WEBVTT - Venues, Rings, and Other Things! 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:12.920 And we're back with another episode of Separation Anxiety. I'm 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:16.560 your host, Marcus Jordan and I'm Pippin and today we're 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:17.599 talking about a bunch of stuff. 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:17.880 Babe. 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:19.720 I feel like we have so much to talk about this, 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:21.360 so many things happening right now. 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:24.239 Well, and obviously we're out west, you know, we're in LA, 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:27.319 and I feel like when we're out here, things just, 0:00:27.520 --> 0:00:28.600 you know, start to happen. 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:30.120 It's like a snowball effect out here. 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:32.599 I think things move really quickly when you're in LA. 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.279 Yeah, definitely, definitely, And so let's jump right into it. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:41.160 First topic is Larcus is looking for a wedding venue. Obviously, 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:44.159 we were at dinner the other night and paparazzi got 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.160 us leaving a restaurant and asked us if there are 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:50.839 wedding plans in the works, and so, you know, I 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:54.560 think I responded in a cheeky way. I told them that, 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:57.640 you know, we're looking for a location and that it's 0:00:57.720 --> 0:01:00.680 in the works, and so tell your thoughts on that. 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:05.120 I had one hundred calls and text messages and people 0:01:05.120 --> 0:01:07.600 congratulating us, and I was like, I'm so excited, but no, 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:08.280 we're not engaged. 0:01:08.360 --> 0:01:09.200 Yeah, No, it's funny. 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:11.600 You know, I think it's cute, but like, we're not engaged, 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.440 but you did, but you did give me a promise ring. 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:15.959 Yeah, I definitely give you a promise ring. You know 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:18.959 that might end up on the show at some point, 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:23.679 but yeah, I just felt like that. You know, it's 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.320 a tough question to answer. It's like, obviously we're you know, 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:29.880 it's something that we've been discussing a lot lately, not 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:34.559 necessarily putting a lot of emphasis or priority on where 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:40.200 or when, but we've definitely been discussing locations and time 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:40.960 of year. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:43.319 And so, you know, I felt like that was a 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:43.959 good response. 0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:45.760 I feel like the only thing we've really come up 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:48.600 with is like, we want a destination wedding, right, That's 0:01:48.600 --> 0:01:50.240 the only thing that we talk about where we're like, yeah, 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:51.800 we definitely want a destination wedding. 0:01:52.000 --> 0:01:52.200 Yeah. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:55.600 And I think you know, most of your friends are married, 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:58.880 and so, you know, I feel like you get asked 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.160 more so than I do in terms of when is 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:03.920 the date? Can I be a bridesmaid? Et cetera, et cetera. 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:05.800 We did talk about that too. I think what did 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:06.400 we land on? 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:09.200 Well, because I think we have to be less than ten. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.040 But I feel like everybody wants to be in our wedding, 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:14.239 so it's kind of like hard to figure out who 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.120 we're going to have at a wedding party. 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:18.400 It's definitely going to be a process for sure, and 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:22.079 I feel like, you know, I'm following your lead on this, 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:23.040 so let me ask. 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.359 You a question. I know we talk about this all 0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:28.280 the time, but like if someone is married, for instance, Okay, 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:30.680 let's just say my friend is married, I want her 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.519 to be my maid of honor, but I don't necessarily 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:36.720 want her husband to be your best man because he's 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:38.239 not your best man groomsman? 0:02:38.320 --> 0:02:38.480 Yeah? 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:40.240 Yeah? Is that weird or is that like normal? 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:42.520 I think it should be. 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:46.600 It's you know, it should be normal that you're not 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.400 going to line up necessarily with your significant other at 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:52.880 a wedding. You know, I feel like you pick your bridesmaids. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.760 I pick my groomsmen, and then you know, whoever they are, 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:57.399 they get matched up at the wedding. But I don't 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.919 think it necessarily needs to be Oh, because you're mayor 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:02.240 read uh, then you have to be a part of 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:04.760 my groomsmen party and then you know, vice versa for you. 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:09.200 But you know it might end up working out that way, okay. 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:10.800 You know, yeah, I just kind of always wonder about that. 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:12.959 And it's funny because I feel like, you know, when 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:16.240 the news started circulating, obviously, you know, my parents reached 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:19.359 out and my mom sent a bunch of I emojis, 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.120 my my dad sent a couple of text messages and 0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:25.240 had a conversation with my sister, just wondering if it's 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.440 you know, legit or not. Obviously, with the pictures of 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:31.640 the of the ring going around, there was a little 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:34.680 extra fuel on the fire. And so it's oh, speaking 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.160 of the ring, I had so many jewelers reach out 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.120 to me in terms of, hey, when you're ready, you know, 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.280 if you need a certain stone or how big do 0:03:42.320 --> 0:03:45.280 you want to go? And so there's there's definitely something. