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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Would celebrities come over and go swimming?

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Speaker 1: Definitely at the house the BM House. Celebrities came over

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Speaker 1: and not only when swimming, but always played tennis doubles

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Speaker 1: with my parents.

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Speaker 2: Ennis in their whites. It feels like, I hate to

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Speaker 2: say this, it feels like the BM House was the

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Speaker 2: better house. Feels like it.

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Speaker 1: Was more fun, it had more in his heyday then, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so they entertained a lot more. And it's odd because

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Speaker 1: you would have thought with this amazing huge house they

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Speaker 1: would have entertained more at the manor, but they didn't.

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Speaker 1: But I think he was getting older and wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Just just he wanted to just be at home and

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Speaker 2: do his thing. Yeah, whoa bathrooms? Now, say you were downstairs,

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Speaker 2: yes dinner and had to go to the bathroom. Would

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Speaker 2: you go to the nearest bathroom or would you go

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Speaker 2: like up to your bathroom upstairs?

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Speaker 1: Well, considering that would take a real long time and

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Speaker 1: you miss out on half the meal. If you went upstairs,

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Speaker 1: you have to for the elevator to come down, get

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Speaker 1: you go upstairs, walk halfway walk up the stairs. I

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Speaker 1: never did that.

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Speaker 2: You took the elevator like all the time. Yeah, did

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Speaker 2: it ever get stuck?

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Speaker 1: No? Never, No, And my mom said like they were

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Speaker 1: dynasty staircase and like.

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Speaker 2: I would love the stairs. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She would always say these double sided staircase, like I

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Speaker 1: created it to have you walk down and get married.

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Speaker 2: Did you do that? Which will be a later episode,

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Speaker 2: But did you do that?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: We had it at the manner did it outside?

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Speaker 1: But by then I think my dad was so old

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Speaker 1: they couldn't walk down the stairs so well, so we

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Speaker 1: just had him walk out because that in itself was

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Speaker 2: So was there a bathroom right near the dining room?

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Speaker 1: There are bathrooms all over We should google how many

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Speaker 1: bathrooms there was a lot, but she always had a

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Speaker 1: meta room, a women's room. No, yeah, and there was

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Speaker 1: always my mom huge collector, not a hoarder like me,

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Speaker 1: collector because she's not messy like me. But she I

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Speaker 1: started my collections because of my mom. But in like

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Speaker 1: the women's powder room, the guest bathroom there was like

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Speaker 1: the Limos collection would be oh.

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Speaker 2: I know emoj okay of course, so was there there

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Speaker 2: was no potty that had multiple potties. They were still

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Speaker 2: like powder rooms.

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Speaker 1: The men's as the day.

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Speaker 2: I raised, a day in my life so guests could

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Speaker 2: come over and they could do a poopy and then bums.

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Speaker 1: I want to and then gold embossed. I cannot napkins

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Speaker 1: like hand towels. I was going to ask that paper

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Speaker 1: very high quality paper belling.

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Speaker 2: Did they say, what do they say?

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Speaker 1: The manner? Golden boss?

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Speaker 2: No? Stop it. They actually said the manner.

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Speaker 1: Most things had at the house Prior to that, it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is that like A with the C with the

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Speaker 1: So I think, but I don't think so. I think

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Speaker 2: And then the sure sure sure sure no female, no idea.

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Speaker 1: Husband like wife husband. Okay, yeah, that was embossed everywhere.

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Speaker 1: But once the manor came, there were no pads in

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Speaker 2: There was pens. Wait, I forgot about this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there were pens.

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Speaker 2: Manor pens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it was there a man or, notepaper, manor the

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Speaker 2: Oh that's very funny. You should look at on basically,

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Speaker 2: we need to find those.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and then notepads. We had no pads in

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Speaker 1: it said the man or man or manner.

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Speaker 2: Do you think you could have named every staff member

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Speaker 1: It did? Then? Yeah, whoa, Yeah, it was like family

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Speaker 2: Was there a spelling soap? Like would you have special

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Speaker 1: No, it's a good like her own blend. That's a

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Speaker 1: good idea. You should bring that to my mom. It's

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Speaker 2: And sauma. Was there a sauna in the house? Sauna?

