:15,120 Speaker 1: That's listening any way. We just try to be encouraging 1183 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:20,639 Speaker 1: and attaining, educational, inspirational and Lord her Mercy funny, get 1184 01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:25,880 Speaker 1: you something I don't want every shifting hands. I don't 1185 01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:27,720 Speaker 1: even know what he is the third shift? Is that? 1186 01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 1: Is that all midnight to eight? Yeah? Yeah, hey, man, 1187 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,400 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. I used to drive home 1188 01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:39,320 Speaker 1: in the morning and I would have to focus so hard, dog, 1189 01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:42,720 Speaker 1: I would drive past my exit to get off to 1190 01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:45,640 Speaker 1: go to my apartment, because that's how tired I would be. 1191 01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:49,000 Speaker 1: And when you missed this exit, it was the last 1192 01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:51,599 Speaker 1: one before it turned into the two seventy one loop. 1193 01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:59,080 Speaker 1: Lord ham Mercy, that's an extra fifteen minutes. Who yeah, yeah, 1194 01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:03,120 Speaker 1: there's nothing like driving well sleepy. Oh my god, that's 1195 01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:05,120 Speaker 1: the worst going. Man. I can't tell you how many 1196 01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:07,080 Speaker 1: times God didn't kept me out and looked up in 1197 01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:10,120 Speaker 1: my rearview mirrors and so a curve I had went 1198 01:14:10,200 --> 01:14:12,360 Speaker 1: around on the freeway I don't know how way around 1199 01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:17,640 Speaker 1: and curve collection. Thank the Lord, you're you made it 1200 01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:21,000 Speaker 1: all right. Well, we'll have more of today's Steve Harvey 1201 01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:24,400 Speaker 1: Morning at twenty minutes after the hour coming up right 1202 01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:30,680 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1203 01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:33,160 Speaker 1: Carl it what you got a rat? The girl? You 1204 01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,479 Speaker 1: know it. We've teamed up with Segrem's Escape to give 1205 01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 1: away one thousand and five hundred dollars cash to create 1206 01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:44,720 Speaker 1: your own summer escape. So now listen, I want you 1207 01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:48,800 Speaker 1: to enter and get rules. Visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 1208 01:14:49,240 --> 01:14:53,880 Speaker 1: Fifteen hundred dollars cash could be yours. Get all the 1209 01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:59,320 Speaker 1: info at Steve Harvey FM dot com, sip happiness with 1210 01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:04,639 Speaker 1: Seagram six skates, I get it out right? Just money, yeah, 1211 01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:09,800 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Carla? All right, switching gears. Some 1212 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:12,679 Speaker 1: weird news. A man in China is asking his ex 1213 01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:15,120 Speaker 1: to reimburse him for the money he shelled out on 1214 01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:17,840 Speaker 1: her while they were dating. Now, this man put together 1215 01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:22,599 Speaker 1: this whole detailed list of hundreds of expenses, including dates 1216 01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:27,160 Speaker 1: and times demanded compensation. As the breakup list has gone viral, 1217 01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:30,320 Speaker 1: people are as shocked that they that the guy could 1218 01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:33,080 Speaker 1: remember all this stuff. He's got the nerve to ask 1219 01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:36,880 Speaker 1: for the money back. Okay. Added together, the list comes 1220 01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:39,760 Speaker 1: to about nine thousand dollars. It includes everything from a 1221 01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 1: couple of bottles of water to expenses that went along 1222 01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:49,840 Speaker 1: with caring for his ex's six six moms, get out 1223 01:15:49,920 --> 01:16:01,360 Speaker 1: of here, the sex that he had she get that back. 1224 01:16:07,600 --> 01:16:10,000 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll 1225 01:16:10,040 --> 01:16:12,519 Speaker 1: play another round of would you rather? Right after this 1226 01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:18,559 Speaker 1: you're listening to show? All right, guys, instead of would 1227 01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:20,800 Speaker 1: you rather? You guys were really interested in