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Speaker 2: Its lip service, I'm Angela, ye.

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Speaker 1: I'm g G maguire, I'm Jordi and its periodus. You

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Speaker 1: know what, though, we got to start this off right.

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Speaker 1: What's your son? Are we?

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Speaker 2: This is a Gemini Capricorn, but Jordan's also a Capricorn

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Speaker 2: and as a matter of fact, celebrating our birthday. So

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Speaker 2: we have something special.

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Speaker 1: Let's bring in the cake.

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Speaker 2: I did it too fast. I'm sorry, guys, but yes,

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Speaker 2: of course, Jordan, we have a cake for you for

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Speaker 2: your birthday.

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Speaker 1: So happy birthday, Thank you, my caric Happy birthday, thank you.

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Speaker 3: It's giving chocolate chip and yes, I don't know, but

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Speaker 3: something cookies and cream cheesecakes and cream cheesecake, a cookie

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Speaker 3: on top.

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Speaker 4: Make your wish, make a wish yay.

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Speaker 2: And she's still a little hungover from celebrating last.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we'll celebrate.

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Speaker 2: Every day all day. Listen, it's Capricorn season, so it's

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Speaker 2: all month and you know where capricorns is how we

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Speaker 2: like starting in the year, So really we could celebrate

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Speaker 2: all year exactly.

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Speaker 1: But do you know what quiet? You think? So do

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Speaker 1: my Capricorn friend is quiet.

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Speaker 5: She's a sweetish though y'all got stopped Okay, yes, now, Teya,

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Speaker 5: this is your first time here, I know, not last

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Speaker 5: and definitely not your life, but married to medicine.

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Speaker 2: You know, I love watching that show you do, and

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Speaker 2: I just recently had I did have doctor Simona on

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Speaker 2: way up, yes, and we had a whole conversation just

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Speaker 2: basically talking about how much we love seeing like accomplished

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Speaker 2: women with accomplishmen, the family like all of that.

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Speaker 1: It's just a beautiful thing to see. Yes, I actually

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Speaker 1: think I I sent her your post on the way

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Speaker 1: up and I was like, look at you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and we're proud of you to So you're

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Speaker 2: in your houses by the way, girl.

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Speaker 4: The cherry blossom tree in the middle of the it's

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Speaker 1: It's very rare. I don't want to stop. Okay, this

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Speaker 4: And you know, I'm we're supposed to get better and

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Speaker 4: better and really and truly, I mean, what is wrong

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Speaker 1: You are the first person I saw with a two

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Speaker 1: story closet. I was like, you see what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: And really it was out there they we it just

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's so interesting because you'll have a dream house and

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Speaker 4: To build another dream I tell people I'm like Barbie

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Speaker 1: Barbie had multiple dream houses. She did. Barbie had a mobile,

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Speaker 1: remember the mole she had? It was okay, she had

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Speaker 2: That's manifested Barbie toy. Butch Harris Barbie, I think that

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Speaker 1: I will take that. I still had I Cynthia Bailey Barbie.

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Speaker 1: That's a fact from back in the day.

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Speaker 2: It's got my debby Alan Barbie.

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Speaker 1: Is she a dancer?

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Speaker 2: Yes? And then what did you think you were going

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Speaker 4: Oh? I was initially I was going to be a

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Speaker 4: computer aided drafter. That's what I wanted to go into.

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Speaker 4: And then I went to school and I when I

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Speaker 4: got to college, somebody was like, you would.

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Speaker 1: Be a great teacher. You went to TSU.

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Speaker 4: I did I want to TSU for about a year

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Speaker 4: and a half following my boyfriend at the time. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get this little business degree. You know, a

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Speaker 1: and you're from Detroit, I am.

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Speaker 1: We got a little Detroit connection.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know New Yorkers in Detroit people we get along. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Pustlers and both.

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Speaker 4: We don't know nothing about I don't know why the

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna we're gonna go get it. If anything,

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Speaker 1: I push him so much, did the people say he tired?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you got along commute, you got bury myself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But let's be clear.