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Speaker 2: Steam room was probably feels eighties, but saunas were around.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, saunas were like my dad would always take a

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Speaker 1: sna when I was young, and I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's so cool. But wait, have I told you about

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Speaker 1: the Andy Warhol paintings that he did?

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Speaker 2: And my mom familiar with tell us again, so my.

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Speaker 1: Mom is a collector of fine art. I told you

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Speaker 1: him and respected him and appreciated him, it wasn't her

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Speaker 1: type of art now right, So I think every one

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Speaker 1: of her friends, especially her gay friends, were like, are

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Speaker 1: you kidding? You have to say, Anti World's going to

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Speaker 1: come to your house. This is legendary. So she said yes.

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Speaker 1: It's still to this day one of my favorite photos

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Speaker 1: of my mom. She looks sourgeous in the photo. But

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Speaker 1: he did the photos and there's four of them, and

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Speaker 1: possibly just like he does in the colors, those pop

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Speaker 1: then when we went to the manor, she had them

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Speaker 2: I had friends though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was cool. Well, but because I always when

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Speaker 1: into like all that type of art. I'd be like,

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Speaker 1: there's you know in my twenties once I was yeah,

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Speaker 1: is Andy Warl's They're like where, Oh my god, we

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Speaker 2: Would want to hang out at that point, I, yeah,

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Speaker 2: where are they? Does your mom have no? Oh my gosh, what.

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Speaker 1: They're not in the Manner in the Sky. I wonder

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Speaker 2: You call it the Manner and Sky her place. Oh

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Speaker 2: that's a good name.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it's name because it's a mini version

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Speaker 2: Oh oh my god. So okay, here's my other question.

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Speaker 2: I always wondered because I kind of want to talk

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Speaker 2: about Randy, Like, do you think Randy loved this house

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Speaker 2: and loved living there? I know we need to ask him,

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Speaker 2: but like he really grew up there.

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Speaker 1: His experiences, Yeah, he grew up there is way different

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Speaker 1: than mine totally. But I'm sure there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: the same feelings, so we should talk to him about that.

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Speaker 1: It would be fair.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he'll be his numb. He's a little

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Speaker 2: more in touch with his feelings than you are.

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Speaker 1: You think completely good for him. I'm like, let someone it,

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Speaker 2: He's so good at that.

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Speaker 1: The funny thing is he constantly offers advice, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I feel so guilty. I'm like, dude, you do this

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Speaker 1: here your kids and your wife. You don't want to

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Speaker 2: You're truly very good as a life coach.

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Speaker 1: He's really good mine.

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Speaker 2: But I also have a great therapist for you. I

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Speaker 2: do think you need one, But that's another episode. Could

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Speaker 2: your brother, especially or you, but especially since your brother

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Speaker 2: because he couldn't drive, could he just walk out and

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Speaker 2: would there be like a limo? Could he say, like

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Speaker 2: take me to Cuckaroo? I don't know the limo driver?

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Speaker 2: have to can Bob take me to Cuckaroo? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you'd have to ask Oh my gosh, we

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Speaker 1: I think people assume that that, you know, they see others.

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Speaker 2: The other vision is like one of your friends, for

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Speaker 2: like Westlake in their Honda Civic pulling up into the

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Speaker 1: In this grown we had a station wagon like an Oldsmobile. Wait,

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Speaker 2: Liker seventies we had like the we saw the wood

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Speaker 1: Yeah more eighties, yeah, okay, yeah, we had that and

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Speaker 2: Do you call your nanny nanny?

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Speaker 1: Her real name is Margaret, And yeah, Hattie's middle name

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Speaker 1: is Margaret, named after her because she was definitely a

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Speaker 1: second mother to me. But I didn't know. I grew

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Speaker 1: up not thinking that was like a name of a

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Speaker 2: Like it was like, my name was nanny, nanny.