the story 1228 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:23,640 Speaker 1: we did before we went to break It's about this 1229 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:27,439 Speaker 1: guy in China who's asking his ex to reimburse him 1230 01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:30,360 Speaker 1: for the money he spent on her while they were dating. Now, 1231 01:16:30,400 --> 01:16:33,680 Speaker 1: he compiled this whole list of you know, dates and 1232 01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:39,160 Speaker 1: times and expenses that he shelled out and then it 1233 01:16:39,320 --> 01:16:42,200 Speaker 1: went viral. This list went viral. People are shocked that 1234 01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:45,760 Speaker 1: the guy could even remember this stuff and the fact 1235 01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,000 Speaker 1: that he had the nerve to ask for the money back. 1236 01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:52,759 Speaker 1: The whole list everything came to about nine thousand dollars, 1237 01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:56,439 Speaker 1: and he's asked. It includes everything from two bottles of 1238 01:16:56,560 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: water to the expenses that went along with caring for 1239 01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:03,439 Speaker 1: his exit sick mom. So what do you guys think, 1240 01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:09,479 Speaker 1: Ronda Jones? About you? A rope chain? A rope chain? 1241 01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:16,840 Speaker 1: I bought you a polo shirt back then. That was 1242 01:17:17,160 --> 01:17:20,360 Speaker 1: a lot of money. That's okay about a polo shirt? 1243 01:17:22,080 --> 01:17:25,439 Speaker 1: What else is about? Hey? Can I ask you a question? Yeah, 1244 01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:29,519 Speaker 1: go ahead, not to get in your business, but I'm 1245 01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:31,800 Speaker 1: just going to assume you don't have to answer this 1246 01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:35,400 Speaker 1: because you're married. Now, I'm assuming that at one point 1247 01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:38,560 Speaker 1: you might have slept with Ronda. I'm just gonna go 1248 01:17:38,720 --> 01:17:44,080 Speaker 1: out on I'm not I'm not accusing you of that, 1249 01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,040 Speaker 1: but I'm just saying, if there's a strong possibility that 1250 01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:50,519 Speaker 1: you slept with Ronda. You better school him ahead. I'm 1251 01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:56,960 Speaker 1: thinking that the reason you bought the rope chain, let's 1252 01:17:57,000 --> 01:18:03,479 Speaker 1: talk about that you wanted to keep her nick in 1253 01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:09,360 Speaker 1: a choke hold so you could continue to sleep with her. 1254 01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:12,639 Speaker 1: This is what I'm assumed, Junior. What have you bought 1255 01:18:12,680 --> 01:18:14,680 Speaker 1: a girl? Let me help you understand. Let me tell 1256 01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:18,320 Speaker 1: you right now. I have bought purses. Okay, I bought 1257 01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:21,920 Speaker 1: a purse. J All right, yeah, I bought It's cool, 1258 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 1: it's what she's gonna about a purse. I have bought 1259 01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:29,519 Speaker 1: some jewelry. Now, let's stop right here. You bought the 1260 01:18:29,760 --> 01:18:36,000 Speaker 1: locket so every time she would move her wrists, she 1261 01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:39,880 Speaker 1: would remember that you was the one that bought it, 1262 01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:44,760 Speaker 1: and that because y'all sleep together, it's the reason she 1263 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:50,280 Speaker 1: got it. You bought her the purse because you wanted 1264 01:18:50,439 --> 01:18:54,560 Speaker 1: her to have a place to hold a condom in 1265 01:18:54,720 --> 01:19:00,719 Speaker 1: case you forgotten. And that's what it what you brought 1266 01:19:00,760 --> 01:19:07,360 Speaker 1: to PERSEPM. So let's stop all this. There's a call stack. 1267 01:19:10,280 --> 01:19:22,760 Speaker 1: It's called all returns. Rest my case, Yes, John as 1268 01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:27,920 Speaker 1: jeans and some chick jeans, all right? Coming up? In 1269 01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:30,720 Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after the hour we'll close up the 1270 01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:36,559 Speaker 1: show right after this. You're listening to show. All right, 1271 01:19:36,760 --> 01:19:38,960 Speaker 1: here we are, guys, our last break of the day. 1272 01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:41,839 Speaker 1: We do want to remind everyone that today is election 1273 01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 1: day in Virginia and in DC U plus runoff elections 1274 01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:49,759 Speaker 1: in Alabama and in Georgia. We want you to vote today. 