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.600 I think that's the tagline of our wedding. It's it's 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:49.680 in the works, and so the works. There's definitely some 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.240 researching some stones right now. That's happening for sure. 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.080 Oh I love that, do you know what I like? 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:56.600 I feel like I've got a good grasp on what 0:03:56.720 --> 0:03:57.000 you like. 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:58.640 You know, I feel like you did too. 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:01.200 I feel like your taste changes from time to time. 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:05.120 I feel like you like high quality stuff, you know, clarity, 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:09.960 and you know, the shape might might vary, but I don't. 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:12.600 Feel like I really need like a huge ring though I. 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:14.600 Disagree with that. I feel like it's gonna it's gonna 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:15.760 be massive for sure. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:16.800 I like that too. 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:21.360 You know, I've got good taste. And so just let 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:23.440 let let Marcus James drive this train. 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:25.640 Okay, okay, well I'm down for that. I like that. 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:27.920 I like you being in charge because that's kind of 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.320 one thing that like you do that really turns me on. 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.320 Yeah, you let me lead you. 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:33.680 I definitely let you lead me. 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:38.640 There we go. So so it's in the works. 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.600 That in the works. I think we're at the right 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:41.400 place at the right time. 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:45.240 Yeah, and you know, I think I'm definitely I come 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.599 from a more private background than you, I feel like, 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.840 and so I think that's another Well. 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:51.960 By the way, I had producers called me about our show, 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:54.080 I know, I know, and they said, hey, would you 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:55.960 have a wedding on Bravo. 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:57.960 I feel like they thought they might have missed out 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:00.400 on something that could have been a key story line 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:00.760 for us. 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:04.200 So yeah, and I was kind of like, no, we're 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:05.960 not engaged, but I would definitely let you know, But 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:07.640 do you think you would have a wedding on a 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:08.320 reality show? 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:10.599 That's tough, you know. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.880 I don't think your parents will come. I don't know. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:16.920 There would definitely there would definitely have to be some 0:05:16.960 --> 0:05:20.280 carve outs for sure, But it could also be like 0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:23.400 a multi day thing, you know what I'm saying, where 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:26.000 all right, maybe there's cameras for the actual ceremony, but 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:29.000 we can do more private things, you know, on those 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:29.640 other days. 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:31.320 And so, you know, again, I think. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:35.920 As we get closer, we'll start, you know, narrowing down 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:38.280 all of the options. But I think anything is on 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:40.440 the table. It's a, it's a it's all in the works. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:41.360 It's work. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:45.000 I love that. And so moving on, let's talk Britney 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:45.880 Spears's divorce. 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:48.279 I mean, can I tell you I kind of saw 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:48.719 this coming. 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.440 I mean, honestly, I didn't even realize that she was 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:54.680 or who she was married to. I guess I knew 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:57.719 she was married, but it didn't come as a shock 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:58.240 to me either. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.799 I guess, Well, they were married for a fourteen teen months, 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:03.080 so that actually lasted longer than I thought because I 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:04.280 kind of gave them less than a year. 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:07.760 Yeah, and so it's fourteen months, is that like? Is 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:09.840 that standard? Is that like early? 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:12.840 I mean, I guess you're so, I don't know, you're 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:13.839 getting married. 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.120 And you take those you make those vows, you know 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:19.160 what I'm saying. I guess, aren't you saying that you're 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.080 going to spend the rest of your life with this person? 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:23.839 And so for fourteen months and it to end? Do 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:24.799 you think it was a failure. 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:28.120 It's definitely a failure. It's definitely no. Fourteen months is nothing. 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:29.400 Yeah, I would agree with that too. 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.280 And so apparently he confirmed the news on Instagram, saying 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:34.200 that he decided to end their journey. 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.040 I don't know what planet she lives on. I kind 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:38.120 of want to live on the same planet I'm rocking 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:38.600 with Ritty. 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:39.360 No. 