WEBVTT - FDFU Zion & Palmer:  He dated her sister first?!

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocates Law dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Zion is on the phone today for a first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Palmer.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him a second date. But first, Palmer, why do

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<v Speaker 2>you think you're getting ghosted?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's because I went out with her sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, like, yeah, I can see that, like after your date.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, it was a few years ago. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>anything serious. We met the same way.

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<v Speaker 5>Me and her sister met on a day app went

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<v Speaker 5>out on a few dates, and it just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>fizzled out.

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<v Speaker 3>We realized we really weren't into each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, did you know that beforehand?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't know until the middle of the date.

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<v Speaker 5>She showed me a picture of their family vacation last

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<v Speaker 5>year and I noticed, like, wow, that girl looks familiar.

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<v Speaker 4>Awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it was her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I debated on not saying anything at all, but

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<v Speaker 5>then I was worried that her sister would say something

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<v Speaker 5>before I could, so I just blurted it out.

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<v Speaker 4>Really just blurted out that.

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<v Speaker 3>I dated her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was really like that, Like it just made

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<v Speaker 5>it so much worse because the conversation had moved on.

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<v Speaker 5>Then I just, yeah, I literally just went I went

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<v Speaker 5>out with your sister, but we didn't hook up.

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<v Speaker 4>Clarify that part though, blurting it out like that, could

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<v Speaker 4>you just not stop thinking about it or something?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I just I had to say it.

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<v Speaker 5>She was obviously shocked, and then like the people sitting

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<v Speaker 5>in the tables next to us definitely heard me and

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<v Speaker 5>like say, we're shocked too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It was really awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And did it seem like it bothered her to

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<v Speaker 2>the point where she'd ghost you?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean she.

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<v Speaker 5>Got a little quiet and then her answers got shorter.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I thought that she was just you know, embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 5>But other than that, like we had a fun date.

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<v Speaker 5>I walked back to her car. We didn't kiss good night, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>but it seemed like she would want to see me again, honestly.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, well try to figure it out for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll play a song, come back and then call her

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<v Speaker 2>and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe get.

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<v Speaker 4>You a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, awesome, thank you.

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<v Speaker 7>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>Your first day follow up is right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Jubile Show First Date follow Up powered by

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<v Speaker 2>Right in the middle of your first date follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're just joining us, Zion is on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Palmer.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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<v Speaker 2>tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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<v Speaker 2>a second date. But before we do that, Zion, why

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<v Speaker 2>don't you refresh our memory on why you think you're

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<v Speaker 2>getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I went out with this girl. I also went

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<v Speaker 3>out with her sister, like a few years ago, but

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't go anywhere. And uh, yeah, now she has

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<v Speaker 3>ghosted me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And because you didn't know that until you were on

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<v Speaker 2>the date with her, and you blurted out that you

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<v Speaker 2>had dated her sister during the date and it was

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<v Speaker 2>awkward exactly, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Not our sisters like to share. Well, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna call her right now and see if that

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<v Speaker 2>is the reason you're getting ghosted. Hello, Hi, I speak

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<v Speaker 2>to Palmer.

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<v Speaker 4>Please, Uh this is she.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Palmer, how you doing. This is a radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called The Jubil Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi Palmer, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name

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<v Speaker 4>is Jubell. How are you?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh wow? I am good?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you all good?

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<v Speaker 5>So?

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<v Speaker 4>Have you heard the show before? Are you familiar with it?

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<v Speaker 6>No? No, I don't know what's happening.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, it sounded like you did. Dang well.

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<v Speaker 2>You can check us out if you want to jubelshow

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<v Speaker 2>dot com. But anyway, it's a radio show and the

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<v Speaker 2>reason that we're calling you today is because we do

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<v Speaker 2>a segment on our show that's.