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Speaker 4: I don't want my husband to come off as somebody

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Speaker 1: But I think that I.

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Speaker 4: Did marry the type of man that's like I want

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Speaker 4: to do for her what she can do for herself,

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Speaker 4: and do it better and so I love him for that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, if you want to work.

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Speaker 4: Your ass off, go right ahead, okay, but look, when

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Speaker 4: I need you though, show up. It's interesting because I

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Speaker 4: remember on the episode when you asked your sons how

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Speaker 4: they felt about him, and they were like, we're fine.

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Speaker 1: But that's not a good thing. And you know, it's funny.

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Speaker 4: We were talking about that earlier today because I was like, honey,

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Speaker 4: because really and truly, it's not okay that they don't

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Speaker 4: they need you now, like I've raised them to be

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Speaker 4: great boys. But men, man, I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, you're right, and he is there and you

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Speaker 4: Like tonight, he's at home with the boys, and I said, hey,

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Speaker 4: Avery has a final exam in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Just sit with him. Ask him a couple of questions.

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna cook dinner together? You know, have that

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Speaker 4: But pay nothing over on us because you've seen it

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Speaker 1: The boy's got to learn how to take out the garbage.

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Speaker 2: I'm past that garbage.

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Speaker 1: Well it's overflowing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that part, like learn how to double bags washer okay,

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Speaker 1: We didn't have a dish right, we had to wash

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Speaker 1: the dish girl. We didn't have a mop. Okay. My

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Speaker 4: Called get us that part.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So does it bother you when people say that

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Speaker 4: The people just mad, you know, and I don't know

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Speaker 4: why because we as black women deserve all of that.

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Speaker 4: We deserve a man that's like I want to take

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He is a great example

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Speaker 4: And so why are you hating on this man for

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Let's be clear, I make

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying. I just told him the other day,

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Speaker 4: I said, you should be very happy. You don't have

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Speaker 4: But when I need you to, you can.

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Speaker 1: And I appreciate that. How do you guys split the finances?

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Speaker 1: Because I think that's.

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Speaker 2: Always I talk about finances a lot when it comes

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Speaker 2: to like I have a wealth Wednesday segment on my

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Speaker 2: this person makes this, I make this, but how you know?

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Speaker 2: And there's always that conversation.

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Speaker 1: So let's be clear.

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Speaker 4: That's the first time anyone that's ever asked me that question.

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Speaker 4: And so I can appreciate it. Thank you for giving

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Speaker 1: Y'all all about it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So how we started. I was when we first married,

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Speaker 1: Turn the bill was underhunted. That was my bill. Okay.

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Speaker 4: So I pay for my son's tuition, which is about

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Speaker 4: thirty thousand dollars per kid. I said, anything they have

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Speaker 4: all of our homes, any down payments for our homes,

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's a lot. But he pays the mortgage.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's I think I misspoken.

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Speaker 4: Said four hundred thousand on e TV, but it was

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Speaker 1: He corrected me later, He was like, no, no, what

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Speaker 2: How did y'all come to that conversation and agreement when

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Speaker 1: We're moving, he said, you're paying for it.

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Speaker 3: Initially, How did you'll like even when y'all were just starting,

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Speaker 3: when when you had built that house. We both loved

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Speaker 3: that it wasn't a custom bill. So we ended up

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Speaker 3: building a second home and Alfharetta Georgia shout out to Alpharetta.

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Speaker 4: And we're over there. And it was great. But you know,

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Speaker 4: I just didn't feel like that was the end all

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Speaker 4: be all. And the housing market was booming, and when

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Speaker 4: I tell you, my neighbors were making millions of dollars

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Speaker 4: off old homes and I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, well, just think about how much we could make.

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Speaker 1: Ours is only two friends, right, and it was great.