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:41.560 I love her. I love her so much because I 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:45.320 feel like she's such an icon, right, but she definitely 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:46.360 doesn't live on this planet. 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.440 I just think, you know, if she's in her own world, 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:50.720 she's in her own zone, you know, And once you 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:54.160 reach that level of status, she can move to her 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:56.680 own drum, you know, once you reach to that point, 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:59.080 you know. And so reports are that trouble has been 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.800 brewing for a while Sam wasn't sleeping at the house 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:04.400 that much, and Brittany has allegedly gotten physical with him 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:05.600 in some blowout fights. 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:07.880 She's twirling around and she's living her birth fight like. 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:09.680 She's not a fighter, she's just a dancer. 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:12.960 I just think, you know, divorces can get messy, and 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:15.840 it sounds like this one is heading towards a messy direction. 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:17.160 And so you have a prenup. 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:19.600 Okay, well, yeah, but it's la. 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.600 Well, I think he's going to contest the prenup. 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:23.760 Good luck with that. 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:25.240 That's I mean, he's never going to win. 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.840 Yeah, I mean, look, prenups. We talked about this with Jason. 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:29.920 I feel like on one of our previous episodes, I 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:33.000 feel like prenups exist for a reason, and unless there's 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:35.880 a breach of the agreement or some sort of clause 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:38.960 that you know, you both parties mutually agree to that 0:07:39.120 --> 0:07:42.720 gets you know, breached, then you know the prenup should 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:43.239 be enforced. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:46.000 In my I agree, I mean, I agree. I mean 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.640 I feel like fourteen months is not alone, not long 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:50.680 enough for you to contest a prenum. I think if 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.000 you've been married for like thirty years, twenty years, and 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:54.600 it's like you know, you put in the work and 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:56.760 you know what, maybe I was crazy when I signed it, 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.880 but fourteen months like that just doesn't sound So you're 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:00.800 not surprised. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:03.360 But do you suspect that he was always about the money? 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.520 I don't think he. I mean, yeah, probably. 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.600 I mean, look, most prenups, you know, there's like a 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.200 tenure or you need to have, you know, been married 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:14.920 for a certain amount of years, and then you you know, 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:18.280 I guess, get rewarded or access to I want to 0:08:18.480 --> 0:08:20.560 larger amounts of funds. So I don't know, you know, 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.040 fourteen months, I feel like he might not get anything. 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:25.920 Fourteen months is not long enough, right, Yeah, I mean 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:29.160 I feel like he waited like over a year, and 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:30.960 it was probably a tortuous year for him. By the way, 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:32.920 I'm not saying being married to Brittaney, but I don't 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:34.959 think it's being married to Britney's easy, okay. 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:37.760 But still it's his it's her husband, his wife, and 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:41.520 so I feel like, you know, given the situation, he 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:44.560 should have maybe been a little more supportive of her, 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:46.920 maybe tried to help her in certain other ways, you know, 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:47.480 because no. 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:49.920 Because I feel like she her mom, Like I don't 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:51.520 think anybody can help her. I think she's on this 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:55.000 journey alone, and I think she resents her dad for 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:56.760 you know, trying to keep her in line. I feel 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:58.840 like she's kind of doing her own thing, and I 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:01.320 feel like, remember the whole Brittany, Yeah. 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:02.360 That's what I was going to ask you next. So 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:04.760 do you think she should have stayed in the conservatorship? 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:08.559 Everybody wanted her to be independent and you know, responsible 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:10.440 for her own destiny. But I think at the same time, 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:12.040 a lot of us are not like there. 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:12.640 I don't know. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:14.720 I don't I don't know the truth, the full details 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:17.640 of it all, but some of it sounded if I 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.760 remember correctly, some of it sounded pretty pretty you know, 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:24.160 I guess strict yeah, exactly in terms. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:26.400 Of people need that. Some people need that because they 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:29.000 can't have boundaries for themselves. So I think that that 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:30.040 sounds to help. 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:33.400 You like, as long as she's happy, she's handling her business, 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.480 her finances are straight, you know what I'm saying. I 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.079 feel like she should be able to do whatever the 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:38.920 hell she wants to do, you know, no matter what 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:39.480 people think. 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:41.360 Yeah, no, I agree, but she does. 