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<v Speaker 4>Called the first Date follow Up.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's where if somebody goes out on a date

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<v Speaker 2>with you and you end up ghosting them, they can

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<v Speaker 2>email us to get you on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 2>out why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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<v Speaker 2>about you from someone that you recently went out with. Uhh,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know who you're ghosting right now? Are you

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting anybody?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>It could be a couple of people.

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<v Speaker 2>For you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this guy's name is Zion.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, mister morning motivation. Okay, no, thank you morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just a tired.

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<v Speaker 2>And what that's I.

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<v Speaker 4>Love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>Our date was nice, did you. I mean, but I

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<v Speaker 6>found an Instagram apper and okay, everything looked really good.

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<v Speaker 7>But there were lots of pictures of him like outside

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<v Speaker 7>hiking and running and doing.

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<v Speaker 6>Marathons and all those and then and then.

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<v Speaker 4>And then.

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<v Speaker 6>The worst part about it is every single morning and

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<v Speaker 6>like five in the morning, he posts like a motivational like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>everyone need to be a great day. Look at the

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<v Speaker 6>undred beautiful. It's bull's.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I thought like maybe he just does

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<v Speaker 6>it once in a while, but like I was looking

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<v Speaker 6>through and he does it all the time. It's wild.

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<v Speaker 6>I just so we're just not Yeah, I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 6>to be with a.

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<v Speaker 7>Guy who's like gonna skip into the bedroom every morning

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<v Speaker 7>and wake me up and six am and like I

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<v Speaker 7>should hop out of the bed like a human pop tart.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, that's not for me.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I just like to spend my weekend snapping, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>on the couch and watching Netflix.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, all right, okay, so you're just you're just

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<v Speaker 2>you just don't think you guys would be a good

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<v Speaker 2>fit because you are, as you said at tired.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, okay, yeah, I've dated guys like him before.

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<v Speaker 6>There's honestly so annoying and like.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, like you, if you were to wake me up

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<v Speaker 7>like that, I don't know, just like in person and be.

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<v Speaker 6>Like hi, everything's going to be a great day, I'd

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<v Speaker 6>strangle him.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, you're saving his life, got you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, thank you, yeah, thank you for telling us why

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<v Speaker 2>you're ghosting him. I also let you know that Zion

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<v Speaker 2>is on the phone right now and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, you can hear me. Well, well this

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<v Speaker 6>should is tell early too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess I should be saying good morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, up with the sun?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh So, yeah, really why you're ghosting me?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I thought it had something to do with

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<v Speaker 5>your sister on your profile you can be outside and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I would have considered you.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean everybody says that.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just like you know, that's the way to get

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<v Speaker 7>you know.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I like trees too, But I didn't think that

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<v Speaker 6>you were.

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<v Speaker 7>So serious about like the four am.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, you know, it's like no.

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<v Speaker 7>No hate, but like plenty of hate for losing sleep.

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<v Speaker 7>I just like I gotta get my shut eye, you know, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it's just something I'm passionate about.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, but not sleeping or waking up early, just

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<v Speaker 4>tackling the day.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yeah, yuck.

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<v Speaker 7>I hate they said that, Like I don't know, and

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<v Speaker 7>you probably hate me too, you know, because you'd be

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<v Speaker 7>all bike lighty and want me to.

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<v Speaker 3>Go and I might, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, well yeah yeah, there he goes. I on,

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<v Speaker 2>there's your answer. She's just ghosting you, nothing personal. She

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<v Speaker 2>just hates mourning people. I do have to ask, anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>would you guys like to go out again on a

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<v Speaker 2>second date.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>No, sorry, but no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, Palmer, if it's cool with you, I can send

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<v Speaker 5>you the occasional morning motivation text.

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<v Speaker 3>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 7>Probably maybe after noon motivational text.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, Palmer, I think you're really funny and

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<v Speaker 5>like i'd like to have you just as a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>We can hang out sometimes if you're cool with that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just you seem like a really cool girl. That's cute.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 7>I just never asked me to do anything active because

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<v Speaker 7>I'm still tired.

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