WEBVTT - MisSpelling: Secrets of The Manor (Part 3) 0:00:08.680 --> 0:00:12.760 Misspelling with Tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:16.880 Would celebrities come over and go swimming? 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:21.759 Definitely at the house the BM House. Celebrities came over 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.599 and not only when swimming, but always played tennis doubles 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:26.680 with my parents. 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:29.240 Ennis in their whites. It feels like, I hate to 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:33.000 say this, it feels like the BM House was the 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:35.040 better house. Feels like it. 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:38.760 Was more fun, it had more in his heyday then, Yeah, 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.760 so they entertained a lot more. And it's odd because 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:44.080 you would have thought with this amazing huge house they 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:46.400 would have entertained more at the manor, but they didn't. 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:48.600 But I think he was getting older and wanted to. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:51.239 Just just he wanted to just be at home and 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:57.720 do his thing. Yeah, whoa bathrooms? Now, say you were downstairs, 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.920 yes dinner and had to go to the bathroom. Would 0:01:00.920 --> 0:01:02.520 you go to the nearest bathroom or would you go 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.800 like up to your bathroom upstairs? 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.720 Well, considering that would take a real long time and 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.600 you miss out on half the meal. If you went upstairs, 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:13.000 you have to for the elevator to come down, get 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:17.560 you go upstairs, walk halfway walk up the stairs. I 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:18.280 never did that. 0:01:18.480 --> 0:01:22.120 You took the elevator like all the time. Yeah, did 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:22.959 it ever get stuck? 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:27.840 No? Never, No, And my mom said like they were 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:29.440 dynasty staircase and like. 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.279 I would love the stairs. Yeah. 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:34.679 She would always say these double sided staircase, like I 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.440 created it to have you walk down and get married. 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:40.520 Did you do that? Which will be a later episode, 0:01:40.560 --> 0:01:41.280 But did you do that? 0:01:41.760 --> 0:01:41.960 No? 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:44.360 We had it at the manner did it outside? 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:46.280 But by then I think my dad was so old 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:49.080 they couldn't walk down the stairs so well, so we 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.200 just had him walk out because that in itself was 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:51.880 a long walk. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.640 So was there a bathroom right near the dining room? 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.400 There are bathrooms all over We should google how many 0:01:57.440 --> 0:01:59.720 bathrooms there was a lot, but she always had a 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:04.440 meta room, a women's room. No, yeah, and there was 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:08.920 always my mom huge collector, not a hoarder like me, 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:14.080 collector because she's not messy like me. But she I 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.880 started my collections because of my mom. But in like 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:20.360 the women's powder room, the guest bathroom there was like 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:22.360 the Limos collection would be oh. 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:25.320 I know emoj okay of course, so was there there 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.240 was no potty that had multiple potties. They were still 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:29.160 like powder rooms. 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.040 The men's as the day. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.800 I raised, a day in my life so guests could 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:42.160 come over and they could do a poopy and then bums. 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:48.440 I want to and then gold embossed. I cannot napkins 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:51.480 like hand towels. I was going to ask that paper 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:53.480 very high quality paper belling. 0:02:53.560 --> 0:02:54.640 Did they say, what do they say? 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:57.120 The manner? Golden boss? 0:02:57.320 --> 0:02:59.960 No? Stop it. They actually said the manner. 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:03.080 Most things had at the house Prior to that, it 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:05.120 was always my parents' monogram. 0:03:05.400 --> 0:03:07.720 Yeah, is that like A with the C with the 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:08.799 S in the middle. 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:12.200 So I think, but I don't think so. I think 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:13.840 it is the proper way. At least I heard from 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.440 my mom that the C comes first the S and 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:16.880 then the A. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:20.639 And then the sure sure sure sure no female, no idea. 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:24.280 Husband like wife husband. Okay, yeah, that was embossed everywhere. 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:27.560 But once the manor came, there were no pads in 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.120 the manor. I about the pens. This was stolen from 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:30.519 the manner. 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:33.200 There was pens. Wait, I forgot about this. 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.240 Yeah, there were pens. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:35.920 Manor pens. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:40.200 Yeah it was there a man or, notepaper, manor the 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.120 pen said this was stolen from the manor. 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.600 Oh that's very funny. You should look at on basically, 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:47.240 we need to find those. 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:51.080 Oh yeah, and then notepads. We had no pads in 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:52.680 every room, like the leather bound just like at a 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:54.400 hotel you would open it up, you could rip it off, 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:55.640 it said the man or man or manner. 