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Speaker 4: And so he was like, as long as you're doing it,

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Speaker 4: and it makes sense. And so I was like, well,

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Speaker 4: let me just find something closer to our boys' school

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Speaker 4: the bus, because at the time we were driving them

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Speaker 4: for the bus. Yeah, it was about a thirty minute

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Speaker 1: And I was just and that was to the bus

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Speaker 1: to go to school. And y'all get that life is.

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Speaker 1: That's how New York.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we know how that commute When I used

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Speaker 1: Yes, I say the club, it was great with Jackson.

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Speaker 4: And it's the difference between what I'm doing and me

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Speaker 4: I hustled in Detroit like crazy, like I've worked for Novartis, Pfizer.

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Speaker 4: But when I got married, I was like this, this

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Speaker 1: So I know you've seen you another man, another want to.

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Speaker 1: He was like, why do I have to when I'm working,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know. You tell me so now

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that, but we did have We had

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Speaker 4: Me and Eugenie got in one of our first arguments

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Speaker 2: Who is she?

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Speaker 1: Who is this her? What are you talking about? You

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Speaker 1: I've always been in a relationship. Why give made that?

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Speaker 4: Because you know what, that was a big deal for me.

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Speaker 1: She watched the show like before. But then I got

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Speaker 4: So I put that on there, and I'm telling you

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Speaker 4: He would ask for your number, he would walk you

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Speaker 2: So what was his relationship with your mom when you

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Speaker 1: He's still in love. We need we need a Christmas movie.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to tell you, because they still argue like

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Speaker 1: Remember back in the day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're sneaking through somebody's windows. Was hiding in the closet.

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Speaker 4: He got caught in the climate.

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Speaker 1: The scariest thing in the world, I'm sure.

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Speaker 4: She rolled up on the people at work. What your godmother? You?

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Speaker 1: You know, he's a good guy. That's my dad, you know,

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Speaker 4: Just date everybody. I've never seen my mother bring random

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Speaker 1: House, not at all. I remember one guy, Kenny, you know,

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Speaker 1: Who? Reality TV, like my husband likes to say, is

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Speaker 4: You know, we we we made We were not perfect.

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Speaker 4: Angry at that moment, and then he it was so

443
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:04,359
Speaker 4: angry and we just said some things that we were like, God,

444
00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,960
Speaker 4: we can't take it back, you know, but it's a

445
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 4: learning experience for us. You know, it's at a place

446
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:13,919
Speaker 4: where if the foundation is there, you're good because we

447
00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,760
Speaker 4: can go back and say, now you know where you

448
00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:16,240
Speaker 4: went wrong.

449
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 1: I don't know even if you don't pray on it.

450
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:20,879
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm gonna fix me, you

451
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:21,359
Speaker 1: fix you.

452
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,160
Speaker 4: But really and truly, if our foundation stays the way

453
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 4: it is, nothing can break us. You know what I'm saying. God,

454
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 4: he got it, girl, because they'd be trying, y'all.

455
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: They do.

456
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 3: Halloween cost girl, Girl, girl, What do you think in general?

457
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,040
Speaker 1: And you know she wants me to borrow it because

458
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 1: she might be moving herself. Oh my gosh.

459
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 3: What do you think about the portrayal of black people

460
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 3: on reality TV?

461
00:20:55,800 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 4: I think that reality TV is what people think it's.

462
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,320
Speaker 4: It's a modern day version of hustling on the street.

463
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 4: To me, you make that kind of money, you know,

464
00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 4: And I think people don't realize how hard it actually

465
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 4: is until they're in it.

466
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 1: So everybody wants to do it right.

467
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 4: And whether you're black or white, it doesn't matter because

468
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,680
Speaker 4: at some point they're gonna see your worst side and

469
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,959
Speaker 4: they're gonna see your best side, you know, and the

470
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,399
Speaker 4: public is it gonna like you or they're gonna hate you.

471
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 4: I think that's the hardest part about reality TV. It

472
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:32,879
Speaker 4: has nothing to do with color.

473
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 1: And the darling and you had a great season, you know.