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Speaker 1: My hopes and dreams were crushed when someone one day

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Speaker 1: was like I was like, oh, let me ask nanny

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Speaker 1: and they're like, you're nanny. I'm like, no, nanny, let

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Speaker 1: me ask her if I can go do that and

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Speaker 1: they're like, what do you mean? You know that means

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Speaker 1: she takes care of you. Nanny is a word, and

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Speaker 1: they like showed me and I was like in the

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Speaker 1: pages or something, nanny used to go or something, and

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Speaker 1: it like broke my heart and I was like, that's

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Speaker 1: not her name, her real name's not nanny.

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Speaker 2: It'll be like she was your nanny to you. So

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Speaker 2: you fifteen nanny. Well, are any of the nanny is alive?

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Speaker 1: I think Nellia, who is my brother's nanny, is still alive. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: WHOA Well, Okay, so are you feeling now, like do

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Speaker 2: you have any more feelings, just as we've been having

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Speaker 1: If I feel happy right now, yeah, I feel.

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Speaker 2: Where there's like a house with a guest house with.

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Speaker 2: Winona had that, remember Winona and Ashley and I and

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Speaker 1: Weekend, Oh my gosh, on a weekend we go out

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Speaker 2: I love this conversations we have, like I mean, like

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Speaker 2: I said, I have a lot more to learn, but

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Speaker 2: love it. Is it weird that the Manners for Sale.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember if we talked about that the last time.

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Speaker 2: The Manners for Sale.

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Speaker 1: I know, but it's not the first time sold a

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Speaker 2: My gosh, that would have been crazy, so expensive. I mean,

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Speaker 2: like it's a very particular person that can buy that house,

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Speaker 2: because we're not just talking about your average movie starck.

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Speaker 1: Really, I mean I would love to. I mean, this

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Speaker 1: cool badass like like airbnban, Oh my gosh, Breakfast, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's the size of the most hotel.

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Speaker 1: Inactive experiences and make it family because I feel like

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know the square footage of the

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Speaker 2: I have to fact check, but like that your house

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Speaker 1: Have I could think of such great ideas. It could

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Speaker 1: be one of the coolest destinations and think about it,

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Speaker 1: like it would be even more iconic for fans to

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Speaker 1: That's super cool. But also it's owned by Tory Spelling

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Speaker 1: and legendary Aaron Spelling. It was his house, Like I

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Speaker 2: If back how it was when you guys have so

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Speaker 2: we do funding for this, Yeah, we only need two

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe in the next decade it'll be a new era.

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Speaker 1: My kid will be running it.

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Speaker 2: The conversation continues, But I hope you're feeling I feel

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Speaker 2: good good.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I love when you share these things. Also, your hair

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Speaker 2: looks great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. What's your fee for this?

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm like a I think I'm a mediocre therapist,

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Speaker 2: but I do want to get you a good gut.

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Speaker 1: You've gone further than many have in my lifetime.

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Speaker 2: I can only just tell that there's so much in there.

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Speaker 2: I'm waiting for the day when like we're together and

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Speaker 2: you just fall apart and I have to like hug

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Speaker 2: you and like hold your head because I just feel

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Speaker 2: like there's tears in there that haven't had their time

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Speaker 2: to come out yet.

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Speaker 1: There are, We'll get there.

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Speaker 2: It's okay to be sad too, Like it's just I

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Speaker 2: don't know, I think people are too. They shove sad

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Speaker 2: Like I have a tear every day somehow, not like

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Speaker 2: a bawling tear, but like little tears or I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Like a proper cry, like yeah, like a like crying.

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Speaker 2: Did you ever cry like over the divorce or cry

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Speaker 2: over dancing with the stars or cry like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I definitely had sadness like dancing with the stars. But

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Speaker 1: I'm fine. I'm fine because I'm just cry.

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Speaker 2: I would have got in my car and bawled like

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Speaker 1: And didn't cry. It didn't hit me for days, and

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Speaker 1: then I was like, because the show must go on.

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Speaker 2: I think we need to throw that line out the

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Speaker 2: fricking window of the man. The show does not always

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Speaker 2: have to go on. You get to have a minute

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Speaker 1: Not when you have five kids and no one to

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Speaker 1: take care of them besides you. Like, what what is

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Speaker 1: I mean?