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:57.960 Do you think you could have named every staff member 0:03:58.160 --> 0:03:59.320 like you knew them all by name? 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:04.360 It did? Then? Yeah, whoa, Yeah, it was like family 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:04.680 to me. 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.440 Was there a spelling soap? Like would you have special 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:10.320 soap that had an S on it or something? Oh? 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:12.320 No, it's a good like her own blend. That's a 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.480 good idea. You should bring that to my mom. It's 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:15.120 a good business. 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:19.880 And sauma. Was there a sauna in the house? Sauna? 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:22.400 It was sort of the time of the sauna. It 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:23.479 was the sauna ear. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.960 Oh yeah, steam rooms weren't a thing yet, remember like 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.160 it would be steam showering. 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:31.960 Steam room was probably feels eighties, but saunas were around. 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:35.560 Yeah, saunas were like my dad would always take a 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:37.200 sna when I was young, and I was like, oh, 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:39.520 that's so cool. But wait, have I told you about 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:41.280 the Andy Warhol paintings that he did? 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:45.360 And my mom familiar with tell us again, so my. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:48.240 Mom is a collector of fine art. I told you 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:52.640 when Wren because of like Monaise like, she was, yeah, 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:58.000 very very into arto. But then Andy Warhol had contacted 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.920 her at one point and was fascinated with her and said, 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:04.120 is in the eighties, I would love to come over 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:06.839 and do a photo shoot. And while she knew of 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:10.120 him and respected him and appreciated him, it wasn't her 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:14.680 type of art now right, So I think every one 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:17.040 of her friends, especially her gay friends, were like, are 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:19.560 you kidding? You have to say, Anti World's going to 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:23.560 come to your house. This is legendary. So she said yes. 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:26.080 It's still to this day one of my favorite photos 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:29.160 of my mom. She looks sourgeous in the photo. But 0:05:29.680 --> 0:05:32.080 he did the photos and there's four of them, and 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:35.680 possibly just like he does in the colors, those pop 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:37.919 art colors. And he sent him and at first she 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:41.520 had him in our pre manor house, going down the 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:43.839 stairs in the projection room, which is really like our 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:47.120 living room, going down the stairs into the arcade. And 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:50.120 then when we went to the manor, she had them 0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:55.039 in the poolhouse room. Oh way, I know, because it 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:57.919 just wasn't her thing. But of course when. 0:05:57.920 --> 0:05:59.000 I had friends though. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:02.240 Yeah, it was cool. Well, but because I always when 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.320 my friends would come over, they'd be like they weren't 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:06.400 into like all that type of art. I'd be like, 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.760 there's you know in my twenties once I was yeah, 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:12.680 we were more more cultured. I was like, my mom 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:14.560 is Andy Warl's They're like where, Oh my god, we 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:16.320 got to see? Wow. I always took my friends the 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:17.560 air to show them that I. 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:21.520 Would want to hang out at that point, I, yeah, 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:25.240 where are they? Does your mom have no? Oh my gosh, what. 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:27.080 They're not in the Manner in the Sky. I wonder 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.000 if they're either in storage or she gave them or 0:06:30.040 --> 0:06:32.280 donated them. I don't know those. 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:35.440 You call it the Manner and Sky her place. Oh 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:36.200 that's a good name. 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:40.040 Yeah, that's what it's name because it's a mini version 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:41.320 of the Manner in the Sky. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:53.400 Oh oh my god. So okay, here's my other question. 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:54.920 I always wondered because I kind of want to talk 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:58.240 about Randy, Like, do you think Randy loved this house 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.280 and loved living there? I know we need to ask him, 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.800 but like he really grew up there. 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:06.440 His experiences, Yeah, he grew up there is way different 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:09.040 than mine totally. But I'm sure there's a lot of 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.360 the same feelings, so we should talk to him about that. 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:11.960 It would be fair. 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:13.840 I don't think he'll be his numb. He's a little 0:07:13.840 --> 0:07:15.520 more in touch with his feelings than you are. 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:21.640 You think completely good for him. I'm like, let someone it, 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:25.200 let me your brother help you. 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:26.240 He's so good at that. 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:29.800 The funny thing is he constantly offers advice, and I'm like, 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:33.200 I feel so guilty. I'm like, dude, you do this 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:35.720 for a living. You work all day long as in 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.400 here your kids and your wife. You don't want to 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:38.760 be giving. 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:42.160 You're truly very good as a life coach. 