474
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 4: And and actually one of the things that we're dealing

475
00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 4: with one of our castmates because we're like, wait a minute,

476
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,160
Speaker 4: you just yelled at me through the whole filming process,

477
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 4: and then as soon as you saw that the people

478
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 4: has something to say about it, now you want to apologize. Oh,

479
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 4: your apology is not genuine because when you said it,

480
00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 4: you meant it. Butthology right based on how the people

481
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 4: perceive you. And we're not for that life.

482
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 1: So Eugene says, it's like therapy.

483
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 4: I think it is scary sometimes because you know, twelve

484
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 4: year vet, you start feeling like you should know better.

485
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:19,000
Speaker 1: You know, they get you every time, you know, or

486
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 1: you just gosh.

487
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 4: You know, it's that fine line because you want to

488
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 4: be authentic, you know, and our show is known for

489
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 4: being authentic.

490
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 1: But then it's like, hey, pull back a little bit.

491
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 1: You know. My sons are teenagers now, they're watching everything

492
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: so different. They we watched them grow.

493
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 4: Maybe my son's I just got the Instagram him saying

494
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 4: he wanted to open his account public, and he's like, Mom,

495
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 4: but you can, you can be the you know, the

496
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:44,719
Speaker 4: manager over my account.

497
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, can you just not?

498
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: Can we just go back like I'm account I don't

499
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 2: even I'm just starting to really blocks now. Earlier before

500
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 2: the show, we were talking about cruises and like I

501
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 2: would say, my family's going on the whole cruise for

502
00:22:59,520 --> 00:22:59,959
Speaker 2: the holiday.

503
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 1: So which cruise line? I don't know.

504
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 2: Every year they try to get me to come and

505
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: I never go.

506
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 1: Okay go. So if it's Carnival, don't go.

507
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,400
Speaker 2: There might be Norwegian?

508
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:18,360
Speaker 4: I think, okay, we want tool for like the singles

509
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:19,920
Speaker 4: and you know the age group.

510
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: I don't know my not my age group girl, age

511
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 1: group girls.

512
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 2: Mom with you, I'm right here with you, Yes, Sam,

513
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 2: I was.

514
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 4: I was a freshman when y'all wasn't seeing behind.

515
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: Jordan wasn't.

516
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 2: So talk to me about these cruises. Why, he says, so.

517
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 1: You know why we liked it.

518
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 4: I took my mom and my sister and my nephew,

519
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:55,440
Speaker 4: and honestly, everybody had something to do. There was no

520
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 4: entertaining anybody. My husband, he was like, hey, let's go

521
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 4: to the couple's game show. There was all kinds.

522
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,439
Speaker 1: Of it was so much, so much. I'm telling you,

523
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: it was so much fun. You would think it was corny.

524
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: We were. We had a good time.

525
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 4: The only thing I will say is that if you

526
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 4: got thirty thousand people, please don't expect gourmet food. Okay,

527
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 4: you're doing nothing and wings and fries, yes, and you

528
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 4: might have a seafood night, and you're gonna have those

529
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 4: left over seafood your breakfast.

530
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 2: Places to right.

531
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: So we dopped in the Bahamas.

532
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 4: And what I've learned somebody told me a long time

533
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 4: ago we went on our Disney cruise. There's like when

534
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,440
Speaker 4: you doc have the hotel that you like, come pick

535
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 4: you up and spend the day at the hotel and

536
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 4: then they bring you back.

537
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: So that's what we did. We spent the day at Bahama.

538
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 2: I know.

539
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 1: Bahamas. I was just there. Yeah, it's still it.

540
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 4: Ye.

541
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: I lost all my money the casino, but I do

542
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: not handle overseas.

543
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 2: You want some money. The Bahamas was the first time

544
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 2: I remember I went to the Bahamas and I won

545
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: twenty four hundred dollars in three minutes and that was it.

546
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 1: I cash out. Yes tomorrow Atlantis.

547
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:26,440
Speaker 6: It was at the Lant Yeah yeah, yeah, machine, Yeah Tony.

