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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo or Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, here we go, Shae in Jersey City,

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Speaker 1: right to my pastor called to follow up on a

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Speaker 1: meeting we had today. As we hung up, I said

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Speaker 1: I love you and he said I love you too, Shay.

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Speaker 1: I said it by mistake, but his response seemed intentional,

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Speaker 1: and he even said, my name, what's up with my pastor?

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Speaker 2: No, lady, come on, no, no, what's up with you?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Girls?

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Speaker 4: Stop?

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Speaker 2: I said it by accident. He said it with intention

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Speaker 2: and he said my name. He did exactly what you

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Speaker 2: wanted to say. He reacted just the way you would

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Speaker 2: hope he reacted. And now you want us to verify that?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Now what?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Yes it was intentional. Yes, that's what's up with your pastor?

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Speaker 2: Now the big question is what's up with you? Cause

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Speaker 2: you're all up in the man's face talking about I

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Speaker 2: love you.

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Speaker 3: But isn't that the Christian thing to do?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 4: Bye? That's why we got so many little Christians.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you when you're talking to people, don't you

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Speaker 1: like people that you love?

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Speaker 3: Don't you say okay, love you bye?

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Speaker 4: Okay my wife?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Huh? Your kids, even some of your friends. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but she said she said it by accident, so

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Speaker 2: he was being polite and set it back.

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Speaker 4: I love you too. Ship.

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Speaker 3: It's a reaction, yeah, I love you. I love you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But you're thinking she's flirting.

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Speaker 4: Why was she right in?

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Speaker 2: If it wasn't nothing, y'all, If it wasn't nothing, Why

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Speaker 2: was she right in?

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Speaker 4: Because it's all up in her head.

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Speaker 3: For me, it's the way he said it. She said.

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Speaker 1: She said, okay, Bypastor, I love you, and he said, what, okay,

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Speaker 1: come on past us on the show.

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Speaker 4: You too? Sure? I love you too?

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Speaker 3: Sh't it's a little different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why she wrote in okay, all.

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Speaker 4: Right, try another one, try another one?

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Speaker 3: All right, okay, Pastor, thank you, I love you.

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Speaker 1: Bye.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I put some love and on you too.

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Speaker 3: That was intentional.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, alright, what's next for you? All right?

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Speaker 1: Ken YadA and Baton Rouge. Ken YadA writes, I'm married

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Speaker 1: to a beautiful woman that had a lot of beautiful hair.

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Speaker 1: She recently chopped it all off and dyted blonde. I

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Speaker 1: know it's her hair and she can do what she wants,

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Speaker 1: but shouldn't she have run it.

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Speaker 3: By me first? Can I tell her I don't like it.

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Speaker 4: Oh, it is her hand. She could do what she

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Speaker 4: wanted to do.

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Speaker 3: But are they married, Yeah, they're married.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She'd have ran that by you. You know, she would

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Speaker 4: have said something.

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Speaker 3: Like, honey, I'm going to get my hair cut off

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Speaker 3: or all of it. It'll grow back.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna come back up in here looking like amber Rose,

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Speaker 2: and I may not be as attractive as her.

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Speaker 4: Amber Rose used to.

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Speaker 2: Be fine right till she put that title across her forehead.

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Speaker 3: I don't know her name. It's her son's name, her

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Speaker 3: son's name.

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Speaker 4: She ain't know it. You don't know.

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Speaker 2: You just needed You ain't get the best birth certificate.

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Speaker 2: You ain't put it on, and you want to put

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Speaker 2: it on your arm with the other kids?

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Speaker 3: Are you so?

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Speaker 1: Back to Kenyata, can he tell his wife that he

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Speaker 1: is like her hair and or ask her yeah you can.

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Speaker 4: Die, Yeah you can do that.

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Speaker 2: But uh, you know, man, she might not care what.

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Speaker 3: You think, which is why she did what she did.

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Speaker 2: Oh my background saying so, I don't know, man, I

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Speaker 2: don't know how to tell you that.

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Speaker 4: You can just say, you know, I liked you the

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Speaker 4: way you were.

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Speaker 3: Still that's the same I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know how you do it.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to say it because it's in your head.

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Speaker 2: But just wait till y'all again and say.

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Speaker 3: It to fire off.

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Speaker 2: Don't don't, don't mess up a good day. Wait till

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Speaker 2: the day is already shot. Why like your hair like that?

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Speaker 4: You just get it out? Oh wait a minute, Oh

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Speaker 4: so you don't like my head? No, I don't, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Danica in Saint Louis, Danika writes, I'm

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Speaker 1: dating a man that's close to his mom, and he's

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Speaker 1: canceled dates with me because he had to do something

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Speaker 1: for her. She is still young at heart, and she

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Speaker 1: has a boyfriend that she's always with.

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Speaker 3: I think he's lying. Is he using his mom as

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Speaker 3: an excuse?

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Speaker 2: Or he could be a mama's boy? Either way, either way,

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Speaker 2: you should go the other way. Either way, if he's lying,

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Speaker 2: you should go the other way. If he really is

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Speaker 2: doing stuff for his mama, you need to go the

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Speaker 2: other way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what does that mean? Go the other day?

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Speaker 2: If he's a mama's boy, you need to go and

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Speaker 2: let this go. If he's lying, you need to let

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Speaker 2: this go. Oh okay, because it's obvious already you're not

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Speaker 2: finna beat out to mama. Yeah, and if it's a lie,

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Speaker 2: how many times you're gonna let him tell you this lie?

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Speaker 3: Okay? All right, either.

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Speaker 4: Way, you're not getting what you want out to deal.

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Speaker 3: Right, exactly? All right?

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Speaker 1: Great advice. Uh, last one Steve Laney and Plano. Laney writes,

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Speaker 1: my side dude got a hotel room for us, and

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Speaker 1: he left me a key. He was sleep under the

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Speaker 1: covers and it looked like he'd been there for a while.

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Speaker 1: I assume that I'm not the only woman he's seeing

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Speaker 1: in a situation like this. Do I have the right

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Speaker 1: to question him?

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Speaker 3: He your side, dude?

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Speaker 4: That mean you got a you're in a relationship or.

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Speaker 3: Her or married? Yeah? Yeah, because he's on the side.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me explain something to you.

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Speaker 4: You do know you the side chick too?

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Speaker 3: To him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're not the main entree. Uh green beans,

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Speaker 2: you know you that little wet con. They say, oh

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Speaker 2: that con don't be worsh No, I don't get that

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Speaker 2: corn in that cup. Them colonels that's fresh after can

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Speaker 2: ran under the water, put right in the cup.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what you are, baby, You.

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Speaker 2: That you that mash potatoes with that pale white hospital,

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Speaker 2: gravy on it. Yeah, that's what you are, so lest

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Speaker 2: you can ask him about it. But what if he

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Speaker 2: tell you it's another woman somewhere.

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Speaker 4: What you gonna do? What what you're gonna do? It's

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Speaker 4: another man somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Ain't Yeah, yeah, yeah, See.

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Speaker 2: Y'all now here with all these timm you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: to have a class for y'all. Y'all don't know these

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Speaker 2: side piece of rules and Thomas Miles side people class.

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Speaker 2: He retired, well he is retired, but he still had

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Speaker 2: a knowledge. You gotta come out of retirement.

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Speaker 4: You just got to teach the class.

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Speaker 3: Thank you Zilla.

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