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:43.160 He's really good mine. 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:45.160 But I also have a great therapist for you. I 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:48.960 do think you need one, But that's another episode. Could 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.800 your brother, especially or you, but especially since your brother 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:54.120 because he couldn't drive, could he just walk out and 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.480 would there be like a limo? Could he say, like 0:07:56.640 --> 0:08:00.640 take me to Cuckaroo? I don't know the limo driver? 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:02.880 Or did he have to get like permission, like we 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:06.480 have to can Bob take me to Cuckaroo? Yeah? 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:08.840 Okay, so you'd have to ask Oh my gosh, we 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:12.280 hadn't I think it's it's different like back then. People 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:16.040 think like when we even when we were like eighteen or 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:18.920 twenty going out, like well, my I was different. I'd 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:22.320 moved out and had my own money and everything. But 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:25.080 our dad like never just gave us a credit card 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:28.160 and said like great, you know at eighteen, like let 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:31.320 a limo driver cruise everywhere. Like it wasn't like that. 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.440 I think people assume that that, you know, they see others. 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:39.240 I don't very wealthy families and their kids are just 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:42.520 doing whatever. Like we had friends pick us up. We 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:44.960 went and we had, you know, our money that we 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:46.840 had saved and like it we didn't have. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:50.520 The other vision is like one of your friends, for 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.760 like Westlake in their Honda Civic pulling up into the 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:58.720 manor to pick you up, which I'm sure happened, you 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:01.280 know what I mean, Like they're like old wagon ear 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:03.880 pulling in to pick you up. 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:09.000 In this grown we had a station wagon like an Oldsmobile. Wait, 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.080 should we picture like the Brady Bunch station went. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.959 Liker seventies we had like the we saw the wood 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:15.680 paneling but it was. 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:19.080 Yeah more eighties, yeah, okay, yeah, we had that and 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:22.000 that was the car that nanny drove us around in. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:23.840 Do you call your nanny nanny? 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:27.839 Her real name is Margaret, And yeah, Hattie's middle name 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:29.959 is Margaret, named after her because she was definitely a 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:33.360 second mother to me. But I didn't know. I grew 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.680 up not thinking that was like a name of a 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:37.440 position of a staff member. 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:41.440 Like it was like, my name was nanny, nanny. 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:44.439 My hopes and dreams were crushed when someone one day 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:46.440 was like I was like, oh, let me ask nanny 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:50.320 and they're like, you're nanny. I'm like, no, nanny, let 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.720 me ask her if I can go do that and 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:55.480 they're like, what do you mean? You know that means 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:57.480 she takes care of you. Nanny is a word, and 0:09:57.559 --> 0:10:00.160 they like showed me and I was like in the 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:02.760 pages or something, nanny used to go or something, and 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:04.719 it like broke my heart and I was like, that's 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:06.440 not her name, her real name's not nanny. 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.760 It'll be like she was your nanny to you. So 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:14.280 you fifteen nanny. Well, are any of the nanny is alive? 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:18.880 I think Nellia, who is my brother's nanny, is still alive. Yeah? 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:23.680 WHOA Well, Okay, so are you feeling now, like do 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:25.760 you have any more feelings, just as we've been having 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:26.400 this conversation. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.640 If I feel happy right now, yeah, I feel. 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.480 How do you feel about the manner? 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:34.040 I feel happier about it right now because all these 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.320 memories are coming back as you're talking me through it, 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:39.960 and it's not just like the place my dad died 0:10:40.000 --> 0:10:42.120 and stuff. It's like, oh, there were some fun all 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:43.520 these fun times and fun things. 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:44.280 Oh. 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:46.800 I mean, we can't get to this episode, but the 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.440 next one the Prince Charles party, Like, oh my gosh. 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:53.080 Okay, so that's a perfect way this episode the next 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:56.520 when we do the next dig because I still have 0:10:56.600 --> 0:10:58.480 like a whole I didn't even get to page two. 0:10:58.600 --> 0:10:59.800 I haven't even gotten to my song. 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:02.560 The only time he came to la and the only 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:06.120 place that he had the biggest party ever, like in 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:08.400 the States, was at the Manor, and it was the 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.280 only party she ever threw at the Manor was for 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:11.439 Prince Charles. 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:13.520 Okay, so I definitely want to hear all about that. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.880 And as we leave you, I want you to think 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:18.720 about one one question and you can answer it now, 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:20.800 or you can answer it when we do our next 0:11:21.120 --> 0:11:23.319 next one. We'll do it in the next one. But really, 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:27.440 think about this. If money was no object, So money 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:31.400 is no object. You have a billion dollars right, like 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.679 money is no object. I would love to know what 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:38.320 is your dream house? Is it the manor now? Is 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:41.880 it something like that? Is it the house before the 0:11:41.880 --> 0:11:46.040 manor is it even smaller than that? What is your dream? 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:50.120 My dreams have changed since. I mean I used to 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:54.200 believe in fairy tales and believe I really wanted the 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:57.520 white picket fence. It was all, yeah, I don't know, 0:11:57.960 --> 0:12:01.000 I don't know about that anymore. I mean, it's definitely 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:03.760 a sizeable house because I want my kids. I do 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.200 have five kids. Those are fasts. So if I had 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:11.360 my dream house, i'd want I'd really want one big 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:14.319 ass room that I could have a bed big enough 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:18.439 and they make them now where on certain nights, movie nights, 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:20.480 like all my kids and I could sleep in one 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:22.600 bed and watch a movie and fall asleep together. That 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:28.360 would be really fun. Yeah, I mean, I definitely I 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.680 always wanted like the idea of like a lazy Susan 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:36.959 or a Benny Hanna type thing, but it would be 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:41.720 like or like a rotating like rotating a rotating kitchen, 0:12:42.080 --> 0:12:44.280 just for me that I can make food for my kids. 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:47.160 So we could all be and it would just be 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:48.920 on a conveyor, but it would go and we could 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:52.119 all interact and not have to like not yeah. 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:55.400 Bigger kitchen so that everybody could be in there, because 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:56.480 that's like the heart of the home. 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:59.440 That's our happy place is Yeah, my kids and I 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:02.199 we could and we bake and we talk, and we dance, 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:05.160 and we sing and we watch movies. It's all kind 0:13:05.200 --> 0:13:08.040 of in the kitchen and extension of the kitchen in 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:08.840 like a big room. 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:11.520 That was all when you bought that house from NICKI 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:12.760 didn't you buy a house from Nikki? 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.839 That was a good house, That was a great house. 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:19.120 I had a little shame with that house because so why, 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.600 I mean I had worked my butt off to be 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:26.120 able to afford a house like that. You know, nothing 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.760 was given to me, and you get somewhere deep down 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:31.719 when people would come there, I'd be like, oh, are 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:34.320 they still thinking like oh this is her version of 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:37.080 the manner in the ballet, Like oh, she's rich. 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:40.080 Like you thought it was too big. It wasn't that 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:41.720 big of a house. That was a pretty that would 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:42.680 be a nice house for you. 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:46.120 Now, Yeah, it was like just under I think seven 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.320 thousand square felt it had six bedrooms, so it would 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:53.480 have been perfect. Yeah, yeah, I don't believe in regrets. 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:55.760 I regret selling that house because I was looking for 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:59.000 something that I wasn't finding and I thought if we 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:02.800 kept moving, maybe memories would go away and we would 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:05.920 start a new family. But it was our relationship, you know. 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:08.280 So yeah, I should have kept that house. 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:14.280 That's it. Yeah, I think you want like it's interesting 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:17.600 because the vibe I'm getting is you don't want the manor. 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:22.520 Oh never, that's not unless. I mean I do envision 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:26.080 being able to take care of my kids and their 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:29.720 kids one day, sure, and would love nothing more than 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:31.720 like a compound. 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:34.280 Where there's like a house with a guest house with. 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.240 Like ye so much. And I know it's not in 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:40.520 La or it can't be, but like a compound where 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:42.920 it's like acres and acres and we could each have 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.680 a house with the juds. 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.880 Winona had that, remember Winona and Ashley and I and 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:50.640 their mom all had that. They had like three houses 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:51.560 on one big piece of property. 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:53.920 I don't want to speak at school because kind of 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:57.320 do that being in hidden hills, you know, so it 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:58.720 would you know if they could just walk to each 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:00.680 other's houses, that it would be a version of that, 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:06.160 because that's my dream because for me, family is everything. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:09.680 So once they've left the nest and I want them 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.320 to I want them to fly. It's sore, but I 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:14.040 want I still want to be there with them. I 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.440 don't want. I would love to all be nearby and 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.680 be able to see each other daily. 