548
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: But I love her.

549
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: Any she took I was like, this one looks friendly.

550
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: They trying to get you to come back.

551
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 4: Then?

552
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 1: How long have you been married? Sixteen years going on

553
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: seventeen in July? So what's the secret?

554
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 2: You know? People always ask that, but y'all seem like

555
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: you really and maybe it is. I don't know. I've

556
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: heard people say maybe it is nice to be like

557
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 2: I miss you, you've been gone for five days.

558
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: No.

559
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 4: First of all, immediately, I think as women, Edmund, we

560
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 4: do deserve our own space sometimes. You know, it is

561
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 4: nothing like being a will to just sit back and

562
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 4: stretch out over your bed. You know, after seventeen years

563
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 4: of sharing a bed, imagine whether it's like when you

564
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 4: don't for that right one, two or three nights?

565
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: Right? So it's great.

566
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,400
Speaker 4: But I think our secret to success has been what

567
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 4: people say, it's probably a hindrance. They're like, she talks

568
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 4: too much, But no, baby, that has been our secret

569
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 4: to success. You need to know what I need, telling

570
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 4: me what he needs, and us coming to a happy medium. Okay,

571
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 4: because when you sit back and you just allow things

572
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 4: to just happen and you don't really say, baby that

573
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 4: hurt me, or baby, I need us to do better,

574
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 4: or baby, have you ever thought about this?

575
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Do you see the vision?

576
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 4: Like we really have those type of conversations. And I

577
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 4: told them, I said, I don't want to be that

578
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 4: old couple that's not enjoying each other. Right, you know

579
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. I want to be that old couple

580
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 4: on the cruise or on the vacation and we playing

581
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 4: cards together like.

582
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 1: Love and we just walked me at the comedy show laughing. Yes,

583
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm say.

584
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 4: I who was like that with her husband? And I said,

585
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 4: y'all laugh too much, y'all get on my nerves, like

586
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 4: they can't stop laughing. And I was like, what is

587
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 4: the what's your secret? And it has nothing to do

588
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 4: with his finances because he makes loves tor you know

589
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. She's like, but he undergirds me. She's like,

590
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 4: when I'm in the bathtub, he comes in massige my shoulders.

591
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: And you can't put that price on that. Baby.

592
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: Now, what about in the bedroom? I don't know what

593
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 2: they're do in the bedroom.

594
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 4: I said, that's the secret to the secret for me

595
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 4: is uh changing it up. You know what I'm saying, Like,

596
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 4: I don't want us to get complacent. You know, when

597
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 4: we first started out.

598
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: I remember we were in Bora, Bora on our honeymoon

599
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 1: and I was like, baby, we are in an overwater bungalow.

600
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: Let's do this ship. You know what I'm saying. You

601
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: know what I'm meaning by that, right.

602
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 4: I was like, let's let's just look all okay, we

603
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 4: literally are.

604
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: Looking at the bungalow next to us and they out

605
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: there naked from New York.

606
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 4: From New York, okay, if you remember, because we all

607
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:12,199
Speaker 4: had the same anniversary. Literally, Eugene was like, no, he

608
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 4: would not.

609
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 1: So it wasn't until two years ago. He was like,

610
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:19,120
Speaker 1: let's tell, let's what you want to do. I said,

611
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 1: you get naked?

612
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So as long as you're at some point

613
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 4: willing to change things up in the bedroom, he ain't

614
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 4: gonna share.

615
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: Okay, he's not gonna share.

616
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 2: So I feel like getting naked outside is a secret.

617
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 4: Yes, weight be I will tear a balcony up, will

618
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 4: scream for the people just I want I want them

619
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 4: to look up, okay from out the room and check

620
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 4: out that was like I was in three on one.

621
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 2: Now, you talked about the celibacy and everything beforehand. Why

622
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 2: do you think that that was a bonus in order

623
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: or something that laid down the groundwork, you.

