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Speaker 2: Zion is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Palmer.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Palmer, why do
Speaker 2: you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: I think it's because I went out with her sister.
Speaker 4: Oh, like, yeah, I can see that, like after your date.
Speaker 3: No, No, it was a few years ago. It wasn't
Speaker 3: anything serious. We met the same way.
Speaker 5: Me and her sister met on a day app went
Speaker 5: out on a few dates, and it just kind of
Speaker 5: fizzled out.
Speaker 3: We realized we really weren't into each other.
Speaker 4: Okay, did you know that beforehand?
Speaker 3: No, I didn't know until the middle of the date.
Speaker 5: She showed me a picture of their family vacation last
Speaker 5: year and I noticed, like, wow, that girl looks familiar.
Speaker 4: Awkward.
Speaker 3: Yeah it was her.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I debated on not saying anything at all, but
Speaker 5: then I was worried that her sister would say something
Speaker 5: before I could, so I just blurted it out.
Speaker 4: Really just blurted out that.
Speaker 3: I dated her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was really like that, Like it just made
Speaker 5: it so much worse because the conversation had moved on.
Speaker 5: Then I just, yeah, I literally just went I went
Speaker 5: out with your sister, but we didn't hook up.
Speaker 4: Clarify that part though, blurting it out like that, could
Speaker 4: you just not stop thinking about it or something?
Speaker 3: No, I just I had to say it.
Speaker 5: She was obviously shocked, and then like the people sitting
Speaker 5: in the tables next to us definitely heard me and
Speaker 5: like say, we're shocked too.
Speaker 3: Yeah. It was really awkward.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And did it seem like it bothered her to
Speaker 2: the point where she'd ghost you?
Speaker 6: I mean she.
Speaker 5: Got a little quiet and then her answers got shorter.
Speaker 5: I mean I thought that she was just you know, embarrassed.
Speaker 5: But other than that, like we had a fun date.
Speaker 5: I walked back to her car. We didn't kiss good night, okay,
Speaker 5: but it seemed like she would want to see me again, honestly.
Speaker 4: All right, well try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and then call her
Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
Speaker 2: and maybe get.
Speaker 4: You a second date.
Speaker 3: All right, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 7: Right.
Speaker 4: Your first day follow up is right after this.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up,
Speaker 2: And if you're just joining us, Zion is on the
Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Palmer.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date. But before we do that, Zion, why
Speaker 2: don't you refresh our memory on why you think you're
Speaker 2: getting ghosted.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I went out with this girl. I also went
Speaker 3: out with her sister, like a few years ago, but
Speaker 3: he didn't go anywhere. And uh, yeah, now she has
Speaker 3: ghosted me.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: And because you didn't know that until you were on
Speaker 2: the date with her, and you blurted out that you
Speaker 2: had dated her sister during the date and it was
Speaker 2: awkward exactly, okay.
Speaker 4: Not our sisters like to share. Well, here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna call her right now and see if that
Speaker 2: is the reason you're getting ghosted. Hello, Hi, I speak
Speaker 2: to Palmer.
Speaker 4: Please, Uh this is she.
Speaker 2: Hey, Palmer, how you doing. This is a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 4: Hi Palmer, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name
Speaker 4: is Jubell. How are you?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 1: Hi?
Speaker 6: Uh wow? I am good?
Speaker 3: How are you all good?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 4: Have you heard the show before? Are you familiar with it?
Speaker 6: No? No, I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, it sounded like you did. Dang well.
Speaker 2: You can check us out if you want to jubelshow
Speaker 2: dot com. But anyway, it's a radio show and the
Speaker 2: reason that we're calling you today is because we do
Speaker 2: a segment on our show that's.
Speaker 4: Called the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2: So that's where if somebody goes out on a date
Speaker 2: with you and you end up ghosting them, they can
Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and find
Speaker 2: out why you're ghosting them. And we got an email
Speaker 2: about you from someone that you recently went out with. Uhh,
Speaker 2: do you know who you're ghosting right now? Are you
Speaker 2: ghosting anybody?