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:19.640 You know. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.120 So yeah, that's my dream of compound on my terms. 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:26.040 Like despite what we kind of talked about, it's like 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:30.400 your parents did instill family into you. Even if your 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:32.880 family was like a little different or more proper whatever, 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:36.760 that's definitely you get that from them. So family. You 0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:39.600 must have grown up with family being number one. 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:44.160 They did instill family. Our family is very different, but 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.000 we did have We were all we were very close 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:50.680 and we did things and yeah, you're right. I think 0:15:50.720 --> 0:15:53.560 as I got older and learned that it was different 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.880 and I always felt like people were looking on us weird. 0:15:57.080 --> 0:15:59.760 Our version was, yeah, we were very close and I 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.880 loved those silly you know. I still remember I loved 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.080 our beach house, which we can talk about at some point, 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:09.680 because the beach house was my perfect home because it 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:13.440 was smaller, it was cozier. We didn't now everything together 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:14.120 in Malibu. 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:16.880 Oh, stay tuned for this episode because on a. 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:19.760 Weekend, Oh my gosh, on a weekend we go out 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:23.480 and get pizza and like go to Swenson's of course, 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:26.080 and we would have oh my god, I remember an 0:16:26.120 --> 0:16:28.280 ice cream fight my brother and my mom and I 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:31.400 had at Swenson's that was like iconic. And my mom 0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:34.000 I love when she does this. She's like me, if 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:36.760 you like, get her silly and giggly and she laughs. 0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:39.320 She will laugh so hard that she cries, and that's 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:42.280 the sweet spot. I'm just like, there she is, and 0:16:42.480 --> 0:16:45.280 I do that. You know, we're both similar in the 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:48.240 fact that we don't show emotions, we don't access our emotions. 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.160 But if you like really tap into that little kid 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:52.560 in us, we both are the same. 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:56.600 I love this conversations we have, like I mean, like 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:58.680 I said, I have a lot more to learn, but 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:09.480 love it. Is it weird that the Manners for Sale. 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:12.240 I can't remember if we talked about that the last time. 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:13.920 The Manners for Sale. 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:16.639 I know, but it's not the first time sold a 0:17:16.640 --> 0:17:20.600 few times, right, Yeah, I mean it was wild for 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:25.400 me to see how the manor was completely redone. Yeah, 0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:29.880 when Egglestein bought it, like it became very modern and 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:33.959 it went from light colors to black and she did 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:36.919 a great job. But it's just so drastically different, and 0:17:36.920 --> 0:17:40.639 it's like wow, wow, Like that was a double staircase. 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:44.760 It was like not cream and carpet anymore. And yeah, 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.800 laugh and moderate and it's like wow. But I don't 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:48.080 know what it looks like now. I haven't seen it, 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:50.879 so I don't know if the last owner redid it 0:17:50.920 --> 0:17:55.160 except for sale murder when the room went around. Remember 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:57.719 when the rumor went around that Ben and Jal we're 0:17:57.760 --> 0:17:58.399 going to buy it. 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:03.360 My gosh, that would have been crazy, so expensive. I mean, 0:18:03.400 --> 0:18:06.160 like it's a very particular person that can buy that house, 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.040 because we're not just talking about your average movie starck. 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:14.719 Really, I mean I would love to. I mean, this 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:16.760 is a show. If someone wants to fund it and 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:20.560 buy that house, I would turn it into the most modern, 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:27.080 cool badass like like airbnban, Oh my gosh, Breakfast, Yeah, 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:28.160 I mean Bed and Breakfast. 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.399 It's the size of the most hotel. 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:33.679 Inactive experiences and make it family because I feel like 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:36.199 Bed and Breakfast aren't really for families. But it's so 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:39.119 big that you can have like a wing where like 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:41.280 there's kids stuff in, the kids down and then an 0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:42.359 adult side, you know. 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:44.359 I mean, I don't know the square footage of the 0:18:44.640 --> 0:18:47.359 Beverly Hills Hotel, but like, I don't think this is 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:50.520 that much. This might be the same. I don't know, 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.880 I have to fact check, but like that your house 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.080 is crazy. 0:18:55.080 --> 0:18:57.520 Have I could think of such great ideas. It could 0:18:57.560 --> 0:19:00.639 be one of the coolest destinations and think about it, 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:02.679 like it would be even more iconic for fans to 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:04.399 be like, hey, I'm going to go check in this hotel. 0:19:04.400 --> 0:19:07.080 That's super cool. But also it's owned by Tory Spelling 0:19:07.280 --> 0:19:10.399 and legendary Aaron Spelling. It was his house, Like I 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:10.840 don't know. 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:13.119 If back how it was when you guys have so 0:19:13.160 --> 0:19:17.680 we do funding for this, Yeah, we only need two 0:19:17.920 --> 0:19:19.639 hundred million dollars. 0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:24.080