624
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,719
Speaker 4: Know, because like I said, I was in a relationship

625
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 4: so much that I didn't know what it was like

626
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 4: to date. So once I got my heart broke, after

627
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 4: that four year relationship, I was dating, honey, I was

628
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 4: out there in those streets.

629
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: And how did you get your heart broke? What happened?

630
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: He's a cheater, that's why you had trust.

631
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 4: And I was in love, you know what I'm saying.

632
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 4: It really was, and he got somebody else pregnant. She

633
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 4: good people, though, girl, good people.

634
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: You know, she wasn't good people then, but she good people.

635
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 4: I'm going to find that level of people and forgiveness,

636
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 4: you know, And really and truly it's not our fault.

637
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

638
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 4: Men out there telling all kinds of lives, and so

639
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 4: I think for me, I needed God to slow me

640
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 4: down because I was dating all the people, the quarterbacks

641
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 4: and what you want to tell me it was I

642
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 4: was having.

643
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 1: Maybe I had a whole book.

644
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 4: It was gonna be because master mastering my singleness, mastering

645
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 4: your singleness.

646
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: It was amazing.

647
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 2: Okay, and I don't look back. I had a great

648
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: time and you had to. I did, like, I think

649
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: that's important before you done, yes.

650
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: And you know what it did.

651
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 4: It gave me a different perspective on what I needed,

652
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, Like, I didn't just need

653
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 4: a guy that was gonna.

654
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: Hit it right because that was easy. That was the

655
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: easy part.

656
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 4: I needed a guy that was patient, you know what

657
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 4: I'm saying Like that was the second thing on my

658
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 4: list of trust patience because I knew me I'm a lot,

659
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 4: you know I'm saying I am and should be. And

660
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 4: Eugene he wanted a lot and he was like, but

661
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 4: I'm patient. I can handle her, you know what I'm saying.

662
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 4: I got this and it was like, okay, so what's next?

663
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 4: And I was like, Oh, I just need them to

664
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Speaker 4: be a family man, you know.

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Speaker 1: And that's what he is. So he's all those things.

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Speaker 1: And I'm telling you.

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Speaker 4: But those are the things that you look for after

668
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 4: you've had the experience where you've dated the guys, and

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Speaker 4: it's just been for fun, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Because I went through that phase where I was like,

671
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Speaker 4: people were like, well how many you date at the time.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter through that.

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Speaker 4: Everybody fulfills something different for me, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Somebody might have been the guy that I was having

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Speaker 4: sex with at the time, but the other guy was

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Speaker 4: the guy that I had a conversation with. The other

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Speaker 4: guy was the guy that I traveled with. The other

678
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Speaker 4: guy was the guy theater.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be. She had a roster.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not that.

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Speaker 4: Way back I had way back when seventeen eighteen, nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Years How do you like the new cast members? First

683
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: of all, and everybody's like, why are you shouting this girl?

684
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: Because we needed her. We needed somebody that brought that

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Speaker 1: that that that just regular.

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Speaker 4: She's a regular girl, and she's a boss, you know

687
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Speaker 4: what I'm saying. And she's a mom and she's a

688
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 4: good mom. And her kids when they see you, they

689
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 4: don't even know you. That's so sweet, but that's a testament. Okay.

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00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 4: And her husband, he loves her like they literally just

691
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Speaker 4: posted and they were talking about how they met in

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Speaker 4: high school, you know, and they went back to their

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Speaker 4: old high school to show the kids where they met.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine, you know what I'm saying that that?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we ain't breaking that, you know, not these other

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Speaker 1: people one of them. Now, I ain't gonna look it

697
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: ain't me. I didn't produce the show. I'm not an editor.

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00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 4: All I can say is that Booty has did way

699
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 4: more talking than her. Okay, and y'all know, and I

700
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Speaker 4: ain't saying no that, okay, all right, So that part

701
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 4: and then the other one. She likes to think I

702
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 4: don't like her, but really I don't know her like that. Okay, Okay,

703
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 4: that's what Samone said. She said to you, just say you.