1275 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,240 Speaker 1: Go to when we All Vote dot org to get 1276 01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:56,040 Speaker 1: all your voting information. All right, please vote. This is 1277 01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:59,200 Speaker 1: an important year, important year in terms. We are not 1278 01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:03,439 Speaker 1: asking y'all. Let's do it. You got a vote every election? 1279 01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:07,160 Speaker 1: All right, Steve Um, You know what I thought about this. 1280 01:20:07,320 --> 01:20:10,040 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you something. You do so much. 1281 01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:13,000 Speaker 1: You do so much in the world, so much for 1282 01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:15,439 Speaker 1: other people. You work hard, you have a big family, 1283 01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:19,839 Speaker 1: all that. What actually makes you happy? What makes you happy? 1284 01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:27,080 Speaker 1: You know that's a that's a tough one. Um. A 1285 01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:32,000 Speaker 1: part of it is a part of my happiness is 1286 01:20:32,280 --> 01:20:36,880 Speaker 1: inside of that that you mentioned in that I find 1287 01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:41,760 Speaker 1: the joint commitment in doing for others. A lot of times, Uh, 1288 01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:46,120 Speaker 1: it's hurtful when it's not reciprocated, and it's hurtful one 1289 01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:50,000 Speaker 1: is not taking advantage of. But when it is reciprocated 1290 01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:54,280 Speaker 1: and taking advantage of It's a very rewarding feeling to 1291 01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:59,920 Speaker 1: know that you're helping someone else. Um, what makes me happy, man. 1292 01:21:00,000 --> 01:21:02,439 Speaker 1: And if I can if I can get around some 1293 01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:06,720 Speaker 1: true friends and sit around and just have some real 1294 01:21:06,960 --> 01:21:10,040 Speaker 1: moments fishing with them, laughing with them, eating with them, 1295 01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:13,000 Speaker 1: those are the moments I cherish. Man. If I could 1296 01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:15,960 Speaker 1: sit down with my girl, man and we just enjoying 1297 01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:20,280 Speaker 1: each other's company, Man, without talking about the problems of 1298 01:21:20,400 --> 01:21:22,760 Speaker 1: the world and the problems in the family and the 1299 01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:26,240 Speaker 1: problems that's going on around them. Sometimes you gotta get 1300 01:21:26,320 --> 01:21:28,760 Speaker 1: with your your soul mate, man, and just have some 1301 01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:32,920 Speaker 1: soul moments. And you know, well a matter of fact, 1302 01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:37,000 Speaker 1: just have some mate moments, you know, and lead a 1303 01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:40,560 Speaker 1: soul part out of it, because that leads into a 1304 01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:43,360 Speaker 1: lot of things. Those are the things, you know, when 1305 01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm just sitting down chilling, when I can see the 1306 01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:52,960 Speaker 1: rewards of my label, when I'm able to enjoy them. Yeah, 1307 01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 1: if I can sit down and see the rewards of 1308 01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:59,680 Speaker 1: my labor and partake of them, which I don't do 1309 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:03,560 Speaker 1: enough of. I need to start doing more. But I 1310 01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:08,840 Speaker 1: need Yeah, I have to start smelling the flowers a 1311 01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:15,200 Speaker 1: lot more. Yeah, you know, Yeah, anybody else questions. Please, Yeah, 1312 01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:20,360 Speaker 1: since I ain't got mom on Walk of Fame star yet, 1313 01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:22,760 Speaker 1: And is it all right for me to just put 1314 01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:25,200 Speaker 1: it in my driveway till I get it in Hollywood? 1315 01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:28,840 Speaker 1: I mean hot, I would Yeah, absolutely, yeah, Yeah, put 1316 01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:31,800 Speaker 1: it in your driveway where we can ensure that no 1317 01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:36,280 Speaker 1: one will see it. Yeah, that'd be great. And then 1318 01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:38,880 Speaker 1: you can have that little glorious moment all to your 1319 01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,240 Speaker 1: damn self. You ain't got to have a ceremony, You 1320 01:22:41,280 --> 01:22:43,120 Speaker 1: ain't gotta wait to get voted in and nothing. Just 1321 01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:48,800 Speaker 1: put it in your damn driveway, praising worship in its driveway. Yeah. Yeah, 1322 01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:54,080 Speaker 1: I got a question