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 6: It could be a couple of people.
Speaker 2: For you.
Speaker 4: Well, this guy's name is Zion.
Speaker 6: Oh, mister morning motivation. Okay, no, thank you morning. Yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm just a tired.
Speaker 2: And what that's I.
Speaker 4: Love that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 6: Our date was nice, did you. I mean, but I
Speaker 6: found an Instagram apper and okay, everything looked really good.
Speaker 7: But there were lots of pictures of him like outside
Speaker 7: hiking and running and doing.
Speaker 6: Marathons and all those and then and then.
Speaker 4: And then.
Speaker 6: The worst part about it is every single morning and
Speaker 6: like five in the morning, he posts like a motivational like, hey,
Speaker 6: everyone need to be a great day. Look at the
Speaker 6: undred beautiful. It's bull's.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I don't know. I thought like maybe he just does
Speaker 6: it once in a while, but like I was looking
Speaker 6: through and he does it all the time. It's wild.
Speaker 6: I just so we're just not Yeah, I'm not trying
Speaker 6: to be with a.
Speaker 7: Guy who's like gonna skip into the bedroom every morning
Speaker 7: and wake me up and six am and like I
Speaker 7: should hop out of the bed like a human pop tart.
Speaker 4: You know, that's not for me.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I just like to spend my weekend snapping, you know,
Speaker 7: on the couch and watching Netflix.
Speaker 2: And yeah, all right, okay, so you're just you're just
Speaker 2: you just don't think you guys would be a good
Speaker 2: fit because you are, as you said at tired.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, yeah, I've dated guys like him before.
Speaker 6: There's honestly so annoying and like.
Speaker 7: Okay, like you, if you were to wake me up
Speaker 7: like that, I don't know, just like in person and be.
Speaker 6: Like hi, everything's going to be a great day, I'd
Speaker 6: strangle him.
Speaker 1: So basically, you're saving his life, got you?
Speaker 2: Well, thank you, yeah, thank you for telling us why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting him. I also let you know that Zion
Speaker 2: is on the phone right now and wants to talk
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, you can hear me. Well, well this
Speaker 6: should is tell early too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I should be saying good morning.
Speaker 6: Yeah, up with the sun?
Speaker 3: Uh So, yeah, really why you're ghosting me?
Speaker 5: I mean I thought it had something to do with
Speaker 5: your sister on your profile you can be outside and stuff.
Speaker 3: I would have considered you.
Speaker 6: I mean everybody says that.
Speaker 7: It's just like you know, that's the way to get
Speaker 7: you know.
Speaker 6: Oh, I like trees too, But I didn't think that
Speaker 6: you were.
Speaker 7: So serious about like the four am.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, you know, it's like no.
Speaker 7: No hate, but like plenty of hate for losing sleep.
Speaker 7: I just like I gotta get my shut eye, you know, Okay.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's just something I'm passionate about.
Speaker 4: You know, but not sleeping or waking up early, just
Speaker 4: tackling the day.
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, yuck.
Speaker 7: I hate they said that, Like I don't know, and
Speaker 7: you probably hate me too, you know, because you'd be
Speaker 7: all bike lighty and want me to.
Speaker 3: Go and I might, you know.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, well yeah yeah, there he goes. I on,
Speaker 2: there's your answer. She's just ghosting you, nothing personal. She
Speaker 2: just hates mourning people. I do have to ask, anyway,
Speaker 2: would you guys like to go out again on a
Speaker 2: second date.
Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6: No, sorry, but no, thank you.
Speaker 5: Well, Palmer, if it's cool with you, I can send
Speaker 5: you the occasional morning motivation text.
Speaker 3: That's cool.
Speaker 7: Probably maybe after noon motivational text.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, Palmer, I think you're really funny and
Speaker 5: like i'd like to have you just as a friend.
Speaker 3: We can hang out sometimes if you're cool with that.
Speaker 3: It's just you seem like a really cool girl. That's cute.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 7: I just never asked me to do anything active because
Speaker 7: I'm still tired.
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