704
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Speaker 1: Don't know her. I don't know her.

705
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, all right, that's been I don't know her. Yeah,

706
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 4: there's room for growth.

707
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Speaker 2: How do you feel back back to Heavenly being a

708
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: friend of the show right now as she's running for office.

709
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 2: I've seen some thoughts.

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Speaker 1: This season is a very special season.

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Speaker 4: I want y'all to really tune in because who that

712
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 4: friend of the show when they came back to bite her,

713
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 4: You know, when you try to make other people friends

714
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Speaker 4: of the show.

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Speaker 1: Oh, That's all I'm gonna say.

716
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 4: Because okay, unless you're really ready to come.

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Speaker 1: For it, Okay, that's all I say. I can't wait.

718
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Speaker 4: Yeah, girls trip, Okay, the people was doing something crazy,

719
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Speaker 4: But yes, absolutely she I don't.

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Speaker 1: She's running for Congress. That's what she's saying.

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Speaker 2: You don't think it's gonna worrky.

722
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Speaker 4: I look, I wish her the best, but I am

723
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Speaker 4: not that person who's about to sit here and be

724
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Speaker 4: like she black girl girl power. No, I don't care

725
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Speaker 4: what color you are. I don't know what you're doing.

726
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Speaker 4: Just be educated when you do it. You know what

727
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Speaker 4: I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I watch other people, Crockett, she is amazing. I don't

729
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: care what y'all talking about. She can she can say how,

730
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Speaker 1: she can say however she wants.

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Speaker 4: But she ready for the people heavily is I don't

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Speaker 4: know if she ready for those people.

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Speaker 1: We gonna see. We gonna see, and I think it's

734
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Speaker 1: an interesting twist. And if she wins, who really winning.

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Speaker 2: Is that?

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Speaker 1: I'm just okay weird. Well, listen, Toya, we are tuned in,

737
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Speaker 1: and I thank you so much for coming. I know

738
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Speaker 1: this is not gonna be your last time on the show.

739
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Speaker 1: I'm about to tune in from home. Y'all gonna be

740
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Speaker 1: like to just let's talk about it.

741
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Speaker 2: No, but I appreciate you and I think, you know,

742
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Speaker 2: just watching the evolution, the growth, the real conversation that

743
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 2: you've been having on the show, and like I said,

744
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Speaker 2: seeing like a great successful black family unit.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Thank you, thank you. Yeah, And we

746
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 1: are really.

747
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,359
Speaker 2: Lot to the table. You know, is this the last house?

748
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Speaker 2: You think?

749
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Speaker 1: So it's the last house until my son's leave. You know.

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Speaker 4: One of my sons want to go to the n

751
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Speaker 4: y U not mad at that, you're exactly. And my

752
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 4: other son he's thinking Howard. And so everything's on the coast,

753
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 4: on the East coast, so I might find myself over here,

754
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Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, buried to medicine New York.

755
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,720
Speaker 2: And it looks like you're ready for your own show.

756
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Speaker 2: If it was your own show, what would that plot be.

757
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Speaker 2: I have a couple of different shows. I'm not going

758
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Speaker 2: to speak on one that we're working on, but.

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Speaker 4: I would love to do a cute little dating show, okay,

760
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Speaker 4: I do, or like a or a marriage show comedic,

761
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Speaker 4: you know, a comedic marriage.

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Speaker 1: Show like let Me be the counselor.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let me, let me sit there and talk to people, Okay,

764
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Speaker 4: because you have to experience.

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Speaker 2: How she given advice if she well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all lived it.

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00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 4: I've been through it and I understand. Okay, so I

768
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 4: get it. Yeah, I may not say it all right,

769
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Speaker 4: Maybe I had an interpreter over there say well what

770
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Speaker 4: she really tried to say.

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Speaker 2: But now we appreciate you and thank you so much

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Speaker 2: for your energy. It was much needed for me right now.

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Speaker 2: So I appreciate you absolutely,