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Speaker 2: I guess I guess.

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Speaker 1: I could, you know, cry to pick up and drop off.

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Speaker 2: I could see you cry.

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Speaker 1: My kids are always with me, so they Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: did have sadness after Dancing with the Stars. It didn't

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Speaker 1: hit me for like days because I was trying to

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Speaker 1: be brave friend. And then I was like, wow, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what's this feeling I'm I was like, I'm like Torri

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Speaker 1: as usual. I'm like check check inside.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to go see inside out.

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Speaker 1: I've seen it. I've seen it. I mean I was

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Speaker 1: getting kids, you know, drinks and food the entire time.

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Speaker 1: I was just a snappitch. But you know, like you

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Speaker 1: you're hired.

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Speaker 2: I'm sired.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I definitely had days after Dancing with the Stars whar.

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Speaker 1: I was like, it didn't hit me for a few days,

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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, I was like, what

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Speaker 1: is this feel? This isn't the usual me. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm having like I miss Pasha and

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Speaker 1: I miss dancing and it gave me such a joy.

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Speaker 1: I will tell you the last time I cried. It

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Speaker 1: was during Dancing with the Star's rehearsal WHOA. I cried

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Speaker 1: a couple of times during that, and it was the

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Speaker 1: weirdest thing. Pasha was teaching me something and I couldn't

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Speaker 1: get it, and I was frustrated with myself, and he

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Speaker 1: was super kind and patient, and we were trying to

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Speaker 1: do movements and my brain was firing and my body

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Speaker 1: was firing against it, and we're trying to go and

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Speaker 1: I was beating up myself really bad. And he was like,

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Speaker 1: you're very competitive, and I was like yes, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, but it was with myself. And he would

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Speaker 1: always say like when I'd mess up. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I call it this thing called hoofing, where I like like,

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Speaker 1: like I'm a horse, like a pilly that won't be broken,

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Speaker 1: like hoofing across the thing, and I would make grunts

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Speaker 1: when I'd mess up, and it was nothing against him.

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Speaker 1: I was so mad at myself when I wouldn't get

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Speaker 1: it right, I'd be like like m and like anyway.

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Speaker 1: There was twice that it happened where I wasn't getting

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Speaker 1: something that was happening, and then all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: something was like on the brink of happening where I

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Speaker 1: was getting the move I was getting and tapping into it,

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Speaker 1: and I started crying and hysterically laughing at the same time.

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Speaker 2: Oh good, that's so healthy for you.

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Speaker 1: That's what he said too, like pachaed so embarrassed, tears

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Speaker 1: pouring down, so mud laughing. It was of intense pain,

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Speaker 1: emotional pay lease. It was released. It was like this,

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Speaker 1: and I was I was laughing so hard I was,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, could feel like everything in my

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Speaker 1: brain and physical and emotion releasing. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy.

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Speaker 2: Do you know I have therapy every week? Mm hmm,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, Tori, like I have therapy three times

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Speaker 2: a week. I think you need a label. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you would love it because you need

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Speaker 2: that release.

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Speaker 1: Doe therapy obviously. But I'm more like, it's very hard

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Speaker 1: for me to not like I sit with you and

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Speaker 1: sit with everyone and truss the world and like share

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Speaker 1: stories and giving the release for the outset.

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Speaker 2: That it's interesting that dancing that's what they say, it

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Speaker 2: triggered it, That dancing with the stars changes people's lives.

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Speaker 1: I mean, for really it does.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh gosh, we have so much more to talk about.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait till our next session.

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Speaker 1: Same same, Well, I hope you guys really give us

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Speaker 1: great feedback and like this because I could really use

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Speaker 1: doing this with Amy weekly just for my own personal reasons.

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Speaker 1: So if you care about me, let us know.

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Speaker 2: Try to educate myself us.

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Speaker 1: Downloads, download, Tell everyone to download so we can get

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Speaker 1: these numbers up and do this more often because this

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Speaker 1: is great