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:43.400 Look, you know, some of those dance moves on ig 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:46.080 they look a little Listen. 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:48.280 She's living her best life, dancing her you know, dancing 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:49.560 her little life away. So that's good. 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:51.120 You think you can out dance Brittany. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:53.320 I mean she does a lot of trolls are probably 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:55.920 make me sick. It's like being on a ride. I 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:57.040 don't know if I could take it for that. 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:58.840 I love that. I'd love to see that. 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:10.360 Okay, let's talk about the scandal update. Yeah, okay, So Raquel, 0:10:10.720 --> 0:10:12.680 So she was Rachel and she switched it to Roquel. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:14.760 I kind of do like Roquel better than Rachel. 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.760 So what if I changed my name from like Marcus, yeah, 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:18.920 to Marquisio exactly. 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:19.640 That's my nickname. 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:22.959 I think I like you as Marcus. I think that's 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:25.000 and you know what, every Marcus is fine. 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:26.040 I think you know it's funny. 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:29.520 When I was a kid, every member of my family 0:10:29.600 --> 0:10:33.560 has seven letters in their first name. So Michael, Juanita, Jeffrey, 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:36.400 and Jasmine, right, they're all seven letters, and Marcus is 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:38.560 the only one with six letters. And so when I 0:10:38.600 --> 0:10:40.560 was a kid, I used to beg my mom to 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.560 add an S to my name so it would be 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.840 Marcus and I would be seven letters, you know, that's 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:47.680 so cute. So that's you know, that's just a little 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:51.440 a little fun fact. But apparently the former vander Pump 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:54.320 Rules start opened up to Bethany Frankel on the Just 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.760 b podcast about the affair herd around the World. She 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.880 says Bravo has made a ton of money off the scandal, 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:02.040 but she has not. Quote, the network is running to 0:11:02.080 --> 0:11:04.840 the bank, like laughing, running to the bank with the scandal, 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:06.680 and I haven't seen a single penny. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:08.880 And so you think she should. 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:12.280 Be able to capitalize in some way off of this 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:13.199 entire scandal. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:15.640 I think it's kind of on You're on your own, 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:17.560 you know. I feel like you sign a contract to 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.160 be on these reality TV shows and sometimes it's ugly, 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:22.880 you know sometimes. And the thing is, I heard that 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.000 she's not coming back for the next season, but you 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:27.880 almost have to come back to redeem yourself. I've been 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.440 in that situation where like I felt like I wasn't 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:34.160 portrayed the like properly on Housewife sometimes, you know, And 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:35.920 I've been you know, I wanted to say, like, hey, 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:37.480 I don't want to go back. I feel like I 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:40.160 wasn't portrayed properly. They didn't show all the good things 0:11:40.200 --> 0:11:41.480 that I did on the show, the only show, the 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:43.439 bad things that I did on the show. But it's 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:45.319 a reality show, so you have to go back to 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:46.440 kind of redeem yourself. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:50.520 Listen, I signed that agreement this this year, and it's 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:53.679 it's it's an onerous agreement. I mean, you give up 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:57.040 legal rights, you give up everything basically, and you have 0:11:57.080 --> 0:11:59.120 to trust the producers and trust yourself. I mean it's 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:00.959 up to you in terms of you carry. 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:03.200 That's the number one thing you have to be like, Yeah, 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.760 you know, you're responsible for yourself. And a lot of 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:07.880 times I've done things that are done things too, and 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:10.440 I you know, good people make bad decisions. I feel 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:13.320 like Raquel made a bad decision. It was a bad decision, 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:14.880 but I do feel like she can come from it. 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:16.960 And so wait, you know, I'm not one hundred percent 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:20.480 familiar with this situation, but apparently she was cheating. Also, 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.520 she was single, but she was hooking up with somebody 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:24.960 that had a girlfriend on the show. And so they're 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:25.600 all on the show. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:26.760 Yes, oh wow. 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:30.959 And so apparently according to TMZ, she earned three hundred 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.800 fifty thousand last season, and so that's you know, there's 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:35.160 not a small. 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.160 Piece of change, and she made three hundred and fifty thousand. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.520 But the thing is, she feels like she's going to 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:42.480 be betrayed as the villain now for her life, like 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:45.480 her whole entire life, which is not true. You can 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:47.240 come back from almost anything. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.559 Yeah, media cycles are I mean less than seven days now. 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:54.040 I feel like depending on the scandal and what's that play. 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:57.160 And so she says it's not fair. I feel like 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:59.480 a toddler saying that it's not fair. But it really 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:02.160 isn't feel like I've been portrayed as the ultimate villain. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.200 My mistakes that I made on camera live on forever. 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:08.160 And so is that something that you think about when 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.160 you, you know, do housewives in Miami? 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:10.640 Is it like? 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:12.280 No, I kind of live in the moment. 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:13.240 I know you did bad. 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.000 It's bad that I'm like this. I don't think it's good. 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:17.280 It's probably not good, but it's healthy. Okay. So I 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:19.120 live in the moment. If I make a bad decision 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.360 at that moment, I feel like I shouldn't have did it, 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:23.839 but I did it. And tomorrow is a new day. Yeah, 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:25.760 and I'm going to be able to redeem myself. 0:13:25.800 --> 0:13:28.959 No, And I feel like for you. You know you you. 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:31.240 Can write things off easily. You know you're a good person. 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.360 I think you do things with your heart and so 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.360 even if you make a mistake, you know it doesn't 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:38.920 come back to haunt you most often than not. 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:41.240 I mean, I try to make a decision. 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:43.280 Yeah, you feel you do? You do, and so let's 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.520 talk about this. So she also tells Bethanye about using 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:47.960 her real name Rachel instead of Raquel. 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:51.559 Listen, she's in La She's in La La Land. Do 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:53.000 you want to be a little different? I feel like 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:56.040 Roquel just sounds more elevated than Rachel. 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:57.880 Did she legally change it or is just like a 0:13:57.920 --> 0:13:59.439 stage name like a rapper or something? 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:02.400 Which, But I like it. I'm down with for ra Cal. 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:04.360 And you know what, it takes two to tango. And 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:06.160 she's not the only one that was having an affair. 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:09.240 And it's sad that the woman always takes the l 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.440 when it comes down to having an affair, because I 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:14.319 do feel like, Okay, she shouldn't have did it. She 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.600 they're not together anymore. I'm sure she resents it, you know, 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:19.960 she feels like she shouldn't have did it. I agree, 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:22.600 But I do feel like you know, people make mistakes. 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:25.440 Good people make bad decisions. Sometimes I do feel like 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:27.840 she is. I'm going to give her a second chance. 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:29.720 That's my personal opinion. I'm going to give her a 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:30.240 second chance. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:32.080 Yeah, I mean, I don't know all the details of it, 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.240 but I'm all for second chances, you know. 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:36.160 So I don't I do. 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.440 Feel like she should come back next season, like, redeem 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.520 herself and don't take the l because I feel like 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:41.760 right now she feels defeated. 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:43.640 Well, so what's the reason of her not coming back 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:45.680 is by her own choice. 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:48.680 Feels Bravo. She feels like Bravo on the network is 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:53.680 capitalizing on, you know, her being looked at as you know, 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:56.520 the villain, her being looked at as the one that 0:14:56.640 --> 0:15:00.920 ruined another relationship, which, like I said, two to Tango, 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:03.320 And yes, she made a bad decision. But at the 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:05.360 same time, I do feel like, you know, she can 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:08.440 redeem herself, come back and do good things and be 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:10.520 in a better place. And I feel like we're all 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:11.600 going to you know, forgive and forget. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:14.280 Yeah, And so I guess Ariano Maddox landed a lifetime 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:17.840 movie role, and she's got numerous sponsorships, and so I 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.960 guess on the other side of it all because she 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.720 got cheated on, I guess there are other opportunities coming 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:27.920 her way. Yeah, And so Raquel feels. 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:27.840 The type of way about it. 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:30.920 Apparently she raked in over a million dollars from the 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:31.600 various deals. 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:34.960 Numbers are not real. Numbers are not really, guys, I 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:37.440 believe the numbers. Those numbers are not. But it's cute. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:37.800 I like it. 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:38.280 I like it. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.200 I'm all for her getting a second chance and maybe 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:43.840 coming back to the show to try to clear the air. 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:46.600 And like I said, you know, move things, move the 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:49.960 conversation further in a further direction. And so do you 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.080 do you agree or do you think she was exploiting 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:53.920 and every while everyone else made money. 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:56.080 I mean that's on her. You know, when you're on 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:58.840 these reality TV shows, it's on you to capitalize on 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:02.240 the show. So it's not like you sign off on 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:04.440 X Y and Z on you know, with the show. 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:08.440 So it's not like they expect you to make X 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:11.240