for you. Say, what is the 1323 01:22:54,400 --> 01:23:00,559 Speaker 1: worst advice you've ever received? Oh? God, h worst advice 1324 01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:04,000 Speaker 1: I've ever see this. A guy told me one time. 1325 01:23:04,760 --> 01:23:07,559 Speaker 1: You ain't got to take that you can go down 1326 01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:10,200 Speaker 1: there and tell them what's on your mind. That's the 1327 01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:17,240 Speaker 1: worst advice ever. God, Because because Marjorie's father says this 1328 01:23:17,439 --> 01:23:21,080 Speaker 1: all the time, just because you can do something, don't 1329 01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:27,840 Speaker 1: mean you should. That's a much smarter advice than you 1330 01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:30,320 Speaker 1: should go down there and tell them what's on your mind, 1331 01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:34,720 Speaker 1: because that's not always the smartest thing to do. And 1332 01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:38,599 Speaker 1: what I had to learn was you know, the Lord 1333 01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:40,760 Speaker 1: told me to go down here and straighten them people out. 1334 01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,920 Speaker 1: No he didn't. And you know, whenever you hear people 1335 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:45,840 Speaker 1: talking about the Lord told him to do something that 1336 01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:48,400 Speaker 1: don't sound right, he is. All you have to do 1337 01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:51,519 Speaker 1: is remember this one sentence that Bishop Kenneth Oldman taught me. 1338 01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:56,280 Speaker 1: God's voice has no sin in it. So if the 1339 01:23:56,479 --> 01:23:58,920 Speaker 1: voice you're saying it was you listening to it has 1340 01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:02,080 Speaker 1: some sin in it, that is not the Lord partner, 1341 01:24:02,600 --> 01:24:05,320 Speaker 1: don't blame him for that. And don't go down there 1342 01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:08,000 Speaker 1: talking about the Lord sent me down here, because he didn't. 1343 01:24:08,560 --> 01:24:11,559 Speaker 1: And the worst advice I ever got, what's go down 1344 01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:15,040 Speaker 1: there and tell him what's on your mind because it 1345 01:24:15,200 --> 01:24:21,920 Speaker 1: doesn't matter, it don't matter. Did you do that? Oh yeah, 1346 01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:32,760 Speaker 1: oh yeah? And gave it to him full flow. Both 1347 01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:36,120 Speaker 1: barrels cut the beautine light on on my back and everything. 1348 01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:39,479 Speaker 1: I blow torch their ass. And when I got through talking, 1349 01:24:40,240 --> 01:24:42,720 Speaker 1: they blow torch my ass. And when I loved a 1350 01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:48,479 Speaker 1: body that I was completely on fire and it took 1351 01:24:48,479 --> 01:24:50,800 Speaker 1: a while for me to get put out. And so 1352 01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:55,479 Speaker 1: I learned, man, that just because you can do something 1353 01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:59,800 Speaker 1: don't mean you should. That's right, And when people have 1354 01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:04,680 Speaker 1: made up in their mind not to like you. For 1355 01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:10,560 Speaker 1: people that for people that hate you, no explanation acceptable. 1356 01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:15,880 Speaker 1: For people who love you, no explanation necessary. That's right, 1357 01:25:16,080 --> 01:25:18,840 Speaker 1: that's right. If you're talking to somebody that has hell 1358 01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,479 Speaker 1: been on not liking you, you finn't have a one 1359 01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:24,639 Speaker 1: side of because don't matter what you say, they're gonna 1360 01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:29,880 Speaker 1: find a way to twist it, make them. No. Yeah, 1361 01:25:29,960 --> 01:25:31,920 Speaker 1: those are the things man, that have kind of I've 1362 01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:35,840 Speaker 1: learned in my life man, at sixty five, how to 1363 01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:38,679 Speaker 1: protect myself. It's helped me a great deal because something 1364 01:25:38,800 --> 01:25:42,519 Speaker 1: happened when I turned sixty five. I just decided it 1365 01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:46,160 Speaker 1: don't matter what you say because what you say don't 1366 01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:49,560 Speaker 1: matter because I don't even know you. So when you 1367 01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:53,280 Speaker 1: get through talking about me, watch me and then you 1368 01:25:53,320 --> 01:25:55,240 Speaker 1: can do about it. You have no say so in 1369 01:25:55,360 --> 01:25:58,679 Speaker 1: my life. Hey, y'all, that's it today. My closing remark 1370 01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,880 Speaker 1: is this talk to God today. 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